1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 1: We got week. What's up, y'all, It's Morgan number two 2 00:00:14,520 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 1: in case you're a first time listener. And what I 3 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:20,280 Speaker 1: do is take the best seven segments from the week 4 00:00:20,400 --> 00:00:23,639 Speaker 1: based on your engagement online, if you hit us up 5 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 1: on the phone about it a lot, if you wrote 6 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: us comments on Facebook, all the things. I take all 7 00:00:29,120 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: of it, and I decide what our best seven moments 8 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,480 Speaker 1: from the show this past week are and we count 9 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,519 Speaker 1: them down from seven to one. But along the way, 10 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: I kind of reveal some things that happened behind the scenes. 11 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:43,280 Speaker 1: I bring on another show member to talk with me 12 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:46,480 Speaker 1: about it. And this week I'm bringing on producer Eddie 13 00:00:46,680 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: so we can chat about something that happened with him 14 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:52,200 Speaker 1: and his son. But also we'll get some more commentary 15 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: in there too, So let's get going. Eddie talked about 16 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: a situation that happened with his son and an iPad 17 00:00:58,880 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 1: at school that God damn it, Eddie, give us a 18 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: little brief breakdown, Not too much because they're gonna hear 19 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: the segment. Okay, So basically, my son had a classmate 20 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: of his shatter his iPad screen and I was kind 21 00:01:13,120 --> 00:01:16,920 Speaker 1: of under the I guess understanding that if something like 22 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 1: that happens, the parent of whoever did it would pay 23 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: for it. So it was kind of a discussion of 24 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:25,680 Speaker 1: like what do we do, Like, no one is offered 25 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,040 Speaker 1: to pay for this right now, it seems like it 26 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: was my son's iPad, so now we have to pay 27 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:33,240 Speaker 1: for this, and so it was a big topic in 28 00:01:33,240 --> 00:01:36,400 Speaker 1: our household. So during this segment, you kind of talked 29 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:41,160 Speaker 1: about what you initially reacted to it, and you kind 30 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 1: of had some anger. So do you have anger? Often 31 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: when it comes to these parenting situations, it seems like 32 00:01:47,920 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 1: the longer I become a parent, the more angrier I 33 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: get about things. But no, it's almost just kind of 34 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: like you want to do what's right, and in this 35 00:01:58,560 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 1: in this situation, I was really thinking, like the right 36 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,800 Speaker 1: thing is for the parent to take care of this, 37 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 1: but no one is doing anything about it. And I 38 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,640 Speaker 1: even thought maybe the school should be a part of 39 00:02:08,639 --> 00:02:11,359 Speaker 1: this too, because it happened on school grounds and an 40 00:02:11,360 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 1: iPad isn't cheap, iPad screen isn't cheap, So I was 41 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: thinking the school would be like, all right, guys, this happened, 42 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:20,000 Speaker 1: we'll sort it out. We'll let the parents know, and 43 00:02:20,040 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: then you guys can figure out how to deal with 44 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: it well, And there was some arguments online without giving 45 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 1: the final thing that happened a way, that your son 46 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: should pay for half of it because it's his iPad 47 00:02:31,280 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 1: and he let somebody borrow didn't drop it, but it's 48 00:02:35,040 --> 00:02:38,360 Speaker 1: his and he let somebody borrow it. Maybe he shouldn't 49 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: have let somebody borrow it. And that was the argument 50 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 1: that maybe to teach him about his things and be 51 00:02:42,760 --> 00:02:45,079 Speaker 1: careful about who's borrowing it. How do you feel about that? Well, 52 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: I mean there is the obvious, like, oh well, I 53 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 1: wasn't there a screen on screen protector on there like 54 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: all that stuff. Yes, And I did tell him that. 55 00:02:51,200 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: He said, dude, you gotta put your screen protector. But 56 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: there's something he has against screen protectors. He likes to 57 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:58,400 Speaker 1: have the iPad the way it is, and even his phone, 58 00:02:58,400 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 1: he likes it without a case. I'm like, well, that's 59 00:03:00,520 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 1: what happens when it's not in a case. I understand 60 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: that it's partly his fault and he needs to be 61 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:08,360 Speaker 1: responsible for his own things. But in this case, this 62 00:03:08,440 --> 00:03:12,240 Speaker 1: was a class project. This was something where the school said, hey, 63 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,920 Speaker 1: you all need your iPads for this, use it. And 64 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 1: then it happened in that situation. So I'm thinking, okay, 65 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,639 Speaker 1: so that's interesting. Was this iPad something you guys had 66 00:03:21,680 --> 00:03:24,120 Speaker 1: to supply him for school? Yeah? So the way the 67 00:03:24,160 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: school works is if you're able to supply an iPad, 68 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:28,799 Speaker 1: go for it. If not, they have a special fund 69 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,760 Speaker 1: or whatever where they can get school issued iPads. Okay, 70 00:03:31,880 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: But so it is like that that's tricky because it 71 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:39,240 Speaker 1: isn't the schools, it is y'alls, which again, like in 72 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: an ideal situation, they give them all iPads and they 73 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: stay at school or whatever. Yeah, and if it's the 74 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: school's iPad that breaks, then the school takes care of Yes, 75 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 1: But this is tricky because it's technically his he used 76 00:03:49,480 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: to take at home. He can play games and stuff 77 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: on it at home, all the things. Well, the way 78 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: I thought about it was like, all right, even if 79 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:56,920 Speaker 1: this was outside of school and it's two friends playing 80 00:03:56,920 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: with a phone, like all right, here we're playing whatever. Here, 81 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: hold my phone. The phone breaks? You and me? Right, 82 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,600 Speaker 1: it's my phone and you break my phone. Wouldn't you 83 00:04:05,720 --> 00:04:08,240 Speaker 1: feel like, hey, you know what, we're adults, Like I 84 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,240 Speaker 1: should probably I feel bad. Let me pay for that 85 00:04:10,280 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 1: broken screen? Oh yeah, Like if something happens like that totally. 86 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: So when you're a parent and your kid does something, 87 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: guess who pays for it? The parent does. So that's 88 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,679 Speaker 1: what I was leaning towards. And I wasn't really thinking 89 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 1: I was going to press that that whole thing, like, Hey, 90 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:27,760 Speaker 1: give me the parents number and I'll call their parents 91 00:04:27,839 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 1: up and tell them they need to pay for I 92 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,279 Speaker 1: was never thinking that I had to do that. Honestly, 93 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 1: when things get a little like controversial like that, I 94 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:36,920 Speaker 1: make my wife do it. I'm not like the cop. 95 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 1: I'm not this mean that your wife is the good 96 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 1: cop and you're the bad cop. Is that really what 97 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 1: it is? No, I'm the good cop. My wife's the 98 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: bad cop. That makes sense, Like she's the bad guy, 99 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: but she's the nice one. No, she's the one that complains. 100 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: Like remember when we had didn't anticipate that action, Like 101 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:54,320 Speaker 1: I really thought it was the reverse. I don't I 102 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:56,480 Speaker 1: don't do that. I don't like confrontation at all. So 103 00:04:56,760 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 1: like that, we had a pizza thing a while back, 104 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,039 Speaker 1: you know, where they put the pizza in our wrong 105 00:05:01,520 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: our neighbor's doorstep instead of ours. So I was upset 106 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 1: about that, and so I tell my wife, like call 107 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:09,520 Speaker 1: Pizza Hut and tell them what they did. And she's 108 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,600 Speaker 1: the one that likes. And it's weird because she's so 109 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 1: shy and she's very sweet and there's nothing mean about 110 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 1: her at all, but when it comes to like customer service, 111 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, all right, give the phone, I'll call see. 112 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 1: It totally surprises me because every time I have met 113 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: your wife, she is so sweet, like nothing about her 114 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: is confrontational, but like, you do have anger sometimes. So 115 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:31,520 Speaker 1: I'm just so like blown away at this different response. 116 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:36,160 Speaker 1: I'm I'm a implosive person. I don't know if that's 117 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: the ref I get upset in here inside of me. 118 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: It's an outward expression. I don't really like take it 119 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 1: out on people, okay, And so I beat myself up. 120 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if that's the right thing to do. 121 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 1: But that's kind of like where I get angry about 122 00:05:50,240 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 1: it and then I start telling talking to my wife 123 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 1: about it, and then she says, fine, I'll handle it. 124 00:05:54,000 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: So is your wife or is it you? That's more 125 00:05:56,720 --> 00:05:59,400 Speaker 1: like you obviously both come up with the disciplines for 126 00:05:59,440 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 1: your children, but who actually like enforces that and make 127 00:06:03,360 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: sure it happens. So that's tricky when it comes to 128 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 1: our kids. We have learned that they react more to 129 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 1: my discipline than hers. It's a weird thing. They're all 130 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:17,039 Speaker 1: boys and they're all they all gang up on her, 131 00:06:17,200 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: and they all like whenever she kind of tries to discipline, 132 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: they laugh. They're like, okay, mom's starting to be serious. 133 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 1: They're playing to her like motherly side out, like hey, 134 00:06:25,600 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: where are your kids. You're not gonna do that, like 135 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:28,840 Speaker 1: you're gonna be mad at me for two seconds and 136 00:06:28,839 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: then you're gonna hug me and kiss on my forehead 137 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: and then you know, put me to bed. And so 138 00:06:33,720 --> 00:06:35,760 Speaker 1: they really don't take her serious. But when dad gets 139 00:06:35,800 --> 00:06:38,480 Speaker 1: mad and Dad raises his voice and Dad says do this, 140 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: they stop in their tracks and do it. So maybe 141 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: that's just a dad thing. I mean, I like my 142 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,960 Speaker 1: dad was like the disciplinary, so like maybe it's just 143 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:50,080 Speaker 1: like more of a your guys's temperament. I think. So 144 00:06:50,200 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 1: I think. And in two like I want to teach 145 00:06:52,360 --> 00:06:56,599 Speaker 1: my boys too, to respect like women and not really 146 00:06:56,640 --> 00:06:59,520 Speaker 1: like it's it's tricky because I want them to be like, hey, 147 00:07:00,120 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: your mom says to do this, you do it. And 148 00:07:03,080 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 1: that's a constant in my house. I'm always saying that, 149 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: but it just doesn't work. Like they're always like yeah, okay, 150 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:11,760 Speaker 1: and I'm like no, she said, like she's I heard 151 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 1: her tell you four times and you haven't even budged. Yeah, 152 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 1: And you know what, maybe as they get older, they'll 153 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:20,720 Speaker 1: start to understand and respect that and kind of be 154 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,160 Speaker 1: like a mama's boy, you know. But four of them, 155 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: they just gang up. There's so many Yeah, oh my gosh. 156 00:07:27,000 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: Well there was another thing too that was said on 157 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 1: Facebook that we didn't really address on the show, and 158 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: again not giving too much away, but we didn't give 159 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:40,120 Speaker 1: enough credit to your son's friend who told his parents, 160 00:07:40,840 --> 00:07:44,160 Speaker 1: and like that's a big deal because most kids would 161 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: be like, I can get in trouble. I don't want 162 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: to tell my parents that. Like, I'm not going to 163 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: be the one to reveal this information. Hopefully it'll just 164 00:07:51,840 --> 00:07:54,240 Speaker 1: blow away. So here's kind of an inside of Like 165 00:07:54,320 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: whenever I talk about stories with my kids, especially my teenager, 166 00:07:57,600 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: he's very I guess last couple of years, his friends 167 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: at school listened to the show sometimes and their parents 168 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,520 Speaker 1: listen to the show sometimes, so sometimes it gets back 169 00:08:07,560 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: to him that they that I was talking about him. 170 00:08:10,800 --> 00:08:13,960 Speaker 1: So I always have to be very careful, like to 171 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: be like, all right, I want to talk about your 172 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:20,840 Speaker 1: iPad situation, but I don't want to embarrass you, so 173 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: and I don't. And instead of like altering the story 174 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,160 Speaker 1: when this comes up, I always just pick and choose 175 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:29,160 Speaker 1: one I'm going to talk about. You admit some things 176 00:08:29,200 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: to avoid any of that. There are so many stories 177 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:34,040 Speaker 1: that I could talk about, but I'm like, you know what, 178 00:08:34,160 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 1: this is his life, and I don't want to. There's 179 00:08:36,559 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 1: some boundaries there that you have to sure. But in 180 00:08:39,120 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 1: this case, I thought it was so important to tell 181 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:45,400 Speaker 1: this story because of how one his classmate reacted and 182 00:08:45,440 --> 00:08:47,959 Speaker 1: told his parents what he did, and too, how their 183 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:50,559 Speaker 1: how the parents reacted, Yes, all of it. All of 184 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:53,080 Speaker 1: it was very shocking and cool. And I thought like 185 00:08:53,160 --> 00:08:54,960 Speaker 1: that to me was like, all right, this is something 186 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: that's not going to be embarrassing to him and it's 187 00:08:57,000 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: going to be a good ending to a good story. 188 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:01,319 Speaker 1: Oh man, Okay, yeah, see I loved it this, Like 189 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: this is a good story like front to end, like 190 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 1: beginning to in front, front back or whatever, you know what. 191 00:09:06,559 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: I meant, listen up to this because it's really good. 192 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 1: If you're a kid, if you're a parent, it's just 193 00:09:11,679 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 1: you're probably going to face it at some point. So 194 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: here we go. Number seven, Hey Eddie telling Amy what 195 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,600 Speaker 1: happened at your kids school? Okay, So my son was 196 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 1: doing a group project in class. In in order for 197 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 1: this project to go down, somebody had to donate their 198 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: iPad to use for the project. So my son got 199 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: partnered up with this other kid and he was using 200 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 1: his iPad, my son's iPad, and this other kid's using 201 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,840 Speaker 1: it and he's doing scanning something with it or whatever. 202 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:40,640 Speaker 1: Drops it Boom, screen shatters completely. Oh no. So he 203 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: comes home he's like, Mom, Dad, Like, I don't you know? 204 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: Someone else did it? It wasn't me. I don't know 205 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:47,880 Speaker 1: what to do. And I'm kind of like, well, what 206 00:09:47,960 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 1: did the kids say? Nothing? You didn't say anything. Oh. 207 00:09:51,160 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 1: I kind of got a little heat it up, saying 208 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 1: I think we need to call the parents of this 209 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:57,680 Speaker 1: kid and tell them they need to replace his iPad 210 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:01,120 Speaker 1: or at least the screen something. So did you call 211 00:10:01,160 --> 00:10:06,840 Speaker 1: the parents? Oh? No, I don't know, Amy, What would 212 00:10:06,840 --> 00:10:11,600 Speaker 1: you do here? I don't know. My brain automatically goes 213 00:10:11,720 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: to whether I don't know the kids other kids situation, 214 00:10:15,040 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: But I automatically wonder, I don't want to call this 215 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: out because what if, for whatever reason, they maybe can't 216 00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 1: afford to replace the iPad, Like it would just make 217 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: me uncomfortable to ask for that, and it would if 218 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: it was my daughter or son and be like they 219 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: made the choice to give the iPad to that Person's 220 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:36,520 Speaker 1: also teaches responsibility for for my kids to hold onto 221 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: their stuff and that if you let someone else use it, 222 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:43,240 Speaker 1: then you know if something goes wrong. I don't think 223 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:45,800 Speaker 1: I would call it the other parents. I just would 224 00:10:45,800 --> 00:10:49,960 Speaker 1: figure it out on my own and feel I feel 225 00:10:50,000 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: awkward right now knowing that Eddie called them. Oh you 226 00:10:52,640 --> 00:10:55,520 Speaker 1: already know he called. No, I don't know. I feel 227 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,679 Speaker 1: as though that's what Eddie did. Eddie, what did you do? Well? 228 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:00,319 Speaker 1: Hold on, I don't let me tell what I would do. 229 00:11:00,320 --> 00:11:01,719 Speaker 1: I don't know what Nye did. Sorry, sorry to go, 230 00:11:01,800 --> 00:11:05,400 Speaker 1: I thought you did go ahead. You know. I am 231 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,640 Speaker 1: a bit like Amy where I would feel nervous asking 232 00:11:07,640 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: somebody because I couldn't afford that stuff as a kid. 233 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: But I think maybe instead of calling and having that 234 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: conversation on the phone, I would just send an email. 