Speaker 1: We ain't here, y'all, we beck again for another motherfucking
Speaker 1: episode of horrible Decisions. I am one half of the
Speaker 1: host of this show, and I go by Mandy b
Speaker 1: a k A pit Sign, a k A full Core
Speaker 1: Pumps a k A Mandy Baskins a k A debt bitch. Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm wheezy. I'm going to practice my phone sex operator
Speaker 1: voice because that's technically a possible side ho hustle. This
Speaker 1: voice that I'm doing right now is Kelly, and I
Speaker 1: don't know where she's from yet, but actually, what's yours?
Speaker 1: I have a Heather voice. Heathern No, It's like, OK, hi, man,
Speaker 1: he was Heather good? Yeah? Is this what you guys
Speaker 1: want to pay to hear that? Well? They want to
Speaker 1: pay me to hear my voice? Um, I got a
Speaker 1: little bit of rest, So I'm gonna be like you
Speaker 1: want me to know? That's exactly what I'll be like wood,
Speaker 1: Just so y'all know, you guys hear a third voice
Speaker 1: in the mic. And guys, we have a repeat guests
Speaker 1: one of the phase that we've had on the show.
Speaker 1: We are joined today with Ashley Chubby Baby, one of
Speaker 1: my favorite pages. I mean, it's funny because like I
Speaker 1: was reading that she put blogger and I'm like, what's
Speaker 1: her blog? But technically instagrams are blog. Yeah, because I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna hold you. I can't get past a lot
Speaker 1: of your captions because it'd be like four paragraphs. I
Speaker 1: know people that have I like, I am not here
Speaker 1: forgot down paragraphs. I hate it, Like, okay, if I
Speaker 1: watch your lives man, okay, okay, your videos, I go
Speaker 1: through all your instagrams. I was like, she's having a
Speaker 1: great and a great meme online that says, uh, if
Speaker 1: you see a long paragraph before a picture, it either
Speaker 1: means congratulations or sorry that happened to you. But Ashley,
Speaker 1: if you guys don't know, she did one of our
Speaker 1: Body Positivity BBWT episodes and it was really fun. And
Speaker 1: this time we're not gonna talk about the same ship.
Speaker 1: But I feel like, a wait, it was Devil Dick Portal.
Speaker 1: It was double but we also said, Wade, Yeah, we're
Speaker 1: very good about handing the conversations. Okay, we did handle
Speaker 1: a lot. We handle the last I wanted to talk about,
Speaker 1: like top side whole hustle today because everybody needs some
Speaker 1: extra cash and food and anybody in this world, all
Speaker 1: of us, the billionaires that are in debt, everybody, but
Speaker 1: we I just felt like I want of the third
Speaker 1: bikes if we could go through this, and actually it's
Speaker 1: perfect for it. So let's do a quick catch up
Speaker 1: and anthy, what do you have? I mean, I'm like
Speaker 1: just giddy. Oh sorry, just went on. You could also
Speaker 1: be an athlete because but I'm keeping up with the
Speaker 1: niggas on the bubble. Um we're not really, Um, I
Speaker 1: don't know, I'm like super giddy. Um, I don't know.
Speaker 1: Every time I talk about this boyfriend now, I just
Speaker 1: smile and like my cheeks hurt. So um, we're good.
Speaker 1: I went out of town and we shared like I
Speaker 1: miss youth for the first time. So that's cute. Um.
Speaker 1: And it's funny because my friend hit me. It was like,
Speaker 1: so I had a dream, you know that he wanted
Speaker 1: to restrict you know that he wanted to some restrictions
Speaker 1: on you because which I've traveled every week for the
Speaker 1: last three weeks. He knows I'd be around you know,
Speaker 1: rich niggers, you know what I mean, and my friends.
Speaker 1: He's met quite a few of them and they SHOs
Speaker 1: so um, I guess you know, we just kind of
Speaker 1: had the conversation because I know my lifestyle is different, um,
Speaker 1: and it's so it's just funny because my friend was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: so I had a dream that he wanted to put
Speaker 1: restrictions on on you and all of your extra activities.
Speaker 1: And I said it to him. I was like, look,
Speaker 1: my friend having a dream about us. And his response
Speaker 1: was just maybe smiling more. He was like, you should
Speaker 1: let her know. She confused restrictions with restraints and was
Speaker 1: just basically like, you know, we talked about our boundaries
Speaker 1: and I'm fine with everything you do. He's like, I'll
Speaker 1: let you know as soon as I have a problem
Speaker 1: with anything. And I'm just like a really good with
Speaker 1: any new relationship the end. People wait till they're too
Speaker 1: far gone, or wait till the problem arises, until they
Speaker 1: create boundaries, which good and I just like it too.
Speaker 1: So um, shout out Glamazon tell me she came over
Speaker 1: my house to record. We recorded, and we did like
Speaker 1: a two part episodes for periods this, and so we're
Speaker 1: sitting there talking and of course we're talking about sex
Speaker 1: and we're talking about relationships and stuff like that, and
Speaker 1: so I get into like, yeah, well I don't even
Speaker 1: get to be dominant with him. And I like get
Speaker 1: into like this little funk because I am the most
Speaker 1: submissive that I have ever been with any partner. I'd
Speaker 1: be hating it, but like so literally I'm I'm on
Speaker 1: the couch like telling till on me how much he
Speaker 1: dominates me. And here he goes getting in his back.
Speaker 1: He's like, well, I let you dominate. And I'm like,
Speaker 1: when you'll let me dominate, Nigga, when do I dominate?
Speaker 1: And he's like, well, when we go to the sex
Speaker 1: what not the sex but when we go to the
Speaker 1: nude beach. He was like, that's you taking me to
Speaker 1: an environment that you're very comfortable with and I'm letting
Speaker 1: you be the leader. Um. When we went to the
Speaker 1: sex club, he was like, that's your environment. He's like,
Speaker 1: you also have brought me around a lot of your friends,
Speaker 1: like you play with people at the sex book. Uh yeah,
Speaker 1: two of the girls. I didn't want any of the guys,
Speaker 1: which I think he thought I had my guard up.
Speaker 1: I think he Loki wants me to play with other guys.
Speaker 1: Love that. Yeah, So like it's just it's just really
Speaker 1: dope because he's just like he's almost like you're sitting
Speaker 1: there and you're like, well, she like, do you feel
Speaker 1: the gilt? Yeah? Well. So it's weird because throughout this podcast,
Speaker 1: we like talked so much about swinging, opening open relationships,
Speaker 1: polly blah blah blah blah. And it's so crazy because
Speaker 1: as much as I've talked about I love MMF and
Speaker 1: how it was fun, I don't know if I don't
Speaker 1: want to do it with him. So I'm in this
Speaker 1: space where I'm like, damn, that's the only person I
Speaker 1: want to do. Yeah, this stuff that I just don't
Speaker 1: want to do. I do really terrible things, like I'll
Speaker 1: see somebody out that I want to fuck. I don't
Speaker 1: think about sucking him alone. I think about sucking him
Speaker 1: with my NU every time that makes sense, I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I wanted to come in the room
Speaker 1: and starting facebuck me, like I'll fucking masturbate about a
Speaker 1: daydream bread. It's so weird. I don't know why I
Speaker 1: laid with him last night after he goddamn ship out
Speaker 1: of me, like where I'm like, I'm leaned over the bed,
Speaker 1: I'm crossed. I'd be like, wait, I'm gonna get you
Speaker 1: your rag. But nig I gotta breathe first, and so
Speaker 1: I'll be like, and you want me to fuck you
Speaker 1: with someone else? And this is how you fuck me?
Speaker 1: Like I can barely keep up with you. Well maybe
Speaker 1: he could just do like a half beat juice day.
Speaker 1: Here we go. So what about you? What's going on? Well,
Speaker 1: let me tell y'all. Everything's great and the same as
Speaker 1: far as my love. And so let's talk about a bit.
Speaker 1: Sha needs another side hustle hustle in her name's Anushka,
Speaker 1: a Caucasian cunt. Wow, I was so who is not
Speaker 1: even horrible decisions related? This ship just happened to me
Speaker 1: and it showed so much growth. I go shopping the
Speaker 1: other day because I needed an outfit for something very particular,
Speaker 1: and I go to a story that I can't name
Speaker 1: because they reached out to me after I talked about
Speaker 1: it in my live. It's a very popular story, kind
Speaker 1: of hype beast. Either be a line outside. But I
Speaker 1: needed something in particular, so I go downstairs. I get
Speaker 1: this jacket. It's comed de Garson. It's three hundred and
Speaker 1: forty dollars. It's a trench coat, was perfect fault piece,
Speaker 1: and it had a belt to go with it. That
Speaker 1: was forty or sixty bucks. I get to the register
Speaker 1: in this Caucasian Nushka said, she goes, um, it's that alten.
Speaker 1: I was like yeah, And so she takes the jacket
Speaker 1: and she goes, this is not sixty dollars. Did you know?
Speaker 1: This wasn't sixty dollars? And I'm like what? Because I
Speaker 1: was confused, I thought maybe she's gonna say the belt
Speaker 1: was on sale. Yeah, the belt is sixty dollars, but
Speaker 1: the jacket is three hundred forty. So I don't know
Speaker 1: if you knew, yes, I knew that, why would you
Speaker 1: bring that up? Like bring the coat up there and
Speaker 1: be like heya. The same way when you go out
Speaker 1: to eat, if you go to order another drink, they
Speaker 1: gotta let you not. So it's not free, it's gonna
Speaker 1: be in. It's gonna be enough. It does. I don't
Speaker 1: want to say to the Caucasian cunts that listen to
Speaker 1: this show, I only can name Shannon, there's not another way,
Speaker 1: all right, there's a lot of them, bro I'm sure
Speaker 1: the actually in barbers andsion. I'm using the term Caucasian
Speaker 1: cunts so abrasively is because she felt like she threw
Speaker 1: it at me. So here's what happened through her Caucasian
Speaker 1: I immediately am about to start going off about how
Speaker 1: I have money, and then I thought, let me relax.
Speaker 1: I said, you know what do you guys work on commission?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you had your pretty woman moment a bit.
Speaker 1: She goes, what we do when we don't? I said,
Speaker 1: what do you mean? I've always wanted this show, which
Speaker 1: I didn't better. Okay, she goes, um, well, we do,
Speaker 1: but it has to be over five dred. I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I'm only at like four something. She's like yeah. I
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, I actually wanted some airmax
Speaker 1: in a seven and a half. Can you go get
Speaker 1: them for me? She takes about ten or fifteen minutes
Speaker 1: because apparently they were really hard to find, and she
Speaker 1: comes back almost sweating, like I had to go get
Speaker 1: it today. I was like, thank you so much. Can
Speaker 1: you hand it to me? Let me take it. She's like, okay.
