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Speaker 3: Second Date Update. Whenever you ask people what's your idea
Speaker 3: of the perfect first date, by far, the most cliche
Speaker 3: answer is a long romantic walk along the beach at sunset.
Speaker 3: That's what everybody says, but who actually does that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Really, especially on a first date.
Speaker 3: The closest thing we get normally is a long stumbly
Speaker 3: walk home from a dive bar am. That's like, and
Speaker 3: the closest body of water is the putt of urine
Speaker 3: outside your apartment that you created. Yeah, but one of
Speaker 3: our listeners, believe it or not, actually did the cliche
Speaker 3: thing and did a date at the beach walk on
Speaker 3: the beach andrew you in love yet?
Speaker 4: Or what? Was it?
Speaker 3: As perfect as we all imagine it would be.
Speaker 5: Well, it was. I enjoyed it, but it was also
Speaker 5: kind of weird because it was it was the first date.
Speaker 5: I think maybe maybe a long walk on the beach.
Speaker 3: You could have just said no, it wasn't.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's interesting, like a beach date can get
Speaker 1: pretty intimate, right, like you're rubbing suntan lotion on each other,
Speaker 1: you're wearing you're wearing bathing suitswhere.
Speaker 3: No, hope, we're back to the ideal version. The real
Speaker 3: version is going to look a lot different. But Andrew
Speaker 3: tell us how it went. Who did you go there with?
Speaker 5: Well? I went there with this girl, Tabitha. We met
Speaker 5: through a friend of a friend on Facebook and we
Speaker 5: sort of started talking, and you know, she seemed very
Speaker 5: nice and attractive. She had tattoos, and she was outdoorsy,
Speaker 5: which is what kind of you know. I saw pictures
Speaker 5: of her hiking and other things. I figured she would
Speaker 5: like the beach.
Speaker 1: Okay, so the beach was your idea? Was it like
Speaker 1: a day at the beach type of thing?
Speaker 5: It was an evening walk?
Speaker 1: Oh okay?
Speaker 3: It really was the most cliche you could possibly How
Speaker 3: long was the walk? We say a long walk? I
Speaker 3: mean are we talking like a two three hour event.
Speaker 1: Are you tired, Jose if it's over.
Speaker 3: One hundred feet?
Speaker 5: There was no blisters for him.
Speaker 1: Let's just say, yeah, did you like pack a picnic?
Speaker 5: Well it was it was really just it was a
Speaker 5: walk and we were We did end up building a fire,
Speaker 5: so there was stuff to do that committed a crime.
Speaker 1: It was in the legal area, like one of the.
Speaker 3: Places that allows you to build a fire. Like, what
Speaker 3: was it? What was it?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 3: Tell us Andrew, We're just guessing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, well, you know, we we went up and the
Speaker 5: thing was on the whole walk. She was very quiet,
Speaker 5: so I ended up doing all the talking and I
Speaker 5: would make jokes and she wouldn't even laugh.
Speaker 1: I can Is she just like a more reserved person?
Speaker 1: Do you think, I mean, since she's a friend of
Speaker 1: a friend.
Speaker 5: Well that's the thing, Like, you know, we built fire
Speaker 5: and we're sitting there. I didn't see any of the
Speaker 5: signals and then out of blue she kisses me.
Speaker 3: WHOA whoa doing something right?
Speaker 1: She's a wild card man.
Speaker 5: When it happened, I was like, okay, and that was
Speaker 5: real fun and enjoyable that that moment. But then all
Speaker 5: of a sudden, all these bats started flying above our heads,
Speaker 5: and she starts freaking out because she doesn't know anything
Speaker 5: about bats, and I'm kind of a bat nerd, and
Speaker 5: so she starts waving her hands and flailing her heads
Speaker 5: trying to get the bats way. I was like, don't worry.
Speaker 5: These are Eastern red bats because I could tell by
Speaker 5: the sounds that they were making.
Speaker 3: Wow, you really know you didn't just make that up them.
Speaker 5: I'm a batman and I, oh wow, she didn't laugh
Speaker 5: at that one.
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm just going to hear just more turned on
Speaker 3: by that.
Speaker 1: I mean, you want the bats or eating the mosquitos
Speaker 1: that are all around you? Like keeping there?
Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly. Bats are way better than mosquitos. And wanted
Speaker 5: her to stop waving her hands about because provoked they
Speaker 5: could attack. But if they're not provoked, I'll just keep
Speaker 5: on being normal bats.
Speaker 1: So wow, did she listen to you or did she continue?
