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Speaker 1: It's the limit that we reached for the class. Reached

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Speaker 1: I've been fighting my own demon see them stakes, I

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Speaker 1: Apple Music and stuff? Oh? No, Apple Music. Actually they

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Speaker 1: just rejected me because you know, obviously you know they

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Speaker 1: own all the rights. Child's Game I've figured that sound SoundCloud.

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Speaker 1: You just type in a child's game being a remix PM,

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Speaker 1: another episode of horrible Decisions. If you guys haven't noticed already,

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Speaker 1: with you just have a question before you're rapping. Did

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Speaker 1: you have all else fails, I will become because you've

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Speaker 1: a dope as point star because just like you don't

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Speaker 1: Are we coming on too strong? I think this is

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Speaker 1: Have you not listen to us? Yeah? A little bit?

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Speaker 1: But wait was the episode of um the one he

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Speaker 1: Whole Jobs? I loved it? So mall told us, um, like,

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Speaker 1: pubic hair. I've got it. Most commonly, people with pubophilia,

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Speaker 1: have real money, like money and I'm just gonna be

422
00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 1: like this makes me so sad. It makes me so

423
00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 1: because you know, what it is you mean, So I

424
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,199
Speaker 1: have a really hard time fund an attractive black men

425
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: that they're saying that don't have kids, And so just

426
00:24:41,640 --> 00:24:43,359
Speaker 1: to hear it come out of your mouth, it's almost

427
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 1: like depressing. I get bored easily and like, yeah, you

428
00:24:48,280 --> 00:24:51,720
Speaker 1: just gotta be you just gotta be like fucking amazing

429
00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 1: for me to just be like something that's just non monogamy.

430
00:24:55,760 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 1: What about if you met somebody that you wanted that

431
00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:59,960
Speaker 1: you couldn't let go and you're just like, how about

432
00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: we just a monogamous but like you know, yeah, I

433
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: mean that the situation. Yeah, but like like even in

434
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:12,240
Speaker 1: the book till I put like somebody always catches feelings

435
00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 1: a little more, always like no strings attached to the movie.

436
00:25:15,080 --> 00:25:18,439
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. Somebody always just a little

437
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:20,640
Speaker 1: bit then the other. And it's just like whoa, whoa

438
00:25:20,960 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: you get your feelings? If it's the girls saying that,

439
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 1: like whoa, why are you catching feelings? I thought we

440
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,560
Speaker 1: had like a little bit. Somebody may get out of

441
00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 1: line or like go through your phone or see you,

442
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: ask you, you know what I mean, And it's just always,

443
00:25:33,400 --> 00:25:34,720
Speaker 1: you know, I just don't want I just don't put

444
00:25:34,720 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 1: myself in those positions. But how do you feel about

445
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,120
Speaker 1: open relationships you think you could ever be in one?

446
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 1: I mean that's something that's momenial to me. Um, like

447
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:44,040
Speaker 1: I said me personally, like if she get that girl

448
00:25:44,080 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: another woman, Yeah, that's that bullshit. And so I want

449
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 1: I don't want my my wife to be fucking rammed out,

450
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:58,720
Speaker 1: but she's supposed to be okay with you sleeping with

451
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 1: other women, nor then I just won't, Like I'd rather

452
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 1: just not be in a relationship. So where do you

453
00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:07,879
Speaker 1: go from when? Because clearly these are the relationships you

454
00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 1: want to start. So you have women that you're sleeping with,

455
00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:12,879
Speaker 1: whether you have Monday through Friday and just one on

456
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: the weekends, whatever, you know, you know, what do you

457
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:20,720
Speaker 1: do when she starts catching feelings? Is there a conversation there?

458
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: Do you completely cut her off? What is the transition

459
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 1: to where when you see someone catching feelings? Yeah, a

460
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 1: lot of them get cut off. How do you cut

461
00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 1: them off? Well? I just you know, just they just

462
00:26:31,600 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 1: don't get text back. They hit me up just like

463
00:26:39,240 --> 00:26:41,639
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just super dry with the text. Like

464
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 1: you know what you're doing like text back late? I

465
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,800
Speaker 1: got my re receipts on for everybody, So everybody just

466
00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:49,239
Speaker 1: you know, why is she just being honest? I am

467
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:52,800
Speaker 1: being honest. No, you're going away and now being short

468
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 1: with her? Why not just tell her? Listen, you're catching feelings.

469
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 1: I told you what it was from the beginning. This

470
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 1: isn't gonna work. Instead of because now we come to

471
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:03,840
Speaker 1: the point where you're stringing her along. No something, No, honestly, Well, actually,

472
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: first I don't even get I don't even get into

473
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 1: some ship without them even knowing, like they know, like

474
00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 1: clearly you say it, you know, but you can't. But

475
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: you can't help. Clearly you're gonna start catching feelings one

476
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:18,480
Speaker 1: way or another. So like when she does catch feelings

477
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 1: or like when I see it coming, I'm just like,

478
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm actually gonna be like, yo, I

479
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: told you not to catch feelings are like spending time

480
00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: as far as like sleepovers and things like that, like

481
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:32,680
Speaker 1: because women are getting attached, right, I'm gonna be honest.

482
00:27:32,680 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 1: I've never been attached with someone that just sucked me

483
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:38,399
Speaker 1: ever nothing. It was men that gave me more than that.

484
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: So what do you do? So it's the face times,

485
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:43,120
Speaker 1: it's the good morning text, it's the everything that kind

486
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 1: of would make her feel like you're liking her a

487
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 1: little bit more. But yeah, you're really still just dropping

488
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: dick and being a nice guy. So it's just like,

489
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 1: what else are you giving them beside dick to where

490
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: they're catching feelings? Um? Are you? Are you spending the night?

491
00:27:57,800 --> 00:27:59,719
Speaker 1: Are you seeing her more than twice a week? Are

492
00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,360
Speaker 1: you you know? I mean, I don't know, you don't leave.

493
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:07,639
Speaker 1: Maybe they just they just fun with me? Ask you

494
00:28:07,720 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: a questions? Were confused? What time I be in the

495
00:28:13,080 --> 00:28:15,679
Speaker 1: gym in the morning five am? You know? I mean

496
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 1: you can't leave and bring a gym clothes to her house,

497
00:28:19,720 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 1: bring the work close over hell little bit? I mean honestly,

498
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:25,600
Speaker 1: like you know what, I'll be right back. You stay here,

499
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 1: I come like, I mean, I go to show these

500
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:32,120
Speaker 1: cribs and I dip in the morning early Like here

501
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: we go here, we got back for a second. You

502
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,439
Speaker 1: don't want someone to catch feelings, but you're staying at

503
00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: the house. It's not just sex. And why are you

504
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 1: doing it because you wanted to We're staying at the house.

505
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: You just said, I'm saying a short the house, leaving

506
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: in the morning. Why are you supposed to leave night.

507
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: I mean he's getting flustered. No, I got break this down.

508
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 1: He's writing this book. Break this down because like I said, like,

509
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,360
Speaker 1: you know, you know, if I'm not sure, he's crib

510
00:28:57,440 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: and she's let me over and stuff like from the

511
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: jump she knows like I don't even want nothing serious,

512
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,760
Speaker 1: like so she catched feelings. That's you know, it's really

513
00:29:03,840 --> 00:29:07,360
Speaker 1: on her, like you know, she let's right, what's the

514
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,600
Speaker 1: point because so we have women that are very confused

515
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:13,040
Speaker 1: relationships there or how men feel about them because they're

516
00:29:13,080 --> 00:29:17,400
Speaker 1: doing these things right now, Why are you staying there

517
00:29:17,720 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 1: if you're just looking for sex? Do you like companionship too? Yeah?

518
00:29:23,000 --> 00:29:25,800
Speaker 1: I mean, like I said, I do like good company. Okay,

519
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: Like I said, like like I mean that's that is

520
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 1: a relationship. I just said, not a serious one, Like,

521
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:32,360
Speaker 1: that's the relationship even if I'm just hanging out and

522
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,600
Speaker 1: I'm chilling. So you're gonna admit that you could possibly

523
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:38,520
Speaker 1: lead a female on because to me, if I have

524
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: done that ship like and that's and that's my point.

525
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,920
Speaker 1: So with this dating, you have women who are being

526
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,960
Speaker 1: confused with where you stand, what your relationship is. Because

527
00:29:50,160 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: if you're sitting here spending the night. We're probably spooning,

528
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 1: we're probably talking about our day, about what we're doing tomorrow.

529
00:29:55,320 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: And now you're becoming a listener. You're like a whole

530
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 1: kiss in the mouth. Oh we make it out every time, goddamn,

531
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 1: like heavy breathing in my ear while you're gonna watch

532
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: ticking me slowly. Goddamn. And now you catch them, now

533
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:17,320
Speaker 1: catch the feelings? Got I got moves. We had schedules

534
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: for Game of Thrones. WI we was gonna eat. I

535
00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,240
Speaker 1: never never get that far bro. A few months in,

536
00:30:22,360 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 1: I remember saying to him, like, oh my mom's coming

537
00:30:24,160 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: to town. We gotta grab drinks because he'd beat like Temy.

538
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: And he's like, I mean, I think that that means

539
00:30:29,160 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: that you know we're really dating. So this is the

540
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: right And that's so crazy because to me, I'm not

541
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,240
Speaker 1: gonna lie if you're spending the night and we happen

542
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,320
Speaker 1: to put on Netflix and now we started serious together,

543
00:30:40,920 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: like we can't watch it. That shouldn't be getting that far.

544
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: But you really watch the Netflix to watch TV. I

545
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:52,840
Speaker 1: don't watch TV. Netflix don't. So I want to leave

546
00:30:52,880 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: this into possibly scaling. I think the word for this

547
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:00,960
Speaker 1: do you believe that this is commitment? Phobi? Do you

548
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:03,240
Speaker 1: think that you have a phobia being committed to somebody

549
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,080
Speaker 1: and as someone dating? Now where do you think this

550
00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:10,480
Speaker 1: comes from? Why? Why are men right now commit? Well?

551
00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,360
Speaker 1: I think me personally, you know, I didn't. I didn't

552
00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: really uh um. You know, I didn't really grow up

553
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:18,480
Speaker 1: like I grew up with a single mom, you know,

554
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:19,960
Speaker 1: So I grew up I didn't really grow up like

555
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: a father. So I never really like seeing like you know,

556
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: like you know how like other people's like fathers like

557
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 1: love their mother, you know what I mean. Like you know,

558
00:31:28,680 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: my mom, you know, even though she only had like

559
00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:34,080
Speaker 1: you know, she like stepdad you know, um, you know,

560
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 1: and my little brother's father, Um, you know, but like

561
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 1: she always like it was very he's always very respectful,

562
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it wasn't. There wasn't

563
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:44,400
Speaker 1: the husband, and you know they were always like but

564
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,920
Speaker 1: it just wasn't like you know, like my dad. It

565
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 1: wasn't like my dad or my mom, you know what

566
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,880
Speaker 1: I mean. Like, so you know, I always I was

567
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: always like I was always kind of had. It was

568
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: always um what do you call it? It was like vacant,

569
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 1: like I had to like it was something that was empty,

