1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone today and she's getting ghosted 4 00:00:09,720 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 2: by a doude named Pete. We're gonna help her find 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 2: out why in just the second. But first, Jenna, how 6 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from Pete. 7 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 3: It's been a week or so, I'd say. 8 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 4: And how many times have you reached out to him? 9 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 3: I reached out a few times. I haven't heard anything. 10 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 3: You know, we had a great first date. We met 11 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 3: at a sports bar. I met him on Hinge and 12 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,200 Speaker 3: then we found out that we have like some mutual friends, 13 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:38,800 Speaker 3: and you know, they were like, yeah, you guys definitely 14 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 3: need to hang out. 15 00:00:39,760 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 2: So you met him on Hinge and then you found 16 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:44,960 Speaker 2: out you had mutual friends, and then you told your 17 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: friends and they were like, yeah, you guys would be 18 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: a good fit. 19 00:00:47,400 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, so tell us about the date. 20 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 3: So we went to the sports bar. You know, our 21 00:00:56,360 --> 00:01:01,080 Speaker 3: mutual friends both said that we're laid back, so we 22 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 3: both decided to just go to a sports bar, get 23 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:08,360 Speaker 3: some wings and some beers, and you know, he was 24 00:01:08,400 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 3: such a gentleman the whole time. He opened the door 25 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 3: for me, and he even let out my chair. That's 26 00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:22,760 Speaker 3: never happened before. And I just don't know. He's super hot. 27 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 3: He's like a ten out of ten a gentleman is 28 00:01:25,600 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 3: super good looking. So I'm really into him. I was personality, 29 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:37,480 Speaker 3: great personality. I mean, his mannerisms were a one. You know. 30 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:40,080 Speaker 3: The thing is I noticed he was using a napkin 31 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:44,920 Speaker 3: when eating the wings. And the only thing I can 32 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 3: think about why he goes to me was maybe I 33 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 3: was like licking my fingers when I was eating my wings. 34 00:01:52,120 --> 00:01:53,919 Speaker 3: That might have grossed him. 35 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 5: Rather than see a napkin or like washing them. 36 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, he was like he'sning a napkin. He was really 37 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:01,040 Speaker 3: like prim improper. I don't wanted to think like I'm 38 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 3: this gross girl. 39 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 4: He's the weird one. In my opinion. You're supposed to 40 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 4: like your fingers after you eat wings, right, yeah right, 41 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 4: I mean give me some tea that they were good. 42 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 2: That's the only thing you can think of is maybe 43 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:21,040 Speaker 2: he thought that you were a barbarian because you were 44 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 2: licking your fingers instead of using a napkin like a 45 00:02:23,160 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 2: classy lad. 46 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,440 Speaker 3: That's the only thing I can think about. 47 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 4: So, what was your last interaction, Like I. 48 00:02:29,240 --> 00:02:32,480 Speaker 3: Texted him to let him know, like, what a great date, 49 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 3: and he just never responded. I mean the end of 50 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 3: the day, it was great. 51 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 4: You know, did you like kiss or anything? 52 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 3: We did. We had a little small It wasn't like 53 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 3: you know, tongueing down, but the conversation was really well. 54 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 3: I mean, he talked about his grandparents and how he 55 00:02:52,639 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 3: admired their relationship, and we talked about music. We have 56 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 3: a lot of artists that we like, some of the 57 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:04,399 Speaker 3: same artists. 58 00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 4: And music compatibility is really important on a date. 59 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 3: Right. It was pretty light, laid back. I mean, what 60 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:14,799 Speaker 3: really got me is that he was just such a gentleman. 61 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 3: I've never had that before, okay never, And he completely 62 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:20,680 Speaker 3: ghosted me. 63 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 5: Okay, we'll see if we can figure it out. 64 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:24,839 Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back, and then call him 65 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 2: and then ask him why he's ghosting. You see if 66 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 2: he tells us, and then maybe get you another date 67 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 2: if you still want one. Okay, okay, all right, Well 68 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:32,680 Speaker 2: play a song, come back, and get your first date, 69 00:03:32,680 --> 00:03:33,799 Speaker 2: follow up, next. 70 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: First date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys 71 00:03:38,480 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com. 72 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, for today's first Day follow up, 73 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 2: Jenna is on the phone and she's getting ghosted by Pete. 74 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 2: So we're about to call him and see if we 75 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 2: can figure out why he's getting ghosted and maybe get 76 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 2: her another date if she's still into it after she 77 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 2: hears the reason. Before we do that, though, Jenna, why 78 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,720 Speaker 2: don't you catch everybody up on your time with Pete. 79 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 3: My time with Pete was incredible. He's an awesome guy. 80 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 3: He's everything that I'm looking for in a man. He's 81 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 3: really good looking, and I just don't know what happened. 82 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 3: I text him and never heard anything back from him. 83 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:18,159 Speaker 3: We just have so much in common, common friends, common music. 84 00:04:18,800 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 3: I mean, yeah, I think that that was the issue. 85 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 3: If I had to assume I was licking my fingers 86 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:33,279 Speaker 3: when I was eating my chicken wings, he was using 87 00:04:33,320 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 3: the napkin, So yeah. 88 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 2: I mean, the only weird thing about that would have been 89 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 2: if you would have grabbed his napkin and then licked 90 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:39,760 Speaker 2: the napkin clean as well. 91 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:43,600 Speaker 5: I don't see that it's a weird thing. All right, 92 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 5: We're about to call him. 93 00:04:44,480 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 3: You ready, Yeah, I'm ready? 94 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:47,240 Speaker 5: Okay, we go. 95 00:04:58,920 --> 00:05:03,239 Speaker 2: I to p please, Yeah, Yeah, this is hey, Pete, 96 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 2: how are you. My name is Jewbel host a radio 97 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:06,920 Speaker 2: show and it's called The Jewbel Show. 98 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, Hi, Pete. The show is here as well. My 99 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:10,800 Speaker 4: name is Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria. 100 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 3: Hi. 101 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 5: How's it going? Uh? 102 00:05:13,800 --> 00:05:16,599 Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean it's going. Okay, what's what's going on? 103 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:18,280 Speaker 5: Have you ever listened to the show before? 104 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 6: Yeah? No, I've listened to the show. And I mean, 105 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 6: did I win something? I mean that would be great. 106 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 2: Maybe you could have won something. I'm not really sure yet. Okay, 107 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 2: I'm not sure if you were heard a first date 108 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 2: follow up before. But that's where if you go out 109 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:36,679 Speaker 2: on a date with somebody and then you get ghosted, 110 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:38,200 Speaker 2: you can email us to get that person on the 111 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:41,520 Speaker 2: phone and ask why you're getting ghosted. So you are 112 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 2: currently ghosting somebody and they want to know why. 113 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 6: Oh okay, who am I ghosting? 114 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 4: You don't know who you're ghosting. Have you on any dates? 115 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 4: And just stop talking to somebody recently? 116 00:05:53,440 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 6: Oh, you guys are talking about Jenna Oranget you yes? 117 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 6: So yeah, no, Jenner. I mean, don't get me wrong. 118 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,520 Speaker 6: I had a lot of fun on the date, you know. 119 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 6: I I thought we you know, shared a bunch of 120 00:06:08,920 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 6: mutual interests, and she seemed very engaged in everything. But 121 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,280 Speaker 6: I don't know what happened. But a couple drinks in 122 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 6: and she starts calling me Steve. And I understand that, 123 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 6: you know, Pete and Steve kind of sound the same. 124 00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 6: Definitely have you know, certain consonants at play here, So 125 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:36,560 Speaker 6: I don't know why, and I kind of I was 126 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:40,040 Speaker 6: trying to like write it off, you know, but yeah, no, 127 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 6: she she kept calling me Steve, uh, and it was 128 00:06:44,160 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 6: it was a turn off. It kind of it seemed disrespectful. 129 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:47,720 Speaker 6: I don't know, she has a thing for a guy 130 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 6: named Steve's still hung up on somebody. I don't know. 131 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 4: Did you say anything to her when she called you Steve? 132 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 4: Did you correct her? Did you ask Steve? 