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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Y'all's show girl lexp And it's sure girls. Ray in

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Speaker 2: the call and you are.

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Speaker 1: Tuned in to another episode of.

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Speaker 3: Poor Mine, where a drunk mind speaks soberthday.

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Speaker 2: We got some guests, saday, We got some guests saoday.

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Speaker 2: Y'all know we had to run it back. We did

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Speaker 2: and were family now we all you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: So we have Troy and we're show from earn your Leisure.

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Speaker 4: In the building.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like whenever we have good episodes with

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Speaker 2: like good guess, we gotta run.

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Speaker 1: It back on again always.

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Speaker 3: But we've only did that, like maybe with like three

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Speaker 3: or four times.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, there's very few soide of like eighty five. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think the bit Yeah, that's really and I really

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Speaker 2: so all the second ones fron the bad.

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Speaker 1: How does that feel? It feels incredible. We gotta up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think somewhere in here we should have a

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Speaker 5: wall of fan.

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Speaker 1: For the people.

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Speaker 2: And you were the first one that did the karaoke.

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Speaker 2: How y'all did the karaoke? Remember he was just he

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Speaker 2: took the mic and just went crazy.

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Speaker 1: The whole song.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's not gonna be do.

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Speaker 4: Epic epic, So How have you guys been. What's been

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Speaker 4: up Pelasine.

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Speaker 6: We've been good, you know, just working. Got a big

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Speaker 6: event in Best Fest coming up, so we've been doing that.

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Speaker 6: We got a school curriculum that we've been working on.

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Speaker 6: We've been shooting content, so traveling, yeah, in Africa. So yeah, man,

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Speaker 6: it's just been non stop, non stop, just trying to

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Speaker 6: just stay busy watching Poor Minds.

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Speaker 4: What was the last episode of Poor Minds you watched?

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Speaker 1: Was the last episode?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I catch the clips now because it's tough, but I

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Speaker 5: watched Washing Bros.

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Speaker 1: And that was good.

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Speaker 5: That a liar, But what I will say is this

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Speaker 5: that we're super proud of you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 5: I remember I told you I was from a live.

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Speaker 4: Episode dropped.

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Speaker 5: Don't tell them yet as a question about it, don't

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Speaker 5: tell them what was your favorite part?

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Speaker 1: Now? Y'all got some wild clips? You know what. I

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Speaker 1: don't really know.

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Speaker 5: The guests as as obviously I know y'all, Like I remember, like,

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Speaker 5: I'm like, yo, they getting wild over there?

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Speaker 1: Not were getting wild? You know what's crazy?

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Speaker 4: We've calmed down. I really truly feel like we have

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Speaker 4: calmed down.

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Speaker 3: We used to rely much crazier in our earlier days

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Speaker 3: even when we were younger, I feel like we definitely

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Speaker 3: like millowed out a little bit as we've gotten older.

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Speaker 3: That I just think, I just think life, and I

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Speaker 3: just think two experiences have taught me. Like when I

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Speaker 4: Of real foundation.

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Speaker 3: And now I like to be educated for the things

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Speaker 3: that I said before. I just use it out there,

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Speaker 1: So I mean, we see y'all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we was at your birthday party, which was Liz Fact.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I'm not going the ball. Our hair

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Speaker 4: was sweating out. You know you had a ball. Will

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Speaker 4: your hair be looking crazy? What?

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Speaker 1: Printon? Yes, it was.

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Speaker 4: So much fun. And let me tell I'm not gonna

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Speaker 4: buy song because we're friends.

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Speaker 2: Now, so I'm gonna go ahead and tell you I

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Speaker 2: did not have high expectations.

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Speaker 3: Only but that's a crazy way to start to say.

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Speaker 2: Okay, my bad. I didn't have high expectations because I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I felt like I wasn't gonna know anybody there, and

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Speaker 2: That's like walking and being like, oh right, I'm lex

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Speaker 2: But I didn't know a lot of people there. But

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, that's all we knew and New York people

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Speaker 5: Something did we walking at the same time. I think

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Speaker 5: as we pulled up, y'all was walking.

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Speaker 4: In that Yeah, yeah, because I saw you outside.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he had to get us there, I said, but

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Speaker 2: y'all know who line?

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Speaker 1: It said a line on a Tuesday too. It was crazy,

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Speaker 2: It's just but that is like a testament to like

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Speaker 3: I love you and fool with you?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Like that was the crazyt Like if I had

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Speaker 1: Everybody in this room.

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Speaker 3: You should have a party, though, I think I think

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Speaker 3: I could throw you like a surprise party and it

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Speaker 3: be helling people there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, people love you, I think. So you have to think.

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Speaker 2: About all the people you know here in Atlanta, the

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Speaker 2: people you know making home.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, when you spoke, it was a crowd up. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: People was always shocked with a crowd because I be

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Speaker 2: thinking it's gonna be like ten people in an audience.

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Speaker 1: They rocking with you.

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Speaker 5: Hyeah y'are doing your thing.

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Speaker 2: So let's talk about investmentest, you know, let's let's talk

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Speaker 2: about so how many what's the year?

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Speaker 4: What number is this?

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Speaker 1: Four? Which is amazing. Appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: So talk about it this year, like who can people

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Speaker 2: expect to see? For the people who have never heard

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Speaker 2: of invest Fest, what is it all that this stuff?

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Speaker 4: I have a crazy lineup this year.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, who are most exciting? That's crazy?

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Speaker 7: That's crazy Harvey of course, Yeah, for sure, he's a

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Speaker 7: regular now, I mean in best fest if you've never

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Speaker 7: heard of it.

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Speaker 6: It's a business. So we wanted to make a business

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Speaker 6: festival fund. We want to make a business conference fund

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Speaker 6: like a music festival. Right, That's why we call invest Fest.

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Speaker 6: So it's the same principle that you would see in

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Speaker 6: the festival, but it's all centered around entrepreneurship, investing business.

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Speaker 6: We got a vendor marketplace, over four hundred vendors inside,

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Speaker 6: we got speakers, we got vi I p Night, we

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Speaker 6: got musical performances. So it's a whole vibe. Over the

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Speaker 6: course of three days, we're gonna be doing one hundred

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Speaker 6: thousand dollars pitch competition. Then we're gonna be giving at

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Speaker 6: another twenty five thousand dollars. So a woman woman led business.

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Speaker 6: So we got a bunch of speakers. Fifty cent, we

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Speaker 6: Ye in the building. We got Sharning Shark, we gotta

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Speaker 6: Lauren London, we got Steven A. Smith, we got Damon John,

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Speaker 6: we got Steve Harvey, we got Monica. She's gonna be

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Speaker 6: performing tip t I shot till I Am Black Left,

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Speaker 6: and then so many other people that people might not

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Speaker 6: be familiar with doing that thing in tech. Pinky Cole Dope, entrepreneur,

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Speaker 6: owner of Slutdy Vegan, so so many but noing. So

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Speaker 6: it's just a very powerful place to be in to network,

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Speaker 6: to meet people.

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Speaker 1: To learn.

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Speaker 6: It's just really really nothing like it. So this is

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Speaker 6: the fourth year that we're doing it. I think this

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Speaker 6: year is gonna be the most. That was it last year.

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Speaker 3: Now we were out of town because I think we

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Speaker 2: So we were we I think we're in a Besa

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Speaker 4: Well I think we were on tour because.

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Speaker 5: It's Visa Visa International. We were so this is yet,

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Speaker 5: it's going to be our first time experiencing it.

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Speaker 3: No, So I came to investments like the I think

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Speaker 3: the second one.

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Speaker 4: So in twenty twenty two.

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Speaker 2: And then I remember y'all had like this little thing

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Speaker 2: gay Pasture, and I came to pasta.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like a dinner dinner.

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Speaker 3: This is like twenty this is gonna be like, so

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Speaker 3: this is going to be my second one.

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Speaker 4: Actually this is my first one.

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Speaker 1: So more dinners to come then.

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Speaker 4: We love we love it. We southern girls. We did

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Speaker 4: not leave to tell the story because so that can

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Speaker 5: All right, So so essence brother Larry Morrow, Yeah, hide

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Speaker 5: and Seek. He had a dinner sponsor by Amazon. So

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Speaker 5: I see my good friends said, thanks, Dre, what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Y'all good?

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, we're good. I'm like, yo, I'll grab a seat,

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Speaker 5: Ye pictures they come on fire. I'm not hating that

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Speaker 5: the pictures came off fire, right. I saved two seats

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Speaker 5: on the whole other side of the table, I sat down.

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Speaker 2: But let me say this first of all, the table,

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Speaker 2: it was a long the twelve Disciples ass table. Okay,

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Speaker 2: last supper, the last supper. Yes, the thing was we

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Speaker 2: wanted to down, but you know, the cease word signed,

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Speaker 2: And they'd be like, somebody's sitting here, and you what

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Speaker 3: This was a real dinner, like they had place sittings

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Speaker 3: and everything. You can't sit in somebody. See, we weren't

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Speaker 1: So we had to talk across the table. But you

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Speaker 1: know what, I noticed about you. You didn't eat your gumbo.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm not big on gumbo, but I

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Speaker 5: told you that.

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Speaker 4: Have you had good gumbo though?

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Speaker 5: I've tried it once, but I'm just not a big

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Speaker 5: gumbo where from where?

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Speaker 1: Probably some restaurant in the Bronx.

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Speaker 3: That's why you don't like it. Niggas in the Bronx

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Speaker 3: don't know how to make gumbo.

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Speaker 4: That's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I tried it. We had gumbo in a restaurant I tried.

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Speaker 1: At least I tried it, and that.

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Speaker 4: Was some good gumbo.

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Speaker 1: Though.

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Speaker 3: Now, if you would have said Louisiana taxis, I would

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Speaker 5: Okay, offens. I'm from New York. The first time I

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Speaker 5: I never got introduced to gumbo out there. What I

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Speaker 4: And you know that She's like, yeah, I am, you

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Speaker 2: See see you do can ask you all question before

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Speaker 6: They're the same people it is. It's just one group

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, So racing it needs to

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Speaker 6: That's a very complicated situation. People think that they that

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Speaker 3: Now I'm telling you the whole difference is our ship

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Speaker 6: Like, if y'all go to Colombia, there girls that they

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Speaker 1: Even act like it was believable. I just said, that's

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Speaker 4: But he's seen in the back of my neck. That's

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Speaker 1: I look lovely today. Do that, but don't do that whole.

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Speaker 1: But the Puerto Ricans is the.

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Speaker 4: Party in the bag.

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Speaker 6: Puerto Ricans is the Dominicans is more dark skinned. The

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Speaker 1: But they say nigga too. I mean if you if

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Speaker 4: He said, And my niggas don't dance.

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Speaker 6: Bronx Bronx, like like you know, different. It's hard to explain,

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Speaker 6: but Fat Joe, don't, I know, it ain't it's no difference,

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Speaker 6: the food that he but the way he grew up everything,

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Speaker 3: Though, I feel like, you know, he is of African

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Speaker 4: I think it's a difference when you.

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Speaker 3: versus like Enrique A. Glacier is saying Nigga can be

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Speaker 6: But what makes what makes difference exactly that Joe is

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Speaker 6: he dressed, you know, he's hip hop? What you think

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Speaker 1: He's more commercialized, really a.

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Speaker 3: Darker Actually that's the jail thing.

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Speaker 1: People don't look at her as hip hop, right, that's right.

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean.

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Speaker 2: they're like, yeah.

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Speaker 4: They're Afro Latino.

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Speaker 3: It's the difference between being Afro Latino Indian being like

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Speaker 5: You know, Okay, I got you both their parents.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: Latinos who have more they come more from the caucas mountains.

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Speaker 4: I know what I said.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's a bad European descent and African descent.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 5: You just feel like Fat Joe comes from African because

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Speaker 6: Joe's half cub and half Puerto Rican, okay, but in fact,

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Speaker 6: Joe got green eyes. He he don't look black. He's

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Speaker 4: He isn't here. That's family is from Morocco.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so how you feel like him saying nigga from

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Speaker 2: You know, this is how This is how I feel

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Speaker 2: it gets real. I mean if you are, if you

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Speaker 4: I don't feel that.

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Speaker 1: Hey, I'm strong with it. I don't know. You don't

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Speaker 4: Honestly, now, I do think we should probably, I think

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Speaker 1: A little bit. I don't see the need to say.

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Speaker 2: I agree because I'm trying to clean it up. I'm

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Speaker 3: Want to stop seeing it. So, yeah, it's tough though.

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Speaker 2: I'll say this, not all four grandparents, but it has

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Speaker 6: But even like, I don't know how it's in Texas,

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Speaker 6: They're not like, it's not the same like that man,

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Speaker 6: So they kind of segregated. It's not like that in

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Speaker 6: People are still segregated in their own neighborhood. But it's

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Speaker 6: not like, no, I hate you just because you're perto Rican,

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Speaker 6: right right right, we go to the port we used

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Speaker 6: to go to Puerto Rican, they parade. It's just a

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Speaker 6: I don't say it unless I only say it all

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Speaker 6: I don't want to be saying nigga, nigga, nigga, And

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Speaker 2: Well, I don't feel like that necessarily. I mean, I'm

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Speaker 3: Using you right hey, oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: It was always in a negative and like trying to.

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Speaker 1: Be like you are yeah, are you are? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: You know I only heard I only heard the e

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Speaker 6: But he's a cop. He was a cop. I ain't

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Speaker 6: That's the I never in life ever heard anybody say

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Speaker 6: People just not gonna walk up to you and call

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've definitely heard it mostly from sixties.

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Speaker 1: I heard for sure, I'm to you or just you've

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Speaker 4: Around you, I can honestly.

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Speaker 2: So I've never had anybody say it directly to me,

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Speaker 1: And what did you vibe? You know what's crazy?

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Speaker 4: I think I told the story on the show before.

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Speaker 1: I had a friend.

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Speaker 4: When I was in like seventh grade, she said it,

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Speaker 1: But that wasn't an a racist way though it wasn't,

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Speaker 2: I really wasn't saying it because I went to all

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Speaker 5: You would see it more like you grow up around

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Speaker 5: Like that, when they get upset or is it some

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Speaker 6: racial tension like it's not like I cannot Like, you know,

444
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Speaker 6: you go to all white school and you're the only

445
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Speaker 6: black kid, it's going.

446
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Speaker 1: To be racial tension, like you know what I'm saying.

447
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Speaker 6: Yeah, so, and then in the neighborhood everybody was black,

448
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Speaker 6: but it wasn't really an opportunity to really get called

449
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Speaker 6: a nigger like you know what I'm saying. Yeah, we

450
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Speaker 6: wasn't in environments where it was just a lot of

451
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Speaker 6: racist white people used today.

452
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Speaker 4: White girls, I don't know, white girls used to love

453
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Speaker 4: you that.

454
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Speaker 2: Why said, because you said you went to I was

455
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Speaker 2: just asking if you said it was stoopid. The girls

456
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Speaker 2: love a little nigga that a tall one, a tall one.

457
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Speaker 2: They was like, Oh, I'm getting them. They be on,

458
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Speaker 2: they be on, go for the hoop. They can smell.

459
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Speaker 2: They can smell a d one athlete from a mile away.

460
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Speaker 2: They can they they got it.

461
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Speaker 1: Now look it out, man, that's crazy.

462
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Speaker 3: Gre I was like, you gotta be a little careful

463
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Speaker 3: those two because white people they be having all types

464
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Speaker 3: of names they call us that we don't even know

465
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Speaker 3: what it means.

466
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Speaker 1: That's what they do. They definitely do.

467
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Speaker 4: Like the Italians have a name for us too. It's

468
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Speaker 4: the same as niggas.

469
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Speaker 1: What is it mooly mooly? That sounds violent. I don't

470
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Speaker 1: like that.

471
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Speaker 2: Thank you for letting me know, because I passed all

472
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Speaker 2: the time. Man somebody and now I know, I know, Like,

473
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Speaker 2: hi girl, what that mean.

474
00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,240
Speaker 1: I'm cute. I'm cute. You know what I'm saying.

475
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,960
Speaker 6: But honestly, it was a lot of black on black,

476
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Speaker 6: like if it was African a lot like a lot

477
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Speaker 6: of people would make fun of people like this is

478
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Speaker 6: before afrobeats was a thing, like Africans is a vibe.

479
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Speaker 6: But yeah, back then, you know, I saw it. I

480
00:21:34,920 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 6: never I never did it because I know.

481
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Speaker 4: Where she's going with this, so let her laugh and

482
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Speaker 4: get it out.

483
00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:41,720
Speaker 1: I never did that.

