1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,800 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I'm welcome to Steph. 2 00:00:07,840 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: I never told your protection of I heart radio. Yes, 3 00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: and welcome to another edition of Happy Hour. I don't 4 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 1: want to echo in that one. I don't know why 5 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: Christina I need an echo in this way. And just 6 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: at the very top, well, you know how we say 7 00:00:31,160 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: keep it together ish, meaning drink responsibly, however that applies 8 00:00:36,200 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 1: to you, whatever way that applies to you, meaning if 9 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:40,880 Speaker 1: you don't need to be drinking, don't drink. If you 10 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:42,839 Speaker 1: don't need to be drinking caffee, don't drink that. If 11 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: you don't need to be listening to this maybe not, 12 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:48,320 Speaker 1: don't don't do that either. Who knows. Just be responsible, 13 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: do what is best for you. Two at the beginning 14 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 1: of the year, ISH, we're going to keep it like that. Also, 15 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: just another reminder, the drinks, typically, unless we are noting it, 16 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 1: are not sponsored by whomever we are talking about, So 17 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 1: this rum is not our sponsor. And the room we 18 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: are specifically talking about today is Cassama Rum, which is 19 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: a Philippines based slash New York based rum founded by 20 00:01:14,240 --> 00:01:18,319 Speaker 1: Alexandra Dorda, whose family is all about good spirits. Actually, 21 00:01:18,319 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 1: her father is the founder of Belvedere Vodka. I think 22 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: she is. I'm gonna understand Polish, and her mother is 23 00:01:25,160 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: from the Philippines, so that is part of our heritage. 24 00:01:28,720 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: So you can say this that this industry is a 25 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:35,440 Speaker 1: part of her heritage. Obviously. Cassama is the Filipino word 26 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: for together. According to their site, I did see it 27 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,959 Speaker 1: also saying a companion, so like being together a friendship, 28 00:01:41,000 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: I guess, and that was her intent to bring people 29 00:01:44,240 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 1: together over good drinks, sunshine and good vibes. Go check 30 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: out her side if you're questioning where I'm getting this, 31 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: and the company describes the rum as quote distilled from 32 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 1: a freshly pressed noble kine juice then aged in American 33 00:01:57,760 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 1: oak barrels. Casama has all the flag verse of the tropics, 34 00:02:01,040 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: sweet pineapple, a hint of vanilla, and just a pinch 35 00:02:04,040 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 1: of sea salts and uh, just in case you're wondering 36 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:10,280 Speaker 1: any In an interview she did with Kitchen dot Com 37 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: the k I t h N dot Com, she says 38 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: about the rom quote the taste profile, it's very different 39 00:02:17,160 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: from many other RUMs out there. The golden color is 40 00:02:20,440 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 1: because it's an aged rum that lays for seven years 41 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 1: in oak barrels. It's not heavily spiced, and it's not 42 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: overly sweet, which many consumers expect RUM to be. Like, 43 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: is very light, it's very simpable, and it has really 44 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: beautiful tropical notes of pineapple and vanilla. And yeah, in 45 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:38,960 Speaker 1: that same innter of you, she talked about how she 46 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: wanted her brand to be a little different and that 47 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:44,280 Speaker 1: typically we see and she's right that the brains we 48 00:02:44,320 --> 00:02:47,960 Speaker 1: see are like, you know, pirates and going out to 49 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 1: see and all these things that she wanted to keep 50 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,480 Speaker 1: it tropical and fun, and the bottle itself has some 51 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: really beautiful colors. I really did like it a lot, 52 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: very much jumped out in front of you, like, yes, 53 00:02:58,840 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: I need this Rum. So Adi, did you take a sip? 54 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:05,359 Speaker 1: I did take a sip. As I said before on 55 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: past episodes, I like to take one sip straight to 56 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 1: get a feel for it, and then I usually make 57 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: a drink with it. And I agree with what Alexandra said. 58 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 1: It's very very simple. It is sweet, like it was 59 00:03:19,560 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 1: sweet at the front, but it's not like overly sweets 60 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: and I definitely picked up on that like kind of 61 00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: tropical vanilla thing. And I know we say this all 62 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: the time. But it's true. Again, it was very smooth, 63 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 1: like it didn't really have much of a burn right 64 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:39,920 Speaker 1: or anything. It just was like, oh yeah, kind of 65 00:03:39,960 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 1: that I that was describes the emotion in my mouth. 