Speaker 1: It's starting under one ship, slow ship. Yeah, we legendary
Speaker 1: ship is coming soon though. I've been working hard though. Yeah, listen,
Speaker 1: mona ta toes man. Now, hook your stay down, Hook
Speaker 1: you stay down, hook your stay down in the sky.
Speaker 1: It's the limit that we reached for the class. Reached
Speaker 1: for the class and run that ship like wake up
Speaker 1: your monas fells the paper. I just hope they're praying
Speaker 1: for me. Where your answer if I call long you?
Speaker 1: I've been fighting my own demon see them stakes, I
Speaker 1: cut the grass, niggers peeping. I ain't sleep being now.
Speaker 1: Saving used to back, I used to see, I used
Speaker 1: to sleeve. Now I stacked my money to the syling
Speaker 1: and just yo and thetis never saying no. This dick
Speaker 1: is like to you, guys, just heard a clip of
Speaker 1: p mun as a red bone. I suggest you look
Speaker 1: at the video while you listen to it because it's
Speaker 1: definitely be some masturbation material for something. Um it's a
Speaker 1: great song. Um you can check it out in our
Speaker 1: description click on the link. Can they find it on
Speaker 1: Apple Music and stuff? Oh? No, Apple Music. Actually they
Speaker 1: just rejected me because you know, obviously you know they
Speaker 1: own all the rights. Child's Game I've figured that sound SoundCloud.
Speaker 1: You just type in a child's game being a remix PM,
Speaker 1: so we can get this ship for the free. Yeah yeah,
Speaker 1: you know the music video too on YouTube. You know
Speaker 1: that's just dropped. So I think some of our listeners
Speaker 1: are just as poor as I am. So everything is
Speaker 1: so free, everything everything goes nice. So I guess this
Speaker 1: is Yeah, this is probably worth which episode. Welcome to
Speaker 1: another episode of horrible Decisions. If you guys haven't noticed already,
Speaker 1: we do have a guest in the building and I
Speaker 1: went video and I was like, you're coming in here
Speaker 1: with you just have a question before you're rapping. Did
Speaker 1: you ever consider being a stropper? Uh? Yeah, I was like,
Speaker 1: you have all else fails, I will become because you've
Speaker 1: never struck before for money. Body, you definitely have money, body, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, if all else fails your
Speaker 1: I was like, man, I'm coming port star. I'll be
Speaker 1: a dope as point star because just like you don't
Speaker 1: have abs, but you got the higher, he's got the
Speaker 1: beard but not good teeth. It's crazy. I think all
Speaker 1: guys um have this thing of they would become a
Speaker 1: porn star. So many guys that I talked to like,
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter if they work incorporate, if they're a
Speaker 1: basketball player. I've really talked to so many guys and
Speaker 1: they're just like, if I wasn't doing this, I would
Speaker 1: be doing porn. So something's wrong with you? Then I think,
Speaker 1: how far did your curve? Not too much? Okay, a little?
Speaker 1: Are we coming on too strong? I think this is
Speaker 1: a little strong. He literally came in here with no
Speaker 1: I think it's okay. He came in here with any bottle?
Speaker 1: Have you not listen to us? Yeah? A little bit?
Speaker 1: But wait was the episode of um the one he
Speaker 1: set me up was one of course, did you the
Speaker 1: Whole Jobs? I loved it? So mall told us, um, like,
Speaker 1: what are the whole jobs like? Where girls are? Like
Speaker 1: I in the style was but like, you know, you
Speaker 1: really sucked it for money? What have you found? Is
Speaker 1: like the whole job? You think the number yo, that
Speaker 1: has to be the chicks to me trying to you know,
Speaker 1: in the center of the mall, trying to give you
Speaker 1: a little hand. When you out in the club and
Speaker 1: you see this girl that's like like looking good, little
Speaker 1: Blenny likes, what do you do? And she's like I'm
Speaker 1: a oh ship um mall said real estate agents. Did
Speaker 1: he said nurse too, didn't he? No, he didn't say
Speaker 1: nurses at nine. I don't think nurse counts neither. Yeah,
Speaker 1: A model a model, Yeah, there's real models, man, Like
Speaker 1: that's something I've never had. Yeah, but but there's a
Speaker 1: difference because we're like I'm five. One thing is I'm
Speaker 1: not on a Victoria's Seeker run way. Those are real
Speaker 1: models will Amina's role models. The other models is um
Speaker 1: you know. So, I guess we like to do to
Speaker 1: kind of break the ice with our guests. We like
Speaker 1: to play little games and wheezy, you have the questions
Speaker 1: for this game, are we doing this or that? Or
Speaker 1: have you ever? Which one are we going? We're gonna
Speaker 1: go back and forth. Okay, so my first have you ever?
Speaker 1: Is threesome? Based on your body, I'm going to go
Speaker 1: with yes. Yo. I had a two and a half something,
Speaker 1: so I'm as I thought it was kind of it
Speaker 1: was almost listen. So I had these two shorties, right.
Speaker 1: She called me over, She's like, yeah, we down. I
Speaker 1: had a three something like I bet went over there. Okay,
Speaker 1: So me and Shorty getting it on, sucking her then
Speaker 1: I'm like, I bet I'm gonna go to a friend.
Speaker 1: Soon I started getting on a friend. She just got jealous.
Speaker 1: I was just like, happens. I'm sure I'm fingering her
Speaker 1: right now. She's like, no, she doesn't like it. I like, yes,
Speaker 1: she does. Look at her. She's just like no, No,
Speaker 1: I just like friends and jealousy think they are you know,
Speaker 1: just you know, da, Why have you ever had a
Speaker 1: male male female? Three? Something like DP? Or yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean not a train, but like what you know you
Speaker 1: have your Hennessey bottle here, so I feel like a
Speaker 1: train is hand? That's a train. Wait, no, I'm talking
Speaker 1: about so we don't consider We don't consider two men
Speaker 1: and a women a train. We consider it a threesome.
Speaker 1: Face called grouping. We just called yeah we just grouped there, right?
Speaker 1: We call a group? And have you done DEP? Or
Speaker 1: just like spit rost like mouse? You don't know what dep?
Speaker 1: He is? Who do we have? No my phone? So
Speaker 1: do you want to do? You want to do? I
Speaker 1: don't know what the DP is? So DEP double penetration,
Speaker 1: which means one guy has his dick and a pussy.
Speaker 1: And you really got to be nigga like my brother dude,
Speaker 1: I mean I never I never did it. As your question,
Speaker 1: I never never happened, and it's something that you would do.
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all, listen, ship happens. If he's in it
Speaker 1: might be like, yo, let me slide like watching it.