484
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Speaker 6: But I saw people make fun of you an immigrant,

485
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Speaker 6: you coming like they might make fun of what you're

486
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Speaker 6: making like he's making.

487
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Speaker 1: So it's like Jamaican they always sticking.

488
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Speaker 6: But like I seen like people and vice versa, like

489
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,320
Speaker 6: they might make fun of us too, like Colus Yankees

490
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Speaker 6: like that. So it's a lot of that, Like you

491
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Speaker 6: know what I'm saying, Like just that's just ignorant, like

492
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 6: just not understanding. Just you know, if you're a minority

493
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Speaker 6: coming in, then somebody might make fun of you for

494
00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:09,520
Speaker 6: different things, but it wasn't really a lot of like

495
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Speaker 6: white on black got you.

496
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Speaker 2: So we're gonna try to stop signing. We are okay,

497
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Speaker 2: we're gonna try.

498
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Speaker 5: We see all outside, so we're gonna I'm gonna.

499
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Speaker 1: Say that right now.

500
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Speaker 2: Even got into the dawn first stopping well what are

501
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Speaker 2: we drinking today?

502
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Speaker 1: Aja?

503
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Speaker 2: And she miked up. She at least got the mic.

504
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Speaker 2: Let's see, let's do it. Let's do it.

505
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Speaker 8: So our drink today is called the acid in honor

506
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Speaker 8: of our guests today is a prickly pear sprits. We

507
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Speaker 8: have prickly pear lemon juice to gave it, and we

508
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Speaker 8: top it with a little bit of champagne.

509
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Speaker 1: You can elevate it add like tequila.

510
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Speaker 8: You can ad vodka to it just to give a

511
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Speaker 8: little bit more kick. But it's a perfect summertime drink,

512
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Speaker 8: just to get us started. So I hope you guys

513
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Speaker 8: enjoy cheers.

514
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 1: You know it's actually gotten better.

515
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Speaker 2: Yes, given summertime vibe. I need a cute that Chris

516
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Speaker 2: Brown in the background.

517
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Speaker 1: Yeah, shout out to Aja.

518
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Speaker 4: You know she's been helping us out with because is

519
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Speaker 4: on vacation.

520
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Speaker 1: Right now.

521
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Speaker 2: I couldn't up she having a green. Yes, but thank

522
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Speaker 2: you Aja. We appreciate you from being here.

523
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Speaker 1: Thank you for the drink. It's incredible ours.

524
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Speaker 4: You can add a little tequila make.

525
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526
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527
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543
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545
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546
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Speaker 4: dot com splash disclosures pretty tails. I mean, I'm sure

562
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Speaker 4: y'all heard the game. Never have I ever?

563
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Speaker 1: Yeah?

564
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Speaker 2: Have I don't lie either, because you know you be lying,

565
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Speaker 2: We're gonna be able to tell for shot line, he

566
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Speaker 2: got them shades, But I can kind.

567
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Speaker 1: Of see a little bit. You gotta protect your soul.

568
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Speaker 2: I know we always got your shame from us a soul.

569
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Speaker 2: It is okay, he saw the first question. Well statement,

570
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:44,679
Speaker 2: never have I ever shoplifting. I remember, if you have

571
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Speaker 2: done it, you got to take a fell.

572
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Speaker 6: I think everybody has stole something at one point.

573
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Speaker 4: Yeah, what you sold?

574
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Speaker 3: Okay, a few things if we want, like you want

575
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Speaker 3: to know, like in adulthood or like you.

576
00:26:04,560 --> 00:26:11,959
Speaker 1: Still adulthood, because nineteen is chrazy right now in adulthood.

577
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,919
Speaker 2: Now like yeah, but not right now, like not in

578
00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:17,600
Speaker 2: the past like seven years like good, you know, not

579
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Speaker 2: like no sibbing.

580
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Speaker 1: That's that's legit. You know, as an adult, it's scary,

581
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: is it? Serial killer?

582
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:29,199
Speaker 4: Hey salmon? Like forty dollars a pound? Wait, you stole sammy?

583
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 1: Hey man, I stole a little.

584
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:33,159
Speaker 4: I just put a little I put.

585
00:26:33,040 --> 00:26:36,160
Speaker 2: A little packet underneath them, a little seals on pack

586
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 2: and the skinny'd be nine nine cents, and I put

587
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Speaker 2: my salmon right on in my basket.

588
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,120
Speaker 3: Well, the last time I stole something preparation accident.

589
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: Nasty word. Dollars, that's nasty word. So that's also questionable.

590
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,359
Speaker 4: I mean my oxtails I'll be hungry.

591
00:26:52,480 --> 00:26:55,119
Speaker 6: You're still somebody got caught. James Wyston was still in

592
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:55,800
Speaker 6: our crab legs.

593
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Speaker 1: Crab legs. See, he need to come to a class.

594
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 3: I ain't mad at that cause crab legs highest fun.

595
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,199
Speaker 1: But I gotta do what I gotta do. If you

596
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: get not for stealing crab lads, that's crazy. But you

597
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,360
Speaker 1: know what the thing is, though I look crazynasty word,

598
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: you gotta do what you gotta times. It's hard, now,

599
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:14,800
Speaker 1: that's true. That's a I got I got a family

600
00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: to feed, but crab lass at the top of this family. Myself,

601
00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: I'm a big bitch. I eat the foe family of one.

602
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,159
Speaker 4: You know you're on the something now, got caught.

603
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:34,600
Speaker 1: Stealing the hell? Now that's embarrassing. Imagine what are you

604
00:27:34,600 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: doing with that ground?

605
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:38,240
Speaker 3: Turkey is definitely got caught stealing.

606
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 1: If I had why is that ground turkey in your shirts?

607
00:27:42,640 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 9: Now?

608
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 4: Getting cost stealing food is very big.

609
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 2: But you know what I feel like in twenty twenty four,

610
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:49,720
Speaker 2: people would understand if I got cald They're not gonna

611
00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 2: be mad at me.

612
00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 4: Now I'm not stealing crack.

613
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,520
Speaker 1: What if they put your picture out? That's what happened.

614
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: To me, that's crazy. They put your picture up, not out.

615
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:57,359
Speaker 1: They took a picture.

616
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 4: But are you still I was banned. I haven't tried

617
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:03,159
Speaker 4: to go.

618
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 5: Bag was Marshalls from Marshals if you said from a

619
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Speaker 5: discount store, you're that.

620
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Speaker 1: Is not Come on?

621
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Speaker 4: I was like seventeen, I was.

622
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 1: Seventeen getting your picture even sixteen. What you took like

623
00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:23,760
Speaker 1: it was a bunch of stuff you were under your clothes.

624
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:30,359
Speaker 3: No, I had a big gas bag, just blatant throw

625
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:32,000
Speaker 3: it took a whole new meaning.

626
00:28:31,800 --> 00:28:37,159
Speaker 1: To throw it in the bags. Excuse me, miss so

627
00:28:37,280 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 1: they chased.

628
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:38,720
Speaker 4: Me out of the store.

629
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,680
Speaker 1: He was running. Oh god, like they ran you down.

630
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 4: I'm gettings.

631
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 6: Having your picture taken and put on like I guess

632
00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 6: a precinct is so humiliating.

633
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:54,000
Speaker 5: It was in the store because when you went to

634
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 5: market your like and somebody when they saw you.

635
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Speaker 3: Okay, so like not in like the front of the store,

636
00:28:59,160 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 3: but like in the bag when they have lost prevention.

637
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 1: Yes see this person, yo.

638
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,680
Speaker 4: But I think they said it only lasts like ten years.

639
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 1: I should years of your picture should be good now.

640
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,720
Speaker 1: No got Marshalls.

641
00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:16,640
Speaker 4: That wasn't Marshall's.

642
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 1: That was like real problem yeah.

643
00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 2: I took a little makeup before when I was young,

644
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:23,040
Speaker 2: I was a little But now I take necessities.

645
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 1: I need that meat, I.

646
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:31,040
Speaker 5: Need ground beechese is expensive too, and I like the

647
00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:31,680
Speaker 5: good cheese.

648
00:29:32,320 --> 00:29:32,840
Speaker 4: I'm taking that.

649
00:29:33,200 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 2: What's it called the boar's head, that's the cheese I need.

650
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 1: I want that craft Bors had cheese. Yeah, I want,

651
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Speaker 1: I want.

652
00:29:40,480 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 2: I want the one that's over there that you got

653
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 2: to actually slice yourself.

654
00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 1: That's crazy. I know it's crazy, too good for crafts.

655
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:50,160
Speaker 1: All right, let's move on to good all right, Read

656
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Speaker 1: the second one. Read the second one.

657
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:54,320
Speaker 3: Oh my god, okay, you want me to read the state.

658
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:56,960
Speaker 1: From when we couldn't up already? Miss one?

659
00:29:57,400 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 2: Never have I ever lied about my relationship status? Man,

660
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,640
Speaker 2: y'all lying like that, y'all, that's a lot about your

661
00:30:09,680 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 2: relationship studies worked?

662
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:13,880
Speaker 4: No, Look, this is what this is what I don't

663
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:19,320
Speaker 4: like it. Judge me, freeze out.

664
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Speaker 1: I did. I didn't.

665
00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,480
Speaker 3: You don't know if this is when I was fifteen.

666
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 5: I didn't judge that all last year. I'm proud of honest.

667
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Speaker 5: Last night, we don't.

668
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Speaker 4: Know nine line?

669
00:30:31,320 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: Now, what was telling me a lot about being in

670
00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: a relationship?

671
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 4: Ooh, like probably like four years ago.

672
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: That's fair. Why did you lie?

673
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:43,479
Speaker 4: Because I was in berries to be I didn't want

674
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 4: to be.

675
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,479
Speaker 1: At one point you did? I did, but it just

676
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:48,959
Speaker 1: fell out.

677
00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I was still any but I just was like,

678
00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 2: I don't like him, no more like I love He

679
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,800
Speaker 2: was already looking for to replace me.

680
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,040
Speaker 5: Oh okay, so you like like I'm not, like, yeah,

681
00:30:59,080 --> 00:31:02,320
Speaker 5: I'm a single, but but I wasn't yet.

682
00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 2: What's the last time you left since my new This

683
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 2: is the first relationship I've ever.

684
00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: Been there where I didn't lie? Right now? Are you

685
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 1: still all the time? You never know you could? Why

686
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 1: Why did you lie all the time?

687
00:31:14,840 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 2: Because I got to be here to stay ready? You

688
00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 2: ain't got to get ready. I don't want what is

689
00:31:18,720 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 2: that I'm always on?

690
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 4: Because I was always on go. I gave you my whole.

691
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: Story, I know. I don't know if he wanted to

692
00:31:27,520 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: tell the people I know. We know.

693
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:29,440
Speaker 4: Look, we don't got time.

694
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 2: I told you off that night when we had the

695
00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 2: dinner at you know, when we went to What's that for?

696
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 2: B told your story about my relationship. So I say,

697
00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 2: nobody done told me nothing. I told him about all

698
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 2: my relationship problems. I was getting advice, so I would

699
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 2: always lie. But I've changed.

700
00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: I'm a change. I'm a good woman.

701
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 5: Now you changed or did your partner? You just said

702
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 5: he helped change you?

703
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,840
Speaker 1: A little bit of both. I'm a good woman now.

704
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:54,760
Speaker 1: I believe that.

705
00:31:54,920 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 4: I believe it too, because she knows she'll be seeing me.

706
00:32:00,640 --> 00:32:01,800
Speaker 4: I'm the Lord.

707
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,920
Speaker 2: That's why you know God is real, because if I'm

708
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 2: a good woman, you know, times is hard.

709
00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: Anything as possible.

710
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:09,719
Speaker 5: I like that.

711
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 2: Okay, never have I ever had sex with a celebrity.

712
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 4: Drunk from so.

713
00:32:18,960 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 1: If you have you drinking that? But I don't. Yeah, no,

714
00:32:23,880 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 1: you see he He's like, I'm not spell it looking

715
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 1: at it.

716
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:31,600
Speaker 4: That ain't spilling.

717
00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: That's just you know, I don't even I wouldn't.

718
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 6: I don't really like the celebrity bob. Okay for me,

719
00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 6: for me personally, I don't see the upside.

720
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 4: Don't you trying to slide?

721
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:49,000
Speaker 5: He's talking, so I figured it's appropriate time ship.

722
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I'm a married man man period.

723
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 2: All right, all right, all right, that's fat where you

724
00:32:57,840 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 2: know that motherfucker?

725
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: Damn? All right, she didn't tell you the story? Yeah, yeah,

726
00:33:06,840 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: what we know? No, that stopping not a celebrity. First

727
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: of all, I was saying these stop.

728
00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 4: I want to know you know who I told him about?

729
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 5: Now we was at thet an event. He was at

730
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 5: an event and was sitting next to somebody.

731
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 1: We know. Yeah it was you know, it was crazy.

732
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:30,960
Speaker 1: I was telling him. And then the next day his.

733
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Speaker 4: Family, Hey, no, I'm family, take a side.

734
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: I don't even know you're talking about. Lightly. I get

735
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 1: I'll get there for after the show.

736
00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 4: It ain't nobody You're gonna remember, you gonna say who stop?

737
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,880
Speaker 1: Funny, I'm not. It did sound crazy. I know you

738
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: didn't mean it like that, remember.

739
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,560
Speaker 2: But no, he's no, you're really gonna be like who

740
00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 2: It was just a yeah, that's what I said.

741
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 4: It was just like crazy that that happened right there.

742
00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: But anyways, let's move on. Let's move on. Okay, last,

743
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,080
Speaker 1: and then listen to the topic. Y'all.

744
00:34:05,800 --> 00:34:14,880
Speaker 2: Never have I ever recorded a sex tape? Ready for

745
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:15,760
Speaker 2: mine grew?

746
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:19,600
Speaker 1: Okay, we got another. We got some fans in here,

747
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:20,920
Speaker 1: some freaky as niggas.

748
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 4: Finally I need to stay ask and so.

749
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:29,319
Speaker 6: I'm telling you, hey, hey, hey, hey, you have do

750
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 6: you still have the tap?

751
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 1: Other person?

752
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 4: Haven't I have the tape?

753
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 1: You have plural professional tapes and cell phone for cell

754
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 1: phone is more of a little bit of both.

755
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 4: I may have a v H.

756
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 1: I'm like an old school old school food.

757
00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 4: I may have a.

758
00:34:54,920 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: VHS.

759
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:58,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was so count I was like, let's go

760
00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 4: buy the chemical.

761
00:35:01,800 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: On a vacation play. You know what I feel like.

762
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:04,480
Speaker 1: It's twenty twenty four.

763
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,520
Speaker 2: We need we do need to bring the care quarters back.

764
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:08,399
Speaker 2: Ain't nobody got up.

765
00:35:08,800 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. We bring you back a VCR.

766
00:35:12,040 --> 00:35:13,719
Speaker 5: That those are done, DVD players is done.

767
00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 1: You know, everything is streaming.

768
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 4: I knew it was a wrap one block.

769
00:35:17,960 --> 00:35:20,240
Speaker 1: You got, you got your tape. You have your tape,

770
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,919
Speaker 1: Yeah I do. It's probably my I cloud somewhere, I'm sure.

771
00:35:23,840 --> 00:35:28,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, it ain't my phone hitting your hitting folder.

772
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:30,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh, I don't have a hidden folder. No, you

773
00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,880
Speaker 1: don't have a hittenbody. You don't have a hitting folder.

774
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 1: You got to put me on that. I just got

775
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 1: in the regular joint. I mean, no, no I cloud.

776
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 4: It's probably my ie cloud. So somebody hasks my eye cloud.

777
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,760
Speaker 1: They're in for a treat. So you're deleting it uploaded

778
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,600
Speaker 1: to the I cloud. I didn't delete it.

779
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:49,439
Speaker 2: I just think it's in my eye cloud because it's

780
00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 2: like when I have it, the setting on my phone,

781
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:56,080
Speaker 2: y'all know, you don't know, no automatically stores, so it's probably.

782
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: In that somewhere. Yeah.

783
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 3: I don't have any like old tapes, so I deleted it.

784
00:36:00,280 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, I need to delete it now because when they

785
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 2: see this, somebody gonna try to hack my shit.

786
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:12,720
Speaker 1: You go back to the footage. No, you know reminisce. Yeah,

787
00:36:13,520 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 1: reminisce play.

788
00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:18,240
Speaker 4: Not like my current relationship. Yeah, you're freaky.

789
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, both relationships.

790
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:25,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, like lose set it to you like while you're

791
00:36:25,840 --> 00:36:26,840
Speaker 5: at work, remember this.

792
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 6: See get home soon, bousers, come home soon please.

