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Speaker 2: My name is Sean.

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Speaker 1: If you don't put this on here, I'll give you

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Speaker 1: my phone number.

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Speaker 2: No, never mind, that's.

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Speaker 3: A message we got on our voice when we played

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Speaker 3: it last week, and I cannot get Sean out of

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Speaker 3: my head. I love the check in with Sean. Sean,

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Speaker 3: if you're listening, call us eight eight eight three four

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Speaker 3: three one oh six one. It's the Jewbile Show and

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Speaker 3: it's time for the check in. Let's all not feel

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Speaker 3: alone right now, because there is a loneliness epidemic in

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Speaker 3: the world. The Surgeon General actually issued a warning the

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Speaker 3: other day saying that loneliness is just as bad for

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Speaker 3: you as smoking fifteen cigarettes a day. So you're not

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Speaker 3: actually lonely right now. You have us to hang out with,

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Speaker 3: check in with us, let us know how you're doing

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Speaker 3: good bad in between doesn't matter, and we'll check in

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Speaker 3: with all of us right now. It's time for the

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Speaker 3: check in. So Nina, Yes, what's what's up with you?

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Speaker 3: Let's check in with you.

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Speaker 4: Have you guys heard of candlelight concerts?

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Speaker 3: No? No, okay? Is it pretty self explanatory or is

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Speaker 3: it something you know like, is it one of those

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Speaker 3: things where it's candilight concerts but it's different than what

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Speaker 4: No, it's actually a candle light concert. Okay, Yeah, I

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Speaker 4: went to one of those last night, and I'm very

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Speaker 4: thankful for my one friend. Her name's Bly. So if

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Speaker 4: I didn't have bl I'd probably spend a lot of

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Speaker 4: she gets me out to do fun things like this

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Speaker 4: candle light concert. It was at one of the wineries

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Speaker 4: in Woodenville, and it was a string quartet and they

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Speaker 4: were covering all Beyonce songs. So if you've seen yeah,

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Speaker 4: so if you've seen Bridgerton, it's kind of like all

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Speaker 4: those covers and I brought some to share with you

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Speaker 4: so you can be a part of the candlelight concert too.

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Speaker 3: Here we go, there's a clip. You know, that's what

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Speaker 3: it is? What song? Is that? What I mean? I

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Speaker 3: know what it?

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Speaker 4: Oh crazy love?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, it's so cool. You've got me crazy in

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Speaker 5: It's so crazy and love right now, looking so crazy

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so good and it's cool. They do all different artists.

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Speaker 4: They have a Taylor Swift night where they just cover

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Speaker 4: all Taylor Swift. But the funniest part is when you

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Speaker 4: look around the room, there were some couples that just

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Speaker 3: What I had no idea? What's going on?

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Speaker 4: Do you not dance?

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Speaker 3: They're like, what are they playing? I was expecting some

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Speaker 3: mozart or something like that. Exactly was Beyonce? You throw

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Speaker 3: that around though, check call us up right now, let

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Speaker 3: us know what's going on. Let's all not feel lonely

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Speaker 3: for a little while. Hey, Sean was walking with you, man,

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Speaker 3: what's going on? Hey, what's going on?

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Speaker 6: So?

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Speaker 7: I got an issue here. I was talking to Shirky

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Speaker 7: and so my best friend, my roommate of fourteen years

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Speaker 7: He's been living with me for two years.

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Speaker 8: Right, He's never had any other roommates other than family

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Speaker 3: Know what I mean.

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Speaker 7: And it's more of a like, you know, it's been

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Speaker 9: So I'm not going to talk about, you know.

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Speaker 7: The fun things that have been going on. I get

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Speaker 3: To, you know, Skate, So how have you been alluding

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Speaker 7: Right almost almost exactly. It's like, you know, you know,

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Speaker 6: In your own spot.

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Speaker 7: Apartments are cheap right now. You know, my buddy just

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Speaker 9: Don't know how do I just be like, look, bro,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And you're like, and I don't want my next

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Speaker 3: So please get out. Well, if anybody has a place

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Speaker 4: You know what, Sean, if you want, I'm pretty sure

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we can talk to him if you want. Sean.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for checking in with us, bro. Appreciate you.

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Speaker 10: Hey, thank you.

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Speaker 6: Hey.

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Speaker 7: You guys are freaking awesome. I appreciate everything you do

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Speaker 7: in the morning. I listen to you every single morning.

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Speaker 3: Dude, thank you, You're awesome. Man. Have a good one.

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Speaker 3: Call us anytime. All right, you got luck. Appreciate it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: good luck. Calls up eight to eight, three for three,

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Speaker 3: Let's all not feel a little bit alone. Let's not

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Speaker 3: I like that loneliness is an epidemic in the world

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Speaker 3: they have the Surgeon General's War on Cigarettes. Yeah wait,

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Speaker 3: what really you didn't know that, Victoria.

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Speaker 2: I don't smoke cigarettes.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, these ones are obviously fine for me because

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Speaker 3: saying that loneliness is just as bad for you as smoking,

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Speaker 3: So it has real physical effects. Your mental state has

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Speaker 3: So call us up. Eighty eight three four three, one

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Speaker 3: what's up? Power are you good? How are you good?

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Speaker 3: What's problem with you? What is going on?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I was just oh yeah, so our sharky uh one,

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Speaker 3: now you're on the air. Oh yeah, so what's up?

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Speaker 3: What do you want to talk about? Oh?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: What's that.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 3: I was like, huh oh, okay, we'll do you shower

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Speaker 3: with your significant other. We talked about that yesterday.

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Speaker 11: Oh okay, I'm hearing it today.

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Speaker 6: I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 3: No, it's all good, Njela. Thank you for your phone

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Speaker 6: Okay, okay, thank you.

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Speaker 3: All right, thank you see call us up. You can

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Speaker 3: talk about anything. Literally, you can even not talk. And

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Speaker 3: what was going on there, Victoria, what's going on with you?

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Speaker 3: To check in? Let's check in with you.

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Speaker 12: Well, I told myself I was gonna have a great

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Speaker 2: What is it called.

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Speaker 4: Alarm beer?

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Speaker 12: No, I can't think of the word, but it just

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Speaker 4: A brush in your body. So the adrenaline, thank you.

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Speaker 12: The adrenaline just like hits your body and you're like

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Speaker 2: That was me this morning.

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Speaker 12: And then I found out I didn't do my laundry

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Speaker 2: I found some by the.

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Speaker 4: Way, thanks good, and I did.

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Speaker 2: And then I also ran out of espresso.

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Speaker 3: But I'm doing great right now.

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Speaker 4: I was wondering why you didn't respond to g you

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Speaker 3: Victoria? Call us up eight A eight three four three

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Speaker 3: With us. Let us know how you're doing. Your phone

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Speaker 3: the Jubile cash code. And what's trending with Nina that's

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Speaker 13: It's another Jubile phone.

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Speaker 4: Frank weekday mornings on the twenties.

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Speaker 3: Hello, yeah, Hi, this is Parker calling from salon. I

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Speaker 3: was looking for page Oh.

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Speaker 3: Hey. Hey, So, yeah, I guess there was a complaint,

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Speaker 3: so calling you back to ask about that. I know

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Speaker 3: I'm not the one. I'm not the stylist who worked

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Speaker 6: Have I offend you?

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Speaker 14: I'm so sorry. Have I offended you? I've not met

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Speaker 14: and I'm not. I'm not mad at you because you

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Speaker 14: weren't my stylist. But anyway, so here's the situation, and

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Speaker 14: I'm happy to send you photos if you'd like. Basically,

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Speaker 14: I came in with a reference photo and I.

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Speaker 1: Wanted to do a little bit. No, it's not j Lo.

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Speaker 14: It was not j Los a photo I found on

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Speaker 14: tintris from stock.

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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I want to stop you right there.

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Speaker 3: I want to stop you right there before you go

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Speaker 3: down the road anymore. I'm going to say, if you

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Speaker 3: brought in a picture to show the stylist some inspo

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Speaker 3: and our stylist of the hair that way, that's probably

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Speaker 3: more of a you problem than us problems. So that's

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Speaker 3: probably a you problem.

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Speaker 14: Well, you don't have to be a condescending to me, Parker.

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Speaker 14: I called because I'm not satisfied with my service, right,

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Speaker 14: and now I'm feeling like your entire salon is just

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Speaker 1: Right, okay, Parker, yep mm hmm. Have I have I

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Speaker 1: offended you?

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Speaker 3: No, I'm sorry. I'm just listening, all right.

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Speaker 14: But the way that you just keep going right right,

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Speaker 1: How does it feel to go bankrupt?

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Speaker 6: Parker?

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Speaker 14: I want to have your business taken down, Parker.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know what I did in this conversation

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Speaker 14: like taking you back to small Clay right, okay, right, right, right? Seriously, seriously,

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Speaker 3: Right? Okay? I didn't ask, actually, and I should know this.

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Speaker 3: Because this is actually Jewbil from The Jewels Show doing

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Speaker 17: Oh my god.

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Speaker 13: Wake up every morning with double phone Franks weekday mornings

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Speaker 6: Trenday.

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Speaker 4: It is exciting. So you can celebrate today, and I

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Speaker 3: We already moved on to five G.

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Speaker 4: Well, they're on four G they're not there yet.

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Speaker 3: Oh so they're only gonna be talking to people that

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Speaker 2: That's what's trending.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, who's excited right now because come into the stage.

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Speaker 3: It's Nina.

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Speaker 4: rule is no more engagement parties. Two, no outdoor summer weddings.

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Speaker 4: Three your closest friends should control the guest list. Four

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Speaker 3: Number six don't have don't have a wedding, don't do anything.

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Speaker 4: Yeah no, it says never say black tie optional anyway.

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Speaker 3: I do like this time of year though, This is

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Speaker 10: How much?

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Speaker 10: How?

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Speaker 3: Because those people that have a lot of friends and

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Speaker 4: That's how you see it. Meanwhile, I'm like, oh, it's

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's because Nina is that person who's got so

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Speaker 3: Jackson is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 3: follow up. He's getting ghosted by a woman named Meredith,

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Speaker 3: and he has no idea why. Jackson, thanks for agreeing

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Speaker 3: to do the first date follow up. Man, Before we

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Speaker 10: It's been a couple of weeks now.

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Speaker 3: That's definitely ghosted.

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Speaker 4: Have you tried to reach out to her a bunch

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Speaker 10: I've tried a couple of times. I didn't want to,

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Speaker 3: Now, yeah, I think that's definite at this point, especially

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Speaker 10: Though.

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Speaker 3: Tell us a little bit about your date with Meredith.

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Speaker 3: The day was great.

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Speaker 10: I thought, you know, we went out, went to a

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Speaker 10: had good conversation. It seemed very relaxed to me. Nothing

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Speaker 10: she wasn't, like, you know, eating a lot of her fries,

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Speaker 10: so I like smashed a fry to off her plate,

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Speaker 10: it doesn't seem like that would be enough to get ghosted.

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Speaker 10: But it seemed like a good date to me, which

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the fry thing can be sensitive though, Like I

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Speaker 3: You know what it bugs me, Well, it only bugs

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Speaker 10: That, or I might I gotta be like a playful

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Speaker 10: kind of like I did, like a yoink kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe if you yoinked it, it was a yeah, stop.

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Speaker 4: What do you think it is about Meredith Jackson that

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Speaker 10: Well, honestly, we just had a good connection. You know,

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Speaker 10: we had a really good time. You know, I'm honest.

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Speaker 10: She was on a boat in her picture on line,

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Speaker 18: She was cool and we can hang out on a boat.

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Speaker 18: So you know, it's kind of like a She's like

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Speaker 18: they did go well, I thought, so is it her boat? Well,

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Speaker 18: didn't actually ask about the boat?

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Speaker 3: Oh, okay, is that your boat friend's boat? Can I

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Speaker 3: get on the boat?

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Speaker 10: Just when I'm asking, do a little John James B

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Speaker 3: That's so funny.

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Speaker 4: I know so many friends, like in the summertime that

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Speaker 4: maybe meet some dude with the boat you can hang

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Speaker 3: I would love to. I mean, I would love to

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Speaker 10: I do you do? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Sweet introduction. Okay, so other than grabbing a fry off

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Speaker 10: No? And I feel I could think of. I mean,

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Speaker 3: Okay, did you kiss or anything?

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Speaker 10: We didn't have a kiss. Now, it's just a very

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Speaker 10: pleasant you know, had a good time. SA good night,

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Speaker 4: Was it flirty? It sounds I'm glad you guys had

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Speaker 10: It's a very laid back me like we're fell very relaxed,

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Speaker 10: you know.

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Speaker 3: So Okay, it's so good because it just felt nice

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Speaker 3: and chill.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: See that's good when you can feel comfortable like that

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Speaker 3: with somebody, although it has, you know, when I was dating, right,

450
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Speaker 3: I'm married now, but when I was dating, that has

451
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Speaker 3: kind of come back to bite me because I'm pretty chill,

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Speaker 3: and sometimes that vibe of just that comfortable vibe, I

453
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Speaker 3: get too comfortable, and then it seems like I don't

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Speaker 3: care at all about like hanging out with her or

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Speaker 3: even I'm like, we can just sit here and be

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Speaker 3: quiet if you want. I don't care. But where you know,

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Speaker 3: it's like a first date, you should be talking. You know,

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Speaker 3: it helps, it helps, you know, Yeah, we were talking. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: we'll see if we can figure it out for you.

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Speaker 3: We'll play a song, come back, and then call her

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Speaker 3: and see if we can find out why you're gettinghosted

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Speaker 3: and maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 13: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 13: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 3: If you're just joining us for today's First Date follow Up.

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Speaker 3: Jackson is on the phone and he's not getting a

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Speaker 3: call back from Meredith, So we're going to see if

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Speaker 3: we can find out why he's getting ghosted. Part of

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Speaker 3: it could be because he yointed it at the table.

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Speaker 4: He joined a French fry from her plate at.

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Speaker 3: The table, Jackson, real quick, refresh everybody's memory about your

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Speaker 3: date before we call her.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, So me and Meredith won went out, got some burgers,

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Speaker 10: had really good conversation. I was very chill, was very

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Speaker 10: laid back. At one point I noticed she wasn't eating

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Speaker 10: a lot of her fries, so I did pull the

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Speaker 10: old yoint move and let's snatch a couple off her plate.

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Speaker 10: But it didn't seem that, you know, offensive in the moment.

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Speaker 10: But you know, other than that, seemed like a very

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Speaker 10: good date.

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Speaker 3: All right, So we're about to find out if Jackson's

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Speaker 3: joint can get at the table is the reason that

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Speaker 3: he's not getting a call back. Expect me to say

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Speaker 3: you can get at the table a lot in this

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Speaker 3: first day follow.

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Speaker 4: Up, great communion. You're not going to help his case

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Speaker 4: at all. All right, Jackson, you're ready to call her?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, let's do this.

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Speaker 3: Okay, here we go. Hello, Hi me, I speak to Meredith. Please.

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Speaker 3: Who's this Meredith? This is my name is Jewbel from

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Speaker 3: a radio show called The Jewel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi Meredith, my name's Nina. I'm on that show too, Hi,

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Speaker 4: and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 3: We okay, I win something or we do a segment

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Speaker 3: called the First Date follow Up, where if somebody goes

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Speaker 3: on a date and gets ghosted, they can email us

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Speaker 3: to get the other person on the phone and ask

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Speaker 3: why they are ghosting them. We got an email about

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Speaker 3: you recently.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, do you know who could possibly have been

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Speaker 4: the person that emailed us?

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Speaker 19: No, I've been on a few kind of weird dates. Okay,

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Speaker 19: I've been trying this online dating thing. I hate my

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Speaker 19: mom for making me.

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Speaker 3: Do this, all right, this, yeah, Well, do you remember

506
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Speaker 3: a date with a dude named Jackson?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the guy that was high?

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Speaker 3: What huh?

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Speaker 1: He's stormed off, are you? Yeah? I mean I don't

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Speaker 1: know the guy much, you know, but the way he

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Speaker 1: was eating.

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Speaker 19: It was obvious he had the munchies and and his

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Speaker 19: eyes and just the way he was acting was so off.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so we talked to him about your date. He

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Speaker 3: didn't mention anything about being high. He just said he

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Speaker 3: said he took a fry off, a couple fries off

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Speaker 3: of your plate, and he thought maybe that was the

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Speaker 3: reason you weren't calling him back.

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Speaker 1: Well, that wasn't the only reason.

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Speaker 20: I felt like that was disgusting. First of all, he

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Speaker 20: didn't even wash his hands his hands are all in

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Speaker 20: my plate. He was definitely high, trust me. So what

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Speaker 20: point in the date did you notice that he was high? Like,

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Speaker 20: did you smell him?

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Speaker 4: Was it his eyes?

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Speaker 1: He definitely had a spin.

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Speaker 19: Honestly, it was just horrible, like he I don't even

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Speaker 19: know if he took a shower before the date. He

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Speaker 19: was just like complaining a lot. So he's like, oh,

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Speaker 19: oh my god. It was the dud was in another world.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't even president.

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Speaker 4: A stinky yoink is a different kind of yoink.

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Speaker 17: You know.

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Speaker 4: That is not the kind of yoink you're looking for. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you mean, oh, sorry, Meredith.

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Speaker 3: So wouldn't We talked to Jackson. He told us about

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Speaker 3: the French try how he took some French fries off

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Speaker 3: your plate, and he said, I did like a funny

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Speaker 3: yoink noise, like yoink, and he thought that that, you know,

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Speaker 3: made it better.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, No, he was, Yeah, he was making all kinds

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Speaker 1: of noises.

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Speaker 3: We can find out, Yeah, we can find out if

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Speaker 3: he was high, Meredith.

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Speaker 4: Wouldn't make a difference though. If he wasn't high, Meredith.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I know, if he wasn't high, then he's right

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Speaker 1: with him.

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Speaker 10: Okay, was.

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Speaker 3: Even worse Okay, so it's better if he was high.

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Speaker 4: This is that thinker for her honesty at this?

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, good point, Nina. Thank you for being

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Speaker 3: honest with us. I appreciate that. Now, Meredith, I need

553
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Speaker 3: to be fully honest with you and let you know

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Speaker 3: that Jackson is on the phone. He's been listening this

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Speaker 3: whole time and wants to talk to you. Okay, yeah, Hi,

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Speaker 3: hold on.

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Speaker 10: Just because I'm a chill guy does not mean I'm stoned.

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Speaker 10: First of all, like all this that is, how can

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Speaker 10: you just tell me that I tell them that I'm

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Speaker 10: high and I smell bad or whatever and all that,

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Speaker 10: just because I'm like, cure you were Oh my god,

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Speaker 10: please please please you were?

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Speaker 6: How am I?

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Speaker 10: How am I misconstruing what happened so badly?

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Speaker 3: Where I was not high.

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Speaker 10: I was sober, having a really enjoyable time.

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Speaker 3: And now you're telling me that I.

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Speaker 10: Was high because of eating food or you know, playfully

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Speaker 10: taking fries or whatever.

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Speaker 1: You didn't wash your hands, you had dirt in your nails.

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Speaker 1: You were musty. You weren't it was out mustard must

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Speaker 1: we were talking about.

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Speaker 19: I was trying to talk about politists, the Ukrainian War.

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Speaker 1: You were just not even focus.

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Speaker 10: I changed the subject every now and then because it

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Speaker 10: was getting a little heavy for a first date conversation,

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Speaker 10: and so I was lightening the mood a bit, but

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Speaker 10: I wouldn't say that I was not paying attention. And

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Speaker 10: dirty fingernails? Were you stared at?

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Speaker 17: You?

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Speaker 10: Is a dark night. You're staring at my fingernails, like.

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Speaker 1: Hey, yeah, your hands were in my plate.

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Speaker 3: I'm going there was a fry hanging off the side.

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Speaker 3: There was a fly off the side, and.

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Speaker 10: I gave it up. I just, you know, a little

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Speaker 10: joint off the plate is all not even quick enough

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Speaker 10: for you to tell me how dirty my fingernails are

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Speaker 10: when I'm just doing a quick joint.

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Speaker 19: Okay, Well, you were musty, came in with a hoodie

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Speaker 19: that you've probably been wearing four Day Street.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how the truth?

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Speaker 17: Okay, what truth?

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Speaker 3: Bro?

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Speaker 4: Did you?

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Speaker 6: Did you?

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Speaker 4: Did you? Okay?

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Speaker 10: I don't want to do this or be this person.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm not even gonna do it.

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Speaker 10: I'm not even gonna talk about the outfit that you

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Speaker 10: came to this date with and you're gonna talk about

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Speaker 10: me wearing a hoodie. I will be the bigger man

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Speaker 10: here and not do that to you.

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Speaker 1: So why'd you compliment my outfit?

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Speaker 10: Because I'm a polite person.

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Speaker 1: No, you're That means you're a liar.

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Speaker 19: You didn't have to say that my ouseit was cute,

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Speaker 19: And now you're saying that something about my outfit.

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Speaker 3: I mean, Oh, I.

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Speaker 10: Didn't mean to compliment to you.

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Speaker 3: My mistake, my mistake.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Jackson, Can I ask you something really clean? Did

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Speaker 4: you take a shower before the date?

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Speaker 10: I took a shower earlier in the day.

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Speaker 4: Yes, earlier in the week, he means.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, it's just this isn't gonna work.

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Speaker 3: Well, are you sure? Because it sounds like you guys,

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Speaker 3: I'm positive.

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Speaker 10: I'm gonna joint your number right on on my phone

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Speaker 10: is what I'm gonna do.

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you this question, Meredith, would you like

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Speaker 3: to go on another their date with Jackson? We will

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Speaker 3: pay for it?

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Speaker 6: Hell no?

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Speaker 3: No, cool, that's what I think.

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Speaker 10: And then you're paying for him?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but she said no.

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Speaker 1: Jackson, Oh, it's probably high right now.

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Speaker 13: Ju Will's First Date follow up powered by the Advocates

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Speaker 13: Injury Attorney online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever dealt with a toxic baby? Mama Wig?

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Speaker 3: Call us up right now eight eight three four three

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Speaker 3: six one eight three four three one six one ask

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Speaker 3: the question because one of our listeners needs your advice

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Speaker 3: because they're dealing with a toxic baby mama. It's the

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Speaker 3: same thing anyway, Laura, what's up?

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Speaker 6: Hey?

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Speaker 3: You told our producer that you want to ask our

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Speaker 3: audience for help. What's going on?

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Speaker 17: So I've been dating this guy and everything's been great,

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Speaker 17: except he has a toxic baby mama.

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Speaker 3: Well, how is she toxic?

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Speaker 17: She?

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Speaker 21: I know, she's checking me out for sure, and like

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Speaker 21: she's always disrupting things, like we'll be out and she'll

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Speaker 21: be texting him for nonsense, like nothing important, you know,

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Speaker 21: and it's just like too much.

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Speaker 4: She has feelings for him, so probably.

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Speaker 17: You know, but they're broken up, like get over it,

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Speaker 17: you know, he's moved on.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 21: I just feel like she's making things difficult. I mean,

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Speaker 21: he's fantastic, but like I just don't know what to do.

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Speaker 21: I mean, should I end it?

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Speaker 17: Because I feel like she's never gonna go away.

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Speaker 3: Talking to one of our listeners, Laura, who just called

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Speaker 3: up and she's wondering if she should break up with

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Speaker 3: her new boyfriend because he has a toxic baby mama.

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Speaker 3: Have you dealt with this before or are you a

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Speaker 3: toxic baby mama? Call us up, give us some advice.

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Speaker 3: Eight eight eight three four three one O six one

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Speaker 3: eight eight eight three four three one oh six one. Laura,

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Speaker 3: how old are is? Kids?

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Speaker 4: Five?

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Speaker 3: Five? So if you were to continue a relationship with

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Speaker 3: this dude with the toxic baby mama, you're looking at

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Speaker 3: potentially thirteen years of dealing with the toxic baby mama.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I think she's going to be in the

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Speaker 4: life forever.

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, I guess you're right.

670
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Speaker 4: But I mean, I know you at eighteen and then

671
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 4: what else? But that's so hard because you want to

672
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:11,200
Speaker 4: hope that like he can separate it. You shouldn't actually

673
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 4: have to have any contact with her unless you know,

674
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:15,520
Speaker 4: things got serious and you were taking care of their kid.

675
00:30:15,600 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 3: But leading up to that, that.

676
00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,960
Speaker 4: Shouldn't be a thing. But that's a fair question. I

677
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 4: bet you that some of our listeners have been in

678
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 4: similar situations.

679
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 3: Oh, I guarantee it. Call us eight eight eight three

680
00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 3: four three one O six one. Text in four one

681
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 3: O six one. Do you have any advice for Laura?

682
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 3: She's wondering if she's just stop saying a dude she

683
00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 3: really likes because he has a toxic baby mama. It's

684
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 3: just fun to say toxic baby mama. That should be

685
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 3: a song. If there's not a song called toxic baby Mama,

686
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 3: there should be. Well, I hear another one is on

687
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:44,840
Speaker 3: its way, Booby Nina. Have you ever dealt with this?

688
00:30:45,080 --> 00:30:47,080
Speaker 4: I mean, I've been through a similar situation. This is

689
00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 4: a really long time ago with somebody that I was

690
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 4: dating in New York. He had a baby mom who

691
00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 4: clearly couldn't let him go, and ultimately he ended up

692
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 4: going back to her. So that would also be my question,

693
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,800
Speaker 4: what is the relationship outside the toxicity, Like did they

694
00:30:58,840 --> 00:31:01,000
Speaker 4: spend time together? So I don't know what it is

695
00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 4: about some people. I don't want to generalize, but some people,

696
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 4: when they break up with someone they have a child with,

697
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 4: they think it's okay to go back and just like

698
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 4: hook up whenever because you're not adding a new number.

699
00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 4: It's just it cancels each other.

700
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 3: Out of something. I mean I look at it like

701
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:17,280
Speaker 3: it's like you go on vacation to certain places, right,

702
00:31:17,360 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 3: and if you go on vacation to the same spot

703
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,360
Speaker 3: a bunch, it's like, no longer really a vacation, So

704
00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:23,120
Speaker 3: it's kind of like you're just going back to old

705
00:31:23,200 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 3: territory for a minute, or you can.

706
00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 4: Put it that way too, and I guess it makes

707
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 4: more sense. And not to freak you out, Laura, you know,

708
00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 4: it's just another angle to look at with what this

709
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 4: relationship is.

710
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:35,600
Speaker 21: Yeah, I mean, you know, I can kind of tell

711
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 21: that she's trying to get back with him because she'll

712
00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 21: set up things like for him to help with stuff,

713
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 21: and like it's not necessary for him to help, and

714
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:49,080
Speaker 21: she just is trying to keep in contact with him

715
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 21: and see him any way she can, you know.

716
00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 3: So it's one of those situations like, hey, can you

717
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 3: come help me move a couch because I don't have

718
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 3: anybody to help, and then you show up and it's like, oh, sorry,

719
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 3: all my clothes were in the laundry. So I'm making

720
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:00,600
Speaker 3: exactly So.

721
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,920
Speaker 4: You do feel like your boyfriend's toxic baby mama is

722
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 4: trying to get rid of you.

723
00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 21: I think she is trying to get back in. She

724
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 21: probably realizes she lost a good thing and you know

725
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:12,600
Speaker 21: now she's trying to get it back.

726
00:32:12,680 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 3: But all right, call us up eight and eight three

727
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 3: four three one of six one text in four one

728
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Speaker 3: of six.

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Speaker 10: One.

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Speaker 3: Do you have any advice for Laura? She's trying to

731
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 3: figure out if she stop seeing a dude that she

732
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 3: really likes because he has a toxic baby mama. Kevin, So,

733
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:24,360
Speaker 3: you know, I've.

734
00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 22: Had kind of a friend I think that's kind of

735
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 22: been in like a similar situation here, and like ultimately,

736
00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 22: like it ended up working out. So I think it's

737
00:32:31,400 --> 00:32:34,440
Speaker 22: like something that you know, she should stick with. You know,

738
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 22: eventually the baby mom's can just kind of like she'll

739
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 22: be around still, but she'll just kind of you know,

740
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 22: be eased out of it, or you know, it's almost

741
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 22: just transactional, you know, because of the shared child.

742
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 4: Did your friend do anything specific to like create boundaries

743
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 4: or did your friend just kind of start like flapping

744
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,480
Speaker 4: her what do you call it, just swatting her away,

745
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 4: like applying, you know, minded her own business.

746
00:32:56,120 --> 00:32:56,320
Speaker 21: Yeah.

747
00:32:56,400 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 22: I mean, like ultimately, you just you know, aimed focus on,

748
00:33:00,800 --> 00:33:02,720
Speaker 22: you know, the girl he was dating at the time,

749
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 22: and just kind of, you know, it kind of fizzled,

750
00:33:04,880 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 22: you know. The the baby mama kind of just like

751
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,280
Speaker 22: fizzled out. You only saw her when the kid was

752
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,160
Speaker 22: getting dropped off or whatever. I mean, there was kind

753
00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 22: of like a crazy moment with the baby mama where she,

754
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 22: you know, was like following him. You know, they just

755
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 22: called the Cops center that one day, and you know,

756
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 22: I think it was fine after that. So like I

757
00:33:26,320 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 22: think she should, you know, continue to date this guy

758
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 22: and the baby mama acts up or whatever, just call

759
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:32,840
Speaker 22: the cops on her. You get her scared, and you

760
00:33:32,920 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 22: know that should take care of the problem.

761
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 4: That's one way to handle it.

762
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 3: Thank Kevin. Thanks Kevin. Well, there you go, Laura. That's

763
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 3: your first piece of advice. If you have some advice

764
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 3: for Laura on the situation with the toxic baby mama,

765
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:47,160
Speaker 3: call us eight eight eight three four three one six

766
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Speaker 3: one eight eight eight three four three one o six one.

767
00:33:49,760 --> 00:33:51,680
Speaker 3: Text in at four one o six one will take

768
00:33:51,720 --> 00:33:52,480
Speaker 3: your calls next.

769
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, and if you have a story about the cops

770
00:33:54,080 --> 00:33:55,600
Speaker 4: getting involved, you can go ahead and share that to.

771
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,959
Speaker 3: Your red Flag call us eight eight three six one.

772
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:03,360
Speaker 3: Phone lines are packed with listeners who have dealt with

773
00:34:03,920 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 3: a toxic baby mama.

774
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 4: That's it.

775
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 3: Thank you, Yes, thank you for calling one of our listeners.

776
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 3: Laura needs some advice. If you were listening just a

777
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 3: few minutes ago, she called up and asked us a

778
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 3: question of how you deal with a toxic baby mama.

779
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 17: So I've been dating this guy and everything's been great,

780
00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 17: except he has a toxic baby mama.

781
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 3: So she asked if our listeners could help her out.

782
00:34:33,120 --> 00:34:34,839
Speaker 3: Call us up eight eight eight three four three one

783
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 3: six one eight eight eight three four three one o

784
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:42,359
Speaker 3: six one. Hey Dakota, So are you a toxic baby

785
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:44,439
Speaker 3: mama or have you dealt with toxic baby?

786
00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:48,160
Speaker 15: No?

787
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 6: Definitely, I would say that it's going to ease out.

788
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 6: Like I my husband has had a toxic baby mom.

789
00:34:57,520 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 3: Okay, and how'd that and what happened? How'd that situation go?

790
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 19: Yeah?

791
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 6: So I was actually friends with her before I was

792
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 6: married to my husband, and it was just.

793
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:13,279
Speaker 17: It was it was not good.

794
00:35:13,520 --> 00:35:15,080
Speaker 11: It was very toxic.

795
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 6: It was just very drama. And then I eventually just.

796
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:22,080
Speaker 15: Stopped saying anything like I just stopped butting my business

797
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:26,080
Speaker 15: in it's not my place, and then boom, she just

798
00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,240
Speaker 15: kind of rolled with the punches, and now I wouldn't

799
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:33,080
Speaker 15: consider as friend. Definitely, we're co parents and if something

800
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:37,279
Speaker 15: of alm with the kids, cool, if not, we don't talk.

801
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 6: You know, it was just that simple. It will ease out.

802
00:35:40,640 --> 00:35:42,879
Speaker 4: So you think that Laura should keep dating this guy

803
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:47,480
Speaker 4: and just deal with the toxicity until it burns out. Yeah,

804
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:51,000
Speaker 4: it will burn out, Okay, definitely, Yeah, maybe.

805
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:52,919
Speaker 15: I mean it's just years.

806
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 6: I've been with my husband for seven years. I would

807
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 6: say in the last two and a half it has

808
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 6: died down to where.

809
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,919
Speaker 3: It's that's cool.

810
00:36:02,960 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 4: Okay, So five years Laura, and then maybe it'll be better.

811
00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:10,439
Speaker 3: So call up with some advice for our listener Laura,

812
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:12,239
Speaker 3: who is in a spot where she's trying to figure

813
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 3: out if she should keep dating this guy that she

814
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,359
Speaker 3: says is awesome. It's just he has a toxic baby.

815
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:17,560
Speaker 10: Mom.

816
00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:18,960
Speaker 3: We got him text in a lot of a few

817
00:36:19,000 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 3: texts actually that say fighter.

818
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 4: That's probably that's definitely an urge. Yeah, there's definitely something

819
00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 4: you want to do, But I don't think that would help.

820
00:36:26,920 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 4: That might have made the situation a little more toxic.

821
00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 3: Hello, Amber, So what advice would you have for our

822
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:37,080
Speaker 3: listener Laura, who is wondering if she should break up

823
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 3: with this dude or keep dating him when he's got

824
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:39,600
Speaker 3: a toxic baby.

825
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:43,719
Speaker 5: Mom, I would say she should drop him.

826
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,640
Speaker 11: I actually just got out of a relationship.

827
00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:51,480
Speaker 5: With a guy that had an ex wife that was

828
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 5: dressed kind of controlling the life. Like I couldn't even

829
00:36:55,239 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 5: be around him when their son was there, just because

830
00:36:59,320 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 5: you wanted to control. And yeah, and we were together

831
00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 5: for a year and like he's like, wait till a

832
00:37:05,760 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 5: year and then he can meet the sun and hang

833
00:37:07,640 --> 00:37:09,560
Speaker 5: out with the sun. And then the year came and

834
00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 5: nothing changed. Wow, And you know, he wasn't willing to

835
00:37:13,080 --> 00:37:15,600
Speaker 5: make any boundaries with her at all. So I would

836
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,440
Speaker 5: say that she should have a conversation with him and

837
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 5: just kind of find out if he's willing to, like,

838
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:25,120
Speaker 5: if he's willing to stand up to her, and he's not,

839
00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 5: then I think you should just move on because there's

840
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,520
Speaker 5: lots of more there's lots of people out there that would,

841
00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:32,120
Speaker 5: you know, do better.

842
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,279
Speaker 3: It's interesting how that'll happen. You know, people will break

843
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 3: up and especially if they were in a relationship that

844
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,640
Speaker 3: was controlling, the person who was the controlling one will

845
00:37:40,680 --> 00:37:43,400
Speaker 3: still try to control them if they if they have contact, right,

846
00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 3: if they have a kid, they'll still try to do

847
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 3: things to exert some power and control over them. If

848
00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 3: they start dating somebody new, they want to intervene in

849
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:54,320
Speaker 3: their dating life and stuff like that, and that's terrible

850
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 3: to do because you're not together anymore. Let them make

851
00:37:57,239 --> 00:37:58,000
Speaker 3: their own decisions.

852
00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 4: Well, especially when they weaponize the children exactly, and that

853
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 4: happens a lot, it does, And it's so sad because

854
00:38:05,080 --> 00:38:06,680
Speaker 4: the people that do weaponize the kids.