235 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 1: That way, it's not putting them on the spot, explaining 236 00:11:20,360 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: the situation to see if they wanted to volunteer to 237 00:11:24,000 --> 00:11:27,839 Speaker 1: help pay for what they could of the iPad because 238 00:11:27,840 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: you're not calling them on the phone and being like 239 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,959 Speaker 1: your kid did this, which they may get defensive. They 240 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 1: may get defensive of their kid. They may get defensive 241 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 1: because they don't have any money. I don't know, but 242 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: I think I would approach it as, hey, this happened. 243 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: Maybe you heard about it. They were playing with the 244 00:11:41,559 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: iPad and you know your son Jethro dropped the iPad 245 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:50,640 Speaker 1: and it broke. So I would reach out, but I 246 00:11:50,679 --> 00:11:53,280 Speaker 1: wouldn't reach out directly. Eddie, what did you do? Bones 247 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 1: you're going down the right track, I think, like So, 248 00:11:56,559 --> 00:11:58,240 Speaker 1: we were talking about it and my wife was like, 249 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,440 Speaker 1: absolutely not. Let's not even get the pair of all. 250 00:12:00,400 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 1: This is gonna be awkward, and I said, no, we 251 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:05,079 Speaker 1: gotta make this right, like something somebody has to pay 252 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: for this, and I don't think we need to pay 253 00:12:06,600 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 1: for it. So as we're talking about it, I'm not kidding, 254 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:13,400 Speaker 1: an email comes through and it's the kid's dad and 255 00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:16,480 Speaker 1: he emails us and says, my son came home today, 256 00:12:16,559 --> 00:12:19,360 Speaker 1: told us exactly what happened. We would like to pay 257 00:12:19,400 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: for this iPad. This is amazing. We don't have to 258 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: do anything. Oh okay, well that worked out just great, 259 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:27,760 Speaker 1: so now you know, I mean, because the only thing 260 00:12:27,760 --> 00:12:31,640 Speaker 1: that's uncomfortable is not knowing their family situation. And it's 261 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 1: not like it's like a one or five dollar thing. 262 00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I pad super expensive. So that's cool. Well 263 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:39,000 Speaker 1: where are you going to do though, Eddie? I mean 264 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 1: I was talking a big game. I think in those 265 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: situations my wife usually wins and says, you know, we 266 00:12:44,600 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 1: probably don't want to call him. I think she was 267 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,960 Speaker 1: actually leaning towards calling the school and saying, hey, what 268 00:12:49,000 --> 00:12:50,960 Speaker 1: should we do in this situation and get their take 269 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,880 Speaker 1: on it because it was a school project. But honestly, 270 00:12:53,920 --> 00:12:55,960 Speaker 1: I don't think we're gonna move fast enough to do anything. 271 00:12:56,000 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: And knowing me, I'd probably check it out. Yeah I 272 00:12:58,240 --> 00:13:01,240 Speaker 1: patrick expensive too. Yeah that's a cred. That's what stinks. 273 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,439 Speaker 1: They don't have school iPads? Amy, does your kids square iPads? Well, 274 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 1: they provide them with a tablet like a computer thing, 275 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: so that's what they use and it's it's given out 276 00:13:12,040 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: by the school. So Eddie, what are your kids rules 277 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 1: on the iPad? What can he be on I mean 278 00:13:17,200 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: he has My thirteen year old has free range for 279 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: the most part. He has these I think websites have 280 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: ratings on them. So we set them up to where 281 00:13:24,360 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: there's certain websites he can't access and certain apps he 282 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: can't get unless we accept it like an accept like 283 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,320 Speaker 1: some kind of security question or whatever. And usually it 284 00:13:33,360 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 1: goes to my phone and I just click one button 285 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 1: and he can get it. If not, I decline it. 286 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: Is there a workaround on that where he can actually 287 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 1: Have you tried to reverse engineer and try to download things? 288 00:13:43,480 --> 00:13:45,960 Speaker 1: That's a great idea. No, I have not, because you 289 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,400 Speaker 1: know him and his buddies have all tried these little 290 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:49,760 Speaker 1: tricks and they know how to get by it. But no, 291 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,280 Speaker 1: I haven't tried to play the thirteen year old on 292 00:13:52,320 --> 00:13:54,319 Speaker 1: his iPad. See if I can crack some codes. Well, 293 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 1: the best thing to do if you want to try 294 00:13:56,320 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: to beat something that someone else is beating and try 295 00:13:58,280 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 1: to beat yourself. Yeah, you know. I mean with this show, 296 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:04,400 Speaker 1: I want to hire people to create And maybe I 297 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:06,400 Speaker 1: talked about this off the air, but I went and 298 00:14:06,440 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: paid people in radio to try to beat me, like 299 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you money. I want you to listen 300 00:14:12,840 --> 00:14:14,040 Speaker 1: to the show for a month, and I want you 301 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:16,120 Speaker 1: to develop a plan to beat me. And I hired 302 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: them to give me that report so I could see 303 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 1: how they would beat us. I could close up all 304 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:24,800 Speaker 1: the gaps. I didn't talk about this on the Oh yeah, 305 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:28,440 Speaker 1: well yeah, I know. I often scout against myself because 306 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 1: there show's popping up all over that are trying to 307 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:32,840 Speaker 1: take me and us down. And so I went and 308 00:14:32,920 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 1: hired two different people and pay them top dollar and said, 309 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: take a month. I want you to listen to the podcast. 310 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,560 Speaker 1: I won't you listening live? Won't you listening to different channels? 311 00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: And if you had free rein to just develop a show, 312 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:45,760 Speaker 1: what would you do? What would you talk about? What 313 00:14:45,760 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 1: where are we lacking? And I had them write up 314 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: this humongous report and then I take it and then 315 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: I go through it and I go, Okay, they have 316 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: a point here, let's do this. Let's not do this. 317 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 1: And so I hire people to try to beat me 318 00:14:55,840 --> 00:14:58,160 Speaker 1: and then I take that information. So what what what 319 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 1: were you doing? Well, I mean, why would I reveal 320 00:15:04,040 --> 00:15:06,200 Speaker 1: that right here? I just pay talk all of that stuff. Well, 321 00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:10,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm wondering what what what did they say, 322 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,560 Speaker 1: Like did they give you like even like, oh, you 323 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 1: shouldn't do this or shouldn't do that, or they'd you Actually, 324 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:19,200 Speaker 1: you're just saying that. They said, this is what we 325 00:15:19,240 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: would do to counter you. This is what you do, well, 326 00:15:22,200 --> 00:15:23,440 Speaker 1: this is what you could do better at. But if 327 00:15:23,440 --> 00:15:24,920 Speaker 1: we were going to launch a show against you, this 328 00:15:24,960 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 1: is everything we would do to try to beat you. 329 00:15:26,840 --> 00:15:28,960 Speaker 1: I go and thank you for the information. I take 330 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 1: that and I try to close up a lot of 331 00:15:30,600 --> 00:15:32,600 Speaker 1: those holes. Was it helpful or did you just see 332 00:15:32,600 --> 00:15:35,120 Speaker 1: the information and it was like, actually, no one can 333 00:15:35,120 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 1: really beat you. You're just thinking it's never that never 334 00:15:37,640 --> 00:15:40,920 Speaker 1: ever ever that it was. One of them was extremely helpful, 335 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 1: so much so that it was so good. I went 336 00:15:42,600 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: to the head of the company. I was like, I 337 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 1: need to hire her. Oh, not not on this show, 338 00:15:45,640 --> 00:15:48,920 Speaker 1: but as someone who does this for other shows. That's cool. Yeah, 339 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: so well they're there, car like Amy's awesome or okay, 340 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: everybody's dying to know. The only person I gave that 341 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: report to was Scooba Steve. It's good right, Scooba Steve 342 00:15:59,440 --> 00:16:01,360 Speaker 1: was very thorough and I like took parts of it 343 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: that I thought were great, And yeah, it's a cool idea. 344 00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 1: I thought that was very inventive for you to do that. 345 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,960 Speaker 1: You want to not get beat trying to beat yourself. 346 00:16:08,960 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 1: I think close up all those ways someone else could 347 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 1: beat you that at the end, super smart. I'm giving 348 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 1: up too much of my strategy here, Eddie. Congrats on 349 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:16,960 Speaker 1: the ipady, and I'll try that with my kid to 350 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:18,920 Speaker 1: beat yeah. No, try, yeah, try. You know you're trying 351 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 1: to beat you, right, beat me through his stuff. You've 352 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: set up a plan to keep your kid from from 353 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:25,560 Speaker 1: from download and thinks he shouldn't, so you go try 354 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 1: to beat you now. No, Now, we just Eddie, we 355 00:16:27,480 --> 00:16:29,360 Speaker 1: just need to hire people to tell us how they 356 00:16:29,360 --> 00:16:34,200 Speaker 1: would be better parents than us. It's the best bits 357 00:16:34,240 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: of the week with Morgan number two. This week, we 358 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 1: were talking about Bobby's wedding coming up to Caitlin. It 359 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 1: is fast approaching and they are getting all of their 360 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 1: plans in order. And one thing that came up during 361 00:16:47,560 --> 00:16:50,960 Speaker 1: the show this week. Bobby has chosen his signature drink 362 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:52,680 Speaker 1: at the wedding and it's going to be one of 363 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:56,000 Speaker 1: his favorite mocktails, which is a Shirley Temple. But he 364 00:16:56,080 --> 00:16:57,920 Speaker 1: has to name it, and if you've been married then 365 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 1: and you've had signature drinks at your wedding, you name them, 366 00:17:00,880 --> 00:17:03,400 Speaker 1: like it's the bride's drink and the groom's drink, and 367 00:17:03,440 --> 00:17:06,000 Speaker 1: they typically have signature names. So Bobby doesn't know what 368 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 1: to name his Shirley Temple, like the virgin version of 369 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:12,920 Speaker 1: it or the Dirty Shirley, which is like the alcohol 370 00:17:13,000 --> 00:17:16,239 Speaker 1: version of it. So, Eddie, do you have any names that, 371 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:18,639 Speaker 1: like you think would be good for this dream? Yeah? No, 372 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:21,760 Speaker 1: not really. I mean the one I've brought on air 373 00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:24,760 Speaker 1: is not a good one, but I don't really have 374 00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:27,200 Speaker 1: any good names for it. I've been seeing the tweets though, 375 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 1: that people have been tweeting in about it. Yeah, let's 376 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: read some of them. Pretty funny. I think my favorite 377 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 1: one definitely is Bob Kate, almost like playoff a Bobcat 378 00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:38,119 Speaker 1: and it's like Bobby Caitlin. It's kind of funny. But 379 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 1: then but then you know, but then it's not his drink, 380 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: and she's probably gonna have a drink, I would assume 381 00:17:42,880 --> 00:17:46,840 Speaker 1: since he has one. Correct. So so there's also hog shrine. 382 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:52,640 Speaker 1: Interesting shrine, right, I would think that's like a moonshine drink. Well, 383 00:17:52,640 --> 00:17:56,040 Speaker 1: there's a lot of like Arkansas based, like Razorbacks kind 384 00:17:56,040 --> 00:17:59,440 Speaker 1: of thing. Fair. But also to this guy wrote bare 385 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 1: Bones and that's like the non alcoholic bare bones drink. Okay, 386 00:18:03,000 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 1: kind of funny. Yeah, what would be the dirty version 387 00:18:05,640 --> 00:18:11,160 Speaker 1: of that? Like the alcoholic version like big bone bone. 388 00:18:11,560 --> 00:18:14,119 Speaker 1: I don't know it weird. I don't know, but I 389 00:18:14,119 --> 00:18:17,879 Speaker 1: don't That's that's pretty much it. I feel like there's something. No, 390 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:20,359 Speaker 1: but I feel like there's something with the the Shirley 391 00:18:20,359 --> 00:18:22,919 Speaker 1: Temple being red and red is Bobby's favorite color. I 392 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:26,200 Speaker 1: feel like there's something with that and I just can't 393 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 1: the red bone, red bone this is I think we 394 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:31,600 Speaker 1: need to take bone out of it. Yeah, it gets dirty, 395 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: especially if you have like drunk people, but I need 396 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:38,920 Speaker 1: the boner. Yeah, that's that's gonna get weird roll fast. 397 00:18:39,560 --> 00:18:44,080 Speaker 1: Um maybe like the I don't know, it's something red. 398 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 1: I feel the red like in my soul. No, one 399 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:48,480 Speaker 1: just feel it. Yeah. I don't know what that name 400 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:51,399 Speaker 1: is though, but it's there something red thing about the 401 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,920 Speaker 1: red coloring. Have you ever had a Shirley Temple? Oh yeah, 402 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:56,760 Speaker 1: I drink dirty Shirley's at the bar all the time. 403 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:00,000 Speaker 1: See that's weird too. Why this whole thing is weird? 404 00:19:00,240 --> 00:19:03,439 Speaker 1: Like Shirley Temple is a ten year old eight year 405 00:19:03,480 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 1: old was so good nurse, and then the Dirty Shirley 406 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 1: is the alcoholic version of it. It's very weird to me, 407 00:19:10,760 --> 00:19:13,119 Speaker 1: you know. I'm like, y'all dig it, Dirty Shirley. That 408 00:19:13,160 --> 00:19:15,000 Speaker 1: was my first drink I ever ordered when I turned 409 00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,560 Speaker 1: twenty one, and I was so proud of it that 410 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:18,359 Speaker 1: and I was like, I need a dirty Shirley, and 411 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:21,920 Speaker 1: her like, oh, this girl just shurtin dirty one. Okay. 412 00:19:22,000 --> 00:19:24,200 Speaker 1: So a funny story about that, like when my sister 413 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:26,640 Speaker 1: she had she got It's the first time she got 414 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 1: into a bar underage, and she came with me. She 415 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 1: came with me and my wife. My wife and I 416 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 1: were dating at the time, and she got in with us. 417 00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:34,960 Speaker 1: We somehow got her in and she goes to the 418 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,040 Speaker 1: bar and I'm like, hey, you're in, let it rip. 419 00:19:37,520 --> 00:19:41,399 Speaker 1: So she's like, okay, okay. So the bartender was, hey, 420 00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:44,080 Speaker 1: what can I get you? And she says seven seven 421 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:47,159 Speaker 1: And I look at her, I'm like, oh, what does 422 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 1: She's like, doesn't mom drink that. I'm like, yeah, I guess, 423 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:53,439 Speaker 1: I guess. So it's like Seagram seven with seven up 424 00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: or something. Yes, it's like the old lady drink or whatever. 425 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: My mom would drink it ever since we were kids. 426 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:01,560 Speaker 1: And I'm like, this is your first time in a 427 00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:03,280 Speaker 1: bar and your order is a seven. So it's just 428 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 1: like I panicked. I didn't know what to get. True though, 429 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:08,760 Speaker 1: you don't want to get in trouble. I remember that 430 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 1: when I was at bars underage, I like would look 431 00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,080 Speaker 1: up things online to make sure that when I got there, 432 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:16,520 Speaker 1: nobody knew that I wasn't supposed to be there. So 433 00:20:16,600 --> 00:20:19,159 Speaker 1: were you very like just relax at the bar, A 434 00:20:19,160 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 1: little elbow on the bar. Oh yeah, but I can't 435 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:22,879 Speaker 1: tell you how many times I asked for like a 436 00:20:22,920 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: sex on the beach, a whiskey sour like the show 437 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:28,800 Speaker 1: the drinks that like people who don't drink a lot 438 00:20:28,840 --> 00:20:31,560 Speaker 1: of alcoholic drinks, right, Like this is a very fruity 439 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:35,359 Speaker 1: like taste, good drink. Yeah. So yeah, I don't know 440 00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 1: how I never got kicked out, but I managed my 441 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:40,280 Speaker 1: way through it. It It sounds like your sister figured it out. 442 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:43,160 Speaker 1: Seven seven. I'm good at seven. It is like an 443 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:47,920 Speaker 1: old person drink salty dog. You never know what's gonna 444 00:20:47,920 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 1: happen though. Okay, So with Bobby's wedding coming up, you 445 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 1: have mentioned that you're not gonna drink for some moments 446 00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 1: of the wedding so you can have like your best 447 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:59,240 Speaker 1: man's beach. Speaking of drinking, are you still sticking to that? 448 00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:01,520 Speaker 1: I think so. I mean, I'll probably have a few 449 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:04,479 Speaker 1: beers before. I mean, it's I just feel I've been 450 00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:07,920 Speaker 1: getting to this point in my life where when there 451 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 1: is something to be celebrated, you celebrate hard. Like I 452 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:14,560 Speaker 1: don't think we celebrate as people enough as we should. 453 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 1: Like birthdays. To me, I feel like since I turned thirty, 454 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 1: probably I look at birthdays and I say, it's just 455 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:23,679 Speaker 1: another year. It's not like, Okay, it's a day that 456 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,360 Speaker 1: I was born. It's I'm one year older and nobody deal. 457 00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: But that should be celebrated and we should celebrate hard 458 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,199 Speaker 1: in these things. And Bobby getting married to me is 459 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:35,040 Speaker 1: a celebration moment where I'm gonna go hard. So basically, 460 00:21:35,080 --> 00:21:38,880 Speaker 1: after your big speech, you're you're gonna be going down. Yes, 461 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: so I can probably get you to take shots at 462 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:43,880 Speaker 1: the wedding. Yeah, I will definitely take shots. And then 463 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:46,160 Speaker 1: you're telling me like if these artists have like they're 464 00:21:46,160 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: on stage and they're singing these songs and they're gonna 465 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:51,240 Speaker 1: have karaoke night with live Van like you be the 466 00:21:51,280 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: greatest night ever. Oh yeah, I'm so ready for It's 467 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:55,919 Speaker 1: gonna be a great wedding. But I am excited to 468 00:21:55,960 --> 00:21:57,960 Speaker 1: see you get drunk because I think I've only seen 469 00:21:58,000 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 1: you like buzz a few times in our whole time 470 00:22:00,480 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 1: I'm working together, so this should be very I don't 471 00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:04,960 Speaker 1: know if I'm any fun when i'm really drunk anymore. 