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Speaker 1: Misspelling with Tory Spelling and iHeartRadio Podcast. Hey everyone, welcome

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Speaker 1: to another episode of Misspelling. I'm Denise Richards filling in

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Speaker 1: again for Tory and I'm so excited. Today we have

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Speaker 1: an amazing guest, another one of my friends, Larca Pippen.

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Speaker 1: You might know her from Real Housewives of Miami. We

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Speaker 1: are talking.

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Speaker 2: About beauty, divorce, dating.

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Speaker 1: Housewives, Bravo con you name it. Hi, Larca, I am

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Speaker 1: so excited. You are my second guest guest hosting for Tory,

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Speaker 1: and my first one is. How I met you was

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Speaker 1: Caroline Stanbury.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Hi to see you. I feel like

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited. We met at Bravo kan and through Caroline,

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Speaker 1: and I love that. When I first met or you

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Speaker 1: told her that you weren't sure if you were don't

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Speaker 1: like me, which was.

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Speaker 3: I said to her because she I love Denise. I said, well,

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Speaker 3: we ran into Denise and she gave you like a

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Speaker 3: fast hug, like my very like my personality is really big.

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Speaker 3: So if I see you in a hallway, I'm screaming

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Speaker 3: your name.

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Speaker 1: Oh grab yeah, no, it's just probably come was so

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Speaker 1: crazy and hectic and they were I had to run

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Speaker 1: to the other area and she and I just finished

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Speaker 1: an hour like you know, meet and greet. So yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: but it was funny and I'm glad that we that

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Speaker 1: we hit it off because she loves you so much.

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Speaker 3: Obviously I love her, She's she's amazing, and I love

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Speaker 3: her relationship with Sergio, like I know, he's my family,

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Speaker 3: like I've known them for so long that when we

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Speaker 3: used to go to Dubai, she would be like, you

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Speaker 3: have to pretend he's your cousin because we can't all

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Speaker 3: stay in the same house, and let's do buy.

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Speaker 1: I you know, I've never been there, and was that

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Speaker 1: the first time you had gone there? Was going to

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Speaker 1: see her?

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Speaker 3: I think I met her in La I met her

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Speaker 3: in Beverly Hills. We had lunch and then we became friends.

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Speaker 3: And then I was talking to a guy from Dubai

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Speaker 3: and that's kind of how I'm okay time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, it's so good to see you. And obviously

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Speaker 1: we have to talk about housewives. Everyone knows that you're

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Speaker 1: on Housewives of Miami and you guys were on years

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Speaker 1: ago and then had a reboot and it's it's a

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Speaker 1: huge success and a huge show and are you guys

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Speaker 1: in production now or are you on a break.

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Speaker 3: No, we haven't started filming yet. You know what's interesting,

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Speaker 3: I feel like the girls on our show we were

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Speaker 3: really good friends. You know, we've been we've been together

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Speaker 3: for the last like fifteen years. I remember we did

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Speaker 3: season one. My daughter was she was one and now

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Speaker 3: she's seventeen.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's almost like sixteen years. It's insane.

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Speaker 1: And that's the thing I know. So when we met

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Speaker 1: at Raba Khan, we had dinner that night, was you

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Speaker 1: and I, Caroline, Jeff Sergio, and then Stephanie from your show.

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Speaker 1: And that's something that I thought was so I love

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Speaker 1: seeing you genuinely be friends outside of filming the show.

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Speaker 1: And Julia came as well, Alexia and Alexia yeah, and

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Speaker 1: it was nice to see. And that's I think what

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Speaker 1: a lot of the viewers love about your show is

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Speaker 1: that you guys do seem like you're really genuinely friends,

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Speaker 1: and you have your arguments and stuff like that, but

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Speaker 1: you're not there to really try to overall try to

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Speaker 1: tear each each other down. It's like, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: from what I saw, No, we are really good friends.

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Speaker 1: I feel like most of us get along, you know.

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Speaker 1: We know it's anytime you put a bunch of girls

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Speaker 1: together where we're strong.

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Speaker 3: You know, we have opinions. It doesn't always we don't

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Speaker 3: always agree, but at the end of the day, I

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Speaker 3: feel like we do really care about each other and

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Speaker 3: we're always there for each other. We've been through you know,

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Speaker 3: mayor divorce is like so much you know, action in

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Speaker 3: our lives that it's like you have to care about

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Speaker 3: each other. You know, there's no other way. I agree,

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Speaker 1: I feel with housewives and I think that a lot

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Speaker 1: of us have agreed that it almost feels like there's

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Speaker 1: this bond. You can't explain that experience and that and

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm so grateful that I had it with you

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Speaker 1: I think even though you get.

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Speaker 3: There, I hate you, know, but I really do love you.

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Speaker 1: I know, but it's it's something that you wouldn't. You know,

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Speaker 1: it's hard as a grown woman and having families and

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Speaker 1: kids to even plan at least, you know, a girl's trip.