Speaker 1: And because you know, sometimes like the chicken is like
Speaker 1: bent over, sometimes she's like sitting on right, you know,
Speaker 1: you know, I feel like I don't have the elasticity
Speaker 1: and either hole for it. Yeah, no, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I will tell you what. Actually, we posted a picture
Speaker 1: on our Instagram today, Yes we did. Did you see
Speaker 1: that every woman slows every woman's fantasy? And it was
Speaker 1: her bent over sucking and dus dick and yo, I
Speaker 1: feel like that's every woman's fist. This is what we
Speaker 1: posted every woman's dream and so it's a female getting
Speaker 1: fucked and sucking other guy. I feel like that that
Speaker 1: would feel amazing for her. That's what we like to
Speaker 1: say to But now let me ask you, would you
Speaker 1: judge a female if she sat here and told you
Speaker 1: that was her fantasy or she's done it before? Because
Speaker 1: a lot of the comments said a lot of the comments, yes,
Speaker 1: what about if it was somebody you were dating? Yes? Good, question,
Speaker 1: could you handle your girl wanting to bring another dude in? Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So there's a couple that's been writing us and she
Speaker 1: actually tagged her man and that, and I was working
Speaker 1: with it. She was like, you've already noticed my ship.
Speaker 1: I don't know, Like, if it was my girl, my
Speaker 1: girl girl, I'm just I'm a little too selfish. I'm
Speaker 1: a little too so I would would have to be
Speaker 1: another girl that has to be another girl if I'm
Speaker 1: gonna a lot of guys. I think it's crazy. I
Speaker 1: think it's crazy that as a female, we're supposed to
Speaker 1: be okay with you bringing other women and pleasing other women.
Speaker 1: But for a female wanting another dude in it, it's
Speaker 1: you know, I don't have to be But I mean,
Speaker 1: if I'm with you, I mean, that's probably one of
Speaker 1: the reason why I'm with you, just because you're down,
Speaker 1: because you're down fat Okay, I mean, I get it.
Speaker 1: I mean I'm gonna tell you, when I saw a picture,
Speaker 1: I immediately agreed. But like, I feel like it's such
Speaker 1: a hard thing to admit absolutely, you know. I mean,
Speaker 1: like I don't know, I just feel like, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: fun all that ship people think. I mean right, yeah, Yo,
Speaker 1: Like I wonder how much I could internalize it, right
Speaker 1: because I would want to do it with somebody else
Speaker 1: with right yeah. And then the other part about it
Speaker 1: is like, of course he's not gonna be cool. Where
Speaker 1: do I find the do this? Gonna do this? How
Speaker 1: do we kick him out? It's so crazy because a
Speaker 1: lot of our our listeners, um, we're writing comments under
Speaker 1: just like how would I find someone that I trust
Speaker 1: for this? That's like that's like a shorty fucking you know,
Speaker 1: riding me and another shorty sitting on my face. It
Speaker 1: is lit. But see it's only two do I ask
Speaker 1: my two homeboys? And then am I homie if I do?
Speaker 1: That's that's just the word. We live in double standards
Speaker 1: everything everything. So you guys gotta know the game, Baby,
Speaker 1: is our this or that? For you? Which is our
Speaker 1: famous this or that question? And it is would you
Speaker 1: rather eat asked or suckts um? I mean both? If
Speaker 1: you had a big one. Yeah, I like, I like
Speaker 1: nice feet. I'ven gonna front like I'm sucker for nice feet.
Speaker 1: Actually actually never maybe I did that one time. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I did that like a couple of times. You know,
Speaker 1: a couple of times. Maybe I did that one like
Speaker 1: legs in the and I'm just like, yeah, the toes
Speaker 1: look good, you know. I'm just yeah, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna get it popping. So you're not the feet and
Speaker 1: eat as I mean, I wouldn't. I mean, if she
Speaker 1: gotta have nice feet, you feel me? Okay, would you
Speaker 1: consider yourself having a fetish? Yes? Okay, nice feet though,
Speaker 1: nice feet. Have you ever had a job? I think so? Yes?
Speaker 1: How hard I mean you listen, I had. I had
Speaker 1: some women that really just put me onto like sex. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean like you know older, Yeah, a lot of older.
Speaker 1: It was like ten years, you know ten. I was like,
Speaker 1: great years, you're six years old. Okay, what you guys older? Younger.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why I don't really meet men. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I thought you gonna. I don't want to tell you
Speaker 1: that it's your face or anything, but I don't see
Speaker 1: a lot of young men that have a hair on
Speaker 1: their But that's something that's very mad, very just grown
Speaker 1: like thing. And like, okay, we know you pumping right,
Speaker 1: And it's so funny that we're talking about this right
Speaker 1: now with the chest hair, because so we have kinks
Speaker 1: of the week that we do. Yeah, well it's close.
Speaker 1: So the kin the kink of the week, it's so funny.
Speaker 1: We just kind of segued into that ship. So our
Speaker 1: kink of the week um for this week is pubic
Speaker 1: philia pubiphilia, So it is actually a sexual attraction to
Speaker 1: pubic hair. I've got it. Most commonly, people with pubophilia,
Speaker 1: known as pubophiles, are attracted to noticeable pup hair. Pubic
Speaker 1: files may become aroused by the site or feel of
Speaker 1: human pubic hair. Love touching dudes with hair, oner I like, Harry,
Speaker 1: I've been begging it. But it's so weird because so
Speaker 1: I like hair stoping like three Well, no, I like
Speaker 1: it shaved too, So I like hair on the dick.
Speaker 1: But because I like asked, I want to ask shaved.
Speaker 1: So it's like, can you have shaved hair? Especially with
Speaker 1: women to like right, because at the landing ship it's
Speaker 1: about like main, what's the word I'm looking for, well
Speaker 1: maintained grooming, grooming? Thanks? Do you like women with hair
Speaker 1: and the busies? Yeah? I do like it. Just it
Speaker 1: just depends upon it just depends upon, like it depends
Speaker 1: up yea, the hair type how it was growing in
Speaker 1: like I had a chick, like I just wasn't going.
Speaker 1: I just like I wasn't ready for it was like
Speaker 1: everywhere she had to be from Brooklyn definitely hip definitely
Speaker 1: was I'm just gonna shave. She was and like and
Speaker 1: like she sensed it. She was like, you're so thrown off,
Speaker 1: and I'm just like I just wasn't ready. I wasn't ready.
Speaker 1: Like yeah, it was like it was there, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. But at the same time, like when
Speaker 1: I was in college and I this one Brazilian bitch
Speaker 1: one time, Oh my god, and like she just had
Speaker 1: like she was natural. She just had like hair there,
Speaker 1: but it wasn't all over. It's just like it's like
Speaker 1: right above her pussy. It was just fire. I was like,
Speaker 1: oh see, I think that's how mind grows in when
Speaker 1: I don't get a wax, like in between wags. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and guy's got a good little pattern. Now now my
Speaker 1: ship's mad light and they're like, you got hair, And
Speaker 1: now I'm into shaving just because because I do deal
Speaker 1: with no Bro, my niggas think it's wax. I think
Speaker 1: I don't get shag. Bro. I can't too. They're lying
Speaker 1: to you. Bro, Bro, I have no ingrand. Any grown
Speaker 1: hair is none of that ship your favorite. And I
Speaker 1: don't don't want to. I'm going to pay for it.
Speaker 1: I don't want to get no look how I'm telling you.
Speaker 1: It takes it. Oh my, it takes ten nigga. I
Speaker 1: would know now a body five man body count is
Speaker 1: deducted by five with every act that you take a
Speaker 1: negative point. I had a theory. I had a theory
Speaker 1: about body count earlier. I swear I was thinking about earlier.
Speaker 1: Always think about you. I just have a new like
Speaker 1: just answer like response, you know, like what is your
Speaker 1: body count? Like how wait, females ask guys what their
Speaker 1: body count is? Should but and like and sometimes we
Speaker 1: think like I try to give him a number, and
Speaker 1: like now my answer is gonna be like how many chicks?
Speaker 1: How do you fun? I'm just like crazy, I'm ann
Speaker 1: grown as woman. So even man looks like he has
Speaker 1: a lot of women. My question, how many baby mom's
Speaker 1: you got? That's my mother question. Yeah, I really don't
Speaker 1: care about how many are from Okay, I thought, like
Speaker 1: the Bronx non because you live in the Bros. So
Speaker 1: then I thought, okay, you definitely do have kids to
Speaker 1: dud if past Parchester, somebody's pregnant on this, I have
Speaker 1: all of that already, Like all right, let me just
Speaker 1: get my right shout out to thank you. Okay, So,
Speaker 1: so yeah, what is your answer? Because I have a
Speaker 1: theory clearly I'm gonna grown as woman. So they assume
Speaker 1: it's more than two hands. So I go to eleven.
Speaker 1: I stopped at eleven. That's my story and I'm sticking
Speaker 1: to it. I don't give a fun what do you
Speaker 1: say I want to see? Now? I over to hands sweat.
Speaker 1: I thought it was earlier, and it's just just simple.
Speaker 1: My answer is just a lot. I feel like it's
Speaker 1: fifteen per ten thousand followers. So is this a lot?
Speaker 1: You know what I mean? I'm gonna stop right there,
Speaker 1: like how many have you? A lot? And next question?
Speaker 1: Keep pushing. It's just like why does it matter? You
Speaker 1: know what? The way? It is an irrelevant question, say
Speaker 1: so what, I don't care. As long as you're disease
Speaker 1: free and baby mama drama free, then you know, I
Speaker 1: think I'm you can do it all your life and
Speaker 1: end up with mother sucking times like what does it
Speaker 1: do to my press? So we're gonna go ahead and
Speaker 1: segue into our horrible decision for this week, and our
Speaker 1: horrible decision. Actually you helped us choose it, and it
Speaker 1: makes sense. It is going to be millennial dating, you know. Okay,
Speaker 1: So so you, I guess, UM came across with the
Speaker 1: page and kind of came like you're the guru of
Speaker 1: this millennial dating, which I will have to say, we're
Speaker 1: gonna segue into it. We matched on Tinder and I
Speaker 1: saved some of our messages and he's complete millennial dating
Speaker 1: out here, and I hate it. So we're gonna go
Speaker 1: over these messages that we talked about on Tinder and
Speaker 1: we can read it in my voice. O god, she
Speaker 1: swears it was a little ago. He said he's no
Speaker 1: longer on tender. I mean like I'm on like because
Speaker 1: I deleted from my my app from I did the
Speaker 1: app from my phone because it just gets the track
Speaker 1: read these mother messages, you know. But it's still it's
Speaker 1: still like attached, like people can still match technically. Okay,
Speaker 1: So let's go ahead and for our listeners, give us
Speaker 1: the definition or what you feel millennial dating is. Um.
Speaker 1: Millennial dating is just basically like you know, um, is
Speaker 1: it where you find Yeah, it's definitely No, that's not
Speaker 1: what you find is. It's just more about like fucking around,
Speaker 1: you know, but at the same time like situation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like you know, like everything without the label like want
Speaker 1: your cake and eat it too type ship, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Like that's really what it's about. You know,
Speaker 1: Let me about real quick. Okay, I just want to
Speaker 1: read us on it. Okay for sure, dating for the
Speaker 1: millennial male perspective. Now, okay, question, so what made you
Speaker 1: want to write a book about it? Well, um, so,
Speaker 1: if you don't know, I came up an MTV show
Speaker 1: that's u MTV show called Are You the One? Um.
Speaker 1: I was on the fourth season of that, and when
Speaker 1: I came off it, I had a lot of like
Speaker 1: fans and d M me in box me just a
Speaker 1: bunch of questions and and oh so the show is
Speaker 1: um um yeah, I got you. So. Um there's area
Speaker 1: The One shows about ten dudes and ten girls on
Speaker 1: a private island. We're okay, okay, We're in Hawaii, and
Speaker 1: um you have ten tries to hit ten beams of
Speaker 1: light that signified the ten matches and if you do
Speaker 1: that within the ten tries and you win split a
Speaker 1: million dollars between all the twenty people. So we won.
Speaker 1: But yeah, um so so so after that, you know
Speaker 1: you got some real change. Okay, a little okay, you
Speaker 1: and the girl one on the show. Well you know,
Speaker 1: so no, no, So it's like ten random we had
Speaker 1: to take a bunch of compatibility tests, like you know,
Speaker 1: she was crazy, like so everything was predetermined, like who
Speaker 1: my match was before I got on the show. So
Speaker 1: you go in the house and there's ten girls. You
Speaker 1: have to figure it out, and everybody has a match.
Speaker 1: Everybody has to figure it out together. So well, so
Speaker 1: we won the show. When I came off that, I
Speaker 1: just had, you know, a bunch of questions. How many
Speaker 1: black people were in there? I'm really one with just
Speaker 1: like three well black dudes. It was one. It was
Speaker 1: me really women, it was like light skinned girl was
Speaker 1: like black black beticized. Were you like when you got
Speaker 1: messages from people being that you're only black on the show. Um,
Speaker 1: I mean like, oh my god, I know the game,
Speaker 1: the book, I really really just I know the game.
Speaker 1: I know what they're trying to do. I know you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. It was a sprinkling feel. Of course,
Speaker 1: only three and then one was probably yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: so did you end up with a black girl on
Speaker 1: the show. So that's so funny because I guess I'll
Speaker 1: segway that into actually a tender message you sent me. Um,
Speaker 1: so I was. I asked you on Tender like your preference.
Speaker 1: We talked about what you like. He said that you
Speaker 1: do love black women. Um, and you said that into
Speaker 1: that you just fuck white girls. Um. This is a
Speaker 1: this is all on Tender. We are in this conversation
Speaker 1: and you said you said I could never see myself
Speaker 1: being with one long term. Yeah, why is that? Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is a little too more to push over, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. I don't like to push over.
Speaker 1: So it's so funny because well and a lot of people,
Speaker 1: actually it's so funny because that's the best Bobby. Not
Speaker 1: only that, that's the opposite of what a lot of
Speaker 1: people say on Tender, on Twitter and social media that
Speaker 1: black women are too aggressive, they're too dominant. It was
Speaker 1: even a topic on being Mary Jane. Um, just her
Speaker 1: independence and her is a lot of women that will
Speaker 1: come back with that and say that they can handle
Speaker 1: it and they enjoy that. Nobody but I love that
Speaker 1: we have a black man on here. Saying I love
Speaker 1: black women and you're our second. Now. Marcus Black from
Speaker 1: Love and Hip Hop, who also was on here, he
Speaker 1: said he loves black women, and I love hearing this
Speaker 1: because there's so much topics about um, black men dating
Speaker 1: the light skins or the white women, and to just
Speaker 1: know that we do still have brothers out here who
Speaker 1: love their black women. I think that's you don't get
Speaker 1: a twisted like I don't discriminate, like if you're beautiful man,
Speaker 1: you're beautiful of the Asian, Brazilian, Spanish black, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. But I do love my black women.