570
00:31:58,840 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: like I had to figure out myself and I'm going

571
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:03,480
Speaker 1: to rap music, I'm going to hip hop, you know

572
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,880
Speaker 1: what I mean? Commitment could like your phobia to commitment

573
00:32:06,880 --> 00:32:09,719
Speaker 1: could because you think you're gonna find something better. Um

574
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: that's I mean, that's one of them that's definitely nodding

575
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 1: their head, like because I do think that, like even

576
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,400
Speaker 1: like because even like I'll like say, if I'm like

577
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,560
Speaker 1: kicking with a girl like may go out or whatever,

578
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:26,840
Speaker 1: and then like I'll be like damn crazy, like yeah,

579
00:32:27,160 --> 00:32:30,840
Speaker 1: like you know, so like you know, but this is me,

580
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,960
Speaker 1: like I'm feeling like I don't know why, I'm starting

581
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 1: to feel bad, like somebody's being too honest. I can't

582
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:39,400
Speaker 1: handle it. This is like, well this is what Well,

583
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,280
Speaker 1: I think a lot of our listeners want to hear

584
00:32:41,320 --> 00:32:45,640
Speaker 1: this because um just knowing that you're probably the type

585
00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: of guy when I said everyone else like you sound

586
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 1: like a lot of niggas that are in my phone

587
00:32:49,520 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 1: or guys that just want to kick it, or guys

588
00:32:52,520 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: that just want to drop the dick off and be

589
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: like all right, well see you next week or hit

590
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: me when you want more. And it's just like do

591
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:01,720
Speaker 1: you You clearly brought up not only hip hop, but

592
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: I think the single parent thing is a big thing,

593
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: and it's something that a lot of our generation has

594
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 1: gone through. We're not growing up with the mom and

595
00:33:09,000 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: dad and the picket fence and just you know, that

596
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:19,680
Speaker 1: typical household up. Have you ever been heartbroken? Um, you

597
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:22,240
Speaker 1: think this is a heartbreak? Yeah, I mean I guess

598
00:33:22,280 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: it's got a stem from somewhere that you that you

599
00:33:24,680 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: can enjoy company and like all the dating things but

600
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: not one. Yeah, and I had a girl. I had

601
00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:34,440
Speaker 1: a girl in high school. She uh, dating doesn't even

602
00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: count because I mean, like that's because honestly, like when

603
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: I tell people like I've never been in a serious relationship,

604
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:45,760
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because all my things were

605
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 1: like in high school and like it's just like shorty,

606
00:33:49,080 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 1: I should go to the prom. She was with it,

607
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:53,000
Speaker 1: and she dumped me to go with another dude. You

608
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: know what I mean? You like a girl curvew for

609
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: you playing games? H Um? Yeah, I mean I can't recall,

610
00:33:59,480 --> 00:34:01,440
Speaker 1: but you know, yeah, I just shoot my shot. Just

611
00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: curb me. No, no, no, I'm not talking a shot.

612
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 1: I'm talking about you sucking with a chick. She's like, hey,

613
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 1: like what are we doing? And you're like whatever, She's like,

614
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm good. Have you had girls just

615
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 1: like cut you off for doing this playing a game? Yes, yeah, yeah, definitely, yeah,

616
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: as they should, as they should hand to all of

617
00:34:20,120 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: your motherfucker walking away from this type of bullshit. Now,

618
00:34:24,920 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: the one thing that are doing this, like, do you

619
00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 1: what's different about him than these other girls? See through

620
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:32,480
Speaker 1: my bullshit? But are they? Are they older? Do they

621
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:34,880
Speaker 1: have different jobs? Are they different kind of girls? What? What?

622
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: Women are recognizing this um like like a little bit older,

623
00:34:38,239 --> 00:34:40,320
Speaker 1: like around my age, But they're like getting to the

624
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:44,200
Speaker 1: point where you sucking young girls absolutely dealing with this

625
00:34:44,280 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 1: bullshitwey six like you know, you know, and they still

626
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 1: imagine us back I was having fun, So it makes

627
00:34:55,200 --> 00:34:56,919
Speaker 1: sense for them to want to put up with something

628
00:34:57,040 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 1: like this And me, it's funny because I've talked about

629
00:34:59,600 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 1: this before at I'll be twenty seven next month, I'm

630
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 1: now yes, Libra shout out. I'm just now getting to

631
00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 1: a point where I'm seeking that intellectual um connection more

632
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,680
Speaker 1: so than just a physical and sexual connection. Sometimes when

633
00:35:15,760 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 1: I can't have a conversation with it, I guess, like,

634
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 1: don't get me wrong, I've seen attractive men all the

635
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 1: time now of course. And then it's just like I

636
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: started talking to him and I'm like, like I feel

637
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 1: the dryness. Yeah, substance, substance, yeah, And I think that's

638
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 1: kept me from my age. I feel like there's just

639
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,440
Speaker 1: they're lacking there like that I can't go deeper than

640
00:35:34,520 --> 00:35:36,680
Speaker 1: like we talked about pop culture and then we're done.

641
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: Maybe we start talking about Trump and they don't know

642
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 1: what doctor is, and then it's right, do you who

643
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:49,239
Speaker 1: what's that? Dr flockers get bad? Do you find that

644
00:35:49,400 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: like you need that too? For women? Are you just

645
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 1: like yeah, I definitely substance. I mean I just you know,

646
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 1: like I mean I need something stop stance. I need plenty.

647
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: But I don't want to come but I creepy. No,

648
00:36:04,440 --> 00:36:10,160
Speaker 1: I'm like I'm rewording like breaking, Oh we need no,

649
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 1: it's dope. No. I mean, like listen, I just take

650
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: it for what it is, like you know, like some

651
00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: chicks just want to, you know, give it up easy.

