1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:03,160 Speaker 1: Need Lasic trust the experienced team at the Lasic Center 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 1: What will you do? Lasik at Evergreen dot com Rooking Jewels. 4 00:00:14,320 --> 00:00:17,640 Speaker 1: Second date Update. When you go out on a first 5 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 1: date with somebody, you never know if there's somebody else 6 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 1: with you on that date. What there could be somebody 7 00:00:24,200 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 1: watching the entire time. Wait, someone that's not actually on 8 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:29,920 Speaker 1: the date with you, or they could technically kind of 9 00:00:29,920 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: be on the date. I don't get it. Now that 10 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 1: you're thoroughly confused, let's talk to Tarana, who was on 11 00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: a date that she wasn't really invited to. What it'll 12 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,599 Speaker 1: make sense? Taran? What's up? How are you? Hey? I'm good? 13 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: How are you? Oh my god, Taren, you just sound 14 00:00:45,560 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 1: like a stalker right now. Really, no, it's not like that. 15 00:00:49,960 --> 00:00:52,600 Speaker 1: That's what all stalkers say. This might actually be the 16 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:54,640 Speaker 1: first time we're doing a second date update like this. Taren. 17 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:56,560 Speaker 1: I'll go ahead and let you tell the story. So 18 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 1: what do you want to do today with a second 19 00:00:58,040 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 1: date update? So I'm a waitress at an Italian restaurant 20 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:04,959 Speaker 1: and I was serving a guy who was on a 21 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 1: date with someone else, but throughout the course of it. 22 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:11,839 Speaker 1: He was really really nice. She was very sweet and 23 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: like cool, calm collected, and she was like a wannabe Kardashian. 24 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: She was really rude. She was rude to me. She 25 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:24,959 Speaker 1: was snobby to him and everyone else around. And I'm 26 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:28,280 Speaker 1: kind of interested in it. Oh my god. So you 27 00:01:28,440 --> 00:01:30,160 Speaker 1: kind of were on the date, like you never think 28 00:01:30,200 --> 00:01:32,200 Speaker 1: about that, but your server is actually on your date too. 29 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,200 Speaker 1: They're experiencing some things with you. I just got to 30 00:01:35,280 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: kind of experience their whole date, and I saw how 31 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: everything was happening, and just watching it happened between them. 32 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: Can you give us some of the highlights of their 33 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: date before we move on too? You get in a 34 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,559 Speaker 1: date with him. Honestly, I felt bad for him because 35 00:01:48,720 --> 00:01:52,680 Speaker 1: he was being very nice to her and he was 36 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:56,920 Speaker 1: being very calm with her, while she would just go 37 00:01:57,560 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: on and on about herself. Anytime I came by or 38 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:05,000 Speaker 1: even walked by, she was talking about herself, talking about 39 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: how amazing she is, talking about the men that she 40 00:02:08,320 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 1: has like messaging her and texting her, and sounded like 41 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,919 Speaker 1: she's trying to make him jealous. She even at one 42 00:02:15,960 --> 00:02:19,639 Speaker 1: point said to him, She's like, I almost into outlet 43 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: you like, I wasn't sure if you're good enough for me. 44 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: She said that I'm serious, and what was his reaction? 45 00:02:27,880 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: Could you see his reaction? She just kind of chuckled, 46 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,639 Speaker 1: and he was like, oh, he's but I hope you're 47 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 1: having a good time and she's like, oh, yeah, I 48 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 1: totally am, and to wait. Are you sure though that 49 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,520 Speaker 1: he wasn't into it because although it's totally baffling to 50 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,800 Speaker 1: me too, some guys like that. I mean, I don't 51 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:48,080 Speaker 1: really know, but just reading his body language, if you know, 52 00:02:48,120 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 1: how like you can you can see two people together 53 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: and you're like, one person is totally not in this 54 00:02:52,120 