1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Well, it is thirty six days until the November third election. 2 00:00:04,960 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: I feel like we say this every day all day. 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 1: I hope it's getting through to somebody. I really really 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: hope it is. I hope it is, because we really 5 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: are just trying to get through and let you know 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:24,079 Speaker 1: how important your vote is. You're absolutely correct. I would 7 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: be beyond disheartened if voters don't turn out in this election. 8 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:36,640 Speaker 1: Trump said this is the most important election in the 9 00:00:36,840 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 1: history of our country. He's saying that because it's him, right, 10 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 1: it's the most important election for him, because he got 11 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:51,680 Speaker 1: to become president so he can stay out of jail. Okay, 12 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: all right, all right, So get registered to vote, people, Okay, 13 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:59,200 Speaker 1: we'll get registered to vote. Go to vote dot org, 14 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:02,760 Speaker 1: go to vote, and listen to me. Donald Trump is 15 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:06,759 Speaker 1: doing everything he promised to make America great again. He's 16 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:10,160 Speaker 1: doing everything to get this country back to a place 17 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: where it used to be, where his kind was in 18 00:01:13,920 --> 00:01:19,680 Speaker 1: charge of everything. He's doing exactly that. All right, Well, 19 00:01:19,720 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 1: we're gonna move on. Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. 20 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:28,039 Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 21 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM 22 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,480 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 23 00:01:34,680 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 24 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. That's for DJ. 25 00:01:42,400 --> 00:01:44,480 Speaker 1: Buckle up, hold on tight, we got it for you here. 26 00:01:44,520 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 1: It is a Strawberry letter subjects her parents heard everything. 27 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm twenty five years old and I'm 28 00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: in big trouble with my girlfriend's parents. My girlfriend and 29 00:01:57,240 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 1: I got pretty intense in the bedroom last week. I 30 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: pulled out my phone and started recording us. It was 31 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: dark in the room, so the video was not that good, 32 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 1: but I kept it anyway because I loved to hear 33 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: my girlfriend's whimpering and how softly she says my name. 34 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 1: She didn't care if I deleted it, deleted the video 35 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: or not, because you couldn't see her face or her body. 36 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 1: I played that video over and over again that night. 37 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:28,600 Speaker 1: The next day, her parents invited us to dinner, and 38 00:02:28,680 --> 00:02:30,840 Speaker 1: I offered to drive since I have a new car. 39 00:02:31,400 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: I've always had a great relationship with her mom and dad, 40 00:02:35,320 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 1: so I was looking forward to it. My girlfriend and 41 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: I went to pick up her parents and we headed 42 00:02:40,080 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: to dinner. They complimented me on the car, and her 43 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 1: dad said he needed to check out the sound system. 44 00:02:45,800 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 1: I wanted to impress him by playing some jazz. To 45 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: do so, I had to plug in the auxiliary cord 46 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: to my phone so I could access my playlist. Bluetooth 47 00:02:55,720 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 1: connected instantly, and the first thing we heard was my 48 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: girlfriend and I'm moaning and breathing hard. Right before I 49 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,280 Speaker 1: yanked the cord out, we all heard my girlfriend yell 50 00:03:08,360 --> 00:03:12,959 Speaker 1: out my name through the speakers. There is absolutely no 51 00:03:13,040 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: way to deny what they heard. Her mom started crying. 52 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: Her dad told me to take them back home. When 53 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: I got them home, he yelled for my girlfriend to 54 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,160 Speaker 1: get out of the car too. I try to call 55 00:03:26,240 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: her the rest of the evening, but she wouldn't answer. 56 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: I can't believe how careless I was. All I had 57 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: to do was delete the video. It's been a week. 58 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: She still won't talk to me. How can I fix 59 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:44,119 Speaker 1: things with my girlfriend and her parents? Okay, you call 60 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:48,040 Speaker 1: it careless, I just say this was just really stupid. 61 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 1: I mean, we've all done stupid things, but oh mge, 62 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: this was really a stupid mistake. Huh. And it's odd 63 00:03:54,800 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 1: because you're both grown and I'm assuming your girlfriend has grown. 