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Speaker 1: A million bus busy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, joy you you.

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Speaker 3: Turn the water the mono.

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Speaker 2: Come come out, you think, Uh huh, I sure will.

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Speaker 2: A good morning everybody.

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Speaker 6: You are listening to the voice, come on dig me now,

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Speaker 6: one and all that Steve Harvey got a radio show. Okay,

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Speaker 6: today is simple. I want to tell you. I want

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Speaker 6: to just talk to you about effort today. Just about effort.

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Speaker 6: You know, it's it's it's it's a word that people

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Speaker 6: use to describe sometimes trying. But what I found out

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Speaker 6: about trying is trying is just a noble way of

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Speaker 6: saying you didn't get it done. I tried when and

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Speaker 6: then everybody go, well, he tried, that was the best.

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Speaker 6: Well that's that's not exactly true though, that that's that's

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Speaker 6: not exactly true. You are and I want to talk

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Speaker 6: to you about that because I don't want you to

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Speaker 6: be one of the people who just tried.

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Speaker 2: See trying I mean, I gotta tell you to attempt something.

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Speaker 6: You're gonna have to first try, but I want you

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Speaker 6: to change your mindset from trying to getting it done. See,

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Speaker 6: that's a big difference. I'm really more apt to listen

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Speaker 6: to the person that says to me, I'm gonna get

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Speaker 6: it done. I'm gonna try. What try does is it

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Speaker 6: allows you to fail. It's the person that has the

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Speaker 6: mindset that I'm gonna get it done. It's the person

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Speaker 6: who changes the complexion of things. I'm gonna get it done.

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Speaker 6: It's very different than I'm gonna try.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 2: Look, man, I know this sounds a little.

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Speaker 6: Harsh, but you gotta stop feeding yourself these little old

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Speaker 6: wise sayings that ain't it was a valiant tribe. Hey man,

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Speaker 6: you talk to anybody that took second place in the

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Speaker 6: super Bowl and see how they feel about their valiant try.

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Speaker 6: The only way to gain God's real blessings is you

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Speaker 6: have to try something. Steve Backpeddling, now, listen to me close.

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Speaker 6: You have to put forth an effort to allow God

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Speaker 6: to put his finger on something to bless on your behalf.

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Speaker 6: You must start to attempt now, insaying getting it done

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Speaker 6: and I'm gonna try.

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Speaker 2: That's a different of two different faiths.

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Speaker 7: To me.

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Speaker 2: I'm just talking about me.

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Speaker 6: Now. You may be different, So I can't say this

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Speaker 6: about you, but I can say this about me. If

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Speaker 6: I say I'm gonna get it done, I have a

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Speaker 6: it done because I just don't see failure as an option.

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Speaker 6: A lot of times now, if somebody says to me,

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Speaker 6: like the Olympic team invited me out to curl one day,

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Speaker 6: which is throw these stones on the ice, if you're

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Speaker 6: not familiar with this very simple thing.

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Speaker 2: And so I said, man, I'd like to give that

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Speaker 6: I went in full well knowing I may not come

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Speaker 6: away from this little curling lesson as a person.

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Speaker 2: Who could make the Olympic team.

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Speaker 6: I just wanted to try it because I thought it

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Speaker 6: When I failed twice, I threw a stone completely into

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Speaker 6: them stones in that circle right where I aim. But

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Speaker 6: now had I given up after I failed? After I

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Speaker 6: threw that stone in the other lane after I shot

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Speaker 6: the little ice shoe they give you.

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Speaker 2: I never did it, but because I was trying.

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Speaker 6: Something got me together a little bit because of my effort,

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Speaker 6: of a sudden, my trying became something. Now had I

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Speaker 6: stayed out there and it wasn't so cold, and I went.

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Speaker 2: Back week after week after week after week. I promise you.

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Speaker 6: I could get it done. I could at least know

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Speaker 2: Might not be the best.

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Speaker 6: I might not win the championship, but I could have

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Speaker 6: as a failure every time something don't go right. And

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Speaker 6: when I fail on that ice, I could have said, man,

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Speaker 6: I can't curl, but hold up, man, I'm watching four

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Speaker 6: You know, man, So I learned when I threw that

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Speaker 2: And then I said to.

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Speaker 6: Myself one point in time, man, I'm gonna get this

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Speaker 6: this circle. And guess what I got it done. Now

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Speaker 6: what you're saying to me, Steve, I'm saying to you

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Speaker 6: that you gotta get started. That you got to put

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Speaker 6: forth an effort. Give God something to bless. Oh God,

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Speaker 6: bless me, Oh God, bless me.

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Speaker 2: Bless you?

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Speaker 8: What?

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Speaker 3: Bless you?

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Speaker 2: Where? Bless you?

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Speaker 7: How?

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Speaker 6: Stop basing your results on what you're thinking. You gotta

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Speaker 6: think higher. You get God in your life, man, He

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Speaker 6: allows you to think higher, bigger, better more. I was

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Speaker 6: sitting up in my debt. I came up with a

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Speaker 6: and I was tripping on it.

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Speaker 2: Now. I said, wait a minute, man, hold up. This

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Speaker 2: is what I came up with. I said, God.

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Speaker 6: Created heaven and earth, all of it, the mountains, the sky,

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Speaker 6: the valleys, the oceans, trees, the birds, the Indian Ocean,

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Speaker 6: all of it, made all of it in six days,

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Speaker 6: and then he rested on the seven. So why am

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Speaker 6: I taking to God the five year plan? If he

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Speaker 6: I walking in there talking about help me in five years?

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Speaker 6: How is it gonna take God five years to getting

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Speaker 2: And he made heaven and Earth in six days? Do

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Speaker 2: the math? Hell, man, I ain't that big. You ain't

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Speaker 2: that big. You ain't in that much trouble. I ain't

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Speaker 6: See, God got a way of showing you some things, man,

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Speaker 6: but it's gonna take some faith, and faith gonna take

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Speaker 6: some effort on your part. Man, get out and do something. Man,

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Speaker 6: you God will bless you a little bit and he

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Speaker 6: give you a little bit more courage. And then all

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Speaker 6: them attempts you making is gonna and all this so

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Speaker 6: I'll try.

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Speaker 2: You know what that turned into. I'm gonna get it done.

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Speaker 6: And at the end of the day, that's what you

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Speaker 6: have to do, because trying to pay your rent and

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Speaker 6: not paying your rent is two different things. You can

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Speaker 6: you can try to play your pay your rent, or

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Speaker 6: you can get it done. Now, how long you think

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Speaker 6: you gonna stay in that house trying? You got to

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Speaker 6: go with the mindset of getting it done. And if

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Speaker 6: for you the most stuff he can do for you,

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Speaker 6: Quit looking around what everybody else got and gonna get.

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Speaker 2: Some of it for yourself.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 6: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, everybody within listening range.

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Speaker 6: This is Steve Harvey Morning Show. We invite you to

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Speaker 6: join in. Show some gratitude today. Let God know how

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Speaker 6: much you appreciate it for this new opportunity, this brand

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Speaker 6: new shot. Man, What a good thing it is to

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Speaker 6: be alive today. Man, what a blessing. You know what,

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Speaker 6: I just decided I understand that. You know, life just

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Speaker 6: has some cards for you.

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Speaker 2: Someday.

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Speaker 6: Someday you just gonna get dealt one of them cards

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Speaker 6: out to deck. You don't want three are hards. You're

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Speaker 6: not finna win with this three heart in your hand.

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Speaker 6: But you got it today, deal with it, play it.

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Speaker 2: Take the L.

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Speaker 6: But the L is not a loss, y'all. The L

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Speaker 6: is a learned lesson the main losses. They are learned lessons.

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Speaker 6: When you look at it that way, you can take

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Speaker 6: the hits a little bit better than life, because God

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Speaker 6: got a plan for you. His plan is to prosper you. Yeah, man,

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Speaker 6: come on, think about it like that, y'all. Steve Harvt,

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Speaker 6: Marni Show, Shelton Strawberry call it for real, Mississippi Monica

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Speaker 6: Junior to come back kid and the legend of Nephew

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Speaker 2: Uncle, I really want to ask you this, Uncle.

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Speaker 9: I've really got to ask your opinion and your views

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Speaker 9: on this, because their cause a group of women who

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Speaker 9: say the days of taking a man's last name is over.

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Speaker 2: He's gonna have to take mine. Okay, Well, you just

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Speaker 2: be over there by yourself.

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Speaker 6: Then.

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Speaker 2: Explain to me how it's supposed to work, explaining.

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Speaker 6: What look look, look, look, look, junior. I'm an old

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Speaker 6: school so this I really ain't a good person to ask.

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Speaker 6: They have decided in this new society. What I've discovered

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Speaker 6: is is that they think that there's a new way

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Speaker 6: that they can do it and it'll be okay.

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Speaker 2: You can do whatever you want to do.

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Speaker 6: God gave us all the power of choice. You can

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Speaker 6: make any decision you want, to be anything you want.

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Speaker 6: Good luck. Let me see how that worked for you.

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Speaker 6: I don't know what's wrong with taking a man's name.

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Speaker 6: If you don't want it, though, you don't have to

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Speaker 6: take it. And if he cool with you not having it,

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Speaker 6: keep your name. You know now, just the way I am.

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Speaker 6: You don't want my name, you don't want to be

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Speaker 6: miss Harvey, then that's cool. Ain't no problem. But the

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Speaker 6: benefits you talk about them, benefits of being miss Harvey

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Speaker 6: will be reduced greatly. I ain't got no problem. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: ain't no ask me anything you want if within my power,

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Speaker 6: I'll do it. I'm that's off the table.

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Speaker 3: Ain't no more.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna die for you. We're not doing that.

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Speaker 6: I fight.

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Speaker 2: I'll fight a little while.

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Speaker 6: But if it gets tricky, if you don't join in

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Speaker 6: this fight, they might they might take a us. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: all of that to death, do you part. That's off

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Speaker 6: should I'll just telling you what's off the table with me.

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Speaker 6: It's just Steve Hardy, y'all. You you ain't got the

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, yay, put them keys down, coming up,

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Speaker 10: Thirty two minutes after, we'll hear from the nephew as

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: Hearst Uh yeah, Brendan, Hey, I'm trying to reach you.

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Speaker 2: How you doing Britain?

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Speaker 11: I want to make sure I got the right person you,

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Speaker 11: of all, I go to uh my name, my name Calvin,

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Speaker 11: got brother Calvin. But I go to Saint Missionary Baptist Church.

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Speaker 12: Where you yeah, so yeah, so everything all right.

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Speaker 2: Everything's fine. Well, I got a little issue and I'm

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Speaker 11: You work in the before service start. You work in

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Speaker 12: What you looking for some employment? You want to you

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Speaker 11: No? No, no, what to see the issue I got, Man,

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Speaker 11: I've been dealing with this probably about the last two months.

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Speaker 2: Now, Okay, hold on, I'm trying to tell you.

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Speaker 11: So the problem is when I come to the church

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Speaker 11: last couple of months, man, I've been I've been coming

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Speaker 11: like my my my, my regular card and broke down

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Speaker 11: you know, I got an old van that I've been

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Speaker 11: I noticed, now, nah, bro not on the real So

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Speaker 11: you sending me to the back, and I'm noticing when

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Speaker 11: I see cars that's like two ten, twenty fifteen cars.

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Speaker 12: Well brother, well listen, we don't have no set place

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Speaker 11: Okay, So so you're trying to tell me for the

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Speaker 11: last two months, you just direct traffic, but you got

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Speaker 11: but you directed me to the back every time.

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Speaker 2: But a car behind me or a car in front

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Speaker 12: Now where you getting this information from me?

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Speaker 2: I haven't seen you man send people to the front

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Speaker 7: No.

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Speaker 12: No, I just I just put you know, the bigger

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Speaker 12: it's really no schedule if if you're coming in, I

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Speaker 12: It's really nothing to it.

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Speaker 11: Really, So you're not trying to say so my my

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Speaker 12: No, no, no, no, no, no, that's not what we're about. Now. Well,

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Speaker 12: I'm sorry you feel that way. I mean, so I

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Speaker 11: Let me let me I'm gonna tell you about this

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Speaker 11: Sunday to make sure. No, no, let me tell you

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Speaker 11: right now when my van pull up there Sunday, I'm

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Speaker 11: gonna tell you right now, if I get sent to

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Speaker 11: it's gonna be a problem if.

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Speaker 2: I get said to the back.

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Speaker 12: You know now, you don't have to cut from just this.

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Speaker 12: Calm down, it's not it's not that SI.

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Speaker 11: No, it is because see what's already. No, I know

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Speaker 11: I got a ragged man, I know that. I know that,

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Speaker 11: but I see that's the reason why I'm getting sent

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Speaker 11: I have before y'all was sending me up front. So

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Speaker 11: already know I'm just saying. I'm telling you right now, Brendan,

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Speaker 11: I'm telling you right now, it's gonna be a problem

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Speaker 11: if I.

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Speaker 2: Get sent to the back.

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Speaker 12: Brother, you just singled me out.

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Speaker 2: And no, no, you know I didn't single you out.

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Speaker 2: You you are the person that has been sending me

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Speaker 12: Dude, No, no, I haven't.

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Speaker 2: Hey, man, why you keep Why are you sitting?

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Speaker 12: Why you accusing me?

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Speaker 2: I'm because I didn't seen it. No you are.

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Speaker 12: You're calling me, You calling me out of the blue,

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Speaker 12: and you accuse me of something that I'm not doing.

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Speaker 2: No, no, you just sent my ragged band to the back.

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Speaker 2: You didn't done it. You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan,

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Speaker 2: you have done it. Yes, yes you have. You sent

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Speaker 2: all the pretty cars up front. That's what you're doing.

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Speaker 2: But I tell you what come Sunday gonna be a problem.

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Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 2: You threatened me.

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Speaker 12: I mean now now listen, we we we can meet

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Speaker 12: for any cars if they how about that.

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Speaker 2: I don't care how you want to do it, Brendon.

