Speaker 1: Second Date up Date. Our dating apps officially dead. It's
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. I mean, I've heard
Speaker 1: people complain about them a lot, like Brooke says she
Speaker 1: can't get hers to swipe.
Speaker 2: Right fast enough, load speeds are.
Speaker 1: Too slow, and Jose he'ps emailing the help desk asking
Speaker 1: if they can add in a bikini barista search features
Speaker 1: on Instagram. Yeah, clearly not everybody is thrilled with them.
Speaker 1: But apparently there's a new movement that's happening right now
Speaker 1: that I didn't know about. People are banding together to
Speaker 1: get off the apps all together and try something completely different,
Speaker 1: which is how today's caller Troy wound up meeting a
Speaker 1: young woman the other day. Let's learn about it. Troy,
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, how you doing.
Speaker 4: Whenever you say Jeffrey meeting a young woman, I either
Speaker 4: pictured this guy is going to be a grampa.
Speaker 2: We need to check somebody's ID.
Speaker 1: Like it's a weird you know I'm talking about relative
Speaker 1: to the people in this room, it's probably a pretty young.
Speaker 1: Tell us more about this wonderful young lady that you met.
Speaker 1: What's her name?
Speaker 3: So the lady that I met is Melanie.
Speaker 4: Okay, all right, I'm curious to see how you met her.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what's this movement that you were kind of telling
Speaker 1: me about in the email.
Speaker 3: It's so pretty interesting. To be honest, my friends told
Speaker 3: me about this no thing that people are doing. It's
Speaker 3: called unfit run clubs.
Speaker 2: What is it against?
Speaker 1: Say one more time?
Speaker 3: Unfit run clubs?
Speaker 2: Unfit run club I love it.
Speaker 1: That's funny. Yeah.
Speaker 4: So people who are like runners, like Alexus.
Speaker 3: Exactly, but just get a reason to meet new people.
Speaker 1: That's awesome.
Speaker 2: They usually meet it like a bar.
Speaker 4: I feel like, yeah, yeah, I've seen like the sofa
Speaker 4: of five K groups too.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: Good for you.
Speaker 1: So how did this work?
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's so basically, you know, instead of trying to
Speaker 3: meet new people on dating apps, which has been stressful,
Speaker 3: they're starting to playing these big guests togethers.
Speaker 2: Oh wait, it's.
Speaker 4: Not just for running. This is actually to meet their
Speaker 4: singles as well.
Speaker 3: The way it's supposed to be is we stopped, occasionally,
Speaker 3: we take some pictures, mingole, keep going, and then at
Speaker 3: the very end we all go to the bar.
Speaker 1: Oh okay. It's nice because it's like a little more
Speaker 1: casual than like a speed dating event where you have
Speaker 1: two minutes to talk to everybody in the room and
Speaker 1: there's all this pressure. This is like mingle at your
Speaker 1: own pace.
Speaker 4: But it's unfit, so it depends on how out of
Speaker 4: breath you are.
Speaker 1: There's the one person who comes in an hour later
Speaker 1: than everybody else. But sure, I.
Speaker 3: Mean there's big groups of people walking too when we
Speaker 3: do that. If you want to, you know, you're not
Speaker 3: a mandatory if you'd actually jog.
Speaker 1: One's walking was involved, like the slow pace. So as
Speaker 1: all in, I mean, anybody at any level can join this. Okay,
Speaker 1: So tell us about how your Unfit run club event went.
Speaker 3: Well, I went with some of my Fridyes.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you had backup on this all right?
Speaker 4: Win with oh yeah, and were you all looking to
Speaker 4: meet somebody or were they just totally coming as your wingman?
Speaker 1: Do you mean, Brooke, are you asking are they all
Speaker 1: trying to meet one woman? Did they because too the same?
Speaker 4: I just mean, like, is everybody's intentions the same here?
Speaker 4: Are they just coming just for you?
