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Speaker 2: about this, and I've watched so many of you interviews

484
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Speaker 2: and read so much too, But what would you say

485
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Speaker 2: for you as being one of your proudest moments or

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Speaker 2: greatest achievements or something that you really feel like and internally,

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Speaker 2: I mean, like for the basis of our conversation, like

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Speaker 2: something that really brings you joy internally when you think

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Speaker 2: about it or when you had it.

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Speaker 1: Like I said, I look back and the things that

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Speaker 1: I've accomplished, just even my job, Like I think I

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Speaker 1: really at one point when I was younger, decided I

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Speaker 1: want to be a model and this is what I

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Speaker 1: want to do, and the fact that I executed because

495
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Speaker 1: we talked about that determination like I really was. I

496
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Speaker 1: was fourteen years old when I kind of made that

497
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Speaker 1: decision and was like, this is what I want to do.

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Speaker 1: And I went to my mom and I was like,

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Speaker 1: please help me do this. And I didn't stop until

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Speaker 1: I was twenty four that I was like, Okay, I

501
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Speaker 1: think I need to take it back a notch, which

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Speaker 1: we can also get into because that's a very kind

503
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Speaker 1: of dramatic story, but like I just knew, and I

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Speaker 1: think I'm proud of myself for or being that kid

505
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Speaker 1: and being determined to do that and then executing and

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Speaker 1: doing it to the level that I had done it

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Speaker 1: and that I guess I still do. But I also

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Speaker 1: am proud of, I think more so the self work

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Speaker 1: that I've done within that process, because there was a

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Speaker 1: long period of time, i'd say the core five years

511
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Speaker 1: of it, that I was extremely overworked, not my happiest,

512
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Speaker 1: not because I wasn't doing what I loved, but just

513
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Speaker 1: because I was overwhelmed and I felt like I was

514
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Speaker 1: saying yes to everything because I felt really, really grateful

515
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Speaker 1: and really honored to be in the position that I

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Speaker 1: was in. So I was always saying yes, and it

517
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Speaker 1: just took a lot out of me to the point

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Speaker 1: where I just wasn't happy anymore. And so I had

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Speaker 1: to set those boundaries for myself. When I was about

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Speaker 1: twenty three, twenty four, I'd say, like, what a year

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Speaker 1: before the pandemic, So yeah, I was probably twenty three.

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Speaker 1: I really set boundaries for myself, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: I want to continue to do this because this is

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Speaker 1: what I love, but I need to start saying no

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Speaker 1: when I can and prioritizing me and prioritizing, like, you know,

526
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Speaker 1: my happiness and my well being. And it has done

527
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Speaker 1: wonders for me, like I feel like I can show

528
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Speaker 1: up better for myself and I can show up a

529
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Speaker 1: better person for the people that get to be around

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Speaker 1: me that day, and you know that I work with

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Speaker 1: on that day. So yeah, yeah, so that's what I'm

532
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Speaker 1: proud of you. That's amazing.

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Speaker 2: I was I won't say I was hoping for that,

534
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Speaker 2: because I'm always open to wherever anyone's life experience goes.

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Speaker 2: But there's a part of me that loves hearing that, Like,

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Speaker 2: I really appreciate hearing that, because when you've achieved so

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Speaker 2: many incredible things in your career, which you have to

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Speaker 2: then say, well, this is the part, like knowing how

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Speaker 2: to navigate it or making the right choices at the

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Speaker 2: right time.

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Speaker 1: Healthy balance, the healthy balance, it's so important. It's important

542
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Speaker 1: for all of us, like we have to this is

543
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Speaker 1: what we're prioritizing, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so how did you find the courage to do that?

545
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Speaker 2: The twenty three Marc as you're saying, you're in a

546
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Speaker 2: competitive industry. As you said, it was overworking, it's fast paced.

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Speaker 2: I'm guessing there's comparison in that industry. There's competition in

548
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Speaker 2: that industry. It's not an easy space to be. You're

549
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Speaker 2: you know, you're in the top zero point zero one

550
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Speaker 2: percent in your industry. So it's hard. And the reason

551
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Speaker 2: I asked this is because I work with so many

552
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Speaker 2: people in this space and to have the courage to

553
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Speaker 2: say no, I know that if I sought this out,

554
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Speaker 2: then all of this is going to be just fine.

555
00:25:30,920 --> 00:25:34,359
Speaker 2: That actually takes more courage than we recognize. We realize

556
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Speaker 2: that when you have nothing, then there's nothing to lose,

557
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Speaker 2: you can actually have a lot of courage, right, But

558
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Speaker 2: when you have everything and there's everything to lose, and

559
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Speaker 2: a lot of the time, at least what I've heard

560
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Speaker 2: in town is you know older managers and agents and

561
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Speaker 2: I'm not saying you have any of this, but people

562
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Speaker 2: that I know will be told, well, hey, if you

563
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Speaker 2: don't do this, like you'll be forgotten next year, or

564
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 2: you know your your career is only going to last

565
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Speaker 2: another six months. How did you have that courage to

566
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Speaker 2: say no, no, no, I need to do this, Like where

567
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Speaker 2: did that come from?

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Speaker 1: And I think that it's interesting, like I've never thought

569
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Speaker 1: about it that way. To be completely honest with you,

570
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Speaker 1: I just knew that if I had gone any further,

571
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Speaker 1: that I was going to lose myself. I was at

572
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Speaker 1: that very I was on the teeter totter edge of

573
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Speaker 1: that point, where had I gone any further, I was

574
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Speaker 1: probably not going to be great. It was so important

575
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Speaker 1: to me to feel good that I just knew that

576
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Speaker 1: it was something that I had to do. And I

577
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Speaker 1: can't say, like, you're absolutely right, like there were so

578
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Speaker 1: many people around me that had told me not to

579
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Speaker 1: say no and or told me yeah, told me not

580
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Speaker 1: to say no, told me not to stop. I fought

581
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Speaker 1: my way out of it a little bit because there

582
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Speaker 1: were people that had worked for me that you know,

583
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Speaker 1: didn't want me to stop because it might have benefited them,

584
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Speaker 1: of course, but I got to that point and I

585
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Speaker 1: just knew I had to do it, and I just

586
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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know how to explain it.

587
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Speaker 1: I guess it was just such an unbelievable sensation that

588
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Speaker 1: I had where I knew that if I do this,

589
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Speaker 1: I'm going to be better for everyone, and I'm going

590
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Speaker 1: to be better for myself, which means I'm going to

591
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Speaker 1: be better for the people around me. And I have

592
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Speaker 1: to do this, and so it wasn't really I want

593
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Speaker 1: to be able to live with happiness, God forbid any

594
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Speaker 1: of this ever went away. And I think that that

595
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Speaker 1: was a big moment for me of being like, I'm

596
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Speaker 1: gonna be okay if I don't get this job tomorrow,

597
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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be okay if I don't get that

598
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Speaker 1: job in a month, if I have to take this

599
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Speaker 1: time to do whatever things will come. Everything's going to

600
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Speaker 1: work out the way it's supposed to do.

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Speaker 2: And I had to trust that well to me from

602
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Speaker 2: the outside, And it's beautiful that you didn't see it

603
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:40,960
Speaker 2: in yourself. I al respects it even more wonderful. But

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Speaker 2: the idea that to me from the outside, that's a

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Speaker 2: lot of courage. Yeah. I think it takes a lot

606
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Speaker 2: of courage. It takes a lot of vulnerability and openness,

607
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Speaker 2: and it takes courage every level, whether someone's thinking about

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Speaker 2: quitting their job to do something they love, or whether

609
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Speaker 2: someone's trying to relocate their family and doesn't know how,

610
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Speaker 2: or whether someone like you is feeling success but then

611
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Speaker 2: going well wait, women. And I think in the past

612
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Speaker 2: few years, we've seen athletes and musicians and actors and

613
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Speaker 2: people in all creative industries step back and say, well,

614
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Speaker 2: I need to put me first. Yeah, And I think

615
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Speaker 2: that that's empowering because I think we hear about burnout

616
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Speaker 2: in work.

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Speaker 4: Culture and corporate pressure so often for sure.

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Speaker 2: So what was it that you started to do with

619
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Speaker 2: that newfound time at that time? Like, where was is that?

620
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Speaker 2: What the curious? Was? The curiosity always there and now

621
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Speaker 2: you could actually follow it?

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Speaker 1: It was it was, it was always there. And I

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Speaker 1: had had a lot of people coming to me telling

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Speaker 1: me about meditation and how it changed their life and

625
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Speaker 1: therapy and so many different things. And I was a

626
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Speaker 1: bit overwhelmed because I was like, oh my god, what

627
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Speaker 1: of this is going to suit me. I think it's

628
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Speaker 1: a very personal experience. I think everybody has a very

629
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Speaker 1: different version of all of that stuff, and so it

630
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Speaker 1: was a little overwhelming. So I think I really just

631
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Speaker 1: took the time to be off for a second. It

632
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Speaker 1: was even the little things. It was like being able

633
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Speaker 1: to go to my friend's birthday party, which I wouldn't

634
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Speaker 1: have been able to go before because I was working

635
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Speaker 1: a lot.

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Speaker 2: I love hearing that because I think it is those

637
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Speaker 2: simple things, like you know, giving yourself that space. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: whatever it is that you needed to do when you

639
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Speaker 2: needed it, And like you said, sometimes it's like that's

640
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Speaker 2: when all the subscribe buttons come up in front of you.

641
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Speaker 2: And it's like try this and try this, and it's like,

642
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Speaker 2: well no, no, no, let me just take my time.

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Speaker 1: It was also now that I think about it, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: twenty three, I'm twenty six. I've had my horse for

645
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Speaker 1: so around that time is when I bought the horse

646
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Speaker 1: that I have now, who is my Like I jump

647
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Speaker 1: her and I like, I have two other horses, but

648
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Speaker 1: they're like retired, so I don't really ride them the

649
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Speaker 1: same way I ride her. So yeah, I guess it

650
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Speaker 1: was around that time too that I was like, I'm

651
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Speaker 1: going to do this because I love this and like

652
00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:45,720
Speaker 1: I want to get back into it and this is

653
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 1: what I've loved my whole life. So so it was

654
00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: around that time that I feel like all of that

655
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 1: started happening, and I bought my horse and I like

656
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: started taking more time for things that made me really happy.

657
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,520
Speaker 2: Yeah. What I'm noticing in you and observing, or at

658
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 2: least from just the no in a good way way,

659
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,080
Speaker 2: I was just saying, it's like it feels like, no

660
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 2: matter what's happening in your orbit, there's this pillar of

661
00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 2: belief that it's important to be happy. Yeah, like you know,

662
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,560
Speaker 2: that's like this core center belief in your life where

663
00:30:14,560 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 2: it's really important to be happy. It's important to be happy.

664
00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,920
Speaker 2: It's that has to be the goal for sure.

665
00:30:20,200 --> 00:30:25,400
Speaker 1: And you know it's not always easy. We live in

666
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 1: such an interesting industry and in such an interesting time

667
00:30:30,240 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: with social media, that it can be very hard. Sometimes

668
00:30:34,680 --> 00:30:38,800
Speaker 1: you can fall victim to so many things that don't

669
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:41,880
Speaker 1: serve you and that don't make you happy. If your

670
00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: happiness depends on the actions of others, you know, you're

671
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:50,880
Speaker 1: at mercy of things that you can't control. And that's

672
00:30:50,960 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: never where I want to be. So I always want

673
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 1: to live in like me and my therapist talk about

674
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: like my higher goddess, my higher self, Like I always

675
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:03,960
Speaker 1: want to live there knowing that you know when I'm there,

676
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: you can't take that away from me. That's mine And

677
00:31:07,120 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: no matter what you can disagree with me, you can

678
00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: agree with me, that's not going. I'm not changing, I'm

679
00:31:12,600 --> 00:31:15,320
Speaker 1: not shifting. I'm here, I'm in my higher Goddess. So

680
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: I kind of I always live by like holding my

681
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,680
Speaker 1: happiness and not letting anyone else affect it. And though

682
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,040
Speaker 1: I fall victim to it at times well as we

683
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: all probably do, absolutely I strive every day to live

684
00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: in that place, So.

685
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 2: What are some of the qualities of your higher goddess

686
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 2: so that that kind of she's awesome.

687
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:41,200
Speaker 1: Like I said, I don't love a pity party. I also, like,

688
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:44,040
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes it feels weird to like say good

689
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: things about yourself. But I've also learned a lot about

690
00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: talking to myself and a lot about looking in the

691
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:53,080
Speaker 1: mirror and being like, you're great, you're gorgeous, you're amazing,

692
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: you're loyal, you're positive, you're so many like I love

693
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: words of affirmation. I love just sitting there and reassuring

694
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:05,520
Speaker 1: myself of who I am, because that's another thing for me.

695
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 1: You know, there's so many false narratives about me, about

696
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,000
Speaker 1: all of us, I'm sure, like so many people think

697
00:32:13,040 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: they have you figured out when they don't even know

698
00:32:16,200 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: the half of it. So sitting there and being like,

699
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:22,360
Speaker 1: you know, you get frustrated. Sometimes it could feel really unfair.

700
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 1: You could be reading something that someone is saying about you,

701
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:27,400
Speaker 1: or hearing something that someone's saying about you and being like,

702
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: that is so unfair because that's not who I am,

703
00:32:29,880 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 1: And that really gets to me sometimes and that really sucks.

704
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 1: But then looking at myself in the mirror and being like,

705
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 1: but I know who I am and that's all. Why

706
00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:41,560
Speaker 1: does anything else matter? And my friends know who I am,

707
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:43,960
Speaker 1: and my family knows who I am. My dog knows

708
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:45,719
Speaker 1: who I am, my horse knows who I am, Like,

709
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,479
Speaker 1: why does any of everything else is just noise?

710
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 2: I do this exercise. I don't think I've sh had

711
00:32:51,160 --> 00:32:53,280
Speaker 2: this before, but I do this exercise with some of

712
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,160
Speaker 2: my clients where we'll go on a walk and we'll

713
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:58,200
Speaker 2: be on a hike wherever we are, and I'll ask

714
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 2: them what they think a piece of you know, maybe

715
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 2: there's a little leaf, or maybe there's some flower or

716
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 2: something that looks a little unique on the path, and

717
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 2: I'll say, what do you think that feels like? And

718
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:11,920
Speaker 2: what do you think it would feel like if you

719
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:14,400
Speaker 2: picked it up in your hand. And they'll be like, Oh,

720
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 2: it looks really rough and like it might scratch me,

721
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 2: and like it looks like a bit, you know, like

722
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: uneven or whatever, and it looks kind of hard and strong.

723
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,400
Speaker 2: And then I'll ask them to pick it up, and

724
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 2: nine times out of ten it's completely different. Like they'll

725
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,080
Speaker 2: pick it up and it will just dissolve in their hands,

726
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 2: or they'll turn it over and the color is really

727
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 2: soft and sorry the shape. The shape's really soft, and

728
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:39,080
Speaker 2: the color's totally different on the other side. And I

729
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 2: do that I exercise to help us realize just how

730
00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:44,240
Speaker 2: multifaceted humans are. Today, I've got to meet you, and

731
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:47,520
Speaker 2: obviously we're spending a lot of deep, intimate, vulnerable time together,

732
00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 2: so you learn faster about someone. But if someone only

733
00:33:50,760 --> 00:33:53,320
Speaker 2: follows someone on social media, or only sees someone at

734
00:33:53,360 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 2: an event, or only sees one interview, it's so easy

735
00:33:56,720 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 2: to create such a singular view of someone and I

736
00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:02,120
Speaker 2: and I want to say this because I really think

737
00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,800
Speaker 2: we all feel it. I don't think anyone wants to

738
00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:08,640
Speaker 2: be seen in a singular way. If you had to

739
00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:11,719
Speaker 2: choose one word that had to be you for the

740
00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 2: rest of your life, I don't think anyone wants that.

741
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 2: I think we all know that we're messy and complex

742
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,879
Speaker 2: and different, of course, but we like to put someone

743
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:23,799
Speaker 2: else in a box, whoever that may be, because it's

744
00:34:23,880 --> 00:34:26,319
Speaker 2: easier than to live life and say, okay, well that's

745
00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:29,160
Speaker 2: person's a bright yeah.

746
00:34:29,239 --> 00:34:29,359
Speaker 5: No.

747
00:34:29,480 --> 00:34:31,960
Speaker 2: So there's this beautiful piece of wisdom that I always

748
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 2: share from Charles Horton Cooley, and he wrote this in

749
00:34:35,560 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 2: eighteen ninety I think it was, which just shows how

750
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 2: true this has been for such a long time and

751
00:34:40,520 --> 00:34:43,640
Speaker 2: obviously long before that as well. And he said, the

752
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,440
Speaker 2: challenge today is I'm not what I think I am.

753
00:34:46,960 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 2: I'm not what you think I am. I am what

754
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:53,600
Speaker 2: I think you think I am. And we'll let that

755
00:34:53,600 --> 00:34:59,280
Speaker 2: blow everyone's mind. Yeah, Charles Houghton coolly said, the challenge

756
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:01,560
Speaker 2: today is I'm not what I think I am. I'm

757
00:35:01,560 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 2: not what you think I am. I am what I

758
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:07,920
Speaker 2: think you think I am. And what he's trying to

759
00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 2: say is that we live in a perception of a

760
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 2: perception of ourselves. So if I think you think I'm smart,

761
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 2: then I allow myself to feel smart.

762
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 1: Right, It's like we need that, family needs that validation.

763
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:23,960
Speaker 2: Or if I think you think I'm not smart, then

764
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,680
Speaker 2: I feel hurt. And the challenges I don't know what

765
00:35:26,719 --> 00:35:29,759
Speaker 2: you're thinking at all, especially outside in the world, and

766
00:35:29,800 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 2: so I find out what you're saying around like, well

767
00:35:31,560 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 2: what do I think about myself? Like how do I

768
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 2: feel about myself? How do the people that actually know

769
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 2: me feel about me? I think that's really empowering. I

770
00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,400
Speaker 2: wanted to ask you because I feel like from what

771
00:35:41,400 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 2: I've seen and from what I've heard, you have great friendships.

772
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 2: You have a great question with your families. You said, like,

773
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:49,520
Speaker 2: what do you think have been really great habits or

774
00:35:49,880 --> 00:35:52,239
Speaker 2: traits in relationships that have helped you build up good

775
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 2: friendships and family relationship Because I think for so many

776
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:58,360
Speaker 2: people sometimes their friendships and their family can often be

777
00:35:58,400 --> 00:36:01,399
Speaker 2: the most difficult part. But I feel like the way

778
00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:03,480
Speaker 2: you communicate, the way you're talking about it, I'm like, Okay,

779
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 2: there's some really good habits in place. Yeah. Yeah. Have

780
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:07,919
Speaker 2: there been any principles or rules that you've learned along

781
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,719
Speaker 2: the way that have been helpful?

782
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:14,120
Speaker 1: I mean, of course honesty. I'm a big person on

783
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: like keeping a really honest, healthy, communicative relationship. But I

784
00:36:20,160 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 1: also think, like I find it really important to have

785
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,520
Speaker 1: not feel like you're on top of each other when

786
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 1: you have your family around or your friends around. It's

787
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 1: okay to like sometimes even if you're at like a

788
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:33,640
Speaker 1: family dinner, running to the bathroom and just being like,

789
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:35,839
Speaker 1: let me just take a couple of breaths because this

790
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: is getting overwhelming, you know what I mean. So I

791
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:42,280
Speaker 1: just love to like take a second. My feelings are valid,

792
00:36:42,360 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 1: Like sometimes my family's a lot, which I bet everyone

793
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 1: all already knows family have a sense of crazy to them.

794
00:36:49,400 --> 00:36:53,200
Speaker 1: But I think that I can get really overwhelmed really easily.

795
00:36:53,440 --> 00:36:57,120
Speaker 1: I am prone to just you know, a good amount

796
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:00,600
Speaker 1: of anxiety and just being extremely overwhelmed and kind of

797
00:37:00,640 --> 00:37:03,200
Speaker 1: taking everything too seriously sometimes. So I like to just

798
00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:05,600
Speaker 1: step away sometimes and just be like, this is okay.

799
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:07,800
Speaker 1: I'm allowed to feel this way. It's valid. I'm just

800
00:37:07,840 --> 00:37:09,439
Speaker 1: gonna take a deep breath and I'm not going to react,

801
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: and then I'm gonna go back out there and I'm

802
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: gonna be fine. That's a great times I do that.

803
00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 2: I love that. I love how easy it is. No

804
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:19,560
Speaker 2: one needs to learn a new meditation. So sometimes that's

805
00:37:19,560 --> 00:37:22,759
Speaker 2: so yeah, it's as simple as that. I love that.

806
00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 2: I you know, one of the things that you know

807
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 2: when which which really touched my heart when I saw this,

808
00:37:27,800 --> 00:37:31,280
Speaker 2: because I think when things happen in culture and everyone

809
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 2: talks about it, but sometimes you're like, okay, well I

810
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: can tell that there's a real connection here, like when

811
00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 2: when you lost Virgil, Right like that, when I when

812
00:37:38,920 --> 00:37:40,759
Speaker 2: I saw your message and what you spoke about it,

813
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:42,520
Speaker 2: I was like, wow, this is this is someone who

814
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,879
Speaker 2: had a really deep connection with this individual, and going

815
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 2: through grief is really really tough, Like you know, people

816
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 2: who lose and I lost two really close people to

817
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 2: me during the pandemic. One was thank you. One was

818
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 2: one was my spiritual teacher since I was twelve years old,

819
00:37:56,960 --> 00:37:59,560
Speaker 2: and he died of stage four brain cancer and I

820
00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 2: hadn't seen him during the pandemic. I can go back

821
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 2: for his because that was still when it was like yeahwn,

822
00:38:05,320 --> 00:38:08,440
Speaker 2: so he couldn't go back for his funeral, and you know,

823
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:10,879
Speaker 2: he'd been the person who'd been such a key piece

824
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 2: of my world. And then the other person, pretty much

825
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 2: in the same year was my best friend as a monk,

826
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:20,359
Speaker 2: so he was still a monk, wow, and he having

827
00:38:20,400 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 2: to get cancer and he passed to it during the pandemic.

828
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 2: I can see him either, and he was my age

829
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 2: and so to lose someone that was you know and

830
00:38:26,440 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 2: he was still there and so yeah and so and

831
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 2: so when I saw your you know, your wonderful tribute

832
00:38:32,480 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 2: to Virgil as well, I was like, you know, how

833
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 2: how do you process something like that when you know

834
00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:40,880
Speaker 2: it's not only industry friends but genuine friendship beyond that,

835
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 2: and just how yeah.

836
00:38:42,719 --> 00:38:45,240
Speaker 1: Well, my first thought here is why is it always

837
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: the best people? Like, why is it always these people

838
00:38:48,000 --> 00:38:52,040
Speaker 1: that are just such balls of light in everyone's life?

839
00:38:52,160 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 1: It's like, so you just think about it and you're like,

840
00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,680
Speaker 1: this is so unfair, and you're going through every emotion,

841
00:38:57,360 --> 00:39:01,879
Speaker 1: and to be honest, it was really shocking because not

842
00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:06,160
Speaker 1: everyone knew what he was going through and suffering from,

843
00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:10,279
Speaker 1: so it was really shocking. I'll never forget the day

844
00:39:10,320 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: I found out, and it just absolutely obviously breaks your

845
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:21,080
Speaker 1: heart and you can't help but be like, oh my god,

846
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:24,320
Speaker 1: did I ever say enough? Did I ever tell him enough?

847
00:39:24,960 --> 00:39:28,720
Speaker 1: It's really interesting to share that feeling with so many people.

848
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,960
Speaker 1: It feels good in a way, and you're just like

849
00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: everyone makes you feel so human, and you're sharing this

850
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,879
Speaker 1: emotion with people that knew him, people that didn't know him,

851
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,239
Speaker 1: people that just loved him from Afar, and it's just

852
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:47,320
Speaker 1: a really beautiful and incredible thing to a certain degree,

853
00:39:47,360 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 1: but then also just obviously the most devastating thing. It

854
00:39:51,520 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: hits so hard when so many people are talking about

855
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,279
Speaker 1: it and so many people are affected by it. So

856
00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 1: it was definitely really shocking, really sad time.

857
00:40:03,880 --> 00:40:06,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was, yeah, yeah, and those and it's really

858
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 2: interesting where you said there is like why And I

859
00:40:08,480 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 2: had that with my spiritual teacher for sure. I was

860
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:14,839
Speaker 2: just like like he was, you know. And and what's

861
00:40:14,880 --> 00:40:18,239
Speaker 2: really powerful about what I could at least remember from

862
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,480
Speaker 2: him at that time was that even though he had

863
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 2: staged four brain cancer, which means he'd lost his short

864
00:40:23,320 --> 00:40:26,240
Speaker 2: term memory and a lot of his long term memories impaired,

865
00:40:26,520 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 2: if you ever met him, he would just thank you

866
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 2: for your service to God. Like he would just say

867
00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,600
Speaker 2: thank you for everything you're doing for other people, and

868
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:34,760
Speaker 2: he would just be grateful.

869
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:38,080
Speaker 4: And I was just like, that's exactly how v was too.

870
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 1: He was the most positive lived life, like appreciative, wanted

871
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,120
Speaker 1: to say yes to everything, wanted to just be there

872
00:40:49,160 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 1: for everyone. You could literally ask him to design a

873
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: pencil for you and he would be like, it'll be

874
00:40:55,040 --> 00:40:57,799
Speaker 1: done tomorrow. What else do you need? Like he just

875
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:02,200
Speaker 1: had so much to give and he gave it. And

876
00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: that wasn't that was pre his diagnosis. That was like,

877
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,879
Speaker 1: that was just who Virgil was. And so to then

878
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 1: find out what he found out at a certain point

879
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,399
Speaker 1: in his life and still be that person and still

880
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:16,600
Speaker 1: like I'm going to show up for everyone, and like,

881
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:20,160
Speaker 1: my time here is so special to all these other

882
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:23,279
Speaker 1: people and I'm going to like be here to make

883
00:41:23,320 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 1: them feel amazing. It's just like unreal, Like it makes

884
00:41:27,080 --> 00:41:31,360
Speaker 1: you just be like what, Like how how could you

885
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: be that incredible and giving? Like that is so crazy?

886
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 1: There wasn't a selfish bone in that man's body, like

887
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,640
Speaker 1: he was just the best. Yeah, but I'm sorry to

888
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:40,920
Speaker 1: hear about your Oh.

889
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 2: No, No, I think it's actually nice speaking about people

890
00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 2: that we both love in a similar way, even though

891
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:50,280
Speaker 2: they're in such different places in life doing very different things.

892
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 2: But to talk about someone's and I think that's a

893
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:54,760
Speaker 2: big part of it for me, at least with grief,

894
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,120
Speaker 2: that I feel like when I talk about the beautiful

895
00:41:57,200 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 2: qualities of the people that I lost, it gives me

896
00:42:00,719 --> 00:42:05,239
Speaker 2: so much confidence that they want me to live it

897
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 2: and they want me to try and embody it, and

898
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 2: that how fortunate we are to have experienced that type

899
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:11,280
Speaker 2: of humanity.

900
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, And those are my thoughts of him. Like, I

901
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:17,080
Speaker 1: think all we ever really want is human beings, is

902
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 1: to be you know, when we do leave this earth,

903
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: we want to be remembered so beautifully and positively positively. Ali,

904
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 1: I know at least I do, of course, but like

905
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,720
Speaker 1: you just want, you of course want to make people

906
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: feel something, and he made so many people feel something,

907
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: and for that it is so special, like what they

908
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:37,200
Speaker 1: say that we, you know, we have our purpose here,

909
00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: and I know that he fulfilled a purpose here that

910
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:43,280
Speaker 1: he was supposed to fulfill, and I think that that's

911
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,319
Speaker 1: I think about it beautifully, Like I obviously it's a

912
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:51,239
Speaker 1: very very sad situation and it breaks my heart, but

913
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:54,440
Speaker 1: I have nothing but beautiful thoughts of him, and I

914
00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:56,400
Speaker 1: think that's really cool and really special.

915
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 2: So yeah, thank you for sharing that too. And I

916
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:02,080
Speaker 2: had to ask you because yeah, I just I feel

917
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:05,120
Speaker 2: I love hearing amazing things about amazing people that you know,

918
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 2: because I think so many of the most incredible people

919
00:43:07,320 --> 00:43:09,839
Speaker 2: I grew up reading about people that I never met,

920
00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 2: and I spent a lot of my life studying books

921
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 2: about people that I never met, some Malcolm X and

922
00:43:14,880 --> 00:43:17,720
Speaker 2: Martin Luther King and Einstein and people that I really

923
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 2: see as people that have directed so much of my

924
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:24,520
Speaker 2: life from how they lived. And I feel like he

925
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,839
Speaker 2: was potentially one of those people that I never met him,

926
00:43:26,840 --> 00:43:28,919
Speaker 2: but whenever I hear about him, I'm just like sure,

927
00:43:28,960 --> 00:43:30,800
Speaker 2: Oh this is someone that we could learn from. You

928
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:34,279
Speaker 2: spoke about purpose there. I was wondering, how is your

929
00:43:34,320 --> 00:43:37,840
Speaker 2: purpose changed? You had this very confident view of I

930
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 2: want to be a mono. You know you've superseded, exceeded,

931
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 2: and continue to flourish in that world, and I always

932
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:47,399
Speaker 2: wish that you do. How has your purpose evolved as

933
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:48,239
Speaker 2: that time's gone on.

934
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: I think I've learned a lot. I've learned a lot

935
00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:54,359
Speaker 1: about myself about what I want from my life, and

936
00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:56,440
Speaker 1: which is kind of what we've been talking about. But

937
00:43:57,480 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: I'm actually really excited to get older and to learn

938
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: so much more about not only myself, but like the

939
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: journey and the path that I guess want to take

940
00:44:08,640 --> 00:44:12,200
Speaker 1: and want to be on. So I'd say, you know,

941
00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 1: my purpose has evolved from obviously within business, doing what

942
00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,200
Speaker 1: I want to do and making sure I'm happy and

943
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 1: finding the thing that I love and all those things.

944
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 1: But I've kind of, like I said, really tuned into

945
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 1: me and I think my purpose at least at this

946
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:32,279
Speaker 1: very moment, and what I've kind of evolved into is

947
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:35,239
Speaker 1: my higher Goddess, like I am determined to tune into

948
00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:39,520
Speaker 1: her at all times. But also as I get older,

949
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:44,640
Speaker 1: I have so much that I want to connect with

950
00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:48,799
Speaker 1: other people and with you know, aka social media and

951
00:44:48,880 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 1: people that may not know me personally, and just you

952
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: know the following. Like I said, I was given this

953
00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: life for some reason, for whatever reason, I was placed here,

954
00:44:58,560 --> 00:45:03,120
Speaker 1: and I do feel a per to share and connect

955
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,680
Speaker 1: and put a smile on people's faces or make someone

956
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 1: feel a positive feeling. And so I think that within

957
00:45:10,040 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 1: me wanting to achieve me tuning into my higher goddess,

958
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 1: I think that also entails me being a great version

959
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: of myself for other people to then experience, and my

960
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: tips and my tools, whatever I can share, whatever help

961
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:29,040
Speaker 1: I can give. I I really, you know, as corny

962
00:45:29,080 --> 00:45:31,359
Speaker 1: as it sounds, I want to spread like I want

963
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: people to feel love. That's really I guess the purpose.

964
00:45:35,440 --> 00:45:36,920
Speaker 2: Yeah that's beautiful.

965
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 4: I mean we'll thank you, right, yeah.

966
00:45:39,280 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 2: And it is funny that so much of the stuff

967
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,760
Speaker 2: that is corny or you know whatever, that's the stuff

968
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,480
Speaker 2: that's true, right, That's the stuff it is.

969
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 1: Like, there's also just we all just like live in

970
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,600
Speaker 1: such a it's an interesting time obviously, and it can

971
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 1: feel really negative. And I tend to stay off of

972
00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: platforms like social media platforms because it's hard to look

973
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,160
Speaker 1: at it sometimes and it feels really negative. So I

974
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:04,680
Speaker 1: feel like we all just need a little bit of

975
00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 1: a smile sometimes.

976
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:10,359
Speaker 2: I agree. I agree. I post these videos every day

977
00:46:10,400 --> 00:46:13,799
Speaker 2: which are just these fun, silly things that happen yeah

978
00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 2: old that my team will find, I'll find, and I

979
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:18,319
Speaker 2: post them every day literally for that reason, and that

980
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 2: reason only because I'm like, I may or may say,

981
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:23,320
Speaker 2: may or may not say something that makes someone smile,

982
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:27,839
Speaker 2: but this definitely, like this without will bring some joy.

983
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 2: And if this is the only joy that someone experienced,

984
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:32,640
Speaker 2: I want them to see good in the world and

985
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 2: believe that there's good in the wa.

986
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 1: That's one of my favorite things to see on TikTok.

987
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: When I sit in my bed at night and fall

988
00:46:38,120 --> 00:46:41,360
Speaker 1: victim to TikTok, I love to see there's people that

989
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:45,400
Speaker 1: I'll post, like here's like five amazing facts that have

990
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,200
Speaker 1: happened in the world in the last couple of weeks

991
00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 1: or whatever, and it'll be like the you know, pandas

992
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:53,320
Speaker 1: are not extinct anymore, and like the very great barrier

993
00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,160
Speaker 1: reef is coming back and stuff like that, and so

994
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:56,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, that's so cool.

995
00:46:56,560 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 2: That's what I want to hear exactly. And you know,

996
00:46:59,320 --> 00:47:01,319
Speaker 2: if it was like it's going down, it's like it's

997
00:47:01,320 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 2: going to get a lot of likes and hits, but

998
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 2: it's going up.

999
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: Why do we like gravitate towards the negative so much?

1000
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 1: Like very interesting?

1001
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:13,800
Speaker 2: We have to retrain I genuinely believe it's just a pattern.

1002
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:17,960
Speaker 2: It's a pattern and a habit that's been so long, absolutely,

1003
00:47:18,000 --> 00:47:20,760
Speaker 2: and we have to retrain ourselves clickbait.

1004
00:47:20,360 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 1: Of it all and the whole thing. And we're like,

1005
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,239
Speaker 1: that's going downhill. I need to see what's happening, and

1006
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 1: we're just like, we do need to retrain our brains.

1007
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:30,279
Speaker 1: It's exactly what it is.

1008
00:47:30,520 --> 00:47:32,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, And it starts with what you said earlier. It

1009
00:47:32,320 --> 00:47:35,200
Speaker 2: starts with how we see ourselves. It is all from that.

1010
00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,000
Speaker 2: If someone looks in the mirror as you were saying earlier,

1011
00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 2: or if someone just reflects on themselves, not in the

1012
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:45,720
Speaker 2: physically but just internally. Yeah, most of us will spot

1013
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 2: all the negative things about ourselves and then we take

1014
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:50,120
Speaker 2: that out into the world and spot all the negative

1015
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:52,480
Speaker 2: things about everyone else, and then we take that out

1016
00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 2: into social media.

1017
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 4: So that just propels from all.

1018
00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:00,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, if we ask someone to sit down and write down.

1019
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 2: As you said, we feel uncomfortable taking a compliment, or

1020
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:04,800
Speaker 2: we feel uncomfortable.

1021
00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 1: Saying saying nice about herself, so exactly.

1022
00:48:06,520 --> 00:48:09,240
Speaker 2: And so it all starts with our relationship with ourselves.

1023
00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 2: If we were able to find three good things about

1024
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:14,799
Speaker 2: ourselves today, I promise you're going to find three good

1025
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 2: things about the person sitting in front of you, and

1026
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 2: that will right exactly.

1027
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 1: I do a lot of like inner child work with

1028
00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:26,360
Speaker 1: my therapist, and there's actually a trend on TikTok that

1029
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: was going around, but coincidentally enough, we ended up naturally

1030
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 1: speaking about it in my session and it was like

1031
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 1: this trend on TikTok. I guess that was like a

1032
00:48:35,640 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: girl being like, anytime you're being mean to yourself, just

1033
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:41,400
Speaker 1: think this is who you're talking about. And then it

1034
00:48:41,440 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 1: flashes to like a photo of her as a kid,

1035
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 1: and so I me and my therapist were talking about

1036
00:48:46,520 --> 00:48:49,000
Speaker 1: something similar and she was like, why don't you find

1037
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 1: like a photo of yourself and put it on your

1038
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: bathroom mirror so that every morning, every night, every day,

1039
00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:56,680
Speaker 1: when you walk into your bathroom mirror, you're looking at

1040
00:48:56,719 --> 00:48:59,120
Speaker 1: her and you're remembering that. If there's anything negative that

1041
00:48:59,120 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 1: you're ever saying about your if you're ever being mean

1042
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:04,359
Speaker 1: to yourself, you're talking about her. And so I did that,

1043
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,840
Speaker 1: and I went into my I went into like my

1044
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 1: memorabilia closet in my house, and I was looking through

1045
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:11,800
Speaker 1: old like photo books. And I've seen these photo books

1046
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 1: my whole life. I've literally seen every photo that's been

1047
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:16,840
Speaker 1: in here. And I like flipped to a page and

1048
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:19,000
Speaker 1: there was a photo I'd never seen of myself ever.

1049
00:49:19,280 --> 00:49:21,480
Speaker 1: It was a polaroid, so it was the original photo

1050
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: and it was just me as a little girl with

1051
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: a bow in my hair out and a dress on,

1052
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: and I have like a little alien tattoo or something

1053
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: right here, and I'm like, have this big cheesy smile

1054
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:32,760
Speaker 1: on my face. And I was like, that's the photo

1055
00:49:32,800 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 1: I'm putting on my thing. I can show you the

1056
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,240
Speaker 1: photo later. I have a picture of it on my phone.

1057
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:40,120
Speaker 1: But so I pasted it on my bathroom mirror, and

1058
00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,399
Speaker 1: I talked to her. And I'm always like, if I'm

1059
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:44,880
Speaker 1: ever looking in the mirror and being negative towards myself

1060
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:46,920
Speaker 1: or anything, I always look right over to her and

1061
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm like, she's dope, and I love her. And so

1062
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 1: It's just another way of just self life.

1063
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:54,160
Speaker 2: I love that. That's such a great tool. That's such

1064
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 2: a great too. My team found a kid picture of

1065
00:49:56,239 --> 00:49:58,080
Speaker 2: me and made an embarrassing of that trend.

1066
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:00,880
Speaker 1: So I'll show you that too, Okay, so you know it.

1067
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly exactly as well, Keto. You were saying earlier

1068
00:50:05,440 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 2: that you know you you wanted to come here, and

1069
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 2: you you wanted to share and manifested, and there were

1070
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:11,120
Speaker 2: things you wanted to share. What is it that's on

1071
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:14,120
Speaker 2: your heart that you've wanted to share that Maybe we

1072
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 2: didn't go there today already, or is there something on

1073
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 2: your mind and heart, is an experience or any anything

1074
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,680
Speaker 2: that really drew you here and made this happen, right, Like,

1075
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:24,759
Speaker 2: I want to honor that.

1076
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 1: I think we've obviously we've honestly touched a lot of

1077
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:29,839
Speaker 1: what I felt like I would have loved to get

1078
00:50:29,880 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 1: off my heart. I don't know. I was really excited,

1079
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:38,200
Speaker 1: honestly to come here and share a little bit of

1080
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Speaker 1: me that I feel is very sometimes scary for me

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Speaker 1: to share. And like I said, I came in here

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Speaker 1: and I was a little nervous because this is important

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Speaker 1: to me, and like this part of you know everyone's

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00:50:50,560 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 1: journey and what we're talking about today is it's so important.

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Speaker 1: I really that was I guess my intention here today

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00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:58,839
Speaker 1: was to come in and share a little bit of

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Speaker 1: me and maybe for whoever's watching, they find some comfort

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00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 1: in this, or some joy from this, or they understand

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Speaker 1: me a little bit more, you know what I mean. So,

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Speaker 1: I think that we've hit a lot of really cool

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Speaker 1: points and yeah, I mean I feel I feel really

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Speaker 1: good good.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to honor that. I asked that because you know,

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Speaker 2: I think I think when when you feel you're in

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00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 2: that flow with someone and yeah, I feel like, you know,

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00:51:23,280 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 2: we've learned so many new things about you today, and

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00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 2: there's so many moments where I'm like, I just feel

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00:51:27,400 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 2: like you're so comfortable and you've been so open with us.

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Speaker 2: But I just wanted to honor that thank you, to

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Speaker 2: make sure that you feel that you've really felt heard

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Speaker 2: and seeing it.

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Speaker 4: I appreciate that thank you so.

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Speaker 1: So we all want to just be understood at the

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Speaker 1: end of the day.

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Speaker 2: I think the closer you get to people humans, the

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00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:48,720
Speaker 2: closer you get to people of different backgrounds and different

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00:51:48,719 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 2: walks of life, the more you start to recognize how similar.

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Speaker 4: We all are, yeah, exactly, and how many.

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Speaker 2: Challenges we all share, despite how much money someone has

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00:51:59,280 --> 00:52:01,440
Speaker 2: in the bank, despite how much fame someone has, despite

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00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:04,319
Speaker 2: how much follows someone as And what we find is

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00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,799
Speaker 2: that everyone feels their own guilt for where they are,

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00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 2: and everyone feels their own pressure for where they are,

1114
00:52:09,280 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 2: and everyone feels their own challenge for where they and

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Speaker 2: you just start to realize that we all have the

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00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:17,160
Speaker 2: same emotions in different mixes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're all just having a human experience exactly. We're

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00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:23,120
Speaker 1: all just going day by day. I think we all

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00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 1: need to be a little bit kinder to each other

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Speaker 1: and just take it easy on some people because we are.

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00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 1: We're all we all have our own struggles. And I

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00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 1: don't know, I'm an EmPATH, so I like feel for

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Speaker 1: things and I feel for people and yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and it starts with you the person.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's exactly. Tell yourself with yourself.

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Speaker 2: If you can be kinder to yourself, chances are you're

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00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,400
Speaker 2: going to be I found that the days I stop

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00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:03,120
Speaker 2: judging myself of judging others, because it changed how I

1129
00:53:03,120 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 2: saw humanities. Yeah, Ken do we end every on Purpose

1130
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,200
Speaker 2: episode with a final five, which is a fast five round.

1131
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:13,400
Speaker 2: I ask you a question and you answer it with

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00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:15,879
Speaker 2: a one word or one sentence maximum, so it's super

1133
00:53:15,960 --> 00:53:17,959
Speaker 2: quick and share. Okay, okay, and we have to whisk

1134
00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 2: you away because you need to you need to go

1135
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,720
Speaker 2: to your next appointment. But okay, So the first question

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Speaker 2: is what's something you're curious about right now?

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Speaker 1: Ooh, I am super curious about I was saying how

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00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:36,440
Speaker 1: I love Michael Singer, and I think what I really love.

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00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 1: I'm reading The Surrender Experiment right now, and I'm only

1140
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:41,160
Speaker 1: in the first couple chapters, so he's basically this is

1141
00:53:41,200 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 1: not a quick answer. He's basically the first part of

1142
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,759
Speaker 1: the book where he's talking about how he was curious

1143
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 1: about meditation and how he got into meditation and how

1144
00:53:51,760 --> 00:53:53,400
Speaker 1: he really just was like on a trip with his

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00:53:53,719 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 1: friends and his girlfriend in the woods and like sat

1146
00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,680
Speaker 1: in a corner or sat at a tree and was like,

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00:53:57,760 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 1: I'm going to just really dive into this and see

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00:53:59,400 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 1: what happens. That's what I'm curious about right now is

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00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: just actually, like I meditate, I do a lot of

1150
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 1: breathing work, breathing exercises, and I just really want to

1151
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:11,319
Speaker 1: tap in. Yeah, like Michael Singer did I love that.

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Speaker 2: That's a great answer. That's a great answer. Circond question,

1153
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Speaker 2: if there's anything that you're working on personally right now?

1154
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:17,960
Speaker 2: What are you working on on yourself?

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00:54:18,000 --> 00:54:22,839
Speaker 1: Is there any Yes, I'm working on I'm working on boundaries,

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00:54:23,000 --> 00:54:27,480
Speaker 1: and I'm working on not a stressor like I can

1157
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:31,400
Speaker 1: stress about things in my mind and I overthink and

1158
00:54:31,440 --> 00:54:34,720
Speaker 1: I just so I'm really working on like calming down

1159
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: and just letting things flow better and not being so

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00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,280
Speaker 1: controlling over things, especially that I can't control.

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Speaker 2: Love it. Question number three, what's your favorite thing about founding?

1162
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Speaker 2: Eight one eight ooh, being an entrepreneur, being a founder?

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Speaker 1: Probably that Like I, I, you know, was a model

1164
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 1: and I worked for people a lot. I kind of

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00:54:57,040 --> 00:55:00,120
Speaker 1: love being my own boss and really being able to

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00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:04,160
Speaker 1: have my own creative a place where I can be

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00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: creative and just really express my creativity and have so

1168
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Speaker 1: much fun doing all of that creative stuff. And I've

1169
00:55:10,360 --> 00:55:13,120
Speaker 1: learned so much and learning about the culture and learning

1170
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Speaker 1: about the tequila and everything. Like I've just had the

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Speaker 1: best time.

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Speaker 2: So I love that question Before what's something you used

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00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 2: to value but you don't value anymore?

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00:55:23,120 --> 00:55:30,400
Speaker 1: Validation? I don't care anymore, at least I'm telling myself that, yeah,

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00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 1: we have to first right, No, but it's true, Like

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Speaker 1: I used to care so much more about validation, I

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Speaker 1: really don't care anymore at least, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Fifth and final question. If you could create one law

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Speaker 2: that everyone in the world had to follow, what would

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Speaker 2: it be.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I would do like on like a Sunday, you

1182
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: have to take half the day and like not look

1183
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:54,359
Speaker 1: at your phone or something.

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Speaker 2: I love that's leg That's great, right, yeah.

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00:55:58,040 --> 00:56:01,279
Speaker 1: Kind of nice. Or the full day really crazy? I

1186
00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:02,120
Speaker 1: love that idea.

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00:56:02,560 --> 00:56:05,840
Speaker 2: I love that. Kendel Jenner. Everyone, this was amazing, Kendal,

1188
00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 2: this honestly, and I'm excited to catch up afterwards too.

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00:56:10,360 --> 00:56:12,800
Speaker 2: But there was just so much flow and synergy in

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Speaker 2: this whole thing happening, and I couldn't thank you more

1191
00:56:15,239 --> 00:56:18,920
Speaker 2: for doing this with me here on on purpose. And

1192
00:56:19,239 --> 00:56:20,839
Speaker 2: I hope that this is the first and many times

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Speaker 2: that will do this, but I hope it's the beginning

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00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,880
Speaker 2: of a beautiful friendship and relationship. And I want to

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00:56:27,120 --> 00:56:29,440
Speaker 2: everyone who's been listening or watching back at home, please

1196
00:56:29,800 --> 00:56:31,640
Speaker 2: let me and Kendle know, tag us, letting us know

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Speaker 2: what resonated with you, what connected with you, like, what

1198
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Speaker 2: was it that you've got curious about, or what was

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Speaker 2: something she said that just shifted your perspective or where

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00:56:40,080 --> 00:56:42,000
Speaker 2: you learned something new. I'd love to hear it. I

1201
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:44,480
Speaker 2: know there are tons of moments for me where I

1202
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 2: was listening going this is amazing, this is incredible, This

1203
00:56:47,640 --> 00:56:50,239
Speaker 2: is awesome. So any wisdom nuggets that stuck out to you,

1204
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Speaker 2: please let us know because I love seeing what made

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Speaker 2: a difference in your life as well. And a big

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00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:58,760
Speaker 2: thank you to Kendall for opening our heart and opening.

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Speaker 4: Up our mind.

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Speaker 1: Thank you too, honored, Thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much. That's amazing.

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