WEBVTT - Ep. 389: Manifesting Love 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:08.360 Guess what decision we're about to make? Horrible decisions. Don't 0:00:08.480 --> 0:00:11.440 we look very sweet and playful and nice and kind. 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:18.160 Today, Yes we do. Y'all already offer to start it 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:19.479 off in appropriate as fuck? 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:22.480 Why she gotta be a horror because that's what we are. 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:23.639 It's horrible decisions. 0:00:23.680 --> 0:00:27.480 Diyce, Well, bitch, yes, you hope you absolutely hope. 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:29.320 Absolutely. I ain't gonna hold you. 0:00:29.320 --> 0:00:30.880 Every time I walk in the last lap, I'd be like, 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:34.320 I wonder how many of you bitches weezied them? Fuck yo, Literally, 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:37.199 I'm like, yeah, that looked like weezy type right now 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:40.479 with your whole ass. Anyway, y'all, welcome to another episode 0:00:40.479 --> 0:00:41.839 of Horrible position. 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:46.479 You girl Mandy by Hi everybody. 0:00:46.520 --> 0:00:50.480 I'm Weezy and we are doing a love episode today, 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:54.639 which definitely Weezy's idea because I'm still on some love shit. 0:00:54.720 --> 0:00:57.120 But I know what I want to manifest, so I'm 0:00:57.120 --> 0:00:58.600 glad we're doing this. Yeah, that's great. 0:00:58.720 --> 0:01:02.560 I want to I want this episode because I felt 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:05.080 like a lot of people were saying to me. They 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:07.080 were like, dming me about what's the frequency thing you 0:01:07.120 --> 0:01:08.200 listen to Zra. 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:10.360 And I was like, yo, on some real shit. 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:13.680 I really think I've just been manifesting things and talking 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:17.479 really good about it. And manifesting for me started more 0:01:17.520 --> 0:01:19.880 so like on some money shit, and then I was like, 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:22.560 I'm gonna just get a nigga like this, but I 0:01:22.560 --> 0:01:25.040 don't want it to seem phony or you feel like 0:01:25.080 --> 0:01:27.039 I'm just gonna like talk up this thing that I want. 0:01:27.760 --> 0:01:28.440 I think all. 0:01:28.360 --> 0:01:31.440 Manifesting is is turned you into a positive thinker, and 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:33.480 then your heart is just more open for shit. A 0:01:33.520 --> 0:01:36.200 lot of my friends and even myself have been in 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:38.720 this predicament where like we just won't let a nigga 0:01:38.800 --> 0:01:41.680 go or somebody that's just holding us back, and that 0:01:41.800 --> 0:01:44.520 is really kept me from love. Breakups be taken a 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:47.880 long time, you know what I'm saying, And I think 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:50.480 after that moment happens, you kind of feel lost. So 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:55.240 I actually partnered with a witchy bitch psych of. 0:01:55.240 --> 0:01:55.640 Course you did. 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:59.040 Of course you did to get this surprising and that's 0:01:59.040 --> 0:01:59.960 why I when I even saw that one. 0:02:00.000 --> 0:02:02.200 And that's it. Oh, y'all going here a lot of 0:02:02.200 --> 0:02:05.640 wheezy today. No, we can talk about us together, but no. 0:02:05.680 --> 0:02:07.280 Her name is Jady and I know her through her 0:02:07.280 --> 0:02:10.120 friend of my name stuff and basically I did a 0:02:10.160 --> 0:02:12.520 reading with her. But I do like I'm not like 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:15.520 consistent with psychics. Sometimes I'll come to you, I might 0:02:15.560 --> 0:02:18.760 want to know something, but I feel like I will 0:02:18.840 --> 0:02:21.080 use it as a crutch for everything. And I've seen 0:02:21.160 --> 0:02:23.600 people just get to that place where they're like, oh 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:25.000 my god, well I have to listen to what my 0:02:25.000 --> 0:02:26.880 psychic told me or whatever my spiritual guide. 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:29.640 But I know that JD's helped a lot of people. 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:32.720 So I had her give me a big list, and 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:34.520 I'm gonna give y'all her handle and shit like that, 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:37.880 so you can hit her up anyway, let's talk about it. 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:40.120 So we went to the Ships and Gig show. Mm 0:02:40.200 --> 0:02:43.360 hmmm at town Hall. Yes, I had a good time. 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:46.519 Mandy and I hung out crazy like for a whole day. 0:02:46.960 --> 0:02:50.160 That was nice, Like hold on. We went to Eden. 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:51.359 Were you with us all night? 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:51.480 No? 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:52.160 You left us. 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:56.160 It was me, Weezy and Alex and then Alex's partner 0:02:56.200 --> 0:03:00.840 and then Weezy's boyfriend joined us. We from Oh our 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:03.919 dead ass was a fifth wheel. We went from dinner 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:06.800 because we had a business speeding. Then we went to Pergola. 0:03:06.960 --> 0:03:09.040 Somehow we got Weazy to join us at fucking Pergola 0:03:09.320 --> 0:03:12.600 because me and me and me and Alex's Alex's woman 0:03:12.760 --> 0:03:15.120 were right here. We ran into Pergola, and we ran 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:18.440 into each other two weeks before Pergola. I hate that's 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:21.320 my ship. I don't even smoke hookah, but Hergola is 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:23.800 my vibe. The niggas with money is there, the bitches 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:25.880 is pretty, the music is nice, the food is good, 0:03:26.120 --> 0:03:27.800 and then we end up at one of a place 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:30.560 that you liked better? What was that elsewhere? 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:34.160 I am? Then we go to elsewhere? Oh no, we 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:36.480 went to Dumbo House. Oh, we went to the bitch. 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:38.880 We went to five places and one night, then we 0:03:38.920 --> 0:03:41.720 went to Dumbo House. That's more wheezy speed. We had 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:44.320 one drink and that ain't my really wait, that's craziest 0:03:44.360 --> 0:03:48.240 and I almost lost. Oh. 0:03:48.720 --> 0:03:51.040 I thought that's how our night would have ended. Mandy 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:52.680 got in a fight two nights before we went out, 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:54.520 and who would have we ended hugging? 0:03:54.720 --> 0:03:58.120 I did. I had a whole, I had mercury and 0:04:00.920 --> 0:04:01.440 so ye. 0:04:01.640 --> 0:04:04.320 While we're there, but I come back from the bathroom 0:04:04.320 --> 0:04:08.960 and Mandy and my man are like talking seriously, She's 0:04:09.000 --> 0:04:09.600 in his face. 0:04:09.720 --> 0:04:11.280 You don't remember what the fuck I told him because 0:04:11.280 --> 0:04:11.600 I'm like. 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:14.600 Not a sexual way, but like they are definitely not 0:04:14.680 --> 0:04:17.400 a sexual way. They are talking close nigga, well because 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:19.120 the music was loud, I know, but I'm like, oh 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:21.080 my god, this combo's getting deep as fuck and it 0:04:21.160 --> 0:04:22.120 was going on a little too long. 0:04:22.200 --> 0:04:23.520 I'm like that who was filling my secret? 0:04:23.640 --> 0:04:23.760 Day? 0:04:23.760 --> 0:04:24.360 And we fel fight. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:28.680 So we get in the car and he starts driving. 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:30.480 I'm like, so, what happened? He laughing, and he was like, 0:04:30.839 --> 0:04:34.120 you fresh, you couldn't wait. 0:04:33.880 --> 0:04:35.719 To ask me what the fuck? Yap? And I'm like, 0:04:35.839 --> 0:04:36.960 what happened? 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:41.159 He's like, Mandy said some really nice things about you 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:45.240 and I relationship, he said. She told me that I 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.200 guess you read the love chapter or whatever or some 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:50.159 chapter I talked about him in the book, and you 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:52.800 had said to him that you feel like he was 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:55.560 a good fit for me, that you liked him, he said. 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:57.760 And one of the things she said is that she 0:04:57.839 --> 0:05:01.120 doesn't mind listening to me talk. She hated listening to 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:04.480 your ex talk. And I was like, wow, well I 0:05:04.520 --> 0:05:08.360 didn't like him. I thought he was the first night 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:08.960 we met him. 