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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: Second date updates.

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Speaker 3: In terms of the amount of time it takes between

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Speaker 3: the first date and the second date, what do you

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Speaker 3: think is optimal? Like three to four days? At least

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Speaker 3: a week. You don't want to go back to back?

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Speaker 3: Maybe two weeks? Is that pushing it too long?

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Speaker 4: I think?

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Speaker 3: Okay, because for our listener last.

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Speaker 4: You're like out of town.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's delicate though, because you don't want to lose the momentum. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the hard part.

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Speaker 3: Well, for our listener, Amanda, she's going on eleven months.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, I mean, do we need to tell her

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Speaker 3: Well, hold on, because she says she has a good

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Speaker 3: reason for that. Okay, so let's talk to her. Amanda,

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Speaker 3: Thanks for being on with us. Start at the very

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Speaker 3: beginning here. Tell us who is this guy and how

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Speaker 3: did you meet him?

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Speaker 1: And how do you remember his name after eleven months?

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 3: Yes, if you waited eleven months to get back together with, well,

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Speaker 3: his name.

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Speaker 2: Is Jordan, so you know it reminds me of basketball,

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Speaker 2: so I cann't forget him.

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Speaker 1: Wow, Lebron, this is nuts. Eleven months ago you went

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I did, And where did you meet him? I

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Speaker 2: met him on hinge okay, and she was very nice,

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Speaker 2: Like our interactions were kind of funny.

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Speaker 1: Actually, are you sure you're remembering right since it was so.

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Speaker 2: Long, Yes, because usually I won't go on a date

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Speaker 2: with them unless they're funny.

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Speaker 3: Okay, he checks nice and kind of funny. I know

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Speaker 1: I mean I wouldn't match people whose prompts are all serious.

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Speaker 2: That's actually, yeah, you know, I don't want to be

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Speaker 3: What did you guys do for a date?

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Speaker 2: So what We ended up going on a coffee date?

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Speaker 2: And yeah, that's my thing. I love.

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Speaker 4: That's good because sometimes from a guy's perspective, if a

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Speaker 3: I just want a quick fit high.

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Speaker 1: By iways feel like it. I'm not sure if you're

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Speaker 2: See you in the daytime, Well that's the face time.

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Speaker 2: But we've moved past that. So okay. We met up,

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Speaker 2: and I kept thinking, like, honestly, like I don't know

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Speaker 1: Something what do you mean like in a good way

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Speaker 3: Yeah, your league.

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Speaker 2: So I know this sounds like maybe stupid, but I

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Speaker 5: You know, that's.

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Speaker 3: Actually really calm.

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Speaker 4: I actually have friends, and I'm sure I'm in the

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Speaker 1: Always Here's the thing, clothes are always fixable.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 2: I know. But I made a comment about the cross,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, I don't know about that cross.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, I don't think it's nuts

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Speaker 2: You text. It's just I'm a weirdo. But I guess

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Speaker 2: I was being dedgmental because you know, he was so

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Speaker 2: like it's the style. I like, I can fix him,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, second or third date? So I mean, like the

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Speaker 2: So, I don't know. I just didn't feel like the spark,

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Speaker 1: I thought you've been pining over this guy for the

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Speaker 2: So here's here's like what happened. So basically, at the

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Speaker 2: and he was following up with me texting me a

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's it.

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Speaker 4: That's actually really kind of you.

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Speaker 3: Well, what did you say before we start praising you,

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Speaker 2: I just said I didn't feel as smart, like we

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, and how do you take it?

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Speaker 2: I think this is why I can't get him out

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Speaker 3: Being rejected specifically, that's got to be hard for a

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Speaker 1: That's top three most common responses response.

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Speaker 2: When I've done it before with other guys, they just

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Speaker 2: react so like immature and they honestly like try to

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Speaker 2: get me harder. They start texting me more. This makes

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Speaker 3: Really try no, if it's me, I'm just giving your

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Speaker 3: number to one of those like scam call centers and

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Speaker 3: having them spam you better than crying about it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to try to fight for Yeah, well

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Speaker 4: It just looks like I got thirty percent off your internet.

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Speaker 1: Now she just said you were There was no spark,

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Speaker 1: it wasn't even Oh excuse.

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Speaker 3: Me, you don't have to double down. That hurts, But

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Speaker 3: it's nice that he was so gracious with you. That's

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Speaker 1: And it should be expected.

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Speaker 2: So that happened.

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Speaker 3: That happened eleven months ago, and now you're reaching out

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Speaker 2: I just can't get him out of my head. He's

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Speaker 2: It's like kind of awkward to like reach out. I'm

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Speaker 1: I mean, it is going to be hard to come back.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, there's no spark. Yeah, Like it means you're

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Speaker 3: It's possible. Well, we need to call him to find out.

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Speaker 3: This is definitely different than what we would normally do

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Speaker 1: Rid of those crocs.

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Speaker 1: Hold on Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Second Date updates, they.

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Speaker 3: Say the best things in life take time. That's true,

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Speaker 3: Like an aged bottle of wine, medium sized wheel of

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, I don't know, but I still have extra.

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Speaker 4: You know what else, they also say, Jeff, timing is everything. Yes,

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Speaker 4: maybe they needed a little eleven month break.

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Speaker 3: So it's possible all the things could align, the timing

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Speaker 1: You know, I think it's sweet. I think it shows

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Speaker 1: You know, like months ago you were judging somebody's clothes,

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Speaker 2: Right now, I'm not as superficial broke. You're right, but

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Speaker 3: I'm just glad that we're talking to you over the

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Speaker 1: I will say I love the houses where I was

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Speaker 3: We've matured from that immature girl that she was eleven

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Speaker 2: I have zebra pants on.

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Speaker 3: You guys are like a zoo together. Wow, Joe exotic

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Speaker 3: brook Is. I love this bonding time that we're having.

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Speaker 3: But we got to call Jordan here and hopefully he

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Speaker 1: It was such a dad joke.

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Speaker 3: Ask you just having normal conversation.

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Speaker 3: This is how bros conversation. Yeah, okay, well, thank you

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Speaker 5: Okay, And what is this in regards to?

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Speaker 3: Oh, this is actually in regards to a woman who's

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Speaker 3: been trying to get a hold of you. Well, actually

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Speaker 3: she has been, yes, she has. It's the usual. Not

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Speaker 3: sure if you'll remember, this is a woman named Amanda.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 5: You know there's a lot of Amanda's.

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Speaker 3: Right, fair? Okay, well, this this is a woman that

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Speaker 3: you went on a date with eleven months ago, a.

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Speaker 5: Year ago, eleven months ago, copy date.

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Speaker 3: Uh, I'm probably going to bed?

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Speaker 5: Was it like a hinge date?

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Speaker 2: Yees?

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Speaker 1: Oh she did tell us that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I think I yeah, I remember Amanda. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: we grabbed coffee, right, okay, a long.

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Speaker 3: Time ago, that's right. What else do you remember from

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Speaker 1: It's probably wasn't much time since it was just coffee.

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Speaker 5: But honestly, I just remember her ditching be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. What do you mean, like when she said she

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Speaker 4: Oh that? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like, I mean I've been turned down before, so

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Speaker 5: definitely was expecting this.

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Speaker 3: Well, can I just tell you, Jordan, the thing that

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Speaker 3: like you're an amazing woman. Whatever guy ends up with you,

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Speaker 5: Her well oh yeah, you know what, I think I

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Speaker 3: It was a good. It was good feedback.

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Speaker 2: That's a good idea to put that day.

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Speaker 3: I first, I had been quick on my feet still

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Speaker 3: for Amanda, it was a big moment. And you know

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Speaker 1: Maybe she said that, yeah, yeah, basically yeah, she actually

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, I don't know what to say. This

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Speaker 1: This year here, what what do you mean?

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Speaker 3: What's happened?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: You know, I again, I'm used to rejection, you know,

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Speaker 5: we should get another shot.

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Speaker 3: Whoa, Oh, this isn't the first time.

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Speaker 1: No, are you complimented by it? Or is it like

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Speaker 5: You know what I mean, I'm more surprised than anything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, how do you take that personally?

