WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Bats on the Beach

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<v Speaker 1>We love that you found the podcast. Is Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey the home of the second Date Update? And leave

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<v Speaker 1>it in the comments, where did you find us?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was a viral TikTok or you.

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<v Speaker 3>Can invite it onto the show. How this guy get

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<v Speaker 3>in here?

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<v Speaker 1>I just looked over at me.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, you know me, let us know what brought

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<v Speaker 3>you here.

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<v Speaker 1>We love to hear it. And we got a great

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<v Speaker 1>second date update right now to start your Saturday. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Second Date Update. Whenever you ask people what's your idea

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<v Speaker 3>of the perfect first date, by far, the most cliche

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<v Speaker 3>answer is a long romantic walk along the beach at sunset.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what everybody says, but who actually does that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Really, especially on a first date.

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<v Speaker 3>The closest thing we get normally is a long stumbly

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<v Speaker 3>walk home from a dive bar am. That's like, and

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<v Speaker 3>the closest body of water is the putt of urine

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<v Speaker 3>outside your apartment that you created. Yeah, but one of

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<v Speaker 3>our listeners, believe it or not, actually did the cliche

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<v Speaker 3>thing and did a date at the beach walk on

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<v Speaker 3>the beach andrew you in love yet?

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<v Speaker 4>Or what? Was it?

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<v Speaker 3>As perfect as we all imagine it would be.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it was. I enjoyed it, but it was also

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<v Speaker 5>kind of weird because it was it was the first date.

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<v Speaker 5>I think maybe maybe a long walk on the beach.

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<v Speaker 3>You could have just said no, it wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's interesting, like a beach date can get

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<v Speaker 1>pretty intimate, right, like you're rubbing suntan lotion on each other,

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<v Speaker 1>you're wearing you're wearing bathing suitswhere.

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<v Speaker 3>No, hope, we're back to the ideal version. The real

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<v Speaker 3>version is going to look a lot different. But Andrew

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<v Speaker 3>tell us how it went. Who did you go there with?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? I went there with this girl, Tabitha. We met

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<v Speaker 5>through a friend of a friend on Facebook and we

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<v Speaker 5>sort of started talking, and you know, she seemed very

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<v Speaker 5>nice and attractive. She had tattoos, and she was outdoorsy,

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<v Speaker 5>which is what kind of you know. I saw pictures

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<v Speaker 5>of her hiking and other things. I figured she would

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<v Speaker 5>like the beach.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so the beach was your idea? Was it like

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<v Speaker 1>a day at the beach type of thing?

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<v Speaker 5>It was an evening walk?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay?

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<v Speaker 3>It really was the most cliche you could possibly How

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<v Speaker 3>long was the walk? We say a long walk? I

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<v Speaker 3>mean are we talking like a two three hour event.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you tired, Jose if it's over.

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<v Speaker 3>One hundred feet?

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<v Speaker 5>There was no blisters for him.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just say, yeah, did you like pack a picnic?

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<v Speaker 5>Well it was it was really just it was a

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<v Speaker 5>walk and we were We did end up building a fire,

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<v Speaker 5>so there was stuff to do that committed a crime.

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<v Speaker 1>It was in the legal area, like one of the.

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<v Speaker 3>Places that allows you to build a fire. Like, what

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<v Speaker 3>was it? What was it?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 3>Tell us Andrew, We're just guessing.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well, you know, we we went up and the

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<v Speaker 5>thing was on the whole walk. She was very quiet,

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<v Speaker 5>so I ended up doing all the talking and I

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<v Speaker 5>would make jokes and she wouldn't even laugh.

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<v Speaker 1>I can Is she just like a more reserved person?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think, I mean, since she's a friend of

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<v Speaker 1>a friend.

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<v Speaker 5>Well that's the thing, Like, you know, we built fire

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<v Speaker 5>and we're sitting there. I didn't see any of the

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<v Speaker 5>signals and then out of blue she kisses me.

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<v Speaker 3>WHOA whoa doing something right?

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<v Speaker 1>She's a wild card man.

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<v Speaker 5>When it happened, I was like, okay, and that was

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<v Speaker 5>real fun and enjoyable that that moment. But then all

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<v Speaker 5>of a sudden, all these bats started flying above our heads,

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<v Speaker 5>and she starts freaking out because she doesn't know anything

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<v Speaker 5>about bats, and I'm kind of a bat nerd, and

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<v Speaker 5>so she starts waving her hands and flailing her heads

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<v Speaker 5>trying to get the bats way. I was like, don't worry.

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<v Speaker 5>These are Eastern red bats because I could tell by

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<v Speaker 5>the sounds that they were making.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, you really know you didn't just make that up them.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm a batman and I, oh wow, she didn't laugh

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<v Speaker 5>at that one.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm just going to hear just more turned on

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<v Speaker 3>by that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you want the bats or eating the mosquitos

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<v Speaker 1>that are all around you? Like keeping there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, exactly. Bats are way better than mosquitos. And wanted

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<v Speaker 5>her to stop waving her hands about because provoked they

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<v Speaker 5>could attack. But if they're not provoked, I'll just keep

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<v Speaker 5>on being normal bats.

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<v Speaker 1>So wow, did she listen to you or did she continue?

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<v Speaker 5>She did calm down. I played her some sounds of

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<v Speaker 5>bats that had pre recorded on my phone.

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<v Speaker 1>This is where I think we're finding.

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<v Speaker 3>Out why she's not calling you.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, as we were walking back to the car, I

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<v Speaker 5>knew I thought that that might be the case, so

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<v Speaker 5>I stopped talking about baths, but I again, she wasn't

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<v Speaker 5>contributing anything, so I ended up slipping into this conversation

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<v Speaker 5>about wolves. And I'm not sure if that was the

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<v Speaker 5>right choice. I mean, it's the things that I'm interested in,

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<v Speaker 5>and I knew she was out doorsy, and I.

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<v Speaker 3>Mean they say don't hide your passions on a first day.

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<v Speaker 3>I also think they don't say, like, say all of

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<v Speaker 3>your passions all at once to break the silence on

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<v Speaker 3>a first but it could be wrong. How did this end?

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<v Speaker 3>How did the night end?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean the night and did fine? I guess, I

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<v Speaker 5>mean we survived the night.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you have another kiss?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, there was a There was a small kiss, but

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<v Speaker 5>it was inappropriate goodbye kiss.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, nothing like a big makeout session.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering, like, it sounds like you were uncomfortable with

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<v Speaker 1>her silence. Did you ever ask her any questions other

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<v Speaker 1>than yes or no questions?

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<v Speaker 5>You know? Yeah? Absolutely, I wasn't trying to do all

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<v Speaker 5>the talking. It just it was. It was certainly weird

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<v Speaker 5>because I did want to get to know her, and

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<v Speaker 5>I don't feel like I got to know her. It's

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<v Speaker 5>other than she wanted to kiss me for a moment,

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<v Speaker 5>which was cool, but weird that the.

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<v Speaker 1>One positive sign.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, because that's what I was trying to figure out, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>why do you want this date?

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<v Speaker 5>If?

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<v Speaker 3>If there were so many things that went wrong and

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<v Speaker 3>things that you know, you guys were barely even talking.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, Maybe maybe it's more bid curiosity.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Or maybe it's just that she's hot and it

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<v Speaker 1>was a really good kiss.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe you know, maybe she's more comfortable with kissing than talking,

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<v Speaker 5>but maybe she would get more comfortable with talking as

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<v Speaker 5>we go. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>No, dude, then keep her. There's maybe we should just

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<v Speaker 3>call her and see what she has to say about it.

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<v Speaker 3>Or she doesn't talked to us, Jeff, then maybe this we.

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<v Speaker 5>Need to kiss her.

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<v Speaker 3>You need to kiss her on the phone.

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<v Speaker 5>Jeff.

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<v Speaker 1>No, let's not do that.

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<v Speaker 3>We'll just call her and see what happens. But first

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<v Speaker 3>we got to play a song. We'll come back at

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<v Speaker 3>your second date update right after this.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, all right, but you better not kiss my woman.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we'll make sure that doesn't happen.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't know. I don't think we could. Probably

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<v Speaker 3>here we go second date update. Maybe I'm jumping too

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<v Speaker 3>far ahead here, Yeah you are, But Andrew down the

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<v Speaker 3>road when you and Tabitha get married, instead of releasing

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<v Speaker 3>doves at the wedding, you should release a cage of bats.

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<v Speaker 3>And maybe before that. The biggest challenge is going to

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<v Speaker 3>be getting her to actually say I do, because she

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<v Speaker 3>hardly even speaks. And if you're just joining us, probably

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<v Speaker 3>none of this is making any sense to you. But

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<v Speaker 3>I say she wasn't talking a lot because she was

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<v Speaker 3>super quiet during their date. And I bring up bats

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<v Speaker 3>because Andrew's a bat offficionado and knows all about bats

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<v Speaker 3>and their histories and their diets. And there were bats

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<v Speaker 3>there flying above them while they made out on the

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<v Speaker 3>beach together. And apparently the Eastern red bat only attacks

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<v Speaker 3>when provoked. That's what we learned from Andrew.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I need to look up that fact.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know if I just believe.