66 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,600 Speaker 1: That's kind of what happened, the sounds your mouth made. 67 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, I would definitely agree with that. He apparently 68 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: really likes to do things with coconut water in the room, 69 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: and I did see that in their recipes. So if 70 00:03:54,720 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 1: y'all need some recipe ideas, they've got some amazing ones. 71 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:00,440 Speaker 1: And I definitely taste that coconut that at the ending 72 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:03,240 Speaker 1: with that vanilla, that very sweetness to it, but it 73 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:05,400 Speaker 1: has that little slight edge of the burn. But I 74 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 1: think it's liquor, always liquor. But it's still smooth and 75 00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: definitely could be sipped over something. I could just put 76 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: a pineapple, piece of pineapple in it. I don't think 77 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 1: i'd be okay with it. Not too heavily oaky. Surprisingly 78 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:20,360 Speaker 1: I assumed it would be because it has satin seven 79 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: years in American oak, but it doesn't have that doesn't 80 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 1: have that same bite that typical oak that I do taste. 81 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:29,040 Speaker 1: I think it's more so about sweet pineapple, sweet, tropic 82 00:04:29,080 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 1: type of taste, and I do enjoy it. So good job, Alexandra. Yeah, 83 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 1: we you and I were a little late to the game. 84 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: We're like, oh no, we are still taking this pandemic 85 00:04:39,560 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: very seriously and not going out often. So that includes 86 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: me not go into grocery shopping. But for every once 87 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:48,919 Speaker 1: a week, you once three weeks. I know. So what 88 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,919 Speaker 1: did you have in your cabinet to make your drink? 89 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:56,640 Speaker 1: And what did you make? Uh? So, all I really 90 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:02,160 Speaker 1: add was I had some lime juice and the sparkling 91 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 1: water and that's it delicious I did, and it's it's 92 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: very refreshing and actually the rum flavor is pretty It 93 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 1: shines in this. A lot of drinks I make can 94 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:17,279 Speaker 1: normally the liquor kind of fades to the background in 95 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:20,120 Speaker 1: one way or another, but this is nice. It's a 96 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:23,560 Speaker 1: nice like bright. I can still taste that kind of sweetness. 97 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 1: So even though there's not much in this drink, yeah, 98 00:05:26,920 --> 00:05:29,680 Speaker 1: it's got a lot going on. Yeah, I like it. No, 99 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: that's one of the things that they talked about. Just 100 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,040 Speaker 1: putting some just lime and a little bit of juice 101 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,000 Speaker 1: is some sorts, and she does that a lot for me. 102 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,000 Speaker 1: I decided to create what I'm going to call Sam's 103 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:46,880 Speaker 1: Rum Creamsicle, which essentially has I squeezed two small mandarines 104 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:50,800 Speaker 1: little cutie's, yeah, and into my little glass, and then 105 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:52,719 Speaker 1: I added an nounce and a half of the rum. 106 00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: And then I took my bubble water. But I love 107 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: the pineapple flavor. One bubbly water, and I put like 108 00:05:59,839 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: a splash vat a good pour into it, and Yeah, 109 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 1: it tastes like a creamsickle. It's quite delightful, little sweeter, 110 00:06:07,760 --> 00:06:10,200 Speaker 1: but had the acidity from the orange. So that is 111 00:06:10,480 --> 00:06:14,040 Speaker 1: my now official drink that I'm going to call Sam's 112 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 1: Rum Creamsickle. I love it. It feels like, once again, 113 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: you're in your like coat that makes you look like 114 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 