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 1: and they work out. That's what I kept getting the 55 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:57,280 Speaker 1: vibe of, Like, gud, he's trying to be really nice. 56 00:02:57,320 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: He's not a bad guy, and he doesn't want to 57 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: just up and leave her, but he was also not 58 00:03:02,800 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: into it. This MutS me that one of the best 59 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,080 Speaker 1: things about being a waitress is being able to eavesdrop 60 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: on everybody's dates. I mean, Anne, get your own dates 61 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:12,120 Speaker 1: off with the whole thing too, but I mean it 62 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: does kind of help. I mean you get to meet 63 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: a lot of people that way. Yeah, I used to 64 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:17,359 Speaker 1: wait tables a lot, and I would love it when 65 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:19,240 Speaker 1: you get a couple who was in an argument. It 66 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:22,680 Speaker 1: was so fun to experience the awkwardness of going up 67 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: to their table. I know they weren't in an argument, 68 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 1: but still she was being pretty crappy to him. It 69 00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:29,560 Speaker 1: sounds like, yeah, she just talked about herself the whole time. 70 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:35,240 Speaker 1: She's very extremely high maintenance and selfish. Did you have 71 00:03:35,280 --> 00:03:38,680 Speaker 1: any interaction with him? I did. She at one point 72 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:40,520 Speaker 1: got up to go to the bathroom, So I kind 73 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 1: of saw that as my moment to kind of go 74 00:03:43,440 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: in and just make sure, you know, I wasn't being 75 00:03:45,720 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: creepy of like, hey, how are things going? Like with her? 76 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: It was, you know, everything, okay, how's dinner? You know, 77 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 1: any drinks and just kind of letting him know that 78 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: I was, you know, they're supportive, trying to be low 79 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: key about it, okay, all right? And did he seem interested? 80 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: I don't know, you know, I just didn't want to 81 00:04:03,120 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: do anything to jeopardize my job or like tell her 82 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: off and be like you get out of hair. Yeah, 83 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 1: he is a sweet man and you're being in a hole. 84 00:04:13,200 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 1: That would be awesome. Actually, I just told my manager, 85 00:04:16,960 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: you have to leave how did you get his phone number? Well, 86 00:04:20,080 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 1: the restaurant I work in is more of a classier restaurant, 87 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,839 Speaker 1: so you do need to make reservations. So his number 88 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:30,119 Speaker 1: was in the reservation's book. Okay, now wait, I'm gonna 89 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: stop you because now you're the one that's being a 90 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:36,040 Speaker 1: little sketchy. Well, no, I'm not asking him to go out. 91 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: I just want to know if he's even interested. Do 92 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 1: you think you'll even remember you? Well, that's where I'm 93 00:04:41,760 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: kind of hoping you guys can help me out, if 94 00:04:43,640 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: you see, if he does, yeah, we'll probably have to 95 00:04:45,839 --> 00:04:48,800 Speaker 1: jog his memory with the actual date he was on. 96 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: So other than I want to be Kardashian, how could 97 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 1: I describe her when we call him? I mean, she's 98 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 1: really high maintenance. She had her makeup super super down, 99 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 1: her hair. Okay, but but he might not think that, 100 00:04:59,120 --> 00:05:00,360 Speaker 1: you know, because he was on a day with her. 101 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 1: So what like just color hair? Yeah, something real quick, 102 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: So I could be like, hey, you went on a 103 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 1: date with this person. Do you remember? Um? She she 104 00:05:10,240 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 1: was short, for sure. Um, she had long blonde hair, 105 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: but it wasn't all real. She obviously had extension. The 106 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: color didn't match perfectly. But it was blonde, all right. 