WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Cat's Got Your Couch

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<v Speaker 1>The second date of day.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a well documented fact on this show that Brooke

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<v Speaker 2>does not respect people who ride the bus a kids.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to say that she thinks they're beneath her.

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<v Speaker 2>She just definitely doesn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Think that they're on her level. That's probably the best

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<v Speaker 1>way to put it.

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like Jeffrey is always putting his own feelings

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<v Speaker 3>on me.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm just saying I'm a little bit worried for

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<v Speaker 2>this call because we have a woman on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>who apparently rides the bus to work all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>And Brooke, I know it's probably too much for me

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<v Speaker 2>to ask you to be non judgmental doing this, but

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<v Speaker 2>can you at least try and keep it civil and

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<v Speaker 2>not spit on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Floor when I say her name?

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<v Speaker 2>Although you know what, there is probably usually spitting bodily

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<v Speaker 2>fluids on the floor of the bus, So maybe make

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<v Speaker 2>her feel like she's at home. Let's welcome Tricia to

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<v Speaker 2>the show. Tricia, how you doing?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm doing well? How are you guys doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Terrible intro? Tricia, You riding the bus is just fine?

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<v Speaker 5>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you hear how? She said? That was such distain?

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<v Speaker 1>It's fine? Her publicist told her she has to be

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<v Speaker 1>like nicer.

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<v Speaker 3>Boyfriends that only rode the bus.

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<v Speaker 1>She broke up with all of them immediately. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>tell you that.

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<v Speaker 2>But Tricia, we're gonna we're gonna try our best to

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<v Speaker 2>be on your side. Here, tell us about why you

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<v Speaker 2>emailed for a second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Update. Who'd you go out with?

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<v Speaker 4>All right? So his name is Dave. I met him

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<v Speaker 4>on the bus. So what happened was sometimes I'll see

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<v Speaker 4>the same kind of characters on the bus every day,

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<v Speaker 4>but this guy hadn't met before. He sat next to me.

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<v Speaker 4>Didn't think much of it, but then the bus had

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<v Speaker 4>like some kind of problem the engine. I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>what it was, but.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook cut the wires, so the bus stall.

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<v Speaker 4>We were hanging out there, so of course, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>we start talking to each other. Next to me, I

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<v Speaker 4>seemed like a really nice guy. He's like, listen, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>already late for work. Let's just go meet up for coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>I like that instead of I'm already late for work,

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<v Speaker 3>we should call, you know, somebody to come get us.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's just screw it, right, And I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>he seems lovely, and so anyway, we go to the coffee.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just a quick thing. But we get we get

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<v Speaker 4>our cups of coffee, We exchange numbers.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so it was like more than just a friendship.

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<v Speaker 4>Saying yeah, I mean I felt like, why would he

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<v Speaker 4>give me his number otherwise or asked me to coffee?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you do that like romantic thing where you guys

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<v Speaker 2>sip out of each other's coffee cups? We did not,

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<v Speaker 2>Or you do that thing where you interlock your arms

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<v Speaker 2>and take a sip, hoping.

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<v Speaker 3>Not just feel scalding hot coffee down side.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't expect Brook to understand what romance looks like,

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<v Speaker 2>but I did you guys not pull that move?

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<v Speaker 4>We did not pull that move.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I think the next question is did he call you?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you guys go out again? They exchange numbers Jeffrey, Oh, okay, sure,

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<v Speaker 3>go ahead, And that's that where that goes.

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<v Speaker 4>Here's we're ridiculed to the meat. So I'm like, how's

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<v Speaker 4>your week been. We're talking, and he's like, yeah, I've

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<v Speaker 4>just been really busy. I'm planning this estate sale. I

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<v Speaker 4>have a lot of stuff to get rid of. I've

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<v Speaker 4>got friends helping me. And I was actually like, you

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<v Speaker 4>know what, I actually in the market for a couch, right, know,

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<v Speaker 4>my cat's destroyed my old one. And I'm like, do

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<v Speaker 4>you buy any chance to have a couch. He's like,

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<v Speaker 4>I do as a matter of fact, and he goes,

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<v Speaker 4>just come pick it up. I'm going to charge you

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<v Speaker 4>for it. If you like it, you can just have it.

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<v Speaker 3>Get a free couch. Other deal sweet?

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<v Speaker 4>Right, And at this point I don't know what the

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<v Speaker 4>couch looks like or anything, but we went to a

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<v Speaker 4>bar together. He showed me pictures on the phone. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>this is perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like a hot date showing each other couch pictures.

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<v Speaker 3>It's kind of like a two for one deal, right,

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<v Speaker 3>just getting a hot date and a free couch.

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<v Speaker 1>Did it pass your eye test?

