1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:15,800 Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, it's Sophia. Welcome to Work in Progress. Hello 2 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: and happy week to all my whip smarties out there. 3 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:23,360 Speaker 1: I'm really really looking forward to today's interview. I'm going 4 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 1: to sit down with a fellow circus performer, which is 5 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:28,920 Speaker 1: what so many of us in the industry affectionately call 6 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: the performers in the sag after Union. Today's guest is 7 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: none other than actor Jason George. You likely know him 8 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: from playing Miranda Bailey's husband, doctor Ben Warren on Grey's 9 00:00:40,720 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: Anatomy and Station nineteen. Jason is an absolutely incredible human 10 00:00:47,880 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: off screen as well as the wonderful characters that he 11 00:00:50,640 --> 00:00:53,680 Speaker 1: plays on screen, and today I'm going to talk to 12 00:00:53,760 --> 00:00:58,440 Speaker 1: him about discovering his true calling, having grown up a 13 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: military kid on the East Coast, how his upbringing led 14 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 1: him to get really active within our own union, advocating 15 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:11,520 Speaker 1: for better protection for workers, and his latest and deepest 16 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: passion project, working to help solve the gun violence crisis 17 00:01:15,440 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 1: in America. Jason is a spokesperson working to change the 18 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: way that guns are portrayed in the media. A year ago, 19 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:25,240 Speaker 1: Hollywood Health and Society at the USC and and Berg 20 00:01:25,319 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 1: Norman Lear Center released a really impactful and significant studies 21 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: surrounding guns in the media, and based on that study, 22 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 1: HHS has teamed up with Brady, the nation's oldest gun 23 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: violence prevention organization, to raise awareness around this incredibly important topic, 24 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,640 Speaker 1: and Jason is helping lead the charge with Brady, HHS, 25 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:50,360 Speaker 1: every Town and Mom's Demand. He is an incredibly inspiring 26 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: human someone I feel really lucky to have as a 27 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:57,280 Speaker 1: peer in my industry, both in my day job and 28 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 1: in my activism work. And I can't wait for you 29 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:13,720 Speaker 1: all to hear from enjoy. Hey, hi, Jason, how are 30 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:14,600 Speaker 1: you good? 31 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:15,239 Speaker 2: How are you feeling? 32 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 3: I'm well? 33 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: Thanks? Where do I Where do I find you today? 34 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:22,200 Speaker 1: Where are you in the world? 35 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 3: I am back in the studio city, Los Angeles. 36 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 2: I'm back home. We were running around Italy for. 37 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 3: A few weeks. 38 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:37,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's my wife and I was a twenty fifth 39 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:38,639 Speaker 2: wedding anniversary. 40 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 1: So oh my goodness. 41 00:02:40,840 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 2: Good Italy is our spot, you know. 42 00:02:43,800 --> 00:02:46,120 Speaker 3: We this is like we've been itly a bunch of 43 00:02:46,200 --> 00:02:47,919 Speaker 3: times and taking a cake a bunch of times. 44 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, well that's so fun. I look forward to that, 45 00:02:51,360 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: like sort of all my friends are in the range 46 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 1: where everybody's kids are too little to do international travel. 47 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,480 Speaker 1: But when I see my friends who have like kids 48 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 1: that are ten to twelve or that are teenagers and 49 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:06,000 Speaker 1: they're bopping around, I'm like, God, that would be so 50 00:03:06,200 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: cool to get to show them the world. 51 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,359 Speaker 3: It's the whole point. It is literally the I mean 52 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 3: the funny part is that, like, you know, we have 53 00:03:13,760 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 3: a twenty year old son, and that we have twins 54 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:16,640 Speaker 3: that are sixteen year olds. 55 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 56 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 2: And when they were born we were buried. 57 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 3: So like like all of your friends who have little 58 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 3: kids and like do only certain things, like you know, 59 00:03:25,919 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 3: they go to like going to the local restaurant is 60 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 3: a big outing. Yeah that for like three years, three 61 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 3: years we were just on like life. If you walk 62 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 3: slowly in front of my house, I just handed you 63 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:35,839 Speaker 3: a kid. 64 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,600 Speaker 2: Yeah I need to know you just hold hold this 65 00:03:38,720 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 2: for a second. 66 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:46,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, oh my goodness. Okay, So I love 67 00:03:46,360 --> 00:03:50,760 Speaker 1: I love the tangential parenting moment because it actually, in 68 00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 1: a really interesting way, points back to the thing I 69 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:57,160 Speaker 1: normally like to ask people first, which is about yourself 70 00:03:57,200 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: as a child, because like, look me as the person 71 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,480 Speaker 1: interviewing you. So many of the folks who are going 72 00:04:04,560 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: to listen to this episode, like, we know, we know 73 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:10,200 Speaker 1: you as grown up Jason George, we know you from work, 74 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 1: like you you've been our beloved Ben for fourteen years, 75 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: like og Grays fan over here. You know you carried 76 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:21,159 Speaker 1: him onto other shows. Like it's so easy to think 77 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 1: you know someone because you have observed their body of work, right, 78 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:30,679 Speaker 1: And so I'm curious, especially because you're a dad, if 79 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: from this point in your life, if you were to 80 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: hang out with your eight year old self, like, would 81 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: you like him? What was he into? Did he know 82 00:04:39,760 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: he was going to be an artist? Like, like, do 83 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,159 Speaker 1: you see how that little boy became the man you 84 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 1: are today? Or has it all sort of happened, you know, 85 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 1: by by miracle and happenstance? 86 00:04:50,680 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 3: Now? Is you know? Is that that's a that's a 87 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:56,719 Speaker 3: good question. That is a good first question that would 88 00:04:56,720 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 3: have had somebody. Could I have seen him as a artists? Yeah? 89 00:05:01,839 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 3: I was a goofy I was a goofy show off, 90 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:11,360 Speaker 3: uh smart ality little kid. But at the same time, 91 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 3: I'm I'm the middle child and one of three boys, 92 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 3: and so I was also you know, all of the 93 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 3: I liked all I believe in all of the good 94 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 3: stuff that psychiatrists say about middle kids like I got 95 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:25,159 Speaker 3: to be the baby for four years and then I 96 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 3: got to be the big brother, and so, you know, 97 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:33,400 Speaker 3: and so I'm I I. Uh I was a rule 98 00:05:33,440 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 3: follower on the surface, like I was the good kid 99 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 3: as far as you could see. Uh I was. And 100 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:42,480 Speaker 3: I was in fact a good hearted kid. We were 101 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 3: never trying to damage anything. But and my older brother 102 00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,920 Speaker 3: is part of the reason for this. We were mischievous kids. 103 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 3: We were really mischievous kids, and so had. 104 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:52,080 Speaker 1: A sense of humor. 105 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 2: Oh, the sense of humor was like huge in my house. 106 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,120 Speaker 3: It was there. The whole thing was you know, I mean, 107 00:05:56,160 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 3: like we you know, my mom and my mom and 108 00:05:58,080 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 3: dad split up, you know, and it was on a 109 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:05,120 Speaker 3: low train, the slowest rolling divorce of all time, like 110 00:06:05,160 --> 00:06:06,960 Speaker 3: over the course of like ten years and just slowly. 111 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 3: My dad was like less and less around it, and 112 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 3: he was like never around. 113 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 2: But like you know, money troubles and everything like that. 114 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 3: Mom was always the you know, like you know the 115 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 3: phrase rob Peter to pay Paul. It's like I should 116 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:23,839 Speaker 3: have like a tattoo that says that phrase, because that 117 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:25,840 Speaker 3: was like my mom's whole phrase. And she would just 118 00:06:26,040 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 3: lap because she's like better than crying, I mean, and 119 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:33,280 Speaker 3: that was her whole take. So our whole perspective on 120 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:37,320 Speaker 3: life from birth was just like, hey man, you know 121 00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,640 Speaker 3: it's it's it can it can always be worse, So 122 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 3: you know, so enjoy wherever you're at, even if today's 123 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 3: pretty crappy, you know, you know, laugh about it, find 124 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 3: somebody and find something, find something to just howeverasil it is. 125 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 2: If you enjoy or whatever you're on grade, it's danced 126 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 2: out and that sort of thing. 127 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,559 Speaker 3: But I mean, it's you know, and then my mother, 128 00:07:00,720 --> 00:07:03,120 Speaker 3: uh and my dad actually both loved music, and that's 129 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 3: what it thinks. So it was like there was always 130 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 3: music playing in the house and uh, and there was 131 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 3: a that joy in the middle of whatever was going on. 132 00:07:13,360 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 3: I mean, so that's kind of like how I lived, 133 00:07:15,200 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 3: Like I'm always I'm always going to be good where 134 00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 3: I'm at, And even as a kid, that was kind 135 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 3: of the thing, like. 136 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 2: Whatever group you dropped me in, I'd find a way 137 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 2: to hang. 138 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 3: I mean, I was I was just smart enough to 139 00:07:28,200 --> 00:07:30,880 Speaker 3: hang with the smart kids, just cool enough to hang 140 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 3: to like get into the cool kid party. I'm never 141 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 3: the leader of any of these groups. I can just 142 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 3: just hang with them, you know. And I was, I 143 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 3: was a geek, but uh but at the end of 144 00:07:41,200 --> 00:07:43,080 Speaker 3: the day, I'm I'm you know, the nerd in me 145 00:07:43,200 --> 00:07:47,040 Speaker 3: is real. You know that age you talk about eight 146 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 3: year old me, that's around the time that I discovered 147 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,280 Speaker 3: comic books and all that stuff. Uh, and the imagination 148 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 3: blew wide open. And it was like Martin Luther King. 149 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 3: Every kid did their book report back then on you know, 150 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 3: a booker Team Washington or you know. 151 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 2: And so like I had this dream of, like, you. 152 00:08:08,320 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 3: Know, being one of those people who argue in your 153 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:15,800 Speaker 3: thirdod Marshal, like arguing a case. And I mean like 154 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 3: I thought, like being that kind of smart person who 155 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 3: actually made change in the world, that'd be cool. So 156 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:23,640 Speaker 3: that was the plan and that was the goal. Uh. 157 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 3: But you always saw this kind of creative bent underneath 158 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:29,480 Speaker 3: it that like, but no nobody does it. I'm from 159 00:08:29,520 --> 00:08:31,320 Speaker 3: a military town. I mean where I grew up is 160 00:08:31,880 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 3: you know, Virginia Beach. Virginia is the largest naval base 161 00:08:33,960 --> 00:08:37,560 Speaker 3: in the world. So like, yeah, and all my friends, 162 00:08:37,600 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 3: all of my parents, my dad was navy. Like, you know, 163 00:08:40,679 --> 00:08:43,559 Speaker 3: arts was not a thing that people did for a living. 164 00:08:43,960 --> 00:08:46,240 Speaker 3: You know, you love, you know, music is cool and 165 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 3: everything like that, but that's other people do all that 166 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,240 Speaker 3: kind of stuff, you know, and I think it's not 167 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:53,920 Speaker 3: even a thing that was like, you know so but uh, 168 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 3: you know, but second grade play, I robbed the line 169 00:08:57,120 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 3: gotta laugh, you know, and it's stuck. It's stuck in 170 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:03,200 Speaker 3: the back of the brain. 171 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 1: We'll be back in just a minute after a few 172 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:12,920 Speaker 1: words from our favorite sponsors. So then when you fast 173 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: forward to, you know, joining a show like Gray's in 174 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 1: twenty ten, did that feel intimidating? Were you excited? Had 175 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: you watched the show before? 176 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 3: Like, yeah, yeah, I mean look, I mean my wife 177 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,560 Speaker 3: and I when we work out, we work out separately, 178 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 3: and she she will tend to watch her you know, 179 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 3: quote unquote chick flicks, and I'll watch like just explosion 180 00:09:39,360 --> 00:09:40,080 Speaker 3: after explosion. 