WEBVTT - Conversations About Beauty Standards

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<v Speaker 1>I'm watching Tristan Thompson because who I funk with? Because

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<v Speaker 1>Tristan seeming like a real motherfucker. Hello, Lamar older right,

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<v Speaker 1>who I love as a laker? Right? Fighting over Frankenstein bro? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>look at Chloe, bro, I no, Chloe, Like, how are

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<v Speaker 1>you fighting over a put together version of this woman?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I wouldn't be seen anywhere with this lady. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not kno gonna because she could be an awesome lady.

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<v Speaker 1>But something gotta be wrong. I think everybody's insecure and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm fat. You're not easy to It's gonna cut my

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<v Speaker 1>fucking stomach and cut all this fat out and carve

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<v Speaker 1>my ship up and carve me a six pack and

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<v Speaker 1>put pecks in my arm. But it's like, I will

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<v Speaker 1>never let my insecurities get the best of me. I

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<v Speaker 1>strengthened what I can and change what I disciplined myself

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<v Speaker 1>to want to change. That ship is a real thing,

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<v Speaker 1>h like mail order bride. I guess um, I'm I'm or.

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<v Speaker 1>It is a real thing, but like people always put

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<v Speaker 1>it off on white people like and I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>I know anybody with a male order bride. I've never

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<v Speaker 1>heard of anybody having had one. But I'm sure it's

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<v Speaker 1>a thing. It just seems like an odd thing to

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<v Speaker 1>do because it's usually financially, if not driven facilitated. So

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<v Speaker 1>I know of a lot of or have heard of,

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of like you know, like like single middle

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<v Speaker 1>aged white dudes who just every time there work vacation

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<v Speaker 1>window comes up, they bomb straight to Thailand. And it's

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<v Speaker 1>no mystery. But I don't know why you would try

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<v Speaker 1>to order a woman to come be your wife and

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<v Speaker 1>live with you instead of just doing that or doing

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<v Speaker 1>whatever else. I mean, I think, Pete, though, you don't

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<v Speaker 1>really be tripping, but people get lonely because I think

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<v Speaker 1>you kind of you're okay with yourself, and I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>people with like well, I don't know that is a

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<v Speaker 1>special next level of intellect to where you're just comfortable

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<v Speaker 1>being by yourself. I think most people to be around

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<v Speaker 1>think about it, right, Like if you go to downtown

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<v Speaker 1>that lay and ship, none of the people who live

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<v Speaker 1>on Scared Road or on the streets that's downtown because

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<v Speaker 1>none of them lived downtown before they got put on

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<v Speaker 1>the streets. Like people come from all around California and

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<v Speaker 1>all around the world to be homeless with other homeless people.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just think people don't want to be lonely

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<v Speaker 1>on their journey and they find people in like situations. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so like what value you do seem like, Yeah, that

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<v Speaker 1>do seem a bit weird, Like you just want to

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<v Speaker 1>be around a bunch of other homeless, broke motherfucker's. I

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<v Speaker 1>can understand that because you're not gonna you don't have to.

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<v Speaker 1>You could be comfortable in your position. You know, if

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<v Speaker 1>you're the only broke, homeless bum in your circle, you're

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<v Speaker 1>constantly going to feel inferior socially, Whereas if you're around

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of people on a level playing field, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to deal with that or be bothered by it.

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<v Speaker 1>So the effects of capitalism don't really hit you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>are just the effects of like societal hierarchies like anything

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<v Speaker 1>like that. You know, everybody trying to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>they're getting their sand with you from. Yeah, And you

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<v Speaker 1>can maybe be a person who makes a lot of money,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you could be a guy who makes ten million

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<v Speaker 1>dollars a year because you run some giant porno network thing.

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<v Speaker 1>But people who make two thousand dollars a year is

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<v Speaker 1>real estate agents who are active in the church or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever the hell in the Gulf community are gonna snub

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<v Speaker 1>their nose at you, and you're gonna be lower on that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, hierarchical structure, birds of felling flocked together, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>So why is it? When so, why do a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of girls who would consider themselves beautiful pretty hang with

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<v Speaker 1>that one ugly girl because somebody has to be responsible? No,

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<v Speaker 1>no silings, g l my boy, Peter, What does the

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<v Speaker 1>ugly friend need to be responsible for? Because beautiful women,

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<v Speaker 1>like we've established that women living in universe with no consequences,

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<v Speaker 1>beautiful women are the most entitled Richardson, Yes, she used

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<v Speaker 1>the acception is like the Jesus Christ of women's sins

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<v Speaker 1>as far as the lack of accountability. But what is

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<v Speaker 1>it about? So you're saying the ugly friend is usually

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<v Speaker 1>the accountable one. Yes, um. If you ever tried to

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<v Speaker 1>go cold approach a beautiful woman out at the bar

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<v Speaker 1>or a nightclub, the ugly friend is effectively the hired

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<v Speaker 1>security guard. She's doing the screening. It's a good decision

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<v Speaker 1>or a bad decision, whatever else. The good looking woman's

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<v Speaker 1>used to things being bought toward. Whatever guys are gonna

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<v Speaker 1>come make the offer anyway. They're kind of like a

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<v Speaker 1>representation and agent, legal counsel, all those things in one.

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<v Speaker 1>Making sure the girls don't get too drunk from all

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<v Speaker 1>the people buying them free cocktails all fucking night, make

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<v Speaker 1>sure they get home, or if not to their home,

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<v Speaker 1>then to a better home than their home. Based off

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<v Speaker 1>of you know, with whom it is they send them.

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<v Speaker 1>It's it's a very busy job for the ugly friend.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why they're usually in an irritated mood because they're

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<v Speaker 1>overworked and undercompensated. Oh and hence the the theory of

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<v Speaker 1>taking one for the team. Yeah, you gotta get that

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<v Speaker 1>one out of there. You gotta get that one out

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<v Speaker 1>of there. Somebody's got to go in there like and

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<v Speaker 1>storm the beaches of Normandy and just get hit coming

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<v Speaker 1>off the Pompton boat. Somebody's got to do it. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like saving Private Ryan. Every night at the club. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gone because for sure, if they get canceled cribs, they

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<v Speaker 1>was sure would cancel. They would cancel this because it

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<v Speaker 1>is y oh no, no, no, this is the realest ship.

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<v Speaker 1>This is just honest real ship gets you canceled. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's true, but we're not just and I think maybe

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<v Speaker 1>this plays into the theme of this episode, We're not

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<v Speaker 1>There isn't an established political movement for ugly shaming. You

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<v Speaker 1>can body shame, but ugly shaming really it's it's so subjective,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a little vague. Well, there's no anti faith shaming

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<v Speaker 1>group on Twitter, whatever, hold on, Okay, okay, let me

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<v Speaker 1>get myself all right, okay, all right, So look, all right.

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<v Speaker 1>It takes me back to a couple of conversations we had, like, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And the reason I was thinking about this whole conversation

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<v Speaker 1>is I've came up with a few things too to

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<v Speaker 1>validate my ideas. Um, women, right, So beauty is a

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<v Speaker 1>natural thing, right, it's it's it's a natural yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>then everything else should be an extension of sad beauty.

