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Speaker 1: Second date Update. When you go out on a first
Speaker 1: date with somebody, you never know if there's somebody else
Speaker 1: with you on that date. What there could be somebody
Speaker 1: watching the entire time. Wait, someone that's not actually on
Speaker 1: the date with you, or they could technically kind of
Speaker 1: be on the date. I don't get it. Now that
Speaker 1: you're thoroughly confused, let's talk to Tarana, who was on
Speaker 1: a date that she wasn't really invited to. What it'll
Speaker 1: make sense? Taran? What's up? How are you? Hey? I'm good?
Speaker 1: How are you? Oh my god, Taren, you just sound
Speaker 1: like a stalker right now. Really, no, it's not like that.
Speaker 1: That's what all stalkers say. This might actually be the
Speaker 1: first time we're doing a second date update like this. Taren.
Speaker 1: I'll go ahead and let you tell the story. So
Speaker 1: what do you want to do today with a second
Speaker 1: date update? So I'm a waitress at an Italian restaurant
Speaker 1: and I was serving a guy who was on a
Speaker 1: date with someone else, but throughout the course of it.
Speaker 1: He was really really nice. She was very sweet and
Speaker 1: like cool, calm collected, and she was like a wannabe Kardashian.
Speaker 1: She was really rude. She was rude to me. She
Speaker 1: was snobby to him and everyone else around. And I'm
Speaker 1: kind of interested in it. Oh my god. So you
Speaker 1: kind of were on the date, like you never think
Speaker 1: about that, but your server is actually on your date too.
Speaker 1: They're experiencing some things with you. I just got to
Speaker 1: kind of experience their whole date, and I saw how
Speaker 1: everything was happening, and just watching it happened between them.
Speaker 1: Can you give us some of the highlights of their
Speaker 1: date before we move on too? You get in a
Speaker 1: date with him. Honestly, I felt bad for him because
Speaker 1: he was being very nice to her and he was
Speaker 1: being very calm with her, while she would just go
Speaker 1: on and on about herself. Anytime I came by or
Speaker 1: even walked by, she was talking about herself, talking about
Speaker 1: how amazing she is, talking about the men that she
Speaker 1: has like messaging her and texting her, and sounded like
Speaker 1: she's trying to make him jealous. She even at one
Speaker 1: point said to him, She's like, I almost into outlet
Speaker 1: you like, I wasn't sure if you're good enough for me.
Speaker 1: She said that I'm serious, and what was his reaction?
Speaker 1: Could you see his reaction? She just kind of chuckled,
Speaker 1: and he was like, oh, he's but I hope you're
Speaker 1: having a good time and she's like, oh, yeah, I
Speaker 1: totally am, and to wait. Are you sure though that
Speaker 1: he wasn't into it because although it's totally baffling to
Speaker 1: me too, some guys like that. I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: really know, but just reading his body language, if you know,
Speaker 1: how like you can you can see two people together
Speaker 1: and you're like, one person is totally not in this
Speaker 1: and they work out. That's what I kept getting the
Speaker 1: vibe of, Like, gud, he's trying to be really nice.
Speaker 1: He's not a bad guy, and he doesn't want to
Speaker 1: just up and leave her, but he was also not
Speaker 1: into it. This MutS me that one of the best
Speaker 1: things about being a waitress is being able to eavesdrop
Speaker 1: on everybody's dates. I mean, Anne, get your own dates
Speaker 1: off with the whole thing too, but I mean it
Speaker 1: does kind of help. I mean you get to meet
Speaker 1: a lot of people that way. Yeah, I used to
Speaker 1: wait tables a lot, and I would love it when
Speaker 1: you get a couple who was in an argument. It
Speaker 1: was so fun to experience the awkwardness of going up
Speaker 1: to their table. I know they weren't in an argument,
Speaker 1: but still she was being pretty crappy to him. It
Speaker 1: sounds like, yeah, she just talked about herself the whole time.
Speaker 1: She's very extremely high maintenance and selfish. Did you have
Speaker 1: any interaction with him? I did. She at one point
Speaker 1: got up to go to the bathroom, So I kind
Speaker 1: of saw that as my moment to kind of go
Speaker 1: in and just make sure, you know, I wasn't being
Speaker 1: creepy of like, hey, how are things going? Like with her?
Speaker 1: It was, you know, everything, okay, how's dinner? You know,
Speaker 1: any drinks and just kind of letting him know that
Speaker 1: I was, you know, they're supportive, trying to be low
Speaker 1: key about it, okay, all right? And did he seem interested?
Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I just didn't want to
Speaker 1: do anything to jeopardize my job or like tell her
Speaker 1: off and be like you get out of hair. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he is a sweet man and you're being in a hole.
