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Speaker 1: and it's also May twenty nine, which is, as you know,

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Speaker 1: Memorial Day weekends. And um, my parents as soon as

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Speaker 1: a hailstorm in Denver moments after I flew out, And

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Speaker 1: God thank god, I flew out. What's important that you

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Speaker 1: got out of there. I got out of there alive,

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Speaker 1: and I am so happy. And you got here just

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Speaker 1: in time for our guests. Yes, just in time for

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Speaker 1: our guests. We have, let's just say, and a real

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Speaker 1: ally here today, a real ally, someone who protects us,

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Speaker 1: someone who prides herself on her alley ship. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: just saw her at a show and she was rocking

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Speaker 1: a Pride dress. She was telling me about this, and

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Speaker 1: intention of keeping. That is for the show. I can't

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Speaker 1: wait to get into this. Um Matt, let's go through

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Speaker 1: the credits. Let's indeed go through the credits. So the

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Speaker 1: next time you can see her ass on stage will

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Speaker 1: be at her show. Let me break you up. It's

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Speaker 1: at June. It's on at u c B. This is

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Speaker 1: a great show, great show. This is a show that

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Speaker 1: I went on with my partner and we had to

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Speaker 1: break up. So I mean, if that's something you're worried about,

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Speaker 1: stay far away. But if you like good comedy, come, come, come, come,

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Speaker 1: and you can also check out her awesome, awesome awesome

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Speaker 1: series on CNBC called Saved. She's fantastic responded in that

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Speaker 1: and the web series single Blonde Failure, which our friend

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Speaker 1: Dave said, she's a star. She's a star. You know what.

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Speaker 1: I I will very rarely ever watch someone's web series,

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Speaker 1: someone especially someone's vanity web series. And I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: vanity like pejoratively we can say that. But I've lasted

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Speaker 1: through these episodes and I loved every single one of

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Speaker 1: them so much. Guys, welcome car of Flies open. I

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Speaker 1: would just like to say, I am shocked how quickly

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Speaker 1: you guys started this. Pott, what do you mean? You

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Speaker 1: guys were casually talking. Then Bo was like three too,

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Speaker 1: wanting do you leave it all of the door? You

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Speaker 1: come in you act professional, because girl, there were some

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Speaker 1: ju ju in the room. I don't know what your

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Speaker 1: problem is. Do you have just just getting off a

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Speaker 1: plane energy? Yes, there's that also, but then like just

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Speaker 1: low key you guys. Matt came late. I came a

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Speaker 1: little bit late, and I think we were going to

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Speaker 1: talk about I was. I was doing a really good

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Speaker 1: job of holding it together. Listen, I have a great energy.

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Speaker 1: I walked here. I have through Cobble Hill parts of

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Speaker 1: is great energy. But no, we're It's like Carle is saying,

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Speaker 1: we leave that at the door. We have it's only

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Speaker 1: good energy from now on the door. Honey, you clocked in, Um,

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Speaker 1: a lift. Okay, okay, I support lift and great atmosphere

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Speaker 1: in those cars. Sure, great atmosphere, and you're talking to

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Speaker 1: horrid experience I had with Villa? Do you know what

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Speaker 1: because I and then I said, because that's where I

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Speaker 1: about this, I'll tell you. So I uber ubered home

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Speaker 1: I guess that's the truth. That's that's terrified. It is terrifying.

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Speaker 1: But guess what all for this story? For the story, Okay,

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Speaker 1: so let's backtrack. I'm actually disappointed to hear that you're

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Speaker 1: Was this like, was this for like a human interest piece?

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Speaker 1: Like was this for the c NBC thing? No, don't

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Speaker 1: So with that being the background, you wanted to parlay

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Speaker 1: getting out one of my foot fetish interview. Um, it

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Speaker 1: to date maybe like four years ago. But I've always

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Speaker 1: Is it about powers? About insecurity? It's like it's about

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Speaker 1: in this. But I was, I'm just interested in all

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Speaker 1: And I've read two like kind of memoirs by strippers.

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Speaker 1: want to go because there's like a ten dollar cover

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Speaker 1: every night. It's not worth it. But the only time

425
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Speaker 1: I went was before I think it closed down in

426
00:23:13,000 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 1: like two thousand and eleven, and then it reopened recently.

427
00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,040
Speaker 1: But the only time it was in two thousand and ten,

428
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,679
Speaker 1: I want to say. And I went in with my

429
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:27,560
Speaker 1: friend Kyle, and within five minutes of me being in there,

430
00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:33,480
Speaker 1: some fucking shit faced like like idiot, just like stuck

431
00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 1: his tongue down my throat and I was like pushed

432
00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 1: him off. I was like, we're leaving. It's just it's

433
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 1: not a good place. So um it lost culture ista

434
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:46,000
Speaker 1: like ship Post for the Cock. It's a terrible, terrible bar.

435
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:48,520
Speaker 1: We're here to shut them down and this isn't even

436
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,000
Speaker 1: like and I don't think so, honey, it's like it's

437
00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 1: a bad place anyway. Um, Carly, Let's ask you what

438
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:54,639
Speaker 1: we ask all of our guests, and this is the

439
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: question it is. It's the question that really this whole

440
00:23:58,000 --> 00:24:00,679
Speaker 1: you know, this whole cast centers around. It's what was

441
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:06,280
Speaker 1: the culture that made you say? Culture? Want that I

442
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 1: understand the question. And I have a two part answer. Okay,

443
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 1: I have a feeling I know one. Oh yes, I'm

444
00:24:13,320 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 1: sure you know the second part of my answer. But

445
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:20,159
Speaker 1: the first part is I went to school outside of

446
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 1: my district, so on weekends I wasn't I didn't really

447
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:26,399
Speaker 1: play with the other kids because I didn't live by this.

448
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:31,720
Speaker 1: So my mom had us watch her favorite movies, which

449
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: were Rocky, Horror Picture Show, Annie, The Sound of Music,

450
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 1: Bye Bye Birdie, musical musicals, so I mean on repeat.

451
00:24:41,680 --> 00:24:44,479
Speaker 1: Those were the couple of movies I watched all the time.

452
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,560
Speaker 1: And and and honestly, my mom, I got. My mom

453
00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,120
Speaker 1: worked very hard, so she just wanted to watch TV

454
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:51,560
Speaker 1: on the weekends. And I just want you to know

455
00:24:51,640 --> 00:24:54,880
Speaker 1: I was a very active child, but we watched TV

456
00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 1: a lot, so the musicals, but then my mom also

457
00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: loved MTV shows and think I knew you were going

458
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: to say that. We watched the Real World road Rules.

459
00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: We watched like um Studs until my parents and I

460
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:10,760
Speaker 1: couldn't watch Studs anymore. And then my mom on Saturday

461
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: nights would wake me up at eleven o'clock and we

462
00:25:14,160 --> 00:25:16,359
Speaker 1: and my sisters and we would or just get my

463
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: attention if I was awake, and we had this kind

464
00:25:19,040 --> 00:25:22,320
Speaker 1: of like fold up mattress that we would unfold and

465
00:25:22,320 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 1: she would make popcorn and we would watch Sarennite Live.

466
00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 1: So I feel like so much of who I am

467
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 1: came from Saturdays, like watching these movies like I fell

468
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:34,639
Speaker 1: in love with theater, with music, with wanting to be

469
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: a star, with wanting boys to like me, and then

470
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 1: and then also comedy that's so funny. That is a

471
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 1: very neat little that is the neatest, tightest Saturday night.

472
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:47,800
Speaker 1: Here's my cultural upbringing. We've had fold the fold up

473
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Speaker 1: mastress on Saturday night. That I knew that you were

474
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Speaker 1: going to say, like those Oh yes, yes, so that's

475
00:25:55,960 --> 00:26:00,640
Speaker 1: what you thought. I was gonna set a certain don't

476
00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: call them a boy band. Okay, we debate, okay, but

477
00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:07,160
Speaker 1: we'll get there. But the thing is like, yeah they were.

478
00:26:07,320 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: That was such a moment for those shows like Next

479
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,480
Speaker 1: and Room Writers and all that ship. And I feel

480
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 1: like if those shows were super big now, you'd be

481
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: hosting all because I thank you for saying that, because

482
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: I feel like and I feel like we need to

483
00:26:20,760 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 1: make them. We need to bring them back. Okay, why

484
00:26:22,760 --> 00:26:25,399
Speaker 1: not only for the sake of having Carley and philipin

485
00:26:25,480 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: host them. Yes, well we we She needs to work, Yes,

486
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 1: this girl, this girl needs to work, and we need

487
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,639
Speaker 1: semen on mattresses being seen by black lights again. But

488
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 1: just to clarify, I'm not begging for the work, but

489
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,920
Speaker 1: I want to work. I want you to fulfill your destiny. Yeah.

490
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: So it's all those TV shows And ironically it was

491
00:26:45,880 --> 00:26:50,880
Speaker 1: all my mom who introduced in the movies. And so

492
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: I never calocked you as a musical theater. Yeah, I

493
00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:56,720
Speaker 1: keep it a secret. But I wasn't a musical improv

494
00:26:56,800 --> 00:27:01,120
Speaker 1: team at the Magnet and the Pit. I loved musicals.

495
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:05,320
Speaker 1: My a I M screen name was Broadway BABYCF. I

496
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,080
Speaker 1: would never know that. Yeah, I can't sing that well

497
00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: and I just got But you never talked about theater. Yeah,

498
00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:16,399
Speaker 1: I was truly you know, my friends from my school

499
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 1: are going to listen to this and they're going to

500
00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: think this is so funny that nobody knows. Yeah, I

501
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:25,200
Speaker 1: mean Annie, I love Annie so much. I that was

502
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: the reason I fell in love with New York, like

503
00:27:26,880 --> 00:27:29,600
Speaker 1: a little girl running around New York with a dog

504
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:32,840
Speaker 1: and no parents, Like that's literally what I wanted to

505
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:37,600
Speaker 1: be with. My my first boyfriend, Alan, he uh. We

506
00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:39,440
Speaker 1: were together when I was in Cleveland and also together

507
00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:40,919
Speaker 1: when I moved to New York and he was in

508
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,760
Speaker 1: Cleveland for Christmas one year he got me a locket

509
00:27:43,800 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 1: that said maybe far Away and inside was a picture

510
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:51,120
Speaker 1: of him and Annie. When did he when he come out?