Speaker 1: There was a black girl that was helping someone else
Speaker 1: got across the storm and I walked over to her
Speaker 1: with my things worth five hundred dollars and she's like,
Speaker 1: do you need help? I was like, oh, yeah, I
Speaker 1: just need you to ring me up because the news
Speaker 1: isn't able to do so. And she's looking at me
Speaker 1: and she's like, what THEO is going on to The
Speaker 1: black girl started laughing, and I mean she had a
Speaker 1: mask of Jesus. So anyway, she fucking finishes with her client,
Speaker 1: she starts talking me. She actually had nothing, but I
Speaker 1: could tell she's trying to laugh. So then a news
Speaker 1: girl goes, oh, my associate ideas three four. I said, no,
Speaker 1: she doesn't need it, honey, she doesn't need it. So
Speaker 1: now the black girl want to be petty too, because
Speaker 1: she already could tell how upset I am. She's like,
Speaker 1: you know what, we got some real cute rings, not
Speaker 1: to you like rings. Let me go take I'm my girls,
Speaker 1: take me to get them, bitch. The rings were like
Speaker 1: eighty bucks. I didn't really want to spend it, but
Speaker 1: I bought it. I was like, what else can you
Speaker 1: get me? What else can you do? She's showing me
Speaker 1: this jacket right that I don't want to see. But
Speaker 1: I noticed that a Nushka standing by persons. I was like,
Speaker 1: show me those bags rushed by. Now I knew she
Speaker 1: was helping someone else, right, She's trying on the top.
Speaker 1: Tell me why it's happed. The black girl was like,
Speaker 1: what do you think? Give your expert opinion? I love it?
Speaker 1: Do you like it? Or what do you think? This
Speaker 1: witch wanted to kill me? Hanny? Anyway, my total came
Speaker 1: to about eight hundred something dollars and I just want
Speaker 1: to say, did I expect to spend that note? But
Speaker 1: to the feeling of fucking this bitch over was absolutely amazing,
Speaker 1: And then you redistributed that wealth to another book. Really,
Speaker 1: did you know what? I'm not going to shop at
Speaker 1: this story anymore? But then I was like, she's just
Speaker 1: a bitch, you know, like fuck her and I really
Speaker 1: want to write about you'll review about it. But instead,
Speaker 1: when I get confirmation that I can drop this story y'
Speaker 1: all because they hit me up about my experience, I'm
Speaker 1: going to tell you that black girl's name. She was fun.
Speaker 1: She had a little um, what's this thing called a
Speaker 1: little septum piercing. You know, she's a little cling back
Speaker 1: black bitch. I'm telling you I'll funk with her. I
Speaker 1: was like, you listen to horrible decision. I'm gonna talk
Speaker 1: about yes, hello, hi there, So anyway, um, that was
Speaker 1: my pretty woman moment. Big mistake, Big mistake. I would
Speaker 1: have still said that on the way huge. Yes, I
Speaker 1: had to go have her get them sneakers too, And
Speaker 1: I know she was so upset she kept walking by
Speaker 1: the register to see if the girl put her number.
Speaker 1: Said now, honey, when you email me, let's receipt. If
Speaker 1: I don't see your my name, I'm returning to ship.
Speaker 1: She was like, hil how has how has quarantine been
Speaker 1: for you? Ashley? Oh my god? All of my little
Speaker 1: long post the job and we got to talk about
Speaker 1: one that you do that people are kind of like
Speaker 1: about my favorite people ever, one of my faves in
Speaker 1: y'all have heard me talk about my socks and ship.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Markets back up. We were
Speaker 1: in the red a few weeks ago and guess what.
Speaker 1: Ian hit up the group chat and was like, y'all
Speaker 1: need to be getting rich. Get these Tesla stocks. Put
Speaker 1: a low. That's what I get now that I'm a
Speaker 1: part of the Red Panda Stock Club. Oh my Goddy,
Speaker 1: and I hate that name, but whatever, it saves me
Speaker 1: money and makes me any so our horrible decisions listeners
Speaker 1: get half off of Ian's club. The Master investor is Ian.
Speaker 1: That's who I'm talking about, is a black owned company.
Speaker 1: Black dude. He's fire, he's smart. He got me rich
Speaker 1: by the way, rich broke. I'll mean rich rich. I
Speaker 1: ain't trying to sell a false pretense. I'm just saying
Speaker 1: I'm the nigga got my ship up right now. My
Speaker 1: Portsmolio was a up. I love it. I've got some
Speaker 1: in savings and some with Ian. He is super helpful,
Speaker 1: loves helping black people, especially women. I think he got
Speaker 1: a little home with him. But anyway, like I said
Speaker 1: in the description of the show, notes, there's a link
Speaker 1: you're gonna click that's gonna take you to his site
Speaker 1: and it's going to be half off. Now. If you
Speaker 1: aren't sold by that yet, okay, if you don't want
Speaker 1: to join his stock club, check Ian out on market mondays.
Speaker 1: He's on YouTube. He's a podcast now and he does
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Speaker 1: are so smart, and they really want to help us
Speaker 1: get our finances together. Don't just invest in yourself, invest
Speaker 1: in niggles that I'm let me apple and test like
Speaker 1: I'm a money to me. I'm gonna get a little
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Speaker 1: shareholder now, and not to mention, I'm not reading a chart.
Speaker 1: I'm not doing anything I don't want to do ship.
Speaker 1: That's why I'm part of the stock club. So thank
Speaker 1: you so much. Do the work for me, Ian, let
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Speaker 1: horrible decisions. Baby. You always post when you're on bumble
Speaker 1: or tender when guys ask you do you have roommates
Speaker 1: or not? Oh my god, you just saw that. But
Speaker 1: you've done it a lot. I have, and I saw
Speaker 1: some people be like, oh, he take stuff too personal,
Speaker 1: some fake page, but I blocked them. I don't know
Speaker 1: who that was, but I was like, I don't engage
Speaker 1: with Bernard. I'm always interested in what people think, because
Speaker 1: when men have asked me that, I didn't necessarily think
Speaker 1: creepy immediately when you made a great point, tell us
Speaker 1: why it's so creepy for a guy to ask us
Speaker 1: if we live alone? And well, first of all, pre COVID,
Speaker 1: that was a very popular question, and as someone that
Speaker 1: does have roommates, I understand like being able to be
Speaker 1: courteous of that situation and be like, oh, well, if
Speaker 1: I come over, but I'm just like, that's if we
Speaker 1: get further into the conversation. These are questions that are
Speaker 1: happening pretty early on, Like there's not a raport yet,
Speaker 1: so I'm just like, why are you concerned? Like I'm
Speaker 1: I like kind of calm down about the where do
Speaker 1: you live? Thing because I'm like, if you see on
Speaker 1: the app like I'm a little bit away, like you could,
Speaker 1: I think it's it's so much of a New York thing.
Speaker 1: This is a New York it is a New York thing.
Speaker 1: But like at the same time, um, I don't ask
Speaker 1: men if they live by themselves. Even when I was
Speaker 1: in college, I didn't, like I was fucking I have roommates,
Speaker 1: Like it wasn't you know we I think take offense
Speaker 1: to it. But it's crazy because you even saying you
Speaker 1: don't ask men if they have roommates. That's something where
Speaker 1: I think technically, as women, we should know we're walking
Speaker 1: into a house. We should but I didn't. Actually I
Speaker 1: never we should know. We should, but I don't bring
Speaker 1: it up because I'm not presumptuous enough to think that
Speaker 1: that's where this is going necessarily. And like the excuses
Speaker 1: that I've been getting is like this is a tuck
Speaker 1: up at I'm like, yeah, but this app also for
Speaker 1: people that want to meet friends. I know people have
Speaker 1: got married on this app. So either way, even if
Speaker 1: it is a hook up, why don't we get to
Speaker 1: that point first before we set up logistics because you're
Speaker 1: already out the gate being like do you live by yourself?
Speaker 1: So let me tell you the tweet and let me
Speaker 1: know if you if you agree with it. So there's
Speaker 1: a tweet that went viral this week and it said
Speaker 1: that when you live in New York and a guy
Speaker 1: spends the night over your house two nights in a row,
Speaker 1: you think he really likes you. Little do you know
Speaker 1: he's just trying to get away from his mama and
Speaker 1: aunts and cousins. And they don't have a home, they
Speaker 1: don't have a home, or they don't have a home
Speaker 1: because really just be trying to spend the night in
Speaker 1: they do homosexuals up here And how do you? Where
Speaker 1: do you? Because I want to know, like are you
Speaker 1: in the village? Are That's why I calmed down that.
Speaker 1: But when you're alone or roommates, I got it, yeah,
Speaker 1: because like it's just also as someone that's recently had
Speaker 1: to deal with like being like assaulted, Like I don't
Speaker 1: really want to share that information with a stranger man,
Speaker 1: like and so the contact like I was even I
Speaker 1: can't believe you asked about because I was literally in
Speaker 1: the car likes onting to this person that like I
Speaker 1: really like, So I'm kind of disappointed that you posted
Speaker 1: like I think you may be posted different. These are
Speaker 1: all different people. These are all different people, and I'm
Speaker 1: just like, this is not the same conversation because don't
Speaker 1: know what to say either. So where do you live?
Speaker 1: Is a good? Like as soon as the nickel tell
Speaker 1: me he lived in Brooklyn or somewhere far, I'm like,
Speaker 1: this isn't gonna work, Like I need you to be
Speaker 1: uptown New Rochelle Yonkers, like you say Brooklyn, It's gonna
Speaker 1: take me an hour and a half to get to. Also,
Speaker 1: why are you not asking me to meet in a
Speaker 1: public place first? Valid? Why are we leaving with COVID?
Speaker 1: So I want to people outside. It's bumping in Brooklyn,
Speaker 1: but everybody's outside with masks and it's just like I've
Speaker 1: actually been asked by people, do you want to go
Speaker 1: get a drink outside? Because like they're asking park dates
Speaker 1: and stuff, so like they're getting creative, but it's just
Speaker 1: like there is an overwhelming amount of like men that
Speaker 1: are just like, do you live by yourself? Because they're
Speaker 1: already presuming that they're allowed in my personal person because
Speaker 1: I really ever took into account how creepy that was.
Speaker 1: And for men, for that tip and for Mandy's tip
Speaker 1: for women, definitely before you walk in the house, ask
Speaker 1: someone else. Yeah, I think you need Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: it's I think it's women like now that even just
Speaker 1: you bringing it up, like well out of respect, I
Speaker 1: don't care if he has roommates, which is fair, but
Speaker 1: as a woman, if you're dating and now you're going
Speaker 1: to his place, I think it's important to know are
Speaker 1: you living with two helpings? Am I gonna walk into
Speaker 1: a living room of men? Like you know that think
Speaker 1: it's weird because men usually volunteered that information. I've never
Speaker 1: had to ask you because they volunteered that information. They're like,
Speaker 1: oh well well yeah, they feel like they had to
Speaker 1: act to they didn't ask your as Yeah. It's like
Speaker 1: always like, oh, my roommates or whatever the funk, or
Speaker 1: I have roommates and then they'll be like what about
Speaker 1: your place, and it's like, Okay, I heard some people saying, well,
Speaker 1: they're trying to figure out who's gonna host, and I'm like, okay,
Speaker 1: but we're not at that part of the conversation and
Speaker 1: so and that's where the disconnect is coming from. We're
Speaker 1: not even on the same page about how this is
Speaker 1: going to pan out yet, and you're already planning on
Speaker 1: my place being the place we're doing that. So we
Speaker 1: have a lot of male listener for men who are
Speaker 1: on these apps because right now, because a lot of
Speaker 1: us aren't leaving our houses, often a lot of people
Speaker 1: are swiping more than ever. What would be your bit
Speaker 1: of advice for our male listeners as to how they
Speaker 1: approach going about asking about your living situation or or
Speaker 1: what time frame is that okay to ask? Make sure
Speaker 1: you establish a rapport first, um, because like I said before,
Speaker 1: there wasn't like there wasn't like a thing where we
Speaker 1: were like already like oh my god, oh my god,
Speaker 1: and we've been talking for a bit and then you asked,
Speaker 1: it was like very much like these are within the
Speaker 1: first couple of messages. So that's where I'm like, this
Speaker 1: is creepy, because like we just swipt on each other.
Speaker 1: We just got past the me moving into my new
Speaker 1: place thing, and now you're like, well do you live
Speaker 1: by yourself? Because those are the only ones that I
Speaker 1: posted because I have lots of screenshots on my phone
Speaker 1: and like, these are the only ones that I could
Speaker 1: like find where they're all consistently asking me where I live,
Speaker 1: because the other ones are buried and stuff because I
Speaker 1: have too many pictures. But it's just like, if you're
Speaker 1: like a sis man and you're fucking anybody that's not
Speaker 1: sis man, you need to understand that there needs to
Speaker 1: be a little bit more of a time frame from
Speaker 1: when you ask that question, because if you are a
Speaker 1: book on the same page about it, say, for instance,
Speaker 1: you're like on an app like pure where that's literally
Speaker 1: just a you have. It's called Pier and it's like
Speaker 1: it's like purely a hook up app because it used
Speaker 1: to have a time where you had an hour to
Speaker 1: make a decisions where not you're gonna this person. Excuse me, yes,
Speaker 1: it used to be a lot more like you know,
Speaker 1: wait what it's called Pierre. It's called Pure pu r
Speaker 1: E the CEO as a woman and it's really and
Speaker 1: it's literally an app where you have an hour to
Speaker 1: decide where not anymore. They're doing all these weird things
Speaker 1: to the UI, so it's like really good rating. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're doing all these weird things to the UI. The
Speaker 1: only problem I have is that like it shows you people,
Speaker 1: you can't show your you can't really change your location
Speaker 1: like search settings. It's just kind of like you put
Speaker 1: a add up and everybody around you is just like
Speaker 1: taking response kind of grinder. It's it's like a straight grinder.
Speaker 1: A straight strap has four point four views at a
Speaker 1: five for app. That's very high because remember mind you
Speaker 1: technical issues and the actual content. Here's one of the reviews.
Speaker 1: A little topic my best dates or with Pure guys.
Speaker 1: And I use a lot of dating apps and this
Speaker 1: is my favorite. I mean all kinds of people. I'm
Speaker 1: a woman who's ready for adventure. Bet we need you
Speaker 1: a little hope, you know what, I know what I want.
Speaker 1: Pierre gives me the opportunity to get it. Where I've
Speaker 1: never met really a good fun on Pure literally no, Like,
Speaker 1: I've only met two people off of there and I've
Speaker 1: been using that for a while. And the second person
Speaker 1: that I actually had a good time with, I matched
Speaker 1: with him on tender before and then saw him on
Speaker 1: and then he was like, oh, so now I know
Speaker 1: what you're looking for. And I was like cool, and
Speaker 1: that was like one of the best sexual experiences I've
Speaker 1: ever had in my life. She's still talking about using
Speaker 1: it during quarantine. She says, the thing is woman, The
Speaker 1: thing is woman's desire works differently. Sorry for generalizing, but
Speaker 1: this is true. And if a man is up to
Speaker 1: sleep with someone right away, women make sure that they
Speaker 1: feel comfortable with this person, even if it's on one night.
Speaker 1: Than as long as we respect each other in the boundaries,
Speaker 1: I haven't been having an amazing experience. The times are
Speaker 1: strange considering Corona, but we keep it all fun and
Speaker 1: we stay having safe chats on the app and find
Speaker 1: our creative ways. I'm for any adventure. I'm here without
Speaker 1: leaving the house. But where is like etho, because here
Speaker 1: they're just like they asked that do you live by yourself? Thing? Too?
Speaker 1: But I'm like, did I do even know if I
Speaker 1: want to fuck you yet? But if you're on pure,
Speaker 1: don't you want to? I do want to funk because
Speaker 1: that's the thing I do want to funk. If I'm
Speaker 1: on here, but it's just like, but even if we
Speaker 1: like match, you still have to like the work. You
Speaker 1: have to like show me that this is gonna be.
Speaker 1: How does the how do the guy? How does the
Speaker 1: guy put in work? Without like going about taking you
Speaker 1: out to eat here? If I'm here, you don't have
Speaker 1: to do all of that because I'm like, I literally
Speaker 1: go to that and I'm just like, you know what,
Speaker 1: I just want to have like some dick come over whatever,
Speaker 1: but at least and what is him putting in work?
Speaker 1: Him is like you know they I don't understand why
Speaker 1: flirting is taking out of the equation. I don't know
Speaker 1: why we're going immediately to show me your tips? Do
Speaker 1: you want to see my dick? Like there needs to
Speaker 1: be I have so many screenshots of that, and I'm
Speaker 1: just like, like, what are you looking for? A type
Speaker 1: of question? Yeah? I just asked me, um, you know
Speaker 1: what kind of sexual experience? Because I feel like on
Speaker 1: the other apps, everybody like assumes that their hook up
Speaker 1: apps and so they think that they don't have to
Speaker 1: respect the situation. Here is a hook up app, but
Speaker 1: you still have to like have a conversation with about
Speaker 1: to someone's going to write us a homemail about sucking
Speaker 1: someone on this and we need to meet that woman
Speaker 1: they do. I the guy that I met on there from,
Speaker 1: but I like met on Tender and then on there,
Speaker 1: Like I had fun with him because he was really
Speaker 1: open minded and kinky. Like when we first met up
Speaker 1: in person. It was like after like two weeks of
Speaker 1: talking because he was like busy and his teacher. He
Speaker 1: spent me in the bar bathroom. We were like and
Speaker 1: like we were like over in the corner and I
Speaker 1: had a little slutty little dress on and like this
Speaker 1: was like last year before definitely pre COVID. Yeah, where
Speaker 1: it was definitely pre COVID. You were like and we
Speaker 1: were like in the corner drinking and like he was
Speaker 1: rubbing on my legs and I was just like I've
Speaker 1: never done anything like this before. I put this like
Speaker 1: flirty and sexy in front of people. And then I
Speaker 1: asked him. I was like, can I ask you something?
Speaker 1: And he was like, I said, it's like, can you
Speaker 1: spank me in the bathroom? He was like okay, and
Speaker 1: we went the bathroom and it was just like I
Speaker 1: felt like I was like in a movie or something
Speaker 1: because he was literally it was just so hot that
Speaker 1: he was like grabbing me in sex movie, like yeah,
Speaker 1: like and then before he was in the bathroom, and
Speaker 1: then before he left text before he left, he was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: so the next time we're gonna see each other Sunday,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna leave right now, and then you leave
Speaker 1: after me. And I was like okay, and and so
Speaker 1: I left, and I was like, but when I stuck,
Speaker 1: when I stuck dick in the hot in the in
Speaker 1: the bathroom, it wasn't hot, goodbye, it was It wasn't
Speaker 1: on the toilet, but like I stucked the dick, damn.
Speaker 1: But you made he made. It seems you were sitting
Speaker 1: on the toilet. He was sitting on the toilet, was there?
Speaker 1: I don't remember. I think so it was a it
Speaker 1: was a hotel bathroom moves clean, It looked clean. It
Speaker 1: wasn't a barack. I'm like, you know, any way, I'm
Speaker 1: a back. Why didn't lead? It was then the way
Speaker 1: man he told this story. We could not match the
Speaker 1: video a video. We went to the spin class and
Speaker 1: the whole tell next door. She had to meet her
Speaker 1: in the public bathroom and she sucked his sta. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but it was it was a It was cute. It
Speaker 1: was a nice little it was something about the toilet.
Speaker 1: It's the toilet for me. Okay, let's just CONVINTI Vanilla
Speaker 1: ship because this one hot fucking mess hot ass mes
Speaker 1: Messica Kalisha, who honestly I've been a fan of because
Speaker 1: she's been talking about her instaing. I'm like, yo, I
Speaker 1: love like she first season love and thought I she doesn't. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but she didn't touch her face. I don't know, Hollywood, Hollywood,
Speaker 1: I don't like when the cool Do you remember where
Speaker 1: her and Nikki had that problem because I was both
Speaker 1: working that dude, and you see how fine like that.
Speaker 1: She used to live in Atlanta. When I lived in Atlanta.
Speaker 1: This was like two thousand nine dope, because she had
Speaker 1: like real abs. Her body was banging to me. Now
Speaker 1: it's just been touched too much for her breast, like
Speaker 1: the bread. Yeah, I don't think her there, it has
Speaker 1: been put on top of I think she's had light
Speaker 1: bulb over her abs that she had at one point,
Speaker 1: her lips. I don't look too Maybe I'm just thinking
Speaker 1: of like her and clothes. I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you guys don't know who she is she's
Speaker 1: a loveing hip hop star populating. She had a kid
Speaker 1: with Petty Wip. A lot of people know from that,
Speaker 1: but I don't know when this is coming out, But
Speaker 1: oh my god, this ship was trash. I'm like, where
Speaker 1: did that? You said that to me immediately, like I
Speaker 1: just got I knew you was about this fash. So
Speaker 1: she posted a fake kidnapping video to promote her only fans. Now,
Speaker 1: I just want to play a little bit of this
Speaker 1: sound because it was. It wasn't even good act. It
Speaker 1: was so bad and that's what made it. Sorry, hold
Speaker 1: on could be really bad. And they're coming. They said
Speaker 1: that you guys have to leave me tips and follow me,
Speaker 1: so they can take the line that they're not going
Speaker 1: to leave me. Um, now that I got your attention,
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about been very important. I'm sorry
Speaker 1: if I scared you, but sometimes you need that shock factor. Um,
Speaker 1: I'm on set right now with me for my new show.
Speaker 1: She's she's literally a lure. She has bruises on her
Speaker 1: face as well, like a black a black guy. Yes,
Speaker 1: I've been kidnapped. I'm in a warehouse somewhere, I don't
Speaker 1: know where. I'm so scared. They took all my money
Speaker 1: and they want more. Please help me click the link
Speaker 1: in my body and subscribe to my only fans and
Speaker 1: tip me so they'll let me go. They're coming now.
Speaker 1: She's crying, She bruises all over her body. She talks
Speaker 1: about how she's in a warehouse. Nina start flipping out,
Speaker 1: and then ten minutes later, ten minutes they like that
Speaker 1: because mind you, this by this time had already made
Speaker 1: the shade room and black owned nerve. She she immediately
Speaker 1: do you immediately sent me the update video? I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk about him, and I'm sorry, girl, Please, it's
Speaker 1: giving me very. Can I switch this up now? It's
Speaker 1: made me very When Snoop Dad tried to act like
Speaker 1: him getting caught up with that girl was a part
Speaker 1: of the show that we never saw. Oh, I know
Speaker 1: exactly Cloud Chaser. Yeah, he made up an entire show
Speaker 1: was like, oh, this is for cloud Chasing because he's married.
Speaker 1: He was married with children. Yeah, I mean it was
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable to watch that, particularly obviously because black sec
Speaker 1: traffing victims high concentration in Atlanta. We were just talking
Speaker 1: about Atlanta, like, did you all see the thing that
Speaker 1: happened in Milwaukee. Okay, so recently, and this is probably
Speaker 1: like the last month and a half, there was a
Speaker 1: home in Milwaukee that was in this black neighborhood that
Speaker 1: the residents noticed a lot of like the younger children
Speaker 1: were specifically young black girls were missing. Um, they called
Speaker 1: the police. The police would never do anything, and so
Speaker 1: the neighborhood basically got together and we're like, we're going
Speaker 1: to storm this house. And so while they go to
Speaker 1: the how so they're like filming and you can see
Speaker 1: police officers going into the house and sneaking people out
Speaker 1: and so yeah, so now they have riot police showing
Speaker 1: up because now the crowd is getting bigger because they're like,
Speaker 1: we need to get the girls out of there. We
Speaker 1: think the girls are in there. Then after the police
Speaker 1: have escorted, you can see I think the video might
Speaker 1: still be available. After they sneak the people out. Um,
Speaker 1: the people go in the house and find all of
Speaker 1: this child stuff. They find paperwork talking about who's having
Speaker 1: sex with who, how many times they are. It's literally
Speaker 1: set up like there's beds everywhere and there's children's clothing.
Speaker 1: So nobody knows who lit the house on fire. They
Speaker 1: think the police did it to like so that nobody
Speaker 1: else will get more into it. But it's just like
Speaker 1: this this community had to take it into their own
Speaker 1: hands to find these people. They actually found these kids.
Speaker 1: The police weren't finding them, and it's just like because
Speaker 1: like it's just so tone deaf of her to do
Speaker 1: something like that, because not only is that still fresh,
Speaker 1: but like y'all were talking about the six traffing thing,
Speaker 1: especially bring their hair out in uber's as DNA. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean it's to the point now as well, like
Speaker 1: where ubers and lifts are like doing things to protect
Speaker 1: you more because they say those apps were being used
Speaker 1: for sexual and people like are now warned to make
Speaker 1: sure you look at the tech number, make sure you
Speaker 1: verify the technic videos of the of the conversations where
Speaker 1: you can protect conversation tiktops that that we have to
Speaker 1: go through these measures. There's also something right now and guys,
Speaker 1: um I'll posted on the Patreon there's a TikTok now
Speaker 1: that a woman made, but basically something to where you
Speaker 1: share um a folder with one person that you trust
Speaker 1: and it literally includes everyone that you're either currently fucking,
Speaker 1: that you're talking to. The passwords to your social media's
Speaker 1: things like that, because this takes a lot of time
Speaker 1: normally for cops to get access to phones, especially because
Speaker 1: just of laws and privacy and so what that what
Speaker 1: she's suggesting that women do is create this folder, give
Speaker 1: it to where one person knows where it's at, so
Speaker 1: that if you do go missing, you save the time
Speaker 1: and possibility of of your your safe return because now
Speaker 1: the police have all of this. I think there's also yeah,
Speaker 1: have you seen that a little the blue thing on
Speaker 1: there now if you're if you're on tender, it has
Speaker 1: this option there's like a little blue shield up in
Speaker 1: the corner where um, it's basically it's it's safety and
Speaker 1: you turn it on how to deal with harassment. And
Speaker 1: then it has it where if you go to their
Speaker 1: profile and you like swipe on it, it will show
Speaker 1: that they had that in effect at the top of
Speaker 1: their profile when you swipe on that in the messages
Speaker 1: you can see. But also like it's just it just
Speaker 1: goes to show, especially with all of this, how toned
Speaker 1: off she is and she thinks that that's something that
Speaker 1: she needs to do. She's tried and then just say
Speaker 1: like I'm on set, and so it was like girl, yeah,
Speaker 1: she said Jocelyn. Girl playing a sex vic was sex traffic.
Speaker 1: It's like obvious. She wasn't trying to raise where and
Speaker 1: so you wouldn't have told us about the only fans thing.
Speaker 1: Maybe she could have said I was donating it. That
Speaker 1: would have still been fi, but we would have taken it,
Speaker 1: and she didn't. She didn't at the foundation or organization
Speaker 1: that she claims that she was learning about this sex
Speaker 1: trafficking from. But that is beyond damage control. No, seriously,
Speaker 1: somebody sat and every where I was like, bitch, put
Speaker 1: the robo on cover to titties and let's talk about
Speaker 1: an organization. Let me google something sex trafficking. Non so
Speaker 1: somebody put that makeup on her. Well, I do believe
Speaker 1: that she was filming for something. Yeah, I believe she
Speaker 1: was filming for something, because a lot of people are like, oh,
Speaker 1: she's in her bathroom. You guys don't. A movie set
Speaker 1: can be anything. You can be in a house for
Speaker 1: a movie set. So I think she really was filming
Speaker 1: for some But I do think was phony was did
Speaker 1: you guys watch the whole apology to our view or no?
Speaker 1: There's a moment where she someone comes in, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: She's like I'll be right there just seemed a little stage,
Speaker 1: seemed a little stage. Knock on the door, let's get
Speaker 1: this going. She was like in thirty five, like you
Speaker 1: can just own up to your dumb ship. Dude, Like
Speaker 1: I think that cancel culture it's toxic, yes, but there's
Speaker 1: a deeper rooted thing with cancel culture, and it's we
Speaker 1: did something wrong. Someone did something wrong, so just own
Speaker 1: it and be honest about it. Leeper thing also with
Speaker 1: cancel culture is that's the only way a lot of times,
Speaker 1: especially marginalized people can exercise their power because of how
Speaker 1: we exist within capitalism. We vote with our dollar, people
Speaker 1: listen only with our dollar, and even when we're going
Speaker 1: to vote, which you should, but like that's something that
Speaker 1: also is swayed by dollars. So when you have a
Speaker 1: population of people, that the only way that something is
Speaker 1: going to get across that it's incorrect because you have
Speaker 1: not broken a contract with our society, you broken a
Speaker 1: social contract. You are now behaving in a way that
Speaker 1: harms people. Then I feel like if we want to
Speaker 1: say something about it, that's fine, But you also have
Speaker 1: the Republican National Convention running away with that and spinning
Speaker 1: this web and narrative like cancel culture so toxic and
Speaker 1: it's ruining everything because they don't want to put up.
Speaker 1: They don't want to like own up to their ship
Speaker 1: and having people point blank access man why he like,
Speaker 1: is he going to take responsibility? See any of the clips.
Speaker 1: Let me tell you what I really thought about last
Speaker 1: night when I watched Milannia Trump. I watched they say
Speaker 1: I hate, Oh my god, Milania like her accent where
Speaker 1: an it was so strong. All I can think is
Speaker 1: all of the people that vote for Trump, I feel
Speaker 1: like are the kind of people that are like on
Speaker 1: the phone, like give me someone from America. I can't
Speaker 1: understand you. And then she goes, it is critical that
Speaker 1: the Republic because everybody needs chance. If you'll think and
Speaker 1: thinking for me, if you'll know the best the best
Speaker 1: part was before did y'all see she pretty much stole
Speaker 1: Michelle Obama speak. That was again her checked out. But
Speaker 1: if you think I'm bullshit with and I have been
Speaker 1: able to high like program program girl, if I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie, she reads like she got her finger under
Speaker 1: each telephone throad it's he's to highlight my husband and children.
Speaker 1: I am U s CTC in two cardipes. Whatp is disgusting.
Speaker 1: But if you want you slokings been Shapiro, are you
Speaker 1: getting me? Listen when I tell you, I don't think
Speaker 1: I have ever seen a song makes so many people
Speaker 1: upset and uncomfortable, and it's literally just like what the
Speaker 1: entire and we've talked about this. Now this is, oh
Speaker 1: my god, I've never I've never seen so many white
Speaker 1: that only fans with the content that I've seen from her,
Speaker 1: and I think very good. Only fans because we like Russia. Yes,
Speaker 1: now she's living. So I have a horror dirve chip
Speaker 1: that I think that you guys are going to love.
Speaker 1: I've named it, I'm calling it. I think I'm calling
Speaker 1: it the slap and slurp, the slap and suck. Okay,
Speaker 1: this is men. Okay, I guess you could do this
Speaker 1: too if you're wearing a strap. So when a woman
Speaker 1: is having an orgasm, this is a lot better in
Speaker 1: missionary right, So she's coming hard, she's enjoying the orgasm.
Speaker 1: You have to pull your dick or strap in and
Speaker 1: out right, so like she's like feeling it a little
Speaker 1: bit more. That's why we have ribbed condoms because of
Speaker 1: the sensation it will get Now, what you do, like
Speaker 1: right when the orgasm is coming to an end, how
Speaker 1: you can elongate it is you take your dick out
Speaker 1: and you slap it on the clip a little bit,
Speaker 1: and then you suck the come out of the pussy
Speaker 1: literally to keep the orgasm continuing, continuing, continuing, right, So
Speaker 1: you're sucking her she's coming whatever, even if she's like
Speaker 1: touching her own clip to come, which I encourage all
Speaker 1: women to do. I feel like it's such bullshit to
Speaker 1: me how ego and girls feel like they can't do
Speaker 1: that exactly. Once she's like almost done coming or like
Speaker 1: even done coming, you slap the dick on there because
Speaker 1: it's like mad sensitive clicks, always like a little swollen,
Speaker 1: and then you just start sucking the ship out of
Speaker 1: the place. I like how it feels when dicks get
Speaker 1: slapt on. Like he it's so crazy because when you
Speaker 1: when you when you said it, my mind went actually go,
Speaker 1: well no, like so my like my partner does this
Speaker 1: thing like and he makes me orgasm like just a lot.
Speaker 1: I'd be shaking like a fucking lunatic. But what he'll do,
Speaker 1: what what he'll do is while I'm like shaking, like
Speaker 1: I'm fucking having a seizure. He'll like start slapping my
Speaker 1: ass just like this, like so it's almost like flogging
Speaker 1: with his hands. But it's like a thing and stations
Speaker 1: like that you can have like right after all where
Speaker 1: people normally stop after So when a guy help, I
Speaker 1: had a lover teach me a little bit after care
Speaker 1: after that, because he was the one that was consistently
Speaker 1: He's the one I first came from head to He's
Speaker 1: the one that first taught me, like I have a
Speaker 1: Jese wall orgasm. Like he was like CONSI instantly doing
Speaker 1: different things to me. But like what he would do
Speaker 1: is that he would take his fingers and he would
Speaker 1: run them along my body while I was like finished.
Speaker 1: I do that after thighs after like and I've been
Speaker 1: doing that with like my recent leverage, and they're all
Speaker 1: like they're like, I've never had this happen before, because
Speaker 1: like you said, everybody just comes and passes out or
Speaker 1: like laserside or cuddles, but like they never do like
Speaker 1: the touch, because that's what your body is the most things,
Speaker 1: because it's still like it's still it's weird, like when
Speaker 1: you come you know, how you're laying there for a second, breathing.