Speaker 1: It's a fact like queens, my queen shout out to
Speaker 1: my But you know what, that's a good thing to hear,
Speaker 1: especially when you could feel like I'm just not worthy enough.
Speaker 1: No for sure, you know, like I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 1: I've seen dude's reaction from when they think on latinas
Speaker 1: when they find out on that Oh girl me too. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: Oh you're im are black? Yes, actually you look more exotic.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into millennial dating, like I said,
Speaker 1: and I'm going to again. I didn't want to let
Speaker 1: you guys know so normally I do fuck a lot
Speaker 1: of people if I like them and if I'm into
Speaker 1: This is segueing into because when I do, I did, well,
Speaker 1: I who I like. So when we were on when
Speaker 1: I was on Tender in the beginning, I was looking
Speaker 1: for just kind of people to feel a void at
Speaker 1: one point, I thought, and it just so happened when
Speaker 1: I met you, I was actually looking for something more
Speaker 1: and so, yeah, well, not not specifically with you. Do
Speaker 1: you remember this at all, just our conversation briefly, No,
Speaker 1: I don't think we even made it to phone. It
Speaker 1: pretty much stayed. And I'll tell you why, because this
Speaker 1: is what he said he wanted. And I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: he said, I'm not really looking for anything serious but
Speaker 1: good vibes. Not me. He said, I'm super I'm super
Speaker 1: laid back. I like to have fun, travel, I smoke,
Speaker 1: I drink, I work out. I'm spontaneous. Just not the
Speaker 1: relationship type, at least a serious one. He said, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm just looking for good ass company, good ass other
Speaker 1: things potentially. Why why why don't you want anything meaningful?
Speaker 1: It's just not I just can't right now. My response was,
Speaker 1: sounds like everyone else serious relationship right now for me?
Speaker 1: I mean, it was just like, I'm very passionate, so
Speaker 1: like if I took a relationship seriously, it would take
Speaker 1: out a lot of like, you know, prioritizing for music,
Speaker 1: Like it's been a whole day today from the gym
Speaker 1: to music to hear and I'm going to like an
Speaker 1: MTV event, you know what I mean? Like you know,
Speaker 1: I mean, it would be dope to have a girl
Speaker 1: that could like, you know, dig that and be like yo,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But a lot of people,
Speaker 1: I feel it go to people drappers and athletes, and
Speaker 1: they understand the Sketchley. I'm just I'm just not at that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: definitely just not right now. You don't want a girlfriend
Speaker 1: because you want to a bunch of different people. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just want to have fun right now. I really
Speaker 1: just want to have you still just want to have fun?
Speaker 1: When does when do you feel like you'll get to
Speaker 1: the point Because we both think almost forty, I think
Speaker 1: my early thirty is gonna be crazy. I think my
Speaker 1: early thirties going, oh my god, I'm gonna have actually
Speaker 1: have real money, like money and I'm just gonna be
Speaker 1: like this makes me so sad. It makes me so
Speaker 1: because you know, what it is you mean, So I
Speaker 1: have a really hard time fund an attractive black men
Speaker 1: that they're saying that don't have kids, And so just
Speaker 1: to hear it come out of your mouth, it's almost
Speaker 1: like depressing. I get bored easily and like, yeah, you
Speaker 1: just gotta be you just gotta be like fucking amazing
Speaker 1: for me to just be like something that's just non monogamy.
Speaker 1: What about if you met somebody that you wanted that
Speaker 1: you couldn't let go and you're just like, how about
Speaker 1: we just a monogamous but like you know, yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean that the situation. Yeah, but like like even in
Speaker 1: the book till I put like somebody always catches feelings
Speaker 1: a little more, always like no strings attached to the movie.
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. Somebody always just a little
Speaker 1: bit then the other. And it's just like whoa, whoa
Speaker 1: you get your feelings? If it's the girls saying that,
Speaker 1: like whoa, why are you catching feelings? I thought we
Speaker 1: had like a little bit. Somebody may get out of
Speaker 1: line or like go through your phone or see you,
Speaker 1: ask you, you know what I mean, And it's just always,
Speaker 1: you know, I just don't want I just don't put
Speaker 1: myself in those positions. But how do you feel about
Speaker 1: open relationships you think you could ever be in one?
Speaker 1: I mean that's something that's momenial to me. Um, like
Speaker 1: I said me personally, like if she get that girl
Speaker 1: another woman, Yeah, that's that bullshit. And so I want
Speaker 1: I don't want my my wife to be fucking rammed out,
Speaker 1: but she's supposed to be okay with you sleeping with
Speaker 1: other women, nor then I just won't, Like I'd rather
Speaker 1: just not be in a relationship. So where do you
Speaker 1: go from when? Because clearly these are the relationships you
Speaker 1: want to start. So you have women that you're sleeping with,
Speaker 1: whether you have Monday through Friday and just one on
Speaker 1: the weekends, whatever, you know, you know, what do you
Speaker 1: do when she starts catching feelings? Is there a conversation there?
Speaker 1: Do you completely cut her off? What is the transition
Speaker 1: to where when you see someone catching feelings? Yeah, a
Speaker 1: lot of them get cut off. How do you cut
Speaker 1: them off? Well? I just you know, just they just
Speaker 1: don't get text back. They hit me up just like
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just super dry with the text. Like
Speaker 1: you know what you're doing like text back late? I
Speaker 1: got my re receipts on for everybody, So everybody just
Speaker 1: you know, why is she just being honest? I am
Speaker 1: being honest. No, you're going away and now being short
Speaker 1: with her? Why not just tell her? Listen, you're catching feelings.
Speaker 1: I told you what it was from the beginning. This
Speaker 1: isn't gonna work. Instead of because now we come to
Speaker 1: the point where you're stringing her along. No something, No, honestly, Well, actually,
Speaker 1: first I don't even get I don't even get into
Speaker 1: some ship without them even knowing, like they know, like
Speaker 1: clearly you say it, you know, but you can't. But
Speaker 1: you can't help. Clearly you're gonna start catching feelings one
Speaker 1: way or another. So like when she does catch feelings
Speaker 1: or like when I see it coming, I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm actually gonna be like, yo, I
Speaker 1: told you not to catch feelings are like spending time
Speaker 1: as far as like sleepovers and things like that, like
Speaker 1: because women are getting attached, right, I'm gonna be honest.
Speaker 1: I've never been attached with someone that just sucked me
Speaker 1: ever nothing. It was men that gave me more than that.
Speaker 1: So what do you do? So it's the face times,
Speaker 1: it's the good morning text, it's the everything that kind
Speaker 1: of would make her feel like you're liking her a
Speaker 1: little bit more. But yeah, you're really still just dropping
Speaker 1: dick and being a nice guy. So it's just like,
Speaker 1: what else are you giving them beside dick to where
Speaker 1: they're catching feelings? Um? Are you? Are you spending the night?
Speaker 1: Are you seeing her more than twice a week? Are
Speaker 1: you you know? I mean, I don't know, you don't leave.