Speaker 1: That would be awesome. Actually, I just told my manager,
Speaker 1: you have to leave how did you get his phone number? Well,
Speaker 1: the restaurant I work in is more of a classier restaurant,
Speaker 1: so you do need to make reservations. So his number
Speaker 1: was in the reservation's book. Okay, now wait, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: stop you because now you're the one that's being a
Speaker 1: little sketchy. Well, no, I'm not asking him to go out.
Speaker 1: I just want to know if he's even interested. Do
Speaker 1: you think you'll even remember you? Well, that's where I'm
Speaker 1: kind of hoping you guys can help me out, if
Speaker 1: you see, if he does, yeah, we'll probably have to
Speaker 1: jog his memory with the actual date he was on.
Speaker 1: So other than I want to be Kardashian, how could
Speaker 1: I describe her when we call him? I mean, she's
Speaker 1: really high maintenance. She had her makeup super super down,
Speaker 1: her hair. Okay, but but he might not think that,
Speaker 1: you know, because he was on a day with her.
Speaker 1: So what like just color hair? Yeah, something real quick,
Speaker 1: So I could be like, hey, you went on a
Speaker 1: date with this person. Do you remember? Um? She she
Speaker 1: was short, for sure. Um, she had long blonde hair,
Speaker 1: but it wasn't all real. She obviously had extension. The
Speaker 1: color didn't match perfectly. But it was blonde, all right.
Speaker 1: She had like a really tight green dress, but it
Speaker 1: didn't fit the restaurant. It was kind of tacky. It
Speaker 1: was a little tracky. Okay, So I'm gonna say, hey,
Speaker 1: do you remember going out with a chick with really
Speaker 1: bad extensions and a tacky green dress and an Italian restaurant?
Speaker 1: You might remember that. Actually, I think it's a better
Speaker 1: Did he say anything to you any left? Like you
Speaker 1: guys flirt at all? I'm not really sure, like I
Speaker 1: I you know, think them. I told him to have
Speaker 1: a great night, and he was like, thank you, you
Speaker 1: know you too, you know, thanks so much. So it
Speaker 1: was I mean, he made eye contact with me. Not
Speaker 1: everyone does that. So okay, okay, maybe he's into you.
Speaker 1: I mean I know that this isn't the tradition an
Speaker 1: all way of doing things, but I figure give it
Speaker 1: a shot. Why not? Okay? Cool, Well, we'll play a
Speaker 1: song and then come back and call him and see
Speaker 1: if we can get you a date in sort of
Speaker 1: a second date update. All right, we'll do it next time,
Speaker 1: King jubil in the morning second date right in the
Speaker 1: middle of a second date update. And if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us, today's second date update is a little different.
Speaker 1: Taran is on the phone and she wants to call
Speaker 1: a dude. I don't know do we even know his hey, Tarn,
Speaker 1: do we even know his name? Yeah, it's Steve. It
Speaker 1: was in the book, Okay, Steve, So his name is Steve.
Speaker 1: Tarn was actually the waitress when Steve was on a
Speaker 1: date with another girl, and Tarn witnessed the other girl
Speaker 1: being kind of terrible to Steve. So after they left,
Speaker 1: she actually got his number from the reservation book and
Speaker 1: wants to call him and ask him out herself. So
Speaker 1: it's sort of a second day update that she was
Speaker 1: kind of on their date because she was the waitress,
Speaker 1: but not really. So this is going to be an
Speaker 1: interesting phone call for Steve. And do you want us
Speaker 1: to focus on the girl he was with or do
Speaker 1: you want us to just tell him that you waited
Speaker 1: on him and thought he was cute and want to
Speaker 1: ask him out. Um? I kind of want to just
Speaker 1: ignore that girl and get past her. Okay, that's a
Speaker 1: good idea. Now, what do you want us to say
Speaker 1: if he's totally creeped out that his waitress stole his
Speaker 1: number from the reservation's book. I feel like he's cool
Speaker 1: enough to just like go with it and kind of
Speaker 1: feel it out and see where it goes. Yeah you
Speaker 1: think that, but you don't know him. He didn't really
Speaker 1: have any conversations together. Well, I guess if it doesn't
Speaker 1: go well, then I can just lie and say he
Speaker 1: forgot something at the restaurant or something. Okay, Lla somewhere
Speaker 1: if we can figure out a life for you if
Speaker 1: it doesn't work. But I'm gonna call him right now. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Steve? Yes?
Speaker 1: Who's this Steve? What's up? Man? How are you? This
Speaker 1: is jew from the radio show Brook and Jewel in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Okay have you ever heard of it before? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Oh you have? Okay, Sweet? You ever listen? Uh? Sometimes?