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Speaker 1: So to be doing girls trips and having no distractions

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Speaker 1: from you know, our family, which it's it's wonderful. Obviously

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Speaker 3: But meanwhile, you were like, you know, I'm going to work,

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Speaker 3: I'm going to Milan. Like it's right.

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Speaker 1: I know, it's it's good. Is it true by the

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Speaker 1: way that Lisa and her boyfriend split, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, you know what I just thought online. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I really haven't been, you know, in

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Speaker 3: So I'm not sure. But I did call her yesterday.

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Speaker 3: She didn't answer, and I don't know if she got

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Speaker 3: it or not. It went straight into a voicemail. But

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Speaker 3: you know, I wish her the best. I want her

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Speaker 3: to be happy. I don't know if he's the guy

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Speaker 3: for her, you know, I'm not sure about that.

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Speaker 1: Are you. Who are you friends with right now? Like

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Speaker 1: outside of filming that you stay close to.

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Speaker 3: I talked to Stephanie all the time. I talked to Marisol, Alexia, Kiky, Julia.

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Speaker 1: Oh, quite a few. Yeah, that's great.

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Speaker 3: I just love that holiday party to benefit foster kids,

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Speaker 3: and I invited those six girls and we literally had

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Speaker 2: I love Stephanie, by the way, having dinner with her.

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Speaker 1: She's so funny.

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Speaker 3: No, she's so funny. We have so much fun together.

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Speaker 1: I can see that. You guys got it's actually really

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Speaker 1: endearing to see the two of you so so close already.

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Speaker 2: You know, you know when.

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Speaker 3: You're you know, when you hang out with someone like

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Speaker 1: Well, you're so funny at dinner when you were talking

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Speaker 1: and this I love this about Caroline too. You guys

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Speaker 1: and I love that you guys can be so honest

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Speaker 3: Oh, I'm like, I used to dress like a nun?

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Speaker 3: Staff what like? No, she's a great dresser, but I

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Speaker 3: feel like her body looks so good that sometimes it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I think it's good.

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Speaker 2: I think that it's it's nice to hear that from

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Speaker 3: Yeah, totally. A few friends are not going to tell you.

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Speaker 1: Who is I know? And how is your life? Because

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Speaker 1: this show has exploded and you're everywhere? Has it?

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Speaker 2: How's it been for I mean, you've been.

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Speaker 1: In the public your whole adult life, I feel, and

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Speaker 1: but there's there's something different being on Housewives. Even with

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Speaker 3: I think you're right. I think everyone does ask about Housewives.

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Speaker 3: And I think it's like a different demographic. You know,

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Speaker 3: viewers from Bravo we're like diehard you know fans, they

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Speaker 3: like love their shows. They get invested in your family,

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Speaker 2: It's been fun for me I'm bat.

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Speaker 1: And you also you were with your AX since you

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Speaker 1: were basically young adults, right.

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Speaker 3: I met my AX when I was in college. I

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Speaker 3: met him the summer before my senior year in college,

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Speaker 3: so it was, you know, different. It was kind of

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Speaker 3: weird going to college in like a Ferrari that said

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Speaker 3: know it was my car.

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Speaker 1: Wow. And then you guys were together over twenty years, right, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: I know in the NBA, Denise, it's like forever.

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Speaker 1: I BAT. And so after you guys split, I'm sure

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Speaker 1: that is to start your life after that. Never dating

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I lost my damn mind, like I had just

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Speaker 3: you know, I think I reverted back because I didn't

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Speaker 2: For, right, And would you travel with him when he

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Speaker 3: Or yeah, we spent like I don't think we spent

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Speaker 3: like we were all. Yeah, me and my two boys,

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Speaker 1: Right, that's nice. And you guys seem to have a

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Speaker 1: good co parenting relationship, which I think is so obviously

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Speaker 1: it's so healthy, I think obviously to have a good relationship,

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Speaker 3: Think it's really important for the kids and just for

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: I think it's like when you're harping on bad things

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Speaker 3: I would never want to talk negative about my ex

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Speaker 3: because if my kids constantly hear me talking negative about

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Speaker 3: my ex, like that wouldn't make them feel good. That's

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Speaker 3: still their dad, you know, And so I'm very conscious

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't get married again, that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: until my mom passed away, and I always wanted that

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00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,480
Speaker 1: and thought I would have that. But that's all right.

435
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean listen, you never know. You can say

436
00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:17,679
Speaker 3: no and then like meet some guy that suits you

437
00:22:17,680 --> 00:22:20,400
Speaker 3: off your feet and then you know, but you need

438
00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:21,320
Speaker 3: a fring up, Denise.