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:10.960 First off, I thought he was a racist, like his 0:05:11.320 --> 0:05:14.480 friend was a white boy and the way we had 0:05:14.480 --> 0:05:16.080 a conversation about I. 0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:20.400 Didn't like that night. It was something. What was it. 0:05:20.400 --> 0:05:23.279 It was a chapsick or something. There was some something 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:26.479 and his friend was white. He had a white boy 0:05:26.480 --> 0:05:28.600 that night. They said something about black women. Because we 0:05:28.640 --> 0:05:31.599 all went from that party to last lap. I never 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:35.240 liked him and I thought he was like a cloud chaser, 0:05:35.279 --> 0:05:36.760 like the way he even showed up at our live 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:39.560 show and had to be seen, had to be by 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:42.640 our meet and greet and just made his presence like bitch, 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:43.240 sit back. 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:46.159 I just didn't like him. I agree with everything you said. 0:05:46.200 --> 0:05:48.359 He's a piece of shit, yeah, but the cloud chasing, 0:05:48.640 --> 0:05:51.720 that to me is supportive boyfriend. Okay, he was holding shit, 0:05:51.839 --> 0:05:54.919 he was helping take pictures like yeah and home. He 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:56.360 surprised me at the show. I thought he was on 0:05:56.360 --> 0:05:56.920 a trip. Yeah. 0:05:56.920 --> 0:05:58.920 I just didn't like his I think that's what spo 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:01.320 He was a shitty person. No, he was. He was shitty. 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:04.520 But yeah, so you were giving the TF on that 0:06:04.600 --> 0:06:09.159 and then you said to him, Weezy is changing and 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:10.599 you better not fuck up our brand. 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:12.960 Niggaine, Oh, I did say that. That's what I said 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:15.040 about my money. I said nigga, don't come here fucking 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:18.520 up my money. I did tell him now. 0:06:18.440 --> 0:06:20.680 So then I guess, yeahked you, why do you feel 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:23.080 like it's changing? And you're like, oh, you know, whether 0:06:23.120 --> 0:06:24.800 it be a rebrand or things from the book or 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:25.960 her not wanted to talk about x y. 0:06:26.080 --> 0:06:28.040 Z And I said, na, when we're going on tour, 0:06:28.080 --> 0:06:29.320 don't get her ass pregnant yet. 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:30.040 He shit. 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:32.479 You were like, well, if you had a boyfriend that 0:06:33.640 --> 0:06:35.320 and you started progressing in a different way and you 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:37.640 want a family, do you think you would slightly change? 0:06:37.640 --> 0:06:40.719 And you said yes, I mean yeah. 0:06:40.800 --> 0:06:44.240 I think that that's where we've been with this brand altogether. 0:06:44.279 --> 0:06:47.440 I think it. 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:49.640 There's a mental there's a mental toll that this show 0:06:49.680 --> 0:06:54.679 takes on reading the comments and people making it seem 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:56.960 like we don't deserve happiness, or that no one will 0:06:57.000 --> 0:07:00.600 ever take a serious or like all we talk about 0:07:00.640 --> 0:07:03.040 is host shit and where the scum of the earth's 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:06.479 I think I think everyone deserves love. I think that 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.840 I and the way that we have people in sex 0:07:09.920 --> 0:07:13.040 work on this show where the normal person may not 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:16.040 believe that they're deserving those things, and for us to 0:07:16.080 --> 0:07:19.920 actually visually see it and have relationships with people within 0:07:19.960 --> 0:07:24.240 this space. I think, you know, I think that over time, Like, bro, 0:07:24.280 --> 0:07:27.280 we're both thirty three years old. Like eventually, yeah, I 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:30.240 don't want to talk about the dick I suck last night, 0:07:30.240 --> 0:07:31.960 you know what I mean? I would love to have 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:35.600 more thought provoking conversations and so yeah, I think again, 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:38.880 even the throuble me asking their permission to talk about them, bitch, 0:07:38.880 --> 0:07:41.160 I used to give a fuck this month, motherfucker show. 0:07:41.240 --> 0:07:42.920 I know what I want to about you, asked them. 0:07:42.960 --> 0:07:45.920 I was, yeah, like, I'm very considerate of the people 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:47.080 that are in my life. 