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<v Speaker 4>You mean the guy or the couch, because both did.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh more than just sit on that couch when you

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<v Speaker 2>go pick it up? So did you go get it?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>You think?

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<v Speaker 4>So I go to his house. I said, sure, I'll

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<v Speaker 4>take it. I just need some way to get at home.

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<v Speaker 2>Aka, you need to take this to my house, please.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, hoping he's going to offer. But it's weird because

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<v Speaker 4>he's got this little back patio thing with a sliding

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<v Speaker 4>glass door and it's been open and at this point,

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<v Speaker 4>his cat comes running in. Cat jumps up onto the

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<v Speaker 4>couch and like neffles into it, and he's like, I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 4>my cat is he's not even misattached to his couch,

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<v Speaker 4>but it's almost like he's cleaning it right now. And

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<v Speaker 4>he's like, I don't know if it's a sign, but

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<v Speaker 4>suddenly I just have this feeling like I need to

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<v Speaker 4>keep this couch, Like this cat is in love.

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<v Speaker 5>With his couch.

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<v Speaker 2>He gave DIBs to his cat over you cat just

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<v Speaker 2>nuzzled the couch.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, I'm a cat person, so I get it

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<v Speaker 4>to a degree. And I also I'm like, that's so weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think it's maybe because you asked that you

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<v Speaker 3>needed help bringing it back? Like all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 3>the cat is on it and then you're asking that

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<v Speaker 3>And he's like, oh.

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<v Speaker 5>Cra.

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<v Speaker 2>I won't even help a good friend move their couch,

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<v Speaker 2>let alone somebody I'm just meeting for a date well.

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<v Speaker 3>With four couches in my living room now.

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<v Speaker 1>So does that mean you didn't get it?

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<v Speaker 4>No, he didn't give it to me. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe when we hang out again, he'll like provide some clarity.

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<v Speaker 4>Who is I never heard from him again, and.

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<v Speaker 3>You think it's all because of the couch.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe the cat nuzzled up against your ankle and was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>cat has DIBs on your Now I can't call, but

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<v Speaker 2>let's see and find out. We're gonna play a song.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll come back and we'll call Dave. We'll ask him

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<v Speaker 2>why he's not calling you back and maybe see if

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<v Speaker 2>that couch is still available so I could have it

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<v Speaker 2>because I need some help in my place. Anyway, we'll

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<v Speaker 2>do it in your second date updates.

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<v Speaker 4>I still get DIBs on the couch over you.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna let Dave settle this. We're gonna call. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we'll do it right after this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a very interesting story. We just heard from Tricia

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<v Speaker 2>about her date with a guy named Dave, but also

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<v Speaker 2>very matter.

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<v Speaker 3>Of fact, she didn't have a lot of emotion.

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<v Speaker 2>You mean, I feel like I'm just being honest here.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, Tricia, you don't seem very connected to

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<v Speaker 2>the guy.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like what you really want out of this.

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<v Speaker 2>Is a second shot at that couch that he was

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<v Speaker 2>selling before you got cat blocked.

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta say I wouldn't I wouldn't judge you for it.

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<v Speaker 4>That's a good deal.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, a free couch.

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<v Speaker 2>I'll just ask, if I offered you the couch right

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<v Speaker 2>now instead of a date, what would you say, Trisa?

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<v Speaker 4>I think I would take the couch at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>Really it wouldn't It probably would have been that way

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<v Speaker 3>the other point too.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean the whole thing is like, I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>Dave that well, I'm not invested emotionally, and if it's

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<v Speaker 4>a beautiful couch I can get for a bargain and

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<v Speaker 4>it's perfect more emotionally invested in the couch are.

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<v Speaker 3>Smart choices you're making in your life.

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<v Speaker 6>I actually hard to find the men, honestly, that one

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<v Speaker 6>that fits your place perfectly, and I love the look

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<v Speaker 6>of it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, well, this is going to be the first time

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<v Speaker 2>we've ever done a second date for a piece of furniture.

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<v Speaker 3>But let's give it a shot.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to call Dave.

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<v Speaker 4>Good couch is hard to find.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll tell he reacts here. I'm gonna call his number. Hello, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is this Dave.

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<v Speaker 5>This is Dave was Colin.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, Dave, My.

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<v Speaker 2>Name is Jeff from the show Brooke and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 2>the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>We're on the radio, Like right now, we're on the radio.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, why am I on the radio? What's going on here?

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<v Speaker 1>Good question, Dave.

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<v Speaker 2>Before we can really get into it, I do need

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<v Speaker 2>to ask we heard that you have a couch that

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<v Speaker 2>was up for sale or couch, a really nice couch.

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<v Speaker 2>We're wondering is that still available?

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<v Speaker 3>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>What I mean? I still got the couch?

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<v Speaker 1>But who?