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<v Speaker 1>I trust, of course you do.

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<v Speaker 3>We've heard stranger things happen on this show. But I'm

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<v Speaker 3>just praying that Andrew didn't set up the bat attack.

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<v Speaker 3>To look, he's probably a bat whisperer. Can you confirm

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<v Speaker 3>that you didn't set up the attack? Andrew?

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<v Speaker 5>I can confirm that I had nothing to do with

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<v Speaker 5>releasing bats around my date, like I could orchestrate something

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<v Speaker 5>like that. I don't think i'd be single.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, he was a plan to run into bats on

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<v Speaker 3>the beach.

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<v Speaker 1>Then, Andrew, I'm just wondering, what are you like looking

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<v Speaker 1>for out of this? What do you want?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, honestly, I just want to know what I

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<v Speaker 5>did or what happened, Like I just I mean, another

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<v Speaker 5>date would be nice, but I want to know so

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<v Speaker 5>I can adjust for future follies.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean it makes sense a lot of mixed

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<v Speaker 1>signals from her.

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<v Speaker 5>Yep.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, well let's call and try and figure that

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<v Speaker 3>out for you. We're going to die the number right

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<v Speaker 3>now here we go. Hello, Hey is this Tabitha?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, who is this?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh you don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>Uh.

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<v Speaker 3>My name is jeff and I'm from a morning radio

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<v Speaker 3>show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, we're all here.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, okay, okay, Hi. I've heard you guys before.

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<v Speaker 2>But why are you calling me?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, well, thank you. Well, we're calling you at the

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<v Speaker 3>request of one of our listens, nurse Andrew, who you

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<v Speaker 3>went out with the other night.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm guessing Andrew put you up to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but I think it's a good thing. Like he

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<v Speaker 1>seemed to really like you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think he did like me.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>I just I really wasn't ready for that date. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it was really unexpected how I would feel about Andrew.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting, Okay, because we heard a little bit about the

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<v Speaker 3>date and from the sounds of it, you kissed him.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh he gosh, he told you that.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it sounded like a really romantic setting. I could

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<v Speaker 1>see why. I mean, you're having a fire on the

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<v Speaker 1>beach like sounds beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>That's going overhead?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, I have an appointment in a little bit,

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<v Speaker 2>so I don't have a whole lot of time, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>can can you guys tell me what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? Yeah? So, I mean, just real quick, we're doing

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<v Speaker 3>something called second Date Update, and we're trying to help

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<v Speaker 3>Andrew face year out. Why after your romantic beach date,

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<v Speaker 3>there hasn't been a date number two because he did

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<v Speaker 3>mention that you were a little bit quiet during the

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<v Speaker 3>walk along the beach.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, is there a reason for that? I mean, he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't do anything wrong, you know, I just I got

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<v Speaker 2>out of a long term relationship a few years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, a few years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the guy. He we were in love, but he

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<v Speaker 2>moved out of the country. He had an opportunity to

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<v Speaker 2>go do something, and you know, it broke my heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that could be really hard. Are you not over

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<v Speaker 1>it still even after years?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I thought it was over it until I met Andrew,

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<v Speaker 2>which we started talking on Facebook through text. I had

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<v Speaker 2>never heard his voice before.

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<v Speaker 3>Huh, okay, are you saying that Andrew was your very

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<v Speaker 3>first date since that breakup years ago?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, No, I've dated a few people here or there.

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<v Speaker 2>But the thing that really just shocked me about Andrew

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<v Speaker 2>was walking side by side with him on the beach

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<v Speaker 2>hearing his voice. He sounds exactly, I mean, identical to

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<v Speaker 2>my ex.

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<v Speaker 3>Weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, that makes sense. So you're just like

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<v Speaker 1>living in this past relationship while you're hanging out with Andrew.

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<v Speaker 1>That's gotta be so hard or awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>I wish I could relive my I mean, that is

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<v Speaker 3>super weird.

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<v Speaker 2>It was weird. Like at one point he tried to

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<v Speaker 2>hold my hand and I was like looking out at

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<v Speaker 2>the water and all I could think about was my

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<v Speaker 2>ex and like all the good times they had together.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, up until the bad attack. That was I

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like brought me back to reality for a moment,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was starting to tear up because I, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>the one that got away. I feel like that's who

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<v Speaker 2>I was walking on the beach with.

