1 00:00:01,840 --> 00:00:08,479 Speaker 1: Find Out and Michael and radio podcast Happy friends Giving 2 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: even though it's already it was already Thanksgiving. But I 3 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:17,840 Speaker 1: feel like it's just a year of happy friends giving. 4 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Or no, yeah I do. 5 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 1: I mean I think, uh, you know, because not everybody 6 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:28,319 Speaker 1: lives close to their family, but wherever you live, you 7 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 1: have friends nearby, so you're probably spending more time with 8 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: friends than you have been family. You know, he just 9 00:00:35,880 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: sounded like jolly because Joey Jolie always goes. I loved 10 00:00:41,120 --> 00:00:44,280 Speaker 1: that as a family, a family, I did just it 11 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:48,600 Speaker 1: just naturally came out instead of your family. Um, we 12 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,919 Speaker 1: have dinner as a family. It's so cute, except when 13 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: our grown person says it was like, um, but yeah, 14 00:00:57,200 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: so this year, this whole year has been like a 15 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:05,039 Speaker 1: friends here, friends giving, friends miss friends everything. I feel 16 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 1: like it's because we can't. You know, we were last 17 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 1: minute going to go to Michigan for Thanksgiving because you know, 18 00:01:15,040 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 1: grandparents are getting old and I wanted to eat my 19 00:01:18,760 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 1: grandpa stuffing, but it was COVID and obviously we didn't 20 00:01:22,760 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: want to bring anything to them, so we were supposed 21 00:01:25,280 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 1: to spend Thanksgiving with um, some friends of ours but 22 00:01:29,240 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: they were sick. Um and Jolie randomly like got a 23 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:36,880 Speaker 1: fever out of nowhere. It was one of those like 24 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: she has no symptoms, she's just tired, but she had 25 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: a fever. So it was super strange. And so I'm like, 26 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 1: you know what, something just didn't feel right to me 27 00:01:46,720 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: about the whole situation. Um, and so we ended up 28 00:01:50,640 --> 00:01:52,880 Speaker 1: staying home. But I gotta tell you what, it was 29 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 1: probably one of my favorite thanksgivings, Like as as much 30 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: as like the friend's house we're going to go to 31 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: is like family. It was just nice, just us. It 32 00:02:03,680 --> 00:02:09,920 Speaker 1: was relaxing and you know, no forced small talk or conversation. 33 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: I gotta tell you what, I hate small talk. It's 34 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: one of my least favorite things in the world to do. 35 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,760 Speaker 1: Like we've got we've got invited to go to some 36 00:02:18,840 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: other friends places, not like neighborly friends, which our neighbors 37 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 1: are awesome, But I just don't like small talk. It 38 00:02:26,240 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: gives me so much anxiety to do small talk like so, 39 00:02:30,880 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: and I'm kind of the king of small talk at times. 40 00:02:33,880 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: It's like anytime Jan and I have gone to like 41 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: a mutual business meeting, I'm in there like, hey, let's 42 00:02:41,480 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: just when it's business, I feel like I just want 43 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,360 Speaker 1: to get to it. You do, like there's no there's 44 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:50,240 Speaker 1: no butter in the biscuit for you. Like I'll be 45 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: in like hey, Kevin, Hey, sounds how you guys doing doing? 46 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: It's like, okay, let's talk what we're gonna do. I'm like, 47 00:02:56,600 --> 00:03:00,679 Speaker 1: like you just strictly business when it's about business. Yeah, 48 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:04,160 Speaker 1: I really don't know honestly why I think with business, 49 00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: I just want to get I want to get to it, 50 00:03:07,200 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: you know, just get to the business talk of things. 51 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: But then also when it comes to friends, it's hard 52 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: for me to like I love meeting new people. You 53 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:19,000 Speaker 1: know that, like I can. I can, Like I mean, 54 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 1: I met my best friend on an airplane. So I 55 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:23,720 Speaker 1: like to talk. I think it's just the small talk 56 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:27,960 Speaker 1: of just the few back and forth things that I 57 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: don't like, Like I want to if I'm gonna talk 58 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: to you, I want to get in. I want to 59 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 1: know your story. I want to know, like why you 60 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:37,080 Speaker 1: weren't married, why you got divorced, Like I want to 61 00:03:37,160 --> 00:03:39,840 Speaker 1: like ask all of those questions. That's the stuff I 62 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,040 Speaker 1: want to talk about. It's this small talk like oh 63 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: what do you do? Oh? Yeah, I'm like, huh, yeah, 64 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:48,760 Speaker 1: like it just I don't know, I don't like it. No, 65 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 1: it's true. It's like you can become friends with people 66 00:03:52,080 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: so quickly because you go there so quickly and you 67 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: have an inviting presence about you, so people are willing 68 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 1: to go there with you quickly, and then once you 69 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:05,080 Speaker 1: get there, it's like all right, it's like, hey, how 70 00:04:05,120 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: are you like some that small talk stuff you just 71 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,160 Speaker 1: have a problem with? And I see that, which is 72 00:04:12,160 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 1: why I'm happy because this year, I mean, granted again 73 00:04:15,720 --> 00:04:17,839 Speaker 1: we didn't have our friends Giving, but I feel like 74 00:04:17,880 --> 00:04:20,400 Speaker 1: it is the season of friends giving because for Christmas 75 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 1: we're gonna do a friends Miss, which we did last 76 00:04:23,360 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: year and it was so awesome. Yea. And nothing against 77 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:28,080 Speaker 1: family or anything like that. It's just well, we'd love 78 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:29,640 Speaker 1: to have our family, but they're afraid of you know, 79 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 1: COVID and all those things. So okay. So if you 80 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: had a choice between spending the holidays with your friends 81 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: or your family, what would you choose. Well, I mean 82 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: obviously I would choose my family, like I want to 83 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: see my family, you know. But no, no, there's no 84 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:56,919 Speaker 1: but it's I will say last Friends Miss was so 85 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:59,000 Speaker 1: much fun with all the friends. Like we had a 86 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: great time, you know what it's like. You know. So 87 00:05:02,800 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 1: Jane and I we have the same kind of routine, 88 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 1: uh list of Christmas movies that we watch every year, 89 00:05:10,600 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: and we started it this past weekend with Four Christmas 90 00:05:13,200 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: Is very We think that's a very underrated movie. By 91 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: the way, Vince Vaughn and um and like when they're 92 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 1: talking to beginning of the movie and his friends are like, 93 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 1: you know, you gotta go to my parents or my 94 00:05:26,640 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 1: mother in laws and sleep on the couch with the 95 00:05:28,360 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 1: cats and do this and do that. And Vince Vaughn's 96 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:32,480 Speaker 1: like that sounds terrible. Why do you do that? And 97 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,840 Speaker 1: the like it's Christmas, It's what you do, right. It's 98 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:41,040 Speaker 1: just one of those things, which to an extent I get. Well, 99 00:05:41,160 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 1: here's we're all astric mine. People are more than welcome 100 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 1: to come to our house. Like I think my mom well, 101 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 1: but I think my mom and them have changed their 102 00:05:48,480 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: mind because of you know, COVID and stuff. But our 103 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:55,160 Speaker 1: doors always open. I just don't want to travel for Christmas. 104 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: And I know we've talked about that before. So that's 105 00:05:56,960 --> 00:06:01,520 Speaker 1: why again with having like the friends giving I don't 106 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 1: know it's just the year of friends giving because we're 107 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: able to be with our friends, and I think we 108 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 1: want to be with our families. But we have to 109 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: make the best of the situation. And sometimes you know, 110 00:06:12,240 --> 00:06:14,480 Speaker 1: friends are the family you get to pick, which is 111 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:20,480 Speaker 1: kind of nice. Yeah, and I'm confident that will never 112 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:25,080 Speaker 1: travel for a Christmas. Um maybe when the kids are older. 113 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: There would have to be older. Yeah, but no time 114 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 1: in the next five years. By the way, friend of 115 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:35,599 Speaker 1: you avid wind down listeners, you know, that's huge for 116 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: Michael to say, because boy, did we have an argument 117 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: about that one that was like the beginning of wind down. 118 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 1: You can't say that, And I'm like, no, but you can. 119 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: By the way, I'm sorry if I sound like a man. 120 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: My kid coughed in my face and he gave me 121 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: whatever he had. And don't worry, we're getting COVID tests 122 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 1: later just double check. Oh man, No, It is like, 123 00:07:00,000 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, what would you if you had the choice, Like, hey, 124 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: you know, would do friends miss or your parents? Can come? 125 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:11,119 Speaker 1: Your family? I'll say your family. So does it feels 126 00:07:11,160 --> 00:07:17,320 Speaker 1: like such a personal attack? You know, both have their 127 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 1: their pros and cons. I mean, obviously family, you're always 128 00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 1: drawn more towards family, you know, and it's great for 129 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 1: especially when you have kids. It's great for the kids. 130 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, it's hard. I think something that I realized, 131 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: Like again, I'll always say like my family absolutely our 132 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: doors open, like always want our door open. It's going 133 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: to the families where it's like, okay, we're gonna go 134 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: here at this time, here at the seven, Like I'm 135 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: thirty seven years old. You're not gonna tell me a 136 00:07:44,200 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 1: schedule for when we are going to visit a family, 137 00:07:47,240 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 1: do you know what I mean? Like I remember that 138 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,000 Speaker 1: one year and it's like, I'm sorry, you want me 139 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: to be up at what time? And that was before 140 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: we had kids, So that was back when we slept 141 00:07:57,080 --> 00:08:02,200 Speaker 1: in huh no, no, no, I'm a grown adult. We're 142 00:08:02,240 --> 00:08:04,480 Speaker 1: gonna be up at eight. Yeah, we're gonna eat breakfast 143 00:08:04,480 --> 00:08:06,600 Speaker 1: and we're gonna go to a church. You're here like 144 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: excuse you? Okay, yes, ma'am. So I think again, doors 145 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,440 Speaker 1: always open. I'll always just him. I love my family. 146 00:08:17,440 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: I love like we just had my brother and his 147 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: wife here, best time ever, so fun. We played card games, 148 00:08:24,320 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: and so I think the doors is always open. But 149 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:31,040 Speaker 1: because of COVID this year, it is that friends and 150 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 1: and we are you have to be tricky this year too, 151 00:08:34,400 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 1: even with you know, friends giving and you know friends 152 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 1: miss it's like, you know, it's scary out there right now. 153 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:46,600 Speaker 1: Which ones are being going out too much? Oh for sure? 154 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:48,679 Speaker 1: But I think that's what was cool about like Thanksgiving 155 00:08:48,800 --> 00:08:53,199 Speaker 1: is the fact that it was just us and there 156 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: wasn't stressed around that. Like sometimes, you know, we could 157 00:08:57,400 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: have even been guilty of it in the past where 158 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 1: it's like we're only by ourselves and we're not with 159 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:03,800 Speaker 1: so and so or so and so we don't have 160 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 1: friends with us or family or you know, it could 161 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 1: be sad or frustrating and or you know, have create anxiety. 162 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,080 Speaker 1: So for everyone just to be like if it is 163 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,640 Speaker 1: just you and the person, just the person you're with 164 00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: or your your immediate family, that's awesome. Enjoy it. I agree. 165 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: I usually I get really sad on holidays and I'm like, 166 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:29,160 Speaker 1: it was just us and like you know, and I'm like, 167 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: it was just us and it was amazing. It was 168 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 1: so relaxing and I get to organize what did I do? 169 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: Oh on Thanksgiving Day, I'm I'm kind of taking some 170 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 1: food to our friend's house and swapping food and because 171 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:48,040 Speaker 1: we initially plan on going over there, but obviously plans changed. 