1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio Almost Famous. 3 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 2: The OG's episode Cheers to You, my lovely friends. So 4 00:00:10,119 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 2: great to see my boy Rye walk in the door. 5 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 2: I stepped on his foot. I gave him a good stop. 6 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 2: I want to make sure he knew I was here. 7 00:00:16,840 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 2: So Kenyon almost didn't make the trip because the boys 8 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:22,480 Speaker 2: are both sick, but her mom and dad have been 9 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: staying with us since Halloween, and we'll be here until Christmas. 10 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 2: Uh two days after Christmas. 11 00:00:31,360 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 3: Okay, I guess what I'm trying to say. 12 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:34,560 Speaker 2: Is that's a long that's a long time. 13 00:00:35,479 --> 00:00:36,000 Speaker 4: Oh that's right. 14 00:00:36,040 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 2: You guys are in the midst of five months. So 15 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 2: it makes my I will not complaining. 16 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:44,680 Speaker 3: But if it were to be not complaining, I am 17 00:00:44,800 --> 00:00:48,160 Speaker 3: very gratefuy that my in laws have allowed us to 18 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 3: live in their home. 19 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:50,760 Speaker 4: For amazing you have. 20 00:00:50,800 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 2: You both have such great family. 21 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 3: We are very lucky. I think it's just we're the 22 00:00:56,680 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 3: four of us share a bathroom. Four of us us 23 00:01:00,360 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 3: two teenagers and two full grown adults, and we share 24 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:07,559 Speaker 3: a bathroom. So anyway, we closed in our house today. 25 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 4: Okay, that's something to sell it is. 26 00:01:12,880 --> 00:01:15,399 Speaker 3: It's good it's good. It's good. And then we got 27 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,880 Speaker 3: on a plane. Like I literally woke up super early 28 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 3: this morning after not being able to sleep, of course, 29 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 3: because we're closing our house. It's been so exciting and 30 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 3: stressful and all the things. And I woke up, got 31 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 3: the kids like up and made sure they're ready to 32 00:01:30,280 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 3: go to school, drove some stuff over to our new house, 33 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 3: which is like ten minutes away from and then went 34 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,480 Speaker 3: and got on a plane flew to LA for the 35 00:01:40,840 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 3: for the live. 36 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 2: Right. So you let's let's be let's let's explain it here. 37 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:47,840 Speaker 2: So you actually went. So I came in from Detroit. 38 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:51,360 Speaker 2: You came in from Denver, from Denver. Yeah, but you 39 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 2: got here super early because you guys went to the 40 00:01:53,560 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 2: actual taping of the finale we did with Gary and 41 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 2: his girls. 42 00:01:57,720 --> 00:01:58,000 Speaker 3: Yep. 43 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 2: I got in a little bit later than you because 44 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 2: my only only thing here was tonight the wrap up. Yep. 45 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 2: So you were at the actual function. What happened. 46 00:02:08,400 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 3: It was amazing. 47 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:12,639 Speaker 4: So you go there, Yeah, you're watching an unfold. 48 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:12,880 Speaker 2: In real time. 49 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 4: I mean, you know these ladies. 50 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 2: I don't know these ladies I met several tonight, love 51 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 2: them like you did. You have an investment in one 52 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 2: person over another, you know. 53 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:27,920 Speaker 3: What I actually so I met them both when I 54 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 3: came right here a couple doors down, and Leslie immediately 55 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 3: knew who I was and came running up to meet 56 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 3: with Ellen. Ellen and Leslie were like, oh my gosh, Drista, 57 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 3: you know, like screaming my name, gave me a huge hug. 58 00:02:44,680 --> 00:02:45,320 Speaker 4: That's nice. 59 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 3: And Teresa too, was so kind and sweet. So I 60 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:56,120 Speaker 3: I loved both of them. I honestly didn't. I don't. 61 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:58,240 Speaker 3: I don't like spoilers. I don't know how you feel 62 00:02:58,240 --> 00:02:58,720 Speaker 3: about spots. 