1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:17,960 Speaker 1: and The Black Effect. Oh shit, be back on the air, 3 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:20,560 Speaker 1: Welcome back to You had another catholic Reckless episode, which 4 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 1: girls hilarious. We're going to jump straight and these stories 5 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:29,440 Speaker 1: have been shorter, so yes, I've been able to read them. 6 00:00:29,520 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 1: Y'all know, Taylor is really only here when the stories 7 00:00:32,760 --> 00:00:36,120 Speaker 1: are long. As a bitch. Andy come from her friends. Yes, 8 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: that girl got a crazy craziness to friends. Hopefully I 9 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: can help them all. Taylor is a handful by her 10 00:00:44,760 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: damn self, but I don't have her reading like David 11 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 1: like two weeks so off just so she can brush 12 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 1: up on her skills, you know. So we're gonna jump 13 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: straight into it. Here we are, Hi, Jess. So I've 14 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: been dating this guy for about six months and things 15 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 1: just get better over time. I'm going, that's right. We 16 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:08,400 Speaker 1: always do things to keep the connection there and date 17 00:01:08,440 --> 00:01:10,119 Speaker 1: each other as if we were still trying to win 18 00:01:10,200 --> 00:01:12,639 Speaker 1: each other over to keep the spark. Oh, I like that. 19 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:15,280 Speaker 1: That's nice. That's what a lot of these mergers should 20 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: be doing. Okay, Recently I got back in touch with 21 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 1: some good old friends of mine and have been going 22 00:01:20,520 --> 00:01:24,080 Speaker 1: out a little more than usual, which he loved at first, 23 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 1: but now I could tell it's starting to bother him. 24 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: Just let me tell you this, Jess. I'm literally with 25 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:32,800 Speaker 1: this man all the time and give him all of 26 00:01:32,840 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 1: my time every time I do have time, okay time. 27 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 1: I just don't understand why this would be a problem. 28 00:01:39,800 --> 00:01:42,040 Speaker 1: It started about three weeks ago when I came in 29 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 1: from a girl's night and yes, I was drunk as hell, 30 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:46,360 Speaker 1: but that's what happens when you go out and have 31 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: a good time. Yeah. I come in the house and 32 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:51,840 Speaker 1: the first thing he says to me is you've been drinking. 33 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: Damn as clear as day. I've been drinking. But why 34 00:01:55,640 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: is it a problem? Is what I said to him, 35 00:01:58,440 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: And he shook his head and walked off. Girl, completely 36 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: threw my energy off, so I just went to bed. 37 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 1: Another time is when he invited me out to breakfast 38 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 1: one morning and I told him I had plans with 39 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:11,880 Speaker 1: my friend later that evening. He still had a problem 40 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,680 Speaker 1: with that. It's not like I canceled on him. I 41 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:16,600 Speaker 1: just told him that I had plans that evening and 42 00:02:16,639 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 1: he completely started giving me attitude, which was really sassy. Hey, 43 00:02:22,520 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 1: don't lessen ladies, Stop throwing a fucking sassy word around 44 00:02:26,880 --> 00:02:28,240 Speaker 1: for some of these men, because a lot of shit 45 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: that y'all be saying be sassy don't ain't really be sassy. 46 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,160 Speaker 1: Y'all just got a problem with men that have a 47 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: problem with the shit that y'all be doing. That'll mean 48 00:02:36,919 --> 00:02:39,800 Speaker 1: the niggas sassy all the time, and everybody got problems 49 00:02:39,800 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 1: with everybody. Don't agree with everything, but stop throwing that 50 00:02:42,160 --> 00:02:45,640 Speaker 1: sassy word around. I hate that shit, all right. I 51 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: mean there's some sassy niggas out here, some sassy behaviors 52 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: by these men out here. Yeah, but everything is not 53 00:02:51,880 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: sassy now. I felt like I have to hesitate to 54 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: even tell him that I'm going out. But it shouldn't 55 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,119 Speaker 1: be like that. It shouldn't have to be like that. 56 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,200 Speaker 1: Question is how do I approach him with a conversation 57 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: like this to figure out what exactly is the problem? 