172 00:09:48,080 --> 00:09:51,840 Speaker 1: So I come back and watch Jannah doing Oh she's 173 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:56,840 Speaker 1: not relaxing, she's not just hanging out. She's literally rearranging 174 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 1: Jolie's room, almost pulls her back out by trying to 175 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: move full size bad by herself. I'm like, now Thanksgiving, 176 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: I'm downstairs, like based in the Turkey, and I had 177 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:14,520 Speaker 1: already got all your stuff was done, all your homework 178 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: was done. Yeah, but you just couldn't stop while I 179 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 1: was making room for Santa smart play. M Speaking of 180 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: friends giving, I would like to throw a little friends 181 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: giving on a relationship. Let's hear it topic. We had 182 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:38,840 Speaker 1: a little issue, um, like Michael said, we were doing 183 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: a Oh by the way, before I get into that story, 184 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: talk about a friend's giving. We've got Tori spelling and 185 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: freaking Jenny Garth coming on the show today. They have 186 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:52,719 Speaker 1: a new podcast where they talk about Nanoto No it's Nanotua, 187 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:58,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, which is so genius. Um, And I'm 188 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: pumped about it because I didn't know about the podcast, 189 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:04,360 Speaker 1: but now I'm like, I love nanoto No. Did you 190 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:09,280 Speaker 1: watch it was a little bit before my as Jana 191 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 1: likes to say, we're a different generations. We are, and 192 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:15,160 Speaker 1: that is the proof in the pudding right there, you're 193 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 1: three years older than me. It doesn't matter generationally wise 194 00:11:19,160 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 1: and shows nine o two one. Oh. I mean, I 195 00:11:23,760 --> 00:11:25,959 Speaker 1: think this is kind of embarrassing and a calablieve that 196 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 1: I'm saying this, But like Dylan Luke Perry's character, like 197 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:33,720 Speaker 1: I think I was at the age where I was 198 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 1: like I used my hand to pretend it with him kissing. 199 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 1: I thought you were gonna say I was using my hand. 200 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 1: Michael really about to say this on air right now, 201 00:11:48,880 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: like when you know you like the French kiss, like 202 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 1: your hand. Come on, Danielle, have you done that before? 203 00:11:57,520 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: You know what I'm talking about. And she's not even 204 00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,480 Speaker 1: gonna get on here issue. My hand was definitely lands 205 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:10,840 Speaker 1: bass when I was ten years old, So gotten, Michael, 206 00:12:10,880 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: get your head out of the gutter. Hey man, I'm 207 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,960 Speaker 1: just picking up what you're putting down. Come on, any guy, 208 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: you said I used to pretend that it was Luke 209 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: Perry when I was using my hand, that's what you said. Well, 210 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: I mean the age like I would kiss my Probably 211 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: I'm like joking, like, but I would know I have. 212 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: Let me just say, I'm going to talk about the 213 00:12:36,280 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: MS to you that did not happen into my late twenties. Okay, 214 00:12:40,160 --> 00:12:44,719 Speaker 1: so I was a late bloomer on that one. On 215 00:12:44,840 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 1: the episode of Friends and Friends Giving. We're all friends here, 216 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:51,000 Speaker 1: so when you talk about that kind of stuff anyways, 217 00:12:51,120 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: I loved I love love, love love love. Now don't know, 218 00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 1: but it was. I mean, yes, I'm older than you, 219 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:02,000 Speaker 1: but it was. I was a little young watching it, 220 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 1: for sure, but I still watched it and I loved it. Um, 221 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: we should rewatch it. I think you, I think you'd 222 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 1: like it. That would be a great one to do, 223 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 1: which is what they were doing on their podcast, really 224 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:15,760 Speaker 1: watching it and they're giving all the juicy details and 225 00:13:15,760 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 1: stuff behind the scenes, which I always love to know 226 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: the real drama behind the scenes and how people are. Okay, 227 00:13:23,520 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: So before we get Jenny and Tori on, Um, what 228 00:13:29,600 --> 00:13:31,520 Speaker 1: I was going to say was because it is a 229 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: friend's giving kind of year. Um, I feel like the 230 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:41,439 Speaker 1: other night we were actually friends with each other and 231 00:13:41,520 --> 00:13:47,000 Speaker 1: how we handled a situation were so we were super 232 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:50,880 Speaker 1: pumped because, like Mike said, we started rewatching Christmas shows, movies, 233 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 1: movies show movie, apple sponges and um. And we were 234 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:00,839 Speaker 1: kind of like making a joke like let's not talk 235 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 1: to each other the whole day so we don't get 236 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:06,960 Speaker 1: into a fight. Like obviously joking, but like but kind 237 00:14:06,960 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: of like, all right, let's not bring anything up that 238 00:14:08,840 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: could stir the pot. I could stir the pot. Like 239 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: we just want to have a really nice, relaxing night, 240 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 1: Like we just got our tree up, like we just 241 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: want to chill and like, yeah, like our decorations are done. 242 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:19,480 Speaker 1: Our tree was up. We're like, oh my gosh, I 243 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:21,280 Speaker 1: got the dinner and we put the kids down. We 244 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:23,680 Speaker 1: can have a fire going, the trees up, decorations, all 245 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 1: the lights off, just the twinkle lights that are on 246 00:14:25,600 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 1: the tree in the garland and all that stuff, and 247 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,680 Speaker 1: we'll watch movie. I'm like, oh my god, it's the 248 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: perfect night. We'll give each other for massages. Yeah. And 249 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: it was like leading up to it, like we're all 250 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 1: just like super cute and kissy and and then we 251 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 1: get on the couch and Mike goes so I think 252 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 1: I want to buy and then says like an amount 253 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 1: of money for about something, and I get very stressed. 254 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: About money, and I think what made me really annoyed 255 00:14:55,640 --> 00:14:58,800 Speaker 1: was that I'm like, now, right now, you have to 256 00:14:58,880 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 1: talk about this, like right before we're about to have 257 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,720 Speaker 1: really sweet I literally have the movie keyed up on 258 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:08,440 Speaker 1: the TV. All I have I haven't paused at the 259 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: very beginning. All I have to do is push the 260 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: button to play it, pause it. And I was like, 261 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 1: so I want to buy something for somebody. It was 262 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: just a lot of money, and you know, again, I 263 00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: get real anxiety around money and talking about it. And 264 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:30,000 Speaker 1: I just really didn't like the timing in which he 265 00:15:30,080 --> 00:15:32,400 Speaker 1: brought it up. Which I'll say I'm big on that 266 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 1: because I've given that to Janna Bunch where she'll it's 267 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:40,680 Speaker 1: like we've talked about on here before when we're getting 268 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:44,000 Speaker 1: ready for a date night and Janna is like, you're 269 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:45,960 Speaker 1: gonna be great for the next date night? Is we 270 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 1: do something really fancy? I'm like, really, right now, before 271 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: we go on this date night, you want to talk 272 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 1: about how much better the next one could be. I'm like, 273 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:58,160 Speaker 1: the timing is just terrible, and my timing was terrible 274 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 1: on Saturday, awful. All we started to do what we 275 00:16:01,800 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: usually do, which is where we like dance and we 276 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,800 Speaker 1: go around in a circle. But then I feel like 277 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:09,200 Speaker 1: it was our first example of how we were able 278 00:16:09,280 --> 00:16:15,320 Speaker 1: to take a breath, try to restart, I have a 279 00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: healthy conversation. And I think it's we basically practiced what 280 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: we preach in the book. We actually did it and 281 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 1: it was fantastic. And I was like, all right, Like 282 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:31,520 Speaker 1: it wasn't seamless, it wasn't perfect, but we stayed in it. 283 00:16:32,560 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 1: And I think that's something that I want to asterix 284 00:16:35,400 --> 00:16:36,680 Speaker 1: is that we stayed in it. Because there was a 285 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 1: point where I'm like, oh god, here it goes. Here's 286 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:42,080 Speaker 1: where Mike's gonna start getting loud, start getting defensive. I 287 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,400 Speaker 1: saw your shield and I was like, this is where 288 00:16:44,440 --> 00:16:47,720 Speaker 1: he gets up, goes in the room. And then we 289 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:52,280 Speaker 1: sleep in sud bedrooms and I like, saw you change 290 00:16:52,320 --> 00:16:54,600 Speaker 1: it and it was really cool to see. So I 291 00:16:54,680 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: just think with the season, you know, just to remember 292 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: that your spouse is your friend. And I think it's 293 00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 1: something that you learned about because um, there was a 294 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:05,800 Speaker 1: shortage in the nursery at church and I volunteer for 295 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:10,880 Speaker 1: the kids nursery and I wasn't able to watch church. Um, 296 00:17:11,119 --> 00:17:12,720 Speaker 1: when we normally do but Mike got to and so 297 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:16,879 Speaker 1: the pastor was talking about friends, right, Yeah, yeah, I 298 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 1: appreciate you remind me of that. You know, he was, Um, 299 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:22,600 Speaker 1: he was talking about friends and like right now, for 300 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 1: the month of December, they're doing at our church cross 301 00:17:26,119 --> 00:17:29,359 Speaker 1: Point here in Nashville. Um, they're talking about what the 302 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 1: world needs now. And so every weekend, UM, it's a 303 00:17:32,960 --> 00:17:35,879 Speaker 1: different theme on like what the world needs now. And 304 00:17:36,800 --> 00:17:40,080 Speaker 1: you know the one this past weekend was kindness. Um, 305 00:17:40,119 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 1: two weeks ago it was goodness. And and you know, 306 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 1: he was talking about the difference between the two. And 307 00:17:45,200 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: you know, goodness is is like your moral belief, like 308 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 1: is who you are. Kindness are things that you do 309 00:17:52,200 --> 00:17:54,400 Speaker 1: like acts of kindness. Right, that's why that's a that's 310 00:17:54,440 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 1: a phrase. And he was talking about things and basically 311 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 1: what there's there's so many ways that people can be incompatible, right, 312 00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,760 Speaker 1: And he was connecting it back to where if you're 313 00:18:09,800 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 1: a believer in a higher power, and especially if you 314 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 1: believe in the same higher power. He's like, that's all 315 00:18:15,240 --> 00:18:18,160 Speaker 1: the compatibility that you need to connect with somebody else. 316 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:19,760 Speaker 1: They don't have to do the same thing as you, 317 00:18:19,800 --> 00:18:21,119 Speaker 1: they don't have to look the same as you. They 318 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: don't have to sound the same as you. They don't 319 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:26,359 Speaker 1: have to be like you. They can be completely different 320 00:18:26,359 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 1: in so many ways. But the ultimate, you know, nucleus 321 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:35,959 Speaker 1: of the connection with somebody else is is that's simple. 322 00:18:36,160 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 1: It can be your higher power. And he was talking 323 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 1: about his seven year old and how they're just on 324 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: a vacation or whatever, and his seven year old was, 325 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,399 Speaker 1: you know, making all these friends. He's like, gosh, I 326 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:48,320 Speaker 1: was like, I'm I'm a I'm an adult, my thirties, Like, 327 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 1: it's so hard to make friends at times. He's like 328 00:18:50,880 --> 00:18:53,199 Speaker 1: my daughter, you know, she's just like the way she 329 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,200 Speaker 1: looks at other kids. She's like, oh, year seven, I'm seven, 330 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 1: you're human. I'm a human. Cool, let's do this and 331 00:18:58,760 --> 00:19:02,119 Speaker 1: it can be that easy. Granted, we're drawn to people 332 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:05,919 Speaker 1: that may obviously do the same things we do and 333 00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 1: unfortunately maybe look the same as we do or are 334 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,879 Speaker 1: very similar to us. But it was just such a 335 00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 1: cool message in the times like this, where it's like, man, 336 00:19:14,840 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: if we can all just open our hearts to people 337 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 1: who just have similar beliefs in a higher power and 338 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:23,760 Speaker 1: that kind of connectedness and doesn't have to be political, 339 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be anything else. What do you 340 00:19:26,200 --> 00:19:30,120 Speaker 1: say about the wives too? Like the relational aspect of it, 341 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:36,239 Speaker 1: like your friends, Remember how you said, like who can 342 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,680 Speaker 1: hurt you the most out of your friends? Oh? Yeah, 343 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:43,719 Speaker 1: my wife? He you know, our pastors talking about you know, 344 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:48,920 Speaker 1: his therapist or his counselor that he sees, and they 345 00:19:48,920 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: are on this friend's topic and his counts are asked him. 346 00:19:52,320 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 1: He's like, you know, who in your life is close 347 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:57,160 Speaker 1: enough to you that can hurt you? And he's thinking 348 00:19:57,160 --> 00:19:59,280 Speaker 1: and thinking, thinking, He's like the only person I could 349 00:19:59,280 --> 00:20:02,560 Speaker 1: think of was my wife m hm. And he was like, 350 00:20:02,640 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 1: all right, well, we got some work to do around that. 351 00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:07,399 Speaker 1: Like why he you know, he starts going into like 352 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:11,439 Speaker 1: why he doesn't let other people in, why he doesn't 353 00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:15,439 Speaker 1: have the friends that I know him well enough or 354 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: he's let in well enough to hurt them to hurt him. 355 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,000 Speaker 1: And it's such a such a good way to think 356 00:20:22,040 --> 00:20:24,240 Speaker 1: about it, because if you think about all the friends 357 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 1: or acquaintances you have, how many of those people could 358 00:20:27,359 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 1: do some something that could truly like harm you emotionally. 