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Speaker 1: he was saying, like, my wife who passed away is

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Speaker 1: it just really creeped me out. Did you say anything

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Speaker 1: I think he just needs to take some time, Stacy.

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Speaker 1: I hate to get weird on you too, but there

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Speaker 1: What do you mean? I mean that Darren is actually

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? No, I'm not. Hey, look I'm

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Speaker 1: It's like my uncle passed away last year, and I

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Speaker 1: Darren one more time? I will pay for a second date. No,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I appreciate it. I appreciate your time. But now, okay, Well,

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Speaker 1: out a nice evening dress, don't I. Darren, you better

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