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<v Speaker 1>So like, right, if you, um, if you're a dark girl,

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<v Speaker 1>and you should use foundation that fits your face. But

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<v Speaker 1>what if you're a dark, scared girl who wants to

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<v Speaker 1>be a light skinned girl or identifies as a self

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<v Speaker 1>identifies like as a light that's out though, That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even bro that that's probably what will make

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<v Speaker 1>me a transfer. I don't believe in. We get to

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<v Speaker 1>be anybody we want to be. I think we can

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<v Speaker 1>change our circumstances. I don't think gender is a circumstance.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think. I don't even know if I've

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<v Speaker 1>ever heard it described per se as a circumstance. I

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<v Speaker 1>just heard it because sometimes that exactly what I'm saying, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not cursed if you're a male, like you can't

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<v Speaker 1>feel like a female like because females don't feel the same,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's just a generic concept, like you can't feel

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<v Speaker 1>like a girl like. You can't how do you feel

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<v Speaker 1>like a girl. You can only behave like a woman

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<v Speaker 1>based off societal norms of how women behave. But in

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<v Speaker 1>in the realist form that's actually that doesn't mean a

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<v Speaker 1>woman has to behave that way. We were just talking

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<v Speaker 1>about it with w NBA players where societal norm makes

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<v Speaker 1>the pool a lot smaller for great women athletes and

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<v Speaker 1>great women stars, but as it gets larger, you'll have

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<v Speaker 1>bigger and greater female superstars in sports. Yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 1>there's a lot of and I think it's obviously a

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<v Speaker 1>very diverse landscape, is very individually driven as far as

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<v Speaker 1>the motivation of what makes a person want to do whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and in the greater gender gender ambiguity community, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's pretty it's ambiguity. Well, it's a spectrum. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>You could be like a girl who likes to wear

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<v Speaker 1>basketball shorts a little bit whatever the hell and not

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<v Speaker 1>looks super duper like a regular girl. Or you can

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<v Speaker 1>be like Bruce Jenner who says, no I fall on,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna like, absolutely, it's not gonna be murky. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I still don't believe that until he chopped off his penis.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not right. Well, I say to say this, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I think there's maybe not a great illustration linguistically say,

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<v Speaker 1>like I feel like I'm a woman. I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>more so I would rather be received the way women

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<v Speaker 1>are received. And that's my issue right where if I

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<v Speaker 1>had an issue with it all, it would be because

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<v Speaker 1>you're not talking to yourself. You're telling me how I

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<v Speaker 1>should treat you like. To me, that's what it is,

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<v Speaker 1>and and and back to like like beauty standards, that's

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<v Speaker 1>to me what plastic surgery represents. You know, damn will,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have a big ass, but you want me

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<v Speaker 1>to treat you like you have a big ass. Absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, damn well again, beauty is all an internal thing,

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<v Speaker 1>right whoever you are, you're supposed to use extensions. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>your beauty should be like you know, you should like

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<v Speaker 1>accent it. Yeah right, So eyelashes, okay, having them feel

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more, you know, I mean a little

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<v Speaker 1>longer than they would be stock from GM. A little longer,

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<v Speaker 1>it's cool. You know you add an inch. I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>that's yeah. Yeah, so maybe like you're talking like this

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<v Speaker 1>is like, what's that mass scary that should put on

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<v Speaker 1>the eyelashes back because you're darkening. I figured out you're

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<v Speaker 1>darkening your eyelashes to make the white and your eyeballs

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<v Speaker 1>pop out like it's it's like a highlighter with eyeliner. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you do that to make the white of your eye

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<v Speaker 1>pop out, which is like you would think women would

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<v Speaker 1>put together the best cars with that kind of detail. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't thing drives me crazy, which I hate is

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<v Speaker 1>like I guess use like the expression exotic, like right now,

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<v Speaker 1>exotics such a thing, but you know multi ethnic kind

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<v Speaker 1>of perception with that, like that extra little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>line like from the eyeshadow the women apply uf it

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<v Speaker 1>makes you look like chiny eyed where they just draw

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<v Speaker 1>lines out from the outside of their eyes towards the

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<v Speaker 1>edge of their eye socket. What in the living fuck

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<v Speaker 1>you're gonna just pencil on blazing nous into your resume.

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<v Speaker 1>But what's funny is but what's funny is right, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's not you could be it could be maybe wage

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever. I don't know know, But what's funny is

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<v Speaker 1>like in every other aspect that's not cool. Like if

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<v Speaker 1>you had a dog that was like a German shepherd

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<v Speaker 1>mixed with a pit bull mixed with a beagle, that's

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<v Speaker 1>called a mutt. Yes. So now these these men today

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<v Speaker 1>are calling women who are multicultural exoety because like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>she's a mutt, bro, Yeah, she's a fucking mutt, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's cool, Like, but don't try to separate it and

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<v Speaker 1>let them drive the car like that's the problem is

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's again back to my point I digress. Look, look,

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<v Speaker 1>you supposed that accent accentuated a little bit, right, just

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more, a little darker, little fuller. You're

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<v Speaker 1>same with your hair, Like true beauty is taking what

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<v Speaker 1>your hair is now and then filling it out a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, right, a little bit, and then adding a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit to it um makeup. It should be used

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<v Speaker 1>as foundation for your natural color and you know whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you feel like, you highlight the structure in your face.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you have high cheek bones, if you have whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>it is the difference, excuse me the definition. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>makeup is like an outliner, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you draw something and then you outline the

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<v Speaker 1>actual painting. Cuss like what I'm saying, That's what makeup

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<v Speaker 1>should be. But what's happening is women are they're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to draw beauty. Women almost look like they're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>avoid being identified for having committed a crime on camera

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<v Speaker 1>earlier in the week. They are the words ship in

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<v Speaker 1>the world. Brot is when like they put they lighten

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<v Speaker 1>up their face so much, right, and then you look

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<v Speaker 1>at they fucking chest and they chest as dark as

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<v Speaker 1>a dress album. Yeah, so it's like your face as

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<v Speaker 1>light as funk, but your chest is dark. And it's like, baby,

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<v Speaker 1>you are not supposed to be like you could be

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<v Speaker 1>fine dark. You could be fine dark as feel me

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<v Speaker 1>dark as who dark is? Who black is a motherfucker.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta go through my phone. Uh oh girl, that

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<v Speaker 1>was in always Name her she find as a motherfuckerum

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<v Speaker 1>as in the basset is dark, we Campbell's dark dark, right,

0:15:18.320 --> 0:15:20.960
<v Speaker 1>So you could be fine and black as Naomi Campbell

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<v Speaker 1>or bright ass t Sha Campbell in house party, like

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<v Speaker 1>beauty is like a shade spectrum, Like it's fine women

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<v Speaker 1>throughout all spectrums. Yeah, totally. So it just bothers me

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<v Speaker 1>and and and what bothered me and what made me

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about this as I was looking at

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram and I've seen a picture of like a

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<v Speaker 1>transgender woman. Right, this is a guy who became a woman,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, for sex change and everything. And I noticed

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<v Speaker 1>right that I obviously they had the wig on, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, They had the wig on the

0:16:04.720 --> 0:16:10.120
<v Speaker 1>lace front, but they had these big ass baby hares. Right,

0:16:10.240 --> 0:16:13.440
<v Speaker 1>that ship is getting out of control. And and that

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<v Speaker 1>to me, that's not even the issue being that that

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<v Speaker 1>that that's a transgender person. I don't like those in general.