107 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 1: She had like a really tight green dress, but it 108 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,039 Speaker 1: didn't fit the restaurant. It was kind of tacky. It 109 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 1: was a little tracky. Okay, So I'm gonna say, hey, 110 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: do you remember going out with a chick with really 111 00:05:34,760 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: bad extensions and a tacky green dress and an Italian restaurant? 112 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 1: You might remember that. Actually, I think it's a better 113 00:05:40,640 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: Did he say anything to you any left? Like you 114 00:05:42,080 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 1: guys flirt at all? I'm not really sure, like I 115 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 1: I you know, think them. I told him to have 116 00:05:46,640 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: a great night, and he was like, thank you, you 117 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: know you too, you know, thanks so much. So it 118 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:53,120 Speaker 1: was I mean, he made eye contact with me. Not 119 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:57,760 Speaker 1: everyone does that. So okay, okay, maybe he's into you. 120 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 1: I mean I know that this isn't the tradition an 121 00:06:00,160 --> 00:06:03,760 Speaker 1: all way of doing things, but I figure give it 122 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,599 Speaker 1: a shot. Why not? Okay? Cool, Well, we'll play a 123 00:06:06,640 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: song and then come back and call him and see 124 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 1: if we can get you a date in sort of 125 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 1: a second date update. All right, we'll do it next time, 126 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 1: King jubil in the morning second date right in the 127 00:06:22,040 --> 00:06:23,640 Speaker 1: middle of a second date update. And if you're just 128 00:06:23,720 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: joining us, today's second date update is a little different. 129 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: Taran is on the phone and she wants to call 130 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: a dude. I don't know do we even know his hey, Tarn, 131 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: do we even know his name? Yeah, it's Steve. It 132 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: was in the book, Okay, Steve, So his name is Steve. 133 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 1: Tarn was actually the waitress when Steve was on a 134 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 1: date with another girl, and Tarn witnessed the other girl 135 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,919 Speaker 1: being kind of terrible to Steve. So after they left, 136 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: she actually got his number from the reservation book and 137 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: wants to call him and ask him out herself. So 138 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: it's sort of a second day update that she was 139 00:06:56,440 --> 00:06:58,239 Speaker 1: kind of on their date because she was the waitress, 140 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 1: but not really. So this is going to be an 141 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: interesting phone call for Steve. And do you want us 142 00:07:03,520 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 1: to focus on the girl he was with or do 143 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:07,200 Speaker 1: you want us to just tell him that you waited 144 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:08,480 Speaker 1: on him and thought he was cute and want to 145 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: ask him out. Um? I kind of want to just 146 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:14,720 Speaker 1: ignore that girl and get past her. Okay, that's a 147 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: good idea. Now, what do you want us to say 148 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:20,360 Speaker 1: if he's totally creeped out that his waitress stole his 149 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,480 Speaker 1: number from the reservation's book. I feel like he's cool 150 00:07:23,600 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: enough to just like go with it and kind of 151 00:07:25,520 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: feel it out and see where it goes. Yeah you 152 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: think that, but you don't know him. He didn't really 153 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: have any conversations together. Well, I guess if it doesn't 154 00:07:35,880 --> 00:07:37,280 Speaker 1: go well, then I can just lie and say he 155 00:07:37,360 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 1: forgot something at the restaurant or something. Okay, Lla somewhere 156 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:43,640 Speaker 1: if we can figure out a life for you if 157 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:46,080 Speaker 1: it doesn't work. But I'm gonna call him right now. Okay, okay, 158 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello. Hi, is this Steve? Yes? 159 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 1: Who's this Steve? What's up? Man? How are you? This 160 00:07:59,560 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: is jew from the radio show Brook and Jewel in 161 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: the Morning. Okay have you ever heard of it before? Yeah? 162 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: Oh you have? Okay, Sweet? You ever listen? Uh? Sometimes? 