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Speaker 1: All right. See this is from Derek on Steve Harvey FM.

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Speaker 1: Derek says, my uncle and I were really close, and

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Speaker 1: when he passed away earlier this year, his estate was

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Speaker 1: split equally between me and his two children. My cousin

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Speaker 1: has barely spoken to her dad in the last decade,

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Speaker 1: so she doesn't know how much I've done for him

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Speaker 1: over the years. But now she's livid that I was

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Speaker 1: included in his will at all, much less that I

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Speaker 1: got the same amount she did. Her brother knows how

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Speaker 1: close his dad and I were, and he's totally fine

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Speaker 1: with my being included. She's now threatening to sue me.

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Speaker 1: I really don't want to have to go to court

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Speaker 1: over this. How can I get her to understand why

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Speaker 1: I was included in the will? Should I offer her

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Speaker 1: some of what I got to avoid a court battle?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: There is no court battle. Wills are absolute. You have

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Speaker 3: an executor of a will, someone read and this is

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Speaker 3: what the findings were. And can't nobody take you to

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Speaker 3: court over that? Bru Stop letting people threaten you. People

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Speaker 3: always got it. I'm gonna go to court. You ain't

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Speaker 3: put no you you get the same thing as her.

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Speaker 3: There's no argument it's in the will. It don't matter

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Speaker 3: what she know, the executor and all this is, you'll

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Speaker 3: never go to court. All it's gonna do is go

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Speaker 3: to arbitration. Man, That's all that's gonna happen.

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Speaker 4: Right here. I've been through this before. This is gonna

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Speaker 4: go to arbitration.

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Speaker 3: All you're gonna do is an arbitrator gonna read this

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Speaker 3: thing right here and then gonna tell you, hey, man,

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Speaker 3: get your ass up out of here. We're not finished.

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Speaker 3: Spend no counting money and all this here, bringing no

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Speaker 3: people here, and get no jewelry.

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Speaker 4: This is what it said.

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Speaker 3: You know what y'all want to do, because right now

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Speaker 3: I'm finnha give it three ways?

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Speaker 2: When do we need to sit everybody down and let

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Speaker 2: them know I'm in your will because I don't want

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Speaker 2: to go through this laid on myself, you know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. They wonder why time on live? Why he

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Speaker 2: gave time and half, you know, cause me and you

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Speaker 2: right well, and I don't want I don't have to

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Speaker 2: deal with this.

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Speaker 4: What do you call it?

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Speaker 2: That you got to go through obitration, which I shouldn't

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Speaker 2: have to go through all that. So I just want

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Speaker 2: to have a nice sit down meeting with me and

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Speaker 2: you and the rest of the family.

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Speaker 3: So people know, let me just say this, You don't.

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Speaker 3: You ain't gota worry about going through nothing.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna have that paperwork right, and I appreciate it.

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Speaker 4: Thank loud. You ain't. You ain't got to worry about

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Speaker 4: going through nothing.

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Speaker 3: Good.

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Speaker 2: You're taking care of you.

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Speaker 4: Look at that love it. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you can rest assured now, Tommy.

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Speaker 2: I'd like to get this in writing now though, so

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Speaker 2: I don't have to be Oh, it's in writing.

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Speaker 4: It's in writing. What is.

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Speaker 3: But it's it's in writing and ain't in writing. Matter

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Speaker 3: of fact, your name ain't even gonna come up.

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Speaker 4: That's what this is.

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Speaker 3: So you ain't got to worry about no arbitration or

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Speaker 3: nothing right here, You ain't.

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Speaker 4: You ain't got to worry about nothing at all. I

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Speaker 4: don't have I don't have the estate.

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Speaker 2: What have you seen the state?

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, it's like a state.

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Speaker 1: But your mother looks like a state.

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Speaker 2: What he gonna find out? Just the person that just

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Speaker 2: wrote in what was they talking about? They uncle right,

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Speaker 2: and they're close. That's what I'm talking about. Yeah, I'm

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Speaker 2: not his child, but I'm closer, and that's.

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Speaker 3: What a lot of people. We are close. We are close,

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Speaker 3: we just ain't close enough.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, distant low? All right, we have another one.

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Speaker 1: This is from e J on Steve Harvey f M.

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Speaker 1: E J says, how do you deal with the landlord

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Speaker 1: who thinks they're your friend? Two months ago, I moved

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Speaker 1: into one side of a duplex. I tend to be

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Speaker 1: the mind your own business type, but I'm thinking my

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Speaker 1: landlord slash neighbor is high on social needs but low

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Speaker 1: on friends. Since I've moved in, he's come over no

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Speaker 1: less than four nights a week to say what's up,

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Speaker 1: talk about what's going on, and sometime even brings food

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Speaker 1: over in the hopes that I'll fire up my grill

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Speaker 1: and enjoy a meal with him. The place is nice

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Speaker 1: and the rent is reasonable, but I'm not sure how

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Speaker 1: much longer I can deal with this dude, Morning crew.

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Speaker 1: Do you guys have any suggestion?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you need to start looking for a new place. Man.

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Speaker 4: If you have a nice time in there and get

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Speaker 4: yourself somewhere to live, you gonna come home.

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Speaker 3: He's gonna be sitting up on the couch with a

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Speaker 3: bag of chip, watching TV one day, you know he

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Speaker 3: got the key.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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