Speaker 5: She did calm down. I played her some sounds of
Speaker 5: bats that had pre recorded on my phone.
Speaker 1: This is where I think we're finding.
Speaker 3: Out why she's not calling you.
Speaker 5: Well, as we were walking back to the car, I
Speaker 5: knew I thought that that might be the case, so
Speaker 5: I stopped talking about baths, but I again, she wasn't
Speaker 5: contributing anything, so I ended up slipping into this conversation
Speaker 5: about wolves. And I'm not sure if that was the
Speaker 5: right choice. I mean, it's the things that I'm interested in,
Speaker 5: and I knew she was out doorsy, and I.
Speaker 3: Mean they say don't hide your passions on a first day.
Speaker 3: I also think they don't say, like, say all of
Speaker 3: your passions all at once to break the silence on
Speaker 3: a first but it could be wrong. How did this end?
Speaker 3: How did the night end?
Speaker 5: I mean the night and did fine? I guess, I
Speaker 5: mean we survived the night.
Speaker 1: Did you have another kiss?
Speaker 5: Yeah, there was a There was a small kiss, but
Speaker 5: it was inappropriate goodbye kiss.
Speaker 3: Okay, nothing like a big makeout session.
Speaker 1: I'm wondering, like, it sounds like you were uncomfortable with
Speaker 1: her silence. Did you ever ask her any questions other
Speaker 1: than yes or no questions?
Speaker 5: You know? Yeah? Absolutely, I wasn't trying to do all
Speaker 5: the talking. It just it was. It was certainly weird
Speaker 5: because I did want to get to know her, and
Speaker 5: I don't feel like I got to know her. It's
Speaker 5: other than she wanted to kiss me for a moment,
Speaker 5: which was cool, but weird that the.
Speaker 1: One positive sign.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because that's what I was trying to figure out, Like,
Speaker 3: why do you want this date?
Speaker 5: If?
Speaker 3: If there were so many things that went wrong and
Speaker 3: things that you know, you guys were barely even talking.
Speaker 5: Right, Maybe maybe it's more bid curiosity.
Speaker 1: Yeah, Or maybe it's just that she's hot and it
Speaker 1: was a really good kiss.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Maybe you know, maybe she's more comfortable with kissing than talking,
Speaker 5: but maybe she would get more comfortable with talking as
Speaker 5: we go. I don't know.
Speaker 3: No, dude, then keep her. There's maybe we should just
Speaker 3: call her and see what she has to say about it.
Speaker 3: Or she doesn't talked to us, Jeff, then maybe this we.
Speaker 5: Need to kiss her.
Speaker 3: You need to kiss her on the phone.
Speaker 5: Jeff.
Speaker 1: No, let's not do that.
Speaker 3: We'll just call her and see what happens. But first
Speaker 3: we got to play a song. We'll come back at
Speaker 3: your second date update right after this.
Speaker 5: All right, all right, but you better not kiss my woman.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll make sure that doesn't happen.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I don't think we could. Probably
Speaker 3: here we go second date update. Maybe I'm jumping too
Speaker 3: far ahead here, Yeah you are, But Andrew down the
Speaker 3: road when you and Tabitha get married, instead of releasing
Speaker 3: doves at the wedding, you should release a cage of bats.
Speaker 3: And maybe before that. The biggest challenge is going to
Speaker 3: be getting her to actually say I do, because she
Speaker 3: hardly even speaks. And if you're just joining us, probably
Speaker 3: none of this is making any sense to you. But
Speaker 3: I say she wasn't talking a lot because she was
Speaker 3: super quiet during their date. And I bring up bats
Speaker 3: because Andrew's a bat offficionado and knows all about bats
Speaker 3: and their histories and their diets. And there were bats
Speaker 3: there flying above them while they made out on the
Speaker 3: beach together. And apparently the Eastern red bat only attacks
Speaker 3: when provoked. That's what we learned from Andrew.
Speaker 1: I feel like I need to look up that fact.
Speaker 3: I don't know if I just believe.
Speaker 1: I trust, of course you do.
Speaker 3: We've heard stranger things happen on this show. But I'm
Speaker 3: just praying that Andrew didn't set up the bat attack.
Speaker 3: To look, he's probably a bat whisperer. Can you confirm
Speaker 3: that you didn't set up the attack? Andrew?
Speaker 5: I can confirm that I had nothing to do with
Speaker 5: releasing bats around my date, like I could orchestrate something
Speaker 5: like that. I don't think i'd be single.
Speaker 3: Okay, he was a plan to run into bats on
Speaker 3: the beach.