359 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:35,679 Speaker 1: You know. It's just a good way to kind of 360 00:20:36,080 --> 00:20:40,679 Speaker 1: judge your friendship or rate your friendship and also you know, 361 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:44,439 Speaker 1: introspectively looking into with your spouse, you know, and treating 362 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: them as a friend and remembering that. Um, well, hey, 363 00:20:52,600 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 1: thank you for sharing. B I love you're my friend. 364 00:20:55,359 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: You're my friend. Bro. Speaking of friends, Um, Jenny and 365 00:21:02,440 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 1: Tori spelling on the show. Hi, ladies, thanks for coming 366 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:11,560 Speaker 1: on wind Down. You guys, look, I'm in pjs and 367 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:14,480 Speaker 1: we have no makeup on apologies. You guys look gorgeous. 368 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: Where are you? Um, We're in Nashville. That that's why 369 00:21:19,760 --> 00:21:28,119 Speaker 1: you look so Realixed want to be there. Um okay, 370 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:30,280 Speaker 1: So you guys have the nine O two one o 371 00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:33,560 Speaker 1: MG podcast, which, by the way, is so genius because 372 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:36,520 Speaker 1: as a nine O two and O lover, like I'm 373 00:21:36,560 --> 00:21:38,680 Speaker 1: I'm so excited to listen to this podcast now because 374 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: I want to know all the details and the like 375 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,440 Speaker 1: the behind the scenes and you know, just all of it. 376 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 1: How is it? How is it reliving that? So you 377 00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 1: guys are rewatching the series, correct, and then you podcast 378 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:55,440 Speaker 1: about it. We've never watched it together. Oh, I've never 379 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 1: really even sat down the show because you know, when 380 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,040 Speaker 1: you're making a show like that, you're really caught up. 381 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 1: And then it was like thirty years ago, So if 382 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:07,320 Speaker 1: I did watch it, I've probably forgotten about it by now. 383 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 1: But so it's nice to go back and watch it. 384 00:22:09,240 --> 00:22:13,080 Speaker 1: And I'm literally watching it like a fan, like what's 385 00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,920 Speaker 1: gonna happen? Now? I can't really Brandon so hot? And look, 386 00:22:16,600 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 1: I love the whole thing. Now you know what the 387 00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:25,760 Speaker 1: crease was all about? You get it? Apparently thirty years later, like, oh, 388 00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:29,680 Speaker 1: we get it. It all makes sense. How many times 389 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 1: I have to ask this because I feel like every 390 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:34,960 Speaker 1: anyone that sees a picture of themselves even five years ago, 391 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,240 Speaker 1: if they're like, oh my gosh, why did I wear that? 392 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:39,240 Speaker 1: Or why did I have my hair like that? How 393 00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: does it feel seeing you guys like thirty years ago 394 00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:43,680 Speaker 1: being like that was the fashion? Or like how many 395 00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:48,159 Speaker 1: times does that happen? Well? Were living in the fashion 396 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:52,119 Speaker 1: right now? Yeah, we're back in the nineties, but all 397 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 1: we're kind of trying to get back into the nineties though, 398 00:22:55,119 --> 00:22:56,399 Speaker 1: I think to her, I think we need to like 399 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,159 Speaker 1: let the kids bring back the nineties and we'll watch 400 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: from the talking directly to me. Right now, I'm sitting 401 00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:06,760 Speaker 1: here in a baby and all dress. Yea ye, have 402 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: my youth, no, but it's super cringe e to sit 403 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 1: to watch, but also like I'm so appreciative of how 404 00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:19,760 Speaker 1: cute I used to be and like how young I was, 405 00:23:19,880 --> 00:23:22,639 Speaker 1: and like, oh my god, everybody looks so amazing and 406 00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: now like I know what we all look like now. 407 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: It's obviously we're older, but it's it's cool to watch it. 408 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,360 Speaker 1: It's hard though you look back and you're like, why 409 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 1: did I have worries then? Why? Like I wish and 410 00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:36,919 Speaker 1: you know, they say, you know life is wasted on 411 00:23:36,920 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 1: the youth, but uh, you know, I wish I could 412 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:42,560 Speaker 1: tell my younger self like don't worry, like everything's eats. 413 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 1: Like I look at that young girl and I'm like, wow, 414 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,800 Speaker 1: she's so cute. She had all together, and off camera, 415 00:23:47,840 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 1: I was just always so like I don't look good. 416 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,600 Speaker 1: I was so worried. And it's like I wish oftendence. 417 00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 1: Then I don't need it now. No, it's so true, 418 00:23:56,640 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: like I know awesome, I know I'm beautiful now that's 419 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,280 Speaker 1: very true. Um, Tory, I have a question about So 420 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,119 Speaker 1: when I first moved to l A, one of my 421 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 1: very first projects actually tested in front of your dad, 422 00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: and I just remember being like, oh my god, like 423 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: I mean he's he he isn't was a legend, and 424 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:18,439 Speaker 1: you know, being the creator's daughter was that. Did you 425 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 1: ever feel like certain people were trying to be your 426 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:23,119 Speaker 1: friend because they wanted to maybe be longer on the 427 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:25,199 Speaker 1: show or get on the show, Like how did you 428 00:24:25,240 --> 00:24:29,439 Speaker 1: deal with that? No, it was the hardest part of 429 00:24:29,440 --> 00:24:33,080 Speaker 1: being the creator's daughter was in my own head. I 430 00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 1: couldn't get past it. I was just like, they're not 431 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 1: gonna like me because I'm the producer's daughter. I felt 432 00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 1: like I had to go overboard like Jen No, was 433 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: like this was only in the beginning because I'm notorious sleep, 434 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 1: Like this is how I wanted to fit in. I 435 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 1: had to set like an hour early every single day 436 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,160 Speaker 1: because I was like, if anything goes wrong, they're gonna 437 00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 1: be like, oh, of course she's this because she's the 438 00:24:55,000 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: producer's daughter. She feels the titled like went the opposite. 439 00:24:58,480 --> 00:25:00,920 Speaker 1: But I was never treated that way from jump with 440 00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 1: any of the cast. They immediately embraced me, so it 441 00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:08,439 Speaker 1: was just me and then with the characters too, I 442 00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:11,800 Speaker 1: mean and just obviously there was drama in any big 443 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:15,919 Speaker 1: set um. When did you guys kind of go you 444 00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 1: know what were It's these many years past, like why 445 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,360 Speaker 1: why do we still have this animosity towards each other? 446 00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:23,880 Speaker 1: Was there like that moment that we're like, why are 447 00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,440 Speaker 1: we still fighting or having these feelings towards each other? 