652
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,920
Speaker 1: I'm not a type to really to be turned down pussy,

653
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,239
Speaker 1: Like if you fine and you just want to say

654
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: some dumb ship whatever. I'm like basically dating right now

655
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:30,880
Speaker 1: in rotation, I don't know. Two three more? Yeah, Okay,

656
00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:33,799
Speaker 1: do you do you have a thing about you don't

657
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 1: want them to say about the man? No, I don't care.

658
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: You don't give a ship that gives you a little

659
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,960
Speaker 1: more in credibility. I want to ask this question because

660
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: I tell you there's a lot of men that still,

661
00:36:44,239 --> 00:36:46,239
Speaker 1: you know, feeling like you like, oh, I'm gonna come off,

662
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:49,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this want and feel like, oh that's

663
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: could be a bit personal. But I feel like it

664
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:54,120
Speaker 1: needs to be talked about because I'm on I don't

665
00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: want to say block Twitter, but it happens often we're single,

666
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,399
Speaker 1: man as yourself, like these situation ships, are you having

667
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,320
Speaker 1: prot to sex with any of these parts? Definitely? Definitely

668
00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: was having unprotected sex. Uh Like before I went to

669
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 1: I just came from the doctor, like a couple few

670
00:37:09,600 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 1: weeks ago, and before that I was having unprotect sex

671
00:37:13,480 --> 00:37:18,360
Speaker 1: for a little minute. And so yeah, and then adopted

672
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,400
Speaker 1: I'm good. He was just I was just like, what

673
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 1: did you want to go? Because I feel like a

674
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:24,360
Speaker 1: lot of men we have to push our men to

675
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,240
Speaker 1: go to the I mean, I just I just needed

676
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:32,439
Speaker 1: to go it's been passed through. I had a trifectors ship,

677
00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: like you know, I just you know, backed back women

678
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:37,359
Speaker 1: saying nights like raw like you know what I mean,

679
00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 1: like a lot of just a lot of ship. Okay. So,

680
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 1: so I want to ask this because that's why I

681
00:37:41,160 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: brought this up. You're having casual sex. You don't want

682
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:47,279
Speaker 1: to commit to any of these girls. What is going through?

683
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:50,160
Speaker 1: Why would you have sex unprotected with a female who

684
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 1: you don't want to see yourself with. You don't have kids,

685
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:55,040
Speaker 1: you probably don't see them as future baby mamas. As

686
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,520
Speaker 1: a single man who's out here having casual sex, and

687
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,120
Speaker 1: who was allowing these girls to fund other men? Why

688
00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:05,680
Speaker 1: would you not protected? Set some some a personal issue

689
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:07,719
Speaker 1: I need to deal with. But I think a lot

690
00:38:07,760 --> 00:38:10,480
Speaker 1: of guys do. No, it's true. No, it's true. You

691
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: just don't give a funk for a while the feeling.

692
00:38:12,880 --> 00:38:15,440
Speaker 1: But we have someone I definitely we're feeling. We all

693
00:38:15,480 --> 00:38:18,799
Speaker 1: know it feels better, like you know, but bullshit. I've

694
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 1: had the best dick from Condom Dick so funk that ship.

695
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: And we actually had Candy on the show who said,

696
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: if you want to have it feel real, put some

697
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 1: lube in the in the condom before you put it on,

698
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 1: and that well, it's always cool to get like like

699
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:36,239
Speaker 1: feeling to get there, but like it is different just general.

700
00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: And I'm just talking. I'm not saying it's good or bad,

701
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:40,439
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But it's just this could

702
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,680
Speaker 1: be why these things catching feelings too. Raw dick will

703
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 1: make a bit catch feelings. That's that's definitely when I

704
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:52,440
Speaker 1: was younger, connect to connect, like what we're doing this together?

705
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 1: Then that means I am more important? Yeah, and you are.

706
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:58,239
Speaker 1: You're sucking all of them wrong. No, since you came

707
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:01,040
Speaker 1: from a doctor and I'm sure you had your like good,

708
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:03,640
Speaker 1: what are you going to do it from here on now?

709
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: When you want to have about what kind of precautions

710
00:39:06,600 --> 00:39:07,640
Speaker 1: are you gonna say? When you want to how do

711
00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,320
Speaker 1: you have this conversation? Have you when you want to

712
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: have like raw sex. Now, let's say somebody maybe even

713
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:14,480
Speaker 1: a few months and you feel like, okay, we're consistent

714
00:39:14,520 --> 00:39:16,480
Speaker 1: with each other. Do you know how to have these

715
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,360
Speaker 1: conversations and talk about papers and stuff like that. I

716
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,320
Speaker 1: ain't gonna front. I still be shooting my shot with

717
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:24,719
Speaker 1: raw sex some girls. So I want to I want

718
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:27,040
Speaker 1: to say this because I tweeted it. I tweeted it.

719
00:39:27,120 --> 00:39:30,840
Speaker 1: I want to let you guys know, going to a

720
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 1: doctor and getting checked is not going to keep you

721
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 1: from getting anything. It's pretty much good. It's pretty much

722
00:39:37,840 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 1: just gonna notify you if you call it it. So

723
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: going to the doctor is not a preventative measure of

724
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 1: catching anything. So I definitely think that. Um, And I

725
00:39:46,239 --> 00:39:52,000
Speaker 1: wanted to say, I'm not promoting. I'm not promoting. I'm

726
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: just in general, I'm not just generally a little bit

727
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 1: of you brought us some game. I'm gonna give you

728
00:39:57,120 --> 00:40:01,000
Speaker 1: some game. Yes, Um, I had a crazy, fucking scared

729
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:05,439
Speaker 1: I could tell the story again. When I thought yeah,

730
00:40:06,680 --> 00:40:09,359
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom, looked down there, I said fuck.

731
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: Text the group chat. I said, bro, I'm dead, and

732
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:16,160
Speaker 1: I text two niggers and I was like a piece

733
00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:19,680
Speaker 1: of ship. I was going one go into a twenty

734
00:40:19,719 --> 00:40:22,800
Speaker 1: four hour doctor, get there having tears and she's like,

735
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,320
Speaker 1: oh my god, you think you're pregnant. I was like,

736
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:26,960
Speaker 1: I don't know. And I'm sitting down there and she's like, well,

737
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:28,359
Speaker 1: what's going on? And I was like there was there

738
00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 1: was a bump, and she's touching the lips on my

739
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,319
Speaker 1: vagina and she's like has a smile on her face

740
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 1: and she's like, Okay, have you been shading? Did you

741
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 1: just shave recently? And I was like, you know, She's like, okay,

742
00:40:41,160 --> 00:40:43,440
Speaker 1: well you probably left the razor in the shower and

743
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:45,880
Speaker 1: you didn't get like an absolutely sanitaria one and now

744
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:47,880
Speaker 1: you've just got allegiance on your body. It's just like

745
00:40:47,920 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 1: a yeah, And that ship is fucking terrifying. And so

746
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: from now on, what I do. I get my papers

747
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,680
Speaker 1: on a PDA And when I'm feeling somebody and I

748
00:40:59,760 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 1: feel like maybe we're the main people that were having

749
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: sex with if it's noncommittal, how cool was saying like

750
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 1: you want to swap? I mean I send to be

751
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 1: a text. I know their name, they know mine. I

752
00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 1: feel really good about it. And nobody has ever been

753
00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: like this is weird. I did have one dude say like, wow,

754
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:17,440
Speaker 1: I appreciate you for this. I'm glad that you want

755
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: to suck me without condoms. Let me go. I respect that.

756
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: I don't listen. I think a lot of men have

757
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:26,919
Speaker 1: appreciated it from me and like they feel better about

758
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:31,319
Speaker 1: sucking me. I mean, you got to think more like, right,

759
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 1: you need to do that even if you're a few

760
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 1: if you want papers's real mind stay surgery's breast augmentation.

761
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 1: So you know, yeah, I just think it's that's definitely

762
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:48,719
Speaker 1: important conversation to have because well, not only that, but

763
00:41:49,000 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 1: the way you women HIV is super awkward. Um. But

764
00:41:52,880 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: the way that you feel about these women and that

765
00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:58,240
Speaker 1: they don't mean anything to you, I guess you're pretty

766
00:41:58,320 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: much clarifying that raw X does not mean that a

767
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 1: man likes you anymore than if he has sex with

768
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,279
Speaker 1: you with a condom. Would you testify to that? Do

769
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:08,800
Speaker 1: you have Do you feel like that these women that

770
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: you have unprotected sex with that there is an emotional

771
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 1: attachment there or you can suck them with a condom

772
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 1: or raw and it means nothing. There's no difference. Some

773
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:19,120
Speaker 1: I think some of them definitely have a little emotional attachment.

774
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 1: I can I can tell you know what, you trust them?

775
00:42:22,440 --> 00:42:24,160
Speaker 1: You're saying, like you feel more. I don't think you

776
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:27,560
Speaker 1: trust any of them. I trust you don't trust anybody,

777
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:29,839
Speaker 1: but you trust them for your dick not to fall

778
00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:32,960
Speaker 1: off after sucking them. Okay, makes all the sense the world.

779
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,240
Speaker 1: Do you want to go ahead and get to our homemail.

780
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:38,680
Speaker 1: Do you have Yeah? And I actually hate this conversation

781
00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 1: Jesus Christ, because there's so many black men, unfortunately that

782
00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: have this idea of um unprotected sex, and unfortunately we

783
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 1: also have and I've mentioned this in the show, and

784
00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 1: I know we also have such a large group of

785
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:56,200
Speaker 1: men who are on the download, so you have a

786
00:42:56,440 --> 00:43:01,319
Speaker 1: lot of mix there is. I'm a men who's dealing

787
00:43:01,360 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: with men and women, and so to me, knowing that

788
00:43:05,640 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 1: our men are not out obviously getting tested every three

789
00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: months like you're supposed to, or out here having casual

790
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,880
Speaker 1: raw sex, it just leaves so much for many of

791
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 1: our women to be infected, our men to be infected.

792
00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:17,880
Speaker 1: And it's just like a routine when all you have

793
00:43:17,920 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 1: to do is put on the condom, put on the condom.

794
00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 1: So I just feel like we're all here for casual sex.

795
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: And her have had plenty of it mistakes too, But

796
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:28,200
Speaker 1: now I just feel like my pussy is too important.

797
00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:30,719
Speaker 1: I grab the condom before I left out today though

798
00:43:30,719 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 1: I felt good, did you think of ship? Are you

799
00:43:35,520 --> 00:43:37,279
Speaker 1: going to the MTV events that you never know? I

800
00:43:37,440 --> 00:43:40,719
Speaker 1: was like you by front, you're a black guy from

801
00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: you to want to let's go right, that's funny. Um,

802
00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:52,360
Speaker 1: let's see. I don't think we've ever read this question

803
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:56,400
Speaker 1: that's long as that which we're not reading that fucking story.

804
00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 1: It's from a man. Subject is dilemma. Damn we never

805
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:05,240
Speaker 1: we normally. I think that with the wife in med school,

806
00:44:07,200 --> 00:44:09,120
Speaker 1: I don't think we read this. My wife and I

807
00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:11,359
Speaker 1: have been together for seven years. Sex life was always okay,

808
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 1: but just okay until recently. She is in med school

809
00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:18,120
Speaker 1: at Moore House and met some new people when she enrolled.

810
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:20,359
Speaker 1: Of course, one of her girlfriends is very, very open

811
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 1: sexually and did a lot of posting on tumbler. Now

812
00:44:22,920 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 1: at the time, I didn't know exactly what tumbler was,

813
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:28,160
Speaker 1: but because I'm just a Facebook and Instagra, not into

814
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 1: every social media. But she talked to my wife about it,

815
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: and my wife created a page. She talked to me

816
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:34,279
Speaker 1: about stuff that other people were doing on there, but

817
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:36,879
Speaker 1: never really told me what she was doing or thinking

818
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,160
Speaker 1: about doing until I saw it for myself. My wife

819
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,760
Speaker 1: was posting completely naked pictures of herself on the internet,

820
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 1: and while it bothered me, I wanted her to feel

821
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 1: free enough to express outside of her now and allowing

822
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 1: her to do that and not freaking out about it.

823
00:44:48,440 --> 00:44:50,839
Speaker 1: She has become so much more open sexually. Our sex

824
00:44:50,920 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 1: life has truly went to another level. I've always suppressed

825
00:44:53,400 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 1: my desires because I felt like it would be much

826
00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: better for her because she was so conservative. Like I'm

827
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,680
Speaker 1: trying to like black it on. It's long. I'm sorry

828
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:03,920
Speaker 1: seeing her be free on the internet. Let me be

829
00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 1: free with her in the bedroom. And the ship's mind

830
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 1: blowing problem is that, well, I'm getting great sex out

831
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,919
Speaker 1: of this. I can't stand her doing what she actually does.

832
00:45:12,239 --> 00:45:14,439
Speaker 1: It's gone from Tumbler to group chat on the group

833
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 1: ma app where there's twenty people all in our area

834
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,400
Speaker 1: who exchange naked pictures and fuck each other constantly and

835
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: post about it. Now, my wife isn't sucking anybody else yet,

836
00:45:22,880 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 1: But the fact is she's involved with this and being

837
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,879
Speaker 1: proposition all the time and just has random guy sending

838
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 1: dicks like crazy. We've talked and she's assured me that

839
00:45:29,920 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: she's not doing anything, and I believe her, But I

840
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:32,800
Speaker 1: don't want to have to check her phone all the

841
00:45:32,840 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 1: time and wonder what she's doing. I don't know what

842
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:43,200
Speaker 1: to do. Please help a lot. I feel like everybody's

843
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:46,759
Speaker 1: gonna have different advice because I have mine. You know

844
00:45:46,760 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 1: where you I can tell you what I would think.

845
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 1: What would you think? I'll just start posting pictures. I'm

846
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: gonna say this is a phase. First of all, I

847
00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 1: cannot imagine med school. I think that if you've never

848
00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:01,359
Speaker 1: done something like this before, imagine how sexy you feel

849
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: being naked. It's liberating. I think you know somebody's character,

850
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:07,400
Speaker 1: and I think that if you let her do it,

851
00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:09,239
Speaker 1: and you let her know that you're comfortable doing it,

852
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:11,239
Speaker 1: of course she's not going to stop or either have

853
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: to be open and say that I'm way too uncomfortable

854
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:15,480
Speaker 1: with this, and I'm sure she'd respect you for it's

855
00:46:15,480 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 1: your wife. But if you've been acting like you're cool

856
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,000
Speaker 1: with it because you're getting good sex out of it,

857
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:21,279
Speaker 1: then you can't have your cake and eat it too.

858
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:25,120
Speaker 1: If she's doing this and feeling sexy and giving you

859
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 1: good pussy for it, you just got to deal with

860
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 1: one of the two. I mean, it's her face in

861
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,040
Speaker 1: the pictures of their boundaries that you need. Do you

862
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:31,719
Speaker 1: need to be in the group chats? You need to

863
00:46:31,760 --> 00:46:34,359
Speaker 1: set the boundaries from what you want. For me, I've

864
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,719
Speaker 1: always felt like flirting and things like that or whatever

865
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 1: you need to do to feel good, whether it's post

866
00:46:38,320 --> 00:46:40,319
Speaker 1: an Instagram pic shirtless, it's not a big deal because

867
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 1: sometimes we need that validation from somebody else. We thought

868
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 1: the same person all the time. Right you're married, I'm saying,

869
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 1: we're pr people. Okay, person, I think with something that's

870
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: this quote unquote wild, you just have to set boundaries.

871
00:46:55,440 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: And it sounds like you've just kind of been rolling

872
00:46:57,040 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 1: with it. But what I would say is I would

873
00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,800
Speaker 1: um have this conversation with her because what it sounds

874
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,920
Speaker 1: like to me is she's possibly not getting this attention

875
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:09,840
Speaker 1: or these compliments from her man. So I feel like

876
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,359
Speaker 1: this is possibly something to where he just maybe needs

877
00:47:13,600 --> 00:47:16,000
Speaker 1: needs to talk to her, and maybe that's why she's

878
00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: doing this, because it very well could be baby, I

879
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 1: don't feel like you like this And I get all

880
00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:24,160
Speaker 1: these compliments. They say my titties look perky, they say

881
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 1: my ass is fat, they say my my waist too small.

882
00:47:26,520 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: So maybe she's looking forward this attention and validation and

883
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 1: um compliments from you, And I feel like maybe it's

884
00:47:32,960 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: something to where if she's sending you a video, she's

885
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,320
Speaker 1: not feeling like you're super excited about it. So I

886
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 1: feel like maybe it's a conversation you need to have

887
00:47:41,160 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: to see why she's doing this and how you can

888
00:47:44,239 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 1: maybe get her that excited that you like that, you

889
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:50,400
Speaker 1: like that, Yeah, I mean, I'm gonna add on to that.

890
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:53,120
Speaker 1: I just with that. Even with that being said, for him,

891
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:56,640
Speaker 1: I feel like he needs to just find, you know, something,

892
00:47:56,680 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 1: you know, like she felt like like that was like

893
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: it sounds like that was like her kind of like

894
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,879
Speaker 1: finding and discovering herself sexy. So I feel like maybe

895
00:48:05,000 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: maybe he needs to do that, just find something, you know,

896
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,480
Speaker 1: why not joining together and do it? Yeah, or just

897
00:48:10,600 --> 00:48:13,000
Speaker 1: join in. Maybe that may feel you know, that may

898
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: make him feel like if you're feeling something way like

899
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 1: she's going to suck another guy, then there's an insecurity

900
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:20,200
Speaker 1: there and you've got to find out what that is.

901
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,640
Speaker 1: Did you I mean, were you validated by feeling like

902
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,480
Speaker 1: you're the only one that sounds like you still are?

903
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know. I feel like cheating is

904
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: very obvious. It's not hard, especially if you're married, Like

905
00:48:29,440 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 1: absolutely you gotta know like what you're not as I

906
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:34,480
Speaker 1: mean or not at worth. I'm not a good liar

907
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:38,800
Speaker 1: me neither. She looking right in my eyes. But you

908
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:40,640
Speaker 1: definitely figure out what's up for you if you think

909
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 1: your wife is really going about position of the sex,

910
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:43,960
Speaker 1: and you decide if you're down for it or not

911
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,920
Speaker 1: in a step and set the bounces. Have to let

912
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: it go as far as far as it goes, because

913
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:50,600
Speaker 1: you're getting your dick sucks good and more often that's

914
00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:52,480
Speaker 1: not fair either. Right. And we have one more homemode

915
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 1: that I'm going to read. Um And this came from

916
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:58,920
Speaker 1: a female when we asked about situation ships, So I

917
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:01,520
Speaker 1: would love to get Yeah, this one. We didn't read

918
00:49:01,560 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: it on the situation ship episode, so I would love

919
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: for you. Yes, So she said, I have a situation

920
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:11,120
Speaker 1: ship and I need feedback please. He has a family

921
00:49:11,320 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 1: baby mama, and I also have a family baby dad,

922
00:49:14,600 --> 00:49:18,400
Speaker 1: so we knew the terms and conditions. Were also co workers.

923
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:22,400
Speaker 1: I finally gave him some pussy after eight months of

924
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:27,279
Speaker 1: him trying. He took me to his their house and

925
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,640
Speaker 1: we fucked. It was decent, he complimented me. I thought

926
00:49:30,719 --> 00:49:33,759
Speaker 1: things were good. He was already talking about the next

927
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:36,360
Speaker 1: time quote unquote it was a little awkward, you know,

928
00:49:36,520 --> 00:49:39,600
Speaker 1: first time jitters. Well that was Friday and I haven't

929
00:49:39,640 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 1: heard from him since, and my triping he crossed it off.

930
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 1: I didn't know that so one time, yeah, and that's

931
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 1: the end. And I also want to go ahead and

932
00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:54,600
Speaker 1: say that I think she coined this as a situation

933
00:49:54,640 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 1: ship when it was only a one time fuck. And

934
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:01,360
Speaker 1: I feel like that's a female again, putting a title

935
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 1: or putting more exaggeration on a relationship between two people

936
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 1: and whatever really is. And unfortunately, I feel like a

937
00:50:07,640 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: lot of us women do that, whether it be because

938
00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 1: he's cuddling and staying in the night with me, we're

939
00:50:12,560 --> 00:50:15,919
Speaker 1: getting closer, or whether you know he's sucking me wrong?

940
00:50:16,040 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 1: What about boyfriend girlfriends? But honestly, I just millennial. I'm

941
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: gonna tell you something. There's times that as women we

942
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 1: want to feel validation instantly, that instant gratification at the

943
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,040
Speaker 1: next back or something like that. But then there are

944
00:50:30,120 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 1: also very obvious moments that we just don't want to read.

945
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: You didn't need to write us to hear that. Oh

946
00:50:36,160 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 1: what does that mean? Right? You know what it is

947
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 1: that we ain't need to tell you of my own ship?

948
00:50:42,719 --> 00:50:44,040
Speaker 1: Would love a boy? You know what I'm saying. I've

949
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: been dating to someone that's doing all of these moves,

950
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: taking just every all this effort. But it's like I

951
00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: don't know if I want a girlfriend, So my naga know,

952
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: like I'm sorry, Like I know what you're doing. You're

953
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,480
Speaker 1: playing games, Like I'm giving all some names out here

954
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,680
Speaker 1: like cut off, get to another cubicle, don't talk with him,

955
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:03,640
Speaker 1: no more cute. If someone just bucks me and they

956
00:51:03,760 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 1: not hit me back and ignoring me, I'm done. Simple.

