WEBVTT - Ep31: Millenial Dating Feat PMuna 0:00:07.520 --> 0:00:15.880 It's starting under one ship, slow ship. Yeah, we legendary 0:00:16.920 --> 0:00:24.279 ship is coming soon though. I've been working hard though. Yeah, listen, 0:00:24.640 --> 0:00:28.360 mona ta toes man. Now, hook your stay down, Hook 0:00:28.400 --> 0:00:31.520 you stay down, hook your stay down in the sky. 0:00:31.680 --> 0:00:34.760 It's the limit that we reached for the class. Reached 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:38.080 for the class and run that ship like wake up 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:40.560 your monas fells the paper. I just hope they're praying 0:00:40.640 --> 0:00:43.440 for me. Where your answer if I call long you? 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:46.440 I've been fighting my own demon see them stakes, I 0:00:46.479 --> 0:00:48.960 cut the grass, niggers peeping. I ain't sleep being now. 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:52.200 Saving used to back, I used to see, I used 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:54.960 to sleeve. Now I stacked my money to the syling 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:59.560 and just yo and thetis never saying no. This dick 0:00:59.720 --> 0:01:07.120 is like to you, guys, just heard a clip of 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:10.399 p mun as a red bone. I suggest you look 0:01:10.400 --> 0:01:12.080 at the video while you listen to it because it's 0:01:12.080 --> 0:01:16.120 definitely be some masturbation material for something. Um it's a 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:18.360 great song. Um you can check it out in our 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:21.000 description click on the link. Can they find it on 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:23.640 Apple Music and stuff? Oh? No, Apple Music. Actually they 0:01:23.680 --> 0:01:26.440 just rejected me because you know, obviously you know they 0:01:26.480 --> 0:01:32.800 own all the rights. Child's Game I've figured that sound SoundCloud. 0:01:32.840 --> 0:01:35.240 You just type in a child's game being a remix PM, 0:01:35.680 --> 0:01:37.880 so we can get this ship for the free. Yeah yeah, 0:01:38.080 --> 0:01:40.280 you know the music video too on YouTube. You know 0:01:40.520 --> 0:01:42.440 that's just dropped. So I think some of our listeners 0:01:42.480 --> 0:01:45.280 are just as poor as I am. So everything is 0:01:45.280 --> 0:01:48.600 so free, everything everything goes nice. So I guess this 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:55.480 is Yeah, this is probably worth which episode. Welcome to 0:01:55.520 --> 0:01:59.520 another episode of horrible Decisions. If you guys haven't noticed already, 0:01:59.560 --> 0:02:03.640 we do have a guest in the building and I 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:08.880 went video and I was like, you're coming in here 0:02:09.639 --> 0:02:13.720 with you just have a question before you're rapping. Did 0:02:13.760 --> 0:02:17.480 you ever consider being a stropper? Uh? Yeah, I was like, 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:20.359 you have all else fails, I will become because you've 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:24.399 never struck before for money. Body, you definitely have money, body, Yeah, 0:02:24.400 --> 0:02:26.720 I mean, like I said, if all else fails your 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:28.840 I was like, man, I'm coming port star. I'll be 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:36.600 a dope as point star because just like you don't 0:02:36.600 --> 0:02:38.239 have abs, but you got the higher, he's got the 0:02:38.280 --> 0:02:40.519 beard but not good teeth. It's crazy. I think all 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:44.320 guys um have this thing of they would become a 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:46.320 porn star. So many guys that I talked to like, 0:02:46.360 --> 0:02:48.840 it doesn't matter if they work incorporate, if they're a 0:02:48.840 --> 0:02:51.440 basketball player. I've really talked to so many guys and 0:02:51.520 --> 0:02:54.440 they're just like, if I wasn't doing this, I would 0:02:54.440 --> 0:02:58.639 be doing porn. So something's wrong with you? Then I think, 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:04.960 how far did your curve? Not too much? Okay, a little? 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:06.760 Are we coming on too strong? I think this is 0:03:06.800 --> 0:03:11.959 a little strong. He literally came in here with no 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:15.919 I think it's okay. He came in here with any bottle? 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:26.000 Have you not listen to us? Yeah? A little bit? 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:28.959 But wait was the episode of um the one he 0:03:29.000 --> 0:03:32.880 set me up was one of course, did you the 0:03:32.880 --> 0:03:36.640 Whole Jobs? I loved it? So mall told us, um, like, 0:03:36.680 --> 0:03:38.240 what are the whole jobs like? Where girls are? Like 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:39.600 I in the style was but like, you know, you 0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:42.240 really sucked it for money? What have you found? Is 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:49.800 like the whole job? You think the number yo, that 0:03:49.840 --> 0:03:52.520 has to be the chicks to me trying to you know, 0:03:52.640 --> 0:03:54.040 in the center of the mall, trying to give you 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:57.200 a little hand. When you out in the club and 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.480 you see this girl that's like like looking good, little 0:03:59.480 --> 0:04:02.320 Blenny likes, what do you do? And she's like I'm 0:04:01.440 --> 0:04:10.760 a oh ship um mall said real estate agents. Did 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:13.320 he said nurse too, didn't he? No, he didn't say 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:18.599 nurses at nine. I don't think nurse counts neither. Yeah, 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:24.919 A model a model, Yeah, there's real models, man, Like 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:27.520 that's something I've never had. Yeah, but but there's a 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:30.120 difference because we're like I'm five. One thing is I'm 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:32.320 not on a Victoria's Seeker run way. Those are real 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:35.480 models will Amina's role models. The other models is um 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:43.880 you know. So, I guess we like to do to 0:04:44.040 --> 0:04:46.560 kind of break the ice with our guests. We like 0:04:46.600 --> 0:04:51.000 to play little games and wheezy, you have the questions 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:52.760 for this game, are we doing this or that? Or 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:54.960 have you ever? Which one are we going? We're gonna 0:04:55.000 --> 0:04:57.640 go back and forth. Okay, so my first have you ever? 0:04:57.720 --> 0:04:59.440 Is threesome? Based on your body, I'm going to go 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:02.479 with yes. Yo. I had a two and a half something, 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:11.240 so I'm as I thought it was kind of it 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:13.920 was almost listen. So I had these two shorties, right. 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:16.360 She called me over, She's like, yeah, we down. I 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:19.760 had a three something like I bet went over there. Okay, 0:05:19.800 --> 0:05:22.760 So me and Shorty getting it on, sucking her then 0:05:22.760 --> 0:05:24.680 I'm like, I bet I'm gonna go to a friend. 0:05:25.279 --> 0:05:28.040 Soon I started getting on a friend. She just got jealous. 0:05:28.080 --> 0:05:31.640 I was just like, happens. I'm sure I'm fingering her 0:05:31.720 --> 0:05:34.400 right now. She's like, no, she doesn't like it. I like, yes, 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:37.120 she does. Look at her. She's just like no, No, 0:05:38.640 --> 0:05:46.680 I just like friends and jealousy think they are you know, 0:05:46.960 --> 0:05:49.640 just you know, da, Why have you ever had a 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:53.159 male male female? Three? Something like DP? Or yeah, I 0:05:53.200 --> 0:05:58.680 mean not a train, but like what you know you 0:05:58.760 --> 0:06:00.280 have your Hennessey bottle here, so I feel like a 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:04.680 train is hand? That's a train. Wait, no, I'm talking 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:07.160 about so we don't consider We don't consider two men 0:06:07.200 --> 0:06:09.680 and a women a train. We consider it a threesome. 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:18.000 Face called grouping. We just called yeah we just grouped there, right? 0:06:19.400 --> 0:06:23.520 We call a group? And have you done DEP? Or 0:06:23.600 --> 0:06:26.560 just like spit rost like mouse? You don't know what dep? 0:06:26.560 --> 0:06:29.400 He is? Who do we have? No my phone? So 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.080 do you want to do? You want to do? I 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:36.240 don't know what the DP is? So DEP double penetration, 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:38.599 which means one guy has his dick and a pussy. 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:43.600 And you really got to be nigga like my brother dude, 0:06:43.640 --> 0:06:48.520 I mean I never I never did it. As your question, 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:51.160 I never never happened, and it's something that you would do. 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:56.040 I mean, y'all, listen, ship happens. If he's in it 0:06:56.120 --> 0:07:00.719 might be like, yo, let me slide like watching it. 0:07:00.720 --> 0:07:03.200 And because you know, sometimes like the chicken is like 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:06.520 bent over, sometimes she's like sitting on right, you know, 0:07:07.240 --> 0:07:09.440 you know, I feel like I don't have the elasticity 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:17.560 and either hole for it. Yeah, no, I don't know. 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:20.520 I will tell you what. Actually, we posted a picture 0:07:20.520 --> 0:07:22.840 on our Instagram today, Yes we did. Did you see 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:25.320 that every woman slows every woman's fantasy? And it was 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:28.520 her bent over sucking and dus dick and yo, I 0:07:28.560 --> 0:07:31.600 feel like that's every woman's fist. This is what we 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:36.200 posted every woman's dream and so it's a female getting 0:07:36.200 --> 0:07:38.640 fucked and sucking other guy. I feel like that that 0:07:38.640 --> 0:07:41.280 would feel amazing for her. That's what we like to 0:07:41.280 --> 0:07:43.720 say to But now let me ask you, would you 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:46.000 judge a female if she sat here and told you 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:48.360 that was her fantasy or she's done it before? Because 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:54.960 a lot of the comments said a lot of the comments, yes, 0:07:56.640 --> 0:08:00.000 what about if it was somebody you were dating? Yes? Good, question, 0:08:00.120 --> 0:08:06.000 could you handle your girl wanting to bring another dude in? Um. Yeah, 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:08.680 So there's a couple that's been writing us and she 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:11.000 actually tagged her man and that, and I was working 0:08:11.000 --> 0:08:12.760 with it. She was like, you've already noticed my ship. 0:08:15.480 --> 0:08:17.080 I don't know, Like, if it was my girl, my 0:08:17.200 --> 0:08:19.520 girl girl, I'm just I'm a little too selfish. I'm 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:21.080 a little too so I would would have to be 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:23.120 another girl that has to be another girl if I'm 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:27.360 gonna a lot of guys. I think it's crazy. I 0:08:27.360 --> 0:08:30.240 think it's crazy that as a female, we're supposed to 0:08:30.240 --> 0:08:32.600 be okay with you bringing other women and pleasing other women. 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:36.400 But for a female wanting another dude in it, it's 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:38.400 you know, I don't have to be But I mean, 0:08:38.400 --> 0:08:40.880 if I'm with you, I mean, that's probably one of 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:42.800 the reason why I'm with you, just because you're down, 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:46.200 because you're down fat Okay, I mean, I get it. 0:08:46.520 --> 0:08:48.520 I mean I'm gonna tell you, when I saw a picture, 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:51.400 I immediately agreed. But like, I feel like it's such 0:08:51.440 --> 0:08:53.800 a hard thing to admit absolutely, you know. I mean, 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:56.559 like I don't know, I just feel like, yeah, I mean, 0:08:56.880 --> 0:09:00.480 fun all that ship people think. I mean right, yeah, Yo, 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:02.960 Like I wonder how much I could internalize it, right 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:04.400 because I would want to do it with somebody else 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:07.000 with right yeah. And then the other part about it 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:08.760 is like, of course he's not gonna be cool. Where 0:09:08.760 --> 0:09:10.280 do I find the do this? Gonna do this? How 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:12.559 do we kick him out? It's so crazy because a 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:15.560 lot of our our listeners, um, we're writing comments under 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:18.120 just like how would I find someone that I trust 0:09:18.160 --> 0:09:22.400 for this? That's like that's like a shorty fucking you know, 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:26.240 riding me and another shorty sitting on my face. It 0:09:26.400 --> 0:09:31.480 is lit. But see it's only two do I ask 0:09:31.559 --> 0:09:34.160 my two homeboys? And then am I homie if I do? 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:37.800 That's that's just the word. We live in double standards 0:09:37.800 --> 0:09:42.800 everything everything. So you guys gotta know the game, Baby, 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:45.080 is our this or that? For you? Which is our 0:09:45.080 --> 0:09:47.280 famous this or that question? And it is would you 0:09:47.400 --> 0:09:54.440 rather eat asked or suckts um? I mean both? If 0:09:54.440 --> 0:09:58.120 you had a big one. Yeah, I like, I like 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:01.679 nice feet. I'ven gonna front like I'm sucker for nice feet. 0:10:02.679 --> 0:10:05.240 Actually actually never maybe I did that one time. Oh yeah, 0:10:05.240 --> 0:10:06.720 I did that like a couple of times. You know, 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:10.360 a couple of times. Maybe I did that one like 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:13.200 legs in the and I'm just like, yeah, the toes 0:10:13.240 --> 0:10:14.800 look good, you know. I'm just yeah, you know, I'm 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:17.240 gonna get it popping. So you're not the feet and 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:20.480 eat as I mean, I wouldn't. I mean, if she 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:23.120 gotta have nice feet, you feel me? Okay, would you 0:10:23.120 --> 0:10:28.280 consider yourself having a fetish? Yes? Okay, nice feet though, 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:32.840 nice feet. Have you ever had a job? I think so? Yes? 0:10:33.520 --> 0:10:37.760 How hard I mean you listen, I had. I had 0:10:37.760 --> 0:10:40.120 some women that really just put me onto like sex. Yeah, 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:43.720 I mean like you know older, Yeah, a lot of older. 0:10:43.760 --> 0:10:49.840 It was like ten years, you know ten. I was like, 0:10:52.240 --> 0:10:58.720 great years, you're six years old. Okay, what you guys older? Younger. 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:06.520 I'm gonna tell you why I don't really meet men. Honestly, 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:09.959 I thought you gonna. I don't want to tell you 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:12.559 that it's your face or anything, but I don't see 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:13.880 a lot of young men that have a hair on 0:11:13.920 --> 0:11:17.080 their But that's something that's very mad, very just grown 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:24.440 like thing. And like, okay, we know you pumping right, 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:27.360 And it's so funny that we're talking about this right 0:11:27.360 --> 0:11:29.560 now with the chest hair, because so we have kinks 0:11:29.600 --> 0:11:32.880 of the week that we do. Yeah, well it's close. 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:36.240 So the kin the kink of the week, it's so funny. 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:38.840 We just kind of segued into that ship. So our 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:42.400 kink of the week um for this week is pubic 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:47.200 philia pubiphilia, So it is actually a sexual attraction to 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:50.840 pubic hair. I've got it. Most commonly, people with pubophilia, 0:11:50.960 --> 0:12:01.440 known as pubophiles, are attracted to noticeable pup hair. Pubic 0:12:01.520 --> 0:12:04.679 files may become aroused by the site or feel of 0:12:04.760 --> 0:12:08.640 human pubic hair. Love touching dudes with hair, oner I like, Harry, 0:12:08.800 --> 0:12:12.320 I've been begging it. But it's so weird because so 0:12:12.440 --> 0:12:15.880 I like hair stoping like three Well, no, I like 0:12:15.960 --> 0:12:17.960 it shaved too, So I like hair on the dick. 0:12:18.120 --> 0:12:21.040 But because I like asked, I want to ask shaved. 0:12:21.200 --> 0:12:25.080 So it's like, can you have shaved hair? Especially with 0:12:25.120 --> 0:12:26.880 women to like right, because at the landing ship it's 0:12:26.880 --> 0:12:29.000 about like main, what's the word I'm looking for, well 0:12:29.040 --> 0:12:32.800 maintained grooming, grooming? Thanks? Do you like women with hair 0:12:32.840 --> 0:12:37.840 and the busies? Yeah? I do like it. Just it 0:12:37.880 --> 0:12:41.600 just depends upon it just depends upon, like it depends 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:43.439 up yea, the hair type how it was growing in 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:45.960 like I had a chick, like I just wasn't going. 0:12:46.080 --> 0:12:48.760 I just like I wasn't ready for it was like 0:12:49.040 --> 0:12:58.120 everywhere she had to be from Brooklyn definitely hip definitely 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:03.640 was I'm just gonna shave. She was and like and 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:06.800 like she sensed it. She was like, you're so thrown off, 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:09.400 and I'm just like I just wasn't ready. I wasn't ready. 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:13.280 Like yeah, it was like it was there, you know 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.560 what I mean. But at the same time, like when 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:18.600 I was in college and I this one Brazilian bitch 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:21.440 one time, Oh my god, and like she just had 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:24.160 like she was natural. She just had like hair there, 0:13:24.200 --> 0:13:26.040 but it wasn't all over. It's just like it's like 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.280 right above her pussy. It was just fire. I was like, 0:13:28.360 --> 0:13:30.679 oh see, I think that's how mind grows in when 0:13:30.679 --> 0:13:32.920 I don't get a wax, like in between wags. Yeah, 0:13:33.480 --> 0:13:35.400 and guy's got a good little pattern. Now now my 0:13:35.400 --> 0:13:37.079 ship's mad light and they're like, you got hair, And 0:13:37.160 --> 0:13:42.040 now I'm into shaving just because because I do deal 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:46.480 with no Bro, my niggas think it's wax. I think 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:52.600 I don't get shag. Bro. I can't too. They're lying 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:55.400 to you. Bro, Bro, I have no ingrand. Any grown 0:13:55.440 --> 0:13:58.240 hair is none of that ship your favorite. And I 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:00.680 don't don't want to. I'm going to pay for it. 0:14:00.720 --> 0:14:05.360 I don't want to get no look how I'm telling you. 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:11.440 It takes it. Oh my, it takes ten nigga. I 0:14:11.480 --> 0:14:14.200 would know now a body five man body count is 0:14:14.240 --> 0:14:17.760 deducted by five with every act that you take a 0:14:17.840 --> 0:14:20.720 negative point. I had a theory. I had a theory 0:14:20.760 --> 0:14:23.320 about body count earlier. I swear I was thinking about earlier. 0:14:24.040 --> 0:14:27.440 Always think about you. I just have a new like 0:14:27.640 --> 0:14:30.600 just answer like response, you know, like what is your 0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:34.120 body count? Like how wait, females ask guys what their 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:38.720 body count is? Should but and like and sometimes we 0:14:38.880 --> 0:14:40.800 think like I try to give him a number, and 0:14:40.880 --> 0:14:43.120 like now my answer is gonna be like how many chicks? 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:45.000 How do you fun? I'm just like crazy, I'm ann 0:14:45.000 --> 0:14:47.720 grown as woman. So even man looks like he has 0:14:47.720 --> 0:14:49.520 a lot of women. My question, how many baby mom's 0:14:49.560 --> 0:14:53.320 you got? That's my mother question. Yeah, I really don't 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:57.640 care about how many are from Okay, I thought, like 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:00.920 the Bronx non because you live in the Bros. So 0:15:01.000 --> 0:15:05.840 then I thought, okay, you definitely do have kids to 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:13.360 dud if past Parchester, somebody's pregnant on this, I have 0:15:13.480 --> 0:15:14.920 all of that already, Like all right, let me just 0:15:14.960 --> 0:15:21.000 get my right shout out to thank you. Okay, So, 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:24.000 so yeah, what is your answer? Because I have a 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:27.200 theory clearly I'm gonna grown as woman. So they assume 0:15:27.280 --> 0:15:30.040 it's more than two hands. So I go to eleven. 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:32.120 I stopped at eleven. That's my story and I'm sticking 0:15:32.120 --> 0:15:33.480 to it. I don't give a fun what do you 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:37.600 say I want to see? Now? I over to hands sweat. 0:15:37.600 --> 0:15:39.520 I thought it was earlier, and it's just just simple. 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:41.560 My answer is just a lot. I feel like it's 0:15:41.600 --> 0:15:46.040 fifteen per ten thousand followers. So is this a lot? 0:15:46.640 --> 0:15:47.960 You know what I mean? I'm gonna stop right there, 0:15:48.040 --> 0:15:51.240 like how many have you? A lot? And next question? 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:58.040 Keep pushing. It's just like why does it matter? You 0:15:58.080 --> 0:15:59.960 know what? The way? It is an irrelevant question, say 0:16:01.400 --> 0:16:07.600 so what, I don't care. As long as you're disease 0:16:07.680 --> 0:16:11.080 free and baby mama drama free, then you know, I 0:16:11.200 --> 0:16:12.960 think I'm you can do it all your life and 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:21.240 end up with mother sucking times like what does it 0:16:21.320 --> 0:16:24.640 do to my press? So we're gonna go ahead and 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:28.080 segue into our horrible decision for this week, and our 0:16:28.120 --> 0:16:30.440 horrible decision. Actually you helped us choose it, and it 0:16:30.560 --> 0:16:36.280 makes sense. It is going to be millennial dating, you know. Okay, 0:16:36.440 --> 0:16:39.960 So so you, I guess, UM came across with the 0:16:40.080 --> 0:16:41.880 page and kind of came like you're the guru of 0:16:41.960 --> 0:16:44.640 this millennial dating, which I will have to say, we're 0:16:44.680 --> 0:16:48.440 gonna segue into it. We matched on Tinder and I 0:16:48.600 --> 0:16:51.360 saved some of our messages and he's complete millennial dating 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:54.200 out here, and I hate it. So we're gonna go 0:16:54.400 --> 0:16:59.800 over these messages that we talked about on Tinder and 0:17:00.120 --> 0:17:02.200 we can read it in my voice. O god, she 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:11.119 swears it was a little ago. He said he's no 0:17:11.200 --> 0:17:13.879 longer on tender. I mean like I'm on like because 0:17:13.880 --> 0:17:16.520 I deleted from my my app from I did the 0:17:16.560 --> 0:17:18.160 app from my phone because it just gets the track 0:17:20.800 --> 0:17:23.040 read these mother messages, you know. But it's still it's 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:25.760 still like attached, like people can still match technically. Okay, 0:17:25.800 --> 0:17:28.439 So let's go ahead and for our listeners, give us 0:17:28.520 --> 0:17:31.880 the definition or what you feel millennial dating is. Um. 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:37.480 Millennial dating is just basically like you know, um, is 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:40.399 it where you find Yeah, it's definitely No, that's not 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:44.679 what you find is. It's just more about like fucking around, 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:48.760 you know, but at the same time like situation. Yeah, 0:17:49.080 --> 0:17:51.560 like you know, like everything without the label like want 0:17:51.600 --> 0:17:53.359 your cake and eat it too type ship, you know 0:17:53.400 --> 0:17:56.119 what I mean? Like that's really what it's about. You know, 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.560 Let me about real quick. Okay, I just want to 0:17:58.600 --> 0:18:00.560 read us on it. Okay for sure, dating for the 0:18:00.600 --> 0:18:04.879 millennial male perspective. Now, okay, question, so what made you 0:18:04.920 --> 0:18:07.240 want to write a book about it? Well, um, so, 0:18:07.400 --> 0:18:09.400 if you don't know, I came up an MTV show 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:12.399 that's u MTV show called Are You the One? Um. 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:14.439 I was on the fourth season of that, and when 0:18:14.480 --> 0:18:15.920 I came off it, I had a lot of like 0:18:16.080 --> 0:18:18.720 fans and d M me in box me just a 0:18:18.760 --> 0:18:23.119 bunch of questions and and oh so the show is 0:18:23.240 --> 0:18:25.400 um um yeah, I got you. So. Um there's area 0:18:25.440 --> 0:18:27.440 The One shows about ten dudes and ten girls on 0:18:27.480 --> 0:18:31.080 a private island. We're okay, okay, We're in Hawaii, and 0:18:31.359 --> 0:18:33.720 um you have ten tries to hit ten beams of 0:18:33.800 --> 0:18:36.639 light that signified the ten matches and if you do 0:18:36.840 --> 0:18:39.680 that within the ten tries and you win split a 0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:42.560 million dollars between all the twenty people. So we won. 0:18:43.600 --> 0:18:47.639 But yeah, um so so so after that, you know 0:18:47.680 --> 0:19:01.119 you got some real change. Okay, a little okay, you 0:19:01.240 --> 0:19:03.119 and the girl one on the show. Well you know, 0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:06.000 so no, no, So it's like ten random we had 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:09.040 to take a bunch of compatibility tests, like you know, 0:19:09.680 --> 0:19:12.679 she was crazy, like so everything was predetermined, like who 0:19:12.760 --> 0:19:14.920 my match was before I got on the show. So 0:19:15.000 --> 0:19:16.280 you go in the house and there's ten girls. You 0:19:16.359 --> 0:19:18.720 have to figure it out, and everybody has a match. 0:19:18.760 --> 0:19:22.040 Everybody has to figure it out together. So well, so 0:19:22.680 --> 0:19:24.080 we won the show. When I came off that, I 0:19:24.240 --> 0:19:26.720 just had, you know, a bunch of questions. How many 0:19:26.720 --> 0:19:31.359 black people were in there? I'm really one with just 0:19:31.480 --> 0:19:33.600 like three well black dudes. It was one. It was 0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:37.879 me really women, it was like light skinned girl was 0:19:37.960 --> 0:19:40.439 like black black beticized. Were you like when you got 0:19:40.520 --> 0:19:43.200 messages from people being that you're only black on the show. Um, 0:19:43.680 --> 0:19:48.760 I mean like, oh my god, I know the game, 0:19:49.200 --> 0:19:52.160 the book, I really really just I know the game. 0:19:52.720 --> 0:19:54.280 I know what they're trying to do. I know you 0:19:54.359 --> 0:19:58.160 know what I mean. It was a sprinkling feel. Of course, 0:19:58.240 --> 0:20:00.800 only three and then one was probably yeah, you know, 0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:03.280 so did you end up with a black girl on 0:20:03.320 --> 0:20:07.480 the show. So that's so funny because I guess I'll 0:20:07.520 --> 0:20:11.239 segway that into actually a tender message you sent me. Um, 0:20:11.800 --> 0:20:15.200 so I was. I asked you on Tender like your preference. 0:20:15.240 --> 0:20:17.119 We talked about what you like. He said that you 0:20:17.240 --> 0:20:21.520 do love black women. Um, and you said that into 0:20:21.760 --> 0:20:24.760 that you just fuck white girls. Um. This is a 0:20:24.920 --> 0:20:27.160 this is all on Tender. We are in this conversation 0:20:27.520 --> 0:20:31.159 and you said you said I could never see myself 0:20:31.280 --> 0:20:34.760 being with one long term. Yeah, why is that? Yeah, 0:20:35.040 --> 0:20:37.720 this is a little too more to push over, you 0:20:38.520 --> 0:20:39.800 know what I mean. I don't like to push over. 0:20:40.320 --> 0:20:43.920 So it's so funny because well and a lot of people, 0:20:43.960 --> 0:20:47.760 actually it's so funny because that's the best Bobby. Not 0:20:47.880 --> 0:20:49.760 only that, that's the opposite of what a lot of 0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:52.920 people say on Tender, on Twitter and social media that 0:20:53.080 --> 0:20:55.600 black women are too aggressive, they're too dominant. It was 0:20:55.640 --> 0:20:58.880 even a topic on being Mary Jane. Um, just her 0:20:59.119 --> 0:21:01.560 independence and her is a lot of women that will 0:21:01.600 --> 0:21:03.119 come back with that and say that they can handle 0:21:03.160 --> 0:21:05.000 it and they enjoy that. Nobody but I love that 0:21:05.119 --> 0:21:06.880 we have a black man on here. Saying I love 0:21:07.000 --> 0:21:10.640 black women and you're our second. Now. Marcus Black from 0:21:10.680 --> 0:21:12.520 Love and Hip Hop, who also was on here, he 0:21:12.640 --> 0:21:14.560 said he loves black women, and I love hearing this 0:21:14.640 --> 0:21:20.000 because there's so much topics about um, black men dating 0:21:20.320 --> 0:21:22.920 the light skins or the white women, and to just 0:21:23.080 --> 0:21:25.240 know that we do still have brothers out here who 0:21:25.480 --> 0:21:27.320 love their black women. I think that's you don't get 0:21:27.320 --> 0:21:30.199 a twisted like I don't discriminate, like if you're beautiful man, 0:21:30.280 --> 0:21:33.920 you're beautiful of the Asian, Brazilian, Spanish black, you know 0:21:33.960 --> 0:21:35.960 what I mean. But I do love my black women. 0:21:36.840 --> 0:21:40.960 It's a fact like queens, my queen shout out to 0:21:40.960 --> 0:21:42.720 my But you know what, that's a good thing to hear, 0:21:42.880 --> 0:21:47.160 especially when you could feel like I'm just not worthy enough. 0:21:47.280 --> 0:21:49.720 No for sure, you know, like I'm gonna be honest. 0:21:50.359 --> 0:21:53.200 I've seen dude's reaction from when they think on latinas 0:21:53.240 --> 0:21:56.760 when they find out on that Oh girl me too. Absolutely, 0:21:57.119 --> 0:22:03.199 Oh you're im are black? Yes, actually you look more exotic. 0:22:10.080 --> 0:22:13.880 So we're gonna get into millennial dating, like I said, 0:22:14.240 --> 0:22:17.159 and I'm going to again. I didn't want to let 0:22:17.160 --> 0:22:20.080 you guys know so normally I do fuck a lot 0:22:20.119 --> 0:22:22.560 of people if I like them and if I'm into 0:22:23.040 --> 0:22:27.679 This is segueing into because when I do, I did, well, 0:22:27.680 --> 0:22:30.719 I who I like. So when we were on when 0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:33.280 I was on Tender in the beginning, I was looking 0:22:33.440 --> 0:22:36.479 for just kind of people to feel a void at 0:22:36.560 --> 0:22:38.640 one point, I thought, and it just so happened when 0:22:38.640 --> 0:22:40.960 I met you, I was actually looking for something more 0:22:41.480 --> 0:22:44.920 and so, yeah, well, not not specifically with you. Do 0:22:45.000 --> 0:22:49.840 you remember this at all, just our conversation briefly, No, 0:22:50.400 --> 0:22:52.359 I don't think we even made it to phone. It 0:22:52.480 --> 0:22:55.080 pretty much stayed. And I'll tell you why, because this 0:22:55.240 --> 0:22:57.400 is what he said he wanted. And I was like, oh, 0:22:58.320 --> 0:23:02.000 he said, I'm not really looking for anything serious but 0:23:02.280 --> 0:23:10.520 good vibes. Not me. He said, I'm super I'm super 0:23:10.640 --> 0:23:13.000 laid back. I like to have fun, travel, I smoke, 0:23:13.080 --> 0:23:16.440 I drink, I work out. I'm spontaneous. Just not the 0:23:16.520 --> 0:23:20.800 relationship type, at least a serious one. He said, you know, 0:23:21.040 --> 0:23:24.000 I'm just looking for good ass company, good ass other 0:23:24.119 --> 0:23:27.840 things potentially. Why why why don't you want anything meaningful? 0:23:29.240 --> 0:23:32.600 It's just not I just can't right now. My response was, 0:23:33.000 --> 0:23:36.879