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Speaker 1: Soundby listen.

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Speaker 2: There are only two guarantees in life. You will pay

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Speaker 2: taxes and you will die. Anything else that's not serving you,

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Speaker 2: you got to learn to let it go.

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Speaker 1: Period.

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Speaker 3: I like that, But what happens when you can't let go?

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Speaker 1: Like me with you?

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Speaker 3: Period? Baby.

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Speaker 2: It all started with real talk, unfiltered, honest and straight

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Speaker 2: from the heart. Since then, we've gone on to become

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Speaker 2: Webby award winning podcasters in New York Times bestselling authors.

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Speaker 4: Dead Ass was more than a podcast for us. It

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Speaker 4: was about our growth, a place where we could be vulnerable.

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Speaker 1: Be raw, or but most apportantly be us.

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Speaker 4: But as we know, life keeps evolving and so do we,

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Speaker 4: and through it all, one thing has never changed.

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Speaker 2: This is.

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Speaker 3: Because we got a lot to talk about.

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Speaker 1: So every time I'm gona talk to y'all.

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Speaker 2: By the time when I really had to let go,

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Speaker 2: hey remembers I came home and our whole world change.

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Speaker 1: It was two thousand and nineteen.

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Speaker 3: Wit a couple of moments like that, we we did,

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Speaker 3: but it.

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Speaker 2: Was twenty nineteen. It was January, brand new year coming in.

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Speaker 2: We had a lot of success with social media in

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Speaker 2: twenty eighteen, but I was feeling stagnant, right. And I

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Speaker 2: was in the gym with my year. My year was

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Speaker 2: the girls, the Ladies track coach when I had prototypes.

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Speaker 2: She was working with the ladies doing prototype and stuff,

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Speaker 2: and I was sitting there in the room and she

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Speaker 2: just came over with me. She put her hand on

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Speaker 2: my back and she was like you all right, bro?

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Speaker 2: And I was like, nah, not really. She's like, what's

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Speaker 2: the matter. And I was just like, I kind of

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Speaker 2: feel like I'm stuck and I want to move forward

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Speaker 2: so that I can better myself and my family.

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Speaker 1: And what we have doing.

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Speaker 2: And I feel like I can't do that because while

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Speaker 2: I'm here in Brooklyn, I can't leave Brooklyn. I have

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Speaker 2: too many things going on. She's like like what I said, Well,

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Speaker 2: I have the nonprofit at PS two seventy two. We

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Speaker 2: own the gym here, we own the basketball court. My

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Speaker 2: wife does make up and stuff like that. And she

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Speaker 2: looked at me and she was like the val sometimes

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Speaker 2: you got to learn to let go.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, what you mean.

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Speaker 2: She was just like, all those things that's holding you

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Speaker 2: back is literally holding you back. Like the only way

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Speaker 2: you can go to do what it is that you

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Speaker 2: really want to do is if you let go of

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Speaker 2: everything that's safe here? And I was like, what you mean?

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Speaker 2: She was just like doing the gym stuff here is

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Speaker 2: safe being here and using your brother as a crutch

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Speaker 2: and your family and your friends.

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Speaker 1: Why I can't leave?

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Speaker 2: Because how are all of these people going to function

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Speaker 2: You've giving yourself an excuse to not go and try

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Speaker 2: to do what you really want to do. You got

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Speaker 2: to let that go because if you let them go,

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Speaker 2: they'll be fine, but most importantly, you will be fine.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. That was just love her and now

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Speaker 4: I love her even the love her even more here

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Speaker 4: in that and that's probably what triggered that was January.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we made the decision in April to move to La.

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Speaker 2: Made the decision in April, and then I ended up

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Speaker 2: everything happened here.

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Speaker 3: We are here. We are the power of let and go.

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Speaker 3: I love that, all right.

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Speaker 2: Karaoka time karaoke time typically, y'all know, I seen karaoke.

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Speaker 4: That's not a mature I feel like it's always been

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Speaker 4: kind of like, go ahead, go ahead, lives.

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Speaker 3: It's been a mixture, y'all know, has it been fifty

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Speaker 5: It's pretty fifty to fifty it is.

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Speaker 2: So now you know what we're gonna do. You know

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Speaker 2: we're gonna do. We're gonna go back in time. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: and we're going to see all the time that you said, Babe,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna let you do karaoke because that's your thing.

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Speaker 1: I can't carry a note.

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Speaker 4: I mean I can carry a note. But so far,

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Speaker 4: how many episodes we got that doesn't stop?

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Speaker 2: So we have fifteen in the season. Yes, I'm pretty

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Speaker 2: sure of the fifteen episodes. I do ten of the karaokes.

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Speaker 3: That's debatable. We'll see.

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Speaker 1: Well, you can go back and listen.

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Speaker 3: I love me and karaoke.

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Speaker 4: And does account if we do joint ones because sometimes

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Speaker 4: there's like a man and a woman, there's like you.

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean, it depends.

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Speaker 2: We can count on how many you did by yourself,

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Speaker 2: how many I did boself in trouble.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna tell us later. So the next episode we're

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Speaker 3: I love it. I love it well.

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Speaker 4: I was just thinking about songs, but let it go.

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Speaker 4: We did Elsa already. Yes, we're Frozen. Yes, so you

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Speaker 4: had a good one. But I like this one from

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Speaker 4: Mariah carry.

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Speaker 3: Even though I try, I can't let go.

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Speaker 6: Something in your eyes captured my soul, and every night

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Speaker 6: I see you in my dream, You're all I want.

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Speaker 1: I can good.

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Speaker 2: You actually do caraokee better than me? Because that was

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Speaker 2: actually really good. I felt very eighty eightish?

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Speaker 1: Did you? I think that song came out in eighty eight?

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Speaker 3: What was it that long ago? I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I grew up on Mariah my aunt Susie. I mean

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Speaker 4: a rat. We had it on repeat about twelve.

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Speaker 1: That's your question. Yeah, Mariah Carey or Whitney Houston.

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Speaker 3: That's a good one.

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Speaker 1: Well that's the group when we come back.

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Speaker 3: Okay, like that one. I like that one. Stick around.

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Speaker 3: We'll be back. Okay, all right, we're back.

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Speaker 2: Well before we get to no, I have a question

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Speaker 2: go with Mariah Carey or Whitney Houston.

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Speaker 7: Whitney Houston, Whitney Houston, Josh Witty Hoddy?

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Speaker 2: I know, people, I bet you don't know where that's from.

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Speaker 2: I know, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: You know, Martin, Yeah, everybody want hunting. I can't really choose.

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Speaker 5: I love Whitney Houston down. I miss her so much.

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Speaker 5: They took her, they did, and we need to do

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Speaker 5: an investigation into why. But I'm also a huge Mariah

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Speaker 5: Carrey fan. Every album, every piece. I love Glitter, Glitter,

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Speaker 5: Top five movies.

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Speaker 2: We got to look this up. Trouble who have more

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Speaker 2: number one hits? Her highest peak, who had the longest career?

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Speaker 5: Mariah has like the record for most number ones?

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Speaker 1: I think she does.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, she has like the most successful crazy.

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Speaker 3: She's as far as.

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Speaker 8: I think Whitney. Whitney speaks to my soul.

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Speaker 7: Riot sounds beautiful, right, she like, you can't.

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Speaker 3: Do that right?

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Speaker 7: But when he had you dancing in in CBS, they

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Speaker 2: Do you think do you think Whitney had I mean

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Speaker 2: Mariah had more success because she could have that crossover

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Speaker 1: But Whitney Moore speaks to our soul.

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Speaker 2: She came from the church, like you think, That's why

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Speaker 2: to us she relates more yes and no.

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Speaker 9: Because I feel like Mariah came after her, so it helped,

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Speaker 9: like we already were Whenny already said the baseline.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, some of it.

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Speaker 4: I think some of Mariah's crossover songs I didn't love

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair. That fair.

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Speaker 3: Witney from me.

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Speaker 9: Looked at Mariah has nineteen hits and Whitney has eleven,

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Speaker 9: number one most of any solo artist history.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if I had to choose, it would probably be Whitney,

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Speaker 2: mainly because my mother loves Whitney Houston.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just think is a nostalgia around.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's something about that felt more relatable to me.

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Speaker 1: You know church point the church one right.

