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Speaker 1: Oh you think you could bully me? Will let me

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Speaker 1: just beat up that pussy?

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Speaker 2: Oh goodness, gracious, the bo's gonna be terminated.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but put that tongue in a box. Those

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Speaker 1: quick moves, Muhammad Ali with his tongue thing like a being.

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Speaker 2: Licked like a butterfly. That was beautiful.

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Speaker 1: Have you ever seen those butterflies on there on like

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Speaker 1: one of those flowers, that tongue long, Oh crazy, pull

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Speaker 1: up a butterfly video right now, yo, they got they

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's sucking that sweet sweet nectar.

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Speaker 1: I twenty seven male, was heavily bullied since the beginning

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Speaker 2: Dang.

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Speaker 1: Even he's even excluding himself from the town. He's even

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Speaker 1: Thanks, it's all been internalized. Out of these fifteen, seven

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Speaker 1: Four did some particularly heavy fit. I would call them

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Speaker 1: the B team. You can guess what B stands for, bodacious, beautiful,

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Speaker 1: That's definitely what it is, while the other three did

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Speaker 2: For correctly not going too.

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Speaker 1: Far, basically the active as followers for B team. What

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Speaker 1: If I met them today, I would make them pie

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Speaker 1: for everything that they did to me. My hatred for

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Speaker 1: last year, I couldn't bring myself to forgive anybody in

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Speaker 2: Dang, I mean, these bullies.

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Speaker 1: B team sounds pretty rough, but I don't know what

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Speaker 2: What do you think they did? Did he specify the time? Well,

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Speaker 2: imagine like like like elementary middle kindergarten too. Middle school

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Speaker 2: like they maybe ramped up their evil going into middle school,

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Speaker 2: because that's just like what children do. I got bullied

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Speaker 2: mercilessly in middle school. They literally bullied this man for

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Speaker 1: That is Gina's stomach. I got made fun of also

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Speaker 1: And when I went by, I saw all these marks

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Speaker 1: middle school bullying sucks, yes, and there's more. There's more,

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Speaker 2: We'll sprinkle it out.

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Speaker 1: I actually do have at one of the one of

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Speaker 2: This is a little dark. This is a little dark sidetrack. Yep, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So he would kick me in the balls all the time.

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Speaker 1: So back to the story. So last year, though, my

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Speaker 1: I won't share those events. When I transferred, I swore

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Speaker 1: Fair enough, Despite that, my past has found ways to

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Speaker 1: a week, and around six months ago I met Nina,

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Speaker 2: Oh god, all all.

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Speaker 1: Those all those bad jokes we made really got you fit?

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Speaker 1: Once she recognized me, her demeanor changed drastically, and she

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Speaker 2: It's been fifteen years. Should I give her a chance?

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Speaker 2: So John?

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Speaker 1: Should Ope dick down or get her out of ear looking.

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Speaker 1: I don't think Op is the a hole either way.

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Speaker 1: So basically, Op, if you're in there, go for it.

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Speaker 2: I'm curious and to all you all is not only

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Speaker 2: Ope the ahole? Is the woman the a hole? Do

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Speaker 2: I mean, I feel like, let us know in the comments,

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Speaker 1: And if you've ever been in this situation where childhood

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Speaker 1: bully is trying to get up on inya though.

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Speaker 2: Today I fed up by accidentally training crows to ambush

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Speaker 1: Ope, I'm Samuel Donner and I'm not and we tell

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Speaker 2: No, not sam Yeah, I have a question for you.

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Speaker 2: Please tell me about a time that you, like did

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Speaker 1: right like all these dogs are pooping everywhere, poop right

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Speaker 2: A dominant that's a dominant power due. I would I

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Speaker 1: How to be the alpha with dogs poop right in

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Speaker 2: That's honestly a decent TikTok like the Alpha Male podcast,

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Speaker 1: Don't break eye contact. Yes, yeah, So does that answer

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Speaker 2: You know what? It so beautifully answered my question. We

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, dude, when you're on the tip of your

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Speaker 2: You know it's a good's well, you know it's good.

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Speaker 2: It's good. Well, I have another story for you with

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Speaker 1: All right, dude, low key, crows are super super smart.

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Speaker 1: They're a little too smart, dude. They're they're fucking they're

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Speaker 2: They're like dolphins.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they're the dolphins of the sky. Yeah, you made

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hallow weekend, Man, Halloween is about dressing up as

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Speaker 2: I just go straight straight thong with it, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We have class after all. Yeah, of course we're

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Speaker 2: Is a couple of skunks over here? Animal drunk is

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Speaker 2: You're intoxicated. Whoopsie. Though we hung out and talked to

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Speaker 1: They got they got a couple of mule hairs in

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Speaker 2: Mule hairs in the wagon. You never heard that. I

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Speaker 2: haven't heard that one. It means drunk. Oh, mule hairs

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Speaker 1: Interesting? Oh, I would have really? Actually, am I fucking

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Speaker 2: left in suspense, all right. The comments mule hairs on

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Speaker 2: That's great? What's Bobbin. We were talking with a bunch

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Speaker 1: Just don't piss off a crow because they will be

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this is this is the time when this

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Speaker 1: All right, So, like, I know, we have all these

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly I think they were. They were serving some

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Speaker 1: Also, like, I actually saw a story on Reddit a

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Speaker 1: What do I do? And then someone in the comments

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Speaker 2: a little bit, dude.

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Speaker 1: The crow, the crow human alliance needs to be stronger.

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Speaker 1: I mean, there's a reason that Rick and Morty episode

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Speaker 1: was so strongly tying humans to crows, because it should happen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I haven't seen that Rick and Morty episode, by the way,

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Speaker 1: watch it.

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Speaker 2: Watch it. Yeah, I haven't watched it, so I will

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Speaker 2: have to watch it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know we should always watch ooh okay,

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Speaker 1: oh watch it on YouTube, Spotify, Dick doc and you

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Speaker 1: got to be real one support of some Patreon.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, join the family Aerial Cases Aphorious to Vinia Muhammed, Amanda,

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