1 00:00:00,680 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: Here we are. Oh that was a deep breath there. 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:07,000 Speaker 1: I mean it's we are choosing to not drink. We 3 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: are choosing not to drink. We're going to the Brother's 4 00:00:09,760 --> 00:00:12,320 Speaker 1: osmare on show tonight. Literally, when you sent me the 5 00:00:12,360 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: schedule and it says showtime for them, I'm like, who's 6 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: up at nine anymore? Who are these people? If I'm 7 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: still up, Like, it's only because I'm working at that point, 8 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:27,080 Speaker 1: it's still working. You know, you'll take a five hour 9 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: energy I'm literally like, I went to hot yoga this morning, 10 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: and I told you it's like you don't think when 11 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 1: you're in it. How depleting that is for some reason, 12 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: but I sweat so much. But all the day to day, 13 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:40,960 Speaker 1: I've just been like I feel like I'm gonna haze 14 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: al with and my body physically just feels tired, like 15 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:45,159 Speaker 1: I just want to take a nap. So I was like, 16 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,480 Speaker 1: actually really going to go to bed. Maybe you should 17 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 1: take a power nap after this. I that wouldn't be 18 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,000 Speaker 1: good for me. Naps make me more tired, yeah, unless 19 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:55,440 Speaker 1: it's like my favorite kind of nap is the one 20 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: where you're like watching TV and you do does all 21 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 1: for like thirty minutes. Yeah, and you realize you were 22 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: taking an app. If I like say, I'm going to 23 00:01:03,320 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: take a nap, like that means I'm going to bed. 24 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:08,759 Speaker 1: But isn't a power napp like a twenty minute app 25 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:12,399 Speaker 1: like you just described. Yeah, but like the planned part 26 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: of it is what doesn't Unless it's planned, it doesn't 27 00:01:15,680 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 1: happen for me, right, and usually it's got to be 28 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,320 Speaker 1: like two hours or else it's like pointless. Right. Yeah, 29 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:22,360 Speaker 1: if I'm planning a nap, it means that I just 30 00:01:22,480 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 1: need to go to bed and then I'm piste off 31 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 1: that I only got twenty minutes of sleep or I 32 00:01:26,600 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: don't fall asleep, you know, so maybe you should do one. 33 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,120 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think once I get moving, 34 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: the fiber energy is going to kick in. I just 35 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 1: had a green juice, you know, I'm kind of I'm 36 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 1: drinking this big duncan coffeehtag not ad and um, I'm jittery, 37 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 1: like I can feel it, and my arms were tangled. 38 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: Honestly when you came in the door, I feel you're energy. 39 00:01:48,440 --> 00:01:52,800 Speaker 1: You're like putt and I'm like, I didn't do hot 40 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:54,760 Speaker 1: yogo this morning, but I found this new dog park. 41 00:01:54,800 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: I mean I knew about it, but I've always thought 42 00:01:56,880 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: it was too far away. But it's really only like 43 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 1: three minutes further than one or it's sticking them. And 44 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:04,040 Speaker 1: it's got a walking path and my and I. One 45 00:02:04,080 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: of my dogs I can let off leash anywhere and 46 00:02:05,720 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: she'll just follow me and listen. The other one I 47 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,080 Speaker 1: don't trust to do it. But in this um dog 48 00:02:11,160 --> 00:02:13,519 Speaker 1: park there's like a walking path that does the whole thing. 49 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,480 Speaker 1: And so I'm trying to train him to be off 50 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 1: leash and he's so great and he follows me here, 51 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 1: but I don't have to worry about him getting away. 52 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: But now I'm like an old person walking at the 53 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:23,960 Speaker 1: mall in the morning, like I do like power laps 54 00:02:23,960 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: throughout the dog park. Do you have little hand weights? 55 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: I do, yeah, But I do have ankle weights. I 56 00:02:28,840 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 1: should start wearing. Should. I actually loved I used to 57 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 1: walk in the ankle wights. It really does work your legs. Um, 58 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: we're really just rambling on that person, But fine, cares 59 00:02:39,360 --> 00:02:42,640 Speaker 1: swear your crocs. Just make it a full lesbian thing. Um. 60 00:02:42,720 --> 00:02:45,360 Speaker 1: The other thing that I think is really funny about 61 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:48,519 Speaker 1: that is like I actually can't stand when people don't 62 00:02:48,520 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 1: have their dogs on leashes. Oh that's funny, even at 63 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: the dog park. I guess not at the dog park 64 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:54,960 Speaker 1: because then they're supposed to run around. But like, if 65 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 1: you're on a walk and you don't have a dog 66 00:02:57,240 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: on the leash, it drives me crazy because it's just unpredictable. Right, 67 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: I would never like walk down the street with my 68 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,400 Speaker 1: dog off the leash. So when I take my dog 69 00:03:05,440 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 1: called the leash, like at the air park, which is 70 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 1: technically a park, but it's you're supposed to have your 71 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 1: dogs on the leash because it's not fenced in, but 72 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:15,799 Speaker 1: you're so removed from everything and like a car is 73 00:03:15,840 --> 00:03:18,440 Speaker 1: not going to ride by. But I did have I 74 00:03:18,480 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: experienced that a woman was running. People like run and 75 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: ride bikes and stuff there, and a woman was running 76 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 1: and she stopped and would and passed my ten year 77 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:29,600 Speaker 1: old dog that literally doesn't have teeth, And I was like, 78 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 1: she's fine, she's friendly, and she goes. You know how 79 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: many times I've heard that, And I was like, Okay, 80 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 1: that's fair, that's fair, and I put her on the leash, 81 00:03:36,680 --> 00:03:38,839 Speaker 1: like I respect that. Well, that's what my mom got 82 00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 1: bit by a dog on a walk one time and 83 00:03:40,640 --> 00:03:42,400 Speaker 1: they were like, oh my god, she's never done that. 84 00:03:42,520 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 1: But you just never know, right, you never know, you 85 00:03:45,160 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: could also get struck wilighting, so you know you could. 86 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: Great point. Um, well, I just think it's a dog 87 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 1: owner's responsibility. Some people I wouldn't pay somebody, Yeah, I 88 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 1: would pay some ice hospital bill with them. Anyway. Tell 89 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: us what you've been up to this week? Well, um, 90 00:04:01,800 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 1: it was great. I got to go back out on 91 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 1: the road last weekend with Little Hellow Road Dog, and um, 92 00:04:07,960 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 1: she's out with Blake Shelton, which has been really fun. 93 00:04:10,200 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 1: Like the first show was in Nashville, so it was 94 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,400 Speaker 1: kind of fun to like just be home for that. 95 00:04:14,440 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 1: But you know, a little bus trouble here, a little 96 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: bus trouble there, but nothing can get me down with 97 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: Gwen Stefani's in the room and Blake had her out 98 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: all three dates and like it was like a surprise thing. 99 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:30,599 Speaker 1: And I gotta tell you, like that woman is like royal, 100 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: Like there's just something so like she's human glitter, you know, 101 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:39,800 Speaker 1: like she just shines and it's beautiful and like isn't 102 00:04:39,800 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: she like fifty one year old? She is striking. Um, 103 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:48,159 Speaker 1: I didn't get to meet her because it's like you 104 00:04:48,240 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 1: kind of Lindsey met her and she was like, um, 105 00:04:51,839 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 1: we had some bus trouble and um Gwen d m 106 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:58,200 Speaker 1: her on Instagram and was like, hey, sweetie, I'm sorry 107 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: that I hear that you're having bus trouble. And Lindsay 108 00:05:00,400 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I feel like I feel 109 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:04,800 Speaker 1: like I'm like writing a boy back in high school, 110 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: like what do I say? And then and they've got 111 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:11,919 Speaker 1: friendly over the weekend and it's like she's lovely and 112 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,400 Speaker 1: I mean, it's literally the most beautiful thing you've ever seen. 113 00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: And I will tell you. So there's a moment in 114 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:19,360 Speaker 1: the show she's not doing it anymore, so this isn't 115 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:20,920 Speaker 1: a spoiler or she has to go to our own 116 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: shows now. But there's a moment in the show where 117 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: like Blake talks about like practicing guitar during um during 118 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: the quarantine, and he's like obviously joking. He plays He's 119 00:05:31,080 --> 00:05:33,479 Speaker 1: like I finally learned that riff from Sweet Home, Alabama 120 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 1: and he plays it really poorly, and then he says 121 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:37,680 Speaker 1: something like Lindsay, all can kiss my ass because that's 122 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:40,160 Speaker 1: some real guitar playing, and ultimately he gets to but 123 00:05:40,240 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: I did get this one down and he starts the 124 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: opening riff of Don't Speak. The crowd starts screaming like 125 00:05:46,520 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: a little bit things like and because they're like, oh maybe, 126 00:05:49,839 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: And then you just see the blonde hairs like coming 127 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 1: up from the back of the stage and the crowd 128 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:59,360 Speaker 1: goes ape ship. It's just like it shows like how 129 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: pervase pop, you know music. It's like she's such a 130 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 1: massive star and they lose their fucking mind and she 131 00:06:06,360 --> 00:06:08,839 Speaker 1: just gets up there and she like literally makes eye 132 00:06:08,880 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 1: contact with every person in the room. You know, like 133 00:06:11,880 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: she's just a presence, and it's like, I don't know, 134 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:20,520 Speaker 1: like thinking about like the job of being when Stefanie 135 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: like she's I mean, I dare anybody find a bad 136 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: picture of her online? You know, it's like she's beautiful 137 00:06:25,920 --> 00:06:28,599 Speaker 1: all day every day and sound check she was like 138 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:31,680 Speaker 1: stylish and look like she was in stage clothes and 139 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: then she comes out on stage in a different clothes. 140 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: You know, it's like whatever her and j Lo are 141 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:39,919 Speaker 1: taking how and they how are they in their fifties 142 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 1: and it looks so incredible. I mean it's perfection. You know. 143 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 1: It's like, I mean, it's obviously there are genes at play, 144 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,279 Speaker 1: but I think it's something you have to strive for. 145 00:06:50,400 --> 00:06:53,520 Speaker 1: It's like, you know, you have to do it. Like 146 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: she's there obviously have amazing hair and makeup teams, and 147 00:06:58,279 --> 00:06:59,839 Speaker 1: but you still got to go sit in the chair 148 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: with those people every day and give up that time 149 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:06,320 Speaker 1: of your life. And Okay, that was a little bit like, okay, 150 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: let's not act. Oh my god, I have to go 151 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:12,640 Speaker 1: sit in hair and make I mean, I wouldn't want 152 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: to have to do that. I could barely want to 153 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 1: brush my own hair, you know what I mean. Like, 154 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: sitting in a chair for two hours to look pretty 155 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 1: sounds like fucking hell to me. It's not that bad. 156 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: You literally just white privilege of the well. Well, here's 157 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 1: the thing. Even if I sat in a chair for 158 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,119 Speaker 1: two hours, I would never look anywhere near as pretty 159 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: as them. So I'm like, what always to die? But 160 00:07:32,920 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: if I knew my result was going to be that, 161 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: maybe bid you have to sit in the hair and 162 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: makeup chair. Have someone do my makeup for me, fix 163 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: my hair? Oh my god, Oh my god, I do. Yeah, 164 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 1: I guess you're right, Like I always do love how 165 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: my hair looks when I leave the salon. If I 166 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: did that, anymore now my own stylist, Oh look at 167 00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: you so fancy? Um well, I love hearing. I also 168 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: love hearing about any sort of celebrity or artists or 169 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: musician that's actually kind and consider it and a good person, 170 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:08,240 Speaker 1: because you know, you always have like the fantasy. I'm like, 171 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 1: oh my god, you know, I love Beyonce so much, 172 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: but I'm literally like, I never want to meet her 173 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,280 Speaker 1: because I cannot take her off this pedestal that I 174 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: have her, like she cannot be a human. You know, 175 00:08:16,400 --> 00:08:19,720 Speaker 1: they say, don't meet your heroes totally, but I didn't 176 00:08:19,720 --> 00:08:22,360 Speaker 1: meet Gwen. I saw her from Afar, and I'm like, 177 00:08:22,680 --> 00:08:24,800 Speaker 1: but then you've heard good feedback from Lindsay and just 178 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 1: all of this stuff. It's just it's always such a 179 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:29,840 Speaker 1: good I love that when you hear the positive things 180 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: versus like oh they were such a diva or terrible stories, 181 00:08:32,640 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 1: and then it kind of makes you not be able 182 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 1: to like him as much totally. And here's the other thing, like, 183 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: now I know that Gwen's actually doing her own social 184 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 1: media because it was like real time, you know, like 185 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:47,520 Speaker 1: sharing and posting. I don't know, I mean maybe there 186 00:08:47,600 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: was somebody backstage, see, but like I mean, I feel 187 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:52,560 Speaker 1: like she was posting and sharing in like real time. 188 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:59,000 Speaker 1: Cut cut cute. Well, I went to um our favorite haunt, 189 00:08:59,160 --> 00:09:02,680 Speaker 1: our favorite steak house called Sperry's this week on Thursday. 190 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: Was you were out of town, I think already, um, 191 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:07,679 Speaker 1: but anyway, I went with our friend Mary and we 192 00:09:07,679 --> 00:09:09,720 Speaker 1: were just doing like a little girl's dinner. Our favorite thing. 193 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:14,920 Speaker 1: It's this really old steakhouse in Nashville. It's like probably 194 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,839 Speaker 1: probably the o G. It's got this like just old 195 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: steakhouse vibe everything. There's like a salad bar still, but 196 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: it's like it's got a neighborhood vibe to It's not 197 00:09:23,920 --> 00:09:27,560 Speaker 1: like downtown where yeah, which is just really nice. Like 198 00:09:27,640 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: especially in Nashville now it feels like everything is kind 199 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:33,559 Speaker 1: of exploded with tons of tourists. Everything is so busy, 200 00:09:33,600 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: and so it's just really nice to have some of 201 00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: the old school feeld of Nashville and um kind of 202 00:09:39,120 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: just I don't know, relax into that a little bit. 203 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: So it's our favorite thing to go to, like on 204 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 1: a Sunday night because they half bottles of wine or whatever, 205 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,959 Speaker 1: and Thursday nights is really fun too. The bar is 206 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:51,559 Speaker 1: also the place to sit and We always make the 207 00:09:51,640 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 1: joke like we're going to go look for silver foxes, 208 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:56,280 Speaker 1: you know, that's our whatever. But so we were kind 209 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:58,600 Speaker 1: of in that mood that night. We weren't actually looking 210 00:09:58,640 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: for souses, but we're sitting at the bar and um, 211 00:10:03,160 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: just having a grand all time. They also have amazing martinis. 212 00:10:05,880 --> 00:10:08,000 Speaker 1: Had two martinis and I was like on my ass, 213 00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:11,560 Speaker 1: like it was out of control. So we're feeling pretty 214 00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: good at this point. Second martini in and we just 215 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:18,760 Speaker 1: decided that we're done with small talk, like Mary and 216 00:10:18,800 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 1: I will go really deep and so and this is 217 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:22,520 Speaker 1: how I am with most of my friends, right Like, 218 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 1: this is something that I think I've gotten kind of 219 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: known for in our circle. But now I have this 220 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:30,559 Speaker 1: friend who is also on board with this, and she's like, yeah, 221 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,560 Speaker 1: I just don't have this the capacity for it. I 222 00:10:32,600 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: actually think this is like a symptom of COVID. It's 223 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 1: just like or like the quarantine. You know, It's just 224 00:10:37,960 --> 00:10:39,880 Speaker 1: like all of the ship that's happened in the world 225 00:10:39,960 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 1: the last couple of years has really just made it 226 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: be like what matters to you and who are you 227 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:47,679 Speaker 1: as a person? What are your beliefs, what are your 228 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 1: values and let's talk about that ship, Like I don't 229 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: actually care the bullshit stuff you did with your day. 230 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 1: So we're having this conversation and this I don't know, 231 00:10:57,280 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 1: fifties something sixty year old guy comes and sits down 232 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: and he's sitting next to us. Mary gets like a 233 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 1: little saucy. She's kind of sassy, wouldn't you say, especially 234 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: like when she's drinking, Like her voice goes up an 235 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:16,920 Speaker 1: she starts talking to higher off. Yeah, so that was 236 00:11:16,920 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 1: what was happening. So then the sweet old not old man, sorry, 237 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:23,400 Speaker 1: the sweet man is sitting there and she kind of 238 00:11:23,440 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 1: turns and so he was like, sounds sounds like you 239 00:11:26,080 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 1: ladies are having a fun night over there. She was 240 00:11:28,760 --> 00:11:33,400 Speaker 1: like she's like, yeah, um, we sure are. And he's like, 241 00:11:33,480 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: oh wow. He's like I just moved to town. Starts 242 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: telling us kind of a story, and she cuts him 243 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:41,400 Speaker 1: off abruptly and goes, listen, I'm sorry, but we're having 244 00:11:41,440 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: such a fun time over here because we're not doing 245 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 1: small talk, and I just need to tell you we 246 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:48,200 Speaker 1: don't do small talk anymore. And the guy's face was 247 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: like okay, uh, like he didn't know what to do. 248 00:11:53,679 --> 00:11:55,960 Speaker 1: I kind of cringed inside. But then I was like, yeah, 249 00:11:56,000 --> 00:11:59,480 Speaker 1: funck Yeah, we don't do small talk. So we're having 250 00:11:59,520 --> 00:12:04,559 Speaker 1: us converse station and um he so he says okay 251 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:06,280 Speaker 1: when he's like, well, can I ask like, what do 252 00:12:06,280 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: you guys do for a living? And Mary's like, well, 253 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,800 Speaker 1: I'm in management and I was like, I'm a groomer 254 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: and he was like what's a groomer? And um it's 255 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:15,000 Speaker 1: so hard to explain what I do because I have 256 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: eight d jobs, so I just always go for the 257 00:12:16,840 --> 00:12:18,160 Speaker 1: easiest one. I was like, oh, I do hair and 258 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 1: makeup for guys like in the music business or whatever. 