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<v Speaker 1>Second date Update. When you go out on a first

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody, you never know if there's somebody else

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<v Speaker 1>with you on that date. What there could be somebody

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<v Speaker 1>watching the entire time. Wait, someone that's not actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the date with you, or they could technically kind of

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<v Speaker 1>be on the date. I don't get it. Now that

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<v Speaker 1>you're thoroughly confused, let's talk to Tarana, who was on

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<v Speaker 1>a date that she wasn't really invited to. What it'll

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<v Speaker 1>make sense? Taran? What's up? How are you? Hey? I'm good?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? Oh my god, Taren, you just sound

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<v Speaker 1>like a stalker right now. Really, no, it's not like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what all stalkers say. This might actually be the

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<v Speaker 1>first time we're doing a second date update like this. Taren.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go ahead and let you tell the story. So

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<v Speaker 1>what do you want to do today with a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update? So I'm a waitress at an Italian restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>and I was serving a guy who was on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with someone else, but throughout the course of it.

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<v Speaker 1>He was really really nice. She was very sweet and

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<v Speaker 1>like cool, calm collected, and she was like a wannabe Kardashian.

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<v Speaker 1>She was really rude. She was rude to me. She

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<v Speaker 1>was snobby to him and everyone else around. And I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of interested in it. Oh my god. So you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of were on the date, like you never think

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<v Speaker 1>about that, but your server is actually on your date too.

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<v Speaker 1>They're experiencing some things with you. I just got to

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<v Speaker 1>kind of experience their whole date, and I saw how

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<v Speaker 1>everything was happening, and just watching it happened between them.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you give us some of the highlights of their

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<v Speaker 1>date before we move on too? You get in a

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<v Speaker 1>date with him. Honestly, I felt bad for him because

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<v Speaker 1>he was being very nice to her and he was

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<v Speaker 1>being very calm with her, while she would just go

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<v Speaker 1>on and on about herself. Anytime I came by or

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<v Speaker 1>even walked by, she was talking about herself, talking about

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<v Speaker 1>how amazing she is, talking about the men that she

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<v Speaker 1>has like messaging her and texting her, and sounded like

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<v Speaker 1>she's trying to make him jealous. She even at one

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<v Speaker 1>point said to him, She's like, I almost into outlet

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<v Speaker 1>you like, I wasn't sure if you're good enough for me.

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<v Speaker 1>She said that I'm serious, and what was his reaction?

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<v Speaker 1>Could you see his reaction? She just kind of chuckled,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, oh, he's but I hope you're

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<v Speaker 1>having a good time and she's like, oh, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>totally am, and to wait. Are you sure though that

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<v Speaker 1>he wasn't into it because although it's totally baffling to

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<v Speaker 1>me too, some guys like that. I mean, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>really know, but just reading his body language, if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>how like you can you can see two people together

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<v Speaker 1>and you're like, one person is totally not in this

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<v Speaker 1>and they work out. That's what I kept getting the

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<v Speaker 1>vibe of, Like, gud, he's trying to be really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>He's not a bad guy, and he doesn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>just up and leave her, but he was also not

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<v Speaker 1>into it. This MutS me that one of the best

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<v Speaker 1>things about being a waitress is being able to eavesdrop

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<v Speaker 1>on everybody's dates. I mean, Anne, get your own dates

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<v Speaker 1>off with the whole thing too, but I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>does kind of help. I mean you get to meet

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people that way. Yeah, I used to

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<v Speaker 1>wait tables a lot, and I would love it when

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<v Speaker 1>you get a couple who was in an argument. It

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<v Speaker 1>was so fun to experience the awkwardness of going up

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<v Speaker 1>to their table. I know they weren't in an argument,

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<v Speaker 1>but still she was being pretty crappy to him. It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like, yeah, she just talked about herself the whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>She's very extremely high maintenance and selfish. Did you have

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<v Speaker 1>any interaction with him? I did. She at one point

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<v Speaker 1>got up to go to the bathroom, So I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of saw that as my moment to kind of go

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<v Speaker 1>in and just make sure, you know, I wasn't being

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<v Speaker 1>creepy of like, hey, how are things going? Like with her?