58 00:03:05,680 --> 00:03:11,600 Speaker 1: Any advice? Okay, so this is not all that bad. Okay, 59 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: you have like an easier case, I would say, in 60 00:03:15,320 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: my opinion, I do feel that maybe because it's so abrupt, 61 00:03:21,639 --> 00:03:24,440 Speaker 1: I feel like it's it's probably out of the norm 62 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:27,120 Speaker 1: of your pattern, Like you have a normal pattern. It's 63 00:03:27,160 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 1: not what he's used to. And this just kind of 64 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:30,680 Speaker 1: came out of nowhere. You even said it. You know, 65 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:33,919 Speaker 1: you said, I recently got back in touch with some old, 66 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:36,119 Speaker 1: good old friends of mine. You know what I mean 67 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 1: that you probably used to, like really really running my 68 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,480 Speaker 1: fucking streets with when you were single or in your 69 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: younger days or whatever. You know, you didn't tell me 70 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: how old you were, But I'm just saying that really 71 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: don't even matter. But like, you know what happens when 72 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:51,320 Speaker 1: you get caught up with them good old friends. You 73 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. See the keywords is good old 74 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: Like you ain't say I caught back up with my 75 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,840 Speaker 1: couple of my friends that you know, you said good 76 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: old friends. Honey, you g O O D O L 77 00:04:04,760 --> 00:04:07,280 Speaker 1: good old so y'all used to have a good old 78 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:11,280 Speaker 1: time everywhere y'all fucking went. I know what that's like, 79 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. And those are the friends 80 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: that I don't really hang with anymore. We talk, but 81 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,400 Speaker 1: I don't hang out with them anymore because I'm not 82 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 1: really looking for them good old times I used to 83 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:26,279 Speaker 1: have back in the day before shit really started mattering 84 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: to me, you know, going out drinking, coming in all 85 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 1: hours of the night and shit like that, like, you know, 86 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:37,680 Speaker 1: really living life like we was living in college dorms. 87 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:40,800 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like those those things, it 88 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: sounds like he is just more of a traditional guy. 89 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: I could say, you said things get better with time. 90 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: Y'all are constantly trying to, like, you know, reinvent ways 91 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: that y'all can keep the spark, you know, by by 92 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 1: staying in love with each other, complimenting each other, doing 93 00:04:57,000 --> 00:04:58,919 Speaker 1: whatever that you guys do. Because you didn't really go 94 00:04:59,000 --> 00:05:00,919 Speaker 1: into depth with that, but I know what that means. 95 00:05:00,960 --> 00:05:02,640 Speaker 1: You know, you guys don't want to lose the spark. 96 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: You're happy he was happy. But I'm gonna challenge you 97 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,839 Speaker 1: here because you even told me that he was happy 98 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 1: for you reconnecting with your good old friends at first, 99 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 1: and then he wasn't anymore. He didn't really seem thrilled 100 00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 1: about it anymore. I bet you what happened is that 101 00:05:20,080 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: you started going out a lot a lot, a lot 102 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 1: a lot and not spending that much time at home. Now, 103 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: I also can empathize with you as a woman when 104 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:32,840 Speaker 1: you say, yo, I'm around him all the time, like 105 00:05:32,920 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: you know, but it wasn't a problem for you until 106 00:05:36,400 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: you got caught up with your good old friends, you know, 107 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 1: So maybe that can be a conversation, not maybe that 108 00:05:43,960 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 1: should be the conversation. You know. I spend all my 109 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: time with you, baby, you know, before even meeting back 110 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 1: up with my friends or reconnected with my friends, you know, 111 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: which you thought was great for me. It was just us. 112 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:57,040 Speaker 1: It was you and I. It was you know, because 113 00:05:57,080 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: I'm like that in my relationship now. You know, I 114 00:05:59,560 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: don't want to run the streets. I mean, I'll go 115 00:06:01,279 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 1: out here and there, well since I've been pregnant, even 116 00:06:03,480 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 1: doing shit. But before then, yeah, like I'm a fun girl, 117 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: you know. I do like to hang out with my 118 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:11,560 Speaker 1: best friend, my cousins, my homegirls. I have like a 119 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:14,120 Speaker 1: very very small tight circle. Everybody doing their own thing. 