1 00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:07,160 Speaker 1: We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion who 2 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:13,000 Speaker 1: talked back? What's up is your girl? A j Welcome 3 00:00:13,039 --> 00:00:17,040 Speaker 1: to a new episode of We Talked Back Out. It's 4 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: Tim Bam. I love y'all. Hey, you lied to these 5 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: people every fucking week. I do love them girl, y'all? 6 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:31,840 Speaker 1: Which Timm quick and speedy recovery. My friend is sick 7 00:00:31,920 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: this week. I got covid. Y'all, shit crazy, I'm ugly. 8 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:45,480 Speaker 1: You've been taking your vitamins, man, I'm taking everything. I'm 9 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I have everything you could think of. 10 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:55,160 Speaker 1: I'm taking sour side, vitamin C, elderberry, black seed, or chlorophyll. Uh, 11 00:00:55,400 --> 00:00:57,720 Speaker 1: just whatever you name it. I'm over here putting it 12 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: in my body, trying to feel better. Take a laxative too, No, 13 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:09,800 Speaker 1: I don't need that. Look, but we do have a 14 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:16,680 Speaker 1: special guest on this week. Um, god damnit, pronunc you 15 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: name again? Bama Daily. Good. I'm good. I'm very interested 16 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: in uh what we're going to discuss today. So I'm 17 00:01:32,560 --> 00:01:37,760 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just waiting. Look, so one of my 18 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: home girls sent me a clip over the weekend, um 19 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: from Alive that you did right? Um. A couple of 20 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:47,440 Speaker 1: days ago, and I'm like, man, I want to reach 21 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 1: out to him. See if you're coming to show because 22 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,640 Speaker 1: for some reason, So on our show, we have a 23 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 1: segment called SIMP Series and we have another segment called 24 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: dumb Bitched Worries. So the SIMP series is the equivalent 25 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: to a dumb bitch story because in my definition of 26 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: a SIMP is like a niggative be getting played by women, right, 27 00:02:09,320 --> 00:02:11,240 Speaker 1: and then you have a dumb bitch, well you know, 28 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: she may go through some things getting played by a guy. 29 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:18,560 Speaker 1: But for whatever reason, nowadays, the definition of simple has 30 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: kind of shifted and it needs something different. Based on 31 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 1: social media, is several different um definitions of a simple 32 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:30,200 Speaker 1: at this point. So what I've been seeing is that 33 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:36,880 Speaker 1: any man that addresses men as a collective, oftentimes the 34 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: men would say that man is simple. Have you seen that? 35 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 1: So it's like me, personally, I don't think women should 36 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 1: be addressing men as a collective. I feel like a 37 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 1: man that has his head on his shoulders should address 38 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:54,920 Speaker 1: other men, right. We should never have to um confront 39 00:02:55,040 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 1: and address men as a collective, and we should just 40 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:01,639 Speaker 1: you know, we talked to women. So women have lunches, 41 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:04,320 Speaker 1: we have brunches. We got all types of pull ups 42 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:08,239 Speaker 1: when we talk our ship out amongst each other, amongst strangers. 43 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: But I don't think that oftentimes men have that type 44 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: of outlet, So I know, you know, yeah, so you 45 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 1: have a you have something going on, like you you 46 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: mentor men in the community, right, I don't, I don't, 47 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:24,000 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't. I feel uncomfortable with that 48 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,400 Speaker 1: term when it's grown men mentor. But that's the thing, Like, 49 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 1: but you shouldn't feel uncomfortable because in order, you know, 50 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: the whole thing is all black women are submissive enough, right, 51 00:03:34,480 --> 00:03:35,920 Speaker 1: we're supposed to call it. But if you are a 52 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 1: black man to me and you can't follow another black 53 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: man that knows the way, I can't follow you. So 54 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: if you're unable to be coachable teachable by another man, 55 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: why should I follow you? Yes, that's really the type 56 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: of ship I want to talk to you about. I'm 57 00:03:54,680 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 1: for saying that that that's not simple to me though, No, 58 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: not at all. You know, like you said, any time you, 59 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: you know, bring men to the carpet, or any time 60 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,640 Speaker 1: you are a supportive of black women, there's a contingency 61 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: of black men, typically guys who are just a little corny. 62 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,560 Speaker 1: I never see any men of substance even using the 63 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:24,160 Speaker 1: words simple. I've never called a man of simp. I 64 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:27,359 Speaker 1: don't care if he fits any of the definitions of 65 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 1: a simp. I just that words just not in my vocabulary. 66 00:04:30,520 --> 00:04:34,360 Speaker 1: But any time you agree with women, there's gonna be 67 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: some men it's gonna call you a simple But why 68 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,200 Speaker 1: do you think that's happening? And how is it? How 69 00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: is that simping? And in the social media world, simping 70 00:04:45,240 --> 00:04:50,440 Speaker 1: would be equivalent to um, like a pick me, that 71 00:04:50,480 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: would be like the woman, right, they would say, like 72 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: that woman too in the social media world pick me 73 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:00,839 Speaker 1: and in the simps go together. But in the real 74 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: world is like a simp and the dumb bitch goes 75 00:05:02,720 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: together on our show anyway. Yeah, so in the in 76 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: the social media around what what happened was there? I 77 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,560 Speaker 1: have been quite a few men who have made their 78 00:05:13,640 --> 00:05:16,719 Speaker 1: living off of bashing men and just telling a women 79 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:20,960 Speaker 1: what they want to hear. Um. So anytime anything is 80 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: said that it's almost you know, anything that sounds something 81 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:28,120 Speaker 1: like they would say, God, start calling that man a 82 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: simlar is crazy, because I hope everybody accountable. Black men 83 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,600 Speaker 1: and black women. I get called a simple I get 84 00:05:34,680 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 1: called a man basher, I get called a woman eater, 85 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:42,360 Speaker 1: I get called everything because I bring everybody to the car. 86 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,960 Speaker 1: So you know, it depends on the day, you know, 87 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: you know what I'm what I'm getting called, whatever topic 88 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:50,920 Speaker 1: I'm dealing with, you know, because there's been plenty of 89 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:53,039 Speaker 1: times where have been women telling me, oh you eight women. 