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Speaker 1: Papa Team six. We're back another episode of four the Dads.

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Speaker 1: You're probably looking at my head right now, wondering what's

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Speaker 1: going on. I'm sure we do have a lot of

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Speaker 1: people who tune in, maybe listen, maybe watch the podcast.

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Speaker 1: I know a lot of pet Sikos are sitting there

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Speaker 1: with their wife right now. Their wife probably has no

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Speaker 1: clue what they're looking at. Their old man, the dad.

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Speaker 1: He might be chuckling to himself because he knows what's

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Speaker 1: going down. Yeah, I lost the bet. I lost the

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Speaker 1: bet Michigan versus Nebraska. Yeah, with my boy Taylwan. He's

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Speaker 1: also my co host. So I'm busting with the boys.

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Speaker 1: I lost the bet.

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Speaker 2: You did.

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Speaker 1: I lost the bet. So that's why you're seeing in

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Speaker 1: the shining bald head right now. Your boy had to

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Speaker 1: go bald. I had to just shave the face. I

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Speaker 1: had to shave the top. This is my first time

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Speaker 1: ever doing this.

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Speaker 2: Very cold.

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Speaker 1: It's a it's a different feel, it's a different vibe.

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Speaker 1: Let me know if you like in the comments. I

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Speaker 1: need some words of affirmation right.

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Speaker 2: Now, and please like it in the comments, because he

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Speaker 2: does look good. Thank you, that does look.

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Speaker 1: I hope you had a lot of fun consuming football

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Speaker 1: over the weekend. I hope you're you're trash is taking

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Speaker 1: out your Your island is clean, the clutter is gone

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Speaker 1: for your wife. Uh, this show is free for you

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Speaker 1: The engagement is unreal. Have some fun, a couple of

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Speaker 2: bodcast podcasts.

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Speaker 1: Yeah man, this this this show is is for fatherhood,

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Speaker 1: for embracing fatherhood. The suck, the love, everything in between,

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Speaker 1: the ups, and down, ebbs and flows. Your gonna hear stories.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna hear about our wins, losses, as dads, as husbands.

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Speaker 1: Am I missing anything? Sure?

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Speaker 3: Will?

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Speaker 1: Are any new viewers that might be tuning in?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? New viewers? First off, welcome. Secondly, maybe hey, maybe

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Speaker 2: you got a bad haircut over the weekend. Maybe you

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Speaker 2: lost a bed over the weekend. What is a great

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Speaker 2: way that we could cover up that dough with some

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Speaker 2: new for the Dad's merch? That's right, big for the

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Speaker 2: Dad's merch. Drop this Wednesday. So when you're listening to

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Speaker 2: this this morning, this morning, if you're up early, if

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Speaker 2: you're a true pt sicko, then it's probably six am,

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Speaker 2: five thirty am for the real siccos at ten am

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Speaker 2: is the drop of you've been asking for it. The

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Speaker 2: black for the dad hats, we also have the black

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Speaker 2: Teddy Bear hats. If we want to kick it over

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Speaker 2: to the producer cam.

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Speaker 3: How are we doing?

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Speaker 2: Look a gay.

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Speaker 4: Love this hat for all the out there that aren't

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Speaker 4: Dad's yet and you feel like it's a little bit

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Speaker 4: of stolen valor.

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Speaker 3: This hat right here with the teddy Bear.

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Speaker 4: Let me see if I can get it without it

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Speaker 4: focusing in is an absolute sick hat. I wore it

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Speaker 4: out both nights this weekend. Got a lot of compliments

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Speaker 4: you did. It's a real runaway hit it is. He

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Speaker 4: looked good at Jill's party. He wore that hat to

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Speaker 4: Jill's party and looked sick.

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Speaker 1: I'm excited to learn it right here about this party

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Speaker 1: a little bit, but you get all this new merch again.

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Speaker 1: You probably listening to this at six am. You're probably

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Speaker 1: doing a morning feed. Yep. Oh, you're probably getting the

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Speaker 1: kids ready, trying to get him out the door before

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Speaker 1: you going to work. Maybe make some breakfast for the family,

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Speaker 1: get the trash checking out, whatever it is. Just know

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Speaker 1: at ten am Wednesday morning, bwtv dot com, massive drop.

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Speaker 1: We got how many shirts we'll have?

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Speaker 5: Rumors are scrolling on the other side. I believe three shirts.

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Speaker 5: I believe this hat. I believe the Sherman hat and

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Speaker 5: a visor of the bear some hoodie. I believe a hat.

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Speaker 2: I believe.

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Speaker 5: I mean g showed me an image of It's an

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Speaker 5: overwhelmingly positive amount of here coming.

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Speaker 2: Oh, let's go.

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Speaker 1: Papa Team six is gonna show out too. Don't forget

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Speaker 1: our first iteration of the Papa Team six shirts. Do

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Speaker 1: not forget still in the stores. But if you really

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Speaker 1: want to, if you're part of this crew, if you're

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Speaker 1: part of this army, you go get some merchant. BWBTV

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Speaker 1: dot com m hm or shall we start? You want

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Speaker 1: to do we need to talk about? Do I need

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Speaker 1: to address anything about that anymore?

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Speaker 3: To me?

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Speaker 1: This is this is what fatherhood looks like. You ain't

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Speaker 1: a true.

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Speaker 2: Dad unless you get a shaved dad. Hey, here's the deal.

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Speaker 2: You look tough. I think if there's one thing that

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Speaker 2: with it shaved well, which I do think you look good.

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Speaker 2: You look tough.

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Speaker 1: This is the a gap. Come.

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Speaker 2: You look like you're in the league again, Like I

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Speaker 2: kind of I'm seeing it again.

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Speaker 1: I had an athletic director shoot me a message saying,

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Speaker 1: that's who told me I look twenty one. I was

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Speaker 1: trying to figure out if somebody text me and told

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Speaker 1: me I looked twenty one at AD. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 1: say which school it was. I'm sure you guys can

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Speaker 1: more eligibility.

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Speaker 2: You do, what do you mind for the viewers throwing

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Speaker 2: on the Teddy Bear hat kind of high up on

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Speaker 2: the head. You look like a first round draft pick

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Speaker 2: when you wear the just like you look like the

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Speaker 2: guy that I probably shouldn't drive here, but I'm not

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Speaker 1: Get the grill going. Got the chains on. The first

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Speaker 1: When I knew I lost the bed, I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I got to embraced this ship. Yeah, and I'm kind

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Speaker 1: of excited to get my head shaped in my face shaved.

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Speaker 2: I look right.

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Speaker 1: I looked in my closet, Yeah, and it was no,

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Speaker 1: without question, the black True Classic shirt hats. And then

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Speaker 1: I was like, it was time to bring these chains

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Speaker 1: back out of retirement. They've been sitting, They've been sitting

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Speaker 1: I got the same Christopher necklace with a ceruleum bell

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Speaker 1: Charles has been asking me like, when you're gonna put

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Speaker 1: the neckls back on? My God, I just feel like

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Speaker 1: I'm not as much of a necklace guy anymore. But

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Speaker 1: now now with this bald head, you look at a

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Speaker 1: black tea look and the chains are back.

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Speaker 4: It's fitting that we're talking about family while he looks

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Speaker 4: like Ben Diesel.

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Speaker 2: Great calls.

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Speaker 1: I lived my life one quarter mile at a time.

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Speaker 2: Great quote, hashchak.

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Speaker 1: Family doesn't matter if you went by an entire mile

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Speaker 1: winnings winning.

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Speaker 2: Will I almost had you.

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Speaker 1: Have me.

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Speaker 2: You didn't have me.

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Speaker 1: You didn't even have your own car. Come on, go

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Speaker 1: check out faster than furious, Go check out fast shoutouts.

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Speaker 2: Uh, there was one last thing I was gonna say.

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Speaker 2: You wanted to talk briefly about Solidarity Solidarity. You wanted

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Speaker 2: to talk about how speaking of family that we are

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Speaker 2: a family on this show. Yeah, was there anything that

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Speaker 2: you wanted to bring up with that with Solidarity heads

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Speaker 2: or how are you feeling.

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Speaker 1: There is a co host with me on this show

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Speaker 1: that they put in a bed of Nebraska minus twelve

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Speaker 1: and a half, thirteen and a half over the weekend.

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Speaker 2: Thirteen and a half but one hundred.

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Speaker 1: I did have some guys riding with me on the

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Speaker 1: game over the weekend, the Busting Bull, A couple of

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Speaker 1: gentlemen sitting behind the cameras right now, Derek and Chef.

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Speaker 1: So there's a part of me. It's like, am I

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Speaker 1: the only one going to take the bullets here on

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Speaker 1: shaving my head? Or should my for the dad's family?

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Speaker 1: Should my PT six ers? Should the captain? The seaman

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Speaker 1: Team six? The funcal club? What're you laughing about? You too?

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Speaker 1: You too, Buco.

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Speaker 2: I'm laughing because I'm laughing because I'm excited.

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Speaker 1: I truly me is wondering if you guys should be

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Speaker 1: doing this in solidarity with your boy, if we're going

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Speaker 1: to be a family, if we're going to be like this,

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Speaker 1: then I think it's only right. Did you guys do

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Speaker 1: it with me comments? Let me know what you think.

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Speaker 2: I have to be completely honest. This is my take

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Speaker 2: on it. Overwhelmingly excited. If the whole PT six s

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Speaker 2: crew is down to schaef heads, I mean chef chefs.

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Speaker 1: Chef's there, he's he was like that when he first

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Speaker 1: showed up as an intern. He had that thing buzzed down.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, been buzzed for well, actually that was the

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Speaker 4: first time. Can I'm willing to do it? I don't care.

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Speaker 4: Can I go half guard up top here and then

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Speaker 4: a fade on the side.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Do we have to go full razors?

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Speaker 4: Because it would really help with the girlfriend, convincing her

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Speaker 4: because I told her I was going to grow it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't see why not. I don't see how.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it would obviously mean the world to me

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Speaker 1: if you did what I did. But if you guys

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Speaker 1: are standing in some type of solidarity with me, I

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Speaker 1: would love that. What about you, Derek? You you're kind

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Speaker 1: of new here. You know, you got a nice little

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Speaker 5: I had already told that after October thirteenth, I'll do

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Speaker 5: whatever you want to my head. That is our engagement

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Speaker 5: photo day where we are sending out wedding. I think

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Speaker 5: that's I think that's safe.

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Speaker 2: That's safe. That's safe. Here's what I say.

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Speaker 5: October fourteenth, we are going to the Jonas Brothers. I

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Speaker 5: will gladly walk into the Jonas Brothers with that haircut.

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Speaker 5: As long as I'm not losing my wonderful fiance, I

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Speaker 5: have no issue.

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Speaker 1: Right bro. So when I lost this bet because Charle

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Speaker 1: was talking to me last week and she was like,

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Speaker 1: are you actually gonna cut your hair? And I was like,

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Speaker 1: I mean, sweetheart, if we lose, I have to. But

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now, we're not gonna lose this

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Speaker 1: football game, Taylor's gonna be the one buzzing in his head.

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Speaker 1: We're not losing. This hair is staying. I know you

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Speaker 1: love the hair. Gets what the hair is staying. Because

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Speaker 1: she's like, we got family photos in early October. Oh no,

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Speaker 6: Did you take Michigan or Nebraska?

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Speaker 2: I took Nebraska. He took Nebraska minus thirteen and a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, honestly, and we we be the trend setters, well

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Speaker 6: Right, have a full cool segment before the dad It's

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Speaker 2: You can't do.

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Speaker 2: I can't joke around. Well we joke.

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Speaker 6: And once again love the show and actually I mean it,

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Speaker 2: Round of applause. Taylorwan taylorwan.

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Speaker 1: We can get that, we can get the clippers out,

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Speaker 1: I guess, Derek, we can wait until your engagement photos

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Speaker 1: on on YouTube Papa Fox Bet six from Sussex County, Delaware,

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Speaker 1: Love the pod, look forward to it every week, shouting

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Speaker 1: The question is, Will, how did you how did you?

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Speaker 1: I'm holding Scotty right now, I can't do it, or Rue,

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Speaker 1: I can't do this because I'm doing X, Y and

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Speaker 1: Z with Scottie. I still do that from time to time,

441
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Speaker 1: but I got to catch myself saying it, and I

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Speaker 1: just instead I'll tell Rue, okay, it can do that,

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Speaker 1: and then I will look at Scotty and say, Scotty,

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Speaker 1: whenever I'm done holding you, I got to pick up

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Speaker 1: your sister, Rue, because the little one, they have no

446
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Speaker 1: clue what's going on. Yeah, but almost you know, if

447
00:20:08,760 --> 00:20:11,360
Speaker 1: you're older one, your first one is telling you something

448
00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:13,159
Speaker 1: and say you can do but you just can't at

449
00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,040
Speaker 1: the moment, or you will later, but you can at

450
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Speaker 1: the moment instead of like telling them I can't do X,

451
00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:20,920
Speaker 1: Y and Z because my responsibility is with your younger

452
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Speaker 1: sister right now. You need to understand that my hands

453
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Speaker 1: are full and Dad's trying, but I got to tend

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Speaker 1: to your younger sister right now. It would be more

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Speaker 1: so I tell her, yes, I nod my head, we'll

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Speaker 1: be able to do this. Hang on, let me just

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Speaker 1: tell Scotty something really quick. So then I'll tell Scotty

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Speaker 1: whatever I got to do with her and say, but

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Speaker 1: when I'm done, I have to play with your sister.

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Speaker 1: So that way Ru is hearing me say that, then

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Speaker 1: it allows me to then look at Rue say do

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Speaker 1: you hear what I told Scotty? I just said, you know,

463
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Speaker 1: let me let me change your diaper. Let me get

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Speaker 1: you into your outfit. But the moment I'm done, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna play. I'm gonna play with Rue and then I'll

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Speaker 1: look at real. But I just give that these couple

467
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Speaker 1: of minutes, I'll knock it out quick and then we'll

468
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Speaker 1: start playing. So those are like a couple of little

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Speaker 1: hacks and a couple of little tips. That's the only

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Speaker 1: experience I have. Ruth does get jealous and stuff at

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Speaker 1: times with Scottie, but she Ru's honestly, she's been a

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Speaker 1: pretty good big sister for the most part, and I

473
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Speaker 1: do feel a lot of it has to do with

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Speaker 1: like making them feel included in the conversation of whatever

475
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Speaker 1: you're doing responsibility wise. With the younger one, he's just

476
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Speaker 1: more so look at them, say everything you're going to

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Speaker 1: do to them, while the while the older one hears

478
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Speaker 1: you that way, they feel part of this solution of

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Speaker 1: the problem solving that's taking place. So that's what i'd say.

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Speaker 2: Those have been two of my favorite dad hacks that

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Speaker 2: you've actually shared on this show. And it was Stephen

482
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Speaker 2: Shade that gave you the Stephen Jay, Yeah, shout out

483
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Speaker 2: Stephen Chay. He gave me the gift idea when you

484
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Speaker 2: were bringing the newborn home, tell the older one.

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Speaker 1: Genius, Yeah, hey, Scotty, got you a gift. When we

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Speaker 1: get home.

487
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Speaker 2: She's so excited to be your sister.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's so excited to be your sister, and just

489
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Speaker 1: kind of sets it up for success. Oh. But it's

490
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Speaker 1: like it's just like little things like that, because it

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Speaker 1: does happen. It does get hard. You're juggling a lot

492
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Speaker 1: of things when you have multiple kids, and you get

493
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Speaker 1: caught up, you know, being a little too impatient or

494
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,520
Speaker 1: maybe you're a little run down from the day and

495
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:08,120
Speaker 1: you know, wearing all the different hats being a husband,

496
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Speaker 1: being you know, employee, being dad, being dad to one,

497
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Speaker 1: being dad to two, and you kind of like, you know,

498
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Speaker 1: you get a little frazzled. But that's like a it's

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Speaker 1: like a It's like one thing I will allude to

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Speaker 1: in my brain is okay, if I check the way

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Speaker 1: I'm talking or rue doesn't feel important right now. I

502
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Speaker 1: try to think of what I've just been doing, and

503
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Speaker 1: I gotta switch it around. I need to talk to Scotty,

504
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Speaker 1: say hey, Scotty, whenever I get downe putting you in

505
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Speaker 1: your credit or give you your bottle. I have to go

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Speaker 1: play with I have to go play with Rue. It's

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Speaker 1: Rue's time. And you know you're sitting there talking a

508
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Speaker 1: little one there. They have no clue what's being said,

509
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Speaker 1: but Ru's fired up because you know you're talking about

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Speaker 1: her and letting them know at the same time how

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Speaker 1: important they are in front of a little sister.

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Speaker 2: I love that. I next one that I have is

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Speaker 2: off of TikTok, which we haven't done. A ton of

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Speaker 2: comments off TikTok. I saw Derek pulled a bunch of

515
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Speaker 2: TikTok comments, which gets me stoked. This is where I'm

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Speaker 2: twenty stew underscore, he says. Fellas dad to dad to

517
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Speaker 2: a rambunctious eleven month old boy who is hates sitting

518
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Speaker 2: still even when getting his diaper change. Full of shit good. Also,

519
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Speaker 2: longtime PT sixer, my son has recently been deployed to

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Speaker 2: every nook and cranny in our house since he is

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Speaker 2: crawling now. Anyways, have the best dad moment the other

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Speaker 2: day as I walked in the door, he crawled to

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Speaker 2: me with the biggest smile. Also, he caught him bobbing

524
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Speaker 2: his head to Rocky Top, which made me a static gbo,

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Speaker 2: come on, shit h thoroughly enjoy all the pods fellas

526
00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,479
Speaker 2: great advice for future dads, new dads or all dads

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Speaker 2: love that which I also have a similar story a gbobo.

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Speaker 2: I have a similar story with Scarlet. That's one of

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Speaker 2: my krack of cole ones not crawling but smiling.

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Speaker 1: All right, thank you for the comment on TikTok Yes,

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Speaker 1: thank love that TikTok comments.

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Speaker 2: Let's go twenty six alos on TikTok Uh.

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Speaker 1: Brandon Brandon zero nine fifty ripped a fart in my

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Speaker 1: son's room. After asking did you hear that frog? He laughed.

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Speaker 1: My three year old thinks farts are funny. Good love

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Speaker 1: the love the podfellows, keep killing it. Then some more

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Speaker 1: PT six some some engagement here. Nick beck With responds

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Speaker 1: to him. My dad used to call him California Barking

539
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Speaker 1: Spiders legend. Love seeing the community, love the community talking

540
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Speaker 1: back and forth with each other, just all dad's trying

541
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Speaker 1: to help each other out.

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Speaker 2: My dad was a big barking spider guy. He loved

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Speaker 2: that joke, and I never fully got the joke because

544
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Speaker 2: I was like, I don't know if spider's bark, Like,

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Speaker 2: what's my dad talking about chef shake his head to

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Speaker 2: you like I don't I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know you know.

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Speaker 2: This one comes from Brett Dureau Underscore also on TikTok.

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Speaker 2: How's it going, guys? My my name is Sergeant Brett

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Speaker 2: Dureau and I am currently deployed to the Middle East.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for your service, Brett. However, my wife is

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Speaker 2: back home and is due in October with our first baby,

553
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Speaker 2: a baby girl. I'm super excited and nervous about this,

554
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Speaker 2: so I was just wondering what tips you have for

555
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Speaker 2: a girl dad who hasn't been there through all the

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Speaker 2: appointments due to military service. Also, I plan on surprising

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Speaker 2: her by coming back before our baby is born. What

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Speaker 2: should I do for my wife to help make up

559
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Speaker 2: for the lost time. You guys are a huge inspiration

560
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Speaker 2: to me about to become a girl dad, and I

561
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Speaker 2: can't wait to make my own memories with my daughter.

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Speaker 2: Any tips you could give me would help out a lot.

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Speaker 2: Thank you guys for being awesome motherfuckers and awesome girl dads.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully me being from Iowa doesn't rub you the wrong way,

565
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:55,719
Speaker 2: will Winkie face? Anyways, Love you boys, God bless That

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Speaker 2: comes from Brett Dureau, Brett Dureau.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, bro thank you for tapping in, Thank you

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Speaker 1: for leaving a comment. Saran, what do you got, broh advice?

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Speaker 1: I know you got a couple of things advice wise.

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Speaker 2: As far as like making up that time, I feel

571
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Speaker 2: like it's so different, uh in Brett's case because he's

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Speaker 2: literally serving our country. But I know what he means about,

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Speaker 2: like the a the guilt from absence.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and although I did not experience that with my wife,

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Speaker 1: I felt like the communication, even if I wasn't able

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Speaker 1: to make a baby appointment, the communication before the appointment

577
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Speaker 1: and after the appointment meant the world to her of

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Speaker 1: even the most minutes stuff.

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Speaker 2: Her head has grown eight millimeters. Sureman, Oh my gosh,

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Speaker 2: that's that's incredible, because we were worried about the size

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Speaker 2: of her head, Jill, you know, but like being plugged

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Speaker 2: into those conversations. But I think the best gift that

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Speaker 2: he's gonna give them is like him coming home and

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Speaker 2: surprising them, like those you want to talk about crying

585
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:04,920
Speaker 2: on camera. Yeah, yeah, I'll pull those up on YouTube.

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00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 2: Just a soldier coming home, a mom or a dad

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Speaker 2: and oh dude, I'm dead me at the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm with you. It always comes back to the

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00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: communication and just the presence, and then if you can't

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00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:23,040
Speaker 1: have the presence, just them knowing that you care to

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00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,120
Speaker 1: ask about what's going on, because you got to think

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Speaker 1: too as a mom going into these appointments and let's

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Speaker 1: just say it's alone. Like there are things that they're

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Speaker 1: nervous about, there's things that they're learning, and whenever they

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00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 1: come out of it and talk to you, they want

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Speaker 1: to know that you're there and you see them and

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Speaker 1: that you you are in it with them, even though

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Speaker 1: you might not actually be with them. So whether it's

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Speaker 1: fears or insecurities or learning something new, it's that same

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Speaker 1: excitement to where you're curious about it and what you got,

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Speaker 1: what you got in that.

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Speaker 2: Way, I was worried about the bottom of my water,

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Speaker 2: but I think it is just some liquid IV.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, nice nice blood, Thank you, thank you. But yeah,

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Speaker 1: just knowing that you that you're that you're in it

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Speaker 1: with them as much as you can possibly be, because

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Speaker 1: she gets it and I'm sure she asks you how's

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Speaker 1: everything going? Uh there, whether you can share with her

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Speaker 1: or not, but it's just flipping the table and asking her, Hey,

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Speaker 1: how's your day? How are you feeling going into it?

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Speaker 1: Are you feeling excited? They want to know that you're

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Speaker 1: excited all of those different things. That's what it it.

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Speaker 1: That's what it always comes down to. Because for me,

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Speaker 1: if like my wife checks me a lot of times,

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Speaker 1: it's like, I just want to know that you're excited

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Speaker 1: or that you're feeling some of the same same things

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling, versus like staying you know, reserved or unemotional.

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: I know exactly what you mean.

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Speaker 3: And uh.

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Speaker 2: The other question that he had asked was like, what

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Speaker 2: advice do you have as a couple of girl dads

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Speaker 2: for me? I think the only thing that I would say, uh,

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Speaker 2: instead of some advice is just like to get Brett excited?

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Speaker 2: Is I feel like dad's the opportunity is so great

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Speaker 2: rate with being a girl dad, like the opportunity to

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Speaker 2: be a good father to your daughter. But that cheat

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Speaker 2: code of like the relationship of a daughter and her

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Speaker 2: dad is like I'm starting to see it with Scarlet

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Speaker 2: of just like the way that she looks at me

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Speaker 2: and the way she interacts with me and stuff, and

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Speaker 2: like it's just so much fun. It really is. And Brent,

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Speaker 2: You're in for an absolute treat. I know, I'm only

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Speaker 2: barely eleven weeks into, you know, this whole process, but

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Speaker 2: it's like, it's such a cool thing. It's such a

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Speaker 2: beautiful thing. I don't know how to describe it. Even

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Speaker 2: you're a barber. What was his name, Allan Matt Allen? Today?

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Speaker 1: Can hey, can can you turn that on? Can people

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Speaker 1: hear the lawnmowing going on outside? I will get that

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Speaker 1: out of the okay, okay, because that just got super loud. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Alan's a stud, bro.

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Speaker 2: Allan's a stud. And congratulations to Alan. They have a

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Speaker 2: baby girl on the way in October. And it was

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Speaker 2: fun just him saying like, hey, I have a baby boy,

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Speaker 2: but we actually have a baby on the way. It's

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Speaker 2: a girl. And like just the look that he kind

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Speaker 2: of gave me and like dap me up. It's like,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, there's just something cool about being a

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Speaker 2: girl dad.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, awesome responsibility, like the new love that you have,

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Speaker 1: like you are your daughter's first love. Go back to

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Speaker 1: episode one and listen to the end of the episode

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Speaker 1: because I kind of do a little written thing on

654
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Speaker 1: being a girl dad and what it means and I

655
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Speaker 1: absolutely love it. And then what you'll do is you

656
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Speaker 1: might not have the capacity yet, but one day you

657
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Speaker 1: will when your little girl comes. But I would say,

658
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Speaker 1: when you're wanting advice on, you know, your wife, whether

659
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Speaker 1: you're away or she's alone, it's almost like, how would

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Speaker 1: you want how would you want your daughter to be

661
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Speaker 1: treated if she was with somebody who was either overseas

662
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Speaker 1: in the military or is absent. Like again, sometimes is

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Speaker 1: that's just the that's the that's the hand you that's

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Speaker 1: the hand you're dealt with. Yeah, that's the that's the

665
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Speaker 1: life that is chosen on on being married to somebody

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Speaker 1: who's at who who with their job and career, is

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Speaker 1: absent a lot of the time. Like you as a girl, dad,

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Speaker 1: how would you want that man to treat your daughter

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Speaker 1: if he was away? And you will find a lot

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Speaker 1: of those answers that way as well, and then you'll

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Speaker 1: kind of know, you know, things to ask, things to

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Speaker 1: feel excited about with your wife, because I feel like

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Speaker 1: that gives you a nice little guiding light when you

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Speaker 1: do finally have your baby girl.

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Speaker 2: I love that answer. That's a good answer.

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Speaker 1: I've been joking around in the office sometimes with some

677
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Speaker 1: of the single guys when they're telling stories of like

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Speaker 1: you know, dating and text that they're sending back and forth.

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Speaker 2: Then I'll especially for.

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Speaker 3: That, that's what you're talking about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll go, Hey, that's scarlet you're texting. Keep that

682
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Speaker 2: in mind. You're so right. Hey, you're so right, dude,

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Speaker 2: So right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a that's a that's a Seman Team six

685
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Speaker 1: member right there.

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Speaker 2: He's a he's right there with chef. Yeah, second in command,

687
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Speaker 2: would you say chef? At least.

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Speaker 4: He might be what was the military branch where it's

689
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Speaker 4: like the the goom berets. Yeah, but like I'm talking

690
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Speaker 4: about the actual like the Delta Squad guys who are

691
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Speaker 4: just like they're like black ops.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah yeah, Furdo might be a goo beret.

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Speaker 1: He might be a goom Beret that's on Semen Team six.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. And for people if you're new tuning in the

696
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Speaker 1: tiers we have, you're Papa Team six. Those are the fathers. Yep.

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Speaker 1: You might be on Seman Team six currently where you're

698
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Speaker 1: not a dead yet but you're shooting. You're dropping in

699
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Speaker 1: Seeman Team six to do you know some night operations.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we also call that buds training breeding until

701
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Speaker 1: dad status and that's for you.

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Speaker 2: Uh uh, pre PT sixers, pre PT sixers, you're trying

703
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Speaker 2: to actually becoming PT six members.

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Speaker 1: That means you're in bud straining.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 7: Uh.

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Speaker 1: You could be a seeming Team sixer where you're just

708
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Speaker 1: you're playing for the love of the game.

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Speaker 2: Milk Team six, Milk Team six. That's the female audience

710
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Speaker 2: right now, Team six, Team six. Yeah, Dad DG six,

711
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Speaker 2: which was Daddy Girl six right that We came up

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Speaker 2: with the other episode comment from last week girls.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Daddy Girl six, Okay, Daddy Girl six. You got

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Speaker 1: the gooon berets goom berets. Oh yeah, what did I say?

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Speaker 1: Did I say goom Berets or green Berets?

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Speaker 2: You said goomby Okay?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you got the gooners out there. Those are the

718
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Speaker 1: young bucks. Those are the young bucks. Now, uh this comment,

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Speaker 1: I got a YouTube Chris Deck forty two to forty

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Speaker 1: five Boys Day one, PT six Sixoh love the pod

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Speaker 1: and community being built, uh with for the dads. As

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Speaker 1: a dad amongst a crew of goon Berets, it's been

723
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Speaker 1: great hearing from the other dads and relating to the

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Speaker 1: absolute battle stories that our parenthood. Thank thank you boys

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Speaker 1: for all you do. Keep it under an hour. We

726
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,240
Speaker 1: gotta keep it under it, got to keep it under

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Speaker 1: it out. I do have an email here from Dustin Disher,

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Speaker 1: hey fellas new PT sixer to be to be at

729
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Speaker 1: any moment now to a baby girl. Contractions are happening

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Speaker 1: and likely going to the hospital tonight for delivery. Oh

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Speaker 1: just wanted to say thanks for the pod. It's brought

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Speaker 1: my excitement to be a girl dad to a whole

733
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Speaker 1: new level. Wednesday's on my way home from work, I

734
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Speaker 1: listen asap and Wednesday evening I watch it again on

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Speaker 1: YouTube and force feed it to my wife respectfully because

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Speaker 1: she needs to hear it. Thanks again for the great

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Speaker 1: laughs and loving tears. PS. I hope you find a

738
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Speaker 1: find a way to shift to Canada soon double PS

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Speaker 1: go bills, yours truly Dustin, Dustin, thank you for reaching out.

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Speaker 1: Sure the six er dish or the six or congratulations man, Congrats,

741
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Speaker 1: congratulations on the new baby girl.

742
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Speaker 2: I got Matt some ten twenty five on YouTube. Pt

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Speaker 2: sikes brutal start to the week. My dog got six

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Speaker 2: Saturday night, Sunday morning. Take them to the vet. Find

745
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Speaker 2: out it's pretty much nothing they can do, so we

746
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Speaker 2: have to put them down. Dang dude, I hate that.

747
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Speaker 2: I have a six year old and a four year old.

748
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Speaker 2: My six year old was devastated. The four year old

749
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Speaker 2: doesn't quite understand yet. Took us a couple of days

750
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Speaker 2: because it was definitely unexpected. Was for sure looking forward

751
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Speaker 2: to the pod this week. Dang dude, that stinks.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I was lucky enough that I was like high school

754
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Speaker 2: age when we had family pets. But the way it's

755
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Speaker 2: lining up with Scarlet, Wrigley and Goose are they're a

756
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Speaker 2: bit older. They're like seven, and I'm like, oh man,

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Speaker 2: she's gonna be like five or six.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to say Waffles like five or six

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Speaker 1: years old. Yeah. So I'm sure that'll be a.

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Speaker 2: That'll be a moment's a that's a hard one, but

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Speaker 2: I think it can be I think that it can

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Speaker 2: be dealt with, like in a really cool way. How

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Speaker 2: you treat it of like, you know, talking through if

764
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Speaker 2: they're old enough, like talking through what has had happened.

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Speaker 2: You know, dogs they don't live as long and here's

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Speaker 2: why and dah dah da. But you know the great

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Speaker 2: thing is we can get a new dog or we

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Speaker 2: can get it's.

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Speaker 1: The new dog. Bro. I remember when I I was

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Speaker 1: like the same age as so my parents. They did

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Speaker 1: the whole get a pet first before having a kid,

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Speaker 1: for the whole responsibility factor. So Conan he was a

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Speaker 1: Rottweiler studer too. I look like a guy who owns

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Speaker 1: a couple of yeah, a couple of me. They are

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Speaker 1: good dogs. Owner.

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Speaker 2: It's about the owner. Ain't the dog.

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Speaker 1: It ain't the dog. He ain't the marie.

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Speaker 2: Aren't they like the number one attack on because they, hey,

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Speaker 2: the owner, they paint.

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Speaker 1: In the wrong line. So I was like the same.

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Speaker 1: I was like a year behind Conan, and I was

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Speaker 1: like somebody who you know, I like got into the

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Speaker 1: dog bowl. I hate the dog food. My parents had

784
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Speaker 1: to like. I hate the dough.

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Speaker 2: That's where Scotty got bro.

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Speaker 1: Scott ll Man, she's just like her daddy. She's just

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Speaker 1: like her daddy being there at the bowl eating the

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Speaker 1: dog food. They'd have to like set me on the

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Speaker 1: outside of the outside of the gate and stuff, and

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Speaker 1: I'd be crying trying to hang with Conne. I was

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Speaker 1: the only one because Cone he was, you know, little

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Speaker 1: guard dog. Now I growl and you get close to

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Speaker 1: the bowl, but I could just crawl up there and

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Speaker 1: just eat with me.

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Speaker 2: He would let you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I would go and flip the or change the

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Speaker 1: change the channel on the TV, back when you had

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Speaker 1: to go do it on the TV, and my dad

799
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Speaker 1: would get all piste off and want to tan my ass.

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00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,400
Speaker 1: And and he saw it to me one time I

801
00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,719
Speaker 1: did it again. He started to approach me, and then

802
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Speaker 1: Cone and got in the middle of my dad. And

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Speaker 1: now Cephone was growling at my dad. Yeah, just knowing

804
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:46,359
Speaker 1: that I was, you know, I was about to get

805
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Speaker 1: a little licking. Uh huh. So I was close with Conan,

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Speaker 1: and so Cone and Rob Rolers lived around like ten

807
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Speaker 1: years old. And so we lost connine when I was ten,

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Speaker 1: and my you know, my dad, he was everybody was

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00:37:59,000 --> 00:38:02,719
Speaker 1: grieving about it more the loss of Conan, and my

810
00:38:02,760 --> 00:38:05,040
Speaker 1: parents handled it well. I was very sad, but again,

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Speaker 1: you get a new dog, it's like new life. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: kind of passed the time, but it was it was

813
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Speaker 1: tough when we lost Cone. Conan was a good boy.

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Speaker 1: Cone was a good boy.

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Speaker 2: Pets. Pets are so awesome.

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Speaker 1: Pets are awesome. Gosh, and me, I'm sorry, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: Dogs are so awesome. Man, I just want to shout

818
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Speaker 2: out this is this is such a random story, but

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Speaker 2: my mom just got a dog. His name is Bama. Sorry, chef, Uh.

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Speaker 1: That was fuck that dog kid Cho Kid Show kit.

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Speaker 2: Cho Kids Show. But just hearing like the cheer my

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Speaker 2: mom's voice of her just calling me and tell me like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you know, Bama was barking loud when like the mailman

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Speaker 2: came up to the door and the mail man made

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Speaker 2: a joke of like, oh, your new dog's a good

826
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Speaker 2: guard dog, and you know it helps me like feel

827
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Speaker 2: safe at night. And I just love stuff like that. Dude,

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Speaker 2: dogs are just the best.

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Speaker 1: They really are. They really are.

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Speaker 2: I got I got a comment here, Okay, I got

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Speaker 2: a couple more. Oh sorry, I just went you go.

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Speaker 1: Uh lukuigi l U l u k u. I g

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Speaker 1: I on YouTube PT sixer of three under five. Here

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Speaker 1: mam is letting dad have the weekend, gonna try and

835
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Speaker 1: catch the Friday Live show. Already signed up for the tailgate.

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Speaker 1: I told her she's on Milk Team six, which I

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Speaker 1: had to explain to her. Cheers to another, Uh, cheers

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Speaker 1: to another will Day, Best Day of the Week, fantastic

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Speaker 1: interview on House Rules as well go big rad dude,

840
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:47,399
Speaker 1: shout out. Shout out Lukuigi, shout out Big Red.

841
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Speaker 2: Hey GBR, shout out Laguigi. And when is Will Compton Day?

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Speaker 2: It's around this time of.

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Speaker 1: Year, right, September nineteenth, that's my birthday.

844
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Speaker 2: I am so sorry.

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Speaker 1: What do you think I did?

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Speaker 2: I was thinking of like the Will Compton Museum and

847
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Speaker 2: all that stuff. That's also September nineteenth. That's the Will

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Speaker 2: Compton Day.

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Speaker 1: I guess, oh you're talking about with barstools. Yeah, like

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Speaker 1: the museum. Yeah, is that maybe?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: I can't remember.

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00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,120
Speaker 2: I need to look that up. I still have that,

854
00:40:15,200 --> 00:40:17,319
Speaker 2: sure you look that up. I need to look that up.

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Speaker 2: Will Compton Day. We need we need to keep celebrating.

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Speaker 2: We do need to.

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Speaker 1: Keep celebrating that. Big opportunities of celebrating Will Compton Day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, good, except for the internet. We missed it.

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Speaker 1: Missed it.

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Speaker 2: That's what I gotta throw love to my guy anyway

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Speaker 2: I can.

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Speaker 1: That would have been fun to just that. It would

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Speaker 1: have been fun to celebrate that. Dang it. Just bring

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Speaker 1: it back to the you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got for other reasons outside celebrating myself. Of course,

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Speaker 2: I got Nick Sexton. This one's from TikTok. What's going on? Boys?

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Speaker 2: I really enjoy your show and the way you share

868
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 2: your experiences so openly. I'm reaching out because I'd love

869
00:40:57,640 --> 00:41:00,640
Speaker 2: to hear your advice on something personal. My partner and

870
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 2: I are expecting our first baby, and I was wondering

871
00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: how you both felt when your first child was on

872
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 2: the way. Uh, were there things that surprised you or

873
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,680
Speaker 2: advice that you wish you had received at the time.

874
00:41:13,200 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 2: I think it would really help to hear your perspective

875
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 2: as I get ready for this big change in my

876
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,279
Speaker 2: own life. Thanks for taking the time to read this

877
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 2: and keep up the amazing work with the podcast. Now

878
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 2: you're Nick Sexton, Nick Sexon, thank you, brother.

879
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:36,799
Speaker 1: I would say you're the closest removed from firstborn. Yeah,

880
00:41:37,320 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: do you have things that jump out at you that

881
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:44,280
Speaker 1: you wish you had advice on? Because Scarlett is what ten.

882
00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 2: Weeks ten weeks agoing really eleven? We'll call it eleven, Okay.

883
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 1: Yeah.

884
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 2: The piece of advice that I would say is that

885
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 2: any little thing I know for any listener that's listened

886
00:41:57,880 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 2: to every episode. I am sorry if I sound like

887
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 2: a broken record, but I do think This is if

888
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,200
Speaker 2: I had a book or like a quote that you

889
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 2: could quote me on for being a good dad in

890
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,239
Speaker 2: those first couple of months. All the little things are

891
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:14,200
Speaker 2: big things. So if you remember to wash that bottle

892
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 2: after you fed, wife will notice that, and wife will

893
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 2: appreciate it. If you remember to put the you know

894
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,520
Speaker 2: you went into the baby's room, because now you have

895
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,839
Speaker 2: a whole nother load of laundry. You gotta do that.

896
00:42:28,880 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 2: You weren't used to go in there and get the

897
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: kid's laundry without you know, even telling the wife and

898
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 2: go run that laundry. And when she opens up the

899
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 2: dryer later that day and sees that the kid's clothes

900
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 2: already been you know, washed and dried, she is going

901
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:46,360
Speaker 2: to be stoked. Like and I'm giving myself that advice.

902
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 2: I fall short in that area all the time. But

903
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 2: as far as like how do I want to absolutely

904
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: kick ass as a dad, it's like all those little

905
00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 2: things that, uh, I'll do that later, Oh you know,

906
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,600
Speaker 2: do it right then and there, and do it for

907
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,520
Speaker 2: both the kid, your wife, but for yourself too. It's

908
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:10,440
Speaker 2: gonna make you feel like a part of everything because

909
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 2: it's so mom when she's pregnant, like it's it's really

910
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 2: just mom and like taking care of mom and how

911
00:43:16,600 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 2: can I help mom? And then once baby's there, it's like, okay,

912
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 2: you're up, dad, Like what do you got? And if

913
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 2: you step to the plate and you're doing all those

914
00:43:25,800 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 2: little things, your mother in law, dad in law, everybody's

915
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:32,720
Speaker 2: gonna be going. He's doing a good job, he's kicking ass.

916
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:34,120
Speaker 2: That would be my advice.

917
00:43:34,239 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 1: Dude Well said thank you. I don't think anything needs

918
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: to be atted toe that, but very well said thank you,

919
00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:42,319
Speaker 1: because you're right, it is. It's all mom. And then

920
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:46,080
Speaker 1: like as dads, I would assume it's just like being

921
00:43:47,160 --> 00:43:50,759
Speaker 1: being a guy, like being a male. It's uh, you know,

922
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,839
Speaker 1: you think to yourself if you had like I had

923
00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 1: an awesome mom growing up. So mom did did a

924
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,360
Speaker 1: lot of stuff for me. Like my dad. He was

925
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,640
Speaker 1: the one who went to work, commuted an hour, you know,

926
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: an hour and working back to each day, kind of

927
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,759
Speaker 1: like the working dad. He worked a lot, he had

928
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 1: to work a lot, and so my mom did everything

929
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:14,760
Speaker 1: around the house. So growing up and it's three boys,

930
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 1: no female energy, you just think mom takes care of everything,

931
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:22,439
Speaker 1: like mom always has all the answers. So when I'm

932
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 1: be like when I'm a husband and my wife is

933
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:27,359
Speaker 1: pregnant everything else, Like there are times where you just think, oh,

934
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 1: you know, Charles got this, Like moms just know how

935
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:31,640
Speaker 1: to do this stuff. And the truth is they don't either,

936
00:44:32,120 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 1: Like they just you know, they have to figure it

937
00:44:34,960 --> 00:44:36,799
Speaker 1: out and you don't want them to feel alone in

938
00:44:36,840 --> 00:44:40,160
Speaker 1: the process. That's the entire game. It's like, that's the

939
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 1: entire game. Is like asking those extra questions so that

940
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:45,760
Speaker 1: way you're prepared, not being told what to do afterwards.