448 00:25:26,560 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 1: Or was it just time? I don't think there was 449 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:35,359 Speaker 1: hard fighting or animosity is Yeah, I think we've always 450 00:25:35,400 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 1: been close, even from when we stopped filming. There was 451 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:40,560 Speaker 1: never a period of time where any of us were 452 00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:43,000 Speaker 1: strange from one another or not talking or mad at 453 00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:47,440 Speaker 1: We were family, were like brothers and sisters and yeah, 454 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 1: I mean we might not see each other for months 455 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 1: or years or whatever it is, but we all know 456 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,120 Speaker 1: that we're right there for each other whenever we need them, 457 00:25:57,119 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: and like I would do anything for one of them, 458 00:25:59,200 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 1: you know. And when we did the h and I 459 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: Know two and our last summer, Jen and I created 460 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:07,680 Speaker 1: that and we got everyone together and it was so 461 00:26:07,760 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 1: crazy to have our our family back together. And so 462 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,399 Speaker 1: often because people will say, like, I can't believe the 463 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,000 Speaker 1: show only on one season it didn't go and I'm 464 00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:18,639 Speaker 1: like I still think about it. I'm like, what was 465 00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:20,639 Speaker 1: the purpose? Why didn't? And I was like, oh, you 466 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,320 Speaker 1: know what, as much as we wanted to bring that 467 00:26:23,359 --> 00:26:27,159 Speaker 1: back for the fans maybe that that was for us, 468 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,560 Speaker 1: like it was for us to be back together. And 469 00:26:29,640 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 1: that's what my my newest takeaway from that situation, because 470 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:36,199 Speaker 1: it's still a bummer. I didn't go forward, oh, but 471 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:39,159 Speaker 1: it kind of brought us full circle with everybody, and 472 00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:43,080 Speaker 1: we had one summer where we realized, like, you know, 473 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 1: you can't go home again. And these are truly my 474 00:26:46,000 --> 00:26:49,480 Speaker 1: brothers and sisters for life because being in that environment, 475 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:53,040 Speaker 1: we all regressed back to our like teen selves, like 476 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:57,600 Speaker 1: the very first day, like it's crazy, and you know, 477 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,040 Speaker 1: we picked right back up where we left off. What 478 00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,120 Speaker 1: a cool experience for y'all. And on that topic of 479 00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 1: like you know, friends and family and everything, obviously we 480 00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 1: just had Thanksgiving and you know, Jane and I were 481 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 1: just talking before y'all came on and we ended up 482 00:27:11,880 --> 00:27:13,760 Speaker 1: just being us. So it's just me, jan and and 483 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 1: our two kids, and um, you know, we didn't have 484 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:18,320 Speaker 1: family in town, we didn't go see friends that we're 485 00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: gonna do, and we realized it was one of our 486 00:27:20,520 --> 00:27:24,560 Speaker 1: most enjoyable Thanksgivings to date because they're like it's just us, 487 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 1: Like there's no small talk, there's no entertaining, there's not 488 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:29,800 Speaker 1: a million dishes to clean and everything. So we want 489 00:27:29,800 --> 00:27:33,960 Speaker 1: to know, Hey, how y'all spent your Thanksgivings? And b 490 00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:38,840 Speaker 1: would you rather spend it with friends or family? Tough question? 491 00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: I know we last we like to spend Thanksgiving to 492 00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 1: holidays together. My last year, Tor and her entire brood 493 00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:54,000 Speaker 1: came over to our I know what you're gonna say. 494 00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:56,679 Speaker 1: It takes like a mini van a giant van to 495 00:27:56,720 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 1: get you all here, but um yeah, we all we 496 00:28:00,000 --> 00:28:02,640 Speaker 1: it together and it was so fun last year and 497 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 1: we I really missed having them here this year, but 498 00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,480 Speaker 1: you're right it was. There was something really comforting and 499 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,479 Speaker 1: nice about it just being us and there was no 500 00:28:12,560 --> 00:28:15,720 Speaker 1: pressure and we were literally like cooking and then laying 501 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,679 Speaker 1: around and thinking, wait, should I change my clothes for dinner? 502 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:21,680 Speaker 1: Should I do I brush my hair? Or what what 503 00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:23,400 Speaker 1: do you guys want me to do? But we were 504 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:27,920 Speaker 1: just like comfortable all day and I love it same 505 00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:30,480 Speaker 1: We missed being with you guys, but yeah, it was 506 00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 1: just my husband's filming out of town, so it was 507 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:36,760 Speaker 1: just me and the five kids and we had fun though, 508 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:40,200 Speaker 1: like because the pressure was off like usually by the way, 509 00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,240 Speaker 1: like my green bean bundles turned out better than ever 510 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 1: this year. I know. I'm telling you because it's usually 511 00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:51,960 Speaker 1: the pressure of like, hurry, get them together, half baked 512 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:54,560 Speaker 1: and then brought to her house and then had to 513 00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,680 Speaker 1: cook more and it didn't come out right. And this 514 00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,440 Speaker 1: time I was like, there was no pressure and everything 515 00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,720 Speaker 1: turned out perfect. And of course you know that always happens. 516 00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: It's just us, no pressure and it was the best ever. 517 00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:07,160 Speaker 1: But next year, I'm perfecting those bundles here. I would 518 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:11,800 Speaker 1: like to have a bundle is fly on the wall 519 00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 1: for that. For y'all's claims getting together, because I mean, 520 00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 1: between y'all's kids, you have eight kids range from what 521 00:29:17,400 --> 00:29:21,720 Speaker 1: to three? I mean, you guys have the whole scale there. 522 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: I mean there's a lot of different developmental things happening. 523 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 1: All that's crazy. Our children spanned two decades. That's insane. 