Speaker 1: Maybe they just they just fun with me? Ask you
Speaker 1: a questions? Were confused? What time I be in the
Speaker 1: gym in the morning five am? You know? I mean
Speaker 1: you can't leave and bring a gym clothes to her house,
Speaker 1: bring the work close over hell little bit? I mean honestly,
Speaker 1: like you know what, I'll be right back. You stay here,
Speaker 1: I come like, I mean, I go to show these
Speaker 1: cribs and I dip in the morning early Like here
Speaker 1: we go here, we got back for a second. You
Speaker 1: don't want someone to catch feelings, but you're staying at
Speaker 1: the house. It's not just sex. And why are you
Speaker 1: doing it because you wanted to We're staying at the house.
Speaker 1: You just said, I'm saying a short the house, leaving
Speaker 1: in the morning. Why are you supposed to leave night.
Speaker 1: I mean he's getting flustered. No, I got break this down.
Speaker 1: He's writing this book. Break this down because like I said, like,
Speaker 1: you know, you know, if I'm not sure, he's crib
Speaker 1: and she's let me over and stuff like from the
Speaker 1: jump she knows like I don't even want nothing serious,
Speaker 1: like so she catched feelings. That's you know, it's really
Speaker 1: on her, like you know, she let's right, what's the
Speaker 1: point because so we have women that are very confused
Speaker 1: relationships there or how men feel about them because they're
Speaker 1: doing these things right now, Why are you staying there
Speaker 1: if you're just looking for sex? Do you like companionship too? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, I do like good company. Okay,
Speaker 1: Like I said, like like I mean that's that is
Speaker 1: a relationship. I just said, not a serious one, Like,
Speaker 1: that's the relationship even if I'm just hanging out and
Speaker 1: I'm chilling. So you're gonna admit that you could possibly
Speaker 1: lead a female on because to me, if I have
Speaker 1: done that ship like and that's and that's my point.
Speaker 1: So with this dating, you have women who are being
Speaker 1: confused with where you stand, what your relationship is. Because
Speaker 1: if you're sitting here spending the night. We're probably spooning,
Speaker 1: we're probably talking about our day, about what we're doing tomorrow.
Speaker 1: And now you're becoming a listener. You're like a whole
Speaker 1: kiss in the mouth. Oh we make it out every time, goddamn,
Speaker 1: like heavy breathing in my ear while you're gonna watch
Speaker 1: ticking me slowly. Goddamn. And now you catch them, now
Speaker 1: catch the feelings? Got I got moves. We had schedules
Speaker 1: for Game of Thrones. WI we was gonna eat. I
Speaker 1: never never get that far bro. A few months in,
Speaker 1: I remember saying to him, like, oh my mom's coming
Speaker 1: to town. We gotta grab drinks because he'd beat like Temy.
Speaker 1: And he's like, I mean, I think that that means
Speaker 1: that you know we're really dating. So this is the
Speaker 1: right And that's so crazy because to me, I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna lie if you're spending the night and we happen
Speaker 1: to put on Netflix and now we started serious together,
Speaker 1: like we can't watch it. That shouldn't be getting that far.
Speaker 1: But you really watch the Netflix to watch TV. I
Speaker 1: don't watch TV. Netflix don't. So I want to leave
Speaker 1: this into possibly scaling. I think the word for this
Speaker 1: do you believe that this is commitment? Phobi? Do you
Speaker 1: think that you have a phobia being committed to somebody
Speaker 1: and as someone dating? Now where do you think this
Speaker 1: comes from? Why? Why are men right now commit? Well?
Speaker 1: I think me personally, you know, I didn't. I didn't
Speaker 1: really uh um. You know, I didn't really grow up
Speaker 1: like I grew up with a single mom, you know,
Speaker 1: So I grew up I didn't really grow up like
Speaker 1: a father. So I never really like seeing like you know,
Speaker 1: like you know how like other people's like fathers like
Speaker 1: love their mother, you know what I mean. Like you know,
Speaker 1: my mom, you know, even though she only had like
Speaker 1: you know, she like stepdad you know, um, you know,
Speaker 1: and my little brother's father, Um, you know, but like
Speaker 1: she always like it was very he's always very respectful,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it wasn't. There wasn't
Speaker 1: the husband, and you know they were always like but
Speaker 1: it just wasn't like you know, like my dad. It
Speaker 1: wasn't like my dad or my mom, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, so you know, I always I was
Speaker 1: always like I was always kind of had. It was
Speaker 1: always um what do you call it? It was like vacant,
Speaker 1: like I had to like it was something that was empty,
Speaker 1: like I had to figure out myself and I'm going
Speaker 1: to rap music, I'm going to hip hop, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Commitment could like your phobia to commitment
Speaker 1: could because you think you're gonna find something better. Um
Speaker 1: that's I mean, that's one of them that's definitely nodding
Speaker 1: their head, like because I do think that, like even
Speaker 1: like because even like I'll like say, if I'm like
Speaker 1: kicking with a girl like may go out or whatever,
Speaker 1: and then like I'll be like damn crazy, like yeah,
Speaker 1: like you know, so like you know, but this is me,
Speaker 1: like I'm feeling like I don't know why, I'm starting
Speaker 1: to feel bad, like somebody's being too honest. I can't
Speaker 1: handle it. This is like, well this is what Well,
Speaker 1: I think a lot of our listeners want to hear
Speaker 1: this because um just knowing that you're probably the type
Speaker 1: of guy when I said everyone else like you sound
Speaker 1: like a lot of niggas that are in my phone
Speaker 1: or guys that just want to kick it, or guys
Speaker 1: that just want to drop the dick off and be
Speaker 1: like all right, well see you next week or hit
Speaker 1: me when you want more. And it's just like do
Speaker 1: you You clearly brought up not only hip hop, but
Speaker 1: I think the single parent thing is a big thing,
Speaker 1: and it's something that a lot of our generation has
Speaker 1: gone through. We're not growing up with the mom and
Speaker 1: dad and the picket fence and just you know, that
Speaker 1: typical household up. Have you ever been heartbroken? Um, you
Speaker 1: think this is a heartbreak? Yeah, I mean I guess
Speaker 1: it's got a stem from somewhere that you that you
Speaker 1: can enjoy company and like all the dating things but
Speaker 1: not one. Yeah, and I had a girl. I had
Speaker 1: a girl in high school. She uh, dating doesn't even
Speaker 1: count because I mean, like that's because honestly, like when
Speaker 1: I tell people like I've never been in a serious relationship,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because all my things were
Speaker 1: like in high school and like it's just like shorty,
Speaker 1: I should go to the prom. She was with it,
Speaker 1: and she dumped me to go with another dude. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean? You like a girl curvew for
Speaker 1: you playing games? H Um? Yeah, I mean I can't recall,
Speaker 1: but you know, yeah, I just shoot my shot. Just
Speaker 1: curb me. No, no, no, I'm not talking a shot.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about you sucking with a chick. She's like, hey,
Speaker 1: like what are we doing? And you're like whatever, She's like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm good. Have you had girls just
Speaker 1: like cut you off for doing this playing a game? Yes, yeah, yeah, definitely, yeah,
Speaker 1: as they should, as they should hand to all of
Speaker 1: your motherfucker walking away from this type of bullshit. Now,
Speaker 1: the one thing that are doing this, like, do you
Speaker 1: what's different about him than these other girls? See through
Speaker 1: my bullshit? But are they? Are they older? Do they
Speaker 1: have different jobs? Are they different kind of girls? What? What?