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<v Speaker 1>It was, you know, everything, okay, how's dinner? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>any drinks and just kind of letting him know that

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<v Speaker 1>I was, you know, they're supportive, trying to be low

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<v Speaker 1>key about it, okay, all right? And did he seem interested?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you know, I just didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do anything to jeopardize my job or like tell her

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<v Speaker 1>off and be like you get out of hair. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he is a sweet man and you're being in a hole.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be awesome. Actually, I just told my manager,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to leave how did you get his phone number? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant I work in is more of a classier restaurant,

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<v Speaker 1>so you do need to make reservations. So his number

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<v Speaker 1>was in the reservation's book. Okay, now wait, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>stop you because now you're the one that's being a

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<v Speaker 1>little sketchy. Well, no, I'm not asking him to go out.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to know if he's even interested. Do

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<v Speaker 1>you think you'll even remember you? Well, that's where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of hoping you guys can help me out, if

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<v Speaker 1>you see, if he does, yeah, we'll probably have to

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<v Speaker 1>jog his memory with the actual date he was on.

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<v Speaker 1>So other than I want to be Kardashian, how could

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<v Speaker 1>I describe her when we call him? I mean, she's

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<v Speaker 1>really high maintenance. She had her makeup super super down,

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<v Speaker 1>her hair. Okay, but but he might not think that,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because he was on a day with her.

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<v Speaker 1>So what like just color hair? Yeah, something real quick,

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<v Speaker 1>So I could be like, hey, you went on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with this person. Do you remember? Um? She she

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<v Speaker 1>was short, for sure. Um, she had long blonde hair,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't all real. She obviously had extension. The

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<v Speaker 1>color didn't match perfectly. But it was blonde, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>She had like a really tight green dress, but it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't fit the restaurant. It was kind of tacky. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a little tracky. Okay, So I'm gonna say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember going out with a chick with really

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<v Speaker 1>bad extensions and a tacky green dress and an Italian restaurant?

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<v Speaker 1>You might remember that. Actually, I think it's a better

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<v Speaker 1>Did he say anything to you any left? Like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys flirt at all? I'm not really sure, like I

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<v Speaker 1>I you know, think them. I told him to have

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<v Speaker 1>a great night, and he was like, thank you, you

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<v Speaker 1>know you too, you know, thanks so much. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was I mean, he made eye contact with me. Not

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<v Speaker 1>everyone does that. So okay, okay, maybe he's into you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I know that this isn't the tradition an

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<v Speaker 1>all way of doing things, but I figure give it

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<v Speaker 1>a shot. Why not? Okay? Cool, Well, we'll play a

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<v Speaker 1>song and then come back and call him and see

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<v Speaker 1>if we can get you a date in sort of

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update. All right, we'll do it next time,

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<v Speaker 1>King jubil in the morning second date right in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a second date update. And if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us, today's second date update is a little different.

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<v Speaker 1>Taran is on the phone and she wants to call

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<v Speaker 1>a dude. I don't know do we even know his hey, Tarn,

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<v Speaker 1>do we even know his name? Yeah, it's Steve. It

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<v Speaker 1>was in the book, Okay, Steve, So his name is Steve.

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<v Speaker 1>Tarn was actually the waitress when Steve was on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with another girl, and Tarn witnessed the other girl

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<v Speaker 1>being kind of terrible to Steve. So after they left,

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<v Speaker 1>she actually got his number from the reservation book and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to call him and ask him out herself. So

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<v Speaker 1>it's sort of a second day update that she was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of on their date because she was the waitress,

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<v Speaker 1>but not really. So this is going to be an

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<v Speaker 1>interesting phone call for Steve. And do you want us

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<v Speaker 1>to focus on the girl he was with or do

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<v Speaker 1>you want us to just tell him that you waited

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<v Speaker 1>on him and thought he was cute and want to

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<v Speaker 1>ask him out. Um? I kind of want to just

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<v Speaker 1>ignore that girl and get past her. Okay, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>good idea. Now, what do you want us to say

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<v Speaker 1>if he's totally creeped out that his waitress stole his

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<v Speaker 1>number from the reservation's book. I feel like he's cool

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<v Speaker 1>enough to just like go with it and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>feel it out and see where it goes. Yeah you

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<v Speaker 1>think that, but you don't know him. He didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>have any conversations together. Well, I guess if it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>go well, then I can just lie and say he

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<v Speaker 1>forgot something at the restaurant or something. Okay, Lla somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>if we can figure out a life for you if

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't work. But I'm gonna call him right now. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Steve? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this Steve? What's up? Man? How are you? This

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<v Speaker 1>is jew from the radio show Brook and Jewel in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Okay have you ever heard of it before? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you have? Okay, Sweet? You ever listen? Uh? Sometimes?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ever hear of a second date update before?

