WEBVTT - #518 - Allie Colleen Returns! Stories Behind her 30-plus Tattoos + On Wanting Her Dad to Just be ‘Dad’ + Why She Loves Working Out + Why Oklahoma Isn’t Home 0:00:06.800 --> 0:00:09.040 I think he's very, very hesitant to tell me anything 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:10.920 about music, you know what I mean, because it just 0:00:10.920 --> 0:00:12.080 doesn't work the same as it did. 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:14.560 I mean, you're talking about generations different. 0:00:14.720 --> 0:00:17.880 My dad hates social media and sometimes thought that maybe 0:00:17.920 --> 0:00:20.200 I shouldn't do social media like for myself, like the 0:00:20.239 --> 0:00:20.920 Preserve Alley. 0:00:20.960 --> 0:00:22.239 But I'm like, who else is going to do it? 0:00:22.280 --> 0:00:22.480 Man? 0:00:22.520 --> 0:00:24.120 Like I'm an independent artist. 0:00:25.960 --> 0:00:30.200 Episode five eighteen of The Bobby Cast with Ali Coleen. 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:34.120 She just put out a new EP called Sincerely Rolling Stone, 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:38.440 and I found because we've had her before and I've 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:40.400 always tried to be sensitivebout the fact that she is 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:44.599 her own artist. She's also Garth Brooks's daughter, and I 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:47.519 never want to be like, hey, so Garth's daughter. And 0:00:47.560 --> 0:00:49.040 I felt like in the first time, we really didn't 0:00:49.080 --> 0:00:52.520 do that much at all till the end. But this time, 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:55.680 so much of her music this time is about and 0:00:55.720 --> 0:00:59.280 you can correct me if I'm wrong here about how 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:03.720 she balanced it deals lives with the fact that there's 0:01:03.720 --> 0:01:06.440 an expectation on her because she's Garth's daughter. 0:01:06.600 --> 0:01:08.399 Do you feel like that's accurate? Yeah, she got deep 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:10.800 into it here, felt like therapy throughout. 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:13.840 And I think it was because really a lot of 0:01:13.840 --> 0:01:17.600 her music this time is about those feelings that surround that, 0:01:18.720 --> 0:01:21.200 and we talked about it. Otherwise, I don't think I 0:01:21.240 --> 0:01:22.960 would have just canniballed into it. I would have definitely 0:01:23.000 --> 0:01:26.000 respected her as she is as her own artist. But 0:01:26.440 --> 0:01:29.880 I was grateful for her generosity in that area. Yeah, 0:01:29.920 --> 0:01:31.640 it was almost like he couldn't talk about the music 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:35.640 without talking about that. Yeah, so know that, know that 0:01:35.720 --> 0:01:37.800 I would have for sure just been like, hey, let's 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:39.640 talk about your music, because I definitely respect her as 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:42.600 an artist and as a songwriter and just who she 0:01:42.680 --> 0:01:43.360 is as a person. 0:01:45.680 --> 0:01:47.640 So yeah, that's it. I just want to make sure 0:01:47.440 --> 0:01:48.800 we're all cool there. 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:53.600 She's Garth's daughter, but she's also first and foremost Ali Coleen, 0:01:53.720 --> 0:01:56.840 her definite own person. She has a lot of tattoos. 0:01:56.880 --> 0:02:01.240 We talk about that. Her arms are and her even 0:02:01.240 --> 0:02:03.840 her legs are covered in art. I won't even say tattoos. 0:02:03.840 --> 0:02:06.520 It's like one big art project. She didn't sing a 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:08.640 lot growing up, especially not in front of her family. 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:10.840 I don't know if we talked about horses this. 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:12.080 Time, I don't think so. 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:15.160 Oh, well, a place in her house we talked about 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:19.600 that's true. That's true, but she's big horse person, so 0:02:19.639 --> 0:02:22.280 we'll just get to it right now, Episode five eighteen 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:27.639 Ali Coleen. Follow her on Instagram, Alikolen Music or check 0:02:27.639 --> 0:02:31.000 it out alikolen music dot com. I don't want to 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:33.000 spoil anything, but when she's like people just expect me 0:02:33.080 --> 0:02:34.840 to play friends in little places, that was kind of funny. 0:02:35.680 --> 0:02:37.040 I here you go enjoy. 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:40.680 Right before we went on, we were talking about exercising. 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:43.040 I don't like going to the gym. 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:48.000 I don't like exercising, but I think I six days 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:50.280 a week probably What do you not like about it? Everything? 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:53.680 I hate it? What do you like about it? Though? 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:57.360 Because you get fired up you're like, I just like going, like, 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:58.799 what is it about it? 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:00.160 You still love it? 0:03:00.280 --> 0:03:03.160 I think it's it's a big control thing, right like, 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:04.560 because I think there's a lot of stuff you doing 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:05.880 here in your day that you don't want to do, 0:03:06.480 --> 0:03:08.839 and I get to choose to do this one. It's 0:03:08.880 --> 0:03:12.440 also like such a release. I'm an angry guy sometimes, 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:14.600 you know what I mean, and I don't feel that way. 0:03:14.440 --> 0:03:15.280 When I get out of there. 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:17.359 It's funny that that is because everybody has different ways 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:20.560 to release, and I do have friends that are similar 0:03:20.560 --> 0:03:22.560 to you and they like to And I own a 0:03:22.600 --> 0:03:24.359 bunch of boxing gyms here in town for a long time, 0:03:24.400 --> 0:03:28.240 and so I liked it, but I never found my 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:33.519 release in that, and like the exerting physically, I think 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:38.000 mostly my release is like getting a burner account, so 0:03:38.000 --> 0:03:39.160 social media and going after people. 0:03:40.040 --> 0:03:40.600 That's my role. 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:44.360 Do you link it to performing the gym? No, because 0:03:44.400 --> 0:03:45.480 like you don't ever stop performing. 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:47.960 I hate the gym, though, Okay, let's break this up. 0:03:48.000 --> 0:03:49.560 I like I like where you're, where you're taking me. 0:03:50.240 --> 0:03:50.720 Yeah. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:54.840 I feel like my day is constantly creating content, regardless 0:03:54.960 --> 0:03:57.000 thinking of it talking about it. 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:58.840 I got like five shows. 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:00.680 If I'm touring a part of the year if I'm 0:04:01.000 --> 0:04:05.120 coming up, so that's always happening. I still hate the gym, 0:04:05.160 --> 0:04:06.680 even though I'm able to separate from it. 0:04:06.720 --> 0:04:07.360 I just hate. 0:04:07.880 --> 0:04:11.520 I like exercising. If there's a Okay, you put me here, 0:04:11.520 --> 0:04:15.240 I got it. I like competing. I like competing it's 0:04:15.240 --> 0:04:17.680 other people and beating other people because I'm so insecure 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:19.440 that I have to beat people that stuff to feel 0:04:19.440 --> 0:04:23.560 good about myself. And so if my exercise comes from that, 0:04:23.600 --> 0:04:25.799 a plus, will do it all day. So beat Bobby 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:29.160 but I don't like that because I can beat Bobby 0:04:29.760 --> 0:04:30.680 or I can lose to Bobby. 0:04:31.440 --> 0:04:31.719 Bobby. 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:33.040 I can beat Bobby or I can lose to Bobby. 0:04:33.040 --> 0:04:35.760 By the way, Bobby wins, I don't like running. It's 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:36.360 what I don't like running. 0:04:36.360 --> 0:04:38.200 On there's Bobby and there's the self. 0:04:38.880 --> 0:04:41.920 Yeah, but even if the self wins or if Bobby wins, 0:04:41.960 --> 0:04:42.800 either way, I still won. 0:04:43.240 --> 0:04:45.279 Oh, the self can lose to Bobby dog. 0:04:45.440 --> 0:04:47.480 Yeah, but that's okay because then Bobby's still one, one 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:48.240 of the Bobby's one. 0:04:48.480 --> 0:04:50.080 Okay, all right, all right, all right, so. 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:53.679 You liked you go, Okay, what do you do your box? 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:55.960 You say, I go to hot box when I don't 0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:57.600 want to do anything, because then you show up and 0:04:57.640 --> 0:04:59.240 you're in a class and you have to and then 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:01.360 the competition comes in and it's like, well, I'm gonna 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.200 work harder than the dude next to me today, so 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:05.479 that I do that. When I don't want to do something, 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:07.960 I go to hot box because I know my weaknesses, 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:09.000 and that is pushing myself. 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:11.720 I don't want to My weakness is just getting up 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:13.640 to go once I get in the car, if I 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:15.159 go to the gym, or I'm good. 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:17.400 It's just getting like put in my clothes on. 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:19.520 When was the last time you bought a new gym outfit. 0:05:19.240 --> 0:05:22.840 Bobby, Oh no, never, not in forever. But I'm good though. 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:24.960 I'm just telling you right now, I like a cutite 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:26.920 by a new gym fit. I'm in the next day, 0:05:27.000 --> 0:05:28.080 I'm probably in that night. 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:29.720 You know what I mean. I'm in the fit, I'm 0:05:29.760 --> 0:05:30.800 in the gym. I'm ready. 0:05:31.600 --> 0:05:34.240 I don't think I usually just cut out sleeves of 0:05:34.279 --> 0:05:36.120 old shirts and that's a new outfit for me. 0:05:36.200 --> 0:05:39.039 Though. Long as I cut sleeves out, I'm good. 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:40.719 We could also debunk that if you wanted to, but 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:41.240 we don't have to. 0:05:41.320 --> 0:05:43.040 I don't think so. I think that's a new shirt 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:44.440 for me. My wife tells me all the time. 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:46.120 She goes, I see you cut sleeves out of two 0:05:46.160 --> 0:05:48.920 more of your shirts I like to wear. I think 0:05:48.920 --> 0:05:50.880 that's one of my simple joys, wearing cutout shirts. 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:52.600 Do you ever feel that way about your laces? 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:55.840 So here's the thing about my laces. My laces are 0:05:56.480 --> 0:06:00.560 and we're look at us, Hey, look at us. Similar 0:06:01.320 --> 0:06:06.799 I liked where my lace is loose. If they're shoes 0:06:06.880 --> 0:06:09.880 that I know, I'm gonna do nothing athletic in and 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:12.400 then I can slide on and off. Yeah, and then 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:15.600 I have shoes that are very similar that the strings 0:06:15.600 --> 0:06:16.960 all pull them out, and I keep them tight just 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:19.320 in case I have to, like run, if I'm getting 0:06:19.400 --> 0:06:21.760 robbed or something. I think that would be that reason. 0:06:22.040 --> 0:06:24.279 What is your lace theory? Because yours a loose as well. 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:31.039 Mine are loose, but they're also the they can't be 0:06:31.080 --> 0:06:32.760 longer you go to step on them, you know what 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:33.159 I mean. 0:06:33.320 --> 0:06:34.640 Yeah, but you got to make them so loose as 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:37.080 they can't because if you made them the exact link 0:06:37.080 --> 0:06:39.840 they were, you would step on them like you've kept 0:06:39.880 --> 0:06:41.039 them loose to the front of the foot. 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:43.240 Yes, yeah, yeah, I feel like these are my shoes, 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:45.200 It says I. There's nothing I can do except work, 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:48.160 and I love shoes. I didn't have a bunch shoes 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:50.120 growing up as a kid, so now it's these are 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:51.880 very expensive shoes. And I say that in the way 0:06:51.880 --> 0:06:53.280 if I had never had good shoes growing up, so 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:54.359 now I buy expensive shoes. 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:56.600 I played a show for a roofing company in Oklahoma, 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:59.960 and it was the wife's birthday, and she gotten into 0:07:00.080 --> 0:07:01.360 a Louis Vuitton set. 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:04.159 For her cow at that party of wait what. 0:07:04.360 --> 0:07:09.360 She got a louisiton like harness, like a whole set. Yeah, 0:07:09.640 --> 0:07:10.640 they made me think about it. 0:07:10.960 --> 0:07:13.160 They make Louis Biton harnesses, I don't. 