1 00:00:00,840 --> 00:00:02,280 Speaker 1: The second date of day. 2 00:00:03,680 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 2: It's a well documented fact on this show that Brooke 3 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: does not respect people who ride the bus a kids. 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 2: I don't want to say that she thinks they're beneath her. 5 00:00:16,120 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 2: She just definitely doesn't. 6 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: Think that they're on her level. That's probably the best 7 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: way to put it. 8 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 3: I feel like Jeffrey is always putting his own feelings 9 00:00:25,520 --> 00:00:25,799 Speaker 3: on me. 10 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 2: Well, I'm just saying I'm a little bit worried for 11 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: this call because we have a woman on the phone 12 00:00:31,560 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 2: who apparently rides the bus to work all the time. 13 00:00:34,840 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 2: And Brooke, I know it's probably too much for me 14 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:40,440 Speaker 2: to ask you to be non judgmental doing this, but 15 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,120 Speaker 2: can you at least try and keep it civil and 16 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 2: not spit on the. 17 00:00:44,159 --> 00:00:45,520 Speaker 1: Floor when I say her name? 18 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 2: Although you know what, there is probably usually spitting bodily 19 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 2: fluids on the floor of the bus, So maybe make 20 00:00:50,840 --> 00:00:54,440 Speaker 2: her feel like she's at home. Let's welcome Tricia to 21 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 2: the show. Tricia, how you doing? 22 00:00:56,720 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 4: I'm doing well? How are you guys doing? 23 00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: Terrible intro? Tricia, You riding the bus is just fine? 24 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 5: Yes? 25 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,320 Speaker 1: Did you hear how? She said? That was such distain? 26 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 1: It's fine? Her publicist told her she has to be 27 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: like nicer. 28 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:11,680 Speaker 3: Boyfriends that only rode the bus. 29 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:14,160 Speaker 1: She broke up with all of them immediately. I'm gonna 30 00:01:14,160 --> 00:01:14,679 Speaker 1: tell you that. 31 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 2: But Tricia, we're gonna we're gonna try our best to 32 00:01:16,920 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 2: be on your side. Here, tell us about why you 33 00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 2: emailed for a second date. 34 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:21,360 Speaker 1: Update. Who'd you go out with? 35 00:01:21,959 --> 00:01:25,759 Speaker 4: All right? So his name is Dave. I met him 36 00:01:25,760 --> 00:01:28,119 Speaker 4: on the bus. So what happened was sometimes I'll see 37 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:30,000 Speaker 4: the same kind of characters on the bus every day, 38 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 4: but this guy hadn't met before. He sat next to me. 39 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 4: Didn't think much of it, but then the bus had 40 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 4: like some kind of problem the engine. I don't know 41 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:38,800 Speaker 4: what it was, but. 42 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 2: Brook cut the wires, so the bus stall. 43 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,200 Speaker 4: We were hanging out there, so of course, you know, 44 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 4: we start talking to each other. Next to me, I 45 00:01:48,880 --> 00:01:51,920 Speaker 4: seemed like a really nice guy. He's like, listen, I'm 46 00:01:51,920 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 4: already late for work. Let's just go meet up for coffee. 47 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 3: I like that instead of I'm already late for work, 48 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 3: we should call, you know, somebody to come get us. 49 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 4: Let's just screw it, right, And I was like, yeah, 50 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 4: he seems lovely, and so anyway, we go to the coffee. 51 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 4: It's just a quick thing. But we get we get 52 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 4: our cups of coffee, We exchange numbers. 53 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:12,200 Speaker 3: Okay, so it was like more than just a friendship. 54 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 4: Saying yeah, I mean I felt like, why would he 55 00:02:14,440 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 4: give me his number otherwise or asked me to coffee? 56 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 2: Did you do that like romantic thing where you guys 57 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 2: sip out of each other's coffee cups? We did not, 58 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 2: Or you do that thing where you interlock your arms 59 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:27,559 Speaker 2: and take a sip, hoping. 