1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:02,720 Speaker 1: Because I know this is what the context of your 2 00:00:02,759 --> 00:00:06,439 Speaker 1: show is about, and it provides a piece of closure 3 00:00:06,559 --> 00:00:10,600 Speaker 1: for me because I will never ever answer any more 4 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:14,600 Speaker 1: questions about basketball wise. That part of my life is closed. 5 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,320 Speaker 1: So I'm giving it all to you, and then I'm 6 00:00:17,320 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: getting on down the highway. 7 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 2: Stay tuned. 8 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 3: We'll get into my conversation with Tammy Roman right after 9 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 3: you've quick ass Welcome to Reality with the King. It's 10 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 3: me Carlos King, the King of Reality TV and one 11 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:44,840 Speaker 3: of the most sought after executive producers in reality television 12 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 3: with over ten years of production experience. Twice a week 13 00:00:49,640 --> 00:00:52,559 Speaker 3: on Reality with the King, we'll sit down with my 14 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 3: friends across the entertainment industry, recap our favorite reality shows 15 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 3: and revisit on for get a moment that we are 16 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:03,640 Speaker 3: still talking and tweeting about. 17 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 2: Hey, rain Drops. 18 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 3: Today's guests on Reality with the King is someone I 19 00:01:13,319 --> 00:01:18,559 Speaker 3: consider one of the greatest reality TV stars of all time. 20 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 3: I'm talking about my friend, the living legend, honey, the icon, 21 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 3: Tammy Roman. 22 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 2: We talk about. 23 00:01:26,800 --> 00:01:33,400 Speaker 3: Tammy's legendary career in scripted and unscripted television, dating all 24 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:38,039 Speaker 3: the way back from her appearance are married with children. 25 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,520 Speaker 2: Yes, my Girls and actress Honey. 26 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 3: We also talk about Basketball wives, as she spilled some 27 00:01:45,160 --> 00:01:48,320 Speaker 3: tea on some behind the scenes stuff that went. 28 00:01:48,200 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 2: Down that even I did not know about. 29 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:55,520 Speaker 3: In addition to that, we talk about her new series 30 00:01:55,600 --> 00:02:00,000 Speaker 3: called dh One's Unfaithful, and we also talk about how 31 00:02:00,200 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 3: people always have something to say about her health and 32 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:09,040 Speaker 3: the way she looks. This is one of my favorite 33 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 3: conversations with one of my favorite people. Without further ado, 34 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 3: let's get into this conversation with Tammy. Let's talk about 35 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 3: your legendary career. Because what I can say because I'm 36 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,760 Speaker 3: you know, I'm forty two years old, so I've been 37 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:33,400 Speaker 3: around a little bit. So I remember you first from 38 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:35,760 Speaker 3: being Married with Children. 39 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:42,840 Speaker 1: Oh okay, okay, I'm dating myself. 40 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 2: So Tammy. I was watching Married. 41 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 3: With Children as a little gay boy in Detroit, Michigan, 42 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 3: and Tammy had this scene. She had this beautiful Tammy, 43 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 3: do you remember that that t bos wig you wore. 44 00:02:54,520 --> 00:02:58,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that was my real hair back then. Oh yeah, 45 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: we weren't into weeds in the nineties, so you know, 46 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: that was me getting the tea box cut. 47 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:10,280 Speaker 3: And that was my first introduction into Tammy Roman. So 48 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:15,960 Speaker 3: talk to us about how you were always an actress first. 49 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,120 Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, Well I always thought I would be 50 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: in entertainment first, right, whatever capacity was going to drop 51 00:03:21,880 --> 00:03:24,959 Speaker 1: into my lap. I felt like I knew I needed 52 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 1: to be in entertainment, singing, modeling, acting, whatever, right, So 53 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 1: that's why people saw me on the Real World have 54 00:03:31,600 --> 00:03:33,720 Speaker 1: a singing group. But when I came off of the 55 00:03:33,760 --> 00:03:38,080 Speaker 1: Real World, people didn't understand what reality TV was because 56 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 1: it was so new, so they thought we were acting. 57 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 1: So I started getting all these auditions. I'm high key talented. 58 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 1: I was able to book jobs without having any coaching 59 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: any you know, like lessons or anything, and married with 60 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: children one of my first jobs. 61 00:03:55,400 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: And you were excellent in that. 62 00:03:57,280 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 3: My first introduction into reality television was The Real World. Yes, 63 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:05,840 Speaker 3: Heather B was the first black woman a part of 64 00:04:05,880 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 3: the first season. 65 00:04:06,960 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 2: I love Heather B. 66 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:09,960 Speaker 3: I listed to her and sway in the morning every 67 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:11,760 Speaker 3: morning on my way to the gym. 68 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 2: And she also. 69 00:04:13,080 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 3: Deserves all the credit because she still has a long career. Yes, 70 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,760 Speaker 3: that is still, you know, very much at its highest moment. 71 00:04:20,200 --> 00:04:23,400 Speaker 3: But I don't know anybody, Tammy that has the career 72 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 3: that you have. You have been on top since then 73 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 3: when you were. 74 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,919 Speaker 2: On the Real World? What made you get into reality TV? 75 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 3: Knowing that you had stardom of acting, you know at 76 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 3: the forefront? 77 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:38,040 Speaker 1: Well, I didn't know what reality TV was right here again, 78 00:04:38,200 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 1: this was a new format. So I was working at 79 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: an HIV healthcare center, you know, and one of the 80 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: one of my coworkers came in and was like, oh, 81 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: I didn't get on this show. They've already casted. And 82 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 1: I was like, but what show girl? And she said 83 00:04:51,279 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: the Real World? And I had never heard of it. 84 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 1: This is the way my life goes. It was a Friday. 85 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: I went home and MTV was doing a marathon of 86 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: the first season, and so I watched it and I 87 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,479 Speaker 1: was like, what kind of show was this? You know, 88 00:05:04,520 --> 00:05:07,000 Speaker 1: it look seems like real people living in the house. Okay, 89 00:05:07,360 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: I feel like I could do that. So my mother 90 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: and I went to we were living in Burbank at 91 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 1: the time. I went to the mall and filmed myself 92 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: on a camcorder and this so back in the day, 93 00:05:19,080 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 1: it was the type of camcorder that had the VHS 94 00:05:21,960 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: on the side. 95 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 2: You talk about radio shack days, right exactly. 96 00:05:26,120 --> 00:05:31,480 Speaker 1: So she filmed me and that Monday we went up 97 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 1: to Universal Studios, which is where MTV's offices were, and 98 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,440 Speaker 1: I personally took them my tape. 99 00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 2: Well wait, hold on, hold on, hold the hold the 100 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 2: hold up. 101 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 3: You physically taped yourself, recorded it, and you have a 102 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:47,960 Speaker 3: tape of your hand, and you found the address of 103 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 3: MTV and you walked your black, beautiful self into the 104 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 3: offices and. 105 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 2: Dropped it off. 106 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:57,560 Speaker 1: I wasn't leaving until somebody looked at it. And the 107 00:05:57,640 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 1: casting director at the time was the lady named Felicia Pisano. 108 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 1: You probably know her because she does so much in 109 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: the business. I'd say, hey, I got my tape and 110 00:06:06,600 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 1: she was like, I'm sorry. I said, yes, I wanted 111 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 1: to bring you my tape for that show The Real 112 00:06:10,240 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 1: World y'all got. And she was like, that's not you know, 113 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: we don't do that. That's not how it works. It's 114 00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:15,520 Speaker 1: already been cast. And I was like, well, I would 115 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: like for you look at my tape though, and she 116 00:06:17,920 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 1: was like, not going to do it, and I said, 117 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:21,960 Speaker 1: not leave it, because I want somebody to look at 118 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 1: my tape. 119 00:06:22,680 --> 00:06:24,599 Speaker 4: So she took the tape into her office. 