855
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 3: I've noticed when i've met those people, those type of people,

856
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,800
Speaker 3: and I've met a few of them, they seem like

857
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 3: they're just all about their kids and so interested in

858
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 3: their well being, right, except it does so much damage

859
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:23,560
Speaker 3: to children, like it is horrible to do that to

860
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,719
Speaker 3: a kid, horrible, But they have no problem doing it,

861
00:38:26,840 --> 00:38:29,319
Speaker 3: and they say they're looking out for their kids well being. Well,

862
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:32,359
Speaker 3: you're causing them years and years and years and years

863
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,359
Speaker 3: and years of trauma and it's gonna take a long

864
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 3: time to heal from that, if they even do know

865
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 3: to heal from it. So don't do that, right, keep

866
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 3: it between the adults, keep the kids out of it.

867
00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 3: It's hard. It's hard, though, I'm sure in that situation

868
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:48,960
Speaker 3: to do that, but I've seen it happen a lot.

869
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:51,799
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, are you tearing up? Yeah, it makes me sad.

870
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,360
Speaker 4: It is sad, and yeah, it is. It's very deeply emotional.

871
00:38:55,600 --> 00:38:59,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, because people don't realize the type of damage that

872
00:38:59,840 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 3: it can do, and I don't even know if they

873
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 3: I don't even blame some people necessarily, because you literally,

874
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 3: if you haven't looked into the amount of emotional and

875
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,919
Speaker 3: just emotional damage that it can do on a mental level,

876
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 3: if you're not really like, mental health is my passion? Really,

877
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 3: so like, if you haven't looked into it, you're you're ignorant.

878
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:22,200
Speaker 3: I don't mean that as an insult. You just don't

879
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 3: know the kind of damage that it can do. But

880
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 3: even weaponizing your kids a little bit, or talking trash

881
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:29,680
Speaker 3: about the other parent to your kid does so much

882
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:34,880
Speaker 3: deep damage you don't even understand how, So don't do

883
00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 3: that if you care about your kids. Calls up Aita

884
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 3: eight three four three one A six to one our

885
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 3: listener Laura was asking should she continue dating this dude

886
00:39:42,719 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 3: that she really likes because he has a toxic baby.

887
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 22: Mom.

888
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 3: Hey Jackie, Hey, good morning, good morning. So what advice

889
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:51,080
Speaker 3: do you have for Laura?

890
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 11: I'm, you know, I think he should sit with it.

891
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 11: But I also think that there's some sticky layers here

892
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,279
Speaker 11: because of the child. And I don't know how old

893
00:40:03,360 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 11: they are or anything, but I think that it's important

894
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:09,399
Speaker 11: to note. You know, obviously you care about this man,

895
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:13,239
Speaker 11: and that's really important, but he's also a package deal

896
00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 11: with his kid, and if you have love for this

897
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:18,520
Speaker 11: kid that you want to grow up with and share

898
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,240
Speaker 11: a life with, I think that that's a very important

899
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 11: layer to consider in making this choice, not just considering

900
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 11: the baby mama, because I do believe that this child

901
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 11: is owed the opportunity to have a partnership with his

902
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 11: parents or a co parenting situation that's healthy. And you know,

903
00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 11: if you can really see yourself with this man and

904
00:40:44,800 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 11: his child as a as a really great family, that

905
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 11: will happen in time. And I really think it has

906
00:40:51,719 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 11: to do with communication with a child's mom and dad

907
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:57,360
Speaker 11: with you in the room, and creating a healthy partnership

908
00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 11: for this kid, especially as you see yourself with this person.

909
00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:06,400
Speaker 11: It's a very important dynamic. And I don't know, just

910
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 11: something to consider because you clearly really care about this guy,

911
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:12,400
Speaker 11: but he also has you know, a kinder consider and

912
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 11: that's just a you know.

913
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 6: A.

914
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 11: Layer that's scary sometimes because I don't know.

915
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,800
Speaker 6: If you're a mom or it's hard.

916
00:41:22,120 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 11: That's good advice with it if you really care about him.

917
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:26,840
Speaker 3: Thank you for the phone call. Jackie. That's great advice.

918
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 3: Appreciate it.

919
00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 4: I mean it's a great point, Jackie Layers, because I

920
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:31,840
Speaker 4: mean all these kind of situations are complicated. It's just

921
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 4: what are you willing to deal with?

922
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 3: Exactly? Call us up eight of eight, three, four, three

923
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 3: or six one? Oh yeah, who's excited right now? Because

924
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,400
Speaker 3: come into the stage. It's Nina.

925
00:41:45,560 --> 00:41:45,799
Speaker 17: Yeah.

926
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:48,319
Speaker 3: Is she yes?

927
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: Is she trendy?

928
00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:53,400
Speaker 3: Absolutely? And she's about to get indy and trendy for

929
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 3: you with what's trending with Nina Tipple? Well, because she's

930
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:02,320
Speaker 3: working for you, that's a great you know what's trending? Weddings?

931
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:03,640
Speaker 15: Wow?

932
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 3: Speaking of that, I mean, bachelor is in the house,

933
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:10,880
Speaker 3: celebrating a bachelor party. It's zam Bernina to get all

934
00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:14,840
Speaker 3: trend doing it, and that's exactly what we're doing. Weddings

935
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:18,000
Speaker 3: are trending. I mean, we're approaching wedding season and there

936
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:20,760
Speaker 3: is this list that has gone viral because it's allegedly

937
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 3: the new role, the new rules for weddings in twenty

938
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:24,759
Speaker 3: twenty three.

939
00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 4: I'm just gonna give you the top five to give

940
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:28,960
Speaker 4: you kind of an idea of where this is going.

941
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 4: The number one rule is no more engagement parties. Two,

942
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:38,320
Speaker 4: no outdoor summer weddings. Three your closest friends should control

943
00:42:38,400 --> 00:42:42,760
Speaker 4: the guest list for it's entirely fine to deny anyone

944
00:42:42,800 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 4: a plus one for any reason. I strongly disagree with this.

945
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:51,439
Speaker 4: And five skip the bridle party. What Yeah, there's even

946
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 4: no kids on the list as number nine, like I

947
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:54,839
Speaker 4: get it to each their ows.

948
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,160
Speaker 3: Number six don't have don't have a wedding, just don't

949
00:42:58,520 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 3: do anything.

950
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 4: Yeah no, it says never say black tie optional anyway.

951
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:04,600
Speaker 5: Yeah.

952
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 4: So I don't know what's going on here and why

953
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:08,799
Speaker 4: it's such a bunch of pooh poos, But I think

954
00:43:08,840 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 4: they're trying to steer away from the traditional wedding type rules.

955
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:15,960
Speaker 3: And I don't know. Just do what you want.

956
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 4: It's your day, Yeah, do it however you want. I

957
00:43:18,280 --> 00:43:19,879
Speaker 4: don't think there should be rules on it. I don't

958
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:20,640
Speaker 4: think there should either.

959
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:22,080
Speaker 3: I do like this time of year, though, This is

960
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 3: the time of year where everybody brags about how many

961
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 3: friends they have are getting married? How much like how

962
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 3: because those people that have a lot of friends and

963
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:31,440
Speaker 3: want you to know they have a lot of friends,

964
00:43:31,600 --> 00:43:35,080
Speaker 3: they'll start posting on social media NonStop about ugh, I

965
00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 3: have so many weddings to go to this summer, Like

966
00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 3: every weekend is basically booked to the wedding. How am

967
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:41,719
Speaker 3: I going to do anything this summer Because I'm going

968
00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 3: to weddings every single weekend. I love that.

969
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 4: That's how you see it. Meanwhile, I'm like, oh, it's

970
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 4: so expensive to go to all of these wedding another dress.