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<v Speaker 1>Totally. And it's not like if you were like doing

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<v Speaker 1>maybe an activity, you wouldn't have as much reflection opportunity.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, totally.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, even if we were at a restaurant and

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<v Speaker 2>sitting across the table from each other, I could see him,

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<v Speaker 2>I would obviously know that that's not my ex, but

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<v Speaker 2>walk inside by side on the beach with him, it

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<v Speaker 2>just brought back all these memories.

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<v Speaker 3>Like oh he kept talking, yeah, right, because.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, what's telling me about all these weird

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<v Speaker 2>animals he was obsessed with. Like, I'm glad he has

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<v Speaker 2>passions and everything, but I just don't know how to

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<v Speaker 2>get over the fact that he sounds just like my ex.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh girl, I feel for you, I do, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing he can do anything about unless he can use

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<v Speaker 1>different voices. Maybe he could talk it like.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, maybe impressions like a celebrity.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, let's find out if he can, because

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<v Speaker 3>I need to tell you, Andrew's been on the other

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<v Speaker 3>line listening this entire time and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, I'm Andrew. I'm so sorry I ruined our date.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh I know, I'm I didn't. I had no idea

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<v Speaker 5>what was going on. Not that I'm happy that that's

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<v Speaker 5>what it was, but I'm happy that that's what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it okay to listen to him? I mean, this

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<v Speaker 1>is kind of a bad venue for you since it's

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<v Speaker 1>just voice right now?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean it sounds like I'm talking to him

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone like it's it's so weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Are we sure that it's not your ex?

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<v Speaker 2>Wow?

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<v Speaker 5>Is there anything that he needed to apologize for that

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<v Speaker 5>you'd like to hear?

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<v Speaker 2>Why did he leave me?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe Andrew is a better version of your ex? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe don't compare them? How could you not?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, this is such an awkward situation, Like Brooke,

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<v Speaker 3>what would you do?

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<v Speaker 1>My husband's best friend sounds just like him. It's so weird.

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<v Speaker 1>When I first met them, I was like, it creeped

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<v Speaker 1>me out. But now that I know them both more,

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<v Speaker 1>that isn't actually the case.

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<v Speaker 3>Would say yes to pretty much anybody, So alexis, what

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<v Speaker 3>about let's get someone that might say no?

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<v Speaker 1>It depends how you ended with your ex. Alexis is

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<v Speaker 1>always hung up on her ex. Yeah, so I probably

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<v Speaker 1>like the voice. Yeah, she's like close my eyes. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to look at you.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, Tabitha, where where is your head at right now?

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<v Speaker 1>You know?

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<v Speaker 2>I just don't know how I can be Andrew and

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<v Speaker 2>be thinking about my ex. Like what if I accidentally

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<v Speaker 2>called him the wrong name one day? Like how would

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<v Speaker 2>that make him feel?

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<v Speaker 5>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to put him in a situation where

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<v Speaker 2>he's just the other guy.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that must be hard to hear, Andrew.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I it's it's hard, But I understand where you're

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<v Speaker 5>coming from, Tabitha. I feel for your situation, and I'm

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<v Speaker 5>you know, even right now, I'm kind of very self

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<v Speaker 5>conscious of what I I don't know, like I would.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know that I could handle that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he's a good guy too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean this is the right time to ask, Tabitha,

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<v Speaker 3>would you want to go out with Andrew one more time?

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<v Speaker 3>We paid for it.

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<v Speaker 1>I I wish you both could get past this, because

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like you could be a really good couple.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we could sip on some helium balloons.

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<v Speaker 1>What if you just did a date where you made

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<v Speaker 1>sure his face was always in your view.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I might be down to go to like

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<v Speaker 2>one of those silent raids where we just listened to

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<v Speaker 2>our headphones and yeah, those are fun.

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<v Speaker 3>Is something where Andrew doesn't talk at all?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, well we could try it, but I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>it's something that would work long term based on you

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<v Speaker 4>know what Tabitha is saying. So I I you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to ask. I was really just curious

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<v Speaker 4>about why, and I guess selfishly that it wasn't something

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<v Speaker 4>that I did.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just who I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that makes it feel better.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not something.

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<v Speaker 1>We're joking and we get it.

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<v Speaker 3>We get it.

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<v Speaker 5>I just have one question for you, Tabitha. Did you

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<v Speaker 5>kiss me because you wanted to kiss me? Or was

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<v Speaker 5>it like you were kissing your act?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh that's a great question.

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<v Speaker 5>Do you want to know the answer? I want to

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<v Speaker 5>know why.

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<v Speaker 2>Honestly, I just wanted to know if it was the

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<v Speaker 2>same or if different.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's the verdict?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was definitely a lot wetter than I remember.

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<v Speaker 3>Is weather better? I don't know if it really is.

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning