WEBVTT - Meghan Markle Postpartum Preeclampsia, Man Steals Brother's Body From Funeral Home to Party, Pet Anxiety Days, and More! 0:00:08.039 --> 0:00:21.400 Mother Knows Dad starring Nicole and Jemmy and Maria qk Hi. Everyone, 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:23.840 welcome The Mother nos Death. On today's episode, we're going 0:00:23.920 --> 0:00:29.160 to be talking about Meghan Markle's postpartum preaclampsia, a child 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:33.519 that came home from daycare that was missing something, a 0:00:33.640 --> 0:00:36.680 murder for higher plot that is local to us. Actually, 0:00:36.800 --> 0:00:41.600 so that's pretty interesting. Pet anxiety. Just wait till you 0:00:41.640 --> 0:00:45.040 hear what I have to say about that, and what 0:00:45.360 --> 0:00:49.320 happens if you steal a body temporarily from a funeral home. 0:00:50.080 --> 0:00:53.400 So lots of interesting stuff today. Let's get started with 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:58.120 Meghan Markle. So her podcast launched this week, The Confessions 0:00:58.160 --> 0:01:02.680 of a Female Founder. But basically she had Whitney Wolf 0:01:02.760 --> 0:01:04.800 hurt On, who is the founder of Bumble, and they 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:07.880 were talking and in their discussion it came up that 0:01:07.959 --> 0:01:11.399 they both had pre acclampsia postpartum and you actually went 0:01:11.480 --> 0:01:14.440 through this, So do you want to talk about it? Yeah? 0:01:14.520 --> 0:01:19.800 I actually had a serious thing happened. So it's crazy 0:01:19.880 --> 0:01:24.280 on this podcast. They so what this is like a 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:28.360 new podcast that she started? Yeah, So she had this 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:31.520 big deal with Spotify a couple of years ago, so 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:34.399 she came out with this show called Archetypes, and then 0:01:34.440 --> 0:01:37.560 it was really weird and stiff, and then I believe 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:40.679 it came out that she wasn't even interviewing the people, 0:01:40.840 --> 0:01:44.000 like a producer or an assistant was interviewing the guest, 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:47.440 and then they were stitching together her commentary, so it 0:01:47.560 --> 0:01:50.880 sounded like she was interviewing them. But it must have 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:53.720 not hit the benchmarks with Spotify because it was this 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:56.080 mega deal and they ended up dropping them. So she 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:59.080 got this new deal with Lemonada, and then she came 0:01:59.160 --> 0:02:01.280 up with this show Cash Is of a Female Founder, 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:04.160 which I believe was the title of another show. I 0:02:04.160 --> 0:02:06.680 don't understand how somebody on her level keeps getting in 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:11.240 these brand like copyright trademark situations that she's getting in. 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:15.200 She had to rename her entire jam or jelly brand 0:02:15.320 --> 0:02:17.639 or whatever because it was already taken, and I think 0:02:17.680 --> 0:02:20.880 the new one she did, as ever, was the name 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:24.200 of another brand as well. That's crazy. I mean, when 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:27.440 you're not coming up with the ideas yourself, then that's 0:02:27.600 --> 0:02:31.120 part of the problem. Yeah, I mean not. It's like 0:02:31.160 --> 0:02:34.480 we we've talked about this before that. Remember we came 0:02:34.560 --> 0:02:38.000 up with this genius idea to start this app that 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:40.560 was what was it going to be called ipoop or 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:42.880 it was, Yeah, we came up with this app that 0:02:42.919 --> 0:02:44.960 we were gonna call eyepoop, and so you could rate 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:50.640 public bathrooms but also exists. But also we we thought 0:02:50.680 --> 0:02:53.160 that it would have like a map that had all 0:02:53.320 --> 0:02:56.720 of the public bathrooms just for people that you know, 0:02:56.840 --> 0:02:58.840 you're Let's say you're in a town and you have 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:00.640 to go to the bathroom. It happens all the time, 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:02.720 and then you're like, I don't know where has a 0:03:02.760 --> 0:03:06.960 toilet that I could use, because sometimes like the Anthropology 0:03:07.040 --> 0:03:09.600 near us, right you go there and they don't have 0:03:09.680 --> 0:03:12.120 a bathroom, and there's there's no place to go to 0:03:12.160 --> 0:03:14.600 the bathroom when you're in that little shopping center. It's 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:16.400 so