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:14.720 Think they do. I think they did, you know what 0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:15.120 I mean? 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:18.920 For one, I think so? Yeah, so those are just listening. 0:07:18.920 --> 0:07:21.840 I have on a pair of air Max red Nike 0:07:22.120 --> 0:07:25.320 Louis Biton and I love them. And when I put 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:26.760 these on, I know that I can't hop into a 0:07:26.760 --> 0:07:27.480 pickleball match. 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:31.520 That seems more like a personal boundary for you than 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.280 the shoe. But I think I will hurt. 0:07:34.320 --> 0:07:35.800 Really yeah, I have to tighten these way up. I 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:37.800 can do. So what's your shoe deal? 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:40.680 Because you you you have a pretty cool fashion since 0:07:40.720 --> 0:07:42.400 in general, why I love. 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:43.680 Half and half. I always have. 0:07:43.800 --> 0:07:46.440 When I was probably in like eighth grade, my sister 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.240 got a pair of kool Aids and she couldn't pick 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:50.440 between the yellow pair and the green pears, so she 0:07:50.520 --> 0:07:52.400 bought both and she wore like the right and left 0:07:52.400 --> 0:07:54.640 shoe of both colors. And ever since then, I've been 0:07:54.640 --> 0:07:57.360 obsessed with half and half. So my laces are half 0:07:57.400 --> 0:08:00.960 and half for tour, I have a Timberlin and a 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:04.600 black Timberlain. I always mix my converse half and half. 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:05.600 That wouldn't work for me. 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:10.640 I'm pretty colorblind in general, so I'd accidentally be normal. 0:08:11.680 --> 0:08:13.800 But you could tell the difference between a dark shoe and. 0:08:13.760 --> 0:08:15.720 A light shoe if it was black and white. Yeah, 0:08:15.760 --> 0:08:17.160 but blue and green? Now? 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:19.360 Can you tell that my laces are different? 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:21.320 I didn't notice that we were different until you said that. 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:21.800 Interesting. 0:08:22.680 --> 0:08:25.240 I don't know too much about the whole color blind thing. 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:27.520 It's certain colors for certain people. 0:08:27.280 --> 0:08:28.800 Right, all minds dark colors. 0:08:28.840 --> 0:08:31.160 After about a six on the scale, it's all black, 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:32.960 maybe six point five. 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:34.720 How do you pick the colors you like to wear? 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:39.200 I love red. I weren't a lot of red today 0:08:39.200 --> 0:08:40.920 because you can see it, or I can see. 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:43.480 Red a little darker. But yeah, I wear a lot 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:46.280 of red or light colors. My wife helps me. When 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:47.600 I was in high school and I would go I 0:08:47.640 --> 0:08:50.439 was in Key Club and which is Kwana's educating youth, 0:08:50.480 --> 0:08:52.200 and I would go speak and try to win scholarships. 0:08:52.559 --> 0:08:55.160 And so they let me because of my quote unquote disability. 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:57.199 I don't say that now, but they let me take 0:08:57.200 --> 0:08:58.960 my friend with me to match clothes because I couldn't 0:08:58.960 --> 0:08:59.559 tell the difference. 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:01.079 I really didn't need them, but. 0:09:01.120 --> 0:09:03.000 The camaraderie is kind of cool, but that's crazy. 0:09:03.120 --> 0:09:03.280 Yeah. 0:09:03.360 --> 0:09:05.400 No, I really didn't need them because I can just 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:07.480 like now. A lot of my stuff's labeled as well. 0:09:08.120 --> 0:09:09.959 But I'm not blind, but my right eye doesn't work. 0:09:09.960 --> 0:09:11.680 I have eight percent vision of my right eye in general, 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:14.040 so I should have a handicap sticker and I don't. 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:16.040 And you still pickleball the hell out of it though. 0:09:16.080 --> 0:09:17.920 Imagine though I've had both eyes, how good I would be. 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:19.400 I don't think anyone wants to. 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:22.280 They shouldn't give me Unstoppable because I want a bronze 0:09:22.320 --> 0:09:24.280 medal with a one eye. Imagine I've had both eyes 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:26.800 and if I have a silver? Do you play pickleball 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:27.040 at all? 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:30.000 I'm going to tell you no, but yes, I do 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:30.840 play pickleball. 0:09:30.920 --> 0:09:31.120 Yeh. 0:09:31.160 --> 0:09:31.560 What do you do? 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:33.240 So if you're going to work out, though, you say 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:34.360 you go to you don't have say the name of 0:09:34.360 --> 0:09:36.600 the gym, but you go to like a I just go. 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:37.960 To like local gym when I want to work out 0:09:38.000 --> 0:09:38.800 that has like free weights. 0:09:38.840 --> 0:09:42.480 I love lifting and you can make yourself work hard, yeah, 0:09:43.320 --> 0:09:45.200 because I can make myself work hard at work. 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:46.760 It's hard for me. 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:50.640 To just push myself physically to the point where it's uncomfortable, 0:09:51.120 --> 0:09:53.280 which I pay a trainer to do. But it's hard 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:55.360 for me to push myself in that part of my 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:58.800 life that I push myself so hard it makes me uncomfortable. 0:09:58.840 --> 0:09:59.440 But you can do that. 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:03.920 Yeah, I feel like I perform for everybody else all 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:05.720 the time, and the gym is the only place that 0:10:05.760 --> 0:10:06.959 I only perform for Ali. 0:10:07.520 --> 0:10:08.160 That's interesting. 0:10:08.200 --> 0:10:10.120 I feel like I don't want to perform anywhere else, 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:11.559 and the gym's part of the place I don't want 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:12.080 to perform. 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:14.280 I can't relate to not wanting to perform. 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.599 Yeah, I don't. I'm such an introvert when I'm not 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:19.319 an extrovert, But. 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:20.640 You don't perform for yourself at home. 0:10:21.160 --> 0:10:22.920 I perform for my dogs. I do bits all the 0:10:22.920 --> 0:10:24.520 time for my dogs and my wife. But she didn't 0:10:24.520 --> 0:10:25.000 really like to. 0:10:24.920 --> 0:10:26.640 Bitch, Oh the world's your dogs have seen? 0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:29.040 Yeah? Yeah, I do a lot of bits. But I'm 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:30.000 very introverted. 0:10:30.559 --> 0:10:32.719 If I'm not on a lot of people will go 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:34.880 if they'll send me a restaurant or something, and they 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:37.040 won't come say hi, this is the annoying part about it. 0:10:37.040 --> 0:10:40.160 They won't come say hi, but then they'll tag me 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:41.600 in something and be like, here's a total jerk. 0:10:41.679 --> 0:10:43.800 Yeah, I'll tell somebody later that you were like put off, 0:10:43.800 --> 0:10:44.920 but they didn't, and I was like. 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:49.520 I never said anything to me, And I naturally am 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:51.640 a quiet person that feels like nobody wants me in 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:53.080 their space, so I don't get in their space. 0:10:53.240 --> 0:10:56.120 Well, the expectation for someone to expect you to come 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:59.800 and create rapport just because you're in a room is crazy. 0:11:00.080 --> 0:11:01.960 You don't know they're there, and you don't care they're there. 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:05.080 Respectfully, you're just at First Watch having some avocado toast, 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:05.640 you know what I mean. 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.040 That's crazy. You shouldn't have to set rapport with the 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:08.640 entire room. 0:11:09.240 --> 0:11:10.520 Yes, and I agree. 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:14.560 I also appreciate the fact that they think they know 0:11:14.679 --> 0:11:17.720 me well enough, because it's an odd relationship to have 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:20.760 with that, because it does irritate me when people will say, man, 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:22.120 he was a jerk er tagged me, Hey, you were 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:23.439 such a jerk at this place, and I'm like, you 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:25.079 never said hi to me. How am I supposed to 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.840 react to somebody who doesn't come up and say hello. 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:29.760 However, I think for me. 0:11:29.880 --> 0:11:31.880 The benefit of that is somebody feels like they know 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:34.720 me well enough through what they've consumed from me that 0:11:34.720 --> 0:11:37.079 they feel I should be a certain way. And that's 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:43.000 intimate in that content, you know, absorption from people. And 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:45.480 I don't think it's fair, but I have found kind 0:11:45.480 --> 0:11:48.480 of a silver lining to that that people feel they 0:11:48.520 --> 0:11:52.480 know me well enough to get upset irrationally because it's 0:11:52.480 --> 0:11:52.959 not fair. 0:11:53.320 --> 0:11:54.079 It's not fair. 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:54.680 It's not fair. 0:11:54.760 --> 0:11:55.280 It's not fair. 0:11:55.360 --> 0:11:57.199 I know that you're an introvert, so maybe you don't 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:00.600 relate to this, or maybe you do. I I'm an introvert, 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:02.680 so if I'm out in public, I've just already decided 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:04.680 I'm ounta in public. How do you feel about people 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:07.200 who are Like, if celebrities aren't going to be nice 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:09.120 to you, they have no reason to go to a restaurant. 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:10.920 I hate I feel like they should be able to 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:11.840 go to a restaurant. 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:15.440 There's only two rules that I give people that listen 0:12:15.440 --> 0:12:16.760 to me, and they don't have to listen to my rules. 0:12:16.760 --> 0:12:20.040 But if a celebrity is with a kid, or they 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:22.720 have food in front of them in a public place, 0:12:23.400 --> 0:12:26.960 leave them alone. Other than that, they know what they've 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:29.600 got themselves into and they've gone to public. 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:32.600 Knowing that people will know them. Their job was to 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:33.120 be known. 0:12:33.440 --> 0:12:36.080 Yeah, so if they have a kid with them, don't 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:38.000 bother them, or if there's food in front of them, 0:12:38.160 --> 0:12:39.000 don't bother them. 0:12:39.280 --> 0:12:42.000 Other than that, they have the right to say no. 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:44.720 As a celebrity, absolutely, they can absolutely be a jerk 0:12:44.760 --> 0:12:47.280 all they want, but you're in a public place to 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:49.320 go up and say hi. And most times I have 0:12:49.400 --> 0:12:53.040 found that people enjoy when normal people come up and 0:12:53.040 --> 0:12:55.280 say they're a fan of them. That's kind of why 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:56.319 they got into the business. 0:12:56.480 --> 0:12:57.160 Absolutely. 0:12:57.280 --> 0:12:59.760 Most times there's a rare exception of people who are jerks, 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:05.080 but most people that create for public consumption enjoy it 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:08.200 when the public comes up and says, I enjoy what you. 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:10.880 Have put out. Yeah, but just. 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:13.040 No kids and no food. Other than that, they're free 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:14.040 game and I don't. 0:13:14.280 --> 0:13:16.120 The kids in the food thing is very cool to me. 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:19.520 Why, Because you were the kid once I was the kid. 0:13:21.280 --> 0:13:24.000 I was thinking about you today leading into this for 0:13:24.040 --> 0:13:27.000 that exact reason. It's so funny that we ended up 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:29.319 on this because I was thinking, man, I bet your 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:31.560 relationship with fame is so weird because you probably just 0:13:31.600 --> 0:13:32.559 wanted to have parents. 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:35.400 I just wanted to have parents, and I just wanted 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:38.320 to have parents that could be parents too, you know, like, 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:45.559 and that's always tough because you're, you know, considering this 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:48.320 lifeline that isn't real. So who knows what we're talking about, 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:51.040 you know what I mean? But I do wander sometimes 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:53.880 what something would have been like if my dad was 0:13:53.920 --> 0:13:57.120 always just dad, if like that was his biggest thing, 0:13:57.200 --> 0:13:59.800 But that takes away eighty two percent of the human 0:13:59.840 --> 0:14:01.360 that man is, you know what I mean. He's a 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:04.080 lot more than just a dad. So but I was 0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:07.400 the kid, and it was really tough. And I only 0:14:07.400 --> 0:14:09.079 found when we were eating. So I think it's really 0:14:09.080 --> 0:14:10.320 interesting you say that if you want to come up 0:14:10.320 --> 0:14:12.079 and say hi when we're shopping at the grocery store. 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:14.000 It never bothered me, It really didn't. 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:16.600 But there was something about when we're eating, and he 0:14:16.679 --> 0:14:19.240 is to stand up and make sure that he is 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:21.680 not have food in his teeth and that he doesn't, 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:23.320 you know what I mean, all the things that a 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:24.880 human should be able to do when they're sitting and 0:14:24.880 --> 0:14:25.720 eating with their family. 0:14:25.760 --> 0:14:26.800 And that was always really tough. 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:29.040 And I'm not going to compare my situation to yours 0:14:29.040 --> 0:14:30.360 in any way or my wife's. 0:14:30.360 --> 0:14:30.760 But so. 0:14:33.000 --> 0:14:38.480 When I got married, for my wife, the situation was 0:14:38.520 --> 0:14:42.000 a bit difficult in that I got to grow with 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:45.000 whatever version of fame that I have, because I'm definitely 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:48.360 not famous, but I am known in parts of the 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:50.160 country and people do come up and say hello, and 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:52.040 that's great. Ninety nine percent of the time, it really is. 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:55.800 I got to grow with that, right, meaning I got 0:14:55.840 --> 0:14:59.640 to be in a small town, I got to syndicate myself. 0:15:00.160 --> 0:15:02.480 Have I did shows of one hundred people. 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:04.800 Yeah, you got to evolve as you evolved. 0:15:04.440 --> 0:15:07.640 For sure. So I grew with it learned where my 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:10.440 wife was kind of dunked into it and I would 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:13.200 be like, Oh, it's okay, they're recording us from two 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:15.080 tables over. It's not a big deal. But to her 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:18.560 that was her starting point, so it was really weird. 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:23.560 I can't imagine I feel that way about the TikTok 0:15:23.640 --> 0:15:25.720 and the viral thing with these artists right now. 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:27.479 I think we've seen the last five years. 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:31.640 The most mental effect on these new artists who haven't 0:15:31.720 --> 0:15:34.160 done anything, and then now they're on an opening tour 0:15:34.360 --> 0:15:37.160 or haven't done and it's like I can't imagine that. 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:39.240 And I have a lot of stuff that I have 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:42.680 a big chip on my shoulder about with having you know, 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:45.240 famous parents and like living and growing up in that 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:45.840 way that I do. 0:15:45.920 --> 0:15:48.200 But I can't imagine. 0:15:47.960 --> 0:15:50.440 Running into it at nineteen, you know what I mean, 0:15:50.480 --> 0:15:53.320 out of nowhere and like being viral overnight or running 0:15:53.360 --> 0:15:55.600 into it at twenty two out of nowhere. 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:55.840 Like. 0:15:56.440 --> 0:15:58.200 So, I'm very grateful to have gotten. 0:15:58.000 --> 0:15:59.880