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Speaker 3: You hear her saying, oh, yeah, you know a service facts.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, all right, So I keep hearing about

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Speaker 5: Stephen A. Smith getting this one hundred million dollar deal

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Speaker 5: with ESPN, five year contract, twenty million dollars a year

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Speaker 5: oper No opp I know he's kind of a controversial personality.

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Speaker 5: So I'm wondering, do you think it's worth it? One

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Speaker 5: hundred million dollars.

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Speaker 2: I think I do have an opinion about this. I

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Speaker 2: think you are worth whatever money you generate. And if

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Speaker 2: I'm being one hundred percent honest, people only watch ESPN because.

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Speaker 1: Of Stephen A. Smith.

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Speaker 2: So get that man whatever money he deserved, because you know,

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Speaker 2: if they can give him a hundred million, they making billions.

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Speaker 1: So I hope Stephen they get paid. That's my opinion, Baby.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 4: I typically don't have an op if it's not within

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Speaker 3: So but I will be yes, you will. We talk

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Speaker 3: about it here first. Yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't watch ESPN enough, but I do respect what

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Speaker 4: he does Stephen Smith.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and his his candor and his personality. Good for him, Bro,

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Speaker 3: do you think.

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Speaker 9: I think it's great because he's good for the bottom line?

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Speaker 9: So that man, mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: I can't.

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Speaker 8: I can't put a valuation on Stephen. I don't don't

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Speaker 7: I don't know what a hundred million dollars is, like,

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Speaker 7: I don't I don't know what that is. I could

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Speaker 7: be like he's fifty million. I don't know what to

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Speaker 7: see what you're saying.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, but let me ask though, if they're

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Speaker 2: know that they must be making more.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, definitely making money. Yeah, of course it's him

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Speaker 7: on that network for the company. He's definitely making more

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Speaker 7: than that. But I'm not hating on it, Like I

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Speaker 7: I love that he got it. But you know, I

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Speaker 7: can't say that I like him. That's the thing. I

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Speaker 7: think that's that's an issue with me. I can't see

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Speaker 7: it if I like him or not.

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Speaker 2: Oh so you're thinking of do I like him enough

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Speaker 2: to think that he's worth one hundred million?

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Speaker 8: Correct?

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Speaker 1: Copy. He's not your choice for content.

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Speaker 7: He's cool, has some valid takes, but overall he's like

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Speaker 7: hit him.

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Speaker 8: Miss for me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair. Now, that's fair.

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Speaker 9: If you don't like a person to stick, you can

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Speaker 9: still feel like they're worth the money or not.

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Speaker 2: What he's saying is he don't think that he's He

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Speaker 2: don't think that he's valuable enough.

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Speaker 1: Like what he's saying out.

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Speaker 9: Here that that's the real reason.

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Speaker 2: Because Josh is a Knicks everybody, Josh is a diehard

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Speaker 2: Knicks fan, and Steven they do be having some wild

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Speaker 7: I do watch the show, you know, but it's not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, do you think brother man, open the door.

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Speaker 1: Because we're coming period. We're coming period next, I guess.

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Speaker 5: Since we're talking about money counting people's pockets, y'all know

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Speaker 5: He had music coming out. So he's trying to push

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Speaker 5: he's causing me to lose. Oh, she had a Jordan

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Speaker 1: Op or no op.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna go back to what Matt said about this.

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Speaker 2: I stay out to marry people's business. But them two

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Speaker 1: I hope the best for both of them moving forward.

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Speaker 1: I got no op on it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no op for me either. I just it's too

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Speaker 1: So I'm agreement with you on that.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna sit this one out, y'all.

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Speaker 9: You already know.

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Speaker 8: No, I don't care, y'all.

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Speaker 5: I guess if I saw my bitch would move fast up.

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Speaker 8: That's what it was.

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Speaker 1: Yes, he saw a man.

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Speaker 3: Mom was like with.

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Speaker 1: The Hazel lies for you.

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Speaker 3: The documents, I forgot about that. I don't think the

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Speaker 1: I don't have no op on them. I do have

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Speaker 2: I don't think Iman was thinking that because I mean,

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Speaker 2: if we're being real, right, Aaron Pierre is big and

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Speaker 2: saw him next to Emon Shepherd, Emon, she's a fucking giant,

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Speaker 2: is huge, and he's worth over like one hundred something

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Speaker 2: million dollars, I doubt that he's like jealous. You never know,

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Speaker 2: some some men be jealous for other reasons, you know

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Speaker 2: music coming out, that's fucking genius. I mean, Kanye West

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Speaker 2: does everything like that, right, Oh, I got music coming out,

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Speaker 2: I got a sneaker coming out.

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Speaker 1: Let me just say something.

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Speaker 4: Does that really help though, Does it like help when

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Speaker 7: It starts the wheels turning toward the direction towards you. Yes,

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Speaker 7: like that's getting you. Now I'm doing something I'm in.

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Speaker 7: I'm spinning way longer than I should be because I

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Speaker 4: So it's not enough to just release whatever it is.

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Speaker 4: You got to put some kind of controversy around it.

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Speaker 2: Well, you don't got to put controversy, but it's just

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Speaker 2: it's clickbait, right Like, if you like it's trending, if

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Speaker 2: you go to X right now and you see what's trending,

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Speaker 2: it's going to be up there.

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Speaker 1: So then you go, why is this trending?

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Speaker 2: You research this person and you realize, Oh, they have

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Speaker 2: a sneaker collection coming out. Oh they have a thing

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Speaker 2: coming out. What's that about? That's really what it is.

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Speaker 2: I think I forgot. Who's the first person to say

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Speaker 2: there's no press is bad press? And that's what it's about.

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Speaker 2: If they're talking about you, then that means all of

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Speaker 2: I could see. I listened when Tripple said that.

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Speaker 1: That caught me up. I didn't even know he had

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Speaker 5: No I didn't either. I thought he only wrapped that

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Speaker 5: one time on Taylor's song.

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Speaker 8: Music video come out this week or last week?

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Speaker 1: It did come out. He did have music, it was

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Speaker 3: Much.

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Speaker 7: I know.

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Speaker 1: You think of winning a fight Iman or No, we're

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Speaker 1: joking ya, We're not doing that realistically. Who you think

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Speaker 9: In Chicago.

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Speaker 2: I'm about to say, this is he from Chicago. Yes,

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Speaker 2: he's an Chicago like like like an athlete, and he's

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Speaker 1: Like I'm not taking anybody over Emon.

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Speaker 8: He would have no problems against.

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Speaker 3: Ll fucked up at Elis ever after. We do not

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Speaker 1: We don't condone no violence.

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Speaker 2: But I'm playing I'm always very team light skin, right,

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Speaker 2: and then here's light skin pays a lot.

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Speaker 1: The nigga would get sucked up.

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Speaker 3: A bracket by himself. When you like skinning, you got

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Speaker 1: Here's Steph Curry. It's not there's only a few guys

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Speaker 1: like that, you know what I'm saying. So, but Ima

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Speaker 1: Shephard is what six seven like he's he's six he's yeah, six.

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Speaker 7: Seven, yell forward, shooting guard shot.

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Speaker 1: I think he's more for shooting. I think he's he's

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Speaker 8: Though.

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Speaker 5: It's so funny to me how men know like the

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Speaker 5: what if I was like what Beyonce got like a

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Speaker 5: sea cup?

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Speaker 1: Like what'll.

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Speaker 8: Describing body parts?

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Speaker 7: We're talking about people that we've watched play basketball against

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Speaker 1: Know.

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Speaker 2: The reason the reason why we would know something like

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Speaker 2: that is because it's like, wait a minute, Imman, Trump

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Speaker 2: got to guard Kobe. You know, Kobe sixty six, So

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Speaker 2: now did you find out he six five is like damn,

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Speaker 2: he was going Kobe in short, that's a big that's

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Speaker 2: a tall task.

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Speaker 3: So it's in relation to who they who.

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Speaker 1: Relations to the position.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we know that's why he says your shooting guards,

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Speaker 2: your forward. That's why we know the heights, Like I

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Speaker 2: don't be watching men walk by and be like he

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Speaker 2: we don't do that. If your athlete, we know y'all

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Speaker 1: With that t R B B L t R B

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Speaker 5: I'm about to change name Josh because that was Josh

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Speaker 5: t R I B b L E.

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Speaker 1: That's hilarious. So now we know trip we got a

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Speaker 5: L there in the name.

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Speaker 3: Listen, I'm starting rumors, look at you.