793
00:36:33,680 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: Okay, So we're gonna that.

794
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 4: That kind of brings us to the next topic a

795
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 4: little bit.

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Speaker 2: have you been married? Should marry people and single people

821
00:37:51,360 --> 00:37:52,319
Speaker 2: be friends?

822
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 4: Because let me give a little context.

823
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 2: I saw a girl say something online and she was

824
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 2: basically saying she had been friends with for a long

825
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:04,439
Speaker 2: time and once her girlfriend got married, she stopped reaching

826
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:06,640
Speaker 2: out to her, she was no longer talking to her,

827
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:10,120
Speaker 2: and then a married woman responding was like, I'm not

828
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,839
Speaker 2: gonna lie. When I got married, I had I let

829
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 2: go of my single friends as well.

830
00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,160
Speaker 1: So how do y'all.

831
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:20,160
Speaker 2: Feel about, you know, like your wife hanging out with

832
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 2: single women.

833
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:22,640
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

834
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:24,879
Speaker 5: I have absolutely no issue with it. I thought he's

835
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 5: talking about us, But yeah, I have no issue with that.

836
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,120
Speaker 5: You know, because a lot of times people from the

837
00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:32,839
Speaker 5: outside will look at it as something that's admirable, right,

838
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,319
Speaker 5: Like from a female perspective, I would imagine like in

839
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:36,400
Speaker 5: the conversation she's having, like.

840
00:38:36,440 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 1: Yo, how do you do it?

841
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 5: What are you doing? What have you done to him?

842
00:38:39,920 --> 00:38:42,600
Speaker 5: Or like what is the key to this success in

843
00:38:42,640 --> 00:38:44,880
Speaker 5: a relationship? And a lot of times she just kind

844
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:49,440
Speaker 5: of sisted like I didn't do anything, Like we kind

845
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 5: of like have a bond that we built. Yes, I

846
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 5: have no issue with that at all.

847
00:38:54,560 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you hang with single men, yeah.

848
00:38:57,239 --> 00:38:59,160
Speaker 5: I mean majority of my my friends are saying I'm

849
00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 5: with him every day. You're not saying that he's not No no,

850
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:03,440
Speaker 5: I'm saying he's not married.

851
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 1: No no no no no no no no no no, he's

852
00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:06,600
Speaker 1: not married.

853
00:39:06,680 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 5: Right, So like I'm around him, I thought I got you. No, no,

854
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 5: not Yeah, he's not married, and then I'm around him

855
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 5: most of the time.

856
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: Most of my other friends are single as well.

857
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,360
Speaker 5: It really has no effect on me to be honest

858
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,600
Speaker 5: with you, like I am who I am when they're around,

859
00:39:22,840 --> 00:39:23,680
Speaker 5: when they're not around.

860
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, So there's your wife feel away though at all?

861
00:39:27,320 --> 00:39:29,279
Speaker 5: Ever now, I mean she knew us before this, right

862
00:39:29,320 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 5: before we would marry, Like this was my best friend, right,

863
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 5: so she's grown like we've all grown together, like our

864
00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,360
Speaker 5: families are really close, you know, I mean like our community,

865
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,640
Speaker 5: but we grew up everybody kind of knows each other.

866
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 5: So like his sister, my wife sister, the best friends.

867
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,160
Speaker 5: Everybody knows each other. So it wasn't like, oh my god,

868
00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 5: I don't trust you around with shot, like you was

869
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 5: hanging out when we was dated.

870
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:52,760
Speaker 1: So it ain't nothing that's too crazy.

871
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 3: Do you think that the same rule should apply though,

872
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 3: like our do apply for the opposite.

873
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,759
Speaker 1: Sake, So for a female friend.

874
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, like like you having single female friends, your wife

875
00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 3: having single male friends.

876
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,520
Speaker 5: I guess having single feel I mean, I have a

877
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:13,919
Speaker 5: few single female friends. But it's the most important part

878
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 5: is you know, being open about what that relationship is

879
00:40:17,360 --> 00:40:19,760
Speaker 5: like me and her school that used to be my coworker.

880
00:40:20,120 --> 00:40:22,720
Speaker 5: I'm saying things like that where it's like that person

881
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 5: doesn't feel like it's a threat. You don't want your

882
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,040
Speaker 5: your YEAH certificate. Others feel like this person is a

883
00:40:28,080 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 5: threat where you're super interested in somebody or they've got

884
00:40:30,800 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 5: some of the attention that you used to get. So

885
00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,319
Speaker 5: just being open about that, I think is super key.

886
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 5: If you're going to do.

887
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:38,320
Speaker 3: That, I agree because I think some people be lying

888
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 3: like that, fool people that used to be fuckingy.

889
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 4: You know what them balls look like? That ain't your friends?

890
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:51,680
Speaker 2: Scroll mom, if she know if you circumcised or not,

891
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,359
Speaker 2: that is not my god.

892
00:40:55,880 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 4: I don't like if she's seen that ping, that is

893
00:40:58,719 --> 00:40:59,720
Speaker 4: not your sister.

894
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 9: Hello, come on now.

895
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 1: Now we're s Do you want to get married? I

896
00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: feel like, oh, you can't. That's protecting the art too well.

897
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 6: The thing about it, I feel like you definitely who

898
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 6: would not want to be married?

899
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:18,759
Speaker 1: Right?

900
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:21,000
Speaker 6: Like that's something that people are envisions like having a kid, right,

901
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 6: But it's like you gotta they gotta be perfect. You

902
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 6: don't want to get married and then regret that you

903
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 6: got married. Right for me, I take my time or

904
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 6: something like that. So yeah, for sure, I think that

905
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 6: that's something that you know is commendable. Difficult, for sure,

906
00:41:37,600 --> 00:41:39,560
Speaker 6: but I think that is definitely something that you know

907
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 6: is the.

908
00:41:41,680 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: Old The overall goal, overall goal is to have something

909
00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:47,000
Speaker 1: like that.

910
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,520
Speaker 5: Sure, do y'all plan on get married at some point?

911
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:51,319
Speaker 3: I want to get married, But I don't think that's

912
00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:51,799
Speaker 3: up to me.

913
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: It's not up to you. While you say that, While

914
00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 1: you say that, I think.

915
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 3: It's ultimately like up to your man. He has to propose.

916
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:00,360
Speaker 1: I'm not.

917
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 4: Let me tell you who's not proposing to.

918
00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 1: No man.

919
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 2: God is still working on me. Let me tell you

920
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:13,440
Speaker 2: who are not proposing to know me and me. I

921
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 2: think that's one of the most.

922
00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:17,040
Speaker 6: Special It's not that you're proposed to a man, but

923
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:20,320
Speaker 6: you could be intentional about you want to have a husband,

924
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:20,880
Speaker 6: or you can.

925
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,560
Speaker 1: Cool. I don't want to get Mari, No, for sure.

926
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 3: I think if you want to be a wife, then

927
00:42:26,719 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 3: you have to move like somebody who wants to be

928
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 3: a wife.

929
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:30,880
Speaker 1: Is that you absolutely?

930
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:35,479
Speaker 3: I think in this current season of my life, I.

931
00:42:35,400 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: Do move like that. You move like a wife.

932
00:42:37,320 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 3: Yes, I move like somebody who wants to be taken

933
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 3: serious by my man, I move like somebody who wants

934
00:42:42,360 --> 00:42:44,720
Speaker 3: to build a future with him. We have conversations about

935
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,279
Speaker 3: that as well. I think you also, as a woman,

936
00:42:47,320 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 3: you can't expect the man to just marry you and

937
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:51,960
Speaker 3: you not being intentional about what you want and what

938
00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:53,719
Speaker 3: you want for the future or where you want.

939
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:55,640
Speaker 5: So then we got to retract the first team, because

940
00:42:55,640 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 5: it is you have a part to play in that.

941
00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,479
Speaker 4: You have a part to You have a part to play.

942
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,440
Speaker 3: But I think it's so many women who played the

943
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 3: part and they still don't get married.

944
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:06,839
Speaker 5: What about you? What do you mean what I mean

945
00:43:06,960 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 5: you have plans to get married?

946
00:43:08,320 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 1: Oh?

947
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 2: Absolutely, it's the same. You know, we talk about it

948
00:43:11,200 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 2: a lot. Yeah, me and him, we talk about it

949
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:19,400
Speaker 2: a lot. We have definitely gotten to like the serious point,

950
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,640
Speaker 2: you know, and so yeah, it's definitely something I want.

951
00:43:23,520 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 2: But like a test to what you said earlier, I

952
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 2: think my conversations have changed though, so you know, I'm

953
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:30,399
Speaker 2: not gonna lie. When I used to be around women

954
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 2: in relationships or married women, I'm like, oh, how could

955
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:34,200
Speaker 2: you do that? We outside, girl, we have a fun.

956
00:43:34,560 --> 00:43:36,319
Speaker 2: But now it's like when I talk to women who

957
00:43:36,320 --> 00:43:38,439
Speaker 2: have been relationships for a long time are married women,

958
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, so you know what is it like

959
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,640
Speaker 2: on the the you know when you're in there, in

960
00:43:42,719 --> 00:43:46,480
Speaker 2: there because feelings change, things change, and you have to

961
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,919
Speaker 2: change with your person together. It's hard changing on your own.

962
00:43:50,239 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 2: So I think now my conversations have changed. So I

963
00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 2: like to get a lot of insight because it is

964
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:55,880
Speaker 2: something that I want for myself.

965
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:58,480
Speaker 1: But it's some I have a partner who wants that

966
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 1: as well, right, It's yeah, that's the thing too.

967
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:03,959
Speaker 2: I feel like you have to make sure that that's

968
00:44:04,040 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 2: what the man wants because, like you said, you could

969
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 2: play a role in it as a woman, But if he's.

970
00:44:08,719 --> 00:44:11,280
Speaker 4: Not ready, you're not going to get married.

971
00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 3: Like you could be doing all of the right things,

972
00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:16,120
Speaker 3: but if a man is not ready to get married,

973
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 3: if he's not ready to take that next step, it

974
00:44:18,560 --> 00:44:21,040
Speaker 3: doesn't matter. You're not going to get married to that,

975
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:22,759
Speaker 3: at least not to that man.

976
00:44:24,239 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 5: How's your your peer relationship has been? Right as you're

977
00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:28,920
Speaker 5: looking on the other side of it? Now? Has your

978
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 5: peer group changed as you're looking at like, Yo, I'm

979
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 5: not a single girl anymore.

980
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 1: No, we can't hang out like that.

981
00:44:36,560 --> 00:44:37,240
Speaker 4: You know what's crazy?

982
00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 2: I think a big thing about it, especially with women,

983
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 2: is you not that you have to, but it's easier

984
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 2: when you're dating a man that your friends like.

985
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 4: So it's like if you're like, oh, hey.

986
00:44:48,520 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 2: Girl, I can't come out tonight, I gotta be you know,

987
00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 2: my man need this, and that they're like, okay, girl, it's cool.

988
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:56,759
Speaker 4: But if it's somebody that they don't like, bitch that nig.

989
00:44:57,480 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

990
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 2: It's true though, So it's it's like it not that

991
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 2: it's a necessity, but it does make it easier.

992
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,839
Speaker 5: Yeah, Because I mean you say, like you have like

993
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:11,359
Speaker 5: two beautiful women like yourselves. You're in a relationship, right.

994
00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,399
Speaker 5: Your friends might not be in relationship. They might try

995
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 5: to pull you back. They might be envious that you're

996
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 5: no longer doing the things that they used to do.

997
00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:20,799
Speaker 5: Like these things happen it dude.

998
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:22,920
Speaker 3: But like, I don't know, maybe that's my problem. I

999
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,840
Speaker 3: always got my hater right or on. If it be

1000
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:28,360
Speaker 3: like too much of like you being negative about my

1001
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 3: relationship and you're not in one, my little hater senses.

1002
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:32,440
Speaker 1: Is gonna start. Yeah.

1003
00:45:32,800 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 6: I was gonna think, like, I mean, I don't feel

1004
00:45:34,239 --> 00:45:36,160
Speaker 6: like anybody should feel comfortable with disrespecting you.

1005
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,319
Speaker 2: Right, Yeah, Well, I don't have to have friends that

1006
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:41,799
Speaker 2: come to me and be like I've never had friends

1007
00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:43,600
Speaker 2: that have been like, oh I like your man, or

1008
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:45,960
Speaker 2: oh I don't like your man, cause it really doesn't

1009
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:47,080
Speaker 2: matter whether you like him or not.

1010
00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 4: He's not your play.

1011
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 1: It isn't.

1012
00:45:49,120 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 2: But I will say, like, I've had friends and like

1013
00:45:52,680 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 2: that I'm still friends with that were telling me about

1014
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:56,439
Speaker 2: a guy that I was dating. But it's like, looking

1015
00:45:56,440 --> 00:45:58,359
Speaker 2: back on it, I'm glad that they did and I'm

1016
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:00,080
Speaker 2: glad they stayed in my ear about that, you know

1017
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

1018
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,160
Speaker 4: So it's a it's a thin line.

1019
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 2: He's not yeah, and you sometimes you need that, yes,

1020
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:07,920
Speaker 2: and I did better and I got.

1021
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: Better, so sometimes you low key dude, my need that.

1022
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,920
Speaker 1: It's a teetering. It's a teetering, but it's a like

1023
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: you said, a lot of it behaved. Yeah.

1024
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:21,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, Like people are jealous and they try to highlight,

1025
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 6: you know, somebody's faults.

1026
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:24,480
Speaker 1: Nobody's perfect.

1027
00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:28,200
Speaker 6: Everybody's gonna have faults, so you could pick apart anybody

1028
00:46:28,320 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 6: like if you really try hard enough. But I'm just

1029
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 6: I would I would feel away if somebody was telling

1030
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 6: me like, Yo, this girl that you're talking to, Like

1031
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,439
Speaker 6: if it's genuine, like yo, bro, Like I'm you gotta

1032
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:41,240
Speaker 6: be very delicate.

1033
00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:43,759
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, it's not about what you say. It's come

1034
00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:45,280
Speaker 1: to me with pictures.

1035
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 6: If you say like she's cheating and all that, I

1036
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 6: want to know you want the receipts, you gotta you

1037
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 6: gotta let me know that.

1038
00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 1: I appreciate you letting me know. But don't you ye like, Yo,

1039
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:58,520
Speaker 1: she's whack. She did? Like that's uncomfortable.

1040
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 4: Because it's weird because it's like two for me.

1041
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 2: If you coming to me all the time and you're

1042
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 2: telling me something about my men are like, oh I

1043
00:47:04,520 --> 00:47:05,279
Speaker 2: think you could do better.

1044
00:47:05,280 --> 00:47:06,160
Speaker 4: Oh I think X, Y and Z.

1045
00:47:06,520 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna start looking at you and who you dating,

1046
00:47:09,360 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 3: what you got going on, And I think sometimes it

1047
00:47:12,520 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 3: be those friends, Like it'll be friends who not dating,

1048
00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:17,919
Speaker 3: who not even dating anyone or the niggas that they're

1049
00:47:17,960 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 3: dating is worse or on the same level as the

1050
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:21,120
Speaker 3: man that's your daddy.

1051
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,359
Speaker 5: They're coming to you and your friend got with them.

1052
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:24,320
Speaker 1: No.

1053
00:47:24,880 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 4: Never, I've never dated, I've never taken friend.

1054
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 1: But that happens all the time.

1055
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:34,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, but but men do it.

1056
00:47:34,800 --> 00:47:36,920
Speaker 2: Men do it too, you know, Like you said, like

1057
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:38,800
Speaker 2: a man will come to a man about a girl

1058
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 2: and then.

1059
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 4: It's like just be hating low key because they low

1060
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 4: key probably won't her.

1061
00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,400
Speaker 5: I mean, it happens, though you haven't.

1062
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, it happens a lot. Let's respect them. Yeah, I

1063
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 6: think it's it's a different level too. It's like your girlfriend,

1064
00:47:53,320 --> 00:48:00,360
Speaker 6: a girl you're talking to, just a casual acquaintance, just

1065
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 6: a casual A casual A queen is not gonna have

1066
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:03,720
Speaker 6: the same level of respect.

1067
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:08,240
Speaker 1: It's a very delicate situation.

1068
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:12,719
Speaker 6: I try not to talk bad about anybody's even if

1069
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:14,960
Speaker 6: you just dating the girl. I ain't gonna talk bad

1070
00:48:15,000 --> 00:48:17,520
Speaker 6: about it to you, at least I'm not like that.

