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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know, coming back from those. That's why

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Speaker 1: exchanges that they've been having. And like just this morning,

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Speaker 3: I don't like it.

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Speaker 1: Text you will then textual. Needless to say, this morning

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Speaker 1: show has many many skills using our fingers, pencil tricks,

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Speaker 1: tummy tickles, Me and Jose, pinching our noses when we

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not pleasant, especially when you put it in

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Speaker 1: But you know what, maybe our best finger skill is texting.

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Speaker 1: You like to help our listeners come up to our

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Speaker 1: somebody with their texting conversation when they don't quite know

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Speaker 1: the show. How you doing?

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Speaker 2: Hi, everybody?

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Speaker 3: Are you hungry? You want some lunch? I'll give you some?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, say no? Say no? Sounds sad story. You reaching

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Speaker 1: out for us because you need help with some texting.

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Speaker 1: Who are we going to be texting today?

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Speaker 2: Yes, you guys, I met this guy and we've been

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Speaker 3: In virtual life, do you like him too?

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Speaker 2: Not so much? A no. In texting life, it's a problem.

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Speaker 2: The thing is, when we're together, it's great, I have

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Speaker 1: Really really, I know exactly what you mean.

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Speaker 4: Maybe he's just not I mean, I feel like there's

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Speaker 3: On text.

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Speaker 4: Is that what it is? I feel like you text

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Speaker 2: I'm just not sure what it is. It's really not vibing.

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Speaker 2: It's like, it's so different from how we are when

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Speaker 1: Like, do you have an example of like how you're

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Actually I do. So. One time he texted me

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, that's cute.

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Speaker 2: That is cute, right right, that was a cute text,

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Speaker 2: And so I texted back, I said, oh, that sounds

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Speaker 3: In Yeah, that's a good response. Square gun emoji.

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Speaker 2: And then he texted, should I wait for you to

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Speaker 3: Wait, he's gonna pour boiling water on the neighbor children.

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Speaker 4: In real life, you get jokes on you where you

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Speaker 5: You have bad text chemistry.

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Speaker 4: About this a lot, they'll say, is that a bad

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Speaker 1: Excited to text him?

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Speaker 3: Like are you worried about but you're day?

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Speaker 6: You're not gonna text all day anyway?

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you you feel like every time that you

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Speaker 2: It's still confusing to me, Like, actually, today he texted

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Speaker 2: know how to respond, So I sent him a text.

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Speaker 2: Let me read it to you, Okay. I said, Hey,

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Speaker 5: It sounds like a bad pickup life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, he let me a computer. It was a

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Speaker 2: So I was serious about it and he responded, you guys,

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Speaker 2: he said, sorry, I don't know. It was a friend

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Speaker 2: Very dark? I don't know what to think. I mean,

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Speaker 2: Help.

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Speaker 1: So we're responding back to this text with you right

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Speaker 3: Just write back?

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Speaker 1: Are you serious?

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Speaker 1: That sounds kind of cold and heartless. I think that

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Speaker 3: You mentioned a dead friend.

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Speaker 1: But maybe, but he was joking about the water balloons

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Speaker 4: What if you write back and you say, uh, oh,

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Speaker 5: If he's dark, you gotta go darker, be like, how

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Speaker 3: That curse was dark enough?

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Speaker 1: What about what if you said, how about we get

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Speaker 5: None of them are being normal at this point, though,

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Speaker 5: you have to give back with a dark song.

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Speaker 1: Well, she didn't come to us for a normal response

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Speaker 4: You want a saance to talk to the friend to

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's acknowledging what he said. It's joking

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Speaker 2: I do like where you're coming from, So I feel

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Speaker 2: like I could say something like, well, can we have

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: I like that, but you could use that crystal ball emoji.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah whatever, But whatever, the message will come through

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Speaker 1: Why don't you Why don't you type that out and

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Speaker 2: I want to do it right now, you guys, Okay,

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Speaker 5: To do it right now.

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Speaker 1: That's the point. His name. We didn't ask for his name.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you need it.

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Speaker 1: Okay, she's right now, Yeah, I don't want to distract

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Speaker 2: Okay, she makes you so funny? Is funny? All right,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna send it.

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Speaker 5: All right, let's do it, and okay, all right, there's

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Speaker 1: But this is fun enough. In the mid we've laid

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Speaker 1: of the way, we're going to come back and see

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Speaker 3: Friend, what's his name? Who are we texting?

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Speaker 4: But for that the.

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Speaker 3: Text with Roy is fine though.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, chemistry, kidding any if you're listening, there's no way.

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Speaker 1: This is a little bit different though, because Dorry needs

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Speaker 1: All their in person chemistry is off the charts, it's

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, you know I still don't fully know either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why she emailed us today, because she was

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Speaker 1: Do we take that seriously or assume that it was

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Speaker 4: I mean, like Alexis said, this is why emoji's were invented.

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Speaker 4: He needs to.

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Speaker 1: He joked before with a previous text. So we went

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Speaker 1: down that road again and wrote back, well, maybe we

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Speaker 3: We can apologize.

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Speaker 1: I'm interested to see if Andre has replied to it. Dorry,

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Speaker 2: Okay? He said, oh snap, do you believe in that too?