472 00:22:07,119 --> 00:22:10,520 Speaker 1: It's been a while, so I don't know. I'm so ready. 473 00:22:10,760 --> 00:22:13,359 Speaker 1: But anyways, y'all listen to this. This is where we 474 00:22:13,359 --> 00:22:15,760 Speaker 1: talk about Bobby's signature drink, how he chose it, why 475 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:20,120 Speaker 1: he chose it, all the things. Number six, I think 476 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:22,439 Speaker 1: I'm stressing Klin out with the wedding coming up because 477 00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:26,120 Speaker 1: I just forget to him my people. This morning woke 478 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 1: up and she goes, hey, did you invite? And she 479 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,199 Speaker 1: left off three people and I was like, yeah, of 480 00:22:31,240 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 1: course I did. She's look back into let she goes, Nope, 481 00:22:34,280 --> 00:22:36,600 Speaker 1: they're not on here. I was like, no, I'm pretty 482 00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:38,639 Speaker 1: sure I did. I would for sure invite them, and 483 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 1: I didn't invite them, like three people at for sure 484 00:22:40,520 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: would have invited and I wouldn't even thought about until 485 00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,280 Speaker 1: Kalin's like, hey, did you invite these people? So I 486 00:22:46,320 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 1: think I'm stressing her out a little bit. There's also 487 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:50,000 Speaker 1: a part of the wedding where they want us to 488 00:22:50,080 --> 00:22:54,080 Speaker 1: create our own signature cocktail. And I don't drink. So 489 00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:57,359 Speaker 1: what do you think I created any Shirley Temple type thing? Yeah, 490 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 1: exactly it. Yeah, I didn't know what to name it. 491 00:23:00,359 --> 00:23:02,880 Speaker 1: So if you guys have a name Bobby Temple, well 492 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:04,480 Speaker 1: that's what I said. That was the easy one. But 493 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: I didn't thin people would know what that was. Oh, 494 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: I get it, but I don't know what is in 495 00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 1: a Shirley Temple. Well it's it's basically, you know, cherry 496 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 1: juice or whatever that and the version of a drink 497 00:23:17,119 --> 00:23:23,240 Speaker 1: grenadine up. Yeah, okay, so it's pretty good. I like 498 00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:24,400 Speaker 1: it when I go to a bar because it looks 499 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:26,960 Speaker 1: like I'm drinking. But you can also do a dirty 500 00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 1: Shirley with alcohol in it. That's weird. Yeah, I don't 501 00:23:30,520 --> 00:23:33,240 Speaker 1: like that. So here's what I like to sound about. Well, 502 00:23:33,440 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: order one. There'll be two versions of those. There'll be 503 00:23:35,800 --> 00:23:38,119 Speaker 1: the one that I have that the Shirley Temple, and 504 00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:40,159 Speaker 1: there's the Dirty Shirley if you want to add apparently 505 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:44,960 Speaker 1: add vodka to it, or the Dirty Bobby. I don't know. Here, Okay, 506 00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: here's the challenge I'm gonna give our listeners. Call our 507 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: voicemail line. What should I name this Shirley Temple kind 508 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,200 Speaker 1: of drink? The clean one and the dirty one? Yeah, 509 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,280 Speaker 1: but they need to kind of be named semi the 510 00:23:57,320 --> 00:24:02,760 Speaker 1: same thing, right, eight seven seven seventy seven, Bobby. Maybe 511 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:03,879 Speaker 1: if you come up with the name, we'll give you 512 00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:07,960 Speaker 1: a doll or something. I don't know. We got some 513 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,639 Speaker 1: voicemails about my signature drink at the wedding, you know, 514 00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:14,119 Speaker 1: because they said, hey, you need to create a drink. 515 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: Caitlyn needs to create a drink and then people can 516 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: order them. And I was about, I don't I don't drink, 517 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,080 Speaker 1: and I like Shirley Temples, but I couldn't find a way. 518 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: The Bobby Temple didn't make sense. But a lot of 519 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:29,720 Speaker 1: people called and left ideas. We have five of them. Here, 520 00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,239 Speaker 1: what to name my signature cocktail? Here we go number one? 521 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 1: Hey Bobby, Hey, guys, I'm thinking the non alcoholic could 522 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:41,320 Speaker 1: be called simply Hella and the alcoholic one, laid down 523 00:24:41,480 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 1: Stanley Okay, named after my dogs. Okay, okay, all right. 524 00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:46,800 Speaker 1: I was kind of looking for that play into Charley 525 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:50,080 Speaker 1: Temple somehow, you know. Okay, all right, here's Leanne from 526 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:54,680 Speaker 1: New York. Hey, Bobby Morna's studio. I just had one name. 527 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:58,160 Speaker 1: It's the Bobby beat Drop. Just thought that was a 528 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:01,200 Speaker 1: great name. Sean's how I kind of corporates some music 529 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,159 Speaker 1: theme to it, A beat drop. Okay, there you go. 530 00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:06,280 Speaker 1: It sounds like a beat drink though when I hear that, 531 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:10,720 Speaker 1: like the vegetables. Yeah yeah, all right, here's the next one. 532 00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: I'm confused. Why aren't we just cashing in on that 533 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:16,520 Speaker 1: Bobby Water, you know, whiskey and waters, Bobby Waters. Throw 534 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:20,240 Speaker 1: some nerds in it, get crazy with it. Congratulations, best wishes, 535 00:25:20,480 --> 00:25:23,040 Speaker 1: love the show, see y'all soon. Thank you. I would 536 00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:24,879 Speaker 1: love to capitalize on a but Sonic won't pay me. 537 00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 1: I would be Sonic the greatest endorser. I do this 538 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:29,800 Speaker 1: commercials where I sit there and to go like, hey, 539 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 1: Mike d how about this seatbelt doesn't go with my 540 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:34,040 Speaker 1: chili dog? Does it? You know those commercials you guys 541 00:25:34,080 --> 00:25:37,400 Speaker 1: in the car. Yeah, but for some reason they don't 542 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,320 Speaker 1: want to hire me. Here's another one. I was thinking 543 00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:44,560 Speaker 1: maybe to name your drink the dirty razor Back or 544 00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 1: just the Razorback. What do you think? I like the Razorbacks? Okay, 545 00:25:49,040 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 1: and then here let's do Chris from Tucson, Arizona. Alcoholic 546 00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,840 Speaker 1: one should be boned and people should ask to get boned, 547 00:25:56,240 --> 00:26:00,879 Speaker 1: and then the non alcoholic one should be believable, and 548 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:03,720 Speaker 1: then if you order it, the bartender will be like, 549 00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 1: oh you want it unbelievable? Total is funny? He ate that? 550 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:10,520 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, hey, I like the bone one though. That's 551 00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 1: pretty good. I'm not gonna have people at the wedding 552 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,040 Speaker 1: go I'd like to get bone on bone please. Oh 553 00:26:15,119 --> 00:26:17,280 Speaker 1: then you won't like my idea. That why what was yours? 554 00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:21,480 Speaker 1: I was gonna do big bobbies and little bobbies like 555 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:25,080 Speaker 1: play on the You know, no, I don't. That doesn't 556 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 1: even make sense. That's a terrible I can't, Eddie, I 557 00:26:27,560 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 1: can't constantly sell you the funniest person on the show. 558 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,639 Speaker 1: Whenever you come up with just rotten. You know how 559 00:26:32,680 --> 00:26:35,480 Speaker 1: they mispell your name Sometimes they put two outs, Okay, 560 00:26:36,040 --> 00:26:39,160 Speaker 1: the Big Booby and Bobby. What I'm saying. The only 561 00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: one that I thought that was pretty cool was someone 562 00:26:41,400 --> 00:26:45,800 Speaker 1: named s says Lynster four thirty two. She said, how 563 00:26:45,800 --> 00:26:49,920 Speaker 1: about calling get a Sue Temple like pick suee, Charlie Temple, 564 00:26:50,200 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 1: got it, Sue Temple. That's pretty good. Huh yeah, razorbacks Sue. Yeah. 565 00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 1: I'm still working on it. I appreciate everybody sending in 566 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:01,920 Speaker 1: their thoughts and leaving voicemails. It's the best bits of 567 00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:08,320 Speaker 1: the week. With Morgan number two coming up next Lunchbox, 568 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,840 Speaker 1: he decided to wrap and sing his way through some 569 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,480 Speaker 1: drive throughs, and let me tell you, I don't think 570 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,679 Speaker 1: I've laughed so hard in a long time. This segment 571 00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:21,840 Speaker 1: just made me crack up imagining lunchbox rapping and singing 572 00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,720 Speaker 1: through drive throughs. And not only that, the employees that 573 00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:27,720 Speaker 1: he was doing this too, like totally took it in stride. 574 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 1: They were so great. This is the laugh you need 575 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:35,600 Speaker 1: on this wonderful weekend. Number five. Remember last week we 576 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:39,840 Speaker 1: had a TikTok of Craig Morgan singing his Starbucks order. 577 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: Here's a clip. I'd like a denty man with the 578 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:50,240 Speaker 1: extra heavy weeping cane and maybe because you please by 579 00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 1: could you please stay man for me? All su she 580 00:27:56,160 --> 00:27:58,680 Speaker 1: has to be like, what's happening here? So lunchbox did this? 581 00:27:59,119 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: Great out the guy who can't sing. We'll see you 582 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 1: be the judge. You went to sing? Where lunchbox? I 583 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:08,640 Speaker 1: went to Whitecastle? All right? Here we go, Lunchbox singing 584 00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 1: his order. All right, welcome to Whitecastle? Or hit your order? 585 00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:18,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I need I need a small shrimp nibbler. 586 00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:23,800 Speaker 1: And don't and don't you and don't you forget? I 587 00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,959 Speaker 1: need that small I mean small, was a small fry. 588 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,000 Speaker 1: I can't even saying. I can't even beat it. Where 589 00:28:33,000 --> 00:28:36,280 Speaker 1: are you dragging? You're having summer drink today. Don't drink 590 00:28:36,359 --> 00:28:42,960 Speaker 1: for me. Just a shrip nipplers and a small fer. Okay, 591 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 1: there's gonna cheek twenty one? Okay, yeah, yeah, okay, you 592 00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 1: alright over. I don't even know what you ordered. A 593 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 1: shrimp nibbler, Yeah, a small shrimp. I don't know. Saw 594 00:28:57,080 --> 00:28:58,600 Speaker 1: it on the menu. I thought it sounded funny to 595 00:28:58,640 --> 00:29:01,760 Speaker 1: sing shrimp nibbler. Guess that was it? And a small fry. 596 00:29:02,640 --> 00:29:05,080 Speaker 1: So how do we like that? That's fight? Okay. He 597 00:29:05,240 --> 00:29:07,960 Speaker 1: then decided to elevate it and he went to Starbucks 598 00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:11,480 Speaker 1: to wrap his order. Oh boy, do you think you 599 00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 1: can't sing? Let's see what you think about is rapping? 600 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: Here you go. Oh you know me, I want that 601 00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:22,080 Speaker 1: hot chocolate venty, But you can keep the whip for 602 00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: the next bro Sky. Oh my god, I got bars. 603 00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 1: That's what I do. I drop rhymes all the time. 604 00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:34,120 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. So you want to keep the whip 605 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:37,960 Speaker 1: cream for the next Brosky. That's correct, all right? Else, 606 00:29:38,560 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 1: that's it. I'm out those your kids. God, that guy 607 00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:51,760 Speaker 1: he's like, oh my god, he's like, you got bared. 608 00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 1: It's the best bits of the week with Morgan number two, 609 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:00,720 Speaker 1: a little bit of a controver. She will segment on 610 00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 1: our show this week. Amy's daughter, she's thirteen years old, 611 00:30:04,600 --> 00:30:07,480 Speaker 1: told Amy that she wants a locked diary, and Amy 612 00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 1: was really cool about it. She says, yeah, I totally 613 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,200 Speaker 1: get it. She should have one. Her daughter wants it 614 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: for her locked passwords. While people online were just a 615 00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:20,240 Speaker 1: little bit debating over all the things, because when it 616 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 1: comes to parents and kids, people love trolling about parents. Amy. 617 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:27,240 Speaker 1: I mean, if there's one topic they love to comment on, 618 00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 1: it is parenting. So we had all the kinds of 619 00:30:30,160 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 1: people because Amy has clearly had some mixed emotions about 620 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 1: this whole situations, as she should. It's her daughter, daughter's 621 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:40,080 Speaker 1: growing up, right, So Eddie, tell me your thoughts on this. 622 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,960 Speaker 1: So what's tricky with topics like this on the radio 623 00:30:43,040 --> 00:30:44,400 Speaker 1: show is that we don't have a lot of time 624 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 1: to think about it. Take it like one minute to 625 00:30:46,360 --> 00:30:49,640 Speaker 1: break it down, very reactive like. So when this came up, 626 00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:52,600 Speaker 1: the first thing I thought of, it's just like, that's crazy, 627 00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:57,360 Speaker 1: because I truly believe that if you have an open 628 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,840 Speaker 1: conversation and a relationship where you can about whatever with 629 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: your kids and they're cool with sharing things with you, 630 00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:07,920 Speaker 1: there is no such thing as locked doors. I mean, sure, yeah, 631 00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 1: lock the door of your naked like, sure, whatever. But 632 00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 1: I was like a conversation, but realistically, there's no need 633 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 1: to hide anything from anyone. Yeah, you know, if you're 634 00:31:18,080 --> 00:31:20,760 Speaker 1: doing something that you need to hide from your parents, 635 00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:23,320 Speaker 1: it's not a good thing. And so that's how I 636 00:31:23,480 --> 00:31:28,240 Speaker 1: reacted to the lock diary. Now there is the therapy 637 00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: side of it, or a psychologist psychiatrist that say, you know, no, 638 00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 1: it's very healthy to have a lock diary and have 639 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:38,840 Speaker 1: your thoughts to yourself. I mean sure, but you could 640 00:31:38,840 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 1: do that with a diary that's unlocked and trust and 641 00:31:42,640 --> 00:31:44,719 Speaker 1: understand that your parents are going to look to the diary. 642 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,120 Speaker 1: Now I have boys, so far they have showed no 643 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 1: interest in having any kind of diary or journal. So 644 00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: I haven't dealt with this. But I just feel like 645 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 1: in my house, I don't think that anyone will want 646 00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:02,760 Speaker 1: to have that kind of privacy. Because my son, who's 647 00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 1: thirteen years old, I mean the first time when I 648 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 1: picked him up from school, the first thing he's like 649 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,239 Speaker 1: we talked about like, hey, high school, go oh man, 650 00:32:08,360 --> 00:32:10,280 Speaker 1: this happened, and this happened and so and so did 651 00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:12,760 Speaker 1: this and and to me, I'm like, that's great because 652 00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,000 Speaker 1: that didn't happen when I was a kid, Like they 653 00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,080 Speaker 1: would pick me up from It's fine. That was my 654 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 1: answer all the time, because I felt like I was 655 00:32:20,600 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 1: just gonna get in trouble if I told him, like, oh, yeah, 656 00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 1: so I got into a fight like so and so, Well, yeah, 657 00:32:25,880 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 1: if you got into a fight, you were probably get 658 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,520 Speaker 1: in trouble. In middle school, fights were kind of like 659 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,840 Speaker 1: a common thing thing. It was a punching people's noses 660 00:32:33,400 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: my middle school, like it was weird. It was almost 661 00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 1: a ride of passage where like you're in sixth grade, 662 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 1: it's time to get into a fight. Oh yeah, yeah. 663 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:45,600 Speaker 1: So but even even the girls got into fights or 664 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 1: was this just a guy? A girl's got no fights? 665 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,560 Speaker 1: Cat fights? Cat fight girls? Oh my gosh, hair being 666 00:32:51,640 --> 00:32:53,720 Speaker 1: pulled and after the fight's broken up, somebody has a 667 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 1: ball of hair and they're in their hand. Yes, serious, 668 00:32:56,920 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 1: I mean South Texas got real down there. Hey, you 669 00:33:00,760 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 1: have a lot of experiences and I'll love it. Yeah. 670 00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,960 Speaker 1: So there was that kind of feeling like, oh, I 671 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:06,480 Speaker 1: don't want to tell him. I know. If so, I 672 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 1: wouldn't tell him. I wouldn't tell him certain things or whatever. 673 00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: And I think that's led to us not having a 674 00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,680 Speaker 1: true close relationship where I can just tell him whatever. 675 00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 1: And that's just something of when I became a parent. 676 00:33:17,480 --> 00:33:19,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to change that when I become 677 00:33:19,640 --> 00:33:22,000 Speaker 1: a dad. So when he tells you things, do you 678 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,280 Speaker 1: kind of like sit with it before you ever respond 679 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:27,120 Speaker 1: to anything, to make sure you don't react. I have to. 680 00:33:27,720 --> 00:33:29,800 Speaker 1: So as weird as some of the stuff is, like, 681 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: it's like I'll even say, like when the becoming a 682 00:33:34,200 --> 00:33:39,360 Speaker 1: teenager stuff, Yes, the stuff that he comes to me 683 00:33:39,480 --> 00:33:42,240 Speaker 1: with I'm just like, what did you just say? But 684 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,040 Speaker 1: and then afterwards I'm like, hey, man, that's pretty cool 685 00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: that he can think like, hey, let me ask dad 686 00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,760 Speaker 1: about this because I don't know what's happening. Oh yeah, 687 00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 1: it's a great thing, especially as he gets older and 688 00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:55,000 Speaker 1: some really serious life stuff starts happening. Yeah, he will 689 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 1: come to you totally, and that's the goal as far 690 00:33:58,080 --> 00:34:01,080 Speaker 1: as me and how I parents. That's a good thing. Okay, 691 00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 1: So I was thinking about this. What if the reason, 692 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 1: like a locked diary thing is such a big deal 693 00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:11,439 Speaker 1: it's because it's siblings. You're not as much worried about 694 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 1: your parents getting into it as you are your siblings 695 00:34:13,440 --> 00:34:15,759 Speaker 1: because growing up with three older sisters, I didn't like 696 00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,160 Speaker 1: if I did something and they happen to see it 697 00:34:18,280 --> 00:34:20,440 Speaker 1: in a diary that I had, they'd make fun of 698 00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 1: me for days about it. Did they do that? Yes, 699 00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:27,839 Speaker 1: So I'm thinking of that I triggered situation. I would 700 00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:29,759 Speaker 1: have diaries and like, if my sister ever got ahold 701 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,200 Speaker 1: of it, like it'd be a whole thing. So maybe 702 00:34:32,239 --> 00:34:35,080 Speaker 1: it's more about the sibling households that the locked diary 703 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 1: is more of a situation. Then I'm down with that, 704 00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 1: but like the parents have a key and you know whatever, 705 00:34:39,680 --> 00:34:41,880 Speaker 1: I'm totally down with that, but yeah, you are right, 706 00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:43,840 Speaker 1: and that we did have a lot of therapists commenting 707 00:34:43,840 --> 00:34:45,759 Speaker 1: and we're like, it's really healthy to do this, and 708 00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,600 Speaker 1: it's important for them, but it's also important for them 709 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 1: to be able to trust you that you're not going 710 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:53,440 Speaker 1: to look. But other parents were sharing accounts of like 711 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:56,920 Speaker 1: their kids having been in some really bad situations and 712 00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:59,600 Speaker 1: they saved them from them based on the fact they 713 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:01,640 Speaker 1: were right and there was trust and they could go 714 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,560 Speaker 1: when they felt it was a right time to look 715 00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:07,440 Speaker 1: in the die. So like cool, just so many different 716 00:35:07,640 --> 00:35:10,880 Speaker 1: firsthand parent accounts on this outside when you get through 717 00:35:10,920 --> 00:35:13,719 Speaker 1: all the trolling, Yes, And then I immediately thought too, 718 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:16,200 Speaker 1: like there have just been stories of you know, when 719 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:20,359 Speaker 1: there are kids like that that have you know, there's 720 00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:22,800 Speaker 1: active shootings or whatever and they go back to the 721 00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:25,240 Speaker 1: house and these are like teenagers that live in their parents' 722 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:28,120 Speaker 1: house and they had guns like in their rooms and 723 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 1: ammunition in their room and their parents never knew about it. 724 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:35,399 Speaker 1: To me, that's like very shocking to me that that's 725 00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:39,600 Speaker 1: how detached you are from your children that you wouldn't 726 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,719 Speaker 1: even know if they bought something like that or they 727 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,360 Speaker 1: were planning on doing something like that. So I don't know. 728 00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 1: There's definitely a conversation to be had about the need 729 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:52,319 Speaker 1: to write something down, the need to write something down 730 00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:57,200 Speaker 1: in privacy, and the need to like communicate with your parents. Yeah, 731 00:35:57,360 --> 00:35:59,399 Speaker 1: you know, there's a lot of steps to it, for sure, 732 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,239 Speaker 1: but this was it was a funny conversation because of 733 00:36:02,320 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 1: how drastically we all reacted to it well. And you 734 00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 1: could tell when Amy was talking about her her emotions 735 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 1: were just very mixed, Like it was like, yes, healthy, 736 00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:13,160 Speaker 1: but also like, what if something happens, do I have 737 00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,720 Speaker 1: a key? Am I allowed to? Like so many questions, 738 00:36:16,200 --> 00:36:18,520 Speaker 1: not even from the kid, but as a parent. Yeah, 739 00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:20,879 Speaker 1: and that's kind of crazy, but too, Like it's hard 740 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:22,800 Speaker 1: to You're you're trying to be protective, you're trying to 741 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: be understanding, you're trying to do all these things. Like 742 00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,319 Speaker 1: it's such a real thing that as you get older, 743 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 1: like me being twenty seven, I look at my parents, 744 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, I get it. I respect so much of 745 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:33,560 Speaker 1: what you did. I didn't get it then, and I 746 00:36:33,719 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: was mad at you were Who knows what else I 747 00:36:36,160 --> 00:36:38,560 Speaker 1: probably did in that moment, but like I look back 748 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:40,200 Speaker 1: now and like all the things that they had to 749 00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:43,480 Speaker 1: think about with me and being protective over me, I'm like, man, 750 00:36:43,520 --> 00:36:45,200 Speaker 1: I really put you guys through it. I'm so sorry. 751 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,359 Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of acting involved and being 752 00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:50,640 Speaker 1: a parent too, like acting like you wouldn't freak out 753 00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:53,400 Speaker 1: if you found something in their diary, and then in 754 00:36:53,520 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 1: front of him being like, oh cool, I'm glad you 755 00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:59,839 Speaker 1: wrote that down, and then like what is he thinking? 756 00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,400 Speaker 1: This is crazy? So there's definitely a lot of acting 757 00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:06,520 Speaker 1: involved too, because you don't want to show them how 758 00:37:06,640 --> 00:37:09,400 Speaker 1: you would naturally react over something. Because for kids, I 759 00:37:09,480 --> 00:37:12,279 Speaker 1: think it's so important how you how your parents are 760 00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:15,359 Speaker 1: going to react to something. Yeah, it's so imparent. It's 761 00:37:15,400 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: so important, Like are they gonna say, oh, they're gonna 762 00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: kill me when they find out about this, or you 763 00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 1: know what, Dad will understand. It's gonna be hard at 764 00:37:21,480 --> 00:37:23,400 Speaker 1: the beginning, but mom and dad will understand if I 765 00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,759 Speaker 1: explain it to them. So it's tricky. No, that's that's 766 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:28,880 Speaker 1: a very real thing. It's funny. We were my girlfriends 767 00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:30,920 Speaker 1: and I were just talking about this. I always feel 768 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,800 Speaker 1: the need still as an adult to like have my 769 00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:37,160 Speaker 1: parents feel proud of me and like proud in my 770 00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: decisions as a human being. Right, even though I'm like 771 00:37:40,239 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 1: ten years past them wanting anything to like actually do 772 00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:46,960 Speaker 1: that for But so I still like if something happens, 773 00:37:47,000 --> 00:37:48,640 Speaker 1: say I get in like a car accident or something, 774 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 1: and I'm so afraid to call my mom because I'm like, nah, 775 00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:54,280 Speaker 1: I don't want to get no, I can do anything 776 00:37:54,320 --> 00:37:56,320 Speaker 1: about it. Not that she can do anything about it, 777 00:37:56,800 --> 00:37:58,359 Speaker 1: but I'm like, I don't want to call her. I'll 778 00:37:58,400 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 1: literally call my sister fon I'm like I don't heard. No. 779 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,759 Speaker 1: She'll be like hey, like really, like you had to 780 00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:08,080 Speaker 1: do this again, But like she's gonna be there, and 781 00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:11,120 Speaker 1: like that's all of those emotions, right, and as we're 782 00:38:11,200 --> 00:38:13,359 Speaker 1: both adults now, she can go through all of those 783 00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:16,560 Speaker 1: emotions with me. But it's just so funny that even 784 00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:18,279 Speaker 1: still in an older age, you're like, I just don't 785 00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,239 Speaker 1: want to disappoint them, and they just aren't going to 786 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:25,600 Speaker 1: be right for the most parts. I'd there'll be something 787 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,839 Speaker 1: they'll be disappointed about. Yeah, I mean, I'm forty two 788 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:29,520 Speaker 1: years old and there's certain things I don't tell my 789 00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:31,399 Speaker 1: parents and they get so mad. Why did you tell 790 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,479 Speaker 1: us because I didn't. I didn't really want to worry 791 00:38:33,520 --> 00:38:37,800 Speaker 1: you about anything. It's crazy as the years change, you 792 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:39,480 Speaker 1: talk about your kids, and it's like such a full 793 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 1: circle moment. I'm sure for you as a parent. Yeah, 794 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,520 Speaker 1: my brother has a tattoo that my parents still don't 795 00:38:43,560 --> 00:38:50,839 Speaker 1: know about. Right now, sorry, let's rewind that little Okay, Well, 796 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,640 Speaker 1: here's here's a segment about Amy and her thirteen year 797 00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:58,399 Speaker 1: old daughter wanting a lucked diary. Number four man having 798 00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:00,880 Speaker 1: a thirteen year old daughter, it's just like a planet 799 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 1: I've never been on. Yeah, and she's almost fourteen, really yeah, 800 00:39:04,800 --> 00:39:08,239 Speaker 1: in April, so what's going on? Well, she wants to 801 00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:11,839 Speaker 1: get a locked diary, so she had me, Well, I've 802 00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:13,759 Speaker 1: ordered it, we just don't have it yet. But she's like, 803 00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:16,440 Speaker 1: I need a diary that locks. I'm putting all my 804 00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:19,840 Speaker 1: passwords in there or so nobody can know because she 805 00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,400 Speaker 1: forgot I guess one of her email passwords and she's like, oh, 806 00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:24,120 Speaker 1: I can't believe I can't remember it. So she wants 807 00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:25,879 Speaker 1: to write them down and lock them away in her drawer. 808 00:39:25,920 --> 00:39:28,839 Speaker 1: And I thought, okay, well that's interesting. But she may 809 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 1: want to start journaling. Other things that she starts to 810 00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:35,840 Speaker 1: lock away, and I think that's cool. I think that 811 00:39:35,960 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 1: writing down your thoughts is really healthy, and I hope 812 00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:42,000 Speaker 1: maybe she does use that. But then I thought, oh, well, 813 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,560 Speaker 1: it's gonna be locked. What if one day there's something 814 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,560 Speaker 1: going on with her and I maybe need to read 815 00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 1: her diary. And then I was like, no, you can't 816 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:50,640 Speaker 1: read her diary. It's her diary, but she's gonna have 817 00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:52,480 Speaker 1: it locked anyway. But then it just had me. I 818 00:39:52,560 --> 00:39:55,279 Speaker 1: had this whole conversation in my head about whether or not, 819 00:39:55,400 --> 00:40:00,320 Speaker 1: as a parent, what circumstance makes it okay to go 820 00:40:00,520 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 1: into the diary. Obviously not just for fun on a 821 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 1: Friday night, but like if something seriously going on with her, 822 00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:11,040 Speaker 1: I may need to be looking out for her. So 823 00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:12,800 Speaker 1: I didn't know as a parent how I'm supposed to 824 00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 1: handle that. His fake scenario in my head that has 825 00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,160 Speaker 1: never even happened yet. If she gave you a key, 826 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:18,520 Speaker 1: as I here, you can also have a key, would 827 00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:23,359 Speaker 1: you go snoop in it? No? No, well, I mean 828 00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,520 Speaker 1: if she's saying I could, and I really felt like 829 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:29,160 Speaker 1: she's saying, if if here's a key in case for emergency, okay, 830 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,359 Speaker 1: then if it's an emergency. Yes, again, I'm not going 831 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:36,320 Speaker 1: to I want to show her like we're big on 832 00:40:36,840 --> 00:40:40,120 Speaker 1: respect in our house and right now we're even we're 833 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 1: working on a lot of different core values as a family, 834 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,720 Speaker 1: and we want to live by example to the kids. 835 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:46,880 Speaker 1: So like, if she were to find out that I 836 00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 1: was snooping in her stuff with no emergency reason, then 837 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:54,239 Speaker 1: that wouldn't be building trust and respect with her. I 838 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:56,960 Speaker 1: agree for a thirteen fourteen year old to have a 839 00:40:57,040 --> 00:40:59,040 Speaker 1: diary and write down all their thoughts. Great. I think 840 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:00,759 Speaker 1: the only time you should get into it as if 841 00:41:00,760 --> 00:41:02,239 Speaker 1: you think she's in danger and you have to cut 842 00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:03,800 Speaker 1: that thing open, and then you have to have the conversation. 843 00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:07,000 Speaker 1: I just got into your diary. Yeah. Otherwise, it's not 844 00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:09,359 Speaker 1: like an Instagram account where people can interact with her. 845 00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,560 Speaker 1: People can't reach out to her in her diary. That's 846 00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:13,960 Speaker 1: that's the difference in a Facebook account, on Instagram account, 847 00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,680 Speaker 1: a techtok account where maybe you don't want your thirteen 848 00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:18,759 Speaker 1: year old to have one of those because they are 849 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,920 Speaker 1: accessible to creeps and that does happen, and as a 850 00:41:23,040 --> 00:41:26,000 Speaker 1: parent or parents, we can't be naive to that because 851 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 1: the creeps and PURBs can't get into a lock diary, right, Yeah, 852 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,640 Speaker 1: And again I encourage her writing down her thoughts. I 853 00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,640 Speaker 1: think that that's super healthy for anybody, kids or adults. 854 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:37,799 Speaker 1: And if she you should tell her if you're if 855 00:41:37,800 --> 00:41:39,279 Speaker 1: I ever feel like you're in danger, I'm going to 856 00:41:39,360 --> 00:41:41,239 Speaker 1: cut this open with a pair of scissors and you're 857 00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:42,800 Speaker 1: gonna know I did it. So I'm never gonna do 858 00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,319 Speaker 1: it without you knowing. Okay, that's what I would say, Eddie, 859 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:46,680 Speaker 1: you have a thirteen year old son. Yeah, there are 860 00:41:46,680 --> 00:41:48,600 Speaker 1: no secrets in my house, so like if I had, 861 00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:52,440 Speaker 1: but there aren't because it's my house. No, but there 862 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:55,000 Speaker 1: are I know, but they're not because like, if I 863 00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:56,920 Speaker 1: find a diary, guess what I'm gonna read it like, 864 00:41:57,160 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna tell them I because I have 865 00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,640 Speaker 1: boys boys, I'm not gonna tell him I read it. 866 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:03,480 Speaker 1: But I want to know what's going on in their 867 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,680 Speaker 1: lives and I want to be able to relate. So far, 868 00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 1: I have a thirteen year old son, and so far, 869 00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:11,760 Speaker 1: he communicates very well with us. If there's a problem, 870 00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:14,080 Speaker 1: he communicates us. And that's my goal to just keep 871 00:42:14,160 --> 00:42:16,520 Speaker 1: that communication gap open because when I grew up, there 872 00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,919 Speaker 1: was no talking to dad about anything. So I'm trying 873 00:42:18,960 --> 00:42:23,440 Speaker 1: to change that culture in my fatherhood or whatever. So 874 00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 1: but it also means there are no locks in the doors. 875 00:42:26,200 --> 00:42:28,360 Speaker 1: They're nothing like that. Like we can share everything with 876 00:42:28,440 --> 00:42:30,400 Speaker 1: each other because guess what I've been, where you've been. 877 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:32,239 Speaker 1: Did you ever want to hide things from your dad? Yeah, 878 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,440 Speaker 1: but my dad never went in my room ever. Like, 879 00:42:35,640 --> 00:42:37,759 Speaker 1: I can't tell you one time where my dad went 880 00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:39,920 Speaker 1: into my room. And he'll even tell you today. He's like, nah, 881 00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:41,800 Speaker 1: I had no reason to go in his room. That's crazy. 882 00:42:42,400 --> 00:42:44,560 Speaker 1: You read stories of people that do bad stuff at 883 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,200 Speaker 1: school and they're like, you never saw the gun in 884 00:42:47,400 --> 00:42:49,320 Speaker 1: his room. No, I never went in his room. That 885 00:42:49,560 --> 00:42:52,200 Speaker 1: is crazy to me. You don't want to give your 886 00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,480 Speaker 1: thirteen year old son a bit of privacy. I want 887 00:42:56,600 --> 00:42:58,320 Speaker 1: him to think he has the privacy. But at the 888 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 1: same time, this is our how like, I don't have privacy. 889 00:43:01,760 --> 00:43:03,400 Speaker 1: You guys are all up in my stuff. They're not 890 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:05,400 Speaker 1: in your laptop. They could get your computer, sure they are. 891 00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:06,880 Speaker 1: He was on it the other day and I'm like, 892 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,640 Speaker 1: that's fine, and I've freaked out for a second. I'm like, 893 00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:12,080 Speaker 1: that's my work laptop. He could literally he could easily 894 00:43:12,160 --> 00:43:14,880 Speaker 1: tweet something in two seconds, but he didn't guess what 895 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:17,080 Speaker 1: because he knows that's Dad's laptop and he wouldn't do 896 00:43:17,160 --> 00:43:20,360 Speaker 1: that to Dad. So I'm trying to have an open 897 00:43:20,840 --> 00:43:23,960 Speaker 1: but to have my own private space. Right, Like Stashier 898 00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,479 Speaker 1: asked me for a locked diary, if your son asked 899 00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,640 Speaker 1: you for a locked diary, you're saying you would not 900 00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:30,800 Speaker 1: buy him one. I know, I would say, absolutely, just 901 00:43:30,880 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 1: give me a key, absolutely, right, other people bones, you 902 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:37,239 Speaker 1: gotta watch out for other people and not Dad. You 903 00:43:37,320 --> 00:43:39,759 Speaker 1: can trust Dad one. Other people though, you can't. But 904 00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 1: if he's like no Dad, I just really would like 905 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,160 Speaker 1: a diary for myself, no key for you, then I 906 00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,160 Speaker 1: would say get the diary, go ahead, and then I 907 00:43:46,200 --> 00:43:47,800 Speaker 1: would find a way to open it up. He's not 908 00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:51,440 Speaker 1: waiting to school, Eddie. You guys can go over to 909 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:55,160 Speaker 1: our Facebook page comment on this. Yeah, Amy, I like 910 00:43:55,239 --> 00:43:57,319 Speaker 1: your style. Thanks Eddie. We got some work to time. 911 00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:03,560 Speaker 1: It's the best bits of the week with Morgan number 912 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:09,120 Speaker 1: two coming in at number three. We had doctor Francis S. 913 00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:13,319 Speaker 1: Collins and he is the director of the National Institutes 914 00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,640 Speaker 1: of Health, and he talked all about the COVID vaccines 915 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,680 Speaker 1: debunking miss what you should do after you get it, 916 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,480 Speaker 1: and honestly, like as someone who's really young and just 917 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:26,479 Speaker 1: doesn't have a lot of life experience and conversations about 918 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:28,719 Speaker 1: doctors and medical things in my life. This was a 919 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:32,760 Speaker 1: really cool interview that Bobby did with him. So listen 920 00:44:32,880 --> 00:44:36,920 Speaker 1: to it. Get informed all the things that's happening right now. 921 00:44:37,360 --> 00:44:42,280 Speaker 1: Number three on the Bobby Bones Show, Now, doctor Francis Collins. 922 00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:45,160 Speaker 1: Doctor Collins, it is such a pleasure to have you on. 923 00:44:45,280 --> 00:44:48,239 Speaker 1: How are you today? I am just fine. It is 924 00:44:48,400 --> 00:44:50,759 Speaker 1: great to be on your show with you, Bobby. I'm 925 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,120 Speaker 1: a big fan, so terrific to have a chance to 926 00:44:53,239 --> 00:44:55,480 Speaker 1: talk about whatever we're going to talk about. You are 927 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 1: the director of the National Institutes of Health. What does 928 00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 1: that mean? That means I'm the guy who oversees our 929 00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:06,359 Speaker 1: nation's investments in biomedical research. The National Institutes of Health 930 00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:09,680 Speaker 1: is the way in which discoveries get made and clinical 931 00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:13,759 Speaker 1: advances occur, and it's my job to oversee all of 932 00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:17,120 Speaker 1: this in a forty two billion dollars a year medical 933 00:45:17,239 --> 00:45:19,799 Speaker 1: research investment, which for the past year has been all 934 00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,120 Speaker 1: about COVID nineteen as you might guess, and we have 935 00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,200 Speaker 1: made some real progress with vaccines and other things. Well, 936 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:26,719 Speaker 1: this is why I'm glad to have you on, because 937 00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:30,000 Speaker 1: this is the guy to ask about vaccines. I've had 938 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,839 Speaker 1: one shot, Eddie's got a shot, Lunchbox has got a shot. 939 00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:36,799 Speaker 1: Now we're the inside the two shot system here because 940 00:45:36,800 --> 00:45:39,480 Speaker 1: we didn't get Johnson and Johnson. So can you explain 941 00:45:39,560 --> 00:45:42,560 Speaker 1: to me what the difference is in these three vaccines 942 00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:46,640 Speaker 1: and if we should look for any of them specifically. Well, 943 00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:50,239 Speaker 1: let me first say they are all wonderfully effective and 944 00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:53,560 Speaker 1: safe vaccines. So the bottom line is you should take 945 00:45:53,640 --> 00:45:56,160 Speaker 1: what everyone gets offered to you as soon as it 946 00:45:56,280 --> 00:45:58,279 Speaker 1: gets offered, because this is how we're going to get 947 00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:02,120 Speaker 1: past it's terrible COVID nineteen pandemic. Yeah, the Fiser and 948 00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,640 Speaker 1: Moderna vaccine, those are two shots. They're based on something 949 00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:09,480 Speaker 1: called Messenger RNA. The Johnson and Johnson is one shot, 950 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:12,520 Speaker 1: and it's based on an ad novirus approach. But they've 951 00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,840 Speaker 1: all been tested in trials of at least thirty thousand 952 00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:19,960 Speaker 1: people each and been shown to have safety records that 953 00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:23,279 Speaker 1: are really quite impressive, with no hint of any real 954 00:46:23,360 --> 00:46:26,680 Speaker 1: troubles there, and a highly effective way of protecting you 955 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,560 Speaker 1: against getting sick or dying of COVID nineteen and that's 956 00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,879 Speaker 1: what we are all waiting for, and now it is here. 957 00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:35,120 Speaker 1: So I know people maybe a little resistant about Wait 958 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,960 Speaker 1: a minute, did they rush this? Did they go too fast? 959 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm the guy who's been overseeing all of this at 960 00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,200 Speaker 1: the NIH. Let me assure you I've never seen anything 961 00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,320 Speaker 1: done better than this in terms of the way in 962 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:49,440 Speaker 1: which the trials were conducted and the strength therefore the 963 00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,880 Speaker 1: conclusions about these being safe and effective. So roll up 964 00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:56,040 Speaker 1: your sleeves, America. It's time to get past this pandemic. 965 00:46:56,320 --> 00:46:57,880 Speaker 1: Doctor Collins is such a big deal. Guys. This is 966 00:46:57,920 --> 00:46:59,520 Speaker 1: a bigger get than Matthew McConaughey. You know we had 967 00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:01,320 Speaker 1: matthe mc on hand last week. This is a bigger, 968 00:47:01,360 --> 00:47:03,360 Speaker 1: better interview in my mind, I know we were all 969 00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:05,800 Speaker 1: we got Mattie mcgonaugh. Hey, this is a better interview. 970 00:47:05,800 --> 00:47:07,600 Speaker 1: I have so many questions. Okay, here's the next one 971 00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:10,960 Speaker 1: for you, doctor Collins. So in the next year two 972 00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:13,839 Speaker 1: years or so, we're going to try to have a kid, 973 00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,880 Speaker 1: probably right, And so my fiance, who has one shot, 974 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:18,759 Speaker 1: has been like, I'm going to get the shot. But 975 00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:20,839 Speaker 1: what does this mean if you're trying to have kids. 976 00:47:20,960 --> 00:47:24,400 Speaker 1: Is this going to affect anything? It is not going 977 00:47:24,480 --> 00:47:26,359 Speaker 1: to have any effects. So let me do a little 978 00:47:26,440 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 1: mythbusting here, because there's a lot of myths that are 979 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:32,600 Speaker 1: out there being spread around on social media. This vaccine 980 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:36,480 Speaker 1: does not cause infertility, first of all, by the way. 981 00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:40,160 Speaker 1: Second of all, it also won't give you COVID nineteen. 982 00:47:40,239 --> 00:47:42,880 Speaker 1: The vaccine doesn't actually have the virus in it, just 983 00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:46,560 Speaker 1: a particular protein that your immune system can recognize. Just 984 00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:49,520 Speaker 1: what it's all about other myths. No, it does not 985 00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:51,880 Speaker 1: have chips in it that Bill Gates or Tony Fauci 986 00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:56,320 Speaker 1: designed they would put through the needle. So yeah, everybody, 987 00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:58,920 Speaker 1: please look at the CDC. If you're looking for information 988 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,359 Speaker 1: about all of this, it's all up there. CDC dot 989 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:03,479 Speaker 1: com is the best place to go if you really 990 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:06,160 Speaker 1: want the facts about what we know about the vaccines, 991 00:48:06,200 --> 00:48:09,120 Speaker 1: their safety, their efficacy. That's the place to look. What 992 00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:12,360 Speaker 1: about people, because I get hit a lot with there's 993 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:14,839 Speaker 1: been enough time they rushed this vaccine. I don't want 994 00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:16,279 Speaker 1: to get it if it's done so quickly. What do 995 00:48:16,360 --> 00:48:18,480 Speaker 1: you say to that? What do I say to that? Well? 996 00:48:18,520 --> 00:48:21,120 Speaker 1: I know people are concerned because they heard about this 997 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 1: thing called Operation Warp Speed, which maybe it wasn't the 998 00:48:24,200 --> 00:48:26,919 Speaker 1: best choice of a name for the project, But would 999 00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:29,600 Speaker 1: you rather have Operations Slow vote? I don't think so. 1000 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,080 Speaker 1: People were dying. We wanted to go as fast as 1001 00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 1: we could to develop these vaccines to save lives. But 1002 00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:36,680 Speaker 1: let me tell you, because I'm right in the middle 1003 00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:39,000 Speaker 1: of this and have been now for the last fifteen months. 1004 00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,960 Speaker 1: What we did was basically figure out where are the 1005 00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,680 Speaker 1: downtimes where nothing happens in between the various phases of 1006 00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:49,320 Speaker 1: vaccine development, and those sometimes take months, And we figured 1007 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:50,759 Speaker 1: out a way that we could get rid of the 1008 00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:54,640 Speaker 1: downtimes but not compromise at all on the rest of 1009 00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,399 Speaker 1: the rigorous testing to be sure the vaccine was safe 1010 00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,799 Speaker 1: and effective. In fact, I think people who look at 1011 00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:02,440 Speaker 1: this would say these are probably vaccines that we know 1012 00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:06,000 Speaker 1: more about than almost any others that have ever been tested. 1013 00:49:06,320 --> 00:49:09,680 Speaker 1: Plus more, the technology that was used, people think maybe 1014 00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:13,320 Speaker 1: it just got invented overnight when COVID nineteen burst on 1015 00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,080 Speaker 1: the scene back in January twenty twenty. This is all 1016 00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:19,800 Speaker 1: based upon technologies that have been developed over decades that 1017 00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 1: were ready for this moment and got brought forward and 1018 00:49:22,760 --> 00:49:26,920 Speaker 1: they weren't. So basically you took all the time where 1019 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:29,640 Speaker 1: they were just chilling out doing nothing, waiting for things, 1020 00:49:30,000 --> 00:49:32,319 Speaker 1: but you did everything they would normally do anyway during 1021 00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,360 Speaker 1: a vaccine. I'm just trying to understand this that it 1022 00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:37,239 Speaker 1: wasn't rushed with. You just crammed things into a space 1023 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:39,600 Speaker 1: where it shouldn't have been crammed. You just were extremely 1024 00:49:39,680 --> 00:49:44,279 Speaker 1: efficient at finding the vaccine. That's exactly right. So first 1025 00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,040 Speaker 1: of all, one of the new technologies made it possible 1026 00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:50,400 Speaker 1: as soon as the Chinese released the actual letters of 1027 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,960 Speaker 1: the viral genome, the code that that virus uses to 1028 00:49:54,040 --> 00:49:57,520 Speaker 1: replicate itself, to start making the vaccine right then sixty 1029 00:49:57,600 --> 00:50:00,239 Speaker 1: three days later, which is a world record, need to 1030 00:50:00,320 --> 00:50:03,520 Speaker 1: start the very first phase one trials. But then usually 1031 00:50:03,600 --> 00:50:05,680 Speaker 1: there's a big gap between phase one and phase two, 1032 00:50:05,920 --> 00:50:08,000 Speaker 1: not this time, and then there's a big gap between 1033 00:50:08,040 --> 00:50:10,560 Speaker 1: phase two and phase three. Not this time. Those were 1034 00:50:10,680 --> 00:50:13,920 Speaker 1: like days instead of months or years. And then the 1035 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:16,320 Speaker 1: other thing we did, which is really important, Bobby, is 1036 00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,160 Speaker 1: we figured that some of these vaccines might actually work, 1037 00:50:19,680 --> 00:50:23,960 Speaker 1: So let's actually start manufacturing doses even before we know 1038 00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:25,680 Speaker 1: if they're going to work. We'll have to throw them 1039 00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,279 Speaker 1: out if the vaccine is no good, but if it's good, 1040 00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:31,200 Speaker 1: we'll have them ready to go. When once the vaccine 1041 00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:33,640 Speaker 1: gets approved by the FDA, people can roll up their 1042 00:50:33,680 --> 00:50:35,960 Speaker 1: sleeves and get started. And that's how we got started 1043 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:38,960 Speaker 1: in December, as opposed to what otherwise would have been 1044 00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,120 Speaker 1: months of waiting for a factory to be built and 1045 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,640 Speaker 1: maybe we would have the vaccines by the fall of 1046 00:50:43,680 --> 00:50:45,960 Speaker 1: twenty twenty one. We didn't want to have that risk 1047 00:50:46,120 --> 00:50:49,000 Speaker 1: of waiting, so all of this was very carefully planned 1048 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:52,320 Speaker 1: and it has made it possible in eleven months to 1049 00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,920 Speaker 1: do what usually takes five or ten years. I like 1050 00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:57,440 Speaker 1: that answer, honestly, because I had no idea. I mean, 1051 00:50:57,480 --> 00:50:58,839 Speaker 1: to me, it was just a block of time where 1052 00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:00,600 Speaker 1: it came together quick, and I'm on, hey, I'm still 1053 00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:02,840 Speaker 1: trusting people that know more about something than I do. 1054 00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:05,440 Speaker 1: But to actually hear it laid out like that, I'm like, well, 1055 00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,960 Speaker 1: that makes sense. And also technology is getting better too, obviously, 1056 00:51:08,040 --> 00:51:10,560 Speaker 1: so everything should be moving at a bit more rapid rate. Okay, 1057 00:51:10,600 --> 00:51:12,640 Speaker 1: I'm pretty confident with that, and like I wouldn't be. 1058 00:51:12,920 --> 00:51:15,239 Speaker 1: We have the director of the National Institute of Health, 1059 00:51:15,360 --> 00:51:17,200 Speaker 1: doctor Collins on with US right now. What if I 1060 00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,000 Speaker 1: start questioning him and I'm like, no, I don't know, 1061 00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:24,399 Speaker 1: doctor Collins. Okay, my fiance and a couple of other 1062 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:26,840 Speaker 1: friends they have a little red circle on their shoulder 1063 00:51:27,200 --> 00:51:29,719 Speaker 1: from that shot, like a little rash circle. What do 1064 00:51:29,760 --> 00:51:31,120 Speaker 1: you know what that is? Or is that just we're 1065 00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:36,200 Speaker 1: just eating the wrong food. Well, it's certainly the case that, 1066 00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:39,800 Speaker 1: as with any injection, like a flu shot or a 1067 00:51:39,920 --> 00:51:42,200 Speaker 1: tet and a shot, you can get a local reaction 1068 00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:44,719 Speaker 1: after the needle where it gets a little sword. It 1069 00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,200 Speaker 1: may turn a little red. You may even feel for 1070 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:50,279 Speaker 1: the next twenty four hours or so a headache, maybe 1071 00:51:50,320 --> 00:51:52,279 Speaker 1: even a little chilly, a little feverish. When I hit 1072 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,839 Speaker 1: my second dose of Maderna, that's the one I got, 1073 00:51:55,320 --> 00:51:59,080 Speaker 1: I felt pretty puny for twenty four hours just because 1074 00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,160 Speaker 1: of the effect. But you know what, that's not a 1075 00:52:01,280 --> 00:52:05,080 Speaker 1: side effect. That's an effect that tells you this is work. 1076 00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,160 Speaker 1: It My immune system has recognized that it has a 1077 00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:10,520 Speaker 1: challenge on its hand. This vaccine is saying, come on, 1078 00:52:10,640 --> 00:52:13,600 Speaker 1: get busy. And it did, and I can tell it did. 1079 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,480 Speaker 1: And now I feel quite well protected because I know 1080 00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:20,080 Speaker 1: my immune system has in its file cabinet the anybody 1081 00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:22,239 Speaker 1: is that it's going to need if I encounter that 1082 00:52:22,480 --> 00:52:24,759 Speaker 1: virus in the future, and that gives me a great 1083 00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:27,480 Speaker 1: sense of confidence that maybe I can actually see my 1084 00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:30,439 Speaker 1: grandchildren in a few more weeks, which would be really 1085 00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,319 Speaker 1: nice to be able to do. Yeah, I had some friends. 1086 00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:33,960 Speaker 1: I didn't get sick at all. I felt nothing after 1087 00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:37,160 Speaker 1: my first shot. Add the Visor, and add some friends 1088 00:52:37,200 --> 00:52:40,719 Speaker 1: who after the second one for twenty four thirty six hours, 1089 00:52:40,840 --> 00:52:43,319 Speaker 1: got really sick. Is there a reason that some people 1090 00:52:43,360 --> 00:52:45,319 Speaker 1: are getting sick and some aren't, And should I root 1091 00:52:45,520 --> 00:52:46,880 Speaker 1: to get a little bit sick? Like? Is that a 1092 00:52:46,920 --> 00:52:50,480 Speaker 1: good sign? You know? My wife just got her second 1093 00:52:50,560 --> 00:52:53,160 Speaker 1: dose and she got Visor and she didn't have a 1094 00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:56,200 Speaker 1: bit of a problem. She was just fine. And I 1095 00:52:56,440 --> 00:52:58,480 Speaker 1: was like, boy, you're lucky, and she was like, well, 1096 00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:01,680 Speaker 1: did it really work? Am I Okay? There's a lot 1097 00:53:01,760 --> 00:53:05,160 Speaker 1: of variability, Bobby. It doesn't correlate with whether you've got 1098 00:53:05,200 --> 00:53:08,400 Speaker 1: a good antibody response or not. It's something to do 1099 00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,800 Speaker 1: with just the way your immune system is wired and 1100 00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:13,680 Speaker 1: whether it's like ready to really pull out all the 1101 00:53:13,760 --> 00:53:16,400 Speaker 1: stops when it encounters a challenge, or whether it's going 1102 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:18,760 Speaker 1: to be a little more casual about taking care of business. 1103 00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:22,440 Speaker 1: It really though everybody who's heard about these side effects, 1104 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:25,120 Speaker 1: they last maybe twenty four hours. Would you rather be 1105 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:28,279 Speaker 1: kind of sick and chilly for twenty four hours, or 1106 00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:30,360 Speaker 1: would you rather get COVID nineteen and end up in 1107 00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:32,560 Speaker 1: the hospital or the ICU or lose your life? I mean, 1108 00:53:32,640 --> 00:53:35,480 Speaker 1: that's the balance we're trying to help people to understand. 1109 00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:37,120 Speaker 1: And I know there's still people a little on the 1110 00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:39,640 Speaker 1: fence here. I hope those who are listening right now 1111 00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,200 Speaker 1: really give it a serious thought about whether this is 1112 00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,359 Speaker 1: the time to roll up your sleeve too and join 1113 00:53:44,440 --> 00:53:48,040 Speaker 1: this effort to get this terrible pandemic behind us. Can 1114 00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:51,360 Speaker 1: I stop wearing a mask once I'm fully vaccinated? You know, 1115 00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:55,319 Speaker 1: we don't think it's time yet to stop wearing the mask, 1116 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,239 Speaker 1: because it is still possible, although we don't have enough 1117 00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,640 Speaker 1: data to be absolutely sure that you could be vaccinated 1118 00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:05,000 Speaker 1: and you could still carry the virus somewhere in your 1119 00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 1: nose or your respiratory track having no symptoms, which means 1120 00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:11,600 Speaker 1: you might then be infecting other people. So until we 1121 00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:14,000 Speaker 1: have more rigorous data about that, it's just going to 1122 00:54:14,080 --> 00:54:17,200 Speaker 1: take a few more weeks. Still recommending that people wear 1123 00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:19,960 Speaker 1: the mask when they're outside around other people, and certainly 1124 00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:23,120 Speaker 1: if you're inside, wear the mask. Even though it's a 1125 00:54:23,200 --> 00:54:25,640 Speaker 1: low risk. It's a kind of thing. It's love your 1126 00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:28,960 Speaker 1: neighbor thing. It's not about protecting yourself in that situation. 