1071
00:48:18,120 --> 00:48:20,400
Speaker 2: If I see some ship, that's different, Like if I

1072
00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:23,319
Speaker 2: see it with my own eyes. If I'm out and

1073
00:48:23,400 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 2: I see a dude who's supposed to be dating one

1074
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 2: of my friends and I see him with a girl

1075
00:48:27,080 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 2: and I know they's supposed to be your man, I.

1076
00:48:28,880 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 3: Mean, hell yeah, I'm an take a picture and I'm

1077
00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 3: gonna say something. But that's because I've seen it.

1078
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 6: For nine times out of ten. That's only gonna ruin

1079
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 6: your relationship with the friend.

1080
00:48:36,560 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 3: I mean, that's cool if that's what they do, because

1081
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,399
Speaker 3: because if you're the type of person that's gonna get

1082
00:48:42,480 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 3: upset with me for trying to give you information and

1083
00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:46,760
Speaker 3: let you know what's going on, you ain't.

1084
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 4: My type of friend.

1085
00:48:47,239 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 2: No way I'm gonna get friends with you, because how

1086
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:50,120
Speaker 2: are you gonna be mad at me for trying to

1087
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 2: help you?

1088
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:52,319
Speaker 1: Exactly they are.

1089
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 4: But I'll say this, I am gonna believe me.

1090
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:57,399
Speaker 1: I have.

1091
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 4: Talking about a man. I know it's not coming from

1092
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:03,200
Speaker 4: a mean angle.

1093
00:49:03,480 --> 00:49:05,399
Speaker 2: It's not coming because I don't have friends that are

1094
00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:08,399
Speaker 2: like jealous of what I got going on, especially with them,

1095
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:12,759
Speaker 2: you know, especially with the type of man I used today.

1096
00:49:12,640 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: They ain't jealous. Day being honest, I'm not throwing shade.

1097
00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:19,840
Speaker 4: I'm just it's the prickly.

1098
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,800
Speaker 1: Prick mean, the spritzer sprints and sprins.

1099
00:49:23,360 --> 00:49:25,600
Speaker 2: No, I mean, I being funny, But seriously, I feel

1100
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:28,480
Speaker 2: like with my friends too, these are like sisters to me.

1101
00:49:28,920 --> 00:49:32,200
Speaker 4: So it's like I said, they have my best.

1102
00:49:31,840 --> 00:49:36,040
Speaker 2: Interests, you know, and it's it's been a journey, you

1103
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,040
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, just to get me to where

1104
00:49:38,080 --> 00:49:39,280
Speaker 2: I am as far as even.

1105
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 4: With my confidence.

1106
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 2: A lot of times and I think they know that

1107
00:49:41,280 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 2: about me, and I'm so giving. I have a big heart,

1108
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:46,520
Speaker 2: so they know I will give my all. May be like, Okay, Lex,

1109
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:47,439
Speaker 2: you're doing too much.

1110
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:49,640
Speaker 1: You know. I'm a lover girl. I love love.

1111
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:54,920
Speaker 2: I romanticize everything. Okay, Yes, I I say this all time.

1112
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:56,879
Speaker 2: A writer will bring me a drink and actually touch

1113
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,240
Speaker 2: my hand and I'll be like, are we in love?

1114
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,720
Speaker 1: Is this a date? You know what I'm saying?

1115
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:06,319
Speaker 2: Like if he bring me my life that it just

1116
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:07,400
Speaker 2: brought me my gumbo.

1117
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 4: First, I was like, what does this mean? What are we?

1118
00:50:14,200 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: What are we? Is it meant to be? Hello? That's me?

1119
00:50:18,040 --> 00:50:19,680
Speaker 2: So I think a lot of times my friends feel

1120
00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:20,600
Speaker 2: like they gotta protect me.

1121
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:22,760
Speaker 4: She's crazy, you know what I'm saying.

1122
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:23,560
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1123
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 3: I feel like friends and friendship is like always a

1124
00:50:26,560 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 3: weird conversation.

1125
00:50:27,440 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: To me, your friends, I feel like that I agree with.

1126
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:32,719
Speaker 3: And if you are going to talk to your friends

1127
00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 3: about things, I just think you shouldn't internalize their opinions. Yeah, Like,

1128
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:38,239
Speaker 3: you know, if you're going to talk to them about

1129
00:50:38,280 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 3: your relationship or whatever the case may be, you gotta

1130
00:50:40,239 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 3: be okay with whatever they say because you open the

1131
00:50:43,000 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 3: floor for them to give their opinion, but I think

1132
00:50:45,600 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 3: you shouldn't internalize what they say.

1133
00:50:47,719 --> 00:50:49,640
Speaker 4: You should still always it's.

1134
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:52,360
Speaker 6: Hard not to do that though, if somebody's telling you something,

1135
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:55,000
Speaker 6: even if psychologically you take it in.

1136
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:55,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, And it.

1137
00:50:56,239 --> 00:50:57,800
Speaker 5: Depends on who the messenger is, right, Like, if you

1138
00:50:57,920 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 5: tell me something, I know it's like this is the

1139
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 5: let people probably have said it, and this is the

1140
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:06,360
Speaker 5: only person. Yeah, right, so they told you gotta say something.

1141
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 5: I think it's probably vice versas. Like I'm never gonna

1142
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:10,839
Speaker 5: talk to her about a relationship. I feel but if

1143
00:51:10,880 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 5: I had to think this is like, you know, it's

1144
00:51:13,560 --> 00:51:16,800
Speaker 5: serious because it's not gonna happen just normally.

1145
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, dreas is that I'm not gonna say nothing until

1146
00:51:19,440 --> 00:51:22,319
Speaker 3: she gets real bad, Like you could come talk to

1147
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 3: me about your relationship and you don't have to worry

1148
00:51:24,800 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 3: about me judging because and I feel like that's why

1149
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:29,120
Speaker 3: Lex kind of always talk to me about her relationship.

1150
00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:29,799
Speaker 4: But but I don't.

1151
00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:33,800
Speaker 2: I honestly truly never really have an opinion or commy.

1152
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:36,120
Speaker 2: I never try to tell her what to do unless

1153
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 2: she asked me what she thinks she should do and

1154
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 2: then she asked me or some crazy if some shit

1155
00:51:40,239 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 2: happened is too crazy.

1156
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:43,640
Speaker 4: I'm like, I always know when you're about to play

1157
00:51:43,680 --> 00:51:44,440
Speaker 4: it on me because.

1158
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 3: You'd be like, I'd be like this time another she'd

1159
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 3: be like another.

1160
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:51,800
Speaker 2: I hate when you say friend, yeah, because that you

1161
00:51:51,880 --> 00:51:53,240
Speaker 2: be trying to put that butter.

1162
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:54,919
Speaker 3: On because you got to you gotta put a little

1163
00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 3: butter on there, but you gotta you gotta go on

1164
00:51:57,560 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 3: ahead and let the person know. But I feel like

1165
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 3: people who are like overly always just overly ready to

1166
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,320
Speaker 3: let you know what they don't like about your relationship

1167
00:52:06,480 --> 00:52:08,000
Speaker 3: or what they just because you're talking to.

1168
00:52:07,920 --> 00:52:08,560
Speaker 1: Them about it.

1169
00:52:08,719 --> 00:52:10,560
Speaker 3: People like that have weird energy to me, and I

1170
00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,239
Speaker 3: feel like they don't have genuine intention, like they low

1171
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 3: key kind of hating, like yeah, your nigga probably a

1172
00:52:15,160 --> 00:52:25,120
Speaker 3: fu nigga, like yo, yeah he probably on some sheet,

1173
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:29,440
Speaker 3: but you low he also wanted to be single, like you.

1174
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:33,520
Speaker 5: A fact y y'ah. So y'all go on like double dates?

1175
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 5: Would y'all do that? No, we have relationships separate, that's friend.

1176
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:39,480
Speaker 4: We went on a.

1177
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:41,760
Speaker 3: Few do we have it on a few double days

1178
00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:43,360
Speaker 3: when they was all disasters?

1179
00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: Oh, but we had a ball.

1180
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 3: We had a time because we was there together but

1181
00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:49,640
Speaker 3: the dates were disasterful.

1182
00:52:50,160 --> 00:52:51,560
Speaker 1: It was like a blind double date.

1183
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,480
Speaker 2: One time it was but one man spoke French, barely

1184
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 2: spoke English.

1185
00:52:56,160 --> 00:52:58,920
Speaker 1: And I was on the day with his interpreter. No yeah,

1186
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 1: which means he was like it was like five.

1187
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:03,000
Speaker 4: He would say something.

1188
00:53:03,040 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 2: He would be like and the guy would be like,

1189
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 2: he said, you got a fat ass and you look good.

1190
00:53:09,360 --> 00:53:10,359
Speaker 1: Oh he had somebody with.

1191
00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 2: He was like more hall, y'all Halloween weed Hall.

1192
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:17,719
Speaker 3: I was on a date with the French dude and

1193
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 3: like his interpreter was there, and I.

1194
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:24,799
Speaker 6: Was like what he said, y'all both have y'all both

1195
00:53:24,800 --> 00:53:26,200
Speaker 6: have French dudes with interpreters.

1196
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:26,840
Speaker 1: No.

1197
00:53:26,640 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 9: No.

1198
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,760
Speaker 4: The guy that I went, I was like kind of like, tag.

1199
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:32,920
Speaker 2: Along you had you had the French dude, know she

1200
00:53:33,120 --> 00:53:33,879
Speaker 2: had the French guy.

1201
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:38,680
Speaker 1: French guy with the interpreter. Yeah, you have in you.

1202
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:44,040
Speaker 1: I was this, that's a that's a wing man. Yeah,

1203
00:53:44,080 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying.

1204
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 4: I was supposed to tag along, but the interpreter started

1205
00:53:47,040 --> 00:53:48,880
Speaker 4: flirting with me and.

1206
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:54,200
Speaker 2: I said, hey, passed me the cargo. They took us

1207
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 2: to a French rash and that was the first time

1208
00:53:55,719 --> 00:53:59,720
Speaker 2: we had in Atlanta, and we was sucking that as cargo.

1209
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:00,919
Speaker 4: It's still open.

1210
00:54:01,000 --> 00:54:03,479
Speaker 3: It's called let petite something French.

1211
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 2: Yes, it would have been a great was before like

1212
00:54:08,600 --> 00:54:10,680
Speaker 2: the show, really before the show took off.

1213
00:54:10,680 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 3: But it was fun and me and him was just

1214
00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:13,880
Speaker 3: talking the whole time on Google Translate.

1215
00:54:13,920 --> 00:54:14,799
Speaker 4: We was texting each other.

1216
00:54:14,960 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 1: He didn't speak English.

1217
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 4: At all, barely, was like, shut up, shut.

1218
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 1: Up, howdy shut up? How did y'all? How'd y'all all?

1219
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:34,680
Speaker 3: The funny thing is it didn't even last for a

1220
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 3: long time, like we was talking for like maybe a

1221
00:54:37,080 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 3: few months, and it never No.

1222
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:42,800
Speaker 4: I met him out in Atlanta at Blue how y'all.

1223
00:54:42,640 --> 00:54:47,879
Speaker 5: Talking if you're Google translating the translator when he's not there,

1224
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 5: He's always there.

1225
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 4: We will talk on what'spp.

1226
00:54:51,520 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I mean I'm sure what he would do

1227
00:54:54,040 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 3: is put it in Google Translate and then seend it

1228
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:57,000
Speaker 3: to me.

1229
00:54:57,280 --> 00:55:01,399
Speaker 4: And then he really wanted that you see you see her.

1230
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 1: We went home.

1231
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 4: It was fun.

1232
00:55:05,360 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 6: It was like.

1233
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 4: Interesting situation. Yeah he was.

1234
00:55:11,000 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 1: We got some stories.

1235
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:17,719
Speaker 4: From Cameroon or something. Yeah, but it was fun. It

1236
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:22,840
Speaker 4: was definitely situation. He was, but he what he lived

1237
00:55:22,840 --> 00:55:23,240
Speaker 4: in France?

1238
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, soccer player.

1239
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 3: No, she said it was a long time. That's a

1240
00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 3: new It was an entrepreneur. He had a few businesses, but.

1241
00:55:35,239 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 1: Every syllable was pronounced. But no, and then we were.

1242
00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:46,719
Speaker 2: Another time, which one remember with, oh god.

1243
00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:52,440
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. I didn't mean to bring that up. You

1244
00:55:52,480 --> 00:55:53,439
Speaker 4: look traumatized.

1245
00:55:53,520 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 2: I was, because you know a lot of the the

1246
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,680
Speaker 2: double days that we went on was always like a

1247
00:55:57,719 --> 00:55:59,960
Speaker 2: guy she was talking to and like he had a friend.

1248
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:01,799
Speaker 1: I'd be like, Okay, I'll tag along to go for

1249
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:03,960
Speaker 1: the ride. Wing man.

1250
00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:05,719
Speaker 3: I know, I hate, and when I was younger, I

1251
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:08,279
Speaker 3: used to hate to go on she did. She like

1252
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:12,759
Speaker 3: I would have to bring concerns or safety concerns. In any case,

1253
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 3: I don't like him. I still want to have a

1254
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:14,600
Speaker 3: good time.

1255
00:56:15,360 --> 00:56:15,600
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1256
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 6: It's so like if I advice you on a date,

1257
00:56:18,120 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 6: and are you telling him that you're bringing your friends

1258
00:56:21,600 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 6: sometimes because they got to be prepared, because if not,

1259
00:56:24,160 --> 00:56:25,719
Speaker 6: then you got two girls on the date.

1260
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:26,200
Speaker 9: Yeah.

1261
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 2: I mean sometimes I told them sometimes I need Sometimes

1262
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 2: I would just bring my friend.

1263
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:31,319
Speaker 4: I'd be like, hey, we're here.

1264
00:56:32,520 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: That's awful. You just have to entertain two people. You

1265
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:36,360
Speaker 1: ain't got to entertainment.

1266
00:56:36,800 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 3: I'm entertaining y'all, but I'm not gonna lie and y'all

1267
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:41,120
Speaker 3: can tell me and lakes are a good time.

1268
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 4: So I feel like I never brought her on a

1269
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 4: date with me.

1270
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 1: He never been mad. I walk in with it.

1271
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 4: I got a big booty and I got jokes.

1272
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:53,080
Speaker 6: Oh you went for what's more you got and it's

1273
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:55,799
Speaker 6: for free? Well you say free, you're paying.

1274
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 1: You're paying. It's for free for for you? What do

1275
00:56:59,000 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 1: you mean to show up now the same? You know

1276
00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:07,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. If he budgeted for two, you better

1277
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 1: budget for three. And then I like to eat that.

1278
00:57:11,360 --> 00:57:13,160
Speaker 1: We like.

1279
00:57:14,719 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 6: The Dumbo budgets that tip the scale, that tip the scale.

1280
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 1: But we were young, We was We were young.

1281
00:57:21,720 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 2: I would never do that in my thirties either. I

1282
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:25,960
Speaker 2: think when you're dating with intentions, you wouldn't do that.

1283
00:57:26,040 --> 00:57:27,560
Speaker 2: But we were having fun. We're young.

1284
00:57:27,680 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 1: It sounds like it was fun.

1285
00:57:28,760 --> 00:57:29,680
Speaker 4: I mean, we had a ball.

1286
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 2: But we always tell the girls in Texas Atlanta bowls. Yeah,

1287
00:57:34,080 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 2: because I feel like this a lot of times people

1288
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:38,439
Speaker 2: look at me and Drea and they'd be like, y'all

1289
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 2: so childish.

1290
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 4: When y'all gonna grow up.

1291
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:42,400
Speaker 2: First of all, y'all have to, but they have to remember,

1292
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 2: why do I gotta grow up.

1293
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 1: Well, no, I won't say that.

1294
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 4: I'll say this.

1295
00:57:46,880 --> 00:57:50,360
Speaker 2: They be forgetting, like we're older than y'all. We're Drea

1296
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 2: thirty three, I'm thirty four. I'll be thirty five in

1297
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:52,960
Speaker 2: a few weeks.

1298
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 1: Okay.

1299
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 4: So a lot of these stories that we're.

1300
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:58,680
Speaker 1: Telling birthday party, No, I don't work.

1301
00:57:58,920 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 3: Okay, we're gonna play.

1302
00:58:00,240 --> 00:58:04,080
Speaker 1: It's gonna be us four, fix it up in August,

1303
00:58:04,400 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: August and August.

1304
00:58:06,240 --> 00:58:10,080
Speaker 2: Le yeah, like close to these seventeen I'm a leo.

1305
00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1306
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 2: Well, I'll say this though, I think a lot of

1307
00:58:12,920 --> 00:58:15,000
Speaker 2: times people forget because we do have fun.