259 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:24,920 Speaker 1: And so he starts talking about his hair and he 260 00:12:25,080 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: was like, what do you think about my hair? You know, 261 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 1: it's like gray, and I was like, it's great, it 262 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 1: looks you look fabulous whatever, and Mary goes, yeah, this 263 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: feels a little bit like small TALKXIC. He goes okay, well, uh, 264 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:38,160 Speaker 1: I don't know what do you want me to talk 265 00:12:38,160 --> 00:12:40,840 Speaker 1: about the hair and the rest of my body? And 266 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:44,080 Speaker 1: Marya's like, what do you mean your pubes? So we've 267 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:47,360 Speaker 1: literally just met this guy and he tells us that 268 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: his but I said, do does what is this saying? 269 00:12:51,360 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: I'm brain dead today? Got me. Does the carpet match 270 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 1: the drapes? And apparently it does not? Is that true 271 00:12:58,400 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 1: for guys? I mean I've never I don't think I've 272 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:06,680 Speaker 1: been with someone that is like gray on top. Yeah, 273 00:13:07,280 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 1: I don't think I have. If you're a man listening 274 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: to this podcast and you have gray hair, can you 275 00:13:12,320 --> 00:13:18,600 Speaker 1: report in? I don't know. I don't know. I mean 276 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: my hair on my head is starting to turn gray. 277 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 1: I have to color it every five weeks. Like my 278 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: roots are so bad because my hair so dark. But 279 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: I haven't had that issue downstairs, right, I also don't 280 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 1: have anything to judge it by you. You got rid 281 00:13:32,160 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: of the problem before. Yeah, well, like because chest hair 282 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: turns gray? On people, the hair turn gray? I don't know. 283 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 1: Shall we google this, get on this before Susan gets 284 00:13:44,200 --> 00:13:46,360 Speaker 1: on me? But yeah, I mean I don't actually know 285 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,680 Speaker 1: the answer, but it really sparked a debate in my 286 00:13:48,760 --> 00:13:53,520 Speaker 1: head of like, does anyone's pubic hair turn gray? Surely? 287 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:56,319 Speaker 1: Can you imagine an eight year old with like not 288 00:13:56,440 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: matching pubic hair? Aging Changes in hair color can change 289 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 1: hair colors due to pigment called melaninal hair turning gray, 290 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,959 Speaker 1: but most often this happens later than scalp hair, hair 291 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 1: in the armpit, chest, and pubic hair also make gray 292 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 1: less or not at all. Really, yeah, gray is largely 293 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 1: determined by your genes. Well, look at that art. It 294 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: does say it looks like white pubic hair could be 295 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 1: a sign of a fungus or std Oh god, you're 296 00:14:29,480 --> 00:14:34,280 Speaker 1: like that thing causes a white pubic hair. Finding a 297 00:14:34,280 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 1: white strand in your genital area can come as a surprise, 298 00:14:37,680 --> 00:14:40,280 Speaker 1: even when you anticipate your hair eventually turning gray or white. 299 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:42,600 Speaker 1: This may be the last place you'd expect to see 300 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 1: white strands. But the hair here is no different from 301 00:14:45,640 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: the hair on other parts of your body, so graying 302 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 1: is inevitable. This is from healthline dot com. Ye hair 303 00:14:53,160 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: follicles contain melanin, which is a pigment that gives hair 304 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:57,840 Speaker 1: its color. The older you become, the less melan in 305 00:14:57,880 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: your body produces, and when your body produces less bigment, 306 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 1: then your hair. But it can turn gray, silver, or white. Um. 307 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:08,480 Speaker 1: I don't see where it's saying. Um it says. But 308 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:11,400 Speaker 1: while graying is a natural aging process, some people develop 309 00:15:11,440 --> 00:15:14,160 Speaker 1: white or gray strands prematurely due to their lifestyle. For example, 310 00:15:14,160 --> 00:15:16,520 Speaker 1: people who smoke cigarettes may develop white hair at a 311 00:15:16,560 --> 00:15:20,360 Speaker 1: younger age because smoking tobacco can speed the aging process. 312 00:15:20,520 --> 00:15:23,600 Speaker 1: It's also just genetic. There's also a belief that extreme 313 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 1: stress can cause early graying, but more research is needed. 314 00:15:27,800 --> 00:15:33,400 Speaker 1: Um My aunt and um she's no longer with us, 315 00:15:33,400 --> 00:15:37,280 Speaker 1: but she had gray hair like in her twenties and um, 316 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 1: she swears it was from being scared um one night 317 00:15:40,080 --> 00:15:43,800 Speaker 1: that someone was breaking into her house. I mean, I 318 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:47,480 Speaker 1: could see where like long term stress could do that 319 00:15:47,720 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 1: one time. Seems a little strange to me, but I 320 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:53,320 Speaker 1: started getting gray hair at I'm a warrior, though, so 321 00:15:53,360 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 1: you never know. Anyway, I just thought it was really 322 00:15:55,440 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 1: interesting that are uninterested in small talk anymore led us 323 00:16:00,680 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: to this fun facts if you want to go, it's 324 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:07,640 Speaker 1: like talk. At this point, he was like, okay, here, 325 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 1: let's talk about my pubs. And he's like, you want 326 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:13,080 Speaker 1: to Literally Mary texted me the next morning and was like, uh, 327 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 1: do you, like, did you really remember the fact that 328 00:16:16,440 --> 00:16:20,080 Speaker 1: like we literally told this guy who just sat down, 329 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 1: we do not do small talk. And so then he 330 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:25,000 Speaker 1: started talking about his pubs. You want to talk about 331 00:16:25,000 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: something that's not small, here you go. I got something 332 00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: for you. Anyway, I thought it was really interesting. Um, 333 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 1: I'm not really sure how to transition into the topic today, 334 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: and I'm also really brain dead if no one can 335 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: tell God hot yoga, man, I got to get into 336 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 1: like the conditioning. It's like a new thing. I'm trying 337 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:44,360 Speaker 1: to get back into. You. I always really dread yoga, 338 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:45,960 Speaker 1: but then I get there and I love it, Like 339 00:16:46,000 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: I don't ever want to go. It's not like the 340 00:16:47,600 --> 00:16:50,080 Speaker 1: way I feel about other workouts. But then I get 341 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: there and I love it. And that was sort of 342 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,080 Speaker 1: the case. It's just a spiritual situation too. It's really 343 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:57,040 Speaker 1: good for your feel that way about yoga too, Like 344 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 1: I wish I did it more. You can come with me. 345 00:16:59,320 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go once a week. It's anything. Okay, maybe 346 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:03,520 Speaker 1: I'll join you, but do it on a day where 347 00:17:03,520 --> 00:17:06,440 Speaker 1: you don't have to record a podcast as wow. Um, 348 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 1: so we were going to talk about the met Well, 349 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:10,399 Speaker 1: actually this is part of what I wanted to talk 350 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:12,920 Speaker 1: about it. Do you say gala or gala? I would 351 00:17:12,920 --> 00:17:17,560 Speaker 1: say Matt Gal, Matt, g of course you would Gala 352 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:19,520 Speaker 1: is what I would say. Well, that's the American way 353 00:17:19,560 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 1: to say it, but they say that the English way 354 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:29,159 Speaker 1: would be met gala, No gala, met gala. But I 355 00:17:29,160 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 1: think it's funny when you hear people in America say 356 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:35,480 Speaker 1: it like that. It's a little pretentious to me, Um, 357 00:17:35,520 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 1: did you watch the Red Carpet? Did you do? What 358 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: you do? Um? I just saw it online and like 359 00:17:40,840 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 1: sort of looked at pictures. In fact, like I'd kind 360 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:47,440 Speaker 1: of forgotten it was happening. Yeah. Furthermore, I was kind 361 00:17:47,440 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 1: of surprised that it was happening totally. Yeah, I'm sure 362 00:17:52,119 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 1: they had a good COVID tests before the event, right, 363 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:57,840 Speaker 1: I mean, there's no way that they didn't. It seems 364 00:17:57,880 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: like they should have because we commented like nobody was 365 00:18:00,760 --> 00:18:05,440 Speaker 1: wearing mask. Well yeah, but most people did not seem 366 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:07,560 Speaker 1: like they were wearing masks. And like, I can't understand 367 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,320 Speaker 1: how you would do a Red Carpet situation without a 368 00:18:09,320 --> 00:18:12,160 Speaker 1: COVID test anymore. Any sort of big job I'm doing, 369 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 1: I'm getting COVID tested. They make you you know who 370 00:18:14,320 --> 00:18:20,120 Speaker 1: we should call and ask is John Sheers? Anyway, Um, 371 00:18:20,160 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure they made that happen. The theme was American independence, 372 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:27,679 Speaker 1: which I actually I'm like, what does that mean? And 373 00:18:27,720 --> 00:18:29,439 Speaker 1: I think you could see that in the wardrobe. It 374 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: feels like it was so scattered and all over the 375 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:36,399 Speaker 1: place in somewhat ridiculous in some ways. Um, but I 376 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 1: didn't really like get this vibe of like a theme, 377 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:42,720 Speaker 1: you know, Like some years I actually used to love 378 00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:46,120 Speaker 1: this event because people really get creative with their fashion statements. 