WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Happy Shamaversary 

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<v Speaker 1>Second, Dad, what happens if you meet someone on a

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<v Speaker 1>dating app and you find out that both of you

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<v Speaker 1>have been in the dating pool for way too long?

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<v Speaker 1>It's wrong with you. Yeah, that's when you need to

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<v Speaker 1>mix it up, like one of our listeners, Wayne did recently. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>did he suggest both of them dress up as their

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<v Speaker 1>favorite power ranger and meet in front of the police station. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's actually really fun. He didn't do that, but it

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<v Speaker 1>would have been a fantastic idea. Yeah, yeah, said he

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<v Speaker 1>went a different direction, and now he says he's living

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<v Speaker 1>with a medium amount of regret. Okay, I feel like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Most adults live that way. But at night, Wayne, only

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<v Speaker 1>a ninety percent chance you're going to regret asking us

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<v Speaker 1>for help today. So welcome to the show, and I

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<v Speaker 1>must stay. Yeah, I am having some regrets. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>started as a good idea. We'll get to your questionable

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<v Speaker 1>idea and just a second, but first, tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>the girl that you went out with. Who's she? And Isabella? Ok? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And from Jeffrey's description, it sounds like, I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you're a little exhausted from online dating. Oh definitely? Okay, Well, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, do you still have hope going into a

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<v Speaker 1>first date with someone when you're just tired of it all.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a sliver of hope. Yeah, but it's like,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, give me a reason. So tell us about

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<v Speaker 1>what you wanted to do with Isabella. Oh yeah, so Isabella,

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<v Speaker 1>you know a couple of weeks you're chatting and that

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<v Speaker 1>really awesome conversations. Okay, like talked about our favorite candy

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<v Speaker 1>and like our top three? Yeah, what is your favorite candy?

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<v Speaker 1>Kidding easy? ESA's pieces? Okay, interesting? Does your first date

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<v Speaker 1>have to do with like a candy shop or something? No,

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<v Speaker 1>but kind of like a game. Well, basically we had

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<v Speaker 1>so many fun conference station and she was like, it

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<v Speaker 1>never translates into a good first date. And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just skip the first date then, and you can

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<v Speaker 1>pretend like it's our second or third date. Oh okay,

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<v Speaker 1>can you do that? I like that. Yeah, you can

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<v Speaker 1>do that. You can act like you remember last time

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<v Speaker 1>when we talk about why are you telling me the

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<v Speaker 1>story again? You tell me we're getting along so well?

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<v Speaker 1>And she was like, well, what have we pretended it

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<v Speaker 1>was our one year anniversary? Whoa sir? You're like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>jump right to the divorce Star. It's been one year,

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<v Speaker 1>you still won't sleep with me? Wait? Were you into

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<v Speaker 1>that idea? You know? Yeah? I was like, why not?

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<v Speaker 1>What have we got to lose it this rate? And

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<v Speaker 1>you may get a free dessert out of it from

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<v Speaker 1>the restaurant, you know, whenever they know it's an anniversary. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what'd you end up doing? So we made a

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<v Speaker 1>reservation for a one year anniversary and I ordered actually

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<v Speaker 1>a bottle champagne and oh you're a good boyfriend. After

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<v Speaker 1>a whole year. We had to put out flowers with

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<v Speaker 1>a card. Oh yeah, one year down forever to go.

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<v Speaker 1>I legit, want to steal this one year down Forever

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<v Speaker 1>to Go? That was the card? Yeah, yeah, wow romantic.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she think that's funny or did it feel like

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<v Speaker 1>too much to her? Because it You really took this

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<v Speaker 1>too like a serious level. You owned it when we met,

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<v Speaker 1>like we had like happy one year like anniversary jokes,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know she was into it. Two, she came

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<v Speaker 1>with a present for me, which I wasn't Yeah, present

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<v Speaker 1>was a fake coupe on the book that's really yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah it was kind of like that. But two cars

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<v Speaker 1>our catotic except free hug. It was like hug yourself

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<v Speaker 1>or to the laundry yourself. Oh oh, that's more like

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<v Speaker 1>the ten year anniversary. She sounds really funny. Did you

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<v Speaker 1>guys laugh a lot on your date? Yeah, the first

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<v Speaker 1>like fifteen twenty minutes of the dinner pretty funk. Then

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<v Speaker 1>it got a little serious. Oh serious, probably with me.