181 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 2: This is back in the day. Pandemic changed her. Now 182 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:44,120 Speaker 2: she's all blood and guts. Now she's like. 183 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 3: Vikings and like, you know, yeah, apocalyptic, Like she's a 184 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:51,040 Speaker 3: whole different persons of the pandemic. And I'm like, you changed. 185 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:52,920 Speaker 3: As I clutch the pearls and look at her, I'm like, 186 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:57,120 Speaker 3: you know, sleeping with one eye open. But she would watch, 187 00:09:57,640 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 3: you know, in the role was if whatever you're watching 188 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,040 Speaker 3: turn out to the really good, like the chick Flick 189 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 3: turned out to be when Harry met Sally, stop it, 190 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 3: bring it in, we'll watch it together, because now it's 191 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 3: now it's Cinela, Now it's I mean or whatever. A 192 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 3: friend of hers gave the DVD set of Gray's Anatomy 193 00:10:15,200 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 3: and she got like two episodes and stopped it, came 194 00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 3: in and said you should watch this with me. 195 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: And that was probably around. 196 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 3: Season three or four or something like that, and so 197 00:10:28,480 --> 00:10:30,199 Speaker 3: she and I started watching it, and I was like, 198 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:34,760 Speaker 3: this is dope. This is most men, Like you'd be 199 00:10:34,800 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 3: surprised how many men totally have the fan reaction and 200 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 3: then try and play it off like it's because why 201 00:10:41,040 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 3: watch it my girlfriend a wife? 202 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, honey, try being on One Tree Hill. It's 203 00:10:45,360 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 1: the same thing. 204 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:49,160 Speaker 3: One hundred percent right, And you're like, bruh, if you 205 00:10:49,200 --> 00:10:52,559 Speaker 3: knew my character name, you were not just watching, because. 206 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, you're invested. My favorite vibe is always, like you know, 207 00:10:57,280 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: being on location somewhere, everybody goes out for beers, like 208 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:02,760 Speaker 1: Friday night after you wrap, and there's always some guy 209 00:11:02,760 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 1: in a bar that's like, oh, I know you, my 210 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,679 Speaker 1: girlfriend loves your show. And then I can tell when 211 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:08,280 Speaker 1: he's had like three or four beers and he's like 212 00:11:08,559 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: when Brooke couldn't have a baby. I was that was 213 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,000 Speaker 1: just like really heavy and it really made me understand 214 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: what women go through. And I'm like, yeah, your girlfriend 215 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:15,960 Speaker 1: loves the show. 216 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:19,320 Speaker 3: I guess right, get. 217 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:22,040 Speaker 2: Just one or two beers. Oh, you know an occasion guy, 218 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 2: he'll be like, you know who just owned it? Yeah, 219 00:11:23,400 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 2: I kind of thing. But I was out to dinner 220 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:26,079 Speaker 2: with a friend the other day and this is. 221 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 3: Here in Los Angeles, and nobody in Los Angeles cares right, 222 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 3: or at least you're supposed to play it off like 223 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:31,400 Speaker 3: you don't. 224 00:11:31,760 --> 00:11:32,840 Speaker 2: I don't know what happened to dude. 225 00:11:32,880 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 3: He stopped, but Grace is one of those shows that 226 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 3: like will pierce that veil, and like dude was like 227 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 3: he was like, came over to the table, just interrupted. 228 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,280 Speaker 3: I don't mean to interrupt, and you know, listen, can't 229 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 3: get a photo, you know, and he was like, can 230 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:45,960 Speaker 3: I get a photo for my wife was a huge 231 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 3: fan of the show and everything like that, don't you know. 232 00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:49,959 Speaker 3: Oh boy got in there right next to me as 233 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 3: he did the selfie the whole night. 234 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:56,800 Speaker 2: And I was like, right right, it's freet we are 235 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:57,320 Speaker 2: men of action. 236 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 3: Lies. 237 00:11:59,280 --> 00:12:01,440 Speaker 1: Yes, that's so sweet, but. 238 00:12:01,480 --> 00:12:03,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I really wanted to. So I was. 239 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:04,480 Speaker 3: I was a big fan of the show before I 240 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:07,680 Speaker 3: ever did it, And so I've been in the game 241 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 3: for a minute before that. I've done like, you know, 242 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 3: a bunch of series, and it'd been a while since 243 00:12:13,080 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 3: i'd been nervous on a set. And that first day, 244 00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 3: maybe two days, I was like, I'll screw this up. 245 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:22,959 Speaker 3: And it was just a guest spot. It was literally 246 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 3: just a guest spot. It was only oh, Ben was 247 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:29,440 Speaker 3: supposed to do like three four episodes and then like 248 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:33,360 Speaker 3: do Miranda dirty, like you know, cheating her, like be 249 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 3: a player, and then like be out like break her 250 00:12:35,640 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 3: heart is what I understand the storyline was supposed to be. 251 00:12:38,880 --> 00:12:41,200 Speaker 3: I think they did that storyline with I think they 252 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:45,160 Speaker 3: pulled that storyline a little bit later on with with 253 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,880 Speaker 3: Joe Camilla's character. Okay, I think they did it a 254 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 3: little bit later on with her character. And but for 255 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 3: whatever reason, Shanda, god bless her, you know, said put. 256 00:12:58,080 --> 00:12:58,960 Speaker 2: That ride for a minute. 257 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:04,320 Speaker 3: Let's not let's not end that just yet, and that 258 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 3: was even when like, uh, because I had done a 259 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 3: pilot for Shonda that that didn't go and that was 260 00:13:11,400 --> 00:13:14,360 Speaker 3: my introduction into shondaaland got a great relationship with and 261 00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 3: everything like that. And then they offered me the guest 262 00:13:16,200 --> 00:13:18,920 Speaker 3: spot to come and play Ben and I was like, yeah, 263 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:19,880 Speaker 3: I just want to come through the show. 264 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 2: I just want to hang out. 265 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 3: And I was like but I also knew like the 266 00:13:23,160 --> 00:13:25,120 Speaker 3: show at that point even had a history of like 267 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,440 Speaker 3: you start as a guest star, maybe you can stick 268 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 3: around for a minute, but you know, you assume, you know, 269 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 3: we're actors. You know, you're like, this is just gonna 270 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 3: this is this is the gate. You show up, you 271 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 3: join the circus for the day, and then you go 272 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:37,840 Speaker 3: home and do your thing well. 273 00:13:37,920 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: And even when you're supposed to show up, maybe it's 274 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:42,360 Speaker 1: not going to happen. Like I was supposed to start 275 00:13:42,400 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 1: a new project on Tuesday, and they were like, so 276 00:13:46,480 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 1: we've lost the insurance on our main location and can 277 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 1: you just stay in New York for a while. And 278 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:55,719 Speaker 1: I'm sit tight, Sit tight, and you're like, gall it, 279 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:59,920 Speaker 1: it's the circus. It's an industry, and it's it's technical 280 00:14:00,200 --> 00:14:02,960 Speaker 1: and it's really well scheduled. And then it's also just 281 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: like you're at the mercy of nonsense. 282 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 3: A lot of moving parts we are, Cardiff. I mean like, 283 00:14:08,320 --> 00:14:10,720 Speaker 3: you know, hey, man, we're not doing the show tonight. 284 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:13,120 Speaker 3: I mean, we're not doing the show tonight. 285 00:14:13,160 --> 00:14:13,319 Speaker 1: Man. 286 00:14:14,920 --> 00:14:17,199 Speaker 3: You know, things get you know, any day, things can 287 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:19,320 Speaker 3: get canceled, that sort of thing. You know, So it's, uh, 288 00:14:19,360 --> 00:14:22,960 Speaker 3: it's it's all that, but uh, but you know, it's stuck. 289 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:26,000 Speaker 3: It's even when I was doing other shows, they didn't 290 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:29,080 Speaker 3: move me off. I mean I did a because when 291 00:14:29,080 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 3: I guest starred, I then did a pilot, uh another 292 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:36,040 Speaker 3: pilot for her that took and it was a series 293 00:14:36,040 --> 00:14:38,520 Speaker 3: that we did for like six months in Hawaii, and 294 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 3: and the fact they let me and again the power 295 00:14:40,480 --> 00:14:43,480 Speaker 3: of having really good people who also happen to be 296 00:14:43,480 --> 00:14:47,360 Speaker 3: tremendously powerful in the industry, you know, and you know, 297 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 3: so they didn't eliminate my character, and I kept guest starting. 298 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 3: So I would literally fly from Hawaii, fly back to 299 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 3: like do a couple of episodes, you do like a 300 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 3: couple of days on Grays, and then like go back. 301 00:14:58,320 --> 00:14:59,680 Speaker 3: So that's amazing. 302 00:14:59,760 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 2: It was real break. It was an absolute blessing. 303 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:04,920 Speaker 1: I also love when you've got people in power that 304 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:09,480 Speaker 1: don't kind of weaponize their ego. You know, so often 305 00:15:09,560 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 1: you hear, well, once you're on a show, they're going 306 00:15:11,520 --> 00:15:14,480 Speaker 1: to own you. Like they've got you. They'll never let 307 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: you work on something else. And I think like the 308 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:20,680 Speaker 1: ripple effect of Shanda saying no, you will absolutely be 309 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,680 Speaker 1: on these two projects for me, and we're not going 310 00:15:23,760 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 1: to give up a storyline just because good things are 311 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 1: happening for you as a performer. You know. Now you 312 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: cut to I mean the year that like Reese and 313 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:39,920 Speaker 1: Carrie Washington did little fires everywhere while Reese and Nicole 314 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: Kidman and you know, Zoe Kravitz were doing big little lies, 315 00:15:44,040 --> 00:15:47,160 Speaker 1: and it's like you could actually just go do the 316 00:15:47,200 --> 00:15:50,600 Speaker 1: good work if you'd be willing to not say, well, 317 00:15:50,600 --> 00:15:52,440 Speaker 1: if you're on one show, you can't be on this one. 318 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:53,280 Speaker 1: It's so dumb. 319 00:15:53,720 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: Well, it's so dumb. 320 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 3: And also the business that you and I have been 321 00:15:57,320 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 3: here for a minute, the business is totally different than 322 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 3: it was, and social media changed it. I mean, you 323 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 3: know better than anybody, but it's you know, the cross planization. 324 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,480 Speaker 3: It's like, you know, I'll bring the audience from that 325 00:16:08,560 --> 00:16:11,520 Speaker 3: thing over to this thing and vice versa, like let's 326 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 3: rise and tide floats all boats. 327 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:14,480 Speaker 2: So let's float some boats. 328 00:16:14,520 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 3: People, Let's get out there, let's let's go. Let a 329 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 3: thoroughbred run. And so that mentality, I suppose, the scarcy, 330 00:16:22,040 --> 00:16:26,240 Speaker 3: the mentality of uh, you're you're you know, I don't 331 00:16:26,280 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 3: share my toys and you want to buy toys. It's hey, 332 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 3: everybody go have fun. I mean, I remember saying with 333 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,200 Speaker 3: Betsy Beers, who's a Shanda's producing partner, if you see Sean, 334 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:37,480 Speaker 3: you know, produce by Shonda Rhymes, you'll see produce by 335 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 3: Betsy beersh She's a I joke with you. I jokingly 336 00:16:42,040 --> 00:16:44,920 Speaker 3: say that, you know, she's the ginger Rogers to Shonda 337 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:48,720 Speaker 3: spread as fare makes the whole thing. Where Betsy was like, 338 00:16:49,480 --> 00:16:52,320 Speaker 3: we believe in building a company, an old school theater 339 00:16:52,440 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 3: company and keeping everybody happy. They're like if you're if 340 00:16:56,400 --> 00:17:00,480 Speaker 3: you're happy, you're gonna work harder and better. And that's 341 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 3: sort of thing. 342 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 2: And that was the truth. Like I flew home, they 343 00:17:03,240 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 2: they on off the map. 344 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 3: When I was shooting in Hawaii, in addition to coming 345 00:17:07,040 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 3: back to occasionally shoot Grace, I tried to turn down 346 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:14,159 Speaker 3: off the bat, you know, and at the time I 347 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 3: was just moving into that, like, you know, offer only 348 00:17:17,240 --> 00:17:18,879 Speaker 3: blah blah blah thah. I wasn't quite there, and so 349 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 3: like they were like, I've done the pilot for Shonda. 