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<v Speaker 1>But but I'm gonna tell you, I'm gonna tell you,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna connect the issues for a woman and why

0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:31.960
<v Speaker 1>it's causing the confusion it's causing. So they had these

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<v Speaker 1>big lace front because huge lace front and these big

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<v Speaker 1>gass stupid baby hairs. So that's probably one because because

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<v Speaker 1>I knew girls growing up, because I have baby here,

0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:46.600
<v Speaker 1>it never looked like that. Stop, like, bro, stop laying

0:16:46.600 --> 0:16:49.960
<v Speaker 1>your hair down and curving them like baby here. It's stupid.

0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:53.720
<v Speaker 1>Like you're exaggerating a concept you don't have to exaggerate.

0:16:53.720 --> 0:16:57.760
<v Speaker 1>And that's what's happening with beauty standards today. It's being exaggerated.

0:16:58.600 --> 0:17:02.480
<v Speaker 1>It's like a nigga wearing a hundred chains with diamonds, like, bro, Like,

0:17:02.680 --> 0:17:06.520
<v Speaker 1>you're exaggerating your ability to provide. Like I get it

0:17:06.560 --> 0:17:10.440
<v Speaker 1>in the concept of marketing, right, because everything about marketing

0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.840
<v Speaker 1>is you know, It's why I wear my frame so

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<v Speaker 1>big today because I get it right. But that's the

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<v Speaker 1>point of it. It's like, but I'm watching people that

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<v Speaker 1>just walk around every day and if it's not it's

0:17:26.200 --> 0:17:33.760
<v Speaker 1>these ridiculous white woman weaves, you know, big, we huge,

0:17:34.040 --> 0:17:38.520
<v Speaker 1>fucking big, fucking thirty fucking six in fucking weaves. And

0:17:38.560 --> 0:17:41.360
<v Speaker 1>they got the baby hair cuse swooping down, they got

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<v Speaker 1>the part feel me like they're wearing a hair helmet.

0:17:45.520 --> 0:17:47.880
<v Speaker 1>And then you look at the face cuse, and they

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<v Speaker 1>face It's like, isn't it hilarious? That the term that

0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:55.120
<v Speaker 1>they use is beat because that's how I would describe

0:17:55.119 --> 0:17:59.360
<v Speaker 1>it and in more negative connotation. And so they put

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<v Speaker 1>all this make up on and they're starting to like

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<v Speaker 1>change there. They're trying to change the tone of their skin,

0:18:06.520 --> 0:18:12.159
<v Speaker 1>the complexion, and it's like, yo, you have to really

0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:17.520
<v Speaker 1>not like who you are to like, I couldn't imagine

0:18:17.560 --> 0:18:24.160
<v Speaker 1>me not liking my skin tone. And I was thinking, like, damn,

0:18:24.240 --> 0:18:26.480
<v Speaker 1>is it our fault as men? You feel me? Because

0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:29.359
<v Speaker 1>I was like, there's no way it's my fault because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like none of that fake ship at all.

0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:35.320
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't like it at all. Like I respect

0:18:35.480 --> 0:18:40.200
<v Speaker 1>people trying to extend their beauty, right if it's personal,

0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:43.160
<v Speaker 1>like if it's only built for just who your ship,

0:18:43.240 --> 0:18:47.040
<v Speaker 1>how your ship grows, I'm good. But you got women

0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:49.480
<v Speaker 1>looking at other women that are not like them, and

0:18:49.480 --> 0:18:52.040
<v Speaker 1>they're like, you can't if you're a sister as dark

0:18:52.080 --> 0:18:54.640
<v Speaker 1>as Naomi Campbell, you can't do the same things that

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<v Speaker 1>a white woman like Kim Kardashian does to her face.

0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:04.000
<v Speaker 1>They don't go together, I think now, and I see

0:19:04.720 --> 0:19:11.760
<v Speaker 1>women of other ethnicities that do now, like what it's

0:19:12.000 --> 0:19:14.880
<v Speaker 1>just it's like weird it's like white women are doing

0:19:14.920 --> 0:19:17.320
<v Speaker 1>things to their hair or Asian women are doing things

0:19:17.320 --> 0:19:18.920
<v Speaker 1>to their hair that black. When we were doing to

0:19:19.000 --> 0:19:20.919
<v Speaker 1>their hair that, to me from far away, made it

0:19:20.920 --> 0:19:22.280
<v Speaker 1>look like they were trying to have hair that was

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<v Speaker 1>more like an Asian or a white lady. And to me,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just turned into a giant. And I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it's even if you ask me personally my hypothesis, this

0:19:31.960 --> 0:19:34.639
<v Speaker 1>is not about looks in appearance from a from a

0:19:34.960 --> 0:19:38.480
<v Speaker 1>aesthetic beauty standpoint. You know what, that's not crazy. What's

0:19:38.520 --> 0:19:43.760
<v Speaker 1>that English time in England where it's signifying wealth, like

0:19:43.800 --> 0:19:48.000
<v Speaker 1>the Barochian period period, right, So that's what I think

0:19:48.040 --> 0:19:51.280
<v Speaker 1>they're doing. I think they're getting caught. They're all status

0:19:51.280 --> 0:19:55.720
<v Speaker 1>trying status, like they're trying to create. So instead of

0:19:55.840 --> 0:20:00.639
<v Speaker 1>understanding that these things are an enhancement of beauty, it's like, no,

0:20:01.359 --> 0:20:09.960
<v Speaker 1>these represent uh class like economic prosperity to some degree.

0:20:10.320 --> 0:20:13.680
<v Speaker 1>Like we've like like a girl, I've seen a girl, right,

0:20:13.680 --> 0:20:18.000
<v Speaker 1>and I'm with somebody, and um, like I'm with who

0:20:18.040 --> 0:20:21.680
<v Speaker 1>was I with? I was with? Uh? I was with

0:20:21.720 --> 0:20:23.640
<v Speaker 1>my sister at the time. This was a while ago.

0:20:23.640 --> 0:20:27.160
<v Speaker 1>I was with you, Lisa, and we was somewhere going

0:20:27.200 --> 0:20:30.000
<v Speaker 1>to meet up with everybody to eat. He was hanging

0:20:30.000 --> 0:20:32.800
<v Speaker 1>and ship and I've seen this girl with this fucked

0:20:32.880 --> 0:20:36.919
<v Speaker 1>up as we've like it looked bad and she was like,

0:20:36.960 --> 0:20:40.320
<v Speaker 1>that's a seven hundred dollar weed, and I'm like, well,

0:20:40.359 --> 0:20:42.480
<v Speaker 1>who the funk cares what it costs if it looked

0:20:42.480 --> 0:20:46.760
<v Speaker 1>funked up. It's like it's like a nigga putting gold

0:20:46.800 --> 0:20:51.000
<v Speaker 1>for Giato's six is on a on like a pinnal.

0:20:52.080 --> 0:20:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't give a funk with the wheels costs, you

0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:58.000
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, Like the car don't fit the

0:20:58.119 --> 0:21:03.119
<v Speaker 1>fucking wheels. And again the reason that's fucked up because

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with you, right, and I'm glad we got

0:21:05.200 --> 0:21:08.360
<v Speaker 1>to that point. Beauty standards are transitioning into class standards.

0:21:08.800 --> 0:21:14.480
<v Speaker 1>But the problem is they don't fit on the fucking car. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no question, Like it's the to me, it's the fault

0:21:18.280 --> 0:21:24.119
<v Speaker 1>of the Cubic zirconium because now, I mean, I don't

0:21:24.400 --> 0:21:29.320
<v Speaker 1>rock jewelry, but I love jewelry. Like if I had

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<v Speaker 1>a woman or whatever like that that I thought was

0:21:32.040 --> 0:21:36.239
<v Speaker 1>worth two nickels, which is obviously hypothetical, I would be

0:21:36.280 --> 0:21:40.280
<v Speaker 1>buying her all the all the jewelry, because I would

0:21:40.280 --> 0:21:44.919
<v Speaker 1>want to have bought rubies, emeralds, did all the jewels,

0:21:45.200 --> 0:21:51.200
<v Speaker 1>all that, all the precious stones. Well, now we've reached

0:21:51.200 --> 0:21:56.720
<v Speaker 1>a point where like zircon became so commonplace that it

0:21:56.920 --> 0:22:00.040
<v Speaker 1>now it's about size. Like I could trot out the

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<v Speaker 1>girl in ten thousand dollar diamond earrings tomorrow and she

0:22:05.160 --> 0:22:08.320
<v Speaker 1>looked ass naked on her ears because everybody else got

0:22:08.400 --> 0:22:11.840
<v Speaker 1>such big fake bullshit all over and you wouldn't even

0:22:11.880 --> 0:22:19.200
<v Speaker 1>see those things. Yeah. Um, but but then again it's

0:22:19.240 --> 0:22:22.120
<v Speaker 1>like guys are doing the same thing. Though guys are

0:22:22.200 --> 0:22:25.720
<v Speaker 1>doing that too, Like I've seen a picture, so back

0:22:25.720 --> 0:22:29.640
<v Speaker 1>to the point of beauty standard and women, I've seen um,

0:22:29.760 --> 0:22:35.200
<v Speaker 1>oh girl that Drake had at the Dodger Stadium right,

0:22:35.359 --> 0:22:38.119
<v Speaker 1>and Drake had took this girl on the date because

0:22:38.160 --> 0:22:40.639
<v Speaker 1>at Dodger Stadium, and he had rented the stadium and

0:22:40.680 --> 0:22:43.280
<v Speaker 1>had dinner right next to the dugout, had a nigger servant.

0:22:43.560 --> 0:22:46.760
<v Speaker 1>It was some like some some kind of like white

0:22:46.760 --> 0:22:49.960
<v Speaker 1>people ship, like white people players ship. They really like

0:22:50.440 --> 0:22:53.119
<v Speaker 1>our kind of players, like white people players, because I'm like,

0:22:53.920 --> 0:22:55.880
<v Speaker 1>who the fund would take a bit near the dugout,

0:22:57.000 --> 0:23:00.960
<v Speaker 1>like whatever, like, but that is a that's a that's

0:23:00.960 --> 0:23:03.400
<v Speaker 1>definitely a big money play because obviously we gotta rent

0:23:03.400 --> 0:23:06.840
<v Speaker 1>the stadium. You gotta be somebody, so you know, successfully

0:23:06.880 --> 0:23:10.960
<v Speaker 1>he was able to execute it. But I've seen abroad right,

0:23:11.119 --> 0:23:14.359
<v Speaker 1>And the broad came across Twitter and it was a

0:23:14.480 --> 0:23:16.840
<v Speaker 1>dude who tweeted the broad and mind you, I've been

0:23:16.840 --> 0:23:19.159
<v Speaker 1>defending men this whole time, like, man, men don't like

0:23:19.280 --> 0:23:24.120
<v Speaker 1>that fake ship. And he posted the picture of the Broad.

0:23:24.440 --> 0:23:27.120
<v Speaker 1>It was like, yeah, I see why, I see why

0:23:27.200 --> 0:23:29.320
<v Speaker 1>he you know, he wasted no time to get with her.

0:23:29.359 --> 0:23:32.720
<v Speaker 1>And and this bitch has on what looks like a

0:23:32.800 --> 0:23:39.000
<v Speaker 1>diaper like her legs because look horrible her legs cause

0:23:39.080 --> 0:23:42.200
<v Speaker 1>looked like Mike stands and her ass popped out, Bro

0:23:43.000 --> 0:23:46.560
<v Speaker 1>like crazy, and I'm like, I just tweeted cause back,

0:23:46.600 --> 0:23:49.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, Bro, you think that ship is cool. But

0:23:49.880 --> 0:23:55.639
<v Speaker 1>that's because some of these niggas are so unsophisticated, even

0:23:55.640 --> 0:23:59.040
<v Speaker 1>if they present themselves. And that's like, Drake reminds me

0:23:59.080 --> 0:24:06.640
<v Speaker 1>of Brian Griffin. Dog, Bro, that's Drake, because the average

0:24:06.640 --> 0:24:10.560
<v Speaker 1>woman would look at because like a sophisticated man, a male,

0:24:10.680 --> 0:24:13.680
<v Speaker 1>you feel me like, but bro, look at his standard

0:24:13.720 --> 0:24:17.959
<v Speaker 1>in taste and style. That's ship, bro. He's as shallow

0:24:18.040 --> 0:24:22.000
<v Speaker 1>as a fucking wading pool. I think with Drake, honestly,

0:24:24.040 --> 0:24:26.119
<v Speaker 1>I have a very credit but but I don't. But

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to make this about Drizzy because that's

0:24:28.520 --> 0:24:31.040
<v Speaker 1>not the point Drizzy. I think Drizzy getting all the

0:24:31.040 --> 0:24:33.480
<v Speaker 1>bitches he couldn't get when he was just a Nickelodeon kid. Yeah,

0:24:33.520 --> 0:24:36.639
<v Speaker 1>but I say to say this to Deep on it,

0:24:37.200 --> 0:24:40.760
<v Speaker 1>I think I don't think Drake really even knows or

0:24:40.800 --> 0:24:43.240
<v Speaker 1>has any idea of what it is that Drake likes.

0:24:43.640 --> 0:24:47.120
<v Speaker 1>I think Drake just likes what I think he has

0:24:47.119 --> 0:24:50.439
<v Speaker 1>been told he's supposed to like. Sure, sure, sure, But

0:24:50.560 --> 0:24:53.480
<v Speaker 1>that's why I'm saying, like he's like Brian Griffin, like

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:58.160
<v Speaker 1>Brian Griffin dog like. It's like this fake pseudo motherfucker

0:24:58.240 --> 0:24:59.240
<v Speaker 1>that you know, I mean, And I don't want to

0:24:59.240 --> 0:25:01.040
<v Speaker 1>call Drake that. That's what I'm trying to say. I'm

0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:05.240
<v Speaker 1>saying for the type of motherfucker he is, he's picking

0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:11.120
<v Speaker 1>the worst motherfucking women in history, and it's like he's

0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:14.879
<v Speaker 1>picking the bitches I should be picking based off of

0:25:15.119 --> 0:25:17.880
<v Speaker 1>my upbringing and how I came up, And I wouldn't

0:25:17.880 --> 0:25:20.840
<v Speaker 1>pick them, but I don't know. It ain't about them.