ridiculous. So if there was an app you could 0:03:16.440 --> 0:03:19.040 pull up that showed a little toilet and even if 0:03:19.080 --> 0:03:21.400 it was like, hey, this is a coffee shop, you're 0:03:21.400 --> 0:03:23.520 allowed to use the toilet, but like you had to 0:03:23.520 --> 0:03:26.840 buy something, but there's still a toilet there. Because there's times, 0:03:27.320 --> 0:03:30.080 especially people that get diarrhea and stuff, that you're like 0:03:30.240 --> 0:03:32.280 I need a toilet, Like right now, I don't have 0:03:32.360 --> 0:03:34.800 time to go into five stores. It's going to end bad. 0:03:35.360 --> 0:03:38.640 So like obviously we were like, oh my god, this 0:03:38.720 --> 0:03:41.400 is such a good idea, and we're legit thinking about it, 0:03:41.440 --> 0:03:43.440 and then we started looking into it and we're like, oh, 0:03:43.480 --> 0:03:47.120 this already exists. So that happens sometimes too when you 0:03:47.160 --> 0:03:50.280 come up with ideas because obviously, like other people must 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:53.040 have the same issue, right, Yeah. And I also saw 0:03:53.080 --> 0:03:55.520 a pretty fair criticism of her show. I was looking 0:03:55.560 --> 0:03:57.360 at the reviews last night and I said, you one 0:03:57.480 --> 0:04:00.520 particularly brutal one. Wait, what did it tell them? What 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:03.560 it's says? Pull it up? But while I find that 0:04:03.640 --> 0:04:06.000 on my phone, so I saw a fair one that 0:04:06.160 --> 0:04:08.360 was like, I would actually really like to hear this 0:04:08.520 --> 0:04:11.280 show if it was hosted by somebody that founded a 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:14.800 successful business. And I'm like, you're not wrong. I mean, 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:17.719 she's launched all these different brands, and I wouldn't consider 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:21.520 any of them to be particularly successful. Well, I mean 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:26.000 the thing is is that she'll she'll get the listeners, 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:30.080 and it's like she already has a lot of listeners, right, 0:04:30.160 --> 0:04:33.960 and that's the ultimate goal. It does It does suck though, 0:04:34.240 --> 0:04:37.279 when when people like I, it's the same thing, like 0:04:37.360 --> 0:04:41.279 I wouldn't really consider her like this, this person that 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:45.520 should necessarily be celebrated like that because like she because 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:47.880 she is who she is, and she's not really doing 0:04:47.880 --> 0:04:50.719 it herself. It's not like she's a regular person that 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:55.080 started from scratch and that's what happened. And I mean, listen, like, 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:59.320 if you're married to Prince Harry, you had the opportunities 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:01.520 just keep calling for you. You don't. You don't have to 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:04.080 work as hard as the average person, not even a 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:06.839 little bit. Not to say not that to say that 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:11.039 she doesn't, but it's it's just like, come on, I'm 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:13.560 also not calling her Meghan of Sussex. You're not a 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.880 working royal. You you left and you don't get the title. 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.840 Your name is Megan Markle or if you want to 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:23.200 go by your husband's last name, like his actual last 0:05:23.240 --> 0:05:26.160 name it's mount Batten windsor so like choose because you're 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:28.159 not a working royal, so therefore you don't get to 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:30.480 go by the title and use it to extend your 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:33.039 brand when all you've done is talk shit on that family. 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:36.920 So like, I mean, she's doing it. So the review said, 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:39.479 would rather go down a slide with razors and a 0:05:39.480 --> 0:05:42.400 pool of alcohol at the bottom and listen to this, Oh, 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:45.320 my god, that's you shouldn't be allowed to leave a 0:05:45.360 --> 0:05:49.440 review unless you've actually listened. But I don't know, Like well, 0:05:49.600 --> 0:05:52.640 I mean, there's no shortage of trolls in this world. 0:05:52.720 --> 0:05:56.159 So anyway, let's get back to talking about what she said. 0:05:56.200 --> 0:05:58.560 So I know that there's you know, all these people 0:05:58.600 --> 0:06:01.440 online say that she wasn't really pregnant and all this shit, 0:06:01.480 --> 0:06:04.000 and it's kind of like, Okay, I don't know if 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:10.200 I'd go that far. Just relax anyway, So she's talking 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:12.880 with it. What's Bumble like, is it is the skincare 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:15.839 stop her? No, it's a dating app, but women could 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:18.240 mess women have well, I don't know if it's I'm 0:06:18.320 --> 0:06:20.560 so out of the loop ten years ago when I 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:23.039 had used it at a time, women would have to 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:27.640 initiate the conversation, like if you paired with somebody. Oh okay, wait, 0:06:27.720 --> 0:06:30.240 oh that's the one that chrisper used at some point too. Yeah. 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:33.039 So it's it's like Tinder, but on Tinder either or 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:35.800 could message first. But on Bumble at the time I 0:06:35.880 --> 0:06:37.520 use it, I assume it still works that way, the 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:41.719 female had to contact first. Okay. So anyway, she's talking 0:06:41.839 --> 0:06:44.279 to this woman and they both have. What they're saying, 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:47.800 is this rare condition, and they always say that it's rare, 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:50.839 but like I've heard so many people have it, which 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:56.080 is interesting. So preaclampsia is a condition that it affects 0:06:56.080 --> 0:06:59.960 like five to eight percent of pregnancies, and it's characterized 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:04.239 by high blood pressure during pregnancy and sometimes fluid retention 0:07:04.400 --> 0:07:07.440 and you could have protein in the urine, So that's 0:07:07.640 --> 0:07:11.080 something that is usually picked up. It's more common to 0:07:11.120 --> 0:07:13.520 occur towards the end of pregnancy, which is one of 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:16.640 the reasons that they want to see you more often. 0:07:17.440 --> 0:07:20.680 After twenty weeks, you have to go more frequently to appointments, 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:23.360 and you know, you go to the doctor and they 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:25.760 check to see if you have fluid in your ankles, 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:29.320 and they checked your blood pressure and then if you 0:07:29.640 --> 0:07:35.280 have high blood pressure, repeated high blood pressure readings, because 0:07:35.840 --> 0:07:38.000 almost everyone that goes to the doctor has high blood 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:41.400 pressure just because they're usually like running from place to place, 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:43.720 and you go and they check it and it's high, 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:46.240 and they'll say they'll say, oh, this isn't good, and 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:47.920 then they'll have you come back and check it and 0:07:48.200 --> 0:07:50.520 if you definitely have like a true high blood pressure, 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:54.720 hypertensive moment. Then they're going to take a twenty four 0:07:54.760 --> 0:07:56.800 hour you're in from you, which is they make you 0:07:56.880 --> 0:07:58.920 pee in this jug for a whole entire day, and 0:07:58.960 --> 0:08:02.040 they want to see if you're high protein in your urine. 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:06.080 And then once that happens, you're diagnosed with preeclampsia, and 0:08:06.600 --> 0:08:09.440 that in itself is a problem, but then it could 0:08:09.560 --> 0:08:14.320 lead to a clampsia, which could cause strokes, it could 0:08:14.400 --> 0:08:17.800 cause seizures, and it could lead to death. It could 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:21.160 lead to help syndrome, and that's what I had, and 0:08:21.200 --> 0:08:24.080 we'll talk about that a little bit later. So post 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:27.920 part So normally, when you have preoclampsia, the cure is 0:08:27.960 --> 0:08:30.240 delivering the baby and then like it kind of just 0:08:30.280 --> 0:08:33.319 goes away. And they think it has something to do 0:08:33.400 --> 0:08:36.760 with the placenta and the blood vessels of the placenta. 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:39.280 So getting rid of the placenta just like makes this 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:43.520 go away. But in some people like Megan Markle this 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:48.400 this bumble CEO and myself, you get preeclampsia after you 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:52.679 deliver within a day or two, and it's it's a 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:56.640 similar thing, but it's also kind of scary because number one, 0:08:57.000 --> 0:09:01.680 you could have a completely normal pregnancy and it won't 0:09:01.880 --> 0:09:04.760 and then it could happen. Number two, if you have preeclampsay, 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:07.679 you could also get it. But the worst part of it, 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:11.320 I guess, is that you start having symptoms and you 0:09:11.440 --> 0:09:15.000 might not notice it because now you're not really focused 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:17.679 on yourself being pregnant, but you just had went through 0:09:17.720 --> 0:09:20.560 this traumatic experience of childbirth and you're taking care of 0:09:20.559 --> 0:09:23.640 a newborn, so you might not even really realize you 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:27.040 have it. So what happened in my case is I 0:09:27.080 --> 0:09:30.040 personally think that I way realized I had it, and 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:31.840 the people that were taking care of me was just 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:35.439 such a shit show, honestly, And I would never recommend 0:09:35.520 --> 0:09:39.480 anybody to give birth at that particular hospital that's near me. 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:42.040 I don't want to say it, but like I tell 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:46.480 everybody I know to not go there. So what happened 0:09:46.559 --> 0:09:50.840 was after I had Lilian. So I told you guys, 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:56.040 I gave natural childbirth three times, and what happened was 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:59.240 the second time. So that was when I had Lilian. 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:04.400 For my first pregnancy of round two kids, I went 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:08.839 to get an epidoral and it was just like the 0:10:09.520 --> 0:10:13.480 anithesiologist was just like a complete frazzled idiot and like 0:10:13.520 --> 0:10:15.240 as soon as she saw that I had a giant 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:18.040 tattoo on my back, she was just like, Oh, I 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:20.120 don't know if I could give you epidural and this 0:10:20.160 --> 0:10:22.280 and that, and I'm just like, what are you talking about. 0:10:22.360 --> 0:10:24.600 I know so many people that are tattooed that have 0:10:24.600 --> 0:10:27.880 an epidural, So it was like she didn't know what 0:10:28.000 --> 0:10:31.240 to do, which was to me ridiculous because I've never 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:35.520 heard of an anithesiologist doing that, Like what if you 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:38.400 have darker skin color, what if you're fat or something like. 0:10:38.840 --> 0:10:42.640 It's just ridiculous that that was an obstacle for her. 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:44.520 So I kind of already knew it was going to 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:48.280 be a problem. She attempted to give me the epidoral 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:51.840 three separate times and failed, like it never happened, and 0:10:51.920 --> 0:10:55.480 I gave childbirth. So that's why I gave childbirth against 0:10:55.480 --> 0:10:58.679 my will. Naturally, every single time I had a baby, 0:10:58.679 --> 0:11:00.240 it was kind of like I want, I was down 0:11:00.320 --> 0:11:02.880 for it, but like it was against my will essentially. 0:11:03.360 --> 0:11:06.720 So I give birth the Lilian, and then within like 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:08.679 a half hour of giving birth to her, I get 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:11.920 this massive headache. And I have a history of migraines. 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:14.120 I didn't have one the entire time I was pregnant, 0:11:14.480 --> 0:11:17.200 so they just assumed it was like a hormonal thing 0:11:17.240 --> 0:11:19.280 and this and that, and it was just it was 0:11:19.360 --> 0:11:23.439 so so bad that it was distracting me from enjoying 0:11:23.800 --> 0:11:26.800 this baby and this time with my husband and everything 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:30.600 because it was so debilitating. So they started giving me 0:11:30.600 --> 0:11:33.320 medicine for it, kept giving me medicine for it. It 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:35.720 wasn't going away, Like nothing they were giving me was 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:39.160 touching it. And they finally and my blood pressure was 0:11:39.320 --> 0:11:42.000 high the whole entire time. But they would read it 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:43.839 and it would be high, and then they'd leave the room, 0:11:43.880 --> 0:11:45.360 and then they'd come back and check it, and then 0:11:45.400 --> 0:11:47.840 it was kind of better, and then they'd leave and 0:11:47.880 --> 0:11:49.680 come back and then it was high. It was like 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:54.040 intermittently super high, and then kind of normal. And then 0:11:54.320 --> 0:11:56.120 so then they were like, oh, maybe it's just because 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:58.720 you're in all this pain, that's why your blood pressure's high. 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:03.160 Like it was so ridiculous. And I just remember at 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:06.160 some point, like after they were giving me the medication again, 0:12:06.400 --> 0:12:09.840 being like, listen, guys, I want you to scan my 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:12.360 head because I'm going I might be having a stroke 0:12:12.480 --> 0:12:15.880 or something like this is such a bad headache. I 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:19.680 started having visual changes and it just was it was terrible, 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:22.920 like it was the worst feeling of a migraine that 0:12:23.000 --> 0:12:25.840 I have ever had. So then they thought, oh, maybe 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:28.440 I was having a leak from my epidoral because I 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:32.040 got poked three times. So you can get an epidoral 0:12:32.120 --> 0:12:35.440 headache because the spinal fluid could leak slowly out of 0:12:35.480 --> 0:12:38.480 the little hole that they puncture into your dora when 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:41.760 they're doing the epidoral. So then I had to get 0:12:41.800 --> 0:12:44.199 this procedure called a blood patch, which is when they 0:12:44.240 --> 0:12:47.200 take blood from your body and they put it back 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:51.400 into kind of hope a clotforms over this hole that 0:12:51.520 --> 0:12:55.400 is put in your epidoral space. And that was also 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:59.920 like a complete shit show because you when you normally 0:13:00.280 --> 0:13:02.600 blood taken, it's with a vacutine or so it's those 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:06.000 little tubes, and they weren't able to do that because 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:09.720 they had to collect the blood straight and like sterile blood, 0:13:09.760 --> 0:13:11.600 so they had to take it from a syringe like 0:13:11.679 --> 0:13:14.480 old school style. It just was like and then that 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:17.240 person that had to take the blood for that didn't 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:19.920 want to go through my tattoos. It was it was 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:24.120 just such a shit show. Anyway, The bottom line is 0:13:24.240 --> 0:13:27.280 I go home. They they let me go because they 0:13:27.360 --> 0:13:29.880 just determined that I did. They gave me the blood patch, 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:31.640 and I still had the headache and I don't know 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:34.439 why they let me leave with this headache. I go 0:13:34.520 --> 0:13:38.360 home that night, I you know, I'm nursing. I go 0:13:38.480 --> 0:13:40.600 to sleep with the baby, and then I wake up 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:44.160 in the morning, and you know, Gabe and Iron bed together. 0:13:44.200 --> 0:13:47.040 I wake up and my mouth. I said to him, like, 0:13:47.080 --> 0:13:48.920 can you go get me a drink? My mouth is 0:13:48.960 --> 0:13:52.160 so dry, Like I just had this feeling of like 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:55.240 like chunks of like dry mucus inside of my mouth 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:57.960 or something. So I get up and I go in 0:13:58.040 --> 0:14:00.720 the bathroom and when I look in the mirror, I 0:14:00.760 --> 0:14:03.240 have like all of this brown stuff between my teeth 0:14:03.240 --> 0:14:05.360 and I just don't even really think about it. I'm like, oh, 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:07.520 maybe it's like something I ate last night or whatever. 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:13.800 And Gabe comes behind me in the bathroom and he says, listen, 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:16.880 I don't want you to freak out, but I think 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:19.120 that we need to go to the hospital. And I 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:21.280 was like, what are you talking about? Like it was 0:14:21.320 --> 0:14:24.040 so weird, it was so scary, but he was serious, 0:14:24.120 --> 0:14:26.920 you know, And I was like, why and he's just like, 0:14:28.040 --> 0:14:30.040 I don't know what's happening, but there's a lot of 0:14:30.080 --> 0:14:34.840 blood on your pillowcase and and something's not right, and 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:36.960 I just want to take you to the emergency room. 0:14:37.080 --> 0:14:39.960 And I was like, there's blood, and he's like, I 0:14:40.000 --> 0:14:41.520 don't want you to look at it. I just want 0:14:41.560 --> 0:14:43.320 to I want you to get in the car and 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:45.200 I'm going to take you to the hospital. And I 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:49.640 said okay, like I didn't know what was happening, And honestly, 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:52.200 I was probably disoriented because I feel like, knowing me, 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:53.840 i'd be like, no, I want to see that, I 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:55.400 need to take a picture of it. Whatever. So I 0:14:55.440 --> 0:14:59.280 don't know. So we go to the hospital, go in 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:03.520 the emergency room, and they thought it was urgent enough 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:05.880 to check me right away, because you know, normally you're 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:09.320 like waiting forever. They take my blood pressure. I don't 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:11.600 even know what the reading was, but it was so 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:14.720 high that they took me right back, and I was 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:18.720 like getting treatment with it very quickly, within a couple minutes, 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:21.840 and I was getting an ultrasound on my liver and 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:23.920 I was getting all this blood work taken and they 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:29.200 just said okay, like I was having help syndrome, which 0:15:29.240 --> 0:15:35.440 is when it's starting your blood cells are starting to burst. 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:38.680 So it's like help stance is h e LLP and 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:42.560 it stands for hemolysis and which is when the red 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:47.160 blood cells break and also when you have elevavated liver 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:50.280 enzymes and a low plate A count. So what happened 0:15:50.360 --> 0:15:52.960 was the platelets in your blood are will cause your 0:15:53.000 --> 0:15:56.640 blood to clot And we were talking about that last 0:15:56.680 --> 0:16:01.400 episode when we were talking about Nurse Hail dying during childbirth, 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:04.840 and my platelets were so low that my blood wasn't 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:08.640 clotting and I was spontaneously bleeding through my mouth. And 0:16:08.680 --> 0:16:14.520 that's what was happening, which is like seriously, like women 0:16:14.600 --> 0:16:18.480 die from this. So they put me on It was crazy. 0:16:18.520 --> 0:16:21.400 I got some ivy thing and I was magnesium. I 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:23.440 don't even know what drugs they were giving me. I 0:16:23.480 --> 0:16:27.920 still had the headache, by the way, and was it 0:16:28.080 --> 0:16:31.280 just was the craziest time ever. So I get readmitted 0:16:31.280 --> 0:16:33.960 to the hospital for a week now after I have 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.840 the baby. And now the most messed up part of 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:39.520 it is that my baby is no longer a patient 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:42.720 because she was discharged with me when I left the 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:46.120 first time, and they say, well, you're not. The baby 0:16:46.160 --> 0:16:49.800 can't stay here with you because she's not a patient anymore. 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:52.400 And I'm just like, what the actual fuck, Like this 0:16:52.440 --> 0:16:56.720 is such bullshit because I was breastfeeding my kid and 0:16:56.760 --> 0:17:00.280 then I breastfetter this whole time. It was crazy. It 0:17:00.320 --> 0:17:02.320 was like my mom and Gabe had to take shifts 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:04.760 to stay with me at the hospital the entire time 0:17:05.200 --> 0:17:08.040 because they wouldn't that was the only way they let 0:17:08.080 --> 0:17:10.560 the baby in the room with me, and they were 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:13.119 sticking the kid like on my boob, and I was 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:16.199 just completely out of it on whatever the medications they 0:17:16.240 --> 0:17:18.800 were giving me were, and like, thank god I got 0:17:18.840 --> 0:17:22.000 better and everything, but it's such a horrible time. It 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:27.199 was a really horrible time. So I'm not sure what 0:17:27.359 --> 0:17:30.439 happened with her. Like obviously with her, she's such a 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:33.960 high profile, important person, so they caught it right away 0:17:34.160 --> 0:17:37.359 and they were able to treat her before it led 0:17:37.640 --> 0:17:41.040 to this. But what I'm saying is like for everyone 0:17:41.080 --> 0:17:43.520 that's listening, like it's something that you just need to 0:17:43.560 --> 0:17:45.760 pay attention to, because I feel like at the hospital 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:49.879 they're just kind of like, so they have such a turnover, 0:17:50.040 --> 0:17:52.640 like have the baby, make sure the people are stable, 0:17:52.720 --> 0:17:55.520 get them out kind of thing, and like, I like, 0:17:55.600 --> 0:17:59.800 looking back, I really should have pushed, especially what I know, 0:18:00.320 --> 0:18:02.679 But like at the same time, I'm telling you, like 0:18:02.760 --> 0:18:07.240 I was probably having some kind of cognition problems as well, 0:18:07.240 --> 0:18:10.119 Like I just kept remember being like think I really 0:18:10.119 --> 0:18:12.239 thought I was having a stroke or something like It's 0:18:12.320 --> 0:18:14.520 not your job to push. It should have been their 0:18:14.600 --> 0:18:17.000 job to recognize what was going on with you and 0:18:17.119 --> 0:18:19.320 listen to you when you didn't feel okay enough to 0:18:19.359 --> 0:18:22.960 be discharged. Well people might say that all the time, 0:18:23.000 --> 0:18:25.479 though it's not even about what I was saying. It 0:18:25.520 --> 0:18:27.280 was more about and they did. They gave me an 0:18:27.400 --> 0:18:29.439 MRI and I wasn't having a stroke. I mean, they 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:33.280 did do that. And also but they really shouldn't have 0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:35.800 let me go when my blood pressure was that high. 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:38.520 That that's just I mean, that was like a miss 0:18:38.560 --> 0:18:41.000 on them. And like what am I going to do, 0:18:41.160 --> 0:18:44.359 like sue them? No, I can't do anything, Like ultimately, 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:47.080 I guess I'm still alive, Like who knows if it 0:18:47.160 --> 0:18:50.240 caused any lasting damage or anything. And then you know, 0:18:50.320 --> 0:18:52.679 then when I got pregnant again, it was like I 0:18:52.760 --> 0:18:56.120 was a high risk pregnancy because of what happened previously, 0:18:57.960 --> 0:18:59.760 so I mean that was kind of good. Honestly, I 0:18:59.840 --> 0:19:01.719 like being a high risk pregnancy because then you get 0:19:01.800 --> 0:19:05.040 checked like way more than the average person. But may 0:19:05.160 --> 0:19:08.280 you made me watch Steel Magnolia's Against My Will two 0:19:08.359 --> 0:19:11.159 weeks before you gave birth, so that horrible scene in 0:19:11.200 --> 0:19:13.360 the movie was just playing over and over and over 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:16.960 again in my head. Was so mad at you. I know, 0:19:17.160 --> 0:19:20.120 I felt bad about that that because you like, yeah, 0:19:20.160 --> 0:19:22.960 of course, like Maria's just like, oh, like a lot 0:19:23.040 --> 0:19:25.159 happened for Maria. It's like she's eighteen years old and 0:19:25.200 --> 0:19:26.840 then all of a sudden, mom comes and picks me 0:19:26.920 --> 0:19:30.560 up from school and she's like, everything's okay, but Mommy's 0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:34.960 in the hospital. This is not okay. Yeah, Like I 0:19:35.320 --> 0:19:39.120 don't I don't really know, Like I was pretty disoriented, 0:19:39.160 --> 0:19:41.840 I guess because I just was like and like, kind 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:44.200 of kudos to Gabe. I never really said this story 0:19:44.200 --> 0:19:45.960 out loud like this, but I'm like, yeah, you know, 0:19:46.040 --> 0:19:49.080 what's awesome like that he was that he was just 0:19:49.160 --> 0:19:51.359 like something's terribly wrong and we need to go to 0:19:51.400 --> 0:19:53.240 the hospital right now kind of thing. And I don't 0:19:53.280 --> 0:19:55.320 know if he called momm or what happened, but like, 0:19:57.320 --> 0:19:59.359 you know, I would have if I went back and 0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:01.439 saw that too, I would have been like what the 0:20:01.440 --> 0:20:05.159 hell and like left. But so so yeah, that's my 0:20:05.240 --> 0:20:08.399 story with that. But so it's cool. I mean whatever. 0:20:08.520 --> 0:20:10.840 I mean, if you love her or hate her whatever, 0:20:11.080 --> 0:20:16.440 Like at least she's talking about stuff and whatever. So yeah, 0:20:16.560 --> 0:20:20.159 I mean, this will this is a good first episode 0:20:20.160 --> 0:20:22.600 for her, I guess, well for us in particular talking 0:20:22.640 --> 0:20:25.800 about something medical. But I guess we'll see how the 0:20:25.840 --> 0:20:29.000 show progresses. Yeah, I don't I really don't care, like 0:20:29.520 --> 0:20:32.679 and listen, like everybody can make their own opinion about 0:20:32.720 --> 0:20:38.240 those people and stuff, like you don't know what's going 0:20:38.280 --> 0:20:40.879 on behind the scenes and everything like that. 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