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Speaker 5: So next, what I'm my favorite people personality celebrities is

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Speaker 5: Jennifer Lewis. Jennifer Lewis my.

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Speaker 1: Aunt in my head.

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Speaker 5: I think everybody's she's like my bestie. Like, if she's listening, Jennifer,

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Speaker 5: I love you so much. But she had there's a

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Speaker 5: at least the last year, where she's on a radio

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Speaker 5: show talking about someone she dated and when she knew

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Speaker 5: it was time to kick him to the curb.

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Speaker 1: Have y'all seen it?

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Speaker 3: I don't think so.

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Speaker 1: You want to watch the video?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, here's the example of why I have to get

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Speaker 10: rid of him. We're driving on a car, driving on

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Speaker 10: Big Call, Life is great, and I come up on

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Speaker 10: an Australian tree that I know is extinct.

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Speaker 8: So we're driving and I go.

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's a pretty tree.

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Speaker 10: Him, you say that about every tree, And I was like, well, nigga,

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Speaker 10: you gotta go.

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Speaker 9: I'm Jonnifer.

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Speaker 1: I thought you was going to do it.

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Speaker 2: I thought you too, though, because you do Jennifer Lewis,

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Speaker 2: I thought she was going to do It's what happens,

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Speaker 2: a trible triple holding up?

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Speaker 1: Do you have an opinion on that? You have an

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Speaker 3: I just love that she's happy. I love that she's

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Speaker 3: living life and she don't.

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Speaker 4: Let She is the classic epitome of unfunck withable and

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Speaker 4: I love that for her.

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Speaker 3: That is my opinion. I love that for her.

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Speaker 1: I agree with her. I have an opinion. I disagree

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Speaker 1: with her.

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Speaker 2: Just the other day, kids just hanging on the fridge upstairs,

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Speaker 2: your mother come in there, you bust your chin?

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Speaker 1: What the fuck? We got to be so negative? You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying?

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Speaker 2: Like the kids playing Why the first thing that go

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Speaker 2: to somebody mind is like you bust a chin? We outside,

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Speaker 2: kids playing basketball? Called then it's so fast you fall down?

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Speaker 2: Why does everything have to be so negative?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine living with a person that everything you

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Speaker 2: do or say, they find a way to make it negative.

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Speaker 3: That's so heavy?

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Speaker 1: Could you? Ama?

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Speaker 2: I just that's a tree. You said about every tree?

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Speaker 2: I said that about you till you said that ship,

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Speaker 2: you know, Like that's how I felt like she wanted

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Speaker 1: And I get that.

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Speaker 2: Don't take away my joy and happiness for loving stuff.

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Speaker 2: Don't always feel like you got to point out something

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Speaker 2: that I know what I'll be doing.

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Speaker 1: I feel man, let that nigga go.

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Speaker 2: I'da let him go to right there, right out the door,

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Speaker 2: because I know that was her car. I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 2: that was her car.

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Speaker 4: She said, she got the car, she got the house,

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Speaker 4: she got all the things, and she probably said pull over.

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Speaker 1: And he said, why go stand by that tree.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna show you why I love it.

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Speaker 1: Jennifer Lewis out.

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Speaker 3: I love it.

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Speaker 1: I love it. Let negative niggas go, Matt, she.

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Speaker 9: Knows what she needs for her life. I'm all for it.

449
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:53,440
Speaker 8: Wow, I agree. I ain't got nothing to add on that.

450
00:20:54,680 --> 00:20:58,600
Speaker 5: I think, knowing part of her story, sometimes we do

451
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,879
Speaker 5: the negative ship ourselves, you know what I'm saying. And

452
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 5: like she said, like when you've spent most of your

453
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 5: life in your own like darkness, when you get out

454
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:10,760
Speaker 5: of that, if somebody tries to pull you back in,

455
00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:12,439
Speaker 5: it feels like a personal attack.

456
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:17,000
Speaker 3: She dealt with depression right yeah, right, right.

457
00:21:16,880 --> 00:21:20,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, So you can't even you can't even let anybody

458
00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 5: convince you that it's okay for you to be in

459
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:26,440
Speaker 5: that darkness anymore. How that feels like it's that can

460
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:28,320
Speaker 5: feel urgent to you with somebody.

461
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:29,280
Speaker 3: Just yeah, you know.

462
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 4: I mean, there's a power and strength in that in itself.

463
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:34,679
Speaker 4: Not allowing somebody to pull you back into that space.

464
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 3: That's crazy, well.

465
00:21:36,359 --> 00:21:38,600
Speaker 2: I mean, and that that goes into what we're talking

466
00:21:38,600 --> 00:21:41,000
Speaker 2: about today, right, like learning when to let go because

467
00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:43,600
Speaker 2: something don't serve you no more. Right in that moment,

468
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,480
Speaker 2: Jennifer was like, I got the house, I got the car,

469
00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:48,879
Speaker 2: I got the perfect man. I got this and it

470
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:52,720
Speaker 2: looks perfect to everyone else, including to you, but it

471
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,639
Speaker 2: don't feel perfect. A lot of times people hold on

472
00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,119
Speaker 2: to things because it looks perfect to other people.

473
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:00,880
Speaker 1: And in that moment, she chose herself.

474
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,240
Speaker 2: So I rock well, And I think that's what a

475
00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:06,800
Speaker 2: lot of us need to do, not just with significant others,

476
00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:10,359
Speaker 2: but with career choices. That's why I told the story.

477
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:14,159
Speaker 2: I told right, the gym was no longer serving me

478
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:15,919
Speaker 2: in the way I needed it to. It was safe,

479
00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:19,439
Speaker 2: we were making good money, but I wasn't happy. But

480
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,360
Speaker 2: to everybody else, it looked like the perfect way to

481
00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:24,720
Speaker 2: stay safe, keep my family good, and do everything. But

482
00:22:24,720 --> 00:22:26,920
Speaker 2: I just make me feel happy. So I let it

483
00:22:26,960 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 2: go and moved on, and it greater came because of that.

484
00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 8: Yeah.

485
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,520
Speaker 4: I think a lot of times too, we just develop

486
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 4: a level of comfort in that zone that we're in

487
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 4: because it's familiar, it's safe, it's secure, whether it's that

488
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,840
Speaker 4: job that you know bi weekly that direct deposit's going

489
00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:44,600
Speaker 4: to hit, you know, knowing that you got the guaranteed clientele,

490
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:48,080
Speaker 4: you have the family support nearby, you just kind of

491
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:51,960
Speaker 4: succumb to a comfort that you don't want to disrupt.

492
00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 3: So even us moving to LA was a huge deal

493
00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:56,480
Speaker 3: for us.

494
00:22:56,560 --> 00:22:58,720
Speaker 4: We moved with my mom just to at least some

495
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:02,200
Speaker 4: have a portion of our you know, support system with us.

496
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 4: But it's just amazing how taking a little bit of

497
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 4: sacrifice just allowed everything to just blossom exponentially for us.

498
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:11,640
Speaker 1: You know what's amazing.

499
00:23:13,080 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 2: Think about how often people sit in misery because they're

500
00:23:16,240 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 2: just comfortable being miserable. Now, think of us as black people, right,

501
00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 2: we anybody in this generation was actually, I don't want

502
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,440
Speaker 2: to say born into misery, but born into oppression, right,

503
00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,119
Speaker 2: So We're used to not having as much, right, especially

504
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:32,199
Speaker 2: if you're a black woman. Right, It's just like I'm

505
00:23:32,240 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 2: a black woman, bottom of a totem pole. Right, Oh,

506
00:23:34,040 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 2: I'm a black man. No one really cares. So often

507
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 2: we get used to dealing with the least that we

508
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 2: accept it. And I want to start pushing people to

509
00:23:42,080 --> 00:23:46,199
Speaker 2: stop accepting misery because it's comfortable because you know it.

510
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,080
Speaker 2: You know, not because it's comfortable, it's just because I

511
00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:50,800
Speaker 2: know it. Like, Hey, I'm gonna go to this job.

512
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 2: I hate this job.

513
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:53,640
Speaker 1: I'm go tore every day. Oh I hate this man,

514
00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:55,200
Speaker 1: this man here, but I know I'm gonna go with

515
00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 1: every single day.