60 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:29,639 Speaker 3: Not just feel scalding hot coffee down side. 61 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:33,040 Speaker 2: I don't expect Brook to understand what romance looks like, 62 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 2: but I did you guys not pull that move? 63 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 4: We did not pull that move. 64 00:02:37,880 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 3: Yeah. I think the next question is did he call you? 65 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:44,119 Speaker 3: Did you guys go out again? They exchange numbers Jeffrey, Oh, okay, sure, 66 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 3: go ahead, And that's that where that goes. 67 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 4: Here's we're ridiculed to the meat. So I'm like, how's 68 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 4: your week been. We're talking, and he's like, yeah, I've 69 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,960 Speaker 4: just been really busy. I'm planning this estate sale. I 70 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 4: have a lot of stuff to get rid of. I've 71 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 4: got friends helping me. And I was actually like, you 72 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:00,200 Speaker 4: know what, I actually in the market for a couch, right, know, 73 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 4: my cat's destroyed my old one. And I'm like, do 74 00:03:03,400 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 4: you buy any chance to have a couch. He's like, 75 00:03:05,360 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 4: I do as a matter of fact, and he goes, 76 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 4: just come pick it up. I'm going to charge you 77 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:12,079 Speaker 4: for it. If you like it, you can just have it. 78 00:03:12,680 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 3: Get a free couch. Other deal sweet? 79 00:03:15,040 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 4: Right, And at this point I don't know what the 80 00:03:16,560 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 4: couch looks like or anything, but we went to a 81 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 4: bar together. He showed me pictures on the phone. I'm like, 82 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 4: this is perfect. 83 00:03:22,480 --> 00:03:25,040 Speaker 2: Sounds like a hot date showing each other couch pictures. 84 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:28,359 Speaker 3: It's kind of like a two for one deal, right, 85 00:03:28,440 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 3: just getting a hot date and a free couch. 86 00:03:30,800 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 1: Did it pass your eye test? 87 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:34,880 Speaker 4: You mean the guy or the couch, because both did. 88 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:38,920 Speaker 2: Oh more than just sit on that couch when you 89 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 2: go pick it up? So did you go get it? 90 00:03:41,600 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 1: Well? 91 00:03:42,240 --> 00:03:42,640 Speaker 3: You think? 92 00:03:42,760 --> 00:03:45,600 Speaker 4: So I go to his house. I said, sure, I'll 93 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 4: take it. I just need some way to get at home. 94 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 2: Aka, you need to take this to my house, please. 95 00:03:53,640 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 4: Okay, hoping he's going to offer. But it's weird because 96 00:03:57,200 --> 00:03:59,360 Speaker 4: he's got this little back patio thing with a sliding 97 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 4: glass door and it's been open and at this point, 98 00:04:02,560 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 4: his cat comes running in. Cat jumps up onto the 99 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 4: couch and like neffles into it, and he's like, I'm sorry, 100 00:04:11,520 --> 00:04:14,120 Speaker 4: my cat is he's not even misattached to his couch, 101 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,359 Speaker 4: but it's almost like he's cleaning it right now. And 102 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 4: he's like, I don't know if it's a sign, but 103 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 4: suddenly I just have this feeling like I need to 104 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:22,599 Speaker 4: keep this couch, Like this cat is in love. 105 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 5: With his couch. 106 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: He gave DIBs to his cat over you cat just 107 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:28,480 Speaker 2: nuzzled the couch. 108 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,680 Speaker 4: I mean, I'm a cat person, so I get it 109 00:04:32,720 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 4: to a degree. And I also I'm like, that's so weird. 110 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 3: Do you think it's maybe because you asked that you 111 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 3: needed help bringing it back? Like all of a sudden, 112 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,840 Speaker 3: the cat is on it and then you're asking that 113 00:04:43,880 --> 00:04:44,719 Speaker 3: And he's like, oh. 114 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 5: Cra. 115 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:50,919 Speaker 2: I won't even help a good friend move their couch, 116 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:53,720 Speaker 2: let alone somebody I'm just meeting for a date well. 117 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:55,480 Speaker 3: With four couches in my living room now. 118 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 1: So does that mean you didn't get it? 119 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,599 Speaker 4: No, he didn't give it to me. And I'm like, 120 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 4: maybe when we hang out again, he'll like provide some clarity. 121 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:07,800 Speaker 4: Who is I never heard from him again, and. 122 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:09,279 Speaker 3: You think it's all because of the couch. 123 00:05:10,000 --> 00:05:10,960 Speaker 4: I don't know why. 124 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:13,920 Speaker 2: Maybe the cat nuzzled up against your ankle and was like, oh, 125 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 2: cat has DIBs on your Now I can't call, but 126 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: let's see and find out. We're gonna play a song. 127 00:05:19,040 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 2: We'll come back and we'll call Dave. We'll ask him 128 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:25,160 Speaker 2: why he's not calling you back and maybe see if 129 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 2: that couch is still available so I could have it 130 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 2: because I need some help in my place. Anyway, we'll 131 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 2: do it in your second date updates. 132 00:05:33,400 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 4: I still get DIBs on the couch over you. 133 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: We're gonna let Dave settle this. We're gonna call. Maybe 134 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: we'll do it right after this. 135 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 2: It's a very interesting story. We just heard from Tricia 136 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 2: about her date with a guy named Dave, but also 137 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 2: very matter. 138 00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 3: Of fact, she didn't have a lot of emotion. 139 00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:58,040 Speaker 2: You mean, I feel like I'm just being honest here. 140 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:00,919 Speaker 2: I feel like, Tricia, you don't seem very connected to 141 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 2: the guy. 142 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: It sounds like what you really want out of this. 143 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 2: Is a second shot at that couch that he was 144 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:08,560 Speaker 2: selling before you got cat blocked. 145 00:06:08,680 --> 00:06:10,800 Speaker 3: I gotta say I wouldn't I wouldn't judge you for it. 146 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 4: That's a good deal. 147 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 3: I mean, a free couch. 148 00:06:12,600 --> 00:06:14,920 Speaker 2: I'll just ask, if I offered you the couch right 149 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 2: now instead of a date, what would you say, Trisa? 150 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 4: I think I would take the couch at this point. 151 00:06:20,920 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: Really it wouldn't It probably would have been that way 152 00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 3: the other point too. 153 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 4: I mean the whole thing is like, I don't know 154 00:06:28,240 --> 00:06:31,159 Speaker 4: Dave that well, I'm not invested emotionally, and if it's 155 00:06:31,200 --> 00:06:33,359 Speaker 4: a beautiful couch I can get for a bargain and 156 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 4: it's perfect more emotionally invested in the couch are. 157 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 3: Smart choices you're making in your life. 158 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:42,840 Speaker 6: I actually hard to find the men, honestly, that one 159 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:45,039 Speaker 6: that fits your place perfectly, and I love the look 160 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 6: of it. 161 00:06:45,480 --> 00:06:46,800 Speaker 2: Okay, well, this is going to be the first time 162 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 2: we've ever done a second date for a piece of furniture. 163 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,120 Speaker 3: But let's give it a shot. 164 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: We're going to call Dave. 165 00:06:52,600 --> 00:06:53,839 Speaker 4: Good couch is hard to find. 166 00:06:54,000 --> 00:07:06,560 Speaker 1: We'll tell he reacts here. I'm gonna call his number. Hello, Hey, 167 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:07,120 Speaker 1: is this Dave. 168 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 5: This is Dave was Colin. 169 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:11,560 Speaker 1: Hey, Dave, My. 170 00:07:11,600 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 2: Name is Jeff from the show Brooke and Jeffrey in 171 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:14,600 Speaker 2: the Morning. 172 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,239 Speaker 1: We're on the radio, Like right now, we're on the radio. 173 00:07:18,520 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, why am I on the radio? What's going on here? 174 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: Good question, Dave. 175 00:07:26,560 --> 00:07:28,840 Speaker 2: Before we can really get into it, I do need 176 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 2: to ask we heard that you have a couch that 177 00:07:32,480 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 2: was up for sale or couch, a really nice couch. 178 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 2: We're wondering is that still available? 179 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 3: Uh? 180 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 5: What I mean? I still got the couch? 