Speaker 1: Then, Andrew, I'm just wondering, what are you like looking
Speaker 1: for out of this? What do you want?
Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, I just want to know what I
Speaker 5: did or what happened, Like I just I mean, another
Speaker 5: date would be nice, but I want to know so
Speaker 5: I can adjust for future follies.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it makes sense a lot of mixed
Speaker 1: signals from her.
Speaker 5: Yep.
Speaker 3: All right, well let's call and try and figure that
Speaker 3: out for you. We're going to die the number right
Speaker 3: now here we go. Hello, Hey is this Tabitha?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, who is this?
Speaker 3: Oh you don't know.
Speaker 4: Uh.
Speaker 3: My name is jeff and I'm from a morning radio
Speaker 3: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi.
Speaker 1: Hey, we're all here.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, Hi. I've heard you guys before.
Speaker 2: But why are you calling me?
Speaker 5: Oh?
Speaker 3: Okay, well, thank you. Well, we're calling you at the
Speaker 3: request of one of our listens, nurse Andrew, who you
Speaker 3: went out with the other night.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm guessing Andrew put you up to this.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think it's a good thing. Like he
Speaker 1: seemed to really like you.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he did like me.
Speaker 5: You know.
Speaker 2: I just I really wasn't ready for that date. You know,
Speaker 2: it was really unexpected how I would feel about Andrew.
Speaker 3: Interesting, Okay, because we heard a little bit about the
Speaker 3: date and from the sounds of it, you kissed him.
Speaker 2: Oh he gosh, he told you that.
Speaker 1: Well, it sounded like a really romantic setting. I could
Speaker 1: see why. I mean, you're having a fire on the
Speaker 1: beach like sounds beautiful.
Speaker 3: That's going overhead?
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I have an appointment in a little bit,
Speaker 2: so I don't have a whole lot of time, you know,
Speaker 2: can can you guys tell me what's going on?
Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah? So, I mean, just real quick, we're doing
Speaker 3: something called second Date Update, and we're trying to help
Speaker 3: Andrew face year out. Why after your romantic beach date,
Speaker 3: there hasn't been a date number two because he did
Speaker 3: mention that you were a little bit quiet during the
Speaker 3: walk along the beach.
Speaker 2: Yeah, is there a reason for that? I mean, he
Speaker 2: didn't do anything wrong, you know, I just I got
Speaker 2: out of a long term relationship a few years ago.
Speaker 1: Wait, a few years ago.
Speaker 2: Well, the guy. He we were in love, but he
Speaker 2: moved out of the country. He had an opportunity to
Speaker 2: go do something, and you know, it broke my heart.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that could be really hard. Are you not over
Speaker 1: it still even after years?
Speaker 2: Well, I thought it was over it until I met Andrew,
Speaker 2: which we started talking on Facebook through text. I had
Speaker 2: never heard his voice before.
Speaker 3: Huh, okay, are you saying that Andrew was your very
Speaker 3: first date since that breakup years ago?
Speaker 2: No? No, No, I've dated a few people here or there.
Speaker 2: But the thing that really just shocked me about Andrew
Speaker 2: was walking side by side with him on the beach
Speaker 2: hearing his voice. He sounds exactly, I mean, identical to
Speaker 2: my ex.
Speaker 3: Weird.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that makes sense. So you're just like
Speaker 1: living in this past relationship while you're hanging out with Andrew.
Speaker 1: That's gotta be so hard or awesome.
Speaker 3: I wish I could relive my I mean, that is
Speaker 3: super weird.
Speaker 2: It was weird. Like at one point he tried to
Speaker 2: hold my hand and I was like looking out at
Speaker 2: the water and all I could think about was my
Speaker 2: ex and like all the good times they had together.
Speaker 2: Oh no, up until the bad attack. That was I
Speaker 2: kind of like brought me back to reality for a moment,
Speaker 2: but I was starting to tear up because I, yeah,
Speaker 2: the one that got away. I feel like that's who
Speaker 2: I was walking on the beach with.
Speaker 1: Totally. And it's not like if you were like doing
Speaker 1: maybe an activity, you wouldn't have as much reflection opportunity.
Speaker 1: Oh god, totally.
Speaker 2: You know, even if we were at a restaurant and
Speaker 2: sitting across the table from each other, I could see him,
Speaker 2: I would obviously know that that's not my ex, but
Speaker 2: walk inside by side on the beach with him, it
Speaker 2: just brought back all these memories.