941
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,359
Speaker 1: There's a few times when Charle would have to tell

942
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:49,279
Speaker 1: me afterwards and it's like, man, why is she on

943
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 1: my ass about stuff? Like I'm trying where it's like

944
00:44:51,520 --> 00:44:53,719
Speaker 1: I need to seek out this type of preparation before

945
00:44:53,760 --> 00:44:56,080
Speaker 1: I even get in these situations. Yes, where it's like

946
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 1: if I am doing the laundry, do I need to

947
00:44:58,640 --> 00:45:01,200
Speaker 1: dry every article of c or some do I need

948
00:45:01,239 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 1: to be hang drying them? You know mom can get

949
00:45:03,280 --> 00:45:05,439
Speaker 1: a little chippy, mom can get going, or the women

950
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: can get going. Hey, you're not You're supposed to hang

951
00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:10,480
Speaker 1: dry this one, or like cleaning the bottle. It's like

952
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 1: I would do the just the short cut of times

953
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,399
Speaker 1: where I'll just put the hot water in and put

954
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:16,319
Speaker 1: the soap in and I just shake it up. I'll

955
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: just shake it up on there. Hey, sweetheart, Sometimes you

956
00:45:19,920 --> 00:45:21,799
Speaker 1: do gotta get you gotta twist the top off. You

957
00:45:21,800 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 1: got to pull the rubber part out of the classic

958
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: can clean the insides because if not, there'll be some

959
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: there be some residue inside there. And I'm just like, yeah,

960
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: she's right. I'm literally just taking the shortcut here. But

961
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 1: I need to. I need to be the guy that

962
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,520
Speaker 1: like cleans out the bottle so that way it's just

963
00:45:35,600 --> 00:45:37,799
Speaker 1: sitting there and then she sees it so they know

964
00:45:37,840 --> 00:45:40,400
Speaker 1: that the effort is being put forth. But that was

965
00:45:40,400 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: well said man.

966
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 2: Also chicoed and wives, plug your ears if you if

967
00:45:44,760 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 2: you take the nipple out. I've gotten it down to

968
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,040
Speaker 2: where I can one hand it, where I take the

969
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 2: nipple out of the top and both pieces stay in

970
00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 2: my hand and give a little you know, underneath the

971
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 2: water put on the dry which little that act. Jill

972
00:45:58,520 --> 00:46:01,840
Speaker 2: would be pissed if she heard that. All in here

973
00:46:02,560 --> 00:46:04,879
Speaker 2: your bucks. I used the brush. I use the brush

974
00:46:04,920 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 2: every time, honey.

975
00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know, Charlie, listen to this, like you

976
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 1: never do the do the nipple. She's not wrong, Like

977
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:13,959
Speaker 1: it's been just a handful of times where I thought

978
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 1: to do it. Yeah, I'll be in there trying to

979
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:17,400
Speaker 1: shake an eye. So you're coming around the corner and

980
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:18,440
Speaker 1: then I kind of twisted off.

981
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:22,600
Speaker 2: This brush is awesome that you got it. Brush is incredible.

982
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 2: It's crazy.

983
00:46:23,480 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 1: But she ain't cover on the corner. She'll be all right.

984
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 1: I would still drink it.

985
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 2: I legitimately love using this brush. Like this is crazy love.

986
00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 2: I will say, not a dad win, but like those

987
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:39,879
Speaker 2: moments of when you're able, when you're doing all those

988
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:43,360
Speaker 2: small things and you are operating independently of your wife

989
00:46:43,520 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 2: on uh prep preparing for the baby to go to

990
00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:52,520
Speaker 2: outside time, getting the diaper bag ready, washing bottles, making bottles,

991
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,240
Speaker 2: You'll get into a rhythm where like you're like, dude,

992
00:46:56,280 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 2: I do have this to where Jill and I wanted

993
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 2: to do a birthday dinner just her and I on Thursday,

994
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 2: and the way it worked out, she was like, I

995
00:47:04,120 --> 00:47:06,440
Speaker 2: have to go get my nails done and then go

996
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 2: straight from there to the restaurant. I don't know, Like,

997
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:13,200
Speaker 2: can you take Scarlet and meet me at the restaurant?

998
00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 2: I don't want to do that to you. Do you

999
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 2: feel comfortable to do that? I was like, I got it,

1000
00:47:17,880 --> 00:47:19,840
Speaker 2: I got it. I know everything that needs to go

1001
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:23,280
Speaker 2: in the diaper bag. I'll have the douna I'll do.

1002
00:47:23,400 --> 00:47:25,960
Speaker 2: I got it. And dude rolling up to Blue Sushi

1003
00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:29,240
Speaker 2: and walking in with Scarlet and everybody, oh my gosh,

1004
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 2: yeah yeah, pull up to the table. And then mom

1005
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:35,160
Speaker 2: like rolls into the restaurant later and just seeing the

1006
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:38,160
Speaker 2: smile on her face, I was like, I got this.

1007
00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 2: I got this.

1008
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, Because I want to say early in the game,

1009
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:42,960
Speaker 1: it's like you're some sitting there trying to get the

1010
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: diaper bag ready and I'm like, hey, what all do

1011
00:47:45,239 --> 00:47:48,360
Speaker 1: we need to put here? Buddy?

1012
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 2: Well, being on the show helps too. And I mean

1013
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,120
Speaker 2: that like being on the show helps too, of like

1014
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:57,439
Speaker 2: Jill helping to prep me. But like all the little

1015
00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:59,719
Speaker 2: dad hacks that I've been getting from guys, I've been

1016
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:03,600
Speaker 2: getting from you, it helps. Dude stacks up.

1017
00:48:03,960 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, we got a turtle nineteen xx here new shirt idea.

1018
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: I rode the shockwave this weekend. Might be tricky with copyrights,

1019
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:18,480
Speaker 1: but might be worth it. Everyone loves an inside joke. Shockwave.

1020
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 2: Hey just the the wolf on top of a rollercoaster,

1021
00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:25,560
Speaker 2: like right at the drop, he's just about to go

1022
00:48:25,600 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 2: down the drop and he's in the front car.

1023
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:32,800
Speaker 1: Just would be electric shockwave. This weekend, I got.

1024
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 2: One from Tyler Grosswick four five three six on YouTube.

1025
00:48:36,680 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 2: He said, can we get money line per episode that

1026
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,839
Speaker 2: shirm starts to shed a tear? Keep up the great

1027
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 2: work force? Love that. Hey, the book is gonna you know. Hey,

1028
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 2: they say Vegas always wins. I don't know.

1029
00:48:49,760 --> 00:48:53,480
Speaker 1: You bet the line right now? After these last couple episodes,

1030
00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,840
Speaker 1: you're looking at what a minus two fifty on tears.

1031
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:57,359
Speaker 3: That's exactly where I was at.

1032
00:48:57,520 --> 00:49:00,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you are being kind. You could say

1033
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:02,640
Speaker 2: minus six hundred. I didn't want to hurt my feelings.

1034
00:49:03,200 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: Mine's two fifty.

1035
00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:05,440
Speaker 2: Thank you.

1036
00:49:05,480 --> 00:49:06,280
Speaker 1: What are the odds?

1037
00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 2: Hey, what are the odds that's come to my fan?

1038
00:49:10,680 --> 00:49:16,239
Speaker 1: I have one last one ruler of Latveria BT six

1039
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 1: here y'all are the best. So I have two boys,

1040
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:21,239
Speaker 1: two and five year old. My two year old with

1041
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: or my two year old with the last week has

1042
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:28,000
Speaker 1: randomly become afraid of monkeys. Wife and I don't know

1043
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:29,879
Speaker 1: where he got it from, but it's taking an extra

1044
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:31,640
Speaker 1: hour to get him to bed, trying to assure him

1045
00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:37,560
Speaker 1: no monkeys are in the house. Good fuck yes, yesterday.

1046
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:40,279
Speaker 1: The wife tells me so that I watched Toy Story three.

1047
00:49:40,560 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: He hadn't seen it yet. Well, near the end he

1048
00:49:42,680 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 1: comes running and screaming because there's a mean monkey in

1049
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:49,399
Speaker 1: the Towards the end of the movie. Good and out

1050
00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 1: of day, she sends a group She sends a text

1051
00:49:52,400 --> 00:49:54,919
Speaker 1: at nap time, and now he's even afraid of nap time.

1052
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,640
Speaker 1: Good love it loud, y'all are awesome, Keep it up.

1053
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:02,800
Speaker 2: I have a hack for this. Go ahead, my parents.

1054
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 2: I was very afraid of monsters under my bed in

1055
00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:09,080
Speaker 2: my closet. My brother was actually the one that coined this.

1056
00:50:09,160 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 2: So shout out, Jordan, aerosol deodorant, something safe to spray.

1057
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 2: You could do some sunscreen. It's monkey spray, dude, and

1058
00:50:17,160 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: go spray down everything in the house and take little

1059
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 2: guy who was a son, right, yeah, yeah, take a

1060
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:27,080
Speaker 2: little guy with you and just go spray everything down

1061
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:30,279
Speaker 2: and just be like, it's monkey spray, right right. I

1062
00:50:30,360 --> 00:50:31,000
Speaker 2: love that idea.

1063
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:33,879
Speaker 1: By the way, maybe a lot of fragrance in the house.

1064
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,799
Speaker 1: Maybe wife won't like that idea, but maybe she'll love it.

1065
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,160
Speaker 1: Maybe she'll love it. Another little one would be like

1066
00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: stickers that say, like, monkeys are terrified of these stickers.

1067
00:50:41,920 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 1: And you put the sticker on the crib, you put

1068
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:45,719
Speaker 1: it at the door, you put it wherever a little

1069
00:50:45,719 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 1: man wants to put it, so that way he knows

1070
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 1: monkeys are terrified of these stickers. It like keeps them away,

1071
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:51,640
Speaker 1: it scares them off.

1072
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 2: And a great way to segue your son into fandom

1073
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,640
Speaker 2: of whatever your favorite sports team is. Buy just a

1074
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:03,319
Speaker 2: bunch of stickers of set sports team. Now we're cooking. Hey,

1075
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:06,200
Speaker 2: there is nothing that scares a monkey away like a

1076
00:51:06,239 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 2: Baylor Bear. You kidding me? AKA corn Husker. You throw

1077
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,720
Speaker 2: this in anywhere. You know what? That inn also stands

1078
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:15,440
Speaker 2: word no monkeys.

1079
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 1: No monkeys. That's an inn right there, a red one.

1080
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: They're scared of the color red. No monkeys.

1081
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 2: And you just put that everywhere, dude, and then your

1082
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:25,919
Speaker 2: kid's gonna love Nebraska. Yeah, those are great.

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00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 1: Those great little Hey, good dad, head, we're good, good

1084
00:51:29,120 --> 00:51:31,120
Speaker 1: at this?

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00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:34,319
Speaker 2: Okay, n I will fly through these. These are these

1086
00:51:34,320 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 2: are my last two. I'll go back to back and

1087
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:37,720
Speaker 2: if there's.

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00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: Anything you got to keep it under an hour gote

1089
00:51:39,680 --> 00:51:41,520
Speaker 1: got to keep it under an hour, so please.

1090
00:51:41,680 --> 00:51:45,640
Speaker 2: kJ underscore Kitchens on YouTube says pt siico you did

1091
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:49,640
Speaker 2: the PT six echo uh here listen to the pod

1092
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 2: Since the Days and the gravel Lot with no ac

1093
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 2: a true Tier one asking how many Matt Neely's would

1094
00:51:56,760 --> 00:52:00,279
Speaker 2: it take to take down Daddy Luan, lifelong time Titan

1095
00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:03,520
Speaker 2: sand boy dad of two years in deploying for second

1096
00:52:03,640 --> 00:52:07,719
Speaker 2: mission do made twenty twenty six? Congratulations DM Sherman last

1097
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 2: week about his dad loss. He voice messaged me back

1098
00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,879
Speaker 2: lost my shit made the wife listen and I've told

1099
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:17,760
Speaker 2: basically anyone that would listen, I'm obsessed with the show.

1100
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 2: I'm obsessed with all of you boys. I only live

1101
00:52:20,800 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 2: an hour from the shop, so let me know if

1102
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 2: you want a psycho on the pod. Shout out Willy

1103
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 2: Ce for operating with the wife. Gone love you all,

1104
00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:36,399
Speaker 2: Pepperinonis ps Wolf emoji Deeke Derek should be the name

1105
00:52:37,840 --> 00:52:40,800
Speaker 2: Big Deep Derek. Should be the name Big Deep Derek.

1106
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:44,720
Speaker 2: They should be the name. Also send a voice message

1107
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:47,560
Speaker 2: to kJ as he said, I'm sorry to try to

1108
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 2: do that more. I love that. I think it's fun,

1109
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:53,719
Speaker 2: but I had a friend that you actually met that

1110
00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 2: came by the office, Oaks that was close friends with

1111
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 2: Matt Neely, and that was my message back to him.

1112
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,080
Speaker 2: I said that my friend Oaks is also one of

1113
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 2: the reasons that I'm here today working for you guys.

1114
00:53:05,680 --> 00:53:08,200
Speaker 2: So I thought that that was a cool little Matt

1115
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 2: Neely working his way through it.

1116
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:12,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, and for those who are curious about Matt Neely,

1117
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 1: Matt Neely was one of our first He was our

1118
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,800
Speaker 1: first social media guy, one of the first guys that

1119
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:21,280
Speaker 1: worked with us on the bus, and he suddenly passed

1120
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 1: away in that first year in October, and so Matt

1121
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 1: Neely is huge. There's huge lore around Matt Neely and

1122
00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,399
Speaker 1: his super fandom with the Titans and then being very

1123
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: pivotal with busts with the boys, and it's very early

1124
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: stages in our first year. So that's paying homage to

1125
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 1: Matt Neely. It would take seven Matt Neely's to take

1126
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: down a Taylor to one.

1127
00:53:40,760 --> 00:53:43,400
Speaker 2: It would take seven seven. He was pretty he was

1128
00:53:43,440 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 2: bigger than me.

1129
00:53:44,800 --> 00:53:46,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, you gotta think, you know, one on each limbit

1130
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 1: Taylor many one for the head, one for the piece,

1131
00:53:54,480 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: and then you know that's six and then just seven

1132
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: because Taylor's number seventy seven.

1133
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true, that's true. Last one we got Mason

1134
00:54:02,920 --> 00:54:06,640
Speaker 2: Clay Donaldson, twenty one, new to the PT six squad,

1135
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 2: but dad of a two and a half year old

1136
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:12,520
Speaker 2: daughter in a three day old son. Congratulations Mason. Writing

1137
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,200
Speaker 2: this comment as I rock my son at midnight listening

1138
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 2: to the pod while I let the wifey sleep to

1139
00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:20,560
Speaker 2: get some rest, just wanted to say that this podcast

1140
00:54:20,640 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 2: has inspired me to be more intentional and present to

1141
00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:27,440
Speaker 2: both my two year old and my newborn. Good stuff fellas.

1142
00:54:27,520 --> 00:54:30,239
Speaker 2: Look forward to hearing more stories, advice and lessons. Keep

1143
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 2: it up. PT sixer out.

1144
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:35,240
Speaker 1: Thank you brother, Thank you Mason.

1145
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,000
Speaker 2: Yes, I love that we made the trailer with that

1146
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:40,560
Speaker 2: in mind, like the trailer launch trailer for the show

1147
00:54:41,040 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 2: with somebody listening to it in the wee hours of

1148
00:54:43,000 --> 00:54:44,759
Speaker 2: the morning. Yeah, and then you have it right there,

1149
00:54:44,880 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 2: I know.

1150
00:54:45,440 --> 00:54:46,200
Speaker 1: Thank you, Mason.

1151
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 2: That's so sick.

1152
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:50,520
Speaker 1: Should we get to some crack of cold one Dad losses,

1153
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:53,799
Speaker 1: sabs and downs, I'm crackle one. My crack of cole

1154
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:56,480
Speaker 1: one this week goes to Scottie Joe Lee scott Zilla.

1155
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:01,400
Speaker 1: Scott Zilla, as you all know here, she's standing for

1156
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 1: like ten seconds at nime bro. Yes, yes, So I

1157
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 1: was like, what you know, I was watching I was

1158
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: watching the games and I just scanned over and she's

1159
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:10,759
Speaker 1: just standing up next to me and got her hands

1160
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:11,960
Speaker 1: in the air looking at me. I was like, ain'ng

1161
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:14,080
Speaker 1: gona let daddy, Let daddy take a video real quick.

1162
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:16,680
Speaker 1: Got a little video over I can, I can plug

1163
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 1: to you guys so you can show it on the screen.

1164
00:55:18,880 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 1: But scott Zilla is standing a little bit now.

1165
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 2: Scotty is going to be a problem in the best way. Yeah,

1166
00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 2: she went over under on how many days of her walking?

1167
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:36,440
Speaker 1: I think she walks before she turns one. She's ten

1168
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,560
Speaker 1: months right now. Yeah, I mean you'll learn, it's not

1169
00:55:38,600 --> 00:55:41,400
Speaker 1: like it just happens once he starts standing. Yeah, but

1170
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 1: I think she'll start walking before she turns one.

1171
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 2: I bet she starts walking. But you said ten months,

1172
00:55:49,000 --> 00:55:51,719
Speaker 2: like on the dot, right, she's ten months.

1173
00:55:51,760 --> 00:55:56,200
Speaker 1: She is. She was ten months twelve days ago.

1174
00:55:57,760 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 2: So here in three weeks, you think she'll be walking

1175
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 2: probably four four? Yeah, maybe it's tough.

1176
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:07,279
Speaker 1: Man Like Ruth did a really good job of like

1177
00:56:07,400 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 1: I would stand like I would stand rue like on

1178
00:56:11,040 --> 00:56:12,960
Speaker 1: my body like this, and she could like walk up

1179
00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:16,880
Speaker 1: my chest. I felt like, like early into where she

1180
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,880
Speaker 1: was like trying to walk and everything else, Scotty doesn't

1181
00:56:19,920 --> 00:56:22,480
Speaker 1: really like move her legs and walk ahole lot very

1182
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:25,400
Speaker 1: sturdy and you've seen her army crawling like you know,

1183
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:31,160
Speaker 1: I've already made the comparison Michael Parson's on third down,

1184
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:34,879
Speaker 1: say Crosby. Yeah, yes, some are saying Max Crosby as well.

1185
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,319
Speaker 1: It'll just depend man. You gotta get her legs going.

1186
00:56:37,440 --> 00:56:38,840
Speaker 1: I think when I get home today, it's time to

1187
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:41,879
Speaker 1: start putting in some work with her little walker because

1188
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:46,560
Speaker 1: she was walking. She was like standing up against Rue

1189
00:56:46,680 --> 00:56:48,520
Speaker 1: seated at the dinner table and having it and it

1190
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:50,560
Speaker 1: was kind of moving it, like walking and moving it.

1191
00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:55,040
Speaker 2: So woo, I'll get her going. When does the head

1192
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:57,160
Speaker 2: like they're able to start hold their head up? Because

1193
00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:00,560
Speaker 2: Scarlet's almost there, I feel like, is that like question.

1194
00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:02,520
Speaker 1: I want to research that? You want to research that,

1195
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:06,719
Speaker 1: Like three or four months, her head gets sturdy and

1196
00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: you can kind of may maybe toss start tossing up

1197
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 1: in the air and stuff rolling them around like hey

1198
00:57:13,120 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 1: you wrestling dad, ain't y?

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00:57:15,480 --> 00:57:16,440
Speaker 2: Yeah?

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00:57:16,760 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 3: Six months six months?

1201
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:22,280
Speaker 1: Six months around six months okay, because she's you know,

1202
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:26,200
Speaker 1: two and some change on months, and like I'm seeing

1203
00:57:26,240 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 1: her lifting her head and keeping it up when I'm

1204
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:31,800
Speaker 1: putting her on my chest. She's keeping this right here.

1205
00:57:31,840 --> 00:57:33,960
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god.

1206
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 2: So she's she's she's holding her head pretty sturdy, very sturdy.

1207
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:40,840
Speaker 2: Could you toss her up? I've done some lifts. I

1208
00:57:40,880 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 2: have done some lifts, and you gotta feel it out.

1209
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 1: You gotta like start here and then just kind of

1210
00:57:44,640 --> 00:57:47,160
Speaker 1: go up a little fast and kind of drops down. Well,

1211
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:49,400
Speaker 1: you know how, I kind of know Scotty, like I go, eh,

1212
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:53,240
Speaker 1: maybe a little maybe a little too soon, maybe a

1213
00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:54,480
Speaker 1: little too soon to toss.

1214
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:59,480
Speaker 2: You in the air. I brought up the idea of

1215
00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:03,959
Speaker 2: lifting Scarlet, and she goes, you're not tossing her. I said,

1216
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 2: I lifted her. I'm not tossing it. I'm not pausing it.

1217
00:58:09,400 --> 00:58:12,640
Speaker 2: I'm not pausing. I'm lifting. But Scarlet's old face. When

1218
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 2: I lift her up, she just starts beaming. Dude, she's smiling.

1219
00:58:17,800 --> 00:58:19,520
Speaker 2: Oh that's why I crack a col one.

1220
00:58:20,200 --> 00:58:23,160
Speaker 1: Dude. There's nothing better when they start smiling.

1221
00:58:24,560 --> 00:58:29,360
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Speaker 2: Uh my crack a cold one, and I have a

1239
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:38,200
Speaker 2: photo here. I will send it to Chef and Derek

1240
00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 2: so we can have it on the podcast. But this

1241
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:44,760
Speaker 2: happened two weeks ago. I was facetiming my dad, of

1242
00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,400
Speaker 2: all moments, for Scarlett to have her very first smile

1243
00:59:47,480 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 2: with me. She was on the changing table. I was

1244
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:54,960
Speaker 2: facetiming dad, and my dad took this screenshot right here.