0:25:21.000 --> 0:25:24.920
<v Speaker 1>The focus is that this woman right looked the way

0:25:24.960 --> 0:25:29.040
<v Speaker 1>she looked, and I'm just like, now, I think this lady,

0:25:29.080 --> 0:25:31.479
<v Speaker 1>I don't know she's a white lady, so whatever it

0:25:31.520 --> 0:25:37.840
<v Speaker 1>is is European something. Um. But it's like they just

0:25:38.560 --> 0:25:41.080
<v Speaker 1>like now they want to look like a sister because

0:25:41.119 --> 0:25:44.720
<v Speaker 1>that's the traditional sister looked this, asked, blah blah blah.

0:25:44.760 --> 0:25:47.840
<v Speaker 1>But it's just it's just blowing me away. But the

0:25:48.000 --> 0:25:51.760
<v Speaker 1>niggas are doing the same thing though, Pete, like you

0:25:51.880 --> 0:25:56.720
<v Speaker 1>gotta niggas wearing a hundred gold chained with diamonds, Like, bro,

0:25:56.840 --> 0:25:58.720
<v Speaker 1>it's no way this could be real. And I get

0:25:58.720 --> 0:26:01.719
<v Speaker 1>it right because men, we're supposed to be looked at

0:26:01.720 --> 0:26:07.480
<v Speaker 1>as providers. So if you wear all of your your portfolio,

0:26:09.119 --> 0:26:14.439
<v Speaker 1>it's a simple way to see Yeah, it's a simple

0:26:14.440 --> 0:26:17.800
<v Speaker 1>way to see your value as a provider. But it's

0:26:17.840 --> 0:26:21.040
<v Speaker 1>so exaggerated. I don't know how a motherfucking woman could

0:26:21.119 --> 0:26:23.200
<v Speaker 1>go for it. Like, I don't understand how a dude

0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:26.359
<v Speaker 1>could see that girl cause and funk with her. I

0:26:26.400 --> 0:26:29.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know how a do. I'm watching Tristan Thompson, cause

0:26:29.840 --> 0:26:33.679
<v Speaker 1>who I funk with because Tristan seeming like a real motherfucker. Hello,

0:26:33.840 --> 0:26:36.880
<v Speaker 1>Lamar older right, who I love as a laker? Right?

0:26:37.440 --> 0:26:45.120
<v Speaker 1>Fighting over Frankenstein, bro Like, look at Chloe bro Ice, No, Chloe, Like,

0:26:45.200 --> 0:26:47.840
<v Speaker 1>how are you fighting over a put together version of

0:26:47.880 --> 0:26:52.199
<v Speaker 1>this woman? Like I wouldn't be seen anywhere with this

0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:53.960
<v Speaker 1>lady And I'm not kno gonna because she could be

0:26:54.000 --> 0:26:57.880
<v Speaker 1>an awesome lady. But something gotta be wrong. I think

0:26:57.960 --> 0:27:01.640
<v Speaker 1>everybody's insecure and I'm fat. You're not easy to It's

0:27:01.640 --> 0:27:03.680
<v Speaker 1>gonna cut my fucking stomach and cut all this fat

0:27:03.720 --> 0:27:06.359
<v Speaker 1>out and carve my ship up and carve me a

0:27:06.440 --> 0:27:09.080
<v Speaker 1>six pack and put pecks in my arm. But it's like,

0:27:10.160 --> 0:27:12.919
<v Speaker 1>I will never let my insecurities get the best of me.

0:27:13.160 --> 0:27:16.080
<v Speaker 1>I strengthened what I can and change what I just

0:27:16.320 --> 0:27:19.879
<v Speaker 1>what I disciplined myself to want to change. But I

0:27:19.920 --> 0:27:22.560
<v Speaker 1>strengthened other things. But to see these niggers in the

0:27:22.640 --> 0:27:30.720
<v Speaker 1>comment arguing because over Frankenstein is unbelievable. I mean they're

0:27:30.800 --> 0:27:34.240
<v Speaker 1>arguing over Frankenstein. Bro. That there, and they're like arguing

0:27:34.400 --> 0:27:37.200
<v Speaker 1>over her, Like I've seen this lady. This lady got

0:27:37.200 --> 0:27:41.200
<v Speaker 1>shouldered past because she looks like a linebacker. Bro, she's huge.

0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:45.600
<v Speaker 1>She's like Ken Norton. And I'm not saying that. Don't

0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:48.640
<v Speaker 1>mean she's not a cute lady, But she didn't think

0:27:48.680 --> 0:27:50.640
<v Speaker 1>she was a cute lady, because that's why she went

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:54.240
<v Speaker 1>and fucked herself up. Yeah, there was a minute there

0:27:54.920 --> 0:28:02.280
<v Speaker 1>where she went from being like kind of resigned to

0:28:02.320 --> 0:28:05.800
<v Speaker 1>the reality she was the not cute sister to then

0:28:05.840 --> 0:28:07.960
<v Speaker 1>trying to like make herself look at it. And she

0:28:08.000 --> 0:28:10.280
<v Speaker 1>looked good for a second, and then she just ran

0:28:10.400 --> 0:28:16.000
<v Speaker 1>away like she just overshot the runway like by a mile,

0:28:17.240 --> 0:28:19.080
<v Speaker 1>and went from like, yeah, I'm just gonna take better

0:28:19.080 --> 0:28:21.479
<v Speaker 1>care of myself. I'm an tone it up to now

0:28:21.520 --> 0:28:23.040
<v Speaker 1>it's like no, I'm gonna tone it up and then

0:28:23.080 --> 0:28:24.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna touch it up, and then I'm gonna cut

0:28:24.640 --> 0:28:28.119
<v Speaker 1>it up and then I'm gonna carve it up. So

0:28:30.000 --> 0:28:32.320
<v Speaker 1>and I just I just think the beauty standards is

0:28:32.400 --> 0:28:35.160
<v Speaker 1>just getting out of control. Bro. It's just and it's

0:28:35.200 --> 0:28:38.840
<v Speaker 1>so sad and back to the So this transgender female

0:28:38.920 --> 0:28:45.240
<v Speaker 1>right that I saw, Oh, she looked like every girl today. Yeah,

0:28:45.520 --> 0:28:48.520
<v Speaker 1>she looked like every girl today. She had this this big,

0:28:48.560 --> 0:28:52.240
<v Speaker 1>stupid thirty summits we've on with these silly ass baby hairs,

0:28:52.320 --> 0:28:55.080
<v Speaker 1>with this makeup on that change that didn't match her

0:28:55.080 --> 0:29:00.000
<v Speaker 1>fucking chest. She had these crazy eyelashes, this lipstick, everything,

0:29:00.000 --> 0:29:03.720
<v Speaker 1>and she got these titties that set up on everything.