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:49.280 I want people to support what we have going on. 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:52.320 Because even I went to the Need to Know mixer 0:07:52.800 --> 0:07:57.440 and shout out to Savon Reggie Alex. They're a podcast 0:07:57.440 --> 0:08:02.640 and they held a podcast at in d and a 0:08:02.680 --> 0:08:05.320 week after we went out. Literally it was just a 0:08:05.320 --> 0:08:08.440 couple nights or last weekend. Someone came up to me 0:08:08.480 --> 0:08:10.320 and was like, I just want you to know that 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:14.600 you changed the path of my relationship. Like I'm married now, 0:08:14.840 --> 0:08:17.600 but what your podcast has done for my relationship means 0:08:17.600 --> 0:08:18.040 so much. 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:19.680 And I don't know if you hear it enough, but 0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:20.600 I just want to thank you. 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:24.160 And I don't think people understand that, yeah, we sit 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:28.520 here and share we're vulnerable with our dynamics, with our 0:08:28.560 --> 0:08:31.760 own personal lives, but that this show isn't just about 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:35.720 host shit or pushing a negative stigma or narrative out there. 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:38.800 It's changing people's lives, and I just want us to 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:43.920 continue making a brand that is positively impacting people, even 0:08:43.920 --> 0:08:46.640 when a lot more people don't think that that's what 0:08:46.679 --> 0:08:47.280 our brand is. 0:08:47.320 --> 0:08:50.320 I've constantly had conversations about this with people that like 0:08:50.400 --> 0:08:53.439 feel like the work is frivolous and like that conversation 0:08:53.520 --> 0:08:56.160 of my homegirl not understanding me, Like much like y'all 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.800 that listen to this show that haven't really told your 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:01.480 friends or fan or even your partner some of your 0:09:01.480 --> 0:09:03.160 desires or the way you want to live your life. 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:05.800 I still go through that, and I literally put my 0:09:05.880 --> 0:09:09.679 sex life on the forefront. So yes, like this shit 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:12.600 really becomes a sisterhood or brotherhood and just like family 0:09:12.640 --> 0:09:14.400 type shit. I had a guy come up to me 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:15.560 and shout out to you, I don't know who you are. 0:09:15.559 --> 0:09:17.599 I was like, I'm from Mexico. I was at me 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:19.400 packing and ran up to me and said, hey, I'm 0:09:19.400 --> 0:09:22.280 a whore hive, and like hugged me, and I was 0:09:22.360 --> 0:09:25.480 just thinking, like, damn, you really don't know who you're 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:27.480 talking to when you're talking to these people. But I 0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:29.840 know that people that love horrible decisions like this is 0:09:29.880 --> 0:09:32.720 my tribe. Yeah, and I haven't necessarily felt that warmth 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:34.920 and acceptance from people that don't understand this. 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:36.200 I think it's also different. 0:09:36.240 --> 0:09:38.720 I think when we first started the pod, there was 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:40.920 a connection that people felt because we were both in 0:09:40.960 --> 0:09:43.840 corporate like bitch, I was at Laalina the other day 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:47.760 waiting on okay, waiting on a front because we were 0:09:47.800 --> 0:09:50.320 doing dinner at Frankie's next door. So I go into 0:09:50.360 --> 0:09:53.959 Laalina and shout out to you. I know you're a listener. 