64 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,640 Speaker 1: You said you're twenty five. I'm assumed. I mean she's 65 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 1: you know, somewhere around that age as well. But does 66 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: she live with her parents? Because her her dad yelled 67 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: for her to get out of the car too, I 68 00:04:08,600 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: wasn't clear on that. But anyway, no parent, especially a father, 69 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 1: come on, they don't want to face the fact that 70 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 1: they're a little girl, his little girl, you know. I mean, 71 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 1: we all know she's grown. They don't want to think 72 00:04:24,839 --> 00:04:27,240 Speaker 1: that she's having sex. They just don't want to think that. 73 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a parent, I don't I don't want 74 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: to think that. But we know it's true. They don't 75 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:36,720 Speaker 1: want that visual, they don't want to hear it, none 76 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:40,480 Speaker 1: of that. And yes, they know it's probably happening. And 77 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: like I said, and as long as they don't see it, 78 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: they can pretend that their precious little princess, you know, 79 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 1: it's still a virgin or something. So yes, of course 80 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:52,039 Speaker 1: they liked you in their fake virgin world. But you know, 81 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 1: all that's over now and you're the villain. You are 82 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 1: the villain, you're the enemy. They won't answer your calls, 83 00:04:58,200 --> 00:04:59,960 Speaker 1: so maybe you just need to give it some time. 84 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,719 Speaker 1: You need to give them some space for a while 85 00:05:03,600 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: and let things cool down a bit, you know, just 86 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:09,440 Speaker 1: leave it alone for a while. Hopefully you know they 87 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 1: believe in the power of forgiveness or else you're just 88 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:17,039 Speaker 1: out Steve. Well, you know, it's really nothing. This letter 89 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: is really short, really because it's you know, man, I mean, 90 00:05:20,240 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 1: what do you want me and Shirley to do? Here's 91 00:05:23,000 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: the key to this whole damn letter. And I may 92 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:30,599 Speaker 1: do some form of reenactment after this. Please, I will 93 00:05:30,720 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: think of something that I want to do. You said 94 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: at the end of the letter. I can't believe how 95 00:05:40,320 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: careless I was. All I had to do was delete 96 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:52,200 Speaker 1: the video. Wow, that's that's the whole letter. In the nutshell? 97 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 1: What is wrong with young people now? Y'all got to 98 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:03,920 Speaker 1: have everything on tape Now, Instagram is a story. Let 99 00:06:03,920 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: me tell you about my stupid ass kids. If I 100 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,000 Speaker 1: want to know what they at, what they did, all 101 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: I got to do is watch their damn story. They 102 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:19,039 Speaker 1: their masters telling everything, And if they ain't telling it, 103 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: all I got to do is know who their friends are. 104 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: I ain't never seen nothing like it. Man. The desire 105 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 1: to watch me, see me, feel me, look at me 106 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: hearing me see me. Hang on, Steve, stupid ass, don't 107 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:45,000 Speaker 1: have part two come dart two of Steve's response, coming 108 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: up with twenty three minutes after the hour my strawberry 109 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:50,640 Speaker 1: letter for today, the subject her parents heard everything. We'll 110 00:06:50,680 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening show 111 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,200 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 112 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 1: Her parents heard everything, your stupid ass, twenty five year 113 00:07:06,760 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 1: old board and recorded him and his girlfriend having set 114 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: because he played over and over. He loved the way 115 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 1: she say his name and she whimple and all this here. 116 00:07:18,560 --> 00:07:21,679 Speaker 1: You just oh you the magic man, you fifty cent 117 00:07:21,840 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: I got the magic stick. Yeah, oh you fifty cent? 118 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:33,400 Speaker 1: You know, oh you all that it's your birthday, Oh 119 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: you fifty cent. Well, your dumb ass got a new 120 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: car and plugged the cord up in the bluetooth. Kicked 121 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:45,720 Speaker 1: the head right away and instantly as soon as you 122 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 1: plugged it in with her, damn mama and daddy in 123 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: the car. Let me check out your sound system. Boy. 124 00:07:54,560 --> 00:07:59,640 Speaker 1: You decided to play some jazz bob and the first 125 00:07:59,680 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: thing we heard was my girlfriend and I'm moaning and 126 00:08:02,760 --> 00:08:06,480 Speaker 1: breathing hard right before I yanked at cord. I all, 127 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: we heard my girlfriend yell out my name through the speaker, Dmitrias. 