181 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: But who? 182 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:44,560 Speaker 5: How do you know that? Who told you that? 183 00:07:44,760 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 2: We heard about this amazing couch from one of our 184 00:07:46,920 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 2: listeners named Tricia. 185 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:50,040 Speaker 5: Tricia? 186 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 3: Remember remember you hung. 187 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: Out with her a little bit, went to a bar 188 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: and showed her the couch. 189 00:07:56,440 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, no I remember Tricia. 190 00:07:58,360 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 3: What you sounds kind of mad? Are you that? Tricia? 191 00:08:01,200 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: No? 192 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:05,600 Speaker 5: No, I'm not mad. I just I'm done with Tricia 193 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 5: and I didn't I didn't really want to bring it 194 00:08:07,000 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 5: back up. 195 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 1: Did WHOA? 196 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:08,960 Speaker 5: Why are you calling me about this? 197 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: You're done with her? Well? 198 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 2: She told us that you were the one who asked 199 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:14,960 Speaker 2: her out after you met on the bus. 200 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 3: I did. 201 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:20,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, honestly, she was cool. I like Tricia. She's she 202 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:24,360 Speaker 5: like a good person. Didn't feel right? 203 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 3: It didn't feel right, was it? I mean? She also 204 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 3: said that you offered her your couch for free. 205 00:08:31,240 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 5: I did, I did at one point, Yeah, but then 206 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 5: things changed and so she didn't end up taking the 207 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 5: couch change. 208 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, why everything seems so good up to that moment. 209 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,439 Speaker 5: Yeah, you guys are being a little nosy here. I 210 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 5: don't even know you. 211 00:08:45,120 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 6: I don't know what this is about. 212 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:47,959 Speaker 5: So are we done here? 213 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 2: I mean, so, I apologize for that, but that's kind 214 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 2: of what we do on this segment. We're trying to 215 00:08:52,880 --> 00:08:55,920 Speaker 2: help Tricia figure out what went wrong because she's clueless. 216 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, we just want to help her tell her, Hey, 217 00:08:58,000 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 1: what happened. 218 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 3: Is it something that you think she should understand already, 219 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:03,080 Speaker 3: like why you don't want to talk to her again? 220 00:09:03,240 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: Or is it because she rides the bus and you 221 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 1: don't like that? 222 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 2: Because that's it's a popular opinion on this show that 223 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 2: bus people are not worthy of love. 224 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: Not popular. 225 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:14,520 Speaker 5: But one person is that I ride the bus to work. 226 00:09:14,600 --> 00:09:16,839 Speaker 5: I think it's totally fine. I don't really understand what. 227 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: You guys are doing. Yeah, last, we'll check that one 228 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: off of the list. It's not that. So what is it. 229 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 2: What's the reason that you have this total shift in 230 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 2: attitude towards Tricia? 231 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 3: I mean, we heard something about your cat. 232 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,360 Speaker 5: But I don't know if anybody really believes that your 233 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 5: cat rubbing up against the couch is going to stop 234 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:35,000 Speaker 5: you from giving it away. 235 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 3: See, I think it's because she asked for help in 236 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 3: moving the couch. Is that why? 237 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 5: No, it's not bad, all right, listen, if it'll end 238 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 5: this quicker, I'm just gonna I'm gonna let you know, 239 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:48,800 Speaker 5: but it's some people might think it's weird, but this 240 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 5: is the truth. 241 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 4: Okay. 242 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 5: So the a state where I've been living for the 243 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 5: last couple of months is actually my grandma is the state. 244 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 5: She passed away just a few months ago. So I've 245 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:03,760 Speaker 5: been picking hare things there. Yeah, that's hard, that's okay, 246 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 5: I thank you. I appreciate that. Anyway, the cat was 247 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,319 Speaker 5: my grandma's and I'm taking care of the cat as well. Yeah, 248 00:10:09,360 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 5: and I don't know. As soon as Tricia comes to 249 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 5: get the couch, this cat, who has never ever, i 250 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:20,680 Speaker 5: mean not once jumped on this couch, went right up 251 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 5: to it. It's like the cat saw Tricia and tried 252 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:26,080 Speaker 5: to intervene. I think, I mean, I know, I know 253 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 5: deep inside that that is my grandma. That is a 254 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 5: sign that she is speaking through this cat, and it 255 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,280 Speaker 5: was a sign to not give this couch away and 256 00:10:34,320 --> 00:10:36,560 Speaker 5: to not see this woman anymore. I don't know what 257 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 5: reason the line when you know, you know, and something 258 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 5: just told me, this is my grandma telling me to 259 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 5: watch out. 260 00:10:45,480 --> 00:10:48,719 Speaker 3: Was your grandma always pretty judging about the people you 261 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 3: would with? 262 00:10:50,880 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 5: Honestly, she just wanted to make sure I was happy, 263 00:10:53,960 --> 00:10:56,720 Speaker 5: and I think I trusted her opinion, So I'm going 264 00:10:56,760 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 5: to keep trusting it in the afterlife. 265 00:10:58,480 --> 00:11:01,839 Speaker 2: Weird question back to you, is your grandma the cat 266 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 2: or is your grandma. 267 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 3: She's speaking through the cat? You know that that actually 268 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 3: makes sense to me? Is that weird? 269 00:11:09,480 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 5: Yeah? I mean I don't know the logistics of the 270 00:11:12,240 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 5: supernatural here. All I know is the feeling I got. 271 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, just nobody gets the couch, not just Tricia. 272 00:11:18,240 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 3: I think it was just Tricia. 273 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 2: I mean, I believe in signs, and I'm just reading 274 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 2: the signs that Tricia has been on the other line 275 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:29,319 Speaker 2: listening this entire time and wants to talk to you. 276 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 5: Yeah, I feel like I've been set up here. What's 277 00:11:33,800 --> 00:11:34,199 Speaker 5: going on? 278 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 3: Don't be? Don't I mean, you can be if you 279 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 3: need to be, but. 280 00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:42,439 Speaker 1: Like, don't tell men how to. 281 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:48,040 Speaker 3: Feel She's not trying to like upset you. She didn't know. 282 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 3: She didn't know that that was what was going on, right, Tricia. 283 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 4: No, I didn't. That is so weird, Like you really 284 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 4: think that your grandma sent you a sign through your 285 00:12:01,160 --> 00:12:03,520 Speaker 4: cat that we shouldn't go out anymore. And this makes 286 00:12:03,559 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 4: me feel like you might have some mental problems. To 287 00:12:05,440 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 4: be honest, that is so d That. 288 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:09,680 Speaker 3: Is so rude. 289 00:12:10,559 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 1: He said, Hey, this is gonna sound weird. He knows 290 00:12:13,320 --> 00:12:14,199 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel right. 291 00:12:14,440 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 6: Everybody experiences grief and everything else in different ways, and 292 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,319 Speaker 6: this is the way he feels like his grandma's talking 293 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 6: to him now. I do think maybe the argument could 294 00:12:22,960 --> 00:12:26,079 Speaker 6: be that what if the cat was saying, yes, I'm 295 00:12:26,120 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 6: excited about this, instead of like maybe you were interpreting 296 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 6: the cat rock you wanted to hang out with her 297 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 6: with the cound. 298 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 2: I mean it could be Honestly, does that sound like 299 00:12:34,880 --> 00:12:36,200 Speaker 2: a possibility. 