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Speaker 2: All about that high school drama girl drama girl, all

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Speaker 1: got me and Rob for Q and a Hi Robert.

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Speaker 4: Hey Joy, Hey friends, how you doing, buddy?

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Speaker 1: I'm good. I've been really good.

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Speaker 4: Guys.

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Speaker 1: We just had a fantastic talk with Chantelle Van Samon

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Speaker 4: Yes, it was great, especially because I feel like we've

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Speaker 1: Okay, So Sarah wants to know if your characters were

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Speaker 1: in The Walking Dead, how do you think they would go?

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Speaker 1: What would be their game plan? M Okay, I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: I am texting Hillary right now. Second.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I don't do zombies, guys. I don't do zombies.

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Speaker 1: But maybe that's the good indication of how Haley would survive.

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Speaker 4: Clay already sees dead people, so I feel like it's

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Speaker 4: Melissa asks if you could go to any convention as

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Speaker 1: I like this. Yeah, so I get cigarettes and Martini's

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Speaker 1: you mentioned frequently how a lot of men have told

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Game of Thrones for me, my boyfriend had never

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Speaker 4: That's a great one. I got pulled into that one

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Speaker 4: I like it, Yes, Sam oh Boy, Sam Richardson. And

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Speaker 4: it's kind of absurd comedy, but at the crux of it,

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Speaker 4: That's all fun, it's all heart and then laughs. It's

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Speaker 4: great Detroiters, No Detroiters, Yep, Detroiters.

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Speaker 4: I highly recommend. And it's you know, it's a thirty

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Speaker 1: Okay, I want to watch that. Thank you. That's good.

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Speaker 4: Hannah asks what holiday was the best to celebrate in Wilmington.

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Speaker 1: Oh, did I celebrate any holidays in Wilmington?

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Speaker 4: Weren't there for like, you know, we all kind of

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Speaker 1: Halloween was fun because downtown was definitely flooded with people

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Speaker 1: The businesses just get an influx of people on President's Day.

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Speaker 4: You're welcome, Chamber of Commerce.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, Brittany says. It's the late eighties early nineties

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Speaker 4: Romuless, Brittany, this is such a good question. It's so

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Speaker 4: good cereal. If it's specific to cereal, it's going to

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Speaker 4: And what cartoon am I watching? Oh? Man? I mean

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Speaker 1: I know there was something that was on before Smurfs.

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Speaker 4: Looney Tunes was awesome.

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Speaker 1: what I loved. And I had been eating lucky charms.

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