133 00:06:57,080 --> 00:06:59,680 Speaker 6: At first, she was like slurring her words a little bit, 134 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 6: and don't me wrong, Like I you know, I can 135 00:07:03,120 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 6: hold my own when it comes to alcohol, and I've 136 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 6: dealt with a couple of lightweights in my day, so 137 00:07:07,040 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 6: I didn't think much of it. But then I realized, 138 00:07:09,680 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 6: you know, yeah, it wasn't any kind of mistake she was. 139 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,440 Speaker 6: She was definitely saying Steve over and over again, so 140 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 6: I just it really started to wear on me. I 141 00:07:17,920 --> 00:07:20,440 Speaker 6: didn't want to say anything, and I didn't want to 142 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 6: also like cause any kind of scene. I didn't want 143 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,480 Speaker 6: to be disrespectful to her because she was, you know, 144 00:07:25,680 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 6: getting more and more INTOXICID and whatnot. So I just 145 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 6: decided to call it there. One time, I was trying 146 00:07:31,040 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 6: to get things back on track, and I was like 147 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 6: telling her a story about, you know, trying to throw 148 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 6: my name in there. I was like, you know, a 149 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 6: friend was like, hey, Pete, and I was like yeah, 150 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 6: and they were like, Pete, can you do this for me? 151 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 6: You know. I was trying to like reiterate, and she 152 00:07:45,480 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 6: wasn't getting hitt I don't know. So that's why I 153 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 6: haven't followed up. That's why I haven't like returned to 154 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 6: any text or anything, just because I felt a bit disrespected, 155 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 6: a bit dejected, because you know, I don't want her 156 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 6: mistake you made for some other dude. You know. 157 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, all right, well thanks for telling us, Steve. 158 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 2: Appreciate that, Thank you, thanks for that. 159 00:08:07,760 --> 00:08:11,200 Speaker 6: That's great. Now, your entire listenership, I appreciate that. My 160 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:12,960 Speaker 6: name is Pete. Pete on the. 161 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:16,400 Speaker 2: Record, got you Pete, Well, I guess what on the record, 162 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 2: Jenna is actually on the phone too, and she's listening 163 00:08:18,920 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 2: and wants to talk to you. 164 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 6: She's goodness, brilliant. Yeah, Hi, and I Jenna. 165 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:30,680 Speaker 3: It's Pete. Hi, Pete. I'm so sorry. I was super 166 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 3: nervous on our date, and I apologize completely. Steve is 167 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:42,680 Speaker 3: my boss and I'm with oh all day and it's 168 00:08:42,760 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 3: just kind of by default. I don't want to say 169 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 3: anything because we're on the radio and he might be 170 00:08:47,800 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 3: listening in so great boss. But yeah, I work a lot, 171 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:57,280 Speaker 3: and I'm I try to do my job as best 172 00:08:57,280 --> 00:08:59,599 Speaker 3: as I can, so I'm I'm a little bit of 173 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:02,240 Speaker 3: a workholic. So please forgive me. I know your name 174 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 3: is Pete, and I just asked for a second chance 175 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:07,240 Speaker 3: to get it right. 176 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I can't get over of this boss thing, Victoria. 177 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 4: Can you imagine going on a date and calling somedjubal 178 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:16,880 Speaker 4: if you text me to ask me a questions? I 179 00:09:17,000 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 4: purposely later, I know, Jenna, when your nervous things happen. 180 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:22,800 Speaker 4: But that's so funny. 181 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:26,680 Speaker 3: I know I would have never imagined that was the reason. 182 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,480 Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. How many times did I call you, Steve? 183 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 6: I mean I lost count after the first eleven. 184 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:38,920 Speaker 5: Went in on the Steve. 185 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 4: Oh my god, you probably called them Steve more times 186 00:09:42,520 --> 00:09:43,319 Speaker 4: than you call them Pete. 187 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 6: I admittedly no. I can appreciate, you know, the work 188 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:52,600 Speaker 6: ethic and everything, and I can appreciate having a hard boss. 189 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:57,800 Speaker 6: So that is I'm glad it's not next. That's understandable. 190 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:02,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm not into any I have no one in 191 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:07,240 Speaker 3: my life. I'm totally interested in and seeing where things 192 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:10,239 Speaker 3: go with you and I. So just to make that clear. 193 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:12,000 Speaker 2: Pete, would you like to go out with Jenna again 194 00:10:12,040 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 2: on another date? We'll pay for it. 195 00:10:14,600 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 6: You know that sounds that sounds like a lot of fun. 196 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:19,600 Speaker 6: I did have fun on the Bear Jenna. And you know, 197 00:10:19,760 --> 00:10:23,319 Speaker 6: just as long as there are no other names tossed 198 00:10:23,360 --> 00:10:26,200 Speaker 6: around besides Pete and Jenna that then then I'm okay. 199 00:10:26,440 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 6: That's fine. 200 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,800 Speaker 2: We'll find a place to send you that involves name tags. 201 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 2: Just be safe, bring your own. 202 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:33,199 Speaker 5: Hell my name is. 203 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, Please let's go. 204 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 5: Ju Will's First 205 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:45,440 Speaker 1: Date follow up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorney Online 206 00:10:45,440 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 1: at Advocateslaw dot com.