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Speaker 1: I am Kate Hudson and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 1: We wanted to do something that highlighted our.

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Speaker 2: Relationship and what it's like to be siblings. We are

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Speaker 2: a sibling raivalr No, no, sibling hopeful.

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Speaker 3: You don't do that with your mouth revelry. That's good, Oliver.

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Speaker 3: I'm super excited because I say this every time.

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Speaker 1: I think.

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Speaker 3: That's what I say every time. I'm super excited. To

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Speaker 3: realize that, I hate.

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Speaker 2: When I you may genuinely are. I hate super excited.

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Speaker 1: I know what.

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Speaker 3: I'm always super excited about everything.

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Speaker 2: It's like my super excited.

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Speaker 4: My friend's always like you, he goes. You always say

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Speaker 4: like that's the best.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, no, every time I hear it.

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Speaker 2: No, I think it's best not to point out the

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Speaker 2: idiosyncrasies of people because it gets in your head.

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Speaker 3: But I'm super excited.

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Speaker 2: Well this one, actually you should be because they flew

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Speaker 2: in for us. I'm so I don't believe that, but like,

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Speaker 2: that's what I.

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Speaker 3: Was saying, which is such a weird thing. Why wouldn't

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Speaker 3: you believe that?

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Speaker 2: Because no one flies from Miami to LA to be

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Speaker 2: on sibling Revelry. They have to have other things they're doing.

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Speaker 4: Why do you have such a low self esteem?

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Speaker 5: No, I just am I'm just curious. Well, that's actually

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Speaker 5: a real question that there's nothing to do with the

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Speaker 5: topic of these sisters flying in. If we wanted to

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Speaker 5: get my low self esteem, that's another three to four

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Speaker 5: podcasts to get through.

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Speaker 2: We'll talk about that later.

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Speaker 4: I am excited to be to our guests today. We

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Speaker 4: are here together and it's so much fun.

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Speaker 3: I love being with the people that were interviewing and

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Speaker 3: not zooming the best. It's the best, the best.

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Speaker 4: You guys, thank you for coming on our podcast. And Sophia,

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Speaker 4: so Fia, my best friend's name is so.

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Speaker 3: Your best friend, Sophie, one of my best friends.

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Speaker 2: One of you said my best say.

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Speaker 4: One, she's one of my best one of my besties.

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Speaker 2: Well she's very little, she is.

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Speaker 3: She's so tiny, she's so cute.

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Speaker 2: Who would you say, is your best friend? Do you

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Speaker 2: have a best friend? You can say it, they won't,

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Speaker 2: No one else will be offended.

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Speaker 4: I think I have I think I have like a

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Speaker 4: core group of best friends. I think Jamie m Jamie.

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Speaker 2: It's like one of is like probably at the time,

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Speaker 4: Pyramid here, No I would say laur Lynn great name,

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Speaker 4: laur Lynn yea alliteration Laurland Stark.

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Speaker 2: I'm very lucky because well, there's old in a friend group,

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Speaker 2: you have, yea, a hierarchy. There's a hierarchy, there has

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Speaker 2: to be for sure, you know. But I go to

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Speaker 2: there's there's certain better than others.

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Speaker 3: There was this.

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Speaker 4: Great book that I read that talked about friendships and

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Speaker 4: I forget okay, but it might come to me friendship.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 4: It was about how like what is it that that

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Speaker 4: that you value in the friendship and what is it

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Speaker 4: that they like like offer you in terms of connectivity

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Speaker 4: and love and all those things.

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Speaker 3: And you you could do with your friendships and you

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Speaker 3: do with your.

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Speaker 4: Family, and then you really see like who do you

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Speaker 4: go to for like what like how does this person

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Speaker 4: serve your life? It's kind of narcissistic in the sense

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Speaker 4: that it's like how do they serve you?

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Speaker 1: But there human beings, that's how we work.

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Speaker 4: It does sort of it does like highlight the people

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Speaker 4: that are really there for you, you know, like which

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Speaker 4: sibling is the person you call when.

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Speaker 3: Something's going on? Which friend?

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Speaker 4: Yeah definitely okay, yeah, definitely awkward. But other than that

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Speaker 4: other than that, he does nothing for me.

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Speaker 2: It's just like today in the car we're talking about

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Speaker 2: like he's sort of interrupted, just let me vent.

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Speaker 4: He's like, yeah, no, no, first you were like first

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Speaker 4: you're like, I don't want this to get over. I

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Speaker 4: don't want this year. I don't want this to be a thing.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, shut up, I need to just let me

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Speaker 2: I don't want whatever this conversation was. I don't want

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Speaker 1: You're a fixer, you.

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Speaker 6: Go to the fixed.

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Speaker 2: I just don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. And you know,

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Speaker 2: and he's an avoidant.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, you look like a cinnamon roll and

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Speaker 1: you are a cinnamon roll. Yeah, well, I don't think you.

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Speaker 1: I don't actually think. I actually think you look like

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Speaker 1: he looks like he could kill you. But is a

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Speaker 1: cinnamon role. Yeah, I actually think it's more that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's what am I. I'm definitely cinnamon roll.

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Speaker 2: But I'm a weird, a little nutty.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you would you know she's.

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Speaker 2: Right and hurt people.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, fair enough.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's true.

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Speaker 2: I can go for the jugular. I get Oh, I

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Speaker 2: forgot about that white Oh yeahsh of, like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: I don't know what the I'm about to do?

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Speaker 1: Right, white hot heat and.

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Speaker 3: You get white hot heat, it's.

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Speaker 6: Like you like you need to take out the venom,

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Speaker 6: Like if you're a scorpion, just like you need to

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Speaker 3: Are you a scorpio?

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Speaker 6: Oh no, my dad is Oh.

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Speaker 3: Our mom's a scorpio.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's that tail tails. Do you guys find

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Speaker 1: Are you guys very kind of opposite in personalities? Because

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Speaker 1: we're I feel like we're very like different surface surface

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Speaker 1: level wise, we're very different.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 3: I think so, but we're not Like that's an interesting question.

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Speaker 2: I think I think we are, but there's a root

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Speaker 2: that is very very similar.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I have a good way to frame this question.

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Speaker 1: Somebody was like, there's always somebody in a relationship, for example,

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Speaker 1: that's a black cat and somebody that's a golden retriever.

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Speaker 1: So it's like who's the black cat and who's the

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Speaker 1: golden Retriever? Because I feel like you're the black cat

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Speaker 1: and I'm the Golden Retriever.

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Speaker 2: I mean, maybe I'm a golden Retriever.

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Speaker 4: I'm kind of like a Golden Retriever, like the Golden Retriever,

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Speaker 4: I kind of kind of deep down, I feel.

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Speaker 1: Like black Cat is somebody that's intrinsically more how would

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Speaker 1: you describe it, Like a little bit more like, yeah, like.

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Speaker 4: Being is the black Cat and riders the Golden Retriever.

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Speaker 2: I enjoy the underbelly of life. I think there's something

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Speaker 3: People like a black cat in the in the back alley, that's.

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Speaker 2: Right with with very green eyes. When when we meet people,

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Speaker 2: when we meet people, it's always about that sort of

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Speaker 2: not it's small talk, but no one really digs into

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Speaker 2: sort of who you really are. And to get to

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Speaker 2: know someone, you have to know the bolt of ship,

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Speaker 2: the underbelly, the pain, yeah, the addictions, the nasty ship,

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Speaker 2: because that's true is where real life sort of exists.

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Speaker 2: We put on a bit of a facade. So I'm

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Speaker 2: interested in that me too much too, And I'm interested

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Speaker 2: and indulging in that ship, which as I've gotten older,

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Speaker 4: He's been sober for months, thirty days.

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Speaker 1: Congrats.

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Speaker 2: Tomorrow, I'm going to Mexico and that's all going to

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Speaker 3: So but it's been great.

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Speaker 2: You take a I needed to take a break. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I was just drinking too much.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, no enough, fair enough. Yeah, I feel like

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Speaker 1: I realized, like its just like just makes me feel terrible.

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Speaker 2: That's it.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you drink and you stop drinking.

