WEBVTT - LAKEISHA LANDRUM PIERRE - From Raisins to Returns

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, guys, welcome to another episode of Eating While Broke.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm your host Coleen Witt, and today have very special

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<v Speaker 1>guests Lakeisha Landrum Pierre, founder and managing partner, co founder

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<v Speaker 1>and managing partner of Emmiline venture Capital, which is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>We've never had a venture capitalists on the show, let

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<v Speaker 1>alone a young woman, let alone woman a black woman.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is going to be like a unique, very

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<v Speaker 1>unique episode. We're going to be like all in your

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<v Speaker 1>head today. You're going to teach us a lot. So

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<v Speaker 1>we'll talk about your backstory, but we're also going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the industry you're in and because it it

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<v Speaker 1>definitely has a not fun reputation as far as women

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<v Speaker 1>or people of color.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, except it changes the world.

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<v Speaker 1>Except it changes.

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<v Speaker 2>It changes the world.

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<v Speaker 3>It decides the direction that society goes, and so we

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<v Speaker 3>need more of us there for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly. So before I get into the weed, yes, we

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<v Speaker 1>got to get into what we're eating for breakfast. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if you have breakfast. Hi, I am so

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<v Speaker 1>excited to this for you. Okay, I am.

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<v Speaker 2>So excited colleing.

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<v Speaker 3>So we're going back to two thousand, We're going back

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<v Speaker 3>to two thy twelve, okay, and I'm in grad school

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm really hungry, and I'm my Columbian roommate. And

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<v Speaker 3>she said, girl, we're about to We're about to have

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<v Speaker 3>some coconut rice.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is a Columbian dish. So Columbian rice.

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<v Speaker 3>Is superfun cooked for you today, and it's the basic

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<v Speaker 3>ingredients are coconut milk, raisins and white rice.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. On this show, the broker to dish, the better

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<v Speaker 1>the story. For all y'all that don't know, this dish

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<v Speaker 1>was ten dollars in inflation market, which means that twenty twelve,

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<v Speaker 1>this is probably like a three dollars dish. And it

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<v Speaker 1>makes multiple servings.

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<v Speaker 3>Multiple servings like when we're done, you can have something

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<v Speaker 3>for lunch and for dinner, which is what we used

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<v Speaker 3>to do.

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<v Speaker 2>So shout out. She's not she's now back in.

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<v Speaker 1>But are you guys still good friends?

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<v Speaker 3>We're still in touch? Like she's it's we don't. We

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<v Speaker 3>haven't seen each other a lot and so love each other.

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<v Speaker 1>When when this episode comes out, I would love it

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<v Speaker 1>to see her reaction that this is the this.

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<v Speaker 2>That yes, oh I should absolutely figure.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, this is the you went to school? Where were

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<v Speaker 1>you at school at Harvard. At Harvard, Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>So Harvard. We lived in Cambridge, but still broke.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's be clear.

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<v Speaker 3>I think people assume that because you work really hard

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<v Speaker 3>to get to a top school. No one in my

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<v Speaker 3>I was breaking ground for my family. No one had

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<v Speaker 3>done that.

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<v Speaker 2>Am I supposed to talk about what I'm making.

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<v Speaker 1>How to do it or no guys on nar rate?

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<v Speaker 1>She just I put hot water in the pot. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't realize that she was going to add a whole

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<v Speaker 1>can of coconut water, but she did. So we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>make a lot of ice today. But yes, she did. Added,

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<v Speaker 1>she boiled, She started heating up the water. She added

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<v Speaker 1>a can of Lakeisha, added a can of coconut water.

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<v Speaker 1>And now she's adding rice.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonta let it boil just a little bit, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>and then we'll put the rice in the that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, you didn't put any raisins in yet. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you start with you know what, you narrate your dish,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us how you make it.

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<v Speaker 3>So you start with the raisins, right the because you

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<v Speaker 3>want the raisins to be like soft and when you

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<v Speaker 3>bite into them, they're just like really soft into if

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<v Speaker 3>you don't cook them first.

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<v Speaker 1>They still are like hard, they're still.

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<v Speaker 3>Hard, Whereas when you boil them in that coconut milk,

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<v Speaker 3>it completely changes the flavor and it tastes like dessert. Really, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>so step one, Okay, I saw her put the raisins

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<v Speaker 3>in the first.

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<v Speaker 1>So raisins go first.

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<v Speaker 3>Raisins go first, And typically we're gonna do an accelerated

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<v Speaker 3>version with high speed version. But typically you let the

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<v Speaker 3>raisins just hang out for about ten minutes in the water,

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<v Speaker 3>and the water by itself. Yeah, I typically put the

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<v Speaker 3>coconut milk. Uh huh, and you just let that boil.

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<v Speaker 1>Were we supposed to have water in there at all? No,

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<v Speaker 1>we weren't.

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<v Speaker 2>You just boil the coconu milk.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine because we can throw that out all.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't mean we're having more.

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<v Speaker 1>Look, tell tell Trevor.

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<v Speaker 2>He's about to have some coconut rice next door.

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<v Speaker 1>This rice is good, guys, I'm doging it. But typically

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<v Speaker 1>when you do it back in the day, you just

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<v Speaker 1>did just straight coconut milk, coconu milk.

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<v Speaker 2>And then we put a little bit water if you

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<v Speaker 2>dry whatever you just need.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're learning, and then it's boiling.

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<v Speaker 3>So this is this.

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<v Speaker 1>You just add the rice, and when was the last

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<v Speaker 1>time you made this dish?

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<v Speaker 2>So you're ready for this. My kids love it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's hilarious.

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<v Speaker 3>So I'll be making it tomorrow because we're coming up

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<v Speaker 3>on the holidays.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a lot of rice. Are we supposed to use

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<v Speaker 1>that much rice? Yeah, you're like, I make this all

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<v Speaker 1>the time.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is a little different. But it's just.

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<v Speaker 1>Rising to the top. Yeah, okay, my bad. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>stay out of your key.

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<v Speaker 2>You stay in my kitchen. That's all the questions.

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<v Speaker 1>So the kids, your kids in this dish, they love it.

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<v Speaker 2>They love it.

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<v Speaker 3>They ask for Coconue writes all the time. And so

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<v Speaker 3>we have just a multicultural home, which is amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>So they're what's your husband.

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<v Speaker 2>My husband's family's from Haiti Oka, and so there are

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<v Speaker 2>lots of Caribbean food. And then we have someone who.

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<v Speaker 3>Lives in the home with us who's proving she's Feru

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<v Speaker 3>and so we pervem food and then all my influences.

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<v Speaker 2>I can cook African.

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<v Speaker 3>Food, Caribbean food, proving food, Columbian food, and so we

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<v Speaker 3>just throw down and soul food.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to go to and soul, your house for food.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh we're listen, Christy, say you pull up. It's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be different flavors. It's gonna be planting.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, exactly, Okay, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So we're gonna bring this down because it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like okay, yeah, it looks like it's about to boil over.

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<v Speaker 2>It is over.

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<v Speaker 1>Does this happen with you?

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<v Speaker 2>Because I make it with actual fire?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, okay, do you have a toe?

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<v Speaker 2>No, because we're a studio.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we're in studio. That's let it burn. Let it

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<v Speaker 1>don't burn your hands. Insurance. I love to tell people

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<v Speaker 1>about our fake insurance.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, let's keep going. Yeah, this is good.

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<v Speaker 3>I'll put us back on once it school's down. But

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<v Speaker 3>we put the ingredients in and this is our cocada rice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, before we got into Harvard, because there's a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of tea on Harvard that I want to get into.

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<v Speaker 1>But what did you go to school for? Initially?

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<v Speaker 3>So my undergraduate focus was finance. Oh you always liked

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<v Speaker 3>your money. I've always liked money. My my grandfather owned

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<v Speaker 3>a grocery store, he owned a church, he owned the cleaners,

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<v Speaker 3>and he owned something else. My grandmother, my aunt was

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<v Speaker 3>one of the first black millionaires of real estimilatiers here

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<v Speaker 3>in l A great great I think she had my

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<v Speaker 3>great great aunt and then my great great aunt during

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<v Speaker 3>those times, yeah, exactly. And then wasn't that during like

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<v Speaker 3>the red lining and all that. Yes, this was in

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<v Speaker 3>the hold on in La, Yes, exactly La.

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<v Speaker 1>If you see the original deeds in La. I remember

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<v Speaker 1>going to this place and they say it'll say no,

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<v Speaker 1>it's word no Latin. Yeah, because it's literally if you

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<v Speaker 1>look at the history of somebody, it's explicit on there.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what I'm talking A And I was like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you could be living in a house and you look

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<v Speaker 1>at the depending on how far back the house goes,

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<v Speaker 1>it actually says it. I think it's crazy. But she

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<v Speaker 1>was a millionaire during that time in real.

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<v Speaker 3>Estate and so and then my aunt, so my mom's sister,

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<v Speaker 3>I had her own real estate brokerage firm, and I

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<v Speaker 3>so I entrepreneurship.

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<v Speaker 1>That was and I haven't feel you also got to

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<v Speaker 1>see like successful black people right in your family.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to see I got to see successful black people.

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<v Speaker 3>I got to see people hustle. That's what I got

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<v Speaker 3>to see. Genuine commitment to the work, Wow, you know

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<v Speaker 3>what I mean calling the work because it's a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of work, and I think people forget that, Yes, we

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<v Speaker 3>are broke, but everyone, particularly if you're a person of color,

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<v Speaker 3>you're typically not coming from generations of.

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<v Speaker 1>Life, generational wealth.

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<v Speaker 3>Typically you're not come from that. So even if your

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<v Speaker 3>mama did okay, or your parents did okay, or your

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<v Speaker 3>grandparents did okay, it's not like comparable right here. So

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<v Speaker 3>you still have to put in work. Yeah, and so

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<v Speaker 3>seeing people growing up around people who put in work.

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<v Speaker 1>You saw them like blood, sweat and tears. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>see them ever cry or go through the emotions of it.

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<v Speaker 3>I saw them get mad.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I get mad.

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<v Speaker 3>So imagine, so we're talking of real estate, and there

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<v Speaker 3>was a lot of research that came out about this,

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<v Speaker 3>calling like a lot of research. Yeah, when in two

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<v Speaker 3>thousand and eight, when the real estate crash has black wealth,

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<v Speaker 3>white got wiped out. Imagine just like a thirty foot

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<v Speaker 3>wave just wiping out black wealth. I didn't know that

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<v Speaker 3>it was a huge impact to black wealth, including to

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<v Speaker 3>my family because we owned a lot of real estate.

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<v Speaker 3>And so there's that sort of there's that trickle down effect.

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<v Speaker 3>People lose their jobs, they're not paying their rent. That's

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<v Speaker 3>fine if one isn't paying their yeah, but if everybody

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<v Speaker 3>stops paying their rent, how are you paying the mortgage?

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<v Speaker 3>Now you're covering multiple people media and how long can

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<v Speaker 3>you keep doing that? And then you start to offload

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<v Speaker 3>and offload. Next thing, all of the assets that you

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<v Speaker 3>had looked very different than they did before the crash. Wow. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So anyway, so they went through that and you got

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<v Speaker 1>to watched it. Geez, how old were you at the time.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good question. I don't know, because time is

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<v Speaker 3>a blur since COVID, I can't tell.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you were probably like in your twenties.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say two thousand and eight. Were you gonna

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<v Speaker 3>date me? Okay, date two thousand and I was young.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because I know in two thousand and nine, I

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<v Speaker 1>remember I had just moved to La I was like eighteen,

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<v Speaker 1>nineteen twenty, and I remember watching I remember not knowing

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<v Speaker 1>anything about finance, but I remember going, something is very

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with this picture of what's happening in real estate.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember thinking that I worked for country Wide Home

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<v Speaker 1>Loans and people were literally lying and saying. All we

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<v Speaker 1>had to do is say, hey, do you work such

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<v Speaker 1>and such, did they make one hundred thousand a year?

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<v Speaker 1>And if someone said yes, we'd hang up approved it

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<v Speaker 1>long and the drama that happened around countrywide was really

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<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, but it was people like me that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of But then I had a company and I remember

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<v Speaker 1>another loan officer in the company, and they were giving

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<v Speaker 1>people that were like super poor half million dollar homes

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<v Speaker 1>interest only loans, which was another lesson. I was like, Ooh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is bad, not knowing anything bad against it or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>but I remember going, this is a bad situation. And

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<v Speaker 1>then I would see when it flipped. I would see

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<v Speaker 1>families coming in crying because they're losing their homes, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I knew this was going to happen.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a recipe for it was for devastation, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, when I was young, I didn't know what you

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<v Speaker 1>could do with that. If I had the education, if

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<v Speaker 1>I only had the education, I would know you could

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<v Speaker 1>do something with the information. But there were people that

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<v Speaker 1>bet against.

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<v Speaker 3>The house and made a killing. Yeah, made a killing

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<v Speaker 3>off of the backs of these folks who had no clue.

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<v Speaker 1>Had no clue, And a lot of people that were

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<v Speaker 1>in the industry made a lot of money, ripping off.

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<v Speaker 3>People, ripping people off lifting, right, And that's we don't

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<v Speaker 3>have to go there too much calling education right.

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<v Speaker 2>Education.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, if we're talking about ancestors and my grandfather, what

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<v Speaker 3>was I thirteen when he passed, But again we're not

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<v Speaker 3>talking about how old I am now, but when that happened,

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<v Speaker 3>and when I was thirteen, he told me the one

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<v Speaker 3>thing you always want to get at your education. No

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<v Speaker 3>one can take that from you. And so much of

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<v Speaker 3>what robs us as entrepreneurs because remember starting a VC firm,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm an entrepreneur, raised millions and millions of dollars to

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<v Speaker 3>get people to and trust me to write checks under

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<v Speaker 3>early stage founders. Same thing entrepreneurship. But you have to

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<v Speaker 3>have education. You have to even know this industry exists. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and then once you get here, you have to know

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<v Speaker 3>how to navigate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>That takes access to him to information. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So not only do you have to believe in yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>but the Okay, so let's go back your mom. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about your mom for a second. Two parent household,

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<v Speaker 1>one parent household. It sounds like you had a really great,

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<v Speaker 1>robust entrepreneur relatives. Well, let's just do a little of

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<v Speaker 1>your your growing up household, growing.

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<v Speaker 3>Up house, just a snapshot, snapshot. Mom and dad didn't

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<v Speaker 3>make it as a couple. My mom and her, I

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what's a before high school sweetheart, neighborhood sweetheart.

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<v Speaker 3>He had always wanted to marry her, and so they

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<v Speaker 3>got together when I was two, and that's today my stepdad, who's.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, Yeah, so middle class, upper middle.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say, started middle class, but then they hustled,

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<v Speaker 3>so we got better, it got better. They started out

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<v Speaker 3>of Compton. Wow, they started. I don't know how far

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<v Speaker 3>that is from where we are where the studio.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, like an hour. But your whole family's.

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<v Speaker 3>L native, my mom's gin but my grandparents are all

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<v Speaker 3>from Texas. So they all moved from Texas here and

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<v Speaker 3>so we still like own property in Texas and still

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<v Speaker 3>have a connection to Texas.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. Now, education was in still pretty early that it

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<v Speaker 1>was important, very important. So throughout your academia it was

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<v Speaker 1>it like straight a student BC. Okay, yes, Now did a.

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<v Speaker 3>School international baccalaureate. Yes, that was always required.

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<v Speaker 1>And were you I'm just curious, were you one of

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<v Speaker 1>those people that had to study, study, and like work

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<v Speaker 1>really hard at education or did it come naturally easier?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I do believe some people are question or natural.

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<v Speaker 3>Love that question, I'd say both. I was more introverted.

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<v Speaker 3>I wanted to sit with my books and journal and

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<v Speaker 3>write and learn. So that's what I did for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>But I still also put in the work. So I

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<v Speaker 3>was with both that was natural and I was just

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<v Speaker 3>and I was also naturally inclined to do it. And

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<v Speaker 3>so like my husband, for example, who's brilliant Harvard Business School,

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<v Speaker 3>runs a peek of private equity firm, a billion dollar

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<v Speaker 3>private ecuy firm here in LA, he didn't work hard.

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<v Speaker 3>He was just really smart, oh okay, and just got

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<v Speaker 3>straight a's because he was just right.

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<v Speaker 1>But that is because there were some people that, like

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<v Speaker 1>I have an older brother, and like he would get

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred a plus or on anything find math related.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh, he's just like naturally gifted.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm always curious with someone of your status, did

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<v Speaker 1>you have to work? Because not all like they used

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<v Speaker 1>to say. I don't know if you've ever heard this,

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<v Speaker 1>but A and B students typically work for C students.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever heard that? Yes?

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<v Speaker 3>So interesting, Now.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't quote me on that okay, I'm a college dropout. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but they would say that to say it. Sometimes entrepreneurs

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<v Speaker 1>they definitely color outside the lines, right, and A and

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<v Speaker 1>B student they follow the rules a little bit better,

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<v Speaker 1>so they say an A student is almost better and

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<v Speaker 1>obviously not in.

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<v Speaker 3>Your okay, okay, okay, okay, because the A and B

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<v Speaker 3>students they're taught, they're raised to follow the rules. So

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<v Speaker 3>you get a's and b's if you follow the rules.

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<v Speaker 3>You do not get a's and b's if you do

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<v Speaker 3>not listen.

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<v Speaker 1>To Yeah, if you color outside the lines and you

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<v Speaker 1>do it your own way, typically you would be more

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<v Speaker 1>I would think that a lot of entrepreneurs are definitely

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<v Speaker 1>more in the C length. Now you're a triple threat

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<v Speaker 1>or you're unique in the sense that you're you're an

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<v Speaker 1>A student, but you're also running a venture capital firm.

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<v Speaker 1>You're also a founder, you're a creator, but you also

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<v Speaker 1>come from a line of entrepreneurs, so you're exposed to

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<v Speaker 1>a lot that's crazy, right.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe, Yeah, I love the way you see it. I

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<v Speaker 3>love that. Yeah, yeah, I thought of it that way,

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<v Speaker 3>But I love the way you say it, like your

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<v Speaker 3>perspective on this is fire.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh thanks all right, So education is a staple. Hard work,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a staple when you were little. Again, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go back because I'm curious. Was discipline like rooted early, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna sit here and you're gonna do this homework

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<v Speaker 1>before you get up and play or was it just

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<v Speaker 1>naturally you were like I'm gonna do my homework, and

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<v Speaker 1>my daughter's just like that. Which one first?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I just wanted to go sit down and

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<v Speaker 3>do my homework and read and write and read. Oh

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<v Speaker 3>I loved it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, that means there's no hope for Mike now.

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<v Speaker 3>And then I have but remember, so then you have

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<v Speaker 3>the people like my husband Mark, who I'm giving a

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<v Speaker 3>shout out to, so I love him so much, So

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<v Speaker 3>he is totally different. He was just naturally talented. So

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<v Speaker 3>I was naturally talented and also love to do the work.

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<v Speaker 3>But then you have those who are naturally talented and

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<v Speaker 3>don't necessarily want to spend five hours reading books and

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<v Speaker 3>doing your husband. Yeah, I mean there's and there should

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<v Speaker 3>be a place on this planet or every style to thrive,

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<v Speaker 3>and I believe there is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, and they all can work together.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like you need the ecosystem. If everyone's like me,

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<v Speaker 3>the whole thing falls apart.

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<v Speaker 1>But do you get a little bit jealous of This

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<v Speaker 1>is just a sidebar, but do you get jealousy? If

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<v Speaker 1>I was around your husband and he could read a

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<v Speaker 1>book fully understand it within two seconds and I'm sitting

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<v Speaker 1>there like reading your does it get a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>frustrating or a little bit of jealousy?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh whatever, it's a superpower. So I just think it's

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<v Speaker 3>and that's why he always told joke and say, you're

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<v Speaker 3>married a winner. So it's like it's his superpower. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>So I think especially entrepreneurs where you invest your time.

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<v Speaker 3>We're not going to go here, but you invest your

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<v Speaker 3>so much time with your partner so ever that is

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<v Speaker 3>you want them to be a winner. You tell all

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<v Speaker 3>of that. So, yes, that was what drew me to him.

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<v Speaker 3>Like he's such he just all always like one. It's

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<v Speaker 3>just such a you know, like just but I like

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<v Speaker 3>his cockiness too. Yeah, he's pretty confident.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that. I like that you guys are I

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<v Speaker 1>love that you guys sound like a really fun paer

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<v Speaker 1>to be around too. Might be it sounds like it

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<v Speaker 1>and a lot of food. Okay, so you go through food,

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<v Speaker 1>You go to school, you leave high school. What's the

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<v Speaker 1>first step you want to go to school for?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you we're going after high school?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, graduating school?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, So then I studied finance, so business?

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<v Speaker 1>Wait all right in high school, when did you just

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<v Speaker 1>discovering that you wanted to get into finance?

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't. I didn't discover I wanted to get into finance.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what did you want to go to school for?

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<v Speaker 1>Initially theology? Theology? Oh, like like church.

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<v Speaker 3>Theology is actually, ironically sorry, ironically theology is not church

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<v Speaker 3>at all. It's understanding the belief systems of the planet

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<v Speaker 3>across the world. So you understand what do Buddhists think?

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<v Speaker 3>What do you? Oh, that lasted for lesson a semester?

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<v Speaker 3>People everybody else?

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<v Speaker 1>But what made you want to do that? Because of

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<v Speaker 1>your grandfather?

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<v Speaker 2>Probably my grandfather.

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<v Speaker 3>He was a minister, an incredible entrepreneur and understood the

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<v Speaker 3>power of community. And so also like the economic there's

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<v Speaker 3>an economic component to community thriving. If there's not enough

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<v Speaker 3>money and entrepreneurship happening in communities, they fail. And what

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<v Speaker 3>I mean by fellows, they don't have money to pay

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<v Speaker 3>for food, they cannot feed their kids. They cannot feed.

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<v Speaker 3>They do not have homes, they cannot Communities don't work

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<v Speaker 3>unless there's money flowing through them. Okay, and you need

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<v Speaker 3>money to flow through them. So for me, it was

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<v Speaker 3>like I was interested in the way he used he

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<v Speaker 3>the way he used the part of this plant that

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<v Speaker 3>we cannot see but we can feel, to power the

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<v Speaker 3>community that he was a part of.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. And you saw that very early on, because even

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<v Speaker 1>as a young person to even pick that up.

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<v Speaker 3>Is yeah, that's unique.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you may have some of your husband's superpower, because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I would pick up like that,

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<v Speaker 1>like how he used the invisible. Because I say the

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<v Speaker 1>most valuable things on earth, I say, you you can't

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<v Speaker 1>see air, can't see technically, I mean, I'm not that

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<v Speaker 1>college smart, but you know what I'm saying. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>see air, love, believe, faith, all these things. You can't

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<v Speaker 1>see it, but they're the most spirit spirit spirits you

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<v Speaker 1>die tomorrow. It's the spirit that we're losing that you

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<v Speaker 1>can never see.

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<v Speaker 3>That's right.

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<v Speaker 1>So I always say the most valuable things are invisible.

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<v Speaker 1>For you as a young person to say, okay, this,

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<v Speaker 1>my grandfather has this huge ecosystem of real estate, church

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<v Speaker 1>and all these things. But the thing that gelled it

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<v Speaker 1>all together was this thing, this intangible and you went

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<v Speaker 1>and chose theology, which now we know theology is not

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<v Speaker 1>about because I just think Christian. I'm like, I can

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<v Speaker 1>tell you these.

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<v Speaker 3>Things about Zoroastrianism. I don't even if I said that

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<v Speaker 3>correctly anymore because I'm so far removed. But Buddhism it

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<v Speaker 3>was everything, every belief system and face system on the planet.

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<v Speaker 1>You study.

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<v Speaker 3>It was a semester and then I pivoted.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I was gonna say, why did you pivot out

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<v Speaker 1>of it?

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<v Speaker 3>Though? My dad he said, you need a marketable skill.

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<v Speaker 3>Theology sounds great, but that will you will be eating.

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<v Speaker 1>Well with.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually my dad, yeah, my stepdad, but he's also in

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<v Speaker 3>LA and he said, listen, unless you want to eat

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<v Speaker 3>well broke for the rest of your life. Theology is

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<v Speaker 3>interesting and we can go get you some books, but

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<v Speaker 3>we're not paying all this money.

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<v Speaker 1>Where were you going to school? Okay? Okay, yeah, And.

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<v Speaker 3>So Wed wed a marketable skill, and so that's why

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<v Speaker 3>then I pivoted and study business a business okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And then what was one of the things. I'm just curious,

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<v Speaker 1>what was one of the things that you did or

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<v Speaker 1>did not like from theology?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>I loved it, really, Oh I loved it. I think

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<v Speaker 3>more of the world needs to understand we're at a

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<v Speaker 3>unique moment where everybody's like going off into their pockets

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<v Speaker 3>calling everybody. Okay, if you're Conservative Christian, you're over here.

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<v Speaker 3>If you're Buddhist, you're over here. If you're here, everybody

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<v Speaker 3>just going. If you don't believe in anything, you're over there.

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<v Speaker 3>No one's talking to each other.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>If you the beauty of theology was, you're like, oh man,

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<v Speaker 3>they all believe the same thing. They just believe it

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<v Speaker 3>in different ways. Because you have to remember, this was

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<v Speaker 3>a time where there are no cell phones, no internet.

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<v Speaker 3>If you were out in that pocket way in India,

0:21:18.960 --> 0:21:22.560
<v Speaker 3>you couldn't talk to somebody in Los Angeles. So they

0:21:22.600 --> 0:21:26.359
<v Speaker 3>the faith system was unique to that location. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>yet at the same time, it's the same across the planet.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. I realized that when I went to Israel. Israel,

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<v Speaker 1>it was funny because you see everyone is praying. It's

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<v Speaker 1>almost like everyone's fighting to pray to the same God,

0:21:37.920 --> 0:21:41.280
<v Speaker 1>but they're like literally micro nicheing it. You're praying to

0:21:41.320 --> 0:21:42.719
<v Speaker 1>this one and you're praying to this one. But in

0:21:42.800 --> 0:21:44.920
<v Speaker 1>Israel you literally go to the same place, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a It's like, this section is for this religion,

0:21:48.320 --> 0:21:50.280
<v Speaker 1>this section is for this religion section.

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<v Speaker 2>And you're like, but.

0:21:51.720 --> 0:21:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm right here in the middle, and all y'all are

0:21:54.000 --> 0:21:56.600
<v Speaker 1>basically praying to the same god. You're all trying to

0:21:56.640 --> 0:21:59.399
<v Speaker 1>you're on the same mission, but you're wearing like almost

0:21:59.440 --> 0:22:00.719
<v Speaker 1>like if it was a game, and you're wearing this

0:22:00.920 --> 0:22:03.840
<v Speaker 1>red bag. And I remember just seeing that in Israel. Okay,

0:22:03.920 --> 0:22:07.520
<v Speaker 1>so your hearts are in the right place, but you're

0:22:07.600 --> 0:22:11.480
<v Speaker 1>really beefing over who has it right, and no one

0:22:11.520 --> 0:22:12.520
<v Speaker 1>is ever gonna really know.

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<v Speaker 3>None of you guys are gonna find it because God

0:22:15.080 --> 0:22:17.800
<v Speaker 3>is on both sides, right YEAHU God isn't there to

0:22:17.840 --> 0:22:19.800
<v Speaker 3>your point, they're praying to the same God. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that's yeah for sure. So that's what I took.

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<v Speaker 1>Away, Okay, And you love that. I thought it was.

0:22:24.040 --> 0:22:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I was at the time, like what we are even

0:22:26.640 --> 0:22:29.080
<v Speaker 1>over we all love the same you know, But but

0:22:29.200 --> 0:22:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I get it. I remember just watching that. I remember

0:22:31.160 --> 0:22:33.280
<v Speaker 1>watching like the Hasidic Jews get on the plane, and

0:22:33.359 --> 0:22:34.760
<v Speaker 1>I thought they were going to crash the plane because

0:22:34.760 --> 0:22:37.800
<v Speaker 1>they're all like praying really hard on the flight, and

0:22:37.840 --> 0:22:40.240
<v Speaker 1>I was just like, oh, this is serious. But just

0:22:40.240 --> 0:22:43.520
<v Speaker 1>seeing the different religious fights so hard to love God

0:22:43.640 --> 0:22:46.160
<v Speaker 1>or whatever, it was interesting. Okay, so hey, you get

0:22:46.160 --> 0:22:49.840
<v Speaker 1>into business and then were you fascinated by it? Was

0:22:49.880 --> 0:22:52.240
<v Speaker 1>it boring in school? What could you tell me about

0:22:52.240 --> 0:22:53.080
<v Speaker 1>that whole experience?

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<v Speaker 3>It was amazing. I loved it. I loved it. But

0:22:58.000 --> 0:22:59.960
<v Speaker 3>the reason I loved it, and the reason I think

0:23:00.200 --> 0:23:03.080
<v Speaker 3>we all should love business, is because I had this

0:23:03.240 --> 0:23:08.560
<v Speaker 3>aha moment that business is just the functioning of people.

0:23:08.760 --> 0:23:11.399
<v Speaker 3>It's just people. I need something to wear. Can you

0:23:11.440 --> 0:23:13.040
<v Speaker 3>give me something to wear? Okay? How much y'all have

0:23:13.080 --> 0:23:15.320
<v Speaker 3>to pay for that? Or I can make it myself.

0:23:15.320 --> 0:23:17.000
<v Speaker 3>But I don't make it myself. It's gonna take too

0:23:17.040 --> 0:23:18.800
<v Speaker 3>much time, and my time is pressure. So I would

0:23:18.920 --> 0:23:21.800
<v Speaker 3>rather how about you just make all the clothes for

0:23:21.960 --> 0:23:25.120
<v Speaker 3>all of us and they will all chip in. Okay,

0:23:25.160 --> 0:23:29.960
<v Speaker 3>It's just life. It's a functioning of people. And so

0:23:30.000 --> 0:23:32.919
<v Speaker 3>when I began to understand that it's just us moving

0:23:33.040 --> 0:23:36.040
<v Speaker 3>this water bottle, Aquafina just got some money, or I

0:23:36.040 --> 0:23:38.119
<v Speaker 3>think it's Coca Cola that downs a Cauafina now. But

0:23:38.200 --> 0:23:41.440
<v Speaker 3>my point is, like I began to just understand business

0:23:41.600 --> 0:23:44.600
<v Speaker 3>is just the functioning of the every day and who

0:23:44.680 --> 0:23:46.919
<v Speaker 3>gets to make the things that everyone needs? So when

0:23:46.920 --> 0:23:48.320
<v Speaker 3>do I get to make? What? Am I gonna make?

0:23:48.359 --> 0:23:51.719
<v Speaker 3>What am I gonna put out in this space that

0:23:51.840 --> 0:23:54.040
<v Speaker 3>everyone needs that they can then pay me for? Yea

0:23:54.080 --> 0:23:55.400
<v Speaker 3>our rice is doing by the.

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<v Speaker 1>Way, Yeah, I love business because it's like you a

0:23:58.240 --> 0:24:00.359
<v Speaker 1>lot of times, there's so many cute says that you

0:24:00.480 --> 0:24:03.000
<v Speaker 1>hear in the world. Like one of the things and

0:24:03.040 --> 0:24:05.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm just gonna tear it more to venture capital is

0:24:05.960 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 1>that I thought was one of the top two. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna say two quotes that I heard that I think

0:24:11.440 --> 0:24:13.800
<v Speaker 1>changed my perspective on business was. I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>Ashton Cuture years ago. He said time is the most

0:24:17.480 --> 0:24:20.879
<v Speaker 1>valuable thing on earth. And I tell people this all

0:24:20.920 --> 0:24:23.280
<v Speaker 1>the time. There's two types of people. There's people that

0:24:23.320 --> 0:24:27.080
<v Speaker 1>work hard, and it's a person that works smart, okay,

0:24:27.720 --> 0:24:30.520
<v Speaker 1>and the person that works hard is they're both great,

0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:32.840
<v Speaker 1>but the problem is there's only so much time. So

0:24:33.080 --> 0:24:35.879
<v Speaker 1>the person that works smart can get more done the

0:24:35.920 --> 0:24:39.040
<v Speaker 1>same amount of time. But Ashton Cutcher, I remember him

0:24:39.080 --> 0:24:41.159
<v Speaker 1>saying that this was this, and I think he was

0:24:41.160 --> 0:24:45.159
<v Speaker 1>doing he was investing in venture Capital's BC but he

0:24:45.240 --> 0:24:47.280
<v Speaker 1>said time. But he looks for his things that could

0:24:47.280 --> 0:24:49.680
<v Speaker 1>save time. And when you look at everything you spend

0:24:49.800 --> 0:24:53.280
<v Speaker 1>money on to date, it oil boils down to your

0:24:53.320 --> 0:24:57.200
<v Speaker 1>buying time and whenever. This sounds really weird, but when

0:24:57.200 --> 0:24:58.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm in the nail shop and I see a girl

0:24:58.840 --> 0:25:01.120
<v Speaker 1>getting her nails on, it's like hundred dollars and say

0:25:01.160 --> 0:25:04.760
<v Speaker 1>she works at McDonald's, I'm always like, ooh, that's weird.

0:25:05.119 --> 0:25:07.800
<v Speaker 1>It's a weird thought. That's such a judgment. But I'm like,

0:25:08.400 --> 0:25:12.080
<v Speaker 1>you work five hours for this nails or what. I

0:25:12.240 --> 0:25:14.600
<v Speaker 1>just look at things like the trade off. But anyways,

0:25:14.760 --> 0:25:17.360
<v Speaker 1>time is the most valuable thing on earth. And if

0:25:17.400 --> 0:25:20.879
<v Speaker 1>you can do something that saves time like uber are, Airbnb,

0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:23.600
<v Speaker 1>all these things that can save time, maximize what you

0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:27.240
<v Speaker 1>currently have, a AI craft upon us.

0:25:27.320 --> 0:25:31.920
<v Speaker 3>But if you talk time the way it collapses times crazy.

0:25:31.960 --> 0:25:33.800
<v Speaker 1>But time is the most valuable thing on earth, and

0:25:34.600 --> 0:25:39.760
<v Speaker 1>I just don't think people fully understand that. Even today.

0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:42.600
<v Speaker 1>It's most important thing, most important thing. And then I

0:25:42.640 --> 0:25:45.800
<v Speaker 1>think Airbnb was one of the things. I think one

0:25:45.840 --> 0:25:48.000
<v Speaker 1>of the owners had said once was like, you create

0:25:48.040 --> 0:25:50.840
<v Speaker 1>the world that you want to see, Like kind of

0:25:50.880 --> 0:25:53.879
<v Speaker 1>you create the you live in a world, You create

0:25:53.920 --> 0:25:56.840
<v Speaker 1>the world you want to see versus just living in

0:25:57.520 --> 0:25:58.560
<v Speaker 1>the world that you are.

0:25:58.760 --> 0:26:00.520
<v Speaker 3>You can create the world you want to see, but

0:26:00.560 --> 0:26:01.359
<v Speaker 3>that takes work.

0:26:01.560 --> 0:26:03.600
<v Speaker 1>That takes work, It takes a lot of venture capitals.

0:26:03.840 --> 0:26:07.480
<v Speaker 3>Right, it's deep, right, if you you for sure can

0:26:07.640 --> 0:26:10.399
<v Speaker 3>create the world you want to see, but most of

0:26:10.400 --> 0:26:13.000
<v Speaker 3>what we're living is the world that meta wants us

0:26:13.080 --> 0:26:15.679
<v Speaker 3>to see, the world that IG wants us to see.

0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:17.119
<v Speaker 3>If we're going to create the world that we want

0:26:17.160 --> 0:26:18.359
<v Speaker 3>to see, it's almost like you have to set that

0:26:18.400 --> 0:26:19.840
<v Speaker 3>stuff to the side and actually say, what is the

0:26:19.840 --> 0:26:22.040
<v Speaker 3>world that I want to see as an entrepreneur, what

0:26:22.080 --> 0:26:23.480
<v Speaker 3>is the thing that I'm going to build? And then

0:26:23.960 --> 0:26:26.359
<v Speaker 3>and then keep eating your coconut rice.

0:26:26.920 --> 0:26:30.800
<v Speaker 1>And the unfortunate thing is if you're bringing change, real change,

0:26:30.840 --> 0:26:33.440
<v Speaker 1>you're the crazy one. So you're sitting over your pot

0:26:33.440 --> 0:26:38.600
<v Speaker 1>of rice and everyone's just like, wow, what idiot, Go

0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:42.840
<v Speaker 1>get a job? Like really, day three of this, Oh

0:26:42.960 --> 0:26:45.720
<v Speaker 1>your phone is cut off? Really and you're like, and

0:26:45.760 --> 0:26:49.600
<v Speaker 1>you gotta live in that turmoil, which is I think,

0:26:49.640 --> 0:26:50.280
<v Speaker 1>really you.

0:26:50.200 --> 0:26:52.880
<v Speaker 3>Need a headline. You need like a mantra. You need

0:26:52.880 --> 0:26:55.240
<v Speaker 3>a sentence that you tell yourself so that when people

0:26:55.280 --> 0:26:59.000
<v Speaker 3>start telling you that you don't let that voice, all

0:26:59.040 --> 0:27:02.160
<v Speaker 3>those naysayers, that you don't let their voices become louder

0:27:02.200 --> 0:27:04.679
<v Speaker 3>than your own. So anyway, as you're talking, I kept

0:27:04.680 --> 0:27:05.679
<v Speaker 3>thinking about Jeff Bezos.

0:27:05.720 --> 0:27:05.840
<v Speaker 1>Right.

0:27:05.840 --> 0:27:08.080
<v Speaker 3>So he's got there's this picture of him, and it's

0:27:08.320 --> 0:27:10.760
<v Speaker 3>over ten years ago, and he's sitting in a small

0:27:10.800 --> 0:27:15.800
<v Speaker 3>office building Amazon, right, and no one would have thought

0:27:15.840 --> 0:27:18.480
<v Speaker 3>that today Amazon would be what it is. And so

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:21.760
<v Speaker 3>I almost feel like that's part of your right of passage. Right, Yeah,

0:27:21.880 --> 0:27:23.879
<v Speaker 3>you're like supposed to go through that process where no

0:27:23.920 --> 0:27:24.919
<v Speaker 3>one believes in you.

0:27:25.040 --> 0:27:25.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're no.

0:27:26.000 --> 0:27:28.240
<v Speaker 3>Everybody thinks you're crazy. Why are you doing this? You

0:27:28.240 --> 0:27:30.080
<v Speaker 3>shouldn't be here, You're not good enough to be here.

0:27:30.280 --> 0:27:32.760
<v Speaker 3>Do we want to talk about how many people own

0:27:32.800 --> 0:27:36.000
<v Speaker 3>their own venture capital firms? Do we want to talk

0:27:36.000 --> 0:27:38.760
<v Speaker 3>about how many women own their own venture capital firms?

0:27:38.760 --> 0:27:40.600
<v Speaker 3>We could go there. There are all of the reasons

0:27:40.640 --> 0:27:43.160
<v Speaker 3>why what I'm doing should be impossible. Yeah, and that's

0:27:43.200 --> 0:27:45.160
<v Speaker 3>what it is for any entrepreneur. What you're doing should

0:27:45.160 --> 0:27:45.720
<v Speaker 3>be impossible.

0:27:45.720 --> 0:27:46.320
<v Speaker 2>Why are you here?

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:49.800
<v Speaker 1>But I'm sure it's challenging. I think it like Jessica Alba,

0:27:49.960 --> 0:27:53.439
<v Speaker 1>you heard her story was of course nuts. Yeah, you

0:27:53.480 --> 0:27:56.320
<v Speaker 1>know how she's cute girl. You would think that would

0:27:56.359 --> 0:27:58.679
<v Speaker 1>help her in some capacity to being access but she

0:27:58.760 --> 0:28:02.439
<v Speaker 1>had to do the door knock and begging. Took one

0:28:02.640 --> 0:28:04.600
<v Speaker 1>one person, and thank god, it was I think it

0:28:04.680 --> 0:28:06.159
<v Speaker 1>was his wife. I don't know if you heard the

0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:09.119
<v Speaker 1>real story about her, but she was going through the

0:28:09.200 --> 0:28:12.800
<v Speaker 1>allergy situation. Ventura Capro kept it turning her down and

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:15.920
<v Speaker 1>turned out his wife was going through the same issue.

0:28:16.240 --> 0:28:18.800
<v Speaker 1>And then I think she kept knocking at that door

0:28:18.880 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 1>and eventually he was like, there may be something there,

0:28:20.800 --> 0:28:23.280
<v Speaker 1>and they invested in her. But but anyways, let's go

0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:25.080
<v Speaker 1>back to your huh Okay, no, I love that.

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:26.800
<v Speaker 3>Can I pull something out of what you said? That's

0:28:26.800 --> 0:28:29.720
<v Speaker 3>a little secret. It was the VC's wife that had

0:28:29.720 --> 0:28:32.560
<v Speaker 3>the problem. I think it was a v So that's

0:28:32.600 --> 0:28:37.280
<v Speaker 3>a thing. So because we need more folks of color

0:28:37.520 --> 0:28:41.480
<v Speaker 3>and more women to be vcs, and so that it's

0:28:41.680 --> 0:28:44.360
<v Speaker 3>the VC's lived experience, so they know it's a thing. Yeah,

0:28:44.440 --> 0:28:45.120
<v Speaker 3>you see what I'm saying.

0:28:45.160 --> 0:28:47.640
<v Speaker 1>Oh, it's because it was his wife.

0:28:47.680 --> 0:28:49.640
<v Speaker 3>If that woman was a VC this, she wouldn't be

0:28:49.680 --> 0:28:53.320
<v Speaker 3>knocking on so many doors. Yeah, do you say, yeah,

0:28:53.360 --> 0:28:55.200
<v Speaker 3>if she was, If the wife was a VC, she'd

0:28:55.240 --> 0:28:56.680
<v Speaker 3>be like, I'm writing you a check today.

0:28:56.920 --> 0:28:57.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:28:57.600 --> 0:29:00.160
<v Speaker 3>But because the people writing checks don't they have a

0:29:00.240 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 3>very specific thing that they understand. They don't understand. Oh,

0:29:03.120 --> 0:29:05.000
<v Speaker 3>the only reasons, Oh I think my wife was dealing

0:29:05.000 --> 0:29:06.800
<v Speaker 3>with that. But if his wife was a VC, she

0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:08.680
<v Speaker 3>wouldn't have to knock on so many doors. That's why

0:29:08.720 --> 0:29:11.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm doing what I'm doing. So they're so that entrepreneurs

0:29:12.000 --> 0:29:13.440
<v Speaker 3>do not have to knock on so many doors to

0:29:13.480 --> 0:29:16.360
<v Speaker 3>hear so many no's. Wow, that's you just hit a

0:29:16.400 --> 0:29:19.240
<v Speaker 3>big thing. That's crazy. Yeah, it's deep.

0:29:19.880 --> 0:29:23.240
<v Speaker 1>That was deep. That's crazy. How that just so, that's

0:29:23.240 --> 0:29:26.840
<v Speaker 1>why you're That's why I'm wow. Now, do you only

0:29:26.920 --> 0:29:30.760
<v Speaker 1>cater to women owned businesses or businesses that cater to women?

0:29:30.960 --> 0:29:35.360
<v Speaker 3>Excellent question. So our next fund will cater to the latter.

0:29:35.680 --> 0:29:41.400
<v Speaker 3>This fund focuses on women let businesses because Jessica Albastory

0:29:41.560 --> 0:29:46.800
<v Speaker 3>is like one of way too many. Yeah, there are

0:29:46.960 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 3>billion dollar businesses. There are unicorns waiting to exist. They're

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:54.840
<v Speaker 3>literally waiting. But the reason they don't exist is because

0:29:54.840 --> 0:29:57.880
<v Speaker 3>they don't have capital. Because Jessica albas story which is

0:29:58.160 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 3>the VC didn't get it, but it just so happened.

0:30:00.000 --> 0:30:02.640
<v Speaker 3>And his wife had just mentioned the thing. What if

0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:05.239
<v Speaker 3>we put more people like her who get it in

0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:06.479
<v Speaker 3>the position to write checks.

0:30:06.640 --> 0:30:09.240
<v Speaker 1>Yep. And another good story is Canva. A lot of

0:30:09.280 --> 0:30:11.880
<v Speaker 1>people don't know Campbell that's created by a woman. Is

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:17.240
<v Speaker 1>she's got denied, denied, denied, and over. You gotta think

0:30:17.360 --> 0:30:20.040
<v Speaker 1>a woman has to encounter so many bearers to entry,

0:30:21.360 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 1>truthfully speaking on so many bearers. But imagine being a

0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:28.160
<v Speaker 1>woman that has, say, the bearers to entry, and then

0:30:28.240 --> 0:30:29.920
<v Speaker 1>on top of it, you're fighting for your mission on

0:30:29.920 --> 0:30:31.640
<v Speaker 1>top of being broke. That's a hard battle.

0:30:31.760 --> 0:30:34.000
<v Speaker 3>It's a hard battle. And that's why you have to

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:36.600
<v Speaker 3>be You have to have your own like I said,

0:30:36.600 --> 0:30:40.240
<v Speaker 3>like mantra or sentence or like thing that you tell yourself.

0:30:41.080 --> 0:30:44.000
<v Speaker 3>It's like the battle shield that you wear before you

0:30:44.040 --> 0:30:45.880
<v Speaker 3>go out into the world, and you like look yourself

0:30:45.880 --> 0:30:50.040
<v Speaker 3>in the mirror and say, I'm changing the world, regardless

0:30:50.800 --> 0:30:53.720
<v Speaker 3>whatever your sentences, because the moment you step out into

0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:55.880
<v Speaker 3>the world, you will have a million people that want

0:30:55.880 --> 0:30:58.040
<v Speaker 3>you to win and a million people that don't even

0:30:58.080 --> 0:31:00.240
<v Speaker 3>think you should be there, and you have to be

0:31:00.520 --> 0:31:03.760
<v Speaker 3>like armored up mentally to be able to navigate that

0:31:03.800 --> 0:31:06.880
<v Speaker 3>because it's hard. Just like you said, yeah.

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 1>I saw this clip about DMX.

0:31:08.680 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 3>You heard DMX obviously right, my husband's from Brooklyn. But

0:31:13.200 --> 0:31:15.080
<v Speaker 3>that's not why, because I know what it is like.

0:31:15.120 --> 0:31:18.080
<v Speaker 1>You have this Harvard background, your venture capitalist, and it's

0:31:18.120 --> 0:31:21.160
<v Speaker 1>like when I hear these things. When I heard about you,

0:31:21.560 --> 0:31:27.560
<v Speaker 1>it's like you envision this sue perfect almost at least

0:31:27.600 --> 0:31:30.760
<v Speaker 1>from my standpoint. Imagine if I'm not a college graduate

0:31:30.880 --> 0:31:33.720
<v Speaker 1>or I'm a college dropout and my bank account says

0:31:34.280 --> 0:31:37.280
<v Speaker 1>X amount of dollars or whatever, and then and I

0:31:37.400 --> 0:31:42.280
<v Speaker 1>envision this unapproachable person. It's nice to see you and go, oh,

0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 1>this feels familiar though you've accomplished so much likewise, but

0:31:48.560 --> 0:31:50.520
<v Speaker 1>to be able to say I could touch you and

0:31:50.560 --> 0:31:53.600
<v Speaker 1>go oh, I can relate to her hair and her makeup,

0:31:53.720 --> 0:31:55.800
<v Speaker 1>or you were doing your makeup and I was just

0:31:55.840 --> 0:31:57.440
<v Speaker 1>like a little embarrassed. I'm like, oh, I sit on

0:31:57.440 --> 0:31:59.960
<v Speaker 1>the floor when I do my makeup kind of get up,

0:32:00.520 --> 0:32:02.400
<v Speaker 1>and you were like, yeah, we're gonna do this right here,

0:32:02.400 --> 0:32:03.840
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, she's normal.

0:32:04.040 --> 0:32:07.360
<v Speaker 3>Oh, yeah, and so is everybody else, everyone else. When

0:32:07.400 --> 0:32:09.520
<v Speaker 3>they put on these facades, they're just as normal as

0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:11.720
<v Speaker 3>you are, and just as normal as I am. Even

0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:13.600
<v Speaker 3>if they hustle, they're still just as normal, even if

0:32:13.600 --> 0:32:14.880
<v Speaker 3>they like to think that they aren't.

0:32:15.360 --> 0:32:16.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they are.

0:32:17.240 --> 0:32:17.600
<v Speaker 3>They are.

0:32:17.840 --> 0:32:20.440
<v Speaker 1>So when you're in school, you're going through school, you

0:32:20.920 --> 0:32:24.480
<v Speaker 1>do business. You when you graduate from you're going to

0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 1>school for business. After you graduate, what's your next steps?

0:32:29.120 --> 0:32:33.040
<v Speaker 3>This is crazy. Speaking of entrepreneurship, I become I'm twenty

0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:37.480
<v Speaker 3>years old. There's an organization called EO entrepreneurs Organization. Shout

0:32:37.480 --> 0:32:39.840
<v Speaker 3>out to Sean Tan, who I haven't seen in years.

0:32:40.400 --> 0:32:43.440
<v Speaker 3>He brought together all of the young kids, all these

0:32:43.440 --> 0:32:46.960
<v Speaker 3>college kids, to teach them about entrepreneurship. It's called the

0:32:47.080 --> 0:32:49.840
<v Speaker 3>entrepreneur Mentor Society. And he pulled me to society said

0:32:49.840 --> 0:32:52.200
<v Speaker 3>I want you to lead this thing. I'm like, huh,

0:32:52.240 --> 0:32:54.440
<v Speaker 3>So I let it at twenty No, while I'm in school.

0:32:55.040 --> 0:32:57.880
<v Speaker 3>So while I'm working with him, I've got a friend

0:32:57.880 --> 0:33:00.720
<v Speaker 3>who needs someone to come run his business. Do you

0:33:00.760 --> 0:33:03.400
<v Speaker 3>know that when I graduated, I was the chief operating

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:06.640
<v Speaker 3>officer of an e commerce startup that did ten million

0:33:06.680 --> 0:33:11.440
<v Speaker 3>dollars an annual recurring revenue ten million dollars. At twenty

0:33:11.520 --> 0:33:15.040
<v Speaker 3>years old, I had eighty people reporting to me. I

0:33:15.080 --> 0:33:17.840
<v Speaker 3>had eight, Like, and you were still in school? Were

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 3>just when I graduated.

0:33:19.440 --> 0:33:20.120
<v Speaker 1>From which school?

0:33:20.120 --> 0:33:20.760
<v Speaker 3>Loyal loyla?

0:33:20.920 --> 0:33:22.000
<v Speaker 1>This is a holy cow.

0:33:22.640 --> 0:33:26.360
<v Speaker 3>It's a holy cow because I still look at her like, ma'am,

0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:30.200
<v Speaker 3>who even says yes to anything like that? Let alone

0:33:30.240 --> 0:33:33.200
<v Speaker 3>does it? Anyway, I've been off way more than I

0:33:33.200 --> 0:33:35.360
<v Speaker 3>could chew Colleen it, so I couldn't. I ended up.

0:33:35.400 --> 0:33:36.880
<v Speaker 3>I think, I don't know if I stay for a year.

0:33:37.000 --> 0:33:39.200
<v Speaker 3>But then the owner of the business was like, this

0:33:39.360 --> 0:33:42.160
<v Speaker 3>is like a little much, right, this is a little much,

0:33:42.320 --> 0:33:44.640
<v Speaker 3>and so I ultimately rolled off, but still kept in touch.

0:33:44.760 --> 0:33:46.480
<v Speaker 1>Well, what did you learn from that experience?

0:33:46.880 --> 0:33:49.520
<v Speaker 3>If I could go back to her, this twenty year

0:33:49.560 --> 0:33:51.600
<v Speaker 3>old coo of a ten million dollar business in this

0:33:51.680 --> 0:33:53.480
<v Speaker 3>big office and all these people reporting to her and

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:56.160
<v Speaker 3>running meetings with eighty pos insane.

0:33:56.080 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I love it. They gave me a shot. I lie

0:33:59.200 --> 0:34:00.560
<v Speaker 1>but gone, I would.

0:34:00.440 --> 0:34:02.440
<v Speaker 3>Say, just be yourself. So I was like, I don't

0:34:02.440 --> 0:34:04.880
<v Speaker 3>know what does the coo wear? So I when with

0:34:04.920 --> 0:34:06.640
<v Speaker 3>me and my mom, like went in her closet, like

0:34:06.640 --> 0:34:09.080
<v Speaker 3>I got some suits like these I get there, I

0:34:09.160 --> 0:34:14.200
<v Speaker 3>like the only person wearing a suit. But still I'm like,

0:34:14.280 --> 0:34:16.880
<v Speaker 3>what does a business person wear? You know? Yeah, I

0:34:16.880 --> 0:34:19.839
<v Speaker 3>should have just been myself. Yeah, And so I think

0:34:19.880 --> 0:34:21.480
<v Speaker 3>that's what I would say. And then the other thing

0:34:21.520 --> 0:34:23.560
<v Speaker 3>that I would say that I took away from that

0:34:23.880 --> 0:34:28.880
<v Speaker 3>is I put in the work to nurture relationships that

0:34:28.920 --> 0:34:32.040
<v Speaker 3>would give me a chance that didn't just happen. And

0:34:32.120 --> 0:34:35.200
<v Speaker 3>I'm so grateful that I nurtured relationships because when I

0:34:35.239 --> 0:34:39.000
<v Speaker 3>took that role, about seven people wrapped themselves around me

0:34:39.200 --> 0:34:42.560
<v Speaker 3>and said, I'll come meet you every single week to

0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:44.480
<v Speaker 3>see how the business is going and help you. And

0:34:44.520 --> 0:34:46.880
<v Speaker 3>they did, Oh wow, every single week.

0:34:47.280 --> 0:34:47.720
<v Speaker 1>Wow.

0:34:47.920 --> 0:34:49.759
<v Speaker 3>It's insane. In fact, I should reach out to them

0:34:49.800 --> 0:34:50.680
<v Speaker 3>and say thank you.

0:34:50.800 --> 0:34:54.520
<v Speaker 1>Wow. And then when you had to when you parted ways,

0:34:54.640 --> 0:34:56.600
<v Speaker 1>how was it? How do you feel in spirit?

0:34:56.880 --> 0:34:57.440
<v Speaker 3>Oh? Fine?

0:34:57.960 --> 0:35:00.600
<v Speaker 1>Were you like relieved or were you did you feel relieved?

0:35:00.800 --> 0:35:03.360
<v Speaker 3>Relieved? But also so incredibly grateful.

0:35:03.520 --> 0:35:05.080
<v Speaker 1>It's really you left grateful?

0:35:05.440 --> 0:35:09.239
<v Speaker 3>Are you kidding? Who gives a twenty year old a

0:35:09.280 --> 0:35:14.040
<v Speaker 3>ten million dollar business to run? And eight people reporting

0:35:14.080 --> 0:35:15.520
<v Speaker 3>to me they just to say how old are you?

0:35:16.360 --> 0:35:17.400
<v Speaker 3>Because I'm their boss?

0:35:17.480 --> 0:35:19.880
<v Speaker 1>Were they ever disrespectful to you. Some of the staff.

0:35:19.960 --> 0:35:22.359
<v Speaker 3>I would never tell them my age because I knew

0:35:22.400 --> 0:35:24.680
<v Speaker 3>they would be because I would be, yeah, I'm sorry,

0:35:24.680 --> 0:35:25.279
<v Speaker 3>I'm reporting to it.

0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:28.879
<v Speaker 1>Like black people, we always look younger than we are.

0:35:29.000 --> 0:35:30.759
<v Speaker 3>You probably I probably looked like I was.

0:35:31.120 --> 0:35:34.120
<v Speaker 1>To see we were like, oh, we're being punked, right,

0:35:34.480 --> 0:35:34.960
<v Speaker 1>it's a joke.

0:35:35.000 --> 0:35:36.440
<v Speaker 3>But then again I was like, okay, how am I

0:35:36.440 --> 0:35:37.360
<v Speaker 3>supposed to stand? Like?

0:35:37.360 --> 0:35:39.840
<v Speaker 1>How do I And you're making good money? Oh yeah.

0:35:39.840 --> 0:35:41.640
<v Speaker 3>It was also just fresh out of college. It was

0:35:42.080 --> 0:35:44.360
<v Speaker 3>making more than I knew what to do with.

0:35:44.719 --> 0:35:47.760
<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, okay, but you spent majority of your time working.

0:35:48.680 --> 0:35:50.520
<v Speaker 1>So what did you do after that? You went back

0:35:50.600 --> 0:35:51.160
<v Speaker 1>to college?

0:35:51.480 --> 0:35:53.640
<v Speaker 3>Not yet? So then I will, I'll fast forward it

0:35:53.640 --> 0:35:56.799
<v Speaker 3>for you. So then I after I did that, then

0:35:57.560 --> 0:35:59.360
<v Speaker 3>I just stayed around entrepreneurs. So then I worked with

0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:04.560
<v Speaker 3>another entrepren who's incredible, Chris Hoskins, who is an incredible human.

0:36:04.640 --> 0:36:07.560
<v Speaker 3>He's in Newport Beach or no, it was yeah, Newport

0:36:07.680 --> 0:36:12.239
<v Speaker 3>Newport Beach in California. And he again we talked about

0:36:12.239 --> 0:36:14.040
<v Speaker 3>what's cool about business. You find a thing that people

0:36:14.080 --> 0:36:17.759
<v Speaker 3>needing you and it's just meeting people's needs. So he

0:36:17.840 --> 0:36:21.480
<v Speaker 3>created a self storage business of boats because people needed

0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:23.279
<v Speaker 3>to store their boats so they didn't always have to

0:36:23.280 --> 0:36:25.600
<v Speaker 3>pay for it to be docked. And so he started

0:36:25.600 --> 0:36:28.080
<v Speaker 3>that and then that became that blew up. And then

0:36:28.120 --> 0:36:32.000
<v Speaker 3>after he started that, he then created storage for wine wineries.

0:36:32.600 --> 0:36:35.759
<v Speaker 3>So basically he's Okay, all these small like mom and

0:36:35.800 --> 0:36:39.360
<v Speaker 3>pop wineries don't have the ability to store their wine.

0:36:39.560 --> 0:36:42.240
<v Speaker 3>I'll bring them all together, put them under one shop,

0:36:42.360 --> 0:36:44.440
<v Speaker 3>and then they can store it with in. This guy's brilliant.

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:47.880
<v Speaker 3>My old boss love him today, and so I'll work

0:36:47.920 --> 0:36:51.360
<v Speaker 3>for him to next. I again like relationship management. There's

0:36:51.360 --> 0:36:53.560
<v Speaker 3>no I even know. That job never gets posted. Where

0:36:53.560 --> 0:36:55.399
<v Speaker 3>would you post? That job would never get posted. It's

0:36:55.440 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 3>through relationships. So worked for Chris and then that's when

0:36:59.040 --> 0:37:02.440
<v Speaker 3>the real estate, Yeah, I was starting to happen and

0:37:02.600 --> 0:37:05.480
<v Speaker 3>was affecting my family and just everyone, and I was like,

0:37:05.520 --> 0:37:08.640
<v Speaker 3>I want to get out of here, and I want

0:37:08.680 --> 0:37:11.280
<v Speaker 3>to do what I'm actually passionate about, which is writing

0:37:11.320 --> 0:37:14.680
<v Speaker 3>and journalism and storytelling. And so that took me to

0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:19.240
<v Speaker 3>actually I did. I was sent to do a program

0:37:19.400 --> 0:37:22.600
<v Speaker 3>just like a summer finance program at Harvard, and when

0:37:22.640 --> 0:37:25.959
<v Speaker 3>I was there, I was like, oh, I belong here.

0:37:26.160 --> 0:37:28.640
<v Speaker 3>Like that we go back to being a kid, but

0:37:28.800 --> 0:37:31.000
<v Speaker 3>just being a kid, and you're just like, oh man,

0:37:31.040 --> 0:37:33.279
<v Speaker 3>these people are so brilliant and they're so smart, and

0:37:33.280 --> 0:37:36.719
<v Speaker 3>they're so talented, and I'm like, oh, I got it.

0:37:36.760 --> 0:37:39.200
<v Speaker 3>This is I belong here. And so I went home,

0:37:39.239 --> 0:37:42.560
<v Speaker 3>I tell my mom, and I went back and actually

0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:44.920
<v Speaker 3>worked for the mayor of Cambridge. So M, I T

0:37:45.200 --> 0:37:49.080
<v Speaker 3>and Harvard are in Cambridge, Massachusetts, and I worked for

0:37:49.120 --> 0:37:51.080
<v Speaker 3>the mayor. I pitched her and I was like, I

0:37:51.120 --> 0:37:52.560
<v Speaker 3>want to work for you. And it was through that

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:58.560
<v Speaker 3>experience that I got all the inroads needed to I guess.

0:37:58.560 --> 0:38:00.759
<v Speaker 3>A big threat in my story, which is a story

0:38:00.760 --> 0:38:03.560
<v Speaker 3>for everyone listening, is relationships. You hear that, but it

0:38:03.640 --> 0:38:07.480
<v Speaker 3>actually means nurturing relationships, nearly caring about people, where you

0:38:07.520 --> 0:38:12.239
<v Speaker 3>care about their well being and you give to them authentically, Hey,

0:38:12.440 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 3>I love here's this just just being genuine. And so

0:38:15.560 --> 0:38:18.520
<v Speaker 3>that led to opening up doors for me to do

0:38:18.560 --> 0:38:21.239
<v Speaker 3>my graduate work at Harvard, which I did. I did

0:38:21.280 --> 0:38:24.120
<v Speaker 3>my journalism program at Harvard, and then it's actually a

0:38:24.160 --> 0:38:25.720
<v Speaker 3>great story because of the time I met my husband.

0:38:26.360 --> 0:38:29.320
<v Speaker 3>Because Harvard has a bunch of various publications, most people

0:38:29.320 --> 0:38:31.919
<v Speaker 3>know the Crimson for Harvard Business School, they have something

0:38:31.960 --> 0:38:33.880
<v Speaker 3>called the Harvest. So I was working there as a

0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:35.440
<v Speaker 3>general manager while I was in school.

0:38:35.480 --> 0:38:37.399
<v Speaker 1>And when you're working, you're doing these things. It's for free,

0:38:37.480 --> 0:38:40.000
<v Speaker 1>right or do you get paid?

0:38:40.280 --> 0:38:40.360
<v Speaker 2>No?

0:38:40.400 --> 0:38:41.800
<v Speaker 3>When I work for the Mayor, I got paid.

0:38:42.040 --> 0:38:43.880
<v Speaker 1>No, Mayor. But like when you're doing the journal.

0:38:43.800 --> 0:38:44.960
<v Speaker 3>Oh no, you get paid.

0:38:45.040 --> 0:38:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Oh you yeah, but it's not scared.

0:38:47.080 --> 0:38:51.239
<v Speaker 3>It's paid. Yeah, you get paid. It's not gonna do

0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:53.399
<v Speaker 3>a lot, but no, I was just scared. I didn't

0:38:53.400 --> 0:38:55.080
<v Speaker 3>know if you were an interne yeah, it's kind of

0:38:55.160 --> 0:38:57.279
<v Speaker 3>like they do. They're still paid, but I think, like

0:38:57.400 --> 0:39:01.160
<v Speaker 3>internship pay okay. And then in fact yeah, and then

0:39:01.239 --> 0:39:04.759
<v Speaker 3>I ran that publication, which is a perfect segue because

0:39:04.800 --> 0:39:06.720
<v Speaker 3>then that when I was there, I had this aha

0:39:06.760 --> 0:39:09.560
<v Speaker 3>moment Colleen. I was like, Harvard is good. Harvard does

0:39:09.600 --> 0:39:12.960
<v Speaker 3>not need my talent or my money. They had just

0:39:13.080 --> 0:39:15.839
<v Speaker 3>raised like billions of dollars, and I said, I want

0:39:15.880 --> 0:39:18.600
<v Speaker 3>to take my talent for what I would call impact

0:39:18.600 --> 0:39:24.120
<v Speaker 3>in the world storytelling media journalism and take it for

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:28.000
<v Speaker 3>the continent and like actually helped build an Africa focused

0:39:28.040 --> 0:39:30.520
<v Speaker 3>African owned and that was a big part for me.

0:39:30.520 --> 0:39:35.040
<v Speaker 3>Media house and that's time. No at that time, no.

0:39:35.760 --> 0:39:40.640
<v Speaker 3>And so then boyfriend at the time, we he's if

0:39:40.680 --> 0:39:43.560
<v Speaker 3>you he's a few and I wanted to go to

0:39:44.680 --> 0:39:46.760
<v Speaker 3>I thought I wanted to go then to business school.

0:39:47.320 --> 0:39:49.160
<v Speaker 3>So anyway, so he and I drive up to New

0:39:49.239 --> 0:39:51.799
<v Speaker 3>York City. We go to Columbia's having this conference called

0:39:51.840 --> 0:39:55.279
<v Speaker 3>the African Economic Forum. At this conference and I hear

0:39:55.320 --> 0:39:57.640
<v Speaker 3>this guy talk about this media company that he's building.

0:39:57.800 --> 0:40:01.040
<v Speaker 3>It's a digital ad tech media, a business focused on

0:40:01.080 --> 0:40:04.000
<v Speaker 3>the continent. And he's talking about it and talking about it.

0:40:04.000 --> 0:40:05.640
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, but if this is going to exist and

0:40:05.680 --> 0:40:08.000
<v Speaker 3>compete against CNN and compete against the New York Times,

0:40:08.040 --> 0:40:10.520
<v Speaker 3>what's your business model? Like, what's the business?

0:40:11.520 --> 0:40:11.719
<v Speaker 2>Oh no?

0:40:11.719 --> 0:40:13.680
<v Speaker 3>I raised my hand and I raised my head about

0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:15.200
<v Speaker 3>three times, and he looked at me, like who is

0:40:15.239 --> 0:40:17.880
<v Speaker 3>this person? Heckily my I'm on this panel. And that

0:40:17.920 --> 0:40:22.120
<v Speaker 3>began a lifelong friendship. So I became his COO. Holy Free, Yeah,

0:40:22.160 --> 0:40:24.520
<v Speaker 3>and we built one of the largest international media companies

0:40:24.520 --> 0:40:27.400
<v Speaker 3>focused on the continent. It was Fire, So that was

0:40:27.440 --> 0:40:30.000
<v Speaker 3>what that's what were you there? I'm still there. I'm

0:40:30.000 --> 0:40:32.719
<v Speaker 3>the chairwoman. You're still There're the chairwoman. So there, I

0:40:32.840 --> 0:40:36.759
<v Speaker 3>was the CEO. I was, Yeah, it's about as high

0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:40.040
<v Speaker 3>as it gets. Yeah, that's the president of the president

0:40:40.120 --> 0:40:41.200
<v Speaker 3>of the President's Okay.

0:40:43.400 --> 0:40:46.400
<v Speaker 1>Just listening to the story, I love that there's like

0:40:46.480 --> 0:40:49.560
<v Speaker 1>an air of confidence, like I see it, I achieve it,

0:40:49.920 --> 0:40:52.239
<v Speaker 1>I go for It's just a decision I'm making, and

0:40:52.239 --> 0:40:54.759
<v Speaker 1>that's the decision. I don't really hear. A lot of

0:40:55.239 --> 0:40:55.960
<v Speaker 1>it was doubt.

0:40:58.719 --> 0:41:01.839
<v Speaker 3>It goes back to that in visit thing that we're

0:41:01.880 --> 0:41:05.319
<v Speaker 3>talking about. The very beginning, the invisible piece, there has

0:41:05.400 --> 0:41:09.319
<v Speaker 3>been an awareness that there's something way bigger than all

0:41:09.360 --> 0:41:11.359
<v Speaker 3>of this in my stomach in a good way.

0:41:11.880 --> 0:41:15.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm hungry, ok right, no, no, no, no, tell all right,

0:41:15.880 --> 0:41:18.760
<v Speaker 1>but tell the story about this invisible thing.

0:41:18.719 --> 0:41:24.680
<v Speaker 3>That there has been an invisible call it faith because

0:41:24.680 --> 0:41:27.319
<v Speaker 3>we can't see that, call it thoughts because we can't

0:41:27.360 --> 0:41:32.680
<v Speaker 3>see those emotions. We can't see. But there's been a

0:41:32.719 --> 0:41:37.719
<v Speaker 3>deep conviction that I'm here for a reason. And every

0:41:37.840 --> 0:41:41.360
<v Speaker 3>entrepreneur has to have that feeling and that knowing that

0:41:41.400 --> 0:41:43.759
<v Speaker 3>they're but and what they're building is like here for

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:46.480
<v Speaker 3>it's not just any reason. It's it's a big deal.

0:41:47.320 --> 0:41:49.920
<v Speaker 3>And so when I meet this guy's names Almagela Shore

0:41:50.120 --> 0:41:51.960
<v Speaker 3>this is a part of some big thing we're meant

0:41:52.000 --> 0:41:56.480
<v Speaker 3>to do, and so I think it's that part. It's

0:41:56.880 --> 0:41:59.480
<v Speaker 3>because I'm gonna be carefous about like confidence or swag

0:41:59.600 --> 0:42:01.439
<v Speaker 3>or whatever, or maybe it is that too, but it's

0:42:01.440 --> 0:42:05.920
<v Speaker 3>really like I am I have a deep sense of purpose,

0:42:06.200 --> 0:42:09.040
<v Speaker 3>like deep and if you imagine that this planet is

0:42:09.080 --> 0:42:13.680
<v Speaker 3>existed for billions of years, what's seventy years? That's not

0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:14.440
<v Speaker 3>even a blink.

0:42:14.800 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 1>We remember how you said that there's something like an

0:42:17.239 --> 0:42:21.319
<v Speaker 1>entrepreneur should say to themselves, ye mantra, I low key

0:42:21.480 --> 0:42:26.160
<v Speaker 1>feel like that would be the perfect mantra. And I've

0:42:26.160 --> 0:42:28.279
<v Speaker 1>never heard someone say this, but saying to yourself like

0:42:28.360 --> 0:42:31.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm here for a reason while you're on this pursuit

0:42:32.360 --> 0:42:34.920
<v Speaker 1>can actually be the thing that triggers because I'm like,

0:42:34.960 --> 0:42:37.799
<v Speaker 1>maybe you could say vision and persistence, but I think

0:42:37.880 --> 0:42:41.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm here for a reason, knowing that, Okay, I'm here

0:42:41.680 --> 0:42:42.759
<v Speaker 1>on a mission.

0:42:42.520 --> 0:42:43.320
<v Speaker 3>On a mission.

0:42:43.560 --> 0:42:45.960
<v Speaker 1>I think that. But was there ever any part of

0:42:45.960 --> 0:42:49.200
<v Speaker 1>you that had those because it doesn't seem and I'm

0:42:49.239 --> 0:42:52.000
<v Speaker 1>just curious. It doesn't seem like you have a lot

0:42:52.040 --> 0:42:53.719
<v Speaker 1>of negative self talk in your head.

0:42:53.800 --> 0:42:56.560
<v Speaker 3>Everyone does, so you do have, oh for sure, But

0:42:56.640 --> 0:43:00.600
<v Speaker 3>it's a I had it, it's a job to away

0:43:01.120 --> 0:43:06.759
<v Speaker 3>because negative self talk is extremely powerful. Like negative self talk,

0:43:06.880 --> 0:43:09.719
<v Speaker 3>I can't do it, then you're right, you can't. This

0:43:09.760 --> 0:43:11.960
<v Speaker 3>isn't gonna work out. This is too hard. You're right,

0:43:12.120 --> 0:43:13.920
<v Speaker 3>it's not gonna work out, and it will be too

0:43:13.960 --> 0:43:16.880
<v Speaker 3>hard for you. Every entrepreneur, I think, and I hope

0:43:17.000 --> 0:43:20.280
<v Speaker 3>knows this. You can't let the self dealt You can't

0:43:20.320 --> 0:43:23.440
<v Speaker 3>literally let it like fester. It will work, it will

0:43:23.480 --> 0:43:25.960
<v Speaker 3>throw you off. It's part of the reason why in

0:43:26.040 --> 0:43:28.759
<v Speaker 3>the world that we're in right now. I make a

0:43:28.760 --> 0:43:30.920
<v Speaker 3>point to understand what's going on in the world and

0:43:30.960 --> 0:43:35.040
<v Speaker 3>I leave it at that, because it's like in venture

0:43:35.080 --> 0:43:38.120
<v Speaker 3>for entrepreneurs, if you just constantly hear that money is

0:43:38.160 --> 0:43:40.880
<v Speaker 3>not being given to you, Yeah, he's not gonna be

0:43:40.880 --> 0:43:43.040
<v Speaker 3>given to you. So what I'm saying is like from

0:43:43.040 --> 0:43:46.200
<v Speaker 3>a mantra standpoint, yes it is hard, but I will

0:43:46.239 --> 0:43:48.680
<v Speaker 3>still find that money, or if it's not for VC,

0:43:48.840 --> 0:43:52.839
<v Speaker 3>I'll get it elsewhere. But like that negative self talk,

0:43:53.040 --> 0:43:56.279
<v Speaker 3>I used to let it run the day and realized

0:43:56.640 --> 0:44:00.680
<v Speaker 3>that has just as much power as me. You wiring

0:44:01.040 --> 0:44:04.440
<v Speaker 3>my brain to talk about different things, to talk about

0:44:04.440 --> 0:44:07.279
<v Speaker 3>things that actually empower me and support me. Yeah, and

0:44:07.280 --> 0:44:09.879
<v Speaker 3>it's critical. It's mental health, Like my mental health will

0:44:09.920 --> 0:44:11.960
<v Speaker 3>not be I will not be okay if I constantly

0:44:11.960 --> 0:44:14.480
<v Speaker 3>tell myself this is too hard. You do not have

0:44:14.520 --> 0:44:16.600
<v Speaker 3>what it takes. And so the second those thoughts come in,

0:44:16.680 --> 0:44:20.000
<v Speaker 3>it's like a workout. It's really it's like.

0:44:19.920 --> 0:44:22.000
<v Speaker 1>When you're doing it, though, what are you doing? Are you?

0:44:22.080 --> 0:44:22.160
<v Speaker 3>Like?

0:44:22.200 --> 0:44:22.640
<v Speaker 1>Shut up?

0:44:23.520 --> 0:44:27.359
<v Speaker 3>I replace it. It's a whole thing. It's a whole

0:44:27.480 --> 0:44:31.759
<v Speaker 3>mental I was just recently so fortunate calling to be

0:44:31.760 --> 0:44:35.439
<v Speaker 3>an inter room with Michelle Obama.