439
00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 1: That's where I was really dumb. I did everything wrong

440
00:22:25,320 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 1: that you can do getting married. I made a lot

441
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,320
Speaker 1: of mistakes. When my lawyer was asking me, do you

442
00:22:31,359 --> 00:22:34,880
Speaker 1: do do this this thing? I like, okay, the worst

443
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:38,240
Speaker 1: possible case, it just imagine that that's what I did.

444
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,840
Speaker 1: So I h yeah, no, it's it was stupid.

445
00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you can.

446
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,439
Speaker 1: I trusted home, you know, I know.

447
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 3: But you know what's interesting. When I married my first husband,

448
00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 3: I had this like high powered attorney. My dad got me.

449
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,440
Speaker 3: He was like, you feel like it's never going to end,

450
00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 3: and sometimes good things end.

451
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,159
Speaker 1: This is very true, like a.

452
00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:01,760
Speaker 3: Whole ice cream. You can really enjoy it, but sometimes

453
00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,399
Speaker 3: there's like it's like the left, what are you gonna do?

454
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, you know what. And for this marriage, I

455
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:11,840
Speaker 1: realized when people say it's like a business contract and whatever,

456
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:16,400
Speaker 1: and I never believe that until this divorce, because it's

457
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 1: it basically you're looking at like splitting a business, and

458
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: I never wanted to look at it that way, but

459
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:28,119
Speaker 1: it is true. And let's face it, most marriages when

460
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,680
Speaker 1: they end in divorce usually do not and like, hey,

461
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,720
Speaker 1: we're getting divorced. You know, there's a lot of anger,

462
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,439
Speaker 1: animosity or you know, blame whatever it is.

463
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 3: Listen. It's relationships are really tough. They're not like how

464
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 3: it was when our parents. You know, there's so many

465
00:23:45,640 --> 00:23:49,240
Speaker 3: social media, there's so many outside sources that there are. Yeah,

466
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 3: they can come in and destroy your life. You know,

467
00:23:52,040 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 3: It's true, not simple.

468
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 1: So myself, you're.

469
00:23:56,359 --> 00:24:00,280
Speaker 3: With their husband, and her husband is an attorney OWDs

470
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:02,880
Speaker 3: a law firm, does everything for her, is a great dad.

471
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:05,320
Speaker 3: And I'm like, there's not a lot of guys like

472
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,359
Speaker 3: him that do it all. You know, he does it all.

473
00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:10,679
Speaker 1: You seem very happy, and I was so happy to

474
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:16,919
Speaker 1: meet Yeah. Yeah, I didn't know if I could say no.

475
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:20,359
Speaker 1: He's so lovely. You guys are adorable together. Thank you.

476
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,280
Speaker 3: We have so much fun together. We do everything together.

477
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 3: And I feel like this is the first relationship that

478
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,800
Speaker 3: I've been in where we don't have to like go

479
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,840
Speaker 3: out and travel, like we just chill, like it's our

480
00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:35,680
Speaker 3: relationship is just very normal, and I love it. It's

481
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 3: like not you know, I feel like other times I

482
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,119
Speaker 3: had to like had to travel a lot with the

483
00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 3: person and he was always on the road or you know.

484
00:24:43,119 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 3: And I feel like Jeff is an author now he's

485
00:24:45,680 --> 00:24:48,480
Speaker 3: not an athlete anymore. So it's like his life is

486
00:24:48,600 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 3: slowed down and I love it, like I love being

487
00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:58,240
Speaker 3: home every day.

488
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: Do you feel being on Housewives and having you know,

489
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:08,080
Speaker 1: your your ex husband and you know an ex boyfriend

490
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:12,440
Speaker 1: that are you more private about your relationship here or

491
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:14,480
Speaker 1: do you just want to live your life and whatever?

492
00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,240
Speaker 3: I'm kind of both. Like I am private with my relationship.

493
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 3: I don't want to be around other people that are

494
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 3: not happy for me or my successes or my relationships.

495
00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 3: I think like years ago, I had friends that I

496
00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:29,399
Speaker 3: would just be around, but I knew they weren't happy

497
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: for me, you know. Now, I do want to, like,

498
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:34,919
Speaker 3: you know, keep my relationship under wraps a little bit.

499
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:37,520
Speaker 3: I don't want to be around negative people or people

500
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,760
Speaker 3: that are just not in a good place for themselves,

501
00:25:39,840 --> 00:25:42,960
Speaker 3: you know. So I am selective on who, you know,

502
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,400
Speaker 3: who we go out with, more so than we were before.

503
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 3: But I do share my life. I want to live.

504
00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:51,199
Speaker 3: I feel like my personality is very like open you know,

505
00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 3: I like to share everything, and weren't a good place

506
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,080
Speaker 3: and I feel like I'm going to ride this.

507
00:25:56,040 --> 00:26:02,399
Speaker 1: Wave until you know, And would he be part of

508
00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: next season do you think or would you rather not

509
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: so much have him for the show?

510
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 3: Yeah? No, I feel like I want him to be

511
00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:13,560
Speaker 3: a part of it, but not necessarily like a huge

512
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:16,960
Speaker 3: part of it. I do think it's stressful when you

513
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,440
Speaker 3: know you're bringing someone in like he is. He does

514
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:22,200
Speaker 3: not watch reality TV. He has no idea, I know.

515
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 3: I found that very endearing when we were at dinner.

516
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,600
Speaker 3: He does, he does, he has no clue what you

517
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,600
Speaker 3: know what I mean. Our rules are like, so I

518
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,439
Speaker 3: don't want to just necessarily throw him in there and

519
00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:35,840
Speaker 3: be like, Okay, you know, I want him to be

520
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 3: a part of it. I want him to be a

521
00:26:37,560 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 3: part of it. It's like my career at my job.

522
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: So yeah, I thinks I saw on Beverly Hills the

523
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:47,879
Speaker 1: women that were on there longer were not bringing their

524
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: significant other to like the group dinners or the group parties,

525
00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 1: but they would show their partner, you know, at home

526
00:26:55,880 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 1: or dinner privately. And after like the first season and

527
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,360
Speaker 1: halfway through my second, I'm like Okay, No, I get

528
00:27:02,359 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: it because when the husband's get involved and say something,

529
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 1: it goes sideways.

530
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 3: Oh, it's never good. Like yeah, yeah, there's Jeff's personality

531
00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 3: is so easy that he gets along with everyone and

532
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:20,760
Speaker 3: he's not like overbearing where he wouldn't necessarily just be

533
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:22,359
Speaker 3: talkative and like, you know, if we.

534
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 2: Were filming, Yeah, no, I could I sense that from him?

535
00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:30,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, well he's Aquarius, right, Yeah, yeah, I'm Aquarius too.

536
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:33,760
Speaker 1: We were talking all of us at the dinner, so

537
00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:37,959
Speaker 1: we're easy going. Usually he's so easy. Everyone loves him.

538
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:39,960
Speaker 1: I have yet to meet one person that said that they.

539
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,560
Speaker 3: Don't love him. I'm like, everywhere this guy goes, everyone

540
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 3: loves him.

541
00:27:43,640 --> 00:27:44,840
Speaker 1: I'm so happy for you.

542
00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:49,480
Speaker 3: Thank you. I'm happy for you. I like you amazing,

543
00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 3: and I feel like you're gonna have so many good

544
00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:52,359
Speaker 3: things happening for you.

545
00:27:52,440 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: Thank you so much.

546
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 3: Closes, You've got all true waiting to open for you.

547
00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:02,119
Speaker 1: Now. It's so true. Now I feel good. It's so weird.

548
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,439
Speaker 1: When I was doing the recap of the year for

549
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 1: Instagram and looking at photos and stuff, it's so surreal

550
00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,640
Speaker 1: looking at the first half of the year. Because Aaron

551
00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: and I split in July, and it was so strange.

552
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,719
Speaker 1: I felt like I was looking at a completely different

553
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 1: person in life, and I almost came to look at

554
00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:23,800
Speaker 1: photos of he and I at all. It's just he

555
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 1: feels like such a stranger too. But it's very strange

556
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,119
Speaker 1: how I don't know if someone could be in your

557
00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 1: life every day and then in one day, because we

558
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: spoke the day we split, and now I've never spoken

559
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,600
Speaker 1: to him since, and it's very weird to have that.

560
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 1: It's healthy and good, but it's still an adjustment when

561
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 1: you're it's like, all of a sudden, this person isn't in

562
00:28:44,040 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 1: your life and we were together nine years. But it's

563
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: interesting seeing the difference, but also me feeling different too,

564
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:52,240
Speaker 1: Like I feel like I can breathe and I'm not

565
00:28:52,280 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: walking on eggshells. So I'm excited about like a new chapter.

566
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,240
Speaker 3: Two, a new beta version of you, a new better

567
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:05,239
Speaker 3: version of me. Thank you so much better? Like and

568
00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:08,640
Speaker 3: you know what, who brings their entire family to someone

569
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 3: else's house? Like that's insane?

570
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, it's been an interesting. Uh.

571
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:15,280
Speaker 3: I feel like you need to keep me posted on

572
00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:17,240
Speaker 3: the people when you do start dating. I need to

573
00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:19,200
Speaker 3: be involved in like your day to day because I

574
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 3: need to know what's going on.

575
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:23,640
Speaker 1: You're not the only one that is. I'm some guy

576
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: moving with you with his like brother. Why I didn't.

577
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: I was actually out of town when they came down.

578
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:33,479
Speaker 1: I was told, but I was told it was just

579
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 1: his mom and dad, and then all of a sudden

580
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 1: it was five people. So whatever, if it is what

581
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 1: it is, I feel like.

582
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 3: At least now you know what it is, you're moving forward.

583
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, if there was ever a doubt that this what if?