1308
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:16,840
Speaker 1: Like I'm in my mid thirties.

1309
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 2: Okay, so a lot of these stories we're telling or

1310
00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,919
Speaker 2: in our twenties, So we like to tell like you're young,

1311
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:25,000
Speaker 2: go have fun. But they can see the transition that

1312
00:58:25,040 --> 00:58:27,720
Speaker 2: we've also done. But if you in your twenties, go

1313
00:58:27,840 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 2: have fun, that's what you're supposed to do. Because I'm

1314
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 2: so glad that we did that, because not only did

1315
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,160
Speaker 2: we learn what type of men that we liked, we

1316
00:58:34,240 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 2: also learned what not to do, because, like I said,

1317
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 2: in my thirties, I would never if a man asked

1318
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:40,880
Speaker 2: me on a date. Now, that I'm actually interested in.

1319
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 2: I would never take her on a date. Vice start

1320
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 2: my friend, you know what I'm saying. But in your twenties,

1321
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,760
Speaker 2: turn up, bring of her girl friend up, have a

1322
00:58:48,800 --> 00:58:49,320
Speaker 2: good time.

1323
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 4: He might got a friend, you.

1324
00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:51,320
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.

1325
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:52,320
Speaker 4: He might invite them.

1326
00:58:52,840 --> 00:58:55,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, or he might he might play the two for one.

1327
00:58:56,480 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 1: Absolutely your twenties went down. I'm just saying, not what

1328
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,480
Speaker 1: y'all per se, but I'm just saying, you.

1329
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 6: Gotta to take that, and that's it got to be

1330
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 6: on the table if I'm paying for two stakes that

1331
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 6: at least have to we at least have to have

1332
00:59:12,280 --> 00:59:18,240
Speaker 6: because at the it's not on the table to go no, no, no,

1333
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 6: it's at least a conversation to have a laugh out

1334
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:24,880
Speaker 6: loud moment if it like no, no, no, no no no

1335
00:59:25,080 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 6: no no, no no no.

1336
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:29,080
Speaker 1: Let's let's not get crazy here. Let's not get crazy.

1337
00:59:29,200 --> 00:59:30,800
Speaker 1: That's crazy. You heard this.

1338
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:33,640
Speaker 5: I said, what happens after dinner? She said, dinner, then

1339
00:59:33,680 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 5: I go home.

1340
00:59:34,560 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 6: Okay, I'm not saying that, that's not wrong with that,

1341
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 6: but let's not get crazy.

1342
00:59:38,880 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 1: Let's not get crazy.

1343
00:59:40,560 --> 00:59:44,360
Speaker 6: If there's a thousand people that pull this off at

1344
00:59:44,360 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 6: a certain point in time, somebody is going to fall

1345
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 6: in that web.

1346
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: They got to pay that tail. Fortunately, unfortunately, what tab

1347
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:57,120
Speaker 1: are you referring to? You? You know that tail.

1348
00:59:58,440 --> 01:00:02,160
Speaker 2: You take a girl out, somebody gotta pay that tab.

1349
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:09,480
Speaker 2: You gotta pay that tab. I heard, but you know

1350
01:00:10,080 --> 01:00:13,479
Speaker 2: talking about the girls. Ain't knowing to the homegirls out.

1351
01:00:13,440 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 6: Y'all don't win to the Oh you're talking about the

1352
01:00:15,720 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 6: tab the bill for everybody.

1353
01:00:17,040 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, he don't pay the tab. You gotta pay that tab, la,

1354
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:23,120
Speaker 4: You gotta pay him back.

1355
01:00:23,240 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 6: You know, somebody has to pay reciprocity play.

1356
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying the two to one.

1357
01:00:28,400 --> 01:00:30,160
Speaker 6: If you're going through the two for one and some

1358
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 6: it might it might be a Tuesday, it might be

1359
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:33,720
Speaker 6: Happy hour Friday.

1360
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:36,520
Speaker 1: But it's a possibility that this one.

1361
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:38,800
Speaker 2: No, it's not a possibility. But sometimes I'll let my

1362
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 2: homegirl know, you gotta pay that tab.

1363
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:41,080
Speaker 4: Bro.

1364
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,840
Speaker 2: This nigga took us out a lot of times and

1365
01:00:43,920 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 2: he girl just gonna pay the town. But I'm not

1366
01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 2: taking no, dre don't ever pay the tab and life No,

1367
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:52,680
Speaker 2: I ain't never seen Dreda you know, pay.

1368
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:55,080
Speaker 1: But sometimes paying the tab means like.

1369
01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:58,160
Speaker 6: Me, I'm saying in a relationship, somebody gonna pay it,

1370
01:00:58,240 --> 01:01:00,080
Speaker 6: not me in a relationship you.

1371
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:02,360
Speaker 1: No, no, no, we're not talking about relationships.

1372
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:05,200
Speaker 4: In a relationship, like I pay that tab every.

1373
01:01:05,080 --> 01:01:09,000
Speaker 1: Night, every night. I respect that everything.

1374
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:10,160
Speaker 9: This is.

1375
01:01:13,360 --> 01:01:17,560
Speaker 4: The covered. I know when we go out, I'll be

1376
01:01:17,600 --> 01:01:20,480
Speaker 4: having the ball all right now, three balls?

1377
01:01:20,880 --> 01:01:24,160
Speaker 1: The jab is covered. Yeah, shout out to the tab.

1378
01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:25,200
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1379
01:01:25,240 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 2: But you some girls, know, you know when you see

1380
01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 2: a girl sometimes I will say the times are different.

1381
01:01:32,320 --> 01:01:34,040
Speaker 2: Women are making money. Now, this is not what I'm

1382
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 2: talking about. But you know if you see like a

1383
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,080
Speaker 2: girl on vacation with like some guys.

1384
01:01:37,840 --> 01:01:39,200
Speaker 4: Or something, and like, you.

1385
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:42,400
Speaker 7: Know, she don't pay that, that's all right, No, yes,

1386
01:01:43,120 --> 01:01:46,960
Speaker 7: not all the time though, women travel because people is

1387
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:48,920
Speaker 7: being funny about us going to a visa.

1388
01:01:48,720 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 1: And we did that. Ya, y'all got y'all got a

1389
01:01:51,320 --> 01:01:52,120
Speaker 1: successful show.

1390
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:55,520
Speaker 6: I'm talking about if you travel with a man and

1391
01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:58,680
Speaker 6: a man is paying for your travel, not all.

1392
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:01,320
Speaker 1: The time, no, all the time. They had to pay

1393
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: the tab.

1394
01:02:01,760 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 6: No, no, no, a tap has to be paid, you know,

1395
01:02:05,800 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 6: or don't travel, No, don't or don't travel. So you

1396
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 6: got to travel halfway across the world, sleep in the

1397
01:02:12,360 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 6: same bed and not pay the tap.

1398
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 4: Absolutely.

1399
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:18,680
Speaker 1: Hey, I'm done, I'm don a ditch. Let's go. I

1400
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:21,680
Speaker 1: runs out on my tap on the international on the

1401
01:02:21,760 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 1: international truck. Yeah, but why would you go.

1402
01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:27,640
Speaker 4: I love for the risks. Let me tell you one

1403
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:31,600
Speaker 4: time I went under. Let me tell you something, love.

1404
01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:35,480
Speaker 1: I'll steal sails.

1405
01:02:35,520 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 2: You think I ain't gonna steal my own pussy?

1406
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:45,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, give it back, yo, I ain't got right now.

1407
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: But all right, but that's not recommended though, right, what's not?

1408
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:55,439
Speaker 1: Thirty four year old woman, I'm fire you off.

1409
01:02:55,480 --> 01:02:56,840
Speaker 4: You do not got to pay that tab?

1410
01:02:56,920 --> 01:02:59,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, no, no, No, that's that's different a thirty year

1411
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:02,160
Speaker 5: old woman. What's up with that? Because at forty it

1412
01:03:02,240 --> 01:03:04,680
Speaker 5: becomes even more like it's almost an expectation.

1413
01:03:04,960 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 1: No, that's what I'm saying.

1414
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:10,720
Speaker 2: At thirty four, like I'm not traveling with at this age.

1415
01:03:10,800 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, twenty so I definitely ran out on the tab international.

1416
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:16,880
Speaker 1: Come on, now, let's just have what let's just have

1417
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 1: you got her pictures? Still that nigga.

1418
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:21,920
Speaker 6: But I think it's this, Like you said, if something happens,

1419
01:03:22,040 --> 01:03:24,560
Speaker 6: if it's a turnoff, of course you always have the right. Yeah,

1420
01:03:24,600 --> 01:03:28,240
Speaker 6: I'm just saying you should mentally be prepared going into

1421
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:31,040
Speaker 6: it to say you're prepared, You're you're preparing yourself to

1422
01:03:31,040 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 6: pay that tab, right or don't.

1423
01:03:33,640 --> 01:03:35,080
Speaker 1: Go or don't go?

1424
01:03:35,400 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 2: I do at this current point in my life, I

1425
01:03:37,560 --> 01:03:41,000
Speaker 2: would say, honestly, in my thirties period, I feel like,

1426
01:03:41,080 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 2: if you are not trying to fuck with a nigga

1427
01:03:43,080 --> 01:03:43,760
Speaker 2: like that, why are you?

1428
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 1: That's it?

1429
01:03:45,520 --> 01:03:47,520
Speaker 4: Tom, You were different but also.

1430
01:03:47,400 --> 01:03:49,600
Speaker 3: Different back then. I do feel like when when I

1431
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 3: was in my twenties, shit was just different.

1432
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 4: The client was it was a lot different.

1433
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 2: It was the girl's been talking too much and the

1434
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 2: guy's been talking too much.

1435
01:03:58,240 --> 01:04:00,800
Speaker 1: So now everybody put on game they figured out.

1436
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:05,000
Speaker 5: Was running out of the game, running out International.

1437
01:04:05,040 --> 01:04:08,840
Speaker 1: That's yeah, run out Internet. If she ran out Internet,

1438
01:04:08,880 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 1: I ain't if you was me.

1439
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:12,840
Speaker 3: What would you do if you was in the ocean

1440
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 3: swiming and somebody's teeth fell out?

1441
01:04:16,320 --> 01:04:19,960
Speaker 1: The whole one? Two for the whole front if it was.

1442
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:22,959
Speaker 10: One but all of if somebody's tea fell out their mouse,

1443
01:04:23,120 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 10: like or do you give some more details?

1444
01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 2: You flew out a girl or a girl let's flew

1445
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,680
Speaker 2: you out and she wants you to pay that tab.

1446
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 4: You having a good time, and then her teeth fall.

1447
01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 6: Out you know, I'm not getting flown out.

1448
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:41,280
Speaker 1: I understand. I'm not. Look, let's just be honest.

1449
01:04:42,360 --> 01:04:46,160
Speaker 6: If you bring if a man brings a girl to Jamaica,

1450
01:04:47,160 --> 01:04:50,640
Speaker 6: to London to Eb's, that you pick a spot, right,

1451
01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:51,200
Speaker 6: mm hmm.

1452
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,160
Speaker 1: He's expecting that he's going to have sex with the girl.

1453
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 4: Of course he is.

1454
01:04:56,080 --> 01:04:58,120
Speaker 1: Of course the girl should be expecting to have sex

1455
01:04:58,160 --> 01:04:58,600
Speaker 1: with the man.

1456
01:05:01,440 --> 01:05:05,040
Speaker 2: That was an agreement. I just say that wasn't unless

1457
01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 2: we talked about that beforehand. I don't owe you nothing,

1458
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 2: yore bad you. It wasn't on your side.

1459
01:05:12,680 --> 01:05:14,560
Speaker 4: I should have said that expectation.

1460
01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:19,520
Speaker 2: I didn't read the fine print, and yeah, something if

1461
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 2: a nigga said an expectation with me and he like,

1462
01:05:21,760 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 2: oh if you gonna pay that sad, we ain't going.

1463
01:05:24,800 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 4: This ain't going.

1464
01:05:25,880 --> 01:05:28,440
Speaker 6: You're not going. But that's who's gonna really say that.

1465
01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:32,000
Speaker 6: You're not You're gonna You might imply it, but you're

1466
01:05:32,000 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 6: not going to you.

1467
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying.

1468
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:37,360
Speaker 5: Even if he implied all all things like square right,

1469
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 5: if you twenty five, twenty six, twenty seven years old,

1470
01:05:40,720 --> 01:05:43,600
Speaker 5: you you're working a nine to five, right, you're working

1471
01:05:43,640 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 5: at Marshal's or something.

1472
01:05:44,480 --> 01:05:47,840
Speaker 1: Like that, why Marshalls he need Marshall.

1473
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 5: Saying, and a dude and a dude is a dude

1474
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:53,440
Speaker 5: is about to take you. At least, Fiji, you're not

1475
01:05:53,440 --> 01:05:55,960
Speaker 5: turning it down. I'm just saying, jamakee whatever, you're not

1476
01:05:56,000 --> 01:05:57,440
Speaker 5: turning it down. At least I'll say this.

1477
01:05:57,720 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 4: If the bob's are vibing and you want to you're

1478
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:03,880
Speaker 4: didn't have fun, Yeah, go ahead, but you shouldn't feel pressed.

1479
01:06:04,040 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 1: No, it's not pressed. It there is sort of an expectation.

1480
01:06:07,080 --> 01:06:08,360
Speaker 1: You can't. It is an expectation.

1481
01:06:09,400 --> 01:06:11,240
Speaker 4: But I didn't expect you to bring me here. We're

1482
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:12,080
Speaker 4: both surprised.

1483
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 5: And now you hear you Yeah you're crazy, but I agree.

1484
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:18,960
Speaker 3: I mean, I just feel like, look, well, I ain't

1485
01:06:18,960 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 3: gonna lie. I never had expectations on paying the table.

1486
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:22,400
Speaker 3: When them teeth fell out.

1487
01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:25,880
Speaker 1: I said, this is teeth fell out of his mouth,

1488
01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:27,280
Speaker 1: but the whole front.

1489
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:29,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, we was in the ocean snorkling.

1490
01:06:29,880 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 1: It was ventures well, he had was getting his ers.

1491
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:37,520
Speaker 1: His teeth fell it was it wasn't like he had

1492
01:06:37,560 --> 01:06:38,520
Speaker 1: he was toothless.

1493
01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:41,640
Speaker 2: He just had like it was all the temporary ones

1494
01:06:41,720 --> 01:06:42,680
Speaker 2: before they get the act.

1495
01:06:42,680 --> 01:06:43,200
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

1496
01:06:43,240 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 5: So what happens next you leave, like you go back

1497
01:06:45,080 --> 01:06:45,880
Speaker 5: to a different hotels.

1498
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:46,919
Speaker 1: Like what you do you get on a flight?

1499
01:06:47,400 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 2: Talking about restaurant, he was get yo, my aunt Sal

1500
01:06:55,840 --> 01:06:57,040
Speaker 2: got to pay that carry out?

1501
01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:04,600
Speaker 1: Oh did he still.

1502
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:03,440
Speaker 4: Wanted that motherfucking payment.

1503
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 1: He made the move for the tab. He made the

1504
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:07,880
Speaker 1: move for the tab.

1505
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 2: What do you what do you mean already been making

1506
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:12,280
Speaker 2: the move.

1507
01:07:12,160 --> 01:07:12,720
Speaker 1: For the tab.

1508
01:07:13,040 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 5: After the te absolutely still was fine and damn no

1509
01:07:16,640 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 5: teething them.

1510
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:22,400
Speaker 1: He continued, how many days with it?

1511
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:26,240
Speaker 6: Until the trip was, oh, like more days, some more days,

1512
01:07:26,240 --> 01:07:27,320
Speaker 6: a lifetimes, a long time.

1513
01:07:27,400 --> 01:07:29,800
Speaker 5: That's a long time, because I got you gotta eat together.

1514
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 1: Two more days with no teeth.

1515
01:07:31,040 --> 01:07:33,320
Speaker 6: He was at the table and it was just yato,

1516
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:35,720
Speaker 6: I'm not gonna You.

1517
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:37,560
Speaker 2: Know, when people lose their teeth, they.

1518
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:40,600
Speaker 4: Gums get hard. My my great grandfather bet an apple

1519
01:07:40,640 --> 01:07:46,080
Speaker 4: with his guns. Oh it's a crow crip, a real nigga.

1520
01:07:46,320 --> 01:07:48,880
Speaker 2: My great grandfather, his gums got hard because he had

1521
01:07:48,920 --> 01:07:49,680
Speaker 2: lost his teeth.

1522
01:07:49,840 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 1: Gums got hard.