128 00:08:15,320 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: It's a long name too, Sean Taylor, James Jackson, government name, 129 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:29,960 Speaker 1: Sean Jackson, whatever it was. That was absolutely no way 130 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:33,760 Speaker 1: to deny what they heard. Hit apart where your ass 131 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:41,679 Speaker 1: got in trouble. Her mother started crying. Yeah, you know 132 00:08:41,720 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: why her mama started cryingcause she sound just like her. 133 00:08:47,640 --> 00:08:55,440 Speaker 1: Oh now her damn daddy, take us back home. We 134 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: don't want raging, little nasty ass car take us home. 135 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,359 Speaker 1: So now they don't know if you made the recording 136 00:09:05,400 --> 00:09:08,199 Speaker 1: in your brand new car. They don't know what they 137 00:09:08,240 --> 00:09:10,040 Speaker 1: want to have to live an ask the ass car 138 00:09:10,200 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: now now your daddy told her, and you get your 139 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:16,720 Speaker 1: ass out of the car too. Ya. Right now, you've 140 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 1: embarrassed the girl in front of her parents. I mean, 141 00:09:21,640 --> 00:09:24,439 Speaker 1: you put her in a position man, and she can't 142 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:28,640 Speaker 1: explain it away. Her mother is crying because they grown. 143 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 1: They know what that is. They probably farted five years old. 144 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: They send in. They was just they know what that is. 145 00:09:37,920 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: Damn dog, you stupid and in your own words, all 146 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:49,480 Speaker 1: I had to do was delete the damn video. That's 147 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: all you had to do. Now, you think what we've 148 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:56,960 Speaker 1: learned is you don't have to delete the video if 149 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:03,920 Speaker 1: you don't make the video. But y'all so busy recording stuff, 150 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 1: y'all gonna let y'all technology then got y'all to them. 151 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: So now I ain't got nothing for your dog. There's 152 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 1: no way to fix this. It's no way to fix 153 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:18,240 Speaker 1: what you're gonna say. I'm sorry. Yeah, what what you're 154 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: gonna say? Skip over there? Um, he thinks it's just 155 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 1: being careless. I'm sorry. I was your daughter. Yeah, that terrible. 156 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:39,160 Speaker 1: You ain't spank nobody before. Come on here, okay, here 157 00:10:39,160 --> 00:10:43,600 Speaker 1: we go, here's the reenacturment. Oh no, this is the father. 158 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be the father, okay, and you're gonna be 159 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:53,640 Speaker 1: the boy. Good? All right? Um, what can I do 160 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 1: for young man? Sir? I just really want to apologize 161 00:10:57,960 --> 00:11:02,720 Speaker 1: for what you heard. Boar board boy. You know you 162 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,599 Speaker 1: got a lot of nerve board Listen to me, you 163 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 1: got a lot of nerve coming up in this house 164 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: with this foolishness. After court, and and and and my 165 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 1: wife was crying. M Oh, I'm so sorry. I know 166 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: what you heard was what you heard. But the ropes 167 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:23,840 Speaker 1: were not that tight on her wrist, and I don't know, 168 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: hold on, hold on holdings. So you're gonna bring your 169 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:31,120 Speaker 1: black ass up in here and you couldn't talk to 170 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: me about some hot tights some damn I know, I know, 171 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:38,640 Speaker 1: I know, I know. But what we was using, the 172 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: toy we was using, it was brand new. I just 173 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: got it out the box. It was yeah, it was. 174 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: It was Oh my god, it took her. It took 175 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:52,199 Speaker 1: a double D, like eighteen double D batteries and I 176 00:11:52,240 --> 00:11:55,040 Speaker 1: had to use that. You know. It was just unbelievable 177 00:11:55,160 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: the fun we was having. It sounded like, yeah, you 178 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 1: said you want to come to my house to talk 179 00:12:03,200 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 1: to me, and this is the foolishness that you're coming 180 00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: up in here with. I'm just trying to explain to 181 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:15,880 Speaker 1: you that what you heard, the sounds you heard, it 182 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:19,120 Speaker 1: wasn't that at all. What was happening was there was 183 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: a mouse in the room, says, So it wasn't saying 184 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:29,080 Speaker 1: at all. Boys, listen to me. You think that me 185 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 1: and my wife is a couple of damned foods. No, 186 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:34,880 Speaker 1: I don't think that at all. And that's not even 187 00:12:34,920 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: in my head. None of that is in my head 188 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:44,160 Speaker 1: that y'all, where did you get my daughter's voice from? 189 00:12:44,240 --> 00:12:48,200 Speaker 1: And and how was it coming through? I said, where 190 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,720 Speaker 1: did you get my daughters from voice? From me? Where 191 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:52,679 Speaker 1: was it coming? How was it coming through? Them? Speak? 192 00:12:52,760 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 1: Because it was her? We was we was we was 193 00:12:55,000 --> 00:13:00,600 Speaker 1: doing a play. It was I'm we gotta go post 194 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 1: your comments on today Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey f 195 00:13:03,800 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: M on Instagram and Facebook. And please don't forget to 196 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,440 Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up 197 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,000 Speaker 1: in forty six minutes after the hour. 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