350 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:22,680 Speaker 3: I get They'd offer me the guest spot to play 351 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,000 Speaker 3: Ben and then they were like, so Shanda wants you 352 00:17:25,000 --> 00:17:27,640 Speaker 3: to come in and A well, no, the network wants 353 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 3: you to come in an audition for the Shanda's New show. 354 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:30,879 Speaker 2: And I was like cool. 355 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:32,880 Speaker 3: I was super excited and then found I had shot 356 00:17:32,880 --> 00:17:35,439 Speaker 3: in Hawaii and my oldest kid was in first grade, 357 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 3: twins just started preschool. I was like, Dad needs to me, 358 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:41,280 Speaker 3: you know, military kid knows. I was like, no, I'm 359 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:42,960 Speaker 3: gonna big ill. You're not gonna forget my face. I 360 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 3: need to be home. I can't do it. So I 361 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:46,879 Speaker 3: turned down the audition. They said, they want you to 362 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:49,320 Speaker 3: come in and test for can't do it, they said, 363 00:17:50,040 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 3: And finally was like, they're straight off me there. I 364 00:17:51,680 --> 00:17:53,920 Speaker 3: was like, I can't do and finally like Shonda called 365 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 3: me and goes what the hell? 366 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:58,120 Speaker 2: And I was like cause I was like, you know. 367 00:17:58,160 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 3: The whole time, I was like, if I go in 368 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,120 Speaker 3: with thelationship, I have now and looking at this role, 369 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 3: I can do this role, I can kill this role, 370 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:05,680 Speaker 3: and it's exactly the kind of thing I want to do. 371 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:08,959 Speaker 3: And then they wrote the show so that like I 372 00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:11,560 Speaker 3: had three day weekends, at least three day weekends, like 373 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:13,479 Speaker 3: at least three weekends a month. That's he was like, 374 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 3: we're gonna screw it up once or twice, but we'll 375 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 3: basically get you home three weekends out of the month 376 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,560 Speaker 3: for like a long weekend you can do the family thing. 377 00:18:20,600 --> 00:18:23,439 Speaker 3: And I was like, that can work for my family thing. 378 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:25,199 Speaker 3: And the whole thing was they were like and by 379 00:18:25,240 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 3: the way, if you watch the show, you'll never notice 380 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 3: that the characters been I didn't even realize that. Like 381 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 3: Audie McDonald, they did the same thing for her on 382 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:33,959 Speaker 3: private practice, which is why they were like, no, that's 383 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 3: a doable thing. So she could get home there at 384 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:37,960 Speaker 3: the time, her kid was in New York, you know. 385 00:18:38,000 --> 00:18:40,800 Speaker 3: So it was like having powerful people who, like you said, 386 00:18:40,840 --> 00:18:43,480 Speaker 3: don't weaponize your ego. And in fact, just because the 387 00:18:43,560 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 3: natural inclination is to say no to anybody in this town, 388 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:50,640 Speaker 3: because no means even when yes is obviously the right answer, yes, 389 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 3: it's creatively right Yes, gets you more money, But yes 390 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 3: means you got to learn new stuff. Yes means that 391 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:58,240 Speaker 3: we've got to you know, this thing's a week dip. 392 00:18:58,520 --> 00:19:01,040 Speaker 3: No means things stay exactly the way they are. I 393 00:19:01,080 --> 00:19:03,399 Speaker 3: don't have to rethink. I don't have to learn anything new. 394 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:05,200 Speaker 3: I don't have to change anything that I've been doing 395 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:08,879 Speaker 3: all along. But the same is also boring. Is a 396 00:19:08,920 --> 00:19:11,360 Speaker 3: reason why we're in this business because we didn't want 397 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:13,199 Speaker 3: to sit behind the desk. We want to, like, you know, 398 00:19:13,240 --> 00:19:15,520 Speaker 3: we want to explore new stuff. We want to get 399 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 3: out there. Even you're doing the same job, every day 400 00:19:18,080 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 3: is way different. I mean, so today we're going to 401 00:19:20,600 --> 00:19:22,560 Speaker 3: blow something up. Today, you're going to reach into a 402 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:25,199 Speaker 3: woman's something can pull her baby out. You're gonna, you know, 403 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:29,920 Speaker 3: something insane is going to happen today. So uh yeah. 404 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 3: So they when they say trying to find a way 405 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,200 Speaker 3: to make Yes work and then trying to went and 406 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:35,360 Speaker 3: wrote the book, her book. 407 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,359 Speaker 2: You know, Year of Yes, And I was like, so 408 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 2: she's just you know, she inspired. 409 00:19:39,760 --> 00:19:42,359 Speaker 3: Mese on multiple levels. And I think that she responded 410 00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:44,000 Speaker 3: to the fact that I was actually trying to take 411 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:44,760 Speaker 3: care of my family. 412 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 2: Yes, uh, And I think that's one of the things 413 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:48,320 Speaker 2: that like work for her. 414 00:19:48,400 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 3: So it's that, I mean, she has a thing at 415 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 3: the end of her email that says, uh, if you're 416 00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 3: she used to have it, I'm trying to remember if 417 00:19:56,520 --> 00:19:58,920 Speaker 3: she still has it. It's that if you were reading 418 00:19:58,920 --> 00:20:01,720 Speaker 3: this email after send clock at night, maybe go be 419 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:05,439 Speaker 3: with your people. Yeah, I mean, and like, that's your 420 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,879 Speaker 3: boss having right, but the priorities are straight. I'll do 421 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 3: anything for I'll do That's. 422 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 1: The kind of theater company I want to be in. 423 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:14,960 Speaker 3: Like, and that's I think there are more people in 424 00:20:14,960 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 3: this business starting to get that, starting to realize's let's 425 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:20,280 Speaker 3: enjoy it. Let's not kill ourselves doing the job. Let's 426 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:22,640 Speaker 3: let the job actually feed our life instead of suck 427 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 3: life out of us. 428 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 1: Well, because that's the thing. If you turn, if you 429 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:31,600 Speaker 1: turn the immense good fortune to be creative for a 430 00:20:31,640 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 1: living into a punishment, it feels like it feels like 431 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:43,439 Speaker 1: a like a multiplier of x kind of disservice, like 432 00:20:43,560 --> 00:20:47,159 Speaker 1: we should be. Yes, the hours are grueling, Yes, it 433 00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: can be totally insane. Yes, having to be on a 434 00:20:49,280 --> 00:20:53,800 Speaker 1: plane every seventy eight hours can be nuts. But how 435 00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:58,720 Speaker 1: lucky Still, how lucky And like let's let it be fun. 436 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 3: We make believe for living. It's the most fundamental human 437 00:21:01,680 --> 00:21:03,679 Speaker 3: thing that has ever existed, and we get to do 438 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:04,240 Speaker 3: it for a living. 439 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 2: It's an absolute blessing. 440 00:21:06,200 --> 00:21:11,680 Speaker 3: So like, you know, you know, tired, sleepless, whatever, whatever, 441 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:14,200 Speaker 3: I'm like, hey man, the dream. 442 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: The dream. Yeah, I love that. You got to also 443 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 1: do something that you know, it's not as common in 444 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:24,840 Speaker 1: our business, but I got to do a little bit 445 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 1: of it working across the network the universe rather of 446 00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 1: Dick Wolf shows, and you did it in Shondaland, and 447 00:21:33,720 --> 00:21:36,919 Speaker 1: you went from Gray's on to Station nineteen back onto Grays. 448 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:42,680 Speaker 1: Like taking these characters out into bigger worlds, I think 449 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,320 Speaker 1: is just so cool. Like the day that I showed 450 00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:49,680 Speaker 1: up for my first day on SVU as my character 451 00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:52,240 Speaker 1: from PD, I just was like, what is happening? Like 452 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:55,360 Speaker 1: I'm having the best day. It was my most favorite 453 00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:59,600 Speaker 1: part of my job. Was it super exciting for you 454 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:01,800 Speaker 1: to get to do that, to get to explore this 455 00:22:01,840 --> 00:22:04,920 Speaker 1: new world but under the same umbrella one. 456 00:22:04,920 --> 00:22:08,000 Speaker 3: Hundred I mean in this you know, I mean look 457 00:22:08,040 --> 00:22:10,360 Speaker 3: and I can I can only imagine because I mean 458 00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 3: mine was we had the same experience with slightly different 459 00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 3: you going on SVU, because being a guest star is 460 00:22:15,920 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 3: like the hardest job in all of Hollywood, with the 461 00:22:19,040 --> 00:22:21,720 Speaker 3: possible exception of being a guest director, because you got 462 00:22:21,760 --> 00:22:26,280 Speaker 3: to like because you're in somebody else's sandbox, but you've 463 00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 3: got to like bring this whole person. And on our show, 464 00:22:29,040 --> 00:22:30,679 Speaker 3: I tell the guest stars all the time, I'm like 465 00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 3: extra love on the guest stars because they've got a 466 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 3: boohoo with their like loved one dying on this you know, 467 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 3: you know, the love of their life dying on the table, 468 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,000 Speaker 3: or their kid big, you know, and they've got to 469 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,639 Speaker 3: like carry so much emotional weight and all this crazy 470 00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,159 Speaker 3: stuff and then be funny in the middle of it 471 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 3: and all this stuff. And they're like they know they're 472 00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,560 Speaker 3: on this like show that's been around for twenty one 473 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:55,160 Speaker 3: you know, it's like this juggernaut, and so like they're 474 00:22:55,320 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 3: they're really out of their element, and they've got to be. 475 00:22:59,320 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 3: They got to do this thing that is only done 476 00:23:01,640 --> 00:23:04,879 Speaker 3: well when you are most comfortable. I mean act, You've 477 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 3: got to be You've got to be comfortable in order 478 00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 3: to act properly. So I always feel like I got 479 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,680 Speaker 3: to cheat, you know, you got cheat a little bit. 480 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:15,600 Speaker 3: You're going into you know, Mariska's territory, but you're playing 481 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:17,840 Speaker 3: a character that you knew intimately. You know this character 482 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 3: inside and out down to our DNA, so you still knew, like, 483 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:22,840 Speaker 3: I know this character. So even though this is not 484 00:23:22,960 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 3: my set, this character is my joint. I got this, 485 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 3: you know. I got to take a character that I 486 00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:34,280 Speaker 3: knew intimately and go to a show that was being created. 487 00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 2: And helped create that atmosphere. 488 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:36,879 Speaker 1: How cool. 489 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 3: So to like be on the ground floor of like yo, 490 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 3: like this is in the greatest compliment. I'm about to 491 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 3: get tierry for a second, because you know, we just 492 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,160 Speaker 3: rapped nineteen only a few months ago. I literally two 493 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:54,199 Speaker 3: nights ago, had had drinks with my my DP and 494 00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:59,240 Speaker 3: first a D on the episodes that I directed. They're 495 00:23:59,400 --> 00:24:04,399 Speaker 3: in there there, my guys, and uh. But Peter Page, 496 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:07,080 Speaker 3: the showrunner of the show, said to me and we 497 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 3: were just talking about the other day and they were 498 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:13,640 Speaker 3: laughing because his compliment to me was, you don't know 499 00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 3: how much grief we escaped because it was understood amongst 500 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:22,400 Speaker 3: cast and crew. 501 00:24:22,760 --> 00:24:25,880 Speaker 2: Oh, Jason would never like that's fly. 502 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:28,359 Speaker 3: I mean like like, oh, you're about to throw one 503 00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:31,719 Speaker 3: at it's like, and I'm all about respect. So if 504 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,440 Speaker 3: you disrespect me, we got a problem. 505 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:35,120 Speaker 2: And I'm going to talk to you in. 506 00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:37,680 Speaker 3: An intellectual like way, like we're gonna like you will 507 00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 3: not disrespect me. But I also do not do diva 508 00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:44,280 Speaker 3: Like diva is not It does not play in my world. 509 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 3: And you know, you know, And so that was the 510 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 3: thing that like he said that to me, and I 511 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,240 Speaker 3: was like, I've been good with the ending of the 512 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:52,679 Speaker 3: show up to that point, you know, and like that 513 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:54,159 Speaker 3: was when I was like, you're not gonna make me. 514 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 2: Correct, go get me, don't do it. 515 00:24:57,920 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, we'll be back in just minute. But here's 516 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 1: a word from our sponsors. I also love that that 517 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:10,000 Speaker 1: was something so well respected in you. I think that 518 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: speaks to the environment. You know. I like to sit 519 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,800 Speaker 1: squarely in that space as well, treat everyone with immense respect. 520 00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: Especially I like to go out of my way to make, 521 00:25:20,280 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: as you were saying, guest stars feel really comfortable, especially 522 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,520 Speaker 1: if someone's going to come in for an arc, you know, 523 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 1: seven years into a show. I was just talking to 524 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:30,159 Speaker 1: my girlfriend from Wintree Hill, my friend Janna, about this, 525 00:25:30,680 --> 00:25:32,679 Speaker 1: and she was like, I never even told you what 526 00:25:32,760 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 1: it meant to me, like when I showed up there 527 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,320 Speaker 1: for three months that you took me to dinner, you 528 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 1: took me shopping, you showed me around town. I was like, girl, 529 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,800 Speaker 1: I remember what it felt like to show up on 530 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:43,960 Speaker 1: that set and be terrified. 531 00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:46,159 Speaker 2: Like I get it right, that's and that's what is. 532 00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:49,160 Speaker 2: It's remembering it like never forgetting what it is. 533 00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 3: I think that's like Shonda's superpower or like Taylor Swift's superpower. 534 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:55,000 Speaker 3: Is what's like to be a fan? 535 00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:57,880 Speaker 1: Yes, oh my god, me neither. My friend's making fun 536 00:25:57,920 --> 00:25:59,240 Speaker 1: of me all the time. We'll go to you know 537 00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,399 Speaker 1: whatever we got to go do, like the SAG Awards, 538 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:03,200 Speaker 1: and they're like, you are a famous person. You can't 539 00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 1: behave this way around other famous people. 540 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 3: I'm like, but do you know what it is like? 541 00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:11,560 Speaker 1: And I like that it's never I've never gotten jaded 542 00:26:11,600 --> 00:26:14,840 Speaker 1: about it. And what I'm happy to see shifting is 543 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: like that thing you talk about. There's such leadership and strength. 544 00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:24,080 Speaker 1: And I think particularly for you, as you know, a 545 00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:26,720 Speaker 1: charismatic man with a nice voice like you get to 546 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 1: come in and say this is what respect looks like. 547 00:26:30,560 --> 00:26:33,879 Speaker 1: Years ago for me, I would find that if I 548 00:26:33,960 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 1: would talk about where the boundaries were, like respect is 549 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:39,760 Speaker 1: required and this kind of behavior won't be tolerated in 550 00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,240 Speaker 1: this workplace. I got a lot of like, well, you 551 00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:44,960 Speaker 1: can't talk to people about that, that's not your job. 552 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,439 Speaker 1: And I was like why because I'm the girl and 553 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:49,040 Speaker 1: I'm just supposed to be nice, sweet and cute. And 554 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:54,920 Speaker 1: it's a cool experience too. I think see sets with 555 00:26:55,320 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: diverse kinds of leadership, whether that's in terms of you know, gender, race, 556 00:27:01,200 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 1: whatever diversity qualifier you want to fill in, because the 557 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 1: more diversity of leadership there is, the more respect there 558 00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 1: is for different kinds of leadership as well. And you 559 00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:17,040 Speaker 1: see how that makes everybody feel more respected and empowered 560 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,600 Speaker 1: to be the best worker. They can be the best leader, 561 00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:22,199 Speaker 1: they can be the best partner, they can be the 562 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,840 Speaker 1: best advocate they can be. And like I got to 563 00:27:25,880 --> 00:27:28,000 Speaker 1: say again, just as a you know, as a fan 564 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:31,760 Speaker 1: and a peer, watching the way you navigate that in 565 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:35,840 Speaker 1: the conversations you've been willing to have about what a 566 00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,320 Speaker 1: hair and makeup trailer should be capable of. So the 567 00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,760 Speaker 1: actors of color don't walk into a set and go, oh, 568 00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,280 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be taken care of here. What 569 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,800 Speaker 1: the vibe should be on set where everyone feels immensely respected, 570 00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 1: but nobody has the you know, and nobody has the 571 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:55,320 Speaker 1: space to be difficult. How you have to be professional 572 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:58,320 Speaker 1: and you deserve to be treated well, but you shouldn't 573 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,959 Speaker 1: have your ego stroked. How you have a platform, you 574 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 1: have to spend that privilege and do good for the world, 575 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:06,440 Speaker 1: Like you're out here doing all the things that I 576 00:28:06,480 --> 00:28:09,199 Speaker 1: believe in in the core of my being. And so 577 00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:13,200 Speaker 1: I don't know, I hope it doesn't sound like cheesy, 578 00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:16,560 Speaker 1: but I also want to say thank you because we 579 00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:18,359 Speaker 1: are part of a circus and when we go out 580 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 1: and advocate sometimes people say, well, how dare you And 581 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,040 Speaker 1: it's like, y'all, we're just here because we're like weird 582 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,280 Speaker 1: union workers, so of course we're going to defend unions, 583 00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 1: and of course we're going to defend our people. And 584 00:28:28,720 --> 00:28:30,879 Speaker 1: so I don't know. When I see other people like 585 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,199 Speaker 1: carrying all, you know, putting all of those things in 586 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,120 Speaker 1: their backpack and marching along, I really appreciate it. 587 00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 2: No, I got mad love for you. 588 00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 3: I mean not to turn it into the mutual love fest, 589 00:28:40,760 --> 00:28:43,720 Speaker 3: but but you know, look, my mom would say, you know, 590 00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 3: when you have eyes on you. It's your duty to 591 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 3: turn that days to what they need to be looking at. 592 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,120 Speaker 2: I mean, don't make it about you. 593 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,600 Speaker 3: Make it about like, look at this thing that's really 594 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:56,480 Speaker 3: important or like you should be making and you are 595 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 3: all about that have been since day one, and use 596 00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 3: the platform good and then the whole and then this 597 00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 3: world where people are like, you know, shut up and dribble. 598 00:29:04,040 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 3: Celebrities should keep their mouths shut, and I'm like, no, 599 00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:10,800 Speaker 3: everybody should be talking, but everybody should be making sure 600 00:29:10,800 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 3: they actually really do their research and have their stuff type. 601 00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:16,959 Speaker 3: I mean, so you know, like I have friends who 602 00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,880 Speaker 3: are like, how do you not get blow Like I 603 00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 3: don't get that much blowback when I advocate for stuff 604 00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:23,800 Speaker 3: on social media. I'm like, how do you not get 605 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 3: the blowback? And I go, well, part of it is 606 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 3: I say it like I'm sitting with you at the 607 00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 3: dinner table. I mean, because I'm from a like I said, 608 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,160 Speaker 3: a military town in Virginia, a very purple state, you know, 609 00:29:36,240 --> 00:29:41,160 Speaker 3: Like I have tons of friends that are very conservative, 610 00:29:41,440 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 3: very religious, very right, you know that sort of thing. 611 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,360 Speaker 3: And I'm like, but at the end of the day, 612 00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:49,320 Speaker 3: if I talk to you and we're trying to solve 613 00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 3: a problem as opposed to win some theoretical debate. I mean, 614 00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:57,400 Speaker 3: if I talk like a human being, then you can't 615 00:29:57,480 --> 00:30:01,040 Speaker 3: get that. You can't get mad. I mean, we can disagree, 616 00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:04,200 Speaker 3: but you can't, you know, like so like in solving 617 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,960 Speaker 3: the problems on sets, or solving the problems in the industry, 618 00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:09,160 Speaker 3: and I mean like working with SAG after and being 619 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:09,640 Speaker 3: in rooms. 620 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 2: I was in the. 621 00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:14,000 Speaker 3: Negotiating room for you when we went on strike, and 622 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 3: there was are you know, knee deep in that. But 623 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:18,600 Speaker 3: there have been three times where I was ever where 624 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,600 Speaker 3: I thought to myself, I think I just ended my career. 625 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:25,840 Speaker 3: And I was like, I was like, I'm gonna go home. 626 00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:27,720 Speaker 3: My wife's going to be really really upset with me. 627 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,239 Speaker 3: She was like, maybe you should shut them up. But 628 00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:32,600 Speaker 3: the reality is it doesn't happen. And the reason why 629 00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:38,000 Speaker 3: is because business is business. And when you approach business 630 00:30:38,040 --> 00:30:40,920 Speaker 3: from a take care of your workers. I'm one of 631 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 3: your workers. Here's what we need to do a better 632 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 3: job for you and for us, like help us, help you, right, 633 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,800 Speaker 3: you know, And so when you approach it from the 634 00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:52,960 Speaker 3: we're trying to solve problems here, I'm going to show you, 635 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,360 Speaker 3: mister City Executive, mister cdeo, mister whoever it is that's 636 00:30:56,360 --> 00:30:59,000 Speaker 3: in position of power, that's management. I'm going to show 637 00:30:59,000 --> 00:31:02,800 Speaker 3: you problems that are problems for us that will become 638 00:31:02,840 --> 00:31:06,680 Speaker 3: your problem. Yes, Like if I if I don't have 639 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:09,960 Speaker 3: health care, that's going to become your problem. Very free. 640 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:12,400 Speaker 3: I mean if I do't have if I can't feed 641 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:14,840 Speaker 3: my family, if I have to get a second job, 642 00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 3: guess what my productivity at you is going to go 643 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:20,120 Speaker 3: weigh down, Like, so let's help me help you. 644 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:21,280 Speaker 2: And when you come in from that. 645 00:31:21,320 --> 00:31:24,000 Speaker 3: Standpoint, it's real hard to get mad at folks. You know, 646 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 3: they might be annoyed because it's like it's going to 647 00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:29,600 Speaker 3: cost me money. But again, it's a business. You got 648 00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:31,120 Speaker 3: to spend money to make money. Bro, you knew that 649 00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 3: you got in the gate, you knew you know, it's 650 00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:36,520 Speaker 3: what you started up for. So when you approach it 651 00:31:36,600 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 3: from that kind of like, let's solve problems, not win 652 00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,880 Speaker 3: debates or win fights, Yes, then I think people chill out. 653 00:31:43,880 --> 00:31:45,840 Speaker 3: And I think when you go on social media and 654 00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 3: you're trying to solve problems and you talk to people 655 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:51,720 Speaker 3: like they're actually instead of looking for the ultimate clap 656 00:31:51,760 --> 00:31:54,440 Speaker 3: back and you know, let me uh, you know, let 657 00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 3: me make sure I get my likes. 658 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 2: It's like I will take fewer likes and actually have 659 00:31:58,920 --> 00:31:59,680 Speaker 2: people actually. 660 00:31:59,480 --> 00:32:03,160 Speaker 3: Hear my same instead of just preaching to people who 661 00:32:03,400 --> 00:32:06,520 Speaker 3: agree with me and just want to shout down the 662 00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:10,520 Speaker 3: other side and win that absolutely win some philosophical debate. 663 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 1: What was it like sitting on the board because you know, 664 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,920 Speaker 1: now you're also the chair of the National Union's Diversity 665 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 1: Advisory Committee, so you have stayed in this leadership role 666 00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:25,840 Speaker 1: in SAG since the strike. And one of the things 667 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 1: I found really impressive about it is that it finally 668 00:32:29,560 --> 00:32:32,720 Speaker 1: helped poke holes in this illusion that like all the 669 00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 1: Hollywood people are privileged, you know, and that everyone's just 670 00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 1: rolling in money. It's like, no, most of us are 671 00:32:38,600 --> 00:32:40,600 Speaker 1: circus performers and most of the people in our union 672 00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:44,800 Speaker 1: are working paycheck to paycheck, Like, come on, y'all at best, 673 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:48,760 Speaker 1: and you know, I think people finally, especially I thought 674 00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:52,440 Speaker 1: it was really really powerful when Taraji opened up about 675 00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:55,920 Speaker 1: what it actually looks looks like to be a business 676 00:32:56,000 --> 00:32:59,160 Speaker 1: as an entertainer, and you start to say like, yeah, guys, 677 00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,760 Speaker 1: if I make a dollar, my agent makes ten cents, 678 00:33:01,800 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 1: my manager makes ten cents. My lawyer takes, you know, 679 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,040 Speaker 1: depending on the job, five to ten cents. A publicist 680 00:33:07,040 --> 00:33:09,400 Speaker 1: takes ten cents. If you have an assistant to help 681 00:33:09,400 --> 00:33:11,200 Speaker 1: you manage your life because you're on set for eighteen 682 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 1: hours a day, they're taking ten cents. The government's taken 683 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,720 Speaker 1: thirty seven. Like, got I got to make a dollar 684 00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: to maybe take home ten or fifteen cents? And people go, 685 00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 1: oh shit, and it's like, yeah, I eat. Everybody eats. 686 00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:25,920 Speaker 1: It's kind of why when we talk about like healthcare, 687 00:33:25,960 --> 00:33:28,720 Speaker 1: we're like, well, there is enough money, Like maybe if 688 00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 1: we didn't charge thirty thousand dollars for an MRI that 689 00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: you know, oversees costs a nine hundred bucks, Like, there 690 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,280 Speaker 1: is actually enough money to keep the people healthy. You 691 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:38,920 Speaker 1: just got to split it up a little bit better. 692 00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,480 Speaker 1: And I think a lot of people went, oh, we 693 00:33:42,560 --> 00:33:47,719 Speaker 1: didn't realize this about your industry. We didn't understand what 694 00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 1: your unions did. We didn't totally get that. You know, 695 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 1: the Actors' union's on set with the construction Union and 696 00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,880 Speaker 1: the transportation union. It's like, yeah, we're just a bunch 697 00:33:56,920 --> 00:34:00,520 Speaker 1: of weirdos, like hanging out trying to entertain you. I 698 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 1: thought it was so powerful to tell more of the 699 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:08,759 Speaker 1: truth and to really talk about workers' rights from you know, 700 00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,799 Speaker 1: these platforms that we have, as you say, you know, 701 00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 1: to I always the way your mom talks about I 702 00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:14,799 Speaker 1: always say like, oh, if you turn the spotlight on me, 703 00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna grab it and turn it back like over here. 704 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:22,360 Speaker 1: And I guess I just wonder, like, after all these years, 705 00:34:22,440 --> 00:34:26,239 Speaker 1: you know, because you talk about your career, and obviously 706 00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:30,000 Speaker 1: fourteen years in Shondaland is huge, but like you have, 707 00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:33,120 Speaker 1: you know, more than fifty guest starring roles in nine 708 00:34:33,160 --> 00:34:36,160 Speaker 1: series regular roles, and like you have been a working 709 00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:41,240 Speaker 1: actor for a long time. What was it like to 710 00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:43,760 Speaker 1: rather than just get behind the camera, like get behind 711 00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:48,279 Speaker 1: the boardroom table and really start to see inside union leadership. 