511
00:27:52,320 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: He hasn't and he hasn't, and I don't think he's

512
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:56,159
Speaker 1: actually going to come out as gay. I think he's

513
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 1: an okamon as a woman. Okay, cool, Really, what makes

514
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 1: you say that? What makes say that? I feel like

515
00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,520
Speaker 1: I already said his name and this and I shouldn't

516
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 1: say anymore. And honestly, that's more respect I've given anyone

517
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: I've ever done. So true. Okay, So I was expecting

518
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: you to throw No, I can't. I mean, listen, Alan,

519
00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: if you're listening to this, if we're off the mark,

520
00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 1: We're sorry, but if we are, then do it. Yeah,

521
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:24,879
Speaker 1: and you know what he does. I'm not saying his

522
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 1: last name and the woman I'm dating he's dating. Now,

523
00:28:27,600 --> 00:28:32,439
Speaker 1: I'm like, could you get a less obvious? Okay? Um?

524
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 1: And so yeah, but anyway, I truly love love musicals. Yeah, okay,

525
00:28:38,480 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 1: So have you ever seen the show Funny Girl? Yes?

526
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: My mom, Yes, my mom got me the soundtrack of it.

527
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: That's another thing. My mom just like loved musicals. My

528
00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:53,240
Speaker 1: dad is a musician, so he played in like the

529
00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: pit orchestra for some like local musicals. And my parents,

530
00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,479
Speaker 1: like super super influenced me because my mom works the government,

531
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: so she's like tough and she's like, you need to

532
00:29:02,720 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 1: work hard at your career. But my dad's a musician

533
00:29:04,720 --> 00:29:06,800
Speaker 1: and he's like he I mean, when I moved to

534
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: New York, my dad played the mandolin every single night

535
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:12,840
Speaker 1: when I went to bed in the basement, but I

536
00:29:12,840 --> 00:29:15,360
Speaker 1: could hear it throughout the throughout the whole house. When

537
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: I moved to New York, I could hear it when

538
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 1: I went to bed. My dad practiced music every single

539
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: day and it wasn't even like you've got a practice music.

540
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 1: So it was just ingrained in me, like if you

541
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 1: want to get good at something you love to do,

542
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 1: just do it all the time. And that is why

543
00:29:31,360 --> 00:29:34,000
Speaker 1: I have excellent work ethic. Carly does have the best

544
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: work ethic in the community, I think, and I think yeah,

545
00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 1: because I think that you see what you want and

546
00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: you act like it. Thank you, Like that's that's the

547
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: entire car and thing. Yeah, this is what this is

548
00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 1: what it is. It's um, it's carly Anne always communicates

549
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: what she is and why she does what she does,

550
00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: and people connect with her because they agree with what

551
00:30:00,760 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: she believes in. And that is why carly En filled

552
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: In will be president. I would definitely vote for you

553
00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 1: for president, really for sure, because I feel like I

554
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,400
Speaker 1: feel like I know things would get done, and now

555
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,680
Speaker 1: that Donald Trump is president, I believe that you can

556
00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: be you know. Okay, So my mom works for the

557
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 1: government in Ohio. So my older sister, her name is Kelly,

558
00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,360
Speaker 1: but that's her nickname. Her full name is Kalina because

559
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: my mom loved the name Kelly, but but wanted my

560
00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 1: my sister to be first woman president and she said

561
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: no one would take her seriously with a name like Kelly.

562
00:30:36,040 --> 00:30:38,960
Speaker 1: That is such a gendered thing too. I thought about

563
00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: that before, like some female names just sounding very female

564
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 1: like and thinking in your head as you're raising that child, like, oh, no,

565
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: what are people going to think of the fact that

566
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:50,959
Speaker 1: I have a Brittany as my daughter, or like, you know,

567
00:30:51,040 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: my sister's name is Chelsea, which is like very feminine,

568
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,920
Speaker 1: I think, and with male names, I don't know, maybe

569
00:30:56,960 --> 00:30:59,840
Speaker 1: this is like a white like come from a masculine

570
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,800
Speaker 1: type thing. But everyone's name is like John and Anthony

571
00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,320
Speaker 1: and Matthew and Christopher, and they're like, oh, I get you.

572
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: My name is also John. Yeah, you're late, And I

573
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 1: don't know, it's just a it's a very interesting thing

574
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: to think what you're given when you're given your name

575
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,280
Speaker 1: and when you're a woman. That's very interesting that your

576
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 1: mom was thinking that way. Yeah. I mean my mom

577
00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: went to boot camp when she was eighteen and then

578
00:31:23,440 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 1: went immediately into the Navy and then work for the

579
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: coast Guard and then continued school. I have two sisters

580
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 1: were very close in age. Win to night classes brought

581
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:36,000
Speaker 1: me and night very young sisters like maybe five, seven

582
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 1: and nine, and we would color in the lobby. Well,

583
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 1: my mom was in class and she would just come

584
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 1: out like every half an hour and check on. My

585
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: mom really worked her ass off. I think when you

586
00:31:47,920 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 1: write your book and like it will happen, I think

587
00:31:50,560 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: you have to like talk about these moments as like

588
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,680
Speaker 1: sexual empowerment and relate it back to you having this

589
00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: strong female figure in your life. Yes, but I will

590
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 1: also say my mother has caused let's just say, for

591
00:32:05,280 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: me to talk a lot in therapy. And I guess

592
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: that absolutely every parent, they give you the best of

593
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: you and they give you the worst of you know.

594
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,800
Speaker 1: I say this all the time because so my parents

595
00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:20,320
Speaker 1: have you know, they It was very hard for me

596
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,120
Speaker 1: because they've never said that they were proud of me.

597
00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: And I felt like I was like setting up goals

598
00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: and knocking them down my whole life. And they never

599
00:32:28,680 --> 00:32:30,560
Speaker 1: were like, we're proud of you, and they never said

600
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:36,680
Speaker 1: we love you. And it caused so much just grief

601
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: and sadness and emotional turmoil my whole entire life. Now

602
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: it causes problems. It's in my new solo show that

603
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 1: I'm writing. This doesn't mean I'm going to be your

604
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: boyfriend coming up coming soon to a theater near you,

605
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:53,920
Speaker 1: But but I've just recently learned that them acting like

606
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,720
Speaker 1: my accomplishments weren't a big deal has made me realize, like,

607
00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 1: I'm just always going to pomplish things like my parents

608
00:33:01,560 --> 00:33:04,560
Speaker 1: thought it was so normal, like oh, for you to

609
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: move to New York, for you to become captain of

610
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 1: the cheerleading squad, for you to do this that it's

611
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: of course, we knew you were always going to do it.

612
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: And it has sucked me up my whole life until

613
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 1: like I've realized it maybe a year ago. Then I'm like, oh,

614
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,520
Speaker 1: this is why I'm so confident though, because it was

615
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 1: never made a big deal, it was always expected. It's

616
00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,960
Speaker 1: really interesting. I relate to that so much, Oh my goodness,

617
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,040
Speaker 1: because yeah, like I was just home this weekend with

618
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:32,280
Speaker 1: my parents and it was and I was thinking, I

619
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I was like, there are really very

620
00:33:34,320 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: few things in my field of work that I would

621
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,760
Speaker 1: do that would mean anything to them, just by virtue

622
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: of them being like immigrants, and by virtue of them

623
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,719
Speaker 1: sort of not really connecting on any level with like

624
00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,959
Speaker 1: comedy and as as like an art form. And so

625
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 1: I was just like, oh, that kind of sucks, Like

626
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: the only the only things that would mean anything to

627
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: them would be like jfl or like like like some

628
00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:01,320
Speaker 1: other like like there's just I'm just saying this. It's

629
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: a very small pool of stuff. And so for you

630
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: to say like, well, uh, that just means that you're

631
00:34:05,760 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: going to keep accomplishing things because that's the norm. I

632
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: think that's I think that's I think that's probably what

633
00:34:10,600 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 1: drives some some of what I do too. It's like

634
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:16,759
Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, this, I'll just keep turning stuff out

635
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:19,480
Speaker 1: because it's like it's it's it's what I know, and

636
00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 1: it's like and there's and the only reward is not

637
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Speaker 1: someone saying I'm proud of you. It's just to do

638
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Speaker 1: it for the sake of doing it, which is I

639
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Speaker 1: think is really value. This is really interesting to think about,

640
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Speaker 1: like because now I'm thinking about it for myself and

641
00:34:31,280 --> 00:34:35,000
Speaker 1: I'm very result oriented because all throughout my life, like

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Speaker 1: when I did something good, my parents did praise me,

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Speaker 1: but when I did something bad, I got read for filth.

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Speaker 1: Like when my dad felt like I wasn't putting my

645
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Speaker 1: best effort, he let me know and didn't stop letting

646
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Speaker 1: me know, like very hands on, like with athletics and

647
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Speaker 1: then with school and academics because creatively I wasn't you know,

648
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Speaker 1: ignited yet that didn't happen until I was in college

649
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Speaker 1: and stuff. But in terms of sports, and in terms

650
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651
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652
00:35:02,880 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 1: you were really praised in my house, but when you

653
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Speaker 1: did the wrong thing, it was like you no better

654
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Speaker 1: get out of my sight. It was like very much

655
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Speaker 1: the extremes. And do you think it's helped you but

656
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Speaker 1: also hurt you now as an adult or see? I

657
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Speaker 1: think I think you have to look at all of

658
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,279
Speaker 1: these things of strengths at this point because now it

659
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Speaker 1: doesn't even really matter. It already happens. Well, I think

660
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Speaker 1: like the three of us sit here like as the

661
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Speaker 1: back and change it. All you can do is learn

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00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,200
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666
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Speaker 1: them strength. Yeah, you're definitely awed. I definitely agree with it,

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Speaker 1: a belief and it's a belief that I've learned and

673
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:06,839
Speaker 1: I'm trying to and learn it. I know it's not

674
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:12,879
Speaker 1: logical that I won't be loved, and that's what my

675
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Speaker 1: that's what my new show. That doesn't mean I'm going

676
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Speaker 1: to be your boyfriend is about. It's and it's it's

677
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 1: not logical and any and I love my It's not

678
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,760
Speaker 1: about loving myself or having self esteem. It's it's someone

679
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 1: reinforced the belief in me that I wasn't going to

680
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:32,360
Speaker 1: be loved and I wasn't going to be chosen. And

681
00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,400
Speaker 1: it's so yes, I agree that it's a strength, but

682
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: it's also it's it's hard. Hard. I mean, however you're raised,

683
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684
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685
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689
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Speaker 1: are and um we tease you, We teased you before

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Speaker 1: of our offer um with the certain band that Curly.