379 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 1: But I felt like this year it was sort of like, huh. 380 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:54,080 Speaker 1: I didn't realize that it was a theme. Like I 381 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:55,720 Speaker 1: didn't know that there was ever a thing. I thought 382 00:18:55,960 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: it was just like be crazy do your friends. So 383 00:19:02,320 --> 00:19:04,080 Speaker 1: when I heard that there was a theme for this one, 384 00:19:04,119 --> 00:19:08,840 Speaker 1: I was like, well, what is it? Yeah, anyway, did 385 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:12,240 Speaker 1: you love anyone or hate anyone's outfits? I mean my 386 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:16,760 Speaker 1: favorite was probably Kim Kardashians. Yeah. I just thought it 387 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:19,159 Speaker 1: was um. I thought a lot of people it was 388 00:19:19,200 --> 00:19:20,879 Speaker 1: just like fucking weak and they looked like they just 389 00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,520 Speaker 1: like borrowed a dress from somebody and didn't like even 390 00:19:23,560 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 1: play into it. Hers I thought was really extreme and 391 00:19:27,800 --> 00:19:33,080 Speaker 1: statement making, um while also being like incredibly fashion forward. 392 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 1: Tell me more about that. Well, um, I mean, so 393 00:19:36,600 --> 00:19:39,800 Speaker 1: the theme was um And obviously this my opinion had 394 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:42,000 Speaker 1: to change evolve a little bit because I didn't know 395 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,360 Speaker 1: that there was a theme. So Once I heard the theme, 396 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:47,439 Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, that's fucking heavy. I think she 397 00:19:47,480 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 1: went the heavy route because I think that like American 398 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:53,639 Speaker 1: Independence is like we want to celebrate our freedom, the 399 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:56,760 Speaker 1: land of the free, and she kind of went to 400 00:19:56,880 --> 00:20:02,680 Speaker 1: the extreme like idea of oppression, and um, I thought 401 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 1: it was like a sarcastic view of you know what 402 00:20:06,119 --> 00:20:10,120 Speaker 1: she was of what people were intended to do and 403 00:20:10,600 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 1: to me and obviously I haven't I haven't read anything 404 00:20:13,400 --> 00:20:14,879 Speaker 1: from her, so I don't know what she or the 405 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:20,040 Speaker 1: designer were thinking. Was Blanciaga. UM My take on it 406 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: was that she was trying to um send a message 407 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 1: of like we're not free until the oppressed or free 408 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,919 Speaker 1: and it was like a really extreme take on like 409 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 1: the burka, like a women covering themselves had to tell 410 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,480 Speaker 1: like she covered her face, you know she it was 411 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: just like a black shell. Well with that description, I 412 00:20:46,520 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 1: actually think it is pretty brilliant and that the one 413 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 1: thing that I did say is like, remember back in 414 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: the day, and I kind of want to talk a 415 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,359 Speaker 1: little bit about the vmast they were the night before, 416 00:20:55,400 --> 00:20:57,440 Speaker 1: but back in the day when like Britney Spears was 417 00:20:57,480 --> 00:20:59,400 Speaker 1: performing and you were like, what's she gonna do this year. 418 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: It's like that they there isn't like an award show 419 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:05,359 Speaker 1: moment like that anymore. And so I will say Kim 420 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:07,480 Speaker 1: has sort of become this person that you're like, what 421 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 1: is she going to wear? Because she does push the 422 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 1: envelope a bit with her fashion Steven, especially an event 423 00:21:13,480 --> 00:21:16,399 Speaker 1: like the met Gala, where it's like open to interpretation, 424 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,960 Speaker 1: typically pretty creative. You're kind of, like I said to someone, 425 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: like you kind of want to know what the Kardashians 426 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,119 Speaker 1: are gonna wear because one of them is going to 427 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,400 Speaker 1: do something that's kind of like they want to make 428 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: the news. And there's well, there's also like she has 429 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 1: to deal with the world thinking that all she is 430 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:35,800 Speaker 1: is a pretty face and a sexy body. Right well, 431 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 1: I don't know if she has to deal with that. 432 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:41,439 Speaker 1: She's but like look, I mean it's she's laughing all 433 00:21:41,480 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 1: the way to the bank for it. But she has 434 00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:47,840 Speaker 1: been and this is gonna sound extreme because it's she's 435 00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:50,840 Speaker 1: not a victim, but like the media has victimized her 436 00:21:50,880 --> 00:21:53,399 Speaker 1: a bit over that, like you're not you're what what 437 00:21:53,480 --> 00:21:56,040 Speaker 1: are you? Just famous for being famous and being sexy? 438 00:21:56,240 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 1: And she's written that all the way to fucking multimillionaire hood. 439 00:22:01,080 --> 00:22:03,360 Speaker 1: So I don't feel sorry for her, but I think 440 00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,800 Speaker 1: I think it's an interesting statement where she's like, I'm 441 00:22:05,840 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 1: not going to show even my face. I'm not going 442 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 1: to show an ounce of skin. I'm not going to 443 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: show my face. Do you think do you think she 444 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:14,800 Speaker 1: had her hair done? Well? I have something to say 445 00:22:14,800 --> 00:22:17,159 Speaker 1: about that in a second. Um, yeah, I mean I 446 00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,600 Speaker 1: think that in the Year of the Naked Dress, Like, 447 00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 1: did you notice that it was like this like sheer 448 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 1: dress and it happened at the v m as the 449 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:27,280 Speaker 1: night before to Megan Fox had done it, and it 450 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,840 Speaker 1: was like basically, Zoe Kravitz did it. Kendall's was kind 451 00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:33,200 Speaker 1: of like that too, Kendall Jr. And I mean I 452 00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:36,000 Speaker 1: thought Kendall's was like beautiful, Zoe looked amazing. They all 453 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,879 Speaker 1: looked amazing. Their bodies are insane, but it was just 454 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 1: this common theme throughout where you saw a lot of that, 455 00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:45,159 Speaker 1: and so it was like this huge statement, especially from 456 00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: the person who liked start to expect sex from like 457 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:50,880 Speaker 1: it's that's the person you think is going to come 458 00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:53,959 Speaker 1: with the sexy thing, and she did the complete opposite. 459 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 1: I did read this meme all The memes were amazing, 460 00:22:56,760 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 1: by the way. I mean, I can't even keep up 461 00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:01,239 Speaker 1: with them. There was that there was one that was like, 462 00:23:01,280 --> 00:23:03,320 Speaker 1: when you're feeling like your life doesn't have a purpose, 463 00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: just remember that someone did Kim Kay's makeup for the 464 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:11,800 Speaker 1: Matt gallow Actually her makeup artist, Mario posted that, which 465 00:23:11,800 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 1: I thought was hilarious, but um, yeah, no, she was 466 00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,359 Speaker 1: full hair and makeup before they put the mask on 467 00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:20,760 Speaker 1: or whatever you call it. Covering. What are you reading 468 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:25,159 Speaker 1: right now? I'm listening to you that you're distracted. Susan 469 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,560 Speaker 1: is totally going to email us about this. She wouldn't 470 00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:30,000 Speaker 1: have known if you hadn't called me out. Everyone can tell. 471 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: Do you not think our people know us at this point? 472 00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:34,879 Speaker 1: They can tell I'm brain dead, and they can tell 473 00:23:34,920 --> 00:23:45,920 Speaker 1: you're distracted. No, I'm not, just I'm fully listening tide anyway. Um, 474 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:48,920 Speaker 1: speaking of TikTok, did you notice how many TikTok stars 475 00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,560 Speaker 1: and influencers are there, like literally watching Red Carpets now, 476 00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, who's that. I didn't know. I didn't know 477 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 1: half of the people they're Yeah, it's so weird that 478 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,320 Speaker 1: that is such a big part of our SI siety 479 00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:02,200 Speaker 1: and I mean, I guess it works for the American 480 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:06,000 Speaker 1: theme because it is literally our culture has become this 481 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:08,120 Speaker 1: thing where now these people are the ones on red 482 00:24:08,160 --> 00:24:11,439 Speaker 1: carpets and like kids don't care about who's on TV anymore. 