120 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: Everybody got their own business, everybody work, everybody, you know. 121 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:20,400 Speaker 1: But on those times where we come together, we come together, 122 00:06:20,560 --> 00:06:22,719 Speaker 1: and then a lot of times we double date, you know, 123 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: and we'll triple date. We'll have game night at our house. 124 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:28,120 Speaker 1: You know, y'all just have to come to a medium 125 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: about it. You know. See, if he's open to like 126 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:34,719 Speaker 1: game nights at chall house with your friends, and he 127 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: has friends, you know, does he have friends that he 128 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:39,839 Speaker 1: hangs out with? You know, does he have guys nights 129 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:43,159 Speaker 1: and shit like that? Maybe that's also a suggestion that 130 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 1: you can have. You know, if he has friends, Yo, 131 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 1: how about you you hang out with your guys. I 132 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: hang out with my girls. You know, how about we 133 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: do like a joint thing where we'll have game nights. 134 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 1: You know, how about we double date? We go out 135 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: with my friends and their significant others or whoever they would. 136 00:07:03,440 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: You know, unless all them bitches are single, done, that's 137 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: a problem, because that's what his problem at If all 138 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 1: I'm single and all they doing is going out, is 139 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: working and drinking and shit, m you know, it ain't 140 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 1: really nothing left to do other than getting into some 141 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: shit at that you've been drinking, it's t working and 142 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,840 Speaker 1: coming from the club all night. If that's all y'all doing. 143 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: You know, I'm just saying. I'm just saying so I 144 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: understand you, but I also understand him as well. You 145 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: have to give him some grace. You just went from 146 00:07:32,880 --> 00:07:37,080 Speaker 1: being his being around him so much and you know, 147 00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 1: soaking up each other's energy, and like how your message 148 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: started off, Like I'm been thinking this guy for six 149 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:46,720 Speaker 1: months and then y'all still early in this shit. You 150 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,480 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, like, don't get round your motherfucker 151 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: home girls and had them bitches criticizing your relationship and 152 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 1: have you second guessing your relationship. You give what I'm 153 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: saying because that could happen to a lot of people. 154 00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:02,400 Speaker 1: Can be an influence. And these your good old friends. 155 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna never stop saying it like that. They 156 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 1: your good old friends, your bitches from back in the diday, 157 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 1: you know. And also if they ain't got what you got, 158 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: then it's gonna show. You know what I'm saying. You 159 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 1: want a relationship, you gotta remember that at the end 160 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 1: of the day, you can't live like you used to, 161 00:08:21,120 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, You can't, especially if you're 162 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:28,080 Speaker 1: telling me things get better over time. You know, we 163 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 1: always do things to keep the connection there and date 164 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: each other and all that type shit. Yeah, and at 165 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: first you wasn't this fun go party to go lucky 166 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: girl and shit, you know, and they're out of nowhere. 167 00:08:38,960 --> 00:08:42,280 Speaker 1: You just became that. So he just wanted to know 168 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:44,560 Speaker 1: that he ain't gonna lose you to that party shit. 169 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:47,679 Speaker 1: You know, he don't want to be looked at like 170 00:08:47,720 --> 00:08:50,960 Speaker 1: no sump neither. You know. Have you introduced him to 171 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:53,959 Speaker 1: your friends? That's another thing to you. Oh, by the way, 172 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: this is the guy I've been telling y'all about this, 173 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 1: the guy I've been up under since you know, reconnecting 174 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 1: with you guys, before reconnecting with you guys. This is 175 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: the love of my life. I feel whatever, you know, 176 00:09:05,640 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: whatever you want to say, but make him still feel 177 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:12,560 Speaker 1: like y'all in a relationship, you give what I'm saying, 178 00:09:13,400 --> 00:09:15,440 Speaker 1: and just give him some grades like fastes. That night 179 00:09:15,600 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: you say when you came in and he was like, 180 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 1: damn even drinking. That was the first thing he said. 181 00:09:22,240 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: Imagine how many times you came in like that? Just 182 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,800 Speaker 1: imagine how many times you came in like that? Because 183 00:09:28,840 --> 00:09:30,440 Speaker 1: I feel like you went from not going out at 184 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: all to going out a whole lot. And you gotta 185 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,679 Speaker 1: gradually change your pattern, if that's what you know, and 186 00:09:35,880 --> 00:09:39,600 Speaker 1: keep that open line of communication, like, baby, it's been fine. 187 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:41,720 Speaker 1: I love being with you. I didn't think that I 188 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:43,720 Speaker 1: was actually gonna have this much fun being with them. 189 00:09:43,760 --> 00:09:46,040 Speaker 1: I miss my friends, but I miss you. What I'm 190 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: out to like, you have to find a balance with 191 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:51,440 Speaker 1: that shit, you know, because everybody ain't going for that. 192 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: So find your balance. Don't lose your man, you know. 193 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: Don't lose your friends either, but definitely don't lose yourself, 194 00:09:59,400 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 1: you know. But don't lose your mad because you want 195 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: to go out and be out here partying and shit, 196 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 1: don't do that. Get back with me though, all right, 197 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 1: if you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and 198 00:10:10,559 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 1: then we'll be right back. 199 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 2: And moving on. 200 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: Good evening. Just let's get straight into it. Oh, I 201 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:24,040 Speaker 1: love somebody, get straight into it. So I'm a sucker 202 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:26,800 Speaker 1: for love and also have a record of falling in 203 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 1: love too fast. I used to be like that. I 204 00:10:29,840 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: used to be like that, well fast forward. I've been 205 00:10:32,920 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: in a consistent relationship for about four months, and I 206 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 1: love the way things are going. All these early birds, 207 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: all these early bird newlywed honeymoon people. I love it. 208 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: My family and friends love the way it's going, but 209 00:10:46,200 --> 00:10:49,200 Speaker 1: they don't seem very hopeful for me, like something is 210 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,960 Speaker 1: going to happen, So it kind of makes it harder 211 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: for me to be more open with my relationships with them. 212 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: You sound like me, Oh my god. My mom and 213 00:10:59,160 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 1: my dad used to and they would get tired of 214 00:11:01,480 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 1: meeting niggas like, yo, he only going to be in 215 00:11:03,559 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: your life for three weeks. Stop I but I totally 216 00:11:06,200 --> 00:11:08,240 Speaker 1: get out totally. This is in my younger days, though 217 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:12,040 Speaker 1: I glow about him all the time and even showing 218 00:11:12,160 --> 00:11:15,600 Speaker 1: change in myself, positive change. Whenever I would do that, 219 00:11:15,800 --> 00:11:19,040 Speaker 1: it would be a lot of frowned upon and speculating faces, 220 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,760 Speaker 1: which isn't the energy that I'm looking for. I know 221 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:24,199 Speaker 1: that they just want the best for me, but it 222 00:11:24,280 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 1: started to become a little bitter and making me feel 223 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: a type of way. I just want them to be 224 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 1: happy for me and support me through whatever as I 225 00:11:31,640 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 1: would with them. As of right now, I just be 226 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: living my life and enjoying my relationship. But this is 227 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:41,240 Speaker 1: something that crosses my mind frequently because I do want 228 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:44,240 Speaker 1: to start bringing him around and get him to interact 229 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:46,480 Speaker 1: with my friends and family so they can see how 230 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 1: good of a guy he is, but they make it 231 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:50,959 Speaker 1: so uncomfortable to do. So how do you think I 232 00:11:51,000 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: should handle this? Hm? Okay, I will say, you know, 233 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:02,440 Speaker 1: I do understand. And first of all, y'all ain't even 234 00:12:02,520 --> 00:12:04,280 Speaker 1: letting me know your age is no more. I feel 235 00:12:04,320 --> 00:12:07,839 Speaker 1: like you're all young, and I feel like you're a 236 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 1: little young with a snapper, you know, same as I was. 237 