120 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 1: Now whether she actually looked at it or not, I 121 00:06:27,320 --> 00:06:29,680 Speaker 1: don't know, but she came back out maybe three to 122 00:06:29,800 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: five minutes later and said, I watched a. 123 00:06:31,600 --> 00:06:34,160 Speaker 4: Little bit of it. I am going to finish watching it, 124 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:34,760 Speaker 4: you know. 125 00:06:34,920 --> 00:06:37,359 Speaker 1: Can you just go with that, go with God with 126 00:06:37,480 --> 00:06:40,719 Speaker 1: that and get up out of here. And so I said, okay, cool. 127 00:06:40,839 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: You know, I just wanted to make sure that somebody. 128 00:06:42,480 --> 00:06:43,000 Speaker 4: Looked at it. 129 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:47,600 Speaker 1: And two weeks later, John Murray and Mary Ellis Bunim 130 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:50,880 Speaker 1: made She rest in Peace called me at work and said, 131 00:06:50,920 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 1: we'd love to have you be the cast member on 132 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: the Reil World. 133 00:06:55,800 --> 00:06:57,040 Speaker 4: We had already. 134 00:06:56,680 --> 00:07:01,040 Speaker 1: Casted the show, but we actually like you better than 135 00:07:01,080 --> 00:07:03,520 Speaker 1: the person we had and can you do it? 136 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:06,000 Speaker 3: And just so my listeners can know this, So Jonathan 137 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 3: Murray and Mary Ellis mister rest in Peace. They are 138 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:11,640 Speaker 3: the owners of the production. 139 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,120 Speaker 2: Company Murray Productions. 140 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,600 Speaker 3: And they are the ones who created the Real World. 141 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 3: And you guys may know them now because they were 142 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 3: the one who produced The Kardashians when. 143 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:21,440 Speaker 2: It was on E. 144 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 4: Correct. 145 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:25,600 Speaker 3: So Jonathan Murray, I want to say this to you guys. 146 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 2: He is the older white man. 147 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 3: He's openly gay, and when I say to you, the 148 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 3: coolest guy, he has called executives about me and saying 149 00:07:36,160 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 3: why don't you have more black on production companies speaking 150 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 3: on issues called Carlos King. 151 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 2: That's just the type of man he is. So they 152 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 2: called you, and. 153 00:07:44,920 --> 00:07:48,280 Speaker 1: Then I packed my bags and I went in a 154 00:07:48,320 --> 00:07:51,239 Speaker 1: Winnebago with the Dominice to pick. 155 00:07:51,120 --> 00:07:54,480 Speaker 4: Up John and that's how Road Rules was born. 156 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 3: That is such a fascinating story because one thing we 157 00:07:57,240 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 3: know about you, you are a hustler. And I love 158 00:08:00,200 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 3: hearing these stories because it shows you that you have 159 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,120 Speaker 3: to take control of your destiny. 160 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 2: And you are a woman who did that. And that's 161 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:09,320 Speaker 2: the reason. 162 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 3: Why what thirty years later, like you are still relevant 163 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:18,360 Speaker 3: and still working. So that experience happened. And you know, listen, 164 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 3: we all know about what happened on the first season 165 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 3: of the Real World, But what made you get into 166 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 3: basketball wise? Because did you think that the Real World 167 00:08:28,360 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 3: was going to be a last stint on reality television? 168 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: I completely thought I was done with reality TV after 169 00:08:35,880 --> 00:08:38,960 Speaker 1: Real World because I started studying right the craft of 170 00:08:39,040 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 1: acting with a lady named Chip Field, who if you 171 00:08:42,840 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: don't know, that's Kim Field's mom and one of the 172 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:47,000 Speaker 1: best in the business. 173 00:08:47,880 --> 00:08:49,960 Speaker 4: And so I was gonna come of tess to be it. 174 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 4: I just do reality TV. 175 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:57,199 Speaker 1: No, I'm scripted, you know, and so I didn't think 176 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: I would ever be back. 177 00:08:58,440 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 4: On it, you know, and they have me do the reunion. 178 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: At the time I was in I think, I don't 179 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: know if I was engaged to Kenny or married to Kenny. 180 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: But you like, my life went in a completely different direction. 181 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:14,319 Speaker 1: And fast forward seven years later, divorced from Kenny and 182 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:19,280 Speaker 1: when I got on basketball wise, it was literally eight 183 00:09:19,360 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: months that I went to get EBT and people made 184 00:09:24,559 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 1: that my like my existence, you know what I. 185 00:09:28,080 --> 00:09:29,920 Speaker 4: Mean, And that's not what happened. 186 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 1: So I want to clear up this moment of my life. 187 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 1: I had got cast on a show called Wifey that 188 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:40,360 Speaker 1: was executive produced by Queen Latifa. It was a partnership 189 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:43,800 Speaker 1: between BH one and BT and it was going to 190 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 1: be the first like hybrid co production, you understand what 191 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: I'm talking about, where two networks come together and do 192 00:09:50,240 --> 00:09:53,280 Speaker 1: a show. Well, lo and behold, we got our pickup letter. 193 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: The show was going to be shooting out of New Jersey. 194 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 1: So I packed up my whole family, my mom, my, 195 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: two kids, and moved to New Jersey waiting for the 196 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:03,840 Speaker 1: show to start. 197 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 4: Had been there a. 198 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: Year and VH one and Beet could not come to 199 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: terms on the agreement, so they decided they weren't going 200 00:10:12,720 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: to do the show. 201 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 2: What was the show wife? The about though? 202 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:18,160 Speaker 1: It was like the original Empire, So it was me 203 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:23,360 Speaker 1: Terrence Howard about you know, a record company executive whose 204 00:10:23,520 --> 00:10:27,400 Speaker 1: wife takes control of the business because he ends up 205 00:10:27,440 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: getting killed. 206 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 2: Oh wow, and this was scripted. Obviously this was scripted. 207 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: So I'm stuck in Jersey right and don't know how 208 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: to get back to California because, you know, savings exhausted. 209 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,480 Speaker 1: I had already been there a year, thinking everything is 210 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: going to be fine because I'm going to be now 211 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 1: on this show that ultimately didn't happen. So I started 212 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:52,439 Speaker 1: working at Morgan Stanley. So people don't know that that 213 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:53,760 Speaker 1: I worked in finance. 214 00:10:53,840 --> 00:10:55,280 Speaker 2: Were you an investment banker? 215 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:55,719 Speaker 4: No? 216 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,920 Speaker 1: No, no, on on the administrative side. You know, I 217 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: was making six figs. 218 00:11:00,640 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 4: Like. It takes a lot of money to live in 219 00:11:02,880 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 4: New York, so it was very expensive. 220 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 1: So I was like, for shit, I've been working my 221 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: whole life, Like I'm one of those people that it's 222 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,959 Speaker 1: not like I was destitute, but like you said, I'm 223 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 1: a hustler. So it's like I'm gonna go down here 224 00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna get these goddamn food stamps in this Connecticut. 225 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, Like, shit the system, oh me. 226 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:24,160 Speaker 1: So I think when I got on Basketball Wise, people 227 00:11:24,200 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 1: made it seem like I was broke and homeless, and 228 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:29,280 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, and that wasn't the case. 229 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,200 Speaker 1: It was really just, you know, for lack of better 230 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:36,600 Speaker 1: you know, example, Tammy hustling. So your question before I 231 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 1: started clarifying, Tammy was like basically hustling the system to 232 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:43,960 Speaker 1: get the goddamn EBT and the medical so that I 233 00:11:43,960 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 1: didn't have to pay for it. In the city of 234 00:11:46,120 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: New York. So I'm riding the train to work one 235 00:11:49,080 --> 00:11:52,040 Speaker 1: day and this lady goes, oh my god, you're Tammy 236 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,400 Speaker 1: from the real world and I just saw you on 237 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:57,920 Speaker 1: At the time, I was on a series called Moonlight 238 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:03,760 Speaker 1: for CBS, which had just gotten canceled. Here again, like 239 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,319 Speaker 1: all of this is happening simultaneously. Wife, it didn't get 240 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 1: picked up, Moonlight gets canceled. I start working for Morgan Stanley, 241 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:12,880 Speaker 1: so it's like a collective, a three piece combo. So 242 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,320 Speaker 1: I'm on the train and she's like, I just saw 243 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: you a mom light. What are you doing on the train, 244 00:12:18,840 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: and so I was