90 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: It's like baby, Like just yesterday, I was a simp. 91 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 1: Now today I hate women crazy. You can't you can't 92 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:03,680 Speaker 1: correct anybody, right. Um. I've said several times that a 93 00:06:03,760 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 1: lot of the issues that we have going on in the 94 00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:07,200 Speaker 1: the black community, we could it could lay at the 95 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:09,599 Speaker 1: feet of the black woman, you know, because I believe 96 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: we set the standards, so whatever we say go. So 97 00:06:13,600 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: a nation is only as strong as the women as 98 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 1: far as I'm concerned. But talk about this, uh if 99 00:06:20,040 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 1: you can, if you can remember some of the key 100 00:06:22,080 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 1: points of your Live from last week in regards to 101 00:06:25,960 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: because this, this particular episode will align with the last 102 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: few episodes we've had out about relationships. So how does 103 00:06:34,680 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: uh the conversation, Um, what a woman brings to the table. 104 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:46,280 Speaker 1: That was what your your Live was pertaining to. Yeah, 105 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:50,599 Speaker 1: so the thing it was, it was addressing so many 106 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:54,240 Speaker 1: videos that I'm seeing on social media where there's a 107 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: blanket statement of what do women bring to the table? And, 108 00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 1: as I said in a love ever heard the question 109 00:07:02,920 --> 00:07:06,400 Speaker 1: frame in a way where somebody's actually trying to learn. 110 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: It's typically used to say women don't bring anything to 111 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 1: the table. It's like a rhetorical question. And so my 112 00:07:14,400 --> 00:07:17,640 Speaker 1: my thing is, first, I've never had a conversation when 113 00:07:17,640 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 1: I'm sitting down with a woman to actually say, well, 114 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: what do you bring to the table. I never even 115 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,200 Speaker 1: had a woman asked me so, what do you bring 116 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:25,520 Speaker 1: to the table. It's kind of a weird um the 117 00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: question to ask. But there's all of these little forms 118 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:32,280 Speaker 1: and all of these podcasts and all of these videos 119 00:07:32,360 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 1: where men are are asking what women bring to the table. 120 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:39,240 Speaker 1: And I'm like, well, one of the things I teach 121 00:07:39,320 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: my men, right, one of our first classes is I'm 122 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: defining who you are, right. And I don't think any 123 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 1: of the men that have came through, and this is 124 00:07:48,240 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: not a knock on them, because I didn't know who 125 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: I was myself. We're not taught to actually identify who 126 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: we are. So when I have my first initial conversation 127 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,440 Speaker 1: with the brothers before they joined, I asked me, who 128 00:07:59,440 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: are you? Nobody can actually tell me who they are, 129 00:08:02,160 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 1: so we go through a process of actually learning who 130 00:08:04,440 --> 00:08:06,560 Speaker 1: you are. So when I said in that clip that 131 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,320 Speaker 1: the men don't know who they are, wasn't a knock 132 00:08:08,360 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: against the minutes because we were not taught to actually 133 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,640 Speaker 1: learn who we are. But when you learn who you are, 134 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: you're not going to be asking a blanket statement of 135 00:08:17,000 --> 00:08:20,000 Speaker 1: what do women bring to the table, because you understand 136 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,559 Speaker 1: one that every woman brings something different to the table. 137 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: Every woman has a different character, every woman has different beliefs, 138 00:08:26,520 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: every woman has different set of skills. When you know 139 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: who you are, you know what kind of woman that 140 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: you want. So I'm not going to ask a blanket 141 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:36,079 Speaker 1: statement of what the women bring to the table because 142 00:08:36,320 --> 00:08:38,959 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a million different things where you understand 143 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,559 Speaker 1: the talents, the giftedness and everything that each woman has. 144 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: So I need to be looking for a particular type 145 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: of woman that fits and flows with who I am. 146 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: So I'm not just going to be going on a 147 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:53,640 Speaker 1: bunch of blind dates. I'm not you know, that's the 148 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,720 Speaker 1: only way you're gonna be sitting down with somebody you 149 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: know nothing about other than that, you should be observed 150 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 1: with somebody and you should be seeing some like Damn. 151 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: I like how she lose. I like what she's doing. 152 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:05,000 Speaker 1: I like how she runs that business, or I like 153 00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,959 Speaker 1: how she volunteers or whatever it is. I like how 154 00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,200 Speaker 1: she's in church, I like how she's at the masque, 155 00:09:10,280 --> 00:09:14,440 Speaker 1: whatever it is. Like, I'm observing who you are from afar, 156 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: and I feel like you and I can be compatible 157 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 1: as opposed to just having this blanket statement that, well, 158 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: what do women bring to the table, Because you can 159 00:09:22,520 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: bring something absolutely phenomenal to the table that I do 160 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: not need, that does not mess with me well at all, 161 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:32,840 Speaker 1: that that does not compliment me, that does not mean 162 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,160 Speaker 1: you're a bad woman. Well, I could bring something to 163 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 1: the table that is absolutely phenomenal that does not compliment you. 164 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: So this blanket statement of what do women bring to 165 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: the table, to me, it really doesn't make sense because 166 00:09:44,640 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 1: when you're flowing in your I am, when you're flowing 167 00:09:47,280 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 1: through who you are, you are going to attract people 168 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:53,480 Speaker 1: who are going to compliment who you are, what you're doing, 169 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: and where you're going. I think that men who asked 170 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: you know what women bring to the table. It's almost 171 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: equivalent to the the black woman saying they don't need 172 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:07,839 Speaker 1: a nigger, I don't need a man. It's like, that's 173 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:10,600 Speaker 1: what it is to me. That's exactly what it is. 174 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 1: So I mean, it's not true. We all need each other. 175 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:19,640 Speaker 1: So um, like you're saying, like finding somebody that compliments 176 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 1: what you already have going on. I feel like the 177 00:10:21,880 --> 00:10:24,960 Speaker 1: men who have ship established in some way, they aren't 178 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:26,199 Speaker 1: the ones that ask me what you bring it to 179 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,960 Speaker 1: the table, because oftentimes they really don't need you to 180 00:10:29,000 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: come with much. But you have a lot of men 181 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 1: that just need a lot of help. And instead of 182 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 1: admitting that they need help, and that's the type of woman, 183 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:40,080 Speaker 1: they're looking for somebody to help them in business, um, 184 00:10:40,200 --> 00:10:43,040 Speaker 1: somebody to help them with their children. You kind of 185 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,720 Speaker 1: have these expectations of people. You didn't lay any of 186 00:10:45,760 --> 00:10:48,720 Speaker 1: your expectations out, which you can lay expectations out, but 187 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:50,720 Speaker 1: to ask somebody what you bring to the table, to me, 188 00:10:50,760 --> 00:10:53,600 Speaker 1: it's kind of disrespectful. And I think women we may 189 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,600 Speaker 1: get an attitude about it. If you ask a guy 190 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:57,200 Speaker 1: like what he brings to the table, he may not 191 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 1: get an attitude about it. He may just tell you 192 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:01,640 Speaker 1: whatever it is that he brings to the table. But 193 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:04,079 Speaker 1: I think, like you said, when it's asked, when when 194 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:07,040 Speaker 1: women are asked what they bring to the table, it's negative. 195 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 1: It's never anything positive. It's always with a negative connotation 196 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 1: behind it. Yeah, and my and another point that I 197 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: was making in the video is a portion of that 198 00:11:20,640 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 1: is because a lot of these men are just going 199 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: after face tips and asks, so they don't even like 200 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: So when I posted that video, I got thousands of views, 201 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,800 Speaker 1: I got a whole bunch of comments. Everybody's mad. So 202 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:36,800 Speaker 1: the next next day I posted, well, brothers, what's your type? 203 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: Then what do you want? What is what is your 204 00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:44,080 Speaker 1: what is your types? Cricket? Those same guys that was 205 00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 1: calling me a simp and all of that, they don't 206 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:48,360 Speaker 1: come double back and say, well I want this type 207 00:11:48,360 --> 00:11:51,720 Speaker 1: of Well, because you're you're you're you're picking a woman 208 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:55,439 Speaker 1: based off of how she looks physically, and since that's 209 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:57,719 Speaker 1: the only thing you cared about, now you're in the 210 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:59,360 Speaker 1: room with it, like, well what do you bring to 211 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 1: the table. That's because you didn't like anything about her 212 00:12:02,840 --> 00:12:06,360 Speaker 1: prior to one to even talk to her, like I 213 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 1: need a woman to be physically attractive to me. But 214 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:12,240 Speaker 1: I have to be attracted to more than just how 215 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: you look in order for me to want to engage 216 00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 1: with you. I don't want to. I don't want to 217 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 1: engage with any woman simply off of how she looks. 218 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:21,920 Speaker 1: That's just not how I roll. Because again, I know 219 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,320 Speaker 1: who I am, I know what I do, and I 220 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 1: know where I'm going. So I can't just be following 221 00:12:27,400 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: or or trying to talk to any woman because she 222 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: looks at It just doesn't make sense. So how does 223 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:43,000 Speaker 1: this then become a simple amongst the men in the 224 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 1: black community? How does one become a simp because you're 225 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 1: addressing men and how they should be impertaining to women. Well, 226 00:12:52,400 --> 00:12:56,840 Speaker 1: you're only a simp to a small portion of of men. 227 00:12:56,920 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 1: You would like when every time I click on one 228 00:12:59,880 --> 00:13:02,760 Speaker 1: of the fort one of the profiles of the men 229 00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 1: who called me a simple, it's like you're you're a 230 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: total aware, like you're a total awared, or you're you're yeah, 231 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:14,119 Speaker 1: like you're mad at women because they don't like you. 232 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 1: You know, you're you're you're a bland guy. You don't 233 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: have any cherica, you don't have any you don't have 234 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: any charisma. You know, nobody in your neighborhood knows you're 235 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:26,600 Speaker 1: like you just you know you're and you're upset, you know. 236 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 1: So they always say stuff like you know you're you're 237 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:32,640 Speaker 1: trying to You're saying this because you're trying to get women. 238 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:37,360 Speaker 1: I've never had a problem getting women. I'm like, like, like, brother, 239 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 1: I don't. I never have to jump on a woman's 240 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: side on social media to get a woman to like No, 241 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: but you project everything because you can't get a woman. 242 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:51,079 Speaker 1: Maybe y'all should start sipping. Since you think this is 243 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:55,200 Speaker 1: the way to get women, maybe you should start slipping. 244 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 1: Like any time a man is getting attention from women, 245 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 1: it's the small pocket men that's gonna call you a 246 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: simple whatever you're doing, and they just need to get 247 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: their selves together. Yeah, it's usually the men who ain't 248 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,800 Speaker 1: never got any women from elementary to high school too 249 00:14:09,840 --> 00:14:14,600 Speaker 1: now and their adult lives. I promise you go to 250 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:17,559 Speaker 1: that post, go go to that video. I'm gonna go 251 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:21,080 Speaker 1: and click on all of the profiles of the guys 252 00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 1: that call the sex And when you do that, I 253 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 1: want you to say, I want to know what you 254 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: date any of them. That's what that's what I want 255 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: to go to the profile of all of the guys 256 00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 1: that called me sent a simple and I want to 257 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: know what you and I already know the answers. No, 258 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:41,880 Speaker 1: that's their problem. Okay. So I feel like the simps 259 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: have a spokesperson. It's a certain other, another man that's 260 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: on social media, and as of lately, he's been turning 261 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:52,360 Speaker 1: his rhetoric back towards men. But he built his platform 262 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:55,200 Speaker 1: off of women bashing. As far as I'm concerning, he 263 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:58,040 Speaker 1: gave a voice to what I would consider a simp. 264 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:00,880 Speaker 1: These guys who would be calling you the sim the comments, right, 265 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:03,600 Speaker 1: he gave a voice to them. He's like the voice 266 00:15:03,760 --> 00:15:07,560 Speaker 1: of the man who never had access to the women 267 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,760 Speaker 1: he thought he should have access to. You know, So 268 00:15:10,800 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 1: now you have this guy's telling you it's the women's fault. 269 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:16,320 Speaker 1: It's the women, it's the women's fault. Why you've never 270 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 1: been able to get the woman you wanted? Who you're 271 00:15:18,840 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: talking about? Yeah, you know what I'm talking now at all. 272 00:15:26,760 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 1: It's some things we don't we don't disagree with him 273 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:33,760 Speaker 1: as well. I feel like some way, somehow women get 274 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 1: his message completely mixed up. His He has one message, 275 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 1: is that regular women should deal with regular men. That's 276 00:15:41,800 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 1: the that's the crux of his message. But that is 277 00:15:45,280 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: this message, right, But then you have regular men who 278 00:15:48,080 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: don't think that there are five's at best, and now 279 00:15:51,480 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 1: they're talking down to women that made a collective or 280 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,120 Speaker 1: a consensus, maybe this this woman if we're talking about 281 00:15:57,480 --> 00:15:59,920 Speaker 1: it's the it's the how he talks about the physical 282 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: um aesthetics. Seven woman. I don't like you, see what 283 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: I'm saying, because then you have these five at best 284 00:16:06,080 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 1: men talking crazy about you know, he said that Sweetie 285 00:16:10,360 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: was a six. He has a weird scale, and that's 286 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:19,480 Speaker 1: because he removes the seven. But to him, yeah, because 287 00:16:19,840 --> 00:16:22,840 Speaker 1: would be average. But basically to him, a six is 288 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:32,600 Speaker 1: not bad. He said Beyonce, Yes, yes, you think Beyonce's eight? Uh? Eight? 289 00:16:32,720 --> 00:16:35,320 Speaker 1: N She's definitely not a ten. Who's the ten? Who's 290 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:46,960 Speaker 1: the ten besides me? Excuse me? Who am I totally 291 00:16:47,040 --> 00:16:49,800 Speaker 1: infatuated with? I just feel like all women should feel 292 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: like they're a ten, you know. And see that's I think, 293 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 1: And and that's why Kevin Sanders has has a voice 294 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: because there, for some reason, is this notion that every 295 00:16:59,600 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 1: woman just beautiful like men understand. I'm not attractive if 296 00:17:03,720 --> 00:17:05,959 Speaker 1: he if he's not attractive, so I need to do 297 00:17:06,080 --> 00:17:08,040 Speaker 1: other things if I'm going to want to get women. 298 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: But for some reason, every woman is walking around feeling 299 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: like she's a tent. And that's why they're on kept 300 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,959 Speaker 1: of Samuel Show asking, uh, you know, saying I deserve 301 00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,439 Speaker 1: a six figure man or a man making four and 302 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: thousand dollars a year, just like maybe you don't fit 303 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 1: that that mold. Yeah, but if so, how he even 304 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 1: popped off was because he had a woman on there 305 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:29,679 Speaker 1: who was making a hundred thousand dollars a year, and 306 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 1: all she was looking for was a man who made 307 00:17:33,080 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 1: that same thing. So he automatically went to the physical 308 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:39,639 Speaker 1: um asking her, you know, to rate herself this in 309 00:17:39,680 --> 00:17:43,240 Speaker 1: a third, but I'm just asking for equal at this point, 310 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 1: and exactly that's regular money nowadays. Well, a hundred thousand 311 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,639 Speaker 1: dollars really isn't a lot, but that's because most of 312 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:54,679 Speaker 1: the country's poor, because a hundred thousand dollars is not 313 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,639 Speaker 1: the average. It's only a small fraction of people who 314 00:17:57,680 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: are actually making that. When you really look at the numbers, 315 00:18:00,119 --> 00:18:03,080 Speaker 1: the average, the average man is making like forty dollars 316 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 1: a year. Really I don't know about that. Now, go 317 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 1: ahead and look it up. I just saw McDonald's offering 318 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:16,000 Speaker 1: thirty five dollars an hour. Right now, there's no way 319 00:18:16,040 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: that people. That's how I signed up. McDonald's signed for 320 00:18:21,040 --> 00:18:24,240 Speaker 1: thirty five. I'm about to go work their part times. 321 00:18:27,119 --> 00:18:31,840 Speaker 1: The McDonald's rather corner for me is starting up. They 322 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:33,760 Speaker 1: might have been giving that up. If you get a 323 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: COVID shot, yeah probably, yeah. Yeah. Everybody's not making a 324 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,560 Speaker 1: hundred talking dollars. Now, y'all might be in a circle 325 00:18:45,560 --> 00:18:47,680 Speaker 1: where people are making that money. I'm in a circle 326 00:18:47,720 --> 00:18:50,439 Speaker 1: of people that's making that money. But the average the 327 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:52,919 Speaker 1: average person is not making a hundreds. So do you 328 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: know a lot of single black men who are making 329 00:18:54,840 --> 00:19:02,800 Speaker 1: a hundred thousand dollars? Okay? Do you know? Do you know? Definitely? 330 00:19:02,840 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 1: No tent Okay, do you know? Then, I'm don'na think 331 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:11,159 Speaker 1: I know twenty Are they single men? Are they single? 332 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:21,680 Speaker 1: Are they single? M No, I'm the only one over 333 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 1: there single. I gotta give my life. I gotta give 334 00:19:29,080 --> 00:19:32,159 Speaker 1: my life together. They'd be going, they being on trips 335 00:19:32,200 --> 00:19:35,280 Speaker 1: and something they can tell me about the pictures. I'll 336 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 1: be like single ass I know, they said that's what 337 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:46,080 Speaker 1: I say. I gotta get my life together. Got I 338 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: gotta get my life together? Um yeah, so um yeah 339 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:54,439 Speaker 1: so that when not when I listened to the chemisting. Now, 340 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 1: what I will say is a lot of those bottom 341 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 1: barrel men have have lashed onto him and have somewhat 342 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,199 Speaker 1: taken has taken his message and kind of twisted it. 343 00:20:08,920 --> 00:20:11,800 Speaker 1: So you know what he's talking to them, and I don't, 344 00:20:11,800 --> 00:20:13,439 Speaker 1: I don't know. Let me says, I don't like the 345 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: way he talks. So I do not like the way 346 00:20:15,640 --> 00:20:20,120 Speaker 1: he talks to me. That's that's very that's very problematic. 347 00:20:20,119 --> 00:20:22,400 Speaker 1: I don't like the way he talks. But when he's 348 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 1: just talking about all right men of this stature, if 349 00:20:25,800 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 1: they're single, they're not really looking for a woman who 350 00:20:28,760 --> 00:20:32,200 Speaker 1: already has kids X, Y and Z from his experience, 351 00:20:32,240 --> 00:20:34,640 Speaker 1: because he's in this round talking to these man and 352 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:38,159 Speaker 1: I definitely um agree with that. Where I don't, I 353 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 1: don't care. Now I might have like a one or 354 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 1: two child maximum, but but then you have these regular 355 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: guys who are all these women bringing the table with 356 00:20:48,840 --> 00:20:52,639 Speaker 1: somebody else kids. These women don't bring nothing to the 357 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:56,320 Speaker 1: table but somebody else's kids. So his his message is 358 00:20:56,400 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: being used to be little women. And I just where 359 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: are these women? Because I know all the women, the 360 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 1: women that I know, they're be getting money. So I'm 361 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:09,880 Speaker 1: trying to figure out who are these men dating? Um 362 00:21:10,040 --> 00:21:11,879 Speaker 1: is it because it's bottom of the barrel man, and 363 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:16,159 