1245
00:59:55,280 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 1: Oh that is awesome, bro.

1246
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,480
Speaker 2: I mean, look at this kind of went out right there, woo.

1247
01:00:03,120 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 2: And I have my boys hat on. That's the best part.

1248
01:00:05,640 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 2: I'm wearing the boys hat, dude. And she just loves

1249
01:00:10,840 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 2: the changing table and I was going, do you love

1250
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:16,160
Speaker 2: your dad, ass? Do you love your dad?

1251
01:00:16,240 --> 01:00:16,479
Speaker 3: Ass?

1252
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:18,720
Speaker 2: I'm kind of doing this with her hand, and she,

1253
01:00:19,480 --> 01:00:23,920
Speaker 2: you know, I started going up and she's like making

1254
01:00:23,960 --> 01:00:27,400
Speaker 2: little noises and big smile and I'm just my dad

1255
01:00:27,480 --> 01:00:30,479
Speaker 2: was totally silent. I was totally silent. We're both sitting

1256
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 2: there just like, oh my god. That was incredible. And

1257
01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 2: you knew that it wasn't just like her randomly smiling,

1258
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 2: like she was looking at me and was like smiling

1259
01:00:42,840 --> 01:00:45,200
Speaker 2: because I was in her face talking to her. It

1260
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:47,960
Speaker 2: was ah, it was good.

1261
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 1: It was really really that juices me up for you guys,

1262
01:00:52,040 --> 01:00:54,200
Speaker 1: Thank you, because smiling is just the best. And I

1263
01:00:54,200 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 1: feel like two. When smiling starts happening, like for the mom,

1264
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:01,919
Speaker 1: it's such a massive wind because again, these little, these

1265
01:01:01,920 --> 01:01:05,760
Speaker 1: little minions, bro, what's it been ten eleven weeks. Yeah,

1266
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:09,440
Speaker 1: it's like when they finally start smiling, you're getting something

1267
01:01:09,480 --> 01:01:12,600
Speaker 1: in return. Yep, right, because you're just your entire life

1268
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:17,400
Speaker 1: is sacrifice for them when they're newborns, to where it's

1269
01:01:17,480 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 1: just eat, sleep, it's take, take, take, take, take. Moms

1270
01:01:21,320 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 1: in postpartiment feeling all these emotions, all these things are

1271
01:01:24,200 --> 01:01:26,640
Speaker 1: going on in her body. For dads, it's like this,

1272
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:28,880
Speaker 1: you know, the stress of like being a good dad,

1273
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:30,800
Speaker 1: being a good husband, all the things, And when the

1274
01:01:30,800 --> 01:01:35,080
Speaker 1: baby starts smiling, it's like instead of it's all the take, take, take, take, take, take,

1275
01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 1: and you're finally getting something in return now, which I

1276
01:01:37,320 --> 01:01:40,320
Speaker 1: feel like it's such a big win as a parent,

1277
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 1: especially for the moms, especially for the mom.

1278
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,720
Speaker 2: Jill's been loving it, and she's been talking to Scarlet way.

1279
01:01:45,960 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 2: We both have been talking to Scarlet way. Yeah, And

1280
01:01:48,680 --> 01:01:51,960
Speaker 2: just like in the mornings, how much Scarlet loves the mornings,

1281
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 2: and when it's both me and Jill over her, when

1282
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:58,720
Speaker 2: we're both standing over Oh my god, she's looking at

1283
01:01:58,760 --> 01:02:01,080
Speaker 2: both of us and she's got a clean dipe beyond

1284
01:02:02,040 --> 01:02:03,960
Speaker 2: when she's in a clean onesie and you can just

1285
01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 2: see it all in her face and just the biggest.

1286
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 2: Now she's just a smile machine these last two weeks

1287
01:02:10,200 --> 01:02:15,280
Speaker 2: and a giggle machine, like just making little like I like,

1288
01:02:15,360 --> 01:02:20,480
Speaker 2: she wants to talk so bad, and you're just like, oh,

1289
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 2: it's crazy, dude, with the they always saw it. You

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Speaker 2: have said this that you're gonna love her more and

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Speaker 2: more and more like as time goes on. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: the whole wait till this month. Wait, yes, dude, And

1293
01:02:35,280 --> 01:02:40,200
Speaker 2: it's like it truly is crazy. Just how much more?

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01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:44,439
Speaker 2: I told Jill, I just said I'm in trouble. I'm

1295
01:02:44,440 --> 01:02:47,520
Speaker 2: in huge trouble. Yeah, because I thought I loved Scarlet

1296
01:02:47,560 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 2: and I thought I knew how much I loved her.

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Speaker 1: But keep enjoying. Man, My first instinct is like just wait,

1298
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:57,840
Speaker 1: just wait, but it's just keep keep doing your thing, bro.

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Speaker 1: It just gets it weirdly, just it's better and better.

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Speaker 1: And it's nothing that you're missing out on with me

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01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:06,960
Speaker 1: saying that, it's just it just it gets better.

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Speaker 2: Well, do you just talking about ru holding this teddy

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Speaker 2: bears and being like I thought I was gonna sleep

1304
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Speaker 2: with you? Like I told that story to Jill, I said,

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Speaker 2: imagine me in that situation, we would be halfway to

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Speaker 2: dairy queen getting some ice cream too. Yeah, and she's

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Speaker 2: sleeping in the bed. Yeah, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: All right, let's take a potty break, potty break. We'll

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Speaker 1: We are back from potty break, and uh, Dad losses Dad.

1365
01:06:43,160 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 2: But I smell it.

1366
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:47,320
Speaker 1: So when we were on potty break, I was a

1367
01:06:47,360 --> 01:06:49,440
Speaker 1: little little little tooth slip.

1368
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:52,880
Speaker 2: Right before we started recording. He goes, oh, that's a

1369
01:06:52,920 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 2: smelly boy. I'm talking and breathing through my mouth. It

1370
01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:03,960
Speaker 2: sounds like you have a dad loss.

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01:07:04,640 --> 01:07:07,960
Speaker 1: I got a couple. Oh really, a couple dad losses.

1372
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:11,680
Speaker 1: You know, on last week's episode, it was Charles's gonna

1373
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:13,959
Speaker 1: come home and I'm going to pass the house test.

1374
01:07:14,000 --> 01:07:20,480
Speaker 1: It's gonna be spotless, X Y and Z. Yes, it

1375
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:25,360
Speaker 1: was oh no, and this is one that just snucked

1376
01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 1: by me. This isn't U. Yeah, I don't know what

1377
01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:31,440
Speaker 1: to say. It's snucked by me. But we traveled to

1378
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:33,640
Speaker 1: you know, that night on Wednesday, I flew to New

1379
01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:36,240
Speaker 1: York because we had ESPN the next Yes, I took

1380
01:07:36,320 --> 01:07:39,439
Speaker 1: off at eight thirty. Charle ends up landing at ten

1381
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:41,880
Speaker 1: coming home. So we're two ships passing and I don't

1382
01:07:41,920 --> 01:07:44,280
Speaker 1: get to see each other. Great song by the way,

1383
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:46,440
Speaker 1: and you know, it's like you want your wife just

1384
01:07:46,480 --> 01:07:48,320
Speaker 1: to come home to a clean house, so they don't.

1385
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: That way, they don't have to stress about anything going on.

1386
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:52,920
Speaker 1: They can just unpack their stuff. They can just probably

1387
01:07:53,160 --> 01:07:55,520
Speaker 1: crawl in bed, get ready for bed, go hug the kiddos,

1388
01:07:55,520 --> 01:07:57,640
Speaker 1: because I'm sure I know she was excited to see him.

1389
01:07:59,000 --> 01:08:03,280
Speaker 1: But I get to my hotel probably like twelve thirty

1390
01:08:03,440 --> 01:08:07,320
Speaker 1: in the morning, and then Charles sends me a photo

1391
01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 1: of essential oils just spilled all over her nightstand. With

1392
01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:19,960
Speaker 1: all you it wasn't me, it was Rue. I hate

1393
01:08:20,000 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 1: pointing the finger at room. Yeah yeah, but it was

1394
01:08:22,240 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 1: her because you know how she stayed with me those

1395
01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:28,800
Speaker 1: she was gone, and uh, there was one night, so

1396
01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 1: the essential oil sat there for like a couple of days.

1397
01:08:30,880 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 1: Apparently it was like bubbling up on the wood and

1398
01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 1: got all over her books and photos. Oh no, yeah,

1399
01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 1: but what happened was when Rue was sleeping with me

1400
01:08:43,040 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 1: one of those nights, I go upstairs, or I go

1401
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:48,519
Speaker 1: and get something upstairs, whether it's a sleep machine or

1402
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:50,840
Speaker 1: I had to get something upstairs and break it back down. Yeah,

1403
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,439
Speaker 1: Rue being in the bedroom when I came back downstairs,

1404
01:08:53,520 --> 01:08:55,479
Speaker 1: she was like, she's just telling me. She was like,

1405
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:58,000
Speaker 1: dad had the lamp fell and I picked it up

1406
01:08:58,040 --> 01:09:01,040
Speaker 1: and put it back, like it's it's okay. And she

1407
01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:02,200
Speaker 1: must've knocked the lamp over.

1408
01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:02,599
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1409
01:09:02,680 --> 01:09:04,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I'm sitting there and I'm just listening to

1410
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 1: her story and she's like, I knocked the lamp over

1411
01:09:07,160 --> 01:09:09,439
Speaker 1: by I picked it up. It's okay, it's okay. I

1412
01:09:09,479 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 1: picked it up. It's not broken. And I look at

1413
01:09:13,240 --> 01:09:14,880
Speaker 1: the lamp and it seems like it's right up in

1414
01:09:14,920 --> 01:09:16,600
Speaker 1: the right spot where it was. I just look and

1415
01:09:16,680 --> 01:09:18,880
Speaker 1: I go, oh, great job, sweetheart, that's awesome. And then

1416
01:09:18,920 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 1: I go on to like brush my teeth and get

1417
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:22,759
Speaker 1: ready for bed. I didn't check the night stand. Yeah,

1418
01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:24,439
Speaker 1: I'm just I look at the lamp. I'm like, yeah,

1419
01:09:24,439 --> 01:09:26,680
Speaker 1: it seems like nothing's wrong with it. And if it

1420
01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:28,559
Speaker 1: fell and she put it back up, like that's low

1421
01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:32,720
Speaker 1: key awesome, like great work, kiddo. So I don't even

1422
01:09:32,800 --> 01:09:35,600
Speaker 1: check the night stand. But apparently it knocked over the

1423
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:38,880
Speaker 1: essential oils. The essential oil was everywhere on her nightstand,

1424
01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,519
Speaker 1: and Chart was like, you just didn't want to check.

1425
01:09:41,600 --> 01:09:44,479
Speaker 1: You didn't just cared to check the other stuff that's

1426
01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:46,080
Speaker 1: sitting on the night stand. If the lamp fell over,

1427
01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:48,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, I was moving and grooving. She kind

1428
01:09:48,160 --> 01:09:49,760
Speaker 1: of told me this story, and I looked at the

1429
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:52,400
Speaker 1: lamp and it seemed like it was just fine. Reached

1430
01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:54,280
Speaker 1: up and turned it on. It worked, so I was like, oh,

1431
01:09:54,320 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 1: great job, give her a pat on the ass, and

1432
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:59,240
Speaker 1: kept it moving. So that was one dad loss.

1433
01:09:59,360 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 2: There's also an nothing worse than just getting a picture

1434
01:10:02,520 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 2: of said thing, because I've been on that side of

1435
01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:07,479
Speaker 2: it to you. Yeah, you just get to pick Were

1436
01:10:07,479 --> 01:10:09,320
Speaker 2: there any words with it? Was it just a picture?

1437
01:10:10,080 --> 01:10:11,320
Speaker 1: It was what happened here?

1438
01:10:11,560 --> 01:10:12,040
Speaker 2: Yeah it was.

1439
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:17,720
Speaker 1: I forget what the breakdown was, but yeah, dude, And

1440
01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 1: it bummed me out just because I know the effort

1441
01:10:20,200 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 1: I was putting in, and I was exhausted. When I

1442
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:23,639
Speaker 1: was in New York, I was like, all right, let's

1443
01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:26,160
Speaker 1: try to close my eyes and get some sleepy sepp

1444
01:10:26,240 --> 01:10:27,760
Speaker 1: like four hours for I had to wake up for

1445
01:10:27,960 --> 01:10:32,160
Speaker 1: ESPN the next morning. Yeah, and but yeah, that's one

1446
01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 1: day loss. I have a second one. So when we

1447
01:10:35,280 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 1: went to the Husker game last weekend and flew out

1448
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:42,400
Speaker 1: on Friday, yeah, oh I forget. Oh yeah, it was

1449
01:10:42,400 --> 01:10:45,240
Speaker 1: my birthday. So we went out to Benji's Bagels. We

1450
01:10:45,280 --> 01:10:49,519
Speaker 1: had a great little family morning, and then Charo had

1451
01:10:49,520 --> 01:10:51,360
Speaker 1: to go. She had to go do.

1452
01:10:51,360 --> 01:10:52,200
Speaker 2: Something for bar three.

1453
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:54,759
Speaker 1: So I took both the kiddos. I went and dropped

1454
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:59,479
Speaker 1: ruof at school, and then I went dropped her off

1455
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:01,240
Speaker 1: at school, and then I had Scotty and I just

1456
01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:05,320
Speaker 1: had to take Scotty home to see Augie, and uh

1457
01:11:05,640 --> 01:11:08,080
Speaker 1: but what I forgot to do? I drove to the

1458
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:11,200
Speaker 1: airport and then obviously took off. And then I get

1459
01:11:11,200 --> 01:11:15,759
Speaker 1: a couple of texts from Charro like you left the base,

1460
01:11:15,920 --> 01:11:20,320
Speaker 1: left the base, left the base in my truck.

1461
01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:22,759
Speaker 2: Oh and you only have one set of keys.

1462
01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:25,639
Speaker 1: I did have a spare. And I told her, I'm like, hey,

1463
01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:28,479
Speaker 1: because our our nanny she has a base too, So

1464
01:11:28,520 --> 01:11:32,439
Speaker 1: I think she got linked up with with Augie to

1465
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:35,680
Speaker 1: get the second yes, because we have we have a

1466
01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:38,800
Speaker 1: base in every car for rue. We only have two

1467
01:11:38,840 --> 01:11:42,439
Speaker 1: bases for Scottie and one's one's with the nanny and

1468
01:11:42,479 --> 01:11:43,679
Speaker 1: one is with Charro.

1469
01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:46,559
Speaker 2: Is she doing do? Yes?

1470
01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:47,160
Speaker 1: Okay?

1471
01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:47,599
Speaker 2: Yes?

1472
01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:50,360
Speaker 1: The Duna like where you just click it in every

1473
01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:53,240
Speaker 1: time about and then you just the car seat click

1474
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 1: it up in there by the way that survival kit

1475
01:11:55,520 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 1: right there, that's you get it do No. I know

1476
01:11:57,120 --> 01:11:59,439
Speaker 1: we've said that one before. We have new viewers. We

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Speaker 1: have new lists you want to add to your survival

1478
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Speaker 1: kit bag. It is rock with the Duna, super easy, seamless.

1479
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:07,599
Speaker 2: With the car seat.

1480
01:12:07,720 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but I left. I didn't get out the car.

1481
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:14,000
Speaker 1: I didn't get out the base. So charl was rocking

1482
01:12:14,000 --> 01:12:15,879
Speaker 1: without a base until she got linked up with Augie.

1483
01:12:16,800 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 1: And then I didn't take the backpack out of the truck.

1484
01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:25,040
Speaker 1: Oh the diaper bag, the diaper bag, the diaper bag, backpack.

1485
01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 2: I just did that. If it makes you feel better,

1486
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:30,439
Speaker 2: I just did that. Last week when Jill came up

1487
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:33,880
Speaker 2: to the office, the bag was in my car. Yeah,

1488
01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:35,360
Speaker 2: to come up to the office and come grab the

1489
01:12:35,360 --> 01:12:37,120
Speaker 2: diaper bag. Yeah.

1490
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:39,360
Speaker 1: And she told me about She was like, did you

1491
01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:42,000
Speaker 1: also did you happen to put the diaper bag anywhere?

1492
01:12:42,000 --> 01:12:43,720
Speaker 1: Because she couldn't find it, and she's like, you know,

1493
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:45,760
Speaker 1: not trying to say, hey, did you have the backpack too,

1494
01:12:45,800 --> 01:12:47,080
Speaker 1: but hey, did you happen.

1495
01:12:46,840 --> 01:12:50,960
Speaker 2: To She was being sweet Yeah, yeah yeah.

1496
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:53,679
Speaker 1: And I was a god, that's in the truck. That's

1497
01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 1: in the drug too, sweetheart, it's my birthday.

1498
01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:00,040
Speaker 2: But I love Hey it's my birthday, and ps I

1499
01:13:00,160 --> 01:13:02,280
Speaker 2: be a prioritize yeah a lot.

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01:13:02,600 --> 01:13:04,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I told her. I was like, I

1501
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:06,679
Speaker 1: do have a spare if you wanted to drive over

1502
01:13:08,439 --> 01:13:09,960
Speaker 1: to the truck and get all these things.

1503
01:13:10,040 --> 01:13:10,240
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1504
01:13:10,320 --> 01:13:16,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, So another dad loss. She did just fleeting brain man,

1505
01:13:16,520 --> 01:13:18,600
Speaker 1: I know sometimes you used to we just we just

1506
01:13:18,640 --> 01:13:19,600
Speaker 1: don't think.

1507
01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:23,759
Speaker 2: Well you I was bragging before about the birthday dinner

1508
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:28,439
Speaker 2: that I took scarlet tow all by myself. I left

1509
01:13:28,439 --> 01:13:30,240
Speaker 2: the diaper bag in my car that was from the

1510
01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 2: same thing. So with the wind came a loss as well. Yeah,

1511
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:37,599
Speaker 2: but we got through it, got through it. Charo had

1512
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 2: very kind words for you on her birthday posts. By

1513
01:13:40,760 --> 01:13:43,799
Speaker 2: the way she did. I don't usually read the captions

1514
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:46,680
Speaker 2: that say show more, but I was invested. Yeah, I

1515
01:13:46,760 --> 01:13:50,280
Speaker 2: clicked on it. I was like, hey, that's a good read.

1516
01:13:50,439 --> 01:13:52,880
Speaker 2: That's a good like for you. I was like, I

1517
01:13:52,920 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 2: bet will that was a good read.

1518
01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:56,760
Speaker 1: She's a good little writer too. She is like charl

1519
01:13:56,960 --> 01:14:02,559
Speaker 1: is big. My wife is big on cards, cards, love

1520
01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 1: written word love. Yeah, write on a card. Yeah, Like

1521
01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:09,160
Speaker 1: that's the biggest thing, whether it's birthday, whatever it is.

1522
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:13,200
Speaker 1: She's a big card person. That to her is like

1523
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:16,160
Speaker 1: that's like a love language for you.

1524
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:19,360
Speaker 2: Did that kind of spark your interest in writing?

1525
01:14:21,920 --> 01:14:22,160
Speaker 3: Guess?

1526
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:24,400
Speaker 1: And no, almost like I know I have to put

1527
01:14:24,400 --> 01:14:27,720
Speaker 1: an effort. Yeah, Like again, whether it's birthday, Like I

1528
01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:29,720
Speaker 1: could not have a gift, but if I have, if

1529
01:14:29,720 --> 01:14:33,040
Speaker 1: I have a handwritten card, that's the moneymaker right there.

1530
01:14:33,000 --> 01:14:38,360
Speaker 2: Because you have ability I think in writing as well.

1531
01:14:38,400 --> 01:14:40,559
Speaker 2: Thank you like the stuff that you've written for the show.

1532
01:14:40,600 --> 01:14:43,000
Speaker 2: But also like when when you write down your thoughts

1533
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:44,479
Speaker 2: and stuff, it's very succinct.

1534
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,920
Speaker 1: Some barstool blogs in the past. Yeah, ever, once a year,

1535
01:14:48,160 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 1: I was good for a blog once a year. And

1536
01:14:50,800 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 1: all the time it's like, I want to challenge myself

1537
01:14:53,200 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 1: more to write. It's just it's just doing it, man, Yeah,

1538
01:14:57,840 --> 01:14:59,280
Speaker 1: it really is just doing it.

1539
01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:01,800
Speaker 2: And it is It's such a lost art for him.

1540
01:15:01,840 --> 01:15:05,599
Speaker 2: I feel like with kids they now in public schools

1541
01:15:05,640 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 2: in Texas, cursive is no longer mandatory. Yeah, and that

1542
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:11,599
Speaker 2: breaks my heart.

1543
01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:14,439
Speaker 1: And with chat GPT now writing, she want to get

1544
01:15:14,439 --> 01:15:17,559
Speaker 1: worse yeah or better? I have no you know, charl

1545
01:15:17,640 --> 01:15:20,400
Speaker 1: hates chat gipt for that reason of writing. Yeah, because

1546
01:15:20,439 --> 01:15:23,439
Speaker 1: she just she enjoys, Like she's reading this book. I

1547
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:25,280
Speaker 1: want to say, it's like an Onyx and Storm or

1548
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:26,559
Speaker 1: Onyx storm or something like that.

1549
01:15:26,640 --> 01:15:28,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you were talking about this. She's a Charle is

1550
01:15:28,600 --> 01:15:31,320
Speaker 2: a huge reader, huge reader. It's a fantasy.

1551
01:15:31,640 --> 01:15:34,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, she can she can run through books, bro, it

1552
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:43,560
Speaker 1: is crazy. And so she appreciates she appreciates writing, reading, reading, storytelling.

1553
01:15:44,280 --> 01:15:46,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.

1554
01:15:46,400 --> 01:15:48,640
Speaker 1: So also like with her nice little Instagram post, she

1555
01:15:48,640 --> 01:15:50,720
Speaker 1: had a nice little card for me written, the whole

1556
01:15:50,760 --> 01:15:51,439
Speaker 1: thing was covered.

1557
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 2: That's so well done. That's so well done, shout out Chario.

1558
01:15:56,840 --> 01:16:00,519
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would you know what you know, like, I

1559
01:16:00,640 --> 01:16:04,440
Speaker 1: don't do it. I want to more but encourage everybody

1560
01:16:04,520 --> 01:16:07,439
Speaker 1: to like journal or write down their stuff. And again

1561
01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:10,160
Speaker 1: this is coming from somebody who tells himself to do it,

1562
01:16:10,200 --> 01:16:12,160
Speaker 1: and I don't do it. I have a I have

1563
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:14,800
Speaker 1: like a I got a cool little like Charle and

1564
01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:17,240
Speaker 1: I like one of our little inside sayings that we

1565
01:16:17,400 --> 01:16:21,519
Speaker 1: kind of got connected on. And what's the word I'm

1566
01:16:21,560 --> 01:16:26,160
Speaker 1: looking for? Bonded over, bonded over carpe a dm oh

1567
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:29,720
Speaker 1: the phrase carpe dm seize the day. And when we

1568
01:16:29,720 --> 01:16:33,479
Speaker 1: were over in Italy and we were in Rome and

1569
01:16:33,520 --> 01:16:36,040
Speaker 1: everything like that, you know, I love Stoicism. But there

1570
01:16:36,040 --> 01:16:39,439
Speaker 1: were these like journals, these like diary journals whatever, and

1571
01:16:39,479 --> 01:16:42,600
Speaker 1: like those little gift stores. And there's one like leatherbound

1572
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:44,679
Speaker 1: one that had carp a dm etched in the front.

1573
01:16:44,720 --> 01:16:46,559
Speaker 1: So I had like gotten that one with the intention

1574
01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:50,720
Speaker 1: to write in it and my thoughts, philosophies, whatever it is,

1575
01:16:51,000 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 1: write about the kids, yes, life, and I only have

1576
01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:56,600
Speaker 1: about two pages of it written. That was when we

1577
01:16:56,640 --> 01:16:58,720
Speaker 1: went to Italy, A few years ago. So again I'm

1578
01:16:58,800 --> 01:17:00,800
Speaker 1: encouraging everybody to do it because I think it is.

1579
01:17:01,400 --> 01:17:04,719
Speaker 1: I truly think it's like you'll get to this point.

1580
01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:07,600
Speaker 1: But thinking of all the times back when Ru is

1581
01:17:07,680 --> 01:17:10,679
Speaker 1: little or Scotty being little right now, like Rue still

1582
01:17:10,760 --> 01:17:12,559
Speaker 1: is little, but all the moments I wish I would

1583
01:17:12,560 --> 01:17:15,519
Speaker 1: just have like journaled down and written down because you

1584
01:17:15,840 --> 01:17:18,360
Speaker 1: think you're gonna remember, but you just don't. Yeah, So

1585
01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:20,400
Speaker 1: why I'm huge and like take as many videos and

1586
01:17:20,400 --> 01:17:23,160
Speaker 1: photos as you can. Is there already some things that

1587
01:17:23,160 --> 01:17:25,479
Speaker 1: I'm forgetting about or I got to remember, or if

1588
01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:27,280
Speaker 1: like Scotty's at a certain age, I'm like, man, where

1589
01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:29,800
Speaker 1: was Rue during this time? And I'm just like, God, damn,

1590
01:17:29,800 --> 01:17:31,479
Speaker 1: I will if you would just write this shit down.

1591
01:17:31,520 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 2: Man, I need to get better at that too. I

1592
01:17:34,920 --> 01:17:38,320
Speaker 2: do have a I have to brag on myself a

1593
01:17:38,360 --> 01:17:43,479
Speaker 2: really good visual and auditory memory with like I often

1594
01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:45,639
Speaker 2: have friends be like, dude, how do you remember that

1595
01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:49,160
Speaker 2: movie line? Like verbatim? Like I'm able to retain stuff

1596
01:17:49,720 --> 01:17:52,880
Speaker 2: very well. But I'm like, if I applied that to

1597
01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:55,880
Speaker 2: my own life of journaling and then being able to

1598
01:17:55,920 --> 01:17:58,280
Speaker 2: like read that stuff, I feel like I would retain

1599
01:17:58,360 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 2: stuff even better when it it's like visual retention. You'd

1600
01:18:03,240 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 2: be good, you'd be a good little writer.

1601
01:18:05,160 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1602
01:18:05,960 --> 01:18:08,240
Speaker 2: I had a little fun stuff here and there, like

1603
01:18:08,320 --> 01:18:12,880
Speaker 2: little scripts and et cetera. But I need to like

1604
01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:14,160
Speaker 2: write my thoughts down.

1605
01:18:14,280 --> 01:18:15,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to do it.

1606
01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:17,519
Speaker 2: Write to your kids, write to my kids.

1607
01:18:18,040 --> 01:18:19,160
Speaker 1: You want to hear a sad story?

1608
01:18:19,680 --> 01:18:20,599
Speaker 2: Yes, okay.

1609
01:18:21,960 --> 01:18:29,040
Speaker 1: So my mom wrote a book, wrote in a book.

1610
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:33,800
Speaker 1: There were three that she had intentions of writing books for. Dude,

1611
01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:36,880
Speaker 1: you're kidding, Like, I guess life. I can't tell you

1612
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:39,760
Speaker 1: what's in there because I haven't read it yet. My

1613
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:43,759
Speaker 1: dad finds these books after my mom had passed. Yeah,

1614
01:18:44,200 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 1: and I was like going through stuff in the next year,

1615
01:18:47,200 --> 01:18:49,680
Speaker 1: Like my mom passed away in December. It was like

1616
01:18:49,760 --> 01:18:53,400
Speaker 1: December nineteenth, twenty twenty first, like one of those days,

1617
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:57,360
Speaker 1: and so not that Christmas, but the entire next year.

1618
01:18:57,439 --> 01:19:00,000
Speaker 1: My dad came across something in the fall, like when

1619
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:02,320
Speaker 1: he was like looking through drawers and everything else, and

1620
01:19:02,360 --> 01:19:06,000
Speaker 1: there were these three there's these three books, and one

1621
01:19:06,040 --> 01:19:09,639
Speaker 1: of them mine was written in. I don't know what's

1622
01:19:09,680 --> 01:19:12,479
Speaker 1: in it, and it wasn't all the way finished. But

1623
01:19:12,520 --> 01:19:16,760
Speaker 1: my mom apparently had written to us like she had

1624
01:19:16,800 --> 01:19:20,160
Speaker 1: intentions of like writing to each of us. I know

1625
01:19:20,240 --> 01:19:23,720
Speaker 1: it's sad, holding back some tears, but the other two

1626
01:19:23,720 --> 01:19:25,920
Speaker 1: weren't written in, which makes me sad. And if Cody

1627
01:19:25,920 --> 01:19:27,720
Speaker 1: and Whyett listened to the show, like, I don't even

1628
01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:30,880
Speaker 1: know if they know, because part of me felt bad

1629
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:33,599
Speaker 1: that I had one and they didn't have one.

1630
01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, yeah, And.

1631
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:39,559
Speaker 1: I haven't read it because part of me is like

1632
01:19:40,840 --> 01:19:46,120
Speaker 1: I'm scared to read it because then in my mind

1633
01:19:46,160 --> 01:19:52,000
Speaker 1: that might be then there's nothing else, you know what

1634
01:19:52,000 --> 01:19:55,160
Speaker 1: I mean. Yeah, that's sad. That's sad story, sad story.

1635
01:19:55,160 --> 01:19:58,519
Speaker 2: We gotta have that. Hey, that's sad, that sad story.

1636
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:02,000
Speaker 2: But this is uh, this is why I would say

1637
01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:06,760
Speaker 2: to that is I would never pressure you to like

1638
01:20:07,200 --> 01:20:11,400
Speaker 2: do anything, but you should one million percent read it,

1639
01:20:11,880 --> 01:20:13,840
Speaker 2: and you do it in your own time, like you

1640
01:20:13,880 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 2: find the time that you're ready. But you got to

1641
01:20:17,520 --> 01:20:20,599
Speaker 2: read that, and you're what you're you're not wrong.

1642
01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:22,679
Speaker 1: Part of me is because it sits by my bed,

1643
01:20:23,360 --> 01:20:25,360
Speaker 1: so it's like all my night standing next to my bed.

1644
01:20:25,800 --> 01:20:27,880
Speaker 2: You have it, Yeah, I have it?

1645
01:20:28,000 --> 01:20:29,799
Speaker 1: My dad? What I was gonna say? The next Christmas?

1646
01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:32,120
Speaker 1: The next year, my dad gifted it to me on Christmas,

1647
01:20:32,160 --> 01:20:34,760
Speaker 1: oh wow, And he was like, I came across I

1648
01:20:34,800 --> 01:20:38,120
Speaker 1: came across these journals, these books, and one is for

1649
01:20:38,200 --> 01:20:43,439
Speaker 1: you heavy bro, dude, what oh man? And so it

1650
01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:46,479
Speaker 1: sits on my nightstand and it's like I just don't.

1651
01:20:47,080 --> 01:20:48,920
Speaker 1: Part of me is like I have that excuse to

1652
01:20:48,920 --> 01:20:50,679
Speaker 1: where if I read this, these are the last words

1653
01:20:50,680 --> 01:20:52,559
Speaker 1: and then there's nothing else after that. Like I know,

1654
01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:57,680
Speaker 1: I still have like her words, they're written to me.

1655
01:20:58,000 --> 01:21:00,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, And part of me is.

1656
01:21:00,640 --> 01:21:03,439
Speaker 1: Just like I just don't have like the the stones

1657
01:21:03,479 --> 01:21:05,680
Speaker 1: or the courage to open it up and start like

1658
01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:07,280
Speaker 1: reading her words.

1659
01:21:07,960 --> 01:21:13,680
Speaker 2: Without sounding cheesy like written word is forever. We have

1660
01:21:13,920 --> 01:21:17,479
Speaker 2: books that like people are still being quoted from fair

1661
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:21,200
Speaker 2: Point thirteenth century, fourteenth century. If anything, I think it

1662
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:26,479
Speaker 2: will give your mom life by reading those and letting

1663
01:21:26,479 --> 01:21:30,120
Speaker 2: those words live on. That would be my thoughts on it.

1664
01:21:30,760 --> 01:21:35,400
Speaker 2: I I think that's oh man, your mom's a good one, dude,

1665
01:21:35,520 --> 01:21:36,920
Speaker 2: your mom's a legend.

1666
01:21:36,960 --> 01:21:37,120
Speaker 1: Bro.

1667
01:21:37,920 --> 01:21:38,320
Speaker 2: Damn.

1668
01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:42,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, I appreciate those words though. Actually, yeah, that makes

1669
01:21:42,200 --> 01:21:45,400
Speaker 1: a lot of sense. You'll control talk to me about it,

1670
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:47,960
Speaker 1: but she won't talk, you know. It's more of like

1671
01:21:48,000 --> 01:21:50,600
Speaker 1: I'll be like sweet, I just I can't do it

1672
01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:51,479
Speaker 1: yet I don't want.

1673
01:21:51,280 --> 01:21:54,360
Speaker 2: To, and I don't blame her. I have the same

1674
01:21:54,400 --> 01:22:01,800
Speaker 2: thing with Jill's stuff with her dad, Like I just

1675
01:22:01,800 --> 01:22:04,280
Speaker 2: feel like that's a place where I, you know, I

1676
01:22:04,360 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 2: let Jill make those decisions.

1677
01:22:06,320 --> 01:22:08,840
Speaker 1: So it's just hard. You obviously see the emotion that

1678
01:22:09,000 --> 01:22:11,040
Speaker 1: comes out when I just talk about her. It's like

1679
01:22:11,080 --> 01:22:12,519
Speaker 1: I feel like if I open the book and just

1680
01:22:12,520 --> 01:22:14,280
Speaker 1: start reading words like, I won't even be able to

1681
01:22:14,360 --> 01:22:18,639
Speaker 1: make it, dude, very far. And then I'm like, man,

1682
01:22:18,680 --> 01:22:20,360
Speaker 1: I just don't want to be in that emotional state.

1683
01:22:20,760 --> 01:22:26,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll find the right time. Yeah you're right, You're right.

1684
01:22:26,479 --> 01:22:30,120
Speaker 2: But that also that that is like inspiring me to

1685
01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:32,320
Speaker 2: now want to write stuff for Scarlet.

1686
01:22:32,760 --> 01:22:36,200
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, because when the moments I do think

1687
01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:38,240
Speaker 1: about I'm like, well, you just got it. You gotta

1688
01:22:38,280 --> 01:22:38,800
Speaker 1: start writing.

1689
01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:45,040
Speaker 2: Jill wrote a letter the second time I took her

1690
01:22:45,040 --> 01:22:49,840
Speaker 2: on a date of that like she knew that I

1691
01:22:49,920 --> 01:22:52,160
Speaker 2: was going to be the guy that she married, and

1692
01:22:52,200 --> 01:22:55,000
Speaker 2: she read that she kept h at her purse forever

1693
01:22:55,680 --> 01:22:57,519
Speaker 2: and when I proposed to her or she brought out

1694
01:22:57,560 --> 01:23:02,559
Speaker 2: that letter to read it, dude, I had to pull over,

1695
01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:06,600
Speaker 2: like driving over and proposing to Jill because I was

1696
01:23:06,680 --> 01:23:10,559
Speaker 2: like this, like trying to drive, like written word is

1697
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:13,240
Speaker 2: so crazy. That's awesome.

1698
01:23:14,120 --> 01:23:18,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, I need to do that more. Let's challenge ourselves,

1699
01:23:18,760 --> 01:23:22,679
Speaker 1: Dad's that's a good challenge. It's a good challenge. Everybody's

1700
01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:23,840
Speaker 1: cashing their bets right now.

1701
01:23:26,800 --> 01:23:30,679
Speaker 2: What was the lie? I feel like bald guys can't

1702
01:23:30,680 --> 01:23:34,439
Speaker 2: cry either. I'm telling you it's minus six they cry.

1703
01:23:34,760 --> 01:23:39,480
Speaker 2: It should have been minus six hundred. Oh my gosh.

1704
01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:42,599
Speaker 2: We also we gotta get some wigs for Will, sorry, Derek, cause.

1705
01:23:43,320 --> 01:23:45,120
Speaker 5: It's the only thing I could ever offer to you

1706
01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:46,840
Speaker 5: guys as a dad hack is I heard it a

1707
01:23:46,840 --> 01:23:49,799
Speaker 5: long time ago. Make a Google driver a Gmail account

1708
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:52,200
Speaker 5: for your daughters. And so that's where I have a

1709
01:23:52,280 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 5: journal for myself. That's a Gmail account that is just

1710
01:23:54,880 --> 01:23:56,960
Speaker 5: my name journal and every big day. So when I

1711
01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:59,360
Speaker 5: was proposing to my fiance, when I was doing these things,

1712
01:23:59,360 --> 01:24:01,479
Speaker 5: I write notes to myself and I don't go back

1713
01:24:01,520 --> 01:24:03,280
Speaker 5: and look. And so if you do want like that

1714
01:24:03,400 --> 01:24:06,439
Speaker 5: small bit of it, I always say, like, one thing

1715
01:24:06,439 --> 01:24:08,040
Speaker 5: I can't wait to do when I have kids is

1716
01:24:08,080 --> 01:24:10,840
Speaker 5: like make them an email account and just write like

1717
01:24:10,880 --> 01:24:13,200
Speaker 5: first day of preschool stuff like that. Just because it's

1718
01:24:13,240 --> 01:24:15,439
Speaker 5: the digital wage and things like that. So that's how

1719
01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:16,320
Speaker 5: I get my writing out.

1720
01:24:16,400 --> 01:24:18,719
Speaker 2: Just throwing that up. That's a sick idea.

1721
01:24:19,680 --> 01:24:20,599
Speaker 1: That's a great idea.

1722
01:24:21,720 --> 01:24:22,559
Speaker 2: That's a dad hack.

1723
01:24:22,960 --> 01:24:24,040
Speaker 1: That's a dad hack. Man.

1724
01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:28,600
Speaker 2: I am, I have my trenches if we want to

1725
01:24:28,600 --> 01:24:31,680
Speaker 2: go into that second, absolutely, because I don't. I for

1726
01:24:31,720 --> 01:24:34,360
Speaker 2: the first time and for the dad's history, I don't

1727
01:24:34,360 --> 01:24:39,400
Speaker 2: have a dad loss. That's big. I bet we could

1728
01:24:39,400 --> 01:24:43,479
Speaker 2: find one though, if we really wanted to dig for it. Sure, Jill,

1729
01:24:44,800 --> 01:24:47,800
Speaker 2: we have dad lots. In five seconds, you're like, yeah,

1730
01:24:47,840 --> 01:24:50,600
Speaker 2: do you see the toilets heat this morning? There? You gods,

1731
01:24:52,439 --> 01:25:00,200
Speaker 2: but the trenches. Jill's birthday party, it was absolutely incredible. Bill,

1732
01:25:00,560 --> 01:25:04,000
Speaker 2: being pregnant has not had like the opportunities to be

1733
01:25:05,120 --> 01:25:07,439
Speaker 2: as social as she has wanted to be and to

1734
01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:11,439
Speaker 2: like host events and to drink alcohol in like a

1735
01:25:11,479 --> 01:25:15,320
Speaker 2: celebratory way and all those things. And so her thirtieth

1736
01:25:15,360 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 2: birthday she did a fantastic job of just ordering like

1737
01:25:21,040 --> 01:25:25,479
Speaker 2: all these little tablecloths and little lanterns to like hang

1738
01:25:25,560 --> 01:25:30,519
Speaker 2: in the trees and twinkle lights. And her stepdad built

1739
01:25:30,560 --> 01:25:33,799
Speaker 2: that a frame I was talking about on last week's episode.

1740
01:25:33,880 --> 01:25:35,640
Speaker 2: We hung all the twinkle lights and it was just

1741
01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:40,880
Speaker 2: like an epic night. Chef pulled through Furda, pulled through

1742
01:25:40,960 --> 01:25:45,120
Speaker 2: Ryan pulled through. Chef looked good in his Teddy Bear

1743
01:25:45,160 --> 01:25:47,759
Speaker 2: hat too. He rocked the Teddy Bear hat at Jill's

1744
01:25:47,800 --> 01:25:51,960
Speaker 2: party and looked like a dude. But the trendiest part

1745
01:25:51,960 --> 01:25:56,080
Speaker 2: of it was doing all that with no family in

1746
01:25:56,160 --> 01:26:02,679
Speaker 2: town and like balancing taking care of Skarlet and setting

1747
01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:06,000
Speaker 2: up for the party. And I just have to kind

1748
01:26:06,000 --> 01:26:09,040
Speaker 2: of give myself a poundment back, but really give Jill

1749
01:26:09,200 --> 01:26:11,360
Speaker 2: a pat on the back, because it was so sick

1750
01:26:11,439 --> 01:26:15,720
Speaker 2: seeing us operate with like Scarlet's crying. Scarlet's crying, put

1751
01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:17,600
Speaker 2: her in the baby Bajor and put her in the

1752
01:26:17,640 --> 01:26:19,679
Speaker 2: front yard, and we're rocking her in the front yard

1753
01:26:19,720 --> 01:26:22,080
Speaker 2: as we're like putting up the tables and I'm hanging

1754
01:26:22,600 --> 01:26:25,400
Speaker 2: the lights. And then now Scarlet's in a good mood

1755
01:26:25,360 --> 01:26:27,280
Speaker 2: and she's looking at all the leaves up in the

1756
01:26:27,280 --> 01:26:30,200
Speaker 2: trees and gone, oh, like ah, you are making noises,

1757
01:26:30,280 --> 01:26:33,120
Speaker 2: and we're like, oh, Scarlett, you like the party, and

1758
01:26:33,320 --> 01:26:36,519
Speaker 2: like everything was just so incredible. The night of the

1759
01:26:36,560 --> 01:26:40,680
Speaker 2: party was incredible. We did have I will keep his

1760
01:26:40,960 --> 01:26:42,680
Speaker 2: name out of it because I have not talked with

1761
01:26:42,760 --> 01:26:45,840
Speaker 2: him about sharing this. But we had a dude at

1762
01:26:45,920 --> 01:26:49,400
Speaker 2: the party that was coming fresh off of a torn

1763
01:26:49,520 --> 01:26:54,640
Speaker 2: laborum surgery and he was talking to chef and uh,

1764
01:26:54,680 --> 01:26:58,360
Speaker 2: while he was talking to chef, his shoulder went out

1765
01:26:58,360 --> 01:27:01,680
Speaker 2: of socket, and I guess like the world closed in

1766
01:27:01,760 --> 01:27:06,519
Speaker 2: on him and he passed out like four or five times,

1767
01:27:06,800 --> 01:27:10,439
Speaker 2: like fully at the front door of our house, like

1768
01:27:10,640 --> 01:27:13,080
Speaker 2: pass out into my arms. Thankfully I was right there

1769
01:27:13,080 --> 01:27:16,360
Speaker 2: and caught him. I was like, oh man, this guy's drunk.