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<v Speaker 1>I was too into it, took it too far because

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<v Speaker 1>I started kind of telling her who she can be

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<v Speaker 1>friends with, you know, like I don't actually know oney

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<v Speaker 1>were friends, so I was kind of making it up.

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<v Speaker 1>You turned into the boyfriend that she wants to dump

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<v Speaker 1>as well. Yeah, friends don't like when the hell hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>told her don't hang around Brook because she's a wet

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<v Speaker 1>blanket about your date? Idea so terrible. You know, Lane's

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<v Speaker 1>a bad influence she you know, like, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if she meant what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's Lane or what? Because there is no Lane? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>toxic boyfriend? Yeah, like what happened to the romantic guy

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<v Speaker 1>that she was dating? You know, fake dating? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I had to fix in a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>real fake life. Dude, That's exactly why she's not calling you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you have to create some fake lows to enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>those fake highs in your relationship. You don't put up

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<v Speaker 1>with that type of crap in a relationship. You can

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<v Speaker 1>single long enough, he has to do something. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>surprised anymore. Maybe there's a reason. Yeah, was that it

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<v Speaker 1>was there more to the day. Yeah, it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>got worse, perhaps because then we kind of shifted in

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<v Speaker 1>a topic of how to discipline you know, our kids. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't even have kids. No, we don't have kids now,

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<v Speaker 1>but in the one anniversary world, it's normal to talk about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, how would you discipline kids? Yeah, you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>see eye to eye on how to parent your fake children.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we were disagreeing a lot about that, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said something about my mom being overbearing. Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean how much longer did you guys last after that? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it was hard coming out of like the

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<v Speaker 1>overbearing mom thing. It got a little awkward. It just

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a idea all right, man. Well, it's sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you had a couple hiccups on the date, very tiny ones.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're every relationship goes through these moments before they

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<v Speaker 1>find they're like striped. Isn't that right, Brooke, really not

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<v Speaker 1>on the first date, but on the one year anniversary. Sense,

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<v Speaker 1>So we're gonna play a song, We're gonna come back.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call your girlfriend of one year, Isabella, and

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna see if we can get her to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you one more time. Okay, I would hold

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<v Speaker 1>on second. Jose keeps telling me off the air that

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna steal this date idea I am, even though

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<v Speaker 1>the girl clearly isn't calling back after it. Well, it

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<v Speaker 1>ended in total disaster, But it's so funny. Woman in

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<v Speaker 1>the room mad at each other. If a girl isn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back, Jose, usually that's a bad sign, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's just like, how much fun could you have

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<v Speaker 1>imagining your one year anniversary? He take arguments he just

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<v Speaker 1>wants to be in a relationship. But we're talking about

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<v Speaker 1>one of our listeners, Wayne, who just went out on

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<v Speaker 1>the date with someone named Isabella, and on their first date,

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<v Speaker 1>they pretended that it was their one year anniversary, so

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<v Speaker 1>they set it all up with champagne and flowers at

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant. But Wayne thinks he may have over committed

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<v Speaker 1>to the character when he made some jokey comments about

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<v Speaker 1>who Isabella can and can't hang out with and how

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<v Speaker 1>they are going to parent their future non existent children

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<v Speaker 1>someday down the road. It's fake, guys. I know, Wayne,

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<v Speaker 1>why did you go with controlling boyfriend as your persona? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I wasn't really thinking I was doing

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<v Speaker 1>controlling boyfriend. I was just thinking, you know, one year

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<v Speaker 1>you have these little a now telling someone who they

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<v Speaker 1>can't can't hang out with? It is very controlling. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean I was just looking out for lanes of bad influence,

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, I was not a great lane in my life. Guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny. Didn't your husband buy you a dish rack

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<v Speaker 1>on your one year anniversary? It's true, Yeah, but he

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<v Speaker 1>never tried to tell me who I couldn't couldn't hang

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<v Speaker 1>get the kitchen and do'll get the water all over

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<v Speaker 1>the counter, hanging out with mister clean. So I can't

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<v Speaker 1>turn out any worse than that, right, Wayne, Let's just

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<v Speaker 1>call Isabella and here we go. I'm gonna tell Isabella,

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<v Speaker 1>let's do this. Hello. Hey is this Isabella? Yes, she

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Isabella. My name is jeff from a radio show

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<v Speaker 1>called Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Okay, like that, Sash.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why you're really funny, Isabella already Hi, Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>this is the whole Morning show. Um, that's Brooke. You

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<v Speaker 1>probably know they're social media handle Brook Fox Fox, Yeah, sure,

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<v Speaker 1>jose at Hilarious, jose on Everything, Yeah, and then Alexis

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<v Speaker 1>at Alexis Fuller. I don't follow you, guys. We're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling because of social media. Just see. We're doing a

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<v Speaker 1>dating segment on this show asking about somebody that you

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<v Speaker 1>went out with recently named Wayne. Oh oh, was that

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<v Speaker 1>a good You want to know, Well, we want to

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<v Speaker 1>know what you thought about your date because we've heard

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about it from Wayne, but we'd like

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<v Speaker 1>to get your perspective on it. Was it? Was it

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<v Speaker 1>good dancing? I mean I think it was a really

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<v Speaker 1>clever idea of mine. Oh yeah, did do the one

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<v Speaker 1>year anniversary thing? Yeah? Yeah, we love that. Can you

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<v Speaker 1>tell Brook what an amazing idea of that day was.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like she doesn't believe that people can have

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<v Speaker 1>fun doing that. I'm not saying it didn't sound fun.

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<v Speaker 1>It just you know, I don't know, it depends on

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<v Speaker 1>what you think, Like, did you think it was fun?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it started out pretty fun because like it

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<v Speaker 1>was silly and just like, yeah, we already know each other,

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<v Speaker 1>we've known each other for a year or whatever. But

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<v Speaker 1>then like I don't know, we're talking about her family

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<v Speaker 1>and there was like this weird moment where I made

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<v Speaker 1>this joke about his mom being overbearing and stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a pretty stereotypical mother in law joke. Like absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>but his response to that was like, are you sure

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<v Speaker 1>you want to eat that pasta? Like I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to live along and helping lives and I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if that could be something that's a part of your diet.

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<v Speaker 1>Blah blah. Already told you about the friend thing too,

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<v Speaker 1>Like why is he doing or does he have kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a point if he wants you to live long

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<v Speaker 1>in it? I mean, if he really cared about oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, that is red. But then he like he

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<v Speaker 1>like brought up this person I can't even remember name,

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<v Speaker 1>but like he brought up this person because it's made

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<v Speaker 1>up or whatever, but he was like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>you seeing her anymore. It's a bad influence for you,

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<v Speaker 1>and blah blah blah, and like yeah that it was

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<v Speaker 1>made up, but like I kind of a red flag

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<v Speaker 1>for me. Yeah, I would have a lar Bell's going

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<v Speaker 1>off left and right, Like, wait, I don't understand. You

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<v Speaker 1>made a joke about his mom being overbearing. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a stereotypical joke, right, Oh, why is that okay?

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<v Speaker 1>Because he's not talking about who he is as a person.

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<v Speaker 1>She's not talking about who she is as a person.

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<v Speaker 1>Did I just say something? It wasn't a real person? Okay, Uh, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Wayne, Isabella. He just jumped in the conversation person Isabella.

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<v Speaker 1>We were we were in it together for one year anniversary.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what are you talking about my mom?

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<v Speaker 1>Even though she is very overbearing, you don't know her

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<v Speaker 1>hit a nail on the head. Huh, you're not listening

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<v Speaker 1>like you're saying about the mom. And then you completely

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<v Speaker 1>changed around onto me and something about me as a person,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's like that didn't really hit well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we weren't. We were joking about our family, and then

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<v Speaker 1>suddenly you started telling me that I shouldn't eat Costa Like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>family joking is okay, but talking about food that crosses

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<v Speaker 1>the water, you don't talk what they can or canny

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<v Speaker 1>can can't hang out with it if it's for your

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<v Speaker 1>safety and health. And no, she's not child, You're not

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<v Speaker 1>your dad, Like get out of here. And why do

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<v Speaker 1>you think boyfriends act that way? Like if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>even if you're just pretending, and like pasta isn't even

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<v Speaker 1>bad for you? Like what are you what are you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>You're basically just feeding into the stereotype that carbs make

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<v Speaker 1>you fat, and I'm fat, like need it? Like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was coming from the health perspective and anything about

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<v Speaker 1>you want to have a healthy long sposor's life together

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<v Speaker 1>all the girls. No, no, I mean it'd be one

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<v Speaker 1>thing if you said don't smoke, you know, like sure,

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<v Speaker 1>what's wrong with smoking? Yeah? My cigarettes? You're telling me

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<v Speaker 1>what I can and can't do you get her, Jeff?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean if it wasn't there wouldn't be the freak out.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it seems like a big freak out over

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<v Speaker 1>one thing. Is that all that it was? He made

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<v Speaker 1>a bad joke about what she can and can't eat

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<v Speaker 1>in a fake scenario. A lot of the it was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of the making opti stuff, which which you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like there was one where he was talking about like

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<v Speaker 1>our kids and disciplining our kids. I was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>if we're just dating on a one year anniversary, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not something that you usually talk about, is disciplining your

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<v Speaker 1>children if you haven't even talked about wanting to have

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<v Speaker 1>kids yet? And I was like, all right, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>get what are you talking about. We already talked about

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<v Speaker 1>having kids at our six months mark. You forgot that conversation, Isabella.

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<v Speaker 1>My guys, that conversation maybe happened with another girl. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, hotter situation than this. He's not funny, Like, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>come on, man, it's like foreshadowing. Just a crappy relationship,

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<v Speaker 1>is what you were doing? Like Brook, she's just against

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. Yeah, way emailed us for help, remember that, Brook? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this date idea was all her idea to pretend to

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<v Speaker 1>be like a couple a year into a relationship. But

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<v Speaker 1>also your pretend European vacation. You have that he has

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<v Speaker 1>to pay for a big euro trip otherwise he's a

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<v Speaker 1>bad boyfriend. Oh, she's obviously going to split the cost, Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>They've only been together for one year. Okay, she's an

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<v Speaker 1>independent working woman, give her a break. Is that true, Isabella?

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<v Speaker 1>In the fake world? Are you I would absolutely pay

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<v Speaker 1>my own way, but like I would appreciate if he

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<v Speaker 1>offered world that much fun conversations. Yeah, it's fun. Would

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<v Speaker 1>you like to go to Europe with me? I'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it. Yeah, absolutely, Yeah for it? You coast? Oh

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<v Speaker 1>wows behind? Well, come on, guys, literally, I think he

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<v Speaker 1>tried to take a bad angle as a joke and

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<v Speaker 1>it didn't work. But I think she was a gut

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are still laughing right now. You have chemistry. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like we can all tell when a joke is a

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<v Speaker 1>joke and when it's not a joke. Yes, except and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not joking right now when I say I want

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<v Speaker 1>to pay for a second date for both of you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I will pay for it, yes, pre Europe, pre Europe. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>just a regular first date, and we can pretend that

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<v Speaker 1>you guys haven't been dating for a long time anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>a real second date. I would be okay with a

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<v Speaker 1>real second date and just see what he's really like

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<v Speaker 1>in the present moment instead of thinking what a future

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<v Speaker 1>should be. Oh my god, I can't believe you said, Yeah, Wayne,

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<v Speaker 1>are you still are you still up for this? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Of course she won't regret it at all. Okay, just

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<v Speaker 1>no more hypotheticals on your guys's daily should not joke

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<v Speaker 1>at all. Look what happens. True love prevails even when

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke tries to actively care and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I just wish that some of my co hosts could

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<v Speaker 1>be more laid back and chill, like smooth get I

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<v Speaker 1>get too worked up. I know I shouldn't care as

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<v Speaker 1>much as I do. I don't know why it lets me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the problem. I care about laying into him for

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<v Speaker 1>his data. I cared about her. I think those are

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<v Speaker 1>too many red flags there. I think Jose summed it

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<v Speaker 1>up pretty well though when he said the guy made

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of mistakes on the date, but overall it

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<v Speaker 1>was a fun idea. Yeah yeah, and then he showed

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<v Speaker 1>his true colors and then that's why she should have run.

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<v Speaker 1>But whatever, you know, I'm happy that they're going out

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<v Speaker 1>of love. Yeah yeah. I think we got to give

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<v Speaker 1>them a break. They were fake people, setting up fake scenarios,

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<v Speaker 1>a fake problem making Joe. None of it was real.

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<v Speaker 1>They don't actually have these problems between them, yeager Well,

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<v Speaker 1>and when they do, they can come back and we'll

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<v Speaker 1>do an awkward Tuesday. But in the meantime, if you

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<v Speaker 1>ever need help getting a second day, you can always

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<v Speaker 1>email the show. We'll call the person who wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back and then judge you all the way until

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<v Speaker 1>that's right