300 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 5: Dave, After this conversation, I'm more convinced than ever that 301 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:42,760 Speaker 5: the way I interpreted it was correct. My grandma just 302 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 5: helped me dodge a bullet, So thank you. 303 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 4: I'm going to trust my instrength, you know what, Dave? 304 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:50,600 Speaker 4: Like forget even you because at this point, obviously we're 305 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:54,040 Speaker 4: not a romantic match. And I'm fine with. 306 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 7: That obviously, what I mean, but like the fact that 307 00:12:57,880 --> 00:13:00,040 Speaker 7: can I just like have Could we just do the 308 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,599 Speaker 7: couch exchange because I'll give you two hundred dollars for it, 309 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:04,199 Speaker 7: I'll have the couch. 310 00:13:04,679 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 4: I still want the couch. 311 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: Something can be salvaged from this convery. 312 00:13:08,880 --> 00:13:12,120 Speaker 3: He's going to give you his grandmother's couch, like it's 313 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 3: just three hundred dollars. 314 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 5: Car that couch to the dump and give it to you. 315 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 1: Oh, don't put your grandma's couch and the dumb brother. 316 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:24,000 Speaker 4: It's seriously a little dramatic. 317 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 1: Okay, it's Tricia. Yeah, you're getting to know. 318 00:13:28,400 --> 00:13:31,400 Speaker 2: You're getting to know from Dave, from Dave's cat and 319 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 2: from Dave's grandma. 320 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 4: So thank you Dave's cat, because now I feel like 321 00:13:35,440 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 4: I dodged a bullet on top of. 322 00:13:36,720 --> 00:13:38,000 Speaker 1: It, you know. 323 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:42,079 Speaker 2: Well, Dave, Okay, so you know you don't have to 324 00:13:42,120 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 2: go out or see Tricia again. But I know your 325 00:13:45,080 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 2: cat's not here on the line with us. But do 326 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:48,640 Speaker 2: you think you can ask it if your grandma thinks 327 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 2: I'm a good person, because I. 328 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: Would really like to have that couch. It sounds really nice. 329 00:13:53,600 --> 00:13:56,240 Speaker 4: No, sorry, but I'm getting that couch. I'm offering more 330 00:13:56,240 --> 00:13:58,800 Speaker 4: money than you. You are not going to sounds like you've. 331 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,880 Speaker 2: Been cut out of the equation. So somebody should get 332 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 2: that couch. I think it should be me, Dave, they give. 333 00:14:02,920 --> 00:14:07,719 Speaker 5: It to the cat, we'll go ahead and try dot 334 00:14:07,760 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 5: com and let them leave me alone. 335 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 3: Into a second couch updates Froaking Jeffrey in the morning. 336 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 2: That was just another one of those second date updates 337 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 2: that all of a sudden it goes off the rails 338 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:23,560 Speaker 2: and there's no way to fix it. 339 00:14:24,240 --> 00:14:26,640 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, it's just sil man. 340 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, she was me. I mean, gosh, if you 341 00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,520 Speaker 3: don't believe that your grandma, can you know, show you signs? Fine, whatever, 342 00:14:34,560 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 3: but you don't need to be so mean. Somebody else 343 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:38,080 Speaker 3: who believes. 344 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 1: It overly aggressive. 345 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 2: And it's really not fair of her to discredit the 346 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,320 Speaker 2: cat signs because she was the one that told us 347 00:14:44,520 --> 00:14:46,960 Speaker 2: she followed the signs when her bus broke down, that 348 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 2: she was supposed to hang out with them. 349 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 1: Oh that's a good point. 350 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:52,760 Speaker 3: Maybe. I mean, I don't know that I was fully 351 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 3: listening when she said that. 352 00:14:56,520 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 2: Just selective sign reading and selective listening apparent in this room. 353 00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:02,720 Speaker 3: I think she just match you didn't get the couch. 354 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 3: That's honestly what she's really upset about. 355 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:07,160 Speaker 2: I guarantee you if she googled it into like on 356 00:15:07,240 --> 00:15:11,360 Speaker 2: wafer or something, it's like a thousand dollars couch. I 357 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 2: don't want to run into her inside of home Goods. 358 00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 2: But remember, if you ever want to get a second 359 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 2: date update, you can email the show. We'll call the 360 00:15:18,960 --> 00:15:20,200 Speaker 2: person who wasn't calling you back. 361 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 3: Broken Jeffrey in the morning,