0:44:34.360 --> 0:44:35.920
<v Speaker 1>And she just you feel like.

0:44:38.400 --> 0:44:39.680
<v Speaker 3>I was just with her last week.

0:44:40.239 --> 0:44:44.239
<v Speaker 1>She but you have that like likable poison about.

0:44:44.640 --> 0:44:47.600
<v Speaker 3>You're ever going. I'm gonna take you with We're going

0:44:47.640 --> 0:44:48.600
<v Speaker 3>together everywhere.

0:44:48.680 --> 0:44:48.960
<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

0:44:49.000 --> 0:44:51.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm in this room with her, and I just like

0:44:52.040 --> 0:44:55.440
<v Speaker 3>a little thought of like why are you? But I

0:44:55.480 --> 0:44:57.240
<v Speaker 3>don't let them finish. I don't let the thoughts finish.

0:44:57.520 --> 0:45:01.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm here. I am here because I am supposed to

0:45:02.000 --> 0:45:04.359
<v Speaker 3>be here, even if I don't know why I am

0:45:04.440 --> 0:45:06.520
<v Speaker 3>in this room, because I should be in this room.

0:45:06.719 --> 0:45:09.839
<v Speaker 3>I deserve and I will have these conversations in your

0:45:09.880 --> 0:45:12.759
<v Speaker 3>head like okay, and we all have to do that

0:45:12.880 --> 0:45:17.440
<v Speaker 3>otherwise that negative self talk runs the show, and if

0:45:17.440 --> 0:45:19.960
<v Speaker 3>it runs the show, it shows up in our lives.

0:45:19.960 --> 0:45:22.880
<v Speaker 3>It shows up as deals not working out. It shows

0:45:22.960 --> 0:45:25.400
<v Speaker 3>up as not getting the work that you need to

0:45:25.400 --> 0:45:27.640
<v Speaker 3>get done on time. It shows up as you don't

0:45:27.680 --> 0:45:30.560
<v Speaker 3>go after that opportunity because you don't know. Yes, I

0:45:30.600 --> 0:45:33.239
<v Speaker 3>don't think I'm good enough. Yes, sure, fine, and I'm

0:45:33.239 --> 0:45:36.000
<v Speaker 3>still going anyway. Yeah, and I'm still going. You want

0:45:36.000 --> 0:45:37.680
<v Speaker 3>to know how much self doubt I had at starting

0:45:37.680 --> 0:45:38.680
<v Speaker 3>a venture capital firm?

0:45:39.120 --> 0:45:42.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, dude, I didn't even know your husband's in private equity,

0:45:42.160 --> 0:45:42.520
<v Speaker 1>so did he?

0:45:42.800 --> 0:45:44.879
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but he went to Harvard Business School. I didn't

0:45:44.920 --> 0:45:47.920
<v Speaker 3>go to business school. So that's an important distinction. And

0:45:47.960 --> 0:45:50.440
<v Speaker 3>I could say to myself, I, yes, I've studied finance,

0:45:50.480 --> 0:45:52.799
<v Speaker 3>I've been an entrepreneur, I've been an operator, But I

0:45:52.840 --> 0:45:55.640
<v Speaker 3>could I would get the thoughts around why it shouldn't

0:45:55.680 --> 0:45:56.600
<v Speaker 3>be me starting a firm.

0:45:57.040 --> 0:45:59.279
<v Speaker 1>Did you, And just going back before we get into that,

0:46:00.040 --> 0:46:03.520
<v Speaker 1>did you ever have imposter syndrome, especially like some of

0:46:03.560 --> 0:46:04.200
<v Speaker 1>those careers.

0:46:04.239 --> 0:46:09.640
<v Speaker 3>Yes, yeah, but I think I had imposter syndrome. We

0:46:09.680 --> 0:46:13.600
<v Speaker 3>all have imposter syndrome. What's that movie? Nobody watches movies anymore.

0:46:14.239 --> 0:46:17.120
<v Speaker 3>Russell Crowe, what's that movie? You're not gonna remember it.

0:46:17.160 --> 0:46:19.759
<v Speaker 3>No one's gonna remember it anyway, it doesn't matter. I'm

0:46:19.760 --> 0:46:21.360
<v Speaker 3>gonna tell you the scene. So the scene in the

0:46:21.400 --> 0:46:25.520
<v Speaker 3>movie is this Skuy schizophrenic beautiful mind. He's schizophrenic. He

0:46:25.920 --> 0:46:28.759
<v Speaker 3>thinks his whole life since college, he met these three

0:46:28.760 --> 0:46:31.440
<v Speaker 3>people and they became his best friends, and he discovers

0:46:31.480 --> 0:46:34.440
<v Speaker 3>they're not real people. He had conversations with the coffee

0:46:34.440 --> 0:46:38.440
<v Speaker 3>when I'm talked to all his favorite college memories. He's schizophrenic.

0:46:38.520 --> 0:46:41.880
<v Speaker 3>He thought these are his college roommates. They're not real people,

0:46:43.320 --> 0:46:45.680
<v Speaker 3>and that rocks his world, right, And so when he

0:46:45.719 --> 0:46:49.480
<v Speaker 3>realizes they're not real people, they start going hard, like

0:46:49.800 --> 0:46:52.160
<v Speaker 3>yelling at him. But he has to remember, like he

0:46:52.239 --> 0:46:55.320
<v Speaker 3>sees them like they're right here. So these are real

0:46:55.680 --> 0:46:58.240
<v Speaker 3>people that he's fabricated in his mind. They're as real

0:46:58.320 --> 0:47:01.440
<v Speaker 3>as you and me, except they're actual don't exist. And

0:47:01.480 --> 0:47:04.439
<v Speaker 3>so there's the movie goes through and he's like having

0:47:04.480 --> 0:47:09.279
<v Speaker 3>this realization like, oh wait, they don't exist. And at

0:47:09.280 --> 0:47:11.759
<v Speaker 3>the end of the movie. Throughout the movie, they're like

0:47:11.760 --> 0:47:13.680
<v Speaker 3>saying negative things to him. So those are the negative

0:47:13.719 --> 0:47:16.200
<v Speaker 3>voices in his head that he's made actual. But at

0:47:16.239 --> 0:47:18.560
<v Speaker 3>the end of the movie, he gets in the Nobel

0:47:19.000 --> 0:47:21.200
<v Speaker 3>Peace Press, I believe, and he looks over and those

0:47:21.200 --> 0:47:24.200
<v Speaker 3>are those same three people that have been his best friends.

0:47:24.560 --> 0:47:26.680
<v Speaker 3>But they're off in the corner and they do not

0:47:26.800 --> 0:47:29.520
<v Speaker 3>have power anymore to tell him all these things that

0:47:29.560 --> 0:47:32.040
<v Speaker 3>they used to tell him. And that is like what

0:47:32.120 --> 0:47:35.799
<v Speaker 3>I say about those negative thoughts, the imposter syndrome. You

0:47:35.920 --> 0:47:39.000
<v Speaker 3>might feel it, you might think those thoughts go put

0:47:39.040 --> 0:47:41.279
<v Speaker 3>in the corner. Yes, fine, I get it, But you're

0:47:41.280 --> 0:47:43.239
<v Speaker 3>not gonna be front and center like you used to be.

0:47:43.520 --> 0:47:45.640
<v Speaker 3>You're not gonna be the main thought that I think.

0:47:45.719 --> 0:47:48.200
<v Speaker 3>I get it. Sure, yes, there might be reasons I

0:47:48.239 --> 0:47:49.879
<v Speaker 3>shouldn't be here. I can give you a million. Wise

0:47:49.880 --> 0:47:52.040
<v Speaker 3>I should And even if you think so, those become

0:47:52.160 --> 0:47:55.160
<v Speaker 3>the dominant. That's what takes front and center. Y'all go

0:47:55.200 --> 0:47:57.799
<v Speaker 3>off into the corner or in the closet, honestly, And

0:47:57.840 --> 0:47:58.320
<v Speaker 3>I think.

0:47:58.200 --> 0:48:01.839
<v Speaker 1>That is like, yeah, critical, So you've learned how to

0:48:01.920 --> 0:48:03.360
<v Speaker 1>manage and work out.

0:48:03.200 --> 0:48:05.239
<v Speaker 3>And it is a mental work. Yeah, it is a

0:48:05.360 --> 0:48:08.719
<v Speaker 3>mental It is a mental workout, Yeah it is. The

0:48:08.840 --> 0:48:11.680
<v Speaker 3>physical health is the way we like have to put

0:48:11.680 --> 0:48:13.640
<v Speaker 3>in work for physical health. I think we got to

0:48:13.640 --> 0:48:15.279
<v Speaker 3>appreciate how much work we need to put in our

0:48:15.280 --> 0:48:17.640
<v Speaker 3>mental health, like a mental workout. No, won't think that

0:48:17.760 --> 0:48:19.200
<v Speaker 3>their mind is the most powerful tool.

0:48:19.560 --> 0:48:20.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah it is.

0:48:20.280 --> 0:48:24.080
<v Speaker 3>It's the most powerful tool, the most Okay, and you're

0:48:24.080 --> 0:48:24.560
<v Speaker 3>ready to eat.

0:48:24.719 --> 0:48:28.000
<v Speaker 1>Okay, let's see now, I gotta watch the time.

0:48:28.719 --> 0:48:31.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh no, okay, ask me the last question. What do

0:48:31.920 --> 0:48:33.239
<v Speaker 2>we I don't want you to leave.

0:48:33.360 --> 0:48:35.200
<v Speaker 3>I know you're like, wait, do you do a take two?

0:48:35.480 --> 0:48:36.319
<v Speaker 3>I don't want you to leave.

0:48:36.320 --> 0:48:37.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm so I'm sad about this.

0:48:37.760 --> 0:48:41.439
<v Speaker 3>So I'm gonna be clear. This ain't it. Okay, we're

0:48:41.480 --> 0:48:43.440
<v Speaker 3>gonna eat it because we're having a good time. But

0:48:43.480 --> 0:48:46.640
<v Speaker 3>the way this is supposed to work is it's.

0:48:46.719 --> 0:48:52.000
<v Speaker 1>On a electrics it's fine with your story an electric

0:48:52.400 --> 0:48:58.000
<v Speaker 1>inspired It's okay, y'all, it's electric stoves. You're eating this too.

0:48:58.080 --> 0:48:58.920
<v Speaker 2>I get to eat it with you.

0:48:59.360 --> 0:49:02.320
<v Speaker 1>Yes, Okay. I know we're cutting it close on time. Okay,

0:49:02.520 --> 0:49:05.560
<v Speaker 1>so walk me closer into Emmaline.

0:49:07.560 --> 0:49:09.760
<v Speaker 3>I got your perfect segue. I've got your perfect segway.

0:49:09.840 --> 0:49:13.080
<v Speaker 3>So remember where the guy who started this media company.

0:49:13.160 --> 0:49:15.160
<v Speaker 3>He's on a panel. He's trying to talk. I won't

0:49:15.200 --> 0:49:16.480
<v Speaker 3>let him I'm raising my hand.

0:49:16.320 --> 0:49:16.879
<v Speaker 2>Over and over again.

0:49:16.880 --> 0:49:18.319
<v Speaker 3>He's like, who's this woman whos tackling me? And then

0:49:18.320 --> 0:49:19.759
<v Speaker 3>he's actually, do you want to come work with me?

0:49:19.800 --> 0:49:22.279
<v Speaker 3>And so that begins after you ask the question, please,

0:49:22.320 --> 0:49:23.600
<v Speaker 3>I want you to come see my student. I'll want

0:49:23.640 --> 0:49:25.160
<v Speaker 3>you to come see what I what I'm building, and

0:49:25.200 --> 0:49:28.160
<v Speaker 3>so that began, and then and then I became a CEO,

0:49:28.280 --> 0:49:32.080
<v Speaker 3>and then the rest is truly history, all right. So

0:49:32.200 --> 0:49:36.720
<v Speaker 3>then a lot of crazy stuff was supporters Sahara report,

0:49:37.040 --> 0:49:40.719
<v Speaker 3>Sahara reporters. Media grew. We became so powerful that this

0:49:40.800 --> 0:49:44.840
<v Speaker 3>guy gets arrested by the President of Nigeria. Not just arrested,

0:49:44.880 --> 0:49:46.920
<v Speaker 3>he gets kidnapped. Not just kidnapped, he's put in the

0:49:46.960 --> 0:49:51.920
<v Speaker 3>President's private prison for those he really doesn't care for

0:49:53.120 --> 0:49:57.640
<v Speaker 3>the heck. And so it's a movie for sure. And

0:49:58.239 --> 0:50:02.239
<v Speaker 3>this happens August third. I'm expecting my baby. Baby's born

0:50:02.239 --> 0:50:05.960
<v Speaker 3>in August eighth, So now I am my co conspirator

0:50:06.120 --> 0:50:10.600
<v Speaker 3>is now in some hid in jail because we don't

0:50:10.640 --> 0:50:13.480
<v Speaker 3>know where he is. When he got kidnapped at three

0:50:13.520 --> 0:50:15.760
<v Speaker 3>o'clock in the morning, he tried to tweet what was happening,

0:50:15.760 --> 0:50:17.080
<v Speaker 3>and he got out a half tweet.

0:50:17.800 --> 0:50:17.960
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:50:18.000 --> 0:50:19.560
<v Speaker 3>This is back when Twitter was a thing. It was

0:50:19.640 --> 0:50:21.759
<v Speaker 3>an X and all that. All right, so you know

0:50:21.800 --> 0:50:23.520
<v Speaker 3>nobody's paying attention to X like that, but when.

0:50:23.440 --> 0:50:26.279
<v Speaker 1>They were, and they did this all because of how.

0:50:26.200 --> 0:50:28.640
<v Speaker 3>Powerful we become. Yeah, and so what that means is

0:50:28.640 --> 0:50:30.920
<v Speaker 3>like we were able to tell stories. Imagine today if

0:50:30.920 --> 0:50:36.920
<v Speaker 3>someone's the current president pocketed two billion dollars and we

0:50:37.000 --> 0:50:39.680
<v Speaker 3>could prove it. Yeah, all his people are coming for

0:50:39.800 --> 0:50:41.680
<v Speaker 3>you may not make it out the house alive. So

0:50:41.719 --> 0:50:43.440
<v Speaker 3>what they wanted to do was kidnap them. But then

0:50:43.480 --> 0:50:45.880
<v Speaker 3>once the problemise, he has the US connection, so he

0:50:45.920 --> 0:50:48.359
<v Speaker 3>was in Nigeria when this was happening. So anyway, long

0:50:48.400 --> 0:50:51.560
<v Speaker 3>story short, I become sitting CEO and run the business.

0:50:51.560 --> 0:50:53.640
<v Speaker 3>Five days later, my daughter is born. And not only

0:50:53.640 --> 0:50:56.319
<v Speaker 3>am I now running a bullion like the newborn, but

0:50:56.400 --> 0:50:58.640
<v Speaker 3>not only doing that, oh, I need to get my

0:50:59.520 --> 0:51:03.879
<v Speaker 3>coc and out of prison. So that's when we work

0:51:03.920 --> 0:51:06.920
<v Speaker 3>with the Clooney Foundation. Shout out to a mall Clooney and.

0:51:07.000 --> 0:51:08.880
<v Speaker 1>I didn't see that plot was coming. Okay.

0:51:09.080 --> 0:51:11.560
<v Speaker 3>Oh, she's a human rights law attorney, so she cares

0:51:11.600 --> 0:51:15.560
<v Speaker 3>deeply about journalists and journalism and freedom of expression. So

0:51:15.600 --> 0:51:21.400
<v Speaker 3>she released statements and human rights cold all these things

0:51:21.680 --> 0:51:24.160
<v Speaker 3>came together in the most magical way. The United States

0:51:24.160 --> 0:51:29.560
<v Speaker 3>Ambassador to Nigeria, just people, just really incredible forces came together.

0:51:29.840 --> 0:51:36.200
<v Speaker 3>And after Athantic I can't remember anymore, remember December. By

0:51:36.800 --> 0:51:41.200
<v Speaker 3>December actually he was released, but released out of what

0:51:41.239 --> 0:51:43.600
<v Speaker 3>you might call a torture zone. So he was like

0:51:43.680 --> 0:51:45.960
<v Speaker 3>being torched. So out of that. Eat this food.

0:51:46.160 --> 0:51:48.279
<v Speaker 1>Let's try this way. Let's try it.

0:51:48.440 --> 0:51:54.960
<v Speaker 3>You're eating it, I get to eat it with you. Okay,

0:51:56.480 --> 0:51:58.440
<v Speaker 3>you eat enough of this, you don't want to be broke. Right,

0:52:00.239 --> 0:52:06.359
<v Speaker 3>there's the same It needs fire, not heat, and it needs.

0:52:08.560 --> 0:52:10.719
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I was judging the raisins because I

0:52:10.800 --> 0:52:13.680
<v Speaker 1>was like, no way, these raisins are gonna work. But

0:52:13.719 --> 0:52:16.520
<v Speaker 1>the raisins absolutely are necessary in this.

0:52:19.000 --> 0:52:22.680
<v Speaker 3>Also, so I'm actually making a dish red beans and

0:52:22.760 --> 0:52:24.040
<v Speaker 3>rice with some red beans on top.

0:52:24.080 --> 0:52:26.920
<v Speaker 1>It's fire with the raisin in it.

0:52:27.520 --> 0:52:29.080
<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, the raisins, you were.

0:52:29.080 --> 0:52:31.160
<v Speaker 1>Because I know red beans and rice coconut rice.

0:52:31.920 --> 0:52:34.000
<v Speaker 3>I too like my twist, right, I really bring in

0:52:34.040 --> 0:52:37.720
<v Speaker 3>like Caribbean flavor, ja Latin American flavor.

0:52:37.840 --> 0:52:38.399
<v Speaker 1>I love that.

0:52:39.800 --> 0:52:42.480
<v Speaker 3>So I love that. I love mixing, mixing all of

0:52:42.520 --> 0:52:47.280
<v Speaker 3>the black and brown talent, culinary talent.

0:52:48.120 --> 0:52:50.840
<v Speaker 1>This food is if you broke, this will get you through.

0:52:51.440 --> 0:52:54.239
<v Speaker 1>I know that she lookija had a harder time because

0:52:54.239 --> 0:52:56.880
<v Speaker 1>we gave her five minute rice and I've never actually

0:52:56.920 --> 0:52:58.920
<v Speaker 1>made five minute rice. I usually use real rice. I'm

0:52:58.920 --> 0:53:02.760
<v Speaker 1>pretty sure that affected your dish major. But the raisins plus,

0:53:02.800 --> 0:53:04.799
<v Speaker 1>I would have added like a million more raisins because

0:53:04.920 --> 0:53:05.600
<v Speaker 1>I really.

0:53:05.400 --> 0:53:07.000
<v Speaker 3>Liked the raisins. You said you didn't.

0:53:07.000 --> 0:53:08.960
<v Speaker 1>That's why I didn't. I didn't. I did not know

0:53:09.040 --> 0:53:10.040
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna like the rains.

0:53:10.080 --> 0:53:12.120
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I would have done it the way I do it.

0:53:12.160 --> 0:53:14.520
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you were like raisin, dude, I like

0:53:14.600 --> 0:53:16.239
<v Speaker 1>to think about when you said raisin. I was like,

0:53:16.680 --> 0:53:18.680
<v Speaker 1>she like, that's something like but you hear about like

0:53:18.719 --> 0:53:21.080
<v Speaker 1>white people with their potato salad or something. So all

0:53:21.120 --> 0:53:24.480
<v Speaker 1>I was like, raisins and rice. This sounds nuts, but honestly,

0:53:24.520 --> 0:53:26.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm like literally just picking the pieces with the raisins.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

0:53:27.040 --> 0:53:29.480
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so now you know, no, no raisins.

0:53:29.600 --> 0:53:30.640
<v Speaker 3>It's a Colombian dishes.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to the raisins.

0:53:32.640 --> 0:53:34.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, great job.

0:53:34.760 --> 0:53:37.600
<v Speaker 1>Back to your story because it's better than your dish. Respectfully.

0:53:37.600 --> 0:53:40.759
<v Speaker 1>Oh no, it's so he gets out of jail. Did

0:53:40.800 --> 0:53:42.799
<v Speaker 1>you have to watch him go through some kind of

0:53:42.840 --> 0:53:43.840
<v Speaker 1>trauma experience to.

0:53:43.880 --> 0:53:45.600
<v Speaker 3>It and we can reach him? No?

0:53:45.760 --> 0:53:46.480
<v Speaker 1>After he got out.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, excellent question that he and I have never discussed,

0:53:50.360 --> 0:53:52.759
<v Speaker 3>but I would if this might be the not be

0:53:52.880 --> 0:53:54.399
<v Speaker 3>the place to talk about it. But what I will

0:53:54.440 --> 0:53:57.839
<v Speaker 3>say is it was very hard on him, for sure.

0:53:58.480 --> 0:53:59.920
<v Speaker 1>But did that also scary?

0:54:01.280 --> 0:54:01.960
<v Speaker 3>Still scares me?

0:54:02.360 --> 0:54:04.320
<v Speaker 1>Would do you still go back to Africa?

0:54:04.600 --> 0:54:07.279
<v Speaker 3>No? I couldn't. So I had to miss one of

0:54:07.320 --> 0:54:10.000
<v Speaker 3>my dear friend's weddings in Nigeria because I couldn't go.

0:54:10.600 --> 0:54:12.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, today dangerous my name, like.

0:54:13.080 --> 0:54:16.080
<v Speaker 3>I became more well known. But the way it works

0:54:16.200 --> 0:54:18.480
<v Speaker 3>is like no one knew I existed. I was a coo.

0:54:18.640 --> 0:54:21.920
<v Speaker 1>He had a very loud, visible face. But but then

0:54:22.000 --> 0:54:23.040
<v Speaker 1>you had to step in.

0:54:23.000 --> 0:54:24.759
<v Speaker 3>And they're like, wait, how's this thing still going because

0:54:24.760 --> 0:54:28.399
<v Speaker 3>we thought we cut off the head. Yeah, and they're

0:54:28.440 --> 0:54:32.160
<v Speaker 3>like huh. And that's when they started digging and realizing, oh, okay,

0:54:32.239 --> 0:54:34.600
<v Speaker 3>there's someone that runs this thing that's not him still

0:54:34.680 --> 0:54:39.640
<v Speaker 3>running and so that's yeah, I'll steer clear. But anyway,

0:54:39.680 --> 0:54:41.719
<v Speaker 3>so during that period is when I realized this is

0:54:41.760 --> 0:54:44.319
<v Speaker 3>too much on me, and so we looked for someone

0:54:44.400 --> 0:54:46.440
<v Speaker 3>to take my seat to be the CEO. This is

0:54:46.560 --> 0:54:48.279
<v Speaker 3>years later and then that's what I was like, what's

0:54:48.320 --> 0:54:51.320
<v Speaker 3>going to be next? Ye? And that's when I said, okay.

0:54:52.000 --> 0:54:55.560
<v Speaker 3>The founder of eBay was an investor in our in

0:54:55.680 --> 0:55:01.120
<v Speaker 3>Sahara and via his vehicle called Omiti R. And so

0:55:01.440 --> 0:55:05.920
<v Speaker 3>I said, what is next? I want to be on

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<v Speaker 3>the other side because I bet if you could change

0:55:08.920 --> 0:55:12.080
<v Speaker 3>who's writing checks, you would change what gets invested in.

0:55:12.320 --> 0:55:15.200
<v Speaker 3>You got an idea for hair please very interested. So

0:55:15.239 --> 0:55:17.080
<v Speaker 3>then that's what that was that flip for me, and

0:55:17.120 --> 0:55:19.000
<v Speaker 3>so I switched and then I became I would turned

0:55:19.000 --> 0:55:20.560
<v Speaker 3>out with the other side, not the operator, but the

0:55:20.560 --> 0:55:22.239
<v Speaker 3>person writing checks into operators.

0:55:22.560 --> 0:55:24.719
<v Speaker 1>But then in that person writing checks, you had to

0:55:24.719 --> 0:55:26.920
<v Speaker 1>pitch the people the funds.

0:55:28.280 --> 0:55:29.560
<v Speaker 3>No, I became the fund.

0:55:29.640 --> 0:55:31.600
<v Speaker 1>You became the fund. But didn't you have to raise

0:55:31.680 --> 0:55:32.879
<v Speaker 1>fund to become the Yes.

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<v Speaker 3>So our first iteration and shout out to my co

0:55:35.800 --> 0:55:40.160
<v Speaker 3>founders I was started buying myself. Nasim Saiani a zine

0:55:40.239 --> 0:55:43.120
<v Speaker 3>Rats and Van Albek. We started our own fund. So

0:55:43.160 --> 0:55:46.359
<v Speaker 3>we were like, man, these founders are amazing. What if

0:55:46.400 --> 0:55:48.400
<v Speaker 3>we just take our own money and COVID was a

0:55:48.400 --> 0:55:50.640
<v Speaker 3>good time to start because the bills were real different.

0:55:50.640 --> 0:55:51.879
<v Speaker 2>Remember to eat.

0:55:52.239 --> 0:55:56.879
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so we just combined our capital and invested into

0:55:57.560 --> 0:56:01.680
<v Speaker 3>about fifteen female founders and are just our money.

0:56:01.800 --> 0:56:03.360
<v Speaker 1>And that's very scary.

0:56:03.800 --> 0:56:06.480
<v Speaker 3>No, it was fire. It was amazing. It's the most

0:56:06.520 --> 0:56:09.080
<v Speaker 3>incredible thing in the world because we began to see

0:56:09.080 --> 0:56:10.520
<v Speaker 3>that we're onto something that we could bring in, but

0:56:10.560 --> 0:56:12.759
<v Speaker 3>we could meet really great founders that we could give

0:56:12.760 --> 0:56:14.600
<v Speaker 3>them money and we would watch their businesses take off.

0:56:14.760 --> 0:56:19.160
<v Speaker 1>And then I love that you. I was more scared

0:56:19.160 --> 0:56:21.920
<v Speaker 1>about spending my own money that what I'm saying, But

0:56:21.960 --> 0:56:23.960
<v Speaker 1>I love that you were, like, that's a little bit

0:56:23.960 --> 0:56:24.960
<v Speaker 1>of nerve wrecking, right.

0:56:25.360 --> 0:56:27.640
<v Speaker 3>I think that's a good point. That is why others

0:56:27.680 --> 0:56:30.439
<v Speaker 3>invested with us, because we had the conviction to put

0:56:30.480 --> 0:56:33.080
<v Speaker 3>our own capital on the line and not just say

0:56:33.120 --> 0:56:34.960
<v Speaker 3>let me get some of your money and give it

0:56:34.960 --> 0:56:37.840
<v Speaker 3>to these founders's. Now, we took our own money and

0:56:37.880 --> 0:56:41.480
<v Speaker 3>put it into fifteen founders. I believe over a million

0:56:41.560 --> 0:56:44.920
<v Speaker 3>dollars of our own money. And so what that means is,

0:56:45.040 --> 0:56:46.640
<v Speaker 3>Okay that you all are serious.

0:56:47.000 --> 0:56:51.160
<v Speaker 1>Hell yeah, now when you're doing these exactly, I love that.

0:56:51.680 --> 0:56:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I think sometimes when we are putting money into a business.

0:56:55.400 --> 0:56:57.840
<v Speaker 1>I understand your position. Where like when I'm investing in

0:56:57.880 --> 0:57:01.160
<v Speaker 1>my business, I actually I believe it so much I'm like,

0:57:01.360 --> 0:57:04.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm not even I'm almost like, what is it high

0:57:04.719 --> 0:57:06.680
<v Speaker 1>on the supply? I know I can do this, so

0:57:06.680 --> 0:57:09.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm not worried about my personal investments. But I know

0:57:09.320 --> 0:57:11.800
<v Speaker 1>even me as myself, if i invest in other companies

0:57:11.840 --> 0:57:15.200
<v Speaker 1>for whatever reason, if I'm not a part of the company,

0:57:15.640 --> 0:57:19.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel like and this is I just learned this

0:57:19.240 --> 0:57:21.600
<v Speaker 1>about myself, like in the last year. So I can

0:57:21.600 --> 0:57:23.840
<v Speaker 1>only invest in companies where I actually play a role

0:57:23.880 --> 0:57:26.040
<v Speaker 1>in the company, because I noticed if I'm not playing

0:57:26.040 --> 0:57:30.760
<v Speaker 1>over I did and no, I lost all my money.

0:57:30.840 --> 0:57:33.360
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so angel investing is a little different, right, because

0:57:33.400 --> 0:57:35.880
<v Speaker 3>you're passively writing a check into a business and you're

0:57:35.920 --> 0:57:38.760
<v Speaker 3>not helping them. They have to return. I think we

0:57:38.800 --> 0:57:41.200
<v Speaker 3>invest so we work very it's my full time job.

0:57:42.040 --> 0:57:44.680
<v Speaker 1>So that would be cool to get you in the company, right,

0:57:44.840 --> 0:57:46.360
<v Speaker 1>like you would come with the check.

0:57:46.560 --> 0:57:48.600
<v Speaker 3>That's right. So that's why people want us to come

0:57:48.640 --> 0:57:50.160
<v Speaker 3>in with our check, because it's not just a check,

0:57:50.200 --> 0:57:50.800
<v Speaker 3>it's a whole.

0:57:51.200 --> 0:57:51.560
<v Speaker 1>It's you.

0:57:51.760 --> 0:57:53.800
<v Speaker 3>It's like an army, right.

0:57:53.920 --> 0:57:56.720
<v Speaker 1>Oh, that's oh, so then that's the difference between venture

0:57:56.760 --> 0:57:59.520
<v Speaker 1>capital and angel exactly. Yeah. So I went through a

0:57:59.520 --> 0:58:02.840
<v Speaker 1>bid where I lost enough to set me back a

0:58:02.840 --> 0:58:06.080
<v Speaker 1>couple of years, but I had learned in that. I said, Okay,

0:58:06.320 --> 0:58:08.880
<v Speaker 1>maybe in the future, if I ever invest in a company,

0:58:08.960 --> 0:58:11.360
<v Speaker 1>I have to play a role to have secure parameters

0:58:11.400 --> 0:58:13.880
<v Speaker 1>like exactly maybe having the money in ESHCRO or maybe

0:58:13.920 --> 0:58:16.439
<v Speaker 1>having two signatures on the checking account, just little things

0:58:16.480 --> 0:58:19.280
<v Speaker 1>to like have a check and balance. But I learned

0:58:19.320 --> 0:58:20.240
<v Speaker 1>that error.