Speaker 3: Like oh he kept talking, yeah, right, because.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what's telling me about all these weird
Speaker 2: animals he was obsessed with. Like, I'm glad he has
Speaker 2: passions and everything, but I just don't know how to
Speaker 2: get over the fact that he sounds just like my ex.
Speaker 1: Oh girl, I feel for you, I do, and it's
Speaker 1: nothing he can do anything about unless he can use
Speaker 1: different voices. Maybe he could talk it like.
Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe impressions like a celebrity.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, let's find out if he can, because
Speaker 3: I need to tell you, Andrew's been on the other
Speaker 3: line listening this entire time and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 4: Sorry.
Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm Andrew. I'm so sorry I ruined our date.
Speaker 5: Oh I know, I'm I didn't. I had no idea
Speaker 5: what was going on. Not that I'm happy that that's
Speaker 5: what it was, but I'm happy that that's what it was.
Speaker 1: Is it okay to listen to him? I mean, this
Speaker 1: is kind of a bad venue for you since it's
Speaker 1: just voice right now?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it sounds like I'm talking to him
Speaker 2: on the phone like it's it's so weird.
Speaker 3: Are we sure that it's not your ex?
Speaker 2: Wow?
Speaker 5: Is there anything that he needed to apologize for that
Speaker 5: you'd like to hear?
Speaker 2: Why did he leave me?
Speaker 1: Maybe Andrew is a better version of your ex? You know,
Speaker 1: maybe don't compare them? How could you not?
Speaker 3: I mean, this is such an awkward situation, Like Brooke,
Speaker 3: what would you do?
Speaker 1: My husband's best friend sounds just like him. It's so weird.
Speaker 1: When I first met them, I was like, it creeped
Speaker 1: me out. But now that I know them both more,
Speaker 1: that isn't actually the case.
Speaker 3: Would say yes to pretty much anybody, So alexis, what
Speaker 3: about let's get someone that might say no?
Speaker 1: It depends how you ended with your ex. Alexis is
Speaker 1: always hung up on her ex. Yeah, so I probably
Speaker 1: like the voice. Yeah, she's like close my eyes. I
Speaker 1: don't want to look at you.
Speaker 3: I mean, Tabitha, where where is your head at right now?
Speaker 1: You know?
Speaker 2: I just don't know how I can be Andrew and
Speaker 2: be thinking about my ex. Like what if I accidentally
Speaker 2: called him the wrong name one day? Like how would
Speaker 2: that make him feel?
Speaker 5: Like?
Speaker 2: I don't want to put him in a situation where
Speaker 2: he's just the other guy.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that must be hard to hear, Andrew.
Speaker 5: No, I it's it's hard, But I understand where you're
Speaker 5: coming from, Tabitha. I feel for your situation, and I'm
Speaker 5: you know, even right now, I'm kind of very self
Speaker 5: conscious of what I I don't know, like I would.
Speaker 5: I don't know that I could handle that.
Speaker 1: Oh he's a good guy too.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean this is the right time to ask, Tabitha,
Speaker 3: would you want to go out with Andrew one more time?
Speaker 3: We paid for it.
Speaker 1: I I wish you both could get past this, because
Speaker 1: it seems like you could be a really good couple.
Speaker 5: Yeah, we could sip on some helium balloons.
Speaker 1: What if you just did a date where you made
Speaker 1: sure his face was always in your view.
Speaker 2: You know, I might be down to go to like
Speaker 2: one of those silent raids where we just listened to
Speaker 2: our headphones and yeah, those are fun.
Speaker 3: Is something where Andrew doesn't talk at all?
Speaker 4: Yeah, well we could try it, but I don't think
Speaker 4: it's something that would work long term based on you
Speaker 4: know what Tabitha is saying. So I I you know,
Speaker 4: I don't want to ask. I was really just curious
Speaker 4: about why, and I guess selfishly that it wasn't something
Speaker 4: that I did.
Speaker 5: It was just who I am.
Speaker 1: Oh that makes it feel better.
Speaker 5: It's not something.
Speaker 1: We're joking and we get it.
Speaker 3: We get it.
Speaker 5: I just have one question for you, Tabitha. Did you
Speaker 5: kiss me because you wanted to kiss me? Or was
Speaker 5: it like you were kissing your act?
Speaker 3: Oh that's a great question.
Speaker 5: Do you want to know the answer? I want to
Speaker 5: know why.
Speaker 2: Honestly, I just wanted to know if it was the
Speaker 2: same or if different.
Speaker 1: And what's the verdict?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was definitely a lot wetter than I remember.
Speaker 3: Is weather better? I don't know if it really is.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning