Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio
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Speaker 1: girls hilarious. We're going to jump straight and these stories
Speaker 1: have been shorter, so yes, I've been able to read them.
Speaker 1: Y'all know, Taylor is really only here when the stories
Speaker 1: are long. As a bitch. Andy come from her friends. Yes,
Speaker 1: that girl got a crazy craziness to friends. Hopefully I
Speaker 1: can help them all. Taylor is a handful by her
Speaker 1: damn self, but I don't have her reading like David
Speaker 1: like two weeks so off just so she can brush
Speaker 1: up on her skills, you know. So we're gonna jump
Speaker 1: straight into it. Here we are, Hi, Jess. So I've
Speaker 1: been dating this guy for about six months and things
Speaker 1: just get better over time. I'm going, that's right. We
Speaker 1: always do things to keep the connection there and date
Speaker 1: each other as if we were still trying to win
Speaker 1: each other over to keep the spark. Oh, I like that.
Speaker 1: That's nice. That's what a lot of these mergers should
Speaker 1: be doing. Okay, Recently I got back in touch with
Speaker 1: some good old friends of mine and have been going
Speaker 1: out a little more than usual, which he loved at first,
Speaker 1: but now I could tell it's starting to bother him.
Speaker 1: Just let me tell you this, Jess. I'm literally with
Speaker 1: this man all the time and give him all of
Speaker 1: my time every time I do have time, okay time.
Speaker 1: I just don't understand why this would be a problem.
Speaker 1: It started about three weeks ago when I came in
Speaker 1: from a girl's night and yes, I was drunk as hell,
Speaker 1: but that's what happens when you go out and have
Speaker 1: a good time. Yeah. I come in the house and
Speaker 1: the first thing he says to me is you've been drinking.
Speaker 1: Damn as clear as day. I've been drinking. But why
Speaker 1: is it a problem? Is what I said to him,
Speaker 1: And he shook his head and walked off. Girl, completely
Speaker 1: threw my energy off, so I just went to bed.
Speaker 1: Another time is when he invited me out to breakfast
Speaker 1: one morning and I told him I had plans with
Speaker 1: my friend later that evening. He still had a problem
Speaker 1: with that. It's not like I canceled on him. I
Speaker 1: just told him that I had plans that evening and
Speaker 1: he completely started giving me attitude, which was really sassy. Hey,
Speaker 1: don't lessen ladies, Stop throwing a fucking sassy word around
Speaker 1: for some of these men, because a lot of shit
Speaker 1: that y'all be saying be sassy don't ain't really be sassy.
Speaker 1: Y'all just got a problem with men that have a
Speaker 1: problem with the shit that y'all be doing. That'll mean
Speaker 1: the niggas sassy all the time, and everybody got problems
Speaker 1: with everybody. Don't agree with everything, but stop throwing that
Speaker 1: sassy word around. I hate that shit, all right. I
Speaker 1: mean there's some sassy niggas out here, some sassy behaviors
Speaker 1: by these men out here. Yeah, but everything is not
Speaker 1: sassy now. I felt like I have to hesitate to
Speaker 1: even tell him that I'm going out. But it shouldn't
Speaker 1: be like that. It shouldn't have to be like that.
Speaker 1: Question is how do I approach him with a conversation
Speaker 1: like this to figure out what exactly is the problem?
Speaker 1: Any advice? Okay, so this is not all that bad. Okay,
Speaker 1: you have like an easier case, I would say, in
Speaker 1: my opinion, I do feel that maybe because it's so abrupt,
Speaker 1: I feel like it's it's probably out of the norm
Speaker 1: of your pattern, Like you have a normal pattern. It's
Speaker 1: not what he's used to. And this just kind of
Speaker 1: came out of nowhere. You even said it. You know,
Speaker 1: you said, I recently got back in touch with some old,
Speaker 1: good old friends of mine. You know what I mean
Speaker 1: that you probably used to, like really really running my
Speaker 1: fucking streets with when you were single or in your
Speaker 1: younger days or whatever. You know, you didn't tell me
Speaker 1: how old you were, But I'm just saying that really
Speaker 1: don't even matter. But like, you know what happens when
Speaker 1: you get caught up with them good old friends. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. See the keywords is good old
Speaker 1: Like you ain't say I caught back up with my
Speaker 1: couple of my friends that you know, you said good
Speaker 1: old friends. Honey, you g O O D O L
Speaker 1: good old so y'all used to have a good old
Speaker 1: time everywhere y'all fucking went. I know what that's like,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And those are the friends
Speaker 1: that I don't really hang with anymore. We talk, but
Speaker 1: I don't hang out with them anymore because I'm not
Speaker 1: really looking for them good old times I used to
Speaker 1: have back in the day before shit really started mattering
Speaker 1: to me, you know, going out drinking, coming in all
Speaker 1: hours of the night and shit like that, like, you know,
Speaker 1: really living life like we was living in college dorms.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like those those things, it
Speaker 1: sounds like he is just more of a traditional guy.
Speaker 1: I could say, you said things get better with time.
Speaker 1: Y'all are constantly trying to, like, you know, reinvent ways
Speaker 1: that y'all can keep the spark, you know, by by
Speaker 1: staying in love with each other, complimenting each other, doing
Speaker 1: whatever that you guys do. Because you didn't really go
Speaker 1: into depth with that, but I know what that means.
Speaker 1: You know, you guys don't want to lose the spark.
Speaker 1: You're happy he was happy. But I'm gonna challenge you
Speaker 1: here because you even told me that he was happy
Speaker 1: for you reconnecting with your good old friends at first,
Speaker 1: and then he wasn't anymore. He didn't really seem thrilled
Speaker 1: about it anymore. I bet you what happened is that
Speaker 1: you started going out a lot a lot, a lot
Speaker 1: a lot and not spending that much time at home. Now,
Speaker 1: I also can empathize with you as a woman when
Speaker 1: you say, yo, I'm around him all the time, like
Speaker 1: you know, but it wasn't a problem for you until
Speaker 1: you got caught up with your good old friends, you know,
Speaker 1: So maybe that can be a conversation, not maybe that
Speaker 1: should be the conversation. You know. I spend all my
Speaker 1: time with you, baby, you know, before even meeting back
Speaker 1: up with my friends or reconnected with my friends, you know,
Speaker 1: which you thought was great for me. It was just us.
Speaker 1: It was you and I. It was you know, because
Speaker 1: I'm like that in my relationship now. You know, I
Speaker 1: don't want to run the streets. I mean, I'll go
Speaker 1: out here and there, well since I've been pregnant, even
Speaker 1: doing shit. But before then, yeah, like I'm a fun girl,
Speaker 1: you know. I do like to hang out with my
Speaker 1: best friend, my cousins, my homegirls. I have like a
Speaker 1: very very small tight circle. Everybody doing their own thing.
Speaker 1: Everybody got their own business, everybody work, everybody, you know.
Speaker 1: But on those times where we come together, we come together,
Speaker 1: and then a lot of times we double date, you know,
Speaker 1: and we'll triple date. We'll have game night at our house.
Speaker 1: You know, y'all just have to come to a medium
Speaker 1: about it. You know. See, if he's open to like
Speaker 1: game nights at chall house with your friends, and he
Speaker 1: has friends, you know, does he have friends that he
Speaker 1: hangs out with? You know, does he have guys nights
Speaker 1: and shit like that? Maybe that's also a suggestion that
Speaker 1: you can have. You know, if he has friends, Yo,
Speaker 1: how about you you hang out with your guys. I
Speaker 1: hang out with my girls. You know, how about we
Speaker 1: do like a joint thing where we'll have game nights.
Speaker 1: You know, how about we double date? We go out
Speaker 1: with my friends and their significant others or whoever they would.
Speaker 1: You know, unless all them bitches are single, done, that's
Speaker 1: a problem, because that's what his problem at If all
Speaker 1: I'm single and all they doing is going out, is
Speaker 1: working and drinking and shit, m you know, it ain't
Speaker 1: really nothing left to do other than getting into some
Speaker 1: shit at that you've been drinking, it's t working and
Speaker 1: coming from the club all night. If that's all y'all doing.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just saying. I'm just saying so I
Speaker 1: understand you, but I also understand him as well. You
Speaker 1: have to give him some grace. You just went from
Speaker 1: being his being around him so much and you know,
Speaker 1: soaking up each other's energy, and like how your message
Speaker 1: started off, Like I'm been thinking this guy for six
Speaker 1: months and then y'all still early in this shit. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like, don't get round your motherfucker
Speaker 1: home girls and had them bitches criticizing your relationship and
Speaker 1: have you second guessing your relationship. You give what I'm
Speaker 1: saying because that could happen to a lot of people.
Speaker 1: Can be an influence. And these your good old friends.
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna never stop saying it like that. They
Speaker 1: your good old friends, your bitches from back in the diday,
Speaker 1: you know. And also if they ain't got what you got,
Speaker 1: then it's gonna show. You know what I'm saying. You
Speaker 1: want a relationship, you gotta remember that at the end
Speaker 1: of the day, you can't live like you used to,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, You can't, especially if you're
Speaker 1: telling me things get better over time. You know, we
Speaker 1: always do things to keep the connection there and date
Speaker 1: each other and all that type shit. Yeah, and at
Speaker 1: first you wasn't this fun go party to go lucky
Speaker 1: girl and shit, you know, and they're out of nowhere.
Speaker 1: You just became that. So he just wanted to know
Speaker 1: that he ain't gonna lose you to that party shit.
Speaker 1: You know, he don't want to be looked at like
Speaker 1: no sump neither. You know. Have you introduced him to
Speaker 1: your friends? That's another thing to you. Oh, by the way,
Speaker 1: this is the guy I've been telling y'all about this,
Speaker 1: the guy I've been up under since you know, reconnecting
Speaker 1: with you guys, before reconnecting with you guys. This is
Speaker 1: the love of my life. I feel whatever, you know,
Speaker 1: whatever you want to say, but make him still feel
Speaker 1: like y'all in a relationship, you give what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: and just give him some grades like fastes. That night
Speaker 1: you say when you came in and he was like,
Speaker 1: damn even drinking. That was the first thing he said.
Speaker 1: Imagine how many times you came in like that? Just
Speaker 1: imagine how many times you came in like that? Because
Speaker 1: I feel like you went from not going out at
Speaker 1: all to going out a whole lot. And you gotta
Speaker 1: gradually change your pattern, if that's what you know, and
Speaker 1: keep that open line of communication, like, baby, it's been fine.
Speaker 1: I love being with you. I didn't think that I
Speaker 1: was actually gonna have this much fun being with them.
Speaker 1: I miss my friends, but I miss you. What I'm
Speaker 1: out to like, you have to find a balance with
Speaker 1: that shit, you know, because everybody ain't going for that.
Speaker 1: So find your balance. Don't lose your man, you know.
Speaker 1: Don't lose your friends either, but definitely don't lose yourself,
Speaker 1: you know. But don't lose your mad because you want
Speaker 1: to go out and be out here partying and shit,
Speaker 1: don't do that. Get back with me though, all right,
Speaker 1: if you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and
Speaker 1: then we'll be right back.
Speaker 2: And moving on.
Speaker 1: Good evening. Just let's get straight into it. Oh, I
Speaker 1: love somebody, get straight into it. So I'm a sucker
Speaker 1: for love and also have a record of falling in
Speaker 1: love too fast. I used to be like that. I
Speaker 1: used to be like that, well fast forward. I've been
Speaker 1: in a consistent relationship for about four months, and I
Speaker 1: love the way things are going. All these early birds,
Speaker 1: all these early bird newlywed honeymoon people. I love it.
Speaker 1: My family and friends love the way it's going, but
Speaker 1: they don't seem very hopeful for me, like something is
Speaker 1: going to happen, So it kind of makes it harder
Speaker 1: for me to be more open with my relationships with them.
Speaker 1: You sound like me, Oh my god. My mom and
Speaker 1: my dad used to and they would get tired of
Speaker 1: meeting niggas like, yo, he only going to be in
Speaker 1: your life for three weeks. Stop I but I totally
Speaker 1: get out totally. This is in my younger days, though
Speaker 1: I glow about him all the time and even showing
Speaker 1: change in myself, positive change. Whenever I would do that,
Speaker 1: it would be a lot of frowned upon and speculating faces,
Speaker 1: which isn't the energy that I'm looking for. I know
Speaker 1: that they just want the best for me, but it
Speaker 1: started to become a little bitter and making me feel
Speaker 1: a type of way. I just want them to be
Speaker 1: happy for me and support me through whatever as I
Speaker 1: would with them. As of right now, I just be
Speaker 1: living my life and enjoying my relationship. But this is
Speaker 1: something that crosses my mind frequently because I do want
Speaker 1: to start bringing him around and get him to interact
Speaker 1: with my friends and family so they can see how
Speaker 1: good of a guy he is, but they make it
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable to do. So how do you think I
Speaker 1: should handle this? Hm? Okay, I will say, you know,
Speaker 1: I do understand. And first of all, y'all ain't even
Speaker 1: letting me know your age is no more. I feel
Speaker 1: like you're all young, and I feel like you're a
Speaker 1: little young with a snapper, you know, same as I was.
Speaker 1: But whether young or not, this is the thing, This
Speaker 1: is the deal. Okay, your family, it's probably tired of
Speaker 1: meeting people, falling in love with these people, getting to
Speaker 1: know these people, interacting with these people, building genuine bonds
Speaker 1: with these people, you know, with these men or whatever
Speaker 1: you know, or guys or whatever, and it's so short
Speaker 1: lived the relationship, you know. So now we gotta cut
Speaker 1: this man off. Now we gotta wonder if we should
Speaker 1: put a foot in his ass because it's something he's
Speaker 1: done to you now, you know, Because people's families don't
Speaker 1: play about them. I mean, it's a lot of families
Speaker 1: that ain't close, but that we're a family. People misconstrued
Speaker 1: that I don't play about my fucking family. I got
Speaker 1: a little sister, I don't play about I don't I
Speaker 1: got a big brother. I don't play about it. I
Speaker 1: got a big brother. They don't fucking play about me.
Speaker 1: My little sister don't play about me either. The relationship
Speaker 1: before this one, that girl wanted to take that nigga
Speaker 1: head off. Believe that, you know, and a little young
Speaker 1: ass could do so you know, she could fight, she
Speaker 1: could fight, you know, she get it from me. So
Speaker 1: and then even a couple of her relationships, you know,
Speaker 1: with her being twenty. You know, I'm not ever opposed
Speaker 1: to meeting somebody. You know, I'm not ever opposed to
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not oppositional about saying, oh, hello, how
Speaker 1: you doing whatever, whatever, But I don't even like to
Speaker 1: get to know people. So I definitely feel your family
Speaker 1: on this, and I don't like to get to know
Speaker 1: people and get close to them and then out of
Speaker 1: no way, I see my baby sister crying or is
Speaker 1: she breaking up with this person or she going through shit?
Speaker 1: And rightfully, so, no relationship is ever going to be perfect.
Speaker 1: None is perfect. You know, it's just keep it there.
Speaker 1: You know. There's gonna be times where you're sad, you're frustrated,
Speaker 1: their arguments and they're but no one should be sitting
Speaker 1: anywhere fucking crying because they feel like they're putting more
Speaker 1: than they're you know, into a relationship than they're getting nobody.
Speaker 1: So it's been like a couple of people I wanted
Speaker 1: to put my mother fucking hands on, you know, when
Speaker 1: it came to my sister and these are people that
Speaker 1: I get to know and shit, you know, because she
Speaker 1: is social butterfly. She She's a beautiful girl, creative, charming,
Speaker 1: you know, she's just like me, Purri, you know, like Swaggy,
Speaker 1: all that good person at heart. And she's a lover
Speaker 1: you feel me. And people take advantage of that shit,
Speaker 1: and when they do take advantage of it, you want
Speaker 1: to do something about it, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: after you'dnt already met and started building a bond with
Speaker 1: the person. Because this is, you know, your boyfriend or
Speaker 1: this is your girlfriend, and I'm your family member. I
Speaker 1: want to support you and all your happiness and your
Speaker 1: success and how you feeling. But the moment somebody turned
Speaker 1: on you, I'm at the front line like, yeah, that's right,
Speaker 1: who the fuck need to be smack? You know? So
Speaker 1: I definitely understand it. And then even in my case,
Speaker 1: my mom didn't want to meet Chris, like right away,
Speaker 1: she didn't. You know, I had a tendency of falling
Speaker 1: in love very very fast, putting the title on shit
Speaker 1: very fast before I fully got to know people. And
Speaker 1: that's why my mom knows that I had She knew
Speaker 1: that I had a pastor that you know I had
Speaker 1: a history of that. Everybody knew that. My dad, he's
Speaker 1: never said no, I don't want to meet such and such.
Speaker 1: I meet him, you know what I mean. But he
Speaker 1: never really stepped too far in my relationships, you know.
Speaker 1: My mom, she was like, Nope, don't introduce me to
Speaker 1: nobody else until you notice is the person you're gonna
Speaker 1: be with, because I'm tired of meeting people and I'm
Speaker 1: tired of creating bonds with them, and then you get
Speaker 1: upset with me because I don't cut them off when
Speaker 1: you cut them off. You know, my mom's not that
Speaker 1: type of person. I act like I never knew your
Speaker 1: fucking ass half to dating you for three years, fuck like,
Speaker 1: and I swear that's my ship right there, that's my
Speaker 1: ship there. I will act like I never fucking seen
Speaker 1: you before and speak to you again and introduce myself like,
Speaker 1: how you know I ain't never seen you around here before.
Speaker 1: It'll be a whole ex I'm talking about. What excuse me?
Speaker 1: How on?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: No, the cutoff game is beyond extremely strong with me.
Speaker 1: So my mom shanet like that, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So that's why she told me, Nah, didn't want to
Speaker 1: meet your boyfriend didn't want to meet Chris until you
Speaker 1: knew it was real, you know, and it ended up
Speaker 1: being fucking real, so she had to meet him. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm out of breath because I'm pregnant. But yeah, so
Speaker 1: I understand your family side. Hold up, hold up, I
Speaker 1: know this shit getting good, But listen to just a
Speaker 1: couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll
Speaker 1: listen now. Understanding your side, I understand it because I've
Speaker 1: been there. I know my little sister's been there. I
Speaker 1: know my brother has been there. I know how that is.
Speaker 1: I know there's been times that we can't really see
Speaker 1: the role ahead, you know, because we're so trusting, we're
Speaker 1: so open, we're so quick to love on somebody, you
Speaker 1: know that we forget to actually get to know them.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, the first three or four
Speaker 1: months that you're dating somebody, you ain't really dating that
Speaker 1: person anyway. That's what I always say. You know, it's
Speaker 1: a trial period. You know how you get a job
Speaker 1: and it's a trial period. You know, you got ninety
Speaker 1: days probation. You love your job, and then you slowly
Speaker 1: but surely start to hate your job. You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because when you start saying everybody for what
Speaker 1: they are, you start falling out with co workers. They're
Speaker 1: asking you to do more, and then they hired you
Speaker 1: to do you feel like you're underpaid and overwork and
Speaker 1: shit like that. That usually comes after that ninety fucking days.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's the same with everything,
Speaker 1: same with everything, same in a relationship, you know, because
Speaker 1: nobody's gonna really show you who they are upfront, up front?
Speaker 1: How are you when you're sick of being around a person?
Speaker 1: How are you when your moody? How are you when
Speaker 1: you in your period? How are you when you know
Speaker 1: you don't get no pussy for weeks at a time
Speaker 1: or days at a time. And how are you if
Speaker 1: somebody make you mad? You know what I'm saying. Ain't
Speaker 1: nobody gonna be focused on making you may trying to
Speaker 1: make the person that you're fucking with for three months
Speaker 1: mad in the first three months, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Just because everything is just so great. You know, you
Speaker 1: know you've been in this relationship for four months. You
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. So it's always good to take
Speaker 1: your space too, Like, don't be up under a motherfucker
Speaker 1: all the time, because then you'll get tired of that person.
Speaker 1: That's what happened with me. I would get tired a niggas,
Speaker 1: and the same thing that I thought was cute about
Speaker 1: a nigga in the first two months would be devastatingly
Speaker 1: tacky about the same nigga. Same shit he been doing,
Speaker 1: same but he's been wearing the same socks he been
Speaker 1: wearing with the hole in the bottom I used to
Speaker 1: think was cute. Now I thank you, bum Like all
Speaker 1: everything his mother, I thought his mother was cool. She
Speaker 1: a clown now, like every Listen, that's why you got
Speaker 1: to get to know people, and you don't get to
Speaker 1: know nobody in four months. You know what I mean.
Speaker 1: It's people that are newlyweds, I mean married, that are
Speaker 1: still getting to know each other. Me and my boyfriend
Speaker 1: are still getting to know each other. Right now, you
Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. Every relationship is different. I'm not
Speaker 1: comparing yours to mine. All I can do is give
Speaker 1: you my experience, you know, and give you what I
Speaker 1: think we've beneficial to you. You know, as far as
Speaker 1: you needing advice about it, don't be so hard on
Speaker 1: your family. You know, because they love you and they
Speaker 1: want to protect you no matter the fuck what, and
Speaker 1: they want to help protect your feelings. Sometimes you gotta
Speaker 1: let people go through things. I had to get like
Speaker 1: that with my little sister. Should let her go through things,
Speaker 1: you know, because people let me go through things. When
Speaker 1: I was younger, I thought, but I thought every boyfriend
Speaker 1: I had from the time I was what eighteen to
Speaker 1: fucking twenty five was the one? Was the one? Right?
Speaker 1: Silly me? But then not silly. Mean, when you're young,
Speaker 1: you ignore red flags. You got the blinders on you
Speaker 1: get you know what I'm saying. So girl, I just
Speaker 1: want to let you know that, don't be so hot
Speaker 1: in your family and then share your experience with just you.
Speaker 1: You know, love on yourself, love on that person, but
Speaker 1: love on yourself more, you know, not saying be selfish
Speaker 1: with that person. But you know, cause it could be
Speaker 1: you too. It ain't got to always be the other person.
Speaker 1: It could be your ass, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Think about why so many of your relationships failed. Don't
Speaker 1: blame it on another person. Don't be quick to do that.
Speaker 1: It could be you. It could be you had just
Speaker 1: haven't found everything you're looking four in one person yet,
Speaker 1: And let me tell you, that's gonna take a while
Speaker 1: a long time, because nobody's perfect. If we can build
Speaker 1: our own person, everybody will be with who they want
Speaker 1: to be with. But that's that's the genius and dating.
Speaker 1: That's that's why we date, to figure out what we
Speaker 1: will accept, what we want to accept, who we are
Speaker 1: because you learn things about yourself in every relationship, whether
Speaker 1: you're talking to a nigga, fucking a nigga, you with them,
Speaker 1: or whatever, you learn things about yourself. This is inappropriate
Speaker 1: for me. These are my boundaries. This is what I
Speaker 1: will allow, This is what I will not like. Learn
Speaker 1: yourself and love yourself. Move forward to your relationship. Shit,
Speaker 1: give that shit, six months? Give that shit eight months?
Speaker 1: Why do you want to tell everybody anyway? Nah? Don't.
Speaker 1: Don't tell everybody, and then I'm telling you. I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: baby girl, four months. I wouldn't want to meet a
Speaker 1: nigga after four months, Neiga. You know if I'm your
Speaker 1: mom or your sister, your you know, brother, cousin, friend,
Speaker 1: that I four months ain't enough for me, especially if
Speaker 1: I know you and I've seen this before. Nah, don't
Speaker 1: bring that nigga around me until y'all six to eight
Speaker 1: months in seriously, and don't bring them to me until
Speaker 1: y'all have had some fucking differences, Like if y'all had arguments, So, like,
Speaker 1: y'all need to get to know each other. Like I said,
Speaker 1: like I argue with a nigga, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Don't pick a fight, but no, find out what he
Speaker 1: don't like. You know, like I don't want me to
Speaker 1: me you ain't never been through nothing. That's some bullshit
Speaker 1: I want to know. Oh, all right, So we had
Speaker 1: a fight, We had a disagreement, and shit, he handled
Speaker 1: it this way. I could have handled it better. Well,
Speaker 1: he could have handled it better, but we both talked
Speaker 1: it over. We're good.
Speaker 2: Like.
Speaker 1: That's that's getting to know one another. That's getting to
Speaker 1: know communication. That's getting to know how you communicate, how
Speaker 1: honest this person will be with you, how honest you're
Speaker 1: willing to be with that person. That's getting to know somebody,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So until y'all have been
Speaker 1: through some shit and y'all like got through it and
Speaker 1: you're not turned off by it, don't introduce that person
Speaker 1: to nobody and he shouldn't be offended that your family
Speaker 1: don't want to should explain that shit to him, just
Speaker 1: like you told me, I fall in love too fast
Speaker 1: and I've had a pass of doing that and blah
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. So like, you know, just say that shit,
Speaker 1: say that shit, tell him that he can't be upset.
Speaker 1: That's your past, but that was before him, and that's
Speaker 1: just a result of your past, you know, with your family.
Speaker 1: But trust me, they don't want to not like it, nobody.
Speaker 1: That's why they don't want to meet him right now,
Speaker 1: because they don't want to not like his ass in
Speaker 1: the future and then have to ride at dawn and shit,
Speaker 1: because you come home like this, nigga put his hand
Speaker 1: around my neck, like what you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: So don't be so hard on them. But I love
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