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:14,960 Speaker 1: But whether young or not, this is the thing, This 238 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: is the deal. Okay, your family, it's probably tired of 239 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,240 Speaker 1: meeting people, falling in love with these people, getting to 240 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:28,120 Speaker 1: know these people, interacting with these people, building genuine bonds 241 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: with these people, you know, with these men or whatever 242 00:12:31,880 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: you know, or guys or whatever, and it's so short 243 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: lived the relationship, you know. So now we gotta cut 244 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: this man off. Now we gotta wonder if we should 245 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: put a foot in his ass because it's something he's 246 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:50,320 Speaker 1: done to you now, you know, Because people's families don't 247 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 1: play about them. I mean, it's a lot of families 248 00:12:52,520 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 1: that ain't close, but that we're a family. People misconstrued 249 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 1: that I don't play about my fucking family. I got 250 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:00,960 Speaker 1: a little sister, I don't play about I don't I 251 00:13:00,960 --> 00:13:02,439 Speaker 1: got a big brother. I don't play about it. I 252 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: got a big brother. They don't fucking play about me. 253 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: My little sister don't play about me either. The relationship 254 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 1: before this one, that girl wanted to take that nigga 255 00:13:09,880 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 1: head off. Believe that, you know, and a little young 256 00:13:13,040 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 1: ass could do so you know, she could fight, she 257 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:17,440 Speaker 1: could fight, you know, she get it from me. So 258 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 1: and then even a couple of her relationships, you know, 259 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:24,440 Speaker 1: with her being twenty. You know, I'm not ever opposed 260 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,440 Speaker 1: to meeting somebody. You know, I'm not ever opposed to 261 00:13:27,840 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not oppositional about saying, oh, hello, how 262 00:13:30,559 --> 00:13:32,320 Speaker 1: you doing whatever, whatever, But I don't even like to 263 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 1: get to know people. So I definitely feel your family 264 00:13:34,760 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: on this, and I don't like to get to know 265 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 1: people and get close to them and then out of 266 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: no way, I see my baby sister crying or is 267 00:13:41,920 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: she breaking up with this person or she going through shit? 268 00:13:45,000 --> 00:13:49,640 Speaker 1: And rightfully, so, no relationship is ever going to be perfect. 269 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 1: None is perfect. You know, it's just keep it there. 270 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 1: You know. There's gonna be times where you're sad, you're frustrated, 271 00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 1: their arguments and they're but no one should be sitting 272 00:14:00,400 --> 00:14:04,680 Speaker 1: anywhere fucking crying because they feel like they're putting more 273 00:14:05,080 --> 00:14:08,719 Speaker 1: than they're you know, into a relationship than they're getting nobody. 274 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:10,840 Speaker 1: So it's been like a couple of people I wanted 275 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:13,640 Speaker 1: to put my mother fucking hands on, you know, when 276 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,840 Speaker 1: it came to my sister and these are people that 277 00:14:16,920 --> 00:14:19,400 Speaker 1: I get to know and shit, you know, because she 278 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 1: is social butterfly. She She's a beautiful girl, creative, charming, 279 00:14:25,480 --> 00:14:30,720 Speaker 1: you know, she's just like me, Purri, you know, like Swaggy, 280 00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:33,800 Speaker 1: all that good person at heart. And she's a lover 281 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: you feel me. And people take advantage of that shit, 282 00:14:37,320 --> 00:14:41,040 Speaker 1: and when they do take advantage of it, you want 283 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,120 Speaker 1: to do something about it, you know what I'm saying, 284 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: after you'dnt already met and started building a bond with 285 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: the person. Because this is, you know, your boyfriend or 286 00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:52,800 Speaker 1: this is your girlfriend, and I'm your family member. I 287 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: want to support you and all your happiness and your 288 00:14:55,440 --> 00:14:58,520 Speaker 1: success and how you feeling. But the moment somebody turned 289 00:14:58,520 --> 00:15:01,680 Speaker 1: on you, I'm at the front line like, yeah, that's right, 290 00:15:01,720 --> 00:15:03,720 Speaker 1: who the fuck need to be smack? You know? So 291 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,600 Speaker 1: I definitely understand it. And then even in my case, 292 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 1: my mom didn't want to meet Chris, like right away, 293 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:13,800 Speaker 1: she didn't. You know, I had a tendency of falling 294 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: in love very very fast, putting the title on shit 295 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: very fast before I fully got to know people. And 296 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: that's why my mom knows that I had She knew 297 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 1: that I had a pastor that you know I had 298 00:15:24,720 --> 00:15:27,840 Speaker 1: a history of that. Everybody knew that. My dad, he's 299 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: never said no, I don't want to meet such and such. 300 00:15:30,120 --> 00:15:31,960 Speaker 1: I meet him, you know what I mean. But he 301 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: never really stepped too far in my relationships, you know. 302 00:15:34,840 --> 00:15:37,520 Speaker 1: My mom, she was like, Nope, don't introduce me to 303 00:15:37,560 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: nobody else until you notice is the person you're gonna 304 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 1: be with, because I'm tired of meeting people and I'm 305 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:44,640 Speaker 1: tired of creating bonds with them, and then you get 306 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:47,240 Speaker 1: upset with me because I don't cut them off when 307 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: you cut them off. You know, my mom's not that 308 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 1: type of person. I act like I never knew your 309 00:15:52,520 --> 00:15:55,360 Speaker 1: fucking ass half to dating you for three years, fuck like, 310 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:59,600 Speaker 1: and I swear that's my ship right there, that's my 311 00:15:59,640 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 1: ship there. I will act like I never fucking seen 312 00:16:03,040 --> 00:16:07,120 Speaker 1: you before and speak to you again and introduce myself like, 313 00:16:07,160 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 1: how you know I ain't never seen you around here before. 314 00:16:09,400 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 1: It'll be a whole ex I'm talking about. What excuse me? 315 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:12,400 Speaker 1: How on? 316 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? 317 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 1: No, the cutoff game is beyond extremely strong with me. 318 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:19,720 Speaker 1: So my mom shanet like that, you know what I mean. 319 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 1: So that's why she told me, Nah, didn't want to 320 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: meet your boyfriend didn't want to meet Chris until you 321 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 1: knew it was real, you know, and it ended up 322 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,640 Speaker 1: being fucking real, so she had to meet him. You know, 323 00:16:31,800 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 1: I'm out of breath because I'm pregnant. But yeah, so 324 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:39,480 Speaker 1: I understand your family side. Hold up, hold up, I 325 00:16:39,520 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: know this shit getting good, But listen to just a 326 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,680 Speaker 1: couple seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll 327 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: listen now. Understanding your side, I understand it because I've 328 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: been there. I know my little sister's been there. I 329 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: know my brother has been there. I know how that is. 330 00:16:56,400 --> 00:16:59,640 Speaker 1: I know there's been times that we can't really see 331 00:16:59,640 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: the role ahead, you know, because we're so trusting, we're 332 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:07,280 Speaker 1: so open, we're so quick to love on somebody, you 333 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 1: know that we forget to actually get to know them. 334 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, the first three or four 335 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:19,199 Speaker 1: months that you're dating somebody, you ain't really dating that 336 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,480 Speaker 1: person anyway. That's what I always say. You know, it's 337 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 1: a trial period. You know how you get a job 338 00:17:26,320 --> 00:17:28,640 Speaker 1: and it's a trial period. You know, you got ninety 339 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:34,320 Speaker 1: days probation. You love your job, and then you slowly 340 00:17:34,359 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 1: but surely start to hate your job. You know what 341 00:17:38,800 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: I'm saying, because when you start saying everybody for what 342 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:44,440 Speaker 1: they are, you start falling out with co workers. They're 343 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 1: asking you to do more, and then they hired you 344 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:49,520 Speaker 1: to do you feel like you're underpaid and overwork and 345 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 1: shit like that. That usually comes after that ninety fucking days. 346 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's the same with everything, 347 00:17:55,160 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 1: same with everything, same in a relationship, you know, because 348 00:18:00,600 --> 00:18:04,159 Speaker 1: nobody's gonna really show you who they are upfront, up front? 349 00:18:04,720 --> 00:18:07,720 Speaker 1: How are you when you're sick of being around a person? 