163 00:08:14,400 --> 00:08:16,000 Speaker 1: Do you ever hear of a second date update before? 164 00:08:17,160 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 1: Um'm not sure? Why are you calling me? So we 165 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,880 Speaker 1: do a segment on our show. It's called the second 166 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:23,320 Speaker 1: date Update. That's where if you go out on a 167 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:25,920 Speaker 1: date with somebody and then they end up not calling 168 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: you back after, you can email us and we'll get 169 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:31,840 Speaker 1: that person on the phone and ask what happened. Okay, 170 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,679 Speaker 1: So you're calling you about a date that I went on. Yeah, 171 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:38,600 Speaker 1: you went out to an Italian place a little bit 172 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:45,040 Speaker 1: ago with a girl in a green dress, blonde girl, short, Naomi. 173 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's her name, I just was 174 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: given the description. Is that Is that her name? Naomi? 175 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:53,319 Speaker 1: That's who you went out with? Yeah, that's her name. 176 00:08:53,360 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: But I'm I'm confused because we have another date lined up. Yeah, no, 177 00:08:59,080 --> 00:09:01,280 Speaker 1: that that makes sense to me? What makes sense to you? 178 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: But she she's not the one who wanted us to 179 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 1: call you? Okay, yeah, so why did we bring her up? 180 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,439 Speaker 1: I mean, these are all this is weird. This is 181 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 1: a weird one, even for us. Yeah, I'm confused. I've 182 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:16,960 Speaker 1: killed happening. So when you went out with that Naomi girl, 183 00:09:17,280 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: your server actually noticed you and thought that you were 184 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: really cute and wanted us to call you. Okay, do 185 00:09:24,360 --> 00:09:26,560 Speaker 1: you remember her? Do you remember her? That was a 186 00:09:26,559 --> 00:09:31,839 Speaker 1: good laugh. I knew. Okay, So you know who we're 187 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:33,720 Speaker 1: talking about? The woman who served you that night when 188 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: you were out on that other date. Yeah, I remember her. Okay, 189 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: what do you think of her? She was professional, she 190 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:44,760 Speaker 1: was nice. I don't think she was very professional. I 191 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 1: would argue with that. Did you think she was maybe cute. Uh, 192 00:09:50,520 --> 00:09:52,320 Speaker 1: I think, so, I don't really remember I was one 193 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:54,719 Speaker 1: the dates or I wasn't really paying attention to them. Oh, 194 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: you're one of those guys who pays attention to your 195 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,800 Speaker 1: date and there's a lessing after the waitress the whole 196 00:09:58,800 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 1: time whatever her. Yeah, I guess I don't really get 197 00:10:03,440 --> 00:10:05,439 Speaker 1: what the point of this is. Why why are you 198 00:10:05,520 --> 00:10:09,480 Speaker 1: asking me all these questions? Well, I'll just tell you, okay. So, Taran, 199 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,200 Speaker 1: that's the name of your waitress that night. She thought 200 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: you were attractive and she wanted to meet you, like 201 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:21,160 Speaker 1: outside of the restaurant. Yeah, romantically, Okay, And she's actually 202 00:10:21,200 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: on the phone right now listening to this conversation and 203 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. She's on the phone now, Hey, Steve, 204 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:39,640 Speaker 1: it's Taren. Hi. Hi, how is it going. This is weird. 205 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: I know, I know, it's super weird. I just I 206 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 1: just wanted to get in contact with you. I wanted 207 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:50,240 Speaker 1: to reach out, so this is kind of the only 208 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: way I could think of doing it. Oh my god, awkward. 