712 00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:55,440 Speaker 3: No, it's funny because actually that's that's that precedes any 713 00:34:55,560 --> 00:34:59,720 Speaker 3: of the what people did describe a success and acting. 714 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:02,200 Speaker 1: Wait, your your work with the union. 715 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:06,000 Speaker 3: I've been working with the union since like for almost 716 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 3: my entire time in the industry. Uh, to be dead dead. 717 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,360 Speaker 2: Honestly, do not know that I'm a union kid. 718 00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:16,960 Speaker 3: I'm a super labor guy because unions built the middle 719 00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 3: class in this country. You know, you like having they 720 00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 3: worked with it. They can't you know, they can't work 721 00:35:20,520 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 3: you seven days a week for four hours a day. 722 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:24,759 Speaker 3: You know your union did that. You're welcome. I mean 723 00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,840 Speaker 3: most people get their health insurance through their work because 724 00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 3: unions fought for it. 725 00:35:29,160 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 2: I mean unions eight hour work days. 726 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:33,520 Speaker 1: I could just go on and on and on, workers 727 00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:36,960 Speaker 1: compensation for injury at work, all of it. 728 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 2: My mom was president of the teachers Union where I 729 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:40,000 Speaker 2: grew up. 730 00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:44,480 Speaker 3: UH, And my mom was a She taught learning disabled 731 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 3: kids UH in middle school in Norvil, Virginia. 732 00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:50,040 Speaker 2: Then you know Norfolk, Virginia. 733 00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:52,959 Speaker 3: Basically it's all right, there's one city, like you drive 734 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:57,480 Speaker 3: five minutes here in Norfolk. And she was the president 735 00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:59,880 Speaker 3: of the Novel Education Association, and then when she retired 736 00:35:59,880 --> 00:36:03,000 Speaker 3: from the classroom, she went to work for the Virginia 737 00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:08,040 Speaker 3: Beach Education Association throughout the Virginia Education Association is like, 738 00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 3: I can't tell you how many when I you know, 739 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,800 Speaker 3: I'll do I'll still do, you know, I'll you know, 740 00:36:14,880 --> 00:36:17,480 Speaker 3: Virginia politics, how many like people who are in an 741 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:19,879 Speaker 3: elected office know my mom and that sort of thing. 742 00:36:20,000 --> 00:36:22,680 Speaker 3: She's just that person, she like is not a quiet woman, 743 00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:27,080 Speaker 3: and she is like this force of nature kind of person. 744 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:32,319 Speaker 3: Having that as my north star. As I'm thinking about 745 00:36:32,360 --> 00:36:35,960 Speaker 3: becoming an actor, there were two things. I was like, 746 00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,799 Speaker 3: let me figure out, and this is her thing from 747 00:36:37,800 --> 00:36:41,440 Speaker 3: being an educator, I'm following on this. She would never 748 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,879 Speaker 3: say no. She would ask me questions until you either 749 00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:49,840 Speaker 3: realize it was a stupid idea or you had a plan. Right, 750 00:36:50,719 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 3: So eventually, unless you're an idiot, you start figuring out 751 00:36:54,600 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 3: the questions she's going to ask you and start finding 752 00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:59,160 Speaker 3: solutions to those answers, so it sounds like you actually 753 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:01,759 Speaker 3: had a plan and coming in, so you don't sell 754 00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,680 Speaker 3: like the idiot when you realize, oh, that was a 755 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:07,480 Speaker 3: really dumb idea, you're right and you got answers for 756 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:10,160 Speaker 3: so as I'm thinking I want to become an actor, 757 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,640 Speaker 3: I was like, actors never work, how do you know? 758 00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:14,160 Speaker 3: Blah blah blah blah, And I realized I wanted to 759 00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 3: go to go graduate school only because everybody comes to 760 00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,719 Speaker 3: LA takes acting classes. I was like, well, let me 761 00:37:19,800 --> 00:37:22,799 Speaker 3: go do nothing but acting classes, like not have to 762 00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,840 Speaker 3: do a day job. So for three years I just 763 00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,720 Speaker 3: was in eight in the morning to five. 764 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:31,239 Speaker 4: At night, class, sixth at night to it to a 765 00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,200 Speaker 4: ten at night rehearsals for the play you were doing, 766 00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:36,279 Speaker 4: and then you woulds the scenes that you had for 767 00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 4: the other part of the day, so like literally, and 768 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:39,800 Speaker 4: then on Saturdays it was ten in the morning to 769 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:40,719 Speaker 4: sixth at nine, Right. 770 00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:45,360 Speaker 3: So graduate school was going to get me the ability 771 00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:49,160 Speaker 3: to teach acting, so that could be my day job, right, 772 00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 3: teach acting. And then the second thing was there's this union, right, 773 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,600 Speaker 3: there's this union that protects you. That's where you it 774 00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 3: was an actor. You know, it's like suddenly in my 775 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,160 Speaker 3: mind because of my mother's kid and I knew this 776 00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 3: is the response to her when she asked the question. 777 00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,920 Speaker 3: You're an actor, you're on your own. It's you versus 778 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,840 Speaker 3: the entire world. And I'm like, there's a union and 779 00:38:10,280 --> 00:38:13,200 Speaker 3: means you never own your own. That's the whole. So 780 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:15,759 Speaker 3: you know, unions where you get your health insurance, unions 781 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,800 Speaker 3: where you get your pension. Right, I didn't even know about. 782 00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 3: I wasn't even think about, but I heard that. 783 00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 2: I just knew my mom. 784 00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:22,799 Speaker 3: Cared about those things. I was like, you know, I 785 00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:24,400 Speaker 3: was twenty, you know what I mean. I'm like, I'm 786 00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:25,960 Speaker 3: not thinking about a pension, but I knew she cared 787 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 3: about a pension. 788 00:38:26,719 --> 00:38:28,120 Speaker 2: Being able to say that Union gives. 789 00:38:27,960 --> 00:38:31,480 Speaker 3: Me a pension. She cared, so I started showing up. 790 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:33,960 Speaker 3: But this is where Rammed Home for Me was on 791 00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,360 Speaker 3: my very first gig. It was this daytime soap that 792 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:39,920 Speaker 3: I did for Aaron Spelling, Rest of His Soul. He 793 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 3: also put me my first primetime gig. Somebody called and said, 794 00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,799 Speaker 3: we're you know, daytime soaps aren't usually syndicated internationally. It's 795 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 3: Aaron Spelling, so we were. We were like on one 796 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,440 Speaker 3: hundred and sixty countries around the world, Like there are 797 00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:53,120 Speaker 3: people I had met people in Zimbabwe who are like, hey, 798 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:54,600 Speaker 3: you know, And it was funny because it was actually 799 00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:56,919 Speaker 3: when I finally went to Zimbabwe, people knew that show 800 00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,399 Speaker 3: and they knew greats and that made me laugh hard 801 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,799 Speaker 3: because I got involved with the Union because literally somebody said, hey, 802 00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 3: my friend was traveling in Zimbabwe and apparently we're on 803 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:11,520 Speaker 3: the aeron Zimbabwe this Aaron Spelling soap opera, and I said, 804 00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:15,080 Speaker 3: that's so cool. Did we get a Zimbabwe check? And 805 00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,440 Speaker 3: nobody knew if we got a Zimbabwe check, So I 806 00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:19,400 Speaker 3: contacted the Union and turns out we hadn't gotten our 807 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:22,800 Speaker 3: Zimbabwe check. Turns out our Zimbabwe check was way overdue, 808 00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:26,839 Speaker 3: and so the union got us our check and got 809 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,719 Speaker 3: us the penalty payment on top of it. I mean, 810 00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,600 Speaker 3: for me, how many days late? And I was like 811 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:37,560 Speaker 3: union got From that point on, I was sticking my 812 00:39:37,600 --> 00:39:40,440 Speaker 3: nose into it because I was like, if we do 813 00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 3: need to go out on strike, I want to I 814 00:39:42,160 --> 00:39:43,719 Speaker 3: want to know exactly what it's about, to know that 815 00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 3: it's righteous and we don't need to go out on strike. 816 00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:48,360 Speaker 3: I want to make sure that we don't have somebody 817 00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:54,720 Speaker 3: taking the trains off the tracks ego or our lives 818 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:55,879 Speaker 3: kind of thing. You know. It was like I want 819 00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:57,799 Speaker 3: to you know, what's the handle, and then I want 820 00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 3: to be in the room where it happened. I was 821 00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:03,880 Speaker 3: able to do that. So I've been on negotiating committee 822 00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:08,200 Speaker 3: since like two thousand and one, stuff like that, and 823 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 3: it was cool and even that first one, like I 824 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,880 Speaker 3: was able to and then realize that this is what 825 00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:16,000 Speaker 3: I preach about the union is all you need is 826 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,960 Speaker 3: your work experience. You need to know anything about how 827 00:40:19,000 --> 00:40:20,759 Speaker 3: all the rest of this crap works. You don't need 828 00:40:20,760 --> 00:40:22,120 Speaker 3: to speak lawyer. You need to be a lawyer. You 829 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:23,560 Speaker 3: don't need to speak lawyer. You don't need to speak 830 00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,759 Speaker 3: contract language. Be an actor and have some experiences and 831 00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:30,520 Speaker 3: as an actor, and we have union leaders and we 832 00:40:30,680 --> 00:40:35,719 Speaker 3: have staff lawyers and staff that will translate your work 833 00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:36,680 Speaker 3: experience into. 834 00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 2: Contract language to help solve problems, you know. 835 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,600 Speaker 3: I mean, I remember the first in that very first 836 00:40:41,600 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 3: negotiation up there, and they were and we were trying 837 00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:49,239 Speaker 3: to pass a thing about what's called paint downs, which 838 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:50,440 Speaker 3: is where the stunt community. 839 00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,280 Speaker 2: It's a problem with the stun community. 840 00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:55,719 Speaker 3: Occasionally it's not huge, but when it shows up, it's 841 00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,920 Speaker 3: so egregious. It freaks people out because it's literally getting 842 00:40:59,239 --> 00:41:01,919 Speaker 3: me a person of color and a stunt. My stunt 843 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 3: double will be a Caucasian person and you literally use 844 00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:06,960 Speaker 3: make them to paint them down, to literally put them 845 00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:10,400 Speaker 3: in black face, to double me. Oh, it's the equivalent 846 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,680 Speaker 3: where they get a man to double you. And usually 847 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 3: the reason why is, you know, safety's paramount, and safety 848 00:41:16,600 --> 00:41:19,439 Speaker 3: is always paramount, but the excuse is always well, we 849 00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 3: need to do it safely, and we couldn't find a 850 00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:22,960 Speaker 3: woman to do it, or we couldn't do it safely 851 00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:24,400 Speaker 3: and we couldn't find a person of color to do it. 852 00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:25,799 Speaker 2: And I'm like you didn't look hard. 853 00:41:26,200 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 1: You just didn't look hard enough. 854 00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,560 Speaker 3: Because I and I had exactly that experience just three 855 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 3: months before that negotiation. And in that negotiation, literally I'll 856 00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:36,960 Speaker 3: never forget this, one really curmudgeonly person on the other 857 00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:38,440 Speaker 3: side of the table was like, this is in the 858 00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:39,240 Speaker 3: nineteen fifties. 859 00:41:39,280 --> 00:41:39,919 Speaker 2: That doesn't happen. 860 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:41,440 Speaker 3: And I was able to raise my hand and go 861 00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:44,759 Speaker 3: three months to me, and then instantly we were in 862 00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,160 Speaker 3: a side room because they just you know, and we 863 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:48,680 Speaker 3: were getting contract language, you know. 864 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:51,800 Speaker 2: And the problem is you never solve a problem. 865 00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:54,520 Speaker 3: So I feel like sol often you don't solve the problem, 866 00:41:54,680 --> 00:41:56,239 Speaker 3: you're managing it. Because we had to come back for 867 00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,680 Speaker 3: the same problem ten years later and then another seven 868 00:41:58,760 --> 00:42:00,960 Speaker 3: years later and we dealt with it. So this contract, 869 00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:05,520 Speaker 3: but you come forward and it's the work experience that 870 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:09,360 Speaker 3: means something. So it's yeah, So for me, I understand 871 00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:11,960 Speaker 3: you being a part of the union and how much 872 00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,440 Speaker 3: the union protects to me, and how much you showing 873 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 3: up and using your voice and putting your experience and 874 00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:21,120 Speaker 3: advocating for yourself and for your peers means more than 875 00:42:21,160 --> 00:42:23,920 Speaker 3: I understand what it means to be a you know, 876 00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:28,719 Speaker 3: TV star. Yes, absolutely, that's newer in my world than 877 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:29,480 Speaker 3: the union piece. 878 00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 1: And now a word from our sponsors who make this 879 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:44,840 Speaker 1: show possible even as a woman. Like in our last 880 00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:48,440 Speaker 1: contract negotiation when we were trying to increase protections for 881 00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:51,879 Speaker 1: women on set, there were we did a side call 882 00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 1: because I was like, listen, I have not been in 883 00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,719 Speaker 1: this position, but hypothetical, Okay, let's say we have to 884 00:42:56,719 --> 00:43:00,680 Speaker 1: go do an episode of Westworld on HBO show a 885 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,359 Speaker 1: lot of nudity, especially with women. You know, you get 886 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:06,120 Speaker 1: into some of those Western towns and like these background 887 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:09,239 Speaker 1: girls they're essentially shooting like you know what looks to 888 00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:12,840 Speaker 1: be orgies, and they're like, well, now it's going to be. 889 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,440 Speaker 1: If you show up on set and they tell you 890 00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:16,200 Speaker 1: as a background doctor you have to be naked, you 891 00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:19,200 Speaker 1: can say no and leave with no penalty. And I 892 00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 1: was like, do y'all think women trying to get their 893 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:26,760 Speaker 1: foot in the door who have no power can leave 894 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,759 Speaker 1: and potentially there's supposed to be fifty of them in 895 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,400 Speaker 1: the scene and twenty five of them leave, And you 896 00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,359 Speaker 1: think those women aren't going to get blackballed by that 897 00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,439 Speaker 1: first d a D staff for fucking up their shot. Day 898 00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:41,759 Speaker 1: of said absolutely, not. There has to be language in advance, 899 00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,759 Speaker 1: like you should know two days before your set call 900 00:43:45,160 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 1: if you are expected to be without your clothing, so 901 00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:50,120 Speaker 1: you can say I'm actually unavailable and they can find 902 00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:53,319 Speaker 1: someone else and nobody needs to know why. Yeah have 903 00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:56,160 Speaker 1: to protect these people. And it was really interesting to 904 00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,359 Speaker 1: see some members of the committee go oh, and I 905 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:01,360 Speaker 1: was like, you've just you've never been a woman on 906 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:05,960 Speaker 1: a set. You don't know and that's why. Yes, of course, 907 00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:07,640 Speaker 1: And by the way, that's why I bring it up 908 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 1: because I'm like, I loved seeing that language make it in. 909 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:15,880 Speaker 1: But it required people being like, no one will say 910 00:44:16,760 --> 00:44:19,399 Speaker 1: you're going to be black bald, but they'll they'll they'll 911 00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,279 Speaker 1: get pretty close. And what we have to do is 912 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,279 Speaker 1: eradicate the circumstance where someone could be black bald in 913 00:44:26,280 --> 00:44:29,160 Speaker 1: the first place. And it's like, that's what I find 914 00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 1: exciting about what you're saying for anyone listening at home. Look, 915 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 1: we're talking about our experiences as actors. But your experience 916 00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:40,560 Speaker 1: in the workplace can make your workplace better. You can 917 00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:43,560 Speaker 1: be the aha moment. You can turn on the light 918 00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:47,400 Speaker 1: bulb for people, whether it's you know, inside your own union, 919 00:44:47,920 --> 00:44:50,880 Speaker 1: or you turn around and realize that because of your job, 920 00:44:50,960 --> 00:44:53,759 Speaker 1: you have power in another sector. It's like, it's what 921 00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 1: you're doing with Brady, which is you know so close 922 00:44:56,960 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 1: to my heart, Like I got my first rifle when 923 00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:02,440 Speaker 1: I was Oh my dad, you know, he spent his 924 00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:05,400 Speaker 1: summers on a chicken farm in Canada. Like I'm not 925 00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:10,560 Speaker 1: an anti gun person. I am vehemently anti insane gun 926 00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:16,240 Speaker 1: laws like we have in America, but to create healthier circumstance, 927 00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,160 Speaker 1: Like you know, my dad's history is his my mom's 928 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,840 Speaker 1: father was a navy guy, Like you talk about growing 929 00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:26,279 Speaker 1: up in a military family. Like you know, I did 930 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:29,120 Speaker 1: weapons work in TV. I've done it on films, Like 931 00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 1: I'm excited about the sanity conversation that you guys are 932 00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,719 Speaker 1: having it Brady, that you know Vice President Harris and 933 00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:40,200 Speaker 1: now Governor Wallaser having with us, Like you know, they 934 00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 1: were like he's coming for the guns, and people like 935 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:44,120 Speaker 1: put out that cute photo of him and his dog 936 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:46,000 Speaker 1: like out burning with a rightfle. 937 00:45:45,719 --> 00:45:48,239 Speaker 2: And I was like, y'all this is it doesn't have. 938 00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:52,839 Speaker 1: To be crazy. We can have sane conversations. How did 939 00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,520 Speaker 1: you know in addition to all your advocacy for the 940 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,719 Speaker 1: union and our industry. How did the sane gun ownership 941 00:45:58,840 --> 00:46:04,160 Speaker 1: and reining in the conversation about you know, guns and 942 00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,160 Speaker 1: gun violence. How did that get on your radar? 943 00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,239 Speaker 2: I mean, look, I mean the short answer is, I'm 944 00:46:09,239 --> 00:46:09,640 Speaker 2: a dad. 945 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:12,840 Speaker 3: I mean, and it gets you paying attention to you know, 946 00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:15,920 Speaker 3: because when you're young and single, you're invincible. 947 00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:18,400 Speaker 2: You can you know, I'm indestructible, you can't do anything. 948 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:21,080 Speaker 3: And then you start thinking about the things that can 949 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:23,200 Speaker 3: hurt your kids and you realize that they've hurt people. 950 00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:23,719 Speaker 3: That sort of thing. 951 00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:24,160 Speaker 2: Now that's it. 952 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,839 Speaker 3: I'd also and does the world start to pay more 953 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 3: attention to it? And started to think about guns differently. 954 00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:35,040 Speaker 3: I started to realize things. You know, my cousin, Daryl 955 00:46:35,080 --> 00:46:38,360 Speaker 3: Whipman was was shot and killed and his murder never found. 956 00:46:38,640 --> 00:46:40,840 Speaker 3: I mean, you don't think of that as gun violence. 957 00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 3: You think of that as like, you know, a senseless killing. 958 00:46:43,080 --> 00:46:44,560 Speaker 3: And they said that, so there's things involved and blah 959 00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,239 Speaker 3: blah blah. And then like I have members of my 960 00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:53,280 Speaker 3: family who've had crazy domestic abuse issues, guns involved, threatened 961 00:46:53,320 --> 00:46:55,640 Speaker 3: with guns, that sort of thing. But that's domestic but 962 00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:57,920 Speaker 3: that's a whole separate thing that's not gun violence. And 963 00:46:57,960 --> 00:47:00,239 Speaker 3: then you're like, and then I know, we actually have 964 00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 3: a dear family friend who was the flip side of 965 00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:06,840 Speaker 3: that domestic violence scenario where he and the mother of 966 00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:10,279 Speaker 3: his daughter made each other insane because they had that 967 00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,239 Speaker 3: passionate on again off again, would test each other, proke 968 00:47:13,280 --> 00:47:17,040 Speaker 3: each other's blogs president and then he had too easy 969 00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:20,239 Speaker 3: access of a gun and he will never see the 970 00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:25,759 Speaker 3: outside of a prison again. And the testament to how 971 00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:29,040 Speaker 3: much that was not him was that the victim's mother, 972 00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:35,360 Speaker 3: his daughter's grandmother, testified that he should not get the 973 00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:36,040 Speaker 3: death penalty. 974 00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:37,520 Speaker 2: But that was not him. 975 00:47:37,800 --> 00:47:39,480 Speaker 3: And at the end of the day, you've got to 976 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:42,640 Speaker 3: put it on. Everybody snaps and says things they don't mean. 977 00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:44,799 Speaker 3: Every once in a while, hopefully it's every once in 978 00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:47,200 Speaker 3: a long while, you have a moment where you uncharacteristically 979 00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:52,120 Speaker 3: loud or do something out of character. A gun in 980 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 3: close proximity makes that horrible and in ways that you 981 00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,120 Speaker 3: can never take back, and that will change everyone's life. 982 00:47:58,640 --> 00:48:02,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it makes that regrettable thing you said, a horrifically 983 00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:06,000 Speaker 1: unimaginable thing that no one can believe you did. And 984 00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:06,640 Speaker 1: that's heavy. 985 00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:09,840 Speaker 3: And so all of those things started to coalesce in 986 00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:13,920 Speaker 3: the I started realizing gun violence has been affecting my 987 00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:18,479 Speaker 3: life all this time, and I'm looking at my kids 988 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:23,600 Speaker 3: now having to do you know, active shooter drills, and 989 00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:27,439 Speaker 3: how traumatizing that can be because you know, you don't 990 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:28,759 Speaker 3: want your kid to think about it. I mean, you know, 991 00:48:28,920 --> 00:48:31,560 Speaker 3: we did fire drills and like that was like that 992 00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:33,719 Speaker 3: was annoying, but hey, we got to get outside for 993 00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,560 Speaker 3: a little bit. I remember bringing in elementary school, but 994 00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,839 Speaker 3: the idea that somebody was going to come and try 995 00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 3: and hurt you was a far more threatening, you know. 996 00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:45,960 Speaker 3: And now we're looking and that. You know, then the 997 00:48:45,960 --> 00:48:47,640 Speaker 3: more you start to pay attention, the more you start 998 00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:50,360 Speaker 3: to freak out and realize that, Like there were laws 999 00:48:50,360 --> 00:48:54,120 Speaker 3: that said that we couldn't research gun violence for decades, 1000 00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:58,080 Speaker 3: which was insane, Like we can't research this thing. That's 1001 00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:02,919 Speaker 3: how partisan it had become. That's how we'rediculously about people 1002 00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:06,880 Speaker 3: trying to win a fight as opposed to solve the problem. Yes, 1003 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:08,880 Speaker 3: we're going to solve the problem. Let's just research it. 1004 00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:10,400 Speaker 3: Like I'm not even saying we're going to pass a law. 1005 00:49:10,400 --> 00:49:12,640 Speaker 3: I'm saying, let's just let's just get real numbers and 1006 00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:13,359 Speaker 3: facts on the table. 1007 00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 2: So we can all talk about it. And when that 1008 00:49:16,120 --> 00:49:16,600 Speaker 2: went away. 1009 00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:20,320 Speaker 3: Now we're having this open floodgates of information where we're realizing, 1010 00:49:21,040 --> 00:49:23,760 Speaker 3: you know, the number one cause of death for children 1011 00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,239 Speaker 3: in America today is guns. 1012 00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, and that's that's nuts. That's that's sugges nuts. 1013 00:49:31,640 --> 00:49:36,680 Speaker 1: And and you know every other country people struggle with depression, 1014 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:41,000 Speaker 1: people are having a hard time at work, people have anxiety. 1015 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,160 Speaker 1: They all watch the same movies we do and play 1016 00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,680 Speaker 1: the same video games we do. It's the guns, It's. 1017 00:49:46,680 --> 00:49:48,840 Speaker 3: Right, I mean, we're you know, the idea that you know, 1018 00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:51,279 Speaker 3: you know, the going thing that stops the back guy 1019 00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:52,319 Speaker 3: with the gun is a good guy with the gun 1020 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 3: or guns making people taper. You're like, we have four 1021 00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:56,880 Speaker 3: times as many guns. We have four times as many 1022 00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:01,000 Speaker 3: uh you know guns, as much gun violence is yeah, 1023 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:02,400 Speaker 3: as any other country in the world. 1024 00:50:02,440 --> 00:50:04,280 Speaker 2: And that's just not an accent. 1025 00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:08,839 Speaker 1: Well, and I think we've we've seen, we have enough 1026 00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 1: proof to know that that adage is just not accurate. 1027 00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:15,200 Speaker 1: You know, women are five times more likely to die 1028 00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:17,839 Speaker 1: in a domestic violence situation if there is a gun 1029 00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:22,839 Speaker 1: in the house. We have seen, I mean we saw 1030 00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,760 Speaker 1: it in Uvaldi. What happened at that school in Texas. 1031 00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:30,160 Speaker 1: How many armed, trained, good guys with guns were there 1032 00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:34,239 Speaker 1: and those children were executed, you know, very similarly to 1033 00:50:34,680 --> 00:50:37,960 Speaker 1: your family story. My little cousin was the little girl 1034 00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:41,000 Speaker 1: shot and killed the day Gabby Gifford's was shot in Arizona, 1035 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:44,960 Speaker 1: and you know, she was an elected official. There were 1036 00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:50,720 Speaker 1: armed police. It's like this idea that more guns helps 1037 00:50:50,719 --> 00:50:54,759 Speaker 1: has been disproven, and I think I think in particular, 1038 00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:58,080 Speaker 1: it's important for folks like us to help have these 1039 00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:03,480 Speaker 1: conversations because it is is you know, the the on 1040 00:51:03,719 --> 00:51:07,520 Speaker 1: screen firefighters or cops. It is the movies about the 1041 00:51:07,560 --> 00:51:11,000 Speaker 1: good guys that make us think like, oh, it's doable. 