0:09:54.000 --> 0:09:55.880 And the two ladies that saw me sitting in there, 0:09:56.280 --> 0:09:58.040 they were shocked. They were like, I know you, and 0:09:58.080 --> 0:09:59.959 weasy say y'all be outside, but like you're in here 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:03.120 with no security. You're literally a Laalinia Daring happy hour 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:05.080 on a Tuesday. And I was like, nigga, we do 0:10:05.200 --> 0:10:08.360 regular shit and we beat outside like and it was 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:11.520 just interesting for them to humanize us, like because there's 0:10:11.520 --> 0:10:14.679 still like now this celebrity element that removes us from 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:17.960 reality that makes it seem like our experiences aren't ones 0:10:18.000 --> 0:10:20.400 that they can have, and I'm like, bitch, we be outside, 0:10:20.480 --> 0:10:22.840 we be meeting niggas on dating naps, we be motherfucking 0:10:22.880 --> 0:10:25.480 doing regular shit. Like, I want our audience to still 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.959 have that connection to see themselves in us as well 0:10:29.160 --> 0:10:31.640 while we're ascending in our professional careers too. 0:10:31.840 --> 0:10:33.320 Well. I don't want to be like this for Elma, 0:10:33.360 --> 0:10:37.360 bitch when I would come beyonest like fuck all you anyway. No, 0:10:37.679 --> 0:10:39.079 I definitely feel like that. I love that. 0:10:39.280 --> 0:10:41.480 Like I've been on vacation and in my hotel, I 0:10:41.559 --> 0:10:45.000 run into a like fan. I've become friends with fans 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:48.280 and actually not to call her a fan because I'm 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:50.800 such a fan, but naked Beauty shout out to Brook 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:53.800 Devard Brook is great. I went to her event for 0:10:53.840 --> 0:10:56.080 her new fragrance. Go check it out. It's this orange 0:10:56.120 --> 0:10:58.800 blosphemy Sandlo Wood smells great. So I'm at this dinner 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:02.839 for her fragrance and she literally said to me, you know, 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:04.960 I listen to horrible decisions every week, right, I'm like, 0:11:06.080 --> 0:11:09.400 mind you if anyone follows Brook, she's very Narrosmiths to me, 0:11:09.400 --> 0:11:11.640 and I'm not saying that much. 0:11:11.720 --> 0:11:12.959 I'm not I'm saying that. 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:17.960 Because you get to see this family dynamic and luxury 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:21.120 and glam lifestyle, and I love that shit. I love 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:24.320 watching black luxury. I hate when we act like black 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:27.200 girls doing rich shit is like not normal because I 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:30.200 know these bitches, right, So we're laughing about it. She 0:11:30.200 --> 0:11:33.080 pulls it up and she's like, what the fuck? Like 0:11:33.120 --> 0:11:34.920 I listen every week and I'm like, what the fuck. 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:37.120 So She's like, what if so and so look like 0:11:37.280 --> 0:11:39.520 I'm showing her scissors, I'm showing her my man, I'm 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:41.960 showing her old bait. She's like, oh shit, And I'm 0:11:42.760 --> 0:11:45.560 laughing to myself on the way home, like why would 0:11:45.559 --> 0:11:48.760 I think a podcaster that has a husband and kid 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:51.600 and all this other shit couldn't connect with me or 0:11:51.720 --> 0:11:54.560 enjoy us, right, because I don't. Every time I've seen 0:11:54.600 --> 0:11:58.040 Brooke Brook don't have horrible decisions energy, but the Brook 0:11:58.120 --> 0:12:00.560 is still a black woman that understands the ethos in 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:04.280 the world of sexuality, friendship, whether we're friends or not, 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:06.679 all of the shit we talk about like this can 0:12:06.720 --> 0:12:09.480 connect to anybody. So yeah, it does kind of annoy 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:12.640 me that people think horrible decisions listeners have a look. Yeah, 0:12:12.720 --> 0:12:14.560 because I've heard that joke auting they must be one 0:12:14.559 --> 0:12:18.080 of yours, Like why because you know? But let's be 0:12:18.160 --> 0:12:20.520 very clear, bitch, meet and greet, you'd be quick to 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:21.439 be like you. 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:23.559 Listen to us, Look at your little innocent looking ass. 0:12:23.800 --> 0:12:25.800 You be calling out the botherfucking girls at the meet 0:12:25.800 --> 0:12:26.520 and greet too, Like. 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:30.520 Honestly, white girls that listen horrible don't surprise me. It's 0:12:30.559 --> 0:12:32.640 white girls that look like they shop at Hollister that 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:33.120 surprise me. 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:34.040 I'm not playing with you, like. 