350 00:18:07,760 --> 00:18:10,720 Speaker 1: How are you when your moody? How are you when 351 00:18:10,720 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 1: you in your period? How are you when you know 352 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,640 Speaker 1: you don't get no pussy for weeks at a time 353 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:19,120 Speaker 1: or days at a time. And how are you if 354 00:18:19,119 --> 00:18:21,160 Speaker 1: somebody make you mad? You know what I'm saying. Ain't 355 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 1: nobody gonna be focused on making you may trying to 356 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,080 Speaker 1: make the person that you're fucking with for three months 357 00:18:25,080 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 1: mad in the first three months, you know what I'm saying, 358 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 1: Just because everything is just so great. You know, you 359 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:34,760 Speaker 1: know you've been in this relationship for four months. You 360 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. So it's always good to take 361 00:18:39,800 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 1: your space too, Like, don't be up under a motherfucker 362 00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:45,800 Speaker 1: all the time, because then you'll get tired of that person. 363 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:48,560 Speaker 1: That's what happened with me. I would get tired a niggas, 364 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 1: and the same thing that I thought was cute about 365 00:18:50,600 --> 00:18:55,200 Speaker 1: a nigga in the first two months would be devastatingly 366 00:18:55,320 --> 00:18:59,320 Speaker 1: tacky about the same nigga. Same shit he been doing, 367 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: same but he's been wearing the same socks he been 368 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 1: wearing with the hole in the bottom I used to 369 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: think was cute. Now I thank you, bum Like all 370 00:19:06,880 --> 00:19:10,159 Speaker 1: everything his mother, I thought his mother was cool. She 371 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 1: a clown now, like every Listen, that's why you got 372 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: to get to know people, and you don't get to 373 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 1: know nobody in four months. You know what I mean. 374 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:23,080 Speaker 1: It's people that are newlyweds, I mean married, that are 375 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:25,600 Speaker 1: still getting to know each other. Me and my boyfriend 376 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:29,159 Speaker 1: are still getting to know each other. Right now, you 377 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:31,560 Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. Every relationship is different. I'm not 378 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: comparing yours to mine. All I can do is give 379 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:37,239 Speaker 1: you my experience, you know, and give you what I 380 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 1: think we've beneficial to you. You know, as far as 381 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 1: you needing advice about it, don't be so hard on 382 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: your family. You know, because they love you and they 383 00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 1: want to protect you no matter the fuck what, and 384 00:19:49,800 --> 00:19:52,160 Speaker 1: they want to help protect your feelings. Sometimes you gotta 385 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:54,159 Speaker 1: let people go through things. I had to get like 386 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: that with my little sister. Should let her go through things, 387 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: you know, because people let me go through things. When 388 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:01,800 Speaker 1: I was younger, I thought, but I thought every boyfriend 389 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: I had from the time I was what eighteen to 390 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 1: fucking twenty five was the one? Was the one? Right? 391 00:20:10,720 --> 00:20:13,680 Speaker 1: Silly me? But then not silly. Mean, when you're young, 392 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 1: you ignore red flags. You got the blinders on you 393 00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: get you know what I'm saying. So girl, I just 394 00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: want to let you know that, don't be so hot 395 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 1: in your family and then share your experience with just you. 396 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:35,199 Speaker 1: You know, love on yourself, love on that person, but 397 00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:39,120 Speaker 1: love on yourself more, you know, not saying be selfish 398 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:43,119 Speaker 1: with that person. But you know, cause it could be 399 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 1: you too. It ain't got to always be the other person. 400 00:20:45,680 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 1: It could be your ass, you know what I'm saying. 401 00:20:48,640 --> 00:20:52,200 Speaker 1: Think about why so many of your relationships failed. Don't 402 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:54,360 Speaker 1: blame it on another person. Don't be quick to do that. 403 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: It could be you. It could be you had just 404 00:20:57,800 --> 00:21:01,120 Speaker 1: haven't found everything you're looking four in one person yet, 405 00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 1: And let me tell you, that's gonna take a while 406 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:06,159 Speaker 1: a long time, because nobody's perfect. If we can build 407 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:09,640 Speaker 1: our own person, everybody will be with who they want 408 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:12,679 Speaker 1: to be with. But that's that's the genius and dating. 