1042 00:51:11,480 --> 00:51:16,360 Speaker 1: We love a hero story. But data is not a story, 1043 00:51:16,440 --> 00:51:19,319 Speaker 1: and data is not an opinion, and data is not 1044 00:51:19,400 --> 00:51:22,440 Speaker 1: an emotion. It's just fact, and we have the facts. 1045 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:23,680 Speaker 3: It's inconvenient. 1046 00:51:23,760 --> 00:51:25,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's why they tried to make it illegal to 1047 00:51:25,400 --> 00:51:27,600 Speaker 1: research gun violence for so long, because it was inconvenient 1048 00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 1: to the profit of the gun industry. 1049 00:51:29,800 --> 00:51:31,880 Speaker 2: And that's why I'm so proud of the Brady campaign 1050 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,160 Speaker 2: doing the trigger warning. 1051 00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:35,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, can you tell us about that? 1052 00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:37,719 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a guy that they literally are going to 1053 00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:39,000 Speaker 3: the media. I mean, you just hit the nail on 1054 00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,759 Speaker 3: the head that you know, how many people learned, you know, 1055 00:51:42,080 --> 00:51:44,160 Speaker 3: learned to think that smoking was cool because they watched 1056 00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:45,560 Speaker 3: people do it in the movies, and that's sort of thing. 1057 00:51:45,640 --> 00:51:47,799 Speaker 2: Well, we all learned to think that guns are cool 1058 00:51:47,840 --> 00:51:49,200 Speaker 2: because we watched movies and TV. 1059 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:53,240 Speaker 3: Well, Brady campaign is, you know, trigger Warning is about 1060 00:51:53,480 --> 00:51:56,359 Speaker 3: let's have conversations with the industry to figure out how 1061 00:51:56,400 --> 00:52:01,040 Speaker 3: to make gun safety cool. Right. Yeah, and again not 1062 00:52:01,200 --> 00:52:03,799 Speaker 3: anti gun. You said, you know you shoot, I'm a 1063 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:07,160 Speaker 3: good shot. Every I grewup around guns my entire life. 1064 00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:11,040 Speaker 3: The reality is when you see the cop shooting at 1065 00:52:11,080 --> 00:52:13,440 Speaker 3: the bad guys, he runs down the street and he 1066 00:52:13,440 --> 00:52:15,320 Speaker 3: gets an he's heroic, and everybody pats him on the 1067 00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:17,000 Speaker 3: back for you know, getting the bad guy of all. 1068 00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:20,680 Speaker 3: You know, let's let's roll it back and say, let's 1069 00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,440 Speaker 3: have the cop get yelled at you because you know, 1070 00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:24,400 Speaker 3: one we begin to think that all cops are firing 1071 00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:26,680 Speaker 3: at bad guys all the time and that's cool. And 1072 00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:29,200 Speaker 3: then you find out that like something like one in 1073 00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:32,520 Speaker 3: four police officers have ever fired their gun in a 1074 00:52:32,560 --> 00:52:35,200 Speaker 3: line of dude, you suddenly go, oh, that's a completely 1075 00:52:35,239 --> 00:52:38,080 Speaker 3: disproportioned idea. Of what's going on. 1076 00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:41,960 Speaker 2: So let's let's make it a more realistic scenario you can. 1077 00:52:42,080 --> 00:52:44,840 Speaker 3: Let's find another way to make it cool in action 1078 00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 3: without necessarily or let's have the cop get yelled at 1079 00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:49,280 Speaker 3: for firing in a crowd. 1080 00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:53,360 Speaker 1: Yes, out in public where you could have endangered the 1081 00:52:53,400 --> 00:52:54,440 Speaker 1: lives of other people. 1082 00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:58,120 Speaker 3: Right, we percussions for the discharge of your weapon and 1083 00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,920 Speaker 3: that sort of thing, and then simple little things like uh, 1084 00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,719 Speaker 3: like you know, how many movies have you seen where 1085 00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,560 Speaker 3: they know they have a gun underneath their pillow, they 1086 00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:07,839 Speaker 3: have a gun in their in their side. 1087 00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:10,160 Speaker 2: I mean, we have candidates. 1088 00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,040 Speaker 3: Talking about how their grandmother had guns in this drawer 1089 00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:13,920 Speaker 3: and that drawer and guns all over the house, and 1090 00:53:13,920 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 3: I just thought, that's just begging for somebody to catch 1091 00:53:16,040 --> 00:53:16,440 Speaker 3: a bullet. 1092 00:53:16,840 --> 00:53:19,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I mean again, another stat for you. 1093 00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:22,600 Speaker 3: One out of every four kids says that they have 1094 00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,640 Speaker 3: handled a gun without their parents. 1095 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:26,000 Speaker 2: Knowing about it. 1096 00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:30,480 Speaker 3: Yes, so the kids are and as a mischievous kid, 1097 00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,960 Speaker 3: I guarantee you your kid knows where your gun is. 1098 00:53:34,440 --> 00:53:37,320 Speaker 3: I guarantee you. You know, if you have multiple kids, 1099 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,120 Speaker 3: at least one of them is figured out where it 1100 00:53:39,200 --> 00:53:40,520 Speaker 3: is and you know, and then it is showing it 1101 00:53:40,560 --> 00:53:42,680 Speaker 3: to friends and seyada YadA YadA. We all know these 1102 00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:44,800 Speaker 3: stories and people think about it may be part of 1103 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,399 Speaker 3: these stories, and then you know, these are the moments 1104 00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:49,239 Speaker 3: when I go, how did we not die back in 1105 00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:52,759 Speaker 3: the day, Yes, there is you were lucky because there 1106 00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:56,440 Speaker 3: are kids that do you know eight kids die every day, 1107 00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,440 Speaker 3: and so it's the so like so if you have 1108 00:53:59,080 --> 00:54:02,000 Speaker 3: in the show, if you see the cop come home 1109 00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:07,000 Speaker 3: from work, they didn't discharge their their weapon. They got 1110 00:54:07,040 --> 00:54:09,120 Speaker 3: the you know, information that they got the bad guy 1111 00:54:09,560 --> 00:54:12,439 Speaker 3: in a more responsible, more realistic way. They come home, 1112 00:54:12,480 --> 00:54:14,160 Speaker 3: they take their gun out and they put it into 1113 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,920 Speaker 3: their they then into the secure box. 1114 00:54:18,520 --> 00:54:19,680 Speaker 2: Then that becomes just cool. 1115 00:54:19,960 --> 00:54:22,640 Speaker 3: That becomes the way you handle this as opposed to 1116 00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:24,840 Speaker 3: this wild West mens out I mean, and again we 1117 00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:27,680 Speaker 3: changed mythology. We think the wild West was so wild 1118 00:54:28,600 --> 00:54:32,640 Speaker 3: there were tons of towns in the wild West where 1119 00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,880 Speaker 3: you had to leave your gun at the border of 1120 00:54:35,960 --> 00:54:40,480 Speaker 3: the town, where you couldn't come into town with your guns. 1121 00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:44,000 Speaker 1: Specifically because we've never seen that on screen. 1122 00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:46,439 Speaker 3: No I've never seen you know, like, well, who's making 1123 00:54:46,440 --> 00:54:48,719 Speaker 3: that movie? And so putting that out there in a 1124 00:54:48,800 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 3: chance to just like with that wild West, example, show 1125 00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:54,360 Speaker 3: something that's cool and interesting and get completely historically accurate. 1126 00:54:54,440 --> 00:54:55,799 Speaker 2: You know, like you know, just. 1127 00:54:55,719 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 3: Like you know the tons of black cowboys and like go, oh, 1128 00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,839 Speaker 3: that's not the We only know what Hollywood shows us. 1129 00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,399 Speaker 2: We only know what newsreel show us. 1130 00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:05,040 Speaker 1: That sort of thing. 1131 00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:09,839 Speaker 3: You and so flipping the script and take a little 1132 00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:11,359 Speaker 3: look at your script. You don't have to change your 1133 00:55:11,360 --> 00:55:14,320 Speaker 3: story fundamentally. You don't have to change how your heroin 1134 00:55:14,360 --> 00:55:18,239 Speaker 3: gets down. You don't have to change that much. But 1135 00:55:18,320 --> 00:55:20,880 Speaker 3: a little touch here and a little touch there will 1136 00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:26,000 Speaker 3: really begin to change the way we all view gun safety. 1137 00:55:26,040 --> 00:55:30,760 Speaker 3: It's like, oh, having a secure lockbox is cool, it's smart. 1138 00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:34,600 Speaker 3: Protects my kids. If you show a kid and if 1139 00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:39,400 Speaker 3: you show the ramifications of not blocking you know safely, 1140 00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:41,200 Speaker 3: that's a great storyline. 1141 00:55:42,000 --> 00:55:44,520 Speaker 2: That's the thing, you know. I've got the show to do. 1142 00:55:44,600 --> 00:55:49,360 Speaker 3: In this last season an episode about extreme risk protection 1143 00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:52,440 Speaker 3: orders most people known as like red flag laws, and 1144 00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:55,920 Speaker 3: there's basically the laws that we're ad say, if this 1145 00:55:55,960 --> 00:56:02,080 Speaker 3: person is demonstrably uh a danger to themselves or others, 1146 00:56:02,480 --> 00:56:03,200 Speaker 3: you can take. 1147 00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:05,840 Speaker 1: A domestic violence situation. You can take their guns away. 1148 00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,520 Speaker 3: It is the prime I mean domestic violence and mental 1149 00:56:08,920 --> 00:56:13,000 Speaker 3: uh and and someone who's mentally unhealthy. Mental illness are 1150 00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:16,359 Speaker 3: the two prime examples where you can say, yo, this 1151 00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:19,000 Speaker 3: veteran is in a really bad place, and this is 1152 00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:20,759 Speaker 3: the thing where I feel like we've got because the 1153 00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:22,720 Speaker 3: whole joke, the whole goal now is to get. 1154 00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:23,920 Speaker 2: Everybody on the same page. 1155 00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,080 Speaker 3: Yes, remember we watched the scene, the social media posts 1156 00:56:27,080 --> 00:56:29,560 Speaker 3: of it's the guy who was a he's a self 1157 00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:30,520 Speaker 3: proclaimed gun nut. 1158 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:32,279 Speaker 2: That's how he would refer to himself. I'm a gun nut. 1159 00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:33,560 Speaker 2: I want that one. I want that one, I want 1160 00:56:33,560 --> 00:56:33,960 Speaker 2: that one. 1161 00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:35,719 Speaker 3: And it's a funny bit and everything like that, and 1162 00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:38,560 Speaker 3: he shoots and it's and that's all great, that's fine. 1163 00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:43,000 Speaker 3: But even he would say, if you're a veteran and 1164 00:56:43,040 --> 00:56:45,400 Speaker 3: you're in a dark place, maybe give your guns to 1165 00:56:45,440 --> 00:56:47,719 Speaker 3: your buddy. Yeah, maybe give your guns to your body. 1166 00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:49,600 Speaker 3: Because if a veteran's going to kill themselves, it's going 1167 00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:52,040 Speaker 3: to be with a gun. Yes, no, uh, you know, 1168 00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:54,000 Speaker 3: police officers, they're going to do it. 1169 00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:54,480 Speaker 2: They were. 1170 00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:57,920 Speaker 3: And people forget how much suicide is the bulk of 1171 00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:00,719 Speaker 3: gun violence. Yes, and again it's and again, the more 1172 00:57:00,760 --> 00:57:02,120 Speaker 3: you start to learn, the more you start to it 1173 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:04,359 Speaker 3: starts to reshape what you picture as gun violence. We 1174 00:57:04,400 --> 00:57:07,560 Speaker 3: all think of mass shooters because that is the big, 1175 00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,400 Speaker 3: scary what causes that? How do you ever prevent that? 1176 00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,560 Speaker 3: And we realize how much of it really is preventable. 1177 00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:15,080 Speaker 3: And again this and this is my argument to the 1178 00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,200 Speaker 3: whole more guns. I'm like, bounce prevention is worth a 1179 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 3: pound of cure. Right, So, if we can separate the 1180 00:57:20,520 --> 00:57:23,320 Speaker 3: mentally unhealthy person from their guns just while they're in 1181 00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:26,320 Speaker 3: their dark space, if we're going to separate the abuser 1182 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:30,640 Speaker 3: from their guns while the person being abused is still 1183 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:34,040 Speaker 3: vulnerable until they get to a safe place, until things 1184 00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:37,000 Speaker 3: have calmed down in that relationship. If you can separate 1185 00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:40,760 Speaker 3: the mentally unhealthy person who's angry, who's been bullied at school, 1186 00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,280 Speaker 3: et cetera, et cetera, if you can separate them from 1187 00:57:43,320 --> 00:57:45,880 Speaker 3: the guns or make it difficult to access guns. 1188 00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:47,520 Speaker 2: You know, most school shooters. 1189 00:57:47,880 --> 00:57:50,120 Speaker 3: I think something the number is like something like seventy 1190 00:57:50,120 --> 00:57:55,480 Speaker 3: six percent of school shooters that are teens got the 1191 00:57:55,520 --> 00:57:59,240 Speaker 3: gun from their own or a friend's house. Yes, that 1192 00:57:59,440 --> 00:58:01,680 Speaker 3: neck end goes too. If it was in a lock box. 1193 00:58:01,840 --> 00:58:03,120 Speaker 1: They wouldn't add access. 1194 00:58:03,400 --> 00:58:05,200 Speaker 3: I can't get to my you know I can get 1195 00:58:05,200 --> 00:58:07,840 Speaker 3: to my friend's house maybe, but I you know, and 1196 00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:09,760 Speaker 3: even if he showed me where his parents keep their gun, 1197 00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:11,920 Speaker 3: I don't know the code. If there's a code, right, 1198 00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:15,520 Speaker 3: it was just in a drawer, came on and nothing 1199 00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:17,720 Speaker 3: and there's nothing to stop me. It's about putting those 1200 00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:23,320 Speaker 3: impediments between people and doing damage to themselves up. Bunce 1201 00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,240 Speaker 3: of prevention is worth of pound of cure. And when 1202 00:58:25,240 --> 00:58:28,680 Speaker 3: you talk about it in real calm, trying to solve 1203 00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:33,120 Speaker 3: the problem, not win some political fight. Right, I don't 1204 00:58:33,120 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 3: care about that. I mean over a beer. I have 1205 00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:38,120 Speaker 3: yet to meet a gun owner who, over a beer 1206 00:58:38,560 --> 00:58:41,000 Speaker 3: would acknowledge that. The fact that I can walk. 1207 00:58:40,800 --> 00:58:42,800 Speaker 2: In screaming about how much. 1208 00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:45,040 Speaker 3: My wife pissed me off, and when I get home, 1209 00:58:45,080 --> 00:58:47,640 Speaker 3: blah blah blah blah, punk down my id, get a 1210 00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,480 Speaker 3: case of beer and AK forty seven. 