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Speaker 2: Ava is on the phone today for our first date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and she went on a date with a

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Speaker 2: guy named Justin, but now she's getting ghosted. So in

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Speaker 2: a few minutes we'll call him and see if you'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why he's ghosting her and maybe get her

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Speaker 2: another date. But first, Ava, how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since you heard from Justin?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 1: My god, I've been like a couple of weeks, and

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Speaker 1: you know, I've actually been reaching out to him. And

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Speaker 1: the first time I reached out to him, he said,

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Speaker 1: have a good day, and then I never heard anything

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Speaker 1: back from him.

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Speaker 4: Okay, so you reached out to him again after the

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Speaker 4: have a good day?

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Speaker 1: No, I mean, like it feels like really weird to

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Speaker 1: keep reaching out to this guy, especially if his only

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Speaker 1: response is have a good day. I'm worried. It's like

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Speaker 1: making me feel really desperate. But at the same time,

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Speaker 1: I really thought we had something. I thought we really connected,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know, I guess just at like one

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Speaker 1: point during our date, I was talking about my job,

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Speaker 1: and you know how thankful I was to have my

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Speaker 1: job and I accidentally call my boss attracted, and I'm

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Speaker 1: wondering if maybe that was like a red flag for him.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't mean it in that way, and if

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Speaker 1: that's how we took it, I'm I'm honestly very mortified

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Speaker 4: Okay, well that sounds a little bit juicy. Can we

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Speaker 4: go backwards though, and talk about how we got to

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Speaker 4: that point, like how was your date other than that?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, so obviously I had a great time,

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Speaker 1: and you know, I was just thinking the whole time,

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Speaker 1: like basically we started out a happy hour, which a

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Speaker 1: lot of my friends said that wasn't a correct way

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Speaker 1: to go, but you know, and I just had a

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Speaker 1: good feeling about him. And you know, the funny thing

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Speaker 1: is is he's.

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Speaker 4: Got a great sense of humor.

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Speaker 1: He's athletic. Like we played tickleball and it was like

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Speaker 1: I'd never played before, so it was really fun to

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Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well basically we played pick a ball and then went

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Speaker 1: to happy hours.

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Speaker 3: So yeah.

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Speaker 4: But you know the thing is is, after a.

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Speaker 1: While, I was concerned that that was all that there

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Speaker 1: was with us, just like kind of going to a

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Speaker 1: shots and we danced. He showed me how to play darts.

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Speaker 1: You know, we shared a bowl of peanuts, and eventually

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Speaker 1: we did go back to his place where things.

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Speaker 4: Got a little you know, he did.

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Speaker 1: And I haven't been with anyone in a really long time,

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Speaker 1: so I'm worried. I also may have just been spread

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Speaker 1: with signals. Okay, I guess I'm just worried that, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was looking for, and I kind of thought I

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Speaker 1: a little bit more. So, Yeah, maybe going to his

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Speaker 1: like this. And maybe that's why he's ghosting me. Is

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Speaker 1: if I'm coming on too strong and he's under the

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Speaker 1: impression that all I wanted was a quick hookup. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, It's just I just feel so uncomfortable. I

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Speaker 1: I felt like we had a really good time, but

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Speaker 1: now I feel awkward, just trying to check in with him.

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Speaker 4: At what point in all of that did it come

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Speaker 4: this is embarrassing.

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Speaker 1: Basically, I was connected to my boss in such a

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Speaker 1: way I live with him. Okay, I'm a nanny, so

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Speaker 1: Justin that, like, I was a really cool person to

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Speaker 1: I think he even told I think he even told

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Speaker 4: Red Flager Justine for Justin.

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Speaker 1: So I do think maybe the fact that I may

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Speaker 1: as soon as I said that out loud, I realized

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Speaker 1: I just kind of like backtracked.

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Speaker 4: A little bit. But I think that.

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Speaker 1: Made him even more uncomfortable.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, we'll see we figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, play a song, come back, and then call

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, thank you, get your first day follow

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Speaker 4: up next.

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Speaker 2: Right in the middle of today's first day follow up,

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Speaker 2: if you're just joining us, Ava is on the phone

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Speaker 2: and she's getting ghosted by Justin. So we're about to

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Speaker 2: ghosting her and maybe get her another date. But before

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Speaker 2: we do that, Ava, why do you catch everybody up

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Speaker 2: on your situation?

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Speaker 1: So basically, I'm a nanny, which means I lived with

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Speaker 1: my employer, and my employer actually kind of set me

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Speaker 1: up with this guy Justin, who's like really fun and

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Speaker 1: kind of amazing, and I thought our first date went

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Speaker 4: You know, we played some sports, we went to a bar.