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Speaker 1: I still do like occasionally, but I honestly rarely rarely

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Speaker 1: I would like get sick. I don't know, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I would get like crazy stomograms. And also like I

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Speaker 1: feel like if I'm stressed, it really triggers my acid reflux.

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Speaker 1: So I would be at a party and I'd be

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Speaker 2: Like over So yeah, I just got like a prescription

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Speaker 2: for acid reflux because it was getting bad.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Is that stress related for you?

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it is. It's a disaster, beautiful disaster.

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Speaker 4: Wait, this brings me to one thing. This is a

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Speaker 4: fun thing. We did this on the set of Running Point,

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Speaker 4: which is we all like said, like, what animal are

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Speaker 4: really interesting to see what you think of yourself and

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, okay, let's all go, let's all go.

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Speaker 3: We could do this at the end. Okay, maybe we

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Speaker 3: do this at the end. I want to know each other.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's do let's do it. Let's do it.

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Speaker 2: Because I don't even know. Do you have any idea

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Speaker 1: I for you for myself.

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Speaker 2: Is it personality based?

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Speaker 1: I think it's like a It's like a like a feeling,

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Speaker 1: can see what animal you guys would be. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. Yeah, I know what animals she

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Speaker 4: If I think about it, anything that would exist like

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Speaker 2: In the in the felines or cat family.

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Speaker 7: Maybe Like wow, I can actually see that, you know,

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Speaker 6: I can see that because I want like an ugly animal.

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Speaker 6: I think ugly animals are really cute.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And also because like it looks cute, but it

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Speaker 1: could also know that's like a k cute, but like

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Speaker 1: they're like super dangerous.

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Speaker 3: Is my daughter Ronnie says that that's her animal.

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Speaker 1: Is I didn't know koalas were dangerous.

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Speaker 6: Have you seen their claws?

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Speaker 1: That's so true.

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Speaker 2: They can kick ass.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. My son, my older son to me, has always

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Speaker 3: been a giraffe, right, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Is he very tall?

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Speaker 3: He just he just looks like a giraffe. Like his

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Speaker 1: He's kind of tall.

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Speaker 3: He's kind of like goofy. And even though he thinks

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Speaker 4: He's sort of this like like athletic type of he is,

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Speaker 4: but he's like a little bit goofy. And and when

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Speaker 4: you see giraffes, they're just they're just a little silly.

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Speaker 2: Son is a sloth, my oldest he looks a sloth.

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Speaker 2: He has sloth stuff every year.

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Speaker 3: Even how he comes to say hello, it takes like

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Speaker 1: Like like hey, Wilder, He's like.

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Speaker 4: He you're like Jesus Christ Wilder.

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Speaker 1: It's so nice to be on that time. Oh my god,

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Speaker 4: I'm like, so you guys are ten years apart, ten

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Speaker 3: Mom?

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Speaker 1: To share the conception story?

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Speaker 6: Is it?

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Speaker 3: Is it only the two of you?

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Speaker 1: It's only the two of us?

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Speaker 3: Okay? So you are how old are you?

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Speaker 1: I am twenty eight until you're eighteen, just trying eighteen less.

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Speaker 3: Where are you in Miami as well?

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Speaker 4: Oh this is so the whole family is together. Okay,

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Speaker 3: Where were you born?

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Speaker 1: I was born in Cuba, okay? And she was born

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Speaker 4: How long were you there?

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Speaker 1: So I was there? Kind of back and forth and uh,

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Speaker 2: One is you know better than for ten years old.

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Speaker 3: You know, you were ten years older than Wyatt. Oh

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Speaker 4: And but I felt that way with Wyatt too, even

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was like, oh my god, my own.

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Speaker 1: now Honestly. It actually like I sometimes like I'll be

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Speaker 1: So I'll look at, like, you know, pictures of her

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Speaker 3: Oh god, wait, what's your signed again?

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Speaker 1: Oh you're an airy birthday? What was your birthday?

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Speaker 6: April second?

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Speaker 1: Oh birthday, guys laybirthday?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, aries loud, fun, adventurous.

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Speaker 6: Laugh in your sleep, you know.

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Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, it's cool, it's cool. I remember

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Speaker 2: when you're when you're fifteen, it's just five years, you know,

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Speaker 2: So it's a it's a fun dynamic. I remember waiting

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Speaker 3: Totally, you know what I mean, you're still waiting.

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Speaker 2: Now now, Well no, not now, it's bullshit because you're

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Speaker 1: It's like I'm with Robert Downey Junior.

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Speaker 2: That's right.

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Speaker 4: So so Cube, So Cube, is are your parents.

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Speaker 3: One's Cuban ones Mexican?

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Speaker 6: Yes?

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Speaker 3: So you would go back and forth? Okay? And and

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Speaker 3: who's who's from Cuba?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Mom and dad is Mexican or Mexico Guerbaca.

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Speaker 3: Where is that?

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Speaker 1: So that's like maybe like an hour away from from

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Speaker 3: Is it near the water or is it like central Oh?

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Speaker 1: Heyll now near any water? Yeah, it's kind of like

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Speaker 3: And and you and do you still go back?

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Speaker 6: Do you still go back?

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Speaker 6: A year, maybe this summer, probably because I think.

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Speaker 1: That's the way that our dad like recharges. It's like

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Speaker 1: I need to like see my family, I need to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and what.

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Speaker 3: About Cuba are you able to can you what is.

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Speaker 6: What is the situation?

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Speaker 3: What's the situation there?

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 1: Can we swear on this podcast?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It's fucked it is. Yeah, there's like I mean, we

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Speaker 3: Do you have memories of being there when you were little?

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Speaker 1: Well, we both we both went, like she went.

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Speaker 6: I remember a memory from when I was like literally

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Speaker 6: I remember it. And it's like super good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, totally. The last time we went, I was

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Speaker 6: I have no idea that one. I don't remember. I

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And what's the thing that like sticks with you

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Speaker 1: It's I mean you can you can go. I don't

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think that the people make you fall in love

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Speaker 1: And like what ex sensorial memories? I don't know if

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Speaker 3: They can get down.

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Speaker 6: They can get down.

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Speaker 1: They do have like family get together when they it's

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Speaker 3: All of the kids are in your room.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I hate it's literally like it's so funny.

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Speaker 1: It's like you guys are like a bunch of kids

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Speaker 2: But when they were younger, they got after.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah yeah yeah, but they still they still honestly,

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Speaker 1: like they hey, they can throw back some shots. Not

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Speaker 6: He'll have a target set on the night, like they

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Speaker 1: It's crazy, like he's evil.

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Speaker 3: I want to go to a party of your parents.

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Speaker 6: You totally doesn't want to drink too. It's hilarious.

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Speaker 4: But now everybody's in Miami. Everybody's in, and then dad

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, I mean we still make sense.

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Speaker 1: We have family and we have cousins in Mexico, and

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Speaker 4: What was your story coming to the the the US?

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Speaker 4: You know, do you do you have memory of that

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Speaker 4: at all all, like your big move.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, my mom, it wasn't framed to me as

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Speaker 1: You know, immigrant parents are incredible liars, so you know,

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Speaker 2: We're just gonna go here.

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Speaker 3: Oh no.

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Speaker 1: It was literally like we're gonna go to disney And

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Speaker 2: We're gonna go to Disney World.

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Speaker 1: I was like, four, this doesn't look like Disney World.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, So I remember, like there's different sensory things,

448
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:39,239
Speaker 1: like I remember in the beginning we had like you know, uh,

449
00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:41,960
Speaker 1: like two channels like on a TV, and I'm seeing

450
00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:44,359
Speaker 1: like PBS cartoons for the first time and I was like,

451
00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:49,440
Speaker 1: this is cool. I remember like there being a little

452
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 1: bit of like a culture clash with having like I

453
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:53,320
Speaker 1: had like a CD player and I had like that

454
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 1: would be it's like a Spanish singer, and I would

455
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 1: like bring that to school and like show it to

456
00:21:59,880 --> 00:22:03,040
Speaker 1: like my American best friend and be like, do you

457
00:22:03,080 --> 00:22:06,720
Speaker 1: know David bisbel like and she's like that, like there's

458
00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:10,639
Speaker 1: a bit of like culture. How oldish I was seven?

459
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 2: So did you did you say six or seven?

460
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:14,160
Speaker 1: I would say six or seven?

461
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,840
Speaker 2: English or no? So you had to learn.

462
00:22:17,000 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 1: No me, no speaking me, no speaking No.

463
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:24,119
Speaker 4: Really, so you came to America with your family thinking

464
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 4: you were going to Disneyland.

465
00:22:26,320 --> 00:22:29,120
Speaker 3: You didn't speak English, and then.

466
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:33,520
Speaker 4: As we do, I guess we immediately start the adapting

467
00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:40,080
Speaker 4: and that that must have been hard. Although although we're

468
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 4: did it feel exciting in any way or were you

469
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:43,320
Speaker 4: like what?

470
00:22:43,680 --> 00:22:45,719
Speaker 1: No, I don't think exciting, but I think I've always

471
00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 1: been like speaking of the opposite thing, Like I feel

472
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 1: like I'm more introverted, and I don't know, you're kind

473
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,080
Speaker 1: of a mix of both, but you're more extroverted than me.

474
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 6: It depends on my mood like everybody, but like usually

475
00:22:57,320 --> 00:23:01,239
Speaker 6: I'm very extroverted, but I like it, like talking and

476
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 6: like yapping and like.

477
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I but I think for me it was

478
00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:07,360
Speaker 1: like I think I was so introverted that and who

479
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,760
Speaker 1: knows if it was nature or nurture. Maybe that's why

480
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:12,640
Speaker 1: I became so introverted that I was kind of always

481
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 1: more in my own world. I listened to a lot

482
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: of music. I you know, like had like little journal.

483
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:20,640
Speaker 1: I would like write songs. I you know, I spent

484
00:23:20,760 --> 00:23:23,080
Speaker 1: like I remember a summer with my mom when she

485
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:27,119
Speaker 1: worked at like this architect's house or office, like for

486
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,120
Speaker 1: that whole summer, I basically just like stayed under her

487
00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: desk and she made like a cardboard house for me

488
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:35,600
Speaker 1: under her desk. And that's what I was doing. Like,

489
00:23:35,960 --> 00:23:38,800
Speaker 1: I wasn't really super social, So I don't think in

490
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: that sense, I missed my I remember saying like I

491
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,919
Speaker 1: miss Gabby and I missed my my cousin who I

492
00:23:43,960 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 1: was really close to. But I always was like I

493
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: had like one best friend and that's it, right, one

494
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,639
Speaker 1: best friend and that's it. So I don't know. I

495
00:23:51,640 --> 00:23:53,119
Speaker 1: don't think I this.

496
00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:54,680
Speaker 2: Is fun having the parents here too.

497
00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: Mama, just tell correct us, fact check us.

498
00:23:58,880 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 3: Do you think it was hard for me?

499
00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:04,080
Speaker 1: Because I okay, she says it was really hard.

500
00:24:04,320 --> 00:24:04,800
Speaker 2: Hard for her.

501
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 1: Why do you think it was hard for me? We

502
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: left everything behind. It's interesting. I don't know if you

503
00:24:15,080 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: know this, but I remember when I was gone for

504
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 1: a year, I had like a little Disney calendar where

505
00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 1: I would cross the exes until he came back basically,

506
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,239
Speaker 1: and I was so excited. And then Papa actually came

507
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 1: to the United States and I didn't talk. I didn't

508
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:30,159
Speaker 1: talk for like three days because I was just like,

509
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 1: who is he?

510
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 2: So just to let you know, Katie and I are

511
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 2: still crossing off those exes.

512
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:44,560
Speaker 4: One day, Papa.

513
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:45,679
Speaker 6: Maybe he's.

514
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:55,440
Speaker 1: Not to over up. I'm gonna say not to over

515
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:57,680
Speaker 1: talk or whatever, but I was gonna say, like, I

516
00:24:57,760 --> 00:25:01,320
Speaker 1: think we both had experiences with that too, because like

517
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 1: when we had to go to X Factor, I think

518
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: you had similar experiences too, of like I feel like

519
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 1: our family's been scattered in different Yeah, you.

520
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,879
Speaker 3: Know, wait, how wait how long was it?

521
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,080
Speaker 1: So he was gone for like a year for a year,

522
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:19,040
Speaker 1: for a year, right, but I wasn't there.

523
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 2: Wow, that's.

524
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 4: No face time, but your papa, Yeah, your mom just

525
00:25:28,760 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 4: goes That's why we got busy after.

526
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,880
Speaker 3: Yes, I mean that is wild.

527
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 4: Oh that must have been so hard and probably not

528
00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:45,600
Speaker 4: something that like you really could remember or uncover unless

529
00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 4: you're like have to be in like intense therapy and.

530
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,800
Speaker 3: Like actually go back into that time and really go

531
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 3: through certain things which.

532
00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:55,159
Speaker 2: Maybe you don't even need to necessarily, only because when

533
00:25:55,240 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 2: Papa came back he was exact exactly. Was just sort

534
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 2: of a moment of like a.

535
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 3: Real, real immigration story.

536
00:26:06,600 --> 00:26:09,120
Speaker 2: What about growing up though? Was it were they strict?

537
00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 2: Were they they allow you to run free?

538
00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:12,399
Speaker 6: You know?

539
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:14,639
Speaker 2: And how was it maybe different?

540
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:19,040
Speaker 6: Oh my god, well we're very That's that's where you like,

541
00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:22,399
Speaker 6: we're very different people, Like she wouldn't have wanted to

542
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 6: go out? Oh really love going? Yeah, it's very different.

543
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 2: But when you wore would they let you? You know,

544
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 2: so you guys were older. Was it was there a

545
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 2: freedom or was there sort of a restriction of like no,

546
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 2: we live in a more of a strict house. It

547
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 2: sounds like your parents are like, yeah they're party.

548
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean they're like, go.

549
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 6: My parents do say a lot. It's like I was

550
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 6: their first teenager because they never had to deal with

551
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:49,119
Speaker 6: like the like can I go to this party? Can

552
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 6: I sleep over my friend's house to nights in a row?

553
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,399
Speaker 6: Can we go in like you know, like they never

554
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 6: had that with her as much. I was super good.

555
00:26:56,800 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 1: I had like two best friends and that's it. And

556
00:26:59,880 --> 00:27:01,880
Speaker 1: like our outings would be like going to church, because

557
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,560
Speaker 1: like they wanted to go to church, and I was like,

558
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: please let me go to church please.

559
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:07,360
Speaker 6: With Sophie.

560
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: With Sophie, my dad is like fully like he is

561
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,480
Speaker 1: that man's court is all level is high with you girl,

562
00:27:14,160 --> 00:27:18,440
Speaker 1: like he is like tracks are on three six till

563
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:18,920
Speaker 1: two am.

564
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 2: He's like yeah where.

565
00:27:22,680 --> 00:27:25,119
Speaker 6: Yeah, but like still the same thing, same shit, But

566
00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 6: it's fine.

567
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 3: He just wants to make sure you're safe. Y.

568
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, you attribute that to you know what I mean,

569
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,320
Speaker 2: you think it's just it's nature nurture. But do you

570
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 2: think you just came out being that kind of a person.

571
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:39,320
Speaker 6: You know? Or no?

572
00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:41,640
Speaker 1: It's such a good question. Well, one, I started working

573
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: when I was fifteen. You did, so I also wasn't.

574
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:44,880
Speaker 1: I didn't.

575
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:45,600
Speaker 2: I don't.

576
00:27:45,680 --> 00:27:48,960
Speaker 1: I didn't have that the teenager experience, but I honestly

577
00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:52,080
Speaker 1: don't think I would have anyway. I just don't feel

578
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:56,400
Speaker 1: like that was really in in me that way.

579
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 2: So I don't know. I think it good to grow

580
00:27:58,920 --> 00:27:59,560
Speaker 2: up pretty quickly.

581
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:01,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, totally.

582
00:28:01,560 --> 00:28:04,440
Speaker 4: So what was your school experience like like, and it's

583
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,440
Speaker 4: it's funny because you guys obviously weren't in school.

584
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:07,760
Speaker 3: At the same time.

585
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 8: So did you guys go to the same school or

586
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,159
Speaker 8: did you end up in you did some elementary school,

587
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 8: and what was that like for you not speaking English

588
00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 8: as your first language and trying.

589
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 3: To yeah, you know, integrate. Well.

590
00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 1: I remember one it's funny because I feel like it's

591
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: it's pretty symbolically represented. And my first name is Carla

592
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:37,480
Speaker 1: with the K, and so because I didn't speak English,

593
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: I always went by Camila, and basically, like my friends

594
00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:46,800
Speaker 1: from school up till now, they still call me Carla

595
00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: because I was so shy and I didn't speak English,

596
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: so I never was like, hey, I would prefer to

597
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:53,520
Speaker 1: be called by Camila. So all the way from elementary

598
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,360
Speaker 1: school to high school, my friends called me Carla and

599
00:28:56,480 --> 00:28:58,120
Speaker 1: my family called me Camila. So it was kind of

600
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: like a almost like metaphorical split identity thing because and

601
00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: I didn't even like my first name. I just was

602
00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: like it just kind of stuck, and I didn't really

603
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 1: have the language or the tools to be like, actually

604
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 1: i'd rather be called this. And I remember I don't

605
00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: remember this, but my mom told me this that I guess.

606
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: They asked like do you want to be in ESL,

607
00:29:17,600 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: which is for people that don't speak English or no.

608
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: They asked do you speak English or something? And I

609
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,920
Speaker 1: was just like like I just I don't know. I

610
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 1: think I was just like almost too shy to speak up.

611
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 1: And I'm sure that the language thing was a part

612
00:29:31,280 --> 00:29:34,480
Speaker 1: of that. So the nature nurture thing is really interesting

613
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: because I think those circumstances probably are the reason why

614
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 1: I am the way am. Probably the reason why I

615
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 1: was like, you know, so obsessed with maybe like pop

616
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: culture and musicians and music and you know, like writing

617
00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,320
Speaker 1: in my journal. Probably a lot of it was because

618
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 1: I felt so kind of awkward and out of place,

619
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: and you know, and I'm made fascinating.

620
00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:12,720
Speaker 3: And then what about your your elementary school experience like

621
00:30:12,880 --> 00:30:15,000
Speaker 3: completely different yeah normally.

622
00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, musical experience, like it was fun?

623
00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 3: And then what about music for you?

624
00:30:19,040 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 6: Are you?

625
00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 3: Do you connect to music?

626
00:30:21,280 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 6: I feel like we have a very artistic family. My

627
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:25,880
Speaker 6: mom's an architect, but she also likes drawing, and I

628
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:27,560
Speaker 6: feel like I got that from her. I'm really good

629
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:31,520
Speaker 6: at sketching. I enjoy singing, and I like singing. I

630
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:34,880
Speaker 6: had a phase with dancing too. I also wanted to

631
00:30:35,160 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 6: learn the electric guitar. I started playing the electric guitar.

632
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,240
Speaker 6: But what really stuck with me is that I really

633
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 6: like acting more than like, oh really, yeah, I'd love

634
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 6: to be an actress. But I do still really like

635
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 6: like singing and all of that, but like, I feel

636
00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:50,800
Speaker 6: like acting in movies is more like like I don't know,

637
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 6: it connects more because like you can like music helps people,

638
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 6: but acting also helps because like you like help people

639
00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:58,280
Speaker 6: through characters.

640
00:30:58,720 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

641
00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 6: Beautiful Boy with Timothy shallamye, that movie could help so

642
00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 6: much people going through addiction whatever, And there's like hundreds

643
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 6: of movies that can help.

644
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:07,560
Speaker 1: It is the best taste in movies.

645
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 6: I love watching movies time. I literally like I have

646
00:31:11,240 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 6: an addiction, Like it's crazy, it's so bad. In the

647
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:17,000
Speaker 6: past two months, I've finished five shows. Yeah, like the

648
00:31:17,320 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 6: album It's a problem.

649
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 3: And she watch your running points? Not allowed? You're not

650
00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,160
Speaker 3: allowed to see a running point because I know obvious.

651
00:31:25,880 --> 00:31:26,560
Speaker 2: Adolescents.

652
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 3: I loved what did What was your favorite? What is

653
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:33,400
Speaker 3: your favorite show right now? You've watched in the last In.

654
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 6: The last two months, Severance literally was insane, And I

655
00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 6: like love shows that, like I can make theories up

656
00:31:41,960 --> 00:31:43,760
Speaker 6: in my head and I'm usually right because I watched

657
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 6: so much shows it like I know every little hint

658
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:52,280
Speaker 6: did you watch? I haven't, It's on my Oh, I'm

659
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 6: gonna watch. Yeah.

660
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 4: I was just told that I should. Someone said we

661
00:31:57,200 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 4: were doing this sort of exercise of like production companies,

662
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 4: and like what would go in my bubble of my

663
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 4: production company if you were to like you know, and

664
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:08,680
Speaker 4: and and they said Paradise And I was like, I

665
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 4: gotta see it.

666
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 6: Like I don't know, like rom comms don't do it

667
00:32:12,040 --> 00:32:13,800
Speaker 6: enough for me, unless like they break my heart like

668
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:15,760
Speaker 6: one day on Netflix, like killed me.

669
00:32:16,240 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 3: I don't know that shows.

670
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:21,640
Speaker 1: Really the movies that you love are like your sinophilia

671
00:32:21,960 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: is so like you've watched so many classics. I didn't

672
00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: watch classes until I was older, Like, I feel like

673
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:27,640
Speaker 1: your taste is.

674
00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:31,200
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's so far. Your age and music movie

675
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 3: is the best, aren't they there?

676
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:33,760
Speaker 6: So good?

677
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 3: Have you seen Goodwill Hunting You what?

678
00:32:36,120 --> 00:32:36,600
Speaker 6: Yes? I have?

679
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, my son just saw that too.

680
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 6: That was random.

681
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 3: Well because bing is on this kick my middle side list.

682
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 3: He's got a list.

683
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 4: Well, he's watching everything you like, he's just like he's

684
00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 4: just like he just watched Wolf of Wall Street. He's

685
00:32:52,920 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 4: watching he's just watching everything. He's thirteen, be four.

686
00:32:58,160 --> 00:33:00,400
Speaker 6: Oh my god, that's such a good time to watch.

687
00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 6: And he said to me the other days, like it

688
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 6: teaches you, so.

689
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: You should be advertising surprise because you get on me

690
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:13,520
Speaker 2: about what I show my kids when Bing's watching Wolf

691
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:14,280
Speaker 2: of Wall Yeah, but.

692
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:17,800
Speaker 3: He's also things also like but it's scar I guess.

693
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 6: Yeah.

694
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 2: So if it's Scorsese or a very prominent.

695
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 3: Filmmaker, I love being watching whatever he wants.

696
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:23,920
Speaker 6: Now you do.

697
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, And he said to me the other day, bingoes,

698
00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:30,280
Speaker 4: I want to be a writer and I want to

699
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 4: write and direct my movies.

700
00:33:31,960 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 3: It was just like what and he's like yeah, because

701
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,400
Speaker 3: writing is like my writing is like my thing. And

702
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, that's so.

703
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:43,320
Speaker 4: It was like I've never heard him say anything like that.

704
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,400
Speaker 4: And it's so fun, as your parents know, when you

705
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 4: see your kids and you all of a sudden see them.

706
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: Like click click something I'm passionate about something like they're like,

707
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,160
Speaker 1: that's just like I want to.

708
00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 2: I want to that happen. When did that happen with you?

709
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? When was that moment where

710
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 2: it was like, oh, ship, I think this is what

711
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 2: I was supposed to do.

712
00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 6: You would like sing in like we had like not

713
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 6: a basement but a little thing, and she'd be like

714
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,800
Speaker 6: you'd be doing like karaoke by yourself.

715
00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 1: I think I was always singing and then like, I

716
00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 1: can't remember a time where I wasn't singing and I

717
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,640
Speaker 1: wasn't like obsessed with music. But I think it was

718
00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,200
Speaker 1: when I auditioned for X Factor. I was like obsessed

719
00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:21,640
Speaker 1: with like one direction, and they did an ad for

720
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:23,960
Speaker 1: like auditioning for X Factor, and I was like, you know,

721
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: they were like regular regular kids. I'm a regular degular kid.

722
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna try it. And then my life kind

723
00:34:29,040 --> 00:34:31,040
Speaker 1: of changed. But I can't remember a time where I

724
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:34,640
Speaker 1: wasn't like obsessed with music. I always loved it. And

725
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 1: I think it's interesting with Sophie because I feel like

726
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:39,440
Speaker 1: I was gonna say when you were talking about like

727
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 1: the dancing and the drawing, like something that I find

728
00:34:42,800 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: so fascinating about you is like you're so talented at

729
00:34:46,040 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: so many things, like when you had like your she

730
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: made this like band with her friends called a what

731
00:34:50,680 --> 00:34:54,520
Speaker 1: was it my father's wallet. It's such a sick band name, right,

732
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 1: they wrote, I feel.

733
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 2: Like Palisades the freestyle should be on Yeah, for sure, it.

734
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,280
Speaker 6: Would fit perfect. It's so true.

735
00:35:05,520 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 1: It's so true the title Palisades, my father's follow it.

736
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:10,840
Speaker 1: But I like you sent me like two songs, and

737
00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,360
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, what the hell, Like these are

738
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 1: incredibly written songs. Then the drawings like one time like

739
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,120
Speaker 1: she like drew my merch which was like, oh fuck,

740
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: it was so cool, Like the designs were so crazy.

741
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 1: Like it's like she's so talented at like so many

742
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 1: different different things. But I do think like you, but

743
00:35:31,320 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: I do think, like it's true what you're saying, Like

744
00:35:33,600 --> 00:35:35,840
Speaker 1: the moment where you're like, I really want to do this,

745
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 1: it's like so exciting, especially like you know, seeing you,

746
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,960
Speaker 1: like you know, be a little a little toddler baby,

747
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: and I're like, I really want to do acting. It's

748
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,839
Speaker 1: like different than just like doing different things.

749
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 2: You're like, Oh, it's just so interesting to watch you

750
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 2: guys right now, being ten years apart, honestly, because you

751
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 2: know you have you've had so much life experience with

752
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 2: what you do, and I want to actually ask about that.

753
00:35:57,040 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 2: As far as being fifteen going into this business, your

754
00:36:00,320 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 2: parents allowing you to do that because they knew that's

755
00:36:02,719 --> 00:36:05,080
Speaker 2: what you loved and you were extremely talented at at

756
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:09,400
Speaker 2: the same time trying to protect you from this world

757
00:36:09,719 --> 00:36:12,600
Speaker 2: as well, and how they were able to navigate.

758
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,320
Speaker 3: It was probably one of the opposite. They were probably

759
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 3: like out and like partying out at the bar when

760
00:36:17,760 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 3: she's like singing, and then she was probably like can

761
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,919
Speaker 3: someone please get my parents? We have to go home.

762
00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 2: I want to hit on that. But also just going

763
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 2: back to that watching your little sister, you know, growing

764
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 2: up and she's eighteen and sort of growing into her

765
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 2: talents and discovering all of these amazing things that she

766
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:39,640
Speaker 2: can do, and then getting excited about how she's going

767
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:42,160
Speaker 2: to I love it, implement them and which one she's

768
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:46,160
Speaker 2: going to choose, maybe all of them. It's exciting. It's exciting.

769
00:36:46,560 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 1: It's the best because I'm like, oh, I can take

770
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 1: all of my I don't know whether if she wants

771
00:36:51,239 --> 00:36:53,960
Speaker 1: it or not, but just be like all of my mistakes,

772
00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,240
Speaker 1: all of my whatever, with the things that I've learned.

773
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:00,400
Speaker 1: You're just kind of like go go oh. It's like

774
00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:04,239
Speaker 1: fun to be a cheerleader, especially because it honestly gets

775
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: so this sounds like so annoying, but it's like it's

776
00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: it's more fun when it's it's it's very fun when

777
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:12,560
Speaker 1: it's not about you. Also in a career where it's

778
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: like and why do we do single it's like so

779
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:20,240
Speaker 1: fun to be like great, yeah, now now let's focus

780
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:20,520
Speaker 1: on you.

781
00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:25,239
Speaker 2: How we take it well or do you ever push back?

782
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 2: Is there any sort of butting of heads between you

783
00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 2: guys being ten years.

784
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 1: Apart, Yeah, there's there's there's butting of heads. I mean, like,

785
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:36,040
Speaker 1: I feel like we talked about this recently. I remember

786
00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:38,520
Speaker 1: I was like, you know, like I'm going to tell

787
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,800
Speaker 1: you things that maybe you don't want to hear. But

788
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: that's me being like a good friend to you and

789
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: a good sister too.

790
00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 6: And also I feel like we have very different like

791
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 6: ways of looking at things, like again with like you're

792
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,560
Speaker 6: very like let's think about this calm and rashly, and

793
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:52,200
Speaker 6: I'm like, yeah.

794
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: We have to do it right, like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

795
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:56,480
Speaker 1: that's because you're Yeah.

796
00:37:56,560 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 6: We also we have different like views on certain things

797
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,959
Speaker 6: like what like I don't know how to explain.

798
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,520
Speaker 1: It, like she thinks like I'm on TikTok like a

799
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 1: millennial and I'm like a millennial.

800
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:10,960
Speaker 6: She can't be doing that.

801
00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 1: You have to do it this way because it's too millennial.

802
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, I don't know.

803
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, Like if I ever get like overwhelmed or like

804
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,560
Speaker 6: if I need, like or if I'm nervous or something like,

805
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 6: she gives me what I like to call like the

806
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:29,239
Speaker 6: Oprah pep talk, where she's just like to me, it's

807
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:31,279
Speaker 6: very very sweet, but it's like a whole it's a

808
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 6: whole lot of nothing to me, Like I would rather

809
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,960
Speaker 6: just like look in the mirror and just like be

810
00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 6: like Sophia, calm funk down, and then I just walk down.

811
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:41,680
Speaker 6: Then I'm fine. It's like that stresses me before that

812
00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 6: would like literally like like I know that for her,

813
00:38:44,320 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 6: that's how it works for like I need to give

814
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,320
Speaker 6: you a pep talk, everything's fine whatever. For me, that

815
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:50,239
Speaker 6: like like it like makes me worse.

816
00:38:50,280 --> 00:38:58,600
Speaker 2: I want to give me I think, how do you feel.

817
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 6: Okay?

818
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: Well, one, I definitely I feel like I've been doing

819
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: therapy for the past few years, so I think I

820
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,319
Speaker 1: try to therapize her in a way that I think

821
00:39:08,440 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: is sneaky, but it's actually not I know it, you

822
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Like I'm like I'll be like

823
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 1: I'll be like Kate Moss, well, you know you really

824
00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: have to like persistence is really the key, like you

825
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 1: really just you know, you can't give up, Like even

826
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,919
Speaker 1: if you're tired, like you just it's really it's not talent,

827
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: it's really determination. And she'll be like, shut the fuck up,

828
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:26,640
Speaker 1: Like I know you're trying to like I know you're

829
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 1: trying to like sneaky in part advice. I don't know.

830
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:33,600
Speaker 1: I do know that I do that. And then I'm like,

831
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 1: it's kind of like what you were saying, like you're

832
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: I think it was before we started when you're like,

833
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 1: let me just vent and you're like trying to maybe

834
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 1: fix it.

835
00:39:41,520 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 6: Feel like you're doing solutions and I just yeh, to

836
00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 6: like let it out and then I'll deal with it

837
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 6: on my own because I can. Like it's like when

838
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 6: I would go to like therapy or something, I already

839
00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 6: know what he's going to say, and I already know

840
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 6: that it's a problem. I just like like, so there's

841
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 6: no point, you know what I mean, Like, I like,

842
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 6: I know that I'm the problem. I just like that's

843
00:39:58,120 --> 00:39:58,400
Speaker 6: not the.

844
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:03,319
Speaker 4: Point because for you in relationships, Oh yeah, it's going

845
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:09,040
Speaker 4: to be so challenging because uh men all want.

846
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:09,640
Speaker 3: To fix everything.

847
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:11,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, they just true.

848
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:14,799
Speaker 4: It's like every time and every relationship I have ever

849
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:18,080
Speaker 4: been in when I am like this is da da

850
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 4: and this is yeah, and this is what's going on,

851
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:21,360
Speaker 4: and then they always.

852
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:23,319
Speaker 3: Want to try to fix it. I'm like, can you, yeah,

853
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 3: can you? This is so it's so annoying. Yeah, I

854
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,080
Speaker 3: don't need I'm going to fix it.

855
00:40:29,520 --> 00:40:30,319
Speaker 1: I'm going to fix it.

856
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:32,880
Speaker 6: Singing into the I agree.

857
00:40:32,960 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 2: But at the same time, you know, Aaron my wife,

858
00:40:35,560 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 2: sometimes I'm like, just listen because she's like, I'm like,

859
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,520
Speaker 2: I just feel like this, but I feel like that. Well,

860
00:40:41,800 --> 00:40:43,960
Speaker 2: I mean maybe it's just because of this this, And

861
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 2: then I'm like, I don't I don't need that right now,

862
00:40:46,160 --> 00:40:47,839
Speaker 2: you know, we can just listen.

863
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 4: You're saying, it's the opposite, like you need to be listening.

864
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:53,080
Speaker 4: Oh okay, yeah, yeah, you don't want this solution.

865
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 2: I think men don't like when their partner is feeling

866
00:40:58,440 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 2: bad or sad, and I think there's a maybe a

867
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:06,360
Speaker 2: primal trigger of some kind where it's sort of frustrating you.

868
00:41:06,560 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, God, just feel just feel okay, I

869
00:41:13,120 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 2: feel okay.

870
00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:14,960
Speaker 3: It's true because.

871
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 2: When you're feeling like ship, I don't get it together.

872
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,760
Speaker 2: There's this thing and there seems to be a pattern

873
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:25,239
Speaker 2: with with a lot of men that I know who

874
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,560
Speaker 2: feel the same way. And I think it's a trigger

875
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 2: because when you don't feel good, I don't feel good.

876
00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:32,479
Speaker 1: It's so true.

877
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 3: You get a hold of yourself.

878
00:41:35,400 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 2: I just don't like it.

879
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 3: Let me feel good without you having did not feel

880
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,480
Speaker 3: good to give me. Let me feel bad?

881
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:49,440
Speaker 6: Where is everything about that you? Like? You know, I'm just.

882
00:41:49,480 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 2: Feeling this and this and that, and you don't want

883
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,759
Speaker 2: me to fix anything. So it's like, Okay, yeah, cool, piece,

884
00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:54,879
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go play some golf.

885
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: No you have to be like.

886
00:41:58,200 --> 00:42:00,120
Speaker 6: I must feel bad with everything that she's said.

887
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 1: Yeah you know, or you just say like yeah, you know,

888
00:42:06,040 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 1: but what if you want to be like, hey, do

889
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 1: you think you could maybe be looking at this the

890
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: wrong way? Is that such an annoying thing to say?

891
00:42:12,239 --> 00:42:14,600
Speaker 1: Because the thing is when somebody tells me that, I'm

892
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:18,319
Speaker 1: like I'm mad, but I'm but I really I'm like, yeah,

893
00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 1: I really am listening. It's what you said. It's very

894
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 1: hubble for me. I'm like, I'm like an advice junkie, right,

895
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:28,919
Speaker 1: you love advice, not not necessarily like advice. And also

896
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: you know, like I listened to like podcasts that are

897
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 1: like self healthy, Like I'm like that person, Like I'm

898
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:36,279
Speaker 1: like I'm like Oprah, please like tell me at the

899
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 1: tips and I will do that every day.

900
00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:40,759
Speaker 4: I'm listening to this thing called Wait. I have this

901
00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:43,919
Speaker 4: podcast app called Waking Up. I really like it because

902
00:42:43,960 --> 00:42:46,120
Speaker 4: love that love that I know, yeah yeah, And I

903
00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 4: listen to these just lectures too, like and everyone's like,

904
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:50,520
Speaker 4: what are.

905
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: You waking up? Sam, Harry? That's my Friday night.

906
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 2: I've been listening. I've been doing.

907
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:58,400
Speaker 3: You didn't put me onto Waking Up, Sam Goods.

908
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:03,320
Speaker 2: Since the beginning that you didn't have anything to do.

909
00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 2: I know you're listening, Sam. We know the truth about

910
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:07,360
Speaker 2: all this.

911
00:43:08,239 --> 00:43:08,600
Speaker 3: Anyway.

912
00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 2: I love I love Waking Up. I love it, and

913
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 2: I just like meditation is good even if you've meditated

914
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 2: for a long time and understand it. I did his

915
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 2: little intro to meditation and it was fucking great.

916
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 3: You know it's did I tell you about waking Up? Yeah?

917
00:43:26,200 --> 00:43:29,400
Speaker 4: No, And I and the lectures to me are something

918
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 4: where I could just like put that on, go for

919
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:32,760
Speaker 4: a walk.

920
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:34,960
Speaker 3: I need to hear it all the time, all the time.

921
00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 4: And then right now I'm reading a book called Letting Go,

922
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 4: which you would probably love if you haven't read it.

923
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:55,600
Speaker 2: No, this is one page just as let go, I

924
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 2: want to go back to this man trying to fix things,

925
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,439
Speaker 2: because I would want to know how not to try

926
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 2: to fix things, how to walk the line of listening

927
00:44:06,120 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 2: and being attentive and at the same time not being

928
00:44:10,320 --> 00:44:12,800
Speaker 2: overbearing with trying to fix it. Meaning you come to

929
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,400
Speaker 2: we're married, you come to me with a problem. I

930
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:19,759
Speaker 2: got this, this and this, and I'm feeling this. What

931
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 2: am I supposed to say?

932
00:44:20,640 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 1: I think I feel like it's nice to say, like

933
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:25,600
Speaker 1: I totally get that. That must be really hard.

934
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, like you kind of have to complain, like if

935
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 6: you're one of her friends, like, oh this guy I work, Yeah,

936
00:44:30,719 --> 00:44:32,400
Speaker 6: he suck like you know what I mean, just like

937
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 6: let her ring. That's good.

938
00:44:33,880 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 3: That's just like a yeah, yeah, just like just straight

939
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 3: up just.

940
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,320
Speaker 6: Like agree and be like yeah, they're terrible, like you know,

941
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:43,359
Speaker 6: well you deserve the best, like they're terrible, like they

942
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 6: suck up, bloated, toh, yeah.

943
00:44:56,280 --> 00:45:08,360
Speaker 2: I don't. My ayes are really big as well. This

944
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:09,560
Speaker 2: is great because you're learning.

945
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 3: I want that too. I think we're similar. It's also

946
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:13,360
Speaker 3: fun I agree with me.

947
00:45:14,480 --> 00:45:19,960
Speaker 4: Talking and like bitch, yeah exactly. My mom and I

948
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 4: I decided one day because it would be like Mom

949
00:45:24,960 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 4: would always say preface and was like, I don't mean

950
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 4: to complain, but I'm like, you know what, we need

951
00:45:29,120 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 4: to complain.

952
00:45:29,960 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it feels so we're going to go.

953
00:45:31,640 --> 00:45:35,359
Speaker 3: To lunch and we're only gonna complain the whole time.

954
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:38,160
Speaker 1: I feels bad. Fun, we should do that.

955
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:42,799
Speaker 3: And then we and then we like what got into

956
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 3: other things.

957
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, no, no, we need to we're complaining

958
00:45:45,239 --> 00:45:48,280
Speaker 4: and she's like okay, and we and it's so funny

959
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 4: and we laughed.

960
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 3: We laughed.

961
00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 1: That's so fun.

962
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:54,479
Speaker 3: So sometimes you need a complaining lunch.

963
00:45:54,640 --> 00:45:55,640
Speaker 2: That's a fun thing.

964
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, fun, it's good.

965
00:45:57,760 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 2: Well I'm different than like you know, you hear this

966
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 2: the cliches of you know, husbands having to listen to

967
00:46:03,239 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 2: their wives issues with their friends and you're coming. I

968
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 2: love it. Whenever wife comes into the bench, she goes,

969
00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 2: oh my god, so you'll never know what happened. Like

970
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 2: he puts on.

971
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 4: He puts on his silk robe and his slippers and

972
00:46:22,280 --> 00:46:25,680
Speaker 4: he's like telling you, I love the gos stuff.

973
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it, said, oh.

974
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:31,880
Speaker 2: I can't believe she's like that, Like I love that's

975
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:32,439
Speaker 2: really bad.

976
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:35,880
Speaker 4: But I like this for siblings because it's one thing

977
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 4: for relationships, and the truth is like relationships, the thing

978
00:46:39,800 --> 00:46:42,919
Speaker 4: that bothers me about relationships is like I don't really

979
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 4: want like I don't always want him to be the

980
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 4: person that is the person that I'm doing everything with.

981
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 1: Like yeah, like that's not good.

982
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like like my it's like it's like you know

983
00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:56,600
Speaker 3: what Esther Perel always says.

984
00:46:56,600 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 4: What it's like, you have this expectation that your partner

985
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:01,880
Speaker 4: is supposed to be everything to you on the planet,

986
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 4: Like they need to be the person that your best friend.

987
00:47:04,200 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 4: They need the person like does everything for you properly.

988
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 4: They need to like cook for you. They need to like,

989
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:11,200
Speaker 4: you know, make sure that they pambre you with something,

990
00:47:11,480 --> 00:47:14,480
Speaker 4: you know, like they have to do everything versus like

991
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,280
Speaker 4: maybe the sibling dynamic needs to be more sibling.

992
00:47:19,760 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 1: They need to do anything for you.

993
00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 3: You need to come over, but but you should listen

994
00:47:26,680 --> 00:47:27,200
Speaker 3: to me more.

995
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:28,719
Speaker 2: What do you mean I do no?

996
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:32,200
Speaker 3: No, like really like I need you. I need you

997
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 3: more than what you get as like he he you

998
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 3: need to do no. No, I need to call you

999
00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 3: and you need to just not say anything. I feel

1000
00:47:44,280 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 3: like we do this right.

1001
00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 4: You need to not say anything and just let me

1002
00:47:48,560 --> 00:47:51,960
Speaker 4: talk about whatever I want to talk about, and then

1003
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 4: and then let me say, Okay, what do you think.

1004
00:47:59,440 --> 00:47:59,879
Speaker 6: You're done?

1005
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 3: Siblings should be the sounding board. I agree with that, right,

1006
00:48:03,440 --> 00:48:06,160
Speaker 3: not your partner. The partner shouldn't be a sounding board.

1007
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:07,240
Speaker 3: Your sibling should be yourself.

1008
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:09,000
Speaker 2: And then and then after you ran and said do

1009
00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:11,680
Speaker 2: you want my advice or no? And then you say

1010
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:13,759
Speaker 2: yes or no, and then we move on like that.

1011
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 1: It's kind of nice and they will always say no.

1012
00:48:17,360 --> 00:48:21,360
Speaker 3: I think it's kind of I think it's kind of.

1013
00:48:21,440 --> 00:48:23,800
Speaker 6: Like a well, honestly, if you ask it like that,

1014
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,919
Speaker 6: I probably would say yes. It depends. Yeah, just can't

1015
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:28,360
Speaker 6: be shoved down your throat?

1016
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: Do you feel like I do that all the time?

1017
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:35,400
Speaker 6: What I feel like? I'm you? Do you? You try

1018
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 6: and you say it out loud, but like I know

1019
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,640
Speaker 6: that it's coming from a place of like you're trying

1020
00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 6: to help.

1021
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. Do you feel like I'm going to ask like

1022
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: a controversial question because because Mama's here? Do you feel

1023
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 1: like I'm better at it than Mama?

1024
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 3: Though?

1025
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,839
Speaker 6: I'm so sorry, but like, no, I'm.

1026
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 1: Saying, when you're overwhelmed, When you're overwhelmed, unfortunately you and

1027
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:59,719
Speaker 1: Mama question.

1028
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:01,840
Speaker 6: Know, it's not bad that you're asking that question. But

1029
00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:03,719
Speaker 6: the thing is is that you are more of like

1030
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 6: a ranting thing and Mama is like a comfort thing.

1031
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:09,200
Speaker 1: Can I can I tell something that happened though thirty

1032
00:49:09,239 --> 00:49:13,080
Speaker 1: minutes ago? I literally was like Mama started talking about

1033
00:49:13,120 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 1: something and she was like remember she was like, oh

1034
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 1: bah blah, like don't like when you And then and

1035
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,480
Speaker 1: then I see my sister getting like like overwhelmed, and

1036
00:49:20,520 --> 00:49:22,719
Speaker 1: I literally when you were in the car, I was like, no.

1037
00:49:23,160 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 3: Stress, I know you.

1038
00:49:25,480 --> 00:49:27,759
Speaker 6: I have ears. I hear everything. I think.

1039
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:31,360
Speaker 1: I'm always like telling her like you're stressing wrap. Stop

1040
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 1: stop telling her that.

1041
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 6: Stop telling her you know, but you both stress me out.

1042
00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 6: It's like how you were saying that you go to

1043
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:41,719
Speaker 6: different people for like different needs to be. My mom

1044
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 6: calms me down more, but my sister rants more.

1045
00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:47,480
Speaker 2: Who would you go to with like boy issues for

1046
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 2: like unbiased?

1047
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:50,320
Speaker 6: I go with my mom because she's gonna tell me

1048
00:49:50,360 --> 00:49:52,360
Speaker 6: if I messed up or not biased. So I go

1049
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 6: with my sister.

1050
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 2: Okay, And so you like more advice with boys like

1051
00:49:58,040 --> 00:49:59,520
Speaker 2: you mess up more than you don't.

1052
00:50:00,120 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 6: No, it's more of like like I don't know how

1053
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,360
Speaker 6: to explain it, like my mom's gonna like call me

1054
00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 6: out more like even if I didn't do something wrong,

1055
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 6: you be like, but you can maturely handle it instead

1056
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 6: of like me being able to like crash out. And

1057
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,720
Speaker 6: I'd like to be a teenage girl with boys.

1058
00:50:12,800 --> 00:50:15,479
Speaker 1: To be honest, I'm kind of like, Okay, I see,

1059
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:18,840
Speaker 1: I see that this is happening, but I'm just gonna

1060
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:20,680
Speaker 1: like you make your own mistakes because I feel like

1061
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,680
Speaker 1: with boys, you can't be advised out of boys. I

1062
00:50:23,840 --> 00:50:26,360
Speaker 1: just feel like you can't, especially at that age.

1063
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 2: Great point, at that age.

1064
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 1: It's like you're not gonna be like, hey, like do

1065
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: you feel like this is a little toxic?

1066
00:50:31,600 --> 00:50:33,359
Speaker 6: Do you feel like my mom wants me to act

1067
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 6: like if I'm like like twenty seven, like like mature

1068
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:40,040
Speaker 6: and whatever, like let me crash out something.

1069
00:50:40,600 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: You're not gonna look at it in a healthy way

1070
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 1: at eighteen, Like when I was, it's like, I'm like, girl,

1071
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 1: just do it.

1072
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:47,800
Speaker 2: Let me ask a question though, being this tenure, do

1073
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:50,160
Speaker 2: you ever give her advice about boys?

1074
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1075
00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, because it's interesting from a ten year

1076
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:55,640
Speaker 2: younger perspective, you know, there has to be some sort

1077
00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:58,399
Speaker 2: of respect there. You listen to your sister when she goes, look,

1078
00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,280
Speaker 2: here's what I see. I know I'm ten years younger,

1079
00:51:01,320 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 2: but I have.

1080
00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:05,560
Speaker 6: A you might not get out with your first boyfriend.

1081
00:51:05,600 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 6: I didn't like him and I told him a jerk,

1082
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 6: and then my mom got mad at me, and then

1083
00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:12,320
Speaker 6: I had to say draft instead. And I remember that

1084
00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,200
Speaker 6: very vividly, and I didn't like him, and I was right.

1085
00:51:14,800 --> 00:51:18,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think you have very intuitive senses about people.

1086
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:20,839
Speaker 1: And I think that just like everybody, you can see

1087
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 1: other people's things. You can see, hey, you can see

1088
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:29,919
Speaker 1: other people's like when I'm like really emotional and whatever,

1089
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,920
Speaker 1: you can see it from a very objective way, and

1090
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,360
Speaker 1: we can never see it when it's your own impulses.

1091
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?

1092
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:40,320
Speaker 4: I know it, And sometimes it's fun just to like

1093
00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,880
Speaker 4: not deal with it, like like you're saying, like you

1094
00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:49,279
Speaker 4: kind of have to come to the realization yourself, really,

1095
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:50,840
Speaker 4: really do you have to get back.

1096
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: With that person? Ten times?

1097
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 2: You can't advice. I figured the word advice someone out

1098
00:51:56,640 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 2: of a boy boy. It's like when you're set, I

1099
00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:02,880
Speaker 2: hear you, but oh my.

1100
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 1: God, literally then you see them in person and.

1101
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:09,400
Speaker 3: You're like, yeah, you're you're right, yeah, and you know

1102
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,839
Speaker 3: and you know too. It's like I think, I think

1103
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 3: sometimes it's hard.

1104
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 4: I think for me with girls, it's more like and

1105
00:52:20,120 --> 00:52:23,400
Speaker 4: my girlfriends, it's like when you see someone who literally

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00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 4: never takes not only anyone's advice, but like can't is

1107
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:30,680
Speaker 4: really like can't see it for themselves. Then there comes

1108
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 4: a time where you're exhausted by your friend. You're like,

1109
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 4: You've told me the same story like five thousand times.

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00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,000
Speaker 6: I know who I'm talking I love her, and she's

1111
00:52:41,040 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 6: my karma because I was hurt.

1112
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:46,600
Speaker 4: So but you literally like you've you've you're literally beating

1113
00:52:46,640 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 4: your head against a wall. He's yeah, I mean I

1114
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 4: have friends that I'm like, he's cheated on you, like

1115
00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:57,279
Speaker 4: a thousand times, and you're still asking me.

1116
00:52:57,400 --> 00:53:00,279
Speaker 3: What I think. Like he's a dick. He needs to go.

1117
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 3: You need to move on.

1118
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 4: You're better than this, and it doesn't matter what I say, so,

1119
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 4: but like I can't hear it anymore. Yeah, And I've

1120
00:53:07,760 --> 00:53:09,279
Speaker 4: had friends like that where I've had to be like,

1121
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 4: I can't hear this anymore because now now I'm just

1122
00:53:11,840 --> 00:53:14,399
Speaker 4: enabling you to like have someone treat you like shit.

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00:53:15,480 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 2: I'm tired of it I'm tired of over and over again,

1124
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:21,040
Speaker 2: you know, and you just repeating it and I.

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00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 6: Have I don't know, I feel like it's frustrating. It's relatable.

1126
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:29,200
Speaker 6: It's like relatable in a sense like I can't like

1127
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 6: I came in through it. Yeah, that's the thing with me.

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00:53:33,320 --> 00:53:35,480
Speaker 6: It's like my friends, Like I will let her complain.

1129
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 6: There's a specific friend that I'm thinking, you know what

1130
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 6: I'm thinking about. I let her complain and like I'll

1131
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:42,840
Speaker 6: be like yeah, and I understand, Like I have to

1132
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 6: like Oprah like therapy here in a little bit, like

1133
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:47,799
Speaker 6: I understand how you're feeling, but it's wrong. And then

1134
00:53:47,840 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 6: I have to like remind her of like yeah, you

1135
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 6: missed the good stuff, but like remember like all of

1136
00:53:51,960 --> 00:53:54,279
Speaker 6: the badget Like you just have to like I have

1137
00:53:54,560 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 6: to listen to it just because like that was me,

1138
00:53:57,239 --> 00:53:59,279
Speaker 6: and like I can't like because you made you made

1139
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,719
Speaker 6: her sit through all your stuff, not even her, just

1140
00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:03,759
Speaker 6: like I've made people and like I feel like that's

1141
00:54:03,800 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 6: my car, Like I have to, like I have to

1142
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:07,320
Speaker 6: listen to and let you rent and also because like

1143
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 6: if I don't let her rant them, like who is

1144
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 6: she going to ran to? Like you know, what I mean.

1145
00:54:11,400 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 3: I don't know. Yeah, I ran, I ran to chat

1146
00:54:14,280 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 3: GPT all the time, me too.

1147
00:54:16,640 --> 00:54:19,399
Speaker 1: Okay, by the way, talk about somebody who is good

1148
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 1: and awesome therapy like hearing you and then reassure you

1149
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:25,040
Speaker 1: and then be like do you want some help with that?

1150
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 3: And you're like.

1151
00:54:30,760 --> 00:54:32,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah all the time.

1152
00:54:32,800 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, it's crazy.

1153
00:54:34,040 --> 00:54:36,080
Speaker 3: You could be like you could be like, hey.

1154
00:54:36,360 --> 00:54:40,800
Speaker 4: My boyfriend, yeah, just you know, got he down with

1155
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:44,400
Speaker 4: me because I said this and then this was his response,

1156
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:47,399
Speaker 4: and then I felt like this, and then I didn't

1157
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 4: know what to do.

1158
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:51,120
Speaker 3: And I'm trying to figure out how to like explain

1159
00:54:51,200 --> 00:54:52,879
Speaker 3: to him that I feel this way and be like, wow,

1160
00:54:52,960 --> 00:54:54,839
Speaker 3: that sounds like you're having a really tough time.

1161
00:54:55,000 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: Oh my god, ready, Hi, can you act as my therapist.

1162
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Speaker 9: I'm having an issue with my brother Oliver. He has

1163
00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:08,359
Speaker 9: incredibly low self esteem and it just feels like he's

1164
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 9: incredibly jealous of all of the things that I do,

1165
00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:14,279
Speaker 9: and I don't know how to actually express that it

1166
00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 9: hurts my feelings.

1167
00:55:15,640 --> 00:55:16,759
Speaker 2: Allegedly help me.

1168
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 1: That's a whoop your ass.

1169
00:55:19,520 --> 00:55:21,320
Speaker 2: This is just play. This is playtime.

1170
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 3: That sounds painful.

1171
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:24,600
Speaker 2: She's like, is it Oliver Hudson.

1172
00:55:24,960 --> 00:55:31,719
Speaker 3: Hey, thanks for sharing. Hey, thanks for sharing. I'm really

1173
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:32,680
Speaker 3: glad you reached out.

1174
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 4: Oh that sounds painful when someone you care about it,

1175
00:55:36,080 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 4: especially as sibling treats you in a way that feels

1176
00:55:38,120 --> 00:55:39,480
Speaker 4: rooted and jealousy.

1177
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Speaker 1: And insecurity reassurance.

1178
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 3: It can leave you feeling unseen or even punished for

1179
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:47,200
Speaker 3: your success. And it's doubly hard when you're trying to

1180
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,520
Speaker 3: be sensitive to their feelings but feel like yours don't

1181
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:55,480
Speaker 3: get the same care. Can I ask, what are some

1182
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 3: of the ways his jealousy shows up?

1183
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:01,160
Speaker 4: Like does he criticize you, with draw, makes arcostic comments,

1184
00:56:01,520 --> 00:56:03,359
Speaker 4: try to one up you or something else?

1185
00:56:03,680 --> 00:56:08,160
Speaker 3: And what happens inside you when he does? And then

1186
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:12,280
Speaker 3: it keeps going. But it's amazing and it's awful, it's.

1187
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:16,640
Speaker 2: Really I mean, it's pretty standard fair. I mean, it's

1188
00:56:16,680 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 2: like psychology one one.

1189
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: Right, you know, and all of it was just hypothetical.

1190
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 3: So yes, okay, wait, we got to stop.

1191
00:56:24,040 --> 00:56:26,760
Speaker 4: We're cutting this in half, Oliver, because it's so great

1192
00:56:26,920 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 4: and we're going to keep going. So we're gonna do

1193
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:32,680
Speaker 4: two part episode. We love you listeners, and we'll be

1194
00:56:32,719 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 4: back here part Stay tuned.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have to stay tuned because it gets crazy

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00:56:35,960 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 2: in the second half.