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Speaker 1: We love that you found the podcast. Is Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey the home of the second Date Update? And leave

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Speaker 1: it in the comments, where did you find us?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: Maybe it was a viral TikTok or you.

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Speaker 3: Can invite it onto the show. How this guy get

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Speaker 1: I just looked over at me.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, you know me, let us know what brought

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Speaker 1: We love to hear it. And we got a great

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Speaker 1: second date update right now to start your Saturday. Here

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Speaker 1: we go.

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Speaker 3: Second Date Update. Whenever you ask people what's your idea

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Speaker 3: of the perfect first date, by far, the most cliche

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Speaker 3: answer is a long romantic walk along the beach at sunset.

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Speaker 3: That's what everybody says, but who actually does that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Really, especially on a first date.

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Speaker 3: The closest thing we get normally is a long stumbly

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Speaker 3: walk home from a dive bar am. That's like, and

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Speaker 3: the closest body of water is the putt of urine

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Speaker 3: outside your apartment that you created. Yeah, but one of

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Speaker 3: our listeners, believe it or not, actually did the cliche

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Speaker 3: thing and did a date at the beach walk on

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Speaker 3: the beach andrew you in love yet?

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Speaker 4: Or what? Was it?

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Speaker 3: As perfect as we all imagine it would be.

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Speaker 5: Well, it was. I enjoyed it, but it was also

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Speaker 5: kind of weird because it was it was the first date.

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Speaker 5: I think maybe maybe a long walk on the beach.

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Speaker 3: You could have just said no, it wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's interesting, like a beach date can get

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Speaker 1: pretty intimate, right, like you're rubbing suntan lotion on each other,

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Speaker 1: you're wearing you're wearing bathing suitswhere.

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Speaker 3: No, hope, we're back to the ideal version. The real

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Speaker 3: version is going to look a lot different. But Andrew

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Speaker 3: tell us how it went. Who did you go there with?

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Speaker 5: Well? I went there with this girl, Tabitha. We met

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Speaker 5: through a friend of a friend on Facebook and we

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Speaker 5: sort of started talking, and you know, she seemed very

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Speaker 5: nice and attractive. She had tattoos, and she was outdoorsy,

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Speaker 5: which is what kind of you know. I saw pictures

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Speaker 5: of her hiking and other things. I figured she would

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Speaker 5: like the beach.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so the beach was your idea? Was it like

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Speaker 1: a day at the beach type of thing?

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Speaker 5: It was an evening walk?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay?

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Speaker 3: It really was the most cliche you could possibly How

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Speaker 3: long was the walk? We say a long walk? I

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Speaker 3: mean are we talking like a two three hour event.

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Speaker 1: Are you tired, Jose if it's over.

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Speaker 3: One hundred feet?

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Speaker 5: There was no blisters for him.

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Speaker 1: Let's just say, yeah, did you like pack a picnic?

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Speaker 5: Well it was it was really just it was a

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Speaker 5: walk and we were We did end up building a fire,

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Speaker 5: so there was stuff to do that committed a crime.

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Speaker 1: It was in the legal area, like one of the.

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Speaker 3: Places that allows you to build a fire. Like, what

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Speaker 3: was it? What was it?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: Tell us Andrew, We're just guessing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, you know, we we went up and the

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Speaker 5: thing was on the whole walk. She was very quiet,

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Speaker 1: I can Is she just like a more reserved person?

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Speaker 1: Do you think, I mean, since she's a friend of

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Speaker 5: Well that's the thing, Like, you know, we built fire

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Speaker 5: and we're sitting there. I didn't see any of the

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Speaker 5: signals and then out of blue she kisses me.

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Speaker 3: WHOA whoa doing something right?

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Speaker 1: She's a wild card man.

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Speaker 5: When it happened, I was like, okay, and that was

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Speaker 3: Wow, you really know you didn't just make that up them.

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Speaker 5: I'm a batman and I, oh wow, she didn't laugh

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm just going to hear just more turned on

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Speaker 1: I mean, you want the bats or eating the mosquitos

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Speaker 5: her to stop waving her hands about because provoked they

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Speaker 1: So wow, did she listen to you or did she continue?

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Speaker 5: She did calm down. I played her some sounds of

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Speaker 5: bats that had pre recorded on my phone.

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Speaker 1: This is where I think we're finding.

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Speaker 3: Out why she's not calling you.

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Speaker 5: Well, as we were walking back to the car, I

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Speaker 5: knew I thought that that might be the case, so

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Speaker 5: I stopped talking about baths, but I again, she wasn't

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Speaker 5: about wolves. And I'm not sure if that was the

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Speaker 5: right choice. I mean, it's the things that I'm interested in,

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Speaker 5: and I knew she was out doorsy, and I.

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Speaker 3: Mean they say don't hide your passions on a first day.

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Speaker 3: I also think they don't say, like, say all of

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Speaker 3: your passions all at once to break the silence on

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Speaker 3: a first but it could be wrong. How did this end?

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Speaker 3: How did the night end?

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Speaker 5: I mean the night and did fine? I guess, I

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Speaker 5: mean we survived the night.

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Speaker 1: Did you have another kiss?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there was a There was a small kiss, but

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Speaker 5: it was inappropriate goodbye kiss.

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Speaker 3: Okay, nothing like a big makeout session.

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering, like, it sounds like you were uncomfortable with

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Speaker 5: You know? Yeah? Absolutely, I wasn't trying to do all

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Speaker 5: the talking. It just it was. It was certainly weird

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Speaker 5: I don't feel like I got to know her. It's

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Speaker 5: other than she wanted to kiss me for a moment,

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Speaker 5: which was cool, but weird that the.

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Speaker 1: One positive sign.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because that's what I was trying to figure out, Like,

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Speaker 3: why do you want this date?

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Speaker 5: If?

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Speaker 3: If there were so many things that went wrong and

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Speaker 5: Right, Maybe maybe it's more bid curiosity.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Or maybe it's just that she's hot and it

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Speaker 1: was a really good kiss.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Maybe you know, maybe she's more comfortable with kissing than talking,

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Speaker 5: but maybe she would get more comfortable with talking as

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Speaker 5: we go. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: No, dude, then keep her. There's maybe we should just

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Speaker 3: call her and see what she has to say about it.

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Speaker 3: Or she doesn't talked to us, Jeff, then maybe this we.

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Speaker 5: Need to kiss her.

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Speaker 3: You need to kiss her on the phone.

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Speaker 5: Jeff.

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Speaker 1: No, let's not do that.

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Speaker 3: We'll just call her and see what happens. But first

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Speaker 3: we got to play a song. We'll come back at

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Speaker 3: your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 5: All right, all right, but you better not kiss my woman.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll make sure that doesn't happen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I don't think we could. Probably

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Speaker 3: here we go second date update. Maybe I'm jumping too

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Speaker 3: far ahead here, Yeah you are, But Andrew down the

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Speaker 3: road when you and Tabitha get married, instead of releasing

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Speaker 3: doves at the wedding, you should release a cage of bats.

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Speaker 3: And maybe before that. The biggest challenge is going to

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Speaker 3: hardly even speaks. And if you're just joining us, probably

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Speaker 3: none of this is making any sense to you. But

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Speaker 3: I say she wasn't talking a lot because she was

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Speaker 3: super quiet during their date. And I bring up bats

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Speaker 3: because Andrew's a bat offficionado and knows all about bats

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Speaker 3: and their histories and their diets. And there were bats

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Speaker 3: beach together. And apparently the Eastern red bat only attacks

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Speaker 3: when provoked. That's what we learned from Andrew.

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Speaker 1: I feel like I need to look up that fact.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I just believe.

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Speaker 1: I trust, of course you do.

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Speaker 3: We've heard stranger things happen on this show. But I'm

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Speaker 3: just praying that Andrew didn't set up the bat attack.

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Speaker 3: To look, he's probably a bat whisperer. Can you confirm

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Speaker 3: that you didn't set up the attack? Andrew?

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Speaker 5: I can confirm that I had nothing to do with

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Speaker 5: releasing bats around my date, like I could orchestrate something

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Speaker 5: like that. I don't think i'd be single.

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Speaker 3: Okay, he was a plan to run into bats on

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Speaker 3: the beach.

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Speaker 1: Then, Andrew, I'm just wondering, what are you like looking

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Speaker 1: for out of this? What do you want?

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Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, I just want to know what I

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Speaker 5: did or what happened, Like I just I mean, another

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Speaker 5: date would be nice, but I want to know so

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Speaker 5: I can adjust for future follies.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean it makes sense a lot of mixed

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Speaker 5: Yep.

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Speaker 3: All right, well let's call and try and figure that

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Speaker 3: out for you. We're going to die the number right

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Speaker 3: now here we go. Hello, Hey is this Tabitha?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who is this?

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Speaker 3: Oh you don't know.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 3: My name is jeff and I'm from a morning radio

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Speaker 3: show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi.

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Speaker 1: Hey, we're all here.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, Hi. I've heard you guys before.

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Speaker 2: But why are you calling me?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Okay, well, thank you. Well, we're calling you at the

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Speaker 3: request of one of our listens, nurse Andrew, who you

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Speaker 3: went out with the other night.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm guessing Andrew put you up to this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think it's a good thing. Like he

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Speaker 1: seemed to really like you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think he did like me.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 2: I just I really wasn't ready for that date. You know,

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Speaker 2: it was really unexpected how I would feel about Andrew.

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Speaker 3: Interesting, Okay, because we heard a little bit about the

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Speaker 3: date and from the sounds of it, you kissed him.

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Speaker 2: Oh he gosh, he told you that.

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Speaker 1: Well, it sounded like a really romantic setting. I could

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Speaker 1: see why. I mean, you're having a fire on the

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Speaker 1: beach like sounds beautiful.

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Speaker 3: That's going overhead?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I have an appointment in a little bit,

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Speaker 2: so I don't have a whole lot of time, you know,

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Speaker 2: can can you guys tell me what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Okay? Yeah? So, I mean, just real quick, we're doing

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Speaker 3: something called second Date Update, and we're trying to help

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Speaker 3: Andrew face year out. Why after your romantic beach date,

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Speaker 3: there hasn't been a date number two because he did

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is there a reason for that? I mean, he

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Speaker 2: didn't do anything wrong, you know, I just I got

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Speaker 1: Wait, a few years ago.

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Speaker 2: Well, the guy. He we were in love, but he

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that could be really hard. Are you not over

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Speaker 2: Well, I thought it was over it until I met Andrew,

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Speaker 3: Huh, okay, are you saying that Andrew was your very

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Speaker 2: No? No, No, I've dated a few people here or there.

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Speaker 2: But the thing that really just shocked me about Andrew

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Speaker 3: Weird.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that makes sense. So you're just like

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Speaker 1: That's gotta be so hard or awesome.

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Speaker 3: I wish I could relive my I mean, that is

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Speaker 2: It was weird. Like at one point he tried to

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Speaker 2: Oh no, up until the bad attack. That was I

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Speaker 1: Totally. And it's not like if you were like doing

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Speaker 1: Oh god, totally.

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Speaker 2: You know, even if we were at a restaurant and

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Speaker 3: Like oh he kept talking, yeah, right, because.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, what's telling me about all these weird

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Speaker 1: Oh girl, I feel for you, I do, and it's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe impressions like a celebrity.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, let's find out if he can, because

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Speaker 3: I need to tell you, Andrew's been on the other

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Speaker 4: Sorry.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm Andrew. I'm so sorry I ruined our date.

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Speaker 5: Oh I know, I'm I didn't. I had no idea

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Speaker 5: what was going on. Not that I'm happy that that's

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Speaker 1: Is it okay to listen to him? I mean, this

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it sounds like I'm talking to him

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Speaker 3: Are we sure that it's not your ex?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 5: Is there anything that he needed to apologize for that

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Speaker 2: Why did he leave me?

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Speaker 1: Maybe Andrew is a better version of your ex? You know,

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Speaker 1: maybe don't compare them? How could you not?

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is such an awkward situation, Like Brooke,

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Speaker 1: My husband's best friend sounds just like him. It's so weird.

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Speaker 1: When I first met them, I was like, it creeped

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Speaker 1: that isn't actually the case.

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Speaker 3: Would say yes to pretty much anybody, So alexis, what

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Speaker 1: It depends how you ended with your ex. Alexis is

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Speaker 1: like the voice. Yeah, she's like close my eyes. I

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Speaker 3: I mean, Tabitha, where where is your head at right now?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: I just don't know how I can be Andrew and

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 2: I don't want to put him in a situation where

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that must be hard to hear, Andrew.

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Speaker 5: No, I it's it's hard, But I understand where you're

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Speaker 5: coming from, Tabitha. I feel for your situation, and I'm

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Speaker 5: you know, even right now, I'm kind of very self

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Speaker 1: Oh he's a good guy too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean this is the right time to ask, Tabitha,

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Speaker 3: We paid for it.

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Speaker 1: I I wish you both could get past this, because

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Speaker 1: it seems like you could be a really good couple.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we could sip on some helium balloons.

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Speaker 1: What if you just did a date where you made

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Speaker 2: You know, I might be down to go to like

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Speaker 3: Is something where Andrew doesn't talk at all?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well we could try it, but I don't think

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Speaker 4: know what Tabitha is saying. So I I you know,

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Speaker 4: I don't want to ask. I was really just curious

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Speaker 5: It was just who I am.

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Speaker 1: Oh that makes it feel better.

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Speaker 5: It's not something.

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Speaker 1: We're joking and we get it.

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Speaker 5: I just have one question for you, Tabitha. Did you

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Speaker 5: Do you want to know the answer? I want to

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I just wanted to know if it was the

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Speaker 2: same or if different.

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Speaker 1: And what's the verdict?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was definitely a lot wetter than I remember.

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning