WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Unfit Run Club Snub

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date up Date. Our dating apps officially dead. It's

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. I mean, I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>people complain about them a lot, like Brooke says she

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<v Speaker 1>can't get hers to swipe.

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<v Speaker 2>Right fast enough, load speeds are.

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<v Speaker 1>Too slow, and Jose he'ps emailing the help desk asking

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<v Speaker 1>if they can add in a bikini barista search features

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram. Yeah, clearly not everybody is thrilled with them.

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently there's a new movement that's happening right now

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<v Speaker 1>that I didn't know about. People are banding together to

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<v Speaker 1>get off the apps all together and try something completely different,

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<v Speaker 1>which is how today's caller Troy wound up meeting a

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<v Speaker 1>young woman the other day. Let's learn about it. Troy,

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, guys, how you doing.

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<v Speaker 4>Whenever you say Jeffrey meeting a young woman, I either

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<v Speaker 4>pictured this guy is going to be a grampa.

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<v Speaker 2>We need to check somebody's ID.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's a weird you know I'm talking about relative

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<v Speaker 1>to the people in this room, it's probably a pretty young.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us more about this wonderful young lady that you met.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name?

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<v Speaker 3>So the lady that I met is Melanie.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right, I'm curious to see how you met her.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what's this movement that you were kind of telling

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<v Speaker 1>me about in the email.

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<v Speaker 3>It's so pretty interesting. To be honest, my friends told

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<v Speaker 3>me about this no thing that people are doing. It's

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<v Speaker 3>called unfit run clubs.

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<v Speaker 2>What is it against?

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<v Speaker 1>Say one more time?

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<v Speaker 3>Unfit run clubs?

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<v Speaker 2>Unfit run club I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's funny. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>So people who are like runners, like Alexus.

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<v Speaker 3>Exactly, but just get a reason to meet new people.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>They usually meet it like a bar.

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like, yeah, yeah, I've seen like the sofa

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<v Speaker 4>of five K groups too.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Good for you.

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<v Speaker 1>So how did this work?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's so basically, you know, instead of trying to

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<v Speaker 3>meet new people on dating apps, which has been stressful,

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<v Speaker 3>they're starting to playing these big guests togethers.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Not just for running. This is actually to meet their

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<v Speaker 4>singles as well.

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<v Speaker 3>The way it's supposed to be is we stopped, occasionally,

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<v Speaker 3>we take some pictures, mingole, keep going, and then at

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<v Speaker 3>the very end we all go to the bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay. It's nice because it's like a little more

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<v Speaker 1>casual than like a speed dating event where you have

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<v Speaker 1>two minutes to talk to everybody in the room and

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<v Speaker 1>there's all this pressure. This is like mingle at your

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<v Speaker 1>own pace.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's unfit, so it depends on how out of

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<v Speaker 4>breath you are.

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<v Speaker 1>There's the one person who comes in an hour later

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<v Speaker 1>than everybody else. But sure, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean there's big groups of people walking too when we

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<v Speaker 3>do that. If you want to, you know, you're not

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<v Speaker 3>a mandatory if you'd actually jog.

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<v Speaker 1>One's walking was involved, like the slow pace. So as

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<v Speaker 1>all in, I mean, anybody at any level can join this. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell us about how your Unfit run club event went.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I went with some of my Fridyes.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you had backup on this all right?

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<v Speaker 4>Win with oh yeah, and were you all looking to

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<v Speaker 4>meet somebody or were they just totally coming as your wingman?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mean, Brooke, are you asking are they all

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<v Speaker 1>trying to meet one woman? Did they because too the same?

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<v Speaker 4>I just mean, like, is everybody's intentions the same here?

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<v Speaker 4>Are they just coming just for you?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 3>Well they checked it out before they heard me on

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<v Speaker 3>dating maps still and they said come checkt herself.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Oh is there a recommendation Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you said you met someone named Melanie. How

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<v Speaker 1>did that happen?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so once we got to the bar, I met

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<v Speaker 3>this girl Melanie right and were and chatting there.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, and were you guys able to connect pretty well? Well?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she was a really sweet, down to earth so

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<v Speaker 3>we cracked a couple of jokes about the dating maps.

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<v Speaker 3>That's the connected.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh it was like she was not nice, but you

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<v Speaker 1>still went out. She was awful. Yeah, that would be weird.

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<v Speaker 1>But you said you both bonded over not being on

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<v Speaker 1>dating apps anymore?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Correct?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So she and did she explain why she had

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<v Speaker 4>given it up? Was it the same reason?

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<v Speaker 1>I think everyone has the same How was the conversation

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<v Speaker 1>with her?

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<v Speaker 3>The conversation went pretty good, you know, but then kind

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<v Speaker 3>of ended in about ten minutes. I would say, we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have a lot of time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why so quick?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, if you think about it, I at the bar

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people. I'm with my friend, she's with

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<v Speaker 3>her friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, So but but one.

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<v Speaker 3>Thing I'll tell you I did do. I did get

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<v Speaker 3>her number.

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's good.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you ask her for the number or did you

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<v Speaker 1>just take it?

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<v Speaker 3>Get it? I answer I told her, I want to continue.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, did you guys go out again then actually go

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<v Speaker 4>out for a first time?

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<v Speaker 3>So this is where you know, I'm stuck now and

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<v Speaker 3>I need your help a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>But I texted her, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Said, hey, you know it's Troy, the guy from the bar,

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<v Speaker 3>and you know the event that we went to. And

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<v Speaker 3>she goes no answer.

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<v Speaker 1>No, maybe just wasn't into the event, like in general,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe she wanted to go back to the dating apps

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<v Speaker 1>after it. Like if Alexis, if you went to something

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<v Speaker 1>like this, do you think you would actually be into it?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't really like runner gays. I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 2>traumatized after running this is it? So this is non runners?

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<v Speaker 2>That's true. I mean that's true, but they're slow. How

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<v Speaker 2>sweaty were you when you were talking to Hurt the bar?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, question, that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, I on a scale of one to ten, I

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<v Speaker 3>was probably like a two and a half.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you were you were a walker?

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<v Speaker 5>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, we can't get through one of these without Brooks

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<v Speaker 1>shaming the male person. So I'm glad we got that

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<v Speaker 1>out of it. Happens. So now we're going to call

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<v Speaker 1>on Melanie here in just a minute, we'll reach out

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<v Speaker 1>and see if we can get you a second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe she'll shame you a little bit more before

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<v Speaker 1>we get into it.

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<v Speaker 2>Think I'm a big sweater.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna We're gonna come back for second date update

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<v Speaker 1>right after this second date update. It's Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. And if you've ever been to a

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<v Speaker 1>charity five k run, you may have seen Brook there

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<v Speaker 1>on the side of the booing the people who finished

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<v Speaker 1>last because they walked or didn't walk fast enough or

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<v Speaker 1>had crutches after their amputation. Are we already laughing because

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<v Speaker 1>we've all seen that happen before. We've been there next

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<v Speaker 1>to a wallet goes.

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<v Speaker 4>And I often host them and encourage people and get

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<v Speaker 4>it to.

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<v Speaker 1>Run and not walk, and we do you even want

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<v Speaker 1>to cure this disease? Pick up the pay slow pokes.

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard it. You don't have to repeat it here.

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<v Speaker 1>The only reason, the only reason I bring it up

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<v Speaker 1>now is because there was a meet up of the

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<v Speaker 1>Unfit Run Club as they call it, Card's not Mine.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the name of the club. The whole point of

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<v Speaker 1>it is to help people get off of the dating

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<v Speaker 1>apps and get back to meeting people in real life.

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<v Speaker 1>They do theirs at the park while they all run

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<v Speaker 1>or sometimes walk around getting to know each other. And

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<v Speaker 1>that's where Troy met a woman named Melanie the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke has already gone on record to say just listening

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<v Speaker 1>to Troy's voice, she knows that he's a walker who

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<v Speaker 1>does not sweat enough.

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<v Speaker 2>Alexis asked if he was really sweaty.

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<v Speaker 4>When he met Melanie, and he said he was at

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<v Speaker 4>a two. Two means that you're not running really hard.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not a bad.

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<v Speaker 1>Thing, Troy. She calls you out of shape. What do

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<v Speaker 1>you think, Troy?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I'm not out of shape, Troy.

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<v Speaker 2>Some people swear theodor and do sweat much. Brooke, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I am a big sweater all right.

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<v Speaker 1>So again I've done like this on the last forty

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<v Speaker 1>of these calls we've had to do. But once again

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize for my co host Brooke. We are still

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<v Speaker 1>going to try and get you a second date here, Troy.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, sounds good. I mean, I'm pretty positive I

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<v Speaker 3>think you guys could put it off and it went well.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, So we're about to call her right now,

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<v Speaker 1>but just in case, you're tuning in for the first time.

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<v Speaker 1>Melanie ghosted Troy after they had hung out for ten

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<v Speaker 1>minutes at the very end of.

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<v Speaker 4>This event, so that she may not even remember him.

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<v Speaker 4>To be honest, not it is a bad thing. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>he said there was tons of people there.

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<v Speaker 1>I am positive enough to believe that she will remember you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, Brook has to get that last

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<v Speaker 1>jab in. Here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>I believe that.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see if she picked.

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<v Speaker 4>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we're looking to speak with Melanie. Yeah, you may.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Even when you say my ye Brook, Hi, Melanie, We're

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<v Speaker 4>really happy to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Brook.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, thank you for answering and being here.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi, we're waiting. Sorry. I know this is probably weird,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're doing a segment right now called a second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update, and we're trying to help out one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners. That you met the other day at something

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<v Speaker 1>called the Unfit Run Club.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, yeah, I was there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>It sounds like a fun time, a real creative way

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<v Speaker 4>to meet other singles.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Well, someone that you met there had a really

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<v Speaker 1>good time, felt like he had a connection with you.

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<v Speaker 1>His name was Troy.

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<v Speaker 5>That's interesting. I met a lot of guys that night

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<v Speaker 5>in a little bit more specific.

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<v Speaker 1>More specific than his name was Troy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you guys.

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<v Speaker 4>Talk for ten minutes. He was at a sweat level

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<v Speaker 4>of around two. He didn't tell us a lot of

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<v Speaker 4>details about what you guys talked about.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't gloat right now in front of him, the person,

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<v Speaker 1>big smile on your face. But he's he's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like a soft spoken, like really nice guy.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I met a lot of guys that night, like I

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<v Speaker 5>would get him a lot of attention that night.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, girl, okay, wait, well that's great.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember they bonded over quitting dating apps, about how bad

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<v Speaker 4>dating apps are.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what that's what you all talked about.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I remember him.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let me see.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but the way that she said it didn't give

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<v Speaker 1>me a lot of hope. There. What what do you

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<v Speaker 1>remember about him?

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<v Speaker 5>But what I remember is that he is a liar?

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<v Speaker 2>He's a liar?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait? Wait wait yeah, okay, Well you you guys talked

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<v Speaker 1>for ten minutes?

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<v Speaker 5>He said, yeah, Ri, with's a minute okay, so that's

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<v Speaker 5>true and finished talking. I went over to my friend,

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<v Speaker 5>who recognized him from the dating app and he's still

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<v Speaker 5>on them.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, but maybe he just didn't get around to

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<v Speaker 4>deleting his pro file, you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know what I mean? Like, oh yeah, that sounds good,

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<v Speaker 5>but no, why no? Yeah, because he tried to hook

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<v Speaker 5>up with one of my friends to for the event

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<v Speaker 5>and match with another one of my friends after the event.

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<v Speaker 5>And I promise you, he said to me definitively, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>never using a dating app again. He's a liar. He's

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<v Speaker 5>a liar.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't like add like, after I hit on your friend,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm never using no stipulation.

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<v Speaker 5>That's why I'm no longer on a dating app, and

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<v Speaker 5>that's why I am no longer talking to him.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, makes sense?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, why lie of that?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe? Well, I know you're against talking to him on

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<v Speaker 1>the dating apps, but what about talking to him right

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<v Speaker 1>now over the phone?

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<v Speaker 5>I r L no, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, it wasn't really a question because I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>trying to tell you he is on the phone right

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<v Speaker 1>now listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 5>What.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, sorry, that's how this works.

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<v Speaker 5>No, he's not. Yes, I am boy there and he

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<v Speaker 5>sounds pretty stalker, did you hear it? Yes? Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 5>was really creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, let's give Troy a chance to step in and

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<v Speaker 1>maybe defend himself a little bit. Troy, go ahead, you

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<v Speaker 1>have the floor, all right.

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<v Speaker 3>First of all, you know, I'm not a bad guy.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to create that up. She didn't lie,

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<v Speaker 3>so let me point out out. I'll give it her credit.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, who didn't who didn't lie?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, no, he didn't lie by saying that it was

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<v Speaker 3>still on the dating app and whatnot.

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<v Speaker 2>But so you didn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, but I met her for ten minutes, right,

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<v Speaker 3>we met for ten minutes. She gave me her phone number.

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<v Speaker 3>I text her and she's not responding. It kind of

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<v Speaker 3>like made me realize that this thing might not be

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<v Speaker 3>working out and let me stick to what I'm doing originally.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait wait, wait, wait, she said that you you were

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<v Speaker 4>on the dating app by the end of the night

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<v Speaker 4>hitting on her friend.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just saying I won't want to get off the

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<v Speaker 3>data and apps and theories in general.

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<v Speaker 1>His heart was in the right place when.

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<v Speaker 3>The past moving world. You know, you got to play

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<v Speaker 3>with the game, so you gotta be why you're coming in.

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<v Speaker 4>As a nice guy like the guy who was like

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<v Speaker 4>ready to stop playing the games.

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<v Speaker 3>And yeah, I am a nice guy. But you know,

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<v Speaker 3>if I find a girl that's ready, you know, to

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<v Speaker 3>communicate and continue the conversation, then of course I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to give it everything. But that wasn't the case.

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<v Speaker 2>You gave her like fifteen minutes. It sounds like to

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<v Speaker 2>respond to a text.

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<v Speaker 5>He's a creep that you can hear it in his voice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't think we need to go that far

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<v Speaker 1>and shame him for the sound of his voice. He's

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<v Speaker 1>already been shamed for them out that he doesn't sweat

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<v Speaker 1>enough on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Why did your friend match with me? Then you know

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not I'm just trying to find the right person today.

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<v Speaker 4>You're bragging that you're going out with her friends, He's

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<v Speaker 4>not going out.

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<v Speaker 1>They matched.

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<v Speaker 3>He didn't return my message either, but I'm open.

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<v Speaker 5>Let me tell you something to my friend is the

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<v Speaker 5>creek too, So.

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<v Speaker 2>For her it didn't make sense.

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<v Speaker 1>Are they perfect for each other?

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<v Speaker 5>No? No, she's a creepy he's even worse than him.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, maybe you should hook your friends.

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<v Speaker 5>Why they match?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, that's why they match.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe your friend and Troy should go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date at some point.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we do that? Can we ask that question because

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<v Speaker 2>each other.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't sound like Melanie is into this at all.

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<v Speaker 1>But maybe Melanie, we could offer to send Troy out

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<v Speaker 1>with your friend on a date that we yeah, your

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<v Speaker 1>creepy friends on the day that we would pay for.

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<v Speaker 5>That might work, really works. Yeah, yeah, she'll date anyone.

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<v Speaker 2>How are you going to put your friend on that?

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<v Speaker 2>So this guy that I don't like it is creepy,

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<v Speaker 2>but they are you matched?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess yeah? Yeah, Troy.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait wait, wait, well now you're telling me she will anyone.

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<v Speaker 3>I kind of don't want that.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, now, you don't know a lot of options here, dude.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you know what you're talking, so I'll do it.

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<v Speaker 2>You are something, Troy.

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<v Speaker 1>We've scraped to the bottom of the barrel officially and

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<v Speaker 1>we are sending you out on a date with Melanie's

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<v Speaker 1>creepy friend.

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<v Speaker 5>Yay, I'm happy to It's gonna go great. I can't

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<v Speaker 5>wait to hear it.

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<v Speaker 1>And Troy will be here for you when she goes

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<v Speaker 1>to you and we can do a second date update.

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<v Speaker 3>For her as well. Hey, Melanie, I just want to

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<v Speaker 3>say one thing to hate the game, not the player.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, glad you saved that, but you know you guys,

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<v Speaker 4>If you guys were on the phone, I would have hung.

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<v Speaker 2>Up your patience.

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<v Speaker 1>I am going to hang up on everybody. That's your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Goodbye Jeffrey in the morning, I will

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<v Speaker 1>say I do appreciate our listeners using old catchphrases from

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<v Speaker 1>the nineties. Hint the player, not the game. He held

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<v Speaker 1>on to that to the very end, was like preach.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah the band Black Street, remember that? All right, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>treating it back for you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see. Those are the final words from our listener, Troy,

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<v Speaker 1>who caused our text board to blow up with people

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<v Speaker 1>that cannot wait to hear about his upcoming hangout with

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<v Speaker 1>him and his soon to be creeper dated. They're going

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<v Speaker 1>to raise the roof together. I have no doubt the

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<v Speaker 1>creeper roof. I love that. Everyone's always like, oh, they're

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<v Speaker 1>a creeper, get away. But when two creepers meet, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll creep on you, I'll creep on you. Okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>do that.

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<v Speaker 4>What kind of friend is she that she's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>my friend is.

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<v Speaker 1>We should have probably asked details of what makes her creepy.

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<v Speaker 1>We were just happy to get him a date with

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<v Speaker 1>anybody let's be honest, and I do hope that we

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<v Speaker 1>get an update from them, because you just you never

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<v Speaker 1>know with this show what relationships will and won't work out.

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<v Speaker 3>Even if the updates like oh yeah, I was supposed

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<v Speaker 3>to go out with.

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<v Speaker 1>That guy, We'll see. But if you ever need help

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<v Speaker 1>with your dating life, you can always reach out to

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<v Speaker 1>the show. We'll call that person was and calling you

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<v Speaker 1>back and go check out all of our second dates

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<v Speaker 1>wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and jeff Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>and Jeffrey in the Morning,