1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:08,319 Speaker 1: Hey, wake up, because I'm meaning the night the bone. 2 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 2: You like a ligament, I do, yeah, I mean the 3 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 2: Christ like. 4 00:00:17,160 --> 00:00:22,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I had no idea. Fred show is on, Chris, 5 00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: Chris Cackris. 6 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 3: All right, well, uh it's Ladies Daily day. It's always 7 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:32,480 Speaker 3: Ladies Day, it really is. But a little short handed today. 8 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 3: Hi Paulina, Hi Kiki, and that's it, and that's it. 9 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 4: Shout out. 10 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 3: I'm going to push to Shelley button Shelley there, Yeah, 11 00:00:42,360 --> 00:00:43,240 Speaker 3: he's already here. 12 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:43,840 Speaker 1: Look. 13 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,120 Speaker 3: Look, I don't know you're in your own little booths 14 00:00:46,120 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 3: and I didn't know if you you know, it was kind. 15 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:51,559 Speaker 5: Of last minute to pinch hinted and here you are, 16 00:00:51,720 --> 00:00:53,600 Speaker 5: so rest what yes, pinch hit. 17 00:00:55,640 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll let Cachris. No, I didn't know. Maybe you 18 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 1: were scurrying to, like, you know, call all your sources. 19 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:05,240 Speaker 5: And oh I am but yeah, we're here. 20 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:05,200 Speaker 3: We're here. 21 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: I know this all just happened. 22 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:09,240 Speaker 3: But show Vin, Shelley and for Kaitalin today belahemine is here. 23 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 3: Jason's on his way to Vegas, got his combat boots back. 24 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:12,520 Speaker 3: He's probably wearing him. 25 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:12,880 Speaker 1: I don't know. 26 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 3: I think he wears the ear piece and has the 27 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:16,759 Speaker 3: clipboard on the airplane too. 28 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 6: Oh yes, I think he went to sleep with it 29 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 6: in last night to prepare and now he is on 30 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 6: his way to run our iHeart music. 31 00:01:24,120 --> 00:01:26,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, he's he is, He's the guy. It's true. 32 00:01:27,240 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 3: So yeah, that's that's it. That's what we're doing today. 33 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:31,560 Speaker 3: But we can still do Games show Wednesday. We need 34 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 3: a theme though, because Kiki's now over love apparently. 35 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:37,320 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm over two weeks of love and I don't know. 36 00:01:37,400 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: I wanted to keep the love seae going. 37 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,639 Speaker 4: But no, this man is asking me to meal prep. Shelley. 38 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 4: It's just a lot going on. 39 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: So I'm over. 40 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 4: Prep yeah, girl like man, yes. 41 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 3: Wife like Now, Shelley did things go from? Because I 42 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,440 Speaker 3: remember when I met military Mike. It was it was 43 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:59,240 Speaker 3: a random evening. I was invited to a party. I 44 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,320 Speaker 3: didn't know military and like existed. The party was at 45 00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 3: a hotel bar. I went there. There was just this 46 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 3: random guy that this is exactly how it happened. There 47 00:02:06,840 --> 00:02:10,720 Speaker 3: was this random guy and all girls and me, and 48 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:12,560 Speaker 3: I'm like, I don't know who this guy is, and 49 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 3: he introduced himself. I'm like okay, and then an hour later, 50 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 3: the next thing I know, I walk out and you 51 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 3: were in the hallway with this man, like just just 52 00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 3: tongue down the throat. I mean, just like, I mean, 53 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,440 Speaker 3: just like And this wasn't a make out. This was 54 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:28,680 Speaker 3: like I got a little I got a little sweaty. 55 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 4: Walking by stop. 56 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 3: I walked by this. I'm like, Okay, guys, we're in 57 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 3: a hotel. Get a room, which I think you're doing. 58 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 3: You probably did, but I didn't know this guy. So anyways, 59 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 3: it was hot and heavy and all this stuff. And 60 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 3: now you're married, you have two kids. I mean, do 61 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 3: you feel like, does wifey duty take over or is 62 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:48,919 Speaker 3: it more mom duty that takes over? 63 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:50,440 Speaker 1: Like what can Kiki expect here? 64 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 3: Does it go from making out in a hotel bar 65 00:02:54,760 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 3: to like meal prep for me? 66 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 5: I feel like military and I feel like you might 67 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 5: have mentioned this before, but we like when it comes 68 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 5: so as you know, I'm a very healthy eater, like 69 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 5: I eat fred as you reference, like my wheat, grass 70 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:10,519 Speaker 5: and all that stuff. 71 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 3: She eats like trees and bushes and yeah. 72 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,679 Speaker 4: Military Mike eats like fast food every meeting. 73 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 5: I would I don't. I wouldn't be able to meal 74 00:03:19,280 --> 00:03:21,519 Speaker 5: prep for him. He wouldn't eat it. So we kind 75 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 5: of like he does his own thing, like he makes 76 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,560 Speaker 5: his own stuff and then he you know, does that 77 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:29,639 Speaker 5: kind of thing on his own. But I would say 78 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:31,359 Speaker 5: more kids right now it is like the main thing, 79 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:32,079 Speaker 5: just trying to. 80 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, but does it go from like hot and sexy, 81 00:03:34,880 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 3: like he puts the uniform on for you and you know, 82 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:39,160 Speaker 3: does a little dance to like and I don't know, 83 00:03:39,400 --> 00:03:40,880 Speaker 3: like just you know what I mean, like does it 84 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 3: does it? I'm not saying it goes downhill, but does 85 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 3: it kind of neutralize like coexistence as opposed to you know, 86 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 3: I don't know whatever whatever bliss you he's been in 87 00:03:51,320 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 3: for the last seven and a half years, so much bliss. 88 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 5: I think everything is in seasons, especially with marriage. I 89 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,120 Speaker 5: think there's different phases. I think there's going to be 90 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 5: different uh situations you guys encounter of a course of 91 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,360 Speaker 5: a marriage, so times will be different. 92 00:04:07,360 --> 00:04:09,040 Speaker 4: But I think it'll swing back around. 93 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 1: You know. 94 00:04:09,320 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 4: I think I love it. 95 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 5: I know you guys said you were talking yesterday about 96 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,080 Speaker 5: maybe not necessarily loving marriage. 97 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:16,480 Speaker 4: I think it's great. I love it. 98 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 6: Well, you also get like a vacation every now and 99 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 6: then show because the man goes. 100 00:04:20,160 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 1: Through you, he goes and he goes wherever he goes. 101 00:04:26,560 --> 00:04:27,280 Speaker 1: We don't really know. 102 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 4: For sometimes a lot of. 103 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 3: Times he's on my couch, but he says he's deployed, 104 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:33,120 Speaker 3: which it can be a war zone in my house. 105 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: You never really know. But yeah, I guess, I guess that. 106 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I'm sure that that's very I know that's 107 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 3: very difficult when he's gone for months and months on 108 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 3: end he's in the Navy. But I also I got 109 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 3: to think sometimes you're like, I see you. 110 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure. I mean we get annoyed with each 111 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:51,040 Speaker 5: other absolutely. 112 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:56,400 Speaker 3: Oh there's deployment coming up? Is there some war for 113 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 3: you to be a part of something? 114 00:04:58,960 --> 00:04:59,680 Speaker 4: I mean, what is it? 115 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,120 Speaker 5: I think think there's like these relationship I forget their names, 116 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,360 Speaker 5: but they say that there's in any marriage, there's I 117 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:09,039 Speaker 5: think it's something like twenty five conflicts that will never 118 00:05:09,120 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 5: ever be sold. 119 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 4: They will just perpetually be there because I live. 120 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm on twenty four, So yeah, I get it. 121 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't hear you did the Ring? 122 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: Did the Ring by Big Tim? 123 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 3: A little little extra fun at home, And thing's been 124 00:05:22,440 --> 00:05:25,039 Speaker 3: a little more spicy lately than they were before they have, 125 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:25,799 Speaker 3: and I've. 126 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 6: Been really like really sweet, like you would never believe 127 00:05:29,760 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 6: my text three and it's so it's so much. 128 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: Let me read it. No, let me read it out loud. 129 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 3: No, let me do a dramatic readactment of you and 130 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 3: victim texting post ring versus pre ring. 131 00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:45,280 Speaker 4: No, but it's just a lot of like, hey, fiance 132 00:05:45,680 --> 00:05:49,919 Speaker 4: or so I know it's so corny. 133 00:05:50,080 --> 00:05:54,279 Speaker 3: Uh okay, So the ring bought him a couple of 134 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:57,840 Speaker 3: months of you know, your best behavior, your your your 135 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 3: highest effort. I think so okay, And I will say, 136 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,360 Speaker 3: if you guys are moving kind of at a fast 137 00:06:03,400 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 3: speed with the wedding planning, it doesn't seem like it's 138 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 3: going to be another seven years. 139 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 6: No, it won't be another seven years, but it will 140 00:06:09,600 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 6: be some years because people are already locked in for 141 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,719 Speaker 6: twenty twenty seven, twenty twenty eight. 142 00:06:14,760 --> 00:06:16,880 Speaker 4: Like really, yes, it's crazy. 143 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 3: I was thinking you could get something a year from now, 144 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 3: but no, no, really now people are locked in, So 145 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 3: next year is not happening. That next year is not happening. U. 146 00:06:26,560 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 3: Let's we and let you know somebody. 147 00:06:28,279 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 4: I got a guy at my Giano's in Vegas. 148 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 1: Do you want to go call him right now? You 149 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: know what? I know a guy to Elvis Church. 150 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 3: I'll dress up like Elvis, save you all some money, 151 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:39,400 Speaker 3: and get a guy with a boombox and everything. 152 00:06:39,440 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 1: It'll be fine. 153 00:06:40,080 --> 00:06:41,400 Speaker 4: I know we tried, but they said no. 154 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 3: Well I didn't even think of it. I figured if 155 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 3: you want to get married a year from now, you 156 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:46,680 Speaker 3: could pull that off. But I guess it is the 157 00:06:46,760 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 3: end of this year, so you're looking at at least 158 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:50,000 Speaker 3: maybe twenty seven. 159 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:53,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, wow, yep, man's wow, this is why you just 160 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:54,400 Speaker 1: got it. 161 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 6: But you know we're gonna do all the bridal things, 162 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:58,599 Speaker 6: so you'll be really annoyed by the time the wedding 163 00:06:58,640 --> 00:06:58,880 Speaker 6: this year. 164 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:01,120 Speaker 1: What I gotta come to? What am I expecting? 165 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 6: There's going to be an engagement party, a bridal shower, yes, 166 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:06,520 Speaker 6: and a bachelor right. 167 00:07:06,600 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: I got to come to Badchet. Well you know I'm 168 00:07:07,800 --> 00:07:08,719 Speaker 1: going to the bachelor party. 169 00:07:08,800 --> 00:07:11,239 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, you need to go to spy for me, right. 170 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 3: Big Tim, Big Tim, don't worry. Leon Rodgers down the 171 00:07:14,520 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 3: hall right here. He and I have we've decided that 172 00:07:16,400 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 3: we would like to go because we know how to 173 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:22,520 Speaker 3: do bachelor parties. We know how to I've been to 174 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:26,080 Speaker 3: everybody else's bachelor party, trust me, I know. We process 175 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 3: of elimination. I know exactly where to go. I know 176 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,720 Speaker 3: who to call. I know I know who where to 177 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 3: get the non disclosures. 178 00:07:31,840 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 4: I'm not excited about that. 179 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, I can't wait, Big Tim, and I need to 180 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 3: meet A S A P. Because I definitely need to 181 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 3: be at this thing because I need you. I need 182 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:40,320 Speaker 3: to come into work on Monday. I need you looking 183 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 3: at me like, what do you know exact? I ain't 184 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 3: going to tell you. 185 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 1: Friend's biggest stories of the day. 186 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 3: Keep I've been playing with your emotions the last couple 187 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 3: of days. Yeah, I haven't. It's it's your president. But 188 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 3: the deadline for a divestiture, which is not a word 189 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 3: I thought I would say in the first twenty minutes 190 00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 3: or shutdown of TikTok in the US, it's once again 191 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 3: been extended. The video sharing platform now has until December 192 00:08:03,600 --> 00:08:07,560 Speaker 3: sixteenth to strike a deal, per an executive order signed yesterday, 193 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 3: and the White House said a framework to spin off 194 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 3: TikTok's US operations has been reached. A concept of a Plankiki. 195 00:08:14,680 --> 00:08:16,680 Speaker 4: How nice of him to at least wait till after 196 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:17,239 Speaker 4: our birthday. 197 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 1: We got a concept of a plan. 198 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 4: We got till December. I'm cool with that. 199 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,320 Speaker 1: But I thought we had to solved, and now we 200 00:08:22,320 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 1: don't have a self. I don't know. 201 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 3: If I'm not listening to the iHeart radio app, I'm 202 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:27,040 Speaker 3: on TikTok, I don't know what exactly I would do 203 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 3: with myself. 204 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: I now I'm with you, I. 205 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:31,560 Speaker 4: Know you are, and I see you on there all 206 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:31,960 Speaker 4: the time. 207 00:08:32,040 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 1: I'm on there all the time. Yeah, I'm on there. 208 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 2: You're trying to make a little content creating career. 209 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: No, I don't like it. I don't like it. I 210 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:39,640 Speaker 1: don't like it. 211 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 3: I don't like it content creating on TikTok, I don't. 212 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 3: I don't enjoy it. I'm on there consuming content that 213 00:08:45,800 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 3: other people are creating. 214 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 4: I see your videos. 215 00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,320 Speaker 1: I like them, Yeah, but I don't. I don't. 216 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,600 Speaker 3: I feel stupid, like this is one thing, you know, 217 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 3: just running my mouth on this whole thing, and then 218 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 3: people list and then they're having to look at me 219 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:56,120 Speaker 3: while I'm doing stupid stuff. 220 00:08:56,160 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: I don't know i'd for me. You guys are good 221 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:00,080 Speaker 1: at it. 222 00:09:00,120 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 4: Every time you post, I think. 223 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:03,360 Speaker 1: The last one got like seventeen views. That was cool. 224 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:06,199 Speaker 3: No, but I either get twenty four thousand views or 225 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 3: I get nine hundred and I'm like what, like, what 226 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:11,880 Speaker 3: do you mean? Like I thought that was good, you know, 227 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 3: and then I check it like obsessively because I'm like, 228 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 3: oh do I hit with this one? I really hit? 229 00:09:16,640 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 3: And then no one looks at it. You know what 230 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:21,800 Speaker 3: I say? Social media is the lottery. It is the 231 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:23,720 Speaker 3: new lottery, say Stagram. 232 00:09:23,760 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 6: Our grandparents were addicted to the plan, the lottery and 233 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,319 Speaker 6: all that. That's how we are with social media. And 234 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 6: they marking them. They have the strategy, they control the algorithm, so. 235 00:09:32,559 --> 00:09:33,840 Speaker 1: Just can't know. 236 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 3: Instagram is it's like, look who I ran into? You 237 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:38,520 Speaker 3: went into Jesus this weekend. It's a picture of me 238 00:09:38,600 --> 00:09:42,120 Speaker 3: and Hayes suits and then it's fourteen likes and then 239 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 3: I'll take a picture like a water glass, you know, 240 00:09:44,120 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 3: because I'm feeling artsy, and then you know, and eleven 241 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:50,360 Speaker 3: thousand likes and I'm like, wait, which one is it? 242 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 4: They want? 243 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:52,160 Speaker 1: That was right there? 244 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 4: They want you to obsess over it. 245 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: Hanging out with the pope over the weekend. No one 246 00:09:55,720 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: even liked it. 247 00:09:56,440 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 3: And then you know, it's like, yeah, I don't, I 248 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,080 Speaker 3: don't even know me standing there doing nothing and then 249 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 3: everyone it's hard to know. 250 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: Yep, it's hard to know. 251 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 3: Some Tesla owners say the company's full self driving FSD 252 00:10:09,200 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 3: software can struggle with railroad crossing to Multiple drivers report 253 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 3: that they're Teslas be able to recognize lord crossing arms 254 00:10:16,520 --> 00:10:18,720 Speaker 3: or flashing lights. In one case, the driver had to 255 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 3: slam on the brakes to avoid a collision. God forbid, 256 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 3: you'd have to pay attention to your surroundings. But I 257 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 3: would think that would be sort of one of the 258 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 3: top things that we would work on, you know, at Tesla. 259 00:10:28,280 --> 00:10:29,880 Speaker 3: And I'm not smart enough to work at Tesla, but 260 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:31,199 Speaker 3: I would think that, you know, as far as the 261 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 3: self driving is concerned, we might we might say, hey, 262 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 3: let's not hit o the cars first, like, let's not 263 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 3: hit of the people for you know. Second, let's not 264 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 3: run any kind of lights. That would be third, I 265 00:10:40,640 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 3: would think, you know, and then let's make sure that 266 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:45,120 Speaker 3: when the train's coming to the car stops right because 267 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 3: we all know that, you know, Kiki and her Tesla 268 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:49,640 Speaker 3: is watching TikTok right now, so she's not paying any attention. 269 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 270 00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 3: Another driver says that their Tesla nearly went through a 271 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 3: lord crossing gate toward a moving train because the system 272 00:10:57,559 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 3: appeared to misinterpret the situation need misinterpretations of situations when 273 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 3: we're driving. These problems suggest that the FSD can struggle 274 00:11:05,120 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 3: in complex safety critical situations like railroad crossings, visual cues, 275 00:11:09,400 --> 00:11:12,480 Speaker 3: gate slashing lights, and timing seem tricky. Drivers are having 276 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,599 Speaker 3: to intervene manually to avoid collisions. Yes, you have to 277 00:11:15,679 --> 00:11:19,840 Speaker 3: drive the cars sometimes, which I know can be annoying. 278 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 3: So this is for you, you know, I like to 279 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:23,719 Speaker 3: I curate these stories for the people who are here 280 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 3: I appreciate. And since there's only two of you that 281 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 3: I got one for Shelley here somewhere. It's about It's 282 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 3: about wheatcress and eating bushes and things. 283 00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 7: You no. 284 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:37,040 Speaker 3: I mean, like back when Shelley was single, we used 285 00:11:37,040 --> 00:11:38,680 Speaker 3: to hang out, like going a little like a little 286 00:11:38,679 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 3: walks and stuff and like talk about life. 287 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:41,880 Speaker 1: We used to do that. A lot of people don't 288 00:11:41,880 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 1: know that solid friends. 289 00:11:43,280 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 3: We used we used to do that and uh, we'd 290 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 3: go talk about life and and we'd have to to eat. 291 00:11:48,400 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 3: We'd have to go to like salad restaurants only like 292 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 3: you know places where like there was you know, they 293 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:54,800 Speaker 3: grew it there or something, you know what I mean. 294 00:11:55,960 --> 00:11:57,240 Speaker 4: And it was quite the experience. 295 00:11:57,320 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, it was like no dairy no, no, well, no, 296 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:02,920 Speaker 3: you could have a meet. There could be a RIBI involved, 297 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,240 Speaker 3: like the biggest take you've ever seen. 298 00:12:04,280 --> 00:12:08,240 Speaker 1: We could have that. Yeah, but then no stars, no this. 299 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:12,640 Speaker 3: No, no sugar, no gluten, no dairy no. And then 300 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 3: I'm like, what happened, Shelley. If you's like you don't 301 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:16,600 Speaker 3: want to know, I'm like, you're right, I don't. But 302 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:19,320 Speaker 3: a recent study found that approximately one third of claims 303 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 3: made by AI search tools and deep research agents are 304 00:12:22,840 --> 00:12:27,440 Speaker 3: based are excuse me, biased, and lacks support from reliable sources. 305 00:12:28,240 --> 00:12:31,200 Speaker 3: So you think you're getting therapy from Chad GPT, but 306 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 3: now we don't even know where they get the information from. 307 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 3: A study assessed several AI search engines including open Aiy's GPT, 308 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:41,760 Speaker 3: blah blah blah blah, bing Chat, perplexity, u dot com, 309 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:46,640 Speaker 3: whou dot com, as well as deep research agents, and 310 00:12:46,679 --> 00:12:49,320 Speaker 3: the findings show the twenty three percent of claims made 311 00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:53,400 Speaker 3: by bing chat were unsupported thirty one percent by you. Basically, 312 00:12:53,440 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 3: a lot of these things aren't even right. The research 313 00:12:56,360 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 3: is noted, but these systems often exhibit overconfidence, weak source 314 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:06,600 Speaker 3: and confusing citation practices, leading to a misleading interpretation of 315 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 3: evidential rigor. I've made a whole career out of over 316 00:13:10,880 --> 00:13:14,880 Speaker 3: exhibiting confidence, weak sourcing, and confusing citation practiced. 317 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:15,839 Speaker 1: It's okay. 318 00:13:16,679 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 3: Online disagreements in news comment sections frequently escalate into name calling. Guys, 319 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 3: this is I don't if you knew this, but we 320 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 3: had to research this. We had to research this is 321 00:13:26,280 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 3: another piece of research that you can't trust. AI And 322 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:31,440 Speaker 3: I don't know if you knew this, but if you 323 00:13:31,520 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 3: say something that someone doesn't agree with, they'll go in 324 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 3: the comment section and say bad things about you. 325 00:13:36,360 --> 00:13:38,440 Speaker 1: They need research to do this. Yeah. 326 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 3: Research has found that a significant portion of online interactions 327 00:13:41,280 --> 00:13:44,839 Speaker 3: devolves into insults, with users often resorting to personal and 328 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 3: tax instead of meaningful discussions. This trend highlights the challenges 329 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 3: of maintaining respectful discourse in digital spaces. Well, of course 330 00:13:52,280 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 3: we're not going to do that because of the next line, 331 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:59,199 Speaker 3: Anonimity and lack of accountability encourage hostile behavior almost Well, 332 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,199 Speaker 3: I shouldn't say this. Last week when there were stuff 333 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 3: going on, there were people who had there. I'm like, 334 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 3: do you realize your name and picture are right next 335 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 3: to the thing you just typed on Facebook? 336 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 7: Like? 337 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 3: Do you do know that right, Like, you know, I 338 00:14:11,120 --> 00:14:13,360 Speaker 3: can see your face like you are not in fact 339 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,679 Speaker 3: hiding behind anything. Like when you typed what you typed 340 00:14:16,320 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 3: it got wild one way or the other. I'm like, 341 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 3: oh my god, I had no idea. I've known you 342 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 3: for twenty years. I didn't know you had it in you. 343 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:24,120 Speaker 1: Yep. And I learned on Facebook. 344 00:14:24,200 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 2: My home, my hometown went crazy, my neighborhood went crazy 345 00:14:27,400 --> 00:14:28,000 Speaker 2: on Facebook. 346 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 4: I gotta get off Facebook. 347 00:14:30,120 --> 00:14:33,600 Speaker 3: What some guy yesterday was on me on TikTok, oh, God, 348 00:14:33,680 --> 00:14:35,120 Speaker 3: just going in on me. Of course it was it 349 00:14:35,160 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 3: was an anonymous it was you know, a fake identity 350 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 3: is the one. 351 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 1: Well, the guy had a fake name. 352 00:14:40,160 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 3: But then it was like all it was was reposts, 353 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:44,120 Speaker 3: So like, don't put your name or your face or 354 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 3: any form of you know, don't don't associate yourself with 355 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:48,760 Speaker 3: you just hating on me. But he was mad because 356 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 3: I was defending instare Go yesterday. That how the guy 357 00:14:54,800 --> 00:14:56,720 Speaker 3: was like how he led in If you didn't hear it, 358 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 3: the guy was upset that he found out that his 359 00:14:59,400 --> 00:15:02,880 Speaker 3: wife had a side account, a secret account with money 360 00:15:02,880 --> 00:15:05,440 Speaker 3: in it, that she'd been kind of siphoning off. Which 361 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:08,680 Speaker 3: that's one thing but then he started the conversation by saying, well, 362 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 3: I essentially I'm paraphrasing, I have a real job and 363 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 3: she doesn't have one because she stays at home. Oh 364 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 3: and my thing to him was watch out with that, 365 00:15:17,200 --> 00:15:20,800 Speaker 3: because I understand that that's not a you know, vocation, 366 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:24,360 Speaker 3: but that you know, by by leading with that, what 367 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 3: you're saying is I make the money, she doesn't the 368 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:29,360 Speaker 3: money's mind, that's what he was implying. Everybody could hear that. 369 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:33,000 Speaker 3: But this moron's on there talking about well, you know, 370 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 3: you're you're a samp and you're this and that. 371 00:15:34,920 --> 00:15:36,080 Speaker 1: I'm like, no, what I'm saying. 372 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 3: What I'm saying is you don't have you don't stake 373 00:15:38,200 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 3: one hundred percent of the claim to the income in 374 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:43,000 Speaker 3: your family because you're the only one making the money 375 00:15:43,320 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 3: when in a relationship you've decided that your spouse or partner, 376 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:50,520 Speaker 3: whoever it is, is at home, you know, taking care 377 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 3: of the kids and taking care of the house. And 378 00:15:52,840 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 3: because it's like and then here's the thing is, well 379 00:15:54,240 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 3: that's not a job. 380 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:57,920 Speaker 2: Really, Wow, he's able to make that money because of 381 00:15:57,960 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 2: her unpaid labor. 382 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 3: Well, see that's what I'm saying, is he has to 383 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:02,800 Speaker 3: go to work, correct, and he gets the freedom to. 384 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,880 Speaker 3: And look, I'm not saying either one his contribution is important, 385 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 3: her contribution. But all I was saying is the way 386 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 3: he was coming off hot from the beginning a stay 387 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 3: ago was she shouldn't be sipeing off money because it's mine. 388 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: That's what he was saying. 389 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 3: Now, maybe she shouldn't be sivoning off money because it's 390 00:16:17,920 --> 00:16:21,040 Speaker 3: theirs that you could make that argument, right, But when 391 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 3: you lead with well I have a real job, that 392 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:25,880 Speaker 3: set me off because I. 393 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 4: Need to know it's all I need to do. 394 00:16:27,280 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 3: Then my point was okay, so then so then you 395 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:33,520 Speaker 3: should go hire a nanny, a chef, a driver, a 396 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:37,640 Speaker 3: house cleaner, and whatever else, because those are all the 397 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:39,560 Speaker 3: things you would need to have if in fact your 398 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 3: partner were off earning her quote unquote own money. Well, 399 00:16:43,040 --> 00:16:45,480 Speaker 3: he didn't like that either, And really, then I realized, 400 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 3: why am I even doing this? Why am I even 401 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 3: having this to No one. 402 00:16:48,480 --> 00:16:50,560 Speaker 2: Needs a secret account more than she does. Right now, 403 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:52,920 Speaker 2: his wife, I'm sorry, whoever you are, that is so 404 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 2: messed up. If that's how your husband thinks in his mentality, 405 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 2: I hope that he changes that, because that is not 406 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 2: right to think about your wife who is doing all 407 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 2: the unpaid laid all the emotional labor at home. 408 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,360 Speaker 3: Oh, Lauren, Fred Hayter Laurence Back. Fred needs to learn 409 00:17:05,400 --> 00:17:09,000 Speaker 3: to accept constructive criticism. Yes, because calling me names on 410 00:17:09,000 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 3: the internet like you do is constructive. Yeah, okay, goodness, Yeah, 411 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 3: we got some real idiots. We got some We got 412 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 3: a couple of real morons. And listen, I mean honestly, 413 00:17:18,240 --> 00:17:20,119 Speaker 3: you know, but you got to reach out and make 414 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 3: sure you say something, you know, hiding behind the thing. 415 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:26,680 Speaker 1: That's fine. So that was the thing. So people get 416 00:17:26,720 --> 00:17:28,199 Speaker 1: on the internet and they say whatever they want, and 417 00:17:28,200 --> 00:17:30,120 Speaker 1: then when you say, like this idiot, when you say 418 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:32,800 Speaker 1: something back, then they get all that. It happens every 419 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 1: day around here. 420 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 3: People will be like, you're an idiot, Fred, and then 421 00:17:35,560 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 3: I'll say something back and they'll be like, I cannot believe. 422 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:40,439 Speaker 1: That you would. How dum you speak to me in 423 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:45,000 Speaker 1: this way? Favorite constant, gas Letty, This person who hates 424 00:17:45,040 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 1: us listens, Blish is more than the people who. 425 00:17:47,359 --> 00:17:48,639 Speaker 4: Like us, and we appreciate all. 426 00:17:48,680 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 3: But she's forced to because of her carpool. Probably I 427 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 3: want to thank the people in the carpool. I don't 428 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 3: even think that's a real story. I think it's all fake. 429 00:17:54,840 --> 00:17:56,399 Speaker 3: I want to thank the people in the cardpool, and 430 00:17:56,400 --> 00:17:58,040 Speaker 3: I want to know why you haven't kicked this more 431 00:17:58,040 --> 00:18:00,320 Speaker 3: on out of the carpool, because this person must be 432 00:18:00,400 --> 00:18:03,040 Speaker 3: a miserable human being. I want you to know a 433 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,880 Speaker 3: person in the carpool. They hate you. They don't want 434 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 3: you in the carpool. They for some reason, they feel 435 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:10,600 Speaker 3: forced to do this to you because they have good taste. 436 00:18:10,800 --> 00:18:12,879 Speaker 3: They listen to this show. They have good taste. You 437 00:18:12,920 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 3: are the only one who doesn't like it, apparently in 438 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 3: the car. But I don't even know if I believe 439 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:19,840 Speaker 3: that story, because I would think they would have kicked 440 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:23,639 Speaker 3: your ass out by now anyway. And there's a guy 441 00:18:23,840 --> 00:18:29,000 Speaker 3: who this is kind of like the cold Play story, except. 442 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 1: Not really so. 443 00:18:29,880 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 3: During the Tennessee Georgia college football game last weekend, which 444 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:36,919 Speaker 3: Tennessee lost in overtime, a Knoxville native named Jeff was 445 00:18:36,960 --> 00:18:40,360 Speaker 3: repeatedly shown on the stadium JumboTron because he was having 446 00:18:40,359 --> 00:18:42,760 Speaker 3: big reactions to the game. The problem is, he told 447 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:45,119 Speaker 3: his boss that he was sick in order to go 448 00:18:45,160 --> 00:18:47,439 Speaker 3: to the game, so he didn't realize that he'd been 449 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,720 Speaker 3: shown so much over the game, but two hundred people 450 00:18:50,760 --> 00:18:52,680 Speaker 3: message him about it because it was like they saw 451 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 3: their buddy on TV. Because they kept going to him 452 00:18:54,880 --> 00:18:57,639 Speaker 3: because I guess he was having big reactions. His boss 453 00:18:57,720 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 3: saw the pictures in video, but he called and stick 454 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:04,359 Speaker 3: to the game. So he's now joking about being cold play. 455 00:19:04,400 --> 00:19:06,800 Speaker 3: His over the top reactions made him Internet famous. No word, 456 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 3: and if he still has a job or not. 457 00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:10,280 Speaker 1: But I don't know. I would. I would hope we 458 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:12,880 Speaker 1: can all sort of joke about this. But we'll see. 459 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:16,399 Speaker 3: Maybe he's un annoyment joking right, But I take somebody else, 460 00:19:16,440 --> 00:19:20,000 Speaker 3: some other Tennessee fan, We'll hire him. It's National Professional 461 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 3: Housecleaner's Day, which that guy from uh stare Go might 462 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,720 Speaker 3: need shout out after his wife takes all his money 463 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,480 Speaker 3: and divorces him. It's National Monte Cristo Day, which is 464 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:31,360 Speaker 3: a sandwich, a delicious sandwich, by the way. It's Constitution 465 00:19:31,560 --> 00:19:35,600 Speaker 3: Day today is on the Fread show. 466 00:19:35,600 --> 00:19:37,479 Speaker 1: I got it out of my system. I'll behave. 467 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:43,520 Speaker 3: I can tend people like an angsty Fred, Hello, edgy Fred, 468 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? Shelley, Yeah, Hello in for Kaitlin, 469 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 3: take it away please. 470 00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 5: So you might have heard, but yesterday a legendary actor, 471 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 5: Robert Redfer passed away at the age of eighty nine. 472 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:57,679 Speaker 5: No cause of death was given, but they say the 473 00:19:57,680 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 5: two time Oscar winner passed away in his sleep. Of 474 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:04,440 Speaker 5: lots of people sent tributes to him, Meryl Streep, Jane Fonda, 475 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 5: and others. 476 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 4: And apparently I don't know. 477 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 5: Then some of Hollywood's most famous women, including Jane Fonda 478 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:13,880 Speaker 5: and Barbara Streisan, came out saying that they were infatuated 479 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:14,159 Speaker 5: with him. 480 00:20:14,200 --> 00:20:15,000 Speaker 4: They had a huge crush. 481 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:18,640 Speaker 5: He was like a ladies man, right, Oh yeah, yeah, 482 00:20:18,840 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 5: he he was. 483 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,119 Speaker 4: Yes, yes he was. So would you have a favorite 484 00:20:22,400 --> 00:20:23,320 Speaker 4: Robert Redford movie? 485 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:26,960 Speaker 1: Fred, what was the one? I said, good? No, no, no 486 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: I did? I said yesterday, indecent Proposal. 487 00:20:30,200 --> 00:20:35,159 Speaker 4: Oh okay, yes the guy was, Yes, he sure was. 488 00:20:35,280 --> 00:20:37,560 Speaker 4: He sure was. Yeah, up close and personal. That's another 489 00:20:37,560 --> 00:20:40,360 Speaker 4: good one, right, that's my personal favorite. But so there 490 00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:40,640 Speaker 4: was that. 491 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 5: Also going on, Machine Gun, Kelly took a new role 492 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:47,959 Speaker 5: as guests lectured Harvard Business School. So he was dressed 493 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:51,720 Speaker 5: in like these trousers and like a leather jacket. 494 00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:53,760 Speaker 4: It was very interesting to see. 495 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,119 Speaker 5: Like this new outfit that he had at because I 496 00:20:55,119 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 5: feel like he doesn't normally just like this Needer do 497 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,359 Speaker 5: himself as Professor Kelly. 498 00:20:59,119 --> 00:21:00,679 Speaker 4: He put the whole thing on Instagram. 499 00:21:00,960 --> 00:21:03,840 Speaker 5: Now, the specific subject of the lecture wasn't disclosed, but 500 00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 5: he most likely discussed something about, you know, the music industry. 501 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:10,160 Speaker 5: Most likely, so well, maybe post I have to post 502 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:10,680 Speaker 5: that so you can. 503 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:11,200 Speaker 4: See the picture. 504 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 5: And finally, uh, Season thirty four Dancing with the Stars. 505 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:20,960 Speaker 2: Premier guys, Oh really, you. 506 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 1: You're inviting everything. I just skipped over. 507 00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 4: Wow, this is like if a tree falls in the forest, 508 00:21:22,920 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 4: but no one anyway. Robert Irwin, I guess came out 509 00:21:26,600 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 4: on top. That's uh. 510 00:21:29,160 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: I I do too like Robert. I liked it. 511 00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,159 Speaker 3: Robert Irwin, I don't let him win. He seemed like 512 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:38,280 Speaker 3: a good guy. I think that he might actually be 513 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:40,520 Speaker 3: like a like a masochist of something. He might be 514 00:21:40,560 --> 00:21:43,359 Speaker 3: into something like in his personal life, because he's like 515 00:21:43,440 --> 00:21:46,280 Speaker 3: his dad, except he's even more smiling. You don't, I mean, 516 00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 3: I've never seen like I think he cuss his people 517 00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:49,719 Speaker 3: out in private or so like. I don't know if 518 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 3: he likes like whips and change or something. The guy's 519 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 3: into something because he's just too nice. 520 00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:55,920 Speaker 1: Every video I. 521 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,160 Speaker 3: See it's just like his dad like, oh my gosh, 522 00:21:58,160 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 3: I'm just so happy. 523 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,240 Speaker 1: Look said it a crocodile. Look it's a snake. Oh 524 00:22:02,280 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: my god, it's so happy. You know, it's true. 525 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:08,199 Speaker 3: And I figure that people who are always that happy 526 00:22:08,240 --> 00:22:12,159 Speaker 3: in real life they have a dark side. Yeah, you know, 527 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:14,520 Speaker 3: I just I don't think anyone is that happy or 528 00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 3: that cheery or that smiley all the time. 529 00:22:16,840 --> 00:22:18,000 Speaker 1: I don't think it's possible. 530 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:22,920 Speaker 5: Yeah, well, you know, Hilaria Baldwin, Laria Baldwin, Alec Baldwin's wife, 531 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,680 Speaker 5: is also on this. I know people have very strong 532 00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 5: opinions about her. So anyway, maybe some. 533 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: People Earl who else did I? 534 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,840 Speaker 3: I did see the promo for it. 535 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 4: Alex Earls and I who are in harmony? 536 00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:41,879 Speaker 3: Yeah, so many girls from that Mormon Housewives show. I 537 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:43,920 Speaker 3: think they were one of the girls. Maybe I don't 538 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 3: remember which one. Yeah, anyway, good luck. 539 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:47,920 Speaker 5: Well, yeah, so for more, you can always go to 540 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:49,640 Speaker 5: Fred Show radio dot com. 541 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:51,240 Speaker 1: You can. You can do that. 542 00:22:51,280 --> 00:22:53,600 Speaker 5: I don't missing other places. 543 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 3: That's okay, we didn't send you the script. Hard radio 544 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 3: appswertch for the Fred Show. 545 00:22:57,240 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 1: All the socials. 546 00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 3: H's the Fred Show and you can watch on you 547 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 3: and search for the Fred Show. It's the Fred Show. 548 00:23:02,840 --> 00:23:04,840 Speaker 3: Good morning, Waiting by the phone? Why did somebody get 549 00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,399 Speaker 3: ghost to Games show Wednesday? We think we may have 550 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:10,919 Speaker 3: arrived on some form of a theme because KICKI now 551 00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:12,640 Speaker 3: apparently gets a vote in the theme, which I don't 552 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,159 Speaker 3: know why, because you're not supposed to even know the 553 00:23:14,200 --> 00:23:15,800 Speaker 3: songs or even any inclination of. 554 00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 1: What they are. 555 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,639 Speaker 3: You know, definitely gonna be Paulina because you're back and 556 00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,800 Speaker 3: I gotta we got it. We gotta talk about your trip, 557 00:23:21,840 --> 00:23:22,399 Speaker 3: and we got to talk. 558 00:23:22,440 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: I got it. We gotta talk about it. 559 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 3: Why we got Yeah, nothing more polyanant than than my 560 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:34,520 Speaker 3: understanding of this trip. So Kiki's engaged now and you're 561 00:23:34,560 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 3: back on your I know, single till I'm married now? 562 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,480 Speaker 3: Is that the new trademark er? Yesterday you said something 563 00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:40,960 Speaker 3: about how your like still sort. 564 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:42,760 Speaker 4: Of I'm technically engaged. 565 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:47,159 Speaker 3: But yesterday he was like something about, so you're going 566 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 3: to stop that gimmick because it came up in a 567 00:23:49,080 --> 00:23:51,159 Speaker 3: waiting by the phone that you had done previously, and 568 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,200 Speaker 3: I said something that you were like, oh, well, technically, 569 00:23:53,240 --> 00:23:54,880 Speaker 3: and then you're still trying to play that game. 570 00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:58,159 Speaker 1: On the radio. 571 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 3: However, this was on Reddit a bribe preparing for her 572 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 3: November wedding. I think this is probably very relatable to 573 00:24:04,600 --> 00:24:07,159 Speaker 3: people who have gotten married, planned a wedding, been involved 574 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,720 Speaker 3: into planning. But this bride shared on a Reddit that 575 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:13,879 Speaker 3: a bridesmaid accidentally posted the wedding seating chart, complete with 576 00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:18,560 Speaker 3: the bride's blunt and private notes, into a private Facebook 577 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 3: group of more than eighty people. The notes included things 578 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,879 Speaker 3: like keep cousin Amy far away from ex boyfriend and 579 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:30,960 Speaker 3: don't put at Linda near the open bar. The bride 580 00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:33,920 Speaker 3: had been pressured by the bridesmaid beforehand to show the chart, 581 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 3: supposedly to ensure that the vibes were good. When confronted, 582 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 3: the bridesmaid said that she only meant to screenshot it 583 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 3: for herself, claiming the public post was a mistake. The 584 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 3: bride isn't convinced because of the leak. She's had to 585 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:48,240 Speaker 3: redo the entire seating layout weeks before the wedding and 586 00:24:48,320 --> 00:24:51,280 Speaker 3: is now dealing with upset guests because all the commentary 587 00:24:51,760 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 3: about who's coming is on this thing and I'm wondering 588 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 3: eight five five three five you can call and texta 589 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 3: the same number, like what situation did you run into 590 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:03,080 Speaker 3: when you were planning your wedding or helping plan a 591 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 3: wedding where it was like, these two people have to come, 592 00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:07,919 Speaker 3: and we got to keep them away from each other. 593 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 3: They got to be a different tables they And how 594 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 3: did you run interference without like, you know, the word 595 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,199 Speaker 3: getting out Because I got to think that that you know, 596 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,320 Speaker 3: that's a consideration when you're planning a wedding, and maybe 597 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,639 Speaker 3: it's like, hey, if I invite this person, then I 598 00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 3: probably can't invite this person, or if I do invite 599 00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,560 Speaker 3: this person, then this person probably isn't going to go, 600 00:25:26,160 --> 00:25:28,040 Speaker 3: and then I want that. 601 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: Person there more than that. I mean, have you have 602 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:30,000 Speaker 1: you guys? 603 00:25:30,359 --> 00:25:32,760 Speaker 3: You did this Paulina and then you're about to do this, 604 00:25:32,880 --> 00:25:35,640 Speaker 3: But like, can you think of situations right now where 605 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:38,480 Speaker 3: you're like I want to invite someone, but then the person, 606 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 3: another person that I want there won't be happy about it? 607 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:44,119 Speaker 1: Yes? 608 00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 6: Actually yes, But I'm still stuck on how did this 609 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 6: brides maide accidentally yup? Lo this like girl, first of all, 610 00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:54,760 Speaker 6: you need to be kicked out of the wedding because 611 00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 6: you're messy. 612 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,280 Speaker 3: Well maybe she's like my mom and my dad who 613 00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:59,760 Speaker 3: think that the private that they think they're they're saying 614 00:25:59,800 --> 00:26:01,800 Speaker 3: something to one person, but they're actually publishing it for 615 00:26:01,800 --> 00:26:02,400 Speaker 3: everyone to see. 616 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,600 Speaker 4: Maybe that's what it was like, This is Shenanigans, and 617 00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:06,120 Speaker 4: I feel like she did it on purpose. But that's 618 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:06,439 Speaker 4: just me. 619 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,439 Speaker 6: But yes, I do have situations like that, and I 620 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 6: just feel like in those times, everyone should be mature 621 00:26:12,880 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 6: enough to really just be there to celebrate the bride 622 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,120 Speaker 6: in the groom. So I'm not gonna overthink it if 623 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,120 Speaker 6: I want uncle Ed there and uncle. 624 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:21,920 Speaker 4: Ed don't talk to Aunt Sarah anymore. 625 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:25,000 Speaker 6: They're divorced and they got a messy situation that's I 626 00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 6: don't care. I don't want to hear about it. You know, 627 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:28,640 Speaker 6: I won't sit them at the same table, but they 628 00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 6: will both. I'm not gonna not invite uncle Ed. 629 00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,399 Speaker 3: I agree that everybody should behave but are you would 630 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 3: you be offended if someone didn't go to your wedding 631 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:38,879 Speaker 3: because they knew that other people were going to be 632 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:41,199 Speaker 3: there who they didn't like and were comfortable being around. 633 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:42,280 Speaker 1: So they and I. 634 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:45,720 Speaker 3: Realized it's bigger than them. Yeah, it's about you, But 635 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 3: like you got to think if you invite two people 636 00:26:48,119 --> 00:26:49,919 Speaker 3: that really don't like each other and if not not 637 00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 3: been in a room together for a while, or one 638 00:26:51,520 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 3: person was saying something bad about the other person or whatever, 639 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,320 Speaker 3: then you got to think like, well, maybe to protect 640 00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:57,640 Speaker 3: their peace, they're not gonna come. 641 00:26:58,320 --> 00:26:59,199 Speaker 4: I would respect that. 642 00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 6: And as much which is weddings calls, I want everybody 643 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 6: who's eating my pasta and drinking my drinks to be 644 00:27:04,400 --> 00:27:06,480 Speaker 6: very happy to be a protein. And if you're not going 645 00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,119 Speaker 6: to be happy but probably. 646 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,440 Speaker 3: Might be appetizing, only there needs to be approached. 647 00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:15,440 Speaker 4: I want you to be happy at my ceremony. 648 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 6: And so if you can't find happiness in that day, 649 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:19,520 Speaker 6: then yes, stay at home please. 650 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,359 Speaker 3: Okay, So Sam's got one, like this is what I'm 651 00:27:21,400 --> 00:27:24,639 Speaker 3: talking about. Sam, Good morning, Good morning. 652 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:25,439 Speaker 4: How are you hi? 653 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:30,760 Speaker 3: So your mom and dad they couldn't be together, well, 654 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,560 Speaker 3: they couldn't have that, they couldn't be together in more 655 00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:33,160 Speaker 3: ways than one. 656 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 8: But yeah, they've been divorced for I think I was 657 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:41,960 Speaker 8: probably like four or five. And to be clear, like 658 00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:44,400 Speaker 8: I don't really have the best relationship with my dad. 659 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:45,520 Speaker 8: It's always like touch and go. 660 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:47,560 Speaker 1: But my mom. 661 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 8: Literally told me that she would literally throw generals at 662 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 8: my dad if I didn't separate them, so I had 663 00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 8: to put my husband's family kind of to like suffer 664 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,959 Speaker 8: them in between. Was my mom serious? Probably not, However 665 00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 8: she really doesn't decizes that. 666 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:02,560 Speaker 6: Man. 667 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's that's a real one, right, Like 668 00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:10,320 Speaker 3: you know, divorced parents, exes of other people. You know, 669 00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,879 Speaker 3: maybe you're still friends with somebody. I would imagine in 670 00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:16,240 Speaker 3: friend groups there are like, you know, falling out fallings 671 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 3: out where you know, maybe in the friend group, like 672 00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:21,560 Speaker 3: you're still close with two people, but those two people 673 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 3: aren't close anymore, but you want to include both of them. 674 00:28:24,200 --> 00:28:27,720 Speaker 3: And I've also heard sam of like they're being dissension 675 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:29,760 Speaker 3: in a group because one person was chosen as a 676 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 3: maid of honor and someone else thinks it should have 677 00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 3: been them. So then the other person's kind of rude 678 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 3: about it and not all that helpful because it's like, 679 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:38,200 Speaker 3: well I wasn't picked. I mean, it's a it's all 680 00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,360 Speaker 3: very political. 681 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,520 Speaker 8: And when you're in that situation as a bride and 682 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:46,880 Speaker 8: like you want to celebrate and you want to be 683 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,400 Speaker 8: happy and you just want to relax because it's really 684 00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 8: your day, it puts a lot of stress on the 685 00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:55,320 Speaker 8: situation and it's it's like literally this was something that 686 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:59,480 Speaker 8: probably bothered me for years, like I would like make 687 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,000 Speaker 8: myself thinking about it, and when I did actually get 688 00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:04,080 Speaker 8: engaged in like oh my god, my parents are going 689 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,959 Speaker 8: to finally be in the same room with one another. 690 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,240 Speaker 8: Like I was that good unshold luckily and fortunately for me, 691 00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:11,400 Speaker 8: Like it was fine. I mean it was awkward, But 692 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:14,560 Speaker 8: a lot of people are in a situation where like 693 00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:18,480 Speaker 8: something major could happen and really destroy their day. 694 00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: You know, well, and come on, I. 695 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 3: Mean, people like your parents and people who don't like 696 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:24,479 Speaker 3: each other, they need to be on their best behavior. 697 00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 3: Right If you're going to the wedding, it's not about you, 698 00:29:26,160 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 3: it's about the person who you're honoring, So you know, 699 00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,720 Speaker 3: you you would hope that people can behave themselves. But 700 00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:32,760 Speaker 3: then after a little couple of cocktails, you know, in 701 00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,000 Speaker 3: the reception, all of a sudden, now you know, we're 702 00:29:36,040 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 3: feeling a little bold and mighty, and then people start 703 00:29:38,240 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 3: saying stuff, thank you, Sam, have a. 704 00:29:39,560 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 1: Good day, do you too? Yeah? There needs yeah, there 705 00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 1: needs to be a protein. 706 00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 4: That is like why would you even think of that 707 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 4: in that moment? 708 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 3: Well, because I heard you say pasta and I'm like, 709 00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:53,239 Speaker 3: hold on, hey, Nina, hi Nina, good morning. Yeah, so 710 00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 3: this uh, this reddit post, and I agree with you. 711 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 3: I'm not sure how this went public, but essentially there 712 00:29:58,440 --> 00:30:00,520 Speaker 3: was a seating chart with notes from the bride and 713 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 3: who could be near and who couldn't be near one another. 714 00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,840 Speaker 3: It went public and then everybody saw this, so now 715 00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:08,320 Speaker 3: they know what the bride thinks to everybody's relationships and 716 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 3: who needs to you know who's toxic and who's not. 717 00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:12,520 Speaker 1: And it's a mess. What happened with you? 718 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:17,160 Speaker 7: So, my around the time that my cousin had gotten married, 719 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,239 Speaker 7: my dad had recently passed away, so there was like 720 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 7: a bunch of drama stemming from my dad's passing between 721 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 7: me and my aunt. My aunt ended up getting a 722 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 7: restraining order on me come time for the wedding. 723 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 8: The seating chart was just because we were supposed. 724 00:30:32,760 --> 00:30:34,600 Speaker 7: To be like, at the same table as my aunt, 725 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,479 Speaker 7: but they ended up sticking me and my sister at 726 00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 7: a back table. 727 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:40,080 Speaker 1: Well yeah, because you had to be two hundred and 728 00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,200 Speaker 1: fifty feet Oh my god. 729 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, but we're all good now. 730 00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 4: But this was like years ago. 731 00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:52,000 Speaker 1: A restraining order. Yeah, that's crazy. 732 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:53,240 Speaker 7: Me, I don't know. 733 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 3: I guess you don't seem scary to me, Nina, but 734 00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,400 Speaker 3: I think I want to stay on your good side, 735 00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:58,080 Speaker 3: have a good day. 736 00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,520 Speaker 7: I mean, yeah, you too. 737 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:02,200 Speaker 1: She's like, well, I'm a little scary sometimes. 738 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 3: Hey, Megan, Hi, So you're planning a wedding in this 739 00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 3: You're having to go through this very thing right now? 740 00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:13,959 Speaker 1: Yes, what's the deal? So I'm getting married in January, 741 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:19,120 Speaker 1: and my mother will be in attendance, of course, but. 742 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 8: Both of her ex husbands will be there, so my 743 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:25,200 Speaker 8: biological dad and my stepdad, and. 744 00:31:25,160 --> 00:31:28,760 Speaker 3: She's divorced both of them. Yeah, okay, and they're both 745 00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 3: important to you. So obviously your dad and then I 746 00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 3: take it your stepdad with you know, played a big role. 747 00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: In your life. Yes, of course, so they have to 748 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: be included. 749 00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:41,320 Speaker 8: Yes, but it wasn't cordial for both divorces. 750 00:31:41,680 --> 00:31:43,760 Speaker 3: Okay, has your mom given you Is there been any 751 00:31:43,760 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 3: pressure on you, Like, has she said anything to you like, hey, 752 00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 3: we don't have to invite them, or has she tried 753 00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,160 Speaker 3: to convince you otherwise? Yeah? 754 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:52,760 Speaker 8: Like she literally I said, like both of them shouldn't 755 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:53,120 Speaker 8: be there. 756 00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 1: Okay. This is why weddings on so many levels. I 757 00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 1: don't know why. 758 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:01,600 Speaker 3: I don't know why people do them, because well because 759 00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:02,800 Speaker 3: stuff like this stress. 760 00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:05,160 Speaker 8: You're gonna be so stressed. 761 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:08,000 Speaker 1: And I like, all I hear about is how difficult 762 00:32:08,000 --> 00:32:08,200 Speaker 1: it is. 763 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,640 Speaker 3: And now you got your mom saying that two important 764 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 3: people in your life shouldn't be there because she doesn't 765 00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 3: want it. But it's not about her. It's about you, 766 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 3: and you should be able to have anybody you want there. 767 00:32:18,800 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 3: But this is I hear this all the time. Well, 768 00:32:21,600 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 3: but I paid for it, so then I need I 769 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 3: need these people there, and then that means these people 770 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:28,160 Speaker 3: can't come, and then these people and then it's it's 771 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 3: it becomes all about other people and not about you, 772 00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 3: and it's and then you're trying to appease everybody. And 773 00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 3: now we're separating people and we got police officers showing 774 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:39,480 Speaker 3: up because for anyone, and this doesn't seem fun at all. 775 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:44,280 Speaker 8: It's it's not literally like we've someone like even suggested 776 00:32:44,280 --> 00:32:46,239 Speaker 8: we should have security there, and I'm like, I mean, 777 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:47,320 Speaker 8: it's not that terrible an. 778 00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:50,440 Speaker 1: Idea, that's crazy, Megan, thank you, have a good day. Stay. 779 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know, I don't get I don't know 780 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,160 Speaker 3: if I get it, you don't get it. I feel 781 00:32:56,200 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 3: like it just seems so stressful. And yes, if you 782 00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:02,239 Speaker 3: have money, you can hire people to like, you know, 783 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 3: plan and and you know you've got Ryan Lee, he'll 784 00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:05,479 Speaker 3: do it. 785 00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:08,200 Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, no, it's just fine. 786 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,160 Speaker 4: But you know Jason Brown. 787 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:13,040 Speaker 3: Not everybody has a Jason Brown and Ryan Lee, so 788 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,520 Speaker 3: so you know, but I mean, yes, I suppose that 789 00:33:15,560 --> 00:33:17,360 Speaker 3: you can hire someone to make like my sister had 790 00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 3: someone there to make sure that the caterers showed up 791 00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 3: and the you know whatever, and then there would be 792 00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,080 Speaker 3: contingency so that, but she was still just wildly stressed out, 793 00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,800 Speaker 3: you know about it had to be perfect and it 794 00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,720 Speaker 3: had to be right and everyone had to have a 795 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,440 Speaker 3: good time and be happy and what if the weather 796 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,920 Speaker 3: was bad and what if this and that? And it's like, 797 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,160 Speaker 3: I just it just seems like you're supposed to be 798 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,840 Speaker 3: the one to savor this and enjoy it, but but 799 00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 3: the onus is on you to make sure it's all right. So, like, 800 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:45,280 Speaker 3: how do we come up with something that is celebratory 801 00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:48,880 Speaker 3: where you're honored but you don't walk in feeling stressed? 802 00:33:49,040 --> 00:33:50,480 Speaker 3: What if I don't look right and what if I 803 00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:52,440 Speaker 3: don't I don't know how you remove yourself from the 804 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:53,920 Speaker 3: process to be able to enjoy it. 805 00:33:53,960 --> 00:33:54,280 Speaker 1: Easy. 806 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,719 Speaker 2: You go to Vegas, you get a party bus, you 807 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:58,760 Speaker 2: go to Magiano's, and you get married by Elvis. 808 00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you cannot tell me that you were not 809 00:34:00,520 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 3: stressed out. What if the bus doesn't show up, what 810 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:04,840 Speaker 3: if the Elvis thing is what if the AC's broken 811 00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:06,960 Speaker 3: in the thing, what if the food's not right? I 812 00:34:07,000 --> 00:34:08,719 Speaker 3: mean I know that, I know that you wanted it 813 00:34:08,880 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 3: to go. Well, you can't just tell me you woke 814 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,200 Speaker 3: up and said, all right, well, whatever. 815 00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,719 Speaker 2: Happens, you gotta go with the flow on the wedding day. Like, 816 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,880 Speaker 2: I'm lucky cause I had a Jason Brown. I literally 817 00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:20,560 Speaker 2: had v Jason Brown helping me. That was not by choice, 818 00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:22,360 Speaker 2: Like he was forced into it, so he kind of 819 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:23,440 Speaker 2: had to make it happen for me. 820 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,040 Speaker 3: Well, he can't possibly be part of an inefficient process. 821 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 3: He can't even attend it. He can't as a guest show. 822 00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:31,560 Speaker 3: Like if he shows up as a guest and realizes 823 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,000 Speaker 3: it's inefficient, then the combat boots come out, Yes, they 824 00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:35,920 Speaker 3: and the clipboard and the earpiece, and before long we 825 00:34:35,960 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 3: got the whole thing straightened out. 826 00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: And he doesn't even know the people exactly. 827 00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 4: No, that's very much Jason Brown. 828 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 2: But I just think like you gotta really enjoy the day, 829 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:43,479 Speaker 2: like if I was to do it all over again, 830 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,560 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, Freddie, you nailed it. Dive bar, banded, 831 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:49,240 Speaker 2: food truck, party all night, like that's exact. 832 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,120 Speaker 3: Holy just make it like. People show up, come as 833 00:34:52,160 --> 00:34:56,440 Speaker 3: you are. You know, it's big room, great music, good food, 834 00:34:56,600 --> 00:34:58,799 Speaker 3: and we're done, and we're done. And I realized that's 835 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:00,839 Speaker 3: you know, you should have whatever you wants your day. 836 00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:02,960 Speaker 3: But that's just that seems like the way to go. 837 00:35:03,360 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 3: I don't know, there's a big gass room full of people. 838 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 3: If you can't separate yourself and the people you don't like, 839 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:07,960 Speaker 3: that's your problem. 840 00:35:08,160 --> 00:35:10,120 Speaker 4: That's the right call up, Boss bar let's go, Fred 841 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,839 Speaker 4: r Ay, Well, you know, we'll do it a couple 842 00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:13,280 Speaker 4: of times. 843 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:15,080 Speaker 1: For me. 844 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:19,239 Speaker 3: I've avoided probably two divorces so far, so you never 845 00:35:19,239 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 3: may only be one wedding somebody more. 846 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: Fred Show next