Speaker 1: Women are recognizing this um like like a little bit older,
Speaker 1: like around my age, But they're like getting to the
Speaker 1: point where you sucking young girls absolutely dealing with this
Speaker 1: bullshitwey six like you know, you know, and they still
Speaker 1: imagine us back I was having fun, So it makes
Speaker 1: sense for them to want to put up with something
Speaker 1: like this And me, it's funny because I've talked about
Speaker 1: this before at I'll be twenty seven next month, I'm
Speaker 1: now yes, Libra shout out. I'm just now getting to
Speaker 1: a point where I'm seeking that intellectual um connection more
Speaker 1: so than just a physical and sexual connection. Sometimes when
Speaker 1: I can't have a conversation with it, I guess, like,
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, I've seen attractive men all the
Speaker 1: time now of course. And then it's just like I
Speaker 1: started talking to him and I'm like, like I feel
Speaker 1: the dryness. Yeah, substance, substance, yeah, And I think that's
Speaker 1: kept me from my age. I feel like there's just
Speaker 1: they're lacking there like that I can't go deeper than
Speaker 1: like we talked about pop culture and then we're done.
Speaker 1: Maybe we start talking about Trump and they don't know
Speaker 1: what doctor is, and then it's right, do you who
Speaker 1: what's that? Dr flockers get bad? Do you find that
Speaker 1: like you need that too? For women? Are you just
Speaker 1: like yeah, I definitely substance. I mean I just you know,
Speaker 1: like I mean I need something stop stance. I need plenty.
Speaker 1: But I don't want to come but I creepy. No,
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm rewording like breaking, Oh we need no,
Speaker 1: it's dope. No. I mean, like listen, I just take
Speaker 1: it for what it is, like you know, like some
Speaker 1: chicks just want to, you know, give it up easy.
Speaker 1: I'm not a type to really to be turned down pussy,
Speaker 1: Like if you fine and you just want to say
Speaker 1: some dumb ship whatever. I'm like basically dating right now
Speaker 1: in rotation, I don't know. Two three more? Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: do you do you have a thing about you don't
Speaker 1: want them to say about the man? No, I don't care.
Speaker 1: You don't give a ship that gives you a little
Speaker 1: more in credibility. I want to ask this question because
Speaker 1: I tell you there's a lot of men that still,
Speaker 1: you know, feeling like you like, oh, I'm gonna come off,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this want and feel like, oh that's
Speaker 1: could be a bit personal. But I feel like it
Speaker 1: needs to be talked about because I'm on I don't
Speaker 1: want to say block Twitter, but it happens often we're single,
Speaker 1: man as yourself, like these situation ships, are you having
Speaker 1: prot to sex with any of these parts? Definitely? Definitely
Speaker 1: was having unprotected sex. Uh Like before I went to
Speaker 1: I just came from the doctor, like a couple few
Speaker 1: weeks ago, and before that I was having unprotect sex
Speaker 1: for a little minute. And so yeah, and then adopted
Speaker 1: I'm good. He was just I was just like, what
Speaker 1: did you want to go? Because I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of men we have to push our men to
Speaker 1: go to the I mean, I just I just needed
Speaker 1: to go it's been passed through. I had a trifectors ship,
Speaker 1: like you know, I just you know, backed back women
Speaker 1: saying nights like raw like you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: like a lot of just a lot of ship. Okay. So,
Speaker 1: so I want to ask this because that's why I
Speaker 1: brought this up. You're having casual sex. You don't want
Speaker 1: to commit to any of these girls. What is going through?
Speaker 1: Why would you have sex unprotected with a female who
Speaker 1: you don't want to see yourself with. You don't have kids,
Speaker 1: you probably don't see them as future baby mamas. As
Speaker 1: a single man who's out here having casual sex, and
Speaker 1: who was allowing these girls to fund other men? Why
Speaker 1: would you not protected? Set some some a personal issue
Speaker 1: I need to deal with. But I think a lot
Speaker 1: of guys do. No, it's true. No, it's true. You
Speaker 1: just don't give a funk for a while the feeling.
Speaker 1: But we have someone I definitely we're feeling. We all
Speaker 1: know it feels better, like you know, but bullshit. I've
Speaker 1: had the best dick from Condom Dick so funk that ship.
Speaker 1: And we actually had Candy on the show who said,
Speaker 1: if you want to have it feel real, put some
Speaker 1: lube in the in the condom before you put it on,
Speaker 1: and that well, it's always cool to get like like
Speaker 1: feeling to get there, but like it is different just general.
Speaker 1: And I'm just talking. I'm not saying it's good or bad,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it's just this could
Speaker 1: be why these things catching feelings too. Raw dick will
Speaker 1: make a bit catch feelings. That's that's definitely when I
Speaker 1: was younger, connect to connect, like what we're doing this together?
Speaker 1: Then that means I am more important? Yeah, and you are.
Speaker 1: You're sucking all of them wrong. No, since you came
Speaker 1: from a doctor and I'm sure you had your like good,
Speaker 1: what are you going to do it from here on now?
Speaker 1: When you want to have about what kind of precautions
Speaker 1: are you gonna say? When you want to how do
Speaker 1: you have this conversation? Have you when you want to
Speaker 1: have like raw sex. Now, let's say somebody maybe even
Speaker 1: a few months and you feel like, okay, we're consistent
Speaker 1: with each other. Do you know how to have these
Speaker 1: conversations and talk about papers and stuff like that. I
Speaker 1: ain't gonna front. I still be shooting my shot with
Speaker 1: raw sex some girls. So I want to I want
Speaker 1: to say this because I tweeted it. I tweeted it.
Speaker 1: I want to let you guys know, going to a
Speaker 1: doctor and getting checked is not going to keep you
Speaker 1: from getting anything. It's pretty much good. It's pretty much
Speaker 1: just gonna notify you if you call it it. So
Speaker 1: going to the doctor is not a preventative measure of
Speaker 1: catching anything. So I definitely think that. Um, And I
Speaker 1: wanted to say, I'm not promoting. I'm not promoting. I'm
Speaker 1: just in general, I'm not just generally a little bit
Speaker 1: of you brought us some game. I'm gonna give you
Speaker 1: some game. Yes, Um, I had a crazy, fucking scared
Speaker 1: I could tell the story again. When I thought yeah,
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom, looked down there, I said fuck.