1127 00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:32,560 Speaker 1: It's about whether you might unwittingly be a super spreader 1128 00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:34,600 Speaker 1: and putting people around you at risk. And who would 1129 00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:36,920 Speaker 1: want to do that? So wear the mask. Wait a 1130 00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,320 Speaker 1: little while longer. We're going to get through this. Eventually 1131 00:54:39,520 --> 00:54:41,759 Speaker 1: will be in a situation we can take those off. Now. 1132 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 1: If you're in a small gathering, maybe a invite another 1133 00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:48,680 Speaker 1: couple to dinner at your house, and they're immunized and 1134 00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:51,840 Speaker 1: you're immunized, then everybody can take their masks off and 1135 00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:54,360 Speaker 1: have a nice time together. But if you're in mixed 1136 00:54:54,400 --> 00:54:57,440 Speaker 1: company where some people are not immunized, you still ought 1137 00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:59,600 Speaker 1: to wear the mask to protect those people who are 1138 00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:02,680 Speaker 1: still risk. Doctor Francis Collins, the director of the National 1139 00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:04,880 Speaker 1: Institute of Health, is on with us. I want to 1140 00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:07,560 Speaker 1: ask a question that isn't extremely about COVID, but I 1141 00:55:07,680 --> 00:55:10,839 Speaker 1: know that you're at about Christian You write books which 1142 00:55:10,960 --> 00:55:13,239 Speaker 1: is extremely interesting and what you write out about the 1143 00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:17,399 Speaker 1: intersection of science and faith and so the language of God? 1144 00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:19,919 Speaker 1: What is Tell me what this book is about, because 1145 00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:23,040 Speaker 1: it sounds like something i'd be interested in. Well, thanks 1146 00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:28,360 Speaker 1: for asking. I grew up as a agnostic and ultimately 1147 00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,719 Speaker 1: an atheist, and then I went to medical school and 1148 00:55:30,840 --> 00:55:33,160 Speaker 1: had to wrestle with questions about life and death and 1149 00:55:33,280 --> 00:55:36,800 Speaker 1: realized I had really thought this through. And to my surprise, 1150 00:55:37,040 --> 00:55:40,080 Speaker 1: as a scientist and somebody who was interested in genetics 1151 00:55:40,200 --> 00:55:44,000 Speaker 1: for Heaven's sakes, I realized that the atheist perspective was 1152 00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:47,960 Speaker 1: the least rational, that was sort of denying the possibility 1153 00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:51,120 Speaker 1: of God when you don't have complete data. And ultimately, 1154 00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:54,600 Speaker 1: over a couple of years, guided by beginning to understand 1155 00:55:54,680 --> 00:55:57,840 Speaker 1: the Bible and reading a lot of other commentators like C. S. Lewis, 1156 00:55:58,000 --> 00:56:01,080 Speaker 1: to my surprise, I became a Christian. Now people said, 1157 00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,480 Speaker 1: your head's going to explode. You can't be a scientist 1158 00:56:03,560 --> 00:56:05,799 Speaker 1: and a Christian, can you? And you know what, over 1159 00:56:05,960 --> 00:56:08,279 Speaker 1: forty years, I've never had a problem with this at all. 1160 00:56:08,440 --> 00:56:11,160 Speaker 1: I think science is a wonderful way to understand how 1161 00:56:11,280 --> 00:56:14,279 Speaker 1: nature works, kind of a glimpse of God's mind. But 1162 00:56:14,400 --> 00:56:16,960 Speaker 1: science doesn't answer a lot of questions that I'm interested 1163 00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,040 Speaker 1: in like, why am I here anyway? And is there 1164 00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:21,000 Speaker 1: a God and does he care about me? And to 1165 00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:24,480 Speaker 1: be able to bring those things together in a harmonious way, 1166 00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:27,759 Speaker 1: which has happened down through human history except for maybe 1167 00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:30,520 Speaker 1: the last hundred years, seems to me like something we 1168 00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,200 Speaker 1: should try to recapture. And so I wrote this book 1169 00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:37,200 Speaker 1: about how from me, science is a way of worshiping 1170 00:56:37,360 --> 00:56:41,000 Speaker 1: because you're understanding the Creator. And when I study DNA, 1171 00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:42,640 Speaker 1: which is what I did as the leader of the 1172 00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,560 Speaker 1: Human Genome Project, I'm studying a language and for me, 1173 00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:48,920 Speaker 1: God's the creator. That's God's language. So yeah, that's what 1174 00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,960 Speaker 1: the book's about. In a lot of people were surprised 1175 00:56:52,280 --> 00:56:54,440 Speaker 1: that that perspective could be put forward, But there's a 1176 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:59,040 Speaker 1: whole foundation now called Biologos Biologos that has become a 1177 00:56:59,160 --> 00:57:01,840 Speaker 1: meeting place for people who have that same view, and 1178 00:57:01,960 --> 00:57:03,880 Speaker 1: so people are interested. Go and have a look at that. 1179 00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:08,200 Speaker 1: You'll see a lot of really interesting and respectful conversations 1180 00:57:08,280 --> 00:57:11,000 Speaker 1: going on in the language of God. That's that's really interesting. Well, 1181 00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:16,280 Speaker 1: then my final question is why am I here? Well, 1182 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,360 Speaker 1: that's between you and God, So you better get on 1183 00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:20,160 Speaker 1: your knees and see if you can get an answer. 1184 00:57:20,240 --> 00:57:22,920 Speaker 1: I'm still looking for the complete answer myself, but once 1185 00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:25,080 Speaker 1: in a while I get a glimpse here and there. Well, 1186 00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:28,560 Speaker 1: doctor Collins, we appreciate your time, and I think that listen, 1187 00:57:28,680 --> 00:57:32,600 Speaker 1: I'm in. I trust science. I got hit with the vaccine. 1188 00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:35,080 Speaker 1: I'm getting my other one first week of April. There 1189 00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:37,920 Speaker 1: are a lot of people in it or around my 1190 00:57:38,000 --> 00:57:40,240 Speaker 1: circle that aren't fully in, and I think for them 1191 00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:43,080 Speaker 1: to hear this, this will provide a bit of confidence 1192 00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,080 Speaker 1: in the vaccine. Mostly the question of how did this 1193 00:57:45,120 --> 00:57:47,400 Speaker 1: come together so fast? Had no idea. I feel like 1194 00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:48,920 Speaker 1: I'm pretty dialed in and I had no idea that 1195 00:57:49,040 --> 00:57:51,720 Speaker 1: was really what happened. Thank you for your time. Thank 1196 00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:53,160 Speaker 1: you for all the hard work you have put in. 1197 00:57:53,240 --> 00:57:55,880 Speaker 1: It has been a busy twenty twenty for you, for sure. 1198 00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:58,080 Speaker 1: And thank you for you know, coming on the show 1199 00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:00,200 Speaker 1: and explaining you know, they say explained like I'm five. 1200 00:58:00,200 --> 00:58:01,680 Speaker 1: I feel like we're all five years old and you're 1201 00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:03,400 Speaker 1: the teacher. So thank you for doing that with us. 1202 00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:07,920 Speaker 1: Thank you for the chance, and again, everybody, please look 1203 00:58:07,960 --> 00:58:09,840 Speaker 1: at the evidence and roll up your sleeve when you 1204 00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:12,240 Speaker 1: have the information in front of you. I think that's 1205 00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:14,040 Speaker 1: what you'll want to do. We are going to get 1206 00:58:14,080 --> 00:58:17,440 Speaker 1: through this. Doctor Francis Collins, the director of the National 1207 00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:19,880 Speaker 1: Institutes of Health. Thank you, doctor Collins. Have a great day. 1208 00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:25,000 Speaker 1: Thank you too. All Right bye, everybody. It's the Best 1209 00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:30,120 Speaker 1: Bits of the Week with Morgan. Number two, another really 1210 00:58:30,160 --> 00:58:34,480 Speaker 1: funny segment this week, Lunchbox decided to write letters to 1211 00:58:34,600 --> 00:58:38,680 Speaker 1: celebrities as a seven year old kid, not just like 1212 00:58:38,840 --> 00:58:41,200 Speaker 1: one seven year old get or one celebrity. He wrote 1213 00:58:41,240 --> 00:58:45,160 Speaker 1: to Carrie Underwood, Oprah the Rock I mean, and these 1214 00:58:45,360 --> 00:58:47,760 Speaker 1: letters are hilarious. So another segment you can laugh at. 1215 00:58:48,040 --> 00:58:49,640 Speaker 1: But right before that, I'm going to talk to Eddie 1216 00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:52,040 Speaker 1: a little bit because Eddie had briefly talked about someone 1217 00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:53,800 Speaker 1: that he's in a letter, but he told me he 1218 00:58:53,880 --> 00:58:57,480 Speaker 1: has another story. Well it's funny because it was such 1219 00:58:57,520 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 1: a big thing when we were kids to write the 1220 00:58:59,520 --> 00:59:03,840 Speaker 1: celebrity these letters. And I remember my friend Mike Morrison. 1221 00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:06,280 Speaker 1: He was like, man, you'll never believe what happened. I 1222 00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:08,640 Speaker 1: wrote Nolan Ryan, who was a pitcher for the Rangers 1223 00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:10,960 Speaker 1: at the time, and he's like, I wrote Nolan Ryan said, 1224 00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:13,080 Speaker 1: I was a big fan and I got this autograph 1225 00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:16,360 Speaker 1: baseball guard from him and I'm like what they actually responded, 1226 00:59:16,520 --> 00:59:20,920 Speaker 1: So then that sparked my memory of just being like, well, okay, 1227 00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 1: well what do I do? What I do like a 1228 00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:24,880 Speaker 1: pick a pick a baseball player Ricky Henderson, he's kind 1229 00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:26,680 Speaker 1: of cool, like he steals a lot of basses. So 1230 00:59:26,800 --> 00:59:31,000 Speaker 1: I wrote Ricky Henderson, never got anything back and didn't 1231 00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,520 Speaker 1: so yeah, so I never got anything back with that. 1232 00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:35,120 Speaker 1: So I was kind of lost hope with all that. 1233 00:59:35,440 --> 00:59:39,240 Speaker 1: But on the show, I talked about writing this movie director. 1234 00:59:39,880 --> 00:59:43,840 Speaker 1: This was in college years years years. You weren't even 1235 00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,480 Speaker 1: like a child, you were like a grown adult. This 1236 00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:49,720 Speaker 1: was years later, and I remember going thinking back like, okay, 1237 00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:53,160 Speaker 1: well the only person I've ever written was Ricky Henderson 1238 00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:55,600 Speaker 1: and he never wrote back, and so I'm like, whatever, 1239 00:59:55,760 --> 00:59:57,400 Speaker 1: let's just give this a shot. But it's so funny. 1240 00:59:57,400 --> 00:59:59,040 Speaker 1: And we brought this up. I started thinking like, it's 1241 00:59:59,080 --> 01:00:01,640 Speaker 1: the dumbest ram the thing to write letters to someone, 1242 01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:04,080 Speaker 1: because who's going to read your letter? Why would someone 1243 01:00:04,160 --> 01:00:05,720 Speaker 1: want to read it? Well? And do you ever think 1244 01:00:05,800 --> 01:00:07,880 Speaker 1: like is his people going to read it or is 1245 01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:10,480 Speaker 1: he going to read it? Correct? Right? Like That's always 1246 01:00:10,520 --> 01:00:12,240 Speaker 1: what I go through in my head. But what's crazy 1247 01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:14,600 Speaker 1: now is you don't have to deal with that at 1248 01:00:14,640 --> 01:00:18,200 Speaker 1: all because in this age, like just DM someone and 1249 01:00:18,280 --> 01:00:21,320 Speaker 1: they and they see it. Oh. The whole social media 1250 01:00:21,400 --> 01:00:24,520 Speaker 1: era has been a game changer for celebrities, right, like, 1251 01:00:24,920 --> 01:00:26,560 Speaker 1: not only can they see what all their fans are 1252 01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:28,600 Speaker 1: up to, they can interact with them. They can message them. 1253 01:00:28,640 --> 01:00:30,240 Speaker 1: I mean, they can walk them if they need to. Like, 1254 01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:32,960 Speaker 1: there's just so many ways of being able to interact 1255 01:00:33,000 --> 01:00:36,240 Speaker 1: with your fans when like you guys, as kids, it 1256 01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:39,240 Speaker 1: was writing letters right now, letters and not knowing even 1257 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:40,600 Speaker 1: like when you sit a text today, you know if 1258 01:00:40,600 --> 01:00:42,960 Speaker 1: someone read it. You had no idea if that even 1259 01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:45,520 Speaker 1: got opened or went straight in the trash, like you 1260 01:00:45,640 --> 01:00:47,480 Speaker 1: just had to think, Like I remember he played for 1261 01:00:47,480 --> 01:00:49,800 Speaker 1: the Oakland A's Ricky Henderson did, and I thought, wow, 1262 01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:52,520 Speaker 1: my letters going to Oakland right now, and like, oh, 1263 01:00:52,720 --> 01:00:55,680 Speaker 1: Ricky Henderson's just getting off the baseball field and going 1264 01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:59,160 Speaker 1: to the mail room and get yes. But who knows, 1265 01:00:59,280 --> 01:01:01,840 Speaker 1: that never probably probably never happened. So he never responded. 1266 01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,280 Speaker 1: You never got any responses from any celebrity. No, Rick 1267 01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:06,840 Speaker 1: Anderson and then Cameron Crow never got any response. But 1268 01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:10,080 Speaker 1: in your adult life you have gotten people to respond 1269 01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:12,080 Speaker 1: to you right, Like I especially working for the show, 1270 01:01:12,440 --> 01:01:15,680 Speaker 1: what's been like a few celebrity responses you've gotten that 1271 01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:17,840 Speaker 1: are pretty cool? I think like the weird one to 1272 01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:22,120 Speaker 1: me sometimes is Tim McGraw that he I'll just tweet 1273 01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:25,120 Speaker 1: something and then he'll respond to it with an answer 1274 01:01:25,480 --> 01:01:29,000 Speaker 1: like nothing about him, just random likes like Johnny Lasagna 1275 01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:33,640 Speaker 1: will respond, Steph from Austin will respond, Danny will respond, 1276 01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,840 Speaker 1: and then Tim McGraw And I'm like that's crazy, Like 1277 01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:40,400 Speaker 1: what like what does he respond random things like if 1278 01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 1: it's just a picture of like a rainbow whatever, and 1279 01:01:42,920 --> 01:01:47,120 Speaker 1: you'll just like, what's beautiful. I'm like, Okay, that's what 1280 01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,720 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. It's like Tim McGraw knows you. That's 1281 01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:52,400 Speaker 1: he does know who I am. I think that's really cool. 1282 01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:56,200 Speaker 1: Did you write letters to anyone when you're a kid one? 1283 01:01:56,960 --> 01:02:02,240 Speaker 1: And that was like because I mean you're not. No, 1284 01:02:02,600 --> 01:02:05,000 Speaker 1: I mean no, they were my time. They were when 1285 01:02:05,040 --> 01:02:07,120 Speaker 1: I was a kid, like really really young. I knew 1286 01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:08,960 Speaker 1: about them, but no, I didn't write them. It would 1287 01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:10,600 Speaker 1: have been Backstreet Boys if I wrote to a boy 1288 01:02:10,640 --> 01:02:13,520 Speaker 1: band or in sync um, but no, the one person 1289 01:02:13,560 --> 01:02:15,600 Speaker 1: I wrote to before social media kind of hit because 1290 01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:17,720 Speaker 1: my Space hit when I was probably ten, right, so 1291 01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:22,520 Speaker 1: things started facing up. Um No, I knew about that. 1292 01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:24,440 Speaker 1: I used it, but like I didn't really know what 1293 01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:28,320 Speaker 1: I was doing. Um. The one person I did write too, though, 1294 01:02:28,480 --> 01:02:32,800 Speaker 1: wash and I twin and she never responded. But that's 1295 01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:35,560 Speaker 1: crazy because you've met her. Yes, like so many full 1296 01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,080 Speaker 1: circle moments, I don't even remember, like remember, I think 1297 01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:42,000 Speaker 1: it was honestly a class lesson because we don't write 1298 01:02:42,080 --> 01:02:44,160 Speaker 1: letters anymore. Like when I was growing up, They're like, 1299 01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:45,840 Speaker 1: you need to learn how to write letters. So we 1300 01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:48,880 Speaker 1: would write these letters to celebrities and they would send 1301 01:02:48,960 --> 01:02:50,840 Speaker 1: them off. Most of the time, there was no responses. 1302 01:02:52,000 --> 01:02:55,120 Speaker 1: Class I know, I don't need that. Now, I'm like, hey, 1303 01:02:55,160 --> 01:02:57,200 Speaker 1: I could just in a DM, Like I wonder what 1304 01:02:57,280 --> 01:02:59,960 Speaker 1: they're getting taught in class. They just don't get taught, 1305 01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:07,680 Speaker 1: that's true. Um so yeah, I never got anything back. 1306 01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:10,360 Speaker 1: But totally full circle moment because the two coolest things 1307 01:03:10,400 --> 01:03:12,920 Speaker 1: that have happened, like in life and on social media 1308 01:03:13,520 --> 01:03:17,920 Speaker 1: was meeting Shania Twain and meeting Dolly Parton, both of 1309 01:03:18,000 --> 01:03:21,120 Speaker 1: who have interacted with me on social media. Shan I 1310 01:03:21,240 --> 01:03:24,240 Speaker 1: ever retweeted my like recent TikTok video when I like 1311 01:03:25,120 --> 01:03:28,640 Speaker 1: ranked all her intros and it was so cool. And 1312 01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:31,440 Speaker 1: then Dolly Parton retreeted me when I dressed up as 1313 01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:34,160 Speaker 1: her for Halloween, like two like very honorable things. It 1314 01:03:34,720 --> 01:03:37,000 Speaker 1: wasn't even just like about them, like I had done 1315 01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:40,800 Speaker 1: something that was inspired by them. And then they responded 1316 01:03:40,840 --> 01:03:42,680 Speaker 1: to that, like I didn't mess it up enough that 1317 01:03:42,800 --> 01:03:45,640 Speaker 1: they want to respond follow you. No, I don't think so. 1318 01:03:45,800 --> 01:03:47,600 Speaker 1: They're they're too they're too big for that. That's fine, 1319 01:03:48,000 --> 01:03:50,160 Speaker 1: Like these are just like I when both of these 1320 01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:52,520 Speaker 1: things happened, I should up send it to all my friends, 1321 01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:56,320 Speaker 1: all my like text mess text messages groups like freaking 1322 01:03:56,400 --> 01:03:58,640 Speaker 1: out the two people in my entire life that I've 1323 01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:01,200 Speaker 1: loved since the beginning of time? How did you when 1324 01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:04,080 Speaker 1: you wrote her first letter? How did you find out 1325 01:04:04,120 --> 01:04:05,480 Speaker 1: where you're going to send it to? Did you send 1326 01:04:05,480 --> 01:04:07,480 Speaker 1: you the record label? Or I'm gonna be honest. I 1327 01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:09,120 Speaker 1: think our teachers like tricked us. And like I said that, 1328 01:04:09,200 --> 01:04:10,600 Speaker 1: they sent an office and I don't think it every 1329 01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:13,480 Speaker 1: wont sent off. They still have it, yeah, because they're like, hey, 1330 01:04:13,520 --> 01:04:15,480 Speaker 1: we got all the addresses for things you need. Yeah, 1331 01:04:15,560 --> 01:04:19,040 Speaker 1: Like how did they do that? No, they didn't respected teachers. 1332 01:04:19,080 --> 01:04:20,760 Speaker 1: I see them now. They have a lot of hard workshop. 1333 01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,080 Speaker 1: They're not looking up the addresses of famous people to 1334 01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:25,040 Speaker 1: do that. You're probably right, So yeah, I don't. I 1335 01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:26,439 Speaker 1: don't think it ever got sent off, So I don't 1336 01:04:26,440 --> 01:04:28,320 Speaker 1: even think she had a chance. Yeah, I hate that. 1337 01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:31,000 Speaker 1: I hate that same thing with my Ricky Henderson thing 1338 01:04:31,120 --> 01:04:33,440 Speaker 1: like no way it got to him is right, like 1339 01:04:33,560 --> 01:04:36,280 Speaker 1: lost in a mill, like sitting somewhere, you know, like 1340 01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:38,360 Speaker 1: forty years later when it returned, Oh it's got dust 1341 01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:41,360 Speaker 1: all over. It's like it's so yellow now, never been opened. 1342 01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:46,000 Speaker 1: Oh man, okay, well we'll listen to this. Lunchbox he 1343 01:04:46,080 --> 01:04:48,880 Speaker 1: wrote some celebrities. You can hear what he wrote them, 1344 01:04:48,920 --> 01:04:52,200 Speaker 1: what he asked for and his kid voices. It's a 1345 01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:56,040 Speaker 1: little weird. Number two. On last week's show, we talked 1346 01:04:56,040 --> 01:04:58,400 Speaker 1: about writing letters to celebrities. I wrote the whole Kogan, 1347 01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:01,720 Speaker 1: Amy Roch, Patrick Swayze, Eddie wrote to Cameron Crow, the Director. 1348 01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:05,040 Speaker 1: As a kid, Lunchbox wrote to Troy Yagman, anybody else 1349 01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:08,320 Speaker 1: write to celebrities? We all end, okay, so we said, 1350 01:05:08,360 --> 01:05:10,960 Speaker 1: what if we do it as an adult? The Lunchbox 1351 01:05:11,040 --> 01:05:13,600 Speaker 1: took it on himself to already do it. This is 1352 01:05:13,680 --> 01:05:15,919 Speaker 1: going to be a science experiment. What did you do? Well? 1353 01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:18,520 Speaker 1: I decided that I don't know if people even write anymore, 1354 01:05:18,520 --> 01:05:20,760 Speaker 1: if they just email fan clubs or whatever. So I 1355 01:05:20,880 --> 01:05:25,280 Speaker 1: decided to write letters to three superstars as a kid 1356 01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:27,600 Speaker 1: and see if they'll mail me something. What do you 1357 01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:29,960 Speaker 1: mean as a kid? I wrote, like, I'm a seven 1358 01:05:30,080 --> 01:05:31,800 Speaker 1: year old? Oh? Wow? Oh you wrote the letter? Is 1359 01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:35,080 Speaker 1: that your real handwriting? No? I wrote left handed? Okay, wow, 1360 01:05:35,680 --> 01:05:37,760 Speaker 1: I wrote, so I didn't. I'm right handed. So I 1361 01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:41,160 Speaker 1: took the opposite hand and I wrote a letter to 1362 01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:45,439 Speaker 1: carry Underwood the Rock and to Oprah, and I'm gonna 1363 01:05:45,480 --> 01:05:47,439 Speaker 1: mail them and see if they'll mail me anything back. 1364 01:05:47,720 --> 01:05:50,080 Speaker 1: How long is the letter? It's just like one page. 1365 01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:53,120 Speaker 1: But it's just big writing and sloppy. Would you mind 1366 01:05:53,200 --> 01:05:54,760 Speaker 1: reading it too? It would you like to read? Who 1367 01:05:54,760 --> 01:05:56,720 Speaker 1: would you write me to carry? Oh? You did three 1368 01:05:56,760 --> 01:06:00,320 Speaker 1: different ones, carry the Rock and Oprah? Okay, let's do 1369 01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:03,080 Speaker 1: Carrie Underwood first. Okay, Lunchbox has written a letter to 1370 01:06:03,120 --> 01:06:05,000 Speaker 1: carry Underwood? And how do you know where to send it? 1371 01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:06,920 Speaker 1: By the way, I figure I'll just send them to 1372 01:06:06,960 --> 01:06:09,000 Speaker 1: the record lay. I don't know. I was just gonna 1373 01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:11,280 Speaker 1: send it to the record label and hope they get 1374 01:06:11,320 --> 01:06:13,480 Speaker 1: it to her. I don't know where do you send 1375 01:06:13,520 --> 01:06:18,360 Speaker 1: it to the Rock to his studio? Studio has a studio, okay, 1376 01:06:18,640 --> 01:06:22,640 Speaker 1: and then Oprah I Harpo Productions, So you're okay. I'm 1377 01:06:22,680 --> 01:06:25,480 Speaker 1: just I don't know. Shot in the shot in the dark. Okay. 1378 01:06:25,520 --> 01:06:28,400 Speaker 1: This is to carry Underwood. Dear Carrie. I a big 1379 01:06:28,480 --> 01:06:34,480 Speaker 1: fan and like to hear you sing. I hope to 1380 01:06:34,560 --> 01:06:38,280 Speaker 1: be cool. Okay, O, L like you win me older, 1381 01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:42,040 Speaker 1: but a seven year ol wouldn't say all that way older, 1382 01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:45,520 Speaker 1: like I'm misspell and I don't I don't have proper Yeah, 1383 01:06:45,720 --> 01:06:47,919 Speaker 1: my seven year old wouldn't. He'd do better than that. Okay, 1384 01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:51,560 Speaker 1: go ahead. I am Miranda and I seven. Can you 1385 01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:54,920 Speaker 1: send me a picture for my wall please? I live 1386 01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,760 Speaker 1: at and I give my address and I put by Miranda. 