Speaker 1: Maybe you're not still coming, but it feels really good
Speaker 1: to like still have a sensation after towards complete high
Speaker 1: and low, you know what I mean. But which when
Speaker 1: I had that slapping suck, I was like, wow, oh,
Speaker 1: so your friend taught you and then you tried it.
Speaker 1: I didn't say this didn't happen to me, but no,
Speaker 1: I mean like the girl was like, oh, my friend
Speaker 1: called me and told me she comes like her. Oh
Speaker 1: that yes. I literally started thinking about her right when
Speaker 1: you your friend. So I get a call Sunday morning
Speaker 1: at eight am from a girl I really don't talk
Speaker 1: to you that often, and she called and I was like, wow,
Speaker 1: something must be wrong with this bitch calling me. I'm
Speaker 1: like hello, She's like, I don't know who else to
Speaker 1: talk to right now. I don't know else to talk
Speaker 1: to now. When she's saying that, I really think something's wrong.
Speaker 1: And I was like, you're pregnant. Immediate thought. It's just
Speaker 1: like emergency every time, when do we get rid of it?
Speaker 1: So Na, she needed to explain this orgasm to She's like, honestly,
Speaker 1: like I came, I came. He took his whole mouth
Speaker 1: and sucked my pussy. He sucked to come out of
Speaker 1: my pussy. Have you ever had that happened to you?
Speaker 1: Mind you again, It's Sunday, the Lord's Day, and I'm
Speaker 1: just like, I'm annoyed that she like calling me, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, you know what, let me celebrate this for
Speaker 1: a second. This is a really nice moment for you.
Speaker 1: And she's still breathing really heavy right, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I just need to know is he still there? She said, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I just have to call you. Just feel I
Speaker 1: feel like I've been missing something. And I'm like, have
Speaker 1: you come before, bitch. She's like, there's something about when
Speaker 1: he sucked the come out of my pussy. She said
Speaker 1: it four times. The call lasted three minutes and it
Speaker 1: was literally herd just needing to share it to the world.
Speaker 1: And I don't know if I can share this stories.
Speaker 1: I won't say her name, but bitch, it's just funny
Speaker 1: because it's like she realized, I'm a whole I love that.
Speaker 1: I love when that happens. I have friends do that
Speaker 1: all the time and say, oh my god, he just left.
Speaker 1: I gotta I gotta talk about it. I told you,
Speaker 1: I sing for it, so I want to give to
Speaker 1: my own horde. Derv Um and my partner did it
Speaker 1: recently and it was like the newest thing. I mean,
Speaker 1: it was so weird because it's so simple, but something
Speaker 1: that he didn't mind. You we have a lot of
Speaker 1: porn star sex, so steering like rounds. He was inside
Speaker 1: of me and he did like the most sentraal thing,
Speaker 1: like he started from like so he kissed my forehead
Speaker 1: and it was like, you're so sexy. They and he
Speaker 1: went down and was had his arms around my waist.
Speaker 1: He when he was like, I love your little waist.
Speaker 1: Then he grabbed my ass and I was like, I
Speaker 1: love this. As he went down and like was like
Speaker 1: in these sighs, I love your thighs. And he literally
Speaker 1: went down and like squeezed and semi massage each part
Speaker 1: of my body that he loved. He was like, in
Speaker 1: your tips, I look like and it was just like
Speaker 1: what I was like like some sort of like almost
Speaker 1: like body worshiping in the middle of sex. And I
Speaker 1: was just like and he was just all of these
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Speaker 1: So we have had a lot of episodes where experts
Speaker 1: have come on, and I know a lot of you
Speaker 1: are always like, where do I do this? Where do
Speaker 1: I do that? So Ashley's here, Mandy's here, I'm here,
Speaker 1: we're sleptsy, We're I was gonna say slats and horrors,
Speaker 1: but I'm just stick with flut. It feels more fun.
Speaker 1: That's funny because it's still the same acronym for sex work.
Speaker 1: What s W slats and horror is there? Oh s
Speaker 1: W SEK, I didn't know that, like me being on
Speaker 1: seeking arrangement with sex work at the time, and you
Speaker 1: know I too, You've been up there, and so I
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Speaker 1: a precursory first. Okay, So in light of recent events,
Speaker 1: if you are somebody that is, like everybody else, seeking
Speaker 1: UM supplemental income at this time, please understand that when
Speaker 1: you do enter into sex work, you need to respect
Speaker 1: it and the people that it originally because, like we
Speaker 1: have seen over the past few months, with the explosion
Speaker 1: of only Fans and other online sex worker platforms, UM
Speaker 1: celebrities getting on board it is it has become very
Speaker 1: sensationalized what actual sex workers are still being shipped on
Speaker 1: in the process. The whole yeah, the whole hierarchy UM.
Speaker 1: The So if you want to engage in that, you
Speaker 1: have to also understand that this is a legitimate UM
Speaker 1: form of work for other people that do this outside
Speaker 1: of the pandemic and quarantine and that it should be
Speaker 1: treated as because it is a job. Sex work is
Speaker 1: a job, but also it's one of those things like
Speaker 1: even in the space that I am outside of media,
Speaker 1: but me starting the trucking business, I mean doing this,
Speaker 1: I research it and I think that that's something that
Speaker 1: maybe a lot of people just think, oh, I can
Speaker 1: just hop on only fans, but it is important to
Speaker 1: see what your rights are when you do it, like
Speaker 1: how this will stay with you the other sites that
Speaker 1: could potentially be posting what you think. Right, So, um,
Speaker 1: I think it takes a lot into if you are
Speaker 1: going to do any of these things that we do.
Speaker 1: Does tax information to right, So you need to literally
Speaker 1: do your research on what you're gonna owe at the
Speaker 1: end of the year. Quarters. Yeah, she said some crazy
Speaker 1: What I like to be in that place where I
Speaker 1: could even pay taxes a quarter, absolutely, but it's taxed heavily,
Speaker 1: much like marijuana's recreational tax and ship like that. I mean,
Speaker 1: essentially you're independent contractors, so you don't have taxes coming out.
Speaker 1: But trust me, trust and believe. Although the governm has
Speaker 1: their little shitty ways of not protecting sets workers, they
Speaker 1: still want to come in. They that they want they
Speaker 1: could now, Um, we got the accounting side, how you
Speaker 1: can hoe responsibly. The number one I have is only
Speaker 1: fans and we all talk about it. We all know
Speaker 1: about it. Um. We have some episodes you can reference
Speaker 1: with be Nasty Lena the plug many did. I don't
Speaker 1: know what number it was, but it was a little
Speaker 1: bit a while ago. Um. And then I saw that
Speaker 1: Lena on YouTube has some only fans tips and tricks,
Speaker 1: so you guys can go on there on YouTube and
Speaker 1: see how people market it. But the number one tip
Speaker 1: that I've read about, I don't have an only fans
Speaker 1: I know you guys do, is everybody talks about camera
Speaker 1: qualities selling better. I mean that's why even for and
Speaker 1: I mean I just have a foot page. Um, but
Speaker 1: time friends, do you know what it so well? And
Speaker 1: it actually that's one of the best. The only fans
Speaker 1: doesn't have to have nudity. Well, I bet with my man,
Speaker 1: so I told him he has to let me give
Speaker 1: him a foot job and I'm going to sell it
Speaker 1: on only fans please, So I am going to do
Speaker 1: a job finally. But that's why, like I shot with
Speaker 1: Mr Photographer, you guys can literally look up photographer. We
Speaker 1: did an episode with him. Um, but yes, camera quality
Speaker 1: is quite important and he makes it look good. Even
Speaker 1: when I'm out with my homegirl beat shout out to
Speaker 1: her she's a photographer, I'd be like, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? So, yeah, I think quality is important. And
Speaker 1: another tip they had, sorry before you give us yours.
Speaker 1: Actually they talked about how like eight percent of only fans,
Speaker 1: girl do not have a consistent schedule. And I know
Speaker 1: you were talking about how you be forgetting literally like
Speaker 1: three posts. I hold you, I got like nine. I
Speaker 1: guess like some girls will do titty Tuesday or whatever
Speaker 1: whatever they're doing tolls Tuesday. I guess you could do.
Speaker 1: But basically they're saying if you Sunday date or like
Speaker 1: day of the week that you're going to post up,
Speaker 1: people feel more inclined to give you money because they
Speaker 1: know they're going to get that bank, kind of like
Speaker 1: how we rock with Patreon and guys, if you don't
Speaker 1: know on Patreon, you get three bonus episodes month we've
Speaker 1: been doing them and nine am on Mondays? What do
Speaker 1: you have the only fans tip that maybe you heard
Speaker 1: or are you going to do it? I'm not. I've
Speaker 1: had my UM account since quarantine started, but I haven't
Speaker 1: uploaded any content because I was like living in a
Speaker 1: place I didn't have good lighting for my camera, and
Speaker 1: also I just got a new phone. UM. But my tip,
Speaker 1: because I actually did sign up for another tip is
Speaker 1: sign up for other people's only fans so you can
Speaker 1: see what they're doing, right, because I also when I
Speaker 1: signed up for some I saw how they were doing
Speaker 1: it UM. This one person that I followed what um
Speaker 1: consistently send out private videos that you can pay for
Speaker 1: and let you know they uploaded something, and like be like, oh,
Speaker 1: like really be engaging. It's like it's a social media platform. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But like also they do it in the inbox, and
Speaker 1: that's a really big terment of like drawing stuff. She's like, oh,
Speaker 1: like they'll send you like extra stuff in the inbox
Speaker 1: and you can pay to see it. I have a
Speaker 1: guy that tips me ten dollars every time I post,
Speaker 1: and he just tips me ten dollars. He's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: the second one I have. I feel like we could
Speaker 1: do a whole episode about this honestly one day. But
Speaker 1: Seeking Arrangement is an age old app and it's a
Speaker 1: sugar Daddy, Sugar Mama, sugar baby app. Now I would
Speaker 1: stay away from it. Now. Yeah, well, I want to
Speaker 1: point out a few things because it's one of the
Speaker 1: most popular sugar baby apps. A lot of people are
Speaker 1: looking for sugar daddies. Right, there's sugar Daddy for me.
Speaker 1: This one is the most widely used. However, a lot
Speaker 1: of fake sugar Daddy and scam, a lot of scammers
Speaker 1: asking for account information, so you have to be careful
Speaker 1: with that, UM. And the other thing about this app too,
Speaker 1: there are rankings like Platinum and different things where guys
Speaker 1: can pay extra, so they may be more inclined. But
Speaker 1: the one thing I'll say about seeking arrangement, I used
Speaker 1: it email. It's free. You got a free Pamium account.
Speaker 1: That's right college email UM. At the time, I remember
Speaker 1: I met a guy that owned a dealership in Orlando,
Speaker 1: and he was very nice looking and like. We went
Speaker 1: on a few days to gave me cash. We never
Speaker 1: slept together, but I remember him telling me like that
Speaker 1: he wanted me to be careful. The guy told me this.
Speaker 1: He was a nice guy and he's like, you know,
Speaker 1: like I know you live downtown. He did as well,
Speaker 1: and He's like, be careful because he's like, there's so
Speaker 1: many people that once they know the area that you're in,
Speaker 1: they could just easily find you. There's only a few
Speaker 1: buildings around this area. It's a small town Orlando, right,
Speaker 1: how many luxury buildings are in downtown Orlando. I've got
Speaker 1: a dog. They see it in the picture. He's like,
Speaker 1: you could be walking. He's like, I uploaded my I
Speaker 1: D and the idea was expired, and I still was
Speaker 1: able to get a Paige. He said. I didn't even
Speaker 1: realize it was expired until months later, and I was like, Wow,
Speaker 1: I started all this and you don't have to actually
Speaker 1: pay for the background check on their right, right. It's
Speaker 1: a very basic thing, So be careful with that one.
Speaker 1: The third one I have, I have definitely used Debra
Speaker 1: when I was working at the motherfucking mall. It was
Speaker 1: like I had an outfit ready to go for warser price.
Speaker 1: So I don't know what your situation is if you
Speaker 1: want to go outside, if you're feeling comfortable with COVID,
Speaker 1: but what's your price? Dot com is a website where
Speaker 1: people can bid on dates with you. I think the
Speaker 1: best I ever got was two hundred and I've done,
Speaker 1: and he expected to suck me. The cheapest I ever
Speaker 1: took I think was um, but my first what's your price? Date?
Speaker 1: Out played. He was black and he was young, so
Speaker 1: I was super excited. I don't know if I ever
Speaker 1: talked to you about it. I feel like we knew
Speaker 1: each other at that time. But anyway, he was cute
Speaker 1: and he did on like a fifty dollar date or something,
Speaker 1: and he took me to get sushi and he never
Speaker 1: paid me, and I remember thinking like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: like this is why they say you get the money first,
Speaker 1: and I really needed it now I ate for free.
Speaker 1: But like I think he thought because I was chill
Speaker 1: and we were on the same level. And I want
Speaker 1: to tell you guys that too, Like so not only
Speaker 1: are you being paid to go on a date, they
Speaker 1: also pay for the mail, That's right, So like they're
Speaker 1: pretty much paying you to sit across from them and eat. Honestly,
Speaker 1: have you ever done it? I haven't done it? Um,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know. The sin of that was
Speaker 1: like me just going through trying to do sugaring through
Speaker 1: like Tinder and like bumble, oh really, so what what
Speaker 1: did you? What do you put on tender and bumble. Well, like,
Speaker 1: I don't put that on there because they flag it
Speaker 1: because the Sesta Fasta, so like Sessa Fasta still has
Speaker 1: a reach within like our dating apps and stuff they did.
Speaker 1: I sent Ashley the outline and put a hashtag to
Speaker 1: help you guys with one of another tip I have,
Speaker 1: and it wouldn't even let me send it to her.
Speaker 1: He said it went against the guideline. Also only fans
Speaker 1: on only fans. I tried to like, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: make it like cute where it's like, oh, this is
Speaker 1: this because I like to take a lot of like
Speaker 1: nude selfie, so I was like, this is a nude
Speaker 1: selfie I took before I went to go meet this guy.
Speaker 1: And they said, you can't put meat on the special keywords.
Speaker 1: You can't. That's how deep this ship is. That's how
Speaker 1: deep this ship it was. It was crazy. I sent
Speaker 1: it and it just kept rejecting it. So the next
Speaker 1: one I have before we get into the hashtag ship
Speaker 1: is miss travel dot com. Now this is that Jason
Speaker 1: was seeking in which or price. This one's kind of
Speaker 1: random and a little more risky, but I just want
Speaker 1: to bring it up, you guys, Obviously safety needs to
Speaker 1: be a precaution with this, but if you don't care
Speaker 1: about going on a trip with an old, ask naked miss,
Speaker 1: travel dot com is probably for you. How it works,
Speaker 1: You sign up, you upload photos, there's a travel dating community,
Speaker 1: millions of members, and they're going to basically offer you
Speaker 1: a luxurious get away and uh yeah, there is apparently
Speaker 1: over a quarter million, six hundred and eighty thousand travel companions,
Speaker 1: uh two hundred thousand trips that were made. This has
Speaker 1: been a Vice, Cosmo, fucking Huffington Post, but it's very popular.
Speaker 1: And then they actually have testimonies from and I don't
Speaker 1: mean to shoot on her because I don't mean like that,
Speaker 1: but means girl in the baby she's a very regular
Speaker 1: She was very like everyday looking white girl. And I
Speaker 1: don't want you guys to think you have to be
Speaker 1: this fucking instant model looking ship, because I think a
Speaker 1: lot of us assume that, Like there is a look
Speaker 1: that I always think about when I think sugar babies now,
Speaker 1: and it's like the l A Kardashian looking girl. But
Speaker 1: that's not necessarily the case. Like it looks like a
Speaker 1: lot of these are normal guys too that may even
Speaker 1: have like a work trip. They want to bring somebody
Speaker 1: on where. I mean, if you guys are the same
Speaker 1: place and you feel comfortable, but like they look normal.
Speaker 1: This looks like a tinder pick, it does. They look
Speaker 1: the same aid they do, so it's like it's tricking,
Speaker 1: but maybe it ain't. You know, do you all want
Speaker 1: to go to talone? We'll say this the photos. The
Speaker 1: NBA season almost over football, I don't know if it's
Speaker 1: gonna start. Y'all gotta go ahead and just slide at
Speaker 1: M d M and get you a little free trip
Speaker 1: to Mexico. That's where everybody going to Mexico. Some people
Speaker 1: don't like those NBA player type of niggas, Like we all, yeah,
Speaker 1: I haven't been a proof of riot yet, right, you
Speaker 1: just kind of okay? Even though my friend like literally
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I'll send you like the invitation and
Speaker 1: I didn't help with her because I'm still like on
Speaker 1: the waiting list, and I was like, when the cool
Speaker 1: Buyer was on it for like three years, mine took that.
Speaker 1: Mine took a minute. So I want her on the
Speaker 1: show so that I love her. I love Buyer energy.
Speaker 1: You do, and if you listen to why don't you date?
Speaker 1: Why don't you? Davy normally don't do like the super
Speaker 1: other um other podcast shoutouts, But I've been listening Space
Speaker 1: is actually really good, So why don't Yeah, why don't
Speaker 1: you Date Me? By Nicole Buyer. I think she was
Speaker 1: exclusive for a while to like Stitchers comedian. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: it's it's on like Apple podcast now. I listened to
Speaker 1: it and I think she's great. So the next one
Speaker 1: we talked about with very home mother briefly, and I
Speaker 1: just want to give you the because she's to use
Speaker 1: the term cuddle buddy. But the site is Cuddle Comfort
Speaker 1: and you can log in from Facebook, um if you want.
Speaker 1: But basically you sign up for free and you search
Speaker 1: for the nearest cuddle buddy. And I looked into this
Speaker 1: when I first moved here for my internship. Really I
Speaker 1: sure did, but it did not look this, you know,
Speaker 1: you know what what I actually kept running across. So
Speaker 1: when I first moved to New York, it was this
Speaker 1: was prior. This was when Craigslist was still out, So
Speaker 1: in order to find bartending gigs, I would look on Craigslist,
Speaker 1: and Craigslist actually had a lot of these things where
Speaker 1: you would be either the host or you would be
Speaker 1: one of the women to just be in a room
Speaker 1: and you got paid literally to to kind of flirt
Speaker 1: or kick off. And I found out later they were
Speaker 1: sucking sex sex clubs, but they paid women just to
Speaker 1: be in the space, and you did have to be
Speaker 1: a certain size, send your picture and stuff like do
Speaker 1: you know what that was? I hate to say it,
Speaker 1: but that was our trip to hedonism. Think about it.
Speaker 1: I mean hiring people that you know, we're gonna be fluid,
Speaker 1: that are attractive, they're fun, and you're put in that
Speaker 1: place and then you might fuck, you might not, they
Speaker 1: don't know, but they're gonna make sure you're more ask there. Okay,
Speaker 1: so I have them to share. Oh it's not as
Speaker 1: you know, glossy as hedonism. But there are sex clubs
Speaker 1: here that do that and it's not cool. Uh yeah,
Speaker 1: because in order to combat the because usually with sex clubs,
Speaker 1: I know, with like sex parties now, because it's curated,
Speaker 1: they're not as like like sex party different like yeah,
Speaker 1: because they're curative, but like sex clubs, they're like you
Speaker 1: have that they used to be, like you have to
Speaker 1: have a moment with you. You can't come as a
Speaker 1: man by yourself, which I understand, but now they're like, oh,
Speaker 1: we'll just charge them more and one night a week
Speaker 1: for one night a week, but then they'll show up
Speaker 1: the ones that aren't really regulated, they'll be there all
Speaker 1: the time by themselves. But whatever. But one of the
Speaker 1: ones I went to, I responded to an ad on
Speaker 1: fetlick because they were looking for staff yep, does yep
Speaker 1: get there and I'm talking to her about my dombing experience.
Speaker 1: I'm like yeah, I'm like, She's like, are you used
Speaker 1: to being this kind of environment? I was like, I'm
Speaker 1: used to watching people get shipped on, Like I'm this
Speaker 1: is fine, and then like she was like, okay, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna do. Then she explains me what it was,
Speaker 1: and I think that was like really shitty that she
Speaker 1: waited until I got there to explain. And it was basically,
Speaker 1: you have to pretend like you're one of the swingers
Speaker 1: and then you have to go that's what the crada. Yes, yes, yes,
Speaker 1: but like the girl, but like the girl, like the girls,
Speaker 1: they're literally like very homely. But then also like they're
Speaker 1: not getting paid as much. But she told me how
Speaker 1: much of it get paid. I was like to do
Speaker 1: what And she was like, these girls are literally fucking
Speaker 1: all these dudes that like feel like they're not included
Speaker 1: and they're getting paid a hundred and fifty dollars for
Speaker 1: the entire night. Yeah, I was like so exploited. And
Speaker 1: then one girl was talking, She's like, I just need
Speaker 1: to pay for my biking in for my back andury
Speaker 1: I was like, girl, please, So there's another yes, but yeah,
Speaker 1: it could be from what y'all said, but all the
Speaker 1: way down to like, oh, y'all can just pretend like
Speaker 1: you just pretend like you're gonna ad that I was
Speaker 1: finding Okay, Um, so they're just but also I would
Speaker 1: do it. No. Literally, they made sure to let you
Speaker 1: know you don't have to play, but we want you
Speaker 1: to come in and be fun like you would play.
Speaker 1: Response to Craig, I'd like that to be a host.
Speaker 1: And they were very upset. Even the guy that was
Speaker 1: that responded to me for the post was just like,
Speaker 1: why you're not sucking nobody, And then like he was
Speaker 1: trying it. He was like, oh, so, like I noticed
Speaker 1: that you're because there was like an audition. They were
Speaker 1: like three other girls and so I'm trying to be
Speaker 1: bubbly and cute and stuff. I'm like, okay, our titties
Speaker 1: are out. But I was told and I have fun nobody,
Speaker 1: so I'm having a great time. And then he's like, well,
Speaker 1: all the guys are like talking about you and it
Speaker 1: seems like you're in first place for the host. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I kind of want to save you for myself.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what, Like, yeah, I noticed you're
Speaker 1: not sucking nobody, Like, what's the deal you got a
Speaker 1: man or something. I was like, oh, this is what's
Speaker 1: going on. So like I like left after that and
Speaker 1: what the deal is same here for the host. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that didn't include being a hose I was. I was
Speaker 1: told multiple times that I didn't have to suck anybody,
Speaker 1: and I didn't and so but sometimes it's expected, especially
Speaker 1: when you get there, to start being pushy. So that's
Speaker 1: why on credits, you gotta be careful. That's that's why
Speaker 1: my friends love me. Yeah, I bring them around the
Speaker 1: niggas and I'll be letting them know you ain't gotta funk.
Speaker 1: But if it happens, it happened, like there's literally no pressure.
Speaker 1: But maybe with the ship with an old guest from
Speaker 1: the show who's definitely a hope for show and I'll
Speaker 1: never forget. She takes me out and she was like, girl,
Speaker 1: I ain't known know you ain't going these niggas. She's like,
Speaker 1: this is not a little square friends. And I was like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, like I host the sex Oh my god.
Speaker 1: But also like, no, everybody calls me square too. It's fine,
Speaker 1: like I literally work in a dungeon. But okay, I'll
Speaker 1: be the square bitch for you. It's a weird I'm
Speaker 1: the homie. I'm the homie with all the nasty stories.
Speaker 1: I'm the one too. But so how does that make
Speaker 1: me a square? I think it's because like summer some
Speaker 1: dorky or some maybe summer like they want you to
Speaker 1: be Selina Powell esk. But I'm more like how it
Speaker 1: gets people caught up? I don't really you know, like
Speaker 1: I respect her, but I'm not gonna have my friend
Speaker 1: in no situations. I'm like, girl, I gotta come get you.
Speaker 1: I'll have to ask him if I could share it
Speaker 1: on the podcast. But I have a voice memo that
Speaker 1: she said, did you get sent that voice memo to
Speaker 1: oh to a mutual friend of ours. And she's a
Speaker 1: fucking hot mess. Anyway, with the cuddle comfort thing, you
Speaker 1: can be a pro cuddler. By the way, people can
Speaker 1: book sessions with you and you can apply on the platform.
Speaker 1: So finn Dom, we had Mrs Marley come on here,
Speaker 1: We've had Lisa spliffling, Lisa splits Carmen right now. They
Speaker 1: talked about Twitter, the hashtag pay pig, hashtag, fem dom,
Speaker 1: hashtag finn dom. I gonna be honest with you, obviously,
Speaker 1: we can't speak from experience. You guys loved Marley's episode.
Speaker 1: I know she has an academy. Hey, it's a black
Speaker 1: owned business at the Patreon platform where basically she can
Speaker 1: teach you how to dom. I think she does some
Speaker 1: live stuff as well, but I just wanted to add
Speaker 1: that specifically with the hashtags, I think basically she'll tell
Speaker 1: you how to get people to ask. You do have
Speaker 1: to pay, obviously your mistress to her teach you. But
Speaker 1: I think it's really important, um that it seems like
Speaker 1: one of the easiest things to do. I think this
Speaker 1: is a great investment into trying to figure out basically
Speaker 1: how to do it. So the next one, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: it's great, but be careful because I've noticed this entire
Speaker 1: rise of these weird the fake the girl. They will
Speaker 1: literally have you and I think I share, I shared
Speaker 1: this story. No, they'll have you still humiliate them, and um,
Speaker 1: mrs can I answer this? Mrs Can I ask you
Speaker 1: a question? And literally they'll pry you into turning them
Speaker 1: on by being mistreated and still not giving. But also
Speaker 1: it's fake pages though, and they're called like pay pigs
Speaker 1: or whatever. They'll reach out to you. I'm looking for
Speaker 1: a sugar baby, I'm looking for a fandom and that
Speaker 1: happens on my Instagram, and that happens on she tells
Speaker 1: you how to navigate through those pages as well, because
Speaker 1: she basically won't even like talk through that situation. But
Speaker 1: I'm not even talking to nobody unless they send me money,
Speaker 1: like and even right now I have a man. But
Speaker 1: that's like wad or too, because that's like the thing
Speaker 1: if you've noticed, like the backlash they have against like
Speaker 1: people on these sites. That's why I brought up tender
Speaker 1: and bumble because I don't put any of that stuff
Speaker 1: in my bio for obvious reasons, but the way that
Speaker 1: they treat women on there that actually are like either
Speaker 1: they think might do it even like on the pier app.
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not paying for pussy. There's so many
Speaker 1: scammers on here. I'm not, you know, no escorts please,
Speaker 1: because they've been finding other ways like right, yeah, So
Speaker 1: it's like you have to be careful. Sorry, And niggas
Speaker 1: act like they're too good for an escort, like trust me,
Speaker 1: they're mostly I didn't say niggas just don't want to
Speaker 1: be trick. Okay, I want to tell I want to
Speaker 1: tell you all and if we can move on. I
Speaker 1: looked into finding at yes, bit trio into it, but
Speaker 1: it's not easy. It is not easy. I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: This is a field if you have a big fucking dick,
Speaker 1: are you gotta do with m Okay, but now I
Speaker 1: know that I didn't know that before. Yeah, go ahead
Speaker 1: of King Nazir, King Noir. These are like up their
Speaker 1: escorts that like everybody like, not that they're unreachable, but
Speaker 1: like the access to more. How is it only them
Speaker 1: two niggas. There's more niggas in this. I did my googles.
Speaker 1: There's more gameal escort. There's a lot of game. But
Speaker 1: the ones that are like the straight ones, they all
Speaker 1: kind of look really big and beefy and weird, but
Speaker 1: also the ones that like are on the lower side.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't suck them for free. See okay, see that
Speaker 1: was so rude. Um No, that was valid, And I
Speaker 1: actually got close to setting up with one and he
Speaker 1: dropped the ball because he started with some transphobia ship.
Speaker 1: He was like, so are you a trans woman? I'm
Speaker 1: so serious? Yeah, he was like, because I only pussy,
Speaker 1: and I was like, I don't care what I have. Like,
Speaker 1: if I'm paying you and you've agreed to this, I
Speaker 1: don't understand why see pussy down. I can understand even
Speaker 1: if it's a bussy, So I can understand. I want
Speaker 1: to someone in the ask if it's a man. But
Speaker 1: I like yeah, but like I let him know in
Speaker 1: my little weird like way of like, hey, so like
Speaker 1: I'm a sex worker too, and like you have other
Speaker 1: peers or sex workers at your trans I don't think
Speaker 1: that this is something you should be doing, especially since
Speaker 1: they're more danger than you. But this is not gonna work.
Speaker 1: So I didn't hire him. He was like on, he
Speaker 1: was on board. We were like planning it, and I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I mad at this for sure. It's
Speaker 1: his choice, which I understand it is. That's fine, but
Speaker 1: don't have that choice on me, Like you know, I
Speaker 1: don't have any subjective Yeah, the last four I'm gonna
Speaker 1: run down quick. I know we were short for a time,
Speaker 1: but selling socks and underwhere we've talked about Google places
Speaker 1: to do that. Um, there's one I want to mention
Speaker 1: before it actually gets into her last two men offering
Speaker 1: security to sex workers. We saw this on Bonding. Okay,
Speaker 1: Bonding at the Netflix show was only fifteen minutes each
Speaker 1: and I think she gave him ten or of her
Speaker 1: I don't know what percentage someone will give you, or
Speaker 1: if they give you a flat rate, but if you're
Speaker 1: a man, if you us like you can protect a woman,
Speaker 1: or just even being in that space, she paid her
Speaker 1: her gay her husband, her gay best friend to just
Speaker 1: be there and be like, I need you in case
Speaker 1: they try to attack me or kill me. He's like,
Speaker 1: which what am I supposed to do? But if you
Speaker 1: feel like you know you can help these women. Have
Speaker 1: you've been nightclub security or whatever, like protect these sex workers,
Speaker 1: hit them up if you see them on Twitter and
Speaker 1: be like just send a message like hey, I would
Speaker 1: love to be there and stand by. I can be
Speaker 1: outside just write anything I can do for you that
Speaker 1: like yeah, um, and you have chatter bait and you
Speaker 1: talked about making money on there, Like what's about that
Speaker 1: chatter bait? Okay, so chatter bait quickly enough. A nutshow
Speaker 1: is like a webcam sex site, but it's a lot
Speaker 1: more open, so it's like, um, the barrier to entries
Speaker 1: pretty low. You can just set up with a camera
Speaker 1: and stuff. There's a lot of people that turn it
Speaker 1: into a business, better camera quality, they have better toys
Speaker 1: to play with. Um, you can set it up to
Speaker 1: like um, people can pay to like control your toys
Speaker 1: and stuff. And the way in which I've been using it,
Speaker 1: especially doing early in Quarantine, which is watching other couples
Speaker 1: like do things together because I was literally isolated, so
Speaker 1: I'm like paying them ten dollars to make out paying
Speaker 1: them ten dollars ago, oh second suck and like just
Speaker 1: sitting there, tell oh, you look so nice because we're
Speaker 1: pretty And then she led me to her only fans
Speaker 1: and I signed up there. But it's just like it's
Speaker 1: a really good way, especially if you're not trying to
Speaker 1: get into like the only fans stuff, because I have
Speaker 1: a lot of friends who have done charibit, but there's
Speaker 1: not really a trace left behind. You get to keep
Speaker 1: most of the money, and it's like it's organized in
Speaker 1: a way where if you want anonymity, it's a lot
Speaker 1: easier than you know. And I also love that you've
Speaker 1: paid for it. I paid for it as well, and like,
Speaker 1: I think that that's such a thing, like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: we're women, like niggas are gonna be on our dick,
Speaker 1: so like why would we pay? But this is a
Speaker 1: time where, like she is kind of weird. It's not
Speaker 1: like we have as much access to meet man. We
Speaker 1: can't go to the club. We can't. We don't even
Speaker 1: feel as safe going to meet someone on a tender day.
Speaker 1: So I think that's a dope one. And what's night
Speaker 1: for it? Oh my god? Okay, So Nifela is something
Speaker 1: I've recently learned about um from my friend Gervet. She
Speaker 1: does a really good job on there. So it's it's
Speaker 1: kind of old school with the phone sex when lives.
Speaker 1: Mandy just sneeds for the first time during own and
Speaker 1: I'm like, well and I turned away, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. No, But like Nightflare, it is kind of
Speaker 1: it's more of a comprehensive site, so you can do camming,
Speaker 1: but like I don't choose to do because if I
Speaker 1: have a chat option where I get paid per volley
Speaker 1: and also I get paid per minute on the phone,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not I'm not gonna be like, you know,
Speaker 1: putting all this extra effort into doing a camp. But
Speaker 1: it's really cool because, um, it's set up in a
Speaker 1: way where it's kind of organized like chatter bait. It's
Speaker 1: a low buried entry and there's a lot more control
Speaker 1: over like your back end as to who has access
Speaker 1: to you, how much money you make, and a lot
Speaker 1: of couples that like to go on and do phone
Speaker 1: sex stuff where they're having sex on the phone for people. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: so like if you and your I'm gonna need a
Speaker 1: three way situation to learn how to sex. Yes, like
Speaker 1: you don't know how to sex text? He'd be like
Speaker 1: the majority, I'd be like, oh, I want to molest
Speaker 1: you and lick all in that I do. I could
Speaker 1: say I want to most him? Is that bad? Am
Speaker 1: I not supposed tell him I want to molesso and that?