Speaker 1: Text the group chat. I said, bro, I'm dead, and
Speaker 1: I text two niggers and I was like a piece
Speaker 1: of ship. I was going one go into a twenty
Speaker 1: four hour doctor, get there having tears and she's like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you think you're pregnant. I was like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. And I'm sitting down there and she's like, well,
Speaker 1: what's going on? And I was like there was there
Speaker 1: was a bump, and she's touching the lips on my
Speaker 1: vagina and she's like has a smile on her face
Speaker 1: and she's like, Okay, have you been shading? Did you
Speaker 1: just shave recently? And I was like, you know, She's like, okay,
Speaker 1: well you probably left the razor in the shower and
Speaker 1: you didn't get like an absolutely sanitaria one and now
Speaker 1: you've just got allegiance on your body. It's just like
Speaker 1: a yeah, And that ship is fucking terrifying. And so
Speaker 1: from now on, what I do. I get my papers
Speaker 1: on a PDA And when I'm feeling somebody and I
Speaker 1: feel like maybe we're the main people that were having
Speaker 1: sex with if it's noncommittal, how cool was saying like
Speaker 1: you want to swap? I mean I send to be
Speaker 1: a text. I know their name, they know mine. I
Speaker 1: feel really good about it. And nobody has ever been
Speaker 1: like this is weird. I did have one dude say like, wow,
Speaker 1: I appreciate you for this. I'm glad that you want
Speaker 1: to suck me without condoms. Let me go. I respect that.
Speaker 1: I don't listen. I think a lot of men have
Speaker 1: appreciated it from me and like they feel better about
Speaker 1: sucking me. I mean, you got to think more like, right,
Speaker 1: you need to do that even if you're a few
Speaker 1: if you want papers's real mind stay surgery's breast augmentation.
Speaker 1: So you know, yeah, I just think it's that's definitely
Speaker 1: important conversation to have because well, not only that, but
Speaker 1: the way you women HIV is super awkward. Um. But
Speaker 1: the way that you feel about these women and that
Speaker 1: they don't mean anything to you, I guess you're pretty
Speaker 1: much clarifying that raw X does not mean that a
Speaker 1: man likes you anymore than if he has sex with
Speaker 1: you with a condom. Would you testify to that? Do
Speaker 1: you have Do you feel like that these women that
Speaker 1: you have unprotected sex with that there is an emotional
Speaker 1: attachment there or you can suck them with a condom
Speaker 1: or raw and it means nothing. There's no difference. Some
Speaker 1: I think some of them definitely have a little emotional attachment.
Speaker 1: I can I can tell you know what, you trust them?
Speaker 1: You're saying, like you feel more. I don't think you
Speaker 1: trust any of them. I trust you don't trust anybody,
Speaker 1: but you trust them for your dick not to fall
Speaker 1: off after sucking them. Okay, makes all the sense the world.
Speaker 1: Do you want to go ahead and get to our homemail.
Speaker 1: Do you have Yeah? And I actually hate this conversation
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, because there's so many black men, unfortunately that
Speaker 1: have this idea of um unprotected sex, and unfortunately we
Speaker 1: also have and I've mentioned this in the show, and
Speaker 1: I know we also have such a large group of
Speaker 1: men who are on the download, so you have a
Speaker 1: lot of mix there is. I'm a men who's dealing
Speaker 1: with men and women, and so to me, knowing that
Speaker 1: our men are not out obviously getting tested every three
Speaker 1: months like you're supposed to, or out here having casual
Speaker 1: raw sex, it just leaves so much for many of
Speaker 1: our women to be infected, our men to be infected.
Speaker 1: And it's just like a routine when all you have
Speaker 1: to do is put on the condom, put on the condom.
Speaker 1: So I just feel like we're all here for casual sex.
Speaker 1: And her have had plenty of it mistakes too, But
Speaker 1: now I just feel like my pussy is too important.
Speaker 1: I grab the condom before I left out today though
Speaker 1: I felt good, did you think of ship? Are you
Speaker 1: going to the MTV events that you never know? I
Speaker 1: was like you by front, you're a black guy from
Speaker 1: you to want to let's go right, that's funny. Um,
Speaker 1: let's see. I don't think we've ever read this question
Speaker 1: that's long as that which we're not reading that fucking story.
Speaker 1: It's from a man. Subject is dilemma. Damn we never
Speaker 1: we normally. I think that with the wife in med school,
Speaker 1: I don't think we read this. My wife and I
Speaker 1: have been together for seven years. Sex life was always okay,
Speaker 1: but just okay until recently. She is in med school
Speaker 1: at Moore House and met some new people when she enrolled.
Speaker 1: Of course, one of her girlfriends is very, very open
Speaker 1: sexually and did a lot of posting on tumbler. Now
Speaker 1: at the time, I didn't know exactly what tumbler was,
Speaker 1: but because I'm just a Facebook and Instagra, not into
Speaker 1: every social media. But she talked to my wife about it,
Speaker 1: and my wife created a page. She talked to me
Speaker 1: about stuff that other people were doing on there, but
Speaker 1: never really told me what she was doing or thinking
Speaker 1: about doing until I saw it for myself. My wife
Speaker 1: was posting completely naked pictures of herself on the internet,
Speaker 1: and while it bothered me, I wanted her to feel
Speaker 1: free enough to express outside of her now and allowing
Speaker 1: her to do that and not freaking out about it.
Speaker 1: She has become so much more open sexually. Our sex
Speaker 1: life has truly went to another level. I've always suppressed
Speaker 1: my desires because I felt like it would be much
Speaker 1: better for her because she was so conservative. Like I'm
Speaker 1: trying to like black it on. It's long. I'm sorry
Speaker 1: seeing her be free on the internet. Let me be
Speaker 1: free with her in the bedroom. And the ship's mind
Speaker 1: blowing problem is that, well, I'm getting great sex out
Speaker 1: of this. I can't stand her doing what she actually does.
Speaker 1: It's gone from Tumbler to group chat on the group
Speaker 1: ma app where there's twenty people all in our area
Speaker 1: who exchange naked pictures and fuck each other constantly and
Speaker 1: post about it. Now, my wife isn't sucking anybody else yet,
Speaker 1: But the fact is she's involved with this and being
Speaker 1: proposition all the time and just has random guy sending
Speaker 1: dicks like crazy. We've talked and she's assured me that
Speaker 1: she's not doing anything, and I believe her, But I
Speaker 1: don't want to have to check her phone all the
Speaker 1: time and wonder what she's doing. I don't know what
Speaker 1: to do. Please help a lot. I feel like everybody's
Speaker 1: gonna have different advice because I have mine. You know
Speaker 1: where you I can tell you what I would think.
Speaker 1: What would you think? I'll just start posting pictures. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say this is a phase. First of all, I
Speaker 1: cannot imagine med school. I think that if you've never
Speaker 1: done something like this before, imagine how sexy you feel
Speaker 1: being naked. It's liberating. I think you know somebody's character,
Speaker 1: and I think that if you let her do it,
Speaker 1: and you let her know that you're comfortable doing it,
Speaker 1: of course she's not going to stop or either have
Speaker 1: to be open and say that I'm way too uncomfortable
Speaker 1: with this, and I'm sure she'd respect you for it's
Speaker 1: your wife. But if you've been acting like you're cool
Speaker 1: with it because you're getting good sex out of it,
Speaker 1: then you can't have your cake and eat it too.
Speaker 1: If she's doing this and feeling sexy and giving you
Speaker 1: good pussy for it, you just got to deal with
Speaker 1: one of the two. I mean, it's her face in
Speaker 1: the pictures of their boundaries that you need. Do you
Speaker 1: need to be in the group chats? You need to
Speaker 1: set the boundaries from what you want. For me, I've
Speaker 1: always felt like flirting and things like that or whatever
Speaker 1: you need to do to feel good, whether it's post
Speaker 1: an Instagram pic shirtless, it's not a big deal because
Speaker 1: sometimes we need that validation from somebody else. We thought
Speaker 1: the same person all the time. Right you're married, I'm saying,
Speaker 1: we're pr people. Okay, person, I think with something that's
Speaker 1: this quote unquote wild, you just have to set boundaries.