like, We're going to work, like 245 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,439 Speaker 1: you girl, you know, okay, you know. 246 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 4: Headed to Wall Street, you know. 247 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:29,400 Speaker 1: And when I got off work, I thought about it 248 00:12:29,440 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 1: and I was like, tell me, why are you Why 249 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: are you settling for this being your life? You've never 250 00:12:35,400 --> 00:12:38,120 Speaker 1: been this type of person. You've got to figure out 251 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 1: how to get back on TV. Like I said, I 252 00:12:40,720 --> 00:12:44,680 Speaker 1: prefaced this earlier, the way my life works, Go Home 253 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 1: and VH one is doing a marathon of Basketball Wise, 254 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 1: which I had never seen. So I've watched the whole 255 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:57,319 Speaker 1: first season and I was like, Okay, I used to 256 00:12:57,360 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: be a basketball wife. I'm going to train every day. 257 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:03,280 Speaker 1: I'm not having the lunches the brunches in the spa days. 258 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:07,120 Speaker 1: So I feel like that part of the life should 259 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:10,679 Speaker 1: be shown too. So I called v H one and 260 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:12,680 Speaker 1: was like, I'm Tarmy Roman. I used to be married 261 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: to Kenny Anderson. I saw you got a show called 262 00:13:14,640 --> 00:13:17,000 Speaker 1: Basketball Wise. Are they getting a second season? Because I 263 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: think I need to be on there, And they were like, okay, 264 00:13:19,360 --> 00:13:23,440 Speaker 1: call Shed Media, which is another production company for your listeners, 265 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 1: similar to Buna Murray, but they were responsible for Basketball Wise. 266 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 1: I called them ironically. The person who was the EP 267 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 1: of that show, his name was Sean Rankin, and he 268 00:13:33,160 --> 00:13:35,520 Speaker 1: used to work on the Real World, so he knew 269 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: who I was and said, come on join the family, 270 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: and that's how I got on Basketball Wives. 271 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:41,559 Speaker 4: That was a long story. 272 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 3: I've never heard that story, and I know all things 273 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 3: about reality television, so no, this is so interesting because 274 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:53,720 Speaker 3: when a new person enters a season, yes, nine times 275 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:56,960 Speaker 3: out of ten, they always make it seem like someone 276 00:13:57,320 --> 00:14:00,680 Speaker 3: who's a current cast member brought you on on this show. 277 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:03,000 Speaker 2: They do that with us, okay, because. 278 00:14:02,760 --> 00:14:06,160 Speaker 3: We all thought that Shannie O'Neill brought you on because 279 00:14:06,200 --> 00:14:07,439 Speaker 3: you two had a friendship. 280 00:14:07,600 --> 00:14:11,040 Speaker 1: Well, like you said, they have to link you to somebody, right, 281 00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 1: Shannie and I were not friends when I joined Basketball Wise. 282 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:19,200 Speaker 1: I knew Shack okay, and we used to live in 283 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 1: the same gated community when I was married to Kenny, 284 00:14:23,040 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: so you know, we were neighbors with. 285 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 4: Shack, and I knew he had a wife, but I 286 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 4: didn't know her per se. 287 00:14:30,320 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 1: But because you know, we had that history of living 288 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: in the same community, we played it like we were friends, 289 00:14:36,520 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: but we didn't really know each other. 290 00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 3: I thought the first season was good. Evelyn obviously was 291 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:43,360 Speaker 3: to start the season. She brought it. It was her show. 292 00:14:43,440 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 3: In my opinion, you came on, and as a producer 293 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:51,440 Speaker 3: of reality television, it's not often that you have two 294 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:56,200 Speaker 3: queen Bees on the same season at the same damn time, 295 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 3: because there's usually one. We now called them the fourth 296 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:04,080 Speaker 3: maultipl When you came on, you were such a force, 297 00:15:04,320 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 3: and to your credit, it was your authenticity that made 298 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 3: a large group of audiences love you and we were 299 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:18,440 Speaker 3: immediately drunk to you when you were filming that season. 300 00:15:19,040 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 3: Did you feel that, Okay, I am really making a 301 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 3: moment here on the second season of the show. 302 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:32,160 Speaker 1: I absolutely did not, because I didn't even know how 303 00:15:32,240 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 1: reality TV was working at this time, you. 304 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 4: Know what I mean. 305 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 1: So, like just for Clarity ninety three to two thousand 306 00:15:39,200 --> 00:15:42,120 Speaker 1: and eight, I hadn't done any reality TV, so I 307 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 1: didn't even know like the fact that we got schedules 308 00:15:45,240 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: and it was like, oh, you're going to have a 309 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:50,840 Speaker 1: scene at lunch with so and so. You know, it's like, oh, okay, 310 00:15:50,960 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 1: all of that was new to me. A pa comes 311 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:53,640 Speaker 1: pick you up in the. 312 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 4: Car and drives you to stand like all of that 313 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 4: was new to me. 314 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,840 Speaker 1: So at the time, I was still work Monday through 315 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:03,880 Speaker 1: Friday at Morgan Stanley, and I only flew down on 316 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: the weekends. So I didn't even think I would be 317 00:16:06,840 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: in the season that much because I was only filming. 318 00:16:09,800 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 4: On the weekends. 319 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:14,840 Speaker 1: So there was like not any intention behind anything other 320 00:16:14,920 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 1: than just be myself and tell my story, you know 321 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: what I mean, That's really what it was. That's why 322 00:16:20,120 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 1: I think at the end when she you know, when 323 00:16:22,280 --> 00:16:25,120 Speaker 1: we had that exchange and she called me, you know, 324 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 1: the non motherfucking factor and I found out that she 325 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: had slept with Kenny and Alice, that was all new 326 00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 1: to me. Like that was like I was like, That's 327 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 1: why I had that reaction because I was like, wait, 328 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 1: what what. 329 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:39,680 Speaker 4: Is going on? Like it was just so weird. 330 00:16:39,720 --> 00:16:42,400 Speaker 1: It's like, I've been filming with you for six months, 331 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: We've had conversations. Everybody knew this but me, you know, 332 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:51,600 Speaker 1: like it was really very very authentic and very genuine. 333 00:16:51,920 --> 00:16:54,760 Speaker 3: You know, a lot of people were questioning whether or 334 00:16:54,760 --> 00:16:55,960 Speaker 3: not that mom was scripted. 335 00:16:56,200 --> 00:17:01,440 Speaker 4: It wasn't. It was not. It absolutely was not. 336 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 3: In that moment, did you feel like, Okay, we're going 337 00:17:04,440 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 3: to be coworkers and not friends. 338 00:17:06,960 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 1: For me, I felt like, there's no way she could 339 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:12,760 Speaker 1: possibly be my friend, But not for the reasons that 340 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 1: people like to say. Everybody likes to say she's mad 341 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:21,280 Speaker 1: she slept with Kenny. That was so not why I 342 00:17:21,400 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 1: was disappointed in the interaction Evelyn that I had. 343 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:29,880 Speaker 4: It was really based on girl, I've been around you, Like, I'm. 344 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,960 Speaker 1: Not the type of person to smile in somebody's face 345 00:17:33,680 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 1: and have information or be you know, talking behind their back, 346 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,480 Speaker 1: like I'm I'm pretty much very upfront. 347 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:42,240 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. 348 00:17:42,280 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: You'll know if I don't like you, if it's something 349 00:17:44,359 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 1: I gotta say, I'm gonna say it to you, you. 350 00:17:47,040 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 4: Know what I'm saying. 351 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 1: And so just to have felt like damn, like, so 352 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: you really weren't my friend because you knew this and 353 00:17:54,600 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 1: you didn't tell me. But the fact that she slept 354 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:01,840 Speaker 1: with him was nothing to me, because fuck, everybody had 355 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:02,960 Speaker 1: slept with Kinny. 356 00:18:02,760 --> 00:18:05,080 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, Like it was more than 357 00:18:05,160 --> 00:18:06,439 Speaker 4: I thought we were cool. 358 00:18:06,960 --> 00:18:09,880 Speaker 1: You know, it really was coming from that space. But yeah, 359 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,880 Speaker 1: I said, there's no way that she could have been 360 00:18:13,080 --> 00:18:17,240 Speaker 1: my friend. However, the very next day, Evelyn called me 361 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:20,159 Speaker 1: and she was like, hey, you know, I feel like 362 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:22,600 Speaker 1: we were both set up. I thought you already knew 363 00:18:22,600 --> 00:18:25,439 Speaker 1: this information, and then I find out that you didn't know, 364 00:18:26,200 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 1: and I feel like they were trying to play us 365 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:30,240 Speaker 1: against each other, and I really don't want to have 366 00:18:30,280 --> 00:18:30,840 Speaker 1: that type of. 367 00:18:30,760 --> 00:18:31,679 Speaker 4: Relationship with you. 368 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: So I was like, okay, cool, Evelyn, and I literally 369 00:18:35,359 --> 00:18:36,680 Speaker 1: the very next day. 370 00:18:36,640 --> 00:18:39,919 Speaker 4: Went to go have drinks on the on the rooftop pool. 371 00:18:40,440 --> 00:18:40,639 Speaker 2: You know. 372 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:43,120 Speaker 4: It was like totally squashed. 373 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 1: And then second season I show up and she's done 374 00:18:46,280 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 1: T shirts, she's done you know, all of this other stuff, 375 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:50,760 Speaker 1: and so that's when I knew. 376 00:18:50,800 --> 00:18:53,680 Speaker 4: I was like, she's not capable of being my. 377 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:58,040 Speaker 1: Friend, and I think that she will say whatever's necessary 378 00:18:58,720 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 1: to keep us from fighting, because that's going to be 379 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 1: a problem problem for her, not for me. 380 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:05,040 Speaker 4: And then you know, that's when I knew that that's 381 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:05,479 Speaker 4: what it was. 382 00:19:05,640 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: Now that scene at Dulce was scripted, was not scripted 383 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:12,320 Speaker 1: because like we don't have lines, right, but it was 384 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:15,800 Speaker 1: improv So you know, that's what I'll say about that scene. 385 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:18,199 Speaker 3: It wasn't really heated a month to two of you, 386 00:19:18,320 --> 00:19:20,840 Speaker 3: but you guys knew that you had to have the 387 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:23,920 Speaker 3: conversation and have the dialogue in order for it to. 388 00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:28,320 Speaker 1: Make sense correct, Yes, because there was nothing on the paper. 389 00:19:28,480 --> 00:19:30,479 Speaker 4: There was, you know, like the paper she tore off. 390 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,400 Speaker 1: There was like when I said I'm serving you, there 391 00:19:32,440 --> 00:19:34,240 Speaker 1: was nothing on it was a blank piece of paper, 392 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,639 Speaker 1: you know. And we knew that we just had to 393 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: do that scene to give the viewers something. So if 394 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:44,400 Speaker 1: I had to say anything, I would say from season 395 00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 1: three on. That's when Tammy the Actress stepped in to 396 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:54,160 Speaker 1: play season two. 397 00:19:54,600 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 4: I was new and green, don't know. 398 00:19:56,560 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 1: What's happening on reality TV. I've always been authentic. Let 399 00:19:59,880 --> 00:20:02,360 Speaker 1: me just TELP, you know, come and give my story, 400 00:20:02,480 --> 00:20:06,320 Speaker 1: my truth, whatever that is. And then I saw, oh, 401 00:20:06,440 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 1: you're gonna be a jackass if you don't learn how 402 00:20:08,359 --> 00:20:12,879 Speaker 1: to play this game. And so season three became the 403 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: not that I fabricated story. My stories, the things that 404 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 1: I chose to share were real and authentic. But my 405 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:27,600 Speaker 1: interaction with the ladies was more of Tammy the actress because. 406 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,080 Speaker 4: A lot of the stuff they were talking about. I 407 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 4: didn't care. If I was. 408 00:20:31,240 --> 00:20:35,920 Speaker 1: Supposed to have an emotion of anger, maybe I amped 409 00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: that up a little more than what I really would 410 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: have done, you know, so you know people should know 411 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 1: that you know about reality TV. There is that point 412 00:20:45,320 --> 00:20:47,360 Speaker 1: where it's like you act a little bit. 413 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:51,119 Speaker 3: You become an applified version of yourself because you're realizing 414 00:20:51,160 --> 00:20:53,640 Speaker 3: there's cameras on correct and I have to give these 415 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:56,800 Speaker 3: producers a good scene or I'm stuck here for many hours. 416 00:20:56,880 --> 00:20:57,560 Speaker 2: Is that how you felt? 417 00:20:57,560 --> 00:20:59,960 Speaker 1: That's absolutely how I felt. And then you know they're 418 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:01,880 Speaker 1: coming from producers are coming. 419 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 4: In your ear, like, can you guys give us something? 420 00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:04,440 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? 421 00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: And so you know where I normally might be like, girl, 422 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:11,760 Speaker 1: just tell her how you feel, it becomes you pitch 423 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: what you thinking. 424 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:17,240 Speaker 4: You know, it becomes that you know, so that so 425 00:21:17,280 --> 00:21:20,160 Speaker 4: that I can go home. You know. That's that's what 426 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 4: it is. 427 00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:25,399 Speaker 3: And did you feel like you needed liquid courage to 428 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:28,120 Speaker 3: do that because a lot of moments we saw obviously 429 00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:29,040 Speaker 3: you love a good beer. 430 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:31,480 Speaker 4: I do. 431 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:35,439 Speaker 3: Was the drinking of beer giving you that courage to 432 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:38,000 Speaker 3: sort of step outside yourself to give a good scene. 433 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:41,399 Speaker 1: No, I don't need liquid courage to do anything that 434 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: I do the craft of acting. And here again I 435 00:21:45,840 --> 00:21:49,200 Speaker 1: was trained by the best. I can go right into 436 00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,720 Speaker 1: whatever needs to be delivered and I don't need a 437 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: drink to do that. 438 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:56,679 Speaker 3: So even when you mush Mika clacks it in her. 439 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:57,520 Speaker 2: Face, it's drunk. 440 00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 4: But I didn't. But I didn't need. 441 00:21:59,119 --> 00:22:01,199 Speaker 2: The beer to you'd have done that. 442 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:01,440 Speaker 4: Stung. 443 00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean like I didn't need the beer to 444 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:06,680 Speaker 1: do that. But that, if I have to talk about 445 00:22:06,720 --> 00:22:10,639 Speaker 1: any moment that I feel was a downer for me, 446 00:22:11,359 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 1: was that moment. 447 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 4: Because Mika is really a cool chick, you know what 448 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:15,880 Speaker 4: I mean. 449 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:18,439 Speaker 1: And I think that when she came onto the show, 450 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 1: we were already a unit and a nucleus that operated 451 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 1: in a certain way. It's just like if you go 452 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:27,000 Speaker 1: on a scripted show if they've been going for four 453 00:22:27,080 --> 00:22:28,680 Speaker 1: or five years and you're the guest star. 454 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,040 Speaker 4: It's like you're trying to figure out how to figure, you. 455 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:35,720 Speaker 1: Know, segue yourself into their already perfect dynamic. And that's 456 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:40,160 Speaker 1: the position that Mika was in. And you know, she's cool, 457 00:22:40,160 --> 00:22:42,480 Speaker 1: but she does talk a lot, you know. And I 458 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 1: was drunk, you know, and I'm saying, it's like girl, 459 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:48,760 Speaker 1: you lying, which it was like what I had said 460 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 1: and what she said. I was saying, we're two completely 461 00:22:52,600 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 1: different things. And that's why I mushed her because I 462 00:22:56,280 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 1: was drunk, and I'm you know, that's just the truth. 463 00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:02,440 Speaker 1: But I wish I had not have been drunk because 464 00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,679 Speaker 1: I would not have mushed her because it didn't warrant that. 465 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:10,560 Speaker 1: And so after I watched that moment back on TV, 466 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,280 Speaker 1: I was like, Keimmy, why did you do that? Like 467 00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:17,480 Speaker 1: the minute you see her, you need to apologize to 468 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:20,640 Speaker 1: her because it didn't need all of that for. 469 00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:23,159 Speaker 4: That scene to work, for that moment to happen. 470 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,119 Speaker 1: And so I did when I the first time I 471 00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 1: got in the same room with her, I immediately apologized. 472 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:30,120 Speaker 2: And did she receive it? 473 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 1: She actually did, And I always say she was gracious 474 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 1: enough to accept my apology because she had a hard 475 00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 1: road after that scene too, you know, like trying to 476 00:23:39,840 --> 00:23:42,240 Speaker 1: live her life, do appearances, and everybody's like, that's why 477 00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:44,200 Speaker 1: Tammy must you know what I'm saying, Like you got 478 00:23:44,200 --> 00:23:46,720 Speaker 1: to deal with all the aftermath, you know, And. 479 00:23:46,680 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 3: So now it reminds me of when Kenya and Portia 480 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:55,119 Speaker 3: had their unfortunate moment at the reunion. And I don't know, 481 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 3: I don't know if ken you ever share this publicly, 482 00:23:58,240 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 3: is what you said, Like Kenya had to deal with 483 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:05,400 Speaker 3: the aftermath that of fans Portia's fans saying that's why 484 00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:09,200 Speaker 3: she dragged exactly, that's why she dragged Jack and constantly 485 00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 3: saying that to her face when she's out in public. 486 00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:15,239 Speaker 2: And obviously that happens a lot. I know. 487 00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 3: That's that's something Candice also said happened to her when 488 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 3: her and Monique had the altercation. So what people don't 489 00:24:21,520 --> 00:24:24,000 Speaker 3: understand is you have a life after. 490 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 2: That moment forever. Yes, And that footage is on. 491 00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 1: Rotation constantly, constantly, you know, and they constantly rerunning it. 492 00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 1: You know, season two and three is back, you know, 493 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:38,600 Speaker 1: seventeen years. It feels like seventeen years ain't been that long, 494 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 1: but you know, that's how it feels. Even with me 495 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,760 Speaker 1: with Keisha and the purse, you know, people think I'm 496 00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,680 Speaker 1: a purse feel and it's like, no, that. 497 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:50,439 Speaker 4: Girl knew what was happening in this scene. The producers. 498 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 4: She knew. 499 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,360 Speaker 1: The producers told us, you got to give us something. 500 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:56,440 Speaker 1: She knew she left her purse. She knew she could 501 00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 1: have came to my room and got her purse back. 502 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 1: Like it just was like, what is happening here? You know, 503 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:07,080 Speaker 1: And she let people run with that narrative, and it 504 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,480 Speaker 1: was It was difficult for me because I'm just trying 505 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:11,120 Speaker 1: to do what they asked me to do. 506 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 3: It's the moment where Keisha was a cast member. Long 507 00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 3: story short, you guys are on a pass trip. Listen, no, Shay, 508 00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 3: you were aggressive to Keisha and you were like her 509 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,160 Speaker 3: purse was next to you, and listen. I will never 510 00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,919 Speaker 3: forget watching that, and a lot of people felt like, 511 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:29,919 Speaker 3: oh my god, Tammy is a bully, and so it 512 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:35,119 Speaker 3: became so bad Shannie O'Neill had to do a pickup scene. 513 00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,560 Speaker 3: So a pickup scene, guy, is when the season is 514 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:41,359 Speaker 3: wrapped and you're in plus production and you're sort of 515 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:41,800 Speaker 3: putting the. 516 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:43,480 Speaker 2: Episodes together with your editors. 517 00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:48,719 Speaker 3: And that moment between Tammy and Keisha became father on 518 00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:51,960 Speaker 3: social media and it was so bad. Shawnee had to 519 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:56,679 Speaker 3: do a pickup scene talking about my friends and you 520 00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:58,040 Speaker 3: know this aggressiveness. 521 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,000 Speaker 2: Did you feel that was a slap in the face. 522 00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:06,679 Speaker 1: I absolutely felt betrayed by that, because Shawnnie was the 523 00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:10,159 Speaker 1: one who showed me the footage of Keisha talking smack 524 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,919 Speaker 1: about me in the airport. As soon as we touched 525 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 1: down for that cash trip. Shawnee showed me all the 526 00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:22,639 Speaker 1: bts footage of Keisha just ripping me to shreds. So 527 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:26,199 Speaker 1: like how you say, little docile Keisha, No, that's not 528 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 1: the case. But what happened was and this is you know, 529 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: fuck it now. At the time, Keisha was involved with 530 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 1: one of our shows producers, so instead of airing the 531 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:42,880 Speaker 1: footage the way it really happened, so that you could 532 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:45,480 Speaker 1: tell a real story, they cut. 533 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:47,840 Speaker 4: Out everything that made Keisha look. 534 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: Like the bad guy and only left all the stuff 535 00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:55,960 Speaker 1: that Tammy did, Which is why I felt betrayed by Shawnee, 536 00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,439 Speaker 1: because it's like, you know, you sat up in that 537 00:26:58,560 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: airport and showed me all the scenes. You know, you 538 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:04,120 Speaker 1: showed me that, and you know that we had been 539 00:27:04,160 --> 00:27:07,240 Speaker 1: there three days on this cash trip. Jennifer stayed in 540 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:09,480 Speaker 1: her room, she was in hide, and nobody wanted to 541 00:27:09,520 --> 00:27:12,479 Speaker 1: deal with Kenya, who was there at the time, and 542 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,920 Speaker 1: the producer said, we don't have nothing, guys, you gotta 543 00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:16,640 Speaker 1: do something. 544 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 4: So the next. 545 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:22,360 Speaker 1: Scene up was us at this bar and me going 546 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:26,040 Speaker 1: off on Keisha because I was asked to do that. 547 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 4: Okay. 548 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:31,880 Speaker 1: Then at the end, Keisha hits the ground running, going 549 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 1: back to the hotel and leaves her purse. I pick 550 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 1: up her purse, bring it to the car. Now, what 551 00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:41,400 Speaker 1: I am wrong for, which I've always admitted, was going 552 00:27:41,440 --> 00:27:43,960 Speaker 1: through the woman's purse because I wouldn't have wanted nobody 553 00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:45,399 Speaker 1: to do that like to me. 554 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 4: So yeah, I was wrong for that. 555 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:53,160 Speaker 1: But everything else guys in Truth and Reality, Keisha knew 556 00:27:53,200 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 1: what was going on. Seanne knew what was going on. 557 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 1: The producers knew what they asked me to do, and 558 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 1: everybody left me out there to dry. And because you 559 00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:07,440 Speaker 1: typically can't speak against the production, right, I gotta be quiet. 560 00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 1: I can't even tell people what I just said to you. 561 00:28:10,840 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 562 00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,920 Speaker 3: No, it's interesting because look, people come to me saying, 563 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 3: is this fak Is this real? It's because they can 564 00:28:16,880 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 3: kind of see some of those things happening, and a 565 00:28:19,359 --> 00:28:21,280 Speaker 3: lot of people now are way more. 566 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:22,560 Speaker 4: They're more savvy now. 567 00:28:22,720 --> 00:28:25,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're savvy now. And listen, not all productions ran 568 00:28:25,760 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 3: that way, but some are. Your honesty about That's so 569 00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 3: interesting because at that time I was a reality producer 570 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 3: and watching that scene, I was fooled. I really thought 571 00:28:36,560 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 3: that was a real moment based on how it was 572 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:39,880 Speaker 3: chopped and screwed. 573 00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 1: It was chopped asscrude, So I was like, you know, 574 00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,640 Speaker 1: when we got back to the hotel, I was like, 575 00:28:47,760 --> 00:28:49,360 Speaker 1: just tell that girl to come get her purse. 576 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:50,320 Speaker 4: I don't got no. 577 00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 1: Problem with her. 578 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:52,680 Speaker 4: I mean, it ain't that serious. What are y'all doing? 579 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:54,480 Speaker 1: And they were like, we'll go over to her room 580 00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:56,080 Speaker 1: and give it to her. And that's when I was like, 581 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:58,760 Speaker 1: ky shut, can you shut? Here's your purse, girl on 582 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:00,800 Speaker 1: the door. All of that was because they asked me 583 00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 1: to do that, because Tammy got back to that hotel room, 584 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 1: kicked off her shoes, laid down on her bed, and 585 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:07,320 Speaker 1: they were like. 586 00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,400 Speaker 4: She wants to leave and she wants a purse. I said, 587 00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:10,480 Speaker 4: tell her her come get it. 588 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 1: Because to me, I just I'm acting. I acted my 589 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,880 Speaker 1: way through that, did what y'all asked me to do. 590 00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 1: And now it's it's like and see it's over. Everybody relaxed, 591 00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 1: go back, you know, go back to doing your regular 592 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:23,920 Speaker 1: schedule program and we're all good. 593 00:29:24,560 --> 00:29:28,960 Speaker 4: And you know, they they really literally left me out 594 00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:29,960 Speaker 4: to dry on That. 595 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,400 Speaker 3: Was that one of the many times you felt that 596 00:29:34,040 --> 00:29:37,720 Speaker 3: you were portrayed by Shawnee or the producers with your 597 00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 3: stay on the show. 598 00:29:38,840 --> 00:29:40,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, they were. That was one of them, because there 599 00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 4: have been many. There have been many. 600 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:49,280 Speaker 3: Your last season broke my heart because I was like, 601 00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:53,560 Speaker 3: this woman has carried this franchise on her back, and 602 00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 3: she's such a hard worker, and when she shows up, 603 00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:58,840 Speaker 3: she shows out. She makes sure to give y'all a 604 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,880 Speaker 3: good scene because everyone wins. 605 00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,280 Speaker 4: We all wines. 606 00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 3: And your last season, I felt you were so stabbed 607 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:11,480 Speaker 3: in the back because I felt that Shannie was choosing 608 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:16,000 Speaker 3: to rekindle her relationship with Evelyn and was leaving you 609 00:30:16,040 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 3: out to dry. And it was sad to watch because listen, 610 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:23,960 Speaker 3: I think Evelyn's also a great reality star. I think 611 00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:26,640 Speaker 3: she also shows up and gives a great scene. But 612 00:30:26,800 --> 00:30:28,640 Speaker 3: I felt like, if you were going to be that 613 00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:33,800 Speaker 3: loyal to Evelyn, damn it be that loyal to tell me? 614 00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 2: Did you feel that way too? 615 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 1: That's I did, and I think, you know, I felt 616 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 1: like a lot of boundaries had been crossed, you know, 617 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,480 Speaker 1: And when you talk about just having integrity and respect 618 00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,040 Speaker 1: for another person, I felt like I wasn't getting that, 619 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,200 Speaker 1: you know what I mean? And people want to hear 620 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 1: what they want to hear and see what they want 621 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:57,000 Speaker 1: to see. And for me to sit at that reunion 622 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:03,880 Speaker 1: and have somebody admit that they sent letters to production 623 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:08,760 Speaker 1: you know about me and my personal business. That was 624 00:31:08,800 --> 00:31:12,800 Speaker 1: a lie and admit that they did those things that 625 00:31:12,960 --> 00:31:16,719 Speaker 1: started to train for me of like this some bullshit 626 00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: right here, you know what I mean, Like because I 627 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,120 Speaker 1: would never do that, Like I would never do that 628 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:24,880 Speaker 1: to you, but you, young lady, old woman, because you 629 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 1: ain't fall off me, were like trying to you know, 630 00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: like just break me behind the scenes because I was 631 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 1: just as successful as you in front of the camera 632 00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 1: and that wasn't cool, you know, so when and another 633 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 1: thing they did with that reunion too was I left 634 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,840 Speaker 1: pretty early, so they put it together in a way 635 00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 1: where it seemed like I was saying things first, which 636 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 1: is what they always did. It always had to be 637 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 1: Tammy started it because Seannie and Evelyn started this franchise 638 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:03,520 Speaker 1: to get so the loyalty from the production company and 639 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:07,400 Speaker 1: the executive producers was to them. A lot of things 640 00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: were shown out of order if you understand what I'm saying, 641 00:32:11,720 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: so or cut out, you know, to make it skew 642 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,240 Speaker 1: favorable for them because the loyalty was to them. 643 00:32:20,560 --> 00:32:22,680 Speaker 2: Shanie and Avalanche always got the good at. 644 00:32:22,640 --> 00:32:27,160 Speaker 1: It always for the history of the show, which is 645 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 1: why if people are really true watchers of Basketball Wise, 646 00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 1: they started to see Tammy doesn't talk as much, Tammy 647 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:35,360 Speaker 1: does not saying as much. 648 00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,320 Speaker 4: Tammy, it's not doing what she used to do because 649 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 4: I don't. 650 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 1: Know if you're gonna show it truthfully, and so now 651 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 1: I've got to protect myself. 652 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,040 Speaker 4: So that's really what people start seeing. 653 00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:47,160 Speaker 1: But that back to what you were saying that reunion 654 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:51,040 Speaker 1: was like, I've had enough. You've talked about my eggs, 655 00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:54,360 Speaker 1: which is a lie. Shannie is backing up your lie, 656 00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:56,920 Speaker 1: so you know, I can't fuck with her or you. 657 00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 1: And then you're going sending letters to the production and 658 00:33:00,880 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: the production company behind the scenes, spreading lies about me, 659 00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: and they're engaging in conversation with you, which was mind 660 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:12,680 Speaker 1: blowing to me, Carlos, because I feel like, if somebody 661 00:33:12,720 --> 00:33:15,680 Speaker 1: sent you a letter talking about Nani, You're not gonna 662 00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 1: sit and go. 663 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,800 Speaker 4: You right, that bitch be tripping like on an email. 664 00:33:20,280 --> 00:33:24,959 Speaker 3: Never and let me be clear, some ladies have tried. 665 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,160 Speaker 3: And the reason why I have a great rapport with 666 00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,320 Speaker 3: all my girls is because I don't engage in the 667 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 3: behind the scenes talk about my cast. 668 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:37,040 Speaker 1: But this executive, high level executive did, and I have 669 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 1: to this very day. 670 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:40,320 Speaker 4: The emails. 671 00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying of this conversation, and the 672 00:33:44,280 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 1: girl admitted, yes, I sent letters, and. 673 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 4: The audience just overlooked that. 674 00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:52,040 Speaker 1: So you're admitting that you've been shitting on me and 675 00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:54,400 Speaker 1: trying to do all kind of shit behind the scenes. 676 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 4: Nobody cared. 677 00:33:55,640 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: They put it like I talked about her eggs before 678 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:02,680 Speaker 1: she talked about my And quite honestly, I'm only having 679 00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,600 Speaker 1: this conversation with you because I know this is what 680 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:08,759 Speaker 1: the context of your show is about. And it provides 681 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:12,360 Speaker 1: a piece of closure for me because I will never 682 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:17,120 Speaker 1: ever answer any more questions about basketball. Why that part 683 00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,200 Speaker 1: of my life is closed. So I'm giving it all 684 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 1: to you, and then I'm getting on down the highway. 685 00:34:22,600 --> 00:34:25,320 Speaker 1: So she was doing a lot to me that people 686 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,160 Speaker 1: just didn't know that I was dealing with. And so 687 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,920 Speaker 1: that's why the very last season that I was on 688 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:35,719 Speaker 1: the show, I opted not to get a raise, not 689 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,560 Speaker 1: to extend any options, and not to film with her. 690 00:34:38,719 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 3: Wow, because at the end of the day, you chose 691 00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 3: your piece over. 692 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 1: Profits, correct, And I said, no, I don't want it. 693 00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:47,239 Speaker 4: I'm gonna leave and. 694 00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,680 Speaker 1: Go on about my business because I know I can 695 00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: do other things. 696 00:34:52,760 --> 00:34:56,359 Speaker 3: Baby, we are not done yet. Stay tuned for more 697 00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,799 Speaker 3: of my conversation with Tammy. Will be right back after 698 00:34:59,840 --> 00:35:11,560 Speaker 3: this quick break. This is Reality with the King and 699 00:35:11,600 --> 00:35:17,920 Speaker 3: I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into my chat with Tammy. 700 00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:22,840 Speaker 3: I'm a loyal basketball wife's when you left. 701 00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:23,640 Speaker 2: Listen. 702 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 3: Every show needs a force multiplier and every show needs 703 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:32,480 Speaker 3: the chemistry of the cast. You are such a force 704 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 3: and Evelyn was too. We are going to admit that, 705 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,760 Speaker 3: but without you being there. And I'm watching this current 706 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 3: season and I'm I'm pretty sure you haven't watched it. 707 00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:44,680 Speaker 3: I think it's safe you haven't. So it is the 708 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,480 Speaker 3: most awful thing I've seen a. 709 00:35:46,520 --> 00:35:47,880 Speaker 2: Very long time. Wow. 710 00:35:48,200 --> 00:35:52,719 Speaker 3: And I've said this on my podcast recently that that 711 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 3: show needs Tammy and Evelyn. And you know, listen, I 712 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,960 Speaker 3: love Jennifer as a friend of mine. We all know 713 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 3: that Jennifer isn't a lead, right Jen, No, she's not 714 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:07,399 Speaker 3: a lead. She wants to be able to come in 715 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:11,120 Speaker 3: her cute fashion du ALTT one two and keep in moving. 716 00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 3: That show is bad, It's awful. In the words of 717 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,520 Speaker 3: Meini Leaks, you never win when you play dirty. 