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<v Speaker 1>Um'm not sure? Why are you calling me? So we

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<v Speaker 1>do a segment on our show. It's called the second

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<v Speaker 1>date Update. That's where if you go out on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with somebody and then they end up not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back after, you can email us and we'll get

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<v Speaker 1>that person on the phone and ask what happened. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're calling you about a date that I went on. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you went out to an Italian place a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>ago with a girl in a green dress, blonde girl, short, Naomi.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's her name, I just was

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<v Speaker 1>given the description. Is that Is that her name? Naomi?

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<v Speaker 1>That's who you went out with? Yeah, that's her name.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm I'm confused because we have another date lined up. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that that makes sense to me? What makes sense to you?

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<v Speaker 1>But she she's not the one who wanted us to

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<v Speaker 1>call you? Okay, yeah, so why did we bring her up?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, these are all this is weird. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a weird one, even for us. Yeah, I'm confused. I've

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<v Speaker 1>killed happening. So when you went out with that Naomi girl,

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<v Speaker 1>your server actually noticed you and thought that you were

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<v Speaker 1>really cute and wanted us to call you. Okay, do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember her? Do you remember her? That was a

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<v Speaker 1>good laugh. I knew. Okay, So you know who we're

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<v Speaker 1>talking about? The woman who served you that night when

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<v Speaker 1>you were out on that other date. Yeah, I remember her. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think of her? She was professional, she

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<v Speaker 1>was nice. I don't think she was very professional. I

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<v Speaker 1>would argue with that. Did you think she was maybe cute. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think, so, I don't really remember I was one

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<v Speaker 1>the dates or I wasn't really paying attention to them. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you're one of those guys who pays attention to your

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<v Speaker 1>date and there's a lessing after the waitress the whole

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<v Speaker 1>time whatever her. Yeah, I guess I don't really get

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<v Speaker 1>what the point of this is. Why why are you

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<v Speaker 1>asking me all these questions? Well, I'll just tell you, okay. So, Taran,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the name of your waitress that night. She thought

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<v Speaker 1>you were attractive and she wanted to meet you, like

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<v Speaker 1>outside of the restaurant. Yeah, romantically, Okay, And she's actually

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now listening to this conversation and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. She's on the phone now, Hey, Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>it's Taren. Hi. Hi, how is it going. This is weird.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know, it's super weird. I just I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to get in contact with you. I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to reach out, so this is kind of the only

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<v Speaker 1>way I could think of doing it. Oh my god, awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you remember me for real? Or just saying that, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember you? Okay. I just saw like the whole

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<v Speaker 1>interaction between you and your date that night, and I

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<v Speaker 1>just you just seem like a really sweet and nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>And the way that she was acting just throughout the

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<v Speaker 1>night seemed like her saying that she wasn't sure if

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<v Speaker 1>you were good enough for her. I feel like you're

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<v Speaker 1>way too good for her, and you deserve somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>isn't completely high maintenance and into themselves. Twenty four seven. Whoa,

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<v Speaker 1>ohoh you were really paying attention? Huh Well, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>yeah I was. You know, you guys were one of

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<v Speaker 1>my tables that I was taking care of. But it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't hard. I mean, you couldn't really ignore it. She's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty loud about a lot of the things, especially when

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<v Speaker 1>like her food came out. Her pasta came out and

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<v Speaker 1>she sent it back twice because the first time it

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<v Speaker 1>was too salty and then the second time it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>salty enough. It's just it's like she finds reason to

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<v Speaker 1>be difficult. Maybe she has like a diet thing with

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<v Speaker 1>the pasta. I mean, I don't want to jump to

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<v Speaker 1>any conclusions. She's just I think she's just particular about

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<v Speaker 1>certain things like that, about certain things. So wait, did

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<v Speaker 1>you enjoy your date with Naomi Steve? Yeah? Yeah, Look,

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<v Speaker 1>you said, you got another date set up, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we're hanging out next week. You're going out with her

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<v Speaker 1>again after that whole debacle debacle. I mean, it was

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<v Speaker 1>the first date, so I thought it went pretty well.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not gonna be perfect for a first date.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, Like, I don't know you or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but just from the what I what I saw and

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<v Speaker 1>what I do know of that time, is that you're

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<v Speaker 1>really nice and no one should be treated the way

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<v Speaker 1>that she was treating you through that entire dinner. You

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<v Speaker 1>deserve way better than that. Well, thank you, But I

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<v Speaker 1>think that you were just seeing it in a different way.