1: an Arctic explorer, but you're drinking this like very very 115 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: beach like trafical drink of your own creation. It's breaking 116 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: me a lot of joy. You know. One of the 117 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 1: things that she does talk about is branding, and I 118 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:39,000 Speaker 1: think that's something we need to think about often, even 119 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 1: though I hate it. It It feels so cliche, especially in 120 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: the industry. You and I are end because of what 121 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,800 Speaker 1: we've already been told where social influencers. I'm like, how 122 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:52,160 Speaker 1: I don't understand what are Yeah, so I'm very confused 123 00:06:52,200 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 1: by this whole aspect of social influencers. I guess if 124 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:57,039 Speaker 1: we take it outside of social media and talk about 125 00:06:57,080 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 1: it in a digital format, be sure. But I think, yeah, 126 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:02,919 Speaker 1: that's one of the things. So if you were to 127 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:06,200 Speaker 1: say what your brand was, can you describe to me 128 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: your brand? Oh? My, I would say it is. It 129 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 1: is what I hope is charming, awkwardness and endearing but 130 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:27,440 Speaker 1: sometimes intense passions and a lot of them nerd based, yes, 131 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 1: like what's a good word for will not stop talking 132 00:07:32,080 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 1: about things she loves until you away slowly passionate? Okay, yeah, 133 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: fashion it I think something in there. I think the 134 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: awkward is definitely a part of it. But yeah, yeah, 135 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,679 Speaker 1: I think that's a good brand. You have a great 136 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:53,000 Speaker 1: brand because people recognize and know you're easy to shop for. 137 00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: Your easy and hard in that I get better ideas 138 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: because you have so much love for so many things. 139 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:02,040 Speaker 1: But it's die hard that it's almost like this could 140 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: go really really wrong. Because I do this to my 141 00:08:04,560 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: other friend Dominique, who really is a big Auburn fan. 142 00:08:08,800 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 1: She has a sorority, like she has all these things, 143 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: so a little I focused in a little too hard 144 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: on those is getting her catchy things to the point 145 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: that my mother would do that to me, where I'm like, 146 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: I said, I liked it one time, and every year 147 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, I can never get rid of this. Uh, 148 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,320 Speaker 1: and I don't love it, but okay, But all that 149 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: to say is you have so much love and when 150 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:32,920 Speaker 1: you love something, you love it with all of your 151 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: heart and it's a really beautiful thing and you are 152 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:39,880 Speaker 1: a loyalist to it, but you're still compassionate and that 153 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:43,720 Speaker 1: you want to teach others. So you are a passionate 154 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 1: die hard. I like it. Thank you. That's your brand. 155 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 1: I think. Yeah. For me, I want to go with 156 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:55,319 Speaker 1: a lovable curmudgeon. I hope I'm lovable at least I'm 157 00:08:55,320 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: gonna say likable, endurable. It's getting little us and loves 158 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 1: like I was getting. So I'm really struggling. And you 159 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 1: and I have talked about this previously when we had 160 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: episodes about being empathetic, and I'm not calling myself an impath. 161 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,720 Speaker 1: I'm not even going to go down that road, but 162 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: empathetic that when others go through something, something in my 163 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 1: life gets triggered. By it as well. So I have 164 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: someone going through not a hard time, but a big change, 165 00:09:39,440 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: and I feel like I have taken that. And I 166 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:45,439 Speaker 1: didn't realize that until today, even though I've been just 167 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: been swirling in my head for two weeks that that 168 00:09:48,720 --> 00:09:51,439 Speaker 1: it was based from that because I feel for her 169 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 1: and all of these things. It's affecting that portion of 170 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 1: my life. Does that make sense, whether