718 00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:18,120 Speaker 4: You never win when you play dirty. 719 00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:20,319 Speaker 1: They may be able to get Evelyn back, you know, 720 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:21,239 Speaker 1: onto the. 721 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 2: Show, but it's gonna be. It means more than her. 722 00:36:24,160 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 3: I know, Shannie got married. Were you invited to the wedding? 723 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 4: I was not. 724 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,399 Speaker 1: I was not invited to the wedding, and I don't 725 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:33,880 Speaker 1: know why I would have been, you know what I'm saying. 726 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 1: Like Seannie and I have not spoken to each other 727 00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:41,080 Speaker 1: since I left the show, and I had saw on 728 00:36:41,120 --> 00:36:45,719 Speaker 1: the blog where her father had passed away, and I 729 00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 1: did reach out to her and say, hey, I'm sorry 730 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: for your loss, you know, because I had met her 731 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,759 Speaker 1: father and you know, I know they had a wonderful 732 00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:57,239 Speaker 1: relationship in dynamics, so I know that probably hurt, you know, 733 00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,480 Speaker 1: to lose him. And I reached out to her and said, 734 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,560 Speaker 1: you know, sorry for your loss, and she reached back 735 00:37:03,600 --> 00:37:07,000 Speaker 1: out and said, hey, thank you for that A And 736 00:37:07,040 --> 00:37:10,279 Speaker 1: then if I've done anything to ever hurt you over 737 00:37:10,320 --> 00:37:13,840 Speaker 1: the years, like I'm really sorry about it, and you know, 738 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,200 Speaker 1: I thank you with the thumbs up. And then we've 739 00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: gone back to our separate corners and our separate lives 740 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:24,760 Speaker 1: like we were before I extended that condolences. 741 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:27,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's that's there's closure. 742 00:37:27,320 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, the beauty of you is that show did not 743 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 3: make you, and it certainly did not break you, because 744 00:37:34,280 --> 00:37:38,080 Speaker 3: now you have a brand new show on being called Unfaithful. 745 00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:40,360 Speaker 2: And let me tell you something, as a fan of 746 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,799 Speaker 2: cheaters and a fan, you. 747 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:46,440 Speaker 3: Know, of those type of shows, tell us about Unfaithful. 748 00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:50,120 Speaker 4: I am so excited, Carlos, because you know, like quite. 749 00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:54,719 Speaker 1: Honestly, you look out and you see everybody going through 750 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 1: their winning season, right, and it just seems like, okay, lord, 751 00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:02,080 Speaker 1: here I am, you know, you know, waiting, waiting, waiting. 752 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,120 Speaker 4: Let me tip on wait, you know. 753 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,840 Speaker 1: And I just feel like once I made the decision 754 00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:10,960 Speaker 1: to leave the you know, basketball wise and really get 755 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,719 Speaker 1: back to what I love to do in scriptive programming, 756 00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:17,279 Speaker 1: he just opened the floodgates. Like he just showed up 757 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,359 Speaker 1: and showed out. And so they came to me with 758 00:38:21,000 --> 00:38:24,160 Speaker 1: Caughtney act Unfaithful, and it was like. 759 00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 4: Who better than me? You know what I mean. It's like, 760 00:38:27,400 --> 00:38:30,040 Speaker 4: of course, you know, I too was a fan of cheaters. 761 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:33,040 Speaker 1: I have been that person who's been in a relationship 762 00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:36,359 Speaker 1: where there was infidelity. I've written a book on how 763 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 1: to make your relationship cheap proof. So it just kind 764 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:44,840 Speaker 1: of fell into place and I'm excited for everybody to 765 00:38:44,920 --> 00:38:49,000 Speaker 1: see it because, yes, like Cheaters, it's a relationship show. 766 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,600 Speaker 4: But we've layered that thing, you know what I mean, 767 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:52,200 Speaker 4: Like you. 768 00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,120 Speaker 1: Get to sit down the suspicious lover gets to sit 769 00:38:55,200 --> 00:38:58,439 Speaker 1: down with the other woman and have a real conversation, 770 00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:02,800 Speaker 1: not just confrontation, but conversation with that person, which Cheeters 771 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 1: didn't do. You can team up with that person and 772 00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:09,840 Speaker 1: take down the man, or you can choose to remain 773 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:13,080 Speaker 1: solo and take them both down by yourself. 774 00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,360 Speaker 4: We've got that, And then I wanted to be able. 775 00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:21,319 Speaker 1: To which is one thing I love about me in 776 00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,960 Speaker 1: general is I always want to add value to whatever 777 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,800 Speaker 1: it is that I'm involved, even like with the reality stuff. 778 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 1: It's like, is my telling this part of my life 779 00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:31,320 Speaker 1: going to help someone? 780 00:39:31,440 --> 00:39:31,560 Speaker 4: Right? 781 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:33,719 Speaker 1: Is it going to add value? It's not just going 782 00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 1: to be the Shenanigans. Can I offer something? And I 783 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:39,360 Speaker 1: want to do the same with this show. And I 784 00:39:39,400 --> 00:39:43,440 Speaker 1: feel like so many people go through life saying toxic relationship, 785 00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:47,160 Speaker 1: toxic relationships, but it's so general and broad that people 786 00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,520 Speaker 1: don't even know when they're in a toxic relationship. So 787 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:57,000 Speaker 1: we're educating while giving you the Shenanigans and the drama 788 00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 1: and you know, the entertainment of these, you know, non 789 00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 1: committed relationships that people are being caught in the act in. 790 00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,040 Speaker 1: But you know, it's like, if you don't know what 791 00:40:09,200 --> 00:40:12,960 Speaker 1: hoovering is, if you don't know what parentsification is, if 792 00:40:12,960 --> 00:40:16,279 Speaker 1: you don't know what flying monkeys is, then you could 793 00:40:16,400 --> 00:40:19,880 Speaker 1: very well be in a toxic relationship and not even know. 794 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 1: Because to us, toxic is oh he put his hands 795 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,960 Speaker 1: on me. Nah, toxic to us is gas lighting. 796 00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:26,120 Speaker 4: Oh. 797 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:30,239 Speaker 1: You know you said that. It's so much more to 798 00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 1: being in a toxic environment than people are aware of. 799 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,479 Speaker 1: And so we've got all those elements and I'm really 800 00:40:36,560 --> 00:40:38,959 Speaker 1: excited for people to see and it's my own thing, 801 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 1: and you know, I just hope people support me in it, 802 00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:42,759 Speaker 1: you know. 803 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,440 Speaker 3: And you're not only the starvet, aren't you also executive producing? 804 00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:49,680 Speaker 1: Get I'm a consulting producer. I'm not executive producing. But 805 00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:53,320 Speaker 1: you know, I was a part of the development phase 806 00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:56,440 Speaker 1: of adding those things that I just spoke to you 807 00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:59,760 Speaker 1: about to make sure that it was really well rounded 808 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:01,920 Speaker 1: and flushed out and we weren't just doing the. 809 00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:03,880 Speaker 4: Same thing that had already been done. 810 00:41:04,280 --> 00:41:07,480 Speaker 1: So they afforded me a consulting producer credit, which I'm 811 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:08,160 Speaker 1: thankful for. 812 00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:11,840 Speaker 2: Congratulations with that, thank you, thank you. 813 00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:15,200 Speaker 3: Would you ever go back into duing reality TV? Or 814 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:17,080 Speaker 3: do you want to focus on other ventures right now? 815 00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:19,520 Speaker 1: Well? You know which I know you know, but your 816 00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:23,320 Speaker 1: viewers may not know. Caught in the act is reality TV. 817 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:28,720 Speaker 1: Reality is under an umbrella called unscripted, so it's still 818 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:32,840 Speaker 1: reality TV, it's just a different format. But would I 819 00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:36,240 Speaker 1: go back to an ensemble? Absolutely? What you got, Carlos. 820 00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,399 Speaker 1: You know, I tried to get up on that Real 821 00:41:38,440 --> 00:41:41,560 Speaker 1: House Life two times and both times they were like, girl, 822 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 1: go on somewhere. We don't want you, you know, So 823 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,759 Speaker 1: I said, well that won't happen, But I would absolutely 824 00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:52,920 Speaker 1: go back depending upon here again, is it a world 825 00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:57,480 Speaker 1: we haven't seen? Are we offering people something different than 826 00:41:57,520 --> 00:42:01,240 Speaker 1: what's already been done a hundred thousand times? 827 00:42:01,480 --> 00:42:02,920 Speaker 4: You know? It would have to really be. 828 00:42:02,960 --> 00:42:07,200 Speaker 1: A flushed out concept and environment, you know, where we're 829 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 1: something new and it feels fresh. 830 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,000 Speaker 4: Yes, But me going to have lunch with. 831 00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:16,080 Speaker 1: So and so and going to somebody's birth keays birthday party, 832 00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,120 Speaker 1: and then we got to argue about something at kids. 833 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:19,600 Speaker 4: No, I'm not interested. 