516
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, I'm gonna eat this food

517
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:59,679
Speaker 2: and I'm gonna take my diabetes medicine even though I

518
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 2: know it's good for me, just because I know what

519
00:24:01,400 --> 00:24:06,040
Speaker 2: it is. Be uncomfortable, stop eating the disgusting food and

520
00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,640
Speaker 2: try to change your lifestyle. Leave the job, do something else,

521
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 2: leave that God, leave that woman, and find someone that

522
00:24:11,280 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 2: helps you, because that's the only way you can actually

523
00:24:13,280 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 2: get used to moving out of the comfort zone of misery.

524
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 3: Right. And you know it's funny, I feel like we're

525
00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 3: at this age now.

526
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:21,200
Speaker 4: I was just talking to a friend of mine recently

527
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 4: and just touching based on life, and it was just like, man,

528
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,960
Speaker 4: such and such as you know, separated, such this person,

529
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,639
Speaker 4: this couple we know, get a divorce somebody else, And

530
00:24:30,680 --> 00:24:34,200
Speaker 4: I'm like, are we just at the age where things

531
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,760
Speaker 4: start to fall apart? Or is it that we're at

532
00:24:36,760 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 4: the age now where people start to realize or get

533
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:43,760
Speaker 4: tired of their situations and say, you know what, I'm

534
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 4: going to have to call this relationship quit so or

535
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 4: I'm going to that's a good point I have. Yeah,

536
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,000
Speaker 4: am I going to have to like terminate this this

537
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,679
Speaker 4: you know, situation that I felt like was going to

538
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 4: be forever? But it's not like at what point do

539
00:24:57,080 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 4: people finally reach their max in those kind of miserable situations.

540
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 2: So the good thing is Matt is early thirties, Trible

541
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:09,720
Speaker 2: is mid thirties, Josh, I hope you don't mind me

542
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 2: saying that, trouble and Josh is old and he's forty

543
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:15,679
Speaker 2: like us. Did y'all notice that around thirties mid thirties

544
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 2: your friends started to change and started to be more

545
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:21,280
Speaker 2: like Jennifer Lewis and being more like, man, fuck this

546
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,240
Speaker 2: I noticed that when I turned my mid thirties, a

547
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:25,760
Speaker 2: lot of my friends was like, fuck, I'm not just

548
00:25:25,800 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 2: doing that no more, like I'm just not And the

549
00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:31,000
Speaker 2: same thing with their relationships, getting divorced, leaving their jobs,

550
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,240
Speaker 2: you know. And I think it's important that we do

551
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 2: that because when we sit in misery.

552
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 1: You know who we teach to sit in misery? Kid? Kids?

553
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:44,000
Speaker 2: You know how many men sit in miserable relationships because like, man,

554
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 2: my father told me was gonna be like this man.

555
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 2: And I'm like, wait, man, wait me. Your father told

556
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,760
Speaker 2: you're gonna be like what you know, being a man.

557
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: We gotta do this, and you gotta do this, and

558
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 2: just you know, she go and be there.

559
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 1: And I'm like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa whoa.

560
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:58,320
Speaker 2: You really just honestly believe that your life is meant

561
00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,240
Speaker 2: to be miserable because you got married and you married

562
00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 2: that woman.

563
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 3: And that's what they said.

564
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:04,960
Speaker 5: And the same.

565
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:08,200
Speaker 2: Thing I got married, I got deal with this man.

566
00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 2: It's like, y'all really think you're just supposed to be miserable.

567
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 2: People do because they watched their parents be miserable.

568
00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 3: It's true. I know that I see that with like

569
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:16,640
Speaker 3: our parents' generation.

570
00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 4: Absolutely, there are so many people from our parents generation

571
00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,000
Speaker 4: that are just sitting around existing in misery, misery and

572
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,000
Speaker 4: it's either there making the acceptance or as my father

573
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 4: would say, somebody put obi on him.

574
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:30,200
Speaker 1: All of the Legit said. For people who don't know

575
00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,040
Speaker 1: what obia is, I know, the West then needs to

576
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:33,480
Speaker 1: hear know, Yeah, like.

577
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: Voodoo, You're just like, you know what, this is above

578
00:26:36,320 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 3: me with obia and he won't put no work to

579
00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 3: change it. But that's the thing.

580
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:42,119
Speaker 4: And I'm like, what what action plans have you taken?

581
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 4: What what moves have you made? What steps have you

582
00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 4: made to increase the level of happiness in your life

583
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 4: that you're responsible for nobody else facts? Or you just

584
00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,679
Speaker 4: wanted to succumb to feeling like, you know what, this

585
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:56,920
Speaker 4: was just put on me to live this life of unhappiness.

586
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 1: Well, what steps did you do? Because I noticed you

587
00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:01,600
Speaker 1: lately that's how you got into a new career.

588
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 3: But you know, it's it's a little bit of both.

589
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 4: Okay, it was, and I'll talk about this more when

590
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,920
Speaker 4: we finally unhatched that episode, But in part it was

591
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 4: a bit of stillness because I think the state that

592
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 4: I was in, particularly last year, where I felt like

593
00:27:20,119 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 4: we were just hustling to take every gig and to

594
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,120
Speaker 4: be at every event, and to consider every job opportunity

595
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 4: and to be everywhere and do everything. After a while,

596
00:27:31,040 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 4: that got to be very taxing on me, and I

597
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 4: felt like, not that we were hustling backwards, or me

598
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 4: particularly with hustling backwards, but I felt like, I need

599
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,200
Speaker 4: to be strategic about the steps that I take moving forward,

600
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 4: because if it's not going to move the goalposts in

601
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:48,080
Speaker 4: the direction that I wanted to go professionally or family wise,

602
00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 4: then what exactly am I doing just doing busy work?

603
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 1: So what point did you get to? Like that were

604
00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: used like enough is enough?

605
00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,760
Speaker 4: It was October of last year where I felt completely

606
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 4: burnt out after I came back from Saint Vincent. That

607
00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 4: trip that I took home to my dad's village as well,

608
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 4: really was impactful for me because it was an emotional

609
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 4: time for me, because I also got to see, like

610
00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 4: where my dad came from and the very very humble

611
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:16,800
Speaker 4: beginnings my grandmother, his mom, not knowing how to read

612
00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 4: or write her entire life. And I'm like, man, if

613
00:28:19,320 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 4: my dad and my family made it up out of here,

614
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,400
Speaker 4: and these are the opportunities I have now for myself.

615
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 4: Let me just be still for the rest of the

616
00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:32,200
Speaker 4: year and just really kind of listen to God, listen

617
00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:35,960
Speaker 4: to my heart, see what opportunities will arise if I'm

618
00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 4: just still.

619
00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 2: So okay, So, just to get this straight, at one point,

620
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,160
Speaker 2: you sat in the misery of if I want to

621
00:28:44,200 --> 00:28:46,280
Speaker 2: get to a certain place in my career. The hustle

622
00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 2: and buss was part of it, right, and you were

623
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 2: sitting in that misery.

624
00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,760
Speaker 1: We both were. We got hustled, we got.

625
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 3: To good misery.

626
00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: Yes, I don't know if it.

627
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 3: Was misery misery.

628
00:28:55,760 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 1: I was miserable. You were miserable.

629
00:28:57,680 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I guess, burnt out miserable.

630
00:28:59,000 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 4: Yeah.

631
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes we have to learn, and this is a

632
00:29:01,280 --> 00:29:02,080
Speaker 1: good thing for people.

633
00:29:02,560 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 2: I learned to accept the words that come out when

634
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 2: I say it, even if it sounds bad, because that's

635
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 2: the word that first came to my mind.

636
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: That's what it was.

637
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 2: Just because it sounds bad when you say it, don't

638
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 2: try to change it. I remember those moments we were

639
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 2: getting ready to do a day with k Yeah, we

640
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,360
Speaker 2: were planning a bunch of things at the same time,

641
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 2: and I remember waking up a couple of times and

642
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 2: feeling overwhelmed and looking at you and you looked miserable,

643
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 2: and I was like, yeah, what's the matter. You don't

644
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 2: seem excited, You're I know, I gotta know do what

645
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 2: I gotta do. Yeah, And it was after Saint Vincent

646
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 2: we did have a sense of calm.

647
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 3: I did. I did, Yeah, because you're right.

648
00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:33,440
Speaker 4: September it was when I was supposed to do a

649
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:35,440
Speaker 4: day with k And it was also the pressure of

650
00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 4: feeling like, Okay, we're coming off of the momentum of

651
00:29:38,120 --> 00:29:40,560
Speaker 4: the devusher can say toy that we did the Love

652
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,200
Speaker 4: Against the World tour in February, we had done BT

653
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 4: experience in June July.