1523
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:53,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, his gums got hard. So he used to buy apples.

1524
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:54,800
Speaker 1: With his gun. So he just had he didn't have

1525
01:07:55,120 --> 01:07:58,200
Speaker 1: fake teeth, no real nigga all.

1526
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:02,400
Speaker 2: Day, all day and tomorrow findest he was from Bening, Louisiana.

1527
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:07,840
Speaker 4: That was a Louisiana Nigga Okays wrestling up there like

1528
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:08,880
Speaker 4: hell yeah.

1529
01:08:09,160 --> 01:08:09,520
Speaker 1: Yeah that.

1530
01:08:15,760 --> 01:08:18,360
Speaker 6: Running out on it, running out on it, running out

1531
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:19,960
Speaker 6: on the tavage crazy.

1532
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:20,759
Speaker 4: Sometimes.

1533
01:08:21,200 --> 01:08:24,639
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1553
01:09:22,080 --> 01:09:28,440
Speaker 2: Y'all all the bay ow bow bow bow.

1554
01:09:29,880 --> 01:09:31,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're already into the bad.

1555
01:09:31,640 --> 01:09:35,080
Speaker 3: So for the band topic, I really wanted to talk about.

1556
01:09:36,600 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 3: It's boring sex, okay, every now and need no, no, never.

1557
01:09:43,400 --> 01:09:46,040
Speaker 1: Boring, boring like you know, boring.

1558
01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:48,559
Speaker 10: Sex like you know you just I mean, let's be honest,

1559
01:09:48,640 --> 01:09:53,360
Speaker 10: laid everybody, No, no, no, no, not boris it's not okay.

1560
01:09:54,400 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 6: You just want to get the missionary. Let's get off. Yeah,

1561
01:09:57,200 --> 01:10:00,720
Speaker 6: I'm tired. Yeah, I don't got tired of be doing

1562
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:03,200
Speaker 6: acrobat if you gotta.

1563
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:06,400
Speaker 4: If I time and I lean over and I lit

1564
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 4: that that working, I got.

1565
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:15,400
Speaker 1: I do it all lazyhead, lazy head is unacceptable. Lazy sex.

1566
01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:19,439
Speaker 2: Just gotta get it not not lazy not she said,

1567
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:23,519
Speaker 2: Boring sex said boring regular? You mean a regular, That's

1568
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:26,040
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. But that to me, lady, text is boring.

1569
01:10:26,520 --> 01:10:28,080
Speaker 2: You're just trying to get that get.

1570
01:10:28,000 --> 01:10:32,040
Speaker 1: It in and you straight and going going about your

1571
01:10:32,120 --> 01:10:32,760
Speaker 1: day type ship.

1572
01:10:33,240 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you why are you not okay with it?

1573
01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 5: It's always exciting I feel like anytime you get to

1574
01:10:38,760 --> 01:10:41,559
Speaker 5: express that you know with your partner, it should be excited.

1575
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:43,680
Speaker 1: You're looking forward to you want to have more, So

1576
01:10:43,760 --> 01:10:44,519
Speaker 1: it's always exciting.

1577
01:10:46,240 --> 01:10:48,080
Speaker 4: I mean sometimes i'd be like, Okay, you know, I

1578
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:50,479
Speaker 4: want to get it in, but I'm necessarily not looking

1579
01:10:50,520 --> 01:10:52,439
Speaker 4: for him. You know, don't spin me up side.

1580
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:57,560
Speaker 1: Flipping at a reverse it boy, you better beat this

1581
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:01,000
Speaker 1: ship up. I got things to do, and it's not exciting.

1582
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:04,599
Speaker 1: I'm yere, we're hustling. That's crazy, I'm saying.

1583
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 4: I look at it, I'm hustling.

1584
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:08,280
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, Like, that's what it's. That's

1585
01:11:08,280 --> 01:11:09,479
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, Like at least to that.

1586
01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 4: I got a hot three foot, I got a hot five, just.

1587
01:11:13,680 --> 01:11:15,400
Speaker 1: Like this is crazy looking at the watch like I

1588
01:11:15,400 --> 01:11:20,680
Speaker 1: got crazy? Hey, you want why I only got four? Wait?

1589
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:23,800
Speaker 5: I rather I'd rather wait till we make it something

1590
01:11:23,840 --> 01:11:24,439
Speaker 5: really special.

1591
01:11:24,720 --> 01:11:27,840
Speaker 6: Oh hell, that's not everything I'm looking at. Like you

1592
01:11:28,040 --> 01:11:30,439
Speaker 6: only got every single nast but you might not have

1593
01:11:30,520 --> 01:11:31,120
Speaker 6: that every single night.

1594
01:11:31,160 --> 01:11:34,320
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That means you're skipping. Skip a day.

1595
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:36,479
Speaker 1: You might have two weeks if you tired. It's like,

1596
01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 1: all right, cool, you tired. Weeks cool the weeks it's okay.

1597
01:11:40,000 --> 01:11:41,840
Speaker 3: Sometimes, I mean I feel like every time it's not

1598
01:11:41,960 --> 01:11:42,839
Speaker 3: going to be forward.

1599
01:11:43,120 --> 01:11:46,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, were just getting it done. We got get it done.

1600
01:11:47,040 --> 01:11:49,000
Speaker 5: Yeah, I get it done. But you looking at your

1601
01:11:49,360 --> 01:11:53,000
Speaker 5: your watch like I only got two minutes and I mean.

1602
01:11:53,000 --> 01:11:55,840
Speaker 4: Not looking at my watch literally, but looking at my

1603
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:56,640
Speaker 4: rollies about this.

1604
01:11:56,720 --> 01:11:58,519
Speaker 2: But sometimes it might be like, you know, we don't

1605
01:11:58,560 --> 01:12:00,360
Speaker 2: have a lot of time, or I'm tied, but we

1606
01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:01,840
Speaker 2: both want to do it, but we tired.

1607
01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:03,719
Speaker 4: It's like, come on, let's just do it real quick

1608
01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:04,160
Speaker 4: a little.

1609
01:12:04,920 --> 01:12:09,479
Speaker 1: Sometimes you gotta lift that booty cheek up, yeah, real quick.

1610
01:12:09,600 --> 01:12:10,679
Speaker 4: Boring, I think boring.

1611
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:13,040
Speaker 2: Sex is okay as long as it feels good, as

1612
01:12:13,080 --> 01:12:16,160
Speaker 2: long as it's like I have to be here right

1613
01:12:16,320 --> 01:12:18,040
Speaker 2: because sometimes we gotta pay that tab.

1614
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:19,920
Speaker 1: That's when you're looking at the watch.

1615
01:12:20,080 --> 01:12:20,240
Speaker 9: Now.

1616
01:12:25,120 --> 01:12:27,200
Speaker 4: Boring don't have to equate to bad.

1617
01:12:27,439 --> 01:12:30,680
Speaker 2: Now, bad sex is never okay bad sexy.

1618
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:33,320
Speaker 1: I'm equating the two together.

1619
01:12:33,520 --> 01:12:37,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah that yeah, I feel like, yeah, I feel

1620
01:12:37,320 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 2: like boring sets just like, let's do it real quick.

1621
01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:41,920
Speaker 2: We're not feeling you know, all the bells and whistles.

1622
01:12:42,400 --> 01:12:44,200
Speaker 2: You know, sometimes I don't even need you to get

1623
01:12:44,280 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 2: butt ass naked. Let's put them, yeah, kick them slides on.

1624
01:12:51,000 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 1: I just that's a real thing mood. Mood.

1625
01:12:56,520 --> 01:12:59,240
Speaker 4: So we're all okay with boring, says, I'm okay with

1626
01:12:59,479 --> 01:13:02,200
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm not here, got it done. I

1627
01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:05,720
Speaker 4: feel like you got like a bedroom like candy, like

1628
01:13:05,800 --> 01:13:06,360
Speaker 4: a dungeon.

1629
01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:10,479
Speaker 3: You think he got bedroom candy and he like, what, okay?

1630
01:13:10,560 --> 01:13:11,400
Speaker 1: What you okay?

1631
01:13:11,439 --> 01:13:14,200
Speaker 4: You know candy candy birds or no?

1632
01:13:14,400 --> 01:13:16,400
Speaker 1: No, I see nothing.

1633
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:17,320
Speaker 4: The dungeon thing.

1634
01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:20,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't got that. But you got some traps.

1635
01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:21,720
Speaker 4: I know you're gonna swung from something. Both.

1636
01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:25,120
Speaker 1: Wow, that's crazy. You see the movement.

1637
01:13:25,360 --> 01:13:27,200
Speaker 4: He probably got some little furry hands.

1638
01:13:28,760 --> 01:13:31,920
Speaker 1: I never did the furry handcuffs. No, Harry handcoffs crazy,

1639
01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:32,400
Speaker 1: that's crazy.

1640
01:13:32,479 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 5: I mean, I feel like you look like I just

1641
01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:36,080
Speaker 5: don't want it to be. I think I'm looking at

1642
01:13:36,120 --> 01:13:38,599
Speaker 5: it if it's boring and it's back. No, I'm looking

1643
01:13:38,640 --> 01:13:39,040
Speaker 5: at those two.

1644
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 4: So no, it's just like, let's hurry up.

1645
01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:44,320
Speaker 1: You gotta get the quickie. You gotta get the quickie.

1646
01:13:44,320 --> 01:13:49,479
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's still gonna be good everything. And like

1647
01:13:49,560 --> 01:13:53,040
Speaker 1: I said, I got bad knees. So especially if you

1648
01:13:53,080 --> 01:13:54,559
Speaker 1: want me to get on top. You got a good

1649
01:13:54,640 --> 01:13:55,360
Speaker 1: thirty seconds.

1650
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:58,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, knees, once my knees start popping this around?

1651
01:13:59,120 --> 01:14:02,880
Speaker 1: Maybe this is not in the stallion. Honeys are crazy,

1652
01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:03,640
Speaker 1: they are?

1653
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 4: They work, Yeah, they work, all right, all right, that's

1654
01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:08,040
Speaker 4: fair enough.

1655
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:09,559
Speaker 1: That's fair enough.

1656
01:14:09,720 --> 01:14:14,240
Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into the bow the

1657
01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:16,519
Speaker 2: bomb the Bob.

1658
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:22,599
Speaker 4: Bow breaking freaky. I'll take another one.

1659
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:24,559
Speaker 1: It's really good. It's my third.

1660
01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:26,599
Speaker 4: Are y'all having a good time today?

1661
01:14:26,600 --> 01:14:27,000
Speaker 1: I love it.

1662
01:14:27,880 --> 01:14:29,680
Speaker 4: It's raining hard, so I know y'all gonna hear that

1663
01:14:29,760 --> 01:14:31,639
Speaker 4: it's not static. Yeah, it's frain.

1664
01:14:31,800 --> 01:14:36,160
Speaker 1: It's storming the roof, not the ten.

1665
01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:40,680
Speaker 5: I wasn't gonna say all that, you long y.

1666
01:14:40,720 --> 01:14:43,720
Speaker 1: You ain't supposed to let them know. You're supposed to

1667
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:44,920
Speaker 1: be looking like money over here.

1668
01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 2: He invests fastation.

1669
01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:54,320
Speaker 1: Oh fucking week. Okay, okay, so Bob of the week.

1670
01:14:54,560 --> 01:14:56,439
Speaker 2: It's whatever we've been jamming this week, What you've been

1671
01:14:56,479 --> 01:14:59,280
Speaker 2: listening to, What you've been listening to the week.

1672
01:15:01,200 --> 01:15:03,840
Speaker 4: I don't even know to be new, Yeah, it could

1673
01:15:03,880 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 4: be anything.

1674
01:15:05,439 --> 01:15:09,000
Speaker 1: I've been listening to a lot of J so I

1675
01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:12,759
Speaker 1: think Legacy on the four four album.

1676
01:15:13,080 --> 01:15:16,720
Speaker 4: Okay, listen, you are such a New York man, I

1677
01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 4: bet you got a chop cheese in your pocket right now.

1678
01:15:18,920 --> 01:15:20,479
Speaker 1: My kids had chop cheese other day.

1679
01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:25,320
Speaker 4: Around I know that's right. She's in New York. Best o.

1680
01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:29,400
Speaker 1: Chop cheese, you know what.

1681
01:15:30,320 --> 01:15:32,360
Speaker 2: I used to kind of be like whatever about it.

1682
01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:34,639
Speaker 2: But the first time I had one, it was life changing.

1683
01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:36,280
Speaker 1: It was it was so good.

1684
01:15:36,520 --> 01:15:38,519
Speaker 3: And then they be trying to duplicate out here, but

1685
01:15:38,640 --> 01:15:39,280
Speaker 3: they care.

1686
01:15:40,600 --> 01:15:41,479
Speaker 1: It don't be that good.

1687
01:15:41,680 --> 01:15:42,320
Speaker 4: It ain't the same.

1688
01:15:45,720 --> 01:15:49,519
Speaker 6: Whoa cash Cobain That song go Crazy in the radio.

1689
01:15:50,400 --> 01:15:52,519
Speaker 6: That's one song with him and Ice Spice.

1690
01:15:53,320 --> 01:15:55,280
Speaker 4: I forgot the name of it, but that song you

1691
01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:56,320
Speaker 4: an Ice Spice fan.

1692
01:15:57,400 --> 01:16:00,600
Speaker 1: Like she got, she got, she got, she got a

1693
01:16:00,600 --> 01:16:02,880
Speaker 1: good songs. Okay, that's got good song.

1694
01:16:02,960 --> 01:16:05,559
Speaker 6: I haven't really I think she kind of she ain't

1695
01:16:05,560 --> 01:16:09,679
Speaker 6: really hear the new music that's there. I can't front

1696
01:16:09,840 --> 01:16:11,720
Speaker 6: like when she was on that run, but she had

1697
01:16:11,800 --> 01:16:14,839
Speaker 6: like six songs in a row that she was definitely

1698
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:18,080
Speaker 6: every all the clubs, all the radio.

1699
01:16:18,360 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 5: That was like she added sure you got me on that.

1700
01:16:21,080 --> 01:16:23,400
Speaker 5: That's the last journ I added to my playlist. It

1701
01:16:23,560 --> 01:16:26,200
Speaker 5: was a cash coat bean and a boogie. All I

1702
01:16:26,240 --> 01:16:26,960
Speaker 5: got is your joint.

1703
01:16:27,120 --> 01:16:29,920
Speaker 1: Okay, b got a couple of songs out right now.

1704
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:32,360
Speaker 1: I seen him. He was on like the the Double

1705
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:36,519
Speaker 1: Excel fresh Yeah, freshman year. Yeah, he's buzzing right now.

1706
01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:38,000
Speaker 1: Shout out to him, Shout to the Bronx.

1707
01:16:38,560 --> 01:16:41,080
Speaker 2: I know that's right, y'all gonna rap New York for real.

1708
01:16:41,439 --> 01:16:44,760
Speaker 2: Cut it on your You don't play like I don't

1709
01:16:44,760 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 2: even eat gumbo niggaigg for real.

1710
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:51,040
Speaker 1: That was your fault. Trigger.

1711
01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:53,680
Speaker 3: We don't said it like fifty times since we said

1712
01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:54,640
Speaker 3: probably you got some.

1713
01:16:54,680 --> 01:16:58,559
Speaker 1: Bed to do. Even Let's put a little bool all right,

1714
01:16:59,000 --> 01:16:59,800
Speaker 1: what you've been listening to?

1715
01:17:00,040 --> 01:17:04,720
Speaker 3: Listening to JT song nineties baby Okay, Cinderella.

1716
01:17:04,439 --> 01:17:06,240
Speaker 1: How do you like it? I like that song. I

1717
01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:07,080
Speaker 1: think it's cute. You know.

1718
01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:09,720
Speaker 2: I think that I have said in the past too,

1719
01:17:09,840 --> 01:17:12,640
Speaker 2: like sometimes I don't really like the fact that a

1720
01:17:12,720 --> 01:17:16,040
Speaker 2: lot of artists these days are always constantly sampling song

1721
01:17:16,280 --> 01:17:18,840
Speaker 2: and I feel like, where's the originality? But I like

1722
01:17:18,920 --> 01:17:22,080
Speaker 2: a sample when it's doing cute, and then when it's

1723
01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:26,120
Speaker 2: still like it's a sample, but you put your own

1724
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:28,000
Speaker 2: little remix on it and it sounds like a completely

1725
01:17:28,080 --> 01:17:31,440
Speaker 2: different song. I hate samples when it sounds very reminiscent

1726
01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:32,519
Speaker 2: of the original song.

1727
01:17:32,520 --> 01:17:34,760
Speaker 1: Because to me, it's no creative what's sample on that song?