1211 00:58:51,040 --> 00:58:51,880 Speaker 2: That's a bad. 1212 00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:56,560 Speaker 3: Idea, A bad idea. He's just it's a bad idea. 1213 00:58:56,520 --> 00:59:00,560 Speaker 1: Period, bad idea. And at the end of the day, 1214 00:59:00,640 --> 00:59:03,480 Speaker 1: it's like this because it makes a lot of people 1215 00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,320 Speaker 1: a lot of money. The gun lobby has made so 1216 00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:12,880 Speaker 1: much money making the rest of us unsafe. As as 1217 00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:15,840 Speaker 1: a hobbyist, as a gun owner. That pisses me off. 1218 00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:20,800 Speaker 1: The idea that they have sold people on marketing that 1219 00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,440 Speaker 1: folks at home need to have weapons of war in 1220 00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:28,200 Speaker 1: their garages. I'm like enough, And I loved what Secretary 1221 00:59:28,240 --> 00:59:31,960 Speaker 1: Buddhacheg said back on the campaign trail leading into the 1222 00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:35,040 Speaker 1: twenty twenty election. He was like, listen, you want to 1223 00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:37,600 Speaker 1: say we can't infringe on your Second Amendment rights? Enough, 1224 00:59:37,640 --> 00:59:39,880 Speaker 1: He goes, because you can't have a predator drone. I 1225 00:59:39,960 --> 00:59:41,880 Speaker 1: say that as a veteran. You don't get to have one. 1226 00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:44,560 Speaker 1: So there's a line somewhere, and we need to walk 1227 00:59:44,600 --> 00:59:47,840 Speaker 1: the line back to these types of weapons. And I 1228 00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:50,760 Speaker 1: was like, wow, that's the best way I've ever heard 1229 00:59:50,800 --> 00:59:53,600 Speaker 1: a person say, like I can't buy a tank. I 1230 00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:55,760 Speaker 1: can't do that, and I don't and I shouldn't be 1231 00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:56,160 Speaker 1: able to. 1232 00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:58,520 Speaker 3: Well, the reality is, I mean, and I'm the first 1233 00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:03,360 Speaker 3: one to say shooting guns is fun. Shooting is fun, 1234 01:00:03,480 --> 01:00:06,800 Speaker 3: and it is funny. I'm like shows blowing stuff up. 1235 01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:08,280 Speaker 3: There are rules about dynamite. 1236 01:00:08,360 --> 01:00:11,080 Speaker 2: There's rules about dynamite, nitriglitz you, I mean, and that's 1237 01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:12,320 Speaker 2: just and that's that's the thing. 1238 01:00:12,360 --> 01:00:15,760 Speaker 3: And so it's just common sense things and so that's 1239 01:00:15,800 --> 01:00:18,960 Speaker 3: why I'm like so proud of like the the you know, 1240 01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:22,680 Speaker 3: I mean, look the trigger warning getting Hollywood to start 1241 01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:25,720 Speaker 3: to reframe how we see it in media. I mean 1242 01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:30,560 Speaker 3: it was put together by the Hollywood Health and Society, uh, 1243 01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:33,360 Speaker 3: you know, at the the US's Norman Lear Center, and 1244 01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:35,880 Speaker 3: I give them, I give them, you know, and it 1245 01:00:36,000 --> 01:00:37,960 Speaker 3: makes me laugh because I go, Norman Lear at the 1246 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,280 Speaker 3: heart of so many cool things in America. I mean, yeah, 1247 01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:43,680 Speaker 3: shows that brought black folks into your home every week 1248 01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,600 Speaker 3: were from Norman Lear that put women at the front 1249 01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:47,400 Speaker 3: of being funny. 1250 01:00:47,680 --> 01:00:49,760 Speaker 2: Where Norman Lear uh that. 1251 01:00:49,800 --> 01:00:52,360 Speaker 3: Like got into the controversial stuff and made it funny 1252 01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:55,560 Speaker 3: so we could laugh, chill out and talk about it. 1253 01:00:55,960 --> 01:00:58,440 Speaker 3: Of course, Norman Lear and Hollywood Health and Society at 1254 01:00:58,440 --> 01:01:01,240 Speaker 3: the heart of that because you know, like let's just 1255 01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:04,040 Speaker 3: talk about it, like not not argue about it. Like 1256 01:01:04,600 --> 01:01:06,479 Speaker 3: we're gonna show you what, We're going to break it open. 1257 01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:08,240 Speaker 3: We'll make you laugh about it, will make you cry 1258 01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:10,479 Speaker 3: about it, and then we're going to make you think 1259 01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:11,120 Speaker 3: about it. 1260 01:01:11,200 --> 01:01:14,320 Speaker 1: Like for ree, it's making space for the entire human 1261 01:01:14,400 --> 01:01:15,920 Speaker 1: experience of problem solving. 1262 01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:19,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, and a relief problem. Don't just win the fight 1263 01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:20,840 Speaker 2: and now a. 1264 01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:31,840 Speaker 1: Word from our sponsors. So where do people go, Like, 1265 01:01:31,880 --> 01:01:35,320 Speaker 1: if this kind of you know, sane and inclusive dialogue 1266 01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:40,440 Speaker 1: sounds great to people, how do our listeners get involved? 1267 01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,440 Speaker 3: Well, you can check you can check out Hollywood Health 1268 01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:46,960 Speaker 3: and Society. You can check out Brady Campaign. I do 1269 01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:50,000 Speaker 3: work with every Town and Mom's Demand Action. I mean, 1270 01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:53,840 Speaker 3: these are these groups are out there getting it done 1271 01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:57,240 Speaker 3: and uh, and I love them all and they each 1272 01:01:57,320 --> 01:02:00,720 Speaker 3: have real special niches. Uh. How the Health Society is 1273 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:05,400 Speaker 3: talking to Hollywood h literally and was on the forefront 1274 01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:08,320 Speaker 3: of getting people to realize, you know, the power that 1275 01:02:08,360 --> 01:02:12,520 Speaker 3: we have, ah, and some of the mistakes that we've 1276 01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:17,000 Speaker 3: been making unintentionally, uh, in the kind of messaging that 1277 01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:18,480 Speaker 3: we put out there, and that we can just a 1278 01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:21,480 Speaker 3: simple little flip. You don't lose any of the power 1279 01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:24,960 Speaker 3: of the story, but you can make a big difference. 1280 01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:26,920 Speaker 3: And then on the other end of the spectrum, you 1281 01:02:27,000 --> 01:02:29,400 Speaker 3: got Mom's Demand Action that I love. That's so they're 1282 01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:32,560 Speaker 3: all greased, but Mom's Man Action. It's like, I mean, 1283 01:02:32,640 --> 01:02:37,400 Speaker 3: I'm I remember when like Mom's against drunk driving changed 1284 01:02:37,720 --> 01:02:41,920 Speaker 3: the entire situation, and it wasn't The laws eventually were 1285 01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,520 Speaker 3: part of it. But really what they did was they 1286 01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:47,600 Speaker 3: made it uncool to drive drunk. They made it cool 1287 01:02:47,760 --> 01:02:49,600 Speaker 3: to ask you to tell you to get your friend 1288 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:52,160 Speaker 3: to give you the keys because I know you've been drinking, 1289 01:02:52,200 --> 01:02:54,440 Speaker 3: you know. So now my hope is that we're going 1290 01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:57,840 Speaker 3: to make it cool to ask when your kids go 1291 01:02:57,920 --> 01:02:59,560 Speaker 3: over for play date, ask if there are guns in 1292 01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:01,840 Speaker 3: the home? Yes, and then asking the follow up of 1293 01:03:02,520 --> 01:03:07,120 Speaker 3: properly yes. It makes it cool to have the conversation, 1294 01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:09,800 Speaker 3: get a fight, It makes it It's making it cool 1295 01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:12,840 Speaker 3: for Hollywood to show responsible gun safety and a lot 1296 01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:15,560 Speaker 3: of boxes and that sort of thing. You know, that's 1297 01:03:15,560 --> 01:03:17,880 Speaker 3: all making that stuff cool is the thing, and I 1298 01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:19,840 Speaker 3: think that's what Mom's demand action is about. I think 1299 01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:22,600 Speaker 3: when Hollywood Health Society has taking that and really getting people, 1300 01:03:22,600 --> 01:03:24,840 Speaker 3: they're like showing, you know, putting trigger warning in their 1301 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:27,080 Speaker 3: face and making them understand. So you can find them 1302 01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:30,920 Speaker 3: on social media, you can find their websites. They're out there. 1303 01:03:30,920 --> 01:03:33,800 Speaker 2: And by the way, it's your friends and neighbors. Everybody's 1304 01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:34,640 Speaker 2: in this conversation. 1305 01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:38,760 Speaker 3: And what I want, what I pray is you know, 1306 01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:40,760 Speaker 3: you as a person who's used guns, and me as 1307 01:03:40,760 --> 01:03:43,320 Speaker 3: a person you know, like all the gun owners getting 1308 01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:45,960 Speaker 3: the game. Then the gun owners start getting in the 1309 01:03:45,960 --> 01:03:48,640 Speaker 3: game because that fear of they're going to take the guns. 1310 01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:52,160 Speaker 3: It's like, no, we're going to control gun safety. It's 1311 01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:55,000 Speaker 3: not they're going to do anything. It's we are going 1312 01:03:55,080 --> 01:03:57,840 Speaker 3: to make ourselves safer. And it doesn't mean but it's 1313 01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:01,200 Speaker 3: not about taking the guns. It's about let's make sure 1314 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:04,840 Speaker 3: we're smart. We're just gun safety just be a watch 1315 01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:07,120 Speaker 3: word that we all pay attention to exactly. 1316 01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:11,960 Speaker 1: I love it, I absolutely love it. There's a lot. 1317 01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:14,840 Speaker 1: I mean, we've covered a lot, from your twenty fifth 1318 01:04:14,880 --> 01:04:19,120 Speaker 1: anniversary to parenthood to you know, career and advocacy and 1319 01:04:19,160 --> 01:04:22,760 Speaker 1: all of these things you have You've done so much, 1320 01:04:22,880 --> 01:04:25,640 Speaker 1: and you've you've also given so much with your career 1321 01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:28,840 Speaker 1: and with your platform. I wonder as you sit here, 1322 01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:30,760 Speaker 1: you got to come to terms of the fact that 1323 01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:32,640 Speaker 1: twenty twenty four is going to be over before we 1324 01:04:32,680 --> 01:04:35,440 Speaker 1: know it. As you kind of look out ahead over 1325 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:39,840 Speaker 1: the rest of the year and beyond what what feels 1326 01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:41,560 Speaker 1: like you're work in progress right now? 1327 01:04:42,920 --> 01:04:46,600 Speaker 2: Oh, my work, My work in progress is I've. 1328 01:04:47,840 --> 01:04:51,960 Speaker 3: It's funny because I'm I'm staring at empty nester. I mean, 1329 01:04:52,000 --> 01:04:55,840 Speaker 3: I got sixteen olds driving cars. They can get themselves 1330 01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:58,000 Speaker 3: to and from where they need to be on their own. 1331 01:04:58,080 --> 01:05:00,600 Speaker 3: They can uber if they need to because they're they're 1332 01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:01,360 Speaker 3: older responsible. 1333 01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:03,000 Speaker 2: I think he drive themselves there and so you know, 1334 01:05:03,120 --> 01:05:05,800 Speaker 2: and I've won in college and so. 1335 01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:08,360 Speaker 3: I'm it is that thing right now where I'm starting 1336 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:10,600 Speaker 3: to do more things for me, which, funny enough, some 1337 01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:13,440 Speaker 3: of that's in the business, you know, things that I 1338 01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:16,040 Speaker 3: was like, just notice the Grindstone show up, get the 1339 01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:18,320 Speaker 3: work done, build the acting career. And now I'm like, 1340 01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:21,240 Speaker 3: I want to be a part of creating this thing 1341 01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:24,520 Speaker 3: from the jump, from get go and bringing the elements together. 1342 01:05:24,640 --> 01:05:26,960 Speaker 3: And that's exciting and also just enjoying book. We just 1343 01:05:26,960 --> 01:05:31,720 Speaker 3: celebrated our twenty fifth wedding anniversary and so for a 1344 01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:36,840 Speaker 3: long time you did that that kids are the most 1345 01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:39,960 Speaker 3: important thing in the world. Yeah, and I've told them 1346 01:05:40,000 --> 01:05:41,280 Speaker 3: since they were little. I was like, if you see 1347 01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:44,840 Speaker 3: daddy kissing mommy, never interrupt you, never interrupt daddy kissing mommy, 1348 01:05:44,840 --> 01:05:47,040 Speaker 3: because it's just happening before you. This would be going 1349 01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:49,240 Speaker 3: on when you all leave. And it was funny and 1350 01:05:49,320 --> 01:05:53,000 Speaker 3: I was serious and it was a joke, and yet 1351 01:05:53,720 --> 01:05:57,320 Speaker 3: it's also you know. Now I'm at the spot where 1352 01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:58,480 Speaker 3: I'm like, hey you. 1353 01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:01,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, you're like, wait, what are you doing? 1354 01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:04,640 Speaker 3: Later was like, you know, and so we've been in 1355 01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:06,600 Speaker 3: that space for the last little bit. We're like, you know, 1356 01:06:07,720 --> 01:06:10,040 Speaker 3: hey kids, you know where what do you want for dinner? Oh, 1357 01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:11,800 Speaker 3: I'm out gonna be over here? Or what we're doing? 1358 01:06:11,840 --> 01:06:12,160 Speaker 2: That thing? 1359 01:06:12,200 --> 01:06:13,880 Speaker 3: I got practice, I got this, that and the other thing, 1360 01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:15,360 Speaker 3: and everybody spread out to the four winds and we 1361 01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:17,720 Speaker 3: just looked at because you and mean. So so we 1362 01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:19,640 Speaker 3: rolled to the pub around the corner that we love 1363 01:06:19,680 --> 01:06:21,800 Speaker 3: and you know, pop down and chill with, you know, 1364 01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:22,360 Speaker 3: call a couple of. 1365 01:06:22,360 --> 01:06:23,520 Speaker 2: People to be like, hey, what you're doing? 1366 01:06:23,760 --> 01:06:24,520 Speaker 1: And I love it. 1367 01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:27,440 Speaker 2: I'm with my four year old. I can't make it. 1368 01:06:27,480 --> 01:06:28,960 Speaker 3: So like you talk about your friends, we have a 1369 01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:30,520 Speaker 3: whole bunch of our friends who are at that stage, 1370 01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:32,960 Speaker 3: and my brother being among them, and I'm like, hey man, 1371 01:06:33,240 --> 01:06:35,000 Speaker 3: he's like, I can't, Ben, I got the kids. So 1372 01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:37,920 Speaker 3: but we're finding So the work in progress now is 1373 01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:41,320 Speaker 3: going back to getting your young and sexy on, you know, 1374 01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:44,320 Speaker 3: getting your young and sexy and ambitious on and final 1375 01:06:44,360 --> 01:06:46,120 Speaker 3: projects that you get to be at the center. That's 1376 01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:48,120 Speaker 3: what I'm I'm excited about right now. 1377 01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:52,320 Speaker 1: I love that. Well, thank you, I mean truly, you know, 1378 01:06:53,560 --> 01:06:57,280 Speaker 1: from what you do on screen to all the things 1379 01:06:57,360 --> 01:07:00,919 Speaker 1: you choose to do off it, really it means a lot. 1380 01:07:01,480 --> 01:07:03,880 Speaker 2: Appreciate you, and right back at you. 1381 01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:07,840 Speaker 3: This is a perfect example, just this podcast and who 1382 01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:09,280 Speaker 3: you choose to put on and what you choose to 1383 01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:13,000 Speaker 3: amplify on your podcast again amazing, and and to do 1384 01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:17,200 Speaker 3: it all with grace and and eating and and not 1385 01:07:17,680 --> 01:07:19,440 Speaker 3: caught up in all of that. 1386 01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:24,479 Speaker 1: Well, thank you. I appreciate that very much much love yeah, 1387 01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:28,080 Speaker 1: right back at you, thank you for today, Jason Oh 1388 01:07:28,200 --> 01:07:29,120 Speaker 1: to be appreciate you