Speaker 1: Do you ever hear of a second date update before?
Speaker 1: Um'm not sure? Why are you calling me? So we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show. It's called the second
Speaker 1: date Update. That's where if you go out on a
Speaker 1: date with somebody and then they end up not calling
Speaker 1: you back after, you can email us and we'll get
Speaker 1: that person on the phone and ask what happened. Okay,
Speaker 1: So you're calling you about a date that I went on. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you went out to an Italian place a little bit
Speaker 1: ago with a girl in a green dress, blonde girl, short, Naomi.
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's her name, I just was
Speaker 1: given the description. Is that Is that her name? Naomi?
Speaker 1: That's who you went out with? Yeah, that's her name.
Speaker 1: But I'm I'm confused because we have another date lined up. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: that that makes sense to me? What makes sense to you?
Speaker 1: But she she's not the one who wanted us to
Speaker 1: call you? Okay, yeah, so why did we bring her up?
Speaker 1: I mean, these are all this is weird. This is
Speaker 1: a weird one, even for us. Yeah, I'm confused. I've
Speaker 1: killed happening. So when you went out with that Naomi girl,
Speaker 1: your server actually noticed you and thought that you were
Speaker 1: really cute and wanted us to call you. Okay, do
Speaker 1: you remember her? Do you remember her? That was a
Speaker 1: good laugh. I knew. Okay, So you know who we're
Speaker 1: talking about? The woman who served you that night when
Speaker 1: you were out on that other date. Yeah, I remember her. Okay,
Speaker 1: what do you think of her? She was professional, she
Speaker 1: was nice. I don't think she was very professional. I
Speaker 1: would argue with that. Did you think she was maybe cute. Uh,
Speaker 1: I think, so, I don't really remember I was one
Speaker 1: the dates or I wasn't really paying attention to them. Oh,
Speaker 1: you're one of those guys who pays attention to your
Speaker 1: date and there's a lessing after the waitress the whole
Speaker 1: time whatever her. Yeah, I guess I don't really get
Speaker 1: what the point of this is. Why why are you
Speaker 1: asking me all these questions? Well, I'll just tell you, okay. So, Taran,
Speaker 1: that's the name of your waitress that night. She thought
Speaker 1: you were attractive and she wanted to meet you, like
Speaker 1: outside of the restaurant. Yeah, romantically, Okay, And she's actually
Speaker 1: on the phone right now listening to this conversation and
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. She's on the phone now, Hey, Steve,
Speaker 1: it's Taren. Hi. Hi, how is it going. This is weird.
Speaker 1: I know, I know, it's super weird. I just I
Speaker 1: just wanted to get in contact with you. I wanted
Speaker 1: to reach out, so this is kind of the only
Speaker 1: way I could think of doing it. Oh my god, awkward.
Speaker 1: Do you remember me for real? Or just saying that, No,
Speaker 1: I remember you? Okay. I just saw like the whole
Speaker 1: interaction between you and your date that night, and I
Speaker 1: just you just seem like a really sweet and nice guy.
Speaker 1: And the way that she was acting just throughout the
Speaker 1: night seemed like her saying that she wasn't sure if
Speaker 1: you were good enough for her. I feel like you're
Speaker 1: way too good for her, and you deserve somebody who
Speaker 1: isn't completely high maintenance and into themselves. Twenty four seven. Whoa,
Speaker 1: ohoh you were really paying attention? Huh Well, I mean
Speaker 1: yeah I was. You know, you guys were one of
Speaker 1: my tables that I was taking care of. But it
Speaker 1: wasn't hard. I mean, you couldn't really ignore it. She's
Speaker 1: pretty loud about a lot of the things, especially when
Speaker 1: like her food came out. Her pasta came out and
Speaker 1: she sent it back twice because the first time it
Speaker 1: was too salty and then the second time it wasn't
Speaker 1: salty enough. It's just it's like she finds reason to
Speaker 1: be difficult. Maybe she has like a diet thing with
Speaker 1: the pasta. I mean, I don't want to jump to
Speaker 1: any conclusions. She's just I think she's just particular about
Speaker 1: certain things like that, about certain things. So wait, did
Speaker 1: you enjoy your date with Naomi Steve? Yeah? Yeah, Look,
Speaker 1: you said, you got another date set up, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're hanging out next week. You're going out with her
Speaker 1: again after that whole debacle debacle. I mean, it was
Speaker 1: the first date, so I thought it went pretty well.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not gonna be perfect for a first date.