1728
01:17:36,000 --> 01:17:38,840
Speaker 4: All the things your Man want to Do by Joe?

1729
01:17:39,040 --> 01:17:43,479
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I haven't listened to the album yet like this,

1730
01:17:43,600 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 3: so I think it's cute. Yeah, okay, it's good to

1731
01:17:47,080 --> 01:17:52,440
Speaker 3: especially the remix without the girls singles.

1732
01:17:53,000 --> 01:17:55,240
Speaker 1: A lot of fire too big Mama joints.

1733
01:17:55,320 --> 01:17:57,360
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that was my about the other weeds?

1734
01:17:57,520 --> 01:17:57,680
Speaker 1: Was it?

1735
01:17:57,840 --> 01:18:00,280
Speaker 2: It was what do I get for my my by

1736
01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:03,640
Speaker 2: birthday period? Because my birthday about to come up. You know,

1737
01:18:03,760 --> 01:18:05,760
Speaker 2: you got to sub a nigga that's gonna be on

1738
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:08,120
Speaker 2: every background in my story for the next Oh what

1739
01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:08,680
Speaker 2: you gonna do?

1740
01:18:09,400 --> 01:18:09,680
Speaker 4: For real?

1741
01:18:09,840 --> 01:18:10,360
Speaker 1: What you gonna do?

1742
01:18:10,680 --> 01:18:10,960
Speaker 4: My month?

1743
01:18:11,040 --> 01:18:12,920
Speaker 1: A red? Okay, my bop of the week.

1744
01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:15,000
Speaker 4: You know, I love when people send me.

1745
01:18:15,080 --> 01:18:17,400
Speaker 1: Music and I do be listening to it. So a

1746
01:18:17,560 --> 01:18:20,679
Speaker 1: listener actually sent me some music and I actually really

1747
01:18:20,880 --> 01:18:21,960
Speaker 1: liked it. It was a cute bop.

1748
01:18:22,200 --> 01:18:25,080
Speaker 2: So her name is Alexi Lou and she has a

1749
01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:27,439
Speaker 2: song called throw It Back and it's a cute little

1750
01:18:27,479 --> 01:18:29,679
Speaker 2: like summertime bop joint.

1751
01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 4: And I was like, okay, because a lot of times

1752
01:18:32,160 --> 01:18:33,679
Speaker 4: I be hearing the people.

1753
01:18:33,520 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 2: Be sending me music, and I'd be like, you know,

1754
01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:37,240
Speaker 2: I ain't no an R though, but I have I

1755
01:18:37,280 --> 01:18:39,519
Speaker 2: got a little ear and I like fun R and

1756
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:42,800
Speaker 2: B cute music, you know, a little vibe. So yeah,

1757
01:18:42,880 --> 01:18:45,559
Speaker 2: it was actually really cute, So LEXILU throw it back.

1758
01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:47,920
Speaker 2: She's from Saint Louis. So yeah, y'all go check that out.

1759
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:52,800
Speaker 1: Text you Red, Saint lou You see you. I know

1760
01:18:52,920 --> 01:18:58,360
Speaker 1: you be in the mirror like Smith Big. It is sexy,

1761
01:18:59,200 --> 01:19:02,120
Speaker 1: it is I ever do that. But I'm y'all know

1762
01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:04,920
Speaker 1: the bars saying I know she's from Saint Louis and

1763
01:19:06,360 --> 01:19:09,479
Speaker 1: she really don't mean I.

1764
01:19:09,520 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 2: Feel like niggas high key. I'm not even gonna say

1765
01:19:12,160 --> 01:19:14,320
Speaker 2: low ki hi key. Be listening to sixty reading y'all

1766
01:19:14,360 --> 01:19:16,640
Speaker 2: cars by, y'all feel well. I'll say this, maybe not

1767
01:19:16,760 --> 01:19:19,880
Speaker 2: Sexy Red, she makes it really but glow thriller, y'all

1768
01:19:20,040 --> 01:19:21,320
Speaker 2: definitely jam and glowrilla.

1769
01:19:22,439 --> 01:19:28,000
Speaker 1: I think what niggas like, Yeah, glow all.

1770
01:19:27,960 --> 01:19:31,320
Speaker 6: Right, Sexy Red got the ship with Drake. I like

1771
01:19:31,439 --> 01:19:33,320
Speaker 6: that song, but I don't a lot of them stream

1772
01:19:33,360 --> 01:19:35,240
Speaker 6: her music, but I listen to on the radio. Okay,

1773
01:19:35,360 --> 01:19:35,760
Speaker 6: the radio.

1774
01:19:36,280 --> 01:19:38,240
Speaker 1: That's fair. That's fair. Gotoice.

1775
01:19:39,280 --> 01:19:42,360
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, now it's time to get into our

1776
01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:44,639
Speaker 2: favorite segment of the show, which is for your Heart Out.

1777
01:19:44,840 --> 01:19:48,320
Speaker 2: So if you have any questions or testimonials, you know

1778
01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:50,320
Speaker 2: you can always send them in to ask for minds

1779
01:19:50,880 --> 01:19:52,679
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com.

1780
01:19:52,920 --> 01:19:54,720
Speaker 3: That's a s k p O you r in my

1781
01:19:54,880 --> 01:19:57,880
Speaker 3: n d s at gmail dot com.

1782
01:19:58,120 --> 01:19:59,160
Speaker 4: Do y'all give good advice?

1783
01:19:59,520 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 1: Y'all think?

1784
01:20:00,240 --> 01:20:00,519
Speaker 4: Thank you?

1785
01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:02,400
Speaker 1: That facts.

1786
01:20:03,160 --> 01:20:04,960
Speaker 3: All right, we're about to see. We about to see

1787
01:20:04,960 --> 01:20:07,760
Speaker 3: because they be asking some crazy questions sometimes. Okay, this

1788
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:12,160
Speaker 3: is from a Patreon member. She said, Hey, ladies, I'm

1789
01:20:12,240 --> 01:20:13,920
Speaker 3: trying to keep this short and sweet. I went on

1790
01:20:14,000 --> 01:20:15,960
Speaker 3: the first date with someone. He paid for dinner, but

1791
01:20:16,080 --> 01:20:20,000
Speaker 3: afterwards I suggested a sweet treat and he suggested drinks.

1792
01:20:21,160 --> 01:20:23,080
Speaker 2: We went to get drinks and he didn't pay for

1793
01:20:23,200 --> 01:20:25,720
Speaker 2: my one drink. The next day, I told him I

1794
01:20:25,800 --> 01:20:27,640
Speaker 2: didn't really like how that made me feel, while the

1795
01:20:27,680 --> 01:20:30,400
Speaker 2: bartender stood there looking, so I told him we should

1796
01:20:30,439 --> 01:20:33,360
Speaker 2: just be friends. The restaurant wasn't expensive, and neither was

1797
01:20:33,439 --> 01:20:35,760
Speaker 2: my drink. Did I make a mistake not giving him

1798
01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:37,960
Speaker 2: another chance? I thought about how things could have been,

1799
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:39,599
Speaker 2: and it's made me question my decision.

1800
01:20:40,120 --> 01:20:42,519
Speaker 1: He was get paid.

1801
01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:51,439
Speaker 5: They ain't gonna be donner at home, pay yours.

1802
01:20:54,080 --> 01:20:54,800
Speaker 1: Now you regret it.

1803
01:20:55,800 --> 01:20:57,800
Speaker 2: I don't think you should regret it because I feel

1804
01:20:57,920 --> 01:21:01,520
Speaker 2: like if it's just like he said, that drink wasn't expensive.

1805
01:21:01,680 --> 01:21:02,360
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1806
01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:03,920
Speaker 6: So she went to the bar, all right, So she

1807
01:21:04,000 --> 01:21:07,320
Speaker 6: went to the bar. He paid for his drink and

1808
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:09,519
Speaker 6: she ordered her drink and he just looked at hers.

1809
01:21:09,640 --> 01:21:11,200
Speaker 4: Well, I don't think he got a drink, did he?

1810
01:21:11,600 --> 01:21:11,720
Speaker 8: Now?

1811
01:21:12,040 --> 01:21:14,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, she said she ordered a drink and the bartender

1812
01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:16,040
Speaker 2: was standing there for the payment and he didn't pay.

1813
01:21:19,400 --> 01:21:22,720
Speaker 1: Anything. Nigga. Yeah, he showed you who he was.

1814
01:21:23,160 --> 01:21:25,240
Speaker 2: He showed you who That drink could have been more

1815
01:21:25,320 --> 01:21:27,400
Speaker 2: than fifteen if he didn't want to pay for a drink.

1816
01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:31,360
Speaker 3: It's a lot of other things he later down the line.

1817
01:21:31,439 --> 01:21:34,880
Speaker 2: So cut loss because it's like she said she wanted

1818
01:21:34,880 --> 01:21:37,360
Speaker 2: to desert, and he said he wanted to go get you.

1819
01:21:38,479 --> 01:21:40,760
Speaker 1: He was like you, He made sure she drank.

1820
01:21:40,840 --> 01:21:42,840
Speaker 2: He was trying to He said he want a sweet treat,

1821
01:21:42,880 --> 01:21:46,720
Speaker 2: all right, he was a he wanted that donut hole.

1822
01:21:50,439 --> 01:21:52,920
Speaker 1: That's crazy too far. We at the end, we're not

1823
01:21:52,960 --> 01:21:53,639
Speaker 1: gonna get flagged.

1824
01:21:53,680 --> 01:21:56,679
Speaker 4: Now we were not in the five minutes the first.

1825
01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:02,479
Speaker 1: Right, y'all been to Krispy Kreme when they got them

1826
01:22:02,520 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 1: red lights home? Okay, that's wild crazy.

1827
01:22:09,400 --> 01:22:09,639
Speaker 4: Okay.

1828
01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:12,559
Speaker 1: Question number two crazy work haylex Andrea.

1829
01:22:12,760 --> 01:22:15,200
Speaker 2: So, I'm in a situation with a married man who

1830
01:22:15,240 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 2: I'm starting to have feelings for. When we started doing

1831
01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:21,240
Speaker 2: the dude, he never used the condom and he felt

1832
01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:23,920
Speaker 2: obligated to releasing me from day one.

1833
01:22:26,200 --> 01:22:29,960
Speaker 1: Releasing me is so proper releasing me.

1834
01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:31,200
Speaker 4: She must be from the UK.

1835
01:22:33,439 --> 01:22:38,840
Speaker 1: Yo, the UK episode which with the I don't know

1836
01:22:38,840 --> 01:22:39,880
Speaker 1: what name Madam Joyce.

1837
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:42,960
Speaker 5: That was crazy. That was going over the language. It's

1838
01:22:43,000 --> 01:22:44,320
Speaker 5: crazy that she said the UK made me think of

1839
01:22:44,320 --> 01:22:45,200
Speaker 5: the episode.

1840
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:45,639
Speaker 4: That she watched.

1841
01:22:45,840 --> 01:22:47,280
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That one I saw.

1842
01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:48,800
Speaker 5: It was like y'all were going over terms, but she

1843
01:22:48,960 --> 01:22:49,840
Speaker 5: was so proper about it.

1844
01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:56,479
Speaker 1: I was like, it's such a difference. Say, okay, that

1845
01:22:56,560 --> 01:22:57,000
Speaker 1: was a good one.

1846
01:22:57,320 --> 01:23:01,000
Speaker 2: Fast forward. I had to get a couple of plan bees.

1847
01:23:01,520 --> 01:23:05,120
Speaker 2: I'm to a where the next time I'm not going.

1848
01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:05,720
Speaker 1: To get another one.

1849
01:23:06,479 --> 01:23:07,240
Speaker 4: What should I do?

1850
01:23:07,600 --> 01:23:09,760
Speaker 1: She got the plan B she year.

1851
01:23:10,080 --> 01:23:12,080
Speaker 4: She said, I had to get a couple of planning.

1852
01:23:12,400 --> 01:23:15,080
Speaker 6: He don't even give a fuck because usually the dude

1853
01:23:15,080 --> 01:23:17,439
Speaker 6: will get the plan. B that y'all up here take Yeah,

1854
01:23:17,680 --> 01:23:20,760
Speaker 6: she he like, fucking I'm trusting you to get it

1855
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:22,680
Speaker 6: and ask or if you get it, if you don't

1856
01:23:22,720 --> 01:23:24,080
Speaker 6: get it, I don't care.

1857
01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:28,639
Speaker 1: That's crazy, she said. But there's a PS. There's a PS.

1858
01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:29,840
Speaker 1: She said.

1859
01:23:29,880 --> 01:23:32,519
Speaker 4: There's been plenty of times where he says he wants

1860
01:23:32,600 --> 01:23:34,360
Speaker 4: me to move in with the both.

1861
01:23:34,120 --> 01:23:36,880
Speaker 1: Of him and his wife. Oh that ain's some freaking

1862
01:23:37,320 --> 01:23:41,439
Speaker 1: trying to have all finish. Let me, she said.

1863
01:23:41,920 --> 01:23:45,360
Speaker 4: I know I shouldn't, but I'm in love with a

1864
01:23:45,439 --> 01:23:46,240
Speaker 4: dig real bad.

1865
01:23:46,720 --> 01:23:49,000
Speaker 1: So here's my thing on hold on, hold on, hold on.

1866
01:23:49,080 --> 01:23:49,880
Speaker 1: That's that's that's it.

1867
01:23:50,400 --> 01:23:51,560
Speaker 4: She's asking, what should she do?

1868
01:23:51,760 --> 01:23:52,439
Speaker 1: This? This is it?

1869
01:23:52,760 --> 01:23:52,800
Speaker 9: So?

1870
01:23:52,960 --> 01:23:53,280
Speaker 1: All right?

1871
01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 6: People have such a stigma about polygamy right the way

1872
01:23:56,960 --> 01:24:00,320
Speaker 6: that we've been taught in American and Western society. Parts

1873
01:24:00,320 --> 01:24:04,000
Speaker 6: of the world, polygamy is normalized, right, right, But it's like, okay,

1874
01:24:04,640 --> 01:24:07,880
Speaker 6: you don't. You will look down on polygamy, but you're

1875
01:24:07,920 --> 01:24:11,200
Speaker 6: okay with being a side chick, and when he's cheated

1876
01:24:11,240 --> 01:24:15,479
Speaker 6: on his wife with you, that's acceptable. But actually doing

1877
01:24:15,520 --> 01:24:18,200
Speaker 6: an honorable thing right and having to live your life

1878
01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:20,439
Speaker 6: in the open is move in with them?

1879
01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:21,599
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1880
01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:24,080
Speaker 4: Then she got to eat some kucci because the wife.

1881
01:24:23,960 --> 01:24:27,360
Speaker 1: Is waiting on her. She doesn't she just doesn't or

1882
01:24:27,360 --> 01:24:29,240
Speaker 1: maybe she doesn't. But for him to invite her to

1883
01:24:29,360 --> 01:24:31,640
Speaker 1: move in the wife probably not.

1884
01:24:32,560 --> 01:24:36,439
Speaker 3: I don't mean she doesn't have to have probably already

1885
01:24:36,479 --> 01:24:37,920
Speaker 3: doing it anyway, or she.

1886
01:24:37,960 --> 01:24:38,519
Speaker 1: Might be willing to.

1887
01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:41,040
Speaker 6: But yeah, so, but but think about that though, that's crazy.

1888
01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:43,320
Speaker 6: How many people is willing to be side chicks? But

1889
01:24:43,800 --> 01:24:48,920
Speaker 6: the thought of being in that type of relationship is out.

1890
01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:50,880
Speaker 1: Of the question. I think I agree with you.

1891
01:24:50,960 --> 01:24:53,960
Speaker 2: I think it's how society is, like, oh, it's supposed

1892
01:24:53,960 --> 01:24:55,960
Speaker 2: to be a man and wife, And I think that's

1893
01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:57,240
Speaker 2: an individual belief, you.

1894
01:24:57,280 --> 01:25:00,000
Speaker 1: Know what I'm saying, Like it's European, it's a europe

1895
01:25:00,040 --> 01:25:00,839
Speaker 1: paying standards.

1896
01:25:01,520 --> 01:25:03,400
Speaker 5: That last part, is she in love with him or

1897
01:25:03,479 --> 01:25:04,120
Speaker 5: love with the sex?

1898
01:25:04,360 --> 01:25:05,679
Speaker 4: She said with the deed.

1899
01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:07,760
Speaker 2: But she said that she's falling in love with him

1900
01:25:07,760 --> 01:25:09,599
Speaker 2: in the beginning, at the beginning. Very yes, she did

1901
01:25:09,680 --> 01:25:11,360
Speaker 2: say that she's getting.