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<v Speaker 1>She's she's she's a nice person. She is. Yeah, Taren,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I thought you were going to stay away

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<v Speaker 1>from talking about his dates. I mean, I'm sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>know I thought I wasn't going to do that, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she in the middle of this whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>yelled out at him, aren't you gay? Like what what

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<v Speaker 1>do you see in this person? Who? I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>dressed really well. People make that mistake sometimes, So yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't offended. She doesn't sound like she was very

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<v Speaker 1>nice to you. She say she's like a big personality.

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<v Speaker 1>She's just she harmless, she has a big personality, She's

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<v Speaker 1>super into herself. He doesn't really care about anyone else

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<v Speaker 1>around her unless they're giving her all of the attention.

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<v Speaker 1>And I know that I'm maybe stepping over my boundary cheer,

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<v Speaker 1>but I feel like somebody's going to step in and

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<v Speaker 1>be like, you gotta wake up, man, Like she is

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<v Speaker 1>not right for you. She is not a good person,

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<v Speaker 1>and you deserve so much more than that, like a

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<v Speaker 1>hundred percent more than that. Thank you for saying that.

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<v Speaker 1>So wait, I'm confused. Does that ring true for you,

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<v Speaker 1>see I? Or is Taren just coming off like she's

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<v Speaker 1>attacking to your ta to be kind of crazy? No,

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<v Speaker 1>as I said, she has a big personality. I could

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<v Speaker 1>see why someone would see that. But I'm kind of

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<v Speaker 1>more of like a easygoing, laid back kind of guy,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm kind of attracted to that in Naomi, I guess. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I can understand on some level of like

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<v Speaker 1>opposite attracts, but you don't need to be completely put

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<v Speaker 1>down by the other person in order to have that.

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<v Speaker 1>And you be really nice. I really think that you're

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<v Speaker 1>a nice, sweet guy. You're really attractive. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>understand what you see in someone like her, who is

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<v Speaker 1>completely selfish and into themselves only. And I just I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to do this super weird thing. I know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>like completely different, but I just wanted to give it

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<v Speaker 1>a shot and see if you wanted to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with me. Yeah, Steve, would you like to go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Tarn on a first date? It's kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>second date because you didn't even know you were being

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<v Speaker 1>watched while you were on your date. But would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out with Taren on a date? We'll

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it, I mean, I will say. If you're

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<v Speaker 1>into big personalities. Teren's obviously one two because she called

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<v Speaker 1>the radio station, stole your number, and here we are. Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>don't compare me to the other girl. We are nothing alike.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just trying to help you. He likes the other

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<v Speaker 1>girl even though you don't, darn well. I mean we've

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<v Speaker 1>only gone on one day, We're not exclusive or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>so that would be open to a first date. He

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<v Speaker 1>so yes? Hey? Is that a yes? I mean, as

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<v Speaker 1>long as long as it's okay with her that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>still going to be seeing Naomi. But I'm down Tarn.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you have a battle on your hands. So you

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<v Speaker 1>want to see if you can win Steve's heart from Naomi.

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<v Speaker 1>How about we leave it at you go out on

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<v Speaker 1>your date with her, and if you do so, happen

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<v Speaker 1>to change your mind. I'll leave my phone number with

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<v Speaker 1>the station here and you can call them and get

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<v Speaker 1>my number. Okay, okay, So Steve, if you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with you know, the girl you were originally a day

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<v Speaker 1>with Nail. If you got with her and she's a

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<v Speaker 1>which is what Terrence says, then you can call us

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll give you Terrence number and you can go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Terren. Okay, Steve, you know what, go out

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<v Speaker 1>with her one more time, because I think it's all

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna take for you to open your eyes in

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<v Speaker 1>real life that she is not right for you. Okay, confidence,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Wow, all right. You you are fiery, aren't

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<v Speaker 1>you now? All of a sudden you're interested, Steve. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we'll have Terren's number here if you want to call us.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Okay, I'll see how this goes. I guess okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be waiting for that phone call of you telling

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<v Speaker 1>me I told you so broken Jupil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been moving Cone's Donald Chubble with me