209 00:10:56,000 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 1: Do you remember me for real? Or just saying that, No, 210 00:11:00,480 --> 00:11:04,839 Speaker 1: I remember you? Okay. I just saw like the whole 211 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:09,120 Speaker 1: interaction between you and your date that night, and I 212 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:13,160 Speaker 1: just you just seem like a really sweet and nice guy. 213 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: And the way that she was acting just throughout the 214 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:21,560 Speaker 1: night seemed like her saying that she wasn't sure if 215 00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: you were good enough for her. I feel like you're 216 00:11:24,040 --> 00:11:28,319 Speaker 1: way too good for her, and you deserve somebody who 217 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:33,280 Speaker 1: isn't completely high maintenance and into themselves. Twenty four seven. Whoa, 218 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:37,719 Speaker 1: ohoh you were really paying attention? Huh Well, I mean 219 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: yeah I was. You know, you guys were one of 220 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 1: my tables that I was taking care of. But it 221 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: wasn't hard. I mean, you couldn't really ignore it. She's 222 00:11:44,840 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 1: pretty loud about a lot of the things, especially when 223 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:50,040 Speaker 1: like her food came out. Her pasta came out and 224 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 1: she sent it back twice because the first time it 225 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:55,400 Speaker 1: was too salty and then the second time it wasn't 226 00:11:55,440 --> 00:12:00,040 Speaker 1: salty enough. It's just it's like she finds reason to 227 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 1: be difficult. Maybe she has like a diet thing with 228 00:12:04,600 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 1: the pasta. I mean, I don't want to jump to 229 00:12:06,360 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: any conclusions. She's just I think she's just particular about 230 00:12:10,400 --> 00:12:14,079 Speaker 1: certain things like that, about certain things. So wait, did 231 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 1: you enjoy your date with Naomi Steve? Yeah? Yeah, Look, 232 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: you said, you got another date set up, right, Yeah, 233 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 1: we're hanging out next week. You're going out with her 234 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:29,680 Speaker 1: again after that whole debacle debacle. I mean, it was 235 00:12:29,679 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 1: the first date, so I thought it went pretty well. 236 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:34,480 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not gonna be perfect for a first date. 237 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,840 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, Like, I don't know you or anything, 238 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:42,839 Speaker 1: but just from the what I what I saw and 239 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:46,040 Speaker 1: what I do know of that time, is that you're 240 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:48,559 Speaker 1: really nice and no one should be treated the way 241 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,520 Speaker 1: that she was treating you through that entire dinner. You 242 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:55,600 Speaker 1: deserve way better than that. Well, thank you, But I 243 00:12:55,640 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 1: think that you were just seeing it in a different way. 244 00:12:57,640 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: She's she's she's a nice person. She is. Yeah, Taren, 245 00:13:01,240 --> 00:13:03,240 Speaker 1: I don't I thought you were going to stay away 246 00:13:03,280 --> 00:13:06,719 Speaker 1: from talking about his dates. I mean, I'm sorry, I 247 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 1: know I thought I wasn't going to do that, but 248 00:13:09,000 --> 00:13:11,600 Speaker 1: I mean she in the middle of this whole thing, 249 00:13:11,960 --> 00:13:16,599 Speaker 1: yelled out at him, aren't you gay? Like what what 250 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: do you see in this person? Who? I mean, I 251 00:13:22,080 --> 00:13:27,000 Speaker 1: dressed really well. People make that mistake sometimes, So yeah, 252 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:30,440 Speaker 1: I wasn't offended. She doesn't sound like she was very 253 00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:33,640 Speaker 1: nice to you. She say she's like a big personality. 254 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: She's just she harmless, she has a big personality, She's 255 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: super into herself. He doesn't really care about anyone else 256 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,720 Speaker 1: around her unless they're giving her all of the attention. 