63 00:02:58,880 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 4: I give a spoiler. 64 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:00,959 Speaker 3: Well, I know I'm not saying that. 65 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:02,399 Speaker 4: Oh no, I don't like spoilers either. 66 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:06,160 Speaker 3: I don't like spoilers. And I could have very well 67 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 3: found out when had happened, and I didn't want to 68 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 3: because I don't like spoilers. But I will say so. 69 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 3: The whole thing with how Gary says like, you know, 70 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 3: I can't choose the person I'm going to live with. 71 00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:21,600 Speaker 3: I want to choose the person I can't live without. 72 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:22,239 Speaker 3: That came back. 73 00:03:22,200 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 2: That's you. I remember you saying. That's why I was 74 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:30,840 Speaker 2: left on the cutting and floor. So that's why I 75 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 2: wasn't in episode eight. 76 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 4: Nine, Season four. 77 00:03:34,600 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 3: So we are sitting at this table having lunch. I 78 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 3: screwed over. I asked him how it's going, and you know, 79 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 3: we get into this conversation and that's where that advice 80 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 3: came from. But when we were talking, I swear and 81 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 3: I have a really bad memory, as I think, you know, 82 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 3: I have a horrible, horrible memory, and I think that 83 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 3: he told me. I said, so who are you excited about? 84 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 3: And I swear I thought he said Faith and Leslie 85 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:03,400 Speaker 3: and Teresa wasn't like mentioned. But that doesn't mean that 86 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 3: he wasn't thinking about Teresa. It's just I didn't have 87 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: her on my life. 88 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:11,720 Speaker 4: Later, yeah, because in a moment well. 89 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 3: And honestly, he was just in the moment, like whatever 90 00:04:14,920 --> 00:04:18,200 Speaker 3: he said, what he said, it there's no bearing on 91 00:04:18,240 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 3: it whatsoever. Because as you'll see in the episode, or 92 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:25,800 Speaker 3: what people will have seen tonight, is that things grew 93 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 3: pretty drastically for Teresa and Gary in the Fantasy Suite. 94 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 3: That's so bad and it changed things a lot. 95 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 2: I think that's why the Fantasy Suite is ultimately important, 96 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,920 Speaker 2: because it doesn't matter what goes on behind closed doors, 97 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,080 Speaker 2: but it totally matters what goes on behind closed doors. 98 00:04:43,240 --> 00:04:46,400 Speaker 2: It could be conversations, could be emotional, it could be 99 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 2: a lot of things. Doesn't have to be physical, but 100 00:04:49,400 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 2: I'm sure there's some of that as well. But I 101 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 2: think that that's probably the biggest moment because it's the 102 00:04:54,200 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: first time you're not on camera. 103 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 3: Think I think it's because you can trust, like there's 104 00:05:00,720 --> 00:05:04,040 Speaker 3: a trust element to it that the person is being themselves. 105 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, think about think about it. Back to 106 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:10,840 Speaker 2: your season. I mean, this is, you know, twenty years 107 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,880 Speaker 2: ago for us when it was your season on The Bachelorette. 108 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 2: I mean, you're behind closed doors with Ryan, and I 109 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 2: can only imagine the mayhem that went behind there. But 110 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:21,240 Speaker 2: that's not what we're talking about right now. What we're 111 00:05:21,240 --> 00:05:23,800 Speaker 2: really talking about is the emotional sharing, you know, because 112 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 2: he's an emotion like you you knew he was my 113 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: bunkmate in our little horrible man Shuts. 114 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 3: I'm not nothing like we're it's gorgeous. 115 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 2: But it was like, you know, he was writing you 116 00:05:36,000 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 2: poetry every night. He was doing things that that were 117 00:05:38,880 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 2: genuinely they weren't only seen on the show, but they 118 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:43,600 Speaker 2: were seen, but they weren't seen. The length of which 119 00:05:43,600 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: he went to on a nightly basis was was head 120 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 2: and shoulders above. 121 00:05:48,200 --> 00:05:49,880 Speaker 4: But I mean, you see that stuff. 122 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 2: When you finally get a chance to spend time with 123 00:05:51,279 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 2: them behind closed doors, without cameras and without the awkwardness 124 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 2: of a microphone guy. 125 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:01,200 Speaker 3: It's more like real life and you can trust each 126 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 3: other and know that you're in a safe space. I 127 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 3: feel like anyway, I yes, it was. It was a 128 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 3: great show. Leslie. My heart is just broken wide open 129 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 3: for her. And you know what's what's crazy. It happened 130 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 3: to me. It's exactly what happened to me. Alex Michelle 131 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 3: told me that he was going to choose you. He 132 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:29,800 Speaker 3: literally said you're the one, and then Leslie, he told 133 00:06:29,839 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 3: her she was the one and she wasn't. And so 134 00:06:33,400 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 3: my heart, like I really truly sympathize with her. Is 135 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:41,839 Speaker 3: sympathize meaning that you've been through it yourself. I empathized 136 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 3: with her because I've been through it so and I 137 00:06:44,920 --> 00:06:48,280 Speaker 3: love Leslie. Leslie, we were actually we've been dming. Like 138 00:06:50,080 --> 00:06:54,880 Speaker 3: I mean, love her. I'm really really hoping that she 139 00:06:54,960 --> 00:07:00,160 Speaker 3: becomes the Golden Bachelorette because I don't know I did it. 140 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:01,599 Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know. 141 00:07:01,760 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 2: God, I hope they do. 142 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 3: I know, I think, I think it's so amazing. 143 00:07:05,000 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 2: Here's what I think. I don't know much, and I 144 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 2: have been removed from the franchise in a way for 145 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 2: a long time to put this show together. 146 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 3: Yeah. 147 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 2: I love the idea of not focusing on the young 148 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:20,760 Speaker 2: hot thing, right. I mean, I hate to say it, 149 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 2: like so Caddy, but that really is kind of no. Yeah, 150 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:25,240 Speaker 2: I mean you're talking about these women who were age 151 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 2: appropriately cast. I love it, and every one of them 152 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:31,640 Speaker 2: that I've met tonight magical beautiful people. 153 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 3: You are so right beautiful people. God, and they're so 154 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 3: deserving and everyone isn't deserving of love. But I really 155 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:45,320 Speaker 3: truly feel like I am rooting for their age. Yes, right, 156 00:07:45,800 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 3: because so it was said multiple times in the show 157 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 3: tonight that they don't have much time left. 158 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 2: And that, oh I guess you think about her standpoint 159 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 2: like can we be married for fifty years? 160 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:00,040 Speaker 4: No? 161 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 2: Right? Can we be married for twenty years? 162 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 3: Can you be married for a day? Like? Literally, Teresa said, 163 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 3: I We've given people hope that there is still love 164 00:08:09,360 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 3: out there no matter what age you are. Even if 165 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 3: you're ninety and you have a day to live, you 166 00:08:13,840 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 3: should still try to strive for love. Okay, so questions. 167 00:08:29,240 --> 00:08:30,840 Speaker 3: We have a couple of questions and I think they're 168 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 3: actually kind of fun. At what point do you become 169 00:08:33,240 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 3: an OG? 170 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 4: So I've been thinking about this today. You were busy 171 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 4: doing my belly. 172 00:08:37,960 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 3: Sorry you probably heard that my bone. No want food? 173 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 2: So I have been thinking about this all day, I think. So, 174 00:08:47,320 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: you know, it's interesting. 175 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:49,679 Speaker 3: Because thinking about this all day. 176 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 2: I really have no I thought this, but I like 177 00:08:54,120 --> 00:08:56,719 Speaker 2: to sound like I have a little deeper than I am. 178 00:08:57,920 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 4: You know, it's funny. 179 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 2: It's funny, so true, it kind of does kind of 180 00:09:04,080 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 2: does oh a shallow hell? 181 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: What? 182 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 2: No, I will say this, I what makes you an 183 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 2: O G? I think we do have a period of 184 00:09:13,080 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 2: time and I'm not sure what it is. Clearly it's 185 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 2: not old mansion versus new mansion. Because this is my 186 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:21,360 Speaker 2: first time in this place. I will say, I do 187 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 2: think this place is lovely o G vibes. Though it's 188 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 2: a little bit. We have we have some. 189 00:09:31,280 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 3: So you're not seeing it when everything's set up with the. 190 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 2: Remember our mansions, we were kind of in the gata. 191 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:47,839 Speaker 2: I mean honestly, I remember staying in that mansion thinking 192 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 2: I might get robbed tonight, and I can tell you 193 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:52,800 Speaker 2: where I'm at now. I don't feel like I'm gonna 194 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 2: get robbed. I could leave my purse out. 195 00:09:55,280 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 4: I could. 196 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:59,080 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna worry about it. I could leave my 197 00:09:59,120 --> 00:10:01,839 Speaker 2: hands back, I could leave my handbag out. 198 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:04,679 Speaker 4: My merse, it's immerse. It's a merse. But at our 199 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,199 Speaker 4: old mansion where we did the show. 200 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:11,319 Speaker 2: Old mansion, I say mansion, I mean guys, I mean 201 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 2: potato tomato point is. It was a lovely ranch. Actually, 202 00:10:17,520 --> 00:10:19,239 Speaker 2: I think ourselves it was a Spanish. 203 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:19,599 Speaker 3: It was. 204 00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:22,200 Speaker 4: It was a Spanish. We couldn't get the guy that 205 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:22,880 Speaker 4: owned it to leave. 206 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 2: Remember that he was a total creeper with a dog, 207 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,160 Speaker 2: and anytime the girls came over in bathing suits, he 208 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:30,360 Speaker 2: was like, hey it is I'm like, dude, can I 209 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 2: please have a one on one here? I mean it 210 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,400 Speaker 2: was a disaster. So the fact that he got foreclosed 211 00:10:35,440 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 2: on not super sat. 212 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 3: Backup because what girls came over in bathing suits? 213 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:43,800 Speaker 4: None? But had day, had day. I wanted to be ready. 214 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:46,679 Speaker 3: WHOA, So you were getting me and you were having 215 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 3: girls over in bathing suits. 216 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,280 Speaker 2: Listen, all I can tell you is this what I 217 00:10:50,320 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 2: remember of this time of my life was. It was 218 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:57,840 Speaker 2: an infinity pool that overlooked the lovely ocean, and the 219 00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 2: house itself was a freakin' You're My man season mine 220 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 2: Andrew Firestones, I think Aaron Burgee's Bergie Bergie. None of 221 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 2: us could sleep. None of us just sleep. I remember 222 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 2: waking up with the Mellanite one night and I was like, 223 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to walk around and just look around. So 224 00:11:15,320 --> 00:11:18,120 Speaker 2: I'm terrified, and I walked around. I'm the only person 225 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 2: because I've watched many horror films, and I'm like, is 226 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,440 Speaker 2: this a chainsaw factory? I'm going to walk in here. 227 00:11:25,600 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 2: But here's the thing. I found the area with which 228 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 2: they shot the show, the what do they call the village. 229 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 3: I don't know, the confidential room, and. 230 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:37,480 Speaker 2: I went down there. In Tristano's this story, I went 231 00:11:37,520 --> 00:11:39,959 Speaker 2: down there and I'm like, what in the fing h 232 00:11:40,559 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 2: is this place? And it was beneath the hut. 233 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 3: That's exactly what you said. 234 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 2: I might have not said the thing age party. I 235 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:47,840 Speaker 2: might have said the actual words, but now that I 236 00:11:47,840 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: have children, I'm trying to be responsible. I find everything 237 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 2: from submission tapes to addresses to everything of every girl 238 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,920 Speaker 2: that's on my season, So I copied them down to 239 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 2: my cell phone was a flip phone at the time, 240 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 2: just to date myself, and I wanted to make sure 241 00:12:03,240 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 2: I sent them a loving and heartfelt note about why 242 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 2: I really enjoyed them being on my season. I remember 243 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:11,400 Speaker 2: there was a girl on there that had like a 244 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 2: cow or something, and I'm like, how I you know, 245 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 2: just loved learning about your cow. I swear I wanted 246 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 2: to let me know about your cow. And I do 247 00:12:21,840 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 2: love cows as a people, and I just thought it'd 248 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:27,400 Speaker 2: be nice to let them know that I listened, and 249 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:29,959 Speaker 2: you know, and things of that nature. But I remember 250 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:32,320 Speaker 2: thinking myself, I'm gonna get kicked off the show for this, 251 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 2: and then I remembered halfway through, I'm like, oh wait, 252 00:12:34,440 --> 00:12:35,360 Speaker 2: they can't kick me off. 253 00:12:35,600 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 4: Oh my god, that's doing the thing with the stuff. 254 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:39,520 Speaker 2: And so I wasn't kicked off. 255 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:40,680 Speaker 4: But it was my mansion. 256 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:45,319 Speaker 2: I hate to say, it was not like this mansion. Yes, 257 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 2: this mansions. 258 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:52,079 Speaker 3: No, it's amazing, amazing. Okay, who are the newbies and 259 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 3: who are the wise old souls? But what does that mean? 260 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 3: What does that question mean? 261 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:58,280 Speaker 2: We we're wise old? We know that part. Well, at 262 00:12:58,360 --> 00:12:59,679 Speaker 2: least I am You're. 263 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 3: Still Okay, What I do want to ah, thanks, What 264 00:13:03,720 --> 00:13:06,520 Speaker 3: I do want to bring up is the fact that 265 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 3: I believe that the ogs, even though they're considered the 266 00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:17,200 Speaker 3: the older shows. Okay, so when it comes to time, right, 267 00:13:17,679 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 3: so time is on on right. But what I want 268 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 3: to want to what I want to point out is 269 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:28,880 Speaker 3: OG's are the first to do something. So I was 270 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:34,959 Speaker 3: a Dancing with the Stars OG, and I was a 271 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 3: celebrity marriage boot Camp OG. And these people on Golden Bachelor, 272 00:13:43,360 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 3: and I don't say women because it was Gary too. 273 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 3: All the people on Golden Bachelor were og in my mind, 274 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 3: even though the show is not old, it's brand new, 275 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 3: but they are OG's in my mind because they are 276 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 3: the first. 277 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:02,680 Speaker 2: Okay, so that, but we also have to think about 278 00:14:02,679 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 2: it from the standpoint of, like from from the Bachelor 279 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 2: franchise itself, where do our ogs come into play? So yeah, 280 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:11,400 Speaker 2: I mean, it can't just be the first because we'd 281 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,480 Speaker 2: have a really short season. So we got to think 282 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 2: about it from the standpoint of, like I think there's 283 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:20,200 Speaker 2: a threshold or a window, like I think, like, for example, 284 00:14:20,280 --> 00:14:23,880 Speaker 2: Ben and I were talking to Ben Higgins. You guys 285 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 2: might know, I call him my boss because he's the 286 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:29,320 Speaker 2: almost famous guy and then we're the O G O 287 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 2: G guys. I think he he said to me he 288 00:14:32,120 --> 00:14:34,800 Speaker 2: might have been the first or second season in this mansion. 289 00:14:35,320 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 3: M hm. 290 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 2: So I find that interesting because he's got some stories 291 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:45,160 Speaker 2: about this place different. Also, you know they did they 292 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 2: did The Bachelor, not in Paradise. 293 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:53,640 Speaker 3: I came here, I came here before. I've been here before. 294 00:14:53,800 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 3: I've never been Yeah, that's crazy. Is it crazy? 295 00:14:57,880 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 4: Walk in here? 296 00:14:58,360 --> 00:14:59,280 Speaker 2: I'm like, what the hell? 297 00:14:59,360 --> 00:14:59,480 Speaker 3: You know? 298 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,640 Speaker 2: I said right to them, like, Ryan, have we ever 299 00:15:01,680 --> 00:15:02,000 Speaker 2: been here? 300 00:15:02,040 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 3: Now? 301 00:15:02,240 --> 00:15:04,400 Speaker 4: He goes, no, I'm he goes, he goes in the car. 302 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 3: I was never invited. I'm like, wow, I mean the 303 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 3: only time I came was Bachelor Pad and then when 304 00:15:10,640 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 3: I was just here for the pickleball date with Golden Bachelor, 305 00:15:14,600 --> 00:15:17,840 Speaker 3: and then they had an event where Sean Lowe and 306 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 3: I were handing out roses as the press walked in. Yeah, well, sorry. 307 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:26,640 Speaker 2: I do love Sheloh. I'm not gonna lie to you, guys. 308 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:28,680 Speaker 2: I do love Shelmloh. But that that does kind. 309 00:15:28,560 --> 00:15:30,280 Speaker 3: Of hurt my og. I didn't plan it. 310 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:31,520 Speaker 4: I will say that. 311 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 2: I am very honored to be here. I'm excited. To 312 00:15:36,120 --> 00:15:38,080 Speaker 2: see it. I love that Ryan and I are saying 313 00:15:38,080 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 2: at the same time because I think we are two 314 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 2: of the serious ogs. Yes, so for us to be 315 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 2: here in the mix for the first time together, yeah, 316 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:46,000 Speaker 2: kind of a thing. 317 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:50,320 Speaker 3: And I think, like you were saying, where's the cutoff, 318 00:15:50,520 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 3: We've had people on the show on the Ogs. We 319 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:59,880 Speaker 3: have interviewed multiple people from from different seasons, so we've 320 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 3: on I don't know, Claire lo Lee was on it, 321 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:11,200 Speaker 3: Ashley Rosenbaumer a bear, She's been on our show, Jillian 322 00:16:11,280 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 3: Harris's season. 323 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: I'm ready to people, I'm ready to expand. 324 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:17,840 Speaker 3: I don't well, I don't know should we expand people? 325 00:16:17,960 --> 00:16:21,440 Speaker 3: So what I would love is if people are listening. 326 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 3: Hopefully someone's out there listening. Hi, if your listen, mom, 327 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 3: I want to know. We want to know what you 328 00:16:32,040 --> 00:16:35,680 Speaker 3: think the definition of an OG is. And then who 329 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,480 Speaker 3: would you like to hear on the show? Would you 330 00:16:38,600 --> 00:16:40,960 Speaker 3: like to hear people from the first, second, third, fourth, 331 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 3: fifth seasons? Or should we go to like the Ben 332 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 3: Higgins season? Right, Like, I don't know. 333 00:16:48,040 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 2: My mindset is this. I think that as the show 334 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 2: continues to grow year over year, Yeah, the OG threshold. Also, 335 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 2: it's a sliding scale, right, So I think we're going 336 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:02,640 Speaker 2: to start finding ourselves talking to first season Bachelor, Yeah, 337 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 2: first season of Bachelor Paradises or second and third, because. 338 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 3: I would like to talk to Bachelor and Paradise first season, 339 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:13,080 Speaker 3: and I would like to talk to Bachelor pad like 340 00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 3: like Holly Julian, love to talk to her, love her. 341 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 3: I'd love to have people by Agra guy remember he 342 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 3: married Oh yeah, oh Evan. 343 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 2: Carly and Evan. 344 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 3: They were in the first season of Bachelor and Paris. 345 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:32,000 Speaker 2: I feel like they were. Maybe I'd like to talk. 346 00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 3: I'd like to have Carly on. 347 00:17:36,280 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 2: He seems like he's an active dad. I love you know. 348 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,639 Speaker 2: They wanted things that are redeeming qualities about people, and 349 00:17:41,680 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 2: we need to figure them out and we need to 350 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:47,679 Speaker 2: talk about them. And these people need to have a 351 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 2: platform with which to do things other than promote tooth 352 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 2: whitening kids. 353 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 3: Well and honestly well, by the way, I don't think 354 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:56,920 Speaker 3: anyone does that anymore. 355 00:17:57,200 --> 00:18:00,000 Speaker 4: So are the hair gummy bears. 356 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:01,560 Speaker 3: They don't do that anymore. 357 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:03,480 Speaker 2: Damn, I really need to catch up you. 358 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,200 Speaker 3: He's an og he's real. 359 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:08,400 Speaker 4: Super I don't really pan att. 360 00:18:18,800 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 2: I wore short socks then I think I. 361 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 3: Was literally gonna comment, so okay, so very funny story. 362 00:18:27,400 --> 00:18:28,600 Speaker 2: I brought no long socks. 363 00:18:28,680 --> 00:18:31,119 Speaker 3: Okay, so listen. At the show tonight, we were sitting 364 00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 3: next to Jennifer love Hewitt, who I know you have 365 00:18:33,040 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 3: a story about, but or at least your wife there. 366 00:18:37,240 --> 00:18:39,440 Speaker 3: She loves the show and. 367 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:40,960 Speaker 4: We dated for a short time. 368 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:41,480 Speaker 2: You did. 369 00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 3: I didn't know that you did. Reese Witherspoon's grandma or 370 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 3: mother and daughter were there, and I'm so mad I 371 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:52,840 Speaker 3: didn't take a picture with them because I'm a huge. 372 00:18:56,080 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 4: You what do you think my story? 373 00:18:58,560 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 2: What's my story about? Jail h if? I I don't know? 374 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 3: Your wife just said you need to ask him, as was. 375 00:19:04,040 --> 00:19:08,320 Speaker 2: So Jennifer and I. First of all, Jennifer love hewittt 376 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:09,920 Speaker 2: is a lovely person. 377 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,439 Speaker 4: Love and readable talent. 378 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:14,920 Speaker 2: I'll tell you, yes, we've met many years ago. 379 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 3: And wait, were you at the place where we were? 380 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:24,520 Speaker 3: So we went to the the President's what is this called? 381 00:19:24,560 --> 00:19:26,680 Speaker 2: I know I wasn't there. I wasn't anything of the president. 382 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 2: You get invited that stuff. I get invited to the vice. 383 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 4: The vice kitchen consultant role. 384 00:19:38,640 --> 00:19:40,800 Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna have Trista come to the Vice President 385 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:44,160 Speaker 2: and the President's dinner. Bob, you go to the vice 386 00:19:44,440 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 2: kitchen closet controllers. 387 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:48,199 Speaker 3: Okay, that's funny, because do you know what I have 388 00:19:48,320 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 3: to say? So last night I was really depressed because, well, 389 00:19:54,119 --> 00:19:56,199 Speaker 3: first of all, my daughter was kind of mean to me, 390 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:57,919 Speaker 3: and then my son didn't want to listen to me. 391 00:19:58,000 --> 00:19:58,880 Speaker 3: I mean, they're teenagers. 392 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:01,240 Speaker 2: I call that a third day exactly. 393 00:20:01,680 --> 00:20:05,600 Speaker 3: No, you just wait until they're teenagers. So, and then 394 00:20:05,880 --> 00:20:09,119 Speaker 3: I get on social media and all these people that 395 00:20:09,160 --> 00:20:12,520 Speaker 3: I'm friends with that I follow, They're all posting about 396 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:18,119 Speaker 3: how they're at the Variety most influential women in reality television. 