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Speaker 1: I have an update I wanted to share with you.

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Speaker 1: Since the early days of starting this podcast, I've been

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Speaker 1: getting d M s asking about whether I would do

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Speaker 1: a live podcast taping in front of an audience. Well,

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Speaker 1: I'm so excited to announce that it's happening June two

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Speaker 1: on looped live dot com. This podcast has been such

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Speaker 1: an amazing experience for me to have conversations I'd never

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Speaker 1: thought i'd have, and it means so much to me

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Speaker 1: to be able to bring you into the conversation. This

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Speaker 1: is my first ever live podcast. I'm so excited because

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Speaker 1: as I love speaking in public, I love getting questions

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Speaker 1: from an audience. I just love connecting. We're post pandemic.

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Speaker 1: It's so great to get the energy of a live audience,

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Speaker 1: and it just it will become so real for all

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Speaker 1: of us, and I'm so grateful. I've loved this so much. Uh,

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Speaker 1: it will feel alive. It won't I'm not nervous, and

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Speaker 1: it won't feel different. It will just feel alive and

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Speaker 1: what it's intended to be. It's also the celebration of

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Speaker 1: the launch of my upcoming book. Business Is Personal. My

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Speaker 1: book Business is Personal as a passion project because people

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Speaker 1: always say it's it's not personal, it's just business. Business

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Speaker 1: is so personal, and my personal life and my business

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Speaker 1: are so intertwined. And this book gives so many stories,

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Speaker 1: so many anecdotes, so much humor about the crazy road

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Speaker 1: I took to get to success, the circuitous, non traditional path,

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Speaker 1: meaning anybody can be successful. It's something that anybody can

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Speaker 1: relate to and understand, whether you're a housewife or a billionaire,

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Speaker 1: on the road. I did so well with my book

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Speaker 1: A Place of Yes, which was for people at a crossroads,

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Speaker 1: and this book is literally for people who just want

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Speaker 1: to create their own success, but they might not want

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Speaker 1: to do it in a cubicle or in a corporate, structured,

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Speaker 1: traditional way. It's going to be a blast. Plus I

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Speaker 1: have some more announcement coming, so stay tuned and get

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Speaker 1: your tickets now on looped live dot com. From my

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Speaker 1: June second live podcast event, so Wild was served custody

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Speaker 1: papers from Jason Sudeikis at a conference. She was speaking

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Speaker 1: at a conference about a film that her boyfriend is

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Speaker 1: starring in, and she was served custody papers. Something does

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Speaker 1: not make sense. So on one hand, when you get

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Speaker 1: served the process servers are, they're like they're like shylocks.

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Speaker 1: They're like bill collectors, their bottom feeders. They're like private

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Speaker 1: detectives that just follow allow around. So they want to

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Speaker 1: go to where they know somebody definitely will be to

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Speaker 1: serve papers. Uh, you know you've been served. It's just

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Speaker 1: that this is not a drastic situation. We know where

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Speaker 1: Olivia is. I mean, she's not hard to find. It's

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Speaker 1: usually I mean for a civilian it's different. You know,

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Speaker 1: you're trying to like get them outside their kids school

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Speaker 1: to pick up, which would make someone upset you've been

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Speaker 1: or outside your house. It feels violating. You've been served.

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Speaker 1: It just coming. I don't know if they're allowed to

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Speaker 1: but I know that people have been served at their doors.

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Speaker 1: It's funny because I've dealt with so many legal aspects

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Speaker 1: and often I I've always been the one that's sort

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Speaker 1: of following the motion of the action in my personal life.

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Speaker 1: But there's never been a situation where it's so dire

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Speaker 1: different aspects of legal turmoil and legal nuance, the person

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Speaker 1: like it is a conversation. I know that I've discussed

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Speaker 1: this before, like whether you've talked to I just know

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Speaker 1: that I know that I, like I have a subliminal

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Speaker 1: or subconscious memory of something like this, and I do

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Speaker 1: believe that you talk to the professional. Someone would not

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Speaker 1: doesn't make a lot of sense. It doesn't track. But

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Speaker 1: what's crazy is divorce really breeds anchor. And whether this

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Speaker 1: the garbage pit that divorces, and I guess the real

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Speaker 1: realize that it's really all about the Benjamin's and people

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Speaker 1: are necessary evil, and so I would say you have

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Speaker 1: to try to take the path of least resistance. The

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Speaker 1: You can't take the bait, you can't get activated. You

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Speaker 1: have to like slow and low barbecue. It's just the

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Speaker 1: had conversations with everyone, and people get hot and everything

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Speaker 1: it's definitely not black and white that Olivia Wilde would

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Speaker 1: I I mean, there's no way because you wouldn't pay

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Speaker 1: egregious offense. And I mean, and the whole thing is offensive,

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Speaker 1: I think it'd be hard to serve him. But I

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Speaker 1: just I've never heard of anything like it. It's the

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Speaker 1: friends who. First of all, I know assistants who say

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Speaker 1: But that's that's all related to alcohol. And we've all

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Speaker 1: And there was a large table, a large group of

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Speaker 1: I remember saying like, how is this restaurant serving them?

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter what idea they had. So then my daughter

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Speaker 1: if it's something where someone's harming themselves or others, I said,

425
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:50,640
Speaker 1: it's I mean, and it is technically, So they said, okay,

426
00:21:50,680 --> 00:21:53,119
Speaker 1: we're two people in a bar. So I told the

427
00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:55,160
Speaker 1: story and I said, I have a picture. I'm gonna

428
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 1: send you a picture. Can you tell me if these

429
00:21:56,760 --> 00:21:58,600
Speaker 1: are kids from you or I'm a detective by the way,

430
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:03,200
Speaker 1: I've uncovered Russian crime rings like I'm just born a detective. Um,

431
00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:05,959
Speaker 1: I said, can you tell me if these are students

432
00:22:06,040 --> 00:22:09,200
Speaker 1: from your school? And they said, these are students from

433
00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,920
Speaker 1: my school. And then I told the story and they said,

434
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:15,040
Speaker 1: first of all, you're a saint because most people wouldn't

435
00:22:15,040 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 1: do this and wouldn't want to get involved. I'm not

436
00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 1: saying telling you guys a story, so I'm a saint.

437
00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:21,280
Speaker 1: I was telling you. This person said you're a saint

438
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,159
Speaker 1: because this is so important and so and and and

439
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:25,520
Speaker 1: what is it the fucking eight This guy was like,

440
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,480
Speaker 1: what is it the fucking eighties that like people would

441
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:28,800
Speaker 1: serve kids. And I'm like, I'm going to handle the

442
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:30,800
Speaker 1: restaurant because I'm gonna talk to the restaurant separately to

443
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:35,080
Speaker 1: not looking to shut or shutter a small business. So

444
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 1: I'll talk to the restaurant because it's also was kids

445
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:40,640
Speaker 1: running that restaurant too. They were years old. It wasn't

446
00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:44,080
Speaker 1: a fifty five year old person. But they said, we

447
00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:46,880
Speaker 1: will not expel these kids, but they will be very

448
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:52,480
Speaker 1: serious ramifications like I'm down for the parents knowing possibly

449
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 1: something legal. I'm down for zero acting. You're when you're graduating,

450
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 1: all you care about is graduation. And there were girls

451
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:02,280
Speaker 1: in my high school that broke the rules and left

452
00:23:02,440 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 1: campus and drove to lunch, which is not drinking and driving,

453
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,919
Speaker 1: and they got into a bad car accident. They got

454
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,760
Speaker 1: to an accident, they were fine, and they weren't allowed

455
00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:12,639
Speaker 1: to go to prom or go to any activities. So

456
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: I'll follow up with this guy, like what was the punishment?

457
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 1: So it needs to be not only do you have

458
00:23:17,400 --> 00:23:20,800
Speaker 1: to endure some sort of drinking and driving classes, but

459
00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 1: something needs That was my solution to not having on

460
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 1: my head that I got kids expelled, but not having

461
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,280
Speaker 1: on my head that I got some expected mother killed

462
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:33,399
Speaker 1: from a drunk driver who just got his license yesterday.

463
00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:36,439
Speaker 1: So what would you do? So Brent hasn't gotten home

464
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:38,560
Speaker 1: from school yet and she doesn't know the follow up.

465
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,600
Speaker 1: But on the way home from school, I mean on

466
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,080
Speaker 1: the way home from the restaurant, we really talked about

467
00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: it a lot, and it kind of was edgy, Like

468
00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:46,720
Speaker 1: there was a moment where I saw the same car

469
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,359
Speaker 1: that they had in front of us, or I thought

470
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 1: it was, and she was like, wait, is it that

471
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 1: you know, because for her it was a caper. Is

472
00:23:51,080 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 1: it is it that car? My brain be quiet, I'm

473
00:23:53,040 --> 00:23:55,080
Speaker 1: just it's not that car. Like I was edgy, so

474
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,000
Speaker 1: it also screwed up, you know, I was edgy and

475
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 1: brims like, Mama, you snaped. I'm like, I'm so sorry.

476
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,240
Speaker 1: I'm just I get an anxiety and I have anxiety

477
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 1: about you and being a tween. And we we have

478
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,639
Speaker 1: this conversation and we talked about the expulsion things. So

479
00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,120
Speaker 1: when she gets but my friend said to me, she

480
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:13,119
Speaker 1: should know that you called the school because she should

481
00:24:13,160 --> 00:24:15,960
Speaker 1: know the consequences of those actions for when she's in

482
00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 1: high school. So actually, yeah, you don't just get away

483
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,639
Speaker 1: with it by me like calling a cop but thinking

484
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:23,000
Speaker 1: maybe it worked out. I will call the police department again.

485
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:25,639
Speaker 1: But did you follow up? Because I contacted the school,

486
00:24:25,640 --> 00:24:27,679
Speaker 1: Like I'm militant when I need to be. You know,

487
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:29,520
Speaker 1: I'm a dog on a bone with relief efforts and

488
00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,760
Speaker 1: things that are important. And I'll tell her today I

489
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: did call the school. They're not being expelled, but I

490
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:36,560
Speaker 1: called the school because them because And my friend Terry

491
00:24:36,600 --> 00:24:38,880
Speaker 1: told me that there was a Judith Light Lawn Order

492
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,159
Speaker 1: episode where a judge let them off and then the

493
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 1: person ended up killing someone drunk driving. So I'm not

494
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: looking for that on my head. You know, Fluke things happened, Godfred,

495
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 1: Something comes out in the news and I see that

496
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:50,640
Speaker 1: it was those kids, and I'm living with that like

497
00:24:51,080 --> 00:24:53,120
Speaker 1: no way, man, I just I did what I had

498
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 1: to do and oh so so So the takeaway is

499
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,639
Speaker 1: and still in your kids, listen, we have to be

500
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,440
Speaker 1: really stick. Yes, it's great. We'd like them to be Mormons.

501
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,960
Speaker 1: I'd like my daughter to not like alcohol, to never

502
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:08,359
Speaker 1: dig a sip in her life. That would be wonderful. Okay,

503
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,199
Speaker 1: I love her to never want to try pot in

504
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 1: her life. Okay, let's live in reality. So at the baseline,

505
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: you put the fear of death and your kids the

506
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: fear of death. You tell them this story. You tell

507
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,240
Speaker 1: them eyes and ears are everywhere, social media is everywhere,

508
00:25:25,320 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: videos everywhere, everybody's everywhere. And you tell them you have

509
00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: a low jack on their devices. You know exactly where

510
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,320
Speaker 1: they are. You tell them you know everything they do.

511
00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: You tell them you have a chip on their neck

512
00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 1: that connects to the car. Whatever you need to do.

513
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:42,120
Speaker 1: But you tell them, under no circumstances ever, if they

514
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: do ever drink, if they ever get into a car,

515
00:25:45,119 --> 00:26:01,960
Speaker 1: it will be the last thing they do. Okay. Breaking

516
00:26:01,960 --> 00:26:09,400
Speaker 1: breaking news about Kanye West dating that woman. She looks

517
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: exactly like Kim Kardashian, but it's like a manufacturer. I mean,

518
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:17,560
Speaker 1: you know, Kim Kardashian is happening beautiful and the originator,

519
00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,719
Speaker 1: and but she, you know, has the hair extensions and

520
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:25,639
Speaker 1: uh is very put together, let's just say, very self created.

521
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:29,479
Speaker 1: And so this girl, Cheney I think her name is,

522
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,080
Speaker 1: has self created a clone, like you know when people

523
00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 1: want to clone dogs, Like, she's gone through the same

524
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,680
Speaker 1: sort of process. I don't know what it is. It's

525
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,520
Speaker 1: it's it's not it's like, it's the it's the skin,

526
00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 1: it's the hair, it's the extensions, it's the glasses, the lips,

527
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:50,720
Speaker 1: the whole thing. Like, what the hell? First of all,

528
00:26:50,760 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: that you could create sort of yourself to look like

529
00:26:53,880 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 1: someone else, Like what if I decided tomorrow to just

530
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:01,640
Speaker 1: get my butt done and get extend mentions and like

531
00:27:01,840 --> 00:27:05,719
Speaker 1: war big shield glasses and gloves and cat suits and

532
00:27:05,880 --> 00:27:08,400
Speaker 1: long you know hair that wasn't mine, that was black, Like,

533
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:10,440
Speaker 1: it would be that sort of clone vibe. And I

534
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: see that happening with a lot of girls. A lot

535
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 1: of girls are mimicking that clone. Look, Um, that's crazy.

536
00:27:16,880 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 1: I don't like copycats. I bet Kim Kardashian doesn't like copycats.

537
00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: She couldn't be more copied. There's no person probably in

538
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: the world. There's probably no more woman in the world

539
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 1: that there's probably now. I would say Kim Kardashian, Marilyn Monroe,

540
00:27:31,760 --> 00:27:37,919
Speaker 1: and Elizabeth Taylor, not even Elizabeth Tay. I would say

541
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: Kim Kardashian and Marilyn Monroe are the two most copied

542
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 1: women in the world. So it's such. She's such an

543
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 1: influencer and it's on such a global scale. I guess

544
00:27:48,520 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: she probably doesn't get annoyed because that's how she's made money.

545
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 1: Everyone wanting to have what she has, buy what she buys,

546
00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 1: do what she does, Where would she wear? So she

547
00:27:57,840 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: just shares what it is because she's onto the next thing,

548
00:28:00,520 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 1: which I get because I'm like that in business and

549
00:28:02,640 --> 00:28:06,439
Speaker 1: ideas and I don't copy anyone. So she's onto the

550
00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,720
Speaker 1: next thing, and they're all Cheetah brands, and she probably

551
00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:12,359
Speaker 1: doesn't love a copycat when it's too close to home,

552
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:14,959
Speaker 1: meaning if one of her girlfriends starts to dress exactly

553
00:28:15,000 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 1: like her or her ex husband's girlfriend. So Kanye's girlfriend

554
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:23,240
Speaker 1: is a Kim clone, creepy creepy that he wants to

555
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,439
Speaker 1: be with someone dressing like his ex. I know that

556
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 1: people that I have been in relationships with do not

557
00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 1: want anything like what they had before. You know, they're

558
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,400
Speaker 1: not they definitely some people do that. That's a that's

559
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: gotta be a thing where people Cereal go out with

560
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: the same type person and the same style person and

561
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,959
Speaker 1: the same vibe person. Um, that's that's interesting to me.

562
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:51,400
Speaker 1: But this girl has the gloves, the hair, the shield glasses,

563
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 1: the makeup, the tone of the makeup, uh, you know,

564
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: the sinched waste, the butt and she's with Kanye. So

565
00:28:57,960 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 1: he's gotta be endorsing this or he manufact auctured it,

566
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 1: or he has the keys to the clone kingdom, or

567
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:07,000
Speaker 1: he made Kim because he definitely changed Kim style. Kim

568
00:29:07,080 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 1: style certainly evolved and was created as it is today

569
00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:15,040
Speaker 1: by Kanye. So maybe this is just he's just got

570
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 1: a factory over there of like hot brunettes since to

571
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: waste larger dairiers that are like just sex cells long

572
00:29:23,080 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 1: extensions Birken bags. They say he bought our two Burken

573
00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:31,640
Speaker 1: that's false. It's an Ostrich Berkin with rose gold hardware.

574
00:29:31,960 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 1: It's thirty centimeters. He bought it for Julia Fox. I

575
00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:37,240
Speaker 1: know this because I own one. It was a gift

576
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 1: from someone to me. Um, it is not a two

577
00:29:40,400 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 1: seventy dollar bag. It is not encrusted in diamonds, and

578
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,400
Speaker 1: it is not a him Alayan Berken. And I know

579
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: it's useless information, but it's inaccurate information. That's false news.

580
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,600
Speaker 1: But he also bought Think about buying two people you're with,

581
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 1: the same gift, like you buy your ex girlfriend and

582
00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:58,480
Speaker 1: your current girlfriend the same gift. Just very strange, very

583
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: bizarre and CULTI m CULTI Megan Fox, drinking machine, gun,

584
00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: Kelly's blood, and vice versa. Listen, you want to pee

585
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:11,280
Speaker 1: on somebody, you wanna do, you want to wear matching clothing,

586
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 1: you want to do whatever you want to do. That's

587
00:30:13,600 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: your business. Um, I think I think it's your business.

588
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 1: Like is people get mad at people for saying they

589
00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:25,080
Speaker 1: want to eat other people. Army Army Hammer got canceled

590
00:30:25,320 --> 00:30:26,959
Speaker 1: because I think he told somebody he wanted to eat

591
00:30:27,160 --> 00:30:29,239
Speaker 1: eat them or roast them or barbecue them, and that

592
00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:32,240
Speaker 1: was crazy and creepy. Something about their bones you want.

593
00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:34,200
Speaker 1: I don't know, Maybe maybe I'm making it up that

594
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: he wanted to make a stock with her bones or

595
00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 1: something something crazy, But that's actually a funny idea, Um,

596
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 1: is eating is wanted to eat? Is talking about the

597
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 1: potential to eat somebody less crazy than actually drinking the

598
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: blood of another human being? Like, can we just actually

599
00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: think about that for a second. Remember years ago, I

600
00:30:56,640 --> 00:30:59,760
Speaker 1: think something happened like that with Angelina Jolie and her brother.

601
00:30:59,840 --> 00:31:02,360
Speaker 1: She made out with him and maybe mixing stories, maybe

602
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 1: she and Billy Bob Thornton, uh drank each other's blood.

603
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:09,360
Speaker 1: It sounds familiar. She did make out with her brother

604
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 1: or kiss her brother, which people freaked out about. Um,

605
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: So I'm just saying, if we're going to be upset

606
00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: about somebody talking about eating somebody else, wouldn't we be

607
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,360
Speaker 1: upset about somebody drinking someone else's blood? I mean, I

608
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 1: I it's so it's so far from reality that I

609
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:32,560
Speaker 1: can't even really comprehend it. I don't understand it. Um,

610
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: you know, it's a novel idea. I don't know, But

611
00:31:34,680 --> 00:31:38,040
Speaker 1: she clarified recently in an interview because this was a

612
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,840
Speaker 1: while ago and I got married, they drank each other's blood,

613
00:31:39,840 --> 00:31:41,520
Speaker 1: And I don't know why we haven't really hung onto

614
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:45,920
Speaker 1: that because that seems pretty relevant and groundbreaking. But now

615
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 1: she's saying yes, she did drink his blood for ritual purposes.

616
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:57,320
Speaker 1: Is that like some sort of oh you know, I smoked,

617
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,680
Speaker 1: but I didn't inhale? Oh oh, just for rich world purposes?

618
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,600
Speaker 1: What does that mean? Ritual purposes? That could be like

619
00:32:03,600 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: a full cult ritual or some crazy thing like just

620
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: for ritual That sounds scarier than whatever the hell it

621
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: was before. Like you mean it was for ritual purposes? Okay,

622
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 1: it wasn't because you actually wanted to be a vampire,

623
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: Like it wasn't because you're in the Werewolf of London.

624
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: I'm just confused. So thank god that Megan Fox only

625
00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 1: drank machine Gun Kelly's blood for ritual purposes, because now

626
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: my fucking head has gone there and I don't know

627
00:32:35,040 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 1: what that means. But to reach his own in rows

628
00:32:40,400 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: of love in Hollywood, yea