1902
01:25:11,160 --> 01:25:12,879
Speaker 4: Playing, starting to have feelings.

1903
01:25:13,040 --> 01:25:15,519
Speaker 1: She might as well move in. She's getting playing piece.

1904
01:25:15,880 --> 01:25:18,760
Speaker 4: She might we should just leave, But I mean letting

1905
01:25:18,800 --> 01:25:24,280
Speaker 4: a married man nutting you first of all nutting her relationship.

1906
01:25:24,400 --> 01:25:27,720
Speaker 1: She's in love. He don't, he don't even know. Yeah,

1907
01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:29,439
Speaker 1: but he's inviting her into a relationship.

1908
01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:31,920
Speaker 4: He's clearly that's not what she wants.

1909
01:25:33,960 --> 01:25:34,400
Speaker 1: His wife.

1910
01:25:34,640 --> 01:25:36,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, he's not leaving, not trying to, but he's inviting

1911
01:25:37,000 --> 01:25:40,559
Speaker 3: her to be part of a three ways he doesn't.

1912
01:25:40,680 --> 01:25:42,800
Speaker 1: She says she's in love with him and the sex.

1913
01:25:43,120 --> 01:25:45,560
Speaker 1: What should she do? I'm telling her what she should do.

1914
01:25:45,720 --> 01:25:50,880
Speaker 1: Leave why But if she's okay with it, of course

1915
01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:53,000
Speaker 1: she's okay with it. He's busting in that every day.

1916
01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:57,160
Speaker 6: She's had multiple playing piece, multiple It wasn't like this

1917
01:25:57,320 --> 01:26:01,439
Speaker 6: one time as an accident. He's intentionally letting loose with

1918
01:26:01,640 --> 01:26:04,439
Speaker 6: no fucks in the world. And you know that he

1919
01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:07,360
Speaker 6: has a wife. What are we talking about.

1920
01:26:07,520 --> 01:26:09,240
Speaker 3: I feel like she's not okay with because if she

1921
01:26:09,360 --> 01:26:09,919
Speaker 3: was okay.

1922
01:26:09,720 --> 01:26:13,799
Speaker 6: With yeah, I don't think she's okay with the stigma

1923
01:26:14,000 --> 01:26:17,000
Speaker 6: of living in the household with another woman. That's foreign,

1924
01:26:17,040 --> 01:26:20,560
Speaker 6: that's weird for most people, right, Like it's more comfortable

1925
01:26:20,640 --> 01:26:23,200
Speaker 6: to be a secret side chick. That's that's okay. We

1926
01:26:23,400 --> 01:26:27,920
Speaker 6: know society, we know side chicks.

1927
01:26:28,120 --> 01:26:30,200
Speaker 1: We don't really know. We don't really know. Sister wise,

1928
01:26:30,640 --> 01:26:32,120
Speaker 1: we don't know that. That's the truth.

1929
01:26:32,560 --> 01:26:34,599
Speaker 4: That's the truth. I think if you're okay with being

1930
01:26:34,640 --> 01:26:36,680
Speaker 4: a sister wife, you know, you can continue it.

1931
01:26:36,760 --> 01:26:38,080
Speaker 1: But I think it needs to be more of like

1932
01:26:38,200 --> 01:26:39,880
Speaker 1: a talk with God situation.

1933
01:26:40,040 --> 01:26:42,800
Speaker 2: Yes, because obviously she's not comfortable. It seems like she

1934
01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:45,000
Speaker 2: hasn't met the wife. But if you're trying to.

1935
01:26:45,040 --> 01:26:46,960
Speaker 1: Lie, but the wife obviously knows about her. I think

1936
01:26:47,000 --> 01:26:49,320
Speaker 1: she definitely knows. If he already if you post that

1937
01:26:49,360 --> 01:26:50,240
Speaker 1: he already spoke.

1938
01:26:50,040 --> 01:26:52,400
Speaker 2: To the whites, he was probably like, oh, I'm going

1939
01:26:52,439 --> 01:26:53,719
Speaker 2: to ask her to move in, because if she would

1940
01:26:53,720 --> 01:26:56,840
Speaker 2: have just said yes, yeah, look I don't know. I

1941
01:26:56,960 --> 01:26:59,080
Speaker 2: know some homeless bitches that would have been at the

1942
01:26:59,200 --> 01:27:03,120
Speaker 2: duk they said nothing, but worry, I pay this tail.

1943
01:27:03,439 --> 01:27:04,519
Speaker 2: They was gonna pay that tail.

1944
01:27:04,640 --> 01:27:10,080
Speaker 1: Homelessness praise. I'm telling you she homeless. But yeah, that

1945
01:27:10,439 --> 01:27:16,640
Speaker 1: multiple playing pieces, that's that's yeah, that's a lot. That's

1946
01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:19,680
Speaker 1: a lot. We're just gonna pray for you from day one.

1947
01:27:19,800 --> 01:27:21,640
Speaker 1: That's crazy because he's not even thinking about the day

1948
01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:26,679
Speaker 1: one is crazy. He don't give too the common courtesy

1949
01:27:26,720 --> 01:27:29,840
Speaker 1: has at least pull out, Yeah from the coorum in

1950
01:27:29,880 --> 01:27:41,080
Speaker 1: this coachy, please please I got no clue. Zero. I

1951
01:27:41,160 --> 01:27:44,519
Speaker 1: ain't never been nowhere. You can't stand no, I ain't

1952
01:27:44,560 --> 01:27:47,479
Speaker 1: had no good coach before your first.

1953
01:27:47,280 --> 01:27:54,040
Speaker 6: Bab Oh my god, absolutely reckless, absurd, reckless, literally business.

1954
01:27:54,080 --> 01:27:54,880
Speaker 1: That's crazy though.

1955
01:27:55,040 --> 01:27:56,280
Speaker 4: You know what niggas, And you can tell when the

1956
01:27:56,320 --> 01:28:00,760
Speaker 4: niggas ain't never had no good you can say, you girl,

1957
01:28:01,000 --> 01:28:02,840
Speaker 4: you don't even know my middle name.

1958
01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:09,360
Speaker 1: Get out of my coochie. I'll be discussing present and

1959
01:28:09,400 --> 01:28:11,479
Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk about you to girl here, he cried.

1960
01:28:12,760 --> 01:28:16,880
Speaker 1: We talk about it too. Cry the first time you

1961
01:28:17,000 --> 01:28:18,639
Speaker 1: be cutting up? Cry?

1962
01:28:18,800 --> 01:28:22,680
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, looks here my father just a little I

1963
01:28:22,880 --> 01:28:26,560
Speaker 2: experienced the hell yeah, I've experienced.

1964
01:28:26,120 --> 01:28:29,559
Speaker 1: A few shy that's crazy. Crying is crazy.

1965
01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:35,800
Speaker 3: I said, it's okay, no, no, no, no to the

1966
01:28:36,000 --> 01:28:37,040
Speaker 3: our white eyes on the.

1967
01:28:37,040 --> 01:28:44,000
Speaker 2: Bosom there now it's gonna be okayd.

1968
01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:46,639
Speaker 1: No crying, it's crazy, all right, all right, all right, okay.

1969
01:28:46,760 --> 01:28:49,360
Speaker 2: So they let him know where they get tickets for

1970
01:28:49,840 --> 01:28:52,240
Speaker 2: investments away and find y'all all that.

1971
01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:56,639
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Speaker 6: twenty third, August twenty fifth in Atlanta. Thank you guys

1973
01:28:59,040 --> 01:29:01,559
Speaker 6: for being in there for the first time. Y'all gonna

1974
01:29:01,600 --> 01:29:04,599
Speaker 6: be guessed. Poor minds will be in the building. It's

1975
01:29:04,640 --> 01:29:08,400
Speaker 6: gonna be very exciting, dope vibe, and yeah, if you're

1976
01:29:08,400 --> 01:29:10,080
Speaker 6: in Atlanta. If you're not in Atlanta, I think it's

1977
01:29:10,120 --> 01:29:13,000
Speaker 6: just a dope experience to come to it, learn be around.

1978
01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:15,800
Speaker 6: You know so many like minded positive people. Get your

1979
01:29:15,880 --> 01:29:17,759
Speaker 6: money right is vitally important.

1980
01:29:19,080 --> 01:29:20,840
Speaker 5: You gotta be there. You gotta be there it is.

1981
01:29:21,439 --> 01:29:23,240
Speaker 5: It's gonna be an eventful weekend. So y'all gonna be

1982
01:29:23,280 --> 01:29:25,360
Speaker 5: there Friday. Obviously y'all gonna be on, but y'all gonna

1983
01:29:25,400 --> 01:29:29,040
Speaker 5: be for the entire weekend too. It's gonna be It's

1984
01:29:29,080 --> 01:29:31,320
Speaker 5: a moment. It's a moment in history. Every time we

1985
01:29:31,479 --> 01:29:33,280
Speaker 5: do it, it gets better. This year is gonna be,

1986
01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:37,160
Speaker 5: you know, no nothing short spectacular, the most impactful years.

1987
01:29:37,200 --> 01:29:40,720
Speaker 1: So I hope everybody comes out experience and.

1988
01:29:41,600 --> 01:29:43,400
Speaker 4: Telling girls investing yourself.

1989
01:29:43,439 --> 01:29:46,160
Speaker 1: But you ain't got to pay that tim let them know,

1990
01:29:46,840 --> 01:29:57,679
Speaker 1: do the no gun version period. You'll next week, Bob lovey.

1991
01:29:58,960 --> 01:30:00,599
Speaker 4: So y'all make sure y'all.

1992
01:30:00,720 --> 01:30:04,920
Speaker 2: Share the content, like subscribe, follow all that good stuff.

1993
01:30:04,920 --> 01:30:07,160
Speaker 2: And let me say this before we close out, y'all,

1994
01:30:07,640 --> 01:30:11,160
Speaker 2: there is one Twitter account that is connected to poor Minds.

1995
01:30:11,240 --> 01:30:15,800
Speaker 4: It's p o, you are underscore in my nds. Y'all

1996
01:30:15,840 --> 01:30:18,920
Speaker 4: are tagging the wrong poor Minds page. If you see

1997
01:30:19,000 --> 01:30:21,080
Speaker 4: at poor minds with no underscore, that is.

1998
01:30:21,080 --> 01:30:22,920
Speaker 1: At fake page. Do not follow that page.

1999
01:30:22,960 --> 01:30:26,920
Speaker 4: Okay, they block me Andrea and the poor Minds page

2000
01:30:26,960 --> 01:30:32,719
Speaker 4: on both. So we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one.

2001
01:30:32,680 --> 01:30:36,360
Speaker 2: TikTok and it's p oh, you are underscore in my nds,

2002
01:30:36,479 --> 01:30:39,599
Speaker 2: all right, and we gotta hell a fake Facebook page.

2003
01:30:40,040 --> 01:30:42,080
Speaker 1: The Facebook page it's our face.

2004
01:30:42,320 --> 01:30:45,040
Speaker 3: The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually have the

2005
01:30:45,160 --> 01:30:47,599
Speaker 3: least amount of file. So if you're on Facebook, one

2006
01:30:47,640 --> 01:30:50,479
Speaker 3: that's ours, y'at the least amount of file, but one

2007
01:30:50,600 --> 01:30:51,880
Speaker 3: that's not us got.

2008
01:30:51,840 --> 01:30:54,599
Speaker 4: Like two hundred and fifty thou make if you actually

2009
01:30:54,640 --> 01:30:56,920
Speaker 4: look at the content because the caption is like whoever

2010
01:30:57,000 --> 01:30:59,640
Speaker 4: it is, don't speak English because their capchs.

2011
01:30:59,360 --> 01:31:02,519
Speaker 1: Are like bumba clade should men? Should men pay bill?

2012
01:31:03,760 --> 01:31:05,080
Speaker 1: Should men pay bill? Yes?

2013
01:31:05,200 --> 01:31:05,240
Speaker 9: No?

2014
01:31:06,520 --> 01:31:08,880
Speaker 1: Check answer below block block.

2015
01:31:11,439 --> 01:31:13,720
Speaker 3: Like that's literally with the caption, I'm like you, what

2016
01:31:14,080 --> 01:31:20,240
Speaker 3: that DC is bumba clad mamba claudebody.

2017
01:31:21,240 --> 01:31:24,760
Speaker 2: Coming to my house last night when I got your

2018
01:31:24,880 --> 01:31:30,080
Speaker 2: message and that you want to do everything all right,

2019
01:31:30,600 --> 01:31:31,519
Speaker 2: all right, I.

2020
01:31:31,680 --> 01:31:34,240
Speaker 11: Like being in the same room with you and your girlfriend.

2021
01:31:34,360 --> 01:31:37,640
Speaker 11: The fact that she don't know that really turns me on.

2022
01:31:38,760 --> 01:31:42,920
Speaker 11: Should never guess seeing a million years that we've got

2023
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:43,639
Speaker 11: this thing.

2024
01:31:43,640 --> 01:31:51,479
Speaker 2: Going your milly little sheep, and that's how we should

2025
01:31:51,760 --> 01:31:52,640
Speaker 2: keep it.

2026
01:31:53,040 --> 01:31:57,680
Speaker 4: It's on everybody's mind about you and I I think so,

2027
01:31:58,360 --> 01:32:02,840
Speaker 4: But they don't really know, really know, your my little.

2028
01:32:02,720 --> 01:32:07,679
Speaker 12: Seat, And that's how we should keep bitch.

2029
01:32:08,320 --> 01:32:11,519
Speaker 4: Never let him know, let him never show. If you

2030
01:32:11,720 --> 01:32:14,800
Speaker 4: don't like I know, then we should never let it go.

2031
01:32:16,400 --> 01:32:18,120
Speaker 1: If anybody knew that.

2032
01:32:18,960 --> 01:32:21,599
Speaker 9: It was you in your house that I was creeping

2033
01:32:21,680 --> 01:32:25,360
Speaker 9: too all the time, probaly see you after.

2034
01:32:25,200 --> 01:32:31,320
Speaker 11: You have because somebody keep you, like be in the

2035
01:32:31,400 --> 01:32:33,400
Speaker 11: same room with you and your girlfriend.

2036
01:32:33,520 --> 01:32:36,720
Speaker 4: Effect that she don't know it really turns me on.

2037
01:32:38,360 --> 01:32:40,880
Speaker 1: Never gets in the millions singing girls.

2038
01:32:41,320 --> 01:32:47,360
Speaker 4: Now we've got this thing going. Know you're my little seed.

2039
01:32:48,760 --> 01:32:50,679
Speaker 4: The least side we sho.

2040
01:32:52,640 --> 01:32:57,519
Speaker 2: Neverbody's mind about you and not they think Sheryl, but

2041
01:32:57,720 --> 01:32:58,160
Speaker 2: they don't.

2042
01:32:58,200 --> 01:32:58,599
Speaker 1: They don't.

2043
01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:03,600
Speaker 9: You don't really know you're my little sea crayl, And

2044
01:33:03,840 --> 01:33:08,360
Speaker 9: that's how we should keep We should never let him know,

2045
01:33:08,760 --> 01:33:09,840
Speaker 9: never let it show.

2046
01:33:10,320 --> 01:33:13,559
Speaker 4: If you know like I know, then we should never let.

2047
01:33:13,520 --> 01:33:19,280
Speaker 1: It go home? Do they? But you got no you

2048
01:33:19,439 --> 01:33:24,360
Speaker 1: got no win, you got no mind invatuation with you.

2049
01:33:24,720 --> 01:33:29,880
Speaker 12: It's taking me on an emotional dreand don't play. I'm

2050
01:33:30,000 --> 01:33:34,320
Speaker 12: caught up on in this love of Saba baby. Speculation

2051
01:33:34,560 --> 01:33:35,559
Speaker 12: won't bring us stay.

2052
01:33:35,880 --> 01:33:48,639
Speaker 1: Hey, don't play asking me about her. I can't read magic.

2053
01:33:50,520 --> 01:33:53,599
Speaker 4: Oh you sounded like her.

2054
01:33:55,240 --> 01:33:58,680
Speaker 1: They think they don't really really know.

2055
01:33:59,479 --> 01:34:00,560
Speaker 4: Shout out to y L.

2056
01:34:00,640 --> 01:34:03,360
Speaker 1: They was in the building. I thought that was Candy.

2057
01:34:04,000 --> 01:34:05,240
Speaker 1: You're not your name, Candy.

2058
01:34:05,479 --> 01:34:07,879
Speaker 4: I can't tell Bess if you nasty.

2059
01:34:09,040 --> 01:34:09,360
Speaker 1: Sorry,