Speaker 1: there's bottom of the barrel women. So my philosophy is 364 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:18,280 Speaker 1: you are who you eat, you are who you beat. 365 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:22,119 Speaker 1: So it's something in you, something in that person you 366 00:21:22,119 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 1: see in yourself basically if you're working with him, so 367 00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,040 Speaker 1: what type of women that you're attracting? Like, it's about 368 00:21:28,040 --> 00:21:31,159 Speaker 1: partner selection at that point. And I always say like 369 00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,199 Speaker 1: if a woman has never been with a good man, like, 370 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:37,159 Speaker 1: chances are sheen either if you've never ever had a 371 00:21:37,240 --> 00:21:41,920 Speaker 1: good man. A lot of those guys probably I don't 372 00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 1: know if they ever had a woman. Like when you 373 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 1: go to the loo to the profile, you know they're 374 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 1: taking the ball because they ate women like yo, I'm 375 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:00,880 Speaker 1: telling you, Like those guys they've got whoever that they 376 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 1: could get like, and then they're mad at any man 377 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,760 Speaker 1: who gets any attention from women. And it's it's just 378 00:22:06,840 --> 00:22:13,200 Speaker 1: it's crazy shame. It just feels like Kevin Samuel's It's 379 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:17,040 Speaker 1: like the mascot for bidter men. And it's not just 380 00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:20,640 Speaker 1: not even just men who can't get people or can't 381 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:25,199 Speaker 1: get women, um, it's also men who like fail marriages 382 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:29,919 Speaker 1: and feel relationships that are bitter. Now I feel like 383 00:22:29,920 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: he's a mascot for them as well. He's definitely become that. 384 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,000 Speaker 1: I don't, I really do not believe that's his intent. 385 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 1: If you ever watched, like when he's being interviewed by 386 00:22:39,800 --> 00:22:42,639 Speaker 1: somebody else to listen to, you know, how he can't, 387 00:22:42,640 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 1: you know, start doing what he's doing and why he 388 00:22:44,760 --> 00:22:47,720 Speaker 1: doesn't you know, when he's really getting into you know 389 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:50,480 Speaker 1: what the crux of his messages. It sounds, it sounds 390 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:54,119 Speaker 1: solely different, but it's like women are misunderstanding. Both both 391 00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:57,640 Speaker 1: men and women are misunderstanding his message. The women are 392 00:22:57,640 --> 00:22:59,959 Speaker 1: getting mad at him, and then the men are too. 393 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: Can use it again. So I think he needs to, 394 00:23:03,520 --> 00:23:07,080 Speaker 1: you know, switch up something so it doesn't cost so much. 395 00:23:07,240 --> 00:23:09,880 Speaker 1: So many, so many things recently he did started because 396 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 1: he started before he was so big on social media. 397 00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 1: He was speaking to men. He had conferences and things 398 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: like that geared towards men to nobody. Nobody cares when 399 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 1: you when you when when you talk to men that way. 400 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,919 Speaker 1: As soon as the video surface of him talking to 401 00:23:26,000 --> 00:23:29,959 Speaker 1: a woman, and he got a million Yeah, because whenever 402 00:23:30,080 --> 00:23:33,960 Speaker 1: whenever I called men to task, listen, women preach this. 403 00:23:34,280 --> 00:23:36,800 Speaker 1: You know I love this that as soon as this, 404 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:41,160 Speaker 1: as soon as I switched to women, the same women 405 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 1: who was on my side, they hate me. They don't 406 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 1: want no accountability. So that's also that's also let it fly. 407 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,520 Speaker 1: So even if you were to say something like that, 408 00:23:52,840 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 1: but the hit dog will always halling. Man and woman yep, 409 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,520 Speaker 1: on both sides hate his message. I just hate his 410 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 1: delivery because he'll have a conversation with a woman who 411 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: has called in, so she did call in for this abuse. 412 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 1: But she'll ask him, well, what do you rate yourself? 413 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,040 Speaker 1: And he's like, see, that's what's wrong with you, bitches, 414 00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:18,600 Speaker 1: and hang up on him like what's that? I know 415 00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 1: what I'm saying immediately, what's wrong with you? The wrong 416 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:28,840 Speaker 1: with Like, yeah, I don't like his delivery. My favorite 417 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:30,800 Speaker 1: one when he was like that sounds like a big 418 00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:36,880 Speaker 1: bitch of the back. Big bitches need love too, though, 419 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,399 Speaker 1: that's the thing, like, and big bitches get love. I 420 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 1: don't know what he's talking about. Yeah, but he's not. 421 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,200 Speaker 1: He's not saying that they don't. You're just saying every 422 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:47,120 Speaker 1: woman that calls in his show one of man that's 423 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:50,040 Speaker 1: making six figures of more. And that's where he's like, baby, 424 00:24:50,119 --> 00:24:52,800 Speaker 1: you're you don't fit that mold a god that's making 425 00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:55,280 Speaker 1: this money as options and you're not going to be 426 00:24:55,480 --> 00:24:58,320 Speaker 1: But why that's in the black community though, because yes, 427 00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 1: and generally right of black American men and women probably 428 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:06,160 Speaker 1: make forty thousand. You say, that's what the median are 429 00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:08,840 Speaker 1: the I don't know about that. We have to look 430 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:11,840 Speaker 1: at those numbers. But that's only in our community. That's 431 00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:13,840 Speaker 1: in our community, right, So now we go to the 432 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 1: next community, which I don't it's not A hundred thousand 433 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 1: dollars is not the standard for any race. We're talking 434 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: about business owners like truck drivers making like, yeah, y'all 435 00:25:25,040 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 1: need to look this stuff up. That's the like maybe 436 00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 1: cilinar population or less. I don't know. I'm gonna have 437 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 1: to look at I hate looking at statistics because who 438 00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 1: put that ship out there, Somebody who wants to control 439 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 1: a narrative. So I'm just going based off of my 440 00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,680 Speaker 1: small sample size of people that I know, and that's 441 00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:48,760 Speaker 1: the that's the problem. You're going on your small sample size. 442 00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:51,520 Speaker 1: So it's people that I know and m people that 443 00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:53,240 Speaker 1: you know. What can you say about the men that 444 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 1: you know thinking money? That's what I'm saying, Like, so 445 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 1: that's two women who know men that get money. It's 446 00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:01,560 Speaker 1: men here that get money now rather not he wants 447 00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 1: to give it to you. That's different. I'm not saying 448 00:26:03,720 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 1: it's not some men out here that's getting it. I'm 449 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,760 Speaker 1: definitely around men who are, but there are a lot 450 00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: more men who are not. That's just not the average. 