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Speaker 12: You actually do know how you want to do it,

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Speaker 12: So bring it then.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm letting you know my car. Yeah, my van

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Speaker 12: Come get Ben your band. It's me and you. How

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Speaker 12: to Tony stuff?

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so you are you sweating all up? Now?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 12: So now like you already did so, I guess I'm matching.

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Speaker 12: Listen, brother, brother, listen, You're not gonna call my phone

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Speaker 12: and threaten me and tell me what you what you

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Speaker 2: I told you man, you've been sending me to back man.

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Speaker 2: That's what we passed. What you thought? Okay, that what

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Speaker 2: it is? No, it's what I know. It's what I know, Brandy,

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Speaker 2: it's what I know. Okay, you didn't. You didn't where

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Speaker 2: you are right now? Okay? You know you know ain't

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Speaker 2: got work?

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Speaker 13: You know what.

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you what you are right now? Come sunny.

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Speaker 2: That's yours then.

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Speaker 12: Brend No, no, no, no, no, no, no about what

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Speaker 12: you're doing right now?

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Speaker 2: What you mean what I'm doing right now? I'm at

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Speaker 12: Oh oh oh, so you you at work calling me

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Speaker 12: about some bull parking spots.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, oh look at the cussing Christian. Now look

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Speaker 12: No, look at the cuss no you no, no, no,

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Speaker 12: matter of fact you. Okay, if you want to do something,

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Speaker 12: let's do it now, parking lot. I don't, I don't care.

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Speaker 2: We'll be at okay. Okay.

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Speaker 12: That's one thing you're not gonna do is disrespect me.

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Speaker 12: I'm telling you that right now. Brother, Calvin, you bring,

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Speaker 12: I'm gonna fold you like a wet piece of paper.

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Speaker 12: You don't know who you're with. Okay. I didn't been

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Speaker 12: I'm gonna tell you that right now. So if you

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Speaker 12: lot right now. I give you an hour to get

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Speaker 12: there your piece of tonight.

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Speaker 11: Now you're trying to scare me with your no no,

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Speaker 11: with your background. What it is you're trying to scare

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Speaker 11: me with your background or something like then you I

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Speaker 11: ain't know you had been in jail with the wrong one.

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Speaker 11: I'm just gonna say this. Do you know, Lester that

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Speaker 12: Would you try by yourself out of this you're talking about?

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Speaker 7: I know Lester?

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Speaker 11: Okay, okay, Leicester is the person to tell me to

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Speaker 11: call you. This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 11: Morning Brenda, your boy Lester in the parking lot got

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Speaker 11: me the car. I brought the lockdown out there, you man?

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Speaker 11: Did I bring the lockdown out of.

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Speaker 12: Strangle? Y'all got me out here talking reckless cast? Go ahead.

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Speaker 2: For hanging in there, bro, and do this for me. Man,

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Speaker 2: tell me this. What is the baddest and I mean

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Speaker 2: the baddest radio show in the land?

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Speaker 12: Man Steve Harvey Radios too.

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Speaker 11: Man, Hey man, if you see somebody's sunny pull up

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Speaker 11: in a van, show them some love.

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Speaker 4: But if you show off some love, I might have

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Speaker 4: to call out this weekit my heart can't teach you,

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Speaker 4: all right, nephew, thank you?

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Speaker 10: Coming up next, it is as the clo or Chief

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Speaker 10: Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building right after this.

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Speaker 10: Spring is in the air and a leave's long lasting

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Speaker 10: pain relief is here to keep you moving, whether it's gardening,

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Speaker 1: That's where a leave can keep you going. With just

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Speaker 1: one dose. A leave gives you.

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Speaker 10: Long lasting body pain relief for up to twelve hours

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Speaker 10: from sun up to sundown. A Leave's got your back.

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Speaker 10: Try a leave use as directed for minor aches and pains.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the half of the.

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Speaker 10: Hour, and entertainment news, former head of the Department of

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Speaker 10: Homeland Security, Christy Nomes's husband is a cross dresser.

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about that.

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Speaker 10: Tiger Woods is seeking treatment after his DUI arrest.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, we'll talk about it.

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Speaker 10: And singer Brandy said Juan Ye Morris from Boys to

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Speaker 10: Men took advantage of her during their due to their

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Speaker 10: age difference. We'll talk about all of these stories at

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Speaker 10: the top of the hour.

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Speaker 1: Right now.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, it is time to ask the c l O,

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Speaker 10: our Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll get into it all right. This is from

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Speaker 1: Taylor and East Orange.

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Speaker 10: Taylor writes, my husband works from home and refuses to

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Speaker 10: clean up or have dinner ready when I get home.

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Speaker 10: The first thing he asked me is what's for dinner?

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Speaker 10: His schedule is more flexible, so I think it's only

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Speaker 1: Am I asking for too much?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely? Not rich is a participation sport. Show you that's

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Speaker 2: what it is. Come on now, and now I know.

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Speaker 2: Traditionally there are old school roles.

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Speaker 6: Man work, woman clean, take care of house, take maybe

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Speaker 6: make maybe well man, yeah that's nice. Wahoo talk you

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Speaker 6: know we use in the cave all that work. I'm

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Speaker 6: just telling you right now, man, you have to participate.

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Speaker 2: And she works.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he works from home, but he you know, he

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Speaker 1: could still do some stuff.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 6: I don't know what working from home means. But you

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Speaker 6: do have if ain't nobody watching me. Uh, I don't

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Speaker 6: really have a job I could do from home.

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Speaker 1: I got to I got yeah.

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Speaker 2: I can't do fairly few from home.

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Speaker 10: No, that would be interesting if you did, though, I

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Speaker 10: have all those different people at your house.

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Speaker 2: Pop surveyed on the refrigerator.

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Speaker 7: Let's go come on.

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Speaker 2: Oh man, that's crazy. I wouldn't even think about it.

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00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:20,720
Speaker 10: Like that. Oh hell no, all right, So yeah, she's

443
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,320
Speaker 10: not asking for too much, all right. Moving on to

444
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:28,200
Speaker 10: Linda and Chattanooga. Linda Wright, I'm dating my best friend's ex.

445
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,400
Speaker 10: They dated twenty years ago, and she gave us her blessing.

446
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:35,920
Speaker 10: But when he's around, she flirts and brings up the past.

447
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:40,040
Speaker 10: If she says remember when to him one more time,

448
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:41,399
Speaker 10: I'm going to lose it.

449
00:24:41,800 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 1: Is she purposely doing this?

450
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:44,120
Speaker 11: Hell?

451
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, how.

452
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 2: You accidentally say remember when?

453
00:24:50,840 --> 00:24:51,520
Speaker 1: Remember when?

454
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:53,880
Speaker 3: Remember when?

455
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:54,040
Speaker 8: We?

456
00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:55,120
Speaker 2: Yeah?

457
00:24:55,640 --> 00:24:56,920
Speaker 1: But why are you dating him?

458
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:57,200
Speaker 6: Though?

459
00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,240
Speaker 1: I mean I know all the men in the world.

460
00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:02,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, No, no, no, no, no, like it's okay to date.

461
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 6: If she dated him twenty years ago, y'all didn't have

462
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 6: a relationship, then why are y'all together? Why why are

463
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 6: the three of y'all someway to That's the stupid part right.

464
00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: There, because the two women are best friends.

465
00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:25,320
Speaker 6: Well, we're gonna see how long deck that's not fit

466
00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 6: to be the case anymore.

467
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:30,159
Speaker 10: No, no, because if she just said it, if she

468
00:25:30,280 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 10: says remember when died him one more time, it's gonna.

469
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 1: She can't wait to say remember She's going to say

470
00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:43,520
Speaker 1: it again. But twenty years ago though, Come on, come on,

471
00:25:44,600 --> 00:25:44,959
Speaker 1: all right.

472
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:51,160
Speaker 10: Moving on to Marlon in Oxford, Marlin writes, I gave

473
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 10: my mom's son five hundred. I gave my son's mom

474
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 10: five hundred dollars for his graduation expenses. She bought him

475
00:25:58,440 --> 00:25:59,360
Speaker 10: designer sneakers.

476
00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,480
Speaker 1: With the money. My son called me to get more money.

477
00:26:02,920 --> 00:26:03,600
Speaker 1: I ain't got it.

478
00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 10: It took a lot for me to pull an extra

479
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:11,160
Speaker 10: five hundred dollars together. Is this my problem or his mom's, Well,

480
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,440
Speaker 10: it's your problem. Well he already gave five hundred, he's.

481
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:17,960
Speaker 2: Saying, and the boy wants some more money.

482
00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, well for his graduation expenses. Okay, So he said,

483
00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 10: all right, so what should he do?

484
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 2: Then put this gown on and walk. That's what you

485
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 2: better do, yeap walk.

486
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,720
Speaker 6: I would tell him, I said, look, man, I gave

487
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:42,320
Speaker 6: you mom to get your graduation gift five hundred dollars,

488
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 6: and she chose to buy your shoes.

489
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 2: That was my gift for the graduation.

490
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,200
Speaker 6: So you can explain it to him like that, maybe

491
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,119
Speaker 6: he'll understand, and if he don't, then you have a

492
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 6: decision to make.

493
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:58,399
Speaker 2: How you handle it next time, or do you just

494
00:26:58,520 --> 00:26:59,840
Speaker 2: deal directly with your boy?

495
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:06,000
Speaker 6: You know that's kind of a tough one because if

496
00:27:06,040 --> 00:27:08,320
Speaker 6: he's eighteen, you're paying child support.

497
00:27:08,920 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, you can give a shock to the gate and

498
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:12,639
Speaker 1: when he comes eighteen, you know.

499
00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 6: And after eighteen you could deal directly with him. Well

500
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,280
Speaker 6: you can still have a relationship with him and say, hey,

501
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 6: I pay child support, but I want to do this

502
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 6: for you, which is what you did with the sneakers.

503
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 6: So yeah, but at one point in time, you have

504
00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 6: to be truthful with your kids. I've had to have

505
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:32,479
Speaker 6: these real conversations with my sons about what really happened.

506
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: So and five hundred dollars is a lot of money.

507
00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,720
Speaker 1: I mean, you know he said he had just grape

508
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:38,679
Speaker 1: to put that together.

509
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 11: So yeah, you know rolls everywhere you're going, just keep

510
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 11: waying the rope. Ain't nobody gonna see underneath the rod

511
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:49,400
Speaker 11: robe to graduate camp and gown every were the whole

512
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 11: weekend where the rope?

513
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,680
Speaker 1: What's that? And that's gonna do what?

514
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 2: Right now? We ain't got to spend five hundred or nothing? Now,

515
00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 2: just quare the robe you go, I'm with you, Steve

516
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:10,440
Speaker 2: with you Rod? Why we are still going overall?

517
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: Don't you walk? Push one?

518
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 2: She won't.

519
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is kind of a problem for U. See

520
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:22,200
Speaker 1: this right here?

521
00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 10: Yeah, the mom all right? Last one, Steve, last one.

522
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 10: This is from Vett in Stamford. Vet writes, My boyfriend

523
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 10: and I moved in together. He told me that he

524
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 10: would use the bathroom in the hallway and let me

525
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 10: use the one in our bedroom. But he wakes up

526
00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 10: at night and he uses my bathroom.

527
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:46,680
Speaker 1: His aim is always off? How do I keep him

528
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: out of there?

529
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 2: Wow? I don't standing on the problem. Y'all want y'all

530
00:28:54,760 --> 00:28:56,120
Speaker 2: move in together? Yeah?

531
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 1: She wants her own bathroom because it's crazy.

532
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 11: Heat them all on that wall everything In the morning,

533
00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 11: he done wore the wall out everything.

534
00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 2: Who did you marry?

535
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: They're gonna have to break up. This is unacceptable. It

536
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: don't take.

537
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 2: I've been peeling, Okay. I just want you to know it.

538
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 2: At some point in time, you're gonna have to master

539
00:29:32,480 --> 00:29:37,480
Speaker 2: this thing now, grown man. Rule number one. This is

540
00:29:37,560 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 2: how you have to make it works up. The seat

541
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 2: up is not an option. It has to be up.

542
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:45,160
Speaker 2: There is nowhere around this.

543
00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,760
Speaker 6: When you're done and you get a little sprinkle sprinkle

544
00:29:49,880 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 6: on the realm of it, you gotta take some tissue

545
00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 6: and wipe it off.

546
00:29:53,880 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 2: Flush And didn't wash your hands. Next thing you do.

547
00:29:58,520 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 6: You can't have just a floor around there, cause you

548
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 6: tink a tinkle on the float. That little drop it

549
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:06,200
Speaker 6: hit the float. She come and sit down, put her

550
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 6: foot in it.

551
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 2: She said, to be mad.

552
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 10: Don't get me upset this morning, just thinking about it.

553
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:19,880
Speaker 10: All right, we gotta go, Colo, Thank you, coming up

554
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:23,840
Speaker 10: to the timey hour. Yeah, we'll have some entertainment news

555
00:30:24,040 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 10: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. According

556
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 10: to TMZ, former Department of Homeland Security Secretary Christine Nome

557
00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 10: is devastated over the allegations.

558
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,880
Speaker 1: Her husband of thirty three years.

559
00:30:42,960 --> 00:30:45,880
Speaker 10: His name is Brian Nome, is a cross dresser who

560
00:30:45,960 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 10: takes selfies yeah, wearing oversized fake boobs. According to The

561
00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 10: Daily Mail, Byron snap pictures of himself wearing oversized fake

562
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 10: breasts and chatted with adult performers from the bembo Fication

563
00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:06,520
Speaker 10: fetish about their massively augmented booths. Other pictures allegedly published

564
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:12,440
Speaker 10: show Byron wearing women's clothing now Yeah. Christine nom responded

565
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 10: to these allegations, and her people released a statement.

566
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,880
Speaker 1: They said, quote miss not here, it is Steve.

567
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 10: Miss Nomans devastated the family was blindsided by this, and

568
00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 10: they asked for privacy and prayers at this time.

569
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 6: Privacy and prayer. Pray, No administration, y'all wire privacy and prayer.

570
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 6: Where that come from? Right? Oh no.

571
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:47,120
Speaker 2: Running into No no no no, no that charge.

572
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 6: Oh no no no no, your your president of your party.

573
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 6: Don't give privacy and prayers to nobody.

574
00:31:58,040 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: Hm hmm.

575
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 2: He has set the tone for how to treat people.

576
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:07,320
Speaker 6: And it is as rude and obnoxious behavior as you

577
00:32:07,400 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 6: can perform publicly in front of a camera. And it's

578
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 6: okay with the head of your administration. So no, no, no, no, no,

579
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 6: no no, don't come over here talking about no, no, we're.

580
00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 2: Not fred for you.

581
00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 11: Now.

582
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: This is different though, This is why different?

583
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 6: Yeah what And.

584
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: They haven't had this problem, this particular problem before you.

585
00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 6: And well no, no, no, no no, this is embarrassing.

586
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 6: No no no no, let's go and and let me

587
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:46,840
Speaker 6: tell you something. This is that this party and administration

588
00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 6: stands on that. Oh they don't. They ain't nobody free

589
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 6: to do nothing in this country according to them. But man, yeah,

590
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 6: I've seen the picture.

591
00:32:58,280 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 2: I saw it.

592
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, sir, this dude right here, Well let me

593
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 6: say this, Well, have we not seen this before, have

594
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,360
Speaker 6: we Where have we not seen the family have to

595
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,440
Speaker 6: be surprised when they.

596
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 2: Discover some crazy activity from the man in the family.

597
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:24,959
Speaker 10: Well yeah, yeah, okay, you're generally speaking, you're saying, right,

598
00:33:25,680 --> 00:33:26,560
Speaker 10: you can't.

599
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 2: Get privacy on this right here. No you can't.

600
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,480
Speaker 1: It's out there. Yeah, it's too late. The privacy part

601
00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:33,920
Speaker 1: is over.

602
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 2: It's too late.

603
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 8: You're the former secretary of the Department of Homeland Security.

604
00:33:39,840 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 2: We all know who she is.

605
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: You know she walks the cats, you know Christinoans. So nope,

606
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: you can't get privacy.

607
00:33:46,920 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 2: No, she said she is he asking for prap.

608
00:33:57,560 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 10: Shut up, Telly. Family is asking for privacy and prayer.

609
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,000
Speaker 10: The pictures are out there.

610
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:06,800
Speaker 3: No, no, no, no, no, no.

611
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:08,440
Speaker 2: Listen to me.

612
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 6: It's not going to be no privacy. We can that's

613
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 6: off the tape. My question is is do he want

614
00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:15,839
Speaker 6: to prayer?

615
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:21,239
Speaker 14: It was family, He's a part of the family. The

616
00:34:21,480 --> 00:34:25,520
Speaker 14: family don't like praying for people that don't want to

617
00:34:25,600 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 14: be praised. I have found that to be a waste

618
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 14: of time.

619
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:35,719
Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on. Do what you like, but

620
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:36,680
Speaker 1: that's what they want.

621
00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 2: Okay, where is my bra we my clothes? I can't

622
00:34:42,760 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 2: find none of my stuff.

623
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: All right, we're moving on.

624
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 10: This is kind of a devastating story right here. Brandy

625
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:54,239
Speaker 10: has opened up. The singer Brandy has opened up like

626
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:57,800
Speaker 10: never before. She has a new memoir called Phases, and

627
00:34:57,960 --> 00:35:00,600
Speaker 10: she said she dated boys to mend singer One Morris

628
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:03,800
Speaker 10: back when she was just sixteen years old and he

629
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:07,160
Speaker 10: was twenty two, six years older than her. And now

630
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 10: it feels like he quote took advantage of her youth

631
00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 10: and her I guess naive day. However, back in twenty

632
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 10: twenty one, juan Ye had a different account of their relationship.

633
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 10: Juanier posted on social media that he and Brandy were

634
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 10: friends and once she became of age, they had a

635
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:31,279
Speaker 10: relationship and fell in love. Brandy also wrote quote, I

636
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,400
Speaker 10: was not a fast girl with a crush. I was

637
00:35:33,480 --> 00:35:36,840
Speaker 10: not a dramatic teenager who couldn't handle rejection. I was

638
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 10: not an unstable, obsessive fan. I was a child and

639
00:35:42,280 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 10: he was an adult. And it's time the world understood

640
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 10: the difference.

641
00:35:47,200 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 6: Well said man, I have a question about that. Now, Yeah,

642
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:53,640
Speaker 6: I have a question about that.

643
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 1: Oh, oh it's her true, Yeah it is well her book.

644
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:03,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, y'all, I'm just saying though.

645
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 6: Now, first of all, now I know, I know, I

646
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:11,600
Speaker 6: know Brandy's mama, who has been her manager.

647
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:12,720
Speaker 2: Her entire career.

648
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:14,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, very involved.

649
00:36:14,840 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 2: I don't see her.

650
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 6: Allowing sonya that sister put some time in with them kids.

651
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:26,719
Speaker 6: I can't see her allowing a twenty two year old

652
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:31,080
Speaker 6: man to date her sixteen year old daughter, Brandan Hano

653
00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:31,960
Speaker 6: con sixteen.

654
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 1: Well, she said she lied to her mom.

655
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 8: More passages from the book what I saw today Internet,

656
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 8: she lies she would sneak out and things like that.

657
00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:48,960
Speaker 6: So sneak out, sneak out the house. Yeah at sixteen. Yeah,

658
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 6: Brandy mama, y'all, man, y'all need to come home. Man,

659
00:36:53,760 --> 00:36:55,879
Speaker 6: y'all need to brand book.

660
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:02,440
Speaker 10: Her book is called Faces all right, coming up at

661
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 10: twenty minutes after the hour tomorrow is good Friday, guys.

662
00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,560
Speaker 10: And so when we come back, we're going to discuss

663
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 10: the perfect fish fry right after this.

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Speaker 10: and eating fish, of course is part of the tradition

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Speaker 10: in our culture.

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Speaker 1: So here's the question. Well, yeah, fish on Friday Friday.

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Speaker 1: Oh good, good fry fish.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna have it. I ain't no doubt about it.

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Speaker 10: Well, here's the question, what's the secret to perfectly frying

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Speaker 10: some fish? To the perfect fish fry? Well, let's go

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Speaker 10: to Tommy, say me, come on ahead, Tommy.

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Speaker 11: All right, what we got Let's see, we got to

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Speaker 11: have my mama seasoning. Let's start with that. We just

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Speaker 11: don't have a whole lot of salt in it, but

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Speaker 11: it has sea salt in it. If you're gonna have

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Speaker 11: to have the best corner, I'm gonna mix. You're gonna

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Speaker 11: season that coin meal too. Even though you're gonna seizon

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Speaker 11: the fish, You're gonna season that cor meal. Get that

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Speaker 11: grip that grease. Hit that grease by three, about three fifty,

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Speaker 11: get it about three fifty. And let me say, let

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Speaker 11: me tell you what we're cooking. And if I'm with him,

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Speaker 11: we get to get bass. You know, you can't just

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Speaker 11: go buy bass. We get fresh if you if you

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Speaker 11: would understand, you got fresh water.

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Speaker 2: Bag.

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Speaker 11: Everybody ain't got that. That's that's something of the best.

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Speaker 11: Eat Mama gonna have what they call crappy.

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Speaker 2: That's good.

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Speaker 6: No man, croppy, I never had that. Crappy tastes better

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Speaker 6: than bags. I love cropping.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, better fish. Yeah, I love catfish.

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Speaker 2: Some people don't like catfish.

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Speaker 11: I do like it.

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Speaker 1: I still like love. It's not the black people, I know.

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Speaker 2: But go ahead, I'll.

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Speaker 11: Tell you what.

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Speaker 6: I'll tell you what if you don't like If you

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Speaker 6: don't like catfish, if you go to Mississippi and go

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Speaker 6: to the cock of the Walk, they're gonna change your mind.

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Speaker 2: Body of the meadow. I'm trying to let you know now.

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Speaker 6: And yeah, you can put your thumb down if you

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Speaker 6: want to, because you don't know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: She's from Mississippi, you're talking. Why are you mad?

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Speaker 2: Though? She got full degrees. She don't know everything.

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Speaker 14: Fish in Mississippi, though, Come on, Tommy thirty years gonna

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Speaker 14: walk shut up?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well maybe back then, red fish, red.

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Speaker 2: Red fish, red snapper. You can cook all that if

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Speaker 2: you want to.

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Speaker 11: That's that's but to me, red snapper bet on the grill,

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Speaker 11: if you know what I'm saying, that's a lot better

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Speaker 11: on the trip.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well you know, man, see, I started frying fish

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Speaker 6: when I was homeless, so I ain't have a whole lot.

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Speaker 2: I had salt, pepper, corn meal. It was dishes. I

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Speaker 2: stole the bottle, well I got Oh God, tell the

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Speaker 2: true though. It's okay, how much I really stole.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna come out with a new book, stealing for

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Speaker 6: living coaslaw spaghetti.

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Speaker 1: That's how we ate it. Catfish, coal flaw and spaghetti.

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Speaker 11: Yeah yeah, but I hated as a kid because your

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Speaker 11: mama mushed all your fish up for his time to eat.

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Speaker 2: Just mush it up. Make sure ain't no bones and bones.

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Speaker 10: Yeah all right, all right, coming up a third, four

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Speaker 10: minutes after the hour. Why is everyone so angry these days?

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Speaker 10: We got to talk about that. Right after this, we

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Speaker 10: do everybody's ad.

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Speaker 1: You're listening hard Morning show.

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Speaker 10: Yesterday, you guys recall we were talking about why is

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Speaker 10: everyone so angry? What is the problem is that what

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Speaker 10: we see on the news. Is it the political divide?

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Speaker 10: Is it racism?

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Speaker 1: Is it the war? Is it the economic uncertainty?

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Speaker 8: What is it?

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Speaker 10: We've seen viral road rage, aggressive videos, not to mention

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Speaker 10: all the fights and all that stuff on social media.

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Speaker 1: So what do you think is the problem? Is it

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Speaker 1: d all of the above or what is going on?

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Speaker 10: Because everybody's angry, everybody's cussing each other out.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's just fighting.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, where's the where are your manners? Where's the kindness

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Speaker 10: these days?

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Speaker 11: The fights, the fights I see on social media, they

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Speaker 11: just it's NonStop.

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Speaker 2: It's ever swee. It's just like, man, they fighting everywhere

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Speaker 2: for real.

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Speaker 7: You know.

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Speaker 6: I think a lot of it because of social media.

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Speaker 6: He is for social media. It's amazing what these people

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Speaker 6: are doing for clicks and views now. And then also

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Speaker 6: I think it's the condition of the world that we

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Speaker 6: live in. We live in in some times, man, where

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Speaker 6: it ain't a lot of happy news on TV.

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Speaker 2: So listen to me. If you're listening to music that's.

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Speaker 1: Negative, yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 6: If you turn on the news and it's negative. You

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Speaker 6: turn on social media and here comes some more negativity. Now,

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Speaker 6: I guess what if you allow that to inundate your mind,

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Speaker 6: then you're going to become a.

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Speaker 2: Part of it.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Period, That's why, man, I've changed, you know, I like

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Speaker 6: you know, I still love forty eight hours.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the first forty eight that's just for me.

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Speaker 6: You know. I love to see how they get caught

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Speaker 6: what y'all doing, and it helps me when I'm talking

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Speaker 6: to my kids and.

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Speaker 1: You like the interrogation room and everybody fall apart.

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Speaker 2: He nobody survived that room like that in there, you

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Speaker 2: and him.

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Speaker 6: Man.

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Speaker 2: But if they get you uncomfortable, you wanna get out

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Speaker 2: of That's what you tell it, h.

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Speaker 7: That you know what.

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Speaker 6: I started watching because I'm becoming more spiritual, not not

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Speaker 6: not in a sense that that's all I want to

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Speaker 6: talk about it. I lost my sense of humor because

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Speaker 6: I'm being holy. Now, that ain't it. That ain't it

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Speaker 6: ain't even close to that. But I've started watching a

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Speaker 6: different series and I and I started I downloaded this app.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to tell you what it is yet, Scott,

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Speaker 2: see how it worked for me.

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Speaker 6: But I started watching the different things, like I'm watching

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Speaker 6: this new series called House of David.

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Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, I said I was gonna watch that this weekend.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm gonna tell you, man, the story of David

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Speaker 6: and Goliath, because it gets into what the real reason

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Speaker 6: why David fought golife in the first place, and it's

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Speaker 6: actually in there because people don't understand. He didn't go

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Speaker 6: out there to be the hero. Because the king had

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Speaker 6: promised whoever defeated this giant would rule over the land.

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Speaker 6: He had another choice, or his daughter's hand in marriage.

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Speaker 6: David used to sit in his window and watch that

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Speaker 6: girl go by in that carriage, and people was cheering

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Speaker 6: and all that that they wanted the girl.

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Speaker 2: So when the option came about, so when King Saul said,

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Speaker 2: you know what you want?

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Speaker 6: You want this? Hey, I want that girl, man, I

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Speaker 6: want that chick would fly. So I've been I've been

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Speaker 6: watching stuff like that because it helps me. It's really

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Speaker 6: helped me learn myself because you know, a lot of

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Speaker 6: times when you read the Bible, you think these stories

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Speaker 6: are just in there, but they take they take this survey.

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Speaker 2: It's a really extensive survey.

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Speaker 6: You take on this app, and the app turns you

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Speaker 6: your personality, your gun into a biblical figure. Oh wow,

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Speaker 6: who are your closest to? And I'm a cross between

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Speaker 6: Paul and David whoa.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, that's something.

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Speaker 6: It really opened my eyes. So when I was looking

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Speaker 6: at this stuff about Paul out it became more relatable

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Speaker 6: while I understood him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, uh coming up next, thank

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Speaker 1: you for that.

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Speaker 3: Come welcome.

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Speaker 2: To fight.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.