584
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: Mostly because of how he's been during the actual divorce

585
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:53,240
Speaker 1: part of it, you know it.

586
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 3: What's interesting people always say you really get to know

587
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,280
Speaker 3: who they are after like your first fight or your

588
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 3: second fight, how they nagget like how they navigate through conflict.

589
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: You know, It's true. Definitely. I've learned a lot. Speaking

590
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: of looking good, you look amazing. What are you doing? Like?

591
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: You eat well obviously, and I.

592
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 3: Eat awful like I you do. My son Preston is

593
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,800
Speaker 3: here and every time I'm like, oh, I want chocolate cake,

594
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 3: He's like, don't do it. So he's kind of like

595
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:26,480
Speaker 3: my drill sergeant. And then you know, Jeff and I

596
00:30:26,520 --> 00:30:28,520
Speaker 3: have been working out every day, but I just I

597
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 3: eat whatever I want. I need to stop doing that.

598
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 3: I need to be more disciplined.

599
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,520
Speaker 1: But you look good. You're you look so healthy, and

600
00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 1: you look so young too, Like don't you sometimes forget

601
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:40,120
Speaker 1: how old we are.

602
00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,800
Speaker 3: And it's like, oh shit, by the way, I don't

603
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 3: want to remember.

604
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: I'm good, I know, but I think it's different now.

605
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,600
Speaker 1: And you know, you also have such a youthful spirit,

606
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:52,560
Speaker 1: so I think that obviously comes through too. So you

607
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: look very very young, and you're such a great business woman.

608
00:30:56,760 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: You have your own tequia. I want to hear, like

609
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:05,239
Speaker 1: how that started and did you go and you know,

610
00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 1: test everything, like what was the experience?

611
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 3: Like, so, my dad, it must have been like twelve

612
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 3: years ago. My dad called me. He's like, hey, I

613
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,280
Speaker 3: think we should do a tequila my one of my

614
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 3: business partners has a distillery and halis goo and he's like,

615
00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 3: I think we should go down there and do it tequila.

616
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:25,680
Speaker 3: I was so busy with my kids and sports, and

617
00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 3: I was so in the thick of things as a

618
00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 3: mom that I couldn't do it. I'm like, Dad, I

619
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:31,280
Speaker 3: don't have time. I wish I could, but I don't

620
00:31:31,320 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 3: have time to do this. Fast forward it must have

621
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 3: been four years ago. When I was talking to my

622
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 3: dad again, I was like, you know, I should have

623
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 3: did that tequila and he's like, it's not too late,

624
00:31:41,200 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 3: you should do it. And so I called one of

625
00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:48,160
Speaker 3: my best friends and business partner, Adam Weitzman, who is

626
00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 3: just a great business person. I called him and I

627
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 3: was like, do you want to do a tequila with me?

628
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 3: Should we go and create the most amazing tequila? And

629
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:58,760
Speaker 3: he was like I'm in. Let's go. And so we

630
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 3: created this brand, really designed the bottle from scratch.

631
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:03,640
Speaker 1: So fun.

632
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was such a great process. You know, went

633
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 3: to Mexico. I don't even know how many times to

634
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 3: get the perfect taste. We just in one squ we

635
00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 3: did in Yeho and it is so smooth, so good.

636
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 3: I never get a hangover the next day when I'm drinking,

637
00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 3: and I'm just really proud of it. It's like a

638
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 3: great product.

639
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,760
Speaker 1: So this was something that I learned and I hope.

640
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's true or not, or that

641
00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: you can only get it in Mexico. Get the agave?

642
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: Is that true?

643
00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 3: Well, I mean I'm sure the best agave is in Mexico.

644
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:44,400
Speaker 1: Okay. Yeah, And then how did you when you were testing?

645
00:32:44,560 --> 00:32:47,400
Speaker 1: How do you even know like what notes are like,

646
00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 1: I wouldn't.

647
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,600
Speaker 3: A lot of notes, so for instance, like the smell,

648
00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 3: the taste, the aftertaste, and then if there's like a

649
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 3: lot of preserve, there's like a lot of different ingredients,

650
00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 3: I feel you get a hangover the next thing, right,

651
00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 3: But I didn't want it to be one hundred percent straight,

652
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 3: you know, no additives because I feel like you need

653
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 3: a little bit of vanilla, a little bit, you know,

654
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,120
Speaker 3: just a little seasoning too it just to give it,

655
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:17,440
Speaker 3: you know, a little smoothness to it. So it's amazing.

656
00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 3: I'll send you a bottles.

657
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 2: Really hard fun.

658
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 1: That's fun to have your own tequila and you know,

659
00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:27,480
Speaker 1: and that's the thing I think with housewives and also

660
00:33:27,760 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: just being you are such a strong woman, and you know,

661
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:34,719
Speaker 1: you're ambitious, and you like you have a career and

662
00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: to be able to have your own businesses and you

663
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 1: also have your larca light. I think it's so great

664
00:33:41,560 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: to see women, especially you know, we're not twenty five

665
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: years old, and to be able to start businesses at

666
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,680
Speaker 1: any age I think is so inspiring for other women.

