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Speaker 1: The Jewels Show on demand. Jebils dirty little Secret. It's

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Speaker 1: time for your dirty little secret. So somebody's on the phone.

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Speaker 1: We don't know their name because everybody stays anonymous. So hello,

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Speaker 1: how are you? Hello? You? Hey? You? Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 1: When you it's like when you forget somebody's name, you're like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you been to say hey, how's it going? Yeah? So

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Speaker 1: how are you on the phone? You? I'm doing good,

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Speaker 1: you guys. So what's your dirty little secret? My dirty

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Speaker 1: little secret is that my parents have announced to the

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Speaker 1: entire family that they're actually getting a divorce. And while

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Speaker 1: everybody has been in the room crying and they've all

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Speaker 1: been like putting their emotions on Facebook and this and that,

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Speaker 1: I actually have been celebrating. I cannot be happier that

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Speaker 1: they've finally decided to do what they needed to do

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Speaker 1: years ago. All right, so you're happy your parents are

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Speaker 1: getting a divorce, you could get So many people need

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Speaker 1: to be married, that's true. There's so many people that

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Speaker 1: do need to break up. I mean, everybody looks at

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Speaker 1: divorced like it's a bad thing. Um, if you're in

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Speaker 1: a relationship, you shouldn't be and you should get out

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Speaker 1: and especially if there's kids involved a lot of times

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Speaker 1: and they're younger kids, people are like, we stay together

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Speaker 1: for the kids. That's actually worse for the kid, is

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Speaker 1: it actually really is? Me as a kid, though, I

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Speaker 1: would want my parents to say together even if it

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Speaker 1: wasn't going great. Yeah, But you don't know that though,

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Speaker 1: because it was great, so you had to be happy.

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Speaker 1: A kid who's with two parents where it's not great, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: causes issues, it does, and then it causes issues for

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Speaker 1: you because you think that it's okay to be in

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Speaker 1: those type of relationships. But when I was three years old,

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Speaker 1: my parents got divorced, and I could it was definitely

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Speaker 1: the best thing that they could have done, and I

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Speaker 1: think it would be super weird if they stayed together.

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Speaker 1: But years back, like twelve years ago, my dad came over.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't live near me, so he came over and

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Speaker 1: I had at the time, I had a young daughter

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Speaker 1: and we went to the carnival and my mom is

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Speaker 1: usually with me all the time, so invited him there. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: he thought I was trying to get them back together.

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Speaker 1: Oh really. I was on a ride with my daughter Bella,

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Speaker 1: and I thought it was super weird that I saw

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Speaker 1: my parents together for the first time in a really

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Speaker 1: long time. As I took a picture of my dad

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Speaker 1: that I was gonna that I was trying to hook

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Speaker 1: him back up. No wait, did he like cool you

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Speaker 1: out about it? No, he just pretty much like got

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Speaker 1: really weird and left. He drove two hours and then

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Speaker 1: was there for fifteen minutes and left PTSD. I'm like, dad, No, No,

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Speaker 1: I just thought it was that you guys were standing

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Speaker 1: next to each other for the first time in like

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Speaker 1: two twenty years. I don't know, to see, sometimes getting

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Speaker 1: divorced can actually be a good thing. Alex realized, like

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Speaker 1: her parents would stay together, wouldn't be bad. Mine didn't

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Speaker 1: get divorced, should have And look at me, I'm a

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Speaker 1: ball of weirdness sometimes and anxiety and all the other

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Speaker 1: stuff I have, and it is all due to that mostly.

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Speaker 1: So I think that, yeah, we just need to as

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Speaker 1: a society start realizing, Hey, sometimes people shouldn't be together, dude,

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Speaker 1: they should break up and relationships can actually be happy anyway.

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Speaker 1: So why are you so excited that your parents are

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Speaker 1: getting divorced? Well, everything you guys just mentioned that these

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Speaker 1: two people just should not be together. I'm telling you, Like,

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Speaker 1: I've already noticed my dad, Like we share the same computer.

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Speaker 1: He's already talking to other people. Oh god, what did

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Speaker 1: you tell you? I didn't tell my mom because I

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Speaker 1: don't want to be the person. But they both know,

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Speaker 1: Like they don't even sleep in the same bed. My

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Speaker 1: dad sleeps in the basement and my mom sleeps all

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Speaker 1: the way. It's theirs. I don't see the same as

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Speaker 1: my husband, and we have a girl relationship. That's another

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Speaker 1: thing too. You don't have to sleep in the same

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Speaker 1: bed to be happy. That's another weird relationship thing that

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Speaker 1: everyone's like, Oh, man, relationships over, you know, sleep in

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Speaker 1: the bed actually, And like since Alex and I stopped

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Speaker 1: sleeping in the same bed at night because I snore

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Speaker 1: really loud. I also don't sleep very well, so I'm

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Speaker 1: up and down, awake and like talking to imaginary people

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Speaker 1: in my sleep or whatever. And Alex I like her

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Speaker 1: to get sleep and it's tough her to sleep next

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Speaker 1: to me. Sure, so I go sleep on the floor.

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Speaker 1: On the floor, I'm more comfortable. There's a ton of

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Speaker 1: places you can sleep. It's not like we don't have

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Speaker 1: another bed. There's a few different beds. But like I said, thanks,

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Speaker 1: Mom and dad. That is weird. Yeah, so I just

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Speaker 1: sleep in random places in the house like a cat.

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Speaker 1: So anyway, but like since Alex and I talked about that,

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Speaker 1: we meet other couples that are like that are like, woh, dude,

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Speaker 1: it's the best. Were sleep in different rooms too. We

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Speaker 1: both sleep great and we get up and we're not

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Speaker 1: like tired. And no wonder how many trust are ashamed

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Speaker 1: of saying that they sleep apart but have gretlations don't

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Speaker 1: be ashamed of it. I don't know why I would

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Speaker 1: be ashamed I think of saying it. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm very like traditional that we have to back it up,

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Speaker 1: but we haven't. You know, it's just because he's snars, Like, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: you do have to explain it. It's because he's snores.

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Speaker 1: And then also he likes to sleep in cupboards and

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Speaker 1: I don't. It's not my fa Yeah, well, congratulations, I'm

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Speaker 1: getting it. And your parents getting a divorce, I guess

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Speaker 1: throw a party. Yeah, we'll be a good job parents party.

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