483 00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:16,800 Speaker 1: It's wild. Yeah. I also like diversity through the roof, 484 00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 1: Like it it's pretty amazing, Like the pendulum feels like 485 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:24,560 Speaker 1: it has swung, which is awesome. You know, It's I mean, 486 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,919 Speaker 1: this might be the first time I've ever looked through galleries, 487 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 1: Like I've never really been that interested in it, like 488 00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 1: you see the highlights or whatever. So it could have 489 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,240 Speaker 1: always been this diverse, but to me, it felt like 490 00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:41,080 Speaker 1: it was an incredibly diverse crowd this time around. Yeah, 491 00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:43,159 Speaker 1: I can see that. I wond er two if like 492 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: it was affected by people's willingness to travel to New 493 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:52,000 Speaker 1: York because when I think about, like, there weren't a 494 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:55,199 Speaker 1: ton of movie stars there and normally I feel like 495 00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 1: there's a lot of movie stars. Well, honestly, it's sort 496 00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 1: of like you mentioned at the beginning of this where 497 00:24:59,359 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 1: it was like I can't believe they had this event. 498 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:03,560 Speaker 1: I mean, like I'm actually glad events are coming back 499 00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:06,879 Speaker 1: obviously for our business in general, like concerts and all 500 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,439 Speaker 1: this stuff. But there were a lot of memes to 501 00:25:09,640 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: about this event in particular because it is sort of 502 00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 1: like this swanky, fancy, high ticket, high dollar ticket event, 503 00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 1: and how much of that starts to feel a little 504 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 1: bit out of touch in the nature of like where 505 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,720 Speaker 1: our world is right now, you know, And like I 506 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 1: don't know, there was there was one me mess all 507 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 1: about it that's like, yeah, we're sitting here trying to 508 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:35,520 Speaker 1: pretend like the celebrities on the red carpet of the 509 00:25:35,560 --> 00:25:38,880 Speaker 1: Big Deal when like all these like people are trying 510 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:40,440 Speaker 1: to figure out how to pay their bills next month, 511 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,760 Speaker 1: Like guess why wasn't that like the or like you know, 512 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 1: who should have been invited, like the creator of the vaccine, yeah, 513 00:25:49,119 --> 00:25:51,800 Speaker 1: or likes is and the things that they're doing at 514 00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 1: a lot of like the football games, you know, Like 515 00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe we need to start thinking in 516 00:25:56,880 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 1: a way of like normalizing taking in quote unquote regular people, 517 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,000 Speaker 1: but taking them to some of these events so it's 518 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 1: not like such a big gap, you know, for the 519 00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 1: day it's the mat Galla, you know what I mean, 520 00:26:13,359 --> 00:26:15,359 Speaker 1: Some things just have to be what they are, you know, 521 00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:18,080 Speaker 1: Like it would be silly for me, me to sit 522 00:26:18,160 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: around and be like, why wasn't I invited them? That guy? 523 00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: You know, Like, what would you have worn? I mean, seriously, 524 00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:31,160 Speaker 1: could you imagine, I don't know, a shitty diaper. Now 525 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:35,639 Speaker 1: that's your American independence. Now I would have gone dressed 526 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:39,680 Speaker 1: as a big COVID ball. I feel like you would 527 00:26:39,680 --> 00:26:44,240 Speaker 1: have been a vaccine walking around like a needle with 528 00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:47,399 Speaker 1: I would have been shooting like water into people's arms. 529 00:26:47,680 --> 00:26:49,840 Speaker 1: You like, get you get the vaccine and you just 530 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,000 Speaker 1: start shooting it up in the air. You're on the 531 00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:57,280 Speaker 1: red carpet actually just administering statement of vaccine. We're wasting 532 00:26:57,280 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 1: and I just have like a big syringe where I'm 533 00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: like shooting skin of the air. Like would I be? 534 00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 1: I don't know. I really have no ideas American independence. 535 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 1: What do I get fired up? I get so fired 536 00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 1: up about the women issues. So you would be a woman. 537 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,640 Speaker 1: I would be a woman. But you guys, jigs up here, 538 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:16,800 Speaker 1: I am with the red carpet. I'm a fucking woman. 539 00:27:17,320 --> 00:27:21,800 Speaker 1: Well you could go nude? Well, I mean basically people did. 540 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 1: Maybe that's what the new dresses meant. Maybe you were like, 541 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,440 Speaker 1: maybe you wear like a nude pregnant suit, like you're 542 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: like a pregnant woman buck naked when the prosthetic belly, 543 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,080 Speaker 1: I know, I don't know, it feels like it would 544 00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 1: it would like trigger me or something. I'd be like 545 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 1: crying down the red car good, you know, and I'm 546 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,280 Speaker 1: like talking then I'm like going to all my rants 547 00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 1: about infertility. So we're like kicked off the red carpet 548 00:27:53,040 --> 00:28:00,320 Speaker 1: before we even like you. They're like nobody be there. Well, 549 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,320 Speaker 1: speaking of people who we thought were interesting, were there. 550 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:07,119 Speaker 1: Alexandria Accassio corzz aoc um. She was there, and you 551 00:28:07,160 --> 00:28:09,880 Speaker 1: were like, why is a politician there? Her dress made 552 00:28:09,880 --> 00:28:11,520 Speaker 1: a big statement that it was called it. She had 553 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,199 Speaker 1: a white dress on and there was red writing that 554 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 1: said tax the rich. And so she's getting a lot 555 00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 1: of press about this because some people are like, uh, 556 00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,520 Speaker 1: first of all, you're at one of the swankiest events, 557 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:26,880 Speaker 1: you are rich, what are you doing? Like you can't 558 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,000 Speaker 1: say that, but I mean she just was like, you know, 559 00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:31,639 Speaker 1: if you have a medium like this, you have a 560 00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 1: platform like this, why not use it to make statements? 561 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 1: And she's known for doing that, so it actually isn't 562 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,360 Speaker 1: that surprising to me. People acted so shocked. I I'm 563 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:43,160 Speaker 1: sort of on both sides. I can understand how she 564 00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:46,360 Speaker 1: opened the door for people who don't like her to 565 00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 1: tear her down, and I'm going to read um. So. 566 00:28:49,400 --> 00:28:53,719 Speaker 1: Dave portn Away from Bar Sports tweeted um a photo 567 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,600 Speaker 1: of her wearing the dress and said tax the rich 568 00:28:55,640 --> 00:28:58,560 Speaker 1: in quotation marks. But first I'm gonna have to I'm 569 00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,520 Speaker 1: gonna go have the time of my life partying with 570 00:29:00,560 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 1: all of them at the most extravagant, over the top 571 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 1: party of the year that is essentially a celebration of richness. 572 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,080 Speaker 1: He's not wrong, not wrong, but I think what he 573 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 1: leaves out is the fact that, like, she wore that 574 00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:16,320 Speaker 1: dress in front of them, and she's sending a message 575 00:29:16,360 --> 00:29:20,920 Speaker 1: to them, She's sending a message like it's a conversation starter. 576 00:29:21,400 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: The problem that I have that I think was kind 577 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 1: of the point that he was making is that, like, 578 00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 1: you're not a celebrity, you are a politician. And I 579 00:29:29,280 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: think there needs to be a line drawn because I 580 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 1: think that is the problem with politics today, is that 581 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,680 Speaker 1: like we're like we're like we're making these people deities, 582 00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:44,200 Speaker 1: and really what they are is just they should be 583 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:47,800 Speaker 1: normal people that we've hired as a nation to do 584 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:49,600 Speaker 1: the job that we want them to. Still, in the 585 00:29:49,600 --> 00:29:52,719 Speaker 1: public eye, they are celebrities. I'm like, do you mean 586 00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:56,520 Speaker 1: they're not entertainers? Right? I mean, do you want there 587 00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 1: to be a category of an entertainer versus a politician versus? Right? 588 00:30:01,280 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 1: Because this when I feel like, when you cross the 589 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: line into like the entertainer world, it feels it's you 590 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:11,280 Speaker 1: give license to people to believe that, like everything that 591 00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 1: you're doing is for you and not for the good 592 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:19,200 Speaker 1: of the people. So I mean, that's that's I had 593 00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 1: a conversation with somebody a few weeks ago that brought 594 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 1: up a really interesting point about politics, and they're like 595 00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 1: his view was he doesn't believe that anyone should be elected. 596 00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: They should just be told that your president, like, well, 597 00:30:31,160 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 1: we need a new president, Kelly, you're president for the 598 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: next four years. Because then it's not something that you 599 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:37,440 Speaker 1: wanted to do. It's something that you now have to do. 600 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,640 Speaker 1: So but you don't get to decline it like it 601 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: is your civic duty. You are now the president, you 602 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 1: know what I mean. I don't want it, right, But 603 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,760 Speaker 1: then like but you would be forced to like have 604 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:50,520 Speaker 1: to sit down and think Okay, what is the right 605 00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:53,120 Speaker 1: thing to do here? Because it wouldn't just be about 606 00:30:53,120 --> 00:30:57,280 Speaker 1: like you weren't looking for power. So this to me 607 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: is like it makes me question what her mode of are. 608 00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:04,280 Speaker 1: And I love AOC. I think she's a fucking badass, 609 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:06,760 Speaker 1: but I don't think that she should be attending these 610 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 1: sorts of things. Yeah, I mean, I guess I see 611 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:11,960 Speaker 1: what you're saying. It's such a blurry line nowadays, though, 612 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: Like I get in this conversation with another friend of 613 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 1: ours and she's always like, reality TV people are not celebrities, 614 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 1: and I actually believe that too. It's like you don't 615 00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:24,120 Speaker 1: have like a talent, You're just on TV being yourself 616 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 1: or whatever. But they are celebrities. But what's interesting, and 617 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 1: this is I think showing up on red carpets and 618 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 1: at award shows and all this stuff like the TikTok stars, 619 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:38,640 Speaker 1: the influencers, that is almost becoming the common day celebrity 620 00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:40,920 Speaker 1: or whatever it is. And so all the lines are 621 00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 1: getting really blurry as into what what is famous nowadays 622 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:49,200 Speaker 1: and what are people known for? And unfortunately, like the 623 00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 1: young not unfortunately, but like the younger generations are identifying 624 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,240 Speaker 1: more with these TikTok stars than they are with Katie 625 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,160 Speaker 1: Perry almost, you know, like and this is going to 626 00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:01,680 Speaker 1: make us sound really fucking old. We are, we are. 627 00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 1: I'm so close to fifty. I was thinking about that 628 00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:05,720 Speaker 1: the other day. Oh my god, your pubes are going 629 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:13,080 Speaker 1: to turn and they're not great yet. Um, the the 630 00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:17,800 Speaker 1: opportunities to become famous when we were young, like it 631 00:32:17,920 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 1: was like ABC, NBC. We there had to be a 632 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:25,560 Speaker 1: real talent, you know, even if it was like you're 633 00:32:25,600 --> 00:32:28,920 Speaker 1: a porn star, like there was like there were so few, 634 00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:32,800 Speaker 1: so many fewer avenues your talent as a porn star sex. 635 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:36,640 Speaker 1: I mean, listen, well I couldn't make a porno like 636 00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,440 Speaker 1: it's definitely about there's a lot more to it than 637 00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: I think. You also, let the balls. You have to 638 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 1: have the balls to do it, you know, like or 639 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:49,160 Speaker 1: or like the balls to do it. But yeah, there 640 00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,640 Speaker 1: was like there were so few avenues to fame. Now 641 00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:55,560 Speaker 1: because of the Internet, there are so many, and cable television, 642 00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:58,840 Speaker 1: social media, social media and cable television sort of change 643 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 1: the game. And it just like Bravo needed fucking programming 644 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 1: and they weren't having scripts written for their short But 645 00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 1: that's my whole point is like you try to say 646 00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:10,480 Speaker 1: that politician isn't a celebrity, and I could see what 647 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,760 Speaker 1: you're saying. They're not an entertainer, but they are in 648 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 1: the public eye, and you do have these platforms that 649 00:33:17,680 --> 00:33:20,400 Speaker 1: a regular Joe Schmo doesn't have, and so what are 650 00:33:20,400 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 1: you going to use them for? And if you're a politician, 651 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:27,080 Speaker 1: seems like you should use them for your beliefs, right, 652 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:32,680 Speaker 1: But I think by making the choice to attend these things, 653 00:33:32,680 --> 00:33:36,640 Speaker 1: which she doesn't have to do, blurs the line. There 654 00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:40,200 Speaker 1: were no other politicians there, you know, like when you 655 00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 1: thought it was weird, if Bernie Sanders was there, I 656 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:44,800 Speaker 1: would have loved it. He would be there would be 657 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 1: so many memes of him. Sweatshirt. Yeah, that was my 658 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,240 Speaker 1: favorite thing, one of my favorite things that happened during 659 00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:55,920 Speaker 1: the pandemic because I was so down and depressed or whatever, 660 00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 1: and then all of a sudden it was just like 661 00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:01,440 Speaker 1: the Bernie memes that a sweatshirt. Yeah, but there it 662 00:34:01,520 --> 00:34:03,440 Speaker 1: was side strong that doesn't really fit me. We just 663 00:34:03,480 --> 00:34:06,360 Speaker 1: did the heaviest I roll I've ever seen. Hate when 664 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:08,439 Speaker 1: I order something the right size but then it comes 665 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:15,840 Speaker 1: and it doesn't fit, you know, Um, is there anything 666 00:34:15,880 --> 00:34:20,319 Speaker 1: else you took away from the whole event in general? Um, 667 00:34:21,360 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 1: I mean not really, like it's sort of lackluster. If 668 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 1: you asked me, I liked j Loo's look. I kind 669 00:34:26,719 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 1: of liked the western vibe, you know she is except 670 00:34:31,040 --> 00:34:33,800 Speaker 1: for her taste in men. I just really I cannot 671 00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,000 Speaker 1: figure out if this like benefit thing is all for 672 00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:40,239 Speaker 1: press or if it's like I don't know, maybe maybe 673 00:34:40,239 --> 00:34:42,120 Speaker 1: he was the one that got away and she had 674 00:34:42,160 --> 00:34:44,400 Speaker 1: the opportunity to go back to him. I don't know, 675 00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:47,200 Speaker 1: gross though he is so gross I have There's so 676 00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,200 Speaker 1: many stories I've heard of him, like from behind the 677 00:34:49,239 --> 00:34:52,439 Speaker 1: scenes of just like the alcoholic days and just being 678 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: that woman. I a guy people can change. I don't 679 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,880 Speaker 1: know that I think that he has personally. But a 680 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 1: friend of ours recently went on a trip with a 681 00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 1: Rod and she was telling me that, um, well they 682 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 1: were there was literally nothing that happened. It wasn't like 683 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 1: there was no romantic chemistry between them, but all the 684 00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 1: tablets started to pick it up because of him and 685 00:35:16,040 --> 00:35:20,400 Speaker 1: j Loo's breakup, and so she was like saying that 686 00:35:20,640 --> 00:35:23,480 Speaker 1: they took a yacht. Could be like, I can't even 687 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:25,759 Speaker 1: imagine this. They took a yacht out and so then 688 00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:28,759 Speaker 1: literally the day after, j Lo came in the same 689 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 1: wherever they were I can't remember, came in the same 690 00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,600 Speaker 1: body of water to say, in her yacht, which was 691 00:35:34,840 --> 00:35:39,280 Speaker 1: apparently like big times better and literally was like having 692 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:41,840 Speaker 1: I think, trying to get pictures to see to scope 693 00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 1: out what was happening with our friend because she like 694 00:35:44,480 --> 00:35:46,600 Speaker 1: needed to know because it was all in the news 695 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,080 Speaker 1: and stuff. And then so she's like, get me to 696 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 1: like exactly, give me, give me get the jet. We 697 00:35:56,560 --> 00:36:01,960 Speaker 1: gotta get on the yacht. Yeah, yeah, we can get 698 00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:03,960 Speaker 1: on the yacht and get some pictures of this new girl. 699 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:07,120 Speaker 1: Figure out who this bitch is. Yes, But so she 700 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:10,480 Speaker 1: was like very like jealous and juvenile about it, and 701 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,799 Speaker 1: she was already being photographed with Ben. But then that's 702 00:36:12,800 --> 00:36:16,160 Speaker 1: where the whole thing came out in our little circle 703 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,200 Speaker 1: of like maybe that was just for press, think, like 704 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:20,600 Speaker 1: what does Jelo have to be jealous about? But I 705 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,239 Speaker 1: guess she's human. It's like everyone else, and it's like 706 00:36:23,320 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 1: you don't want your got to move on, it's just 707 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,239 Speaker 1: are you just need to need to make sure that 708 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 1: you're still better, Like you're like, let me scope are out, 709 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 1: which is terrible that we as women do that to 710 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:37,320 Speaker 1: each other because really it's like the dude's fucking loss, 711 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:39,479 Speaker 1: Like what a douche, right, But yeah, but like going 712 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:44,640 Speaker 1: from a Rod to Ben Affleck Gros, I think a 713 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:47,200 Speaker 1: Rod is kind of disgusting too. I think Ben's more 714 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,600 Speaker 1: handsome well for sure, but like they're just all the 715 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:55,200 Speaker 1: same guy. But I mean, look, how how many peoples 716 00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,799 Speaker 1: j Lo dated between Ben Affleck and Ben Affleck. So 717 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 1: maybe she's like, look, I have seen every side of men, 718 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:03,920 Speaker 1: and Ben's the best. I'm gonna you know, I just 719 00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:08,279 Speaker 1: can't imagine that. But make that movie gel together. I 720 00:37:08,320 --> 00:37:11,400 Speaker 1: haven't no idea. It was spelled jiggly g I g 721 00:37:11,640 --> 00:37:14,960 Speaker 1: l I. It's I literally, I've walked out of two 722 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:16,640 Speaker 1: movies in my whole life, and that was one of them. 723 00:37:17,160 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 1: We'll see it was doom from the start. Anyway, I 724 00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:23,240 Speaker 1: want to know y'all got y'all's guys, but you guys 725 00:37:23,280 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: thoughts on a couple of things. First of all, Kim 726 00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 1: Kay's look. Second of all, um j Lo and Ben 727 00:37:30,920 --> 00:37:33,040 Speaker 1: at this point, which doesn't really have anything to do 728 00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:34,840 Speaker 1: with the topic, but I just think that it's I 729 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:38,000 Speaker 1: love talking about j Lo in general, So I'm obsessed 730 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:40,359 Speaker 1: with her, like as far as like how the fund 731 00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,080 Speaker 1: does she look so good? Seriously, I mean, and talking 732 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 1: about a career man like she's done at all speaking 733 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:50,320 Speaker 1: of like aging and careers and um kind of morphing. 