667
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 3: I mean, it's it's been so much fun. It's been

668
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 3: so much fun.

669
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 1: I love all the all.

670
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:58,520
Speaker 3: The brands that I do, Like I started my first

671
00:33:58,520 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 3: brand with Larce Marie Jewelry and I had it at

672
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,960
Speaker 3: Stacks and I loved it so much. I literally designed

673
00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:06,440
Speaker 3: every piece of jewelry like that was my first baby.

674
00:34:06,560 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 3: And then I did the Larsa Light, I did a Lujo.

675
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 3: I started a dating app called date dot com.

676
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:15,200
Speaker 1: You have a dating app.

677
00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:17,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I didn't know.

678
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: I can know that you actually had one. I just understood.

679
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:26,359
Speaker 3: It's called date dot com, the best dating app. It's

680
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:30,360
Speaker 3: powered by AI. It's you can't get catfish because for me,

681
00:34:30,400 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 3: it's like my, well, my friends were on all these

682
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,800
Speaker 3: different dating apps. I would be like, give me your phone,

683
00:34:35,080 --> 00:34:38,719
Speaker 3: let me see what you're working with. And the guys

684
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 3: did not look like they did when we met him.

685
00:34:41,120 --> 00:34:44,880
Speaker 3: They did not well, I believe that for years. This

686
00:34:44,920 --> 00:34:46,319
Speaker 3: photo was taken twenty years ago.

687
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 1: That's so funny.

688
00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:49,319
Speaker 3: And so I was like, no, we need to create

689
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:52,080
Speaker 3: a dating app where you have to use the actual

690
00:34:52,120 --> 00:34:56,680
Speaker 3: app to take the photo. And smart, yeah, you upload,

691
00:34:56,800 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 3: you take a photo. You can't just upload it edited

692
00:34:59,239 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 3: a photo of.

693
00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:03,240
Speaker 1: Your yourself that is actually really smart.

694
00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:08,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, And basically you can like message multiple guys. So

695
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 3: if you like, if you're interested in four or five guys,

696
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 3: you can message all five of them one time. So

697
00:35:14,080 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 3: it takes like twenty seconds to be like, hey, how's

698
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 3: your weekend going, and you spend it to five guys

699
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 3: or fifty guys?

700
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 1: You know. Okay, So if I ever do do a

701
00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: dating app, I'm going to call you. I didn't realize

702
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:26,960
Speaker 1: you actually had one.

703
00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I thought you were on one before.

704
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 3: Oh I love it. I have all my girlfriends and

705
00:35:33,960 --> 00:35:37,120
Speaker 3: every time I look, I'm like, these guys are so hot.

706
00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 3: You know my friends. You know, some of these girls

707
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 3: don't want to go out. I'm like, how are you

708
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:41,759
Speaker 3: going to meet your guy?

709
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 1: Ie?

710
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 3: You don't go out, you have to get on a

711
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:47,759
Speaker 3: dating site. You have to be proactive, like if you

712
00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:49,839
Speaker 3: want to have fun and get out. I'm not saying

713
00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 3: you need to be in a relationship right now, but

714
00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 3: I do feel like there is something fun about texting

715
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 3: ce guys.

716
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: I mean, we you know what right now? Though I

717
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: and I've never been this way. I'm so trusting, but

718
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,959
Speaker 1: this was a doozy, this last one.

719
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 2: That I think it's going to take me a minute

720
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:10,720
Speaker 2: to trust someone again.

721
00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:14,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I'm you know a yeah, maybe if they

722
00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 1: could sign an NDA before we even text or something.

723
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:17,839
Speaker 1: I don't know.

724
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,960
Speaker 3: It's twenty twenty six. You have to sign an NDA

725
00:36:22,040 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 3: before before you hear my voice.

726
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 1: Like, that's true. And then what else are you that's

727
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: also so great? Like doing your because you're so creative,

728
00:36:34,520 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: and to be able to do jewelry and to do

729
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,680
Speaker 1: a tequila and your your light and other products. I

730
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:43,399
Speaker 1: think that's so fun to be able to brand and

731
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:46,400
Speaker 1: come up with all different things. Have you ever thought

732
00:36:46,400 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 1: about or maybe you do have one that you're working on,

733
00:36:49,600 --> 00:36:52,799
Speaker 1: something like with your kids that you guys can collaborate

734
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 1: together building coming out with a product or.

735
00:36:57,080 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 3: That would be so fun. I feel like if I

736
00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 3: did a it would be with my son Preston, because

737
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 3: he's super talented. He's very creative, and.

738
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 2: I feel like you and one of your kids are

739
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:08,240
Speaker 2: going to do a product.