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, Like, I don't know you or anything,
Speaker 1: but just from the what I what I saw and
Speaker 1: what I do know of that time, is that you're
Speaker 1: really nice and no one should be treated the way
Speaker 1: that she was treating you through that entire dinner. You
Speaker 1: deserve way better than that. Well, thank you, But I
Speaker 1: think that you were just seeing it in a different way.
Speaker 1: She's she's she's a nice person. She is. Yeah, Taren,
Speaker 1: I don't I thought you were going to stay away
Speaker 1: from talking about his dates. I mean, I'm sorry, I
Speaker 1: know I thought I wasn't going to do that, but
Speaker 1: I mean she in the middle of this whole thing,
Speaker 1: yelled out at him, aren't you gay? Like what what
Speaker 1: do you see in this person? Who? I mean, I
Speaker 1: dressed really well. People make that mistake sometimes, So yeah,
Speaker 1: I wasn't offended. She doesn't sound like she was very
Speaker 1: nice to you. She say she's like a big personality.
Speaker 1: She's just she harmless, she has a big personality, She's
Speaker 1: super into herself. He doesn't really care about anyone else
Speaker 1: around her unless they're giving her all of the attention.
Speaker 1: And I know that I'm maybe stepping over my boundary cheer,
Speaker 1: but I feel like somebody's going to step in and
Speaker 1: be like, you gotta wake up, man, Like she is
Speaker 1: not right for you. She is not a good person,
Speaker 1: and you deserve so much more than that, like a
Speaker 1: hundred percent more than that. Thank you for saying that.
Speaker 1: So wait, I'm confused. Does that ring true for you,
Speaker 1: see I? Or is Taren just coming off like she's
Speaker 1: attacking to your ta to be kind of crazy? No,
Speaker 1: as I said, she has a big personality. I could
Speaker 1: see why someone would see that. But I'm kind of
Speaker 1: more of like a easygoing, laid back kind of guy,
Speaker 1: So I'm kind of attracted to that in Naomi, I guess. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, I can understand on some level of like
Speaker 1: opposite attracts, but you don't need to be completely put
Speaker 1: down by the other person in order to have that.
Speaker 1: And you be really nice. I really think that you're
Speaker 1: a nice, sweet guy. You're really attractive. I just don't
Speaker 1: understand what you see in someone like her, who is
Speaker 1: completely selfish and into themselves only. And I just I
Speaker 1: wanted to do this super weird thing. I know, it's
Speaker 1: like completely different, but I just wanted to give it
Speaker 1: a shot and see if you wanted to go out
Speaker 1: with me. Yeah, Steve, would you like to go out
Speaker 1: with Tarn on a first date? It's kind of a
Speaker 1: second date because you didn't even know you were being
Speaker 1: watched while you were on your date. But would you
Speaker 1: like to go out with Taren on a date? We'll
Speaker 1: pay for it, I mean, I will say. If you're
Speaker 1: into big personalities. Teren's obviously one two because she called
Speaker 1: the radio station, stole your number, and here we are. Hey,
Speaker 1: don't compare me to the other girl. We are nothing alike.
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to help you. He likes the other
Speaker 1: girl even though you don't, darn well. I mean we've
Speaker 1: only gone on one day, We're not exclusive or anything,
Speaker 1: so that would be open to a first date. He
Speaker 1: so yes? Hey? Is that a yes? I mean, as
Speaker 1: long as long as it's okay with her that I'm
Speaker 1: still going to be seeing Naomi. But I'm down Tarn.
Speaker 1: Now you have a battle on your hands. So you
Speaker 1: want to see if you can win Steve's heart from Naomi.
Speaker 1: How about we leave it at you go out on
Speaker 1: your date with her, and if you do so, happen
Speaker 1: to change your mind. I'll leave my phone number with
Speaker 1: the station here and you can call them and get
Speaker 1: my number. Okay, okay, So Steve, if you go out
Speaker 1: with you know, the girl you were originally a day
Speaker 1: with Nail. If you got with her and she's a
Speaker 1: which is what Terrence says, then you can call us
Speaker 1: and we'll give you Terrence number and you can go
Speaker 1: out with Terren. Okay, Steve, you know what, go out
Speaker 1: with her one more time, because I think it's all
Speaker 1: it's gonna take for you to open your eyes in
Speaker 1: real life that she is not right for you. Okay, confidence,
Speaker 1: all right, Wow, all right. You you are fiery, aren't
Speaker 1: you now? All of a sudden you're interested, Steve. Well,
Speaker 1: we'll have Terren's number here if you want to call us.
Speaker 1: All right, Okay, I'll see how this goes. I guess okay,
Speaker 1: I'll be waiting for that phone call of you telling
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