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<v Speaker 5>How do you know that? Who told you that?

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<v Speaker 2>We heard about this amazing couch from one of our

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<v Speaker 2>listeners named Tricia.

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<v Speaker 5>Tricia?

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<v Speaker 3>Remember remember you hung.

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<v Speaker 1>Out with her a little bit, went to a bar

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<v Speaker 1>and showed her the couch.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, no I remember Tricia.

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<v Speaker 3>What you sounds kind of mad? Are you that? Tricia?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm not mad. I just I'm done with Tricia

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<v Speaker 5>and I didn't I didn't really want to bring it

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<v Speaker 5>back up.

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<v Speaker 1>Did WHOA?

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<v Speaker 5>Why are you calling me about this?

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<v Speaker 1>You're done with her? Well?

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<v Speaker 2>She told us that you were the one who asked

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<v Speaker 2>her out after you met on the bus.

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<v Speaker 3>I did.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, honestly, she was cool. I like Tricia. She's she

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<v Speaker 5>like a good person. Didn't feel right?

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<v Speaker 3>It didn't feel right, was it? I mean? She also

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<v Speaker 3>said that you offered her your couch for free.

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<v Speaker 5>I did, I did at one point, Yeah, but then

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<v Speaker 5>things changed and so she didn't end up taking the

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<v Speaker 5>couch change.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, why everything seems so good up to that moment.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you guys are being a little nosy here. I

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<v Speaker 5>don't even know you.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know what this is about.

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<v Speaker 5>So are we done here?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, so, I apologize for that, but that's kind

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<v Speaker 2>of what we do on this segment. We're trying to

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<v Speaker 2>help Tricia figure out what went wrong because she's clueless.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we just want to help her tell her, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Is it something that you think she should understand already,

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<v Speaker 3>like why you don't want to talk to her again?

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<v Speaker 1>Or is it because she rides the bus and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't like that?

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's it's a popular opinion on this show that

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<v Speaker 2>bus people are not worthy of love.

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<v Speaker 1>Not popular.

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<v Speaker 5>But one person is that I ride the bus to work.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it's totally fine. I don't really understand what.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are doing. Yeah, last, we'll check that one

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<v Speaker 1>off of the list. It's not that. So what is it.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the reason that you have this total shift in

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<v Speaker 2>attitude towards Tricia?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, we heard something about your cat.

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<v Speaker 5>But I don't know if anybody really believes that your

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<v Speaker 5>cat rubbing up against the couch is going to stop

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<v Speaker 5>you from giving it away.

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<v Speaker 3>See, I think it's because she asked for help in

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<v Speaker 3>moving the couch. Is that why?

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<v Speaker 5>No, it's not bad, all right, listen, if it'll end

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<v Speaker 5>this quicker, I'm just gonna I'm gonna let you know,

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<v Speaker 5>but it's some people might think it's weird, but this

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<v Speaker 5>is the truth.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>So the a state where I've been living for the

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<v Speaker 5>last couple of months is actually my grandma is the state.

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<v Speaker 5>She passed away just a few months ago. So I've

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<v Speaker 5>been picking hare things there. Yeah, that's hard, that's okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I thank you. I appreciate that. Anyway, the cat was

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<v Speaker 5>my grandma's and I'm taking care of the cat as well. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't know. As soon as Tricia comes to

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<v Speaker 5>get the couch, this cat, who has never ever, i

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<v Speaker 5>mean not once jumped on this couch, went right up

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<v Speaker 5>to it. It's like the cat saw Tricia and tried

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<v Speaker 5>to intervene. I think, I mean, I know, I know

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<v Speaker 5>deep inside that that is my grandma. That is a

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<v Speaker 5>sign that she is speaking through this cat, and it

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<v Speaker 5>was a sign to not give this couch away and

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<v Speaker 5>to not see this woman anymore. I don't know what

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<v Speaker 5>reason the line when you know, you know, and something

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<v Speaker 5>just told me, this is my grandma telling me to

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<v Speaker 5>watch out.

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<v Speaker 3>Was your grandma always pretty judging about the people you

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<v Speaker 3>would with?

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, she just wanted to make sure I was happy,

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<v Speaker 5>and I think I trusted her opinion, So I'm going

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<v Speaker 5>to keep trusting it in the afterlife.

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<v Speaker 2>Weird question back to you, is your grandma the cat

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<v Speaker 2>or is your grandma.

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<v Speaker 3>She's speaking through the cat? You know that that actually

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<v Speaker 3>makes sense to me? Is that weird?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? I mean I don't know the logistics of the

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<v Speaker 5>supernatural here. All I know is the feeling I got.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, okay, just nobody gets the couch, not just Tricia.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was just Tricia.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I believe in signs, and I'm just reading

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<v Speaker 2>the signs that Tricia has been on the other line

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<v Speaker 2>listening this entire time and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I feel like I've been set up here. What's

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<v Speaker 5>going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Don't be? Don't I mean, you can be if you

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<v Speaker 3>need to be, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, don't tell men how to.