654
00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:46,760
Speaker 3: We had an awesome summer with the kids. There were

655
00:29:46,800 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 3: there so many really great.

656
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,000
Speaker 4: Things happening that I'm like, okay, like while this has happened,

657
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:51,160
Speaker 4: let's keep the ball rolling.

658
00:29:51,720 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 3: And then our schedules has got ridiculous.

659
00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 4: We realized we were spread way too thin and you

660
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 4: had to go back to filming. I was going to

661
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 4: have a It was just too many things at once.

662
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:05,800
Speaker 2: So I have a question for Trouble right, because I

663
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 2: know there are traumatic things that happen to people when

664
00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 2: they finally say I've had enough.

665
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 1: Enough is enough?

666
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:16,000
Speaker 2: There wasn't no traumatic, no moment. I know there's some

667
00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:18,560
Speaker 2: facts and stats about people when they decide. What are

668
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 2: they when they decide like now was enough for me?

669
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,880
Speaker 2: Especially in relationships? What are the facts and stats?

670
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 5: Well, one of the stats I wanted to include came

671
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 5: from the National Domestic Violence Hotline because I think abusive

672
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 5: relationships are a really good example of how hard it

673
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,080
Speaker 5: is to get out of the situation.

674
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: Yeah with me. The reason why I asked based on

675
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: what you said is right, go ahead.

676
00:30:40,360 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 5: So individuals and abusive relationships, it takes them around seven

677
00:30:44,600 --> 00:30:47,719
Speaker 5: attempts to leave before they permanently stay away.

678
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 2: So you heard what she said, seven attempts, Right, You

679
00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 2: finally walked away this last October. I can guarantee you

680
00:30:56,680 --> 00:31:00,480
Speaker 2: there were more times of you feeling over whelmed and

681
00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 2: feeling that it was finally that. And the reason why

682
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 2: I brought that up is because it wasn't like everything

683
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:08,760
Speaker 2: was fine and this one opportunity came and it's like

684
00:31:08,760 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 2: it's overwhelming and you quit. You know, you felt like

685
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 2: we were just doing a lot for years.

686
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, for a long time.

687
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 10: Yeah.

688
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,760
Speaker 4: I get the correlation because it's not always related to

689
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 4: domestic violence, of course.

690
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but the trauma you put on yourself sometimes is

691
00:31:24,120 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 2: more detrimental than the trauma someone else can put on.

692
00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 4: You, absolutely, because then it's like, how can I show

693
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:30,520
Speaker 4: up for you? And how can I show up for

694
00:31:30,560 --> 00:31:33,520
Speaker 4: the kids if I'm not at my best? You know?

695
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 3: So for me, that was that was it.

696
00:31:35,520 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 4: It took me actually literally having to clock out like

697
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:41,640
Speaker 4: I after Saint Vincent. I was like, I'm done for

698
00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 4: the rest of the year. I'm done, I'm done, And

699
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 4: I felt comfort. I felt such a relief in that.

700
00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 4: And I literally when I was in Jamaica for the

701
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 4: New Year with you, I just kind of one morning

702
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 4: when I was praying and meditating, I was like, God,

703
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 4: I'm gonna just be still whatever you have for me.

704
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 4: In twenty twenty five, after having a call with our

705
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 4: new manager, Joe, I said, Joe, I'm not sure. And

706
00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 4: that's the first time I actually felt okay, vocalizing that

707
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 4: I was not sure what was next for twenty twenty five.

708
00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 3: And it's funny, the opportunities just came.

709
00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:13,280
Speaker 2: You brought that up because this is a conversation we

710
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: finally get to have it. But I didn't even have

711
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 2: it have it to have this with y'all with a

712
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: Day with K. I had pitched a Day with K

713
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 2: two K and to Joe in May. I think it

714
00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:28,680
Speaker 2: was May. Yeah, And the first thing Joe said was,

715
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: I don't think we have enough wrong way to do this.

716
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:33,640
Speaker 2: And the first thing I said was like, I always

717
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 2: say we're gonna find a one way to do it.

718
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 3: Because we always do and we always do. Yeah.

719
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 2: And over the next three months, I watched Josh Matt Tribble,

720
00:32:44,040 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 2: Brian Jordan Jr. Yourself, myself and Joe try to do

721
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:52,680
Speaker 2: everything right to make this thing.

722
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,280
Speaker 1: Work the way we wanted.

723
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,160
Speaker 3: It to work, right to our caliber.

724
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 2: And I do want to apologize to y'all because that's

725
00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 2: a traumatic experience to put something on, to put your

726
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,360
Speaker 2: name behind it and say, look, we got two months

727
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 2: figure it out. I think the reason wy I brought

728
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 2: that up too is traumatic for me to do that

729
00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 2: to you.

730
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 1: And I think that that was it for you.

731
00:33:10,920 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 2: I think that was enough, was enough because it was like, devout,

732
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 2: you have all these things that you just want me

733
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 2: to do, but I'm the one who have to do all.

734
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: The work now.

735
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 2: And I was like, don't worry about you got it,

736
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:21,520
Speaker 2: you got it, and I was throwing stuff and throwing

737
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:23,560
Speaker 2: stuff and then throwing even Brian was just like dvo

738
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 2: like seriously, and I was just like, yeah, I think

739
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 2: that moment of just putting too much on top of

740
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 2: what we were doing is what kind of caused you

741
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 2: to be like, I gotta let this go, and I'm

742
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 2: gonna tell you how the truth. The minute we sat

743
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 2: down and say, yo, we're gonna have to push this off,

744
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,640
Speaker 2: we both felt better. I didn't realize how much it

745
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 2: was gonna make me feel better because I got so used.

746
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:46,760
Speaker 1: To just pushing sitting in the same misery.

747
00:33:48,920 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 4: I was bought into it too, because I was like, baby,

748
00:33:51,520 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 4: you told me that we was going to do a

749
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 4: dance routine, Love Love against the World.

750
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 3: We did a dance routine. Brian George Junia was like,

751
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 3: do you still think you could do it?

752
00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:00,360
Speaker 5: Split?

753
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,640
Speaker 3: I said a split, Baby. I had nothing to split

754
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,200
Speaker 3: since I was nineteen. You know, I do a couple

755
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 3: of tricks in bed, but I mean not to that caliber.

756
00:34:07,520 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: So I was like, list it.

757
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 4: So after doing that whole dance routine and getting my

758
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 4: split back and everything, and I was like, oh, yeah,

759
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 4: of course, I could do this, so it didn't feel

760
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 4: like you were putting any kind of pressure on me

761
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 4: at all. I was actually welcoming it because I was like, oh,

762
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 4: I could do this, this is what I want to

763
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:28,800
Speaker 4: do anyway. You know, it's just logistically, it just was

764
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:30,319
Speaker 4: starting to not make sense for us.

765
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 1: You know, I'm starting to realize that's the trauma be

766
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 1: putting on people. Josh.

767
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 2: How many times I've said stuff to you and you'd

768
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 2: be like, logistics like dividers don't make sense. And I'll

769
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,799
Speaker 2: be like, I don't need it to make sense. I

770
00:34:42,840 --> 00:34:45,760
Speaker 2: need it to work, get it done, and Josh.

771
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:48,719
Speaker 3: Be like, find a way. And we were going to

772
00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 3: find a way.

773
00:34:49,160 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 4: But yeah, it was just one of those things that

774
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:52,480
Speaker 4: I think in that moment, I needed to let go

775
00:34:52,560 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 4: of everything but my family and I literate. My conversation

776
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:57,879
Speaker 4: with God was like, whatever you have for me, I'm

777
00:34:57,880 --> 00:34:59,360
Speaker 4: going to be still. If you need me to be

778
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 4: at home more because my children need me at home more,

779
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 4: I will be home. Or if my husband needs me

780
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 4: in some capacity to support him and whatever he has

781
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,960
Speaker 4: going on, I'll be there to support him. If you

782
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:11,040
Speaker 4: have something for me that you feel like will be

783
00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 4: in my best interest.

784
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,279
Speaker 3: I welcome it. And that was literally my prayer at

785
00:35:14,320 --> 00:35:15,359
Speaker 3: the end of twenty twenty four.