Speaker 1: So you don't want to say that you don't like me? Well, anyway,
Speaker 1: I wanted. Okay, well him, I do, but he's given
Speaker 1: me consense to a lesson. I don't know. But anyway,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, I want to lick all over
Speaker 1: you and do this and do that. Girl the nigga
Speaker 1: send the heart reaction and I'm like, sure, I need
Speaker 1: something back from you if you want to, but if
Speaker 1: you know, I can't. I hate the reaction. I think
Speaker 1: he just learned how to do it, so that's what
Speaker 1: he does. He just reacts to it. Was like my
Speaker 1: mom figured out how to do in the group chats
Speaker 1: like how you need to stop just respine. No, we'll
Speaker 1: no like my my my other homeboy. He just found
Speaker 1: jifs so now that's always communicate with his jif. Don't
Speaker 1: do it because it's just dude mention behind the camera.
Speaker 1: It looks like it's about to explode the problem. It
Speaker 1: is all right, but no, Jiffler is a good like
Speaker 1: if you're not somebody that wants to be out here
Speaker 1: like that, you want to still remain contain that pride,
Speaker 1: you completely set up another thing and um in I
Speaker 1: T E F L I R T brother, it's a
Speaker 1: very good it's a very good like passive income and
Speaker 1: like someone publish beIN gigs. I think chat is really
Speaker 1: fun too, because like you can just have your laptop
Speaker 1: and doing other stuff and they're just chatting with you
Speaker 1: and you're getting paid for each chat they send back
Speaker 1: to you. Yeah, that's what the that's what that's what
Speaker 1: the volleys are. So that's why you gotta keep them
Speaker 1: going because like in the majority of my clients, Yeah,
Speaker 1: the majority of my clients have been a lot of
Speaker 1: You have to also recognize who what you're like able
Speaker 1: to offer. So Gervy, let me know that with somebody
Speaker 1: looks like me. A lot of white men like to
Speaker 1: have the force bisexuality fantasy. Um, then like being yes,
Speaker 1: so I make one up. Um. And also I have
Speaker 1: clients that want to help me gain weight. They want
Speaker 1: to be feminized or like like their feeders whatever. Not
Speaker 1: really like they want me to help them gain weight
Speaker 1: so that they can look like this football player. He's
Speaker 1: like really handsome, but he's like I just I want
Speaker 1: to be a beefy a BBW so bad, Like I
Speaker 1: go onto tour it sometimes I'm just like I don't
Speaker 1: look like that yet, and so like I set up
Speaker 1: a diet plan for me. Yeah, and I let him know, like,
Speaker 1: every time you order this, you set up a diet
Speaker 1: because he wanted to gain as much weight as possible. Eat, eat, yeah, drink.
Speaker 1: I was like, you need to order this, know like
Speaker 1: he wants me to tell him like what to eat
Speaker 1: and how to eat like hilarious. Yeah, but it's fun.
Speaker 1: You have paid to tell nigga what to eat so
Speaker 1: that he can be a big y'all. Listen, this is
Speaker 1: it is, y'all. Do not even have to open your
Speaker 1: motherfucker you know what. This is our gift to you.
Speaker 1: Your listens counters are ad dollars. Ashley just told y'all
Speaker 1: that all you gotta do is be a fake trainer
Speaker 1: literally and tell him I told him eat pizza. I
Speaker 1: was like, get you two large pizzas and eat both
Speaker 1: of those niggas tonight. Actually, just no guy, guys. When
Speaker 1: I tell y'all she's dope, you need to follow her, Ashley,
Speaker 1: before we get out of here, We're not we're not
Speaker 1: gonna have time for a homemail. But before we get
Speaker 1: out of here, let our audience know once again where
Speaker 1: they can find you, where they can follow you and
Speaker 1: all your little goodies. Um, you can find me on
Speaker 1: Instagram at Ashley chubby Bunny. It's a s h l E.
Speaker 1: I g h chubby bunny. That's all one word. I
Speaker 1: recently started getting into Twitter, so I'm just ash chubby
Speaker 1: Bunny on there. Um, I've been looking at Mendy and
Speaker 1: everybody else what they host. We're gonna we're gonna post
Speaker 1: her Twitter in case you can't figure out how to
Speaker 1: spell Ashley because it's a different kind of ash leg
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm really glad you came because it's funny.
Speaker 1: When I hit up Mandy, I was like, I want
Speaker 1: to have Actually, I know we shouldn't talk about like
Speaker 1: the body positivity again, so we don't have to, but
Speaker 1: actually it's such a great additive to the conversation. And
Speaker 1: I love your rants. I watched an Hour while cooking
Speaker 1: the other day. I can't believe I watched it. I
Speaker 1: just sat my phone on speakerphone while she went off
Speaker 1: about housing, and I was like, this is great, this
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Speaker 1: just definitely a lot of conversations that y'all can tune in.
Speaker 1: And it's only thirty minutes. Thirty minutes of perfect time frame.
Speaker 1: I do about fifty five on for fact sake, We've
Speaker 1: got some about the mail and of the USPS is
Speaker 1: going to ship. I'm gonna do a ninety day once one.
Speaker 1: I have no idea how gonna do this, but I'm
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Speaker 1: I thought we were about to start just re sharing
Speaker 1: just how differently we started sucking when I started in
Speaker 1: the ass. I feel like that will be the point
Speaker 1: where I'm like, you already had antals sex bro the
Speaker 1: head barely. If a nigga sticks the tipping your pussy,
Speaker 1: you fucked right, didn't we know? Bitch, you don't. So
Speaker 1: if the nigga put the tip in, that's not fucking
Speaker 1: Trust me. I wish I had anal, but I really
Speaker 1: don't feel like I did because it wasn't like stroking
Speaker 1: like when I watched porn. I'm like anal and you
Speaker 1: were whole ass walking around the house with but jeweled butt,
Speaker 1: plus because it was his dick was wider than that. Alright,
Speaker 1: you like to sit here and say you ain't had
Speaker 1: no motherfucker if you're not fucking my ass like fucking
Speaker 1: my ask you know what I'm saying, How was I
Speaker 1: turning it into a bussy? I told you that I'm
Speaker 1: thinking about this, dude, I got my pussy eight just
Speaker 1: like a random night or whatever, Like my man was
Speaker 1: in the Hamptons. I was chilling, so I got my
Speaker 1: pussy eight but it was like really subpar. But it
Speaker 1: was just a fun time. And it was a guy
Speaker 1: that ate my pussy before and he wanted to do
Speaker 1: it and I was like, it's salty, but you can
Speaker 1: have it. So I did not say it's salty. Bit
Speaker 1: yes I did. I was fucked up. I was like
Speaker 1: four am, I like did something fucking mushrooms and I
Speaker 1: was just like on a cloud and I was like whatever,
Speaker 1: I don't even care, but I don't really want to fuck.
Speaker 1: So when he ate my pussy, I didn't want to fuss.
Speaker 1: His dick was small, but he's really good looking, and
Speaker 1: I was like, you know what, he could suck me
Speaker 1: in the ass. Wait, that was just so funny. Why
Speaker 1: that was so funny to me? Why? I don't know, Like, wait,
Speaker 1: he's so fine but his dick is a little What's
Speaker 1: crazy is you know I'm shallow? So I had like
Speaker 1: I love good looking nicks, but they did it small.
Speaker 1: You can't say hi to me When I walked past
Speaker 1: you again, bro, I ran into this nigga at a
Speaker 1: fucking It was called crisis bar in Brooklyn, okay, and
Speaker 1: he was looking good. It's fuck and I don't even
Speaker 1: like braids like that, but you know what, they're kind
Speaker 1: of like you know how Dave East has braids and
Speaker 1: like it's like that they're like clean, nice looking braids,
Speaker 1: and like he's so like such a harlem nigga, but
Speaker 1: like his dick was little, and I was like, you
Speaker 1: know what, he's like, you still gotta nigga. I was like,
Speaker 1: yeahn't Midgod ain't worried about you. And he was like, good,
Speaker 1: I an't worried about him. What's up? But I was
Speaker 1: like I can't suck this little dick, nigga, but I
Speaker 1: can't sit on his face. So he was like, let
Speaker 1: me taste it real quick, and I was like it's salty,
Speaker 1: and he was like, okay, so anyway, he ate my
Speaker 1: salty dot com pussy And the entire time, I was like,
Speaker 1: he could suck me in the ass one day, right,
Speaker 1: like that's what I mean. I told him that I
Speaker 1: might have something I can use him for and he
Speaker 1: was like, what you're about to make the only thing, honestly, like,
Speaker 1: didn't really let me. Let me ask you a question
Speaker 1: and This is super random. See what happens guys when
Speaker 1: we go nine hours without recording in the middle of recording.
Speaker 1: So let me ask you, would you consider double penetration
Speaker 1: with a small dick nigga in your yes? Did anyone
Speaker 1: really hear me this week on the episode I want more.
Speaker 1: I've been training, bitch, I just left tennis. I'm ready
Speaker 1: for more dicks. Wait, so is this a conversation that
Speaker 1: you had with him or no? Who the dude? The
Speaker 1: little dick nigga and Yo nigga. My nigga will never like,
Speaker 1: he's never gonna do deep things. Honestly. The only thing
Speaker 1: has he ever done dep is that something that maybe
Speaker 1: he's just not into or he just won't do it
Speaker 1: with you. He's just done like spit roast ship. He's
Speaker 1: never done DP with um somebody. But he said he's
Speaker 1: definitely like fucked chicks with his boys. But but the
Speaker 1: only chance I think I'll get into getting another dick
Speaker 1: in my mouth with him. He wasn't completely a posed
Speaker 1: a couple swapping, but the idea of like me fucking
Speaker 1: another guy with him, he doesn't like, he'd rather me
Speaker 1: fund someone else alone like do my thing, but together
Speaker 1: he's like really not into that, you know. He's like,
Speaker 1: I like being with you with a chick, like being
Speaker 1: with another nigga, just really and I don't want to
Speaker 1: really see with another nigga, like you know, but but
Speaker 1: but I think there was a q ASK couple that
Speaker 1: I sent him and like, the dude looked chill, his
Speaker 1: girl's fine. I was like, what about them? He was
Speaker 1: like nah, and then he's like if the move was right.
Speaker 1: He didn't give a reason. He just said no at first,
Speaker 1: and then seconds later he's like, I don't know, we're
Speaker 1: chill him. We funked up. Yeah, probably, So that's actually
Speaker 1: a question I have now. So when you're with a
Speaker 1: partner and you guys are deciding on someone to bring in,
Speaker 1: look at me. Adding a threesome question is if we
Speaker 1: haven't had these the whole fucking four years of the show.