734 00:37:50,440 --> 00:37:53,239 Speaker 1: Let's talk about mcdonna's But at the VMA, what is 735 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:55,960 Speaker 1: going on? Where did she get it? Kim Ka Surgeon, 736 00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 1: I guess or I feel like it could have also 737 00:37:58,120 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 1: been a strap on kind of thing. No, it is 738 00:38:00,000 --> 00:38:01,840 Speaker 1: it because a friend of ours does war job on 739 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 1: her tours and said, oh my god, it's like nothing 740 00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,560 Speaker 1: I've ever seen nowadays. Well I remember seeing because she 741 00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:08,879 Speaker 1: did some pop up stuff at Gay Pride in New 742 00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:12,319 Speaker 1: York this year and her I don't know if it 743 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,279 Speaker 1: was a push up bra. She got boobs too, but 744 00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 1: like she did, she got it. Why did she think 745 00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,760 Speaker 1: that her body would hold the same kind of body 746 00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:23,360 Speaker 1: as like all these Kardashians and she was like a 747 00:38:23,480 --> 00:38:26,880 Speaker 1: yogi and had this like really fit, beautiful body. Like 748 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:31,600 Speaker 1: I can't even process me sad because it's like, I, 749 00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:35,120 Speaker 1: you know, obviously fucking a dormadonna. I feel like she's 750 00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:40,000 Speaker 1: been such a trend center and influential sort of artist. 751 00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:43,960 Speaker 1: And I feel like she's entered this phase in her 752 00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:49,840 Speaker 1: life and career where it's attention grabbing, like it's not 753 00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:53,719 Speaker 1: as thoughtful as she used to be, Like it feels desperate. 754 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:56,879 Speaker 1: And that makes me sad to think that, like this 755 00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:02,640 Speaker 1: iconic fucking art queen would be thinking that way. Also, 756 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:05,080 Speaker 1: it's her body, so she can do whatever she wants 757 00:39:05,120 --> 00:39:07,520 Speaker 1: to write. But when you put it on display, I'm 758 00:39:07,520 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 1: gonna talk about it. I know. I think there's so 759 00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:12,839 Speaker 1: much to be said about aging gracefully, and I'm just 760 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,000 Speaker 1: trying to say this to myself because it's hard, especially 761 00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,600 Speaker 1: as a woman, like the stuff that we the pressure 762 00:39:18,640 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 1: that we get, and then especially if you're in the 763 00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 1: public eye. Oh my god. But that is like case 764 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:25,799 Speaker 1: and point to me of like you can take it 765 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:36,200 Speaker 1: too far and it really just it's a bad luck anyway. 766 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,640 Speaker 1: You guys send us your emails to the edge at 767 00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 1: velvet edge dot com. Slide into my d M at 768 00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:45,439 Speaker 1: Velvet Edge, chip is at chips You have to spell 769 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:51,440 Speaker 1: it now, d r H changed it up like you 770 00:39:51,560 --> 00:39:54,400 Speaker 1: kind of saying it. I'm gonna go into some emails. 771 00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,560 Speaker 1: Our first email actually the subject is Kelly and c H. 772 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:03,800 Speaker 1: I capital Pete, a nurse during the pandemic speaking Um, Hi, guys, 773 00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,719 Speaker 1: It's two oh four a m. In San Diego, California 774 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,400 Speaker 1: right now I'm sitting on a metal rolling table in 775 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:12,560 Speaker 1: a supply closet, hiding from what you ask, the universe. 776 00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:15,760 Speaker 1: I hope no one finds me during these peaceful moments. Anyway. 777 00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,400 Speaker 1: I am a single mom and an I see you nurse, 778 00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,560 Speaker 1: and have worked during the entirety of the pandemic and 779 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:23,919 Speaker 1: for the eighteen years before that here in the ICU. 780 00:40:24,400 --> 00:40:27,360 Speaker 1: Luckily I haven't gotten COVID. Many of my co workers 781 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,920 Speaker 1: have taken advantage of the system, so to speak, and 782 00:40:29,960 --> 00:40:32,480 Speaker 1: have been on leave of absence for a variety of 783 00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:36,400 Speaker 1: probably fabricated reasons. I haven't, but you better believe I 784 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,799 Speaker 1: think about it before my night shift every damn night. 785 00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,279 Speaker 1: Before I kissed my two girls, five and six year 786 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:44,160 Speaker 1: olds good night and leave for work to take care 787 00:40:44,160 --> 00:40:47,080 Speaker 1: of the dying. Yep, most of the dying despite all 788 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 1: our efforts. Most are dying despite all our efforts. Makes 789 00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:53,400 Speaker 1: me second my stomach. I don't want to glorify anything, 790 00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:56,720 Speaker 1: but we're trying very, very fucking hard to keep people alive, 791 00:40:56,880 --> 00:40:59,400 Speaker 1: even when we know the outcome. It's fucking tough to 792 00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 1: go to work the middle of doom and gloom of 793 00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:03,880 Speaker 1: the world today. Now to the point of this email, 794 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: every Thursday night that I go to work, I plan 795 00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:07,719 Speaker 1: to take a break after midnight so I can hear 796 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 1: you and Chip take me away, far, far away. It's 797 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:12,640 Speaker 1: a little escape that I needed. I'm so grateful for it. 798 00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:15,879 Speaker 1: Thanks guys. What's her name. I think it's called it's 799 00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 1: pronounced Saren. It's s e r e in Saren. So 800 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,399 Speaker 1: sorry that I'm not getting your pronunciation right. Thank you. 801 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:26,720 Speaker 1: How are you seriously thank you? I mean, I saw 802 00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:29,000 Speaker 1: this thing on TikTok the other day. Somebody sent me 803 00:41:29,040 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 1: a message and it was I'm assuming she was a nurse. 804 00:41:31,960 --> 00:41:35,200 Speaker 1: She was in scrubs and she was crying and she 805 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:39,400 Speaker 1: was just like, I fucking hate my job. Now, I'm exhausted. 806 00:41:40,239 --> 00:41:43,200 Speaker 1: I want this to end. And you know, it's like 807 00:41:43,640 --> 00:41:47,440 Speaker 1: I feel like we um forget that doctors and nurses 808 00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:49,440 Speaker 1: and all these people at hospitals are human beings and 809 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,600 Speaker 1: they get attached to patients and there's like part of 810 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:56,520 Speaker 1: what drives what they do is love for you know, 811 00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:01,800 Speaker 1: just human beings and to have to go in every 812 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:04,640 Speaker 1: fucking day and just know that these people are going 813 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,120 Speaker 1: to no matter how hard you work, which you can't 814 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,880 Speaker 1: give up on it. You gotta still work hard, and 815 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:14,520 Speaker 1: they're gonna die. Yeah, I cannot believe that people are 816 00:42:14,520 --> 00:42:17,680 Speaker 1: doing that. We think into this thing. Eighteen months into this, 817 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,799 Speaker 1: they'll think about the weight that we feel. And I 818 00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:24,040 Speaker 1: still feel the ebbs and flows, like our business is 819 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,319 Speaker 1: coming back, but then we keep getting scared, and so 820 00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:32,000 Speaker 1: we're feeling like this ebb and flow of like fear, excitement, fear, excitement, fear, 821 00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:36,439 Speaker 1: and like it's on no level even comparable to what 822 00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:40,920 Speaker 1: doctors and nurses are going exactly, and just like the 823 00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:46,040 Speaker 1: overlying theme of COVID is still here and we're still 824 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 1: dealing with it, and it's still super divisive, and like 825 00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:53,839 Speaker 1: it's not really you know, it's getting better seemingly as 826 00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:56,040 Speaker 1: far as we're living life a little more. But like 827 00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,239 Speaker 1: we were, we were both so embarrassed because it came 828 00:42:58,239 --> 00:43:00,719 Speaker 1: out that Nashville is like one of the number one 829 00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:05,120 Speaker 1: place or the number one place, one in five it 830 00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:08,720 Speaker 1: was the state of Tennessee. One in five hundred residents 831 00:43:08,719 --> 00:43:12,799 Speaker 1: of Tennessee has died of COVID. Yeah, that's insane. But 832 00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:15,560 Speaker 1: so it's just like I can understand where the weight 833 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,520 Speaker 1: of all of this at this point specifically, I mean, 834 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:21,560 Speaker 1: good god, I just anyway, thank you so much to 835 00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,200 Speaker 1: all of you guys out there who are nurses and 836 00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,080 Speaker 1: doctors and dealing with this in ways that we can't 837 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:29,759 Speaker 1: even imagine, because I know that the weight has thought 838 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:31,640 Speaker 1: heavy to us, so I just can't even imagine what 839 00:43:31,640 --> 00:43:33,799 Speaker 1: it feels like to you guys. So hang in there, 840 00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:35,479 Speaker 1: and I'm super glad that we can bring you even 841 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 1: the slightest bit of brain dead years. I mean, it's 842 00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:40,160 Speaker 1: like we're over here talk about Madonna's like fake but 843 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:44,640 Speaker 1: you know, right, So hopefully it's a it's a relaxing 844 00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:47,759 Speaker 1: break from seriousness though, which is our total point and 845 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:49,680 Speaker 1: kind of what we've been talking about the last few weeks. 