524 00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:35,480 Speaker 1: Speaking at speaking of no no to another. I think 525 00:29:35,480 --> 00:29:38,360 Speaker 1: you guys talked about it on your podcast, but obviously 526 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:40,480 Speaker 1: Donna you said you and David are like happy and 527 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,400 Speaker 1: have kids. And then I when I was reading the 528 00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:49,280 Speaker 1: interview or like the transcripts from your podcast, you said, Um, Jenny, 529 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:52,719 Speaker 1: you said that Kelly was probably single, and it broke 530 00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:56,360 Speaker 1: my heart. I was like, no, I can't, like no, 531 00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:58,640 Speaker 1: And now I feel like I have to like rewatch 532 00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,840 Speaker 1: it to understand like what went wrong and like why, 533 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:05,200 Speaker 1: like just like it made men really sad. I just 534 00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: made that up. But but I think I like to 535 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,280 Speaker 1: think of her as like a super strong independent woman 536 00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 1: that doesn't need a man. So that's kind of probably 537 00:30:12,680 --> 00:30:15,760 Speaker 1: why I said, that's so funny. Do you have anything 538 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,680 Speaker 1: like from looking back, like when you're rewatching things that 539 00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:21,640 Speaker 1: I mean, obviously I don't. I don't think people should 540 00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,280 Speaker 1: ever live with regrets or anything like that, But is 541 00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 1: there something from the show that you were like, wow, 542 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 1: like this is I wish I would have, you know, um, 543 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 1: taken it in more or appreciated the moment that we 544 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 1: were in or because I know, like filming, when you're younger, 545 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 1: you're probably just like you don't realize like everything happening. Yeah, yeah, 546 00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 1: I mean, when you're young, you don't appreciate everything. And 547 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:47,480 Speaker 1: now looking back, for sure, I wish that I had 548 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,479 Speaker 1: taken it more in and appreciated it more and really 549 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:56,840 Speaker 1: acknowledged how just lucky we were I was and um, 550 00:30:56,920 --> 00:31:01,440 Speaker 1: And also I would have probably held those relationships a 551 00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,720 Speaker 1: little bit closer like the like my relationship with Shannon, 552 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,959 Speaker 1: or my relationship with Brian, or you know, just different 553 00:31:07,960 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: people too. Really just be more open and sort of 554 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:18,600 Speaker 1: accepting of those relationships instead of finding times when we 555 00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 1: could have conflict or you know, looking at the negatives 556 00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:25,000 Speaker 1: of things instead just really being appreciative of it all. 557 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: Because like that, it comes and goes and then you're 558 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:31,400 Speaker 1: onto the next thing. You know, how is it for 559 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:35,720 Speaker 1: both of you with y'all's kids, Because I'm always curious, um, 560 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 1: you know, with people of such notoriety or that have 561 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:42,000 Speaker 1: had success in such a difficult business, right everyone, And 562 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 1: like you just touched on Jenny, like it takes luck 563 00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: to write to an extent? Uh, Like, are any of 564 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,080 Speaker 1: your kids showing interest in getting into the entertainment field? 565 00:31:51,360 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: And how is that as a parent knowing being like 566 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 1: having gone through it, knowing that it takes more than 567 00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 1: just skill and all this. It takes the stars aligning 568 00:31:59,080 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 1: in the right place right time. You know, how how 569 00:32:01,680 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 1: are you dealing with that as parents? Do you have 570 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 1: any kids that are are there any of the kids 571 00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: talking about wanting to be actors or anything like that? 572 00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 1: Tour because your kids just a little kind of Jolie 573 00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 1: are five year old, like she when she came to 574 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:19,440 Speaker 1: visit me on set, I was filming something a few 575 00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 1: months ago, and she's like, I want to be an actress. 576 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:24,800 Speaker 1: So I'm like, cute because the next day she wants 577 00:32:24,800 --> 00:32:28,200 Speaker 1: to be like, you know, a veterinary early doctor or something. 578 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,720 Speaker 1: So I think she's too young to understand now, But 579 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 1: I don't know what I would say. A couple of 580 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: my kids, like Liam, my oldest, who's thirteen. Definitely, he's 581 00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:43,880 Speaker 1: the one that has consistently shown interest in school. He 582 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:47,480 Speaker 1: does the plays and the musicals and stuff so well 583 00:32:47,480 --> 00:32:52,760 Speaker 1: when there was school, um, not virtual, good old days. Yeah, 584 00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:56,240 Speaker 1: for me, I have my oldest star at twenty three, 585 00:32:56,320 --> 00:33:00,440 Speaker 1: she she was at n y U studying theater. Like, yeah, 586 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 1: she wants to be in the business, and um, she's 587 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: living in New York right now, paying her dudes, living 588 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: on her own dime and just really thinking like this 589 00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 1: is how I have to do it. I have to 590 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 1: do it on my own, and I want to have 591 00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:16,680 Speaker 1: merit behind me, not just luck, not just my parents 592 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 1: are famous, but it's in her genes and I really 593 00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,640 Speaker 1: do feel like she kind of feels like that's what 594 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: she's supposed to do first, you know, like so, but 595 00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:30,640 Speaker 1: we encourage them to do anything and everything obviously, But 596 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 1: what I do I want in my heart for them 597 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:37,120 Speaker 1: to be in the industry. No, I do not, I 598 00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:41,760 Speaker 1: really don't. I feel like, yeah, it's a great life 599 00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 1: if you are lucky and if you know how to 600 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:50,120 Speaker 1: sustain it and make it a lifelong business. But if 601 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 1: it's just a you know, you know, if you're into 602 00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,800 Speaker 1: famous or if you're TikTok famous or whatever it is 603 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,560 Speaker 1: now these days, like that's you're never gonna be able 604 00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:03,479 Speaker 1: to survive of off that kind of fame. So if anything, 605 00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 1: I want them to, yeah, put in the work, if 606 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:09,799 Speaker 1: they go into the business and know what their value is, 607 00:34:09,880 --> 00:34:12,040 Speaker 1: because you have to know what your value is in 608 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:14,040 Speaker 1: this business where you just get taken advantage of and 609 00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:17,280 Speaker 1: shoot up and spit out and just always constantly feeling 610 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:19,560 Speaker 1: like you're just not good enough. You know, you get 611 00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 1: told no more than you get told yeah. So it's 612 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:24,840 Speaker 1: just like, is there one role that you guys haven't 613 00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:27,840 Speaker 1: played that you want to play? Like Mike Michael is 614 00:34:27,880 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 1: not an actor who wants to play a what do 615 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:31,000 Speaker 1: you want to play? You want to be in like 616 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:34,200 Speaker 1: a war movie, either that on both ends of the spectrum. 617 00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:35,759 Speaker 1: I could do that, or I could do like The 618 00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:43,000 Speaker 1: Greatest Showman even one. Yeah, we want to do a 619 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:49,080 Speaker 1: remake of our favorite movie, of which one we love comedy, 620 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,360 Speaker 1: so we would we would love to continue doing comedy together. 621 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,920 Speaker 1: Our favorite movie is um Death Becomes Her. Oh, that's 622 00:34:56,080 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 1: so good that was with them? Uh cuts it Haunt? Yeah, yeah, 623 00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:06,799 Speaker 1: Meryl Street, Oh that's have you seen that? Or that 624 00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,319 Speaker 1: she gets a big hole in her stomach? Like, yeah, 625 00:35:10,160 --> 00:35:14,000 Speaker 1: it's such a good movie. It's a little before your time, honey. 626 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:18,840 Speaker 1: We always see a mix between that and Gray Gardens. Okay, 627 00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,080 Speaker 1: I have our Great Gardens, our Fate and Death Becomes Her. 628 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:24,600 Speaker 1: Just are you talking about movies? We want to do 629 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 1: our our actual lives. It's starting to blur, like everything 630 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 1: we do starts to blur, whether it's work or life, 631 00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:35,239 Speaker 1: because it all goes together hand in hand, which is nice. Like, 632 00:35:35,320 --> 00:35:37,279 Speaker 1: there's no better job than getting to work with your 633 00:35:37,280 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 1: best friends. So I'm sure it doesn't even feel like 634 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 1: work when you guys are able to work together. It's 635 00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,799 Speaker 1: most of the time, not most of the time. So 636 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:50,480 Speaker 1: what what what days does your Nino two and o 637 00:35:50,680 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: MG podcast come out Monday's. Oh Monday's yea amazing. So 638 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,080 Speaker 1: when you're listening to wind down, make sure you'll tune 639 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:01,520 Speaker 1: into nine O two one o MG, because I mean, 640 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,560 Speaker 1: I'm super pumped now to go back, and I'm gonna 641 00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 1: make you watch it because there's so like, there's so 642 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:08,759 Speaker 1: much I have to teach you about it, about life, 643 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:12,600 Speaker 1: about life and just everything. I picked a younger man, 644 00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:15,960 Speaker 1: so he's a little before two obviously knows about it. 645 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:19,319 Speaker 1: How old are you? I'll be thirty four in a 646 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:25,240 Speaker 1: couple of months. You are young? Yeah, my little pen 647 00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 1: I likes to say we're different generations. You're not a 648 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:34,319 Speaker 1: different generation. Thank you, thank you, Jenny, thank you, thank you. 649 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:36,640 Speaker 1: She talks to me like I'm ten years younger than 650 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:43,440 Speaker 1: like three years is not exactly four right now? Okay, um, 651 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 1: But I love you, ladies, and just thank you for 652 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,279 Speaker 1: just being awesome and and for you know, spilling the 653 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,920 Speaker 1: tea and the you know, all the goodness on your podcast. 654 00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,279 Speaker 1: And I'm excited to listen to it too because I 655 00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 1: want to hear all about Brandon and Kelly and just 656 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,840 Speaker 1: all of it. So, but thank you, thanks for having me. 657 00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:04,239 Speaker 1: You guys, out there. We'll have to visit you in 658 00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:09,160 Speaker 1: Nashville someday anytime. Right now, So you guys are it's 659 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:12,040 Speaker 1: it's frost. It's like it's flurrying. We're just looking out 660 00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:14,959 Speaker 1: our window and yeah, but we love you guys. Stay 661 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 1: safe in l A. Please you guys too. Okay, thank you. 662 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,640 Speaker 1: I had their barbies. I'm so glad I didn't tell 663 00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,560 Speaker 1: them that, but I mean, I I know Joke had 664 00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:28,279 Speaker 1: the barbies of the nine o two and oh, it's 665 00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:32,160 Speaker 1: just crazy, you know, gonna Kelly all of that when 666 00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 1: you see when you know, we've been able to talk 667 00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:36,040 Speaker 1: to a lot of people on this show and meet 668 00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,799 Speaker 1: a lot of people, and it's been so much fun. 669 00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,839 Speaker 1: And it's just you take yourself back to your childhood self, 670 00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 1: even though they were basically kids. I mean they're in there, 671 00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:47,359 Speaker 1: you know, young twenties. Um. But it's just crazy how 672 00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:49,560 Speaker 1: things come full circle and now we're like talking to 673 00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:52,759 Speaker 1: people like that, where as a kid in your mind, 674 00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:55,640 Speaker 1: they're these larger than life people. Yeah. No, I mean 675 00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,399 Speaker 1: I totally hear what you're saying. It's one of those 676 00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 1: things where like watching it and making out with my 677 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,400 Speaker 1: hand the kid, I never think that I'd be talking 678 00:38:02,400 --> 00:38:07,080 Speaker 1: to thanks for clarifying whatever I think that, you know, 679 00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:11,160 Speaker 1: I'd be talking to freaking Jenny Garth. Yeah, it's just cool. 680 00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:14,160 Speaker 1: You just realized how everyone is just a normal person 681 00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:16,520 Speaker 1: when it comes down to it, you know, and that's 682 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 1: just stars. They're just like us, and that's just what 683 00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,720 Speaker 1: we want to, you know, leave you'all with going into 684 00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:27,279 Speaker 1: the rest of this holiday season. Man, it's just we're 685 00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:31,000 Speaker 1: all equal, we're all friends. Friends. Just don't small talk 686 00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,319 Speaker 1: to me when you meet me, tell me like about 687 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:35,200 Speaker 1: your deepest, darkest and then I'll be your best. Don't 688 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:39,439 Speaker 1: small talk to me. People are probably already nervous coming 689 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:43,920 Speaker 1: up to you. No, that's like my favorite. Like we 690 00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: had Hijiana. I'm a big fan. My dad used to 691 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:50,200 Speaker 1: beat me. Oh my god, Michael, it's not funny, you know, 692 00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,239 Speaker 1: like come on, you know, like when it's if you 693 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:55,040 Speaker 1: all ever see us out, Like we were just got 694 00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,479 Speaker 1: a Christmas tree and someone said they read our book 695 00:38:57,560 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 1: and it was like we talked about it the whole 696 00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 1: right time, Like it was so cool. Us we like 697 00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,480 Speaker 1: are obsessed with that. I just mean, like, you know, no, 698 00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:08,840 Speaker 1: I'm just joking with Okay, God, you always make me 699 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 1: I hate cat people like that was the best. Oh goodness, gracious, UM, 700 00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: I love you guys, and UM, don't forget when you're 701 00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 1: sending out your packages to use FedEx because they're awesome. 702 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:24,080 Speaker 1: Actually just shipped out some more Jolian Jason because I 703 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 1: bought everybody Julian Jays p J, and I just sent 704 00:39:26,680 --> 00:39:31,319 Speaker 1: our niece and nephews um their presence Federshal the other day. 705 00:39:31,360 --> 00:39:34,360 Speaker 1: So I think we're all set um and be friends. 706 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:42,600 Speaker 1: Let's love each other and have a great holiday season. Bye.