0:58:20.320 --> 0:58:23.280
<v Speaker 3>Would you say, yeah, exactly, Well you can imagine. That's

0:58:23.320 --> 0:58:26.040
<v Speaker 3>so people said, I want to invest in female founders,

0:58:26.040 --> 0:58:28.280
<v Speaker 3>but I don't have I'm doing something else. So I

0:58:28.320 --> 0:58:30.120
<v Speaker 3>want you to do it because you're going to make

0:58:30.120 --> 0:58:32.120
<v Speaker 3>sure you're going to dot the I and you're going

0:58:32.200 --> 0:58:32.880
<v Speaker 3>to cross the t's.

0:58:33.080 --> 0:58:35.439
<v Speaker 1>So it's smarter to invest in the mention capital firm.

0:58:35.600 --> 0:58:38.040
<v Speaker 1>But now, how hard is it for say a smaller

0:58:38.080 --> 0:58:41.520
<v Speaker 1>person like with micro money to invest in a venture

0:58:41.560 --> 0:58:42.960
<v Speaker 1>capital firm. It's so hard.

0:58:43.160 --> 0:58:46.360
<v Speaker 3>It's not hard. You can so the two secrets most

0:58:46.400 --> 0:58:48.440
<v Speaker 3>people don't know. If you commit and say I want

0:58:48.440 --> 0:58:53.880
<v Speaker 3>to invest one hundred thousand dollars to VC, it's over years.

0:58:54.080 --> 0:58:55.880
<v Speaker 3>So that means it might be twenty K years, it

0:58:55.920 --> 0:58:57.920
<v Speaker 3>might be thirty K years. If someone's oh I can

0:58:57.920 --> 0:59:00.320
<v Speaker 3>only do twenty five K, great, twenty five Ok, there

0:59:00.320 --> 0:59:02.000
<v Speaker 3>are VC firms that will take twenty five K. We

0:59:02.000 --> 0:59:04.600
<v Speaker 3>have taken twenty five K checks, so that we've taken

0:59:04.600 --> 0:59:08.200
<v Speaker 3>thirty K checks. So your first wire is seven thousand dollars.

0:59:08.280 --> 0:59:10.560
<v Speaker 3>So I want to minimize that because an entrepreneur, seven

0:59:10.600 --> 0:59:13.480
<v Speaker 3>thousand is real. But my point is, like most people

0:59:13.520 --> 0:59:15.520
<v Speaker 3>don't know, you can begin to build your wealth and

0:59:15.600 --> 0:59:18.959
<v Speaker 3>get access to these really incredible deals that will transform, yeah,

0:59:19.160 --> 0:59:20.760
<v Speaker 3>your bottom line and how much money you have in

0:59:20.800 --> 0:59:22.200
<v Speaker 3>your account with smaller checks.

0:59:22.320 --> 0:59:25.400
<v Speaker 1>I love that better, in my opinion, than investing in stocks.

0:59:25.480 --> 0:59:27.760
<v Speaker 1>If I had a choice, I would much rather invest

0:59:27.800 --> 0:59:31.560
<v Speaker 1>in a VC. And I know venture capitalists do that

0:59:31.680 --> 0:59:34.240
<v Speaker 1>due diligence because I've tried to picture venture capitals before

0:59:34.240 --> 0:59:36.600
<v Speaker 1>and boyd they laugh you at the room real quick. Yeah,

0:59:36.640 --> 0:59:39.640
<v Speaker 1>if you don't really know your stuff. Yeah, yeah, at

0:59:39.720 --> 0:59:40.360
<v Speaker 1>least reminds me.

0:59:40.400 --> 0:59:43.360
<v Speaker 3>I mean, well, I agree, I agree, and this is

0:59:43.360 --> 0:59:47.080
<v Speaker 3>why I think we need more resources so that we

0:59:47.160 --> 0:59:49.480
<v Speaker 3>know how to play the game. Yeah you know what

0:59:49.520 --> 0:59:51.440
<v Speaker 3>I mean, So like they will laugh you out of

0:59:51.440 --> 0:59:53.640
<v Speaker 3>the room just because you don't speak their language. But

0:59:53.720 --> 0:59:54.720
<v Speaker 3>if you learn the game.

0:59:54.560 --> 0:59:57.760
<v Speaker 1>You're anyway, and I also feel and you can do it.

0:59:57.800 --> 1:00:00.760
<v Speaker 1>True false quickly, we're going over time?

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<v Speaker 3>Please?

1:00:01.040 --> 1:00:02.560
<v Speaker 1>Do you want to check the time? What time is it?

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<v Speaker 3>I tell you, Yeah, it's eleven thirty, it's eleven thirty.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, don't break up with me? Sure or false?

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<v Speaker 1>Venture capitalists. The difference between angel, angel capital and venture

1:00:12.920 --> 1:00:15.040
<v Speaker 1>capital is it, like venture capitalists, you have to dream

1:00:15.080 --> 1:00:18.200
<v Speaker 1>extremely large to take over the planet, like multimillion dollar

1:00:18.240 --> 1:00:21.840
<v Speaker 1>company and an angel or the smaller investments are for

1:00:21.880 --> 1:00:24.640
<v Speaker 1>companies that are like the false okay, false false, you

1:00:24.640 --> 1:00:25.760
<v Speaker 1>can tell me the truth.

1:00:25.840 --> 1:00:28.720
<v Speaker 3>Angels and vcs want you to change the world. They

1:00:28.760 --> 1:00:33.040
<v Speaker 3>want you to have some big, disruptive, innovative idea. Typically,

1:00:33.760 --> 1:00:39.560
<v Speaker 3>vcs will not invest if you don't, whereas angels might. Right,

1:00:39.760 --> 1:00:41.880
<v Speaker 3>if you're doing something that needs to exist in the

1:00:41.920 --> 1:00:44.360
<v Speaker 3>world and maybe it won't become a billion dollar business,

1:00:44.360 --> 1:00:47.160
<v Speaker 3>an angel might look at it, vcs won't. But they

1:00:47.200 --> 1:00:49.520
<v Speaker 3>both actually want to invest in the thing that's going

1:00:49.520 --> 1:00:52.680
<v Speaker 3>to unlock like a billion dollar outcome. The difference is

1:00:52.720 --> 1:00:55.360
<v Speaker 3>actually just the time that they write a check angels

1:00:55.360 --> 1:00:57.920
<v Speaker 3>will write a check or we're just talking. Maybe have

1:00:57.960 --> 1:01:00.640
<v Speaker 3>an idea. Vcs need to typic, please see a little

1:01:00.640 --> 1:01:03.160
<v Speaker 3>bit more, or you have done this, you have a

1:01:03.160 --> 1:01:05.680
<v Speaker 3>few reps, and so they'll just write you a check

1:01:05.680 --> 1:01:07.600
<v Speaker 3>even if you have an idea. Typically these days you

1:01:07.600 --> 1:01:10.160
<v Speaker 3>don't see a lot of that unless you are coming

1:01:10.160 --> 1:01:12.800
<v Speaker 3>out of Stanford or it's coming out of some AI

1:01:12.920 --> 1:01:16.000
<v Speaker 3>machine learning lab or something, then you can probably get

1:01:16.000 --> 1:01:20.280
<v Speaker 3>money before you leave. Other than that, like setting those

1:01:20.320 --> 1:01:24.520
<v Speaker 3>sort of exceptional examples to the side, angels and vcs,

1:01:24.920 --> 1:01:28.240
<v Speaker 3>angels are just early vcs. The main difference about angels

1:01:28.240 --> 1:01:30.520
<v Speaker 3>and vcs is angels typical people write a check. They

1:01:30.560 --> 1:01:32.680
<v Speaker 3>are not making this their full time job.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so adventure capital is definitely a full time oh yeah,

1:01:37.040 --> 1:01:38.160
<v Speaker 1>because they're trying to get to that.

1:01:38.120 --> 1:01:41.280
<v Speaker 3>Billion, so they have to put in work, whereas angels

1:01:41.280 --> 1:01:42.640
<v Speaker 3>are is a little bit more passive.

1:01:43.240 --> 1:01:47.720
<v Speaker 1>I love everything about you, likewine, totally adore you, and guys,

1:01:47.720 --> 1:01:50.480
<v Speaker 1>she's a mom, a wife, and a venture capital founder.

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<v Speaker 1>Just before we close out, I just want to you

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<v Speaker 1>to just tell us everything you can about emmy line. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>Emilin is Emilin. Sorry it's called It's fine, it's fine, Emily.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you want to know? I want to know

1:02:07.560 --> 1:02:11.480
<v Speaker 3>a VC fund. We're a VC fund. What we invest,

1:02:12.520 --> 1:02:17.439
<v Speaker 3>So I'll simplify it. We write checks into entrepreneurs who

1:02:17.480 --> 1:02:20.840
<v Speaker 3>need money to grow their businesses. What kind of businesses

1:02:20.840 --> 1:02:23.240
<v Speaker 3>do we give do we write checks into when we

1:02:23.280 --> 1:02:26.360
<v Speaker 3>take a percentage ownership of their company. We write checks

1:02:26.400 --> 1:02:29.560
<v Speaker 3>into female founders, typically if they have a guy on

1:02:29.600 --> 1:02:32.160
<v Speaker 3>the founding team. We love that. Research actually shows that

1:02:32.520 --> 1:02:37.640
<v Speaker 3>mixed gender teams outperform, and we're writing checks. We're writing

1:02:37.760 --> 1:02:39.920
<v Speaker 3>checks into their businesses to help them grow and to

1:02:39.920 --> 1:02:43.520
<v Speaker 3>help them scale early. And so that means if you're

1:02:43.600 --> 1:02:46.640
<v Speaker 3>if you've got to half a million in revenue or

1:02:46.680 --> 1:02:49.240
<v Speaker 3>a million in revenue, will look at you before we

1:02:49.240 --> 1:02:51.600
<v Speaker 3>would even write checks before there was any revenue. We

1:02:51.680 --> 1:02:53.840
<v Speaker 3>think that the market is just really tough right now.

1:02:53.880 --> 1:02:56.360
<v Speaker 3>So it's tough to write a check into a business

1:02:56.360 --> 1:02:58.680
<v Speaker 3>and hope it takes off, right, Yeah, But that's what

1:02:58.720 --> 1:03:02.640
<v Speaker 3>we do. And we're looking at solutions around health, so

1:03:02.800 --> 1:03:05.840
<v Speaker 3>just healthcare, think maternal health. We invest in a maternal

1:03:05.840 --> 1:03:08.800
<v Speaker 3>health start up, a lot of maternal health startups, but

1:03:08.880 --> 1:03:12.880
<v Speaker 3>we care deeply about maternal health. Think like endometriosis. I

1:03:12.920 --> 1:03:14.439
<v Speaker 3>don't know if you've heard of it. Yeah, of course

1:03:14.600 --> 1:03:17.080
<v Speaker 3>everyone's got it, and so we're investing in solutions for

1:03:17.160 --> 1:03:19.880
<v Speaker 3>better diagnostics and treatment.

1:03:19.960 --> 1:03:22.720
<v Speaker 1>As someone else, I interviewed Melissa Ford and she said,

1:03:22.880 --> 1:03:24.640
<v Speaker 1>what does this think that women menopause?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we invested in a lot of.

1:03:27.280 --> 1:03:29.520
<v Speaker 1>There's not enough out there for it, and they say

1:03:29.520 --> 1:03:31.760
<v Speaker 1>it's a multi billion dollars hundred percent.

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<v Speaker 3>That's where we invest. We have some menopause startups shout

1:03:34.480 --> 1:03:37.400
<v Speaker 3>out to women, asking a few others in our portfolio alloy. Okay,

1:03:39.760 --> 1:03:44.240
<v Speaker 3>let me not speak on this multi broadcasted show about

1:03:44.360 --> 1:03:47.480
<v Speaker 3>who's invested in alloy, but yes, we invest that's where

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<v Speaker 3>we invest. Think menopause, think perimenopause, Think endometriosis, think fertility,

1:03:53.440 --> 1:03:58.600
<v Speaker 3>think mental health, health, hormonal health, women for women Okay.

1:03:58.200 --> 1:04:01.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, women have been dying all over the world for

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<v Speaker 1>this or what is opportunity?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Come so thank you?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes needs to exist?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And then how can people reach out to you? Guys?

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<v Speaker 3>All the ways right, So if people really want to

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<v Speaker 3>reach out to me, and I know I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 3>if you if your audience is hanging out on LinkedIn

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<v Speaker 3>like that, but if they are.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure they are.

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<v Speaker 3>Lakisha, Lan and Pierre just picking me. I live there.

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<v Speaker 3>I live on LinkedIn. That's like my digital home. I

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<v Speaker 3>love it there. I love it there. Yeah. But ig

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<v Speaker 3>you can ping us on IGVC Emmaline email me Lakeisha

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<v Speaker 3>at Emily Ventures dot vc and then see me out

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<v Speaker 3>in the world. We do a bunch of stuf during

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<v Speaker 3>LA tech Week, San Francisco Tech Week, New York Tech Week. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And then just one of the things I think you

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<v Speaker 1>did it hit on, which I thought was very important

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<v Speaker 1>that you mentioned throughout is that it's not just a

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<v Speaker 1>check with venture capital. You get this team that has

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<v Speaker 1>the experience, the support, and the relationships to really take

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<v Speaker 1>your business there. And my grandfather, one of the first

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<v Speaker 1>things he ever taught me in business was it's always

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<v Speaker 1>better to have a piece of something than a piece

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<v Speaker 1>of nothing. So when you're out there and you're valuing

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<v Speaker 1>your companies, always keep that in the back of your mind.

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<v Speaker 1>With a team, a team that has experienced, that's worth

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<v Speaker 1>more than any amount of check. So I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to say.

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<v Speaker 3>That, yeah, dumbing dom Jing.

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<v Speaker 1>And one of the other messages that I really want

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<v Speaker 1>everyone to walk away with who deals with like imposter

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<v Speaker 1>syndrome is no, You're here for a purpose, right, what

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<v Speaker 1>did you say?

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<v Speaker 3>That?

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<v Speaker 1>So good? It was so good and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to break that at home on my dray

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<v Speaker 1>race board. I'm here for a reason. Yes, yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that will help drawn out that noise

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<v Speaker 1>that we all seem to deal.

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<v Speaker 3>With us, right, we all deal with the noise. I

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<v Speaker 3>love that, but we have to like make our own noise.

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<v Speaker 1>Make our own noise. I am so thankful that you

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<v Speaker 1>took time out of your schedule. I blew past her

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<v Speaker 1>time restraints, but I really adore her, and thank you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>I really adore her. I hope you guys keep up

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<v Speaker 1>with Lakeisha anywhere on any platform. I will be stalking

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<v Speaker 1>her too. But thank you guys for tuning in piece