Speaker 1: Okay?
Speaker 3: Well they checked it out before they heard me on
Speaker 3: dating maps still and they said come checkt herself.
Speaker 4: Okay, Oh is there a recommendation Okay.
Speaker 1: And so you said you met someone named Melanie. How
Speaker 1: did that happen?
Speaker 3: Yeah, so once we got to the bar, I met
Speaker 3: this girl Melanie right and were and chatting there.
Speaker 4: Okay, and were you guys able to connect pretty well? Well?
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was a really sweet, down to earth so
Speaker 3: we cracked a couple of jokes about the dating maps.
Speaker 3: That's the connected.
Speaker 1: Oh it was like she was not nice, but you
Speaker 1: still went out. She was awful. Yeah, that would be weird.
Speaker 1: But you said you both bonded over not being on
Speaker 1: dating apps anymore?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Correct?
Speaker 4: Okay, So she and did she explain why she had
Speaker 4: given it up? Was it the same reason?
Speaker 1: I think everyone has the same How was the conversation
Speaker 1: with her?
Speaker 3: The conversation went pretty good, you know, but then kind
Speaker 3: of ended in about ten minutes. I would say, we
Speaker 3: didn't have a lot of time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, why so quick?
Speaker 3: Well, if you think about it, I at the bar
Speaker 3: a lot of people. I'm with my friend, she's with
Speaker 3: her friends.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So but but one.
Speaker 3: Thing I'll tell you I did do. I did get
Speaker 3: her number.
Speaker 2: Well that's good.
Speaker 1: Did you ask her for the number or did you
Speaker 1: just take it?
Speaker 3: Get it? I answer I told her, I want to continue.
Speaker 4: Okay, did you guys go out again then actually go
Speaker 4: out for a first time?
Speaker 3: So this is where you know, I'm stuck now and
Speaker 3: I need your help a little bit.
Speaker 5: But I texted her, I.
Speaker 3: Said, hey, you know it's Troy, the guy from the bar,
Speaker 3: and you know the event that we went to. And
Speaker 3: she goes no answer.
Speaker 1: No, maybe just wasn't into the event, like in general,
Speaker 1: maybe she wanted to go back to the dating apps
Speaker 1: after it. Like if Alexis, if you went to something
Speaker 1: like this, do you think you would actually be into it?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 2: No, I don't really like runner gays. I'm kind of
Speaker 2: traumatized after running this is it? So this is non runners?
Speaker 2: That's true. I mean that's true, but they're slow. How
Speaker 2: sweaty were you when you were talking to Hurt the bar?
Speaker 1: You know, question, that's a good question.
Speaker 3: Hey, I on a scale of one to ten, I
Speaker 3: was probably like a two and a half.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you were you were a walker?
Speaker 5: All right?
Speaker 1: Wow, we can't get through one of these without Brooks
Speaker 1: shaming the male person. So I'm glad we got that
Speaker 1: out of it. Happens. So now we're going to call
Speaker 1: on Melanie here in just a minute, we'll reach out
Speaker 1: and see if we can get you a second date update,
Speaker 1: and maybe she'll shame you a little bit more before
Speaker 1: we get into it.
Speaker 2: Think I'm a big sweater.
Speaker 1: We're gonna We're gonna come back for second date update
Speaker 1: right after this second date update. It's Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning. And if you've ever been to a
Speaker 1: charity five k run, you may have seen Brook there
Speaker 1: on the side of the booing the people who finished
Speaker 1: last because they walked or didn't walk fast enough or
Speaker 1: had crutches after their amputation. Are we already laughing because
Speaker 1: we've all seen that happen before. We've been there next
Speaker 1: to a wallet goes.
Speaker 4: And I often host them and encourage people and get
Speaker 4: it to.
Speaker 1: Run and not walk, and we do you even want
Speaker 1: to cure this disease? Pick up the pay slow pokes.
Speaker 1: I've heard it. You don't have to repeat it here.
Speaker 1: The only reason, the only reason I bring it up
Speaker 1: now is because there was a meet up of the
Speaker 1: Unfit Run Club as they call it, Card's not Mine.
Speaker 1: That's the name of the club. The whole point of
Speaker 1: it is to help people get off of the dating
Speaker 1: apps and get back to meeting people in real life.
Speaker 1: They do theirs at the park while they all run
Speaker 1: or sometimes walk around getting to know each other. And
Speaker 1: that's where Troy met a woman named Melanie the other day.
Speaker 1: Brooke has already gone on record to say just listening
Speaker 1: to Troy's voice, she knows that he's a walker who
Speaker 1: does not sweat enough.
Speaker 2: Alexis asked if he was really sweaty.
Speaker 4: When he met Melanie, and he said he was at
Speaker 4: a two. Two means that you're not running really hard.
Speaker 4: It's not a bad.
Speaker 1: Thing, Troy. She calls you out of shape. What do
Speaker 1: you think, Troy?
Speaker 3: Well, I'm not out of shape, Troy.
Speaker 2: Some people swear theodor and do sweat much. Brooke, Okay,
Speaker 2: I am a big sweater all right.
Speaker 1: So again I've done like this on the last forty
Speaker 1: of these calls we've had to do. But once again
Speaker 1: I apologize for my co host Brooke. We are still
Speaker 1: going to try and get you a second date here, Troy.
Speaker 3: All right, sounds good. I mean, I'm pretty positive I
Speaker 3: think you guys could put it off and it went well.
Speaker 1: All right, So we're about to call her right now,
Speaker 1: but just in case, you're tuning in for the first time.
Speaker 1: Melanie ghosted Troy after they had hung out for ten
Speaker 1: minutes at the very end of.
Speaker 4: This event, so that she may not even remember him.
Speaker 4: To be honest, not it is a bad thing. I mean,
Speaker 4: he said there was tons of people there.
Speaker 1: I am positive enough to believe that she will remember you.
Speaker 1: But you know what, Brook has to get that last
Speaker 1: jab in. Here we go.
Speaker 2: I believe that.
Speaker 1: Let's see if she picked.
Speaker 4: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey, we're looking to speak with Melanie. Yeah, you may.
Speaker 1: This is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning.
Speaker 4: Even when you say my ye Brook, Hi, Melanie, We're
Speaker 4: really happy to talk to you.
Speaker 1: Welcome to Brook.
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you for answering and being here.
Speaker 1: Hi, we're waiting. Sorry. I know this is probably weird,
Speaker 1: but we're doing a segment right now called a second
Speaker 1: Date Update, and we're trying to help out one of
Speaker 1: our listeners. That you met the other day at something
Speaker 1: called the Unfit Run Club.
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I was there.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 4: It sounds like a fun time, a real creative way
Speaker 4: to meet other singles.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, someone that you met there had a really
Speaker 1: good time, felt like he had a connection with you.
Speaker 1: His name was Troy.
Speaker 5: That's interesting. I met a lot of guys that night
Speaker 5: in a little bit more specific.
Speaker 1: More specific than his name was Troy.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you guys.
Speaker 4: Talk for ten minutes. He was at a sweat level
Speaker 4: of around two. He didn't tell us a lot of
Speaker 4: details about what you guys talked about.
Speaker 1: Don't gloat right now in front of him, the person,
Speaker 1: big smile on your face. But he's he's kind of
Speaker 1: like a soft spoken, like really nice guy.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I met a lot of guys that night, like I
Speaker 5: would get him a lot of attention that night.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, girl, okay, wait, well that's great.
Speaker 4: Remember they bonded over quitting dating apps, about how bad
Speaker 4: dating apps are.
Speaker 2: That's what that's what you all talked about.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I remember him.
Speaker 2: Okay, let me see.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but the way that she said it didn't give
Speaker 1: me a lot of hope. There. What what do you
Speaker 1: remember about him?
Speaker 5: But what I remember is that he is a liar?
Speaker 2: He's a liar?
Speaker 1: Wait? Wait wait yeah, okay, Well you you guys talked
Speaker 1: for ten minutes?
Speaker 5: He said, yeah, Ri, with's a minute okay, so that's
Speaker 5: true and finished talking. I went over to my friend,
Speaker 5: who recognized him from the dating app and he's still
Speaker 5: on them.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, but maybe he just didn't get around to
Speaker 4: deleting his pro file, you.
Speaker 5: Know what I mean? Like, oh yeah, that sounds good,
Speaker 5: but no, why no? Yeah, because he tried to hook
Speaker 5: up with one of my friends to for the event
Speaker 5: and match with another one of my friends after the event.
Speaker 5: And I promise you, he said to me definitively, I'm
Speaker 5: never using a dating app again. He's a liar. He's
Speaker 5: a liar.
Speaker 4: He didn't like add like, after I hit on your friend,
Speaker 4: I'm never using no stipulation.
Speaker 5: That's why I'm no longer on a dating app, and
Speaker 5: that's why I am no longer talking to him.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, makes sense?
Speaker 2: Yeah, why lie of that?
Speaker 1: Maybe? Well, I know you're against talking to him on
Speaker 1: the dating apps, but what about talking to him right
Speaker 1: now over the phone?
Speaker 5: I r L no, thank you.
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it wasn't really a question because I'm just
Speaker 1: trying to tell you he is on the phone right
Speaker 1: now listening to this conversation.
Speaker 5: What.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, that's how this works.
Speaker 5: No, he's not. Yes, I am boy there and he
Speaker 5: sounds pretty stalker, did you hear it? Yes? Yeah, that
Speaker 5: was really creepy.
Speaker 1: Well, let's give Troy a chance to step in and
Speaker 1: maybe defend himself a little bit. Troy, go ahead, you
Speaker 1: have the floor, all right.
Speaker 3: First of all, you know, I'm not a bad guy.
Speaker 3: I just want to create that up. She didn't lie,
Speaker 3: so let me point out out. I'll give it her credit.
Speaker 2: Okay, who didn't who didn't lie?
Speaker 3: Well, no, he didn't lie by saying that it was
Speaker 3: still on the dating app and whatnot.
Speaker 2: But so you didn't know.
Speaker 3: I know, but I met her for ten minutes, right,
Speaker 3: we met for ten minutes. She gave me her phone number.
Speaker 3: I text her and she's not responding. It kind of
Speaker 3: like made me realize that this thing might not be
Speaker 3: working out and let me stick to what I'm doing originally.
Speaker 4: Wait wait, wait, wait, she said that you you were
Speaker 4: on the dating app by the end of the night
Speaker 4: hitting on her friend.
Speaker 3: I'm just saying I won't want to get off the
Speaker 3: data and apps and theories in general.
Speaker 1: His heart was in the right place when.
Speaker 3: The past moving world. You know, you got to play
Speaker 3: with the game, so you gotta be why you're coming in.
Speaker 4: As a nice guy like the guy who was like
Speaker 4: ready to stop playing the games.
Speaker 3: And yeah, I am a nice guy. But you know,
Speaker 3: if I find a girl that's ready, you know, to
Speaker 3: communicate and continue the conversation, then of course I'm going
Speaker 3: to give it everything. But that wasn't the case.
Speaker 2: You gave her like fifteen minutes. It sounds like to
Speaker 2: respond to a text.
Speaker 5: He's a creep that you can hear it in his voice.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think we need to go that far
Speaker 1: and shame him for the sound of his voice. He's
Speaker 1: already been shamed for them out that he doesn't sweat
Speaker 1: enough on the show.
Speaker 3: Why did your friend match with me? Then you know
Speaker 3: I'm not I'm just trying to find the right person today.
Speaker 4: You're bragging that you're going out with her friends, He's
Speaker 4: not going out.
Speaker 1: They matched.
Speaker 3: He didn't return my message either, but I'm open.
Speaker 5: Let me tell you something to my friend is the
Speaker 5: creek too, So.
Speaker 2: For her it didn't make sense.
Speaker 1: Are they perfect for each other?
Speaker 5: No? No, she's a creepy he's even worse than him.
Speaker 1: Well, maybe you should hook your friends.
Speaker 5: Why they match?
Speaker 2: Well, that's why they match.
Speaker 1: Maybe your friend and Troy should go out on a
Speaker 1: date at some point.
Speaker 2: Can we do that? Can we ask that question because
Speaker 2: each other.
Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like Melanie is into this at all.
Speaker 1: But maybe Melanie, we could offer to send Troy out
Speaker 1: with your friend on a date that we yeah, your
Speaker 1: creepy friends on the day that we would pay for.
Speaker 5: That might work, really works. Yeah, yeah, she'll date anyone.
Speaker 2: How are you going to put your friend on that?
Speaker 2: So this guy that I don't like it is creepy,
Speaker 2: but they are you matched?
Speaker 1: I guess yeah? Yeah, Troy.
Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, well now you're telling me she will anyone.
Speaker 3: I kind of don't want that.
Speaker 1: Come on, now, you don't know a lot of options here, dude.
Speaker 3: Okay, you know what you're talking, so I'll do it.
Speaker 2: You are something, Troy.
Speaker 1: We've scraped to the bottom of the barrel officially and
Speaker 1: we are sending you out on a date with Melanie's
Speaker 1: creepy friend.
Speaker 5: Yay, I'm happy to It's gonna go great. I can't
Speaker 5: wait to hear it.
Speaker 1: And Troy will be here for you when she goes
Speaker 1: to you and we can do a second date update.
Speaker 3: For her as well. Hey, Melanie, I just want to
Speaker 3: say one thing to hate the game, not the player.
Speaker 4: Okay, glad you saved that, but you know you guys,
Speaker 4: If you guys were on the phone, I would have hung.
Speaker 2: Up your patience.
Speaker 1: I am going to hang up on everybody. That's your
Speaker 1: second date update. Goodbye Jeffrey in the morning, I will
Speaker 1: say I do appreciate our listeners using old catchphrases from
Speaker 1: the nineties. Hint the player, not the game. He held
Speaker 1: on to that to the very end, was like preach.
Speaker 2: Yeah the band Black Street, remember that? All right, I'm
Speaker 2: treating it back for you guys.
Speaker 1: Let's see. Those are the final words from our listener, Troy,
Speaker 1: who caused our text board to blow up with people
Speaker 1: that cannot wait to hear about his upcoming hangout with
Speaker 1: him and his soon to be creeper dated. They're going
Speaker 1: to raise the roof together. I have no doubt the
Speaker 1: creeper roof. I love that. Everyone's always like, oh, they're
Speaker 1: a creeper, get away. But when two creepers meet, like,
Speaker 1: I'll creep on you, I'll creep on you. Okay, let's
Speaker 1: do that.
Speaker 4: What kind of friend is she that she's like, yeah,
Speaker 4: my friend is.
Speaker 1: We should have probably asked details of what makes her creepy.
Speaker 1: We were just happy to get him a date with
Speaker 1: anybody let's be honest, and I do hope that we
Speaker 1: get an update from them, because you just you never
Speaker 1: know with this show what relationships will and won't work out.
Speaker 3: Even if the updates like oh yeah, I was supposed
Speaker 3: to go out with.
Speaker 1: That guy, We'll see. But if you ever need help
Speaker 1: with your dating life, you can always reach out to
Speaker 1: the show. We'll call that person was and calling you
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