1770
01:27:16,560 --> 01:27:18,800
Speaker 3: That's what I thought too, And he didn't see it. It

1771
01:27:18,800 --> 01:27:20,160
Speaker 3: was so weird. He kind of like all of a

1772
01:27:20,200 --> 01:27:22,800
Speaker 3: sudden because he was so sober. Yeah, he was looking

1773
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:23,000
Speaker 3: at me.

1774
01:27:23,080 --> 01:27:25,240
Speaker 4: He goes, do you have all the like out of

1775
01:27:25,680 --> 01:27:28,240
Speaker 4: like that you have a bathroom or something here? Like

1776
01:27:28,400 --> 01:27:31,160
Speaker 4: I was like, oh what, let me sure, And I'm

1777
01:27:31,200 --> 01:27:34,120
Speaker 4: grabbing schirms over by the tragger badass trigger by.

1778
01:27:34,000 --> 01:27:39,400
Speaker 1: The way, thank you will shout, oh yeah, shout out.

1779
01:27:39,400 --> 01:27:42,959
Speaker 1: Rectech made some Halpino poppers that was fun amazing.

1780
01:27:43,600 --> 01:27:46,160
Speaker 3: Uh yeah, and he just I didn't see him pass out,

1781
01:27:46,160 --> 01:27:46,679
Speaker 3: but he looked.

1782
01:27:46,680 --> 01:27:50,559
Speaker 4: I was like, man, this guy hammered and just hiding it.

1783
01:27:50,560 --> 01:27:54,240
Speaker 2: It was crazy. I catch him and he's fully limp.

1784
01:27:54,280 --> 01:27:58,160
Speaker 2: He's around your size, not like uh is filled out,

1785
01:27:58,240 --> 01:28:00,120
Speaker 2: but I mean way bigger than me.

1786
01:28:00,240 --> 01:28:00,719
Speaker 1: Hey boy.

1787
01:28:01,000 --> 01:28:04,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, And so I catch him. I'm like, oh my god, Jared,

1788
01:28:05,240 --> 01:28:07,559
Speaker 2: they would me out of nowhere, like comes up and

1789
01:28:07,600 --> 01:28:10,679
Speaker 2: we're getting them pulled up and dude he like came

1790
01:28:10,720 --> 01:28:13,759
Speaker 2: back to He's like, hey, do you have a bathroom.

1791
01:28:13,760 --> 01:28:16,360
Speaker 2: I'm like, yeah, let's get into the bathroom. Ountain know

1792
01:28:16,439 --> 01:28:19,120
Speaker 2: what's going on. And we get him like five steps

1793
01:28:19,160 --> 01:28:22,439
Speaker 2: into the house and he just again, and that time

1794
01:28:22,600 --> 01:28:25,439
Speaker 2: I like caught him, caught him. We got him on

1795
01:28:25,479 --> 01:28:28,120
Speaker 2: the couch, and thank god, Jill's a nurse and had

1796
01:28:28,200 --> 01:28:31,519
Speaker 2: like eight of her nursing friends there that dude was

1797
01:28:31,600 --> 01:28:35,200
Speaker 2: taken care of. They had they had a steposcope on him,

1798
01:28:35,200 --> 01:28:39,599
Speaker 2: they were checking poles. Everybody at the party like it

1799
01:28:39,680 --> 01:28:44,559
Speaker 2: died for like ten seconds and everybody's like, oh my god. Yeah,

1800
01:28:44,600 --> 01:28:47,320
Speaker 2: But it ended up all being good. He was totally fine.

1801
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:49,960
Speaker 2: We like we laid him down horizontal and he ended

1802
01:28:50,040 --> 01:28:53,360
Speaker 2: up getting home safe and they diagnosed it with what

1803
01:28:53,479 --> 01:28:55,439
Speaker 2: happened with the shoulder. I guess they popped it back

1804
01:28:55,439 --> 01:29:00,840
Speaker 2: in place for him. It's crazy, but I know, but

1805
01:29:01,000 --> 01:29:04,519
Speaker 2: that whole night, everything about it, with all the little

1806
01:29:04,600 --> 01:29:07,720
Speaker 2: curveball oh and the entire time that that's going on,

1807
01:29:07,960 --> 01:29:11,240
Speaker 2: Scarlet would not go down for the first time in

1808
01:29:11,439 --> 01:29:14,519
Speaker 2: two weeks. She's in her crib the entire time, going

1809
01:29:16,320 --> 01:29:21,000
Speaker 2: like screaming as I'm holding this guy, and so as

1810
01:29:21,040 --> 01:29:22,599
Speaker 2: soon as we get him on the couch, I'm like,

1811
01:29:23,000 --> 01:29:24,320
Speaker 2: I gotta go tend to Scarlett.

1812
01:29:24,439 --> 01:29:25,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I was.

1813
01:29:25,560 --> 01:29:27,920
Speaker 2: In the nursery for like twenty minutes as the party's

1814
01:29:27,960 --> 01:29:30,800
Speaker 2: going on, just being like, come on, girl, like of

1815
01:29:30,840 --> 01:29:33,599
Speaker 2: all nights, I need you to go down, I need

1816
01:29:33,640 --> 01:29:34,280
Speaker 2: you to go down.

1817
01:29:34,600 --> 01:29:37,200
Speaker 4: Can I give a quick shout out too, shirm because

1818
01:29:37,920 --> 01:29:40,920
Speaker 4: as someone that was just there, him and Jill both

1819
01:29:40,960 --> 01:29:45,000
Speaker 4: handled themselves really really well. You'd have a ye're aware

1820
01:29:45,080 --> 01:29:47,840
Speaker 4: that Scarlet isn't going down. They have a baby monitor

1821
01:29:47,880 --> 01:29:51,040
Speaker 4: out there on the tables, but they're still like, you know,

1822
01:29:51,720 --> 01:29:56,920
Speaker 4: extremely kind and courteous. It's you know, handling it like pros.

1823
01:29:57,120 --> 01:30:00,439
Speaker 4: I mean, it was very cool to see you guys. Uh.

1824
01:30:00,760 --> 01:30:04,240
Speaker 4: I'm sure that was a lot and internally probably really hectic,

1825
01:30:04,760 --> 01:30:06,840
Speaker 4: but you couldn't see that from the outside. They were

1826
01:30:06,920 --> 01:30:09,840
Speaker 4: amazing hosts of this awesome venue. Sure them on the

1827
01:30:09,840 --> 01:30:10,240
Speaker 4: grill is.

1828
01:30:10,280 --> 01:30:14,519
Speaker 2: Dangerous, dangerous Texas boys. Texas boy. I don't know that

1829
01:30:14,680 --> 01:30:17,000
Speaker 2: smoker is a pretty big cheat code. I mean you

1830
01:30:17,080 --> 01:30:19,200
Speaker 2: put that day. I have an app in everything, he said.

1831
01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:22,240
Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't know. People can mess up

1832
01:30:22,240 --> 01:30:25,400
Speaker 2: the smoker. Yeah, yeah, well come on now, there's a

1833
01:30:25,439 --> 01:30:27,839
Speaker 2: little if you're mess If you're messing up with smoker,

1834
01:30:27,880 --> 01:30:30,240
Speaker 2: we need to talk. We need to have a little combo.

1835
01:30:30,880 --> 01:30:33,320
Speaker 1: But drug.

1836
01:30:35,280 --> 01:30:37,680
Speaker 2: And that's true. It's the Indian, not the Arrow as

1837
01:30:37,720 --> 01:30:43,719
Speaker 2: they say. But yeah, it was fun. It was actually

1838
01:30:43,800 --> 01:30:47,880
Speaker 2: shout out Chef, and shout out Ryan, and shout out Matt.

1839
01:30:47,960 --> 01:30:50,960
Speaker 2: We call him Ferda in this office. Jill said her

1840
01:30:51,000 --> 01:30:53,559
Speaker 2: favorite part of the night was talking to those three guys.

1841
01:30:54,520 --> 01:30:56,720
Speaker 2: And that was my other crack of cold one is.

1842
01:30:56,800 --> 01:31:00,000
Speaker 2: I looked at the party, all the twinkle lights, everything

1843
01:31:00,160 --> 01:31:02,080
Speaker 2: going on, and all Jill's friends are meeting, all of

1844
01:31:02,160 --> 01:31:05,320
Speaker 2: Mitch's friends. Everybody's kind of bonding. And I look over

1845
01:31:05,360 --> 01:31:07,080
Speaker 2: and I see Jill with the drink in her hand,

1846
01:31:07,080 --> 01:31:10,320
Speaker 2: and y'all had drinks in your hands, and they're laughing

1847
01:31:10,479 --> 01:31:13,599
Speaker 2: so hard. For is doing something crazy. He's like acting

1848
01:31:13,600 --> 01:31:18,400
Speaker 2: something out Jill's dying laughing. An hour passed by, truly

1849
01:31:18,439 --> 01:31:21,120
Speaker 2: an hour, and I look back up and Jill was

1850
01:31:21,200 --> 01:31:24,919
Speaker 2: still talking to those three guys and they're still laughing.

1851
01:31:25,439 --> 01:31:27,240
Speaker 2: And the next morning she woke up and she said,

1852
01:31:27,360 --> 01:31:29,599
Speaker 2: I gotta tell you, my favorite part of the party

1853
01:31:30,160 --> 01:31:32,599
Speaker 2: was talking to those she calls them the interns, which

1854
01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:35,600
Speaker 2: y'all aren't interns anymore, but she was like, talking to

1855
01:31:35,600 --> 01:31:38,920
Speaker 2: the interns was They are so much fun. It was

1856
01:31:39,000 --> 01:31:42,880
Speaker 2: just like that life like coming back of like, yeah,

1857
01:31:42,920 --> 01:31:45,479
Speaker 2: being able to like live and be in the moment,

1858
01:31:45,960 --> 01:31:49,400
Speaker 2: but also bouncing the scarlet, taking care of her. It

1859
01:31:49,479 --> 01:31:50,000
Speaker 2: was awesome.

1860
01:31:50,360 --> 01:31:50,960
Speaker 1: I love that.

1861
01:31:50,960 --> 01:31:56,840
Speaker 2: That was my trenches, y'all. We did watch the bust

1862
01:31:56,880 --> 01:32:00,000
Speaker 2: and Bowl. We did watch the bust and bawl.

1863
01:32:00,560 --> 01:32:04,080
Speaker 1: The boys are riding. Yeah, should we get to some callers.

1864
01:32:04,200 --> 01:32:05,080
Speaker 2: Let's get to some calls.

1865
01:32:05,160 --> 01:32:06,840
Speaker 1: Six one the dads. You want to be featured on

1866
01:32:06,880 --> 01:32:09,320
Speaker 1: the show? Uh call in and leave a voicemail. Can

1867
01:32:09,360 --> 01:32:12,160
Speaker 1: be about absolutely anything. A dad wain and dad lost,

1868
01:32:12,160 --> 01:32:13,880
Speaker 1: something you're learning, something you want to have been about.

1869
01:32:13,920 --> 01:32:17,320
Speaker 1: This is a safe space for dads and we have

1870
01:32:17,680 --> 01:32:21,400
Speaker 1: at or sorry six o one the Dads at gmail

1871
01:32:21,439 --> 01:32:24,519
Speaker 1: dot com for our international listeners. Yes, if you want

1872
01:32:24,520 --> 01:32:27,040
Speaker 1: to shoot an email? Yes, yes, say that one again,

1873
01:32:27,160 --> 01:32:32,920
Speaker 1: six o one the dads at gmail dot com. How many?

1874
01:32:33,080 --> 01:32:33,400
Speaker 1: How many?

1875
01:32:33,400 --> 01:32:35,800
Speaker 2: How many we doing this week? Does we got two?

1876
01:32:35,920 --> 01:32:37,519
Speaker 2: Two callers? We'll go quick?

1877
01:32:37,560 --> 01:32:37,960
Speaker 1: All right?

1878
01:32:39,680 --> 01:32:39,840
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1879
01:32:39,880 --> 01:32:40,240
Speaker 7: What's up?

1880
01:32:40,280 --> 01:32:40,439
Speaker 1: Well?

1881
01:32:40,479 --> 01:32:43,439
Speaker 7: I just wanted to share with you a little story,

1882
01:32:43,479 --> 01:32:45,040
Speaker 7: little answer that I had with my three year old

1883
01:32:45,040 --> 01:32:48,040
Speaker 7: the other day. By the way, I just had another daughter,

1884
01:32:48,439 --> 01:32:51,040
Speaker 7: uh about a month ago, but I also got a

1885
01:32:51,040 --> 01:32:52,720
Speaker 7: three year old the other day.

1886
01:32:52,720 --> 01:32:54,320
Speaker 8: I'm working from home on my computer.

1887
01:32:54,640 --> 01:32:55,320
Speaker 3: I look over.

1888
01:32:55,400 --> 01:32:58,120
Speaker 8: My three year old is riding on the walls with

1889
01:32:58,360 --> 01:33:04,800
Speaker 8: motherfucking whiteboard marker. I fucking a reserve judgment. I wait,

1890
01:33:06,000 --> 01:33:08,720
Speaker 8: she looks over. I mean, my first thought is the

1891
01:33:08,800 --> 01:33:11,479
Speaker 8: ripper anew him? I hold off, so I just ask, hey,

1892
01:33:11,320 --> 01:33:14,559
Speaker 8: why'd you do that? She looks me dead in the

1893
01:33:14,600 --> 01:33:18,760
Speaker 8: fucking eye and says it wasn't me, it was John Cena,

1894
01:33:19,640 --> 01:33:23,360
Speaker 8: John fucking Sina. I didn't know what to say, so

1895
01:33:23,400 --> 01:33:26,759
Speaker 8: I immediately dropped a wrestling promo on how fucking dare

1896
01:33:26,840 --> 01:33:31,360
Speaker 8: you bring up John Blame John Cena, seven time world champ,

1897
01:33:31,640 --> 01:33:37,280
Speaker 8: the franchise. Matter of fact, go to your room. It's

1898
01:33:37,360 --> 01:33:40,480
Speaker 8: rough dude, raising a baby, You're just basically staring.

1899
01:33:40,160 --> 01:33:43,479
Speaker 7: At it fucking all day, making sure it's fine and

1900
01:33:43,760 --> 01:33:44,599
Speaker 7: fucking not dead.

1901
01:33:45,360 --> 01:33:48,639
Speaker 8: A three year old, it's fucking war. It's fucking war

1902
01:33:49,040 --> 01:33:52,599
Speaker 8: every day, and they need to teach this shit in schools.

1903
01:33:52,640 --> 01:33:54,479
Speaker 8: How is the fucking guy supposed to prepare for this?

1904
01:33:55,000 --> 01:33:55,559
Speaker 5: What the fuck?

1905
01:33:57,720 --> 01:33:59,639
Speaker 2: The only thing I'll say is, how do we know

1906
01:33:59,840 --> 01:34:02,320
Speaker 2: it wasn't John Cena. You can't see him, you know

1907
01:34:02,520 --> 01:34:05,839
Speaker 2: for a fact. How does a three year old connect

1908
01:34:05,840 --> 01:34:09,559
Speaker 2: those dots to go ultimate Alibi and the man? So funny,

1909
01:34:09,800 --> 01:34:11,000
Speaker 2: John Cena.

1910
01:34:11,680 --> 01:34:14,200
Speaker 1: He's not wrong about with the three year old. It

1911
01:34:14,320 --> 01:34:19,080
Speaker 1: is just war verbally at all times. Twenty four to seven.

1912
01:34:19,720 --> 01:34:22,280
Speaker 1: You say one wrong thing to them and they think,

1913
01:34:22,280 --> 01:34:24,280
Speaker 1: you know, they're in their world thinking they're doing whatever

1914
01:34:24,280 --> 01:34:26,880
Speaker 1: it is. They just snap at you, bro, Yeah, like

1915
01:34:26,960 --> 01:34:29,479
Speaker 1: I'm doing this first. I told you I'm doing this first. Okay,

1916
01:34:29,520 --> 01:34:31,080
Speaker 1: take it easy, Jesus Christ.

1917
01:34:33,080 --> 01:34:37,120
Speaker 2: We also have to put the real reaction video in

1918
01:34:37,240 --> 01:34:39,320
Speaker 2: this episode to the hair.

1919
01:34:39,360 --> 01:34:43,240
Speaker 1: Bro me walking in with the bald head and just

1920
01:34:43,320 --> 01:34:47,200
Speaker 1: her like scared for life, but also still kind of

1921
01:34:47,200 --> 01:34:48,520
Speaker 1: trusting what I'm saying.

1922
01:34:49,600 --> 01:34:52,240
Speaker 2: And her voice as you walk in before she sees

1923
01:34:52,280 --> 01:34:55,720
Speaker 2: you in the dada and then as she sees you

1924
01:34:56,040 --> 01:34:58,639
Speaker 2: just total monotone.

1925
01:34:58,920 --> 01:35:01,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, your nervous, a very nervous energy.

1926
01:35:02,080 --> 01:35:02,800
Speaker 3: Do you like it?

1927
01:35:05,040 --> 01:35:07,599
Speaker 2: Yes, silent nod.

1928
01:35:07,680 --> 01:35:10,400
Speaker 1: You want to touch it? And she's just like and

1929
01:35:10,400 --> 01:35:10,960
Speaker 1: then kind of.

1930
01:35:10,920 --> 01:35:16,920
Speaker 2: Like she was she was, yeah, I'm not sure.

1931
01:35:17,680 --> 01:35:19,320
Speaker 1: Oh I did to get her last night because we

1932
01:35:19,600 --> 01:35:21,639
Speaker 1: kind of motivate her with a piece of a cookie

1933
01:35:21,840 --> 01:35:22,559
Speaker 1: for after dinner.

1934
01:35:22,640 --> 01:35:23,559
Speaker 2: Oh heck yeah.

1935
01:35:24,520 --> 01:35:27,280
Speaker 1: And she was on one not want to eat a

1936
01:35:27,320 --> 01:35:30,320
Speaker 1: hamburger patty. We had burger cut up the burger. She

1937
01:35:30,439 --> 01:35:32,240
Speaker 1: wanted it with the bun, but all she wants to

1938
01:35:32,240 --> 01:35:33,759
Speaker 1: do is eat the bun, not the burger.

1939
01:35:34,439 --> 01:35:38,800
Speaker 2: Hey, that's a good call, good call.

1940
01:35:39,880 --> 01:35:41,920
Speaker 1: I was like, sweet, I'll get you the bun. We'll

1941
01:35:41,920 --> 01:35:44,680
Speaker 1: get you the bun, but you're eating the burger with it.

1942
01:35:44,920 --> 01:35:47,439
Speaker 1: And she's like, okay, I know. I'm like, well, if

1943
01:35:47,439 --> 01:35:49,559
Speaker 1: you know, then why haven't you already been doing it?

1944
01:35:52,120 --> 01:35:54,880
Speaker 1: And so I'm like tearing off the burger bund and

1945
01:35:54,920 --> 01:35:57,080
Speaker 1: then she eats the burger bund and well, I tear

1946
01:35:57,080 --> 01:35:59,400
Speaker 1: off one piece and I put it on her plate

1947
01:35:59,439 --> 01:36:02,360
Speaker 1: and then I'm the burger bun and she's like I

1948
01:36:02,400 --> 01:36:04,760
Speaker 1: want more. I was like, no, your bun's right there.

1949
01:36:04,920 --> 01:36:07,040
Speaker 1: I want to see how you're gonna do the bun

1950
01:36:07,120 --> 01:36:10,720
Speaker 1: and the burger like you said, like you said you.

1951
01:36:10,680 --> 01:36:11,320
Speaker 2: Were gonna do it.

1952
01:36:11,520 --> 01:36:14,280
Speaker 1: You do that, I'll give you some more piece of bread.

1953
01:36:14,360 --> 01:36:16,559
Speaker 1: She's like, I don't like the burger. She got. She

1954
01:36:16,560 --> 01:36:18,439
Speaker 1: puts the bread in her my house and starts eating

1955
01:36:18,439 --> 01:36:20,320
Speaker 1: and she's like, I don't like the burger. She starts whining,

1956
01:36:20,360 --> 01:36:23,439
Speaker 1: and I'm like, you know, pissed off. I'm like, you

1957
01:36:23,439 --> 01:36:25,080
Speaker 1: said you're gonna eat the burger, like you gotta eat

1958
01:36:25,080 --> 01:36:27,840
Speaker 1: the burger with the bread. And she's like, I want

1959
01:36:27,920 --> 01:36:29,960
Speaker 1: more bread. I want I want more, I want more

1960
01:36:29,960 --> 01:36:30,360
Speaker 1: of the pun.

1961
01:36:30,439 --> 01:36:31,280
Speaker 2: I want the bun.

1962
01:36:32,240 --> 01:36:34,439
Speaker 1: And so I'm like, I'm like, fine, i'll give you

1963
01:36:34,479 --> 01:36:36,519
Speaker 1: a bun, but you're eating the burger. So I start

1964
01:36:36,560 --> 01:36:37,799
Speaker 1: turning off the bun and put.

1965
01:36:39,680 --> 01:36:42,840
Speaker 2: So my daughter's a liar, now that's what we're doing.

1966
01:36:42,920 --> 01:36:43,479
Speaker 2: And she likes.

1967
01:36:44,200 --> 01:36:47,080
Speaker 1: She like picks up the piece of bond and I'm like,

1968
01:36:47,160 --> 01:36:49,120
Speaker 1: you're putting burger on that. He's like, I was like, here,

1969
01:36:49,120 --> 01:36:50,960
Speaker 1: I'll show you how to do it. She starts getting

1970
01:36:50,960 --> 01:36:52,960
Speaker 1: fussy and I like, take the fork and like, get

1971
01:36:52,960 --> 01:36:54,479
Speaker 1: the bun, get the burger with it. I'm like, this

1972
01:36:54,520 --> 01:36:57,160
Speaker 1: is how you eat it, and then she doesn't want

1973
01:36:57,160 --> 01:36:58,719
Speaker 1: to do it, so she just kind of sits there.

1974
01:36:59,439 --> 01:37:01,519
Speaker 1: And it's what I've kind of been doing recently, Like

1975
01:37:01,560 --> 01:37:03,840
Speaker 1: when I was solo with her last week, like this,

1976
01:37:03,840 --> 01:37:04,600
Speaker 1: this was what I was.

1977
01:37:04,640 --> 01:37:05,160
Speaker 2: Hitting her with.

1978
01:37:05,560 --> 01:37:07,160
Speaker 1: Okay, if you don't want to eat, you don't have

1979
01:37:07,200 --> 01:37:08,800
Speaker 1: to eat. You can go sit on you can go

1980
01:37:08,840 --> 01:37:09,599
Speaker 1: sit on the couch.

1981
01:37:09,880 --> 01:37:12,920
Speaker 2: You don't have to eat. And what she would do.

1982
01:37:12,960 --> 01:37:15,240
Speaker 1: She didn't do this last night, but what she was

1983
01:37:15,479 --> 01:37:17,880
Speaker 1: starting to do is she might get up and mosy

1984
01:37:17,960 --> 01:37:19,640
Speaker 1: around the couch or whatever, and then she's like that

1985
01:37:19,960 --> 01:37:22,280
Speaker 1: kind of have a cookie. You ain't getting a cookie

1986
01:37:24,080 --> 01:37:28,680
Speaker 1: cookies for CPC Clean Plate Club. You only get a

1987
01:37:28,680 --> 01:37:30,160
Speaker 1: cookie if you're part of the CPC.

1988
01:37:30,320 --> 01:37:32,599
Speaker 2: And hold on one second. We have the membership card

1989
01:37:32,680 --> 01:37:35,439
Speaker 2: right here. Let me oh, yeah, you're not on that,

1990
01:37:35,600 --> 01:37:37,960
Speaker 2: as is on it. That as good as a cookie.

1991
01:37:38,120 --> 01:37:40,720
Speaker 1: But last night Mom is like it got to a

1992
01:37:40,720 --> 01:37:42,280
Speaker 1: point to where she was starting to eat the burger

1993
01:37:42,320 --> 01:37:43,920
Speaker 1: in the bond. I was fired up by I see,

1994
01:37:43,960 --> 01:37:47,639
Speaker 1: I told you it's good. It's fun to try new things,

1995
01:37:47,720 --> 01:37:51,439
Speaker 1: cause it might taste good. That's Daniel Tiger. Come on, Danny,

1996
01:37:51,520 --> 01:37:54,599
Speaker 1: Come on, Daniel Tiger. And it got to a point

1997
01:37:54,640 --> 01:37:58,320
Speaker 1: where Charles like, uh, you can eat three more bites

1998
01:37:58,640 --> 01:38:01,760
Speaker 1: and you'll be done or something like that. And so

1999
01:38:01,800 --> 01:38:04,600
Speaker 1: she so she eats three bytes and then she like

2000
01:38:04,640 --> 01:38:06,280
Speaker 1: gets off the chair and she runs over to get

2001
01:38:06,280 --> 01:38:10,320
Speaker 1: a cookie. And she was like, uh that I get

2002
01:38:10,320 --> 01:38:11,599
Speaker 1: a cookie. I get a cookie.

2003
01:38:11,640 --> 01:38:11,720
Speaker 4: Now.

2004
01:38:11,720 --> 01:38:13,040
Speaker 1: I was like, you can't get a cookie. You're not

2005
01:38:13,080 --> 01:38:15,280
Speaker 1: part of the Clean Play Club. So Mama said, three more,

2006
01:38:15,520 --> 01:38:17,280
Speaker 1: three more bites. I'm like, yeah, three more bites and

2007
01:38:17,320 --> 01:38:19,920
Speaker 1: you can be done eating. If you want a cookie.

2008
01:38:20,080 --> 01:38:21,360
Speaker 1: You're eating all this burger.

2009
01:38:21,479 --> 01:38:22,200
Speaker 2: That's CPC.

2010
01:38:22,560 --> 01:38:24,840
Speaker 1: You're yeah, that's how you get into the Yeah, you

2011
01:38:24,920 --> 01:38:26,960
Speaker 1: gotta be CPC. If you're gonna get a cookie.

2012
01:38:27,880 --> 01:38:30,880
Speaker 2: TBC is three bike club that don't get a cookie.

2013
01:38:30,920 --> 01:38:33,360
Speaker 1: That don't get no cookie. You can be done eating food.

2014
01:38:33,400 --> 01:38:36,960
Speaker 1: If you are fool and you're done eating food, then

2015
01:38:38,000 --> 01:38:40,439
Speaker 1: have at it. You can be done eating food. And

2016
01:38:40,479 --> 01:38:41,840
Speaker 1: she said, but I want a cookie. I was like,

2017
01:38:42,000 --> 01:38:43,880
Speaker 1: if you said you're full, then how are you gonna

2018
01:38:43,880 --> 01:38:46,439
Speaker 1: have room for a cookie? You can't you're full? You

2019
01:38:46,479 --> 01:38:48,360
Speaker 1: said you you can't eat anymore, and.

2020
01:38:48,320 --> 01:38:50,559
Speaker 2: Then her wheels are spinning a house. She's like kind

2021
01:38:50,560 --> 01:38:51,160
Speaker 2: of sitting there looking.

2022
01:38:51,200 --> 01:38:53,799
Speaker 1: I'm like, if you listen, you ate your three bytes,

2023
01:38:53,840 --> 01:38:56,720
Speaker 1: that is amazing. You can be done eating for the night.

2024
01:38:57,280 --> 01:38:58,800
Speaker 1: You can be done eating. You can hang out, you

2025
01:38:58,800 --> 01:39:00,640
Speaker 1: can go play, you do what whatever you want. But

2026
01:39:00,680 --> 01:39:03,559
Speaker 1: if you want a cookie, you're eating that plate of food.

2027
01:39:04,320 --> 01:39:07,920
Speaker 1: She goes over, knocks it out. Bro, let's go knocks

2028
01:39:07,960 --> 01:39:11,120
Speaker 1: it out. That's a dad win, Big dad win, Big

2029
01:39:11,200 --> 01:39:13,200
Speaker 1: dad up. And I walked by my wife. You see

2030
01:39:13,200 --> 01:39:15,400
Speaker 1: how Dad I handled that one.

2031
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:16,800
Speaker 2: You're up.

2032
01:39:17,040 --> 01:39:19,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, Yeah, I'm gonna go watch. I start breaking it

2033
01:39:19,840 --> 01:39:22,360
Speaker 1: down here, just like you know, psychologically in her mind,

2034
01:39:22,400 --> 01:39:24,120
Speaker 1: it's what I was telling her while you were gone.

2035
01:39:24,360 --> 01:39:26,400
Speaker 1: Sometimes she didn't want to eat any dinner. Sweet, you

2036
01:39:26,439 --> 01:39:28,840
Speaker 1: don't have to eat dinner. I'm not even I feel

2037
01:39:28,880 --> 01:39:30,559
Speaker 1: like you if you put the pressure on the kid,

2038
01:39:30,680 --> 01:39:33,479
Speaker 1: or you start stressing, which happens like again, it happens

2039
01:39:33,479 --> 01:39:35,439
Speaker 1: for me like every day. Yeah yeah, but you start

2040
01:39:35,479 --> 01:39:37,559
Speaker 1: doing that, they just start getting resistive and fighting you

2041
01:39:37,600 --> 01:39:40,040
Speaker 1: about it to where they don't end up eating. You're

2042
01:39:40,040 --> 01:39:41,680
Speaker 1: all done eating food. They haven't eat a bite of

2043
01:39:41,720 --> 01:39:43,360
Speaker 1: their plate and you're kind of just sitting there at

2044
01:39:43,400 --> 01:39:46,000
Speaker 1: the dinner table, like, sweetheart, we need you to start eating.

2045
01:39:46,320 --> 01:39:49,000
Speaker 1: She wants to play, she wants to journal. She's got

2046
01:39:49,000 --> 01:39:50,800
Speaker 1: this journal to where all she basically does is like

2047
01:39:50,840 --> 01:39:53,519
Speaker 1: scribble in between the lines. Thinks she's right, she thinks

2048
01:39:53,520 --> 01:39:57,360
Speaker 1: she's writing something. She's like, right, sweetheart, you gotta start eating.

2049
01:39:57,360 --> 01:40:02,120
Speaker 2: I'm finiching my journal. I'll finishing my journal, then I'll

2050
01:40:02,160 --> 01:40:02,639
Speaker 2: eat food.

2051
01:40:02,720 --> 01:40:07,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, you ain't even write nothing of something, just

2052
01:40:07,840 --> 01:40:09,640
Speaker 1: finish that line. I saw that journal is gonna be

2053
01:40:09,640 --> 01:40:10,759
Speaker 1: there when you're done eating food.

2054
01:40:11,000 --> 01:40:13,679
Speaker 2: We need to and also we're we're good on that,

2055
01:40:14,280 --> 01:40:18,080
Speaker 2: but we are time wise. It is n I'm thirty two.

2056
01:40:18,439 --> 01:40:22,080
Speaker 1: I texted clumpetson nine forty five for the okay, perfect for.

2057
01:40:22,080 --> 01:40:24,479
Speaker 2: The team meeting. But yeah, that's how.

2058
01:40:24,600 --> 01:40:26,639
Speaker 1: That's how that has been handling dinner time for parents

2059
01:40:26,640 --> 01:40:29,719
Speaker 1: out there looking for some techniques, looking for some strategy. Dads,

2060
01:40:29,720 --> 01:40:31,719
Speaker 1: you want to put the wife on some game, because

2061
01:40:31,760 --> 01:40:33,639
Speaker 1: after I executed that, I'm kind of tea I'm kind

2062
01:40:33,640 --> 01:40:36,320
Speaker 1: of telling Charlie like I'm like, in my brain, I

2063
01:40:36,320 --> 01:40:39,080
Speaker 1: think I'm teaching her what to do because I won't

2064
01:40:39,080 --> 01:40:40,760
Speaker 1: buy a nuger. You see how I handled that one.

2065
01:40:41,240 --> 01:40:43,479
Speaker 1: You gave her three bites. You would have gave her

2066
01:40:43,479 --> 01:40:45,760
Speaker 1: a cookie. I know you would have gave her a kikie. No,

2067
01:40:45,920 --> 01:40:47,000
Speaker 1: that ain't how we handle it.

2068
01:40:47,160 --> 01:40:49,519
Speaker 2: I would have. I would love to see Will on

2069
01:40:49,600 --> 01:40:53,720
Speaker 2: a whiteboard to just charrow. You see how I did.

2070
01:40:53,920 --> 01:40:56,240
Speaker 2: You see what's going on when we run that so

2071
01:40:56,320 --> 01:40:56,960
Speaker 2: in her brain?

2072
01:40:57,000 --> 01:40:58,680
Speaker 1: If I just tell her she doesn't want to eat

2073
01:40:58,680 --> 01:41:01,680
Speaker 1: any of her food, I just homly, all right, Hey,

2074
01:41:01,720 --> 01:41:04,360
Speaker 1: you don't eat, that's fine. You ain't getting no snacks.

2075
01:41:04,400 --> 01:41:06,920
Speaker 1: You ain't getting nothing else, No juice, no snacks, no

2076
01:41:07,040 --> 01:41:10,400
Speaker 1: TV coupon, no cookie, no nothing. If you want to

2077
01:41:10,400 --> 01:41:11,840
Speaker 1: be done eating, you don't have to eat. We can

2078
01:41:11,880 --> 01:41:12,760
Speaker 1: go get ready for bed.

2079
01:41:13,280 --> 01:41:15,800
Speaker 2: She has to think she's in control, Chara. We gotta

2080
01:41:15,840 --> 01:41:18,880
Speaker 2: let her make the mistake and learn from it. Yeah,

2081
01:41:18,880 --> 01:41:20,400
Speaker 2: and that's how we're gonna do it. Right here. Let

2082
01:41:20,439 --> 01:41:20,920
Speaker 2: me show you out.

2083
01:41:21,240 --> 01:41:23,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh you want to go to bed hungry, Go ahead,

2084
01:41:23,960 --> 01:41:26,200
Speaker 1: I promise you do your thing. You don't eat food

2085
01:41:26,479 --> 01:41:28,840
Speaker 1: that we worked, that we worked on. We've had a

2086
01:41:28,880 --> 01:41:30,599
Speaker 1: hard day. We want to just have some love and

2087
01:41:30,640 --> 01:41:32,439
Speaker 1: support here at the dinner table tonight and you don't

2088
01:41:32,439 --> 01:41:33,240
Speaker 1: want to respect that.

2089
01:41:33,400 --> 01:41:35,240
Speaker 2: Go ahead, go do your thing. Oh you just want bread.

2090
01:41:35,280 --> 01:41:36,960
Speaker 2: See how you're Tommy feels tomorrow morning.

2091
01:41:37,080 --> 01:41:40,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's just see bread. Yeah, go ahead, eat whatever

2092
01:41:40,320 --> 01:41:44,120
Speaker 1: you want, sweetheart, do your thing. Oh you want a cookie.

2093
01:41:44,680 --> 01:41:51,479
Speaker 1: That's funny. Now you're in my world. Now you had control.

2094
01:41:51,760 --> 01:41:53,599
Speaker 1: You just gave it back to me. Yeah yeah, yeah,

2095
01:41:53,600 --> 01:41:56,120
Speaker 1: you want that cookie. Come eat this plate of food, sweetheart?

2096
01:41:56,240 --> 01:41:57,880
Speaker 1: Oh my god, she though.

2097
01:41:58,520 --> 01:42:02,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we are we're we are short on time.

2098
01:42:02,280 --> 01:42:05,360
Speaker 2: We're coming up to an hour, so we can kick

2099
01:42:05,400 --> 01:42:07,920
Speaker 2: it to our topic. Quote or lesson of the week.

2100
01:42:08,400 --> 01:42:09,000
Speaker 1: Do you have one?

2101
01:42:09,320 --> 01:42:10,840
Speaker 2: I have a quote of the week.

2102
01:42:10,920 --> 01:42:11,960
Speaker 1: I have a quote as well.

2103
01:42:12,080 --> 01:42:16,160
Speaker 2: Okay, sick, do you wanna I can go? I can go.

2104
01:42:16,920 --> 01:42:19,839
Speaker 1: Rock paper scissors, rock paper scissors, rock paper scissors.

2105
01:42:19,840 --> 01:42:26,080
Speaker 2: Shoot, rock paper scissors. Shooe okay, okay, rock paper scissors. Shoot. Ooh,

2106
01:42:26,280 --> 01:42:28,280
Speaker 2: so I got you wanna go first or second? I'll

2107
01:42:28,280 --> 01:42:32,719
Speaker 2: go first? All right? Quote of the week. Oh man,

2108
01:42:32,840 --> 01:42:35,280
Speaker 2: this was really good. Okay. This comes from my dad

2109
01:42:35,360 --> 01:42:39,559
Speaker 2: Loss of like for listeners of the episodes, you know

2110
01:42:39,680 --> 01:42:43,080
Speaker 2: my big dad Loss that featured the airport for somebody

2111
01:42:43,120 --> 01:42:45,880
Speaker 2: that's new. I had maybe the biggest dad loss of

2112
01:42:45,920 --> 01:42:49,240
Speaker 2: all time, like two or three weeks ago, and let's

2113
01:42:49,280 --> 01:42:52,639
Speaker 2: just say I should have been in the doghouse for weeks.

2114
01:42:52,840 --> 01:42:55,000
Speaker 2: Jill is a very forgiving wife and we love her

2115
01:42:55,000 --> 01:42:59,759
Speaker 2: for that. During my crash out, I was saying how

2116
01:43:00,160 --> 01:43:03,599
Speaker 2: I felt very like I felt like I fall short

2117
01:43:03,920 --> 01:43:09,320
Speaker 2: a lot of the time, and that Jill doesn't think

2118
01:43:09,360 --> 01:43:15,320
Speaker 2: that I'm a good dad. Jill's my wife, and she's

2119
01:43:15,320 --> 01:43:19,120
Speaker 2: sitting there reassuring me that she thinks I'm an incredible dad.

2120
01:43:19,400 --> 01:43:24,280
Speaker 2: And then she hit me with this quote, which WiFi listeners,

2121
01:43:24,360 --> 01:43:27,960
Speaker 2: empty six ers out there, hit your hubby with this one.

2122
01:43:28,240 --> 01:43:33,200
Speaker 2: Oh man. She the next day she said, I'm sure.

2123
01:43:33,400 --> 01:43:35,880
Speaker 2: I just want you to know that when you're at work,

2124
01:43:36,120 --> 01:43:39,160
Speaker 2: me and Scarlet we talk about how much we love

2125
01:43:39,200 --> 01:43:41,920
Speaker 2: our dad and how awesome our dad is all the

2126
01:43:42,000 --> 01:43:46,320
Speaker 2: time when you aren't here. That's it. That's the quote.

2127
01:43:46,360 --> 01:43:51,160
Speaker 2: And that melted me. Melted me of just like you

2128
01:43:51,240 --> 01:43:54,519
Speaker 2: might think you're falling short, but like we talk about

2129
01:43:54,560 --> 01:43:57,120
Speaker 2: how awesome you are and how much we love you

2130
01:43:57,600 --> 01:44:00,599
Speaker 2: when you're not around. And I was just like, oh,

2131
01:44:01,240 --> 01:44:03,080
Speaker 2: I just hold onto that when I'm at work and

2132
01:44:03,120 --> 01:44:05,479
Speaker 2: I miss him. That like I have a partner that's

2133
01:44:05,520 --> 01:44:07,320
Speaker 2: sitting there just gassing me.

2134
01:44:07,400 --> 01:44:10,599
Speaker 1: Up at home, and it just juicing you up unless

2135
01:44:10,600 --> 01:44:11,640
Speaker 1: you forgot the diaper.

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01:44:11,400 --> 01:44:13,880
Speaker 2: Bag, unless I forget the But even when I forget

2137
01:44:13,960 --> 01:44:15,720
Speaker 2: the diaper bag, she's sitting there saying, you have the

2138
01:44:15,720 --> 01:44:17,720
Speaker 2: best dad in the world, which I'm just.

2139
01:44:17,760 --> 01:44:21,000
Speaker 1: Like, your dad is so awesome. Even he falls short.

2140
01:44:21,000 --> 01:44:24,240
Speaker 2: Sometimes, even he falls short, even he leaves the diaper

2141
01:44:24,240 --> 01:44:26,120
Speaker 2: bag in the car. But that that was my quote

2142
01:44:26,120 --> 01:44:26,519
Speaker 2: of the week.

2143
01:44:27,200 --> 01:44:27,800
Speaker 1: I love that.

2144
01:44:28,200 --> 01:44:28,840
Speaker 2: Think you love that.

2145
01:44:28,880 --> 01:44:31,479
Speaker 1: The tears fill the eyes again yet again. You're a

2146
01:44:31,479 --> 01:44:32,080
Speaker 1: good dude. Man.

2147
01:44:32,280 --> 01:44:36,920
Speaker 2: Hey, thank you MiG as. Are you minus six hundred?

2148
01:44:36,960 --> 01:44:39,479
Speaker 2: By the way, the odds have to be pushed.

2149
01:44:39,760 --> 01:44:42,080
Speaker 1: I think you're in plus odds. You get multiple cries,

2150
01:44:43,120 --> 01:44:44,760
Speaker 1: it's like a it's like.

2151
01:44:44,720 --> 01:44:46,639
Speaker 2: Oh sorry, sorry sorry plus six hundred.

2152
01:44:47,360 --> 01:44:48,680
Speaker 1: That's like two plus touchdowns.

2153
01:44:48,760 --> 01:44:51,360
Speaker 4: Yes, I met plus last year when christ McCaffrey was

2154
01:44:51,360 --> 01:44:54,040
Speaker 4: playing so well that people were like, well, it's mis

2155
01:44:54,080 --> 01:44:55,760
Speaker 4: two hundred for touch it might as well go two

2156
01:44:55,760 --> 01:44:57,800
Speaker 4: tuddies and yeah, twuddies.

2157
01:44:58,080 --> 01:45:00,000
Speaker 1: Yeah that is right.

2158
01:45:00,120 --> 01:45:06,040
Speaker 2: Wait is it? If there's a big likelihood of it happening,

2159
01:45:06,080 --> 01:45:11,479
Speaker 2: it would be minus six hundred, right, because like the adds.

2160
01:45:11,560 --> 01:45:12,679
Speaker 1: Right, but you did it twice.

2161
01:45:13,479 --> 01:45:15,000
Speaker 3: Oh I see, so if you.

2162
01:45:14,960 --> 01:45:18,000
Speaker 1: Took the first one, hey over under the boys?