957
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:08,719
Speaker 1: There you go. And I think women, you need to

958
00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 1: you need, you need to definitely value. If I don't

959
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 1: text you back, you cut me off. So it's simple though,

960
00:51:18,160 --> 00:51:20,440
Speaker 1: if someone's not hitting you up there, not thinking about you,

961
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 1: it's especially once it's something was a t no. I mean,

962
00:51:24,719 --> 00:51:26,879
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna call it dumb with its emotions because

963
00:51:26,880 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 1: I'm not going to invalidate somebody's feelings, but I will

964
00:51:29,400 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: tell you that you didn't need this advice, you know, right, Well,

965
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 1: I am so glad you've been here. What we're gonna

966
00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:36,319
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967
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:40,040
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968
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969
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970
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971
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972
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973
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974
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975
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976
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977
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978
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979
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980
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:19,800
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981
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:21,480
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982
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,279
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983
00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:28,760
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984
00:52:30,600 --> 00:52:35,839
Speaker 1: were getting clips. We gotta check out nice people doing

985
00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:38,360
Speaker 1: this all the hells bro. Let me tell you, I

986
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:42,439
Speaker 1: Manny and I work hard. We have hard work. People

987
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:44,320
Speaker 1: don't know how I have this much time, and I

988
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 1: think to put this time and effort to give you

989
00:52:46,040 --> 00:52:49,120
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990
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991
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993
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994
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:02,520
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995
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996
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997
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999
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Speaker 1: love and where can they find you? On Instagram? Twitter?

1000
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:21,400
Speaker 1: What platforms do you want? Instagram? Twitter? Um, Snapchat? I

1001
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:28,239
Speaker 1: m P moon No I a m PM. What kind

1002
00:53:28,239 --> 00:53:30,839
Speaker 1: of thing do you snap? Man? I barely snap people?

1003
00:53:31,239 --> 00:53:33,520
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Put your dick on there? Just don't

1004
00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:36,080
Speaker 1: have a snap? My snap is my snap is my channel?

1005
00:53:36,120 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: You know. Snapp is like I put I bet you

1006
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 1: put your shirts, put your dick on the table. That's

1007
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: a snapchat is for Yeah, I got time for that.

1008
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: And do you have any upcoming projects or like yeah,

1009
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:54,319
Speaker 1: I have dropping sometime in October like late October, ums

1010
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: EP dropping soon and um yeah s O B S.

1011
00:53:57,760 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: I'll be performing at s OBS in October. You should

1012
00:54:01,640 --> 00:54:03,320
Speaker 1: come out. We're having a live show. We want to

1013
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: invite all of our past guests, so you should definitely

1014
00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:08,799
Speaker 1: come out. I'm sure will come because as long as

1015
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: you wear that will be we are going to see this. Well,

1016
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:13,719
Speaker 1: actually you can't wear this precisely because we are going

1017
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 1: to take a picture. The same outfit. You bring the

1018
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:20,320
Speaker 1: same post around, the same dick around, the same shirt

1019
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 1: is fine, you've got it in a different color, and

1020
00:54:23,400 --> 00:54:28,200
Speaker 1: we welcome met. But yeah, we're gonna have a live

1021
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:30,600
Speaker 1: show and hopefully you'll be able to make it. UM,

1022
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:33,000
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1023
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: to touch just touch you and you know, you just

1024
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:37,960
Speaker 1: got to know what it is you guys. But he's

1025
00:54:38,000 --> 00:54:42,600
Speaker 1: apparently carrying condoms around, so he's gonna go out. We're

1026
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:45,959
Speaker 1: definitely gonna bring condoms to the show. I think it's important. Well, guys,

1027
00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:47,600
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1028
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:50,239
Speaker 1: another episode of Horrible Decisions. We want to thank you

1029
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1030
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1031
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1032
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1034
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Speaker 1: as on social media? Easy? Um and yeah. At the

1035
00:55:10,200 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: end of this episode, you're gonna hear the song Red

1036
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 1: Bone again, the full song and they heard Unity beginning,

1037
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Speaker 1: So enjoy, guys, Um, thank you bye, used to bad guy,

1038
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 1: used to see I used to say now I stacked

1039
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Speaker 1: my money to the Senate and know and Umber two's

1040
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Speaker 1: never saying no. This dick is like a gutter her

1041
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Speaker 1: love see games street concrete. Lotus refers to all my motives.

1042
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Speaker 1: I am a chosen one that ain't noticed. Get the

1043
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Speaker 1: eyes while open, but don't stam into my douce to dream.

1044
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Speaker 1: Feeling like the yam and lout is so same. Oh yeah,

1045
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Speaker 1: you know sometimes nigga got a vet, you know, so

1046
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Speaker 1: I expressed myself. Streets be black. That's the fact. Don't

1047
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Speaker 1: you close your eye. Ain't nothing like your summer nice

1048
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Speaker 1: when you're out in New York live every day because

1049
00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:15,000
Speaker 1: life is too shocked. Nicking your tooth socker and mute

1050
00:56:15,040 --> 00:56:18,319
Speaker 1: you with backbone. I'm pulling the jungle, Damn Docles. He's

1051
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Speaker 1: gonna last long. Thank God. My mama raised me well

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Speaker 1: kids off by herself. Shout out my brother, and that said,

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Speaker 1: wish I had that bell. Some say that death is

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Speaker 1: more like heaven because this life is hell. But change

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Speaker 1: you up in that wishing well, homie, wish me well.

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Speaker 1: It's shout how niggas killing niggas and the pigtures putting

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Speaker 1: trickets on them niggers. Yet that's down aside, and the

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Speaker 1: system had that kept my people's image for a living,

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Speaker 1: your ins televised. Don't let them feed you lie, I

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Speaker 1: a concrete lotus. Revert to all my motives. I am

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Speaker 1: the chosen water, fun that ain't noticed. Keep the eyes

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Speaker 1: why open, but don't stay here too. My dous dream

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Speaker 1: fit like the your montin Luther is so still, Oh baby,

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Speaker 1: don't you fire? Won't you fire? Stare Street and pre music.

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Speaker 1: Don't you close your eyes? Mona Street in your music