834 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:25,440 Speaker 3: No, I just see something so much bigger for you. 835 00:42:25,520 --> 00:42:28,400 Speaker 3: And that's why I'm so happy for you with the calling, 836 00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:32,720 Speaker 3: the acting, faithful show, you acting on Mispatch on BT Plus. 837 00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:37,160 Speaker 1: And it's amazing going to work every day because all 838 00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,920 Speaker 1: you do is laugh all day long, like the mispat 839 00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 1: that you guys see on TV and her stand up. 840 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 1: That's who she is all the time. So I love 841 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,600 Speaker 1: being over there with that. I've got a new scripted 842 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:53,160 Speaker 1: drama that's coming to be ET as well, which launches 843 00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:57,560 Speaker 1: in August, which I actually helm that show, and I've 844 00:42:57,600 --> 00:42:59,719 Speaker 1: got a great cast on that show as well. This 845 00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:01,840 Speaker 1: is exclusive. I don't know if of you were supposed 846 00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:03,680 Speaker 1: to be talking about it, but it's coming to be 847 00:43:03,800 --> 00:43:08,279 Speaker 1: ET Linear and we're excited about it. So there's there's 848 00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:09,720 Speaker 1: a lot of things that are happening. 849 00:43:09,960 --> 00:43:13,959 Speaker 3: You have such a wealth of knowledge and experience. 850 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 2: When you talk, people listen. 851 00:43:16,400 --> 00:43:16,960 Speaker 4: Thank you. 852 00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:17,959 Speaker 2: When you were on. 853 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:21,840 Speaker 3: The Real Alani Love and you shared your personal story 854 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:25,640 Speaker 3: about your challenges with body image and going through body 855 00:43:25,680 --> 00:43:30,640 Speaker 3: dysmorphia and your honesty, it stops people in their tracks 856 00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:34,920 Speaker 3: because we love you and you're an icon because the 857 00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 3: moment you wire your teeth on the real world. Yes, 858 00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:41,160 Speaker 3: you've always given us the reil. You have a lot 859 00:43:41,160 --> 00:43:43,040 Speaker 3: of fans who are rooting for you, who love you. 860 00:43:44,120 --> 00:43:47,360 Speaker 3: How are you doing health wise now, because obviously you 861 00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,040 Speaker 3: were so open about it, and I had no idea 862 00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:52,960 Speaker 3: you were going through that after all the years I've 863 00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:53,359 Speaker 3: known you. 864 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,239 Speaker 1: If you look at me over the course of my life, 865 00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:58,360 Speaker 1: it's like, who's going to be one hundred and twenty 866 00:43:58,360 --> 00:44:01,799 Speaker 1: pounds and get their my mouth to lose more weight, right, 867 00:44:01,840 --> 00:44:03,680 Speaker 1: which is what I did on real world, Like, I've 868 00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 1: always suffered from this mental disorder, because that's really what 869 00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:13,120 Speaker 1: it is. And I've had phases over the course of 870 00:44:13,160 --> 00:44:18,000 Speaker 1: my life where through therapy, like I try to deal 871 00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 1: with it, right, I try to, for lack of better verbage, 872 00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:23,759 Speaker 1: be normal like everybody else and eat and do you 873 00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:24,160 Speaker 1: know all. 874 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 4: Those things and gain weight and stuff. 875 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,879 Speaker 1: So I've had moments where I try to do that, 876 00:44:29,719 --> 00:44:33,360 Speaker 1: but the minute something triggers it, I'm back on the train, 877 00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And so you know, Carlos, 878 00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:42,600 Speaker 1: every day is a struggle, if I'm being quite honest, 879 00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:47,120 Speaker 1: you know, And I'm just trying to be as healthy 880 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,080 Speaker 1: as I can be, you know, I don't need people 881 00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,120 Speaker 1: talking about my weight all the time because it doesn't 882 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:54,000 Speaker 1: help me. You understand what I'm saying, and so let 883 00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,440 Speaker 1: me kind of just go through my processes and try 884 00:44:57,440 --> 00:45:02,439 Speaker 1: to get back on a better mental health path so 885 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,719 Speaker 1: that you don't see my claviical and you don't see 886 00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:06,400 Speaker 1: my shoulder bone and you don't you know, you know 887 00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, let me just try to work 888 00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:09,920 Speaker 1: my way through it. 889 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:13,400 Speaker 4: But right now, you know, I feel like I look great. 890 00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:15,959 Speaker 1: But that's the problem, right you know what I mean, 891 00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:18,319 Speaker 1: because everybody's like she needs some help, you know. So 892 00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:22,479 Speaker 1: it's one day at a time, That's what I will say. 893 00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:23,640 Speaker 1: It's one day at a time. 894 00:45:23,840 --> 00:45:27,279 Speaker 3: Yeah, And listen is one of those things where I 895 00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:31,360 Speaker 3: know firsthand the moment you publicly talk about your struggles, 896 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,840 Speaker 3: whether it's eating or alcohol or whatever, it's sort of 897 00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:37,160 Speaker 3: keep it kind of holds you accountable. 898 00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:41,000 Speaker 1: But it holds you accountable and hostage at the same time, 899 00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:44,480 Speaker 1: because because I feel like I put it out there 900 00:45:44,520 --> 00:45:46,719 Speaker 1: so that you guys can understand what I'm dealing with 901 00:45:46,840 --> 00:45:50,799 Speaker 1: and then now let me take the steps necessary to 902 00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,279 Speaker 1: get better. And why I say, but it holds you 903 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:56,040 Speaker 1: hostages because every time I put up a fucking picture 904 00:45:56,320 --> 00:45:59,240 Speaker 1: because now people know that that's my issue. 905 00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:01,600 Speaker 4: It's like she needs to eat. 906 00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:03,880 Speaker 1: She you know what I mean. It's like she was 907 00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:05,480 Speaker 1: you know, you know what I'm saying when she got 908 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:07,919 Speaker 1: by in this morn. Yeah, she ain't trying to get better. 909 00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:10,240 Speaker 1: And it's like I shared it with you guys because 910 00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:13,480 Speaker 1: I want you to have empathy and compassion, not just 911 00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,600 Speaker 1: continue to break me down. Let me just try to 912 00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,399 Speaker 1: keep working through it, and then one day there's gonna 913 00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:21,839 Speaker 1: be one day I'm gonna put up a picture and 914 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:24,560 Speaker 1: it's gonna be like, huh, she looked good. 915 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:28,480 Speaker 4: She got to you guys, because to me, I look great. 916 00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:32,000 Speaker 1: But for you guys, let me just try to work 917 00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:32,520 Speaker 1: through it. 918 00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:35,120 Speaker 3: We are all praying for you because we love you. 919 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 3: Ever we want to see you win. So last, but 920 00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:43,200 Speaker 3: not least, what is it that you want my listeners 921 00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:49,279 Speaker 3: to know about you that no one knows because they 922 00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:52,600 Speaker 3: saw one side of you on reality TV? 923 00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:55,319 Speaker 1: Well, I think they just need to know that I'm 924 00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 1: God fearing and I'm about my. 925 00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:01,400 Speaker 4: Business and I'm an excellent you know. 926 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what else because I feel 927 00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:06,480 Speaker 1: like I've shared so much of my life that they've 928 00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:08,120 Speaker 1: seen everything. 929 00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,560 Speaker 4: You know, So I feel like most people should know me. 930 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:15,239 Speaker 1: But you know, like I love the Lord and I 931 00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:19,320 Speaker 1: might say shit and fuck, but I definitely love the Lord. 932 00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:24,640 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm all about Christ and my ancestors and 933 00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:28,239 Speaker 1: trying to do what I need to do to make 934 00:47:28,320 --> 00:47:30,520 Speaker 1: my mom proud who's no longer here, and make my 935 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,600 Speaker 1: daughters proud who have to live on past me. 936 00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,120 Speaker 3: Oh, Tammy, we can talk all day. I love her 937 00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:42,960 Speaker 3: so much. She's so real, she's so genuine. And to 938 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:47,080 Speaker 3: have someone that's been in this business as long as 939 00:47:47,160 --> 00:47:51,760 Speaker 3: she has but still comes across so relatable, that's nothing 940 00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,680 Speaker 3: but a gift. And this conversation, I just have a 941 00:47:54,719 --> 00:48:03,280 Speaker 3: Tammy was also a gift. Love you, Tammy, thoughts, opinions. 942 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:08,440 Speaker 3: Read about my conversation with Tammy. Email me at Reality 943 00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:11,319 Speaker 3: with the King at stitcher dot com or leave me 944 00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:15,200 Speaker 3: a voicemail at three one zero five ninety three eight 945 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 3: one eight eight. Thank you for listening to Reality with 946 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 3: the King. 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