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Speaker 10: Took a heart, don't worry about that. Yeah, all good,

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Speaker 10: it's all good, all right. Coming up next to his

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Speaker 10: the nephew and the prank phone call for today. Right

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Speaker 10: after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

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Speaker 10: four minutes after. It's my strawberry letter for today and

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Speaker 10: the subject is the Big Reveal. We'll get into that

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Speaker 10: find out what they're revealing. H Right after this, I mean,

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Speaker 10: right after this prank with the nephew, what you got

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Speaker 10: for us?

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Speaker 1: Neph I got.

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Speaker 11: Let's see, you know, we got to do this right

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Speaker 11: for them as we go into Easter weekie, we got

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Speaker 11: to do this right. This right here is colorful adoption.

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Speaker 11: Colorful adopt you'll.

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Speaker 2: Want you'll want to just make a plane. Can we

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Speaker 2: make a plane? Yeah?

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Speaker 11: Somebody someone can adopt you? Why kids, that's it, okay,

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Speaker 11: somebody adopt the white kid.

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Speaker 1: What you're not gonna go Easter week?

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Speaker 11: Yeah? Yeah, yeah, somebody gonna get these keys. Now we

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Speaker 11: got these white keys. We're gonna do it all right,

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Speaker 11: this is a reverse different stroke.

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Speaker 2: Just what this? Let's go cat up Colorful Adoption.

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Speaker 9: Hello.

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Speaker 7: Hello, I'm trying to reach a Valerie Valerie Hill. Listen,

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Speaker 7: my name is Kadem, I'm from Adoptions. I'm giving you

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Speaker 7: a call. I'm sure you're aware that we're coming by tomorrow,

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Speaker 7: and uh, we were great.

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Speaker 15: First of all, I wanted to say thank you for.

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Speaker 7: Being a part of this adoption thing for black history.

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Speaker 7: We really greatly appreciate what you're doing. We want you

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Speaker 7: to know that we have your scheduled tomorrow that we're

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Speaker 7: gonna drop two Caucasian kids off at your household and uh, hello,

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Speaker 7: you're gonna drop them off at my house right right? Uh?

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Speaker 7: Are you familiar with what's going on with Colorful? Now

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Speaker 7: you're okay? I mean, well wait a minute, hang on

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Speaker 7: you your name has been.

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Speaker 15: Submitted to us that you are volunteering to take in.

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Speaker 7: Two Caucasian kids. Here is during Black History Month, and

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Speaker 7: you're going to teach them as much as you can

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Speaker 7: about Black history for a week. They're going to be

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Speaker 7: with you for seven days. How many rooms do you

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Speaker 7: have in your apartment so we can make sure that

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Speaker 7: the kids have adequate space?

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Speaker 13: Can you tell me who's submitted my name?

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Speaker 7: Ma'am?

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Speaker 15: Can you tell me?

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Speaker 7: Uh? Do you guys have a back door so that

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Speaker 7: you know there's an as an access? Uh? I'm sorry?

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Speaker 13: Where are you calling from again?

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Speaker 7: I am calling from Adoptions? Well, what I do need

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Speaker 7: to know is I do need to know where the

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Speaker 7: kids have transportation? Do you have a vehicle that is

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Speaker 7: definitely yours?

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Speaker 13: The kids won't have transportation. I'm sorry you're asking me? No,

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Speaker 13: who are you again?

885
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:54,200
Speaker 15: My name is Kadeen, ma'am.

886
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,320
Speaker 7: I'm calling for adoptions, okay?

887
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,240
Speaker 13: And who submitted my who submitted my information?

888
00:49:00,000 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 7: I have adequate space to accommodate the children?

889
00:49:02,560 --> 00:49:05,000
Speaker 13: No, who submitted my name to you to say that

890
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 13: I was gonna take two more? Two more?

891
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 2: Ma'am?

892
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 7: I'm asking you do you have adequate space? And do

893
00:49:10,080 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 7: you are you going to be having enough food to,

894
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 7: you know, for the foods to for the kids.

895
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 13: I know because I have three children. I'm trying to

896
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Speaker 13: feed feed three over here.

897
00:49:18,440 --> 00:49:20,240
Speaker 16: And no, I don't have enough food.

898
00:49:20,120 --> 00:49:22,759
Speaker 13: To feed two more children. Now you're calling me, and

899
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:24,480
Speaker 13: who gave you my information?

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Speaker 7: Ma'am? I'm going to ask you another time. How many

901
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 7: bedrooms do you have in your apartment unit so we

902
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:31,880
Speaker 7: can make sure that the shitty kids are accommodated properly.

903
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,399
Speaker 13: No, don't bring any kids to my house.

904
00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:34,759
Speaker 6: I don't.

905
00:49:34,800 --> 00:49:37,239
Speaker 16: I don't care, no what color they are and what

906
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 16: you need?

907
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 13: Who submitted my information to you?

908
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 7: Okay, ma'am, let me ask you something. How long have

909
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 7: you had? How long have you been on your job?

910
00:49:45,600 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 15: Okay?

911
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 16: What the I don't know?

912
00:49:49,600 --> 00:49:52,800
Speaker 7: Hell nom, I mean your name has been submitted.

913
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:56,480
Speaker 13: But let's say that's I'm not interested.

914
00:49:56,800 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: You're not.

915
00:49:58,920 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 15: About two white right and my uh no man' oh no,

916
00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 15: we're not.

917
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:06,680
Speaker 16: No, that's okay.

918
00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:09,160
Speaker 13: I don't have time. I worked ten dollars a day.

919
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 7: I don't have time for it.

920
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:13,680
Speaker 15: It's okay. You can drop the you know.

921
00:50:13,680 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 16: What's gonna happen to them?

922
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 13: Be dropping, mama, that it's gonna be right where you

923
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 13: drop them out there when you come back to get

924
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:18,600
Speaker 13: them next week.

925
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 7: Okay, okay, man, Michael, have you somebody has submitted your

926
00:50:22,960 --> 00:50:25,359
Speaker 7: name that you don't mind volunteering to take?

927
00:50:25,400 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 13: You know, you can take them to the to submit

928
00:50:27,719 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 13: it my name. Take them to that.

929
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:30,839
Speaker 10: I don't need them.

930
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 8: I don't need them.

931
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:32,880
Speaker 13: I work ten dollars a day.

932
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Speaker 16: Ta't come to whoever submits. How about you take them.

933
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:38,879
Speaker 7: I'm I work for the agency, ma'am. I'm I'm here

934
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 7: to try and get these kids.

935
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 15: A great place to get educated. And that's okay.

936
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:48,640
Speaker 13: I'm not even take nobody, no, no, thank you, and

937
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,480
Speaker 13: you have ever tild.

938
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 16: You this, take them to take them to that.

939
00:50:52,640 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 13: I have three children on my own I'm taking care

940
00:50:54,920 --> 00:50:55,800
Speaker 13: of that.

941
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:57,200
Speaker 16: Will tell you that.

942
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,200
Speaker 7: I don't know exact who submitted your name. All I

943
00:51:01,280 --> 00:51:02,680
Speaker 7: know is that that they said that you would be

944
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 7: good as far as taking.

945
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 15: Care of my children and teaching them about black kids

946
00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:07,439
Speaker 15: to them.

947
00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 13: I told you this, ma'am.

948
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:11,799
Speaker 7: I don't you know. Like I said, I'm working here

949
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,720
Speaker 7: adoptions and I'm.

950
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:16,120
Speaker 14: Who do you work for?

951
00:51:16,560 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 13: And I want three kids of my own? I worked

952
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:22,440
Speaker 13: ten hours a day. I'm teaching about black.

953
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:25,280
Speaker 7: History mode okay, I mean it is it a problem

954
00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:29,000
Speaker 7: teaching two more children and two Caucasian children who probably

955
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 7: don't know as much about black history.

956
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 16: It is a problem.

957
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:33,919
Speaker 13: I worked ten hours a day, I got three.

958
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 16: I'm trying to feed on my own.

959
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:37,160
Speaker 1: What are you what?

960
00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 16: You didn't take them children to that who told you.

961
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 7: To bring them to me?

962
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 15: How about that, ma'am?

963
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:45,120
Speaker 7: I don't know. I'm not at liberty to give out

964
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,239
Speaker 7: the names on who exactly submitted your name.

965
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:50,759
Speaker 16: I want the name of the black who far to

966
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 16: bring some kids to my I try as the kid's wife.

967
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,440
Speaker 16: I want the name of the told you that.

968
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 7: That's what I want them. I don't have their names

969
00:52:01,080 --> 00:52:01,560
Speaker 7: in front of me.

970
00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 13: I don't told you to bring these two kids tomorrow.

971
00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 7: Like I said, I don't know who told me that.

972
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:09,680
Speaker 7: All I know is what scheduled to drop them off

973
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:10,919
Speaker 7: at ten o'clock tomorrow morning.

974
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 13: What kind of sense they from there? I said, when

975
00:52:14,200 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 13: you come back to get them, I didn't sign up

976
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:17,399
Speaker 13: for any more kids.

977
00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 16: Give me the name by the person who told you.

978
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,879
Speaker 15: To bring me from said, I don't have the name

979
00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:24,560
Speaker 15: in front of me, And actually.

980
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 7: I'm not at liberty to let you know who submitted

981
00:52:26,920 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 7: your name. All I know who was scheduled to drop

982
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 7: two kids off at ten o'clock tomorrow.

983
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:31,759
Speaker 8: Did you know?

984
00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 13: I don't know what the I've been asking you how

985
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:36,680
Speaker 13: the signed me up to bring two white kids.

986
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:38,760
Speaker 16: I don't even have a problem with the kids.

987
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 13: Bill right, they could be Vexican agents. That's not the point.

988
00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 15: Who gave you my I don't know who submitted your name.

989
00:52:45,760 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 15: I don't know that. Oh, now you about to.

990
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,239
Speaker 13: Know who gave you my information because they know not

991
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 13: have been a mile.

992
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:53,759
Speaker 15: All I know is, ma'am, I'm skeedtued to bring those

993
00:52:53,880 --> 00:52:55,439
Speaker 15: kids over there at ten o'clock in the morning.

994
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 16: Okay, Oh that's who them told you that say, don't

995
00:52:59,360 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 16: bring no kids to my house. I don't even care

996
00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,960
Speaker 16: if they wife, just don't bring two more kids to

997
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:06,840
Speaker 16: my mouse Carrie Carrio.

998
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:10,520
Speaker 15: I will see you in the morning, Miss Valerie. Okay,

999
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 15: I have one more thing I need to tell you

1000
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:15,280
Speaker 15: about tomorrow. Are you listening?

1001
00:53:16,080 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 8: You?

1002
00:53:16,680 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 15: Are you listening?

1003
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:18,200
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1004
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 13: I'm you about to say to me right now?

1005
00:53:23,440 --> 00:53:26,520
Speaker 7: Is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1006
00:53:26,840 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 15: You just got branked by your coworker name.

1007
00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 16: I'm not three kids and them Dad ain't Oh god,

1008
00:53:43,360 --> 00:53:43,840
Speaker 16: I got you.

1009
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:46,759
Speaker 15: Right.

1010
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:51,640
Speaker 7: I'm all right, all right, Valerie, I got one more

1011
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:54,320
Speaker 7: thing to ask you. What is what is the baddest

1012
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:57,359
Speaker 7: And I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land,

1013
00:53:58,080 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 7: Steve every morning.

1014
00:53:59,480 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 2: So we're gonna get these kids in here. They're gonna

1015
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 2: learn some black history, is what they're gonna do. You're

1016
00:54:09,719 --> 00:54:11,000
Speaker 2: gonna learn. Yeah.

1017
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:12,800
Speaker 11: You know who else we're gonna have in there with

1018
00:54:12,960 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 11: with these white kids is in there learning this black history?

1019
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 6: Oh?

1020
00:54:17,120 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 11: Nick Kennedy, so he can learn some black history. Okay,

1021
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 11: you know black host was Republicans back in the day.

1022
00:54:24,680 --> 00:54:26,640
Speaker 11: We know that, Nick law.

1023
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 2: You don't.

1024
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 11: You know it was flip flopped back in the day.

1025
00:54:33,840 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 11: But clearly you missed that day of class, of that

1026
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 11: week that they was teaching it.

1027
00:54:37,960 --> 00:54:40,120
Speaker 2: That's what it is. My daddy used to say, it's

1028
00:54:40,120 --> 00:54:42,400
Speaker 2: all right to shut up. It's alright to.

1029
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 10: Do it now.

1030
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:44,520
Speaker 2: It's okay.

1031
00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:46,239
Speaker 1: You frustrated enough?

1032
00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, Nick, make me tired. He listen.

1033
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:53,319
Speaker 11: I'm gonna be in Knoxville on April tenth. All right,

1034
00:54:53,480 --> 00:54:55,800
Speaker 11: I'm gonna be down there at the Hilton Downtown. It

1035
00:54:56,000 --> 00:55:01,279
Speaker 11: is the ninetie South Central Province Council. Uh, this will

1036
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:03,880
Speaker 11: be the commedist show. I would be there. This is

1037
00:55:03,960 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 11: cop Appaside Fraternity Incorporated. All right, All right on, let

1038
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 11: y'all know next week where I'm going after that, because

1039
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 11: right now just it's Nick.

1040
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 1: It's just Nick. Didn't owners and Barrows?

1041
00:55:18,719 --> 00:55:21,480
Speaker 11: All right now with the Democrat and who was Republican

1042
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:24,759
Speaker 11: back in the eighteen We do know you don't know Nick?

1043
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:28,560
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1061
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Speaker 2: be guide it for you. Here it is Strawberry Lot.

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Speaker 10: All right, if you thank you? The subject the big Reveal.

1065
00:56:43,920 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 10: Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been in a secret relationship and

1066
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 10: it has served me well. I overlooked physical attraction and

1067
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,840
Speaker 10: I decided to follow my heart. We have the best

1068
00:56:54,960 --> 00:56:58,919
Speaker 10: conversations and we have real fun when we're together. He's

1069
00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:01,880
Speaker 10: a provider and he puts it down in the bedroom.

1070
00:57:02,280 --> 00:57:04,799
Speaker 10: We're moving in with each other at the beginning of May,

1071
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 10: so he's itching to let my family know about us.

1072
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 10: He decided that he's going to church with me on

1073
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 10: Easter Sunday. I don't think I'm ready for the big reveal.

1074
00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 10: Here's why. He's my preacher's son, and he looks exactly.

1075
00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:19,040
Speaker 1: Like his daddy.

1076
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:22,720
Speaker 10: But at a younger as a younger man. He's only

1077
00:57:22,800 --> 00:57:25,760
Speaker 10: thirty two, but he has a receding hairline and his

1078
00:57:25,920 --> 00:57:29,720
Speaker 10: skin is bumpy, just like his daddy. He's not overweight,

1079
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 10: but he's not slim. These are all things we can

1080
00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:36,960
Speaker 10: work on, so I overlook them in the beginning. I

1081
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:39,280
Speaker 10: run out of time to fix him up, and now

1082
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:43,160
Speaker 10: he wants to go to service on Easter Sunday. My preacher,

1083
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:46,960
Speaker 10: his daddy, has no idea that we are dating. I

1084
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:49,240
Speaker 10: don't think he will approve of me because I have

1085
00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 10: a child and I got arrested for stealing when I

1086
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,800
Speaker 10: was young. He was also my counselor after my mom

1087
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 10: made me get baptized and go to church every Sunday.

1088
00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 10: I feel like he still judging me when I see him.

1089
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:05,320
Speaker 10: But the bigger problem is when my family realizes who

1090
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 10: my man is. My brothers have teased my boyfriend since

1091
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 10: we were kids, so when they see us together at church,

1092
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:16,720
Speaker 10: they are going to make a scene. I encouraged my

1093
00:58:16,840 --> 00:58:19,840
Speaker 10: boyfriend to get a new suit, but he's got painful

1094
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:24,400
Speaker 10: razor bumps, so he can't shave now. Right now, I

1095
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:27,680
Speaker 10: admire his confidence and trust me, I have no room

1096
00:58:27,800 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 10: to judge I don't want others to judge him either.

1097
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 10: Should I tell my family about us before Sunday?

1098
00:58:35,200 --> 00:58:36,360
Speaker 2: I mean, you don't have to.

1099
00:58:36,680 --> 00:58:39,800
Speaker 10: This is your business. I didn't really get the part

1100
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 10: about the new suit and the razor bumps, but okay,

1101
00:58:44,280 --> 00:58:46,800
Speaker 10: I think you're way too worried about other people think

1102
00:58:46,840 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 10: about you.

1103
00:58:47,600 --> 00:58:50,520
Speaker 1: I just think that's an issue. Is this your man?

1104
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Speaker 1: If this is your man, then why are you ashamed?

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00:58:53,640 --> 00:58:54,600
Speaker 1: He's not ashamed of you.

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Speaker 10: In fact, he wants to tell everybody starting on Easter

1107
00:58:58,360 --> 00:59:04,080
Speaker 10: Sunday where everybody is at church. So what if your brothers,

1108
00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:06,880
Speaker 10: what if they have something to say, It shouldn't stop

1109
00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:09,800
Speaker 10: you from being happy. If you like this guy, his dad,

1110
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:13,680
Speaker 10: the pastor, should mind his business too. What you did

1111
00:59:13,800 --> 00:59:17,040
Speaker 10: happened a long time ago, and obviously you've made big

1112
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,760
Speaker 10: changes since then. I think for you, the best way

1113
00:59:19,840 --> 00:59:21,800
Speaker 10: to handle all this is just to show up at

1114
00:59:21,880 --> 00:59:22,640
Speaker 10: church with him.

1115
00:59:23,200 --> 00:59:26,160
Speaker 1: Let him know this is what it is. Let everybody

1116
00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:26,560
Speaker 1: know this.

1117
00:59:26,680 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 10: Is what it is, whether they like it or not

1118
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 10: respectively respectfully. Just be happy, I think, and just work

1119
00:59:33,720 --> 00:59:35,400
Speaker 10: on the stuff you need to work on, like the

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00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:38,000
Speaker 10: razor bumps and his weight if that's an issue, and

1121
00:59:38,080 --> 00:59:41,280
Speaker 10: whatever you have going on. Since you said you have

1122
00:59:41,440 --> 00:59:44,520
Speaker 10: no room to judge, I think you should just be

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00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:46,480
Speaker 10: with the guy. If that's who you like, Steve.

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Speaker 6: Well, well, well, Thyland, this letter is the big reveal. Yeah,

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00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 6: and yes it's going to be a big one. Based

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00:59:57,160 --> 01:00:02,360
Speaker 6: on this letter right here, now, you don't have as

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01:00:02,440 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 6: big a problem as you think you have. I think

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01:00:04,960 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 6: you've put more into this. You've produced anxiety over this

1129
01:00:11,120 --> 01:00:16,200
Speaker 6: Easter Sunday. Anxiety comes from you concern yourself with the

1130
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 6: two things that you can't control, your past and your future.

1131
01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:24,560
Speaker 6: Once you have major concerns about either one of those, tada,

1132
01:00:24,960 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 6: let me introduce you. You are now suffering from anxiety.

1133
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:32,040
Speaker 6: You're worried about what's gonna happen this Sunday when y'all

1134
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:32,760
Speaker 6: get at church.

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01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:37,200
Speaker 2: Now, but how did it come about? Well, I see

1136
01:00:37,240 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 2: some things in this letter.

1137
01:00:39,960 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 6: You said you're in a secret relationship and it has

1138
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 6: served me well.

1139
01:00:45,200 --> 01:00:48,919
Speaker 2: Oh so he's feeling the serving you well.

1140
01:00:49,080 --> 01:00:54,880
Speaker 6: Block And if you got to this secret, wonderful relationship,

1141
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:58,960
Speaker 6: that has served you well because you overlooked some physical

1142
01:00:59,040 --> 01:01:04,200
Speaker 6: attraction and you followed your heart. So based on this letter,

1143
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 6: you done fell in love with this half fat pole dunkle,

1144
01:01:14,720 --> 01:01:19,040
Speaker 6: little chunky, chippy face. You just fell in love with

1145
01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,560
Speaker 6: the ugly man. Let's just go and put it out there.

1146
01:01:22,760 --> 01:01:28,280
Speaker 6: You have fallen in love with an ugly man. But

1147
01:01:29,120 --> 01:01:32,880
Speaker 6: he's got some benefits as the most ugly man. Do

1148
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:39,400
Speaker 6: I can attest to this. We had the best conversation.

1149
01:01:39,560 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 6: You have got to be a great conversationalist because if

1150
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 6: somebody can sit there and stand looking at you, you

1151
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 6: have got to keep their attention by having a fascinating conversation.

1152
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 6: You can't be ugly and can't talk. I'm just tell

1153
01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 6: you that right now. You can't be both of those.

1154
01:01:54,400 --> 01:02:00,760
Speaker 6: You have to be able to talk. Yeah, he's a provider.

1155
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 6: You got to be a buy some.

1156
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:04,560
Speaker 2: You an ugly man.

1157
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:07,040
Speaker 6: You can't talking, You can't buy nothing. You ain't gonna

1158
01:02:07,040 --> 01:02:09,640
Speaker 6: be able to stay in there. And he puts it

1159
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:13,160
Speaker 6: down in the bedroom. He has no choice. He'dne bought

1160
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:17,520
Speaker 6: performance videos, tapes, hookers, he'dn't been out there trying to

1161
01:02:17,960 --> 01:02:21,160
Speaker 6: hone his skills set. Yeah, ugly people, you can't just

1162
01:02:21,560 --> 01:02:27,760
Speaker 6: practice all the time. Oh, you gotta go get some

1163
01:02:27,920 --> 01:02:32,000
Speaker 6: help unless you just want to practice on a bunch

1164
01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 6: of other women. You try to act wow, so that

1165
01:02:36,600 --> 01:02:38,919
Speaker 6: when we get back, I'll tell you what's really going

1166
01:02:38,960 --> 01:02:39,480
Speaker 6: on with you.

1167
01:02:39,840 --> 01:02:42,280
Speaker 2: But I'm full of inside information.

1168
01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, I know this.

1169
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:47,320
Speaker 2: Will oh too well?

1170
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:53,400
Speaker 10: All right, uh well, we will have part two of

1171
01:02:53,520 --> 01:02:56,920
Speaker 10: Steve's response has promised as twenty three minutes at twenty

1172
01:02:56,960 --> 01:03:00,400
Speaker 10: three minutes after the hour of today's Strawberry Letters, subject

1173
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:04,800
Speaker 10: the Big Reveal. We'll get back into that right after this.

1174
01:03:05,600 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 10: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1175
01:03:13,000 --> 01:03:15,600
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1176
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1179
01:03:26,080 --> 01:03:27,760
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1180
01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:28,760
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1181
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:32,560
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1182
01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:36,000
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1184
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:41,840
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1185
01:03:41,920 --> 01:03:45,360
Speaker 10: Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry Letter subject the

1186
01:03:45,440 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 10: Big Reveal?

1187
01:03:46,320 --> 01:03:47,160
Speaker 2: What you got for us?

1188
01:03:47,440 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 6: Well, ladies, Gentlemen's big reveal is this woman is dating

1189
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 6: a half fat, ugly man and she don't want nobody

1190
01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 6: to know.

1191
01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:57,600
Speaker 2: But it's a perfect.

1192
01:03:57,280 --> 01:04:03,000
Speaker 6: Relationship because this relationship press served her well and because

1193
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:06,920
Speaker 6: of that, she that overlook the physical attraction and decided

1194
01:04:07,000 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 6: to follow her heart.

1195
01:04:08,800 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 2: We have the best conversations. I'm gonna tell you something.

1196
01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:14,080
Speaker 6: Ugly men know how to hold your attention because you

1197
01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 6: got to be a great conversation because you hard to

1198
01:04:16,560 --> 01:04:19,160
Speaker 6: look at. So you gotta be able to talk constantly

1199
01:04:19,600 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 6: or steady flow of wonderful words and stuff to keep

1200
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 6: people in front of you cause cause you toe up.

1201
01:04:27,440 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 6: We have real fun with me together. He's a provider.

1202
01:04:30,240 --> 01:04:30,760
Speaker 2: He got to be.

1203
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 6: All his money is spent on keeping you happy and

1204
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:37,880
Speaker 6: your attention. And he puts it down in the bedroom.

1205
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:40,280
Speaker 6: You ain't putting it down in the bedroom. He got

1206
01:04:40,320 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 6: to He done bought in all types of people.

1207
01:04:43,320 --> 01:04:43,800
Speaker 2: Help with that.

1208
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:46,080
Speaker 6: He had a couple of hookers come over because you know,

1209
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 6: you ugly man, you just can't go do like you

1210
01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 6: want to do, so you gotta you gotta elicit some

1211
01:04:51,680 --> 01:04:52,960
Speaker 6: services from somewhere.

1212
01:04:54,160 --> 01:04:55,080
Speaker 2: This is true, Hirley.

1213
01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 6: You don't tell me to stop any dating other ugly

1214
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:00,600
Speaker 6: women because he ugly. So that's the only way. He

1215
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:02,440
Speaker 6: didn't got but he didne got good at this bedroom.

1216
01:05:02,600 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 6: He can handle them anything.

1217
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:08,160
Speaker 2: Now he doing it so good. You said we moving

1218
01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:08,960
Speaker 2: in with each.

1219
01:05:08,800 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 6: Other at the beginning of May, so he's itching to

1220
01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:15,760
Speaker 6: let my family know about us. I will come back

1221
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:17,880
Speaker 6: to that line because I have an explanation for that.

1222
01:05:18,440 --> 01:05:20,640
Speaker 6: He decided that we're gonna go to church with me

1223
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:27,080
Speaker 6: on Easter sunny. Everybody gonna be there. Who everybody feeling.

1224
01:05:28,680 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 6: I don't think I'm ready for the big reveal because

1225
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:32,880
Speaker 6: I don't want people to know that I'm dating this

1226
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:35,760
Speaker 6: ugly man, just spending money and you're in the bedroom

1227
01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 6: getting getting your.

1228
01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:38,520
Speaker 2: Little socks twirled around.

1229
01:05:40,320 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 6: And why because he is my preacher's son and he

1230
01:05:43,520 --> 01:05:50,160
Speaker 6: looks exactly like his daddy. Or now you're preacher ugly too, well,

1231
01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:52,680
Speaker 6: at least your preacher ugly. You know how to sit

1232
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:54,800
Speaker 6: there and watch an ugly person talk. I told you

1233
01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:59,320
Speaker 6: ugly people is great conversationists. You said that he got

1234
01:05:59,360 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 6: a church.

1235
01:06:00,040 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 2: You've been sitting there looking at him, but as a

1236
01:06:03,120 --> 01:06:03,760
Speaker 2: younger man.

1237
01:06:04,200 --> 01:06:06,920
Speaker 6: He is only thirty two, but he has a receiving

1238
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:10,800
Speaker 6: hairline and his skin is bumpy, just like he daddy.

1239
01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:15,480
Speaker 6: See right there, thirty two of the receiving hairline. We

1240
01:06:15,640 --> 01:06:17,120
Speaker 6: had that going on on this show.

1241
01:06:19,400 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 1: Focus Steve Focus.

1242
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 2: I am. I'm just trying to tell people. And Junior's

1243
01:06:25,320 --> 01:06:26,040
Speaker 2: a good little hud.

1244
01:06:26,680 --> 01:06:32,680
Speaker 6: Uh Well, back to the letter, h and his skin

1245
01:06:32,880 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 6: is bumpy, just like his daddy. Uh huh, Well, let

1246
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:38,680
Speaker 6: me go back a little bit in this letter, because

1247
01:06:38,720 --> 01:06:39,720
Speaker 6: you did say.

1248
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:41,160
Speaker 7: So.

1249
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:44,360
Speaker 6: He is itching to let my family know about us.

1250
01:06:44,480 --> 01:06:47,920
Speaker 6: That's them bumps. That's them bumps on his face. That's

1251
01:06:47,960 --> 01:06:50,120
Speaker 6: what that is. That's why he itching. He's stretched, just

1252
01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 6: digging in his face too.

1253
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:51,880
Speaker 2: Well.

1254
01:06:51,920 --> 01:06:54,120
Speaker 6: I can't wait to get up there on Sunday. Hold

1255
01:06:54,160 --> 01:06:56,400
Speaker 6: your chein up in there and start scratching up under

1256
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,400
Speaker 6: your throat. That's what he do the whole time. He

1257
01:06:58,560 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 6: be talking very good. He's handled that very well. And

1258
01:07:04,480 --> 01:07:07,520
Speaker 6: he wants to go to service on Easter. My preacher,

1259
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:11,919
Speaker 6: who is his daddy, has no idea that we are dating. Well,

1260
01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:15,280
Speaker 6: it's gonna be a big reveal. He gonna be shocked

1261
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 6: and littly boy dating anybody. He might handle that pretty good,

1262
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,240
Speaker 6: but I don't think he will approve of me because

1263
01:07:22,280 --> 01:07:25,040
Speaker 6: I had a child and I got arrested for stealing

1264
01:07:25,120 --> 01:07:30,080
Speaker 6: when I was young. Oh, now we see why your

1265
01:07:30,160 --> 01:07:34,919
Speaker 6: selection pool is so low. It ain't the baby, it's

1266
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:38,960
Speaker 6: to stealing. I can't have you keep coming over every

1267
01:07:39,000 --> 01:07:41,800
Speaker 6: time you leave something else gone. That could be why

1268
01:07:41,840 --> 01:07:44,320
Speaker 6: you're dating problems is while you got to reduce your

1269
01:07:44,800 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 6: selection pool, you got to date the u repeople you got.

1270
01:07:48,440 --> 01:07:51,000
Speaker 2: Have you quit stealing yet, that's the question.

1271
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:57,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, he was also my counselor after my mom made

1272
01:07:57,120 --> 01:08:00,160
Speaker 6: me get baptized and go to church every Sunday. I

1273
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:02,480
Speaker 6: feel like he's still judging me when I see him.

1274
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:05,320
Speaker 6: But the bigger problem is that when my family realizes

1275
01:08:05,360 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 6: who this man is, because my brothers have teased my

1276
01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 6: boyfriend since we was kids. So when they see us together,

1277
01:08:12,480 --> 01:08:16,400
Speaker 6: Oh ah, y'all, so you dating cap'n Crunch.

1278
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 1: Oh, I see what's happening, Captain Crunch.

1279
01:08:19,880 --> 01:08:23,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, oh hey it was up little Seal. Oh they

1280
01:08:23,680 --> 01:08:26,920
Speaker 6: got all types of name for him. Yeah, I see

1281
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:31,720
Speaker 6: right now. And so then you said, I encourage my

1282
01:08:31,880 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 6: boyfriend to get a new suit. But he's got painful

1283
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:39,560
Speaker 6: raise of bumps, so he can't shave right now. This

1284
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:43,120
Speaker 6: is extens its foliation problem. It's gonna take a minute,

1285
01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:46,640
Speaker 6: but you could fix this. So instead of shaving, he

1286
01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:49,680
Speaker 6: needs to exfoliate. Then he needs to get in the

1287
01:08:49,720 --> 01:08:52,719
Speaker 6: mirror with a pair of needle nosed tweezers and pull

1288
01:08:52,920 --> 01:08:55,960
Speaker 6: each hat out of each bump. But do not pull

1289
01:08:56,080 --> 01:08:59,479
Speaker 6: the hair out your face. This is a big mistake

1290
01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:05,800
Speaker 6: that me and make who have ingrown hands, ingrown hairs

1291
01:09:05,920 --> 01:09:08,719
Speaker 6: calls when hair comes out of your face and curls

1292
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:12,080
Speaker 6: back into your skin. And it's easier to curl back

1293
01:09:12,120 --> 01:09:14,960
Speaker 6: in your skin because you don't exfoliate. The more you

1294
01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:18,640
Speaker 6: exfoliate and you remove the layers of dead skin, it

1295
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:19,640
Speaker 6: can't curl.

1296
01:09:19,479 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 2: Back into your regular skin.

1297
01:09:21,160 --> 01:09:21,519
Speaker 1: Got it.

1298
01:09:21,840 --> 01:09:24,200
Speaker 6: Okay, that's how you keep them off. But you have

1299
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:26,760
Speaker 6: to pick each hair out of the bump and do

1300
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:29,920
Speaker 6: not shave it off. I mean, I mean, I mean,

1301
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:32,200
Speaker 6: do not pull it out. So once you do that,

1302
01:09:32,400 --> 01:09:36,160
Speaker 6: then you got to exfoliate for three four days and

1303
01:09:36,560 --> 01:09:41,040
Speaker 6: then shave and then the next day exfoliate again.

1304
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 1: Oh he's gonna be fine. Post comments Yes you ain't

1305
01:09:45,520 --> 01:09:46,600
Speaker 1: gonna be able to dating.

1306
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01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:35,080
Speaker 8: for power Mop. Love it or your money back.

1320
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Speaker 1: It is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. Junior,

1321
01:10:38,880 --> 01:10:39,760
Speaker 1: what you got for us?

1322
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:42,760
Speaker 9: The World Cup is coming to the North America's The

1323
01:10:42,880 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 9: tickets went on sale yesterday and may listen. Tell someone

1324
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:49,360
Speaker 9: you gotta just pick you a game. You go to

1325
01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:51,800
Speaker 9: one game. You're not going to all these games. You

1326
01:10:51,840 --> 01:10:54,080
Speaker 9: go to one because these prices is not for the

1327
01:10:54,120 --> 01:10:56,439
Speaker 9: faint of heart. I'm telling you right, get you one game,

1328
01:10:56,720 --> 01:10:59,559
Speaker 9: and matter of fact, don't let the skull be one nothing.

1329
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:01,680
Speaker 9: That's too much money for one nothing game. We need

1330
01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 9: to see fifteen fourteen.

1331
01:11:03,360 --> 01:11:06,160
Speaker 2: I need to see. That's not that's not what soccer is.

1332
01:11:06,320 --> 01:11:09,080
Speaker 2: That's not gonna happen. Well, look at these prices.

1333
01:11:09,160 --> 01:11:12,280
Speaker 9: Then up to go to the opening matches is eight

1334
01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 9: hundred and forty five dollars to two thousand, seven hundred

1335
01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 9: and thirty five dollars.

1336
01:11:16,640 --> 01:11:20,679
Speaker 2: Oh, I gotta play, You got.

1337
01:11:20,640 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 1: To get up, you gotta be on the field.

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01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 3: Tell me.

1339
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:29,080
Speaker 2: All that's gonna be on TV. I don't know why, yeah.

1340
01:11:30,040 --> 01:11:31,439
Speaker 1: Right, oh yeah, there you go.

1341
01:11:31,680 --> 01:11:32,719
Speaker 2: Oh it's gonna be on TV.

1342
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:34,799
Speaker 9: But if you want to go in person to experience

1343
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:38,080
Speaker 9: the World Cup the group stages, this is probably about

1344
01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:40,000
Speaker 9: the best price you can get at the group stages.

1345
01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 9: It's one hundred and thirty five dollars to nine hundred

1346
01:11:43,080 --> 01:11:45,559
Speaker 9: and ten dollars. That's the probably the one you want

1347
01:11:45,600 --> 01:11:45,920
Speaker 9: to go to.

1348
01:11:46,040 --> 01:11:48,360
Speaker 2: The group stage And what at one thirty five? See

1349
01:11:48,439 --> 01:11:51,040
Speaker 2: that though on top. It's gonna be up there.

1350
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:53,320
Speaker 1: Way up there.

1351
01:11:54,160 --> 01:11:55,040
Speaker 2: You're gonna be up there.

1352
01:11:56,840 --> 01:11:59,360
Speaker 6: The round of thirty one hundred and thirty five dollars.

1353
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:00,800
Speaker 6: You're gonna be up to on top of them lights

1354
01:12:00,840 --> 01:12:02,160
Speaker 6: and they're gonna give you something to do.

1355
01:12:05,080 --> 01:12:06,479
Speaker 1: Now you're working at the World Cup.

1356
01:12:08,400 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 2: You're the switch. Hey in seat number sixteen O five yo, lie,

1357
01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:15,479
Speaker 2: ain't on.

1358
01:12:19,120 --> 01:12:21,879
Speaker 1: You knew your assignment stupid?

1359
01:12:23,240 --> 01:12:26,679
Speaker 9: The around of thirty two to sixteen, it's two hundred

1360
01:12:26,720 --> 01:12:29,719
Speaker 9: and five dollars to one thousand dollars.

1361
01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:31,879
Speaker 2: That's just a round of sixteen.

1362
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:35,960
Speaker 9: Now the quarterfinals, the quarter finals got one price at

1363
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:38,880
Speaker 9: the lowest, and it's one thousand, six hundred ninety dollars,

1364
01:12:39,000 --> 01:12:40,080
Speaker 9: and then it just go up.

1365
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:40,960
Speaker 2: It ain't even.

1366
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:46,120
Speaker 1: Now like Steeve say, you're just gonna watch it, watch it, Yeah,

1367
01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:49,120
Speaker 1: I watch it. I hear them scream, go.

1368
01:12:50,400 --> 01:12:52,560
Speaker 2: You gonna hear them say, I love that.

1369
01:12:53,240 --> 01:12:53,320
Speaker 8: Ju.

1370
01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:56,200
Speaker 2: How long does it last? How long does the world comet?

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01:12:57,439 --> 01:12:57,479
Speaker 11: No?

1372
01:12:57,640 --> 01:13:00,360
Speaker 2: No, I mean I mean how many weeks? It goes

1373
01:13:00,360 --> 01:13:02,679
Speaker 2: from like June eleven all the way to July nineteenth.

1374
01:13:03,360 --> 01:13:07,880
Speaker 6: Well, I can't believe you knew that about the monk. Yeah, Junior,

1375
01:13:08,120 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 6: that's impressive.

1376
01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:10,800
Speaker 2: I did not know you knew that.

1377
01:13:11,640 --> 01:13:14,080
Speaker 9: Yeah, I gotta know all these all these dates, he

1378
01:13:14,240 --> 01:13:16,360
Speaker 9: gonna want on, he's gonna want for you on this one.

1379
01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:17,639
Speaker 2: You going to walk. I know this game.

1380
01:13:17,680 --> 01:13:21,200
Speaker 9: You going to the finals is four thousand, one hundred

1381
01:13:21,200 --> 01:13:24,120
Speaker 9: eighty five dollars to eight thousand, six hundred dollars.

1382
01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:25,040
Speaker 1: That's the game.

1383
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:29,640
Speaker 2: You're going to. Where's the one? Oh, it's gonna be

1384
01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:37,439
Speaker 2: in New York. I need three days in a row.

1385
01:13:37,479 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 2: I can't. I can't stay up there.

1386
01:13:39,520 --> 01:13:42,960
Speaker 10: Coming up at the top of the hour. Man on

1387
01:13:43,080 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 10: social media needs some advice. He says, I have siblings

1388
01:13:46,200 --> 01:13:48,600
Speaker 10: I've never met. We'll talk about it right after this.

1389
01:13:48,920 --> 01:13:55,920
Speaker 10: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is

1390
01:13:55,960 --> 01:14:00,840
Speaker 10: from Terry on Steve Harvey FM. Terry says, my biological

1391
01:14:00,960 --> 01:14:03,280
Speaker 10: father left my mom when I was an infant, but

1392
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:06,760
Speaker 10: she got together with my stepdad not long after, and

1393
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:10,360
Speaker 10: he's been my real dad my whole life. My biological

1394
01:14:10,439 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 10: father has passed away now, but before he died, I

1395
01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:15,880
Speaker 10: found his Facebook and saw that he had a family

1396
01:14:16,040 --> 01:14:19,280
Speaker 10: and three kids. I thought about reaching out, but I

1397
01:14:19,400 --> 01:14:22,840
Speaker 10: have no idea how that might impact my mother or

1398
01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:26,080
Speaker 10: what it could open up. Do I leave things as

1399
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:29,400
Speaker 10: they are or take the risk of introducing myself and

1400
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:32,519
Speaker 10: potentially changing both of our lives.

1401
01:14:33,200 --> 01:14:36,800
Speaker 6: Well, man, that's really up to you. How important is

1402
01:14:36,880 --> 01:14:39,640
Speaker 6: that to you. I haven't been in that situation. I

1403
01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:42,120
Speaker 6: have no experience at it, But it's totally up to you.

1404
01:14:43,240 --> 01:14:47,240
Speaker 6: If you would like to meet your siblings, thenk going

1405
01:14:47,360 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 6: over there and do it. I mean he died, yea,

1406
01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:54,320
Speaker 6: So maybe people need to know what's happening.

1407
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:55,559
Speaker 2: You know, they won't be.

1408
01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 6: As mad because you ain't trying to get over there

1409
01:14:58,040 --> 01:15:00,400
Speaker 6: and take their daddy time and all like that. You

1410
01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:02,600
Speaker 6: just say, I found y'all on Facebook. Man, he was

1411
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 6: my father. I just wanted to say, hey, man, it's

1412
01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:10,439
Speaker 6: nice to meet y'all. Glad to know I have still

1413
01:15:10,520 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 6: have some connection to him. And and that's a cool

1414
01:15:14,120 --> 01:15:16,160
Speaker 6: way to do it. And then and then if they

1415
01:15:16,200 --> 01:15:18,920
Speaker 6: don't like that, then they buttholes and gone back to

1416
01:15:19,000 --> 01:15:19,479
Speaker 6: your life.

1417
01:15:19,560 --> 01:15:19,720
Speaker 1: Man.

1418
01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:26,000
Speaker 11: But his mama don't like it though, what this is

1419
01:15:26,120 --> 01:15:29,080
Speaker 11: painful for her money?

1420
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:31,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, but you know you can't have these babies by

1421
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:34,720
Speaker 6: these men. And then the boy, the boy wanted never

1422
01:15:34,840 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 6: met his real father and then he died. He was

1423
01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:39,040
Speaker 6: raised by a man who was his dad.

1424
01:15:39,160 --> 01:15:39,840
Speaker 2: He loves him.

1425
01:15:39,880 --> 01:15:43,040
Speaker 6: He just doesn't take away anything. But you can't tell

1426
01:15:43,080 --> 01:15:45,280
Speaker 6: a grown man how to feel once they grow up.

1427
01:15:47,040 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 6: I'm not his biological father, so.

1428
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:51,439
Speaker 10: You know, because he left his mom when he was

1429
01:15:51,479 --> 01:15:55,240
Speaker 10: a baby. Yeah, all right, moving on, we have time

1430
01:15:55,280 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 10: for another one. This is Bailey on Steve BARBFM Bailey says,

1431
01:15:59,320 --> 01:16:01,479
Speaker 10: I'm supposed to to get married in a few months,

1432
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:05,720
Speaker 10: but I'm having some serious doubts about my partner. He's

1433
01:16:05,720 --> 01:16:07,880
Speaker 10: a great person in a lot of ways, but he

1434
01:16:08,200 --> 01:16:13,479
Speaker 10: is highly dysfunctional. He struggles with follow through, managing responsibilities

1435
01:16:13,800 --> 01:16:16,560
Speaker 10: and handling stress, and I feel like I'm carrying a

1436
01:16:16,640 --> 01:16:18,720
Speaker 10: lot of the load for the both of us. I

1437
01:16:18,960 --> 01:16:21,880
Speaker 10: love him but and don't want to walk away, but

1438
01:16:22,040 --> 01:16:24,680
Speaker 10: I'm scared. At what point do I decide to move

1439
01:16:24,760 --> 01:16:28,639
Speaker 10: forward anyway or call things off before it's too late?

1440
01:16:29,240 --> 01:16:31,519
Speaker 6: What the best advice I got about marriage? The only

1441
01:16:31,600 --> 01:16:34,040
Speaker 6: thing to change was with marriage is the appearance of

1442
01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:38,080
Speaker 6: your left hand third finger. If you're dealing with these

1443
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:40,760
Speaker 6: problems now, they only going to magnify, y'all. Ain't even

1444
01:16:40,840 --> 01:16:44,639
Speaker 6: marry chi, right right? He don't have the stress? Well, yeah,

1445
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 6: you don't like responsibility. Please don't marry this man to

1446
01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:52,720
Speaker 6: not you'll be miserable.

1447
01:16:52,920 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, because it ain't even started.

1448
01:16:56,200 --> 01:17:00,439
Speaker 1: Chit exactly right, right, Yeah, it's just.

1449
01:17:00,640 --> 01:17:04,439
Speaker 2: All the time you got to deal with what's happening

1450
01:17:04,479 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 2: with your spouse.

1451
01:17:05,560 --> 01:17:07,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, so should she?

1452
01:17:07,640 --> 01:17:11,479
Speaker 10: She says, At what point does she decide to move Uh?

1453
01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:15,920
Speaker 10: Huh before it's too late. Yeah, yeah, today, break it off.

1454
01:17:16,080 --> 01:17:21,120
Speaker 10: You're marry this little boy. He don't like responsibility, he

1455
01:17:21,240 --> 01:17:22,320
Speaker 10: can't handle stress.

1456
01:17:23,120 --> 01:17:24,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're gonna.

1457
01:17:24,160 --> 01:17:26,519
Speaker 2: Need a shoulder the crown. He's gonna be there crying

1458
01:17:26,600 --> 01:17:27,120
Speaker 2: on yours.

1459
01:17:29,160 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 1: She says, he's highly dysfunctional. Higher, that's not good.

1460
01:17:34,000 --> 01:17:36,240
Speaker 2: Why would you marry a highly dysfunctional man?

1461
01:17:36,439 --> 01:17:36,559
Speaker 3: Right?

1462
01:17:37,200 --> 01:17:37,360
Speaker 6: Right?

1463
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:37,800
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1464
01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:42,240
Speaker 1: What is it with these red flags? We just collect? Nor?

1465
01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:45,639
Speaker 1: Yeah we ignore them. What is that about?

1466
01:17:45,960 --> 01:17:48,880
Speaker 6: Stop collecting red flags? Stop putting them in the back

1467
01:17:48,920 --> 01:17:49,519
Speaker 6: of your truck.

1468
01:17:49,960 --> 01:17:53,240
Speaker 10: Yeah, well she sees it and like she sees the

1469
01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:56,400
Speaker 10: red flags and like a lot of women, yeah, we choose.

1470
01:17:56,280 --> 01:17:57,040
Speaker 1: To ignore them.

1471
01:17:57,160 --> 01:18:00,320
Speaker 10: Oh, he'll be better once we're married, and you know

1472
01:18:00,400 --> 01:18:02,200
Speaker 10: he'll change I can change him.

1473
01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:03,560
Speaker 3: All of that.

1474
01:18:04,439 --> 01:18:07,760
Speaker 10: Yeah, you know goes into goes into this. So I'm

1475
01:18:07,800 --> 01:18:09,920
Speaker 10: with you, Steve. She needs to stop this right now,

1476
01:18:10,200 --> 01:18:12,240
Speaker 10: call it off. Don't marry this guy.

1477
01:18:12,640 --> 01:18:15,639
Speaker 2: Oh man, you had it for life of doom. Yeah.

1478
01:18:16,160 --> 01:18:21,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not gonna get better. No, No, pe will

1479
01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:26,559
Speaker 1: show you who they are. Yeah, believe him, that's right. Yeah.

1480
01:18:26,800 --> 01:18:29,799
Speaker 1: All right, Well, thank you for writing in. Hopefully that helped.

1481
01:18:30,360 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 10: Yeah, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show

1482
01:18:34,160 --> 01:18:35,599
Speaker 10: coming up at twenty minutes after.

1483
01:18:36,000 --> 01:18:39,840
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1484
01:18:43,720 --> 01:18:46,519
Speaker 10: A Kentucky man who made headlines last year when he

1485
01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:50,000
Speaker 10: won a massive powerball jackpot and then got arrested in

1486
01:18:50,080 --> 01:18:54,080
Speaker 10: Florida for kicking a cop is back in the headlines,

1487
01:18:54,640 --> 01:18:57,800
Speaker 10: this time not for winning money, but this time for

1488
01:18:57,920 --> 01:18:59,240
Speaker 10: burglarizing a house.

1489
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:06,080
Speaker 1: Uh police in Lexington? Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, police.

1490
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 10: Well, police in Lexington say, fifty one year old James Farthing,

1491
01:19:11,920 --> 01:19:14,559
Speaker 10: a career criminal who won over one hundred and sixty

1492
01:19:14,600 --> 01:19:17,799
Speaker 10: seven million dollars last year in the Power Bowl, hasn't

1493
01:19:17,880 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 10: given up the criminal life.

1494
01:19:20,160 --> 01:19:23,599
Speaker 1: Okay, he stayed the same and he won his money.

1495
01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:26,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, same money. Just magnify who you are. He just

1496
01:19:26,640 --> 01:19:28,160
Speaker 2: made it criminal.

1497
01:19:28,320 --> 01:19:28,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yep.

1498
01:19:29,000 --> 01:19:29,160
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1499
01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:31,800
Speaker 10: He broke into a home over the weekend. He stole

1500
01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:35,879
Speaker 10: twelve thousand dollars in cash, Cops say. Surveillance video shows

1501
01:19:36,360 --> 01:19:39,439
Speaker 10: James Farthing entering the house and then driving away in

1502
01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:43,639
Speaker 10: a black Porsche. Officers later stopped him and reported finding

1503
01:19:43,720 --> 01:19:44,880
Speaker 10: marijuana in his car.

1504
01:19:45,520 --> 01:19:46,800
Speaker 12: What is going on?

1505
01:19:47,680 --> 01:19:51,000
Speaker 1: You won one hundred and sixty seven million dollars in.

1506
01:19:51,080 --> 01:19:52,400
Speaker 2: The power ball. How are you.

1507
01:19:54,760 --> 01:19:56,519
Speaker 1: You just cased that you need some you need twelve

1508
01:19:56,560 --> 01:20:00,880
Speaker 1: thousand months? Yeah, one hundred and sixty seven the plus twist.

1509
01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:03,040
Speaker 2: He's just doing it for the thrill of it and

1510
01:20:03,200 --> 01:20:03,599
Speaker 2: the toil.

1511
01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:05,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, sounds like a klepto.

1512
01:20:05,640 --> 01:20:09,439
Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow, break in the wrong house in a minute though.

1513
01:20:09,720 --> 01:20:16,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're though you're driving a Porsche craziness right here?

1514
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:23,320
Speaker 1: All right, guys, coming up next. Yeah, we'll have another

1515
01:20:23,439 --> 01:20:26,400
Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Right after this? You're listening

1516
01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1517
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1518
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Speaker 8: it or your money back?

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Speaker 1: It's time now for a round of would you rather? Guys?

1529
01:21:03,920 --> 01:21:06,759
Speaker 10: Would you rather be on the receiving end of a prank?

1530
01:21:07,000 --> 01:21:09,479
Speaker 10: Or would you rather be responsible for setting up the

1531
01:21:09,560 --> 01:21:11,240
Speaker 10: prank that goes too far.

1532
01:21:12,200 --> 01:21:16,599
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you're.

1533
01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:19,160
Speaker 2: Right there.

1534
01:21:19,560 --> 01:21:21,960
Speaker 1: It's a day after April for say, what you got?

1535
01:21:23,000 --> 01:21:26,599
Speaker 10: I got to be the one setting it up always, yeah,

1536
01:21:26,760 --> 01:21:28,960
Speaker 10: and it goes too far always.

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Speaker 2: And I don't have a problem with that, all right?

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01:21:33,320 --> 01:21:36,200
Speaker 1: Would you rather try something new in the bedroom or

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01:21:36,200 --> 01:21:38,840
Speaker 1: would you rather just stick to what you know?

1540
01:21:40,520 --> 01:21:42,280
Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna stick to what you know. Because you

1541
01:21:42,320 --> 01:21:44,080
Speaker 2: try something new, they're gonna ask you what you got that?

1542
01:21:44,360 --> 01:21:48,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, mm hmm, So what junior?

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01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:51,040
Speaker 9: Now I'm too I'm too old to be trying something new. Now,

1544
01:21:51,080 --> 01:21:52,559
Speaker 9: I just stick to what I know, because you ain't

1545
01:21:52,600 --> 01:21:54,400
Speaker 9: gonna come mere time by guess what we've been to do.

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01:21:54,840 --> 01:21:55,439
Speaker 1: We ain't guess it.

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01:21:57,800 --> 01:21:58,519
Speaker 2: We need to do that.

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01:22:00,080 --> 01:22:07,680
Speaker 1: Yes, we know, all right, Steve, what you got?

1549
01:22:08,600 --> 01:22:11,519
Speaker 2: I mean what I do has served me well, uh.

1550
01:22:11,479 --> 01:22:14,799
Speaker 1: Huh uh huh. So if it's not broke, don't fix it, okay?

1551
01:22:15,200 --> 01:22:15,519
Speaker 7: All right?

1552
01:22:15,520 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 1: Hello, all right, So just stick to what you know?

1553
01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:18,479
Speaker 2: All right?

1554
01:22:18,560 --> 01:22:18,800
Speaker 1: Guys?

1555
01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:22,720
Speaker 10: Would you rather be an usher on Easter Sunday or

1556
01:22:22,720 --> 01:22:25,680
Speaker 10: would you rather do this? Be an usher on the

1557
01:22:26,040 --> 01:22:28,479
Speaker 10: Mother's Day service? So?

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01:22:28,520 --> 01:22:30,600
Speaker 1: Would you rather be an usher on Easter Sunday or

1559
01:22:30,680 --> 01:22:31,240
Speaker 1: Mother's Day.

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01:22:31,840 --> 01:22:35,160
Speaker 2: I want to see all these colors coming through the.

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01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:39,599
Speaker 6: Yeah, because I'm gonna see that everybody. I'm a color

1562
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:46,800
Speaker 6: coordinator church. Everybody makes sense. Man, when you look out there,

1563
01:22:46,880 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 6: your church gonna be flies.

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01:22:50,040 --> 01:22:50,640
Speaker 7: I like that.

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01:22:50,840 --> 01:22:52,479
Speaker 2: Steve, you.

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01:22:56,120 --> 01:22:56,519
Speaker 1: All right?

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01:22:56,720 --> 01:22:59,720
Speaker 10: Would you rather work in the parking lot ministry or

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01:23:00,040 --> 01:23:05,519
Speaker 10: each Sunday school on Easter Sunday parking lot? Everybody comes

1569
01:23:05,520 --> 01:23:06,799
Speaker 10: to church on Easter Sunday.

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01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:09,000
Speaker 6: Now, I see, we only had a parking lot ministry

1571
01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:11,080
Speaker 6: because so we could stop theft.

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01:23:11,560 --> 01:23:14,080
Speaker 2: Our problem was people were still in the cars.

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01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:20,880
Speaker 1: On the church parking lot on Holy Ground, the cars because.

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01:23:20,600 --> 01:23:22,840
Speaker 6: They know they was in there, and they knew what

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01:23:23,000 --> 01:23:24,920
Speaker 6: time service get out, and they had plenty of time.

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01:23:25,520 --> 01:23:30,280
Speaker 6: I volunteered to be in the park parking lot ministry.

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01:23:31,200 --> 01:23:32,720
Speaker 6: And I want you all to bleep this out, but

1578
01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:37,439
Speaker 6: but this is how I protected the cars. I said, hey, hey, hey,

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01:23:38,280 --> 01:23:41,720
Speaker 6: I see you. You know, we kept a lot of

1580
01:23:41,800 --> 01:23:49,200
Speaker 6: people off, hey hey hey. And that year we only.

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01:23:49,080 --> 01:23:50,520
Speaker 2: Lost two cars.