786
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:17,200
Speaker 2: And look how that worked out. The minute you let

787
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 2: it go, right the minute you said I'm pretty much

788
00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,080
Speaker 2: let go and let God. Let go and let God,

789
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 2: that's when you had an even greater opportunity January sixth change,

790
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:28,080
Speaker 2: which like funny because had we been doing the other opportunity,

791
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:30,720
Speaker 2: you wouldn't have had an opportunity to do this opportunity.

792
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 1: And sometimes that's.

793
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:33,240
Speaker 3: How the world works, that is how it works.

794
00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,759
Speaker 2: You have to let go in order to open your

795
00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 2: hand to let another opportunity fall into it. And I

796
00:35:39,040 --> 00:35:42,399
Speaker 2: learned that from mister Tyler Perry. Mister Tyler Perry told

797
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:44,879
Speaker 2: the story. No, Steve Harvey told the story.

798
00:35:44,680 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 3: And Tyler was holding a dollar or something like that.

799
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: No, it was the car. Oh, he had an old

800
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:50,919
Speaker 1: car and he wanted a new car.

801
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:53,399
Speaker 2: And his dad told him, as long as you keep

802
00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:56,279
Speaker 2: this old car and driveway, you never make space for

803
00:35:56,360 --> 00:35:59,239
Speaker 2: the new car. So he got rid of his old car,

804
00:35:59,800 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 2: and turning him getting rid of his old car, he

805
00:36:02,000 --> 00:36:05,359
Speaker 2: actually needed another car and put all the energy rather

806
00:36:05,440 --> 00:36:07,920
Speaker 2: than saving the old car, into getting a new one.

807
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:09,759
Speaker 1: And he got it, and I got the message.

808
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 2: The message wasn't always about just removing something, but it

809
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,720
Speaker 2: was letting something go so you can use the energy

810
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 2: you used to hold on.

811
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:17,399
Speaker 1: To something to get what you really want.

812
00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, And to me, that's what letting go is in

813
00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 2: any aspect, let go of something so you can go

814
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 2: go get what.

815
00:36:22,719 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 1: You really want.

816
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:24,880
Speaker 4: It literally blows my mind to this day when I

817
00:36:24,920 --> 00:36:27,160
Speaker 4: think about it, because for the past what three four years,

818
00:36:27,160 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 4: two years, three years, we were on tour in February

819
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:29,840
Speaker 4: every February.

820
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: We were every February.

821
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:32,960
Speaker 3: We were doing shows since.

822
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:35,840
Speaker 2: Twenty twenty And when I got that that twenty twenty.

823
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 3: One, yeah, exactly.

824
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,719
Speaker 4: So when I get that phone call, it's like, hey,

825
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,560
Speaker 4: what is your plan for twenty twenty five? And I

826
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 4: was like, well, you know, rebranding the podcast.

827
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:44,959
Speaker 3: Imagine are you on tour? No?

828
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: Imagine if you had have said I'm gonna be on tour.

829
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 2: In February, can you imagine it would have been like, Oh,

830
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 2: I'll catch you next time.

831
00:36:49,840 --> 00:36:50,799
Speaker 3: I'll catch you next time.

832
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 2: And then what happens if there is no next time?

833
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 2: Because this opportunity was perfect for you?

834
00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:55,359
Speaker 5: Yeah?

835
00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:59,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, Oh, I'm in such a space of like in

836
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:02,719
Speaker 4: sync attitude. I can't stop thinking about the way things

837
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,399
Speaker 4: unfolded for me since the end of last year.

838
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 1: That's why you gotta let go sometimes.

839
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, insane.

840
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 2: All right, this is what we're gonna do. Take a

841
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:16,239
Speaker 2: quick break, get back to these listener letters. Okay, all right,

842
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 2: I think I got to listen a letter this time.

843
00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:18,879
Speaker 1: Let me make sure.

844
00:37:19,000 --> 00:37:21,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I got to listen to a letter this time. We're

845
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:23,359
Speaker 2: gonna make take a quick break, come back into these

846
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 2: listening letters.

847
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:25,560
Speaker 4: Sounds like I'm not. I was just making sure we

848
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:27,600
Speaker 4: didn't miss anything. But yeah, I think we're good to go.

849
00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:30,720
Speaker 4: You okay, Ellis, Yeah, let go. Let go of these cars.

850
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 3: No, leave the cars alone. Because Triple worked hard on

851
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:32,839
Speaker 3: the cards.

852
00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,440
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, there's trauma behind the cards

853
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 4: when it comes to Triuble, I'm holding on to them.

854
00:37:37,400 --> 00:37:38,959
Speaker 1: Okay, we'll be back.

855
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:53,439
Speaker 3: We'll be back, y'all. All right, listening letter, I'm gonna

856
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 3: read it.

857
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 2: I got you, baby, you had the last one. Yes,

858
00:37:56,840 --> 00:37:59,360
Speaker 2: dear k Duval. First off, let me say, how's the family.

859
00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 2: I hope everyone good? Yes, yes, everyone's great. We appreciate you. Okay,

860
00:38:03,239 --> 00:38:05,520
Speaker 2: So I listened to the episode the other day, nail

861
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 2: polish or nah, I gotta say I'm with the vowl

862
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:09,839
Speaker 2: on this one. K you had some good points too,

863
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 2: Sorry girl, but I'm with the vow only because nail

864
00:38:12,280 --> 00:38:15,120
Speaker 2: polish is not made for boys or men. But if

865
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:17,960
Speaker 2: it's for a good cause, then put it on cleats,

866
00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 2: basketball shoes, jerseys, or even wear the color socks like

867
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,239
Speaker 2: they wear the color pink or cancer for the month

868
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 2: of October. And I think Kaz is like me. I

869
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 2: never follow anyone or anyone's trends. I have never been

870
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:33,799
Speaker 2: one to follow or care what anyone thinks. I'm my

871
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,000
Speaker 2: own person I have my own personality for a reason.

872
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 2: But I don't mind your input or opinion from time

873
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 2: to time, and I will take in take it into consideration. Mainly,

874
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,319
Speaker 2: it's gonna come down to what I think is best

875
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 2: for me. Sometimes I think like maybe I should take

876
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 2: other people's opinions into consideration.

877
00:38:48,280 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what do you guys think.

878
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,920
Speaker 2: Should I take other people's opinions and inputs into consideration

879
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 2: or should I stay the same ps. I need you

880
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 2: to come back with the live show in February so

881
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 2: I can finally meet you both first seeing you guys

882
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:02,200
Speaker 2: on black Glove, I said to myself, I'm going to

883
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 2: meet them in person someday.

884
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:06,880
Speaker 3: Existence I remember what my what was?

885
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 4: What was my my stance on the nail polish or not?

886
00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:10,440
Speaker 3: I don't remember.

887
00:39:10,840 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: I personally don't remember.

888
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 2: I do remember saying that my stance is that I

889
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:21,720
Speaker 2: just don't wear nail polish.

890
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 1: Since something I don't want to do.

891
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 2: But if and this person was saying, if they wanted

892
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 2: to do it in solidarity, then something cool with that.

893
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 2: I did say, though, if it's for solidarity, I would

894
00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 2: wear nails.

895
00:39:32,040 --> 00:39:33,720
Speaker 1: If it's just something that I think has a cause.

896
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 2: I personally don't think that just wearing nail polish makes

897
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 2: you anti manly, you know what I'm saying.

898
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:41,080
Speaker 1: I just personally don't think that.

899
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:43,440
Speaker 2: So say it's a cause like brust cancer wearing this

900
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:45,479
Speaker 2: month and the kids in the clip I was talking about,

901
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:48,760
Speaker 2: they all had the pink nail polish with the kid's

902
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 2: mom name on it because she had passed away.

903
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:53,680
Speaker 1: I rock with that, like I would do that. I

904
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: don't think that makes you less of a man.

905
00:39:55,280 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: I think you were an agreement on that, But I

906
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,160
Speaker 2: wouldn't just wear nail polish for any reason, and I

907
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,839
Speaker 2: wouldn't let my kids wear it just because because they

908
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,800
Speaker 2: their favorite athlete doing it. As far as her question

909
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 2: about taking other people's input into consideration, I think you

910
00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:13,319
Speaker 2: always should. And when you take other people's input into consideration,

911
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:15,400
Speaker 2: all you're doing is getting a different perspective of the

912
00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:16,959
Speaker 2: same thing you look at, and.

913
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,959
Speaker 1: You can always do more with more perspectives.

