WEBVTT - EP 30 "Bihh What is a Simp" with B.F Nkrumah 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.160 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:13.000 talked back? What's up is your girl? A j Welcome 0:00:13.039 --> 0:00:17.040 to a new episode of We Talked Back Out. It's 0:00:17.120 --> 0:00:21.239 Tim Bam. I love y'all. Hey, you lied to these 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:26.480 people every fucking week. I do love them girl, y'all? 0:00:27.360 --> 0:00:31.840 Which Timm quick and speedy recovery. My friend is sick 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:39.800 this week. I got covid. Y'all, shit crazy, I'm ugly. 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:45.480 You've been taking your vitamins, man, I'm taking everything. I'm 0:00:45.479 --> 0:00:47.960 I'm pretty sure I have everything you could think of. 0:00:48.000 --> 0:00:55.160 I'm taking sour side, vitamin C, elderberry, black seed, or chlorophyll. Uh, 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:57.720 just whatever you name it. I'm over here putting it 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:03.160 in my body, trying to feel better. Take a laxative too, No, 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:09.800 I don't need that. Look, but we do have a 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:16.680 special guest on this week. Um, god damnit, pronunc you 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:27.280 name again? Bama Daily. Good. I'm good. I'm very interested 0:01:27.600 --> 0:01:31.600 in uh what we're going to discuss today. So I'm 0:01:32.560 --> 0:01:37.760 I'm just I'm just waiting. Look, so one of my 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:42.200 home girls sent me a clip over the weekend, um 0:01:42.200 --> 0:01:45.400 from Alive that you did right? Um. A couple of 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:47.440 days ago, and I'm like, man, I want to reach 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:49.680 out to him. See if you're coming to show because 0:01:50.880 --> 0:01:53.640 for some reason, So on our show, we have a 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:58.800 segment called SIMP Series and we have another segment called 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:03.360 dumb Bitched Worries. So the SIMP series is the equivalent 0:02:03.920 --> 0:02:06.200 to a dumb bitch story because in my definition of 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:08.880 a SIMP is like a niggative be getting played by women, right, 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:11.240 and then you have a dumb bitch, well you know, 0:02:11.360 --> 0:02:14.200 she may go through some things getting played by a guy. 0:02:14.240 --> 0:02:18.560 But for whatever reason, nowadays, the definition of simple has 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:21.560 kind of shifted and it needs something different. Based on 0:02:21.600 --> 0:02:25.959 social media, is several different um definitions of a simple 0:02:26.120 --> 0:02:30.200 at this point. So what I've been seeing is that 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:36.880 any man that addresses men as a collective, oftentimes the 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:40.760 men would say that man is simple. Have you seen that? 0:02:41.919 --> 0:02:45.440 So it's like me, personally, I don't think women should 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:48.600 be addressing men as a collective. I feel like a 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:50.960 man that has his head on his shoulders should address 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:54.920 other men, right. We should never have to um confront 0:02:55.040 --> 0:02:58.160 and address men as a collective, and we should just 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:01.639 you know, we talked to women. So women have lunches, 0:03:01.760 --> 0:03:04.320 we have brunches. We got all types of pull ups 0:03:04.320 --> 0:03:08.239 when we talk our ship out amongst each other, amongst strangers. 0:03:08.240 --> 0:03:10.960 But I don't think that oftentimes men have that type 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:14.000 of outlet, So I know, you know, yeah, so you 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:17.680 have a you have something going on, like you you 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:21.640 mentor men in the community, right, I don't, I don't, 0:03:22.080 --> 0:03:24.000 I don't know. I don't. I feel uncomfortable with that 0:03:24.120 --> 0:03:27.400 term when it's grown men mentor. But that's the thing, Like, 0:03:28.919 --> 0:03:32.040 but you shouldn't feel uncomfortable because in order, you know, 0:03:32.040 --> 0:03:34.440 the whole thing is all black women are submissive enough, right, 0:03:34.480 --> 0:03:35.920 we're supposed to call it. But if you are a 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:38.560 black man to me and you can't follow another black 0:03:38.600 --> 0:03:41.640 man that knows the way, I can't follow you. So 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:46.800 if you're unable to be coachable teachable by another man, 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:52.000 why should I follow you? Yes, that's really the type 0:03:52.040 --> 0:03:54.200 of ship I want to talk to you about. I'm 0:03:54.680 --> 0:04:02.520 for saying that that that's not simple to me though, No, 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:06.360 not at all. You know, like you said, any time you, 0:04:06.360 --> 0:04:08.800 you know, bring men to the carpet, or any time 0:04:08.920 --> 0:04:12.640 you are a supportive of black women, there's a contingency 0:04:12.720 --> 0:04:18.480 of black men, typically guys who are just a little corny. 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:21.560 I never see any men of substance even using the 0:04:21.600 --> 0:04:24.160 words simple. I've never called a man of simp. I 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:27.359 don't care if he fits any of the definitions of 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:30.440 a simp. I just that words just not in my vocabulary. 0:04:30.520 --> 0:04:34.360 But any time you agree with women, there's gonna be 0:04:34.400 --> 0:04:36.800 some men it's gonna call you a simple But why 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.200 do you think that's happening? And how is it? How 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:45.040 is that simping? And in the social media world, simping 0:04:45.240 --> 0:04:50.440 would be equivalent to um, like a pick me, that 0:04:50.480 --> 0:04:53.200 would be like the woman, right, they would say, like 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:58.320 that woman too in the social media world pick me 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:00.839 and in the simps go together. But in the real 0:05:00.880 --> 0:05:02.680 world is like a simp and the dumb bitch goes 0:05:02.720 --> 0:05:06.400 together on our show anyway. Yeah, so in the in 0:05:06.760 --> 0:05:10.320 the social media around what what happened was there? I 0:05:10.360 --> 0:05:13.560 have been quite a few men who have made their 0:05:13.640 --> 0:05:16.719 living off of bashing men and just telling a women 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:20.960 what they want to hear. Um. So anytime anything is 0:05:21.040 --> 0:05:24.960 said that it's almost you know, anything that sounds something 0:05:25.080 --> 0:05:28.120 like they would say, God, start calling that man a 0:05:28.160 --> 0:05:31.760 simlar is crazy, because I hope everybody accountable. Black men 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:34.600 and black women. I get called a simple I get 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:38.600 called a man basher, I get called a woman eater, 0:05:38.920 --> 0:05:42.360 I get called everything because I bring everybody to the car. 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:44.960 So you know, it depends on the day, you know, 0:05:45.200 --> 0:05:48.800 you know what I'm what I'm getting called, whatever topic 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:50.920 I'm dealing with, you know, because there's been plenty of 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:53.039 times where have been women telling me, oh you eight women. 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:56.960 It's like baby, Like just yesterday, I was a simp. 0:05:57.040 --> 0:06:00.000 Now today I hate women crazy. You can't you can't 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:03.680 correct anybody, right. Um. I've said several times that a 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:05.520 lot of the issues that we have going on in the 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:07.200 the black community, we could it could lay at the 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:09.599 feet of the black woman, you know, because I believe 0:06:09.640 --> 0:06:13.080 we set the standards, so whatever we say go. So 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:16.440 a nation is only as strong as the women as 0:06:16.480 --> 0:06:20.000 far as I'm concerned. But talk about this, uh if 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.039 you can, if you can remember some of the key 0:06:22.080 --> 0:06:25.880 points of your Live from last week in regards to 0:06:25.960 --> 0:06:29.240 because this, this particular episode will align with the last 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:34.000 few episodes we've had out about relationships. So how does 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:41.080 uh the conversation, Um, what a woman brings to the table. 0:06:41.480 --> 0:06:46.280 That was what your your Live was pertaining to. Yeah, 0:06:46.360 --> 0:06:50.599 so the thing it was, it was addressing so many 0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:54.240 videos that I'm seeing on social media where there's a 0:06:54.279 --> 0:06:58.560 blanket statement of what do women bring to the table? And, 0:06:58.600 --> 0:07:01.520 as I said in a love ever heard the question 0:07:02.920 --> 0:07:06.400 frame in a way where somebody's actually trying to learn. 0:07:06.880 --> 0:07:10.440 It's typically used to say women don't bring anything to 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:14.400 the table. It's like a rhetorical question. And so my 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:17.640 my thing is, first, I've never had a conversation when 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:19.640 I'm sitting down with a woman to actually say, well, 0:07:19.720 --> 0:07:21.160 what do you bring to the table. I never even 0:07:21.160 --> 0:07:23.200 had a woman asked me so, what do you bring 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:25.520 to the table. It's kind of a weird um the 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:29.160 question to ask. But there's all of these little forms 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:32.280 and all of these podcasts and all of these videos 0:07:32.360 --> 0:07:35.520 where men are are asking what women bring to the table. 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:39.240 And I'm like, well, one of the things I teach 0:07:39.320 --> 0:07:41.880 my men, right, one of our first classes is I'm 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:46.160 defining who you are, right. And I don't think any 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:48.240 of the men that have came through, and this is 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:50.680 not a knock on them, because I didn't know who 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:54.000 I was myself. We're not taught to actually identify who 0:07:54.040 --> 0:07:57.440 we are. So when I have my first initial conversation 0:07:57.520 --> 0:07:59.440 with the brothers before they joined, I asked me, who 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:01.920 are you? Nobody can actually tell me who they are, 0:08:02.160 --> 0:08:04.440 so we go through a process of actually learning who 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:06.560 you are. So when I said in that clip that 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:08.320 the men don't know who they are, wasn't a knock 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:11.360 against the minutes because we were not taught to actually 0:08:11.400 --> 0:08:13.640 learn who we are. But when you learn who you are, 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:16.960 you're not going to be asking a blanket statement of 0:08:17.000 --> 0:08:20.000 what do women bring to the table, because you understand 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:22.559 one that every woman brings something different to the table. 0:08:23.040 --> 0:08:26.480 Every woman has a different character, every woman has different beliefs, 0:08:26.520 --> 0:08:29.560 every woman has different set of skills. When you know 0:08:29.600 --> 0:08:31.640 who you are, you know what kind of woman that 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:33.640 you want. So I'm not going to ask a blanket 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.079 statement of what the women bring to the table because 0:08:36.320 --> 0:08:38.959 it's gonna be a million different things where you understand 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:42.559 the talents, the giftedness and everything that each woman has. 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:46.120 So I need to be looking for a particular type 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:49.240 of woman that fits and flows with who I am. 0:08:49.679 --> 0:08:51.320 So I'm not just going to be going on a 0:08:51.320 --> 0:08:53.640 bunch of blind dates. I'm not you know, that's the 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:55.720 only way you're gonna be sitting down with somebody you 0:08:55.760 --> 0:08:58.160 know nothing about other than that, you should be observed 0:08:58.200 --> 0:09:00.640 with somebody and you should be seeing some like Damn. 0:09:00.800 --> 0:09:03.000 I like how she lose. I like what she's doing. 0:09:03.000 --> 0:09:05.000 I like how she runs that business, or I like 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:07.959 how she volunteers or whatever it is. I like how 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.200 she's in church, I like how she's at the masque, 0:09:10.280 --> 0:09:14.440 whatever it is. Like, I'm observing who you are from afar, 0:09:14.800 --> 0:09:17.640 and I feel like you and I can be compatible 0:09:17.880 --> 0:09:20.240 as opposed to just having this blanket statement that, well, 0:09:20.280 --> 0:09:22.480 what do women bring to the table, Because you can 0:09:22.520 --> 0:09:26.280 bring something absolutely phenomenal to the table that I do 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:30.160 not need, that does not mess with me well at all, 0:09:30.200 --> 0:09:32.840 that that does not compliment me, that does not mean 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:35.160 you're a bad woman. Well, I could bring something to 0:09:35.200 --> 0:09:38.920 the table that is absolutely phenomenal that does not compliment you. 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:42.440 So this blanket statement of what do women bring to 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:44.640 the table, to me, it really doesn't make sense because 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:47.240 when you're flowing in your I am, when you're flowing 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:50.280 through who you are, you are going to attract people 0:09:50.480 --> 0:09:53.480 who are going to compliment who you are, what you're doing, 0:09:53.640 --> 0:09:56.680 and where you're going. I think that men who asked 0:09:56.760 --> 0:09:58.880 you know what women bring to the table. It's almost 0:09:58.880 --> 0:10:01.480 equivalent to the the black woman saying they don't need 0:10:01.520 --> 0:10:07.839 a nigger, I don't need a man. It's like, that's 0:10:07.880 --> 0:10:10.600 what it is to me. That's exactly what it is. 0:10:11.000 --> 0:10:13.960 So I mean, it's not true. We all need each other. 0:10:15.360 --> 0:10:19.640 So um, like you're saying, like finding somebody that compliments 0:10:19.679 --> 0:10:21.800 what you already have going on. I feel like the 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:24.960 men who have ship established in some way, they aren't 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:26.199 the ones that ask me what you bring it to 0:10:26.240 --> 0:10:28.960 the table, because oftentimes they really don't need you to 0:10:29.000 --> 0:10:31.880 come with much. But you have a lot of men 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:34.720 that just need a lot of help. And instead of 0:10:34.760 --> 0:10:37.360 admitting that they need help, and that's the type of woman, 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:40.080 they're looking for somebody to help them in business, um, 0:10:40.200 --> 0:10:43.040 somebody to help them with their children. You kind of 0:10:43.080 --> 0:10:45.720 have these expectations of people. You didn't lay any of 0:10:45.760 --> 0:10:48.720 your expectations out, which you can lay expectations out, but 0:10:48.800 --> 0:10:50.720 to ask somebody what you bring to the table, to me, 0:10:50.760 --> 0:10:53.600 it's kind of disrespectful. And I think women we may 0:10:53.640 --> 0:10:55.600 get an attitude about it. If you ask a guy 0:10:55.720 --> 0:10:57.200 like what he brings to the table, he may not 0:10:57.280 --> 0:10:59.800 get an attitude about it. He may just tell you 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:01.640 whatever it is that he brings to the table. But 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:04.079 I think, like you said, when it's asked, when when 0:11:04.080 --> 0:11:07.040 women are asked what they bring to the table, it's negative. 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:12.800 It's never anything positive. It's always with a negative connotation 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:16.840 behind it. Yeah, and my and another point that I 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:20.480 was making in the video is a portion of that 0:11:20.640 --> 0:11:23.240 is because a lot of these men are just going 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:28.000 after face tips and asks, so they don't even like 0:11:28.080 --> 0:11:30.720 So when I posted that video, I got thousands of views, 0:11:30.840 --> 0:11:33.800 I got a whole bunch of comments. Everybody's mad. So 0:11:34.240 --> 0:11:36.800 the next next day I posted, well, brothers, what's your type? 0:11:36.800 --> 0:11:39.320 Then what do you want? What is what is your 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:44.080 what is your types? Cricket? Those same guys that was 0:11:44.120 --> 0:11:46.400 calling me a simp and all of that, they don't 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:48.360 come double back and say, well I want this type 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:51.720 of Well, because you're you're you're you're picking a woman 0:11:51.920 --> 0:11:55.439 based off of how she looks physically, and since that's 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:57.719 the only thing you cared about, now you're in the 0:11:57.800 --> 0:11:59.360 room with it, like, well what do you bring to 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:02.520 the table. That's because you didn't like anything about her 0:12:02.840 --> 0:12:06.360 prior to one to even talk to her, like I 0:12:06.440 --> 0:12:09.120 need a woman to be physically attractive to me. But 0:12:09.520 --> 0:12:12.240 I have to be attracted to more than just how 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:15.000 you look in order for me to want to engage 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:16.320 with you. I don't want to. I don't want to 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:19.199 engage with any woman simply off of how she looks. 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:21.920 That's just not how I roll. Because again, I know 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:24.320 who I am, I know what I do, and I 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:26.960 know where I'm going. So I can't just be following 0:12:27.400 --> 0:12:29.920 or or trying to talk to any woman because she 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:38.280 looks at It just doesn't make sense. So how does 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:43.000 this then become a simple amongst the men in the 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:46.480 black community? How does one become a simp because you're 0:12:47.200 --> 0:12:52.360 addressing men and how they should be impertaining to women. Well, 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:56.840 you're only a simp to a small portion of of men. 0:12:56.920 --> 0:12:59.839 You would like when every time I click on one 0:12:59.880 --> 0:13:02.760 of the fort one of the profiles of the men 0:13:02.840 --> 0:13:05.520 who called me a simple, it's like you're you're a 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:11.000 total aware, like you're a total awared, or you're you're yeah, 0:13:11.040 --> 0:13:14.119 like you're mad at women because they don't like you. 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:16.840 You know, you're you're you're a bland guy. You don't 0:13:16.880 --> 0:13:19.560 have any cherica, you don't have any you don't have 0:13:19.600 --> 0:13:22.880 any charisma. You know, nobody in your neighborhood knows you're 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:26.600 like you just you know you're and you're upset, you know. 0:13:26.679 --> 0:13:29.520 So they always say stuff like you know you're you're 0:13:29.640 --> 0:13:32.640 trying to You're saying this because you're trying to get women. 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:37.360 I've never had a problem getting women. I'm like, like, like, brother, 0:13:37.640 --> 0:13:41.200 I don't. I never have to jump on a woman's 0:13:41.240 --> 0:13:43.800 side on social media to get a woman to like No, 0:13:44.240 --> 0:13:46.760 but you project everything because you can't get a woman. 0:13:47.520 --> 0:13:51.079 Maybe y'all should start sipping. Since you think this is 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:55.200 the way to get women, maybe you should start slipping. 0:13:55.559 --> 0:13:58.440 Like any time a man is getting attention from women, 0:13:58.880 --> 0:14:01.040 it's the small pocket men that's gonna call you a 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:03.920 simple whatever you're doing, and they just need to get 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:06.600 their selves together. Yeah, it's usually the men who ain't 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:09.800 never got any women from elementary to high school too 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:14.600 now and their adult lives. I promise you go to 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:17.559 that post, go go to that video. I'm gonna go 0:14:18.360 --> 0:14:21.080 and click on all of the profiles of the guys 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:26.000 that call the sex And when you do that, I 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:27.760 want you to say, I want to know what you 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:30.000 date any of them. That's what that's what I want 0:14:30.000 --> 0:14:33.480 to go to the profile of all of the guys 0:14:33.520 --> 0:14:36.440 that called me sent a simple and I want to 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:38.400 know what you and I already know the answers. No, 0:14:39.240 --> 0:14:41.880 that's their problem. Okay. So I feel like the simps 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:45.520 have a spokesperson. It's a certain other, another man that's 0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:47.840 on social media, and as of lately, he's been turning 0:14:47.880 --> 0:14:52.360 his rhetoric back towards men. But he built his platform 0:14:52.440 --> 0:14:55.200 off of women bashing. As far as I'm concerning, he 0:14:55.240 --> 0:14:58.040 gave a voice to what I would consider a simp. 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:00.880 These guys who would be calling you the sim the comments, right, 0:15:01.600 --> 0:15:03.600 he gave a voice to them. He's like the voice 0:15:03.760 --> 0:15:07.560 of the man who never had access to the women 0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:10.760 he thought he should have access to. You know, So 0:15:10.800 --> 0:15:13.240 now you have this guy's telling you it's the women's fault. 0:15:13.240 --> 0:15:16.320 It's the women, it's the women's fault. Why you've never 0:15:16.360 --> 0:15:18.840 been able to get the woman you wanted? Who you're 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:26.400 talking about? Yeah, you know what I'm talking now at all. 0:15:26.760 --> 0:15:29.040 It's some things we don't we don't disagree with him 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:33.760 as well. I feel like some way, somehow women get 0:15:33.840 --> 0:15:37.920 his message completely mixed up. His He has one message, 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.760 is that regular women should deal with regular men. That's 0:15:41.800 --> 0:15:45.240 the that's the crux of his message. But that is 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:48.000 this message, right, But then you have regular men who 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:51.400 don't think that there are five's at best, and now 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:54.320 they're talking down to women that made a collective or 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:57.120 a consensus, maybe this this woman if we're talking about 0:15:57.480 --> 0:15:59.920 it's the it's the how he talks about the physical 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:03.840 um aesthetics. Seven woman. I don't like you, see what 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:06.040 I'm saying, because then you have these five at best 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:10.240 men talking crazy about you know, he said that Sweetie 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:16.400 was a six. He has a weird scale, and that's 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:19.480 because he removes the seven. But to him, yeah, because 0:16:19.840 --> 0:16:22.840 would be average. But basically to him, a six is 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:32.600 not bad. He said Beyonce, Yes, yes, you think Beyonce's eight? Uh? Eight? 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:35.320 N She's definitely not a ten. Who's the ten? Who's 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:46.960 the ten besides me? Excuse me? Who am I totally 0:16:47.040 --> 0:16:49.800 infatuated with? I just feel like all women should feel 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:52.960 like they're a ten, you know. And see that's I think, 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:56.080 And and that's why Kevin Sanders has has a voice 0:16:56.120 --> 0:16:59.560 because there, for some reason, is this notion that every 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:03.720 woman just beautiful like men understand. I'm not attractive if 0:17:03.720 --> 0:17:05.959 he if he's not attractive, so I need to do 0:17:06.080 --> 0:17:08.040 other things if I'm going to want to get women. 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:10.800 But for some reason, every woman is walking around feeling 0:17:10.800 --> 0:17:13.000 like she's a tent. And that's why they're on kept 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:16.959 of Samuel Show asking, uh, you know, saying I deserve 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:19.439 a six figure man or a man making four and 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:22.240 thousand dollars a year, just like maybe you don't fit 0:17:22.320 --> 0:17:25.360 that that mold. Yeah, but if so, how he even 0:17:25.400 --> 0:17:27.680 popped off was because he had a woman on there 0:17:27.680 --> 0:17:29.679 who was making a hundred thousand dollars a year, and 0:17:29.720 --> 0:17:33.040 all she was looking for was a man who made 0:17:33.080 --> 0:17:36.800 that same thing. So he automatically went to the physical 0:17:37.720 --> 0:17:39.639 um asking her, you know, to rate herself this in 0:17:39.680 --> 0:17:43.240 a third, but I'm just asking for equal at this point, 0:17:43.880 --> 0:17:49.080 and exactly that's regular money nowadays. Well, a hundred thousand 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:51.639 dollars really isn't a lot, but that's because most of 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:54.679 the country's poor, because a hundred thousand dollars is not 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:57.639 the average. It's only a small fraction of people who 0:17:57.680 --> 0:17:59.840 are actually making that. When you really look at the numbers, 0:18:00.119 --> 0:18:03.080 the average, the average man is making like forty dollars 0:18:03.119 --> 0:18:10.800 a year. Really I don't know about that. Now, go 0:18:10.800 --> 0:18:13.520 ahead and look it up. I just saw McDonald's offering 0:18:13.560 --> 0:18:16.000 thirty five dollars an hour. Right now, there's no way 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:20.960 that people. That's how I signed up. McDonald's signed for 0:18:21.040 --> 0:18:24.240 thirty five. I'm about to go work their part times. 0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:31.840 The McDonald's rather corner for me is starting up. They 0:18:31.960 --> 0:18:33.760 might have been giving that up. If you get a 0:18:33.800 --> 0:18:43.080 COVID shot, yeah probably, yeah. Yeah. Everybody's not making a 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:45.560 hundred talking dollars. Now, y'all might be in a circle 0:18:45.560 --> 0:18:47.680 where people are making that money. I'm in a circle 0:18:47.720 --> 0:18:50.439 of people that's making that money. But the average the 0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:52.919 average person is not making a hundreds. So do you 0:18:52.960 --> 0:18:54.840 know a lot of single black men who are making 0:18:54.840 --> 0:19:02.800 a hundred thousand dollars? Okay? Do you know? Do you know? Definitely? 0:19:02.840 --> 0:19:07.080 No tent Okay, do you know? Then, I'm don'na think 0:19:07.119 --> 0:19:11.159 I know twenty Are they single men? Are they single? 0:19:12.000 --> 0:19:21.680 Are they single? M No, I'm the only one over 0:19:21.720 --> 0:19:29.080 there single. I gotta give my life. I gotta give 0:19:29.080 --> 0:19:32.159 my life together. They'd be going, they being on trips 0:19:32.200 --> 0:19:35.280 and something they can tell me about the pictures. I'll 0:19:35.320 --> 0:19:42.359 be like single ass I know, they said that's what 0:19:42.480 --> 0:19:46.080 I say. I gotta get my life together. Got I 0:19:46.119 --> 0:19:50.840 gotta get my life together? Um yeah, so um yeah 0:19:50.840 --> 0:19:54.439 so that when not when I listened to the chemisting. Now, 0:19:54.680 --> 0:19:58.520 what I will say is a lot of those bottom 0:19:58.840 --> 0:20:04.359 barrel men have have lashed onto him and have somewhat 0:20:04.520 --> 0:20:07.199 taken has taken his message and kind of twisted it. 0:20:08.920 --> 0:20:11.800 So you know what he's talking to them, and I don't, 0:20:11.800 --> 0:20:13.439 I don't know. Let me says, I don't like the 0:20:13.440 --> 0:20:15.600 way he talks. So I do not like the way 0:20:15.640 --> 0:20:20.120 he talks to me. That's that's very that's very problematic. 0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:22.400 I don't like the way he talks. But when he's 0:20:22.520 --> 0:20:25.760 just talking about all right men of this stature, if 0:20:25.800 --> 0:20:28.440 they're single, they're not really looking for a woman who 0:20:28.760 --> 0:20:32.200 already has kids X, Y and Z from his experience, 0:20:32.240 --> 0:20:34.640 because he's in this round talking to these man and 0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:38.159 I definitely um agree with that. Where I don't, I 0:20:38.600 --> 0:20:41.280 don't care. Now I might have like a one or 0:20:41.280 --> 0:20:45.800 two child maximum, but but then you have these regular 0:20:45.840 --> 0:20:48.760 guys who are all these women bringing the table with 0:20:48.840 --> 0:20:52.639 somebody else kids. These women don't bring nothing to the 0:20:52.640 --> 0:20:56.320 table but somebody else's kids. So his his message is 0:20:56.400 --> 0:20:58.520 being used to be little women. And I just where 0:20:58.560 --> 0:21:02.280 are these women? Because I know all the women, the 0:21:02.320 --> 0:21:05.360 women that I know, they're be getting money. So I'm 0:21:05.359 --> 0:21:09.880 trying to figure out who are these men dating? Um 0:21:10.040 --> 0:21:11.879 is it because it's bottom of the barrel man, and 0:21:11.920 --> 0:21:16.159 there's bottom of the barrel women. So my philosophy is 0:21:16.240 --> 0:21:18.280 you are who you eat, you are who you beat. 0:21:18.720 --> 0:21:22.119 So it's something in you, something in that person you 0:21:22.119 --> 0:21:26.000 see in yourself basically if you're working with him, so 0:21:26.040 --> 0:21:28.040 what type of women that you're attracting? Like, it's about 0:21:28.040 --> 0:21:31.159 partner selection at that point. And I always say like 0:21:31.160 --> 0:21:33.199 if a woman has never been with a good man, like, 0:21:33.320 --> 0:21:37.159 chances are sheen either if you've never ever had a 0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:41.920 good man. A lot of those guys probably I don't 0:21:41.960 --> 0:21:44.639 know if they ever had a woman. Like when you 0:21:45.080 --> 0:21:53.720 go to the loo to the profile, you know they're 0:21:53.760 --> 0:21:57.400 taking the ball because they ate women like yo, I'm 0:21:57.440 --> 0:22:00.880 telling you, Like those guys they've got whoever that they 0:22:00.920 --> 0:22:03.320 could get like, and then they're mad at any man 0:22:03.440 --> 0:22:06.760 who gets any attention from women. And it's it's just 0:22:06.840 --> 0:22:13.200 it's crazy shame. It just feels like Kevin Samuel's It's 0:22:13.280 --> 0:22:17.040 like the mascot for bidter men. And it's not just 0:22:17.359 --> 0:22:20.640 not even just men who can't get people or can't 0:22:20.640 --> 0:22:25.199 get women, um, it's also men who like fail marriages 0:22:25.440 --> 0:22:29.919 and feel relationships that are bitter. Now I feel like 0:22:29.920 --> 0:22:34.720 he's a mascot for them as well. He's definitely become that. 0:22:34.760 --> 0:22:37.000 I don't, I really do not believe that's his intent. 0:22:37.359 --> 0:22:39.760 If you ever watched, like when he's being interviewed by 0:22:39.800 --> 0:22:42.639 somebody else to listen to, you know, how he can't, 0:22:42.640 --> 0:22:44.639 you know, start doing what he's doing and why he 0:22:44.760 --> 0:22:47.720 doesn't you know, when he's really getting into you know 0:22:47.960 --> 0:22:50.480 what the crux of his messages. It sounds, it sounds 0:22:50.480 --> 0:22:54.119 solely different, but it's like women are misunderstanding. Both both 0:22:54.160 --> 0:22:57.640 men and women are misunderstanding his message. The women are 0:22:57.640 --> 0:22:59.959 getting mad at him, and then the men are too. 0:23:00.080 --> 0:23:03.280 Can use it again. So I think he needs to, 0:23:03.520 --> 0:23:07.080 you know, switch up something so it doesn't cost so much. 0:23:07.240 --> 0:23:09.880 So many, so many things recently he did started because 0:23:09.920 --> 0:23:13.080 he started before he was so big on social media. 0:23:13.200 --> 0:23:15.760 He was speaking to men. He had conferences and things 0:23:15.760 --> 0:23:20.760 like that geared towards men to nobody. Nobody cares when 0:23:20.800 --> 0:23:23.440 you when you when when you talk to men that way. 0:23:23.800 --> 0:23:25.919 As soon as the video surface of him talking to 0:23:26.000 --> 0:23:29.959