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Speaker 1: actual physical copy of the document Kiki Yes, entitled Official

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Speaker 1: Wedding Party Agreement. Now, Kiki has been with Big Tim

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Speaker 1: for seven and a half eight years. Yes, and he

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Speaker 1: in twenty twenty seven. That's all I'm going to say.

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Speaker 1: That's well, I know a little more than that, but

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to say anymore because you know, people

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Speaker 1: offering to be my accompanyment. Oh, yes you are. You're

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Speaker 1: just sort of dangling that out there for people that

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Speaker 1: I've never met. Oh, you'll take you to my wedding.

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Speaker 1: No I won't.

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Speaker 2: Well, I feel like I get to say, and who's

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Speaker 1: So I don't think you do.

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Speaker 2: Ladies apply with them idms.

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Speaker 1: But before I go through this, I want to know

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Speaker 1: three five. What is something that you wish that the

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Speaker 1: what is something that you looking back on it? It

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Speaker 1: was like these people needed to understand the assignment better,

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Speaker 1: Like I needed to be more emphatic about the following points.

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Speaker 1: People needed to understand yes, and they didn't. If you

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Speaker 1: So this is a is this real?

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Speaker 2: It's in your hand?

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Speaker 1: Well, I understand that, But there's a place for a

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Speaker 2: But yes, But let me just explain a little piece.

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Speaker 3: I am doing a draft day theme bridal proposal party.

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Speaker 3: So I'm throwing these folks of nice little dinner. I've

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Speaker 3: put together boxes for them, and I'm proposing to them

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Speaker 3: to be in our party. So it's like a draft day,

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Speaker 3: like if you were coming to join my basketball.

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Speaker 1: So this is just like a little theme little like

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Speaker 1: you're signing a contract.

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Speaker 2: But yes, but I also mean business.

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure you mean business here. Yeah, official Wedding

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Speaker 1: Party Agreement the Royal Union of Kiki and Big Tim.

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Speaker 1: It says the contract which I don't know if it

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Speaker 1: would hold water legally. I'm having counsel look at him.

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Speaker 1: Not that you've asked me to sign it, but this

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Speaker 1: certifies that you have been selected as an elite member

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Speaker 1: of the wedding party for Kiki and Big Tim. This

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Speaker 1: agreement is legally binding in spirit, elegance and group chat

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Speaker 1: loyalty only. Yes, okay. First, we have a hype clause.

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Speaker 1: You will enthusiastically support all wedding decisions. You will respond

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Speaker 1: to updates with excitement and positive energy. You will affirm

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Speaker 1: at all times that this wedding will be legendary. Yes, okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean I feel like that. That's you should be

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Speaker 1: doing that. Like, if you're going to be in someone's

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Speaker 1: you acknowledge a tire, travel, glam and celebrations may require

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Speaker 1: financial participation. Complaints are limited to sixty seconds, followed by

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Speaker 1: the phrase worth it, Yes, I wouldn't even put I

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Speaker 1: would take that out. No complaints, you know, no complaints.

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Speaker 3: See, I want to get people a chance to express themselves.

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Speaker 1: Not interested in your complaints, Like, hey, you're my close friend.

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Speaker 1: This is part of the deal. This is what happens.

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Speaker 1: You should be honored. Bachelor Bachelorette conduct. Now you know

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Speaker 1: this is where we get a little sideways. You can

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Speaker 1: iHeartRadio app search for the Fred Show on demand because

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Speaker 1: You agree to participate with style and enthusiasm. A lot

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Speaker 1: No questionable social media posts without approval. No disappearing acts

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Speaker 1: or unnecessary drama, that's right, okay. Wedding day responsibilities. Arrive

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Speaker 1: on time and fully prepared. Assist with minor emergencies, wardrobe, emotions, logistics,

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Speaker 1: Confidentiality confidentiality agreement. All wedding planning tea remains sealed until

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Speaker 1: one year after the wedding or after three cocktails, whichever

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Speaker 1: No, you don't get to have three drinks and tell

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's really nothing to tail. I tell

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Speaker 1: Could be like one wedding. No, see, this is why

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Speaker 1: I don't think what else do you want? I need

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Speaker 4: I wish I had people like actually willing to enthusiastically

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Speaker 4: because I heard that word earlier, enthusiastically helped me with

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you you wanted like they were supposed to

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Speaker 1: Okay, you want to help setting up helpful? Okay? Did

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Speaker 4: I was dropping little hints here and there of like hey,

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Speaker 1: Okay, because I've been a groupsman many times and I've

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Speaker 3: I think the groomsmen just show up, you know, like

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Speaker 1: I said, what happened? Yet No, I was not asked

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Speaker 1: Fred's not allowed to duck out early. I didn't sign this.

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Speaker 3: You would leave my wedding because somebody I won't sit

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Speaker 1: Christopher, there are some little weasels out there that mingle

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Speaker 5: Aside for keeping your friend an, I don't know that

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Speaker 1: We got some weasels? Okay? You know you know they're

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Speaker 2: Oh, I certainly do.

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Speaker 1: They're nice to me, I don't. They say things on

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'm going to the courthouse for my wedding to

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Speaker 1: avoid all of it. Someone said, yes, I've been you know,

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Speaker 1: I've been advocating for that forever. That's the way to go.

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Speaker 1: Go to the courthouse, save your money, just go none

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Speaker 1: of this, None of this is necessary.

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Speaker 2: Going to the party.

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Speaker 1: Bront have a party, but anyway, joint bachelor bacherette parties

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Speaker 2: Do tell Yeah why?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I mean you're welcome to Probably you had.

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Speaker 2: A bridal party.

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Speaker 3: Did you have any wishes of like, man, I wish

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Speaker 5: Jason Brown. But I honestly, I feel like I try

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Speaker 5: to be so minimal, like I love you, Kiki, but

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Speaker 5: I definitely was the opposite side of what you're doing.

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Speaker 5: I was, I was, but I felt like I just

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Speaker 5: wanted them to show up in their little pink tracksuits

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Speaker 5: whatever I gave them, and I just call it a day.

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Speaker 5: I was also like overwhelmed because I was pregnant, too

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Speaker 5: much going on in my brain. But I don't know,

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Speaker 5: I feel like I was chill. But you can also

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Speaker 5: ask that I probably was a little bridezilla. The day of,

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Speaker 5: I was losing my mind. Yeah, but the day of

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Speaker 5: he just saw.

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Speaker 1: He saw the situation and decided to take He saw

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Speaker 1: that nobody was driving, and he took the wheel for you.

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Speaker 2: Not true at all. He came in the bathroom because

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Speaker 2: I asked him to.

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Speaker 5: I was like, do you want to, Like we were

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Speaker 5: talking there, the girls together, makeup done, and he didn't

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Speaker 5: because he didn't want to.

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Speaker 2: I asked them much as.

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Speaker 1: Day of wedding planner, he just he just took that.

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Speaker 1: He wasn't hired to do that, Paulina. He just decided

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Speaker 1: he was going to be like he was. He was

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Speaker 1: where to go. He absolutely just became the de facto.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: He asked me like, do you need help? But I

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Speaker 2: was like, if you want to, like I'm down.

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Speaker 5: He was like, I have nothing to do, Like I'm

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Speaker 5: literally sitting here and I was like, I would love

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Speaker 5: you forever. I'll give you anything you want. You want kisses,

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Speaker 5: you want money, whatever. He's like, no, let's just get

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Speaker 2: You want money, might do you want something for me?

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Speaker 2: I mean I know what you don't want from me,

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Speaker 2: But I was like, do you want something?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: That that served him as much as it served her.

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Speaker 2: He likes honestly, that's his element.

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Speaker 5: And I felt terrible, and then I don't know, he

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Speaker 5: just did, you're right, I'll just do it.

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Speaker 1: Brian. How you doing, Brian.

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Speaker 2: Good?

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Speaker 5: How are you?

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Speaker 1: Fred? Hey? Brian doing great? You are not You are

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Speaker 1: not a voting for a joint bachelor bachelor because you

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Speaker 1: get a vote, Absolutely not. You get what's the issue?

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Speaker 6: Well, let's just say that I witnessed a lot of

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Speaker 6: I guess I would say jealousy, a lot of smack

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Speaker 6: I don't think. I don't think the men were comfortable

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Speaker 6: it was a true bachelor party.

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Speaker 2: What they want to do.

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Speaker 1: So there was some resentment. There was some some combativeness

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Speaker 1: between the men and the women.

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Speaker 6: Huh yeah, I mean sometimes you just want to have

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Speaker 6: your drinks, hang out with your guys, not be judged

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Speaker 6: for how many drinks you're having. The emotions ran hot

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Speaker 6: with brother in laws and sister in laws that didn't

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Speaker 6: like each other. People got choked. Cops got told.

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Speaker 1: Why were people getting choked? Like what happened?

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Speaker 6: You know? You know, people have too many drinks and

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Speaker 6: they say things they wouldn't normally say when they're sober,

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Speaker 6: and other people get upset and they start attacking other

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Speaker 6: people and then they get choked, and then brother in

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Speaker 6: law's defend their wives, and it's just.

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Speaker 1: It's it's kind of a whole different it's a whole

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Speaker 1: different vibe. You know, if we're doing couples, if we're

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Speaker 1: doing a co ed bachelor better read party, it's it

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Speaker 1: really isn't that anymore in spirit, It's it's a it's

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Speaker 1: a group of outing now because you we're going to

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Speaker 1: a bachelor party anticipating this, and then you get that

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Speaker 1: then like this is what I'm like. The girls thought

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Speaker 1: it was going to be one thing. The guys thought

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Speaker 1: it was going to be a judgment free I'm going

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Speaker 1: to drink too much zone, and then people start fighting

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Speaker 1: countries like why are you drinking so much? It's a

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Speaker 1: bachelor party.

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Speaker 6: Right, If I if I could give one more perspective,

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Speaker 6: means I've actually I've had both, all right. My first

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Speaker 6: wedding was a joint bachelor party, it was a disaster.

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Speaker 6: I'm happily, happily married a second time. I had just

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Speaker 6: a guy's weekend. We didn't do anything, you know, nasty.

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Speaker 6: We didn't go to the strip clubs, we didn't do

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Speaker 6: any of that. But we did have a guy's weekend

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Speaker 6: in Austin, Texas, and it was a hell of a

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Speaker 6: time without all the women.

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Speaker 1: And wow, you know, hey, Brian ak, big tim, thanks

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Speaker 1: for calling. Talk with you.

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Speaker 6: You're allcome in a good one.

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Speaker 2: Back to the party for his second.

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Speaker 1: Wedding ban that's crazy. Yeah, I don't think that's a

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Speaker 1: good idea. I think we should. I think we I

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Speaker 1: mean they should do it separately.