0:29:03.880 --> 0:29:06.880
<v Speaker 1>Fear me, look as all that everything like a girl,

0:29:07.200 --> 0:29:10.160
<v Speaker 1>no balls not she got her ship cut off. And

0:29:10.720 --> 0:29:13.440
<v Speaker 1>I would have seen this lady and not been able

0:29:13.480 --> 0:29:16.360
<v Speaker 1>to tell you the difference between her and a woman.

0:29:16.960 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 1>That happened. That's how women are fucking the game up

0:29:22.000 --> 0:29:27.840
<v Speaker 1>with beauty standards. Now niggas can be women because they're

0:29:27.920 --> 0:29:34.360
<v Speaker 1>exaggerating so far, so far the exaggerating that now men

0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:39.160
<v Speaker 1>just exaggerate the same and become them. It's kind of

0:29:39.160 --> 0:29:41.680
<v Speaker 1>like if you were talking cars. Yeah, you put a

0:29:41.720 --> 0:29:43.760
<v Speaker 1>cover on your car when you park it outside. If

0:29:43.800 --> 0:29:46.360
<v Speaker 1>you take the cover, put it over the car and

0:29:46.480 --> 0:29:50.000
<v Speaker 1>draw the car of your choice onto the cover, and

0:29:50.040 --> 0:29:52.680
<v Speaker 1>now every car is a Rolls Royce and no one

0:29:52.720 --> 0:29:55.000
<v Speaker 1>knows what's underneath the cover because all the covers look

0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:56.960
<v Speaker 1>the same. So the Rolls Royce in ther Cord look

0:29:57.000 --> 0:29:58.440
<v Speaker 1>the same. Because the cover is a painted the same,

0:29:58.480 --> 0:30:02.080
<v Speaker 1>you don't know what the And to me, now it's

0:30:02.080 --> 0:30:03.880
<v Speaker 1>not even so much that that's the issue. It's the

0:30:03.880 --> 0:30:06.120
<v Speaker 1>issue that people are more concerned with how much money

0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:07.800
<v Speaker 1>they spent on the cover and how much money they

0:30:07.800 --> 0:30:12.120
<v Speaker 1>spent on the car exactly, And I didn't think about that.

0:30:12.880 --> 0:30:18.680
<v Speaker 1>Beauty standards have changed into like like class like class

0:30:18.760 --> 0:30:23.240
<v Speaker 1>like classism, like it's going back to that European Baroquian

0:30:23.360 --> 0:30:27.400
<v Speaker 1>period where who had the most and then white women

0:30:27.480 --> 0:30:32.240
<v Speaker 1>cut white people already pale pete, These motherfucker's cousins putting

0:30:32.320 --> 0:30:37.320
<v Speaker 1>after that picnic, these motherfucker's cousins putting white out on

0:30:37.400 --> 0:30:39.920
<v Speaker 1>their face them hose was white. Well, you know why

0:30:39.960 --> 0:30:44.040
<v Speaker 1>that was right at that time because like now, and

0:30:44.120 --> 0:30:49.040
<v Speaker 1>this is a transition for white people back and way

0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:52.640
<v Speaker 1>back when you want to be as snow white as possible,

0:30:52.640 --> 0:30:55.520
<v Speaker 1>because you're just getting into that point where you had

0:30:55.640 --> 0:30:59.040
<v Speaker 1>the status to have people working outside for you, so

0:30:59.040 --> 0:31:02.240
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna stay in doors and your palatial luxury, and

0:31:02.240 --> 0:31:04.320
<v Speaker 1>if you had any color on you, you must be

0:31:04.360 --> 0:31:08.080
<v Speaker 1>out working in a field somewhere, so you're not a sophisticant.

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:12.640
<v Speaker 1>Then somehow in the last probably a hundred years or less,

0:31:13.160 --> 0:31:18.719
<v Speaker 1>it's I have worked for such a surplus for myself

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:21.320
<v Speaker 1>that I can afford to go travel and relax on

0:31:21.360 --> 0:31:24.960
<v Speaker 1>a beach somewhere tropical. So I have a tan because

0:31:25.000 --> 0:31:27.240
<v Speaker 1>now my tan is a status similar because it shows

0:31:27.240 --> 0:31:30.480
<v Speaker 1>how much luxury time I can afford myself and travel

0:31:30.520 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 1>time I could afford myself based off my work surplus.

0:31:33.440 --> 0:31:36.600
<v Speaker 1>So beauty, standard and class have been running hand in

0:31:36.640 --> 0:31:38.960
<v Speaker 1>hand the whole time for a very long time. Yes,

0:31:41.200 --> 0:31:45.000
<v Speaker 1>that is fucking crazy. And I got another hot take,

0:31:45.120 --> 0:31:47.920
<v Speaker 1>and this is probably gonna get us canceled, so you

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:50.560
<v Speaker 1>could you could red light this if you want. Okay

0:31:51.160 --> 0:31:55.200
<v Speaker 1>to me, with what we're seeing now, with the blurring

0:31:55.200 --> 0:31:58.080
<v Speaker 1>of the line between status and beauty as far as

0:31:58.960 --> 0:32:02.680
<v Speaker 1>uh superficial acessories ago, I think there's a lot of

0:32:02.680 --> 0:32:05.520
<v Speaker 1>women out there now who don't really particularly in l A,

0:32:06.680 --> 0:32:10.320
<v Speaker 1>don't really do anything of value. They don't have any

0:32:11.120 --> 0:32:16.320
<v Speaker 1>venture that they can use to provide a evaluation for

0:32:16.360 --> 0:32:19.640
<v Speaker 1>their own self esteem. So it's basically, do I have

0:32:20.440 --> 0:32:22.640
<v Speaker 1>what am I worth? What am I worth to a man?

0:32:22.720 --> 0:32:26.360
<v Speaker 1>Do I have dinner? Pussy? Do I got rent? Check? Pussy?

0:32:26.440 --> 0:32:29.080
<v Speaker 1>Do I got car? No pussy? What is it? So?

0:32:29.120 --> 0:32:33.600
<v Speaker 1>If they how quickly do women want you to go

0:32:33.680 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Then I had a girl say, I

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:37.800
<v Speaker 1>wish you could do something. Sometimes we'll just let me know.

0:32:37.880 --> 0:32:40.120
<v Speaker 1>All you gotta do is buy the plane ticket and

0:32:40.280 --> 0:32:43.040
<v Speaker 1>and and get my hair done and we're out. This

0:32:43.120 --> 0:32:46.000
<v Speaker 1>is real text message. I seen that before. Of course

0:32:46.040 --> 0:32:49.320
<v Speaker 1>it's very common, but women now want to walk outside.

0:32:49.360 --> 0:32:54.120
<v Speaker 1>They know, look, oh SUSI Q over there, she got

0:32:54.120 --> 0:32:59.320
<v Speaker 1>a thousand dollars in hair, makeup, nails, all this other ship.

0:32:59.600 --> 0:33:02.080
<v Speaker 1>She must be worth a whole lot of money to somebody,

0:33:03.920 --> 0:33:09.000
<v Speaker 1>you know. And and it becomes now like that's you're

0:33:09.120 --> 0:33:12.479
<v Speaker 1>projected status and you're projected self esteem. Like so now

0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 1>you don't want to walk outside, Like, oh my god,

0:33:14.120 --> 0:33:15.920
<v Speaker 1>If I walk outside, if I haven't paid for my

0:33:15.920 --> 0:33:17.800
<v Speaker 1>own nails or someone doesn't pay for my ship, then

0:33:17.800 --> 0:33:23.600
<v Speaker 1>it looks like I'm not worth anything to anybody. Mm hmm. Damn.

0:33:25.440 --> 0:33:29.160
<v Speaker 1>Ship just hit another level. Grol. This conversation gonna turn

0:33:29.160 --> 0:33:32.160
<v Speaker 1>into like a five or six parter Bro. That's okay.

0:33:32.960 --> 0:33:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I will bring a woman in for every single access

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:41.440
<v Speaker 1>for you that I don't like. Oh man, I case,

0:33:41.560 --> 0:33:46.880
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. I never thought about that. So they look

0:33:46.960 --> 0:33:50.680
<v Speaker 1>at that as success. The eyelashes if they get the

0:33:50.800 --> 0:33:56.040
<v Speaker 1>right ones, it's success. The we've is expensive, the lashes

0:33:56.080 --> 0:33:59.400
<v Speaker 1>are expensive. Is the makeup expensive? That they have cheap

0:33:59.440 --> 0:34:04.040
<v Speaker 1>and expensive makeup? They do the nails, No, I've listened

0:34:04.200 --> 0:34:08.160
<v Speaker 1>to them talk about the nails. The nails are expensive.

0:34:08.280 --> 0:34:10.480
<v Speaker 1>And then layos gotta be loud so you can see him.

0:34:10.600 --> 0:34:13.600
<v Speaker 1>It's not the tasteful, classy French tip no more. You

0:34:13.680 --> 0:34:16.240
<v Speaker 1>gotta be able to see that motherfucking money from across

0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:20.439
<v Speaker 1>the street. And you gotta have the super expensive lip

0:34:20.440 --> 0:34:23.320
<v Speaker 1>gloss so that you can see, Like I personally, in

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:25.160
<v Speaker 1>a woman when I'm on a date, I want to

0:34:25.160 --> 0:34:26.560
<v Speaker 1>know if I have a hair out of place by

0:34:26.600 --> 0:34:29.000
<v Speaker 1>looking in her lips because they're so shiny, I can

0:34:29.000 --> 0:34:34.160
<v Speaker 1>see my face in them. Live gloves Macy, I never

0:34:34.320 --> 0:34:39.400
<v Speaker 1>thought about that. It's a sign of value. And and

0:34:39.440 --> 0:34:42.960
<v Speaker 1>the handbags ship women. Who the funk cares of women? Got?

0:34:43.040 --> 0:34:47.000
<v Speaker 1>Who the funk cares if women have money? Other That's

0:34:47.040 --> 0:34:50.040
<v Speaker 1>that's the thing. Though. Other women don't look at it

0:34:50.080 --> 0:34:52.560
<v Speaker 1>like she got money. They look at her as like, wow,

0:34:52.840 --> 0:34:55.760
<v Speaker 1>she got a guy who got money. She's so great.

0:34:55.840 --> 0:34:58.399
<v Speaker 1>She got a dude down to spend five thousand extra

0:34:58.480 --> 0:35:01.440
<v Speaker 1>dollars a month on her that girl got sixty dollars

0:35:01.480 --> 0:35:03.919
<v Speaker 1>a year, pussy, or she's just a sixty tho dollar

0:35:04.000 --> 0:35:10.279
<v Speaker 1>a year bitch. Oh they always did tether tether their

0:35:10.360 --> 0:35:12.560
<v Speaker 1>value to the nearest man or whatever, or at least

0:35:12.600 --> 0:35:15.920
<v Speaker 1>the perception thereof. Oh but if they're not proud of

0:35:15.960 --> 0:35:17.560
<v Speaker 1>the man, that's why they don't show them in the

0:35:17.600 --> 0:35:20.640
<v Speaker 1>little pictures, like when they take the vacation pictures and

0:35:20.640 --> 0:35:22.680
<v Speaker 1>they're taking pictures and it's like, well, who was the

0:35:22.680 --> 0:35:25.680
<v Speaker 1>guy that took you on vacation? They don't show him

0:35:25.719 --> 0:35:30.520
<v Speaker 1>because he's still not worth or they have paid by committee.

0:35:30.920 --> 0:35:33.479
<v Speaker 1>So you don't want to have the nail guy mad

0:35:33.560 --> 0:35:35.319
<v Speaker 1>that she went on the tie to the Islands with

0:35:35.360 --> 0:35:37.040
<v Speaker 1>the hair guy, because now all of a sudden, you're

0:35:37.040 --> 0:35:38.720
<v Speaker 1>gonna be the girl with the hair and no nails

0:35:38.760 --> 0:35:45.200
<v Speaker 1>next month. Yeah. I never thought about it like that,

0:35:48.040 --> 0:35:52.280
<v Speaker 1>but now that's scary because men are starting to act

0:35:52.320 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 1>like women. Yes, so like so a nigga wearing forty changes,

0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:03.560
<v Speaker 1>that's some girl ship. Yeah. I feel like it goes

0:36:03.640 --> 0:36:06.160
<v Speaker 1>back to a great Outcast line it ain't what you make,

0:36:06.239 --> 0:36:09.399
<v Speaker 1>it's what you spend. Because I've seen women and heard

0:36:09.480 --> 0:36:12.560
<v Speaker 1>him like literally, I've been hanging out, bitch about some

0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:16.880
<v Speaker 1>guy with money, who's cheap? Who's the guy? God damn it,

0:36:17.000 --> 0:36:20.160
<v Speaker 1>there's there. I hear that all the time about myself. Yea.

0:36:21.760 --> 0:36:24.000
<v Speaker 1>So it's not even about that. Women are gonna look

0:36:24.000 --> 0:36:27.000
<v Speaker 1>at some guy and be like, Oh, he makes a

0:36:27.000 --> 0:36:29.719
<v Speaker 1>ton of money, he's a great provider. No, you do

0:36:29.800 --> 0:36:31.799
<v Speaker 1>all that ship? What does it say? It says you

0:36:31.880 --> 0:36:34.520
<v Speaker 1>have a lot of money and you spend a lot

0:36:34.560 --> 0:36:37.839
<v Speaker 1>of money. It's like, Wow, that guy spends a lot

0:36:37.880 --> 0:36:39.880
<v Speaker 1>of money. If I'm over near him, he'll spend a

0:36:39.880 --> 0:36:41.759
<v Speaker 1>lot of money on me. And then women are gonna

0:36:41.760 --> 0:36:43.359
<v Speaker 1>see a lot of money haven't been spent on me,

0:36:43.560 --> 0:36:48.440
<v Speaker 1>and they're gonna think I must be fucking great, because

0:36:48.480 --> 0:36:50.120
<v Speaker 1>no one gives a funk that the that the little

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:52.560
<v Speaker 1>Jewish guy in the back with the conservative little shirt

0:36:52.600 --> 0:36:55.000
<v Speaker 1>and slacks on has worth fifty million dollars, but the

0:36:55.000 --> 0:36:58.240
<v Speaker 1>guy with fifty chains on that probably cost ten thousand