740
00:37:08,600 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that would be so I never thought of it, Denise, Oh, well, well,

741
00:37:12,120 --> 00:37:14,000
Speaker 3: now you can think of something that you guys can do.

742
00:37:14,680 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 3: I literally never thought of it. I feel like he

743
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 3: is the only one that has a little bit more

744
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 3: time than the other boys. And Sophia is just seventeen

745
00:37:22,040 --> 00:37:24,880
Speaker 3: and she's in high school, so.

746
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:30,240
Speaker 1: She's also And you do you go back and forth

747
00:37:30,280 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 1: between You're mostly in Miami. You don't go back to

748
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:36,520
Speaker 1: La going back and forth. For three years, I was

749
00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:38,560
Speaker 1: in LA full time. Then I was going back and forth.

750
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 3: And I feel like I kind of got over LA,

751
00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 3: Like it's just it's so slow.

752
00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 1: I mean, it's changed a lot.

753
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,319
Speaker 3: I think in the last when I first moved through,

754
00:37:50,400 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 3: I thought it was like I thought it was the

755
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:54,839
Speaker 3: greatest place on earth. I was like, I love being

756
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,479
Speaker 3: in LA. It's going to be so much fun. And

757
00:37:57,719 --> 00:38:00,879
Speaker 3: I feel like during COVID, I just nobody would go out.

758
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 3: You go to restaurants are dead, there's nobody doing anything.

759
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: It is different from Miami.

760
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, And in Miami we're like out every night, like

761
00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 3: we go work out. The classes are full. You go

762
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 3: to restaurants, it's full. It's just more lively. There's more action.

763
00:38:16,840 --> 00:38:19,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, definitely, And I like the action.

764
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:21,359
Speaker 3: Like I'm not I don't want to be bored at home,

765
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:23,080
Speaker 3: you know, it's not it's not fun for me.

766
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,080
Speaker 1: And do you? And do you? And Jeff travel a lot.

767
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 3: We bought I bought this house a year ago, and

768
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 3: I've kind of been working on my house.

769
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: Like that's a breat project. Yeah, no, it's it's fun.

770
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:39,719
Speaker 3: Every time I think I'm done, Jeff's like, thank god,

771
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 3: you're done, and I'm like, nope, I want to do

772
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 3: this or I want to do that. And I made

773
00:38:45,000 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 3: this poor guy crazy.

774
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,360
Speaker 1: And do you still have your condo?

775
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:49,920
Speaker 3: Yeah?

776
00:38:50,160 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 1: Is that what you're in now?

777
00:38:51,680 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 3: No, I'm in my house Okay, yeah, but I still

778
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 3: have an apartment downtown, you know, just in case ver

779
00:38:58,080 --> 00:38:59,879
Speaker 3: decide I want to go back to the apartment living.

780
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:05,680
Speaker 1: And your mom is in chg Chicago, right, Okay, yeah, yeah,

781
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 1: you know we're neighbors back in the day to these

782
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:13,040
Speaker 1: I know, Arsa and I used to, uh live not.

783
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 2: Very far from each other. I'm so crazy that funny.

784
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 3: Well how old were you when you went to La

785
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 3: I Well.

786
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,799
Speaker 1: My dad moved us to Ocean Site, which is near

787
00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 1: a little north of San Diego, when I was fifteen,

788
00:39:26,360 --> 00:39:28,040
Speaker 1: after my freshman year of high school.

789
00:39:28,760 --> 00:39:33,560
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, and when did you move? Well, I married

790
00:39:33,600 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 3: my ex husband when I was like twenty two. Okay,

791
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,799
Speaker 3: so you're that's right, You're we had a place here

792
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 3: in Florida, and then we had a place in Portland, Oregon,

793
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 3: and Texas and Chicago, and so we kind of went everywhere.

794
00:39:46,600 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 1: Did you go to college in Chicago?

795
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

796
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 1: Wow, so that was a big move.

797
00:39:53,280 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 3: Yeah. But you know what's interesting, I love Chicago so much,

798
00:39:57,040 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 3: but once I left it, I felt like it just

799
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 3: the weather's so.

800
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 1: I know that's why my dad moved us.

801
00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:05,720
Speaker 3: And summer there like every year, but I just don't

802
00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 3: want to be there for the winter. It's so good.

803
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: I know, the winters are really tough.

804
00:40:10,760 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm glad I'm in Miami. I love it here.

805
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 3: I feel like this is home for me.

806
00:40:15,920 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 1: That's great. And your kids, your kids are your older

807
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: kids are in.

808
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:24,800
Speaker 3: My kids of LA. Like my older son plays basketball

809
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:29,240
Speaker 3: in Memphis. My son Preston goes back and forth La Miami.

810
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 3: He just graduated from college and then just in place

811
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 3: for UC Berkeley, but he loves LA. And Sophia is

812
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 3: in LA. So it's like they're Elie kids. You know.