409 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:16,080 Speaker 1: That's that's why we date, to figure out what we 410 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: will accept, what we want to accept, who we are 411 00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:21,080 Speaker 1: because you learn things about yourself in every relationship, whether 412 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:23,680 Speaker 1: you're talking to a nigga, fucking a nigga, you with them, 413 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:27,680 Speaker 1: or whatever, you learn things about yourself. This is inappropriate 414 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:29,359 Speaker 1: for me. These are my boundaries. This is what I 415 00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:32,639 Speaker 1: will allow, This is what I will not like. Learn 416 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:37,600 Speaker 1: yourself and love yourself. Move forward to your relationship. Shit, 417 00:21:37,760 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: give that shit, six months? Give that shit eight months? 418 00:21:41,680 --> 00:21:44,400 Speaker 1: Why do you want to tell everybody anyway? Nah? Don't. 419 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:46,960 Speaker 1: Don't tell everybody, and then I'm telling you. I'm telling you, 420 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: baby girl, four months. I wouldn't want to meet a 421 00:21:50,200 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 1: nigga after four months, Neiga. You know if I'm your 422 00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:57,159 Speaker 1: mom or your sister, your you know, brother, cousin, friend, 423 00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 1: that I four months ain't enough for me, especially if 424 00:22:00,760 --> 00:22:03,880 Speaker 1: I know you and I've seen this before. Nah, don't 425 00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:07,640 Speaker 1: bring that nigga around me until y'all six to eight 426 00:22:07,680 --> 00:22:11,400 Speaker 1: months in seriously, and don't bring them to me until 427 00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 1: y'all have had some fucking differences, Like if y'all had arguments, So, like, 428 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:18,880 Speaker 1: y'all need to get to know each other. Like I said, 429 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:21,920 Speaker 1: like I argue with a nigga, you know what I mean? 430 00:22:22,040 --> 00:22:24,840 Speaker 1: Don't pick a fight, but no, find out what he 431 00:22:24,920 --> 00:22:27,440 Speaker 1: don't like. You know, like I don't want me to 432 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,840 Speaker 1: me you ain't never been through nothing. That's some bullshit 433 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: I want to know. Oh, all right, So we had 434 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,840 Speaker 1: a fight, We had a disagreement, and shit, he handled 435 00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:39,879 Speaker 1: it this way. I could have handled it better. Well, 436 00:22:39,880 --> 00:22:41,680 Speaker 1: he could have handled it better, but we both talked 437 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:42,840 Speaker 1: it over. We're good. 438 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:42,960 Speaker 2: Like. 439 00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:46,080 Speaker 1: That's that's getting to know one another. That's getting to 440 00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 1: know communication. That's getting to know how you communicate, how 441 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:52,600 Speaker 1: honest this person will be with you, how honest you're 442 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,560 Speaker 1: willing to be with that person. That's getting to know somebody, 443 00:22:56,359 --> 00:22:59,440 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So until y'all have been 444 00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,239 Speaker 1: through some shit and y'all like got through it and 445 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:05,840 Speaker 1: you're not turned off by it, don't introduce that person 446 00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:09,479 Speaker 1: to nobody and he shouldn't be offended that your family 447 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,719 Speaker 1: don't want to should explain that shit to him, just 448 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: like you told me, I fall in love too fast 449 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:18,080 Speaker 1: and I've had a pass of doing that and blah 450 00:23:18,080 --> 00:23:21,200 Speaker 1: blah blah blah. So like, you know, just say that shit, 451 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 1: say that shit, tell him that he can't be upset. 452 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,720 Speaker 1: That's your past, but that was before him, and that's 453 00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:32,119 Speaker 1: just a result of your past, you know, with your family. 454 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:35,600 Speaker 1: But trust me, they don't want to not like it, nobody. 455 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:37,239 Speaker 1: That's why they don't want to meet him right now, 456 00:23:37,240 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 1: because they don't want to not like his ass in 457 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,480 Speaker 1: the future and then have to ride at dawn and shit, 458 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,639 Speaker 1: because you come home like this, nigga put his hand 459 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 1: around my neck, like what you know what I'm saying, 460 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,880 Speaker 1: So don't be so hard on them. But I love 461 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:53,440 Speaker 1: this story and keep me updated. Love, And just like that, 462 00:23:53,560 --> 00:23:56,160 Speaker 1: we've come to get the end of another Catholic Records 463 00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,800 Speaker 1: episode with your girl. Just hilarious. Now next week you'll 464 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 1: I may have tailor bag because we got some I'm 465 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: reading through these stories and it looked like we got 466 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 1: a whole fucking newspaper article. So y'all know that means 467 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,960 Speaker 1: they real long. 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