451 00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 1: That's not the average. The average guy who's a cop, 452 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:18,000 Speaker 1: it's not making a hundred thousand dollars a year. And 453 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 1: he has a degree, he may be making a hundred thousands. 454 00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:25,639 Speaker 1: I know two police officers in Charleston County, and I 455 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,439 Speaker 1: know they make a hundred thousand dollars. That sounds like 456 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,680 Speaker 1: you think they make a hundred thousand dollars, Because that 457 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:38,280 Speaker 1: that didn't sound like I know that that they're going like, Listen, 458 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 1: the average salary of a cop is not a hundred 459 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:45,119 Speaker 1: thousand dollars. The average teacher is not waking nobody. You know, 460 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:48,480 Speaker 1: when you look at all of these professions, well, most 461 00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:51,119 Speaker 1: of these professionals are not paying you a hundred thousand dollars. 462 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:55,800 Speaker 1: I'm looking it up unless you're going a lot of 463 00:26:56,040 --> 00:27:00,800 Speaker 1: a lot of overtime. A lot of uses aren't making 464 00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 1: a hundred thousand dollars. Nurses don't make a hundred thousand dollars. 465 00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:09,960 Speaker 1: Are a hundred thousand dollars is not average salary though, 466 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,119 Speaker 1: I just feel like, I don't know, it's people like, 467 00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,280 Speaker 1: it's a lot of people starting to become billionaires, a 468 00:27:14,280 --> 00:27:16,080 Speaker 1: lot of black billionaires, and I just feel like a 469 00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 1: hundred thousand dollars a black billionaires Kanye and Rihanna. Yeah, No, 470 00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:25,760 Speaker 1: I'm talking about we're starting to see more black billionaires, young, 471 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:31,520 Speaker 1: young black billionaires. Rihanna just became a billionaire off a 472 00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 1: couple of people. So I'm saying, who who Who are 473 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 1: the black billions. But the fact that we are seeing 474 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: it means that we're getting more money out here, and 475 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 1: I feel like millionaires at this point, it's really hard 476 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,199 Speaker 1: for to see a black billionaire. But we definitely are 477 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 1: seeing a lot of black millionaires. Because you can make 478 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 1: a million dollars on social media alone, you definitely can't. 479 00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:54,560 Speaker 1: It's definitely more people making it. But again, that's just 480 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:58,360 Speaker 1: not the average. It's just not it's just not the average. 481 00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:02,679 Speaker 1: Like you're really in the upper like I think if 482 00:28:02,680 --> 00:28:06,000 Speaker 1: you make a two dollars, you're like like top three 483 00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:13,119 Speaker 1: percent of earners. Really, So there's nineteen black billionaires based 484 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,800 Speaker 1: on this list on Google. Of course jay Z is 485 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,919 Speaker 1: on their Oprah is on there, Robert Smith is on there, 486 00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:25,200 Speaker 1: Kanye's on there, and some other people, and I don't 487 00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:32,240 Speaker 1: even think this person is in America. Ye, So yeah, 488 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:37,880 Speaker 1: we definitely see more black millionaires nowadays. Yeah, there definitely are. 489 00:28:38,920 --> 00:28:42,320 Speaker 1: I don't know, but yeah, these are all the round 490 00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:45,120 Speaker 1: table talk discussions that go on in the black community 491 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 1: right now because I think we're all just out here 492 00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:49,120 Speaker 1: trying to figure it out, how to figure it out 493 00:28:49,960 --> 00:28:52,760 Speaker 1: for our future, you know what I'm saying, Like, I 494 00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:56,959 Speaker 1: feel like the generations before us, they got they just 495 00:28:57,000 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 1: didn't set us up for ship and we're more consciously. 496 00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:04,600 Speaker 1: I want to say, I wouldn't say the generations. I 497 00:29:04,600 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 1: would say the generation that one generation right before us 498 00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:11,160 Speaker 1: that the most the most terrible black people. They birth 499 00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:14,720 Speaker 1: the most terrible black people. My grandfather's generation they own 500 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: they own all the score. It was my parents, it 501 00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:24,479 Speaker 1: was my parents general probably we had and yeah, I 502 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:27,040 Speaker 1: was just talking with a friend about in the war. 503 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:28,800 Speaker 1: So they sent a lot of our men to the 504 00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,920 Speaker 1: Vietnam War. So my grandfather's a lot of the men 505 00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 1: got killed in the war. They got a lot of 506 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:36,280 Speaker 1: them looked on dope then bringing the crack. So that 507 00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:39,720 Speaker 1: but that that generation right before us is where everything 508 00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,680 Speaker 1: just went left. Yeah, I think that's where all these 509 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 1: conversations are coming from. We just have different ways now 510 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 1: communicating collectively, like the clubhouses and instagrams. Now we could 511 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:53,720 Speaker 1: talk more and it's just really about trying to figure 512 00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 1: it out. But it just there's the lack of respect 513 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 1: on both ends, and um, that's that's that's the majority 514 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 1: of our problem, just to mutual respect in social media 515 00:30:07,960 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 1: just messing. I mean, you can, you can do some 516 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:14,040 Speaker 1: good on there, but it's it's man, it's just it's 517 00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 1: messing up people's minds. Like it's really detaching people from 518 00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 1: reality and every and everybody feel like they need to 519 00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:26,040 Speaker 1: live a life virtual reality. Girlfriend. Yeah, it's like like 520 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: you know a rapper girlfriend of buying the car and 521 00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 1: be like she's putting the pressure on your women, Like no, 522 00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:35,880 Speaker 1: she's not I'm not. I'm not expecting my girlfriend who's 523 00:30:35,880 --> 00:30:40,960 Speaker 1: the teacher, to buy me, uh Bentley Like, like, why 524 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 1: do y'all, why do y'all think that you're supposed and 525 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,520 Speaker 1: why do do y'all think y'all dr dream Like y'all, 526 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:51,479 Speaker 1: y'all ain't never gonna have to pay y'all ex wife 527 00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:54,680 Speaker 1: three hundred thousand dollars a month. You've never seen that. 528 00:30:56,160 --> 00:31:03,200 Speaker 1: Compare yourself to those people virtual reality. It ain't no 529 00:31:03,320 --> 00:31:05,840 Speaker 1: principle because have these dudes ain't paying the child support 530 00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 1: on time? You got kids? Okay, so ain't paying the 531 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: child support on time? They probably don't have to contribute 532 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,240 Speaker 1: to no spouses support because you'all was paying fifty fifty 533 00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:18,800 Speaker 1: the whole time. Like what are we really even talking about? 