it's work related, 171 00:09:59,080 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: whether it's relations ship, whether it's family, you know, like 172 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:04,520 Speaker 1: the that specific thing. But all that to say, it 173 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: also makes me really irritable and just down. And I 174 00:10:08,880 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: don't know what to do about that because there's nothing 175 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:14,880 Speaker 1: to really stop that from happening in my life. I 176 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:18,360 Speaker 1: can't block that I used to when I was so 177 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:21,760 Speaker 1: pessimistic that I wouldn't let anything close to me, that 178 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: I had a hard time attaching to anything. And I've 179 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: talked about the fact that I'm pretty sure as a child, 180 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 1: I could have been diagnosed with reactive attachment disorder. There's 181 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 1: so many things to that, based on my relationships, based 182 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,840 Speaker 1: on my reactions, based on my mistrust, based on my manipulation, 183 00:10:35,920 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 1: like all those things. So growing out of that, growing 184 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: into an adult and finding more empathy, and as if 185 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: I've gotten older, I'm like filling more of my emotions 186 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,920 Speaker 1: and I'm just letting it out a little more. But 187 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 1: it's still hard to not be a curmudgeon. Like I'm 188 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: getting into the forties and I'm like, yeah, I'm going 189 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:54,480 Speaker 1: to be the witch that gets stuck in her rocking 190 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: chair on the port screaming at the kids get off 191 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:58,880 Speaker 1: my lawn. And they had run a spread rumor said 192 00:10:58,920 --> 00:11:03,600 Speaker 1: I eat children, and yes, that's what I'm really hoping 193 00:11:03,600 --> 00:11:06,120 Speaker 1: for someone's long I don't know if his mind or not, 194 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: who knows. Maybe I'll just be at the like a 195 00:11:08,320 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: local community garden, streaming I kids. But like that's kind 196 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: of the field that I've gone through. And as I 197 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 1: get alert, like yeah, yeah, I'm gonna dig into that 198 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: a little more because it's really hard for me to 199 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:24,520 Speaker 1: function outside of that. My anxieties, my depression, my all 200 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:27,199 Speaker 1: of that. I don't know. But I feel like people 201 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: love me enough that they know that I'm loyal to them, 202 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 1: so they find me lovable for the moment. I find 203 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: you lovable always. Okay, Okay, I'm gonna go with it, 204 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,800 Speaker 1: Like I pause, because I'm like, I can be a 205 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 1: really big downer. We all know it, which is also 206 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 1: while they're like, I can't hang around people. I think 207 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: that's one of the reasons we balanced each other out though, 208 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:51,800 Speaker 1: is because I it's hard for me to be a 209 00:11:51,800 --> 00:11:53,720 Speaker 1: big down or even when you should be a big 210 00:11:53,760 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 1: down er, you know, like it's hard for me to 211 00:11:56,720 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 1: voice like negative things. So I think together I'm the 212 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:06,079 Speaker 1: Debbie downer. They're like, oh God, she coming, is she 213 00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:09,319 Speaker 1: going to talk about this? That's when I'm like walking 214 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:16,800 Speaker 1: up the stairs whistling. Yeah. So I don't know if 215 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 1: that's my brand or not, but I feel like I 216 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 1: need to dig into it. I'm the one who makes 217 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 1: the faces sarcastic one liners and then walk away and 218 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:26,559 Speaker 1: hope that that brought a little bit of a laugh, 219 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 1: and then I'll move on before people catch on to 220 00:12:28,520 --> 00:12:31,280 Speaker 1: be like, oh, she's not joking, she's just a jerk. Yeah. 221 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 1: I think that you're very You're very loyal, and you're 222 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: very cary, and you're very I think you are awesome, 223 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 1: extremely compassionate, and definitely very empathetic. But you like you 224 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:47,920 Speaker 1: you mean, you're saying you're such a down are and 225 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 1: I know you say things that aren't happy but I 226 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:56,360 Speaker 1: feel like you've uplifted encourage people. I have my moments, 227 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,240 Speaker 1: but yeah, I do play the Debbie down her pestle 228 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:04,560 Speaker 1: mist role well too, like I would be Daria. And 229 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:09,679 Speaker 1: people love Daria, they say they do. They like the 230 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:12,920 Speaker 1: idea of her, and then then reality they're like, wait, 231 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:15,319 Speaker 1: you're awful. Person felt the same way like Liz Lemon. 