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Speaker 1: So part two of my introduction into my culture. So

741
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:05,840
Speaker 1: when seven um, specifically April, which is my Internet password,

742
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:09,600
Speaker 1: a song came out and I heard it in the

743
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Speaker 1: morning and I couldn't concentrate all day. I had this

744
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 1: song in my head. But of course I'm like, what

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Speaker 1: the fund is this song? And so I went home

746
00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 1: and I listened to the radio the whole night, and

747
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 1: I had a blank cassette tape and any time this

748
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: song came on, I record it. And of course that

749
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:29,319
Speaker 1: song was and I had a blank cassette tape that

750
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Speaker 1: I filled up front and backside A and B side

751
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:39,280
Speaker 1: with just MOB on repeat because I needed it. I

752
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Speaker 1: needed it. And you couldn't even just rewind the tape

753
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: back to listen to whatever. It wasn't that it was

754
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:47,000
Speaker 1: just the impulse to want to save it. I can't.

755
00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:52,759
Speaker 1: It's hard to explain that song is powerful. When that

756
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: song came out and the video came out, I lost

757
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 1: my mind. I was like, this is the catchy, Like

758
00:40:58,200 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: this is the catchiest song I've ever heard of it.

759
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: It is such a good song. And the lyrics they're

760
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,920
Speaker 1: they're I mean, they're typical hands and they're pretty cheesy,

761
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,319
Speaker 1: and the rhyme scheme is like almost too perfect, but

762
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:13,239
Speaker 1: the lyrics are way way ahead of their time. So

763
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: the song is about how you have so many relationships

764
00:41:18,000 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 1: in this life, only one or two will last. So

765
00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:23,560
Speaker 1: you go through all these things with these people, but

766
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:27,560
Speaker 1: in the end, who's going to really be there? People

767
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Speaker 1: come in and out of our lives boplusion in conclusion, Bob,

768
00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 1: you know what, that was definitely a time in pop

769
00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 1: music when it was just the made up word. Yeah. Yes.

770
00:41:43,680 --> 00:41:46,920
Speaker 1: And also Hanson is very influenced by just jazz and

771
00:41:47,040 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: bop she bop, and so they were really sad. They

772
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 1: were scadding. You know, you didn't ask for this, but

773
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:58,040
Speaker 1: there I'll tell you their Their father, Walker Hanson, was

774
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:00,960
Speaker 1: in that oil industry is so handsOn it in Venezuela

775
00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:03,200
Speaker 1: and a few other countries and only had a few

776
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,799
Speaker 1: cassette tapes to take with them. So they listened to

777
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,799
Speaker 1: these like fop sheepop and and and songs and like

778
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:14,279
Speaker 1: codas dreading and um musicians like those. And they they

779
00:42:14,360 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 1: played their songs back and they learned how to be

780
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: a band. Carly Enfield in a true culturalista, specifically for Hanson.

781
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 1: I loved us. Oh my gosh, I love Hanson. I've

782
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: been to twenty one concerts one I saw them live

783
00:42:27,560 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: one time on Conan. We did. We went to a

784
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:31,799
Speaker 1: live taping of Conan and they were the musical guest

785
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 1: and they were great. They looked good too. They are

786
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:39,399
Speaker 1: so good live. They're just one that's like, yes, but

787
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: they've been out. They came out in seven it's been

788
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:48,319
Speaker 1: twenty years. Happy twenty anniversary to celebrate. On just last week,

789
00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 1: I came out with a new single and they're going

790
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 1: out on a tour right now. And I have to

791
00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: say this. I have to say this. The New York

792
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,680
Speaker 1: concert which is happening in the fall. I believe September

793
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:00,880
Speaker 1: sold out in a matter of minute. Really, and I

794
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:05,279
Speaker 1: know you have a far reaching Okay, And I would

795
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:08,399
Speaker 1: like to say I did not get tickets for their

796
00:43:08,600 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 1: New York show in September, and I already emailed Cosmo

797
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:18,760
Speaker 1: my connections at Cosmos. I forget um, but I need,

798
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:20,279
Speaker 1: I need to go. And I just would never want

799
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Speaker 1: to know that I have extremely great interviewing skills and

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00:43:24,120 --> 00:43:26,880
Speaker 1: I can interview them for you. Okay, So you guys,

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Speaker 1: I'm working, I can work. Listen listen up. She comes

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Speaker 1: highly recommended by the by lots called the Resta's Carly

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Speaker 1: and Film. If you have a connect for for Hansen's

804
00:43:38,320 --> 00:43:42,359
Speaker 1: September concert in New York City, she will do such

805
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: a conduct, such a good interview with Get Carly to

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Speaker 1: hansont Carly to Hanson. I'm ready to start the movement.

807
00:43:49,200 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 1: You deserve to go thing where it's like you've made

808
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,759
Speaker 1: a commitment to them. Yes, like that, you should be

809
00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 1: able to see them for free for it. Not to

810
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Speaker 1: downplay I have made a comm it mint, but I

811
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:05,399
Speaker 1: will say one concerts for a for being a fan

812
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:09,760
Speaker 1: for twenty years is at the bottom of what these

813
00:44:09,800 --> 00:44:14,879
Speaker 1: fans do. And you're only two years old. I'm twenty two,

814
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 1: twenty two today, happy birthday. I'm surprised that they sold

815
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:24,320
Speaker 1: out in such in such a short time they play.

816
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,680
Speaker 1: They're playing smaller venues now, but they do have an

817
00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 1: extreme fan they truly do. You're like one of four

818
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: or five people I know that are fanatical about them,

819
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,719
Speaker 1: like their their fans are no joke. They're no joke.

820
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 1: What I mean? I met them and I sobbed like

821
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: a baby. Um nineteen Well, I had met them in

822
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 1: Passing likening their autograph, but I got backstage, took a

823
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: picture with them in a gazebo, listen to their their

824
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: sound check and they're so nice. Of course I just

825
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 1: wrote about hands and because their new single came out

826
00:44:58,000 --> 00:45:00,840
Speaker 1: and I love it, and you know, and honestly, I

827
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: think about this a lot. When I listened to this

828
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 1: podcast I really do, because you guys, you know, you

829
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: take like you have these people on your show, and

830
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: in some way or another they feel i don't know,

831
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 1: maybe a little bit of a like an outsider, they

832
00:45:13,280 --> 00:45:16,200
Speaker 1: were different or something. And then they come to you, guys,

833
00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:18,879
Speaker 1: and you're like, no, we all loved that, you know,

834
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: And so this is I'm not, this is nothing. I'm not.

835
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 1: I'm not comparing myself to people less privileged than me,

836
00:45:26,680 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: although I can, and it would be funny, but I'm

837
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 1: not hearing it right now. But I loved Hanson as

838
00:45:32,280 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: like an awkward little girl, and I was made it

839
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,440
Speaker 1: fun of so much, even like going to adulthood. And

840
00:45:36,520 --> 00:45:38,319
Speaker 1: then I like, I'm an adult, and I realized, why

841
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 1: are people looking making fun of the fact that I

842
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 1: love handsOn. But I had someone a couple of years

843
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 1: asked me, like four years ago, someone in the community,

844
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:49,720
Speaker 1: just just saying what Hanson, Like, how is your favorite

845
00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 1: made hands Like? Why do you like them? And the

846
00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,840
Speaker 1: response I gave them, which I surprised myself, I said,

847
00:45:55,160 --> 00:45:58,560
Speaker 1: you know, Hanson has always been there for me. You know,

848
00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: Hanson has always been there whenever I needed to be happy,

849
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 1: or when I need to cry or just like every

850
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 1: life moment I've had, handsOn has been involved. No, I

851
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: get that, I get that a lot. You know, this

852
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 1: is so insane, But that person for me is Kelly Clarkson.

853
00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: I remember, like everything I was going through. I listen

854
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,680
Speaker 1: to her music everything. When I was in high school

855
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:25,960
Speaker 1: and no one knew who I really was, I fucking

856
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:31,279
Speaker 1: rocked breakaway. I would blow that ship out. And when

857
00:46:31,360 --> 00:46:33,840
Speaker 1: when I first didn't have any friends, when I was

858
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: in middle school and she won American Idol, just seeing

859
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: her beloved by everyone for who she was. I was

860
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,400
Speaker 1: just like watching her be her authentic self and she

861
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 1: was so talented and America just fell in love with her.

862
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:50,640
Speaker 1: I was like, wow, like that's really inspiring. One day

863
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 1: I'll be myself. And then I really started to find humor,

864
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:57,600
Speaker 1: like just I don't know what it was about sitting

865
00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,680
Speaker 1: and that might say something about me. Only when I

866
00:46:59,719 --> 00:47:02,560
Speaker 1: saw this, like twenty one year old girl from Texas

867
00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:05,000
Speaker 1: hoisted up on a reality show, did I know oh

868
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,160
Speaker 1: self worth? Like it must be something to that. But

869
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:11,120
Speaker 1: like and when I first got into TISH, when I

870
00:47:11,160 --> 00:47:13,439
Speaker 1: first transferred into TISH was right when all I ever

871
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:16,080
Speaker 1: wanted came out and I listened to the song ready

872
00:47:16,120 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: off That all the time, Like, I don't know, I

873
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: can just pinpoint so many moments in my life where

874
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: there was a specific artist that, like I can pinpoint

875
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 1: and I totally identify with that. For me, acting wise,

876
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:35,320
Speaker 1: it's Kirsten duncet Um. I do think him has taken

877
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 1: a page from Hanson long Hair specifically Long Hair. Does

878
00:47:42,040 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: Time have other siblings because Hans does. I have no idea.

879
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:49,680
Speaker 1: I'm not sure, but Hanson does. How many things? A

880
00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 1: brother and three sisters? Oh wow? And why aren't they involved?