534 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:27,959 Speaker 1: So we're gonna do our SIMP series next, but before 535 00:31:28,000 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 1: we get into that, let's take a second at the 536 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:40,160 Speaker 1: pay these bills. Today's SIMP series is brought to you 537 00:31:40,480 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 1: by one of our listeners from Instagram. Um it says 538 00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 1: Hi A J and Tan Vam. I'd like to think 539 00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,840 Speaker 1: that I'm the only man that listens to the show, 540 00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:53,360 Speaker 1: but that's probably not true. But I wanted to actually 541 00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,240 Speaker 1: get some simp advice from you. I live in d C, 542 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,080 Speaker 1: and if you know anything about d C, there are 543 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,240 Speaker 1: a lot of beautiful, successful black women in the DMV area. 544 00:32:02,880 --> 00:32:06,120 Speaker 1: They usually have their way here, though the men may 545 00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 1: not admit it. I do pretty well for myself as 546 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 1: a government contractor, but I swear I cannot keep a 547 00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,600 Speaker 1: woman around. I know what women like, so I always 548 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:19,840 Speaker 1: display acts of service and gifts, of course, but these 549 00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: women are brutal. It's almost like they literally want a 550 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: nigger rib. I did my monthly budget and I've been 551 00:32:25,960 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 1: spending on average two thousand dollars a month on dates. 552 00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,040 Speaker 1: I don't consider myself a simp per se because I 553 00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 1: don't cook and i'd be eating out anyway, So it's 554 00:32:35,800 --> 00:32:39,040 Speaker 1: just nice to have a woman accompany me sometimes. Do 555 00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,280 Speaker 1: y'all consider this simping? It ain't simping, if you got it. 556 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:48,360 Speaker 1: I mean, like, if I don't use the term simps, 557 00:32:48,400 --> 00:32:51,880 Speaker 1: I'm gon't call anybody a simp. But he's definitely being used. 558 00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,880 Speaker 1: I mean, he's something about him that these women just 559 00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:58,560 Speaker 1: don't like. He's probably leading with his money. I mean 560 00:32:58,600 --> 00:33:00,960 Speaker 1: two thousand dollars a month, that's I mean, I'll spend 561 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 1: a lot of money in a year on dates. For 562 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:10,000 Speaker 1: two thousand a month is a lot. Where are you 563 00:33:10,040 --> 00:33:13,520 Speaker 1: taking all the time? Though? But he said two thousand 564 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:17,160 Speaker 1: a month on dates? He didn't say on himself. Now 565 00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 1: he said on dates if he's eating out, going to 566 00:33:19,800 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: the club. V I p dreams, But that's not a 567 00:33:24,160 --> 00:33:27,680 Speaker 1: going so that's a date going off to the club 568 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 1: and all that. It just depends on what you're doing. 569 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: I guess, so I would He mentioned dinner, right, so 570 00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,440 Speaker 1: I would assume he's taking women out to dinner if 571 00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 1: he's already gonna be eating out a lot anyway. He 572 00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 1: just likes to not go by himself. As for what 573 00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 1: he's saying, So if he invites a woman with him, 574 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,080 Speaker 1: is that consider himthing like in that woman's mind, she 575 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: may be telling her friends, girl, his name might be 576 00:33:49,320 --> 00:33:52,360 Speaker 1: on the phone under food. I don't know, but that's 577 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,800 Speaker 1: still a good person that just you know, this woman 578 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,800 Speaker 1: just may be missing out on for real, not taking 579 00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:03,160 Speaker 1: him seriously just to get a damn remember exactly. Man, 580 00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 1: If I'm not calling a man a simple because he 581 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,560 Speaker 1: takes women out, what like? That doesn't even that doesn't 582 00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,319 Speaker 1: make sense? Love? Who doesn't take who doesn't take women out. 583 00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:15,480 Speaker 1: His friends that don't take women out like I like 584 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 1: to be I'm not I'm like Netflix and chill, but 585 00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,520 Speaker 1: I like to be out. I like to be out 586 00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:23,920 Speaker 1: so and I like to have a woman with me. 587 00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:28,359 Speaker 1: So like I under I understand that. But it's something 588 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:32,239 Speaker 1: that he has to work on within himself that, you know, 589 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 1: to attract these women or to keep these women and 590 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,240 Speaker 1: not just take them on. You know, but just because 591 00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:39,880 Speaker 1: you take a woman on the date doesn't mean she 592 00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:42,479 Speaker 1: likes you, like she's getting to know you. That doesn't 593 00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:45,080 Speaker 1: mean you're likable. You you might just you might just 594 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 1: be a terrible person. Right with good tasting food, yeah, 595 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 1: like yeah, you know what you know, you know how 596 00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 1: to eat, but you don't know how to have a 597 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 1: conversation over there, right, So you're talking about the wrong things. 598 00:34:57,239 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 1: You're saying the wrong things. You know, You're parents might 599 00:35:00,680 --> 00:35:02,760 Speaker 1: not be all the way Like, it's a hundred different 600 00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:05,120 Speaker 1: things that could be going on that you just you 601 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:13,800 Speaker 1: need to hire a hitch, right, So no Instagram listener, 602 00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:19,400 Speaker 1: we don't consider as something. Um nah, So we had 603 00:35:19,440 --> 00:35:21,840 Speaker 1: a net we had and when I can remember like 604 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:24,319 Speaker 1: an actual sim story where dude took money out his 605 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 1: four in one K to give a woman for school, 606 00:35:28,600 --> 00:35:31,239 Speaker 1: supposedly because she actually used the money to pay for 607 00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:35,400 Speaker 1: a lawyer for another man. That would can be considered 608 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:39,080 Speaker 1: but but but still but still yet you were finessed. 609 00:35:39,640 --> 00:35:41,799 Speaker 1: So are you really a simple You thought you were 610 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:44,200 Speaker 1: helping somebody that you cared about all this. Yeah, but 611 00:35:44,239 --> 00:35:46,359 Speaker 1: I mean that's how some series works because it's dumb 612 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:48,680 Speaker 1: bit stories. You're not really dumb bit. You just got 613 00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:53,239 Speaker 1: played so exactly. And if if you take money out 614 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 1: your how deep was your relationship? Like the fact, how 615 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:06,919 Speaker 1: deep was that? Yeah, that's what it was. The sex 616 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:14,080 Speaker 1: would never do that to me. I'm thirty nine years old. 617 00:36:14,120 --> 00:36:16,840 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say never. I didn't. I haven't had some 618 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:20,560 Speaker 1: fun and that's all it is. It's fun. Just will 619 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,320 Speaker 1: never happen like that. But what kind of relationship did you? 620 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:25,759 Speaker 1: How long were you talking to this woman that she 621 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:28,160 Speaker 1: would do this to you? Like that's pretty yeah you would. 