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Speaker 3: Or you well, if you want to be the most

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Speaker 3: I bet that's surprise.

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Speaker 2: Surprise, it's to me. Hello, how are you.

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Speaker 3: Exotic?

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Speaker 5: I'm good. Good to you hear from you again?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're excited to hear from me.

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Speaker 5: I mean it's been a while, you know, it's definitely

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Speaker 2: You know. I feel so awkward. I feel like I'm

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, thinking about his words before speak

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Speaker 5: I'm not sure that why are you like asking me out?

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Speaker 5: Or is this is this? What this is?

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Speaker 2: I mean I needed their help. Yeah, it might be

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Speaker 2: like a little crazy. It's been like almost a year, right,

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Speaker 2: and maybe you can have amnesia and dementia about what

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Speaker 5: What a nice.

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Speaker 3: So that was a lot Jordan. I know that she

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Speaker 3: kind of dumped on you there, But you have anything

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Speaker 5: Back to be honest, a man, it's been a while

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Speaker 5: since I've seen you or seen your picture.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: One way that I really jogged my memory is, uh,

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Speaker 5: do you still have that nice foot?

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Speaker 3: What you did out?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Well, so I was just telling them about these

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Speaker 2: zebra pants that I'm wearing, and I could potentially send

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Speaker 2: you a selfie if he's lying, work for it.

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Speaker 1: Do zebra pants make it look bigger?

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Speaker 3: It's like an optical illusion.

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Speaker 1: Ask you for a friend.

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Speaker 2: You know, I messed up, So I'm kind of like,

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Speaker 2: you know, clean slight here I come.

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Speaker 1: The clean slate includes picks. So you're a winner right now, Jordan.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Jordan, she's she's apologetic for how she treated you.

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Speaker 3: She's still got the same features and all the things

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Speaker 3: So at this point, we'd like to offer to send

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Speaker 3: you and Amanda out on another date, and we would

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Speaker 1: At this point, I feel like we're interrupting a date

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Speaker 1: on the phone, right.

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Speaker 3: I know, saucy, but Jordan, it's up to you.

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Speaker 5: I mean, she's cooled with me seeing the other two

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Speaker 3: Okay, the hair on the rejection, Amanda, Now the ball's

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Speaker 2: Heavens, No, you know this was nice, but now I

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Speaker 2: cannot handle that. I'm too jealous. No, I want you to.

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Speaker 1: Make It's going to be a little competition for you.

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Speaker 2: You know, see if you know way hoo say, I'm

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Speaker 3: Are you ditching him?

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Speaker 4: Now?

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Speaker 3: Twice in one year?

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Speaker 2: I was just hoping that we could be at just

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, we're missing it.

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Speaker 4: Well, hey, come up with a good AI goodbye to

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Speaker 1: Yes, man, he'll have six leftovers.

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Speaker 5: I guess I'll type one up and i'll say it

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Speaker 5: to you later, Amanda.

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Speaker 3: Check your text message.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, my god, he's like the rejection king.

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Speaker 5: I hope you will have a nice life and a

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Speaker 5: nice day.

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Speaker 3: Oh your melting hearts right now. Jordan's hang up so

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Speaker 3: we can all call.

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Speaker 2: Him back Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: I think the lesson that we all learned from that

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Speaker 3: is you can let a nice butt in zebra print

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Speaker 1: That's right. It was a good lesson. It is shocking

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Speaker 1: that she was so surprised. Yeah, I'm worried about her

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Speaker 1: choice and people to go out with if they're so rude.

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Speaker 3: It would yeah, totally, But it would be funny if

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Speaker 3: she does text him though, in like a couple of

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Speaker 1: I mean, she's gonna go on one more date with

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Speaker 1: a guy that's a jerk. And then yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 3: But the way they were flirting on the phone for

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Speaker 3: a minute, I thought for sure they were going to

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Speaker 3: go out with it.

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Speaker 1: I thought it was a yes before we even ask.

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Speaker 1: I know, maybe we should have stayed out of it.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: It was yes, he just said add to the team.

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Speaker 1: Yeah she said no.

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Speaker 3: But that's the thing about love. It's weird and unpredictable sometimes.

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