2163
01:45:18,479 --> 01:45:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, cryer.

2164
01:45:21,720 --> 01:45:25,160
Speaker 1: Anytime the boys cry on the episode, likely very likely

2165
01:45:25,200 --> 01:45:28,840
Speaker 1: that minus six hundred you get them twice, two separate occasions.

2166
01:45:29,400 --> 01:45:31,120
Speaker 1: The odds start, you know, going down.

2167
01:45:31,240 --> 01:45:33,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. I do like that.

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01:45:33,960 --> 01:45:36,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do like that. I have a I have

2169
01:45:36,400 --> 01:45:37,200
Speaker 1: a quote as well.

2170
01:45:37,600 --> 01:45:37,960
Speaker 2: Let's go.

2171
01:45:38,200 --> 01:45:41,400
Speaker 1: One of the greatest things a father can do is

2172
01:45:41,439 --> 01:45:45,080
Speaker 1: to show his children that he, too, is still learning.

2173
01:45:45,960 --> 01:45:48,760
Speaker 1: And a couple of takeaways from that is, uh, it

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01:45:48,800 --> 01:45:52,960
Speaker 1: shows them humility over pride. So kids see that dad

2175
01:45:53,040 --> 01:45:54,800
Speaker 1: doesn't have it all figured out and it's okay, and

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01:45:54,840 --> 01:45:57,160
Speaker 1: it helps take the pressure off them of being perfect

2177
01:45:57,160 --> 01:45:58,920
Speaker 1: when they see you falling short and you kind of

2178
01:45:59,120 --> 01:46:02,240
Speaker 1: and you kind of explo laning through your shortcomings. I

2179
01:46:02,240 --> 01:46:04,200
Speaker 1: feel like it helps takes pressure off the kids because

2180
01:46:04,200 --> 01:46:07,040
Speaker 1: they see us as the superheroes, right Like anytime a

2181
01:46:07,080 --> 01:46:09,760
Speaker 1: shortcoming happens and you pull from your rolodecks of an

2182
01:46:09,800 --> 01:46:11,880
Speaker 1: experience from the past, and they're kind of like locked in,

2183
01:46:11,960 --> 01:46:14,639
Speaker 1: like oh, Daddy, you cried too, or Daddy, you've gotten

2184
01:46:14,640 --> 01:46:17,599
Speaker 1: booboos too, or you know, Rue came up last night

2185
01:46:17,640 --> 01:46:20,000
Speaker 1: when I was putting Scotty down and was kind of

2186
01:46:20,000 --> 01:46:21,720
Speaker 1: crying and I was low key. When she came in,

2187
01:46:21,760 --> 01:46:24,280
Speaker 1: I was like, damn it, Rue, because I was just

2188
01:46:24,280 --> 01:46:27,240
Speaker 1: getting Scotty to sleep and Ruke opens up the door

2189
01:46:27,520 --> 01:46:31,120
Speaker 1: and she's got like the cry noises going and she's like, Dad, Dad,

2190
01:46:31,160 --> 01:46:33,280
Speaker 1: I'm like, what is this, sweetheart? And she was like

2191
01:46:33,320 --> 01:46:34,960
Speaker 1: I need a hug. I'm like, oh, you want to

2192
01:46:35,000 --> 01:46:35,559
Speaker 1: hug Scotty.

2193
01:46:35,600 --> 01:46:37,200
Speaker 2: She's like no. I was like, oh, you need her

2194
01:46:37,200 --> 01:46:38,719
Speaker 2: from dead? Then's what's going on? What's wrong?

2195
01:46:38,760 --> 01:46:41,280
Speaker 1: And she's like, uh, I spilled water. She must have

2196
01:46:41,320 --> 01:46:44,240
Speaker 1: spilled a lot of water downstairs. And so I was

2197
01:46:44,240 --> 01:46:45,760
Speaker 1: giving her a hug and let her know it's okay

2198
01:46:45,800 --> 01:46:48,360
Speaker 1: that had spills water all the time. I promise if

2199
01:46:48,360 --> 01:46:49,800
Speaker 1: this is going to be okay, you know what, even

2200
01:46:49,840 --> 01:46:53,439
Speaker 1: Scotty Jojo she gets in Waffle's water bowl every day,

2201
01:46:53,720 --> 01:46:57,599
Speaker 1: spills water everywhere, and that's okay. I'm sure. I don't

2202
01:46:57,640 --> 01:46:59,599
Speaker 1: even know the situation that happened. I'm just saying, I'm

2203
01:46:59,600 --> 01:47:01,680
Speaker 1: sure you're trying to be perfect and try to do

2204
01:47:01,720 --> 01:47:05,400
Speaker 1: something nice and spilled and it's gonna be Okay, so

2205
01:47:05,439 --> 01:47:08,720
Speaker 1: that whole humility over pride perspective. It also teaches that

2206
01:47:08,760 --> 01:47:11,840
Speaker 1: growth is lifelong. They learn that growth doesn't stop, whether

2207
01:47:11,840 --> 01:47:16,720
Speaker 1: it's after school, if they're older, after work, after any

2208
01:47:16,720 --> 01:47:19,479
Speaker 1: big moment in life, that growth is lifelong, that you're

2209
01:47:19,479 --> 01:47:22,719
Speaker 1: always staying curious, you're always trying to figure out ways

2210
01:47:22,760 --> 01:47:26,720
Speaker 1: to get better. And then the third thing is modeling curiosity.

2211
01:47:26,840 --> 01:47:29,559
Speaker 1: Children imitate more than they listen. They see us like

2212
01:47:29,640 --> 01:47:34,080
Speaker 1: seeking wisdom, reading, learning through a failure, struggling of falling

2213
01:47:34,120 --> 01:47:38,320
Speaker 1: short at times, loving on mom like you're modeling this behavior.

2214
01:47:40,560 --> 01:47:45,600
Speaker 1: Because here's something else I found. I came across that

2215
01:47:45,640 --> 01:47:47,960
Speaker 1: it feels like ties the bow on this one, ok.

2216
01:47:48,120 --> 01:47:51,320
Speaker 1: And that every parent should want should remember that one

2217
01:47:51,400 --> 01:47:56,719
Speaker 1: day our kids will follow our example and not our advice.

2218
01:47:58,360 --> 01:48:00,400
Speaker 1: So we can have all of the words the world,

2219
01:48:00,439 --> 01:48:03,040
Speaker 1: We can have all of the great you know, whatever

2220
01:48:03,080 --> 01:48:05,800
Speaker 1: it is one liners, or if they do something wrong

2221
01:48:05,840 --> 01:48:07,760
Speaker 1: and you're kind of telling them what they should be doing,

2222
01:48:07,840 --> 01:48:10,479
Speaker 1: or you're always giving them solutions and not like being

2223
01:48:10,479 --> 01:48:12,759
Speaker 1: in the problem with them, if you're always just talking

2224
01:48:12,800 --> 01:48:14,960
Speaker 1: at them and you're not modeling this behavior, you're not

2225
01:48:15,080 --> 01:48:18,439
Speaker 1: modeling these examples, you know, the words that'll that'll go

2226
01:48:18,560 --> 01:48:20,040
Speaker 1: through one of year out the other. But if they

2227
01:48:20,040 --> 01:48:22,920
Speaker 1: see you modeling this stuff too, that it's okay to

2228
01:48:22,920 --> 01:48:25,479
Speaker 1: not be perfect, that us that we are, we are

2229
01:48:25,520 --> 01:48:29,439
Speaker 1: also still learning in our superhero form, to them that

2230
01:48:29,520 --> 01:48:31,640
Speaker 1: it gives them the courage to do the same, like

2231
01:48:31,720 --> 01:48:33,439
Speaker 1: as they get older, as they grow, like when they're

2232
01:48:33,439 --> 01:48:37,120
Speaker 1: in their own sticky situations. But yeah, that was my quote.

2233
01:48:37,280 --> 01:48:39,439
Speaker 1: I love that was a quote. Dad lesson on it,

2234
01:48:40,400 --> 01:48:42,520
Speaker 1: thoughts on it.

2235
01:48:41,800 --> 01:48:44,680
Speaker 2: To apply quickly to my own life. Just in adulthood.

2236
01:48:45,120 --> 01:48:48,640
Speaker 2: There are multiple situations where I think to myself, not

2237
01:48:48,880 --> 01:48:51,559
Speaker 2: a shot in hell my dad would do that, Like

2238
01:48:51,600 --> 01:48:54,920
Speaker 2: when I'm pressed up on a situation of oh, here's

2239
01:48:54,960 --> 01:48:58,280
Speaker 2: the easy way of you could do this, and I

2240
01:48:58,479 --> 01:49:00,720
Speaker 2: just imagine my mom or my dad would be like,

2241
01:49:01,080 --> 01:49:04,439
Speaker 2: no way they would do that. So even to this day,

2242
01:49:04,600 --> 01:49:08,240
Speaker 2: like that you like followed their example or like what

2243
01:49:08,280 --> 01:49:13,439
Speaker 2: that creation of morality or decision making that you have

2244
01:49:13,640 --> 01:49:16,320
Speaker 2: pictured of your parent, Like here at thirty two years old,

2245
01:49:16,360 --> 01:49:20,160
Speaker 2: I'm still sitting there going, no, I'm not gonna do

2246
01:49:20,240 --> 01:49:21,920
Speaker 2: that because there's no way my dad.

2247
01:49:21,800 --> 01:49:24,559
Speaker 1: Would do that. Yeah, No, I agree, even on the

2248
01:49:24,600 --> 01:49:28,320
Speaker 1: stuff that the behaviors that we would grow up seeing

2249
01:49:28,439 --> 01:49:31,400
Speaker 1: or witnessing that we wouldn't necessarily want to put into

2250
01:49:31,439 --> 01:49:36,040
Speaker 1: our bag of parenthood. Or if you don't realize you're

2251
01:49:36,040 --> 01:49:39,080
Speaker 1: doing it, Like maybe this is going to be a

2252
01:49:39,080 --> 01:49:41,760
Speaker 1: broken way of trying to explain this, But let's just

2253
01:49:41,800 --> 01:49:46,680
Speaker 1: say subconsciously, you had you saw a bad model of

2254
01:49:46,720 --> 01:49:50,559
Speaker 1: behavior from your parents growing up, right, and then you're

2255
01:49:50,880 --> 01:49:53,080
Speaker 1: then a parent one day and maybe you're not doing

2256
01:49:53,120 --> 01:49:55,120
Speaker 1: the best job, and you might not even realize that

2257
01:49:55,160 --> 01:49:57,639
Speaker 1: you think you are, but everybody's on you, and you're

2258
01:49:57,720 --> 01:50:01,240
Speaker 1: kind of just projecting all this stuff and realistically, like

2259
01:50:01,439 --> 01:50:05,439
Speaker 1: you're just thinking you're modeling, you're subconsciously modeling the behavior

2260
01:50:05,479 --> 01:50:08,080
Speaker 1: that you saw growing up. So where there's some you know,

2261
01:50:08,160 --> 01:50:10,400
Speaker 1: probably some therapy sessions or some things that you need

2262
01:50:10,439 --> 01:50:12,080
Speaker 1: to look like cool see in the mirror to forgive

2263
01:50:12,120 --> 01:50:16,040
Speaker 1: your parents for or to like learn from that, you realize,

2264
01:50:16,080 --> 01:50:18,600
Speaker 1: like you're just modeling that behavior. So I think it

2265
01:50:18,680 --> 01:50:21,680
Speaker 1: goes like both ways, one hundred great examples of how

2266
01:50:21,680 --> 01:50:24,280
Speaker 1: your parents would handle it, and even subconsciously, like when

2267
01:50:24,320 --> 01:50:27,479
Speaker 1: you think you're you know, when you're you're not doing

2268
01:50:27,520 --> 01:50:29,720
Speaker 1: the best, you don't even know that you're not doing

2269
01:50:29,720 --> 01:50:31,760
Speaker 1: the best. But if you actually sit down and sit

2270
01:50:31,840 --> 01:50:34,160
Speaker 1: with yourself, like say you're sitting there with the therapist

2271
01:50:34,360 --> 01:50:35,920
Speaker 1: and then you're coming to grips or you're coming to

2272
01:50:36,000 --> 01:50:38,599
Speaker 1: Jesus about like you know, the way you are being,

2273
01:50:38,640 --> 01:50:41,479
Speaker 1: and you realize it's a lot of a seed that

2274
01:50:41,560 --> 01:50:43,120
Speaker 1: was planted when you were young, a lot of things

2275
01:50:43,160 --> 01:50:46,000
Speaker 1: that you witnessed that wasn't good for you or good

2276
01:50:46,000 --> 01:50:47,519
Speaker 1: for your soul that you're not even aware that it

2277
01:50:47,560 --> 01:50:49,960
Speaker 1: wasn't good for your soul. But you're learning that you've

2278
01:50:49,960 --> 01:50:52,720
Speaker 1: been projecting all this out into the world, and you

2279
01:50:52,760 --> 01:50:54,479
Speaker 1: know that's when the tears come and you start to

2280
01:50:54,520 --> 01:50:57,280
Speaker 1: forgive yourself and all these things start to happen. But again,

2281
01:50:57,600 --> 01:51:00,360
Speaker 1: you're just modeling behavior that you saw growing up. Because

2282
01:51:00,360 --> 01:51:02,800
Speaker 1: a lot of people, majority of people come from not

2283
01:51:03,040 --> 01:51:04,080
Speaker 1: great situations.

2284
01:51:04,160 --> 01:51:04,960
Speaker 2: Yeah you know what I mean.

2285
01:51:05,000 --> 01:51:08,360
Speaker 1: We all have experiences with our parents at one time

2286
01:51:08,439 --> 01:51:11,840
Speaker 1: or another to where it's like, you know, this is

2287
01:51:11,880 --> 01:51:13,920
Speaker 1: not a behavior you want to have, Like it's the

2288
01:51:13,960 --> 01:51:15,800
Speaker 1: whole saying of like you want to be better than

2289
01:51:15,840 --> 01:51:18,240
Speaker 1: your parents, or your parents they want you to be

2290
01:51:18,240 --> 01:51:21,720
Speaker 1: better than them too. But those generational curses that you

2291
01:51:21,800 --> 01:51:24,440
Speaker 1: think are curses, But really it's just you're just remodeling

2292
01:51:24,479 --> 01:51:27,200
Speaker 1: behavior that you thought you that you thought you had

2293
01:51:27,240 --> 01:51:28,720
Speaker 1: to do, that you witness growing up.

2294
01:51:29,080 --> 01:51:33,320
Speaker 2: Yes, which is innate in like most mammals like that,

2295
01:51:34,280 --> 01:51:37,920
Speaker 2: behaving like your parents. Yeah, like that is a it

2296
01:51:38,000 --> 01:51:40,680
Speaker 2: is deep seated in us. Yeah, like that is a

2297
01:51:40,720 --> 01:51:45,800
Speaker 2: normal thing. But to your point, like those things can't

2298
01:51:45,800 --> 01:51:51,240
Speaker 2: be broken, those things can be identified and eliminated from

2299
01:51:51,280 --> 01:51:53,920
Speaker 2: your bag of shortcomings.

2300
01:51:54,000 --> 01:51:57,000
Speaker 1: Yeah. Great, example is just a buddy calling in and saying,

2301
01:51:57,000 --> 01:51:59,639
Speaker 1: like when he saw three year old drawing on the wall,

2302
01:51:59,680 --> 01:52:02,000
Speaker 1: and he's like, I wanted to react, and maybe he didn't. Maybe,

2303
01:52:02,120 --> 01:52:05,880
Speaker 1: like you know, but just use that example. If he

2304
01:52:05,960 --> 01:52:09,320
Speaker 1: grew up in a household to where you're correcting bad

2305
01:52:09,400 --> 01:52:13,519
Speaker 1: behavior in a like a verbally negative way, you might

2306
01:52:13,600 --> 01:52:16,400
Speaker 1: not know any different. You think you're parenting the way

2307
01:52:16,680 --> 01:52:18,640
Speaker 1: you know how to parent. Everybody else's so off you

2308
01:52:18,680 --> 01:52:20,920
Speaker 1: need to be harder on your kids when really it's

2309
01:52:20,920 --> 01:52:22,720
Speaker 1: just a three year old riding on the wall. But

2310
01:52:22,800 --> 01:52:25,200
Speaker 1: in that moment, say he was somebody who grew up

2311
01:52:25,200 --> 01:52:28,559
Speaker 1: in a bad model behavior household, he's wanting to react,

2312
01:52:28,600 --> 01:52:31,720
Speaker 1: but maybe in that moment he's intentionally grabbing himself like

2313
01:52:32,000 --> 01:52:33,920
Speaker 1: this is a generational curse that I'm starting to break.

2314
01:52:34,000 --> 01:52:35,920
Speaker 1: This is a three year old scribbling on the wall, Like,

2315
01:52:36,000 --> 01:52:37,439
Speaker 1: let me just ask her, hey, what are you doing?

2316
01:52:37,479 --> 01:52:38,320
Speaker 2: Anditate you with that.

2317
01:52:38,520 --> 01:52:42,599
Speaker 1: It wasn't me, it was John Cen. But it's moments

2318
01:52:42,640 --> 01:52:44,000
Speaker 1: like that. Yeah, you know what I mean that you

2319
01:52:44,000 --> 01:52:46,519
Speaker 1: can just take from an easy example of this could

2320
01:52:46,520 --> 01:52:49,360
Speaker 1: go that way because the parent doesn't know any different.

2321
01:52:49,360 --> 01:52:51,000
Speaker 1: He thinks this is how you have to correct this

2322
01:52:51,080 --> 01:52:53,960
Speaker 1: behavior of drawing on the wall. But really you're scaring

2323
01:52:54,000 --> 01:52:55,680
Speaker 1: them and everything else because they're just a three year

2324
01:52:55,680 --> 01:52:57,960
Speaker 1: old and they have no clue what they're doing. But

2325
01:52:58,000 --> 01:53:00,040
Speaker 1: if you're that dad who like, who's frustrated, But you

2326
01:53:00,040 --> 01:53:01,800
Speaker 1: can just grab yourself in the moment to be like,

2327
01:53:02,080 --> 01:53:03,960
Speaker 1: you know, hopefully you're in a good mood about it,

2328
01:53:04,000 --> 01:53:07,680
Speaker 1: but if not, you grab yourself and intentionally think she

2329
01:53:07,760 --> 01:53:08,719
Speaker 1: doesn't know what she's doing.

2330
01:53:08,920 --> 01:53:11,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, where we doing it? Yeah?

2331
01:53:12,439 --> 01:53:14,840
Speaker 1: Why you get the markers out right now? That's permanent marker.

2332
01:53:15,280 --> 01:53:17,320
Speaker 2: This is called the permanent marker. And this over here

2333
01:53:17,400 --> 01:53:18,120
Speaker 2: that's called the wall.

2334
01:53:18,360 --> 01:53:20,519
Speaker 1: Yeah you wanna yeah, yeah, you wanna know what I'm

2335
01:53:20,520 --> 01:53:22,040
Speaker 1: gonna have to make up to fall on the sword

2336
01:53:22,040 --> 01:53:22,519
Speaker 1: for your mother.

2337
01:53:25,520 --> 01:53:25,960
Speaker 2: White board.

2338
01:53:26,360 --> 01:53:27,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, sweet, I didn't have a white board. Like I'm

2339
01:53:27,960 --> 01:53:31,840
Speaker 1: gonna have to make this make sense somehow. What made

2340
01:53:31,880 --> 01:53:32,920
Speaker 1: you think this is a good idea.

2341
01:53:32,920 --> 01:53:33,200
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2342
01:53:33,280 --> 01:53:34,760
Speaker 1: I was having fun with the girls. I'll fall on

2343
01:53:34,800 --> 01:53:37,479
Speaker 1: the sword for you. For the love of God, we

2344
01:53:37,520 --> 01:53:38,639
Speaker 1: can't be coloring on the wall.

2345
01:53:38,880 --> 01:53:42,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. I hate to cut it, cut a short, but

2346
01:53:42,520 --> 01:53:44,760
Speaker 2: we we do have to wrap up. Yeah, we gotta

2347
01:53:44,760 --> 01:53:49,559
Speaker 2: wrap up. Good soud bald bi great bald brigade, bald

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01:53:49,600 --> 01:53:54,320
Speaker 2: but grant bald brigade. That is hard to say. Bald brigade.

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01:53:55,840 --> 01:53:57,240
Speaker 2: We dad shaved.

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01:53:58,360 --> 01:54:01,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, God get the head shaped October October after engagement

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01:54:01,840 --> 01:54:07,240
Speaker 1: photos for Derek. We'll get you, right, Chef, Papa Team

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01:54:07,240 --> 01:54:10,320
Speaker 1: six signed off. Make sure your trash are taken out

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01:54:10,360 --> 01:54:13,000
Speaker 1: and leave comments again. You want to be featured on

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01:54:13,040 --> 01:54:15,680
Speaker 1: the show, Just drop comments. Just get in the community.

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01:54:15,880 --> 01:54:19,559
Speaker 1: The community is awesome. Engage with each other. Papa Team

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01:54:19,600 --> 01:54:22,519
Speaker 1: six is growing. Yep, and we are fired. The hell up.

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01:54:22,600 --> 01:54:23,080
Speaker 2: We're fired.

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01:54:23,120 --> 01:54:23,559
Speaker 1: The hell up.

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Speaker 2: Drop a little wolf, Yeah, Troup a little Wolf.