232 00:13:15,559 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 1: Everybody really loved her for a minute and they're like, 233 00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 1: she's the ideal and then you really think about that 234 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 1: type of person in your life seven you're like, maybe 235 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:27,760 Speaker 1: she's not. Maybe maybe not. Well, you know, you get 236 00:13:27,800 --> 00:13:32,080 Speaker 1: those fictionalized characters. I think the point is that their 237 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 1: fiction and they're a little elevated. I could be wrong. 238 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 1: Let's hope, Let's hope. Yeah. I think we should, you know, 239 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: talk about how we are branded and what that looks 240 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: like in our responsibility in that brand. I guess Christina 241 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 1: and uh Annie and everybody involved in our show, we 242 00:13:50,600 --> 00:13:53,440 Speaker 1: need to think about our brand a little more because 243 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:56,680 Speaker 1: it has changed, like the different hosts, it has changed. 244 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 1: Is it important? Not necessarily right now, but maybe it 245 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:02,320 Speaker 1: is something that we have to think about in the 246 00:14:02,360 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: future as au as we navigate this really odd field. No, No, 247 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 1: it's always important. I remember I have two points here. 248 00:14:11,800 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: Uh One, I think we should return one day and 249 00:14:14,640 --> 00:14:20,240 Speaker 1: talk about how toxic it can be for younger people, 250 00:14:20,320 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: especially on social media, to think they have to build 251 00:14:22,360 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 1: a brand on social media. Not necessarily toxic, but a 252 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:28,040 Speaker 1: lot of times it is. And that's something I really 253 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: didn't have to worry about. I'm very grateful that I 254 00:14:29,880 --> 00:14:33,920 Speaker 1: didn't at the time. Another is our friend and co 255 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:37,760 Speaker 1: worker Lauren over from the Favorite podcast but a bunch 256 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:39,680 Speaker 1: of other stuff. She does a bunch of stuff. She 257 00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: said one time she was like preparing for some kind 258 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: of photo shoot and she's put on makeup and somebody 259 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 1: there told her like this, it's gonna be for social 260 00:14:52,520 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 1: media or whatever, and she kind of like immediately jokingly 261 00:14:56,360 --> 00:15:00,560 Speaker 1: said it's for my brand. And how she feels such 262 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:04,960 Speaker 1: shade for that moment since this day because she's not 263 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: sure the guy knew she was joking. It's hard making 264 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 1: one off jokes and then you're like, wait, I'm in 265 00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:16,160 Speaker 1: the field where people may take that seriously and or 266 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 1: like if somebody doesn't know you, sometimes sense of humor 267 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:27,760 Speaker 1: can miss sometimes even if they yep, we're both like 268 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:31,480 Speaker 1: reach for our drinks well. Cheers to us finding a 269 00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:35,160 Speaker 1: brand or defying all the brands if we want to, 270 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 1: and drinking my cream sickle. Cheers and congratulations on the 271 00:15:39,120 --> 00:15:42,840 Speaker 1: cocktail invention. It sounds lovely, it looks lovely too, nice 272 00:15:42,840 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: color well, and cheers to you listeners. Thank you so 273 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 1: much for coming along this journey with us. As always, 274 00:15:51,400 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: we would love to hear from you any cocktail recipes. 275 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 1: You don't mind sharing any any recipes at all, honestly, 276 00:15:58,200 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 1: are welcome. Oh yeah, they have some keep recipes. By 277 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: the way, on the scientis because you can bake with 278 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: realm Okay, okay, that's good to know. Well, you can 279 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,400 Speaker 1: send those at recipes to us at our email which 280 00:16:11,400 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 1: is Stephinite your mom stuff at ihart me dot com. 281 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: You can find us on Twitter at mom stuf podcast 282 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: or Instagram and stuff I Never told you. 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