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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second Date Update. When we do these second

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Speaker 1: date updates, I'm always interested in hearing the story of

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Speaker 1: the date and what happened and why people think they

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Speaker 1: might not be getting a call back. But actually, today

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Speaker 1: I think I'm more interested in hearing about all the

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Speaker 1: other failed dates that this person has been on. Oh

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Speaker 1: the list is that long? You got an email from Jackie.

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Speaker 1: She wants to do a second date update today. She's

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Speaker 1: kind of back on the dating scene. I guess after

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Speaker 1: getting divorced and stuff like that. But she says that

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Speaker 1: bunch of weird experiences. So Jackie, can we actually talk

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Speaker 1: about the weird experiences instead of the person that you

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Speaker 1: want to talk about? Oh? No, I'd rather not. Really.

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Speaker 1: I hear from single people that listening to these are

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Speaker 1: often just depressing because they're like, this is what the

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Speaker 1: dating scene is? Great? Yeah, it's so depressing. I mean

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Speaker 1: the guys that are out there. So we're the first

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Speaker 1: date I went out on, he wouldn't stop smelling my

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Speaker 1: hair for like the first hour of the date. I

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Speaker 1: personal space? He just sat there smelling your hair. Yes,

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Speaker 1: it was freaky. It was like, you know, I know

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Speaker 1: you sounds like a normal date to me, Jackie, I

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Speaker 1: think you are just out of touch. So your email said,

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Speaker 1: your email said, you haven't been dating in a long

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Speaker 1: time because you went through divorce and all that kind

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Speaker 1: of stuff. How long has it been since you've been

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Speaker 1: out in the dating world. Oh my gosh, probably fifteen years. Wow,

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Speaker 1: that's a while. That's probably kind of scary getting back

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Speaker 1: a good thing. But the guy that you want to

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Speaker 1: call today, his name's John, all right, And so this

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Speaker 1: was a positive experience for you. Yes, finally I met

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Speaker 1: We had this wonderful night and ended with this fabulous

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Speaker 1: Can I ask you? Can I ask you? Where did

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Speaker 1: you meet him? I met him online. But I feel

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Speaker 1: kind of weird about even saying that. It's like, I'm

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Speaker 1: I mean, you have to sift through the hair sniffers

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Speaker 1: and the other weird people. But you you've done that

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Speaker 1: guys do? He took me dancing, and I haven't been

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Speaker 1: out dancing and I don't know how long. But we

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Speaker 1: we talking like ballroom dancing? No? No, we went. We

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Speaker 1: had a really good time. Okay, why do you think

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Speaker 1: you know, I know, I've been out of this whole

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Speaker 1: you know, are you supposed to wait three weeks before

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Speaker 1: And what are you looking for? Like when you're out dating,

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Speaker 1: If you were to go on a second date with John,

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Speaker 1: I got involved after having such a disaster with my

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Speaker 1: what you looked like. Okay, so how many times have

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Speaker 1: gone out? I texted him the next day to say,

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Speaker 1: whoa like twelve years he's twelve years old. Way to go, girls,

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Speaker 1: you're welcome. Hold on rooking Jubil in the morning. Second

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Speaker 1: Jackie is on the phone and she wants to call

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Speaker 1: a guy named John. Today. They met online. She's had

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Speaker 1: Oh know what, your ability to work, that's right. Maybe

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Speaker 1: oh my god, that would that would probably have been

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Speaker 1: do all those workouts for nothing. Yeah. I've been doing

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Speaker 1: you back. Okay, thank you. Hello, Hi is John there?

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Speaker 1: This is John. Hey John, how are you. This is Jewil.

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Speaker 1: I host a radio show called Brook and Jewel in

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Speaker 1: the Morning. Oh okay, I think I heard of you.

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Speaker 1: What's this about? Well, I wanted to ask you a

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Speaker 1: your dating life? Oh that's weird. Well I'll explain. We

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Speaker 1: It's where if you go out on a date with

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Speaker 1: is Jackie. Oh okay, Oh my gosh. So Jackie told

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Speaker 1: she's she's really great. It just I just don't think

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Speaker 1: if she's so great, then why don't you want to

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Speaker 1: go out with her again? Yeah? Yeah, it's just I

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Speaker 1: feel like you guys are looking for different things in life? Uh? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: It sounds kind of like you're dancing John, be honest.

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Speaker 1: Is it the age thing? Like you can tell us

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Speaker 1: the truth? No? No, no, no, she doesn't even look

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Speaker 1: her age Actually she she looks great, so she's great,

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Speaker 1: fun to be around, beautiful, gorgeous. Yeah, and has kids

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Speaker 1: what her ex husband's like. No, we could have gotten

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Speaker 1: We didn't really talk that much about that. I just

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Speaker 1: That's real, that's like very real. It's not anything bad

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Speaker 1: What yeah, Jackie, Hi John, Oh, listen, I think you're

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Speaker 1: But it's going to look you're You're used to a

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Speaker 1: And no, but I like that about you. I like

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Speaker 1: send you out again. Oh that sounds wonderful. I can't

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Speaker 1: wait to see you John. And just like Chewbel said,

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