1387 01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:02,720 Speaker 1: That's good. Yeah yeah, I just think it as like 1388 01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:06,600 Speaker 1: a four year old. It's still gay. Yeah, okay, all okay, 1389 01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,080 Speaker 1: Now he would you like to hear to the Rock? Yes, 1390 01:07:09,720 --> 01:07:13,040 Speaker 1: mister the Rock. I a big fan and like you 1391 01:07:13,200 --> 01:07:18,280 Speaker 1: on TV. I hope it'd be cool like you when 1392 01:07:18,400 --> 01:07:22,800 Speaker 1: me older. Tooth Fairy is best movie. My name is Greg, 1393 01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,480 Speaker 1: can you send a picture for the wall? And I 1394 01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:28,440 Speaker 1: give him my address? I am seven years old by 1395 01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:32,440 Speaker 1: Rock signed Greg. It almost sends like Yoda, Like get kid, 1396 01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:36,200 Speaker 1: Yoda is writing these letters or maybe maybe he's from 1397 01:07:36,280 --> 01:07:38,640 Speaker 1: Russia or something, you know, like like English is not 1398 01:07:38,720 --> 01:07:42,760 Speaker 1: his first language. And finally to Miss Oprah, my name 1399 01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:46,080 Speaker 1: is Amanda. I like you on the TV. I want 1400 01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:50,439 Speaker 1: to be on TV when I older. My birthday will 1401 01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:57,400 Speaker 1: be May twelfth. Can you come can? I can? I 1402 01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:01,120 Speaker 1: have a picture for the wall? I am seven. I 1403 01:08:01,200 --> 01:08:03,000 Speaker 1: hope to be cool like you when I get older. 1404 01:08:03,640 --> 01:08:07,040 Speaker 1: By Miss Oprah signed Amanda. And you're gonna mail them 1405 01:08:07,080 --> 01:08:08,720 Speaker 1: off today? I'm gonna mail him off today, and I'm 1406 01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:11,560 Speaker 1: gonna give him one month. And are you gonna write 1407 01:08:11,560 --> 01:08:13,680 Speaker 1: though an adult on the front so it's like your 1408 01:08:13,680 --> 01:08:16,679 Speaker 1: parents addressed? Yeah, yeah, my parents will address it. Obviously, 1409 01:08:16,800 --> 01:08:18,479 Speaker 1: a kid is not going to address the envelope and 1410 01:08:18,520 --> 01:08:20,040 Speaker 1: put a stamp on it. Oh. I thought it'd be 1411 01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:23,000 Speaker 1: super impressive and it might make its way to someone 1412 01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:25,840 Speaker 1: opening like oh this looks interesting. Well, okay, you have 1413 01:08:25,840 --> 01:08:27,679 Speaker 1: a great point. I would say, make sure you don't 1414 01:08:27,680 --> 01:08:30,080 Speaker 1: misspell leave words out though, right, like, don't do what 1415 01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:34,479 Speaker 1: you did here. We're like, I kid food like, so 1416 01:08:34,720 --> 01:08:36,960 Speaker 1: write their name, make sure it's all there so you 1417 01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:38,360 Speaker 1: can easily read it. But if it does look like 1418 01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:40,519 Speaker 1: a kid, that's a good point. Amy. Yeah, okay, okay, 1419 01:08:40,600 --> 01:08:44,800 Speaker 1: mail them off today, okay, and well every week we'll 1420 01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:46,439 Speaker 1: check in and see if you've got something back. It's 1421 01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:48,360 Speaker 1: kind of like when he sent the balloon up. I 1422 01:08:48,360 --> 01:08:51,400 Speaker 1: didn't think anybody would ever get the balloon message, and 1423 01:08:52,640 --> 01:08:56,280 Speaker 1: somebody did, so who knows. We might be reading Oprah. 1424 01:08:56,920 --> 01:09:00,320 Speaker 1: Oprah shows up, She's like, where is a little Himmy? 1425 01:09:00,360 --> 01:09:03,559 Speaker 1: Who is that? Oprah? Was Amanda? Where's a little Amanda 1426 01:09:03,760 --> 01:09:07,320 Speaker 1: looking at her? Oprah? She's a Harry forty year old 1427 01:09:07,360 --> 01:09:11,680 Speaker 1: man just raises his hand. I Amanda. All right. We'll 1428 01:09:11,800 --> 01:09:13,479 Speaker 1: check back in a week and see how that's going. 1429 01:09:14,840 --> 01:09:18,559 Speaker 1: It's the best bits of the week with Morgan number two. 1430 01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:23,440 Speaker 1: Of course, this is the number one spot. Brett Eldridge 1431 01:09:23,479 --> 01:09:25,599 Speaker 1: came into the show this week. He helped us celebrate 1432 01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:28,640 Speaker 1: Bobby's birthday. He also talked about his own birthday. He 1433 01:09:28,800 --> 01:09:31,680 Speaker 1: performed his song good Day. I mean just so much 1434 01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,040 Speaker 1: happened and it's always fun listening to Brett Eldridge talk. 1435 01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:38,000 Speaker 1: So listen. Now here is Brett Eldridge Number one, The 1436 01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:41,760 Speaker 1: Friday Morning Conversation with Brett Eldridge. Brett, how are you? 1437 01:09:42,040 --> 01:09:44,479 Speaker 1: I'm great? How are you? I'm good? Today's my birthday. 1438 01:09:44,479 --> 01:09:47,120 Speaker 1: You just had your birthday. It's a huge day. It's 1439 01:09:47,160 --> 01:09:52,920 Speaker 1: a fine days. It's a good day. It's a good day. Good. Yeah. 1440 01:09:53,320 --> 01:09:57,040 Speaker 1: What what what happened on your birthday? Uh? I one hiking? 1441 01:09:58,120 --> 01:10:01,120 Speaker 1: What else? I do? One to out to dinner with 1442 01:10:01,200 --> 01:10:05,760 Speaker 1: the fam and ate some peanut butter cheesecake which is 1443 01:10:05,800 --> 01:10:07,720 Speaker 1: really good. Well, I appreciate you coming in here on 1444 01:10:07,800 --> 01:10:09,800 Speaker 1: my birthday. It is a good day and you are 1445 01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:12,679 Speaker 1: doing the good day movement? Yes, what is that exactly? 1446 01:10:13,520 --> 01:10:16,679 Speaker 1: It's basically, you know, paying it forward, you know, lifting 1447 01:10:16,720 --> 01:10:21,439 Speaker 1: somebody's day, whether it's buying flowers and giving them to 1448 01:10:21,520 --> 01:10:24,600 Speaker 1: a friend, buying somebody's coffee in the line next to you, 1449 01:10:25,800 --> 01:10:29,000 Speaker 1: anything just to lift somebody up, some some words of 1450 01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:32,320 Speaker 1: affirmation to somebody needs it. You never know when somebody 1451 01:10:32,400 --> 01:10:34,960 Speaker 1: needs it, and just just giving somebody a good day. 1452 01:10:34,960 --> 01:10:37,519 Speaker 1: And I know what it feels like when somebody is 1453 01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:38,920 Speaker 1: lifting me up when I needed it, and I just 1454 01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:42,040 Speaker 1: think it's it's good to pass that energy along out 1455 01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:45,280 Speaker 1: of you send me a book called ten percent Happier. Yes, 1456 01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:47,320 Speaker 1: just got it, haven't read it yet. What is that 1457 01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:49,600 Speaker 1: book about? Why was it so important for you to 1458 01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:53,200 Speaker 1: send that out? Um, tim person Happier. It's a it's 1459 01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:56,240 Speaker 1: a it's a book about meditation. It's a meditation for 1460 01:10:56,400 --> 01:10:59,439 Speaker 1: fidgety skeptics, is what Dan Harris calls it. But it's 1461 01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:02,720 Speaker 1: just I think meditation has been really huge for me 1462 01:11:04,040 --> 01:11:07,320 Speaker 1: dealing with this life and itself and anxieties and everything. 1463 01:11:07,400 --> 01:11:10,720 Speaker 1: And I sent it to you, and and I try 1464 01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:14,040 Speaker 1: to just encourage people to meditate itus. I think a 1465 01:11:14,080 --> 01:11:16,479 Speaker 1: lot of people think it's something weird and something where 1466 01:11:16,520 --> 01:11:18,040 Speaker 1: you sit there and you're supposed to like think you're 1467 01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:20,840 Speaker 1: floating or something or whatever. But it's actually just some 1468 01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:23,200 Speaker 1: way to quiet your mind and give yourself from time 1469 01:11:23,240 --> 01:11:26,439 Speaker 1: and piece and quiet. Walk me through this meditation, because 1470 01:11:26,439 --> 01:11:30,559 Speaker 1: I've tried it. I struggle with my mind racing all 1471 01:11:30,600 --> 01:11:33,479 Speaker 1: the time everywhere. Yeah, okay, got this at this time, 1472 01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:35,320 Speaker 1: I could do this. I gotta make sure this take 1473 01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:37,439 Speaker 1: all the time. And I've tried to meditate because I 1474 01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:40,599 Speaker 1: struggle with PTSD really bad for a long time. It's 1475 01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:43,160 Speaker 1: still a little bit now, but I can't fully I 1476 01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:46,320 Speaker 1: haven't been able to fully sit down and separate myself 1477 01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:48,599 Speaker 1: from what's happening in the world. Was that a struggle 1478 01:11:48,680 --> 01:11:51,960 Speaker 1: for you? What's the tip for me? Big time? Just 1479 01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:55,880 Speaker 1: give yourself okay, So like focus on They always say 1480 01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:57,920 Speaker 1: focus on your breath a lot of the time. So 1481 01:11:58,200 --> 01:11:59,880 Speaker 1: you you know, you put you put both feet on 1482 01:11:59,880 --> 01:12:02,160 Speaker 1: the floor. I can't because now I can. Um, but 1483 01:12:02,160 --> 01:12:04,120 Speaker 1: we put both feet on the floor. Just kind of 1484 01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:06,160 Speaker 1: close your eyes and just focus on your breath, like 1485 01:12:06,280 --> 01:12:11,280 Speaker 1: in and for four, hold it for a second, out 1486 01:12:11,360 --> 01:12:13,400 Speaker 1: for four. And if you focus on that more and 1487 01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:16,360 Speaker 1: then when you see when you see yourself start to 1488 01:12:16,439 --> 01:12:19,280 Speaker 1: ruminate on things, um, and what do I do? How 1489 01:12:19,280 --> 01:12:20,920 Speaker 1: do I catch my Because I'm like you say, if 1490 01:12:21,360 --> 01:12:24,479 Speaker 1: you call it uh mental noting U, which means you're like, 1491 01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:27,120 Speaker 1: that's that's just me thinking, okay thinking, And then you 1492 01:12:27,200 --> 01:12:29,320 Speaker 1: go back to the breath and h And it's as 1493 01:12:29,360 --> 01:12:32,560 Speaker 1: simple as that. And the whole practice is you'll be 1494 01:12:33,280 --> 01:12:36,920 Speaker 1: going throughout your day and you'll notice yourself thinking and 1495 01:12:37,040 --> 01:12:39,080 Speaker 1: when you catch yourself that's from the practice of like 1496 01:12:39,439 --> 01:12:42,000 Speaker 1: tying myself to catch myself when I'm thinking about breathing 1497 01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:44,080 Speaker 1: and that's where the practice comes along and it gets 1498 01:12:44,439 --> 01:12:46,960 Speaker 1: it gets better, and you never get to be a 1499 01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:49,760 Speaker 1: master at it, but it's like you can always grow 1500 01:12:49,800 --> 01:12:51,519 Speaker 1: with it. It's cool. How long do you do this? 1501 01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:54,200 Speaker 1: And while you do it? Are you nude? It always 1502 01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:58,280 Speaker 1: knud always nude? And I do it every morning? You 1503 01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:00,880 Speaker 1: do every morning every morning? I did it this morning, 1504 01:13:02,720 --> 01:13:06,000 Speaker 1: but every morning I get up A routine is big 1505 01:13:06,080 --> 01:13:09,200 Speaker 1: for me for just kind of putting on your armor 1506 01:13:09,280 --> 01:13:12,120 Speaker 1: for the day kind of So getting up doing the 1507 01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:15,840 Speaker 1: routine of meditating, doing some stretching and stuff like that. 1508 01:13:16,040 --> 01:13:18,200 Speaker 1: And I saw I do it for ten minutes every morning, 1509 01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:20,639 Speaker 1: and then a journal. Then I go for a hike 1510 01:13:21,080 --> 01:13:23,200 Speaker 1: and then I then I'm ready to go. Now I've 1511 01:13:23,200 --> 01:13:25,439 Speaker 1: seen you walking down the road before with this backpack 1512 01:13:25,520 --> 01:13:27,479 Speaker 1: on that has water in it. Yeah, are your hikes 1513 01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:29,920 Speaker 1: like four days? Because I feel like you could just 1514 01:13:29,960 --> 01:13:31,800 Speaker 1: put a bottle of water in your in your little pocket. 1515 01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:34,200 Speaker 1: I remember the first of yourself, He's like, what do 1516 01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:37,600 Speaker 1: you Yeah, I run in the long ways. This was 1517 01:13:37,640 --> 01:13:41,000 Speaker 1: before I got this garment running watch that I can 1518 01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:43,559 Speaker 1: have my music on it. So I used to have like, uh, 1519 01:13:43,840 --> 01:13:45,599 Speaker 1: I would put my phone in the in the pack 1520 01:13:45,680 --> 01:13:47,200 Speaker 1: and also have the water if I wanted to get 1521 01:13:47,240 --> 01:13:52,200 Speaker 1: thirsty on my run in the camel pack. So I 1522 01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:54,160 Speaker 1: would do that and I would I would throw that 1523 01:13:54,200 --> 01:13:55,400 Speaker 1: on there and I'd run and I just take some 1524 01:13:55,479 --> 01:13:57,200 Speaker 1: SIPs whenever I need it. But I was running like 1525 01:13:57,680 --> 01:14:01,720 Speaker 1: sometimes eight ten miles and a run, so it's gonna 1526 01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:04,240 Speaker 1: have a little hydration. Didn't the way you down though, 1527 01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:06,040 Speaker 1: I would feel like if I'm running at it does well. 1528 01:14:06,080 --> 01:14:09,360 Speaker 1: I kind of got addicted, or not addicted, but I 1529 01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:11,000 Speaker 1: just kind of started to get the feeling of like 1530 01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:13,280 Speaker 1: you know when you take something way after you've been 1531 01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:15,840 Speaker 1: used it for a while, it's like you feel weird. Well, 1532 01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:17,640 Speaker 1: like I got used to the feeling of but being 1533 01:14:17,680 --> 01:14:20,320 Speaker 1: heavy and maybe it made me sweat more. I don't know, 1534 01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:22,639 Speaker 1: but I liked it. Brett Eldridge is here. We're talking 1535 01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:29,120 Speaker 1: camel backs, packs, meditating, meditating, meditating the nude. Yeah, and 1536 01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:31,200 Speaker 1: well that was that was how I pictured you. I 1537 01:14:31,240 --> 01:14:35,360 Speaker 1: should I'm always fully clothed. Sorry, sorry, say why don't 1538 01:14:35,360 --> 01:14:38,439 Speaker 1: we We talked about the Good Day movement. This song 1539 01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:40,439 Speaker 1: good Day is such a good song, like you, it's 1540 01:14:40,560 --> 01:14:43,240 Speaker 1: it's on your your last record. Um, and that is 1541 01:14:43,320 --> 01:14:45,720 Speaker 1: the single now that I'm hearing being played everywhere. You 1542 01:14:45,800 --> 01:14:47,400 Speaker 1: have your guitar, you want to play a little bit 1543 01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:49,000 Speaker 1: for us? I would love to. All right, here is 1544 01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:51,160 Speaker 1: the new one from Brett Eldridge. Here is good. Everybody, 1545 01:14:51,240 --> 01:14:53,840 Speaker 1: take a deep breath and let's just enjoy this. I 1546 01:14:53,920 --> 01:14:55,799 Speaker 1: fall asleep in the middle of it because I'm meditating. 1547 01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:58,080 Speaker 1: All Right, here we go, let's have a good day. 1548 01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:09,000 Speaker 1: Here we go. Who too? Three? I think I stopped 1549 01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:16,840 Speaker 1: my morning with tonight. Let those blue eyes speak to me. 1550 01:15:20,520 --> 01:15:27,360 Speaker 1: Skip all the things that I don't want to. Let 1551 01:15:27,479 --> 01:15:34,280 Speaker 1: my mind want a free It's four to two, cold rain, 1552 01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:38,880 Speaker 1: and something's gotten me thinking maybe it's gonna be a 1553 01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:43,560 Speaker 1: good day. I don't know why, but it feels like 1554 01:15:44,200 --> 01:15:49,720 Speaker 1: love's coming my way. In the sun ain't even shining. 1555 01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:53,760 Speaker 1: If the world's gonna keep on spinning, let it keep 1556 01:15:53,800 --> 01:16:01,599 Speaker 1: spinning on my way. I gotta feed it. It's gonna 1557 01:16:01,680 --> 01:16:17,320 Speaker 1: be good, dude, It's gonna be good, good dude, Come on, 1558 01:16:17,720 --> 01:16:21,200 Speaker 1: bred Aldridge. All right, I think and Ammy, you can 1559 01:16:21,439 --> 01:16:23,960 Speaker 1: back me up on this if you would like. Anyone 1560 01:16:24,040 --> 01:16:25,519 Speaker 1: that comes and plays in here. I think Bread is 1561 01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:27,599 Speaker 1: pretty much the one that sounds most like the record. 1562 01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:30,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like when he sings you sound like you 1563 01:16:30,800 --> 01:16:33,439 Speaker 1: sing whenever I play you on my phone. Yeah, I 1564 01:16:33,520 --> 01:16:35,240 Speaker 1: kind of you close your eyes for a bit. You 1565 01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:36,920 Speaker 1: might be it's like he's not even here right now, 1566 01:16:37,920 --> 01:16:39,800 Speaker 1: and make him not here playing it on my phone. No, 1567 01:16:39,920 --> 01:16:42,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying you could close your eyes. I'm just playing 1568 01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:48,840 Speaker 1: the track on my phone. He lipsk and it. Bred 1569 01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:50,719 Speaker 1: Aldridge is here. We're gonna come back. Up. Two questions 1570 01:16:50,720 --> 01:16:52,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask when we come back. I'm gonna let 1571 01:16:52,160 --> 01:16:54,240 Speaker 1: you know now, se you have time to think about. One. 1572 01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:56,720 Speaker 1: What's the oddest place you've ever been recognized? Okay, so 1573 01:16:56,800 --> 01:16:58,439 Speaker 1: don't tell me now. I'm gonna ask you that in 1574 01:16:58,479 --> 01:17:01,080 Speaker 1: a second, and then it's the best piece of advice 1575 01:17:01,360 --> 01:17:04,200 Speaker 1: that you've been given by another artist. Okay. Two questions 1576 01:17:04,200 --> 01:17:06,559 Speaker 1: I'm gonna asking we come back. Brett Eldridge is here, 1577 01:17:06,960 --> 01:17:10,760 Speaker 1: you guys, stream good day, tweet your radio stations. Don't 1578 01:17:10,800 --> 01:17:13,200 Speaker 1: call him because nobody can. Nobody answering phones for question anymore. 1579 01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:16,320 Speaker 1: But let them know you like that song. The Friday 1580 01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:20,599 Speaker 1: Morning Conversation with Brett Eldridge, Bro, what's the oddest place 1581 01:17:20,880 --> 01:17:24,799 Speaker 1: that you as a famous country musician, artist, singer, songwriter. 1582 01:17:25,080 --> 01:17:27,720 Speaker 1: What's the weirdest place you've ever been recognized? One time 1583 01:17:27,720 --> 01:17:30,800 Speaker 1: I was recognizing church and I was sitting in the 1584 01:17:30,880 --> 01:17:34,400 Speaker 1: mid so I think the night before, Drunken Your Love 1585 01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:37,680 Speaker 1: went number one, and so I celebrated. I don't I 1586 01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:39,920 Speaker 1: don't really have any I don't really drink anymore. But 1587 01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:42,679 Speaker 1: at that time I was celebrating, We're having a champagne 1588 01:17:42,760 --> 01:17:45,680 Speaker 1: or something, and and I did not feel great, but 1589 01:17:45,720 --> 01:17:49,200 Speaker 1: I still went to church, still showed up and sat 1590 01:17:49,240 --> 01:17:50,760 Speaker 1: in the middle row. When it was the hottest Easter 1591 01:17:50,880 --> 01:17:55,519 Speaker 1: of all time, I felt like, uh. And I was 1592 01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:58,040 Speaker 1: sitting in the middle aisle and I was like, oh God, 1593 01:17:58,040 --> 01:17:59,920 Speaker 1: I gotta gotta go out. I gotta go out, you know, 1594 01:18:00,000 --> 01:18:01,720 Speaker 1: I gotta take a break from the service, and I'm 1595 01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:03,680 Speaker 1: gonna go. I gotta go to step out and have 1596 01:18:03,720 --> 01:18:07,320 Speaker 1: a drink of water. Um. Somebody followed me to the 1597 01:18:07,400 --> 01:18:11,080 Speaker 1: bathroom and I wanted to take a selfie. I'm like 1598 01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:14,640 Speaker 1: just trying not to get sick at church and somebody's like, 1599 01:18:14,960 --> 01:18:17,120 Speaker 1: I'm like there's no one around that. Someone that comes 1600 01:18:17,120 --> 01:18:19,400 Speaker 1: down the show's like no, please, no, please no. And 1601 01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:20,760 Speaker 1: then they get their photot they want to take a 1602 01:18:20,800 --> 01:18:22,519 Speaker 1: self It's like, this is the most interesting place I 1603 01:18:22,560 --> 01:18:24,600 Speaker 1: think I've ever done that kind of a meet and 1604 01:18:24,680 --> 01:18:27,479 Speaker 1: greet thing. And I was not feeling great. Did you 1605 01:18:27,560 --> 01:18:30,320 Speaker 1: take the selfie? Yeah, of course he did, he did. 1606 01:18:33,640 --> 01:18:36,840 Speaker 1: I was reading a story about you playing maybe Call 1607 01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:39,320 Speaker 1: of Duty with Shay from Dana Shay. Yes. How often 1608 01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:42,439 Speaker 1: do you guys play? We used to play a lot. 1609 01:18:42,920 --> 01:18:44,640 Speaker 1: It was. It got to the point where I was 1610 01:18:44,720 --> 01:18:46,960 Speaker 1: playing too much, but I was. It was especially when 1611 01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:51,000 Speaker 1: at the beginning of Quarantine, when, um, do you know 1612 01:18:51,080 --> 01:18:53,200 Speaker 1: you can't even leave your You couldn't even leave, like 1613 01:18:53,280 --> 01:18:55,120 Speaker 1: no one even understood that, Like you can go outside 1614 01:18:55,120 --> 01:18:56,599 Speaker 1: and run if as long as you're away from people 1615 01:18:56,640 --> 01:18:59,800 Speaker 1: or anything. It was so so we'd be playing hours 1616 01:19:00,080 --> 01:19:03,000 Speaker 1: a day and just how that's how we would socialize. 