971
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,319
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's because Nino's that person who's got so many

972
00:43:53,360 --> 00:43:57,920
Speaker 3: weddings to go to. The Jubil show on demand Jeubils

973
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:11,279
Speaker 3: dirty little Secret. Hey, what's up? Let's go pretty good?

974
00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 3: How are you?

975
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:13,520
Speaker 10: Oh not bad?

976
00:44:13,800 --> 00:44:14,880
Speaker 3: You have a dirty little secret?

977
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:15,080
Speaker 10: Huh?

978
00:44:15,719 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 21: I do?

979
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 3: Uh?

980
00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:19,839
Speaker 11: Let me see.

981
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 21: I'll explain this.

982
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 16: So I guess throughout high school I had uh, I

983
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 16: had these two friends.

984
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:30,319
Speaker 3: Most emails and stuff, and one of them, like one

985
00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:30,760
Speaker 3: of them.

986
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 22: Like always complimented how their mom looked really.

987
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:34,360
Speaker 3: Attractive and stuff like that.

988
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 16: Okay, Well, after high school, like later on I got

989
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:44,080
Speaker 16: into college and stuff, we kind of like sell apart

990
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:46,080
Speaker 16: a little bit. I mean like we still kept in touch,

991
00:44:46,200 --> 00:44:49,880
Speaker 16: but got busy with stuff, you know, short time coming

992
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:55,399
Speaker 16: actually ended up hooking up with that mom you did?

993
00:44:56,440 --> 00:45:04,960
Speaker 3: No way? Yeah, does your friend know, how'd that happen?

994
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:08,280
Speaker 1: I mean, like we every once.

995
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:10,600
Speaker 6: In a while, we all just hang out and stuff and.

996
00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:16,000
Speaker 16: Just just hang out do random things, and then just

997
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 16: one night it kind of happened.

998
00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 21: Man.

999
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:22,279
Speaker 4: I've always wanted to do that with your friend's mom, ye,

1000
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,280
Speaker 4: like a certain mom or just any mom.

1001
00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:26,279
Speaker 3: Just anyone. I just think it'd be cool to do it.

1002
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 3: It would be such a weird thing to be like,

1003
00:45:27,800 --> 00:45:29,439
Speaker 3: this is my friend's mom. This is so weird.

1004
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:30,280
Speaker 1: It's so weird.

1005
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was a little weird.

1006
00:45:32,960 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: How was it?

1007
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 19: We know?

1008
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:37,399
Speaker 4: I mean I was thinking the same thing.

1009
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:38,759
Speaker 3: But I'm glad to ask.

1010
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:41,279
Speaker 10: Pretty damn good.

1011
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:45,320
Speaker 3: Well, thank you for telling you what your journ little secret?

1012
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 9: Man?

1013
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a good one, dude. Thank you. It

1014
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:54,200
Speaker 3: was funny, right bye bye? What's your dirty little secret?

1015
00:45:56,840 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 3: It's always fun when you have to have a meeting

1016
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:01,920
Speaker 3: with your bosses and then they tell you something that

1017
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:05,120
Speaker 3: they don't approve of that you've been doing. It's the

1018
00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:07,279
Speaker 3: Jubile Show. It's hits one of six point one, and

1019
00:46:07,440 --> 00:46:09,840
Speaker 3: there was something that we had a meeting about the

1020
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 3: other day that we've been instructed to not do on

1021
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 3: the air anymore. So I figure let's do it a

1022
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 3: whole lot right now, see how it goes, and see

1023
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 3: what happens, right nin oh, yeah, sure, whatever you want.

1024
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,640
Speaker 3: We had a meeting the other day and we were

1025
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 3: instructed to not call each other nicknames. I already messed

1026
00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,920
Speaker 3: that up right yesterday. Nina calls Nina calls everybody nicknames.

1027
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:36,880
Speaker 3: You have nicknames for pretty much every single person in

1028
00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 3: your life.

1029
00:46:37,280 --> 00:46:38,840
Speaker 4: I feel like I do, like, if I like you,

1030
00:46:39,000 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 4: you get a nickname, and then if you don't have one,

1031
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:42,759
Speaker 4: then you just know where you stand.

1032
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 3: Now, if you know Nina, you know exactly where you stand.

1033
00:46:45,640 --> 00:46:48,000
Speaker 3: With their Brad's looking at her sideways right now, produce

1034
00:46:48,040 --> 00:46:48,319
Speaker 3: a bread.

1035
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:49,320
Speaker 4: I call you, Bradley.

1036
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:52,960
Speaker 3: It's still the It's not really much of a nick name.

1037
00:46:54,920 --> 00:46:56,840
Speaker 3: But yeah, they did. They were talking to us and

1038
00:46:57,200 --> 00:47:00,240
Speaker 3: they were talking about the show things that they liked

1039
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 3: and didn't like. And one of the notes that we

1040
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:08,480
Speaker 3: got back was so, yeah, uh, the nickname thing, don't

1041
00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:12,759
Speaker 3: get it and don't like it, and don't do the

1042
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 3: nickname thing on the air anymore.

1043
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 10: Right.

1044
00:47:15,719 --> 00:47:19,720
Speaker 4: So I'm looking at the screen like I'll try.

1045
00:47:20,880 --> 00:47:21,080
Speaker 9: Yeah.

1046
00:47:21,719 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know how Nina's gonna do it.

1047
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,760
Speaker 4: I know it's really hard for me, especially with Juwbol,

1048
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,240
Speaker 4: just because I've just been calling him everything but Jubil

1049
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:32,320
Speaker 4: his entire life. So I'm working on it.

1050
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's tough too. You know, if you call somebody

1051
00:47:36,040 --> 00:47:38,960
Speaker 3: something and you know them as that, it is hard

1052
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 3: to break out of that, right, And it's weird to

1053
00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 3: even hear you say Jewbol, I know, right with the

1054
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,560
Speaker 3: l on it, because we've known each other for what

1055
00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 3: almost like twenty years. Yeah, right, And I don't think

1056
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,320
Speaker 3: I remember you ever calling me Jubel.

1057
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:54,879
Speaker 4: I don't think I ever related it either. Ye wait,

1058
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 4: really no, never, It's like Jubes boobs, Jubi booby, I

1059
00:47:58,360 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 4: mean all that kind of stuff.

1060
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 1: It just that's kind of cute.

1061
00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 3: Well, I've got one of those names that most people

1062
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 3: use some sort of abbreviation of. I've noticed that most

1063
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 3: people in my life do. At some point after I

1064
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 3: meet someone, I think they get tired of the old

1065
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:16,640
Speaker 3: part and so that Jubes Jube, things like that. Yeah,

1066
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 3: you know that, that's just I have one of those names.

1067
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 3: I think that people just are, like, I don't want

1068
00:48:20,760 --> 00:48:23,800
Speaker 3: to say the whole bull. This kind of sounds like

1069
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 3: you're about to pute you know, does anybody ever just

1070
00:48:26,120 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 3: call you bawl no ball? Yeah, I've had some I've

1071
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:33,000
Speaker 3: had people call me ball I had. Yeah, I've had

1072
00:48:33,000 --> 00:48:35,759
Speaker 3: people call me that too, So I think it's just

1073
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 3: one of those names.

1074
00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:38,879
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, do you have one of those names?

1075
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 4: And some people just have one like Victoria. Everybody comes

1076
00:48:41,880 --> 00:48:43,000
Speaker 4: at you with a different name too.