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Speaker 1: He actually showed me have stars really intimate, and I

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Speaker 1: to set us up, I may have actually said that

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Speaker 1: I thought my boss was really hot. And yeah, then

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Speaker 1: after that he stopped reaching out to me, and I

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Speaker 1: all he says to me would have a good day,

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Speaker 1: and I've never heard anything after that.

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Speaker 4: Okay, are you ready for us to call him? Yes? Please?

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Speaker 4: Here we go. Hello, Hi, I speak to Justin. Please.

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Speaker 3: This is Justin. Who's this?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 4: Justin? How are you? My name is Jewbele and I

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Speaker 4: host a radio show. It's called the Jebel Show. Hi, Justin,

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Speaker 4: the show's here too. My name's Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 4: How are you? I'm good?

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Speaker 3: Good? What do you guys?

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Speaker 4: What do you guys need?

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Speaker 2: We got an email about you from somebody, and so

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Speaker 2: we need to call you.

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Speaker 4: Okay. We do a segment on our show. It's called

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Speaker 4: the first Aid follow Up.

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Speaker 2: What that is is if you go out on a

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Speaker 2: that person can have us email you and ask why

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting them.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, that sounds interesting. Do I know this person?

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Speaker 2: I'm assuming Yeah, you went out on a date with

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Speaker 4: Do you have any idea that would be?

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Speaker 3: My goodness? Ava?

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Speaker 2: Maybe yes, it is a good can emailed us tell

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Speaker 3: I mean, she was awesome. We had an incredible time,

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Speaker 3: but you know, just a couple of red flags are

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Speaker 3: I took her to play some pickle ball and then

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Speaker 3: I mean, she wasn't like falling over like drunk, but

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Speaker 4: The whole place that night.

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Speaker 2: Well, thank you for telling us, man, I appreciate it. Also,

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Speaker 2: I'll let you know that Ava is actually on the

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Speaker 1: Oh my Goshny justin Ava here, Hey, Hey, Well what's

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Speaker 1: up her are you well, you know, honestly, I'm really

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Speaker 3: I mean, you know, I love having a good time,

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Speaker 3: You were like, I felt like you were flirting with

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Speaker 1: Are you I was grinding on the bar number like.

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Speaker 1: I don't even remember that, honestly.

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Speaker 3: You know, you remember the dance floor. It was back

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Speaker 3: by where they get the new glasses.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember the dance.

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Speaker 3: Floor, Oh oh my goodness, that night. You sure remember

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Speaker 1: Fun. I don't remember any of that, and honestly, I

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Speaker 3: Is this like a normal like when you go out?

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Speaker 3: I mean, do you get that hammered like every single

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Speaker 1: Just then? Honestly, I haven't really been out like that

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Speaker 1: remember me grinding up on just the bartender and doing

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Speaker 1: shots like on and off. You know, I'm really normally

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Speaker 1: not like that. Justin I may have just been like

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Speaker 1: I've been out and I've you know, even dated that.

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Speaker 4: I definitely was nervous that night.

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Speaker 1: I guess maybe I just tried to compensate, you know,

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Speaker 1: maybe letting loose and you know, reflecting back on that,

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, don't get me wrong, I had a

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Speaker 3: great time too, you know, and my whole thing was

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Speaker 3: I was just worried, like, you know, Wellams, the next

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Speaker 3: it like every time I bring when there's alcohol around?

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Speaker 3: Is this going to be like a big issue? And

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Speaker 3: I just, you know, that's the kind of thing I

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Speaker 3: if we end up, you know, continuing this relationship all right.

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Speaker 1: I actually really understand exactly where you're coming from. But

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Speaker 1: I just, in full honesty, that's not the behavior that

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Speaker 1: I do all the time. I am a better person

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Speaker 1: it's just like, I really guess, just thinking back on

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Speaker 1: I don't recognize or remember half the things I did.

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Speaker 4: Well justin would you like to go on another date

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Speaker 4: with Ava? Then we'll pay for it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I had such a great time, and

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Speaker 3: I really do like you a lot. And again, I

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Speaker 3: just just trying to look, you know, a few months

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Speaker 3: down the line, if we start, especially when I start

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Speaker 3: bringing around family and posive I'm friends and possibly even family.

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Speaker 3: And you know, if you said this is kind of

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Speaker 3: a one off type incident, I mean, I'll take your

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Speaker 3: word for it, And I mean I don't think i'd

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Speaker 3: be down with God again if you're into it.

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Speaker 1: I mean I would really love to, you know, have

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Speaker 1: a second date, and more importantly, I cannot wait to

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Speaker 1: party and grind up against your mom.

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Speaker 4: Oh my godness you Will's first date follow up