0:36:58.320 --> 0:37:00.719
<v Speaker 1>dollars is worth a hundred thousand dollars. But it's gonna

0:37:00.760 --> 0:37:02.960
<v Speaker 1>spend ninety of them and fifty of them on you

0:37:04.480 --> 0:37:06.799
<v Speaker 1>because nobody else can see it. Because no one can

0:37:06.800 --> 0:37:08.640
<v Speaker 1>see it, and at the end of the day, if

0:37:08.680 --> 0:37:11.799
<v Speaker 1>you're the girl, wouldn't you rather have spent on you

0:37:11.880 --> 0:37:13.600
<v Speaker 1>than the guy with all the money and the five

0:37:14.200 --> 0:37:23.919
<v Speaker 1>spent on you? Damn, damn. It's all about marketing. It's

0:37:23.920 --> 0:37:33.520
<v Speaker 1>all about marketing because in social media, that's why. But

0:37:33.600 --> 0:37:36.279
<v Speaker 1>what are they marketing for? What did they selling? What's

0:37:36.320 --> 0:37:39.640
<v Speaker 1>the product they selling? Well, we know what the product

0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:43.040
<v Speaker 1>they're selling. What we don't know is what the end

0:37:43.120 --> 0:37:46.279
<v Speaker 1>game is, what's what's what are they really consuming? What's

0:37:46.280 --> 0:37:51.000
<v Speaker 1>the portfolio? It's it's like a portfolio and disposable value.

0:37:51.760 --> 0:37:56.239
<v Speaker 1>That's what's so interesting to me. Yeah, if over ten

0:37:56.320 --> 0:38:01.799
<v Speaker 1>years guys spend ten tho dollars on girl as nails,

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:05.040
<v Speaker 1>she doesn't have ten cents to show for it. She

0:38:05.160 --> 0:38:09.560
<v Speaker 1>has ten years worth of great nail memories on social

0:38:09.719 --> 0:38:16.319
<v Speaker 1>but everybody else sees it so that Oh No, I

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:18.960
<v Speaker 1>like the word worth and value, even though this is

0:38:19.000 --> 0:38:22.319
<v Speaker 1>not the true definition. I say worth is a self thing.

0:38:22.920 --> 0:38:26.920
<v Speaker 1>Value is what everybody else plays on you. It's not

0:38:26.960 --> 0:38:31.239
<v Speaker 1>true by definition, but it's how I perceive it, right,

0:38:31.360 --> 0:38:37.000
<v Speaker 1>And so they want other It goes back to the

0:38:37.040 --> 0:38:39.480
<v Speaker 1>same thing I was telling you. They want everybody else

0:38:39.520 --> 0:38:44.320
<v Speaker 1>to treat them like they have it, even though inside

0:38:44.400 --> 0:38:47.720
<v Speaker 1>they know they're worthless exactly, and maybe at some point

0:38:47.760 --> 0:38:51.960
<v Speaker 1>they figure, well, if I get if I confuse enough people,

0:38:52.520 --> 0:38:55.680
<v Speaker 1>if I confuse enough people, if if enough, maybe if

0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:59.640
<v Speaker 1>the right guy sees me and thinks of me as valuable,

0:39:00.760 --> 0:39:04.319
<v Speaker 1>he can change my worth. Even though you only got

0:39:04.320 --> 0:39:09.200
<v Speaker 1>to change one the right one guy one time, and

0:39:09.239 --> 0:39:12.399
<v Speaker 1>that instead of living in your studio apartment with all

0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:14.560
<v Speaker 1>the hair and nails in the world, now you're living

0:39:14.560 --> 0:39:17.080
<v Speaker 1>in a big nice house doing nothing, just like before,

0:39:17.200 --> 0:39:23.080
<v Speaker 1>but in the big nice's house with more responsibilities. Maybe

0:39:23.120 --> 0:39:28.560
<v Speaker 1>maybe not, because I don't think nobody wives have responsibilities. Yeah,

0:39:28.560 --> 0:39:31.320
<v Speaker 1>but I don't think we do trophy wise in black community.

0:39:31.760 --> 0:39:35.439
<v Speaker 1>I'll be honest. I don't think so. I don't think

0:39:35.440 --> 0:39:37.680
<v Speaker 1>we do. I think that's the white people ship. I

0:39:37.719 --> 0:39:40.520
<v Speaker 1>don't think. I don't know no brother that got a

0:39:40.560 --> 0:39:43.880
<v Speaker 1>trophy wife. Every last man I know who stayed married,

0:39:44.480 --> 0:39:49.080
<v Speaker 1>she's gonna have to do something. Yeah, that could be fair.

0:39:50.080 --> 0:39:53.080
<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of trophy girlfriends. Yeah, but but that's

0:39:53.080 --> 0:39:56.960
<v Speaker 1>because you have multiple girlfriends so like, and I never

0:39:57.000 --> 0:39:59.120
<v Speaker 1>know who's married anybody. I was dating the girl one

0:39:59.160 --> 0:40:02.280
<v Speaker 1>time and we stopped talking, you know, what I'm saying whatever,

0:40:03.000 --> 0:40:06.719
<v Speaker 1>And she told me the problem was she was used

0:40:06.719 --> 0:40:10.440
<v Speaker 1>to dealing with men that had five girlfriends, so she

0:40:10.560 --> 0:40:13.200
<v Speaker 1>only had to be one fifth of a woman. It

0:40:13.320 --> 0:40:15.520
<v Speaker 1>was like, probably the smartest thing I ever heard a

0:40:15.520 --> 0:40:19.200
<v Speaker 1>woman tell me personally, and it blew me away that

0:40:19.400 --> 0:40:22.560
<v Speaker 1>she knew that so she used to just having to

0:40:22.600 --> 0:40:25.880
<v Speaker 1>be a fifth of a woman for somebody. But I

0:40:25.920 --> 0:40:28.880
<v Speaker 1>think in our community we don't do trophy wise, like

0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:32.640
<v Speaker 1>everything has purpose and value. If we don't, we get

0:40:32.719 --> 0:40:35.359
<v Speaker 1>rid of it because none of us have enough economics,

0:40:35.400 --> 0:40:39.399
<v Speaker 1>not even puff, not even hold. We don't have enough

0:40:39.440 --> 0:40:45.239
<v Speaker 1>economics truly to just have, you know, unvaluable assets. Not

0:40:45.360 --> 0:40:47.279
<v Speaker 1>if you're trying to really get ahead in the world,

0:40:47.320 --> 0:40:49.719
<v Speaker 1>you have to have things that that worked with you,

0:40:49.840 --> 0:40:53.080
<v Speaker 1>even if nothing else. She got to be a cold cook,

0:40:55.000 --> 0:41:00.480
<v Speaker 1>and that the lack of trophy wives is probably wise. Totistically,

0:41:00.560 --> 0:41:02.880
<v Speaker 1>there are less black marriages in the country than an

0:41:02.880 --> 0:41:07.640
<v Speaker 1>other more trophy wife leaden communities. If we aren't marrying

0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:10.000
<v Speaker 1>him as trophy wives, what the funk are we marrying

0:41:10.040 --> 0:41:11.200
<v Speaker 1>him for? Half the time