1077
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:43,759
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1078
00:48:43,840 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 12: I usually get called v by like my family and

1079
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:49,120
Speaker 12: like family friends, and then Tory Vic.

1080
00:48:49,840 --> 00:48:52,520
Speaker 2: My grandusbend, just calls me Veronica. We let that slide.

1081
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:55,680
Speaker 1: I don't want to get mad at that.

1082
00:48:59,719 --> 00:49:02,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's forgetting.

1083
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 2: I feel bad, but I just don't say anything.

1084
00:49:06,480 --> 00:49:07,000
Speaker 10: I know it.

1085
00:49:08,440 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 2: Yeah it's close enough.

1086
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 3: Hey Victor, that's hilarious. But are you even friends with

1087
00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:20,800
Speaker 3: someone if you don't call them a nickname? That was

1088
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 3: the question that Nina had, I know, because that's what

1089
00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 3: I was.

1090
00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 4: Just thinking, like, there isn't anybody that I'm really good

1091
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 4: friends with that I don't have a nickname for. And

1092
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,120
Speaker 4: aside from that, like what names do you respond to?

1093
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 4: Many fames are the best.

1094
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 12: I feel like, if you're close to someone, you just

1095
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:39,919
Speaker 12: start calling them like a shorter version of their name,

1096
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,160
Speaker 12: and it just becomes like a thing.

1097
00:49:41,560 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 3: And that's why.

1098
00:49:43,000 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 4: Well, it's funny when your nickname's crazy. Like if I'm

1099
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:48,840
Speaker 4: screaming Booby across the hallway and Jubs responds to it,

1100
00:49:49,280 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 4: and then my friends would call me.

1101
00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:52,399
Speaker 3: Can I say?

1102
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:56,440
Speaker 4: They would call me Nina Penis for whatever reason, that's

1103
00:49:56,480 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 4: your nickname with your friends.

1104
00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 3: Wow, they call me I don't know. Actually, nicknames are

1105
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:07,960
Speaker 3: usually to make things shorter. I made her name longer Penis.

1106
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,319
Speaker 4: Because it was Nina Penis, and then it turned into

1107
00:50:11,360 --> 00:50:13,840
Speaker 4: Meina Penis, and then people would call me Pene, so

1108
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:15,560
Speaker 4: like they'd scream the hall.

1109
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 3: Pen what's up? That's the funny part.

1110
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:24,799
Speaker 4: I like when you if you scream booby, it's weird

1111
00:50:24,840 --> 00:50:26,840
Speaker 4: to say word for me to say it since you

1112
00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:29,320
Speaker 4: call me that. Down the hallway at work, there's a

1113
00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 4: sports station here, So every time you do that, I

1114
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:33,440
Speaker 4: know the sports guys are probably poking their head out,

1115
00:50:33,440 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 4: like we're.

1116
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 3: We're talking about how the team one last night. I've

1117
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 3: never felt so much astrong. I know that's going on.

1118
00:50:49,840 --> 00:50:52,759
Speaker 3: We're pretty lucky. I'm gonna start calling you by your

1119
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 3: nickname now down the hallway and wash their doors close

1120
00:50:55,760 --> 00:50:59,160
Speaker 3: like no way, dude, not interested in looking at that.

1121
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 10: I liked warts and booth.

1122
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 4: We got everybody part covered here, Veronica.

1123
00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:07,719
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1124
00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 3: Another note that we got from we're talking about how

1125
00:51:10,520 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 3: we had a meeting the other day and our bosses

1126
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 3: told us some things that they did not want us

1127
00:51:14,120 --> 00:51:15,359
Speaker 3: to do on the air. One of those was called

1128
00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:18,800
Speaker 3: each other their nicknames, although I think they might be

1129
00:51:19,040 --> 00:51:27,520
Speaker 3: excited about Nina Penis get flat real quick. Another another

1130
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,839
Speaker 3: note that we got was they want Victoria to talk

1131
00:51:29,880 --> 00:51:33,080
Speaker 3: earlier and more often.

1132
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 2: I was talking about this with Sydney last night.

1133
00:51:36,560 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 12: My roommate, Wow, my roommate, and she says, she's like, well, Victoria,

1134
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:45,200
Speaker 12: you're someone who likes to observe things and like a

1135
00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 12: people watcher, and so I think that's what happens in

1136
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,440
Speaker 12: the room. I just start observing and watching, and I

1137
00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:52,439
Speaker 12: like the conversation and I like watching it play out

1138
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 12: that I forget I have to also be a part

1139
00:51:55,800 --> 00:51:56,920
Speaker 12: of said conversation.

1140
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, until y'all look at me like not.

1141
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 3: An accounting job.

1142
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:04,200
Speaker 15: Radio.

1143
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:07,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, my bad. But I'm glad you had that like

1144
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:10,880
Speaker 4: introspective moment where you're like, I just like to watch people.

1145
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1146
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:16,400
Speaker 4: I do too, But you need to describe what you see, this.

1147
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,800
Speaker 3: Is a job where you're supposed to use your voice.

1148
00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, we also had that conversation.

1149
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, there is a microphone right in front of you.

1150
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 1: Wild You never know you're doing good though.

1151
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,719
Speaker 2: That's a lot of words so far that the adrenaline

1152
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 2: for my morning is still kicking.

1153
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 3: I'm trying to remember what other notes we had from

1154
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:39,200
Speaker 3: the meeting of things that we are not supposed to do.

1155
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 4: Well, there was one that we're supposed to do or

1156
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:43,960
Speaker 4: you specifically, you're supposed to have more of a commanding voice.

1157
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 3: Oh, that's that's right. Yeah, yeah, I forgot about that.

1158
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,239
Speaker 3: I'm supposed to have more of a commanding voice, and

1159
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:54,560
Speaker 3: I don't even know how to do that necessarily. I

1160
00:52:54,600 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 3: don't know what. Try it out right now. See I

1161
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:02,759
Speaker 3: wasn't commanding at all. I'm gonna try it out right now,

1162
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 3: so I'm not actually for once in my life. Yeah,

1163
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 3: so I'm trying to I'll figure out work on the

1164
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,920
Speaker 3: commanding voice thing. Will you do it good?

1165
00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:16,759
Speaker 4: When the airhorns hit?

1166
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:24,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, that is true. Every time we talk. I'll just

1167
00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:25,080
Speaker 3: do that every single time.

1168
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:28,360
Speaker 4: Are you ready for it?

1169
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:33,360
Speaker 3: Joomy booby? Yeah, I'll just have to do this every

1170
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 3: single time, Yo. That was the segments that when we're

1171
00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:43,120
Speaker 3: just doing right there about our meeting with our bosses,

1172
00:53:43,200 --> 00:53:45,399
Speaker 3: and it is done. You know what, if your Pune

1173
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:48,200
Speaker 3: Brank happens every single hour on the twenties, the next

1174
00:53:48,239 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 3: one is coming up in just a few minutes. It's

1175
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:54,080
Speaker 3: the Jewel Show. Yeah, heard that much better? Yeah?

1176
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 10: I love that?

1177
00:53:54,520 --> 00:53:57,560
Speaker 3: All right, sweet, your phone break is coming up in

1178
00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:59,440
Speaker 3: just a few minutes every single hour on the twenties.

1179
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 3: That's see, that wasn't commanding at all. Every single hour

1180
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 3: on the twenties, that's soon minutes