881
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:58,200
Speaker 1: What do they do well? They weren't bored when when

882
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:01,759
Speaker 1: Hans started, you know, Zach was like eleven when he

883
00:48:01,800 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: played in the Grand Muse. I think, oh my god,

884
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Can you imagine being eleven years old? And

885
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: also even before the Middle of Nowhere came out album

886
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:15,920
Speaker 1: the first national album, but they had two albums that

887
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 1: they recorded before a local album. So do you think

888
00:48:19,239 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 1: that their dad was do you do you get any

889
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: sense of stage parenting? Their their dad talked to me. No,

890
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 1: I think their dad came up to Walt Walker Walker

891
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:33,400
Speaker 1: their their dad came up to my sister and I

892
00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 1: like years ago. Also Another reason why Hanson um was

893
00:48:37,120 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 1: my introduction to culture was because I was in Tiger Beat.

894
00:48:41,160 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 1: It's like one of those like I did have truly

895
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: had my bedroom plastered, the ceiling, all walls Hanson. That's amazing.

896
00:48:53,800 --> 00:48:56,080
Speaker 1: My dad had to call in and one an album

897
00:48:56,200 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: off of the radio for me. We made a fanatic video.

898
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 1: I loved them. What was the question? Walker? Okay? So

899
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,320
Speaker 1: we came up to me and my sister and he

900
00:49:04,400 --> 00:49:07,719
Speaker 1: was like, you guys aren't twins but your sisters right?

901
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: And we were like, no, Walker, No, they I think

902
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:16,879
Speaker 1: they are kind of they are religious. You know, they

903
00:49:16,960 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: all the hands in their new video, their actual all

904
00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: their kids lip sync the song and it's pretty cute. Um. No,

905
00:49:23,440 --> 00:49:25,399
Speaker 1: I don't get a sense of stage parents, and in fact,

906
00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 1: I get very liberal parents that believe in uh family.

907
00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 1: And they were like, do whatever you want. They were

908
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: homeschooled because they moved a lot and they're from Oklahoma.

909
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:39,560
Speaker 1: But no, I get I know, no sense of I

910
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: remember when there sound like turned around and they released

911
00:49:41,719 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: that song Penny and that really there's their Their sound

912
00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,319
Speaker 1: turned around more after that, and that's why I liked

913
00:49:48,360 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 1: their new song I Was Born. It's a throwback to

914
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: classic pop. Hanson like it. I I was born an

915
00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 1: NBR just raved about it. Everyone checking out, I gotta

916
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 1: listen to it. I haven't heard it yet. I feel

917
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:02,520
Speaker 1: like you are being the true culturesta right now and

918
00:50:02,640 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: teaching us rule number fifty of culture. Sometimes you teach us,

919
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 1: and maybe right now is a good time to bring

920
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:14,279
Speaker 1: up the text message that said that's that I said.

921
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: I screened atted that said, I'm scared to have you

922
00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:19,880
Speaker 1: on the podcast because by the end one of us

923
00:50:19,920 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: will be replaced. Honestly, I I stand by that. I

924
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:26,920
Speaker 1: think by the end of that will be replaced by

925
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:30,120
Speaker 1: I feel threatened by you for that, and also Pat Regan,

926
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:33,760
Speaker 1: Oh are threatened by Pat. He knows way more about

927
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,400
Speaker 1: pop culture than I. Well, recently he texted me and

928
00:50:36,560 --> 00:50:39,239
Speaker 1: was like, what can you please break down for me?

929
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 1: Who's a better singer to Taylor Swift or Katy Perry?

930
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 1: And I broke it down for him. And so then

931
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:47,200
Speaker 1: you don't feel threatened by him because you taught him something. Well,

932
00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:49,279
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Like you, you said that he

933
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: knows more than anybody, but he needs to get up

934
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 1: to date on his pop culture princess, but he's trying.

935
00:50:54,640 --> 00:50:58,279
Speaker 1: It sounds like he doesn't sneaky, he's being sneaking. And

936
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:01,760
Speaker 1: I will say when Pat was on, it really felt

937
00:51:01,800 --> 00:51:04,879
Speaker 1: like it was it became the Pat Regan Show, which

938
00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:08,560
Speaker 1: was kind of brilliant and it was and and like

939
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 1: Bowen reached out to me, it was like, should Pat beyond?

940
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 1: I was like, every up Pat villain is like a

941
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 1: guest host, like for like a few episodes. But I

942
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:21,160
Speaker 1: feel like that's just that's just chaos, that's just inviting chaos.

943
00:51:21,239 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 1: I've had written in my notes like we're going to

944
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: do a couple of special episodes coming up with themes,

945
00:51:25,200 --> 00:51:26,440
Speaker 1: and then I just have one of them is just

946
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:35,880
Speaker 1: Pat Reagan returns. And he won the Lifetime the Culture Award.

947
00:51:34,840 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 1: You know what, we all we all have our own

948
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: slice of culture, and none of us are better or worse. No, no, no,

949
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:45,400
Speaker 1: Pat knows a lot of facts about what's going on today.

950
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,000
Speaker 1: But does he know that hands in his four siblings,

951
00:51:48,200 --> 00:51:51,479
Speaker 1: he doesn't can guarantee he does not that Pat will

952
00:51:51,600 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: school any any of us about pretty little liars. Yes,

953
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:57,479
Speaker 1: I think Pat is the is like upddate of today.

954
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:03,319
Speaker 1: He knows what's happening tomorrow. My pop culture reference is

955
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 1: mainly in the nineties. I do love, I do, I

956
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:09,880
Speaker 1: do a lot of love, a lot of culture things today.

957
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: But you are you're the worst sentence. I understood the sentiment.

958
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 1: I do nineties but culture today. I'm a radio host.

959
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,439
Speaker 1: I mean, but Carly Anne is not one of these

960
00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 1: fair weather and nineties fans like she she knows the

961
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:30,640
Speaker 1: minute the question. I'm nervous. When I first met you

962
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 1: in story parts. We all met in story parts, which

963
00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:34,640
Speaker 1: to me, it's so funny. That's the way I met

964
00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 1: you with story parts, just because I don't think of

965
00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:40,640
Speaker 1: our relationship now in any story parts, not at all.

966
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: But that's how we met, like doing like I do,

967
00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 1: goofy stories. Yeah, and we had to walk up that

968
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: really seep hill. She went to this school in the

969
00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:54,160
Speaker 1: Bronx and the hill. It was a mountain and we

970
00:52:54,160 --> 00:52:55,879
Speaker 1: were the last. It was like, it's like six people

971
00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:57,359
Speaker 1: in a group when you go do shows the story

972
00:52:57,360 --> 00:52:59,439
Speaker 1: parts in an elementary school, it's like a small cast

973
00:52:59,480 --> 00:53:01,799
Speaker 1: that goes in shout the stories for the kids. And

974
00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:04,760
Speaker 1: we're based in Middown, Manhattan. So we took the subway

975
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 1: up to the Bronx to do a show at the

976
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 1: school and the subways at the bottom of this gigantic hill,

977
00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:15,720
Speaker 1: and I think this maybe was our first real body

978
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:20,399
Speaker 1: when everyone was so far ahead of us and we're

979
00:53:20,440 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: just like dragging ours and I'm athletic. I go to

980
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:29,360
Speaker 1: the gym she was, and we were just telling ourselves that.

981
00:53:29,440 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 1: It was like, you have two options. You can, like,

982
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 1: we can talk about how bad the situation we're in is,

983
00:53:34,760 --> 00:53:37,240
Speaker 1: or we can just like try to distract ourselves. Carly

984
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 1: was down to talk about it. She was like, so long,

985
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,279
Speaker 1: this is the steepest that I've ever known. This, it

986
00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:46,239
Speaker 1: will not stop. I think we're reaching the sky. But

987
00:53:46,280 --> 00:53:49,440
Speaker 1: truly that it was part of the Appalachian Mountains. I'm convinced,

988
00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,960
Speaker 1: And honestly she continued to bring it up to this

989
00:53:53,040 --> 00:53:54,799
Speaker 1: day and then we'd walk all the way down and

990
00:53:54,840 --> 00:53:58,320
Speaker 1: for some reason that was just as hard. But Francisco,

991
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 1: what caught me on this topic. I said, story parts

992
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: of Sorry Pirates is how we met. You said it

993
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:06,680
Speaker 1: was odd that we met that way. Sorry, I brought

994
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:09,680
Speaker 1: the hill again. Like the first time I met you,

995
00:54:09,760 --> 00:54:13,000
Speaker 1: we were talking about Hansen. The first time we were

996
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 1: really interacting. I said, and then Carly Anne is going

997
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: to go over here. And you looked at me and

998
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 1: you were like Carly, and Boen just referred to you

999
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:22,960
Speaker 1: as Carly Anne. But you are Carly Anne Philbin. So

1000
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:26,239
Speaker 1: I want to know who are you? Really? Are you

1001
00:54:26,280 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: Carly Anne Philibin or are you Carly Philbin? And there's

1002
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:34,120
Speaker 1: sometimes an Anne talk to us, wow, and maybe this

1003
00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: will open up a new emotional It will because I

1004
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 1: was Carly Philiban until I moved to New York, and

1005
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 1: I wanted I needed to reclaim a part of my

1006
00:54:46,160 --> 00:54:51,080
Speaker 1: identity that I had lost, so I became Carly Anne Philban.

1007
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:53,400
Speaker 1: I've always been attached to my name. My older sister

1008
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:57,160
Speaker 1: is Kalina Marie. My younger sister, Ivy Tyler. With a

1009
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:59,920
Speaker 1: name like Carly, I felt like a like honking home

1010
00:55:00,000 --> 00:55:04,040
Speaker 1: born in the middle. She's by the way, by the way,

1011
00:55:04,160 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 1: iv Tyler Philman is the coolest person anyone will ever know.

1012
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:12,160
Speaker 1: She's truly the coolest person. How did how could you

1013
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,520
Speaker 1: not be? In guess what I'll say. I'll say it

1014
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 1: proud of my sister's queer. I'm an ally, but I'll

1015
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:23,400
Speaker 1: just say so I started Carly and Philman when I

1016
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 1: moved to New York and I would like to start

1017
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,560
Speaker 1: going by Carly Anne. That must have been just like

1018
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,680
Speaker 1: a fun joke because I wanted to be sassy, probably

1019
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: because I wanted you to like me, and me because

1020
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 1: I was in bed rood, because I just walked up

1021
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: a mountain. But anyone, now, anyone who calls me. And

1022
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 1: also I get asked Peter mccerney a lot of my

1023
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: first year notes where Carly is fun but sassy, not

1024
00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,239
Speaker 1: a morning person. I was in the next room when

1025
00:55:46,280 --> 00:55:49,319
Speaker 1: Carly was getting like her notes from the year, and

1026
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: she there was this like he was like, Okay, here

1027
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:53,320
Speaker 1: are your notes, and then there was this long silence

1028
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 1: of her reading them. And then the next thing I

1029
00:55:55,520 --> 00:55:57,960
Speaker 1: heard was her handing back the note to me on

1030
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:00,359
Speaker 1: like yeah, I mean it makes sense. You know I'm

1031
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 1: a lot, But what you don't know is I had

1032
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: tears in my eyes. I'm very I'm very sensitive. I

1033
00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:08,919
Speaker 1: understand I get that. Wow, I didn't know that. Yeah,

1034
00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 1: I'm very sensitive. And when I feel and I feel

1035
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: this perceived threat a lot, and yes, a lot it

1036
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 1: is perceived, but sometimes it is real that people don't

1037
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:22,800
Speaker 1: understand me. So when I feel misunderstood. I'm like, oh god,

1038
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 1: I want to I want to hit people. Okay, violence,

1039
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:28,719
Speaker 1: that was people. This is all you need to know

1040
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: about Carly and Philbin to understand her. After I don't

1041
00:56:33,120 --> 00:56:35,839
Speaker 1: think so honey live. We were going around the green

1042
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:38,680
Speaker 1: room and I know this is great, and I went

1043
00:56:38,719 --> 00:56:40,920
Speaker 1: up to Carly Anne and I said, oh my god,

1044
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:42,879
Speaker 1: that was so fun. You killed and then she goes,

1045
00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:47,600
Speaker 1: I know, right, Carly and Philbin is she she will

1046
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 1: never question her own skills or ability, and she's always compident,

1047
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:54,800
Speaker 1: but she's also sensitive. Yes, And also if I didn't

1048
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:56,440
Speaker 1: do that good, I would just say thank you. But

1049
00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:58,520
Speaker 1: if I killed, which I did, I'm not going to

1050
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 1: be like really yes, out yeah, that that's what I do.

1051
00:57:01,880 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 1: And I love it when people just accept, like to

1052
00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 1: just accepted. You know what it's like if you went

1053
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:15,399
Speaker 1: out there and you did great, like yes, like know that.

1054
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:19,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know. I definitely think that. Sometimes

1055
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 1: you find yourself in that in that situation, like you

1056
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,800
Speaker 1: when you're being like, really, was it good? And sometimes

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00:57:24,800 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: of course I do that too, but not one I know,

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00:57:26,680 --> 00:57:29,760
Speaker 1: I did good. Yeah, But the thing is like you know,

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00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:32,040
Speaker 1: it's it's it's it's interesting to be on the other

1060
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,120
Speaker 1: side of that when you're like, just take their complement.

1061
00:57:34,600 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 1: Like everyone everyone just wants to. I feel yes, I

1062
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:41,919
Speaker 1: feel like that's the difference between a professional and unprofessional

1063
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:45,120
Speaker 1: is even when they know they didn't kill, when somebody

1064
00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:48,280
Speaker 1: says great job, they just say thank you. It's hard

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00:57:48,280 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 1: for me because I'm like, did you think my hair

1066
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: was okay? But that's also part of who I am,

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00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,360
Speaker 1: so it's also fine. Anyway, my name is Carly and

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00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:58,560
Speaker 1: Philmon and you can call me Carly Anne. Great you

1069
00:57:58,600 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 1: sometimes you call me calf and I love it. What sorry,

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00:58:04,120 --> 00:58:09,120
Speaker 1: I'll get guys, is not an ally. Everyone has always

1071
00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:11,960
Speaker 1: continued I am an ally. I just took a break

1072
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:14,600
Speaker 1: for one second, and now I'm back to being an ally.

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00:58:14,600 --> 00:58:16,680
Speaker 1: Before we get on the ally subject, you know what

1074
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:18,640
Speaker 1: I will sometimes do and it's so annoying. And this

1075
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:20,840
Speaker 1: is actually annoying, and I apologize for any time we've

1076
00:58:20,880 --> 00:58:22,960
Speaker 1: done this. But I'll call you cap because I will

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00:58:23,080 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: miss misspell your first your last name, pH Yes, I'm

1078
00:58:28,920 --> 00:58:30,680
Speaker 1: not really didn't you just filled? And even though we

1079
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 1: both are hosts, we both are famous host I think

1080
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 1: you'll find out that he's actually your father. He's actually

1081
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 1: a handsome fan. So Calf, We love Calf. Okay, I

1082
00:58:41,720 --> 00:58:44,400
Speaker 1: didn't know you had a queer sister. Yeah, she's awesome.

1083
00:58:44,480 --> 00:58:48,240
Speaker 1: That what you do where. She's in Boston and she

1084
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 1: d anytime some like her girlfriend. I mean they lived

1085
00:58:54,840 --> 00:58:57,280
Speaker 1: in Cleveland and her girlfriend so cool. Dude, they're so cool.

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00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: Her girlfriend moved back to Boston. In Boston to go

1087
00:59:00,880 --> 00:59:04,000
Speaker 1: to grad school for m I t too, so her

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00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 1: her girlfriend. Yes, and Ivy is very content, like listening

1089
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,600
Speaker 1: to music, buying records and being a BISA. So she's

1090
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 1: a buriser. But she now just got into this whole

1091
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:15,920
Speaker 1: like beach body kick and so she's a beach body

1092
00:59:15,960 --> 00:59:17,960
Speaker 1: coach and she has these videos and I found her

1093
00:59:18,000 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 1: like she I found her like beach body coach facebook

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00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:25,080
Speaker 1: page and she makes these like inspirational videos and they're

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00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 1: really good. And this is my sister, Like doesn't want

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00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:30,600
Speaker 1: the spotlight. She truly is the opposite of me in

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00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 1: a lot of ways, although we have a great relationship. Um,

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00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 1: she just really wants She's like the nicest person. She

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00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:39,360
Speaker 1: really wants to help people. A couple of years ago,

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00:59:39,440 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 1: she was in the sporting event called the Gay Games,

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00:59:42,880 --> 00:59:45,320
Speaker 1: and also this isn't her story to tell, but she

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00:59:45,440 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: never came out. That's just my sister. She just like

1103
00:59:49,480 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 1: was gay. She never felt the need to declare it.

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00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:54,680
Speaker 1: Not that there's anything wrong with that, but she also

1105
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 1: didn't tell me, like she didn't have a conversation with me.

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00:59:57,520 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 1: Um high ivy post. Yeah. So she so she there

1107
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,240
Speaker 1: was a sporting event called the Gay Games, and there

1108
01:00:05,320 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: was like a feat like like a couple hundred dollars,

1109
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: and like without knowing, behind her back, her her friends

1110
01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:15,880
Speaker 1: made this donation video so and they all raised money

1111
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 1: so she could go. My sister is like you can

1112
01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:23,520
Speaker 1: get she can get along with anyone. She's just so

1113
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:25,960
Speaker 1: not that I think chill is like the best thing

1114
01:00:26,000 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 1: to be because people are always like be chilling. I like,

1115
01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:31,120
Speaker 1: not necessarily, but my sister is in the best possible way.

1116
01:00:31,160 --> 01:00:33,280
Speaker 1: She's really cool. Okay, So anyway, I really let my

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01:00:33,280 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 1: sister and miss her off to Speaking of queer people,

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01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 1: Speaking of queer people, guys, Carly and Philbin has prided

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01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 1: herself on not being an ally to queer people on

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Speaker 1: social media. Guys, we don't have to, we don't have

1121
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: to really get into this, but we brought this up

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01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:49,360
Speaker 1: in Carly and before Matt out here, we were talking

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01:00:49,360 --> 01:00:51,080
Speaker 1: about this and she'd clocked that. On a couple of

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01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:53,760
Speaker 1: our episodes, we were talking about how, oh I heard

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Speaker 1: you again speak in some conversation about what happened to me.

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01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 1: Wait what, there's some just people out there just I'm

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01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:08,520
Speaker 1: just gonna say, like like women, Oh, I know we're

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01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 1: talking about women women women like coming like just coming

1129
01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:18,160
Speaker 1: out of formative allyship, coming out the cuff whatever, whatever.

1130
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Speaker 1: What am I trying to say? I'm you're trying to say,

1131
01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:24,360
Speaker 1: You're trying to say the performative ally ship. We understand

1132
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:28,040
Speaker 1: what you are trying to get across. But think about this.

1133
01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 1: Am I helping or am I hurting? Do I want

1134
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,680
Speaker 1: to say something? Or do I need to say something?

1135
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:38,320
Speaker 1: Like everybody on Facebook like And you know, it's actually

1136
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 1: kind of interesting because I'm thinking about it in the

1137
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:42,800
Speaker 1: mold of cyber bullying, and I do think it's a

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01:01:42,840 --> 01:01:48,160
Speaker 1: it's a form of cyber bullying, so it's disguised with

1139
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:52,080
Speaker 1: good intentions, but it is cyber bullying. Like I witnessed

1140
01:01:52,120 --> 01:01:56,760
Speaker 1: you get cyber bullied and that really bothered me. And

1141
01:01:56,760 --> 01:01:59,920
Speaker 1: then then I Matt even like chimed in there and said, wow,

1142
01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,880
Speaker 1: thanks guys, this is all for the benefit of Carly. Yeah,

1143
01:02:03,160 --> 01:02:07,560
Speaker 1: I got I got schooled. Somebody decided it was their

1144
01:02:08,480 --> 01:02:12,640
Speaker 1: their job to school me. You've definitely gotten specific now

1145
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: and I'm gladly but here. But you know what, it

1146
01:02:15,080 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: has happened to me twice because I think people. I

1147
01:02:18,320 --> 01:02:20,240
Speaker 1: think that people think they look at you when they

1148
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 1: think I want a victimize because I think they're threatened

1149
01:02:22,600 --> 01:02:24,440
Speaker 1: by you. Oh. I think I think I am an

1150
01:02:24,480 --> 01:02:27,240
Speaker 1: easy target because I say a lot of things, but

1151
01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 1: I never try to get involved in these lengthy conversations.

1152
01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 1: I usually just say something and just for fun or

1153
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:37,080
Speaker 1: a fun thing to say you're a comedian, and it

1154
01:02:37,120 --> 01:02:40,439
Speaker 1: gets warped. But I thought about this a lot because

1155
01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:43,560
Speaker 1: it has happened to me twice. Both very minor incidents,

1156
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:48,000
Speaker 1: but both I immediately went to my therapist. Really affected me,

1157
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: like crying in days, like my handshaking, Like I saw

1158
01:02:51,800 --> 01:02:55,560
Speaker 1: people who liked the posts that we're calling me out

1159
01:02:55,560 --> 01:03:01,120
Speaker 1: in both these situations and I I defriended them. And

1160
01:03:01,880 --> 01:03:04,520
Speaker 1: but here's what. Here's what I will say. We are

1161
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 1: in a climate right now that's difficult to deal with,

1162
01:03:07,640 --> 01:03:10,320
Speaker 1: and we haven't had to deal with this before. Jokes

1163
01:03:10,360 --> 01:03:13,000
Speaker 1: and things that were said a year ago are not

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01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 1: acceptable now. And as a society, as a culture, we

1165
01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:22,440
Speaker 1: are learning, and some people are at different places on

1166
01:03:22,480 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 1: this timeline, but we're all learning. And if you want

1167
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:30,440
Speaker 1: to put someone down for where they are on this timeline,

1168
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 1: then they're gonna stop learning because they're going to feel uncomfortable.

1169
01:03:35,560 --> 01:03:40,200
Speaker 1: What happened to me, I felt was somebody's opinion, but

1170
01:03:42,080 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 1: people were in a way that Carly, yes, that Carly

1171
01:03:46,000 --> 01:03:48,840
Speaker 1: is wrong. One person went as far to say Carly

1172
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:53,960
Speaker 1: isn't funny, which is just, you know, not a fact.

1173
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 1: But people we also, I think we do. I mean

1174
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 1: people might fight me on this, but I think we

1175
01:03:58,600 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 1: do have to look at intent gin and people are

1176
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,920
Speaker 1: if somebody's genuine, like the first one was, the first

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01:04:06,960 --> 01:04:10,480
Speaker 1: one was. I responded by saying that I had a show.

1178
01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:13,320
Speaker 1: I have a show that if you're in a diverse couple,

1179
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:15,480
Speaker 1: you can like, hit me up. I would love for

1180
01:04:15,520 --> 01:04:17,040
Speaker 1: you to be on the show because I felt like

1181
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 1: what people were asking for was more diversity on stage.

1182
01:04:21,840 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 1: And then I got fucking ripped apart into many different

1183
01:04:25,080 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 1: pieces and I'm like, like, because I didn't care about

1184
01:04:30,960 --> 01:04:37,600
Speaker 1: improv or it was it was crazy. I mean they're jealous.

1185
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:41,240
Speaker 1: They're jealous. You know they're jealous. I mean, look, it's

1186
01:04:41,280 --> 01:04:45,880
Speaker 1: here's the deal. Like, you know, if you're not clever

1187
01:04:46,040 --> 01:04:48,000
Speaker 1: enough to be funny and like the way you take

1188
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 1: down someone and it's just hurting them, that should say

1189
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 1: it all right there. I mean, look, work on your

1190
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:56,479
Speaker 1: own ship. This is energy that you're putting into something

1191
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 1: that doesn't involve you. The funniest part is that the

1192
01:04:59,560 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 1: second thinking instance that we're talking about, it's like it

1193
01:05:03,240 --> 01:05:05,760
Speaker 1: was like a straight woman talking about another straight woman

1194
01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 1: and it's like defending gay men in a way that

1195
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:12,440
Speaker 1: was like not at all called for, and it was

1196
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:17,640
Speaker 1: like did we ask for this? Oh my god? What happened?

1197
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:19,640
Speaker 1: Was a year and a half ago I said fag

1198
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:23,880
Speaker 1: in a show and um it was it was our

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01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:27,800
Speaker 1: show together. But I do think, but I do, I

1200
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:32,840
Speaker 1: truly one don't remember saying it in another show, but

1201
01:05:32,920 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 1: I do remember the show that this girl was referencing to,

1202
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: and a lot of referencing and a lot of times

1203
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 1: I do this bit, which is I say I make

1204
01:05:41,400 --> 01:05:43,920
Speaker 1: the audience say something that is uncomfortable. A lot of

1205
01:05:43,960 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 1: times it's Carly's pussy or I want to eat you out,

1206
01:05:47,320 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 1: Like I think it's funny. I think it's great. I

1207
01:05:49,640 --> 01:05:51,320
Speaker 1: think it's a really good tool. Does that word make

1208
01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,960
Speaker 1: everyone uncomfortable? Let's defeat the word right now together. Can

1209
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,880
Speaker 1: we all just like, like, okay, cool, I think it's

1210
01:05:56,880 --> 01:05:59,840
Speaker 1: like a comedic tool, and you know what, you know what,

1211
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 1: here's the deal. Not everyone's going to agree with it,

1212
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:06,800
Speaker 1: but but the point is it happened a long time

1213
01:06:06,840 --> 01:06:09,520
Speaker 1: ago in this instance, and probably a lot of people

1214
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 1: aren't even gonna know what we're talking about. But what

1215
01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:13,720
Speaker 1: I want to break it down with is if you

1216
01:06:13,760 --> 01:06:18,800
Speaker 1: see someone on Facebook trying the instinct, and what's not

1217
01:06:18,800 --> 01:06:21,160
Speaker 1: going to make it better is to say, but remember

1218
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 1: when you sucked, or remember when this or like I

1219
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,200
Speaker 1: just want to call you out publicly. If your comments

1220
01:06:27,200 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 1: says I just need to call you out publicly, really

1221
01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:33,800
Speaker 1: think about why she said she said. So you can

1222
01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:36,600
Speaker 1: use this as an opportunity to self reflect. I'm like,

1223
01:06:37,160 --> 01:06:41,000
Speaker 1: I see two doctors a week to self it's beyond

1224
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 1: and you know what, also, don't want to make anyone

1225
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:46,120
Speaker 1: feel bad, because you know, we all make mistakes. But

1226
01:06:46,440 --> 01:06:49,120
Speaker 1: this is something that you can all learn from going forward.

1227
01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:53,040
Speaker 1: It's like when you know, people talk about getting harassed

1228
01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 1: on on apps, like the online culture is fully out

1229
01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 1: of control. I'm actually getting really upset about the way

1230
01:07:00,760 --> 01:07:03,600
Speaker 1: people are talking about Alexis Michelle on RuPaul's Drag Race.

1231
01:07:04,040 --> 01:07:08,480
Speaker 1: She is a drag queen who's good, like who is

1232
01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 1: a little bit extra, but she's not a bad person.

1233
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:16,560
Speaker 1: There's someone on YouTube with the YouTube handle I hate,

1234
01:07:16,560 --> 01:07:21,080
Speaker 1: which is fucking stupid, and nobody go look this person up. No,

1235
01:07:21,440 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 1: it's just and honestly, at the end of the day,

1236
01:07:23,640 --> 01:07:26,320
Speaker 1: like you know what, like we have like a private

1237
01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:30,440
Speaker 1: RuPaul's Drag Race Facebook group with like a hundred or

1238
01:07:30,480 --> 01:07:33,280
Speaker 1: so of our quote unquote friends, and like it started

1239
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:35,640
Speaker 1: just like we were just batting around talking about the show,

1240
01:07:36,160 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 1: and like then it became this space where like sometimes

1241
01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:41,960
Speaker 1: people are calling out other people for like use of language,

1242
01:07:41,960 --> 01:07:43,960
Speaker 1: and it's like, guys, it's first of all, it's drag

1243
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:46,360
Speaker 1: and second of all, it's not the horrors that are

1244
01:07:46,400 --> 01:07:50,720
Speaker 1: happening in public on Twitter. It's crazy. So I guess

1245
01:07:50,760 --> 01:07:53,480
Speaker 1: like what I'm getting at with like that bringing that

1246
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:56,880
Speaker 1: up talking about what goes down like on the apps

1247
01:07:56,880 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 1: with like the body shaming and everything, and like the racism,

1248
01:07:59,560 --> 01:08:02,160
Speaker 1: and then also discussing what went down with you, which

1249
01:08:02,200 --> 01:08:04,760
Speaker 1: I think is cyber bulling is separate the way you

1250
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:07,320
Speaker 1: behave online. Do I want to do this? Do I

1251
01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 1: think it will be funny? Or do I need to

1252
01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 1: do this? Like really you can really para yes, if

1253
01:08:13,000 --> 01:08:16,680
Speaker 1: she I mean if she, if if anyone really is

1254
01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:21,280
Speaker 1: coming from a place of care and messern message me.

1255
01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:25,640
Speaker 1: It seems like so silly, But the fact of the

1256
01:08:25,680 --> 01:08:31,240
Speaker 1: matter is, you know people well me me personally, I'm

1257
01:08:31,280 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 1: not isis I'm not a rapist. I didn't vote for Trump,

1258
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:38,679
Speaker 1: like you could assume that I'm an okay person. And

1259
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 1: I think it's pretty well known that I'm loved by

1260
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:46,920
Speaker 1: gay people. I just couldn't believe, like me, out of

1261
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:50,679
Speaker 1: anyone you're trying to target. It's and also and oh sorry,

1262
01:08:50,760 --> 01:08:52,719
Speaker 1: this is like a This is like a bigger speaks

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Speaker 1: to the bigger part of this is people, this whole

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01:08:56,520 --> 01:09:01,280
Speaker 1: cat call out culture. How many of the people are psychiatrists?

1265
01:09:01,280 --> 01:09:04,200
Speaker 1: Like what if really someone if someone has a different

1266
01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:06,759
Speaker 1: point of view than you, is it the best way

1267
01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:09,599
Speaker 1: to make them see your point of view? By quote

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01:09:09,640 --> 01:09:12,600
Speaker 1: unquote embarrassing them, Like I wasn't embarrassed. I am a

1269
01:09:12,640 --> 01:09:14,960
Speaker 1: little fearful that, like people think I'm homophobic or people

1270
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:17,639
Speaker 1: think I'm readist, but I also am like a host

1271
01:09:18,240 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 1: and we're all comedians and we and this is a

1272
01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:24,080
Speaker 1: new climate, and we try jokes out and sometimes they

1273
01:09:24,120 --> 01:09:26,280
Speaker 1: don't work, and sometimes they do. The specific show she

1274
01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 1: was talking about, I do not remember that bit, but

1275
01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:30,840
Speaker 1: I do remember that I felt like I was dying

1276
01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:33,599
Speaker 1: on stage. I remember that nobody was laughing at me.

1277
01:09:33,880 --> 01:09:37,840
Speaker 1: And if if another comedian can't honestly relate to that,

1278
01:09:38,240 --> 01:09:41,320
Speaker 1: then you're not a comedian. And just and and just

1279
01:09:41,400 --> 01:09:46,280
Speaker 1: to close this conversation, I mean, even even the alternative

1280
01:09:46,280 --> 01:09:49,600
Speaker 1: of just messaging someone privately and hashing this out privately

1281
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:54,280
Speaker 1: can still lead to stupid ship like them, like just

1282
01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 1: forcing a conversation that you don't want to have with

1283
01:09:57,080 --> 01:09:59,800
Speaker 1: them that's totally unrelated to what they're calling you out for.

1284
01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:03,759
Speaker 1: But like someone a deferend like unfollowed me on ship

1285
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:07,799
Speaker 1: because I was uncomfortable talking to them, having a conversation

1286
01:10:07,840 --> 01:10:09,559
Speaker 1: with him that they kept pushing on me for months

1287
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:11,439
Speaker 1: and months and months about like can we talk about

1288
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:14,360
Speaker 1: your upbringing against my can we talk about how your

1289
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:17,759
Speaker 1: parents don't accept you as as gay visa vie my parents,

1290
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:21,599
Speaker 1: And like, I don't want to gorgeously relate my life

1291
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:24,599
Speaker 1: like what I've been through with with what you've been through.

1292
01:10:24,960 --> 01:10:27,000
Speaker 1: I just like and so I just said, like, hey,

1293
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:29,719
Speaker 1: I don't want to have this conversation, and the person

1294
01:10:31,000 --> 01:10:33,040
Speaker 1: unfollowed me as if they were the one who were

1295
01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:35,559
Speaker 1: slighted in that situation. So I'm just saying, you guys

1296
01:10:36,200 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 1: have a fucking sense of humor or at least like

1297
01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:42,559
Speaker 1: acknowledge that you don't, acknowledge that you don't or acknowledge

1298
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:46,440
Speaker 1: that you also are wrong. It's like this moral purity,

1299
01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:50,680
Speaker 1: this moral purism that like we're like mired in right

1300
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 1: now is just so stupid and it's making people stupid, okay,

1301
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:57,160
Speaker 1: and so much of it can just be let go.

1302
01:10:57,520 --> 01:10:59,439
Speaker 1: If you know that person is not a terrorist or

1303
01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 1: a rapist us or is an actively committing hate crimes

1304
01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,400
Speaker 1: and you just don't like their wording, it's like that's

1305
01:11:05,920 --> 01:11:08,880
Speaker 1: that's on you. There just needs to be a lot

1306
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:11,639
Speaker 1: more compassion and also a lot of a lot more

1307
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:14,920
Speaker 1: knowledge of the fact that most of us don't actually

1308
01:11:15,120 --> 01:11:17,559
Speaker 1: know each other very well, you know what I mean. Like,

1309
01:11:17,880 --> 01:11:21,920
Speaker 1: so you might think that because we sometimes like each

1310
01:11:21,960 --> 01:11:25,880
Speaker 1: other's Facebook comments that were you know, actually friends, But

1311
01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:28,320
Speaker 1: like you have to earn that with people, and I

1312
01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:32,240
Speaker 1: hope that we don't lose real friendship. It would be

1313
01:11:32,280 --> 01:11:34,400
Speaker 1: a shame because there are some people now that I

1314
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:37,200
Speaker 1: see online now more than I do when I first

1315
01:11:37,200 --> 01:11:39,599
Speaker 1: met them. Just people fall out of touch whatever, just

1316
01:11:39,720 --> 01:11:41,880
Speaker 1: like have some compassion in your day to days. I

1317
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:44,280
Speaker 1: know that people are upset, but this all goes back

1318
01:11:44,320 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 1: to the relationships, the relationships that we have in this life,

1319
01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:50,920
Speaker 1: how they're fleeting, and that goes back to hands. And Okay,

1320
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:54,840
Speaker 1: let's move on to I don't think so, honey, right,

1321
01:11:56,160 --> 01:12:02,000
Speaker 1: are my girls ride or tie? And I will no,

1322
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:08,360
Speaker 1: And when I'm dying, I will quote you both to

1323
01:12:08,439 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 1: my side, and I know that you'll be Here's how

1324
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 1: I'm going to die. Okay, but did I sound Bowen's

1325
01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:18,519
Speaker 1: going to be looking dead in my eyes and he

1326
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 1: was going to begin to laugh. But you have said

1327
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 1: a million times you will be the last thing I

1328
01:12:23,880 --> 01:12:26,600
Speaker 1: see when I die. I think we'll put it to

1329
01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:29,920
Speaker 1: the audience who will be the first to die, me

1330
01:12:30,240 --> 01:12:35,080
Speaker 1: or Bowen. I think that's the kind of questions we ask,

1331
01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:39,439
Speaker 1: big questions ever die. So guys tweet at us. Um,

1332
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:43,240
Speaker 1: you know, people on the on Twitter have been very

1333
01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:45,719
Speaker 1: active and we love it. We I try to respond

1334
01:12:45,720 --> 01:12:49,000
Speaker 1: to every tweet that's lost. Culture is just related. Um,

1335
01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:52,160
Speaker 1: we love the twitterers out there, but let us know

1336
01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:54,280
Speaker 1: who's going to die first and who will see the

1337
01:12:54,320 --> 01:12:58,360
Speaker 1: other as they die. Yeah, okay, all right, now that

1338
01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:00,280
Speaker 1: we've put put that out to the audience, they have

1339
01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 1: a talking point for next week. Um, let's do I

1340
01:13:03,960 --> 01:13:06,920
Speaker 1: Don't Think So honey, As Bowen said, it's time now.

1341
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:09,400
Speaker 1: Carly was a part of our I Don't Think So

1342
01:13:09,439 --> 01:13:14,559
Speaker 1: Honey Live event. She crushed. She had an amazing one

1343
01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:19,799
Speaker 1: about people who barely make the subway looking at you triumphant. Yeah,

1344
01:13:19,840 --> 01:13:22,360
Speaker 1: the look of triumph that washes over one's face when

1345
01:13:22,360 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 1: they just make the train. Come on, I mean so good.

1346
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:27,360
Speaker 1: And I think about that every time I'm now run

1347
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:29,840
Speaker 1: for the train because it's been happening a lot, I know,

1348
01:13:30,160 --> 01:13:34,360
Speaker 1: really embarrassing. Wow. Wow wow. Okay, So I do you

1349
01:13:34,360 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 1: have I think do you have one? Because I don't

1350
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:38,639
Speaker 1: And I was going to actually suggest that we reach

1351
01:13:38,680 --> 01:13:40,960
Speaker 1: for the troll ball for me. Okay, we'll wait for

1352
01:13:40,960 --> 01:13:44,160
Speaker 1: the trouble through. Matt, Um, should I should I? Should

1353
01:13:44,160 --> 01:13:46,680
Speaker 1: I go for it? Or if Carly, if Carly has

1354
01:13:46,680 --> 01:13:48,280
Speaker 1: something on her mind that she'd like for me to

1355
01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:54,120
Speaker 1: rant about. Oh um, well you guys, you sure? I mean,

1356
01:13:54,160 --> 01:13:56,800
Speaker 1: I do have something if you want it? Matt your

1357
01:13:56,920 --> 01:14:00,360
Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey. Is men who won't commit

1358
01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:04,200
Speaker 1: to Carly Anne Philibin, Okay, here regatted, this is Matt Rogers.

1359
01:14:04,240 --> 01:14:05,960
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a honey. Time starts now. I

1360
01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:08,599
Speaker 1: don't think so, honey. Men who won't commit to Carle Philibin.

1361
01:14:08,720 --> 01:14:12,200
Speaker 1: You don't understand you You have a prize and let

1362
01:14:12,280 --> 01:14:14,080
Speaker 1: me tell you something. Just right there, you saw it.

1363
01:14:14,240 --> 01:14:17,360
Speaker 1: When you take a misstep, she will of course correct you.

1364
01:14:17,880 --> 01:14:22,679
Speaker 1: She is always gonna be there to say the real thing. Also, Loki,

1365
01:14:22,960 --> 01:14:25,680
Speaker 1: if you do need Uber home, she will pay. You

1366
01:14:25,720 --> 01:14:28,360
Speaker 1: will offer to pay, she will say no, it's fine,

1367
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:31,599
Speaker 1: as if she has something going on with Uber And

1368
01:14:31,640 --> 01:14:33,599
Speaker 1: then you kind of press and you're like, why don't

1369
01:14:33,640 --> 01:14:35,759
Speaker 1: you want me to pay? And she says something vague

1370
01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:37,599
Speaker 1: to the effect that she's got a lot of points.

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01:14:38,200 --> 01:14:40,400
Speaker 1: I don't know you dake, Carl anshi, but you'll get

1372
01:14:40,479 --> 01:14:42,439
Speaker 1: driven around by the best of the best in New

1373
01:14:42,479 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 1: York City. I don't think, so honey. People who don't

1374
01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:47,559
Speaker 1: want that. I don't think so honey. People who don't

1375
01:14:47,600 --> 01:14:50,040
Speaker 1: want to have a good conversation over dinner. Girl. This

1376
01:14:50,160 --> 01:14:52,800
Speaker 1: girl's full of stories? Are you kidding me? You know

1377
01:14:52,840 --> 01:14:54,559
Speaker 1: what I think? If you don't want to take Carly

1378
01:14:54,600 --> 01:14:56,840
Speaker 1: and Philbin, you must be a straight man. You're boring

1379
01:14:56,880 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 1: ass bitch. I don't think so honey. Any of you

1380
01:14:59,439 --> 01:15:02,519
Speaker 1: commit to friend Carly and she also has an amazing

1381
01:15:02,560 --> 01:15:05,800
Speaker 1: show on June twenty, and you need to go. I

1382
01:15:05,800 --> 01:15:10,040
Speaker 1: don't think, so honey. That's one minute. That is the best.

1383
01:15:10,080 --> 01:15:13,720
Speaker 1: I don't think, honey, I've ever heard. I thought you

1384
01:15:13,760 --> 01:15:16,599
Speaker 1: would like it. Yeah, it was perfect, Thank you, happy

1385
01:15:16,640 --> 01:15:18,479
Speaker 1: to provide. I think in that same vein, I will

1386
01:15:18,520 --> 01:15:22,679
Speaker 1: also take a topic from Oh my god. Okay, yeah,

1387
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 1: that's great, okay, um, okay. Watches. I don't think so honey. Watches.

1388
01:15:29,439 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 1: Here's time starts now. I don't think so honey. Watches.

1389
01:15:32,400 --> 01:15:35,439
Speaker 1: Why do you even fucking exist? There are clocks, There

1390
01:15:35,439 --> 01:15:40,439
Speaker 1: are clocks on our phones, watches. It is only it

1391
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:47,400
Speaker 1: is only you know an embellishment that no one needs.

1392
01:15:47,400 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 1: There's no function to it, there's no use for it.

1393
01:15:49,960 --> 01:15:51,759
Speaker 1: I'm wearing a watch right now, but it is only

1394
01:15:51,760 --> 01:15:53,919
Speaker 1: for the look, honey, And it's only for the aesthetic.

1395
01:15:54,000 --> 01:15:58,400
Speaker 1: It is only to attract people, to be a conversation starter, Honey.

1396
01:15:58,520 --> 01:16:01,840
Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey. Watches for thinking that that

1397
01:16:01,960 --> 01:16:05,080
Speaker 1: you deserve a whole section in the jewelry store. Now,

1398
01:16:05,439 --> 01:16:08,480
Speaker 1: Jeli stress for rings, the jeweler stress for necklaces and

1399
01:16:08,479 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 1: and other jewelry, but not watches. I do not consider

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01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:17,519
Speaker 1: watch this jewelry, Honey. Do not step on jewelry, honey, Honey,

1401
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:24,479
Speaker 1: watches and look, I don't watches for not things for heaven. Batteries, bitch,

1402
01:16:24,920 --> 01:16:27,519
Speaker 1: who do you think you are five seconds? At least

1403
01:16:27,560 --> 01:16:29,840
Speaker 1: have the gall to be solar power. I don't think

1404
01:16:31,240 --> 01:16:34,320
Speaker 1: that's one minute. Sorry, just came off a fly and

1405
01:16:34,680 --> 01:16:38,200
Speaker 1: that was so good. I thought it was wonderful. That

1406
01:16:38,280 --> 01:16:41,120
Speaker 1: was really good. And now we've come to Carly Anne

1407
01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:45,080
Speaker 1: Philibin's get the name right, honey, her, I don't think so, honey.

1408
01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:48,519
Speaker 1: Now you have something prepared, I have something that I

1409
01:16:48,520 --> 01:16:54,160
Speaker 1: would like to Okay, beaut all right, I don't think

1410
01:16:54,160 --> 01:16:57,479
Speaker 1: so honey, Carly Anne Philbin and time starts now. I

1411
01:16:57,479 --> 01:16:59,479
Speaker 1: don't think so, honey. People could get down on their

1412
01:16:59,520 --> 01:17:06,720
Speaker 1: hands and niece and gravel for photo credit, trying a

1413
01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:12,760
Speaker 1: gatorade because you gotta quench. Yo, if I wanted you

1414
01:17:12,880 --> 01:17:16,519
Speaker 1: somehow involved in my picture, why would have asked you

1415
01:17:16,800 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 1: to be. I don't act like you're some famous photographer

1416
01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:24,880
Speaker 1: that I need to site. Okay, you are taking a

1417
01:17:24,920 --> 01:17:31,639
Speaker 1: picture with not your phone but phone. You're pressing a button,

1418
01:17:32,040 --> 01:17:35,000
Speaker 1: maybe you do a burst. It's probably gonna be bad.

1419
01:17:35,400 --> 01:17:38,840
Speaker 1: I'm not giving you credit. And also, honey, how do

1420
01:17:38,920 --> 01:17:41,120
Speaker 1: you even know I posted that picture? You're not tacked

1421
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:46,479
Speaker 1: in it. You're scrolling through my gram, scroll it through

1422
01:17:46,520 --> 01:17:49,000
Speaker 1: my f beat to see that picture that you took

1423
01:17:49,000 --> 01:17:50,840
Speaker 1: at that party that you won't invite you and I

1424
01:17:50,920 --> 01:18:01,800
Speaker 1: don't know your name. Honey. That's what you need to clarify,

1425
01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:06,120
Speaker 1: because professional photos, you must give credit. But she's talking

1426
01:18:06,120 --> 01:18:09,200
Speaker 1: about the man. You can't imagine. I was talking about

1427
01:18:09,400 --> 01:18:13,040
Speaker 1: National Geographic. It's like, okay, let's say Harley, Carly and

1428
01:18:13,040 --> 01:18:14,519
Speaker 1: I wanted you to take a photo of us, and

1429
01:18:14,560 --> 01:18:17,880
Speaker 1: then you were non plus that we didn't that she

1430
01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:22,840
Speaker 1: didn't tag seriously, people are like that pictures, yes, and

1431
01:18:23,960 --> 01:18:26,000
Speaker 1: that people that's why you know, you didn't know that

1432
01:18:26,040 --> 01:18:30,840
Speaker 1: was a part of culture being. Are you saying that

1433
01:18:30,880 --> 01:18:35,920
Speaker 1: I should go in Patrick's day? Yes? No. And people

1434
01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:38,960
Speaker 1: think that's why the emoji of the camera in the

1435
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:44,120
Speaker 1: flash exists. What that's ridiculous. Yes, But so then you

1436
01:18:44,160 --> 01:18:48,000
Speaker 1: should ask them then why the fucking Chinese character emojis

1437
01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:50,680
Speaker 1: exist and how them going to exist? You know what

1438
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:55,120
Speaker 1: crisis about that? I will, yeah, asked them honestly. But

1439
01:18:55,240 --> 01:18:57,919
Speaker 1: you've never seen a photo that someone says a photo

1440
01:18:58,040 --> 01:19:01,280
Speaker 1: credit as I literally, if I ever say that, I

1441
01:19:01,320 --> 01:19:03,920
Speaker 1: assume it has to be a bit because it's so

1442
01:19:04,000 --> 01:19:09,120
Speaker 1: stupid people for some reason need it's so inflamed. Ya. No,

1443
01:19:09,280 --> 01:19:11,200
Speaker 1: I don't think so, honey of those people either. Yeah.

1444
01:19:11,520 --> 01:19:13,679
Speaker 1: So I thought you were talking about when someone comes

1445
01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:16,360
Speaker 1: to a show and takes photos and then credit me.

1446
01:19:16,400 --> 01:19:20,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, bitch, credit them. No. No, Alex Shaefer

1447
01:19:20,200 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 1: forever of course, forever Mindy and Alex my heart, both

1448
01:19:26,160 --> 01:19:29,439
Speaker 1: of my hearts. Although I will say Alex Schaefer, I

1449
01:19:29,479 --> 01:19:31,599
Speaker 1: was just on set. He did photos of David Mazzoni.

1450
01:19:32,280 --> 01:19:35,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, they look so good, and I truly gasped.

1451
01:19:36,040 --> 01:19:37,800
Speaker 1: Did you see the one that did I sell the

1452
01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:41,080
Speaker 1: one that Alex posted? Did he post one? Yes, okay,

1453
01:19:41,120 --> 01:19:43,400
Speaker 1: I have to see which one it is. Okay, they're

1454
01:19:43,479 --> 01:19:47,280
Speaker 1: so good you If you are looking to get photos taken,

1455
01:19:48,240 --> 01:19:51,080
Speaker 1: seek this guy out. Alex Shaefer. He works in the

1456
01:19:51,080 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 1: photo department of USA now, so he's busy a lot

1457
01:19:53,360 --> 01:19:57,439
Speaker 1: of the time. But professional, girl, But he's professional and

1458
01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:00,720
Speaker 1: ask a bitch his rate because they are where he's

1459
01:20:00,760 --> 01:20:03,760
Speaker 1: worth every dollar. So I'm not talking about professional photographers,

1460
01:20:03,800 --> 01:20:06,200
Speaker 1: of course not. I'm talking about like that one person

1461
01:20:06,280 --> 01:20:08,320
Speaker 1: who is at the party with you that you asked

1462
01:20:08,360 --> 01:20:10,360
Speaker 1: to take a photo. I can't believe it's ever happened

1463
01:20:10,360 --> 01:20:13,240
Speaker 1: to you know, I can't believe that that's that Those

1464
01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:14,880
Speaker 1: people gotta we gotta put them on a shift of

1465
01:20:14,920 --> 01:20:17,000
Speaker 1: ship and like, let him set the sail and send

1466
01:20:17,040 --> 01:20:19,880
Speaker 1: them to the garbage island in the Pacific. Oh my goodness, Carly,

1467
01:20:19,960 --> 01:20:22,800
Speaker 1: And is that a real thing? Yeah, it is. People

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Speaker 1: an island that's full of garbage that's the size of Texas.

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Speaker 1: Apparently that's in the Pacific Ocean. That's just like with

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Speaker 1: the currents and the like. It's just whirlpooled into like

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Speaker 1: this giant island of garbage. Look, we gotta go, we

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Speaker 1: gotta go. Vacation destination, destination. They will start a resort there.

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Speaker 1: You know, girl, you know you know it? Um wow,

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Speaker 1: what an episode. This has been introspective, and it's been retrospective,

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Speaker 1: and it's been extrospective. Yes, absolutely, Carly and Philbin, we

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Speaker 1: love you so much. Where can people find you on

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Speaker 1: social media? At Carlynne has fun on all forms of

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Speaker 1: social yet oh she's got it consistent. You gotta keep

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Speaker 1: it consistent. Bowen has a has a chicken up, he's

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Speaker 1: done away on others. But honestly, I like how confident

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Speaker 1: you are in that. But I think I think Bowen transcends.

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Speaker 1: Bowen is transcend. I think Boone breaks every rule, break

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Speaker 1: every rule, break in every rule, make the rules, and

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Speaker 1: you gonna bak the rules. Okay, we weren't going to

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Speaker 1: join in when they sing along, Marcus cut this out. Okay,

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Speaker 1: everyone see you later and bye bye. This has been

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Speaker 1: a Forever Dog production, Executive produced by Joe Cilio, Alex Ramsay,

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Speaker 1: and Brett Bone. For more podcasts, please visit Trevor dog

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