257 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: And I know that I'm maybe stepping over my boundary cheer, 258 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,440 Speaker 1: but I feel like somebody's going to step in and 259 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 1: be like, you gotta wake up, man, Like she is 260 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:57,840 Speaker 1: not right for you. She is not a good person, 261 00:13:57,960 --> 00:14:00,439 Speaker 1: and you deserve so much more than that, like a 262 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 1: hundred percent more than that. Thank you for saying that. 263 00:14:05,520 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: So wait, I'm confused. Does that ring true for you, 264 00:14:09,040 --> 00:14:12,240 Speaker 1: see I? Or is Taren just coming off like she's 265 00:14:12,240 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 1: attacking to your ta to be kind of crazy? No, 266 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,520 Speaker 1: as I said, she has a big personality. I could 267 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 1: see why someone would see that. But I'm kind of 268 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 1: more of like a easygoing, laid back kind of guy, 269 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:27,840 Speaker 1: So I'm kind of attracted to that in Naomi, I guess. So, 270 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I can understand on some level of like 271 00:14:31,320 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: opposite attracts, but you don't need to be completely put 272 00:14:34,680 --> 00:14:37,440 Speaker 1: down by the other person in order to have that. 273 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 1: And you be really nice. I really think that you're 274 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:46,240 Speaker 1: a nice, sweet guy. You're really attractive. I just don't 275 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 1: understand what you see in someone like her, who is 276 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:55,560 Speaker 1: completely selfish and into themselves only. And I just I 277 00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,640 Speaker 1: wanted to do this super weird thing. I know, it's 278 00:14:57,680 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 1: like completely different, but I just wanted to give it 279 00:14:59,680 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 1: a shot and see if you wanted to go out 280 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: with me. Yeah, Steve, would you like to go out 281 00:15:04,000 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: with Tarn on a first date? It's kind of a 282 00:15:06,160 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 1: second date because you didn't even know you were being 283 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: watched while you were on your date. But would you 284 00:15:09,920 --> 00:15:11,200 Speaker 1: like to go out with Taren on a date? We'll 285 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:13,000 Speaker 1: pay for it, I mean, I will say. If you're 286 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:16,480 Speaker 1: into big personalities. Teren's obviously one two because she called 287 00:15:16,480 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 1: the radio station, stole your number, and here we are. Hey, 288 00:15:21,000 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 1: don't compare me to the other girl. We are nothing alike. 289 00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to help you. He likes the other 290 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 1: girl even though you don't, darn well. I mean we've 291 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 1: only gone on one day, We're not exclusive or anything, 292 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,920 Speaker 1: so that would be open to a first date. He 293 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,240 Speaker 1: so yes? Hey? Is that a yes? I mean, as 294 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:41,920 Speaker 1: long as long as it's okay with her that I'm 295 00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:46,240 Speaker 1: still going to be seeing Naomi. But I'm down Tarn. 296 00:15:46,320 --> 00:15:47,640 Speaker 1: Now you have a battle on your hands. So you 297 00:15:47,640 --> 00:15:50,920 Speaker 1: want to see if you can win Steve's heart from Naomi. 298 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:53,960 Speaker 1: How about we leave it at you go out on 299 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: your date with her, and if you do so, happen 300 00:15:56,640 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 1: to change your mind. I'll leave my phone number with 301 00:15:59,240 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: the station here and you can call them and get 302 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:05,480 Speaker 1: my number. Okay, okay, So Steve, if you go out 303 00:16:05,480 --> 00:16:07,360 Speaker 1: with you know, the girl you were originally a day 304 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: with Nail. If you got with her and she's a 305 00:16:10,800 --> 00:16:13,600 Speaker 1: which is what Terrence says, then you can call us 306 00:16:13,600 --> 00:16:15,000 Speaker 1: and we'll give you Terrence number and you can go 307 00:16:15,040 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 1: out with Terren. Okay, Steve, you know what, go out 308 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: with her one more time, because I think it's all 309 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: it's gonna take for you to open your eyes in 310 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:26,479 Speaker 1: real life that she is not right for you. Okay, confidence, 311 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:30,040 Speaker 1: all right, Wow, all right. You you are fiery, aren't 312 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:32,880 Speaker 1: you now? All of a sudden you're interested, Steve. Well, 313 00:16:33,200 --> 00:16:35,280 Speaker 1: we'll have Terren's number here if you want to call us. 314 00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:39,160 Speaker 1: All right, Okay, I'll see how this goes. I guess okay, 315 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: I'll be waiting for that phone call of you telling 316 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 1: me I told you so broken Jupil in the morning. 317 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 1: I've been moving Cone's Donald Chubble with me