846 00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 1: Like it's tough sometimes for us to even come to 847 00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:53,880 Speaker 1: these topics because we're like, we listens a little silly, 848 00:43:53,920 --> 00:43:56,719 Speaker 1: but but sometimes I need the break to to know 849 00:43:56,800 --> 00:43:59,360 Speaker 1: that we're giving them a recharge totally that gives me 850 00:43:59,440 --> 00:44:02,359 Speaker 1: much more per So, thank you. Um, this one comes 851 00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:04,680 Speaker 1: from Tera, she said, Kelly, I'm listening to yours and 852 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:07,320 Speaker 1: chips most recent edge podcast, and I just want to 853 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:09,239 Speaker 1: say that I see you, I hear you talking about 854 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:11,279 Speaker 1: feeling depressed for the past year, and my heart goes 855 00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,080 Speaker 1: out to you. Not to be basic, but same girl, same. 856 00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:17,040 Speaker 1: I've been limiting my exposure to news and social media. 857 00:44:17,120 --> 00:44:20,040 Speaker 1: A deactivated my Facebook account last year and haven't looked back. 858 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:22,680 Speaker 1: And I have to keep a conscious check on what 859 00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 1: I'm consuming. It's such an effort. I'm sorry it has 860 00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:29,080 Speaker 1: such an effect on my mental health and my mood. 861 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 1: Thank you for what you and Chip do to bring 862 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,480 Speaker 1: me laughter each week. Thank you for being you. Sending 863 00:44:33,480 --> 00:44:36,560 Speaker 1: you love in light another one so much love. God, 864 00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,839 Speaker 1: I know I haven't. I haven't gone on the news 865 00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:42,880 Speaker 1: site since September, since in this month, I mean aside 866 00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:46,920 Speaker 1: from those like I Heart emails, which I literally unsubscribed 867 00:44:46,960 --> 00:44:48,680 Speaker 1: to every day and it's still they still come. So 868 00:44:50,000 --> 00:44:56,520 Speaker 1: don't we don't know what system? Oh my god, we're 869 00:44:56,520 --> 00:44:59,240 Speaker 1: about to lose a podcast grade. How do you guys 870 00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,400 Speaker 1: go down? Well started cursing the network that we're on. 871 00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:08,440 Speaker 1: Jesus good, No, we're not going to you know, I 872 00:45:08,440 --> 00:45:12,040 Speaker 1: don't edit these Jesus Sorry, I heard I love you 873 00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:16,080 Speaker 1: so much. Um, Okay, I'm gonna take over again. This 874 00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:25,600 Speaker 1: one comes from fuck you, I heart you're joking. It's like, god, Um, 875 00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 1: this comes from Cindy. I don't know why, but the 876 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:30,120 Speaker 1: last podcast was a little too real for me, like 877 00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,520 Speaker 1: crying after listening. It was all good crying. It feels 878 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,800 Speaker 1: so good to know that I don't feel alone, especially 879 00:45:35,800 --> 00:45:39,480 Speaker 1: on how parents raised me. Doing the best obviously, but 880 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 1: I need some work. You guys are good. And I 881 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:43,839 Speaker 1: wrote her back because I was like, which podcast are 882 00:45:43,840 --> 00:45:45,400 Speaker 1: you talking about? I was I didn't know if it 883 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,239 Speaker 1: was like the Velvet or The Edge or whatever, but 884 00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:49,200 Speaker 1: she said that it was when you were talking about 885 00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,000 Speaker 1: doing the work, like after going on one side, and 886 00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 1: just like the things that we learned that we want 887 00:45:54,280 --> 00:45:56,560 Speaker 1: to unlearn, and just the patterns that we pick up 888 00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:59,399 Speaker 1: as children. And yeah, just that you learned a lot. 889 00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:03,000 Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, educating on the edge. 890 00:46:03,400 --> 00:46:08,040 Speaker 1: We'd love you. I hurt. Anyway, This last one I'm 891 00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:09,600 Speaker 1: gonna read it comes from Laura. Oh my god, I 892 00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:13,320 Speaker 1: cannot express how much you and Chip which new nickname 893 00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 1: start off my weekend? Right? I'm so stressed? Is so 894 00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:19,720 Speaker 1: much secret impending divorce, the anniversary of my daddy's passing, 895 00:46:19,760 --> 00:46:22,600 Speaker 1: my birthday next week and I'm sorry the next day, 896 00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 1: and my beloved blue healer the next week. After the 897 00:46:25,960 --> 00:46:29,319 Speaker 1: initial scare of COVID losing so many clients as a housekeeper, 898 00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:33,040 Speaker 1: I didn't think about that. Wow. Now a year later, 899 00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,479 Speaker 1: I'm losing another dog and my mom is coping while 900 00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:39,799 Speaker 1: keeping herself busy making a cake. I don't want to eat. 901 00:46:39,840 --> 00:46:43,400 Speaker 1: It sounds like such a mom daughter dynamic. Anyho. I 902 00:46:43,480 --> 00:46:46,600 Speaker 1: got the old man drunk, texting and trying to mess 903 00:46:46,680 --> 00:46:49,359 Speaker 1: with me while he has a new girlfriend. Man, I 904 00:46:49,400 --> 00:46:51,759 Speaker 1: just thought this might do you a good belly laugh. 905 00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,520 Speaker 1: Belly laugh my favorite. I'll send y'all a better one 906 00:46:55,560 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: next time. I just wanted to tell you that y'all 907 00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,400 Speaker 1: make my life fun. I mean, I feel like everyone 908 00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:02,239 Speaker 1: is feeling what we were talking about last week, and 909 00:47:02,280 --> 00:47:04,480 Speaker 1: so I'm so glad to hear that we're not alone 910 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:06,000 Speaker 1: in all of this. I hate that you guys are 911 00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:07,839 Speaker 1: feeling that way, but I am happy that we're bringing 912 00:47:07,880 --> 00:47:09,520 Speaker 1: out any amount of joy, because it doesn't that give 913 00:47:09,520 --> 00:47:13,080 Speaker 1: you purpose totally. Yeah, And it's like, even though we're 914 00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,120 Speaker 1: the ones with the microphones, it's like we're going through 915 00:47:15,160 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 1: the same thing too, So it's like good to know 916 00:47:17,719 --> 00:47:20,280 Speaker 1: that we're not alone, that we all have people and 917 00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,240 Speaker 1: we're I think we're all connecting that way, which sucks, 918 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:25,600 Speaker 1: but maybe this will be kind of the thing that's 919 00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:28,719 Speaker 1: like the common denominator of like, hey, we're all struggling here. 920 00:47:29,120 --> 00:47:32,280 Speaker 1: Can we stop coming at each other and work together 921 00:47:32,360 --> 00:47:35,480 Speaker 1: because it looks like we all need it. Do you 922 00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 1: have anything else you want to say? Chip, which um 923 00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:42,480 Speaker 1: do not talk to. I heart every It was more 924 00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,640 Speaker 1: the emails that drive me crazy. The fact is I 925 00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,600 Speaker 1: actually really like of all the blasts, I get like 926 00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,840 Speaker 1: their news stories I really want. But I'm just trying 927 00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:53,400 Speaker 1: to remove news from coming at me. I hear you. 928 00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:55,239 Speaker 1: I want news to be something that I seek out, 929 00:47:55,719 --> 00:47:58,040 Speaker 1: so and I do. It really does annoy me when 930 00:47:58,040 --> 00:48:01,160 Speaker 1: you unsubscribe from something and you don't get up email addresses, 931 00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:06,000 Speaker 1: and I literally unsubscribe every day. It's a violent So 932 00:48:06,120 --> 00:48:10,400 Speaker 1: it's it's I mean, it's probably actually illegal, but um 933 00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:15,239 Speaker 1: so um. Well, now that we're hear, I guess we 934 00:48:15,400 --> 00:48:18,399 Speaker 1: better go save our money. I'll refrain from suing them 935 00:48:18,400 --> 00:48:19,959 Speaker 1: if they keep us on the air and they're gonna 936 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:21,960 Speaker 1: be like, bit, we know what we pay you, it 937 00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:29,000 Speaker 1: is not enough to sue us. Okay anyway, Yeah, I 938 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:31,120 Speaker 1: am not going to do hot yoga before the next 939 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:33,640 Speaker 1: recording next week. Promise you guys, my brain will be 940 00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,919 Speaker 1: more smart. I can't wait to go to Bro's tonight. 941 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 1: We're going to the Brothers Asmon concert Addison, there's some 942 00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:42,360 Speaker 1: of our friends. I'm just there. I'm excited talk about 943 00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:46,319 Speaker 1: good people, talk about artists that actually just are even 944 00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:49,520 Speaker 1: better than you could ever imagine as human beings. We 945 00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,080 Speaker 1: love them so much, so if you haven't heard of them, 946 00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:53,959 Speaker 1: go check them out. We'll be at the show tonight. 947 00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:55,880 Speaker 1: So we'll report back next week with I'm sure some 948 00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,960 Speaker 1: funny stories. We'll get some to can't wait we'll get 949 00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,600 Speaker 1: We'll get some tequila moments together. Okay, now I gotta 950 00:49:03,640 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 1: go figure out what's it we're so anyway, thank you 951 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,239 Speaker 1: guys so much for listening. Email us at the Edge 952 00:49:08,280 --> 00:49:10,040 Speaker 1: at velvet edge dot com. You can slide into my 953 00:49:10,120 --> 00:49:13,399 Speaker 1: d M S on Instagram at Velvet's Edge, chip at 954 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:16,560 Speaker 1: chip dor c r P d R s H And 955 00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 1: while you're going into your weekend and you're living on 956 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:21,359 Speaker 1: the edge, I hope that you remember to act cat 957 00:49:22,040 --> 00:49:23,520 Speaker 1: I kind of got that one, kind of we kind 958 00:49:23,560 --> 00:49:26,800 Speaker 1: of nailed that one, all right, Okay, bye,