1617 01:19:03,040 --> 01:19:05,760 Speaker 1: And it was amazing, how over this game that I'm 1618 01:19:05,880 --> 01:19:09,439 Speaker 1: terrible at, you just had I just I just joined 1619 01:19:09,439 --> 01:19:12,200 Speaker 1: it for the camarader in the in the conversation and uh. 1620 01:19:12,560 --> 01:19:14,519 Speaker 1: And so we we would play a lot, and I 1621 01:19:14,600 --> 01:19:17,280 Speaker 1: haven't a whole lot lately, but um, we've gone and 1622 01:19:17,360 --> 01:19:19,360 Speaker 1: hikes and stuff like that from it. And really we 1623 01:19:19,479 --> 01:19:21,439 Speaker 1: weren't that close until we started playing Call of Duty. 1624 01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:24,040 Speaker 1: So it's pretty pretty funny. It's interesting because Amy saw 1625 01:19:24,240 --> 01:19:27,719 Speaker 1: t J. And we're friends with TJ brothers Osborne hiking 1626 01:19:27,760 --> 01:19:31,080 Speaker 1: with Casey Musgraves. We knew they were friends, I guess, 1627 01:19:31,280 --> 01:19:34,200 Speaker 1: but they were hiking together. And you mentioned you and Shay. 1628 01:19:35,360 --> 01:19:38,320 Speaker 1: What artists in Nashville would are you would You'd say 1629 01:19:38,400 --> 01:19:40,960 Speaker 1: literal friends with because it's hard because artists life, you 1630 01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:43,000 Speaker 1: guys are traveling at doing the same thing. Yeah, it's 1631 01:19:43,000 --> 01:19:44,360 Speaker 1: hard to kind of be in the same place at all. 1632 01:19:44,400 --> 01:19:46,080 Speaker 1: But I would say, Shay, is there another one that 1633 01:19:46,120 --> 01:19:49,759 Speaker 1: you're close with? Uh, you know close, it's so interesting 1634 01:19:49,960 --> 01:19:51,680 Speaker 1: close when you see him on the everybody in the road, 1635 01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:56,800 Speaker 1: it's it's so it's so different, like uh, Party John 1636 01:19:56,880 --> 01:19:59,720 Speaker 1: Party and I started out together in town and U 1637 01:20:00,320 --> 01:20:02,760 Speaker 1: and he's always been one of the most interesting people 1638 01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:05,240 Speaker 1: I've known. We we toured in Australia together and we 1639 01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:07,680 Speaker 1: still got to uh we got to catch up on 1640 01:20:07,760 --> 01:20:10,000 Speaker 1: old times. But you know, it's not like I talked 1641 01:20:10,000 --> 01:20:11,960 Speaker 1: to a lot of other artists all the time. But um, 1642 01:20:12,200 --> 01:20:14,519 Speaker 1: he's one that I've I've I've just shared a lot 1643 01:20:14,560 --> 01:20:17,080 Speaker 1: of the journey of the ups and downs and all 1644 01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:18,599 Speaker 1: this with and so it's not like we talk all 1645 01:20:18,640 --> 01:20:22,000 Speaker 1: the time, but he's somebody that I still root for 1646 01:20:22,160 --> 01:20:26,759 Speaker 1: and he's good dude who came in your class, meaning 1647 01:20:27,120 --> 01:20:29,080 Speaker 1: when you came to Nashville and you were new and 1648 01:20:29,160 --> 01:20:31,479 Speaker 1: there are other new people around you. Who do you 1649 01:20:31,560 --> 01:20:35,600 Speaker 1: remember kind of going through that early stage together. I 1650 01:20:35,680 --> 01:20:39,479 Speaker 1: think my like my New Faces show was maybe I 1651 01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:42,240 Speaker 1: know Thomas Rhett was in that. Um so it was 1652 01:20:42,280 --> 01:20:46,400 Speaker 1: like Thomas Rhett. Uh we did the we cohead lined 1653 01:20:46,880 --> 01:20:50,080 Speaker 1: Cohan line and the CMT toured together suits and boots 1654 01:20:50,920 --> 01:20:54,439 Speaker 1: and uh so Thomas Rhett. Who else was there? Um? 1655 01:20:54,920 --> 01:20:59,639 Speaker 1: Dan Shay were pretty early early that's still on the spot. 1656 01:20:59,680 --> 01:21:00,960 Speaker 1: But is there some of the ones I can think 1657 01:21:00,960 --> 01:21:02,840 Speaker 1: of right now? I'm hard hitting, hard hitting interview questions. 1658 01:21:03,320 --> 01:21:04,720 Speaker 1: I was thinking of the New Faces Show and I 1659 01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:07,920 Speaker 1: feel like with Sam Hunted yours or no, but no, 1660 01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:10,680 Speaker 1: but Sam was Sam was around that same era. I'm 1661 01:21:10,720 --> 01:21:13,479 Speaker 1: trying to think, Yeah, Sam was definitely one of them 1662 01:21:13,479 --> 01:21:15,920 Speaker 1: as well. What's Here's the question I tease before we 1663 01:21:15,960 --> 01:21:17,880 Speaker 1: went away, what's the best piece of advice that an 1664 01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:20,200 Speaker 1: artist gave you when you were kind of starting out 1665 01:21:20,240 --> 01:21:22,040 Speaker 1: and they were going hey man, here's what's happening. I 1666 01:21:22,160 --> 01:21:27,360 Speaker 1: remember playing the opera and whisper and Bill Anderson, here's 1667 01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:30,600 Speaker 1: like country music legend. He said, just make sure he 1668 01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:32,040 Speaker 1: was standing on the side of the stage. I'm getting 1669 01:21:32,040 --> 01:21:35,040 Speaker 1: ready to do my debut, and I'm so nervous. I'm 1670 01:21:35,240 --> 01:21:37,600 Speaker 1: nervous just thinking about how nervous I was about to go. 1671 01:21:37,800 --> 01:21:39,200 Speaker 1: You know, play the operate. It's a big deal, you know. 1672 01:21:39,920 --> 01:21:46,320 Speaker 1: And he's like, just make sure you appreciate every moment 1673 01:21:46,360 --> 01:21:49,600 Speaker 1: while you're in it, because you know, because when I was, 1674 01:21:49,760 --> 01:21:51,479 Speaker 1: when I was coming up, I was always worried about 1675 01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:54,880 Speaker 1: what the next song is and uh, you know, well 1676 01:21:54,960 --> 01:21:56,360 Speaker 1: this one didn't do as well as I wanted it to, 1677 01:21:56,520 --> 01:21:57,920 Speaker 1: or or this show wasn't as big as it was, 1678 01:21:57,960 --> 01:21:59,720 Speaker 1: but this next one's gonna be bigger or whatever. It's like, 1679 01:21:59,760 --> 01:22:01,840 Speaker 1: you to have that drive, but you got to you 1680 01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:04,280 Speaker 1: gotta appreciate the things you've got going on, all these 1681 01:22:04,320 --> 01:22:06,160 Speaker 1: amazing things are going on, because they're going to fly 1682 01:22:06,520 --> 01:22:08,680 Speaker 1: by and and uh, you know you're not going to 1683 01:22:08,720 --> 01:22:11,040 Speaker 1: appreciate him and and uh, that was a really good 1684 01:22:11,080 --> 01:22:12,800 Speaker 1: piece of advice. And I don't think it soaked in 1685 01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:15,439 Speaker 1: as much then, and as much as it has over 1686 01:22:15,439 --> 01:22:17,639 Speaker 1: the last several years, and I really started to slow 1687 01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:21,280 Speaker 1: it down a little bit. We talk about, you know, 1688 01:22:21,520 --> 01:22:25,080 Speaker 1: other artists and getting advice. Is there anyone that you've 1689 01:22:25,120 --> 01:22:26,360 Speaker 1: kind of hit on the shoulder been like, hey, let 1690 01:22:26,360 --> 01:22:28,519 Speaker 1: me give you a little bit of ice here, kiddo. Oh. 1691 01:22:29,280 --> 01:22:32,479 Speaker 1: I think I think I am I'm getting to the 1692 01:22:32,560 --> 01:22:35,640 Speaker 1: place where right now I feel like I've got so 1693 01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:37,840 Speaker 1: much more wisdom than I had before. So I feel 1694 01:22:37,880 --> 01:22:39,600 Speaker 1: like I haven't given that advice that I want to 1695 01:22:39,600 --> 01:22:42,040 Speaker 1: give yet, and I think I'm I'm primed to do 1696 01:22:42,160 --> 01:22:45,320 Speaker 1: that now. So I think I'm getting to a place 1697 01:22:45,360 --> 01:22:47,240 Speaker 1: where I've I've experienced a lot of things where i'd 1698 01:22:47,280 --> 01:22:49,360 Speaker 1: love to, you know, help out a new artist and 1699 01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:53,000 Speaker 1: and uh kind of tell them what's worked for me 1700 01:22:53,160 --> 01:22:55,760 Speaker 1: what hasn't. And because I've kind of been through the 1701 01:22:55,840 --> 01:22:59,200 Speaker 1: whole ride of it. And so I think I've I've 1702 01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:00,680 Speaker 1: I've learned a lot of things and I'd love to 1703 01:23:00,720 --> 01:23:02,320 Speaker 1: help somebody out that way. So I think it's the 1704 01:23:02,400 --> 01:23:04,960 Speaker 1: best wisdom is to come to the best help to 1705 01:23:05,200 --> 01:23:08,000 Speaker 1: give to somebody. For myself. Well, okay, good, because the 1706 01:23:08,040 --> 01:23:11,719 Speaker 1: raging idiots we need some advice to us. How would 1707 01:23:11,720 --> 01:23:14,120 Speaker 1: you what would you tell us about being big stars? Um, 1708 01:23:15,240 --> 01:23:17,040 Speaker 1: just let it get to your head, Let it get 1709 01:23:17,080 --> 01:23:19,200 Speaker 1: to our head. We like that. Oh the opposite, Yeah, yeah, 1710 01:23:19,560 --> 01:23:21,599 Speaker 1: people say, don't let it, let it get your head, 1711 01:23:21,680 --> 01:23:25,840 Speaker 1: just go hard, disregard everything. Yeah, I love that. One 1712 01:23:25,880 --> 01:23:28,600 Speaker 1: final question for you. It's almost ten years ago that 1713 01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:33,040 Speaker 1: don't you went number one? Yep? Ten years ago? Same? 1714 01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:37,720 Speaker 1: That's insane, you little wow. I haven't thought about that. 1715 01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:40,920 Speaker 1: Get to know, you know, when you listen back to 1716 01:23:41,000 --> 01:23:45,760 Speaker 1: this record, this album, do you still hear the same you? Do? 1717 01:23:45,840 --> 01:23:47,840 Speaker 1: You hear a kid? You like what ten years ago? 1718 01:23:48,360 --> 01:23:51,160 Speaker 1: I hear the same me? But I hear it, you know, 1719 01:23:51,360 --> 01:23:53,479 Speaker 1: a kid trying to figure it out. And you know 1720 01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:55,439 Speaker 1: I certainly didn't know where I was going fully yet, 1721 01:23:55,520 --> 01:23:59,559 Speaker 1: but the excitement and the fire and the um, I think, uh, 1722 01:24:00,000 --> 01:24:02,639 Speaker 1: there was there is a magic about that first album 1723 01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:05,320 Speaker 1: feeling and that you know, you don't really know what 1724 01:24:05,360 --> 01:24:06,960 Speaker 1: you're doing, but you know you're writing fun songs and 1725 01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:09,040 Speaker 1: you're doing all that. Then you kind of go along 1726 01:24:09,080 --> 01:24:11,040 Speaker 1: and forgot more of what you want to say. But 1727 01:24:11,400 --> 01:24:16,120 Speaker 1: there is something to say about that that super confident 1728 01:24:16,600 --> 01:24:19,040 Speaker 1: first album feeling of like no one could tell me, no, 1729 01:24:19,160 --> 01:24:21,080 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not jaded yet, you know or whatever. 1730 01:24:21,120 --> 01:24:25,360 Speaker 1: You know, you haven't felt the whole weight of the 1731 01:24:26,080 --> 01:24:28,840 Speaker 1: whole touring life yet exactly. Or it's all so new, 1732 01:24:28,880 --> 01:24:32,680 Speaker 1: it's so exciting, and and so when I hear that, 1733 01:24:33,240 --> 01:24:35,360 Speaker 1: it kind of excite me, excites me and reminds me 1734 01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:38,760 Speaker 1: to always have fun with it. Yes, seven number ones? 1735 01:24:38,800 --> 01:24:40,840 Speaker 1: Which one would you drop from your set list if 1736 01:24:40,880 --> 01:24:45,800 Speaker 1: you had to? Oh? Um, of all the number ones? 1737 01:24:46,000 --> 01:24:49,599 Speaker 1: Maybe that's so, that's so hard you're gonna play them all. 1738 01:24:49,640 --> 01:24:51,280 Speaker 1: You're not dropping it. I'm just saying, if you had 1739 01:24:51,320 --> 01:24:53,080 Speaker 1: to drop one of them, which one would you go? 1740 01:24:53,160 --> 01:24:56,280 Speaker 1: You know what? I'm good? I think I might maybe 1741 01:24:56,400 --> 01:25:03,640 Speaker 1: lose my mind? Why is that? Oh? Yeah, you know? 1742 01:25:03,960 --> 01:25:06,800 Speaker 1: You know my favorite song? You play long? You play 1743 01:25:06,960 --> 01:25:09,360 Speaker 1: take Me the Long? You play that in shows? Oh 1744 01:25:09,400 --> 01:25:11,400 Speaker 1: yeah all the time. Thank god. I would not walk 1745 01:25:11,439 --> 01:25:13,600 Speaker 1: on my favorite. I'd be like, play take me the 1746 01:25:13,680 --> 01:25:16,760 Speaker 1: Long Way out of town? Yeah that one? Oh come 1747 01:25:16,800 --> 01:25:18,360 Speaker 1: on man? And then you don't play it in the 1748 01:25:18,400 --> 01:25:21,639 Speaker 1: whole show, and then you hate it. Where's John Party? 1749 01:25:22,439 --> 01:25:24,000 Speaker 1: But I still love I don't I want to I 1750 01:25:24,000 --> 01:25:25,600 Speaker 1: don't want to bash my own songs with mine, but 1751 01:25:25,640 --> 01:25:27,120 Speaker 1: I would I mean, if I had to pick one, 1752 01:25:27,200 --> 01:25:28,880 Speaker 1: maybe it's that one, just because you know, I like 1753 01:25:29,000 --> 01:25:31,320 Speaker 1: the deep. I like the deep songs like the long 1754 01:25:31,360 --> 01:25:33,760 Speaker 1: Way and stuff like that. So it doesn't I mean, 1755 01:25:33,840 --> 01:25:36,320 Speaker 1: I don't like that. It's just okay, I feel bad 1756 01:25:36,400 --> 01:25:39,920 Speaker 1: now talking about my song. Yes, yes, it's a good, 1757 01:25:39,960 --> 01:25:41,680 Speaker 1: great song. We just asked a hard questions. We're hard 1758 01:25:41,760 --> 01:25:44,160 Speaker 1: hitting here. Wait, what are the other number ones? I'm 1759 01:25:44,160 --> 01:25:47,080 Speaker 1: just here? Don't you sing it back to mammy? Don't 1760 01:25:47,080 --> 01:25:50,680 Speaker 1: play clubs? Right, that's very little. Don't you don't don't you? 1761 01:25:50,920 --> 01:25:54,880 Speaker 1: We don't chill, won't. Yeah, just get that one beat 1762 01:25:54,920 --> 01:26:00,360 Speaker 1: of the music. Oh, I need a like me to 1763 01:26:00,560 --> 01:26:05,599 Speaker 1: the beat of the music. The no, I haven't. You're 1764 01:26:05,600 --> 01:26:07,040 Speaker 1: not gonna get this. I know because now I have. 1765 01:26:07,400 --> 01:26:10,160 Speaker 1: I have a long way around this town in my head. Uh, 1766 01:26:10,880 --> 01:26:12,640 Speaker 1: beat of the music. He's at the he's in the 1767 01:26:12,720 --> 01:26:16,519 Speaker 1: water with the swimming pigs. Right, Well, that's true. We'll 1768 01:26:16,520 --> 01:26:20,479 Speaker 1: give that one to thank you to be the music. 1769 01:26:21,640 --> 01:26:26,080 Speaker 1: Got the video the video that counts? Okay? Mean to me? Oh? 1770 01:26:27,200 --> 01:26:29,639 Speaker 1: Oh shoot, Taylor slips in my head. Well you gotta 1771 01:26:29,680 --> 01:26:33,280 Speaker 1: be so mean. Oh, but it's like what you mean 1772 01:26:33,400 --> 01:26:35,360 Speaker 1: to me, not that someone's being mean to you, right, 1773 01:26:36,439 --> 01:26:40,559 Speaker 1: mean mean to me? Wait? Did you give that one? Yes, 1774 01:26:40,680 --> 01:26:51,960 Speaker 1: that's it, and you even directed it? Yes, lose my mind? Uh, lose, mom, 1775 01:26:54,800 --> 01:26:57,479 Speaker 1: I don't know that. You go ahead, go ahead, you 1776 01:26:58,080 --> 01:27:05,599 Speaker 1: make all my dreams come true. Yeah? Good? How about 1777 01:27:05,680 --> 01:27:11,760 Speaker 1: drunk on your Love? Oh, drunk on your love? No? Um, 1778 01:27:12,000 --> 01:27:14,080 Speaker 1: can I have like a little all these songs in 1779 01:27:14,160 --> 01:27:16,120 Speaker 1: my head? It's hard. That's why the game's hard. Go ahead, Okay, 1780 01:27:17,640 --> 01:27:23,840 Speaker 1: I'm about to get drunk on your love about drunk 1781 01:27:24,160 --> 01:27:27,000 Speaker 1: drunk drunk? No, that's not it. You're tricking me, right, 1782 01:27:27,040 --> 01:27:34,720 Speaker 1: would you play it drunk? You don't get that one? 1783 01:27:35,000 --> 01:27:36,840 Speaker 1: You're right, I don't. I don't know that. I don't 1784 01:27:36,840 --> 01:27:41,320 Speaker 1: know that. I spent a lot of time with that one. Okay, 1785 01:27:41,360 --> 01:27:43,600 Speaker 1: go go go. Want to be that song? Oh, I 1786 01:27:43,760 --> 01:27:47,519 Speaker 1: want to be that song. I want to be You're 1787 01:27:47,560 --> 01:27:51,760 Speaker 1: almost there. That was a right star. Yeah, I want 1788 01:27:51,840 --> 01:27:56,960 Speaker 1: to be the song. I want to be that song. 1789 01:27:57,439 --> 01:28:08,200 Speaker 1: I want to be that song. It makes you love song? Yeah, yes, 1790 01:28:08,280 --> 01:28:11,160 Speaker 1: I do. You heard it then, but I started off 1791 01:28:11,200 --> 01:28:13,719 Speaker 1: on the right thing. Takes me a second love someone, 1792 01:28:14,600 --> 01:28:18,240 Speaker 1: love someone? Hmm, she's like. I didn't spend any time 1793 01:28:18,240 --> 01:28:24,280 Speaker 1: with that one. Hold love someone that's mean to me. 1794 01:28:25,160 --> 01:28:38,280 Speaker 1: I'm gonna love someone old and me so t I 1795 01:28:38,439 --> 01:28:42,040 Speaker 1: give her like love someone give her a night. I 1796 01:28:42,120 --> 01:28:44,680 Speaker 1: give her give her night an eight out of ten. 1797 01:28:45,520 --> 01:28:48,160 Speaker 1: I said a started. I was like different scales, I know, 1798 01:28:50,040 --> 01:28:53,599 Speaker 1: but Brett knows my favorite song, which you never even 1799 01:28:53,680 --> 01:28:58,040 Speaker 1: put to radio. But is fault? Well is it not? 1800 01:28:58,400 --> 01:29:00,559 Speaker 1: It was a slow song. It was not your songs 1801 01:29:02,760 --> 01:29:09,040 Speaker 1: on a train. Put me on one aeroplane? Good. I 1802 01:29:09,160 --> 01:29:12,320 Speaker 1: really need to change. Get away, smile on your face, 1803 01:29:12,920 --> 01:29:17,599 Speaker 1: keep going. Find me a rowboat, make it float? What thanks? 1804 01:29:17,680 --> 01:29:22,519 Speaker 1: Find me a rowboat, make it float? Did spend enough 1805 01:29:22,520 --> 01:29:24,439 Speaker 1: time with no? No? I did I know every word? 1806 01:29:24,479 --> 01:29:26,559 Speaker 1: If you put it the whole thing on. I sang 1807 01:29:26,600 --> 01:29:29,559 Speaker 1: it from Nashville to Atlanta. I got to get that. Yeah. 1808 01:29:30,360 --> 01:29:32,559 Speaker 1: Are there certain songs of yours and the first record 1809 01:29:32,600 --> 01:29:36,960 Speaker 1: that weren't singles that you don't remember? Uh, there's definitely 1810 01:29:36,960 --> 01:29:39,240 Speaker 1: songs I would not know how to play, Yeah, for sure, 1811 01:29:39,320 --> 01:29:40,800 Speaker 1: and not in all the words. But ten years ago, 1812 01:29:40,840 --> 01:29:43,519 Speaker 1: it's so weird to think about. Well, listen, we love 1813 01:29:43,600 --> 01:29:45,599 Speaker 1: good Day. Played that ray as as I tell our 1814 01:29:45,640 --> 01:29:50,600 Speaker 1: friend Brett Elderts good bye. Yes, it's a jam. Thank you. 1815 01:29:51,479 --> 01:29:54,120 Speaker 1: I love this song. I'm gonna just it's a throwaway question. 1816 01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:57,040 Speaker 1: Are you working on working on working on new stuff? Yes, 1817 01:29:57,120 --> 01:30:00,360 Speaker 1: I was a watch right now. Okay, Yeah, that's good 1818 01:30:00,360 --> 01:30:02,160 Speaker 1: to know. Heavy into it. You are heavy into it 1819 01:30:02,240 --> 01:30:04,200 Speaker 1: right now, big time. Sometimes people get insold when I 1820 01:30:04,200 --> 01:30:06,120 Speaker 1: ask that question when we're talking about something else. No, No, 1821 01:30:06,240 --> 01:30:09,200 Speaker 1: I think you always gotta be you gotta be striving 1822 01:30:09,280 --> 01:30:12,000 Speaker 1: for the next thing. And but appreciate this, like I said, 1823 01:30:12,120 --> 01:30:14,560 Speaker 1: but I'll always have something to grow from, and this 1824 01:30:14,680 --> 01:30:16,960 Speaker 1: record really kind of set a palette for where I 1825 01:30:17,000 --> 01:30:18,880 Speaker 1: can go from, you know. So like Whisper and Bill said, 1826 01:30:18,880 --> 01:30:20,439 Speaker 1: always think the next thing to be bigger, and always 1827 01:30:20,520 --> 01:30:24,000 Speaker 1: upset about it, always upset about everything. Ahead, do not 1828 01:30:24,160 --> 01:30:26,280 Speaker 1: enjoy the moment, all right, just kidding everybody breathe, Go 1829 01:30:26,320 --> 01:30:28,439 Speaker 1: ahead and enjoy the moment. So you said earlier, you 1830 01:30:28,520 --> 01:30:31,160 Speaker 1: wake up every morning and you write, but like you meant, 1831 01:30:31,320 --> 01:30:33,680 Speaker 1: like you just journal things. You're not like journal in 1832 01:30:33,720 --> 01:30:37,479 Speaker 1: the morning. So for ten minutes, yeah, it's like, uh, 1833 01:30:37,960 --> 01:30:39,719 Speaker 1: just however a long Some days I might just write 1834 01:30:39,760 --> 01:30:42,719 Speaker 1: like a like three sentences. Some days I might write 1835 01:30:42,840 --> 01:30:44,600 Speaker 1: like a couple of pages, but it's like, so this 1836 01:30:44,800 --> 01:30:47,840 Speaker 1: is the third time, third day in a row that 1837 01:30:48,000 --> 01:30:51,400 Speaker 1: I've heard somebody talking about writing first thing in the morning. 1838 01:30:51,600 --> 01:30:54,599 Speaker 1: Even for if you're a creative too, how it can 1839 01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:56,720 Speaker 1: like unlock stuff in your brain. Doesn't even matter what 1840 01:30:56,840 --> 01:31:00,160 Speaker 1: you write, Like you can wake up and write be 1841 01:31:00,240 --> 01:31:02,679 Speaker 1: three pages and maybe that's daunting, but you could literally 1842 01:31:02,880 --> 01:31:04,479 Speaker 1: I don't even know what I'm writing right now. The 1843 01:31:04,560 --> 01:31:06,880 Speaker 1: sky is blue? Oh what am I going to have coffee? 1844 01:31:06,920 --> 01:31:08,800 Speaker 1: This is what I'm gonna wear to do? Your intention write? 1845 01:31:08,800 --> 01:31:11,080 Speaker 1: Your intention is the big one. Well, yes, and I'm 1846 01:31:11,080 --> 01:31:12,840 Speaker 1: gonna gonna roll up in to Bobby Bones. I'm gonna 1847 01:31:13,040 --> 01:31:15,960 Speaker 1: see everybody, everybody smiling, everybody's gonna feel good. Is that 1848 01:31:16,000 --> 01:31:17,960 Speaker 1: when you wrote this morning? That kind of thing? Yeah? 1849 01:31:18,000 --> 01:31:20,280 Speaker 1: Oh nice. I don't know, just something to put out 1850 01:31:20,280 --> 01:31:22,240 Speaker 1: there for people that maybe are feeling a little star Yeah, 1851 01:31:22,320 --> 01:31:24,479 Speaker 1: Like I mean honestly, and I've talked about this, like 1852 01:31:24,600 --> 01:31:28,519 Speaker 1: interviews make me nervous. Sometimes people never know that. At 1853 01:31:28,600 --> 01:31:30,360 Speaker 1: one point I had like a panic attack in an 1854 01:31:30,400 --> 01:31:33,000 Speaker 1: interview and it made my mind think that I would 1855 01:31:33,080 --> 01:31:36,600 Speaker 1: have a totally fine talking about this. So I was 1856 01:31:36,720 --> 01:31:39,160 Speaker 1: in Scotland and I had a panic attack on stage 1857 01:31:39,760 --> 01:31:41,400 Speaker 1: because I was like jet lag. I had a bunch 1858 01:31:41,400 --> 01:31:43,920 Speaker 1: of coffee and just whatever for whatever reason. So it 1859 01:31:44,000 --> 01:31:46,920 Speaker 1: made my mind think that I'm going to freak out 1860 01:31:46,960 --> 01:31:49,240 Speaker 1: every time, even if I'm not like going ahead of 1861 01:31:49,280 --> 01:31:51,880 Speaker 1: it think. I mean, I've never had a problem with interviews. Well, 1862 01:31:51,920 --> 01:31:53,800 Speaker 1: so then I started doing a lot of things to 1863 01:31:54,600 --> 01:31:56,679 Speaker 1: deal with that. So running your intentions out like Okay, 1864 01:31:56,720 --> 01:31:59,519 Speaker 1: I'm gonna roll up, I'm gonna feel confident, I'm gonna 1865 01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:01,799 Speaker 1: do this, and doing that kind of stuff like intentions 1866 01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:03,680 Speaker 1: for a day. It could be for anything other than that. 1867 01:32:03,680 --> 01:32:05,720 Speaker 1: I'm just using it for an example for how I 1868 01:32:05,840 --> 01:32:08,720 Speaker 1: used it today. Yeah, so I've not running your intentions like, oh, 1869 01:32:08,720 --> 01:32:11,720 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna I'm gonna compliment a 1870 01:32:11,760 --> 01:32:14,880 Speaker 1: stranger today. I'm gonna compliment Ammy on her amazing singing 1871 01:32:15,120 --> 01:32:17,760 Speaker 1: of my of my songs, can give her eight out 1872 01:32:17,800 --> 01:32:20,759 Speaker 1: of ten. So I didn't say that because I wouldn't 1873 01:32:20,760 --> 01:32:23,400 Speaker 1: known in the future. But you guys wake up and 1874 01:32:23,439 --> 01:32:26,120 Speaker 1: you journal. Yeah, get your juices flowing. I like that. No, 1875 01:32:26,200 --> 01:32:28,759 Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I'm in the beginning of thinking about 1876 01:32:28,840 --> 01:32:33,200 Speaker 1: doing that because a lot of things. Yeah, anyway, anyway, 1877 01:32:33,280 --> 01:32:35,280 Speaker 1: I'll tell you about a book you probably need to 1878 01:32:35,280 --> 01:32:37,240 Speaker 1: get when we get off. Oh I like it. Okay, 1879 01:32:37,280 --> 01:32:41,559 Speaker 1: there eight There he is Brett Eldredge the You gotta 1880 01:32:41,640 --> 01:32:44,840 Speaker 1: check out A good Day. Thank you. It's the best 1881 01:32:45,000 --> 01:32:50,519 Speaker 1: Bits of the Week with Morgan number two. All right, y'all, 1882 01:32:50,520 --> 01:32:52,360 Speaker 1: that's a rap for this week's show. I hope you 1883 01:32:52,439 --> 01:32:54,800 Speaker 1: had fun hanging out with me and Eddie and just 1884 01:32:55,320 --> 01:32:59,080 Speaker 1: talking about life. We had a really fun moments getting 1885 01:32:59,160 --> 01:33:00,640 Speaker 1: to know each other. I got to know Eddie Moore 1886 01:33:00,680 --> 01:33:02,840 Speaker 1: as a parent, which was pretty cool. Make sure you 1887 01:33:02,960 --> 01:33:05,439 Speaker 1: follow the show on all the Things at Bobby Bone Show, 1888 01:33:05,560 --> 01:33:07,920 Speaker 1: and you can relive some of these segments on our 1889 01:33:07,960 --> 01:33:10,960 Speaker 1: website at Bobby Bone Show with videos and commentary and 1890 01:33:11,040 --> 01:33:13,240 Speaker 1: all the other things there's. Plus, there's so much more 1891 01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:15,280 Speaker 1: that I don't even talk about, So go up there 1892 01:33:15,280 --> 01:33:18,160 Speaker 1: and look, and you can follow me at Love Girl Morgan, 1893 01:33:18,280 --> 01:33:22,479 Speaker 1: on Instagram, Twitter, TikTok, Facebook, all the things I do, 1894 01:33:22,560 --> 01:33:25,320 Speaker 1: some weird stuff, mostly just post pictures of my dog 1895 01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:29,559 Speaker 1: and some TikTok videos. That's about it, So bye. Nice