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Speaker 2: We should one hundred percent emoji do a seance for

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, he continues.

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Speaker 2: If he responds, you're gonna love him. He's a great guy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's what I'm worried.

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Speaker 1: Now, how do you how do you read that door?

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Speaker 1: Do you think he's joking back or is he being serious? Now?

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Speaker 2: I think he believes in ghosts? I know.

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Speaker 6: Mean that it actually is the friend's laptop and the

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Speaker 5: I'm one hundred percent on the joking side. People people

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Speaker 3: He just took it too far exactly.

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Speaker 5: He's not gonna stop.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if he is, because if he'd sent

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Speaker 3: I think he thinks you're going to meet him. It

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Speaker 6: That's a step in a relationship close friends.

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Speaker 1: Is it a little bit too soon to be meeting

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Speaker 3: Get book for that one.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, now meet my great grandma. Let's find her relatives.

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Speaker 2: You guys, I'm so worried now, I mean, what do

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Speaker 4: Okay, Now we gotta legitimately find out if this is

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Do we need to do that? Brooke?

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Speaker 3: Well, what else do we do?

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Speaker 4: We just keep on the road and we don't know

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Speaker 1: Trains in motion? Don't jump in front and try to

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Speaker 3: Why do you say this? What do you say this?

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Speaker 3: Truth is it'd be my first seance? What should I

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Speaker 1: What do I wear? I just doesn't like it?

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Speaker 2: Now?

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Speaker 6: She always says, totally don't want to know what you

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Speaker 3: Like do you bring a bottle of wine? Do you

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Speaker 1: Like? Where are we at? Are you actually open to

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Speaker 2: Dorri?

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Speaker 1: For real?

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Speaker 2: Not really?

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Speaker 1: But maybe there's a way we can joke in back home.

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Speaker 2: I really, I really like you guys response, that's truth.

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Speaker 2: It will be my first seance.

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Speaker 1: What should I bring? I like, now you do? Okay,

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Speaker 1: then just send that. Let's just send it.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you guys, I've texted okay, texted it and now,

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Speaker 1: The dead, then you'll know he's serious. And he's like

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Speaker 1: bring a bunny costume, then you know he's still go

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Speaker 1: We meet the bones from it.

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Speaker 3: The guys, the guys.

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Speaker 4: He texted it back.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that was really quick for a geez. He's really

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Speaker 2: He said, Oh, are you serious? That could be a

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Speaker 1: For me.

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Speaker 3: Doing it or not doing it.

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Speaker 4: No asking what to wear, no admitting that it's her

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Speaker 2: Me being into it is a deal breaker.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just say I was joking and just leave it

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and then he can decide what the joke was.

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Speaker 1: Can we joke back and say like, oh, thank god,

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Speaker 1: because I was worried I was going to fall in

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Speaker 3: You were worried his friend was going to hit on you.

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Speaker 1: I mean, because remember, like our mission here is just

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Speaker 3: Texting, and it is off still it is.

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Speaker 1: Well, we're talking too much about Andrea's possibly dead friends.

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Speaker 3: I like, I like your joke. I think your joke's funny.

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Speaker 1: Okay, like I do. I liked your version of it,

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, I was worried that he was going to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, ghosts have a thing for me, so I was

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Speaker 1: What you're showing by by doing that is that you're

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Speaker 1: You're just trying to like have a good time with.

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Speaker 2: Him, right, I'm not being judgmental or Yeah, let's just

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Speaker 1: Maybe you put a laugh emoji on the end.

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Speaker 4: Of just.

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Speaker 5: Because it's a little ghost.

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Speaker 1: He knows it's a joke.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a smile.

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Speaker 6: Remind him he can use those too.

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Speaker 1: Alexis lead by example.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, so let's see I'm getting it. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I think you.

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Speaker 1: Do you always have this big of like like a

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Speaker 2: It's just because you know it's so new and I

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Speaker 2: all right, so okay, I've written it.

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Speaker 1: Button said, there we go.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you feel like you're texting with your.

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Speaker 1: Mom right now? All right? I mean I just feel

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Speaker 1: like we're not like crossing the line here. We're not

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Speaker 1: being offensive. We're just being playful and joky and fun

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Speaker 4: Dude.

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Speaker 3: If he writes back and is like no seances on.

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Speaker 1: He wrote back, he wrote that, oh god, god, he's

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Speaker 2: He said to laugh emoji.

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Speaker 1: Yes, okay, taught him.

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Speaker 2: He said, I was just messing with you. I don't

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Speaker 2: have a dead friend, thank god. But we should text more.

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Speaker 2: You're funny.

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Speaker 3: No text more.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if we can be there for every

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Speaker 1: we'll do. We'll give you Brooks new landline. She's the

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Speaker 3: Now you know she's gonna answer or the kids will answer.

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Speaker 1: That whole family's funny. You feel like we've helped you

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Speaker 1: out there, Dori. Can we leave you to it now?

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Speaker 2: I think you guys an amazing job. I think going forward,

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Speaker 4: I think, yeah, you need to read every text from

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Speaker 1: On Texas. Do those voice texts from now on?

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Speaker 2: Amaze?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so that you don't frustrate people with your slow texting.

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Speaker 1: Okay, anyway, that's textual healing. It's Brook and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 1: the morning.

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.