Speaker 1: And it sounds like you've just kind of been rolling
Speaker 1: with it. But what I would say is I would
Speaker 1: um have this conversation with her because what it sounds
Speaker 1: like to me is she's possibly not getting this attention
Speaker 1: or these compliments from her man. So I feel like
Speaker 1: this is possibly something to where he just maybe needs
Speaker 1: needs to talk to her, and maybe that's why she's
Speaker 1: doing this, because it very well could be baby, I
Speaker 1: don't feel like you like this And I get all
Speaker 1: these compliments. They say my titties look perky, they say
Speaker 1: my ass is fat, they say my my waist too small.
Speaker 1: So maybe she's looking forward this attention and validation and
Speaker 1: um compliments from you, And I feel like maybe it's
Speaker 1: something to where if she's sending you a video, she's
Speaker 1: not feeling like you're super excited about it. So I
Speaker 1: feel like maybe it's a conversation you need to have
Speaker 1: to see why she's doing this and how you can
Speaker 1: maybe get her that excited that you like that, you
Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, I mean, I'm gonna add on to that.
Speaker 1: I just with that. Even with that being said, for him,
Speaker 1: I feel like he needs to just find, you know, something,
Speaker 1: you know, like she felt like like that was like
Speaker 1: it sounds like that was like her kind of like
Speaker 1: finding and discovering herself sexy. So I feel like maybe
Speaker 1: maybe he needs to do that, just find something, you know,
Speaker 1: why not joining together and do it? Yeah, or just
Speaker 1: join in. Maybe that may feel you know, that may
Speaker 1: make him feel like if you're feeling something way like
Speaker 1: she's going to suck another guy, then there's an insecurity
Speaker 1: there and you've got to find out what that is.
Speaker 1: Did you I mean, were you validated by feeling like
Speaker 1: you're the only one that sounds like you still are?
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I feel like cheating is
Speaker 1: very obvious. It's not hard, especially if you're married, Like
Speaker 1: absolutely you gotta know like what you're not as I
Speaker 1: mean or not at worth. I'm not a good liar
Speaker 1: me neither. She looking right in my eyes. But you
Speaker 1: definitely figure out what's up for you if you think
Speaker 1: your wife is really going about position of the sex,
Speaker 1: and you decide if you're down for it or not
Speaker 1: in a step and set the bounces. Have to let
Speaker 1: it go as far as far as it goes, because
Speaker 1: you're getting your dick sucks good and more often that's
Speaker 1: not fair either. Right. And we have one more homemode
Speaker 1: that I'm going to read. Um And this came from
Speaker 1: a female when we asked about situation ships, So I
Speaker 1: would love to get Yeah, this one. We didn't read
Speaker 1: it on the situation ship episode, so I would love
Speaker 1: for you. Yes, So she said, I have a situation
Speaker 1: ship and I need feedback please. He has a family
Speaker 1: baby mama, and I also have a family baby dad,
Speaker 1: so we knew the terms and conditions. Were also co workers.
Speaker 1: I finally gave him some pussy after eight months of
Speaker 1: him trying. He took me to his their house and
Speaker 1: we fucked. It was decent, he complimented me. I thought
Speaker 1: things were good. He was already talking about the next
Speaker 1: time quote unquote it was a little awkward, you know,
Speaker 1: first time jitters. Well that was Friday and I haven't
Speaker 1: heard from him since, and my triping he crossed it off.
Speaker 1: I didn't know that so one time, yeah, and that's
Speaker 1: the end. And I also want to go ahead and
Speaker 1: say that I think she coined this as a situation
Speaker 1: ship when it was only a one time fuck. And
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a female again, putting a title
Speaker 1: or putting more exaggeration on a relationship between two people
Speaker 1: and whatever really is. And unfortunately, I feel like a
Speaker 1: lot of us women do that, whether it be because
Speaker 1: he's cuddling and staying in the night with me, we're
Speaker 1: getting closer, or whether you know he's sucking me wrong?
Speaker 1: What about boyfriend girlfriends? But honestly, I just millennial. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna tell you something. There's times that as women we
Speaker 1: want to feel validation instantly, that instant gratification at the
Speaker 1: next back or something like that. But then there are
Speaker 1: also very obvious moments that we just don't want to read.
Speaker 1: You didn't need to write us to hear that. Oh
Speaker 1: what does that mean? Right? You know what it is
Speaker 1: that we ain't need to tell you of my own ship?
Speaker 1: Would love a boy? You know what I'm saying. I've
Speaker 1: been dating to someone that's doing all of these moves,
Speaker 1: taking just every all this effort. But it's like I
Speaker 1: don't know if I want a girlfriend, So my naga know,
Speaker 1: like I'm sorry, Like I know what you're doing. You're
Speaker 1: playing games, Like I'm giving all some names out here
Speaker 1: like cut off, get to another cubicle, don't talk with him,
Speaker 1: no more cute. If someone just bucks me and they
Speaker 1: not hit me back and ignoring me, I'm done. Simple.
Speaker 1: There you go. And I think women, you need to
Speaker 1: you need, you need to definitely value. If I don't
Speaker 1: text you back, you cut me off. So it's simple though,
Speaker 1: if someone's not hitting you up there, not thinking about you,
Speaker 1: it's especially once it's something was a t no. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna call it dumb with its emotions because
Speaker 1: I'm not going to invalidate somebody's feelings, but I will
Speaker 1: tell you that you didn't need this advice, you know, right, Well,
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Speaker 1: What the fuck? Put your dick on there? Just don't
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Speaker 1: And do you have any upcoming projects or like yeah,
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Speaker 1: you wear that will be we are going to see this. Well,
Speaker 1: actually you can't wear this precisely because we are going
Speaker 1: to take a picture. The same outfit. You bring the
Speaker 1: same post around, the same dick around, the same shirt
Speaker 1: is fine, you've got it in a different color, and
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Speaker 1: Bone again, the full song and they heard Unity beginning,
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Speaker 1: used to see I used to say now I stacked
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Speaker 1: you with backbone. I'm pulling the jungle, Damn Docles. He's
Speaker 1: gonna last long. Thank God. My mama raised me well
Speaker 1: kids off by herself. Shout out my brother, and that said,
Speaker 1: wish I had that bell. Some say that death is
Speaker 1: more like heaven because this life is hell. But change
Speaker 1: you up in that wishing well, homie, wish me well.
Speaker 1: It's shout how niggas killing niggas and the pigtures putting
Speaker 1: trickets on them niggers. Yet that's down aside, and the
Speaker 1: system had that kept my people's image for a living,
Speaker 1: your ins televised. Don't let them feed you lie, I
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Speaker 1: the chosen water, fun that ain't noticed. Keep the eyes
Speaker 1: why open, but don't stay here too. My dous dream
Speaker 1: fit like the your montin Luther is so still, Oh baby,
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