914
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 2: You know, when you limit yourself to one perspective, it

915
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 2: makes you close and now reminded, and you can't grow

916
00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 2: that way. So taking their opinion into consideration doesn't mean

917
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 2: that you have to follow what they say. Yeah, so

918
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 2: you can take and listen and do I agree, Do

919
00:40:32,239 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 2: I not agree? Can I understand? Okay, I understand, and

920
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:37,960
Speaker 2: then move forward what you want to do anyway, but

921
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 2: definitely take their.

922
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 3: Opinion into Yeah, I'm in agreement with that.

923
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 4: I mean, the fact that you listen to a podcast

924
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 4: is already showing that you probably a listening to people's

925
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,680
Speaker 4: opinions about different things, and you never know. I never

926
00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 4: profess to everything about anything, So if I can at

927
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 4: least learn something pull something from someone cool, but not

928
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:56,760
Speaker 4: to the extent where I feel like I'm making decisions

929
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 4: for my life based off of someone else.

930
00:40:58,320 --> 00:40:59,560
Speaker 3: Like that's different.

931
00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,560
Speaker 4: Live a large portion of my life with that indoctrinated

932
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 4: into my head that I have to be concerned about

933
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 4: what other people are going to think if I were

934
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 4: to live in my truth.

935
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 3: As long as I'm not hurting nobody's feelings, I'm not

936
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 3: harming anybody.

937
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 4: I don't think see anything wrong with existing fully and

938
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 4: holy in what makes me happy.

939
00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:17,719
Speaker 1: I knew that.

940
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, thanks for writing in And we might do another

941
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 4: live show. I'm just saying it may not be a

942
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:27,239
Speaker 4: tour here we but Ellis ever after we might bring

943
00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 4: it out along.

944
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:28,680
Speaker 3: We'll see.

945
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 4: I'm warming up to the idea of it because I

946
00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 4: was done. I was done with the live shows, Yeah,

947
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 4: I was.

948
00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:35,719
Speaker 3: I was done after Dead Ass because we thought maybe

949
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 3: Dead Ass was going to come to an end.

950
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,080
Speaker 2: So I was done with the tours. I was never

951
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 2: done with the live shows for two reasons. Number one,

952
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:44,440
Speaker 2: that's the best way that we can interact with our people,

953
00:41:44,880 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Also, to the energy you

954
00:41:46,840 --> 00:41:48,439
Speaker 2: get from being on stage, you don't want.

955
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:51,040
Speaker 4: To I agree with that, saying it was for us

956
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,680
Speaker 4: to like actually put on these shows and tour, but

957
00:41:53,719 --> 00:41:55,520
Speaker 4: like you said, if we do a live show in

958
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:57,280
Speaker 4: Brooklyn or you know.

959
00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 3: I was never done wanted to hear her.

960
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:04,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, I guess it's a difference hearing people scream.

961
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:05,800
Speaker 3: Oh, it's my favorite.

962
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 1: There's nothing in.

963
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:12,799
Speaker 2: Type of feeling watching yourself on television or in a

964
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:13,920
Speaker 2: film that comes like.

965
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 1: Being on tour pause.

966
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:16,879
Speaker 2: Completely agree, you know what I'm saying, Like you can

967
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:19,359
Speaker 2: watch I watched myself on Netflix and I was like, wow,

968
00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 2: I'm on Netflix.

969
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,319
Speaker 3: I'd rather do live shows than this and podcasts. Yeah,

970
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:26,479
Speaker 3: oh that's tough.

971
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, which one if you have to pick one? Right? Yeah,

972
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:31,279
Speaker 1: if I had.

973
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 4: To pick one, right, I mean, it's not realistic to

974
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,799
Speaker 4: just do live shows all the time. But yeah, I

975
00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:38,000
Speaker 4: get why people love live shows. I love live shows

976
00:42:38,040 --> 00:42:41,760
Speaker 4: for that reason. It's probably my favorite part of podcasting altogether.

977
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:45,279
Speaker 4: But but yeah, we'll see, we'll see.

978
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:48,719
Speaker 3: All right. So are we don't listener letter?

979
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 8: Yeah?

980
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:49,279
Speaker 3: We are.

981
00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,840
Speaker 4: Well, if you want to write in and be featured

982
00:42:51,880 --> 00:42:54,479
Speaker 4: as a listener letter, be sure to email us at

983
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,760
Speaker 4: the Elisadvice at gmail dot com.

984
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: That's t h E E L L I A d

985
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 1: V I C A Gmail. That kind of I think.

986
00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right, all right, moment of truth time. So

987
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 4: today we're talking about knowing when to let it go,

988
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 4: quit move on. You've had enough, whether it's that relationship, partnership,

989
00:43:20,640 --> 00:43:21,440
Speaker 4: that job.

990
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:27,319
Speaker 2: You know very it's knowing when to let go so

991
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,200
Speaker 2: you can receive what God has for you. Sometimes you

992
00:43:30,280 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 2: hold on to what you think is your purpose just

993
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:36,759
Speaker 2: because it's comfortable, it feels familiar, and a lot of

994
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 2: times that familiar, comfortable feeling has you sitting in misery.

995
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 2: It's okay to let go of the misery and really

996
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:43,800
Speaker 2: get what God has for you. So that's my moment

997
00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 2: of truth. Man, let go what you think is comfortable

998
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 2: for what you know is better.

999
00:43:47,080 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 3: I love that mine was going to be. Change is good.

1000
00:43:52,719 --> 00:43:57,320
Speaker 4: Change can be very good, And I think it's changed

1001
00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 4: when you are equipped, at least with a plan, when

1002
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 4: you're equipped with the reason why you want to change

1003
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:08,719
Speaker 4: and shift. Change is uncomfortable, but I promise you on

1004
00:44:08,800 --> 00:44:11,799
Speaker 4: the other end of change can be some really really

1005
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:15,800
Speaker 4: beautiful things. So, yeah, getting out of that comfort zone

1006
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,080
Speaker 4: can be the beginning of something so new for you.

1007
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,799
Speaker 4: I know for me, I was in a comfort zone,

1008
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 4: you know, doing a lot of tandem things with you. Yeah,

1009
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 4: things with the family comfort zone. My comfort zone was

1010
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 4: like the podcast with my husband and my homies and whatnot.

1011
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 4: And I was still and I embraced change. I was

1012
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 4: open to something different. I was open to tapping into

1013
00:44:42,640 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 4: something that I thought was lost.

1014
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,279
Speaker 1: Did you hesitate it all in me when you got

1015
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: the phone call? Did you hesitate it all?

1016
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 5: Like?

1017
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can do this.

1018
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 4: Absolutely, self doubt, fear, imposter syndrome, all of that tried

1019
00:44:55,360 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 4: to rear its ugly head.

1020
00:44:58,080 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 3: I had to talk myself out of it a lot.

1021
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,600
Speaker 2: I just want to be clear that she's saying this.

1022
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 2: We have a podcast, we've been on tour, she's done

1023
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,480
Speaker 2: live shows and all this stuff, and still and still

1024
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:09,520
Speaker 2: she felt self doubt. So if you're at home and

1025
00:45:09,560 --> 00:45:12,640
Speaker 2: you're feeling self doubt, don't ask yourself.

1026
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,920
Speaker 1: Why am I the only one feeling this? We all

1027
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 1: feel it.

1028
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 2: Even the people you watch every day on television do

1029
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,359
Speaker 2: whatever they do, there's some doubt that creeps in. They're

1030
00:45:21,400 --> 00:45:23,400
Speaker 2: just good at figuring out how to suppress it so

1031
00:45:23,400 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 2: they can do what they have exactly a good job

1032
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:26,520
Speaker 2: doing that too.

1033
00:45:26,640 --> 00:45:28,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I realized too, I was like, you know what,

1034
00:45:28,239 --> 00:45:31,640
Speaker 4: God was not going to put this opportunity in front

1035
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:33,320
Speaker 4: of me, if he didn't feel like it was prepared

1036
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 4: for it.

1037
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:34,760
Speaker 3: So I said.

1038
00:45:35,719 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 4: My prayer after that was to just eradicate any feeling

1039
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 4: of self doubt or fear or imposter syndrome, because everything

1040
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 4: that I've done up to this point was preparing me

1041
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:49,279
Speaker 4: for this moment anyway. Like I went to school for this,

1042
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 4: I've been doing this in small capacities. Yeah, I took

1043
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:54,440
Speaker 4: some time to have a couple of babies and you know,

1044
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 4: pouring to my family, but.

1045
00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:58,240
Speaker 1: Two couples, two couple of babies for before.

1046
00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:03,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're right, but it's all things that I was

1047
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:05,920
Speaker 4: already equipped to do. It was it's who I am,

1048
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 4: and I just needed a solid opportunity. So yeah, y'all,

1049
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,680
Speaker 4: change is good. Embrace it. Get out that comfort zone

1050
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 4: because on the other side are very beautiful things.

1051
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 1: Trouble what's your moment of truth?

1052
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 5: Well, we didn't really have a round table discussion about this,

1053
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 5: so I didn't get to tell my story.

1054
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:25,400
Speaker 3: About how round table is.

1055
00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 5: My first breakup sophomore year of college, I couldn't let

1056
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:33,800
Speaker 5: go and I got in trouble for stalking this girl.

1057
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:36,879
Speaker 5: No way I did, and that taught me a really

1058
00:46:36,960 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 5: valuable lesson. If you don't let go, you can go

1059
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 5: to jail. Literally, I mean that's pretty much the best

1060
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 5: lesson you can learn.

1061
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,719
Speaker 3: Like actually let go. This is almost like.

1062
00:46:53,440 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: You know, I learned if you don't let go and

1063
00:46:56,200 --> 00:46:59,799
Speaker 1: go to jail, if you show up at people house,

1064
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: they clothes, they might get upset. What what what did

1065
00:47:03,120 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 1: you do that was so bad? I want to know everyone.

1066
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 5: I would like send stuff to her job one time.

1067
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 5: The worst thing I ever did was she had she

1068
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,000
Speaker 5: lived in an apartment that had it didn't have a key,

1069
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 5: it had like a code to get in. So I

1070
00:47:19,560 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 5: like went in her apartment and like slept in her

1071
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,719
Speaker 5: bed while she wasn't there, and then she came home.

1072
00:47:27,200 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 5: It was so long ago.

1073
00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:32,320
Speaker 8: Six months.

1074
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:33,200
Speaker 3: Ship story.

1075
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 5: This is embarrassing.

1076
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: But why can't you trying to throw this girl bed?

1077
00:47:42,840 --> 00:47:46,319
Speaker 3: I'm just talking about moments that were expressing who.

1078
00:47:48,080 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's hard to let go, you have It's something

1079
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 5: that you have to learn how to do. I don't

1080
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 5: think anybody is. Maybe some people are naturally able to

1081
00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 5: do it, but it is something you have to learn

1082
00:47:58,080 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 5: how to do, and it does take work. It does

1083
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 5: take understanding that life is like a river, you know,

1084
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 5: you can't stop it from flowing. It was your first love, Yeah,

1085
00:48:06,600 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 5: it was my first relationship.

1086
00:48:09,080 --> 00:48:10,720
Speaker 1: Was happening.

1087
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:14,280
Speaker 5: Well, he still lives in Ohio, he's married.

1088
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 1: This is what happened. Now we know the origin story.

1089
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: He transitioned, he pressed charges.

1090
00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 8: He didn't.

1091
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, he transitioned. When we dated, he was a man,

1092
00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:28,920
Speaker 5: he was a girl.

1093
00:48:29,160 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 1: Oh he was a girl.

1094
00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh I thought you may he died.

1095
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:36,399
Speaker 1: I was about to say, what transitioned into another?

1096
00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:40,440
Speaker 3: Passed away?

1097
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 4: Oh no, okay, sorry, it.

1098
00:48:46,640 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 5: Was a she and then she transitioned to be Yes.

1099
00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:54,879
Speaker 5: So now he still lives in Ohio. We're but cool now,

1100
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 5: you know. We talked from time to time. It was

1101
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,680
Speaker 5: a hard time in my life, but I did have

1102
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 5: to go to therapy, and I.

1103
00:49:02,239 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 2: Was it harder because I had to learn my transition

1104
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 2: or no, no, no, no, no.

1105
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: It was something you did. No no, ok yeah that

1106
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,439
Speaker 1: had none to do with you, no, nothing.

1107
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:17,960
Speaker 5: But yeah, I had to learn. Something that I learned

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Speaker 5: was mindfulness practice, like learning how to let thoughts and

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Speaker 5: feelings flow through you as they come. And it is

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Speaker 5: helpful with any decision you make, anything you have to

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Speaker 5: let go, anything you have to move on from It

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Speaker 5: is helpful to acknowledge your feelings and let them pass.

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Speaker 5: Don't hold on even though.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, acknowledge it and let it pass. Fel like I

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Speaker 4: was doing that more recently recently, Yeah, yeah, just like

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Speaker 4: allowing myself to feel what I feel and not shaming

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Speaker 4: myself or feeling what I feel, but then saying okay

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Speaker 4: and then it goes.

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's how we've got past arguing over

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Speaker 2: the past couple of years. Understanding that you feel a way,

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Speaker 2: and I understand that you feel the way, I'm a

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Speaker 2: let it flowing and let it pass, and also understand

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Speaker 2: that I feel a way now, I'm not always going

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Speaker 2: to feel that way, So you know what, let me

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Speaker 2: not make this.

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Speaker 1: Feeling be the rest of my day. You know what

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Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's let me need to be mindful. I

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Speaker 1: feel this way now, but we'll be later.

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Speaker 3: You know that makes sense.

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Speaker 1: Josh, you ever stalked anybody? I know you have.

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Speaker 8: Plead a fifth anybody.

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Speaker 7: But my moment of truth is quitting isn't weakness. It

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Speaker 7: is making room for a better you, a better job,

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Speaker 7: a better dream, not good than anything. Sometimes we look

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Speaker 7: at quitting as a failure to ourselves, to our dreams

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Speaker 7: or our goals. But quitting can be used as something

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Speaker 7: as a what's that thing when you spring cleaning, allowing

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Speaker 7: yourself to provide, allowing space in your life to for

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Speaker 7: a new chapter.

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Speaker 1: I get it. Don't look at this queens quitting that's what.

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Speaker 8: Don't look at quitting as a weakness. That's that's.

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Speaker 2: Don't let don't let letting go become quitting, which we

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Speaker 2: see as a weakness.

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Speaker 1: Then go there you there you go. I got you, Matt, I.

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Speaker 9: Say, trust your intuition. You know it's time for change. Yeah,

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Speaker 9: it may take time, but go towards and try to

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Speaker 9: make change. Trust yourself because if you feel it, it's

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Speaker 9: for a reason.

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Speaker 3: Yeah that gut, don't lie. The gut short, don't lie.

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Speaker 2: Pulls them guts, don't lie.

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Speaker 1: I was trying to rock with you, but these two

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Speaker 1: just jump that. I was going rock with you the weirdest.

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Speaker 8: Good morning.

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Speaker 3: Trust your gun, I got getting goods right.

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Speaker 2: What you know about getting you don't know nothing about.

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Speaker 1: That's yeah, yeah, that's true every day.

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Speaker 5: Sorry guts, so be sure to find us on These

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Speaker 5: conversations were going so far left.

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Speaker 3: We talk about heartfelt moments of change to guts. I

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Speaker 3: love it, yo.

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Speaker 2: Triple just made it seem like she was doing the

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Speaker 2: most calm thing and it just said, yeah, so sometimes

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Speaker 2: if you don't let go, you can end up in jail.

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Speaker 2: That's when it started going crazy because I didn't know

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Speaker 2: what it was going there, and I was like, what'd

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Speaker 2: you do?

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Speaker 1: Triple? I thought you could be like.

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Speaker 2: I was outside of her house and I was calling

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Speaker 2: her name. Yeah, I used the cold got in.

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Speaker 1: I was in her bed. She wasn't there. I was

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Speaker 1: in bed.

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Speaker 3: Tell her one more time? Is that what it is?

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't mentally you were young though, yeah, it was

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Speaker 5: like nineteen nineteen.

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Speaker 3: That was your first live.

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Speaker 2: About the Triple was in her bed with airport clothes on.

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Speaker 2: That's what drew the line right there. She walked in

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Speaker 2: there like.

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Speaker 1: Knock that out.

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Speaker 3: Couldn't have been a West Indian.

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Speaker 4: There's a file and then we're like, nah, everybody knows

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Speaker 4: that you do not sit on the bed outside clothes.

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Speaker 3: All right, y'all.

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