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01:23:51,960 --> 01:23:55,640
Speaker 6: Whole year. And I received the Young Christian of the

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01:23:55,720 --> 01:24:01,720
Speaker 6: Award year war and Christy, I'll find and found out

1584
01:24:01,800 --> 01:24:07,160
Speaker 6: what that custom would come in hand. I well, praise

1585
01:24:07,200 --> 01:24:13,240
Speaker 6: the Lord Okay, you welcome. That's today's round. It would

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01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:16,519
Speaker 6: you rather coming up? Coming up next?

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01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 10: It is our last break of the day, and we'll

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01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,800
Speaker 10: close out the show with the one and only Steve

1589
01:24:20,880 --> 01:24:22,080
Speaker 10: Harvey right after this.

1590
01:24:22,520 --> 01:24:25,000
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:24:29,200 --> 01:24:31,760
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Speaker 1: All right here we are, guys, our last break of

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01:25:00,160 --> 01:25:01,960
Speaker 1: the day, our last break of the week. This is

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01:25:02,040 --> 01:25:05,639
Speaker 1: Holy Week, This is Easter Week. Thank you for listening.

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01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:06,600
Speaker 1: We appreciate you.

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01:25:07,200 --> 01:25:07,880
Speaker 2: Holy Week.

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01:25:08,680 --> 01:25:10,760
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, you didn't know that.

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01:25:11,760 --> 01:25:13,200
Speaker 2: No, I ain't been participating.

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01:25:13,360 --> 01:25:13,760
Speaker 3: I tell you.

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01:25:14,520 --> 01:25:21,559
Speaker 1: Good Friday, Easter Sunday, Yeah, Holy Week, Holy Week, keep

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01:25:21,600 --> 01:25:22,960
Speaker 1: it Holy Yeah.

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01:25:23,000 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 2: Were supposed to do something Monday.

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01:25:26,560 --> 01:25:30,000
Speaker 1: This is leading It's the week leading up to.

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01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:33,120
Speaker 2: Eastern and I ain't did nothing. I didn't know the

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01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:33,639
Speaker 2: whole week.

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01:25:34,760 --> 01:25:39,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm behind, man, Holy week, I'm starting today.

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01:25:42,439 --> 01:25:44,639
Speaker 1: All right, you have a closing.

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01:25:45,040 --> 01:25:48,080
Speaker 6: Here's my closing today. I was thinking about this. We

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01:25:48,280 --> 01:25:53,479
Speaker 6: kind of talk about it off the air. Parenting is tough, man,

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01:25:53,800 --> 01:25:56,559
Speaker 6: It really really is. If you're doing a good.

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01:25:56,479 --> 01:25:57,080
Speaker 2: Job of it.

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01:25:57,640 --> 01:26:03,120
Speaker 6: It's hard. It's hard to care for somebody. It's hard

1622
01:26:03,280 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 6: to watch a person you love and care deeply for

1623
01:26:07,560 --> 01:26:12,200
Speaker 6: make mistakes. It's hard to stay on top of everything

1624
01:26:12,840 --> 01:26:15,280
Speaker 6: to help them through the mistakes, to try to help

1625
01:26:15,320 --> 01:26:19,439
Speaker 6: them avoiding mistakes. It's really tough being a parent, man.

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01:26:21,000 --> 01:26:23,160
Speaker 6: And then you got to give them enough range where

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01:26:23,160 --> 01:26:26,439
Speaker 6: they have the freedom to learn. But then you got

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01:26:26,560 --> 01:26:32,120
Speaker 6: to have enough restraints so they don't overdo it. And sometimes, man,

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01:26:32,760 --> 01:26:37,000
Speaker 6: you wind up overdoing both. You wind up giving them

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01:26:37,040 --> 01:26:39,840
Speaker 6: too much leeway, you wind up sometimes giving them too

1631
01:26:39,920 --> 01:26:43,599
Speaker 6: much restraint. It's a hard job because parenting don't come

1632
01:26:43,640 --> 01:26:46,720
Speaker 6: with a manual and the book you can read and

1633
01:26:46,840 --> 01:26:48,920
Speaker 6: says that when they do this, you do that. It

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01:26:49,000 --> 01:26:52,280
Speaker 6: don't work that way. Every child is different. All of

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01:26:52,400 --> 01:26:55,840
Speaker 6: my kids are different. The way I had to handle

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01:26:55,920 --> 01:27:00,240
Speaker 6: them was different. One of the rewards I found about

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01:27:00,320 --> 01:27:04,320
Speaker 6: parenting now that my children are older, is I find

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01:27:04,400 --> 01:27:08,519
Speaker 6: it really cool man that they still want to be

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01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:12,720
Speaker 6: around you if your kids no, no, this is not

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01:27:12,920 --> 01:27:15,559
Speaker 6: all the time. Don't get me wrong, man. Now they

1641
01:27:15,600 --> 01:27:17,479
Speaker 6: don't want to do everything with you. They got their

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01:27:17,560 --> 01:27:20,280
Speaker 6: circle of friends, they got the spots they want to

1643
01:27:20,360 --> 01:27:20,760
Speaker 6: go down.

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01:27:20,920 --> 01:27:21,360
Speaker 2: Younger.

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01:27:21,439 --> 01:27:23,760
Speaker 6: You're not gonna get invited to everything. That's not what

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01:27:23,880 --> 01:27:29,400
Speaker 6: I'm talking about. I'm talking about just occasionally they call

1647
01:27:29,479 --> 01:27:33,760
Speaker 6: and they check on you without wanting nothing. Sometimes man,

1648
01:27:33,800 --> 01:27:37,000
Speaker 6: they just want to come hang out with you. It's

1649
01:27:37,040 --> 01:27:39,559
Speaker 6: a rewarding thing, man. But you in order to get

1650
01:27:39,640 --> 01:27:42,400
Speaker 6: to that side of it, you got to put time

1651
01:27:42,479 --> 01:27:43,360
Speaker 6: in with your kids.

1652
01:27:43,479 --> 01:27:45,920
Speaker 2: Man. You got to invest in them.

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01:27:48,200 --> 01:27:48,360
Speaker 7: You know.

1654
01:27:48,680 --> 01:27:51,200
Speaker 6: I watched Tommy on this show as a father and

1655
01:27:51,360 --> 01:27:54,360
Speaker 6: deal with his kids. How he invested in his kids,

1656
01:27:54,720 --> 01:27:59,320
Speaker 6: and the payout is good to see his daughters love him,

1657
01:27:59,400 --> 01:28:02,519
Speaker 6: his son love him. You know, they ask him questions,

1658
01:28:02,560 --> 01:28:05,000
Speaker 6: they come to him for godless. I watched Shirley do

1659
01:28:05,080 --> 01:28:07,080
Speaker 6: it with her daughter. I'm watching car and do it

1660
01:28:07,200 --> 01:28:10,080
Speaker 6: with her daughter. It's amazing. They come in there and

1661
01:28:10,160 --> 01:28:13,000
Speaker 6: say goodbye every day on this zoom while we do

1662
01:28:13,120 --> 01:28:16,840
Speaker 6: our radio show. It's amazing, man. You want to have

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01:28:17,360 --> 01:28:23,560
Speaker 6: kids that when they do grow up and they appreciative

1664
01:28:23,600 --> 01:28:27,760
Speaker 6: of what you did for them. Now, they ain't always

1665
01:28:29,000 --> 01:28:33,040
Speaker 6: and they don't always get it right, and oftentimes they

1666
01:28:33,200 --> 01:28:36,680
Speaker 6: lack in the appreciation department, But that don't mean you

1667
01:28:36,760 --> 01:28:39,280
Speaker 6: didn't do a good job. Sometimes being a parent is

1668
01:28:39,280 --> 01:28:45,760
Speaker 6: a thankless job. It really is, especially to single mothers, man,

1669
01:28:45,920 --> 01:28:48,639
Speaker 6: single mothers out there, it is such a thankless job

1670
01:28:49,000 --> 01:28:52,160
Speaker 6: because they have no idea what you're doing.

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01:28:52,880 --> 01:28:53,960
Speaker 2: They have no idea.

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01:28:54,200 --> 01:28:58,240
Speaker 6: Your children are clueless to the real sacrifices you done made,

1673
01:28:58,640 --> 01:29:02,599
Speaker 6: and I know they are. That's why my foundation comes

1674
01:29:02,640 --> 01:29:05,000
Speaker 6: to the aid of single mothers who are raising boys

1675
01:29:05,080 --> 01:29:07,920
Speaker 6: by theyself, because I know it's a daunting task. So

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01:29:08,000 --> 01:29:10,760
Speaker 6: we try to take them for five days and kind

1677
01:29:10,800 --> 01:29:12,800
Speaker 6: of give them something else mental to think about and

1678
01:29:12,880 --> 01:29:15,320
Speaker 6: reshape their mind and they thinking, and try to give

1679
01:29:15,360 --> 01:29:19,200
Speaker 6: them back a better boy. But it's tough. So many

1680
01:29:19,280 --> 01:29:23,120
Speaker 6: things about parenting is tough. But man, how rewarding is it?

1681
01:29:23,240 --> 01:29:23,400
Speaker 2: Though?

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01:29:25,200 --> 01:29:25,360
Speaker 11: Man?

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01:29:25,439 --> 01:29:28,559
Speaker 2: When my sons go, hey, Dad, you fishing this weekend?

1684
01:29:28,680 --> 01:29:32,920
Speaker 2: Can I come fish with you? Yeah? Man, how rewarding

1685
01:29:33,080 --> 01:29:33,200
Speaker 2: is it?

1686
01:29:33,320 --> 01:29:33,479
Speaker 11: Man?

1687
01:29:33,560 --> 01:29:35,680
Speaker 6: When your son is getting dressed for an eventing he

1688
01:29:35,800 --> 01:29:38,240
Speaker 6: calls you with a friend on the other phone. Wentton

1689
01:29:38,320 --> 01:29:42,759
Speaker 6: did this to me last year getting ready for a galo.

1690
01:29:43,479 --> 01:29:45,160
Speaker 6: He was coming to my gala with a friend of

1691
01:29:45,240 --> 01:29:48,720
Speaker 6: his and he was trying to tie his tie. The

1692
01:29:48,880 --> 01:29:52,280
Speaker 6: boy had on the wingtip tuxedo shirt, but he wanted

1693
01:29:52,320 --> 01:29:55,080
Speaker 6: to wear a regular tie, and he asked wanting to

1694
01:29:55,200 --> 01:29:57,040
Speaker 6: tie his tie for him, and Win couldn't get it

1695
01:29:57,120 --> 01:29:59,120
Speaker 6: straighted to not kept being slanted.

1696
01:30:00,000 --> 01:30:00,560
Speaker 2: He called me.

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01:30:01,600 --> 01:30:05,920
Speaker 6: He said, Dad, my buddy Sean got this tuxedo shirt

1698
01:30:05,960 --> 01:30:08,320
Speaker 6: on its got a wing tip on it. I knew

1699
01:30:08,360 --> 01:30:09,920
Speaker 6: what he was talking about, the little collar to stick

1700
01:30:10,000 --> 01:30:12,920
Speaker 6: up like a penguin. I said, yeah, man, what's wrong?

1701
01:30:13,360 --> 01:30:15,200
Speaker 6: He said, I keep tying the knot, man, but it's

1702
01:30:15,240 --> 01:30:18,599
Speaker 6: coming out slanting and it don't look even. I said, son,

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01:30:18,840 --> 01:30:20,280
Speaker 6: you gotta tie a double windsor.

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01:30:21,320 --> 01:30:21,599
Speaker 2: He said.

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01:30:21,640 --> 01:30:23,800
Speaker 6: I said, instead of going around once bringing it through

1706
01:30:23,920 --> 01:30:25,439
Speaker 6: like you do on a regular shirt to make a

1707
01:30:25,560 --> 01:30:28,000
Speaker 6: thin knot, you got to make that vnight. So you

1708
01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:31,240
Speaker 6: need a double windsor. He said, hold on, Dad, let

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01:30:31,280 --> 01:30:35,200
Speaker 6: me try that. He said, Wow, that worked. He said,

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01:30:35,240 --> 01:30:36,560
Speaker 6: thanks Dad, I appreciate that.

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01:30:36,720 --> 01:30:36,920
Speaker 3: Man.

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01:30:37,400 --> 01:30:39,960
Speaker 6: But he didn't hang up the phone, and I didn't

1713
01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:44,519
Speaker 6: hang up, and I overheard him saying to his boy, man,

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01:30:46,200 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 6: my dad know everything. He said, I ain't ever called

1715
01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:52,160
Speaker 6: my father and he ain't have an answer for me.

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01:30:53,760 --> 01:30:57,280
Speaker 6: He has never told me he didn't know. And that

1717
01:30:57,439 --> 01:30:58,960
Speaker 6: dude said, yeah, man, that's cool.

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01:30:59,040 --> 01:30:59,720
Speaker 2: I ain't had that.

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01:31:01,400 --> 01:31:05,040
Speaker 6: And that teared me up, man, because my son man

1720
01:31:05,360 --> 01:31:08,800
Speaker 6: realizes that I've been there for him like Tommy been

1721
01:31:08,880 --> 01:31:12,400
Speaker 6: there for his son. And that's effective, man. So it's

1722
01:31:12,439 --> 01:31:15,080
Speaker 6: a really cool thing. That's one of the rewards and parents,

1723
01:31:15,840 --> 01:31:18,120
Speaker 6: or one of the rewards of parenting when you find

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01:31:18,160 --> 01:31:20,800
Speaker 6: out that they get it. And sometimes they don't get

1725
01:31:20,800 --> 01:31:23,720
Speaker 6: it till they've grown, just hanging there, but they will

1726
01:31:23,840 --> 01:31:28,360
Speaker 6: get it. Those are my closesing remarks today. Y'all keep parenting,

1727
01:31:29,240 --> 01:31:31,760
Speaker 6: Stop trying to be their friend, be their parent. It's

1728
01:31:31,800 --> 01:31:35,080
Speaker 6: the most important thing you can do for them. Y'all

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01:31:35,080 --> 01:31:36,000
Speaker 6: have a great day today.

1730
01:31:36,120 --> 01:31:38,640
Speaker 2: Talk to God. He would absolutely love to hear from you.

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01:31:39,240 --> 01:31:40,440
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go fish.

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