622 00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:30,560 Speaker 1: I don't use if I would use the word, I 623 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:33,840 Speaker 1: would use the word for him. Come from man to 624 00:36:33,960 --> 00:36:37,120 Speaker 1: your four old one gay? Like, if I'm paying for 625 00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:42,080 Speaker 1: your school, we need to be living together, right, Yeah, 626 00:36:42,440 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: I think I'm paying for your school because he wasn't 627 00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:48,240 Speaker 1: what if I if I think I'm paying for your school, 628 00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:52,640 Speaker 1: we have to be living. I'm helping you fill out 629 00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:57,440 Speaker 1: the forms, like now what are you majoring? Look? Get 630 00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 1: these books? Like I'm not just handing you money to 631 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:06,040 Speaker 1: pay for school. Like oh, boys, we don't even live 632 00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:09,680 Speaker 1: in the same place, like nab bro. Yeah, you was 633 00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:11,720 Speaker 1: doing too much. And look I know that the guy, 634 00:37:11,920 --> 00:37:14,080 Speaker 1: the guy whose story that was, he does listen to 635 00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: the show. Listen. We ain't trying to play you. Hapend 636 00:37:16,960 --> 00:37:19,480 Speaker 1: to the show. We're just using it as an example 637 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 1: of what asimp could possibly be. I mean that one time. 638 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:29,759 Speaker 1: That's okay, Yeah, you learned your lessons? Who a very 639 00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:33,839 Speaker 1: expensive lesson? Should take her to court? My man, if 640 00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 1: you're listening, you can. You can't take her to court. 641 00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:43,839 Speaker 1: It gave her He gave her money for a specific thing, 642 00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,400 Speaker 1: and she used it for something else. Yes, but what 643 00:37:46,600 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 1: is that because it was a gift, he gave her 644 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:55,040 Speaker 1: money for a specific she lied that was she she 645 00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:59,759 Speaker 1: got the money under false pretense. Can possibly yeah, he would, 646 00:37:59,840 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 1: look uh again, jud Judy gonna get that money back. 647 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:10,279 Speaker 1: Judjudy ain't gonna like that bitch. But you can't. You 648 00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:13,880 Speaker 1: can't ask for something under false pretenses, right because that 649 00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:18,919 Speaker 1: he definitely got finess. So this guy, yeah, this guy 650 00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,520 Speaker 1: just giving away food or whatever else some v I P. 651 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:25,720 Speaker 1: Drinks or whatever. That's not necessarily I mean two thousand 652 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,680 Speaker 1: a month, I mean shoot at the end of the year. 653 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 1: So he's spending the same money that guy probably spent on. 654 00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 1: I wish you would have told us, like how much 655 00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,120 Speaker 1: how much you getting for two k a month? Because 656 00:38:36,160 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 1: you probably have your in goal is to get some couch. 657 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,040 Speaker 1: You may just need to just pay somebody just outright, 658 00:38:42,280 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 1: or are you looking for a wife, because maybe you 659 00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:47,760 Speaker 1: should stop dating as much and maybe have more face 660 00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,160 Speaker 1: time dates. I don't know what you need to do, 661 00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 1: but that's that's a bit much. So Now, if your 662 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:55,919 Speaker 1: goal dating all these women is just to have sex 663 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,279 Speaker 1: with it, it's easy to spend two thousand dollars if 664 00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,480 Speaker 1: you're going now to eat though, in a month? Is 665 00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:05,320 Speaker 1: this just on like on him and her? Two thousand 666 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:07,879 Speaker 1: happened fast? It's sound like it's multiple people. He said 667 00:39:07,920 --> 00:39:09,920 Speaker 1: he just can't keep them around, So it sounds like 668 00:39:09,960 --> 00:39:15,799 Speaker 1: you know who happens available and get getting fed, spend 669 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:17,319 Speaker 1: to grand but I'm saying, what are you spending five 670 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,200 Speaker 1: d every time you take you on a date? Once 671 00:39:20,239 --> 00:39:22,759 Speaker 1: a week? That's that's just a lot. Like how many 672 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:26,400 Speaker 1: damned dates? And am going on? Two dates? Five hundred dollars? 673 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:34,320 Speaker 1: Happen fast at Del Frisco Flinch in the build. We 674 00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:41,680 Speaker 1: ain't going out again. I'm going I'm going out again. 675 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:51,480 Speaker 1: You know your ass going hungry him hopefully I'm not 676 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:53,719 Speaker 1: going nowhere right now is a waste. Don't waste your 677 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 1: money on me. I can't even taste it, sir Sa 678 00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:03,000 Speaker 1: Devoma Daily plug yourself. What you got going on? So 679 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,200 Speaker 1: we know you don't want to call it a mentorship? 680 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:09,120 Speaker 1: What do you call the organization? You have grown boys? 681 00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:14,080 Speaker 1: Uh man, I don't have anything going on for grown boys. 682 00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:17,920 Speaker 1: I have things going on. Then I actually gotta get 683 00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,279 Speaker 1: our get our website. But you can follow me at 684 00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: b F and COMA b F N K R U 685 00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:25,880 Speaker 1: M A H. What we do have going on is 686 00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,680 Speaker 1: our in Power in Black Kings Network where we're I'm 687 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 1: teaching for me and have a group of guys who 688 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:34,640 Speaker 1: are working with me who are teaching personal development. We 689 00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:38,239 Speaker 1: have business guys coming on teaching. We have uh we 690 00:40:38,320 --> 00:40:41,800 Speaker 1: have counselors and and and and therapists. We have elders 691 00:40:41,840 --> 00:40:44,759 Speaker 1: who are teaching things from my African centered perspective on 692 00:40:45,000 --> 00:40:47,759 Speaker 1: manhood and just everything that we need as black men 693 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,719 Speaker 1: to be our best self. You know, when I first 694 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:54,719 Speaker 1: went on my own personal development journey, I couldn't find 695 00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:57,399 Speaker 1: any black men who are speaking directly to black man. 696 00:40:57,440 --> 00:41:00,600 Speaker 1: We definitely have some personal development guys out there, but 697 00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:04,239 Speaker 1: it was a very general and broad message. So I 698 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:06,759 Speaker 1: always live by if you know whatever I need. If 699 00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 1: I can't find it, I created. So I created a 700 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:12,719 Speaker 1: personal development platform for black men again corn Power and 701 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 1: Black Kings, and I had that website up within the week. 702 00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:20,280 Speaker 1: So right now, just follow me on Instagram BF and croma, 703 00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:23,360 Speaker 1: B F n K. Are you m a H? 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That's it. 714 00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:16,839 Speaker 1: That's it. Well, thank you for joining us. Thank you. 715 00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:23,000 Speaker 1: So y'all know what time it is if you swear 716 00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:32,560 Speaker 1: you Russell Simmons brother. Hey, Like, if you enjoyed this episode, 717 00:42:32,600 --> 00:42:36,080 Speaker 1: please tune in every Thursday on the I Heart Radio 718 00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:40,440 Speaker 1: app or whatever the fun you get your podcasts at. Also, 719 00:42:40,600 --> 00:42:43,799 Speaker 1: I hope you'll be hitting up Black Effect dot com too. 720 00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 1: That's some cool shit on there. All a different podcasts 721 00:42:46,680 --> 00:42:49,960 Speaker 1: from all the different genres. Also, make sure y'all keep 722 00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,560 Speaker 1: sending us some sim stories, dumb bitch stories. 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