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:35.640 There's a certain type of white, Like when a bitch 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:37.800 looks like she's lives in Brooklyn, I'm like, ohyah, okay. 0:12:37.600 --> 0:12:39.840 Whatever, well white white white. 0:12:40.640 --> 0:12:45.200 I was at Pumps, which is a dive bar, strip club. 0:12:46.040 --> 0:12:48.560 Why are you not in your head? Dave, Dave, I'll 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:51.040 be up and there no has anyone else into Pumps. 0:12:51.440 --> 0:12:53.840 I've never even heard of it. Dog Me and my nigga. 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:55.959 Driving back from Habibi, I'm like, oh, it's the strip club, 0:12:56.040 --> 0:12:57.760 let's go. We get in there. 0:12:57.760 --> 0:13:00.520 There's no cover, but you must tip every single girl 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:03.800 a dollar during their dance, which feels like nothing right. 0:13:05.160 --> 0:13:07.680 I felt like I was How would you describe as 0:13:08.040 --> 0:13:11.080 it feels like a truck stop, right, it feels like 0:13:11.080 --> 0:13:13.560 a truck stop, but it's it's a dive bar and. 0:13:13.480 --> 0:13:15.680 It's a strip club. How many strippers were in there? 0:13:16.080 --> 0:13:19.520 Maybe fifteen, maybe less, maybe less, okay, but they're like 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:21.920 dancing the metal and shit like it's a beer vibe. 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:26.920 Like it's weird. One white girl literally it's like, oh 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:29.120 my god, I can't believe you're here. I was like, 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:31.480 did she saying that? Because I'm pretty bitch. 0:13:31.520 --> 0:13:34.200 She's like no, I listen horrible, and I'm like what, 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:37.160 Like it was so strange to me. 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:39.680 But then I realized, like, oh, you're a stripper. Yeah, 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:43.800 I'm young. People hello, I like, I don't know anyway. 0:13:43.840 --> 0:13:47.480 The weirdest moments in my life flight attendance, Yeah, bitch 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:50.400 a doctor. People listen to the show and I forget. 0:13:50.679 --> 0:13:53.760 So it reminds me not to talk too much about people. 0:13:53.480 --> 0:13:55.960 But also shout out to all of our fucking listeners 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:58.199 because y'all are why we do this. 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:02.320 By the way, we had a guest on our show. Okay, 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:05.680 well I ran into I don't know, I'm a fianal 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:06.880 concert with my gan. 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:12.600 Why they talking about running the train on me? Not 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:13.640 running a train on you. 0:14:14.000 --> 0:14:16.160 It's a woman that was been on the show before, 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:19.920 and basically me and her was like hugged up for 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:22.200 a second. He was like, what the fuck is this? Oh, 0:14:22.800 --> 0:14:25.120 and it was just like, both you guys want to 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:25.440 fuck me? 0:14:25.640 --> 0:14:26.240 Oh my god. 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:29.720 So anyway, I think that's gonna happen this week. Okay, 0:14:29.840 --> 0:14:31.560 she's gonna run a train on you with another woman 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:36.120 or no, with your man. She's gonna they're gonna like 0:14:36.120 --> 0:14:38.280 s let me out. I guess he's not a train train, 0:14:38.360 --> 0:14:41.600 but like she's gonna have ap on I think so, okay, 0:14:41.640 --> 0:14:43.240 I'd like I'd like to hear about it. I just 0:14:43.280 --> 0:14:47.760 want to both the straps. Wow, would I don't know. 0:14:48.760 --> 0:14:51.720 I don't know. I would like to hear about it. 0:14:53.480 --> 0:14:56.320 I wouldn't like to see it. I'd like to hear 0:14:56.360 --> 0:14:57.960 about it. There was a reason why I didn't say 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.040 i'd like to see it. I don't think i'd like to, 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:01.920 but I like to hear about how I want to. 0:15:02.720 --> 0:15:09.200 I like to see how that goes. All right, let's 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:11.560 get into vanilla ship. Let's get into it. I found 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:12.920 an article from Huffington Post. 0:15:12.920 --> 0:15:15.360 Since we're talking about love, about really bad dating tips 0:15:15.600 --> 0:15:17.400 kind of like them I actually didn't think were bad, 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:18.160 so I thought. 