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<v Speaker 3>Feel She's not trying to like upset you. She didn't know.

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<v Speaker 3>She didn't know that that was what was going on, right, Tricia.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I didn't. That is so weird, Like you really

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<v Speaker 4>think that your grandma sent you a sign through your

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<v Speaker 4>cat that we shouldn't go out anymore. And this makes

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<v Speaker 4>me feel like you might have some mental problems. To

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<v Speaker 4>be honest, that is so d That.

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<v Speaker 3>Is so rude.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, Hey, this is gonna sound weird. He knows

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't feel right.

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<v Speaker 6>Everybody experiences grief and everything else in different ways, and

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<v Speaker 6>this is the way he feels like his grandma's talking

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<v Speaker 6>to him now. I do think maybe the argument could

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<v Speaker 6>be that what if the cat was saying, yes, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>excited about this, instead of like maybe you were interpreting

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<v Speaker 6>the cat rock you wanted to hang out with her

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<v Speaker 6>with the cound.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it could be Honestly, does that sound like

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<v Speaker 2>a possibility.

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<v Speaker 5>Dave, After this conversation, I'm more convinced than ever that

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<v Speaker 5>the way I interpreted it was correct. My grandma just

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<v Speaker 5>helped me dodge a bullet, So thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to trust my instrength, you know what, Dave?

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<v Speaker 4>Like forget even you because at this point, obviously we're

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<v Speaker 4>not a romantic match. And I'm fine with.

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<v Speaker 7>That obviously, what I mean, but like the fact that

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<v Speaker 7>can I just like have Could we just do the

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<v Speaker 7>couch exchange because I'll give you two hundred dollars for it,

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<v Speaker 7>I'll have the couch.

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<v Speaker 4>I still want the couch.

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<v Speaker 1>Something can be salvaged from this convery.

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<v Speaker 3>He's going to give you his grandmother's couch, like it's

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<v Speaker 3>just three hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 5>Car that couch to the dump and give it to you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, don't put your grandma's couch and the dumb brother.

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<v Speaker 4>It's seriously a little dramatic.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, it's Tricia. Yeah, you're getting to know.

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<v Speaker 2>You're getting to know from Dave, from Dave's cat and

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<v Speaker 2>from Dave's grandma.

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<v Speaker 4>So thank you Dave's cat, because now I feel like

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<v Speaker 4>I dodged a bullet on top of.

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<v Speaker 1>It, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Dave, Okay, so you know you don't have to

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<v Speaker 2>go out or see Tricia again. But I know your

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<v Speaker 2>cat's not here on the line with us. But do

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<v Speaker 2>you think you can ask it if your grandma thinks

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<v Speaker 2>I'm a good person, because I.

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<v Speaker 1>Would really like to have that couch. It sounds really nice.

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<v Speaker 4>No, sorry, but I'm getting that couch. I'm offering more

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<v Speaker 4>money than you. You are not going to sounds like you've.

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<v Speaker 2>Been cut out of the equation. So somebody should get

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<v Speaker 2>that couch. I think it should be me, Dave, they give.

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<v Speaker 5>It to the cat, we'll go ahead and try dot

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<v Speaker 5>com and let them leave me alone.

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<v Speaker 3>Into a second couch updates Froaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>That was just another one of those second date updates

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<v Speaker 2>that all of a sudden it goes off the rails

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<v Speaker 2>and there's no way to fix it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, it's just sil man.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sorry, she was me. I mean, gosh, if you

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<v Speaker 3>don't believe that your grandma, can you know, show you signs? Fine, whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>but you don't need to be so mean. Somebody else

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<v Speaker 3>who believes.

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<v Speaker 1>It overly aggressive.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's really not fair of her to discredit the

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<v Speaker 2>cat signs because she was the one that told us

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<v Speaker 2>she followed the signs when her bus broke down, that

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<v Speaker 2>she was supposed to hang out with them.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a good point.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe. I mean, I don't know that I was fully

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<v Speaker 3>listening when she said that.

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<v Speaker 2>Just selective sign reading and selective listening apparent in this room.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she just match you didn't get the couch.

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<v Speaker 3>That's honestly what she's really upset about.

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<v Speaker 2>I guarantee you if she googled it into like on

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<v Speaker 2>wafer or something, it's like a thousand dollars couch. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to run into her inside of home Goods.

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<v Speaker 2>But remember, if you ever want to get a second

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<v Speaker 2>date update, you can email the show. We'll call the

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<v Speaker 2>person who wasn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 3>Broken Jeffrey in the morning,