813
00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 1: That's good.

814
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,600
Speaker 2: Well, next time you're out here, we have to yeah,

815
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 2: for sure.

816
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:48,399
Speaker 1: And I'm so glad that Caroline connects it us too.

817
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:50,800
Speaker 3: No, And I'm sorry I judged you. I just felt like,

818
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 3: I don't care.

819
00:40:51,880 --> 00:40:56,400
Speaker 1: I'm so it's fine. No, I actually love that you

820
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:59,160
Speaker 1: were so open and honest about it.

821
00:40:59,160 --> 00:41:01,359
Speaker 3: It's funny because she was talking about you. She's like, oh,

822
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 3: a month before braba Con, She's like, do you know Denise,

823
00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 3: And I was like, no, I've never met her. And

824
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 3: she's like, We're gonna have dinner with her. I'm like,

825
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,120
Speaker 3: oh great. She's like is that fine. I'm like yeah,

826
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:11,960
Speaker 3: I can't wait to meet her. And then when we

827
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:13,959
Speaker 3: saw you in the hallway, I was like that bitch,

828
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 3: isn't that nice? After dinner, I was like, oh, I

829
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 3: love you.

830
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:20,840
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I was in a hurt when I

831
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: hugged her. They you know, they were resting us in

832
00:41:23,160 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: all different places. It was so cadut there. It was.

833
00:41:26,440 --> 00:41:29,600
Speaker 3: It's just full three days for sure. I had blisters

834
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:33,000
Speaker 3: on my feet. I slept for like two days when

835
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 3: I got home.

836
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,200
Speaker 1: That event, though, it's so fun. I'm so glad that

837
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: Brabo does it because it's so great seeing the fans

838
00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:44,840
Speaker 1: and how they're so supportive and fun and so excited

839
00:41:44,840 --> 00:41:46,719
Speaker 1: to be there to see all of us. It's just

840
00:41:47,120 --> 00:41:48,040
Speaker 1: it's it's.

841
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:53,440
Speaker 2: Really very heartwarming and very humbling to go and see everyone, I.

842
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 3: Mean, and think about how much it's grown from Seasons's

843
00:41:56,239 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 3: huge and they've done it, like it's gotten so big.

844
00:41:59,440 --> 00:42:01,360
Speaker 1: I did the went to the Did you go to

845
00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: the first one?

846
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:02,800
Speaker 3: Yeah?

847
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, yeah, So we were at the first one

848
00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:07,399
Speaker 1: and then I didn't go again until this one, and

849
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,280
Speaker 1: it was it's unbelievable how much it's grown.

850
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 3: So I don't know if this is true, but I

851
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 3: heard they're only doing Bravo kN every other year. Did

852
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 3: you hear that.

853
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 1: I didn't know that.

854
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 3: Yeah. I don't think they're doing it every year. I

855
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:21,839
Speaker 3: think they're going to start doing every other year.

856
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 2: Well, I can't imagine what goes into putting Bravo kN on.

857
00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 1: That is a lot of work.

858
00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:29,520
Speaker 3: I know it's crazy a lot.

859
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,720
Speaker 1: It is crazy a lot.

860
00:42:31,600 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 3: Going on, But honestly, and seeing all the other girls

861
00:42:33,520 --> 00:42:36,040
Speaker 3: from the other franchises like that was so much fun. Oh.

862
00:42:36,120 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 1: I loved meeting so many people and from different shows

863
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: and it was so cool.

864
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 2: I loved it seeing everyone at the hotel.

865
00:42:45,280 --> 00:42:47,520
Speaker 3: You should come to Miami and shoot Miami with us.

866
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:48,160
Speaker 1: I should.

867
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:49,839
Speaker 2: I need to go to Miami. When do you guys

868
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:51,760
Speaker 2: start filming I'm.

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Speaker 3: Not sure yet. Maybe in a month or month and

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Speaker 3: a half or so.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because you guys usually do summer right.

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Speaker 3: Or we film it the worst time. It's so hot

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Speaker 3: in Miami, like I want to shoot, I don't want

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Speaker 3: to be shooting. And you know, summer so hot.

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Speaker 1: It does get very warm down there.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I like it better like spring, like fall. Winter.

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Speaker 3: Spring like the best time to be in Miami. And

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Speaker 3: there's so much going on here, Like we have our basso,

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Speaker 3: we have right week, we have so much other you know,

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Speaker 3: cool stuff going on.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm excited, Larsa. Thank you so much. You are

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Speaker 1: the best guest, and I am so glad to be

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Speaker 1: friends with you. And uh, I'm.

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Speaker 3: With you and me too, and now you're stuck with

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Speaker 3: me to be I love it.

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited and so happy too.

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Speaker 3: All Right, I'll talk to you soon, come right, I will, Okay,

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Speaker 3: big us

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Speaker 1: Thanks honey, Bye bye