0:15:18.160 --> 0:15:20.280 What if you look at it? Because of course I did. 0:15:20.440 --> 0:15:21.720 I thank you for the outline, you know, I like 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:25.160 to get ahead of the curve here. Some of them 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:26.720 weren't bad when you sent me it. 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:29.360 I actually was reading it, and I was like, I'm 0:15:29.400 --> 0:15:32.040 surprised that Weezy chose this because a lot of this 0:15:32.240 --> 0:15:32.960 is good advice. 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:36.400 I didn't think so, but I thought you would think so. 0:15:36.400 --> 0:15:38.840 So I was like, this is about to contradict her 0:15:38.880 --> 0:15:42.600 whole horrible decision outline. So I'm I'm curious as to 0:15:42.720 --> 0:15:45.280 why you don't think these are good to see. 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:48.000 So I agree with these being bad advice. Okay, some 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:49.680 of them are bad, some of them are not. I thought, 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:52.000 I'm a mix. I would like to know which ones 0:15:52.040 --> 0:15:53.840 you think are not. So let's go through it. Because 0:15:53.880 --> 0:15:54.480 all right, I. 0:15:54.520 --> 0:15:56.200 Read this, and I who feel free to jump in, 0:15:56.560 --> 0:16:00.280 Wolf jump in because you are a little so we gonna 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:00.720 call you a hole. 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:02.200 Basically, that's a different views. 0:16:02.240 --> 0:16:05.120 They're saying that this is quote unquote bad advice that 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:07.520 readers said they've received or come across. 0:16:07.840 --> 0:16:10.720 Yes sentence, so real quick, wolf in the audience. 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:14.400 These are things that they consider to be bad advice 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:15.600 when dating. 0:16:15.800 --> 0:16:18.920 First quote, it will happen when it's supposed to happen. 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:22.080 A psychologist in the Bay Area says just waiting for 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:24.000 it to happen as bad advice. The truth is everybody 0:16:24.040 --> 0:16:26.640 is a busy life. Finding the right person requires kissing 0:16:26.640 --> 0:16:29.320 a lot of frogs. Don't expect love to come to you, 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:32.440 go find it. I feel fifty to fifty. Okay, you 0:16:32.480 --> 0:16:34.320 can't sit in the house and expect to find love. 0:16:34.920 --> 0:16:37.680 But I think when someone's on a super prowl, I 0:16:37.720 --> 0:16:42.520 don't think you find it. I'm yeah, I don't think 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:45.800 that this is I don't think this is bad advice. 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:47.200 I do really. 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:50.360 Like, like again, you're not, like you're not gonna fall 0:16:50.440 --> 0:16:52.480 in love with your Uber Eats delivery person, Like you're 0:16:52.520 --> 0:16:54.080 not just gonna come to your doorstep. 0:16:55.640 --> 0:16:58.600 But yeah, I don't think this is waiting for waiting 0:16:59.080 --> 0:16:59.400 to happen? 0:16:59.480 --> 0:17:02.880 Is okay Youah? I just think maybe that has to 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:04.879 do with people that just sit around A homegirl just 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:08.520 came to visit me this weekend and she's gorgeous. Okay, 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:12.720 Like I literally was saying to her when we were out. 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:14.239 She's like, yeah, I mean I've just been taking care 0:17:14.240 --> 0:17:16.560 of my daughter up and home. I really don't go anywhere. 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:18.159 I just kind of date on vacation when I'm in 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:21.760 New York, LA or the Bay. I'm like, what the 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:25.399 fuck how She's like, I just don't. She's living in Charleston, 0:17:25.480 --> 0:17:27.960 South Carolina. Shout out to Aaron. She's like, there's I 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:31.280 just I'm home. I'm like, Aarin, but you've got to 0:17:31.359 --> 0:17:32.160 go and date? 0:17:32.760 --> 0:17:34.920 But why are you not dating? Does she wants someone 0:17:35.000 --> 0:17:35.360 right now? 0:17:35.520 --> 0:17:37.879 I think she's interested in dating, but she just feels 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:38.640 like it's not there. 0:17:38.840 --> 0:17:39.399 She dates. 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:42.000 So that's the other thing. New York, LA or the Bad. 0:17:42.320 --> 0:17:44.479