397 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:21,600 Speaker 3: And I was like, oh, okay, I. 398 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 4: Guess okay, I get it. I guess my No, I 399 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 4: get it, I get it. You're in my Maybe they 400 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:28,880 Speaker 4: didn't know your move. 401 00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:32,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, they were living with your in Luve exactly, 402 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 2: and so their their invitation got lost in. 403 00:20:35,080 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 3: The Variety and the Direct TV I I and I 404 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:43,600 Speaker 3: just worked with DirecTV, and I was like, I was 405 00:20:43,640 --> 00:20:47,320 Speaker 3: an influential and I was an influential woman in reality television. 406 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:51,040 Speaker 2: Okay, you think that would bum me up when you 407 00:20:51,119 --> 00:20:54,040 Speaker 2: when you first started talking about it, I thought I 408 00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:55,959 Speaker 2: was thinking I get over it, dude, It's fine. But 409 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 2: then when you said the most. 410 00:20:57,280 --> 00:20:59,640 Speaker 4: Influent women in reality TV show, I'm like. 411 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 2: Trista, that's kind of who you are. You are the 412 00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:07,640 Speaker 2: most influential in reality I don't think that. I don't 413 00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:08,760 Speaker 2: think I think anyway. 414 00:21:08,920 --> 00:21:11,919 Speaker 3: Okay, so we digress again and again and again. But 415 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:18,840 Speaker 3: so we were talking about getting left out. What were 416 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,320 Speaker 3: you talking? Oh, you were talking about Jennifer Jennifer love HEWITTT. 417 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 3: So that's your story. You have to finish with this. 418 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,800 Speaker 2: All I will say is that she's a lovely person. 419 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,320 Speaker 2: We spent some time together and I really enjoy our company. 420 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:32,720 Speaker 2: And she is an amazing talent. Not only is she 421 00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:36,199 Speaker 2: is a wonderful actress. She's a great singer. Yes, and 422 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 2: she's sang with my band and before she. 423 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 3: Saw about Bob's band, fat Amy. 424 00:21:42,240 --> 00:21:48,320 Speaker 2: Well, not that she sang with band from TV. Trist 425 00:21:48,400 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 2: I love that you went there. But she went to 426 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,479 Speaker 2: band from TV which was my celebrity band, and she 427 00:21:53,520 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 2: came in and it was amazing. But yeah, she's such 428 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:04,399 Speaker 2: a talent and such a lovely person. 429 00:22:04,560 --> 00:22:04,679 Speaker 3: Yea. 430 00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:08,640 Speaker 2: And yeah, so we had we had some really wonderful times. 431 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:11,159 Speaker 3: Okay, that's all, we'll leave it up anyway. We had 432 00:22:11,160 --> 00:22:13,000 Speaker 3: a really fun time with Jennifer Love Hewett. But the 433 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:16,520 Speaker 3: socks reminded me. So Ryan is wearing Converse tonight because 434 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,520 Speaker 3: he wears Converse with boot with suits. 435 00:22:18,640 --> 00:22:20,800 Speaker 2: First of all, those are some shoes. 436 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 3: Hey, thanks, what are those? 437 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:32,800 Speaker 2: Those are some high. 438 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 3: So he had on white like like not not knee highs, 439 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:39,520 Speaker 3: but you know, like knee high okay, no higher than 440 00:22:39,520 --> 00:22:43,000 Speaker 3: that with his converse because he forgot to bring like 441 00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 3: other socks. And he turns to Jennifer love Hewitt and 442 00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:51,560 Speaker 3: he's like, are these do you think they're? Should? I should? 443 00:22:51,560 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 3: I have foreigners? And the friend that she brought had 444 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 3: white socks on two and so we took a picture. 445 00:22:59,040 --> 00:22:59,400 Speaker 3: I'll share. 446 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 2: I love it. 447 00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:01,560 Speaker 4: I love it. 448 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:03,920 Speaker 2: This is so great. All right, great, So we've had 449 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,800 Speaker 2: a great episode here of the Almost Famous Ogs. We 450 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:07,920 Speaker 2: got so much more to come. 451 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:10,320 Speaker 4: Stick around four Part two. 452 00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:14,600 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on 453 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,880 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.